Hi Courtney. I have lost over 100 lbs in the last year and a half. One of the many surprises/benefits I've gotten as a result is an improved jaw line. Thank you so much for pointing out that healthy diet and exercise can improve jaw line. I'm living proof of it.
great news it sounds like you've gone from a sub zero to a minus nine .it should be girls galore from here on in you should have women swarming all over you a little tip for you they love the elephant man look I owe a lot to that film you're only ninety six,so you still have a little bit of time left .we'll have to go out one night on the pull you can be my wingman .I'll show you how it's done I might be a little bit rusty though,I haven't been out on the town since 1932.my advice to you is keep young and beautiful.i shudder to think of the alternative we are two lucky guys we could both have been gargoyles for life imagine if that had happened eh?
Important things as well: 0:31 First thing - Facial hair, 2:02 Second thing - Looking healthy, 5:05 Third thing - Your jawline, 7:54 Agree with that (do what's good for your health), 10:10 Fourth thing - Work out / Eat healthy, 11:09 Fifth thing - Other grooming habits, 14:03 Sixth thing - Eye contact / Facial expressions, 14:47 so true about this type of eye contact as well, 15:29 agree with this reaction, if there is a bad eye contact, and 16:00 to summarize all of these things as well. All in all, the most important thing here are two of them. And those are: 1. Take care of yourself (watch on your health to be precise), 2. And work on yourself (it will pay off one day of working on yourself, you'll be a better version of yourself as well). Mens sana in corpore sano in Latin language means A healthy mind in a healthy body.
Thank goodness for obsessive compulsive people. I wish that I had read your post before jumping around in the video trying to get all of the points without listening to the parts in which I was not interested.
Taking care of yourself and working out; it's the opposite of that "death by a thousand cuts" saying. It's like a thousand very small "positives" that over time makes your life better. Not just romantically, but everywhere including employment. People are attracted to attractive people. The better you take care of yourself the better your life will be.
I've gotten so many compliments on my skin as of late from many women as well as my beard growth. I've started applying a beard scrub and butter which as led to a healthier growth along with constantly eating cashews, almonds, greens, salmon, and proper hydration. Skin care routine ✅ Beard care routine ✅
If you want to reduce or eliminate color around your eyes, quit rubbing your eyes with your knuckles. There's a bunch of little blood vessels in that thin layer of skin and often times when you rub your eyes you break all those little vessels and that blood ends are pulling under your skin which leaves a ring of redness.
I like what you said here; make healthy choices. For me, I stopped eating drive through fast food in September of 2022. Last year I was 225 lbs (5'8 male), and was trying to lose weight, but I still ate fast food places that had a drive through. I was counting calories and dropped a couple pounds, but it wasn't until I stopped going to drive throughs completely that the ponds really started to drop. Currently 200 😊. I find I don't even need to count calories necessarily, just make healthy choices, coupled with a regular gym routine. I've been going 4-6 days a week for a year now.
Throughout the thousands of generational years and technological advances, there's ONE factor that has NEVER changed! ..."Human nature" & "condition" between men and women. Beauty is " skin deep".... Meaning; .....Personality, morals, ethics, manners, attitude, character & self love being most important! ( Physical aspect) Being beautiful and handsome are fine attributes and will only get someone so far. Superficial and shallow thinking are temporary. Having "internal qualities" will last longer and bring more " substance" and " satisfaction." to both sexes. Having these qualities brings EVERYTHING together and more COMPLETE!
Hi Courtney, once again, another great and down-to-earth video! Can you make a video on dating/relationship advices for busy people? What if people want enter a relationship but afraid that they won't have the time for other person. I know that if we truly want something, we should be able to make time for it, but sometimes it is just very hard when other areas in your life (schools, work, family...) are also demanding for your time. Thank you!
I changed my lifestyle last year (Carnivore with Intermittent Fasting). Coupled with exercise, I've lost weight and gained significant definition. Unsurprisingly, I get much more female attention, including "accidental" touching. What really surprised me was when a friend complimented me, saying that I was "looking great". I assumed he was referring to my improved physique; when I asked him what made him say that, he said, "Your face." Courtney, you nailed it. 👍👍
Personal experience: 1. workout with intention. Sure working out is very good for you but if you're doing it to increase attraction I highly recommend you workout like how you want to look. I used to workout for performance alone looked good but was not very happy with it, now working out more to look good, I notice I look a lot better especially in any clothes. Thick neck, forearms you can rock any shirt and look good. 2. Diet Eat more meat and whole foods not only does it give you the fuel you need but it works your facial muscle more. 3. Fragrance, No you don't need to purchase High end mainstream fragrance, there are a lot of local known fragrance that smell very similar to the known ones, I suggest you check them out.
The two biggest contributors to facial attractiveness is symmetry and weight. Grooming and contouring can help, sure, but even plastic surgery will only go a certain way. It won't drastically change the fundamental appearance, which is genetic. Getting in shape makes a huge difference. If you're overweight, you can immediately tell just by looking at the person's face and not seeing their body. Fat will give your face a more rounded, softer appearance and show signs of inflammation.
Hi Courtney, greetings from the UK! Would you consider making a video about men with disabilities, how they can appeal to women, what women think about dating men with disabilities, and the specific challenges we face? As a man with a disability (missing hand and forearm), I'd really be interested to hear your thoughts on this. I've just discovered your channel and I think it's great and very insightful. All the best to you!
I’ve had interest from women based on posture alone. How you carry yourself is so important. I worked on this years back, then you do it without thinking about it.
