BALI DOESN'T MAKE YOU HAPPY?!? 🇲🇨Vlog 20
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- Опубліковано 6 сер 2024
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I will explain honestly why I have been unhappy since I moved to Bali in 2021 even if it's my long-time dream come true. I always thought this Bali digital nomad lifestyle would make me super happy but it hasn't at least so far, watch until the end to see all the reasons why!
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Best, most honest and very relatable Vlog.
@@vestertoon3190 thanks so much!!
The best solution is Seva!! Giving back always works wonders. Gives you even moreof clarity of purpose!! You will get over this!! ❤️ ❤️
@@andrayroopnaraine thank you🙏 it's true! What is Seva?
@@JooseTheNomad Welcome!! I relocated to Bali too!! Living in Ubud for now. Seva is selfless service♥
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I lived in Bali for 12 years.If you get caught up with the party/ expat crowd,you will get burnt out.Stick with with locals,most lead a much simpler life style. Buy a bicycle and ride a lot. Or ,even better,move up North away from the crowds down South.
Haha I haven't patried even once😂 but yeah thanks!
Good advice
Your honesty is so compelling. Thank you so much for sharing the real side of moving to a new country. My fiancé and I are making the trip across from the UK to Bali in October, whilst also planning to work online and build our business. I think it’s so easy to see the tropical sunsets and beaches and forget that life still goes on amongst the the paradise! Really appreciate you!
Thanks so much🙏 Haha yeah indeed, easy to dream that some other place would be so perfect and so beautiful without any problems but it's not real life. Maybe a short holiday trip could be like that, but probably not even that haha
What’s your online Buisness?
@@jaccabrita215 mine or hers haha?
Joose... I've been coming to Bali since 2017. I didn't come to find "paradise," but actually just needed a break from the Orwellian USA. I ended up meeting my future wife (by chance) who has 2 daughters, Javanese, and through crazy circumstances for which I took care of a bad situation, we unexpectedly meshed into a family. We've always lived in Denpasar, as opposed to the popular areas that bules like us gravitate toward, like Canggu, Kuta, Seminyak, Ubud etc.. It's been a long, difficult road for me, brother. I'm not wealthy, which means I was 3 months with my family, then a few months working in the states, then again with family, etc., back and forth. We just moved to a bigger place because our girls need the space and are getting older. It stresses me out everyday. I feel your pain, albeit maybe different reasons, but Bali is not immune from bad, depressing days. Even this evening has been sad for me. My lady is upset with me (for nothing,) I spent more money than I have on this move, the girls are too busy being girls to care about my being "Daddy" sometimes, even. Many things get me down, even here in Bali. Geography won't be the solution to life. Yes, I've experienced the paradise of Bali and Indonesia and I love this beautiful archipelago of Indonesia (and it's amazing people,) which I am fortunate to even say, but family life in Denpasar will really take everything a man's got in him.
You need alone time. That's a good thing, take it. My family and I are near Kerobokan/Patas area if you ever need to talk to another bule with bad days like you are having, you are welcome in our home. Best of luck to you, brother.
I'm happy for you that you found a wife here, must be a beautiful thing to find a family like that! Even if it's hard sometimes, remember how lucky you still are. Relationships are the most fulfilling thing in life in the end, keep good care of them :)
And yeah I agree, Bali is beautiful and there's so many amazing things here and people are suoer nice but it doesn't fix the bad stuff inside us long term, we need to look inside to figure it out even here! Thanks so much brother I hope the future looks bright for you also🙏✨
Wow ! Reaching out at its very best. Bless you 💙
Thank you for this important video! I’m in Bali since 2016 and I healed myself in the first 2 years. Bali has strong energies and often all the dark shadows are coming up to the surface - sometimes from one to another second😉. Take your time and heal yourself from the inside out. Bali is perfect for this process🙏🏻take care and be always curious and brave to look from a deeper level what Bali will tell you 💜
Yeees I resonate with everything you said so strongly!! Bali is magic❤️🙏✨ thank you!! You too🙏
@@JooseTheNomad I‘m so happy to hear🙏🏻
Thanks for putting that out there. I start my journey traveling full time in about a week and I am anticipating the same thing you are sharing try to set time aside for myself and balance everything else!
Yees man try to mindfull from the beginning to create a balanced and sustainable lifestyle🙏
When I got sick a couple months ago, that was a huge setback for me mentally. Just keep posting and trying new things🤙🏻
Thanks man🙏 you're doing great now!
