Signs That Your Ex Is Pretending To Be Over You

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  • Опубліковано 21 лип 2024
  • In this video, we discuss the reasons why an ex would pretend to not have feelings for you and the ways in which they may behave if this is the case. It can be immensely confusing when you see these signs from an ex and they are often indirect. We discuss some of what might be happening in the background when you see these signs.
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  • @ck6639
    @ck6639 3 роки тому +106

    Move on. Get better. Learn. Be so good you won’t settle for them if they come back.

  • @Lanes8930
    @Lanes8930 Рік тому +26

    Who else really really misses hugs? I really miss his hugs 😢
    Listening to Craig is like a little mini hug.
    Hugs to anyone who needs one right now. My poor cats are so tired of me hugging them 😞🤣

    • @kayleeguth7291
      @kayleeguth7291 Рік тому +1

      Literally same 😔 I miss all the little things.

    • @wolfcola6329
      @wolfcola6329 Рік тому

      True

    • @Android_insurrection
      @Android_insurrection 14 днів тому +1

      Yes. The 20s oxytocin hug when my avoidant and I met after a week apart was divine…. I even think that she might have liked it too, although she never said! 😂

  • @ppg1669
    @ppg1669 3 роки тому +86

    If I may suggest an idea for a video: “How to forgive yourself for your mistakes in a relationship”

  • @BeccaL2016
    @BeccaL2016 3 роки тому +117

    That’s why I have my puppy dog for 12 years, he is my soulmate and he wouldn’t confuse me. 🤣😂 best advice: get a pet 😝

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому +1

      Whattapps him

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      ___+ 2::3::4::90::18::08::73::01...

    • @pain7359
      @pain7359 3 роки тому +1

      This is lit hahaha

    • @pain7359
      @pain7359 3 роки тому +1

      I have cat tho. But demn he hates me alot

    • @spookywitch0x0
      @spookywitch0x0 2 роки тому +1

      @@pain7359 hahahaha 😹 he loves you deep down

  • @51maryruth
    @51maryruth Рік тому +4

    That's why I got a dog, I'm over the heartbeak, drama, and my emotions up one day and down the next. I prefer my peace, and the unconditional
    love from my dog 😊❤️

  • @PickleRick65
    @PickleRick65 9 місяців тому +4

    I've never understood why people break up and then stay in touch. Even when I was a teenager(which was quite a long time ago now)

  • @allieeh9845
    @allieeh9845 2 роки тому +21

    He began dating someone new 4 days after we had discussed trying again to take it slow. We had only been broken up for a week at that time. I’m just blown away he really made it seem like he loved me. Definitely still in the “shock” stage.

  • @lesleymiller8446
    @lesleymiller8446 2 роки тому +5

    He wasnt into me in the first place, when he called it quits he didnt even tell me, he just walked out and never came back...

  • @kwamenyantakyi8398
    @kwamenyantakyi8398 3 роки тому +6

    Haven't watched a video in a while but I had to come back and watch this one, great video guy's!

  • @CherryBlossom-vr2dc
    @CherryBlossom-vr2dc 3 роки тому +19

    Thanks for another great video! These help me cope. Just the sound of your voices makes me feel less isolated. While none of these signs apply to my situation, I must say the faucet analogy is spot on! It feels like he never cared and turned everything off just like that. The only sign he's aware I'm still alive is a honk or wave when he drives by, which is really nothing but him trying to get a reaction. I just ignore it because its confusing coming from someone who ended things so abruptly. Victoria is such a wonderful addition to these videos! ❤

  • @juliefrecker3811
    @juliefrecker3811 3 роки тому +4

    Love this one! Coach Craig when I see the Applebee's commercial I'm reminded of your videos lol

  • @AlexYOrtiz
    @AlexYOrtiz 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for this video guys. Finally understand my ex girlfriend actions ..🤙🏼👌

  • @darkhumour40
    @darkhumour40 3 роки тому +10

    I feel like Craig is much happier in this video for some reason. Nice to see

  • @adrij4961
    @adrij4961 2 роки тому +2

    @ 10:22 Coach Victoria’s face when you mentioned the Alexa example 😂😂

  • @niwasazuke
    @niwasazuke 3 роки тому +5

    Looking beautiful coach Victoria and as usual Coach Margaret looking lovely.

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +3

      Don’t be rude

    • @niwasazuke
      @niwasazuke 3 роки тому +1

      @@CoachCraigKenneth hahahaha Coach Craig look its so effective u notice my comment😜. Coach Craig more insightful topic and stay bello as always❤️.

  • @emmanuela.mendoza2988
    @emmanuela.mendoza2988 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for posting!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @brego12317
    @brego12317 3 роки тому +27

    I love these videos. Especially as of late since its been over a year and I work with my ex. Keep it up!

    • @lukeburnstm7959
      @lukeburnstm7959 3 роки тому

      Me To Pal!! ☹️

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      I know of a great man that can help you bring back your ex without delay.

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      Whats>app him...