Happy people and those who have a positive disposition in life have a glow (attractiveness) about them despite some of the items you mentioned. Self maintenance and grooming should be a constant in one’s life!
Men, do what you want. Do not pander to women. We don't need more simps in this world. Women keep saying that men have to accept women as they are, but they don't accept that in men. Deal with it.
I gotta say the weight being carried in a person's face is pretty accurate (at least for me, I can't speak for everyone) i lost 60lbs over the last 9 months and one of the first things people around me noticed was how much slimmer my face looked
@Maalik Fazal yeah. Most of it came off quickly because all i did for nearly 2 years was drink and eat with no exercise. Cut the drinking out entirely, reduced the overall eating and cut out most of the junk food and it took about 6 months to take it off and now I just try and maintain it
What I miss online is the fact that women (more than men in my experience) do not date men with a physical handicap. Especially if this comes with some physical deformations. My face is asymetrical, I have a double scoliosis. I'm overweight now (due to the handicap) but when I wasn't it wasn't different. Losing weight now is going well but the physical deformations are things they won't admit to but I can see their eyes focus on it when talking to them. It's really demotivating. Because I can make them laugh the entire date, showing that humor they claim is so important. But then there is the question of the second date. And they always want to hang out, but 'just as friends'. I also got "I think we could have a really good brother sister dynamic" (I already have a sister, and I'm close to her. I don't need a second one). It falls under looks of course. But it has completely make me call bullsh*t on the "I want someone who makes me laugh" line. I have quite a few (platonic, and that is both ways) female friends. And they also use that line, and then I meet their boyfriends and I usually end up asking "He is very handsome but when is he going to show that humor that you value so highly?"
In regards to exercise and eating healthy, I recommend to fellow watchers to go on 60 min. walks daily; after-dinner walks can help with weight control and metabolism. Also, adding broccoli to a diet can do some healthy wonders. Bonus: drink plenty of water because hydration is key!
i think most ppl with dark circles are actually healthy and probably most women assume is sickness even if a lot of women, if not most, have dark circles themselves that they cover with makeup. it is cool to improve anything but it seems to me most women prefer wealth.
I agree concerning the hair and beard. People didn't always take me seriously because of my babyface. Once I got the right beard and hairstyle, problem solved.
Thank you very much, Courtney, for your videos. I am planning to ask a girl out whom I have met a few months ago at a university event. We really had a great conversation that day but we never got the chance to stay in touch (I wasn't interested yet, I guess). Now, I am trying my best to prepare for the day I come across her again so that I can pop the question (what's funny is that I don't see her often - though I see her very seldomly around the campus - even if the office of her department is just beside ours). Your videos have helped me prepare and so I really appreciate your content. Keep up the amazing work!!! God bless Edit (3/23/23): I asked her out guys! She gave me permission to add her on FB! So happy
As someone who had 15 years of back pain following a shoulder injury I highly recommend *not* trying to stand up straight with your shoulders back. A physio taught me to relax my upper body and allow my arms to stay in front, which cured the issue. Sort out the strength and movement in your hips to make your body straight but relax your upper body and honestly just let your arms dangle like an ape's. My posture is better, and because there's no force involved, I'm pain free.
Use eye contact to "make a point" and to "take a point". Look away as you talk and make eye contact as you make your point. If you are making three points, look away each time you talk and make eye contact each time you make a point. "Take a point" is similar to "make a point". As the other person is talking, look away with the expression that you are listening closely to what they are saying. Then, as they make their point, look into their eyes. If you agree with what they have said, give them a nod. If you disagree, give them a questioning look. If you don't know whether you agree or disagree, give them a "maybe" look. This way you make the person feel like you are listening closely to them, without starring at them. Looking into a person's eyes for longer periods of time can seem to be starring, which can make them uncomfortable.
Best Gua sha tools are the natural ones like rocks or the ones made out of polished wood… good to do in the sauna and really helps with lymph drainage/venous return
I’ve been told by girls that I have a very attractive face since I was in high school always got stares, glances and complaints since around that time but I always thought that girls who found me attractive liked me enough to want something long term which wasn’t always true and I think a lot of guys make this mistake a lot of the time I won’t say most but about half the time they just wanted to get with me and nothing more serious didn’t surprise me that those with boyfriends and husbands saw me that way but I experienced this also with single women Just goes to show looks alone will only get you so far.
Important things not mentioned here: (1) Acupuncture (2) Massage therapy, facial massages (3) Cleansing facials (4) Severely restrict sugar, salt, carbohydrates, and trans fats (5) Be careful around industrial areas and settings with appropriate safety gear, masks, shields, and eye protection or collect scars over time (6) Smiling, jaw, eye, and neck stretches and exercises keeps face strong (7) NO facelifts unless you want to look like a young reptile or alien in old age (8) When all else fails, go see the doctors in the movie Face/Off! 😁
@I am me • 25y ago Acupuncture certainly has a plethora of scientific and health evidence in numerous health journals. Do some research as you are guessing and speaking from frankly pure ignorance. Your response clearly indicates that you have never seen a qualified acupuncturist at work.
@I am me • 25y ago With natural fruits/vegetables along with plenty of protein to go with more simple fats than a modest amount of carbs, that is plenty of energy for high level athletes, bodybuilders, and anybody else. Heavy amounts of carbs is far too much usable energy and turns to stored fat in the body in the typical American diet. Energy from natural fats (obviously within a reasonable limit) with comprehensive protein/amino acid needs is far better for weight lifting and hard exercise than loading with carbs which adds to body fat ratio quickly.