Well done for sharing so honestly and openly how you are feeling. I hope this vlog has reached out to many who are feeling some unhappiness like you. As someone who shares your love of Bali, ( 15 trips since 2014) I totally understand how you question you feelings when you are somewhere so beautiful . I believe being in Bali gives you the right space you need to discover what it is that your heart and soul needs most 🙏
Well done on some amazing vlogs too X don't burn yourself out though .. there is more to life than YT x
Thanks so much🙏 I agree 100%, hasn't been the easiest time this time in Bali but have learned so much already about myself and life!✨ You must live close to Bali to make so many trips here do you?🙊
O Joose, feeling so sorry for you and I felt it right the last time I reacted on your previous vlog. I notice a lot of 'youngsters' are struggling and I think I wrote it to you before: wherever you go, although it's like paradise (and it really is over there), you take yourself along. I hope you will find a way to 'survive', be happy again. I think the main problem might be your finances. Because by not posting so much vlogs anymore you will loose subscribers (I think). But the pressure of posting all the time isn't right at all. And all these people commenting in their reactions: "O, you're living the perfect life"....think you don't want to disappoint your followers and were given them a wrong impression. It's really a big step being honest now, to us but more important to yourself. I'm not a profesional expert, but a 55 year old mum of a son of 25 who has Asperger. Saw and see him struggling also, a lot. But he has to find his own way, just as you have to do. It's nice that in this modern world (now I really sound very old) you can make money with al these social media things, but it gives a lot of pressure too. With less followers you might have less income; maybe renting a smaller/cheaper accommodation is better for you, if that gives you the freedom you need for yourself. I'm just writing down what is coming up in my mind, feel sorry that it's so difficult for you right now and hope and hope that you will find a good way for yourself. And if that is with less followers in another cheaper accommodation then so it is (look at the people on the island over there: they don't have much material wise but they are happy). The most important is being happy with yourself; and for having a relationship I think that's a very important thing too. Don't make that 'dream' bigger; you first have to be happy with yourself and then you can give your love to someone else. Searching for it won't help....
Wishing you all the best, take your time!!! I will be glad to see you in another vlog but only make it when you really feel it's the right thing!
Do the things you love more often; meditating and walking are for free, so as reading (okay, you have to get hold of a book, ask friends!).
But you told us that you're doing that more already, perfect.
Be open, don't pretend to be happy when you are not, talk. And when there's no one, do it like in this vlog: talk to us and we will try to help you with our comments. It doesn't always have to be 'the perfect picture', because life isn't always perfect, on the contrary.....
GO FOR IT, JOOSE!!!
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Thanks for the comment! UA-cam is not even the way I make living now, it's Instagram, so it only makes sense to create here woth less pressure and more heart❤️ But yeah I want to be honest here and show how the 'perfect life' really is going and maybe we can all grow together! Monwy and success is not the most important thing in life, happiness comes from inside✨
Very well insight… what a wise words… GBU you both 👍👍
Annemarie’s words written here are EXACTLY spot on.
I am 62 years young in July
My son is 20
He also , I think , has undiagnosed Aspergers
Smoke pot and gets on whatever else
Struggling too
Close friend suicided
Many kids around just ending their lives 😪🤦🏻♀️
Just yesterday, I went to the funeral home to see my 87 year old Dad lying there in his ⚰️ coffin
He’d lived a long life
He came from poor family
Life was extremely tough going
He became a teacher
He loved that job
He married, he ate well , enjoyed living with his wife ( my mother)
Life was not always easy. My mother hit the booze.
He play football , he coached it too.
He loved animals.
He traveled had thru Europe. On a push bike 🚴
He told me just two weeks “ Ive had a good life”
Life is precious and , really , in the scheme of things , its short.
Joose .........
Dont ignore the true unbearable heavy horrible symptoms of DEPRESSION.
Its very real.
The brain 🧠 is like any other organ.
It can become unwell.
Just like liver / kidneys/ bowel ect.
Its an organ too.
Bali has some very astute doctors.
Yes , healers too ( but be very careful, there are some fake ones out there, who just eant your $$$$)
Get out alone 🌊👌
Take a road trip on your bike 🏍 to REAL Bali.
Pemuteran.
Get the boat to Java maybe 🤔
Discover BANDUNG 😀😀😀!!!!!!!
Yeesssss !!!!
And there is a great saying , I love it ;
“Everything in our lives at this very moment is EXACTLY how its ment to be , for better for worse”
Its true.