    • @brego12317
      @brego12317 3 роки тому +3

      What's with the spam replies here

    • @BananaPhone502
      @BananaPhone502 3 роки тому +2

      @@brego12317 They want to exploit the heart broken and desperate by selling them "snake oil"/"magic beans". Its F'd up.

  • @ginam.4990
    @ginam.4990 2 роки тому +1

    Love these videos and a coach Margaret!!

  • @kyliespeers5785
    @kyliespeers5785 2 роки тому +4

    This made complete sense the ignoring for 4 weeks now I’m definitely in no contact

  • @tarad6044
    @tarad6044 3 роки тому +12

    My anxiety completely went as soon as I seen this notification. Thank you ❤️

  • @joshichauhan040
    @joshichauhan040 3 роки тому +1

    Coach Margaret and Coach Craig is incredible Coach in market❤️ the white dress Coach in a good hand

  • @Nova-tc6jv
    @Nova-tc6jv 3 роки тому +2

    My ex never “asked about me” but he would always send my best friend messages on social media like.. I’m glad you’re still hanging out with her, she looks happy, you guys have fun, be safe, etc when she would post pictures of us hanging out but would never contact my friend otherwise. She stopped telling me about it because I asked her not to talk to me about him. I’m trying to move on. As for the joint accounts, I made sure to separate everything right away after we broke up. I didn’t want any attachments to him. It’s been almost 9 months post breakup and 5 months NC.

    • @bleedingmike2474
      @bleedingmike2474 3 роки тому

      +1:3:2:3:9:1:6:9:1:6:9:whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here

  • @asin7431
    @asin7431 2 роки тому +4

    MY EX USED TO WATCH MY SOCIAL MEDIA STORIES EVERY NIGHT AT 12AM FOR EVER A YEAR UNTIL I BLOCKED

  • @jondeming163
    @jondeming163 2 роки тому +1

    What about a video on when or how to know it is completely over, to not wait on them.

  • @sandvich9
    @sandvich9 3 роки тому +4

    Victoria looks like Ashley Judd back in the day. Great addition! Thanks all

  • @danielbrown8602
    @danielbrown8602 2 роки тому +1

    Really hard to tell how it's going without having any type of social media

  • @ingridaccount
    @ingridaccount 3 роки тому +2

    I love you guys too.! You give so much hope!

    • @couchmatric2319
      @couchmatric2319 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️ ♥️ ♥️

    • @couchmatric2319
      @couchmatric2319 3 роки тому

      __+2::3::4::70::42::86::41::97::

  • @Danimariastella
    @Danimariastella 3 роки тому +11

    Your videos help so much!
    Can you do a video on why an ex that betrayed you (cheated and left you for another) is also the one to be angry at you at the same time. Shouldn’t the one who did the betraying- be the humble one and not angry?

    • @kanejane6991
      @kanejane6991 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help bring your ex within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @kanejane6991
      @kanejane6991 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯

    • @kanejane6991
      @kanejane6991 3 роки тому

      Whattapps him

    • @kanejane6991
      @kanejane6991 3 роки тому

      ___+ 2::3::4::90::18::08::73::01...

    • @ianshakeshaft4150
      @ianshakeshaft4150 3 роки тому

      My wife had an affair, it ended, she struggled with feelings for him for 3 months, said we had to separate as she couldn't get past what she had done. 6 weeks later she got involved with someone from her past.

  • @Madstars91
    @Madstars91 2 роки тому +1

    I have one that still has some of my personal details and got his mom looking at my LinkedIn profile. I’ve not reacted to it I just get annoyed because he was the one that wanted to not speak to me over a year ago

  • @berdman2353
    @berdman2353 3 роки тому +1

    My ex has started NC for 1 month and I am going crazy. I expect the NC to last 6 months or more as I had neglected her, refused to listen to her advice for 7 months. My son from my 1st marriage was diagnosed with Parkinson's and I became a fulltime care-giver. I was mentally exhausted and my interaction with my ex was minimal. She slowly drifted apart and starting "weaning" me off. But what puzzles me is that she still has our couple pics (6) displayed in her bedroom. Is this a fake break-up? I suspect she is awakening me up to improve myself by being more responsible in the relationship. We have been together for 5 loving and wonderful years.

    • @starmacias1786
      @starmacias1786 Рік тому

      My ex his daughter health issues too epilepsy and told me he needed time that his priority was his child he did not have time to give me, it hurt so bad. I did NC but i messed up after 3 weeks and i feel that he loves me based on an indirect direct voice note he sent me , but Hes fighting it, he suffers from anxiety yet is an avoidant, he keeps telling me his brain he’s not mentally or physically here makes me think he suffering from who knows what, im very depressed but what brings me peace are these videos.