@I am me • 25y ago Lastly, if nobody can touch you appropriately for bonafide health benefits, then you have issues. Physical therapists and ortho doctors would touch about as much as an ethical massage therapist in practice.
Hey guys I have improved my skin by just having daily green juices, when it comes to my jawline-nose breathing. At night I tape my mouth with medical tape 🤷🏻♂️
No joke about the jawline hidden under fat! after loosing about 100 lbs i went from baloon face to mister handsome face, combined with a short and shaped beard, i'm finally turning some heads and getting some curious looks from the ladies 🤩
My hair is white, including my beard and eyebrows. My eyebrows seem to grow voraciously. I get them trimmed when I get a haircut but since they are white hair (white hair is actually clear) so when cut short you can't hardly see them until up close. Even worse, they grow in every direction and won't ever lay flat. Also, men (or women even), who notice their neck gain more girth that isn't commensurate with gain elsewhere in your body...get your thyroid checked. It's called "goiter". Don't delay. It's a simple blood test and the treatment is just a pill. Nip it in the bud before it gets out of control.
Yep, over the last 18 months I've dropped 130 pounds (300 to 170) being 5'9" it's absolutely crazy how much my face has changed. Jaw line, check. Slender neck, check. Much MUCH better skin, check.
@@fabiancdotcom so i really just started and it's been alright. I'm not taking it super serious, i mean i don't take much serious! just out here meeting some new people, learning what makes them tick as a person (i actually really like people). the main thing that's changed is my confidence, and well when you are 130 pounds lighter everything else just gets easier. everything.
@@28yearsoldd yeah i think check out your diet. One of the tools I used was a calorie tracker app, probably wouldn't be a bad idea for you. Make sure you are getting the right mix of macro nutrients. And like losing weight, gaining muscle isn't something you do overnight. Start slow, start small. Make small moves, make them consistently. My journey took nearly 2 years. And well it's not over yet. But yeah start yours slow, start it small.
I am sure not 100 but 1000 percent in what I am about to say. Hair on the head does not affect a man's physical attractiveness. The same goes for the rest of the teal. The only thing that matters is your face.
The tongue up/jawline that is incredibly impractical. People aren't going to focus on that as they walk around everywhere to deceive people, only to relax around them later on and expose their natural state. The smile vs. brooding face, it depends on the location. Online dating, women constantly bitch about men not smiling in their pictures (mostly because they don't like being surprised by missing teeth later on). The brooding thing might work at the bar, but not on a dating profile.
As someone who was viciously bullied for having big eyebrows, I have hard time believing that my eyebrows are attractive. Especially since girls always seemed to point it out like it's a bad thing.
@@sirNicolasDracul They are attractive! You likely possess "hunter eyes" too, just gotta take care of your body and face a bit more bro, eat clean, workout regularly to reveal your chiseled jaw 🗿💪🏼...
I don't understand women. I'm single, never been married. Just turned 44 yesterday. I just worked a 95 hour week ending Sunday, which is hardly a record. My hands are dry, cracked, and I'm as tired as [insert preferred expletive]. I do not understand why women are not attracted to a man who will work his balls off, sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice, and give his all for her future and security. Yes, I'm fatigued. It shows in my face. But I make time for family and loved ones. Soft hands?! Are you kidding me?! This is what is wrong with our country / American women.
Courtney has balls of f***ing steel to make a dating advice video that goes into the biological components of physical attraction. To my memory I think this is the only one I've ever seen, because like she said in the video several times people are going to push back hard and say "it's not my fault, it's genetics". It's just not even worth it to try and tell people how to literally be more attractive, it's easier and more lucrative to tell them what'll give them hope
I believe in taking care of myself with a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I’ll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.
Honesty, I have that. I have been attracted by women throughout my years but it seems situations made realized that I am definitely for the lonely man route. I mean those divorce rates, being scammed, and false accusations, definitely a no-no to me. plus i have no time to be in a relationship because being alone in this current time is already a challenge. why add more risk with a partner that already a gamble to begin with. point is, these are fair advices. just being alone, i have to take care of myself and be a more healthy and presentable version of myself. i'll die alone someday, but at least i look good and did the job making it.
Best way to do more of a masculine jawline is to use jawzrsize. I need to start using my again. Use it for only a couple minutes a day that's all you need to do
The whole point of this video is to make a bit of an effort. My question is what counts as "a bit of effort"? Is it up to guys as individuals to decide? Or women who think they can decide what's best for guys? Is there a criteria or is it up to judgement call when they pass the threshold of "a little effort"?
Eye contact is hard for those who have Autism. I myself find it difficult and it's not because of lack of confidence - it's just how those on the spectrum are. But I do have a strategy for that. When conversing, rather than force yourself to look at their eyes and make it awkward, look at their nose or the bridge of their nose when talking to them. It will look like you're making eye contact but in actuality you aren't. When I spoke to my cousin's wife about this, she thought I was making eye contact when speaking to her but I revealed I was looking at her nose and she was surprised. It works, trust me. The trick is to not make it look forced.
Does/is the facial hair tip also applicable to Grey beards? (Especially if they're interested in attracting YOUNGER women). Such as the "Half your age + 7" Rule.