About learning “life”
We are here for you , always 🤗
Big mumma hug from Australia 🇦🇺
@@reynaldiplg thank you🙏
@@marqui1968 you write so beautifully about your father🥺 really got me. And sorry for your lost. Thanks for this beautiful comment again🙏 life is so precious...
Really amazing honest video, such a good thing that you have recognised what is good for you and what is not 🙏 keep pushing my man you are stronger than you think! Making this video proves it. Xxx
Thanks so much❤️🙏
I enjoy watching your vlogs, and thank you for this one. We all face challenges in life. I'm hoping you become a stronger person once you feel better. Stay save my friend, and I look forward to your next vlog 🤗
Yeah that's the thing with challenges, I learn so much and grow as a person🙏✨ thank you, you too!!
very beautiful honest video, thanks for your vulnerability and honesty
Thank you🙏✨
I’ve arrived in Canggu a month ago and I am feeling the same way I understand exactly how you feel. Something that helped me is finding a place that feels more like home where I can cook and take a break from the outside world. take so alone time and prioritizing my well-being by cooking, meditating, doing yoga and not spend my energy mindlessly. I hope you will find your balance :) it’s all about how we feel inside not the outside circumstances.
Happy to hear you found help already and hope you also will fell better and better✨ I also have been starting to find the balance little bit by having more alone time but yeah will take some time but it's okay :) it is true! Thank you!
Thank you for sharing joose, i understand your situation, my little advice is just enjoy every moment .. life is too short, give yourself some time ... breath ... being in another place of the world is not easy as it seems , adjusting / adapting with alot of things in life that you already have before it really takes time, wondering why this why that just consumed your energy and in the end you lose yourself...take time... dont be so hard on yourself 🤗 i moved from Indonesia to canada almost 2 years and still needs to learn alot of things from 0, and it is very important to have support from people around you .. it’s totally understandable for what you feel now .. we really enjoy to watch your videos!!
Thank you so much for your words🙏 I agree with everything you said and will try to live it also! Would love to hear about your challenges to moving the other way than I did🙊
Sending you much love your way! Nothing comes easy in life so keep pushing!
Thank you❤️
You are great. I wish to see honesty like that more often on social media. I had the exact same feeling when I lived in Bali for a year in 2015. So many great people, interesting activities and opportunities. There is a certain pressure to do a lot of things every day. After about 8 months I was very burnt out and tired. It helped me to withdraw a bit and do things for myself (especially if you are rather introverted, this is incredibly important). Saying no more often is certainly a start. Wish you all the best!
Thank you🙏 yes after posting this video, I have realized how many other people feel the same here! But it's definitely a good opportunity to learn about yourself and grow✨
take care, been following you since you only had a few subs on youtube great to see the channel growing.
Thank you🙏
Thanks for being so honest! Often it just looks like the perfect life because nobody is showing his struggles on social! I was feeling like this on my last big trip, overseas to Colombia. Traveling there in this beautiful country, diving, secret islands, everything was just amazing. And I felt lonely, although I was surrounded by nice people... I felt horrible, like something is wrong with me. And I can also relate to the need of being alone. I love meeting new people, I am really outgoing, love having plans. But if I don't plan in enough time for myself and being alone, I start to feel without energy, canceling plans, stop answering messages. I hope you find your balance soon, the first step surely is to realize, and it sounds like you already did that
Thanks for your comment❤️ I never expected that other people feel the same way it's so nice to know that I'm not alone with this! Thank you I think I'm at least going to a right direction, as you said, the first step is to realize it. Will definitely make uodate videos about this topic and hopefully they will be helpful. How are you doing now? :)
@@JooseTheNomadI am looking forward to the videos 😍 I am here in my hometown in Austria feeling locked in, dreaming of how nice it would be to pack everything, go to Bali and create awesome videos 🤣 The trip to Colombia I talked about was in 2018, and my last big trip. After that I needed a break from travelling and was exploring the Alps a little, and finally moving to Spain for a year. But that's now all so long ago, and I am in desperate need of an adventure 😅
I had the same up-down experience here a few days ago. I took a really long walk and dinner on the beach alone and wrote some stuff and plans down for myself. Really helped a lot.
Happy it helped! Sounds so good what you did, haha that's exactly what I should so also more often🙏
I've been also struggling for a long time, you're not alone in this bro! Stay strong!