  • @penelopecheca5881
    @penelopecheca5881 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Graig, Margaret and Victoria! 💖💖🔥😘 I really like your work and is nice to hear that you give some good info for so many people like me to help us to understand the very complexities of our brain and feelings!!! I have a question for you? At this time is very obvious that social media has took big chunk of our lives and how we communicate - however, I am definitely not the person to use this to put my civil status or what going on in my life! I only use it to communicate with friends and family -Therefore is a big gap between me and other people around me who love to share almost everything! By saying that, What other significant signs are that the person or relationship still not over?! Eliminating social media! As I am not a big fan of posting my private life! Would be so helpful to know ! Thank you for videos are so helpful 💖💖🌺🙏

  • @user-bt9vs4ix1n
    @user-bt9vs4ix1n 2 роки тому +1

    What about when they delete your photos off of Facebook? She deleted everything that had me in it. She left vacation photos that we went on as long as I wasn’t in them. It ripped my heart out and makes me want to break no contact so bad. Thoughts?

  • @jonellsephine8598
    @jonellsephine8598 Рік тому

    It's been 7 months with virtually no contact. He still looks at my stories and snaps, but I've resisted looking at his and I won't comment on his facebook posts about his kids, who I miss dearly. Is it even worth it anymore?

  • @nikkihubbard9329
    @nikkihubbard9329 2 роки тому +1

    Ummm driving by your apt ? I ask out so much seriousness because I had contact and it was awkward seeing him in front of my apt but didn’t get the idea he was just checking out of care.. I am not very good at being able to tell . He broke up with me for his ex “toxic” gf. And it’s been almost 3 months now 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @ginagizzi5837
    @ginagizzi5837 3 роки тому +5

    Have you ever thought of doing a seminar or retreat type of event with the three of you? I think it would help so many people!

  • @italian76boi
    @italian76boi 2 роки тому +2

    My ex hid the person from me. I found out and called her out on it. We talked. She keeps telling me she never ruled us out of getting back together and doesn’t know what the future holds. She is not posting this guy and isn’t telling ANYONE about him, not even her family. Her mom told me that she says she thinks about getting back with me all the time but the timing isn’t right, she’s dealing with things and working thru things. Her and I went to get food… I asked if she was in a relationship, she said no… idk if this is a comfort thing or a filling a void thing. Idk. I’m in NC now just letting her do her and I’m focusing on me… any thoughts?

  • @christinemcwaters5186
    @christinemcwaters5186 3 роки тому

    Got one that's so funny. I'm not friends with my ex so they don't get notifications on FB. They don't like things but will bring up my page and comments made in person when I see him.
    Once, someone made a rude comment after I had upset them. I had my notifications on and before I had a chance to notice, he called to tell me about it.

  • @kyleharr10
    @kyleharr10 10 місяців тому

    My ex still has pictures of us up on social media. I think it was brutal for her to do it but i left her with no choice.

  • @kathia.4640
    @kathia.4640 2 роки тому

    Last week it has been 1 YEAR after the break up, with no to very little contact (from his side)....I called him to get closure and move on and he still has a lot of my stuff.But he doesn't call me back and hasn´t even been online since then (2 days ago)...what is this?

  • @lukeburnstm7959
    @lukeburnstm7959 3 роки тому

    Mine Has Got Uploaded Album and Timeline Photos Of Me Still!!
    I Can’t See My Profile Pic With Her , But Some People At Work Who Are Friends With Both Have Shown Me She’s Still Got ALL our Profile Pics?!?!
    And Has Accused Me Of Seeing Somebody At Work!!
    Then Apologised The Day After....

  • @mint_soup9743
    @mint_soup9743 Місяць тому

    😂 Honestly thank God for 🍎 🐝 's girl because your stories always make me feel so much better. Oh, not the tree!!! 🎄 😂

  • @cyndypancham1342
    @cyndypancham1342 3 роки тому

    My ex broke up. This month makes 3 he is very stubborn and he just don't care anymore I don't think he will ever comeback he still watch my fb stories but I am in nc so we don't speak I lost hope for us we where together for 5 years we sheared so many memories together iam taking care of my self working out eating better and not sleeping so well but trying. I feel like that's it for us I still love him but he dose not feels the same so iam moveing on one step at a time

  • @nosoupforyou278
    @nosoupforyou278 2 роки тому

    Oh and she has me blocked on FB and she blocked my phone number, yet when she heard about me with another woman she messaged MY PHONE to yell and say, "you were bitching about me moving so fast and now you're talking to this other girl" "you're a pathetic hypocrite!"
    Yeah, I did that AFTER I heard about her sleeping with someone FOUR DAYS LATER and then getting into another relationship. So no, I did not move fast like you. It took ALL THAT for me to start talking to someone else. Not the same. She was slightly jealous in my opinion.

  • @nosoupforyou278
    @nosoupforyou278 2 роки тому +2

    My ex had our photos up on her FB profile for a couple of weeks after our breakup, and she is a daily Facebooker, yet now they aren't there anymore. She went and had a rebound, and now is in another relationship, all within 20 days.

    • @brandon9638
      @brandon9638 2 роки тому +1

      I can't imagine being that miserable. You definitely dodged a bullet.

    • @nosoupforyou278
      @nosoupforyou278 2 роки тому

      @@brandon9638 Yup. Have a new girl now.

    • @brandon9638
      @brandon9638 2 роки тому

      @@nosoupforyou278 Did she ever try and reach back out? Before meeting a new girl, how did you manage to get over her?