Awesome information & mental as well as physical health is truly important, men my age (55+) group seems everything migrates south,more ear/nose hair,excess weight,posture takes work but the end result is a healthier happier you,yes I carry a full beard & bald head well it's me & who I am,positive attitude goes a long way,stay positive stay healthy
Courtney, I must say I truly believe in my heart that your the world's most gorgeous woman in the world you should be a model because you are insanely gorgeous
I lost my hair going through ex-wife's affair, have no confidence...looking around and realize I'm 40 but look 32. It's all me inside that is messed up, but my outside appearance is absolutely ok.
just get coolsculpting or kybella. Then if your jawline still looks too weak get filler along your jawline. Though i did this all to combat the side effect of steroids which causes face roundness as i take steroids to slow down my condition’s progression.
How can you get rid of dark circles and bags under your eyes? Apart from getting better sleep, what can I do to get rid of those dark circles under my eyes??
Instantly, with referring to genetics, with adaptation in habits and activities, you can adapt your genetics. Jaw strength, eat veggies, go vegan lol. It works for me. With teeth, I don't believe that is dependent on genetics. How they are gown in and what you do through life is what organizes them. -Coming from a healthy teeth guy with all wisdom teeth and never used braces. Also, Brushing well enough to remove layers coated on teeth should help with tooth colors, then with the dental floss, after you finish between teeth, push on tongue then gurgle water to get rid of breath "rankiness"
I think it's cool all this videos about "take care of yourself" bit you end up focusing more on the outside. We can't forget about the inside (maybe you should do about it). What are the things that makes a person attractive that are in they looks but in the personality?
Attractiveness is so subjective all I can garner from this is what you like. This was more a financial plug than anything that would infer what women like. There is definitely a pattern of "you have a problem and I have means to sell the solution".
You shouldn't even need to suck the part of the neck on if you are trying to press as much of the tongue (front to back) on the roof of the mouth it provides the desired effect long term.
Courtney - I always value your fashion advice...., however I have an occupation in which I'm required to be clean-shaven. All of the others are spot-on!
In my view: healthy skin, chisel jaw & sharp Jawline, nice chin, and high cheekbones, and finally an evil eye talisman/protector to ward off all toxic/negative energy vibes from haters.
Would you rather date a guy who earns $50K and has perfect teeth or a guy who earns $100K and has very crooked teeth? Few people believe me, as someone whose parents did nothing about my teeth and who could never afford to do it myself as an adult, when I try to explain the lifelong impact of not having this problem resolved early in life. Add that to being short and having difficult hair, and its game over for me, but I think a visibly defective smile is the biggest problem and something that those with good teeth don't (or won't bother to try to) understand.
@@zackbennett5609 Are you paying? Being aware of how "nasty" it is doesn't put money in the bank, in fact it tends to do the opposite by undermining confidence which then affects career outcomes. But thanks for your insights. 🙄
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Hi Courtney. I have lost over 100 lbs in the last year and a half. One of the many surprises/benefits I've gotten as a result is an improved jaw line. Thank you so much for pointing out that healthy diet and exercise can improve jaw line. I'm living proof of it.
Amazing! I hope you’re proud of yourself. Thank you for sharing this ❤️
Nice man, what Body fat percentage are you now as opposed to before?
jaw line???? how about your waist?
Congratulations on improving your health.
great news it sounds like you've gone from a sub zero to a minus nine .it should be girls galore from here on in you should have women swarming all over you a little tip for you they love the elephant man look I owe a lot to that film you're only ninety six,so you still have a little bit of time left .we'll have to go out one night on the pull you can be my wingman .I'll show you how it's done I might be a little bit rusty though,I haven't been out on the town since 1932.my advice to you is keep young and beautiful.i shudder to think of the alternative we are two lucky guys we could both have been gargoyles for life imagine if that had happened eh?
Important things as well: 0:31 First thing - Facial hair, 2:02 Second thing - Looking healthy, 5:05 Third thing - Your jawline, 7:54 Agree with that (do what's good for your health), 10:10 Fourth thing - Work out / Eat healthy, 11:09 Fifth thing - Other grooming habits, 14:03 Sixth thing - Eye contact / Facial expressions, 14:47 so true about this type of eye contact as well, 15:29 agree with this reaction, if there is a bad eye contact, and 16:00 to summarize all of these things as well.
All in all, the most important thing here are two of them. And those are:
1. Take care of yourself (watch on your health to be precise),
2. And work on yourself (it will pay off one day of working on yourself, you'll be a better version of yourself as well).
Mens sana in corpore sano in Latin language means A healthy mind in a healthy body.
Thank goodness for obsessive compulsive people. I wish that I had read your post before jumping around in the video trying to get all of the points without listening to the parts in which I was not interested.
Taking care of yourself and working out; it's the opposite of that "death by a thousand cuts" saying. It's like a thousand very small "positives" that over time makes your life better. Not just romantically, but everywhere including employment. People are attracted to attractive people. The better you take care of yourself the better your life will be.
Spot on!
100% 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
Right on brother 💪
I've gotten so many compliments on my skin as of late from many women as well as my beard growth. I've started applying a beard scrub and butter which as led to a healthier growth along with constantly eating cashews, almonds, greens, salmon, and proper hydration.
Skin care routine ✅
Beard care routine ✅
Woohoo! Love to hear it. Makes such a difference! Have a nice weekend Aaron ❤️
If you want to reduce or eliminate color around your eyes, quit rubbing your eyes with your knuckles. There's a bunch of little blood vessels in that thin layer of skin and often times when you rub your eyes you break all those little vessels and that blood ends are pulling under your skin which leaves a ring of redness.