Thanks man! Hope you also get better soon🙏✨
and you are really strong to speak about it. thanks for sharing your emotional experience
Thank you🙏 I'll keep sharing more!
couple of ideas: try to get more sleep, stay hydrated including electrolytes, completely rest for one day a week meaning no reading/computer/work/etc, get 20 minutes of sun meditation per day to boast vitamin d, and dont forget #1.. get more sleep
Yeeees agreed 100%! For me, sleep is so so important! And rest is something I often has overlooked. Now is time to focus on these simple things✨
As they say, it's okay not to be okay. I think you have taken the biggest step though - talking about it. So credit to you.
Day by day, step by step. It is great to see your vlogs, I love them, but your health and wellbeing are the most important thing here. The body needs rest. Sleep is key, always make sure you get the right amount of rest. Keep well Joose. You are living many of your audiences dreams being in Bali. These open vlogs are a good way for you to express yourself and show that everyone can have a bad day, week, month. We are all here to help and support!
Thanks so much for this comment🙏 Feels really good to get this support I appreacite it truly! All the best to you✨
Thanks for your honesty! I will be praying for you!
Thank you🙏❤️
I can very much related to this. I was there in Bali for a 1month and in the end started to feel like I’m not happy like I used to. So came back to Jakarta few days ago. Every time I want to be alone I watch a movie or something. Try that. I hope you feel much better. ❤️
Feel better now there? Thanks yeah I should so that one day haha❤️🙏
Hey bro! I love your videos! I’m planning a move to Bali
Thanks man🙏 Good luck!
Sorry you are having a hard time friend, thanks for opening up and telling us about it
Balance is so important 👌 takes a while to make a place home and form deeper connections, the in between is rough hang in there, maybe you need a fur baby to hug 🤗 my love language is touch as well, sending you a long warm hug
Yes balance is everything! Thanks so much🙏 haha yeah dog would be amazing🥺
I feel you my friend you got new subscriber and I was the same way like you before but the time and doing things I enjoy helped me to get out of it keep it up don't give up
Thank you! Yeah good times and bad times come in waves😇
Thanks for sharing your struggles and experiences in Bali. I can totally relate to feeling burnt out because of the pressure I placed on myself to constantly create content. It never stops and it's exhausting. I am on year 7 of working in social media as a content creator for a successful influencer, and have had to force myself to take a few months off because I had lost all of my creative energy. It's okay to stop and recharge.
Hope you're feeling better dude! I'm coming there soon, if I see you I will give you a hug!
Yeah already finding a better balance, happiness, and motivation! It's looking good :) thanks man!! Enjoy the journey🙏
gratitude is key, thanks for sharing all aspects of bali and travel
Yes definitely! You're welcome🙏
Balance in everything is important. Bali can be exhausting just like any place on earth. The most important thing is taking care what we need first. All the best!
Yeah agree 100%. Thank you🙏 same to you!
I appreciate you being honest about what it's like to live the way you do. Take the time you need to feel better. It's healthy to take a break from social media and just focus on yourself. Hope you focus on yourself more, do things that you like and feel better. love from Norway🇳🇴
I may get Covid vaccine during the summer. So I hope to go to Bali in early 2022 or summer 2022. Maybe we can meet up☺️
Thank you! Yes I'll try to get better at taking breaks, I have already improved with that during the last few weeks :) That's awesome! Maybe I'll be here then also, let me know!
Take care of yourself and relax more. Hope on your next video your already well again. Video as always super.
Thanks so much! Yeah I feel much better now already mire often so it's going pretty well, next video should be a more positive one :)
Somehow the way you change the background while walking is really interesting and nice. It reflects your changing mood although I’m not sure it was intentional… chin up! Pause a bit and take a break is not a sin 😂 wishing you the very berry merryyy bestt 😂
Hahaha wasn't intentional😂 but that's nice! Thank you🙏 same to you!
This is so relatable! I often felt the same when I was traveling long-term. Why is there still this emptiness, even in this 'paradise'? I've found that we all have a God-sized hole in us that no one can really fill but our creator alone. Meeting Jesus face to face in prayer is something miraculous that the world can never offer. Keep being honest to yourself, that's very bold! Wish you all the best and I really like your channel.
Yeah I know that emptiness feeling too well... but it is true that we need something deep to fill that gab. It's a different thing for different people but what I know is, that it's not anything material or external✨ thanks so much!
Agree with you Marco
Very valuable and honest. Thank you for sharing your emotions. Seems that even in our dreamlands we also have to take care about some basic things ;)
You're welcome! Yes definitely haha it's a good lesson I got here✨
I love your vunerability!! Same here, I need my alone time, its sometimes hard when you travel🙏😊
Thank you😊🙏🏽 Yeah always hard to find balance!