  • @jeansenior5242
    @jeansenior5242 2 роки тому

    I have an ex who, while we dated, paid a subscription to a sports magazine for me... personally i never cared to read it, even though i like sports. 2 years after breaking up with me and still dating the girl he cheated on me with... i still get the magazine... he pays for it... i throw it in the trash everytime. He can stop paying any day and i would not care. I would think if you were wanting to move on with the person you left for maybe youd quit paying for subscriptions for your ex... 🤷‍♀️

  • @johnniecarter5764
    @johnniecarter5764 Рік тому

    My ex doesn’t post much to my understanding. Last year I went no contact. It lasted 4.5 months before she sent me a regular phone text of her kissing her now new supply. I waited a months later to discuss something issues pertaining to the kids. She bright it up. And I told her I haven’t received anything. What was it about. She said not to worry about it. It was sent to the wrong person… so I ask. What’s her reasoning for that if she’s so in love now?

  • @fazoolaccount2335
    @fazoolaccount2335 2 роки тому +1

    what if she blocks you everywhere after breaking up with you?

  • @Dybeatsounique
    @Dybeatsounique 3 роки тому +6

    I’m completely confused be asking i follow his wishes all the time. He completely broke up with me 12/24/2020 told me to stay out his life. I’ve struggled with NC most of the he he reached out of course Bc he would reach out i felt comfortable to reach out back but when i do he tells me all over again he doesn’t want to be with me. I’m just at the point now if he reaches out again i won’t reply because everything pretty much is my fault and it’s something he doesn’t like and why he broke up. I don’t but i guess I’ll stay out his way hope the won’t call me anymore giving me false hope because i really don’t understand what’s going on

    • @B1GK1NG
      @B1GK1NG 3 роки тому +1

      It can be emotionally exhausting because of the FUD. What you need to do is go full NC and do not reach out to him unless he’s serious about fixing the relationship. Make it clear to him not to bother you unless he’s serious about fixing the relationship. Make it clear that your time is too valuable and that you will eventually close the door.

  • @lauraelliott1123
    @lauraelliott1123 Рік тому

    My ex keeps coming back every few months yet is in a rebound live in relationship, says he loves me like a wife & isn't in love with this girl. Going on 3 yrs. What does he loves me like a wife even mean???

  • @Just4commentchannel
    @Just4commentchannel 3 роки тому +2

    my ex's posts been all over the place lately...i can see a little preview of her story on snapchat but i dont click and watch....sometimes she wanna be single, sometimes she wanna be in a relationship...sometimes she'll post somethin like "if you aint gettin dicked down, you need to replace him" yadada bs...i treated this woman like a queen, yet she'll act like she was treated like trash

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      Hello the do you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours??????

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      +12048082234⏯️⏭️

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!

  • @lolzg14
    @lolzg14 Рік тому

    my ex i dated for 1 year and half. we been doing long distance relationship we traveled together lots of different countries but she lied to me about going to bar with her friend with strange guys that her friend brought to have fun. after 3 days she tells me her friend was kissing these guys and i was shocked I told her she should have told me before saying that plus she didnt texted me 11 hours after that she told me shes going to bar with her friend. when i asked her for apology all she says alright next time ill tell you but this is not sorry so i told her its sarcasm and not apology and she says im blaming her for everything and blaming for all this and saying i have done things wrong in the past... so all of sudden she says she wants to break up later next week she text me lets be friend and i said no. then suddenly she says she needs space so.. i got tired from since then im doing NC and i felt hurt but its been two months and i went couple date with a girl that is always thankful and understanding and i feel weird cause i never got this back from a person felt like i was always miss treated and always did want she wanted. so people its better to move on you never know whos waiting for you.

  • @rickyellis8505
    @rickyellis8505 3 роки тому

    I can relate to this my missus asked me for more respect, more time for her more affectiona and I did not give it to her no where near enough. What's worst is we have a kid together so I have to see her.

  • @theyinandyangthing
    @theyinandyangthing 3 роки тому +5

    Well my ex never watched my stories and he still doesn't. He never posts anything and never really did but he didn't delete our picture on insta since the break up but i think he just forgot he still has it. Lol. Bought the complete workbook series i'm eager to work on myself💪

  • @katyg
    @katyg Рік тому

    Im over with my ex but i am using gifts he gave me. There isUse of that and i dont mind using it but no more love at all😅

  • @nosoupforyou278
    @nosoupforyou278 2 роки тому

    But that was 10 days ago. Haven't heard a peep since.

  • @amandam2238
    @amandam2238 3 місяці тому

    What if they haven't changed their relationship status on Facebook and they've left it as they are still in a relationship with you?

  • @Android_insurrection
    @Android_insurrection 14 днів тому

    Interesting… my avoidant ex (on all 4 breakups over 2.5 years) has not once, blocked me, left shared Spotify playlists, stopped following me on Strava or deleted pictures from shared albums (that what I usually do lol😂 - but not this time. I’ve been very grown up about it and after a slow start, now in NC). She has kept all the romantic gifts and plants that I’ve given her and even a soggy (the card not my poetry ;-) ) poetic hand written valentine’s card that became all smudged and bleary after water was spilt on it. Kept it all. But as someone else has said, why put up with all the crap that avoidant type dish out to good people?