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Whoaaa 😮
I like what you said here; make healthy choices. For me, I stopped eating drive through fast food in September of 2022. Last year I was 225 lbs (5'8 male), and was trying to lose weight, but I still ate fast food places that had a drive through. I was counting calories and dropped a couple pounds, but it wasn't until I stopped going to drive throughs completely that the ponds really started to drop. Currently 200 😊.
I find I don't even need to count calories necessarily, just make healthy choices, coupled with a regular gym routine. I've been going 4-6 days a week for a year now.
Throughout the thousands of generational years and technological advances, there's ONE factor that has NEVER changed! ..."Human nature" & "condition" between men and women. Beauty is " skin deep".... Meaning; .....Personality, morals, ethics, manners, attitude, character & self love being most important! ( Physical aspect) Being beautiful and handsome are fine attributes and will only get someone so far. Superficial and shallow thinking are temporary. Having "internal qualities" will last longer and bring more " substance" and " satisfaction." to both sexes. Having these qualities brings EVERYTHING together and more COMPLETE!
I always stay up late here in Australia just to watch your videos. Thanks for helping this boy be a man ❤️
Aww I’m so glad you’re here. It’s my pleasure! ❤️
Hi Courtney, once again, another great and down-to-earth video! Can you make a video on dating/relationship advices for busy people? What if people want enter a relationship but afraid that they won't have the time for other person. I know that if we truly want something, we should be able to make time for it, but sometimes it is just very hard when other areas in your life (schools, work, family...) are also demanding for your time. Thank you!
Stay good to lam Sam and a shout out to courtney ryan. Simple 🤡!
I love how you always keep things real and to the point
I changed my lifestyle last year (Carnivore with Intermittent Fasting). Coupled with exercise, I've lost weight and gained significant definition.
Unsurprisingly, I get much more female attention, including "accidental" touching.
What really surprised me was when a friend complimented me, saying that I was "looking great". I assumed he was referring to my improved physique; when I asked him what made him say that, he said, "Your face."
Courtney, you nailed it. 👍👍
Personal experience: 1. workout with intention. Sure working out is very good for you but if you're doing it to increase attraction I highly recommend you workout like how you want to look. I used to workout for performance alone looked good but was not very happy with it, now working out more to look good, I notice I look a lot better especially in any clothes. Thick neck, forearms you can rock any shirt and look good. 2. Diet Eat more meat and whole foods not only does it give you the fuel you need but it works your facial muscle more. 3. Fragrance, No you don't need to purchase High end mainstream fragrance, there are a lot of local known fragrance that smell very similar to the known ones, I suggest you check them out.
The two biggest contributors to facial attractiveness is symmetry and weight. Grooming and contouring can help, sure, but even plastic surgery will only go a certain way. It won't drastically change the fundamental appearance, which is genetic. Getting in shape makes a huge difference. If you're overweight, you can immediately tell just by looking at the person's face and not seeing their body. Fat will give your face a more rounded, softer appearance and show signs of inflammation.
Hi Courtney, greetings from the UK! Would you consider making a video about men with disabilities, how they can appeal to women, what women think about dating men with disabilities, and the specific challenges we face? As a man with a disability (missing hand and forearm), I'd really be interested to hear your thoughts on this. I've just discovered your channel and I think it's great and very insightful.
All the best to you!
Most women don't give a shit about average men, let alone showing any empathy to men with chronic disabilities, trust me.
I’ve had interest from women based on posture alone. How you carry yourself is so important. I worked on this years back, then you do it without thinking about it.
Stress affects us in so many ways, the real thing to work out is how to lower our stress and deal with it in a healthy way
@I am me • 25y ago Yeah and meditation is good also
@I am me • 25y ago Agreed
Happy people and those who have a positive disposition in life have a glow (attractiveness) about them despite some of the items you mentioned. Self maintenance and grooming should be a constant in one’s life!
"Working with what you got". But what if someone doesn't have anything to work with at all?
Exactly, then you're completely screwed, all the self help bullshit in the world wont help
My big eye brows and my big brown eyes definitely help me out. Like girls will compliment me on my eyes all the time.
Men, do what you want. Do not pander to women. We don't need more simps in this world. Women keep saying that men have to accept women as they are, but they don't accept that in men. Deal with it.
I gotta say the weight being carried in a person's face is pretty accurate (at least for me, I can't speak for everyone) i lost 60lbs over the last 9 months and one of the first things people around me noticed was how much slimmer my face looked
Training and diet to lose that much weight?
@Maalik Fazal yeah. Most of it came off quickly because all i did for nearly 2 years was drink and eat with no exercise. Cut the drinking out entirely, reduced the overall eating and cut out most of the junk food and it took about 6 months to take it off and now I just try and maintain it
Courtney is probably the only human on Earth who can pull off the Oreo sweater.
😂🤍🖤
Piano keys?
My first thought was “young Cruella Deville”
Umm I’ll refrain from how that sounds out of respect for the lady😂
What I miss online is the fact that women (more than men in my experience) do not date men with a physical handicap. Especially if this comes with some physical deformations. My face is asymetrical, I have a double scoliosis. I'm overweight now (due to the handicap) but when I wasn't it wasn't different. Losing weight now is going well but the physical deformations are things they won't admit to but I can see their eyes focus on it when talking to them. It's really demotivating. Because I can make them laugh the entire date, showing that humor they claim is so important. But then there is the question of the second date. And they always want to hang out, but 'just as friends'. I also got "I think we could have a really good brother sister dynamic" (I already have a sister, and I'm close to her. I don't need a second one).