Take care of you....loving the scenery in the background.
Thank you🙏 yeah it's very beautiful!
Hang in there mate, we’ll done for your honesty remember a problem shared is a problem halved.
We all feel lonely at some point. Things will get better. Don’t worry about UA-cam and Instagram so much have some good quality you time. 👍
Thank you🙏 Appreciate your words! Hope you're well also✨
Thank you being honest. I think there are many out there like you , including my self. Take care🥰
Yeah I'm starting to realize how common these feelings are :/ thanks you too❤️🙏
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Amazing reflexion Joose and thanks for sharing your knowledge mate
Thanks bro🙏
Hope u feel better soon, sending u hugs n positive vibes ❤️❤️
Yeees already better! Thank you❤️🙏
You are not alone. Nearly every single struggle you mentioned, I am living it too.
I started following your channel while I was still living in the US and planning to move to Bali. I've enjoyed all of your content over the past few months, you've done an amazing job with the vlogs and showing well-thought-out and interesting content. However, this vid has been my favorite yet. Your vulnerability in showing the dark side of Bali living is brave, admirable, and humanizing.
In this IG highlight reel world we live in, I deeply CRAVE the story of someone struggling, because that's what I know to be REAL and relatable to my life. I absolutely love your content, and I will tune in whenever it is available, whether that's twice a week or twice a month does not matter. You owe me and the rest of your followers nothing.
Keep doing what's right for you and what YOU WANT to do, and on your time frame. By doing so you'll satisfy your own needs which will make for a better product that you can eventually share with us :)! Thanks brotha 🤙
Thanks so much brother🙏 really appreciate your words and makes me so happy to hear! I will definitely keep making more vlogs like this really talking honestly how I'm feeling here, hope it helps! Thanks again!! Hope you're good also and getting better!
@@JooseTheNomad getting better every day 🙏.
Btw, let me know if you want to join a Bachata class with me next week. I went yesterday in Canggu and it was just me and 3 beautiful girls....! I needed backup 😂
@@EdisonDudoit happy to hear man! Haha what is that?🙊
@@JooseTheNomad it's a dance class, like salsa 💃🕺🔥
@@EdisonDudoit uuh I have never went for a dance class!! Should be fun yeah?
I enjoy watching you vlog
Very nice sharing
Thanks my dear friend
Thanks so much🙏
Haven’t been to Bali yet, but definitely have been around the world as a digital nomad, though have only experienced great stuff. I’m loving this lifestyle to be honest.
Though I make sure to arrive in good places and nice homes. Doing house sits is how I do it, so I always have nice homes to stay at.
That's great! :)
Your body is your home, try to feeling gratitude every single breath💙
Thank you❤️🙏✨
i feel the same very often.. hang in there brother!!
Thanks brother you too🙏
i like your honesty, thanks for sharing. i guess what makes us even feel worse is that we think we SHOULD feel happy. it is okay whatever you are feeling, or better even, YOU are okay whatever you feel. just because you are on bali doesnt mean you need to feel happy nonstop ;) maybe take out some pressure and accept how you are feeling. much love from thailand (also in this paradise its not all great all the time hahaha)
Yyeees I have noticed that too, that it would be much better for me to just accept my emotions and feelings because they are just temporary... fighting against them makes it just worse🙈 thank you🙏 haha hope you're doing well there, even most of the time! Wish to visit Thailand later this year :)
This is common with many digital nomads/travellers and something a lot of people who chanced the ‘4 hour work week’ life found when they achieved their goal. Tim Ferris said a lot of people missed out on the vital step of finding purpose. Is they’re anything outside of content creation you like to do or feel passionate about? And consider doing more stuff with the local community also. Thanks for your honesty.
Yeah I have been thinking about the purpose question a lot for months now! But I think it will be about guiding people to change their lifes to something they love rather than doing the traditional path!👀 thank you🙏
I totally feel you bro! Hang in there. It’s so good to slow down and prioritize rest, balance and health and to find your anchor with God and your purpose so we don’t hustle too hard to too fast! Question: is there anyway to avoid the Bali belly? Or limit its intensity?