  • @DualShot
    @DualShot 3 роки тому +1

    What if my ex still has pictures up that don't have me in them, but they are from moments of when we were together and she is wearing some gifts that I gave to her? Some of the captions on them even mention the topic of being in a relationship with me. The pics were from 2019/2020 and it's been one year since I've been dumped (6/1/20) and she still hasn't gotten rid of them which seems very odd to me. I feel like if someone would truly be over an ex partner, they would do whatever it takes to get rid of any reminders of them whatsoever right?

    • @couchmatric2319
      @couchmatric2319 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️ ♥️ ♥️

    • @couchmatric2319
      @couchmatric2319 3 роки тому

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    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 роки тому

      Update?

  • @saloha808
    @saloha808 Рік тому

    I just changed my profile picture. The next day he changed his too, a photo of him and his new gf 😂 I know he’s just trying to make me feel some type of way. But just like Victoria says, “it’s not a reflection of their relationship” 😂😂😂 I just think it’s hilarious.

  • @playalot86
    @playalot86 3 роки тому +3

    First- Can we get a video on non rebounds? My ex is in a non rebound, and I'd love to have a video reducing anxiety about it lasting. Thanks.

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +3

      Third!

    • @B1GK1NG
      @B1GK1NG 3 роки тому +1

      Don’t fret on it that she riding the Carousel. Best revenge is bettering yourself because she dumped you because she thought she can get a BBD (Bigger Better Deal). 9 out of 10 she will regret her decision but at that point you can care less.

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      I know of a great man that can help you bring back your ex without delay.

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      Whats>app him....

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 9 0 5 8 6 2 6 0 6 3.

  • @playalot86
    @playalot86 3 роки тому +3

    My ex was checking my social media stories every day for 8 months. While she's with this new guy. As of a month ago, she unfriended me on everything. On Facebook stories, I always have a +1 Other on the bottom. I'm guessing it's her.

  • @mariakharlarodriguez9827
    @mariakharlarodriguez9827 3 роки тому

    How about an ex offering a friendship after a week of break up ? It is like so easy for him to offer friendship in just 1 week of break up . Which is i refuse to accept that offer and told him that our relationship is “no label!” I am the dumper and i don’t think i am ready for friendship until now .

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      when my ex left me I did everything to get her back but in vain I had to contact a great marabout masters from Benin to help me and he managed to improve my life as a couple

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!

  • @georgesaunders3532
    @georgesaunders3532 6 місяців тому

    I know she didnt want to end things. Her issues with trauma from her last relationship and her subsequent avoidant tendacies from that made her pull away a lot of times, and made me anxious as hell 😂... she felt like she needed to end things as id always question the commitment when she done things that seemed cold.
    Went no contact, then i stupidly broke it after 2 weeks and she said i need to stop messaging her (with a crying emoji) and lone behold she messqges me christmas day. I gave her relief in sayong im open to talking, now havent heard anything for a few days. If we can both work through our trauma and heal i yhi k we will be back together. But only if the healing is done, i cant carry on in the anxious avoidant cycle.

  • @danielwatson6529
    @danielwatson6529 8 місяців тому

    just tried no contact, like now. deleted number. we broke up 2 months ago, but still text. she says she doesn’t love me romantically. ive stopped chasing trying to figure this crap out. i know she loved me. i know she is depressed. its so confusing. so now im trying to cut her off. last 2 months i struggled but i grew. im lean and muscley now 😅. ive deffo stressed her out by trying to fix it/figure it out. now she loves me as a friend

    • @danielwatson6529
      @danielwatson6529 8 місяців тому

      i guess my answer, is dont contact, keep working on myself, keep going, see what happens

  • @kirkhullinger1934
    @kirkhullinger1934 3 роки тому +3

    Victoria, love the outfit!

  • @lesleymiller8446
    @lesleymiller8446 2 роки тому +2

    My ex never loved me, it was all fake from start to finish. I was even daft enough to marry him, he turned out to be a narcissist

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      when my ex left me I did everything to get her back but in vain I had to contact a great marabout masters from Benin to help me and he managed to improve my life as a couple

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      +12048082234⏯️⏭️

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 2 роки тому

      He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!

  • @kwamenyantakyi8398
    @kwamenyantakyi8398 3 роки тому +3

    does this video also count if my ex is in a new relationship and we have been separated for 3 years but till this very day she exhibits several of this signs that you guy's listed?