It falls under looks of course. But it has completely make me call bullsh*t on the "I want someone who makes me laugh" line. I have quite a few (platonic, and that is both ways) female friends. And they also use that line, and then I meet their boyfriends and I usually end up asking "He is very handsome but when is he going to show that humor that you value so highly?"
Courtney you are so right about when you eat too much my face looked well puffy and when I lost weight my jaw line came right out much better!
In regards to exercise and eating healthy, I recommend to fellow watchers to go on 60 min. walks daily; after-dinner walks can help with weight control and metabolism. Also, adding broccoli to a diet can do some healthy wonders.
Bonus: drink plenty of water because hydration is key!
Thank you Courtney for the video. Your content is always fresh and relevant.
i think most ppl with dark circles are actually healthy and probably most women assume is sickness even if a lot of women, if not most, have dark circles themselves that they cover with makeup. it is cool to improve anything but it seems to me most women prefer wealth.
I agree concerning the hair and beard. People didn't always take me seriously because of my babyface. Once I got the right beard and hairstyle, problem solved.
Thank you very much, Courtney, for your videos. I am planning to ask a girl out whom I have met a few months ago at a university event. We really had a great conversation that day but we never got the chance to stay in touch (I wasn't interested yet, I guess). Now, I am trying my best to prepare for the day I come across her again so that I can pop the question (what's funny is that I don't see her often - though I see her very seldomly around the campus - even if the office of her department is just beside ours). Your videos have helped me prepare and so I really appreciate your content. Keep up the amazing work!!! God bless
Edit (3/23/23): I asked her out guys! She gave me permission to add her on FB! So happy
As someone who had 15 years of back pain following a shoulder injury I highly recommend *not* trying to stand up straight with your shoulders back. A physio taught me to relax my upper body and allow my arms to stay in front, which cured the issue. Sort out the strength and movement in your hips to make your body straight but relax your upper body and honestly just let your arms dangle like an ape's. My posture is better, and because there's no force involved, I'm pain free.
Happy St. Patrick's day, Courtney 🇮🇪 🍀 🍻
Use eye contact to "make a point" and to "take a point". Look away as you talk and make eye contact as you make your point. If you are making three points, look away each time you talk and make eye contact each time you make a point.
"Take a point" is similar to "make a point". As the other person is talking, look away with the expression that you are listening closely to what they are saying. Then, as they make their point, look into their eyes. If you agree with what they have said, give them a nod. If you disagree, give them a questioning look. If you don't know whether you agree or disagree, give them a "maybe" look.
This way you make the person feel like you are listening closely to them, without starring at them. Looking into a person's eyes for longer periods of time can seem to be starring, which can make them uncomfortable.
This is what I was seeking for so long time
Best Gua sha tools are the natural ones like rocks or the ones made out of polished wood… good to do in the sauna and really helps with lymph drainage/venous return
Yes! I had 2 stone ones, dropped them both and they shattered lol so that’s why I bought the metal one. I’m too clumsy 🥲
Courtney has an attractive face, body, hair and everything else
Nah
No. Typical woman☕️ with kilograms of makeup, plastic surgery.
I’ve been told by girls that I have a very attractive face since I was in high school always got stares, glances and complaints since around that time but I always thought that girls who found me attractive liked me enough to want something long term which wasn’t always true and I think a lot of guys make this mistake a lot of the time I won’t say most but about half the time they just wanted to get with me and nothing more serious didn’t surprise me that those with boyfriends and husbands saw me that way but I experienced this also with single women
Just goes to show looks alone will only get you so far.
bro your getting laid. men would kill for even a fraction of the life you have experienced
Important things not mentioned here: (1) Acupuncture (2) Massage therapy, facial massages (3) Cleansing facials (4) Severely restrict sugar, salt, carbohydrates, and trans fats (5) Be careful around industrial areas and settings with appropriate safety gear, masks, shields, and eye protection or collect scars over time (6) Smiling, jaw, eye, and neck stretches and exercises keeps face strong (7) NO facelifts unless you want to look like a young reptile or alien in old age (8) When all else fails, go see the doctors in the movie Face/Off! 😁
@I am me • 25y ago Acupuncture certainly has a plethora of scientific and health evidence in numerous health journals. Do some research as you are guessing and speaking from frankly pure ignorance. Your response clearly indicates that you have never seen a qualified acupuncturist at work.
@I am me • 25y ago With natural fruits/vegetables along with plenty of protein to go with more simple fats than a modest amount of carbs, that is plenty of energy for high level athletes, bodybuilders, and anybody else. Heavy amounts of carbs is far too much usable energy and turns to stored fat in the body in the typical American diet. Energy from natural fats (obviously within a reasonable limit) with comprehensive protein/amino acid needs is far better for weight lifting and hard exercise than loading with carbs which adds to body fat ratio quickly.
@I am me • 25y ago Lastly, if nobody can touch you appropriately for bonafide health benefits, then you have issues. Physical therapists and ortho doctors would touch about as much as an ethical massage therapist in practice.
If you are restricting carbs, as most men should, then you shouldn't avoid salt. You can easily become salt deficient on low-carb diet.
Hey guys I have improved my skin by just having daily green juices, when it comes to my jawline-nose breathing. At night I tape my mouth with medical tape 🤷🏻♂️
Make self care an every day routine you'll never go wrong
No joke about the jawline hidden under fat! after loosing about 100 lbs i went from baloon face to mister handsome face, combined with a short and shaped beard, i'm finally turning some heads and getting some curious looks from the ladies 🤩
Life is a lot easier when you look like Courtney Ryan.