    • @kwamenyantakyi8398
      @kwamenyantakyi8398 3 роки тому

      @@MrCjchamp we have a child together and I'm the one who didn't want to take her back im just curious because of what she does, she uses every chance she gets to make me jealous

    • @phyliso
      @phyliso 3 роки тому

      @@quinnmay1991 and who is that

  • @heatherrussell2634
    @heatherrussell2634 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing video. My ex will pop online as soon as I post something. I watch. Lol He never “likes” anything now. But he did send a private “ 😍 “ message to a sexy photo I had posted. He will randomly send a pic of what he’s watching on tv… but all other dialogue is extremely cold & distant. I reciprocate the same energy back. I don’t message first, but I will respond accordingly in the same manner I would respond to a friend texting. They love confusing us. I know I’m on his mind regardless.

  • @soulburning2000
    @soulburning2000 2 роки тому +1

    She said she'd rather be dead than be with me

  • @eramsultana9138
    @eramsultana9138 3 роки тому +8

    In every video craig always remember the apple bees name 😀😀

    • @TheShark447
      @TheShark447 3 роки тому +4

      Sounds like hes pretending to be over her

    • @eramsultana9138
      @eramsultana9138 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheShark447 yes maybe Craig is still not over the Apple bees girl, 😀😀

    • @TheVictor417562
      @TheVictor417562 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂 she hurt bro bad it’s always one

    • @TheShark447
      @TheShark447 3 роки тому

      Craig, if you're reading this send me a message and we can set up a counseling to get your Applebees girl back. I'll warn you though, my prices are steep

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      @@eramsultana9138 I know of a great man that can help you bring back your ex without delay.

  • @ShadrockMarciano
    @ShadrockMarciano 3 роки тому

    Well, I'ma but stuck because my ex doesn't use social media, we don't have mutual friends & we don't share accounts lol. We'll see what happens though....

  • @pjnix5618
    @pjnix5618 2 роки тому +1

    “The Appleby’s girl”. Lol

  • @sherifatiyumba9386
    @sherifatiyumba9386 3 роки тому

    U guys are my heroes. luv u all 😍😙😎😘😚💖💪

  • @nosoupforyou278
    @nosoupforyou278 2 роки тому

    I've gone no contact. I'm on day 10.

  • @blackenigma6777
    @blackenigma6777 Рік тому

    Long distance relationship here. The main reason for our breakup was the distance. I noticed recently she is following guys that live in different countries and liking all of their pictures. What could this mean???? Has she truly moved on or is she just trying to find a rebound situation?

    • @mohammadsaqer5680
      @mohammadsaqer5680 Рік тому

      Same situation but I'm blocked recently on almost everything our relationship was so good and she even she said yes to me when we met phisicaly

    • @blackenigma6777
      @blackenigma6777 Рік тому

      ​@@mohammadsaqer5680 Sorry to heaar that man, I'm not blocked on anything and have actually broke no contact a few times. But it is not looking good at all for getting her back.

    • @mohammadsaqer5680
      @mohammadsaqer5680 Рік тому

      @@blackenigma6777 bro don't reach out she will block you

  • @LifeWithPunky
    @LifeWithPunky Рік тому

    I have asked the same question over the three or four videos my ex-fiance who broke up with me out of no fault of my own believe it or not it was circumstantial I have not been in contact with him since the weekend before Halloween but on Thanksgiving I received a Happy Thanksgiving and I texted back and easy Happy Thanksgiving how are you heard nothing a whole month goes by and just 3 days ago Christmas night around the same time I get a text Merry Christmas with a wide two screen emoji I texted him back 2 hours later Merry Christmas how are you? Heard nothing what is going on please somebody tell me if they know thank you it's killing me

  • @theyinandyangthing
    @theyinandyangthing 3 роки тому

    Update he just watched my story for the first time after the breakup and no contact. Interesting motivated me to keep working on the workbooks💪

  • @fiercemillionaireproject3824

    Broke NC after 3 weeks and got ignored. Lol shouldve just stuck it out.

  • @bethcaudell9107
    @bethcaudell9107 3 роки тому +4

    What if you have no idea what your ex is up to you are blocked he doesn’t have Facebook or intagram so I have no idea

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      I know of a great man that can help you bring back your ex without delay.

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      Whats>app him...

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 9 0 5 8 6 2 6 0 6 3.

    • @bethcaudell9107
      @bethcaudell9107 3 роки тому

      @@Redouku thank you for you post I really needed that we did do stuff together on major holidays so this year is going to be hard at times post 4 months break up haven’t gone long time between not reaching out to him. Seems like I am the only one

    • @bethcaudell9107
      @bethcaudell9107 3 роки тому

      @@Redouku thank you again this speaks to me

  • @FOSELONE
    @FOSELONE 3 роки тому +7

    Damn that Applebee’s girl

    • @jadenstacy221
      @jadenstacy221 3 роки тому

      I know who can help you manifest your ex back.