I have noticed over sleeping, helps me grow my facial hair.
As an older man I have said that you can change your body but not your face and that's what I look at 1st
An episode of the Simpsons told me " Bones heal, chicks dig scars, and the US has the best doctor-to-daredevil ratio in the world!"
Good point about the facial hair. Growing a light beard can hide that double chin and make your face slimmer. I don't know about triple chins though..
My hair is white, including my beard and eyebrows. My eyebrows seem to grow voraciously. I get them trimmed when I get a haircut but since they are white hair (white hair is actually clear) so when cut short you can't hardly see them until up close. Even worse, they grow in every direction and won't ever lay flat.
Also, men (or women even), who notice their neck gain more girth that isn't commensurate with gain elsewhere in your body...get your thyroid checked. It's called "goiter". Don't delay. It's a simple blood test and the treatment is just a pill. Nip it in the bud before it gets out of control.
Such a soft, warming little lady! Thank you!
Yep, over the last 18 months I've dropped 130 pounds (300 to 170) being 5'9" it's absolutely crazy how much my face has changed. Jaw line, check. Slender neck, check. Much MUCH better skin, check.
What’s the difference in dating?
Im skinny af so i have opposite problem. Cant get gain muscles.
@@fabiancdotcom so i really just started and it's been alright. I'm not taking it super serious, i mean i don't take much serious! just out here meeting some new people, learning what makes them tick as a person (i actually really like people). the main thing that's changed is my confidence, and well when you are 130 pounds lighter everything else just gets easier. everything.
@@28yearsoldd yeah i think check out your diet. One of the tools I used was a calorie tracker app, probably wouldn't be a bad idea for you. Make sure you are getting the right mix of macro nutrients. And like losing weight, gaining muscle isn't something you do overnight. Start slow, start small. Make small moves, make them consistently. My journey took nearly 2 years. And well it's not over yet. But yeah start yours slow, start it small.
I am sure not 100 but 1000 percent in what I am about to say. Hair on the head does not affect a man's physical attractiveness. The same goes for the rest of the teal. The only thing that matters is your face.
Hi Courtney. I for one very much appreciate the vulnerability you share in your videos.
The tongue up/jawline that is incredibly impractical. People aren't going to focus on that as they walk around everywhere to deceive people, only to relax around them later on and expose their natural state. The smile vs. brooding face, it depends on the location. Online dating, women constantly bitch about men not smiling in their pictures (mostly because they don't like being surprised by missing teeth later on). The brooding thing might work at the bar, but not on a dating profile.
As someone who was viciously bullied for having big eyebrows, I have hard time believing that my eyebrows are attractive. Especially since girls always seemed to point it out like it's a bad thing.
Don't worry, they are, just be careful not to have an unibrow 😁👍🏼...
@@MiguelMedV when you say "they are", do you mean "they are attractive" or "they are bad"?
@@sirNicolasDracul They are attractive! You likely possess "hunter eyes" too, just gotta take care of your body and face a bit more bro, eat clean, workout regularly to reveal your chiseled jaw 🗿💪🏼...
thanks for being honest about botox, most woman aren’t.,
I don't understand women. I'm single, never been married. Just turned 44 yesterday. I just worked a 95 hour week ending Sunday, which is hardly a record. My hands are dry, cracked, and I'm as tired as [insert preferred expletive]. I do not understand why women are not attracted to a man who will work his balls off, sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice, and give his all for her future and security. Yes, I'm fatigued. It shows in my face. But I make time for family and loved ones. Soft hands?! Are you kidding me?! This is what is wrong with our country / American women.
Courtney has balls of f***ing steel to make a dating advice video that goes into the biological components of physical attraction. To my memory I think this is the only one I've ever seen, because like she said in the video several times people are going to push back hard and say "it's not my fault, it's genetics". It's just not even worth it to try and tell people how to literally be more attractive, it's easier and more lucrative to tell them what'll give them hope
LOL “balls of steels”
Splotchy beard, bed head hair, and cargo shorts. Yeah baby! ;-)
😂 I hope you’re going on a hike if you’re wearing cargo shorts!!
Telling me to eat a healthy, balanced diet is like telling a coyote to eat a veggie sandwich or a balanced diet....
I believe in taking care of myself with a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I’ll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.
Happy Friday Courtney
Hope you have a good weekend and happy international women’s day my friend ❤
Interesting someone told me at work I look healthy and that I was the only employee they've made eye contact with.
According to photo feeler and a lot of sites like that, no I do not. Always get four to five out of 10 no matter what picture I show.
Honesty, I have that. I have been attracted by women throughout my years but it seems situations made realized that I am definitely for the lonely man route. I mean those divorce rates, being scammed, and false accusations, definitely a no-no to me. plus i have no time to be in a relationship because being alone in this current time is already a challenge. why add more risk with a partner that already a gamble to begin with. point is, these are fair advices. just being alone, i have to take care of myself and be a more healthy and presentable version of myself. i'll die alone someday, but at least i look good and did the job making it.
None of this matters if you're ugly. I was just born extremely ugly, so having a great jawline isn't going to help me at all.
Best way to do more of a masculine jawline is to use jawzrsize. I need to start using my again. Use it for only a couple minutes a day that's all you need to do
Hey, Courtney (❤❤❤❤ and ❤❤❤❤❤) and everyone (👋🏿🖐🏿).
Hi Yosef! Have a nice weekend ❤️
The whole point of this video is to make a bit of an effort. My question is what counts as "a bit of effort"? Is it up to guys as individuals to decide? Or women who think they can decide what's best for guys? Is there a criteria or is it up to judgement call when they pass the threshold of "a little effort"?