    • @bleedingmike2474
      @bleedingmike2474 3 роки тому

      +1:3:2:3:9:1:6:9:1:6:9:whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here

    • @bleedingmike2474
      @bleedingmike2474 3 роки тому

      +1 ( 3 2 3 ) 9 1 6 9 1 6 9

  • @shantiec8999
    @shantiec8999 3 роки тому

    Hi Coach, just a simple question is there a possibility to pay for a Skype session with PayPal since the other method wouldn't work... On my side is everything ok I checked that.
    A short answer would be so nice since I really need your help and watched about 250 Videos by now 🙏🏻☺️

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +1

      Hi Shanti, there is an email on the homepage of my website where you can message us

    • @shantiec8999
      @shantiec8999 3 роки тому +1

      @@CoachCraigKenneth thanks for the quick response ☺️

    • @usmanojochenemiamina3086
      @usmanojochenemiamina3086 3 роки тому

      @@shantiec8999 I got help from someone, he was the one only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband to me and he seve and solve my relationship problem

    • @usmanojochenemiamina3086
      @usmanojochenemiamina3086 3 роки тому

      @@shantiec8999 ±1.(204)=808=22-34
      from USA

    • @usmanojochenemiamina3086
      @usmanojochenemiamina3086 3 роки тому

      @@shantiec8999 W.H. A.T.Z.A.P.P.l.m

  • @wanderykcaj
    @wanderykcaj 3 роки тому

    What if she deleted all our photos in her Soc Med accounts, even changed the status, and other stuff that reminds her of me? When she broke up with me, she told me that she still loves me and that she needs enough time and space to breathe because we both have personal issues that made our relationship toxic, and she even told me to wait for heal to heal, and she even kissed me on our last meeting. So why does she have to delete all of those? Does it mean she got over me that easily? Or she's just pretending? It's only been 9 days since we broke up.

    • @andreaderrick2580
      @andreaderrick2580 3 роки тому

      Never you give up on the person you really love, instead fight, strive for their return

    • @andreaderrick2580
      @andreaderrick2580 3 роки тому

      Look dear, one thing you should is that, As pleasant as this final stage of love may be, it’s still no excuse to take each other lightly or stop appreciating each other, because love is an intense emotion that can be rekindled by anyone else at any time if he/she is willing to do all is necessary to make it come true.

    • @andreaderrick2580
      @andreaderrick2580 3 роки тому

      ___+2::3::4::90::67::41::89::71...

    • @andreaderrick2580
      @andreaderrick2580 3 роки тому

      I pray the universe grant you your heart desire abundance of love through the power of relationship restorer❤❤🙏🙏

    • @andreaderrick2580
      @andreaderrick2580 3 роки тому

      there is still chance to get him back, no matter all the disappointment you are facing now, just contact this man who helped me, he will help.you also okay
      I'm so sorry for your condition now ...thanks

  • @annmiller148
    @annmiller148 2 роки тому +1

    Ok so my ex has been super confusing and I've had one moment he loves me then I can't have anything. Then he wants friends . Then sex. And it's I just wanted you be happy. And he has a lot of communication issues and he knows it. He keeps telling me that it's not a good idea if we date again.

    • @annmiller148
      @annmiller148 2 роки тому

      And I would really like a video on how to handle this because at one point I feel like I'm getting bs but at the other hand I feel like he wants something more he is just scared of getting hurt or hurting me . He has expressed both several times that we can't go any further cus it will hurt both of us. Cus it did before ...

    • @annmiller148
      @annmiller148 2 роки тому

      I have been trying to watch your videos and figure out what to do. I really really care about this guy and we have a really good connection. But im getting to the point that idk what to do anymore. I'm really desperate for some advice

    • @TokioTE
      @TokioTE 2 роки тому +1

      @@annmiller148 hey! This is going to sound like tough love, but you might need to stop seeing your ex and switching between being intimate and friends and then him backing away. Questions to ask yourself? Is he gaining from this 'relationship', what are you gaining? Do you really want to get back together? Is it a good idea to get back together? Are you happy? Why/why not? Why did things end? Why does he want to end things currently?
      It sounds like it's confusing both of you, and usually it's not best to give him anything e.g. emotional support and intimacy, before he gives you a commitment e.g. a stable relationship, friendship etc. Maybe you need to have a proper conversation with him to see where you both are at.
      Sorry I can't be of more help. Best to watch some more of Craig's videos though to find some more videos similar to your situation. Hope it goes well for you!

  • @garrettcourtney8887
    @garrettcourtney8887 Рік тому

    A week after we broke up my ex started watching all of my instagram stories right when I posted or after I knew she’d left work. This happened for two weeks then she blocked me. Does anyone have any insight as to what this means? I’m so confused

    • @hsdiem0
      @hsdiem0 11 місяців тому

      Dont think much, keep distance, the person who has blocked u has ego complex going. Let she know u hurt her by keeping distance.
      Even I'm blocked by a guy I watch his story which is wrong but I'll stop

    • @garrettcourtney8887
      @garrettcourtney8887 11 місяців тому

      @@hsdiem0 When she blocked me I broke no contact and asked if we could talk. I sent her a a bunch of messages and when I got no reply I finally said I didn't deserve to be treated the way she was treating me and that I deserved better. I don't think I'll ever hear from her again

  • @vishnunot7920
    @vishnunot7920 3 роки тому +1

    i am unsure what to do, i was dumped in march she reach out three weeks after in april, we agreed to meet the next week but she canceled then i ask when is she free she didnt reply till next day and said maybe we can get together for coffee after lockdown, i chose not to reply was that ok? because now i havent heard from her almost 2 month, do i reach out?