Eye contact is hard for those who have Autism. I myself find it difficult and it's not because of lack of confidence - it's just how those on the spectrum are. But I do have a strategy for that. When conversing, rather than force yourself to look at their eyes and make it awkward, look at their nose or the bridge of their nose when talking to them. It will look like you're making eye contact but in actuality you aren't. When I spoke to my cousin's wife about this, she thought I was making eye contact when speaking to her but I revealed I was looking at her nose and she was surprised. It works, trust me. The trick is to not make it look forced.
Does/is the facial hair tip also applicable to Grey beards? (Especially if they're interested in attracting YOUNGER women). Such as the "Half your age + 7" Rule.
13:11 “you gave me the ugly!” 😂
Awesome information & mental as well as physical health is truly important, men my age (55+) group seems everything migrates south,more ear/nose hair,excess weight,posture takes work but the end result is a healthier happier you,yes I carry a full beard & bald head well it's me & who I am,positive attitude goes a long way,stay positive stay healthy
Courtney, I must say I truly believe in my heart that your the world's most gorgeous woman in the world you should be a model because you are insanely gorgeous
Courtney, I must say you look very interesting and attractive in your white and black outfit. Looks good to your hair and skin!
Thank you for your videos, they really help me improve 💪
I’m so glad! ❤️
Happy St. Patrick's Day to you from Ireland 🇮🇪
If I actually have a really nice chin and don't normally grow a beard because it would cover it up, what's the best chin-facial hair balance?
I lost my hair going through ex-wife's affair, have no confidence...looking around and realize I'm 40 but look 32. It's all me inside that is messed up, but my outside appearance is absolutely ok.
Isn't attraction subjective? But a man can still make him more attractive by being well groomed, well dressed, and having confidence.
Absolutely! ❤️
Its very subjective. There is no way to pigeon hole what any woman might find appealing.
Courtney, what do you think about a strong jawline and high cheekbones? Are those facial features which most women find attractive?
i knew the ad would be tiege hanley
Courtney I remember when you only have 20,000 subs. Congrats!
just get coolsculpting or kybella. Then if your jawline still looks too weak get filler along your jawline. Though i did this all to combat the side effect of steroids which causes face roundness as i take steroids to slow down my condition’s progression.
How can you get rid of dark circles and bags under your eyes? Apart from getting better sleep, what can I do to get rid of those dark circles under my eyes??
Speaking from my personal experience, I use an ice roller and under eye cream and that has helped me!
@@CourtneyRyan Great thank you. I'll try that
Well of course I don't have an attractive face, but I'm working what I got so that's a bonus.
When Adam Richman from “Man vs. Food” lost weight, he said his major reason why he lost weight was that he was “sick of his doughy face.”
Instantly, with referring to genetics, with adaptation in habits and activities, you can adapt your genetics. Jaw strength, eat veggies, go vegan lol. It works for me. With teeth, I don't believe that is dependent on genetics.
How they are gown in and what you do through life is what organizes them. -Coming from a healthy teeth guy with all wisdom teeth and never used braces. Also, Brushing well enough to remove layers coated on teeth should help with tooth colors, then with the dental floss, after you finish between teeth, push on tongue then gurgle water to get rid of breath "rankiness"
I think it's cool all this videos about "take care of yourself" bit you end up focusing more on the outside. We can't forget about the inside (maybe you should do about it). What are the things that makes a person attractive that are in they looks but in the personality?
Jaw line is so nice, though in my culture, its seen as one with malnutrition
Attractiveness is so subjective all I can garner from this is what you like. This was more a financial plug than anything that would infer what women like. There is definitely a pattern of "you have a problem and I have means to sell the solution".
Of course it’s subjective! But I think a lot of people underestimate how far a little effort goes. That’s the point ❤️
There’s only one answer to this PUT on a Ron Jeremy mask!!
You shouldn't even need to suck the part of the neck on if you are trying to press as much of the tongue (front to back) on the roof of the mouth it provides the desired effect long term.
That face scrapper thing is hilarious.
Courtney - I always value your fashion advice...., however I have an occupation in which I'm required to be clean-shaven. All of the others are spot-on!
Love your B&W Two Face/Cruella outfit #boss #queen
i have heard many times that my hair colour and hair is very pretty. i have super thick golden brown hair
Your videos are really helpful!
I’m so glad! ❤️
In my view: healthy skin, chisel jaw & sharp Jawline, nice chin, and high cheekbones, and finally an evil eye talisman/protector to ward off all toxic/negative energy vibes from haters.
Wow I really appreciate your well thought out perspective.
Would you rather date a guy who earns $50K and has perfect teeth or a guy who earns $100K and has very crooked teeth? Few people believe me, as someone whose parents did nothing about my teeth and who could never afford to do it myself as an adult, when I try to explain the lifelong impact of not having this problem resolved early in life. Add that to being short and having difficult hair, and its game over for me, but I think a visibly defective smile is the biggest problem and something that those with good teeth don't (or won't bother to try to) understand.
Get your teeth fixed. Mine are crooked and stained. It’s nasty when you don’t have nice teeth
@@zackbennett5609 Are you paying? Being aware of how "nasty" it is doesn't put money in the bank, in fact it tends to do the opposite by undermining confidence which then affects career outcomes. But thanks for your insights. 🙄
If you don’t have a objectively attractive face as a man, you can make up for it by having a fit body and being financially stable.