    • @B1GK1NG
      @B1GK1NG 3 роки тому

      No. She broke up with you. She will have to reach out to you.

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      I know of a great man that can help you bring back your ex without delay.

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      Whats>app him...

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 9 0 5 8 6 2 6 0 6 3.

    • @vishnunot7920
      @vishnunot7920 3 роки тому

      @@Redouku thanks for the talk but shes cooped up inside cuz of covid LOL

  • @David-fl4xw
    @David-fl4xw 2 роки тому

    She’s definitely over me in my case lol

  • @finaletalu9635
    @finaletalu9635 3 роки тому

    What if you meet them online never met them in person and dating them online

    • @couchmatric2319
      @couchmatric2319 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️ ♥️ ♥️

    • @couchmatric2319
      @couchmatric2319 3 роки тому

      __+2::3::4::70::42::86::41::97::

    • @henrydan5409
      @henrydan5409 3 роки тому

      That's wrong

  • @markdupratt9025
    @markdupratt9025 3 роки тому +1

    What if she keeps making plans with me. Then last minute just flakes. But does that days and days in a row

  • @ChunkyPotium
    @ChunkyPotium 3 роки тому +1

    My ex blocked me on one social media only after 7 months of NC. Any idea what could that mean?

    • @Nova-tc6jv
      @Nova-tc6jv 3 роки тому

      Mine did too on IG but not FB after about 2 months NC. Very weird. Almost 5 months NC now and still blocked.

    • @CochoAntonio
      @CochoAntonio 3 роки тому

      Mine blocked me on Facebook past december. Perhaps they try to hide something from us

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      I know of a great man that can help you bring back your ex without delay.

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      Whats>app him....

    • @lilliandora7179
      @lilliandora7179 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 9 0 5 8 6 2 6 0 6 3.

  • @rickyellis8505
    @rickyellis8505 3 роки тому +1

    My ex talkt to my mum about me alot

    • @sarahames246
      @sarahames246 3 роки тому

      DR.STEVEN CAN HELP YOU GET YOUR EX BACK AFTER BREAKUP WITH LOVE SPELLS TO REBUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE AND MAKE IT STRONGER THAN EVER.

  • @genericnpc08
    @genericnpc08 3 роки тому +3

    I got none of these. 7 months since.

    • @bleedingmike2474
      @bleedingmike2474 3 роки тому

      +1:3:2:3:9:1:6:9:1:6:9:whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here

    • @bleedingmike2474
      @bleedingmike2474 3 роки тому

      +1 ( 3 2 3 ) 9 1 6 9 1 6 9

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 роки тому

      Update?

    • @genericnpc08
      @genericnpc08 3 роки тому

      No, nothing. I’m not waiting for anything tho. I know her.

    • @oldgoat5589
      @oldgoat5589 2 роки тому +1

      Me, neither. Somehow you know when someone has dumped you, that they meant it, and you never see, or hear from them again.

  • @elnara1
    @elnara1 2 роки тому +1

    is she talking about Donald Winnicott? he’s best known fir his psychoanalytic works

  • @ivyclementine3070
    @ivyclementine3070 3 роки тому

    Coach Craig, my bf broke up with me last week but he hasn't removed my pictures and his status is still in a relationship :/

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help bring your ex within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯

    • @bryanmcdonald8283
      @bryanmcdonald8283 3 роки тому

      I know of a great man that can help you get back your ex without delay.

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      Whattapps him

    • @bryanmcdonald8283
      @bryanmcdonald8283 3 роки тому

      Whats>app him..

  • @JoelPit
    @JoelPit Рік тому

    What if your ex is a youtube creator? lol, I'm waiting to see a video. Oh, if you knew this story

  • @williambargery5855
    @williambargery5855 6 місяців тому

    My ex has kept a pic of us up together on Facebook, took all the gifts I got her over our time together and even took polaroids of me back home with her. But she is still avoiding me at the moment. So confusing.

  • @shivangkharbanda
    @shivangkharbanda 3 роки тому

    Please take my email please

  • @zuhaabid2514
    @zuhaabid2514 3 роки тому +1

    3 firsts here lol

  • @caseyfurtaw1075
    @caseyfurtaw1075 3 роки тому +1

    first? ;)

  • @signsignsign74
    @signsignsign74 3 роки тому +1

    1st

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +2

      Second!

    • @AakashKumar-tn6yh
      @AakashKumar-tn6yh 3 роки тому +1

      Third!

    • @Brandonizzle3
      @Brandonizzle3 3 роки тому

      @@CoachCraigKenneth 4th! By the way is there any discounts for coaching once in a while or giveaways? I have a unique situation myself

  • @Bkamron
    @Bkamron 3 роки тому

    This is so lame... why do people do this? I guess for the views?

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      I recommend you to a man who can help bring your ex within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      Whattapps him

    • @prettyhurry114
      @prettyhurry114 3 роки тому

      ___+ 2::3::4::90::18::08::73::01...