Thanks bro! So true🙏
Tips for Bali belly:
- Don't wash your teeth with tap water
- Avoid eating local food in the beginning
- Ask drinks without ice and no salad(often washed with tap water)
- If you get it, try charcoal pills or powder it usually helps a lot :)
@@JooseTheNomad such a good tip!! Seriously thank you. I hope you’re feeling better in your stomach and beginning to feel a new perspective. I have experienced the same when I went to Costa Rica for a whole month for free. It was my dream to travel and take photos for free! But I wasn’t happy and it was an extremely challenging trip. I didn’t give up my dream, but when I left Costa Rica I was so happy to be home in the USA. Now I have a greater appreciation for being home and doing simple things in my hometown. I love travel AND not traveling now...perhaps now you will love Bali AND being home in Finland!
@@watchwyattwander yeah I am feeling better physically and mentally already :) no stomach issues for many weeks thank god! And yeah man it's hard sometimes but definitely teaches us important lessons and it's amazing to appreciate home more! I also have felt that so many times. For me home is in Bali now tho❤️ anyways, don't give up on the dream, maybe the dream just is a bit different than you first thought! :)
Sometimes we need time to break alone as "self healing" Joose! but not too often.
Keep inspiring man! 🤛
Yees the balance is the key. Hard to find but so important! Thank you man🙏
Sometimes when we have a dream. And we do everything in our power to get there. And we're working up to it, like it'll make a significant change in our lives. It's easy to be disappointed, as life isn't always as expected. That's why you have to be happy where you are! You have everything you need to be happy.
Keep going my guy!
Yes that's very true! Thank you🙏
@@JooseTheNomad I guess you moved to Bali looking for that "missing ingredient". Yet you already have everything you need Joose! You're welcome
@@louieschwartz yeah nevertheless, Bali is much nicer place to live for me than Finland because I like warm summer weather, surfing, vegan food, yoga, etc. And there's more like-minded people here🙊
@@JooseTheNomad I know! I'm looking to go there for a few months myself haha. I run a marketing agency
@@louieschwartz nice! Welcome🙊🙏
As an introvert, I totally can relate to how you feel! A practical suggestion; why don't you travel to other places in Indonesia for a change? For example, go to Jogjakarta, a city full of culture and ancient monuments, but also a lack of large expat communities. This way you're can REALLY be alone and immerse in the local Indonesian (Javanese) culture. Or heck, visit Jakarta! Maybe the chaos of big city is just what you need, to appreciate the beauty of Bali again afterwards. Lastly, if you still need your vitamin sea, try to visit Belitung. It's beaches are beautiful and unique, but also it's largely a local tourist destination. But the people are very friendly and the price is affordable; it's truly a hidden gem. Good luck!
Thanks for the tips! I haven't really ever enjoyed cities haha, they drain my energy also! But there's some remote areas in Bali even I'm planning to visit so that should give me a lot of alone time🙊 thank you!
Hello Joose, greetings, I'm Karen from Jakarta-Indonesia, I've watched some of your UA-cam, I watched ... , I empathize, but I think you should try to be happy and enjoy and if at this time you feel alone and feel you might be bored after you enjoy and explore in Bali, maybe now you should return to your hometown or explore again to other places such as maldavis, or norway, I am an Indonesian as well if over time in Bali there is boredom too, input from me as a fellow human being and as a child of the Lord Jesus, first you say thank you for being able to arrive in Bali and explore beautiful places in Bali, not everyone has the opportunity to come to Bali even though they want to and secondly you are grateful that you are still healthy and keep the spirit, when you are upset you pray and ask for wisdom from Lord, do I still live in Bali or return to your country, or Travel to other tourist places, for example if in Indonesia there is still Lake Toba, on the island of Sumatra, but most importantly live and keep the spirit, maybe you can make friends with Andrey an Indonesian , he currently lives in Bali and he's a youtuber too (Andrey&Putri) before he worked on the NCL cruise ship in Miami, but maybe he wants to go back to work on cruise ships, here's his phone number (+6281319476559), maybe you can be friends with him and support each other , keep spirit Joose , God bless you.
I'm sorry for what happened, hope it will good soon, please don't give up on us.
It is already much better! Thank you🙏
Keep the spirit with u joose.........still sharp !!
Thanks so much🙏
Bali is one of the most famous place that russian people want to visit, if u tired or exhausted try to remember the reason why u wanna go to bali and rest well.
No doubt u are one of many people who lucky can visit those island
Thank you🙏 yeah it's all about the mindset!
Ah yeah I'm often depressed in Bali. The heat does me in. And it's pretty lonely for the most part. It's also frustrating the way that foreigners speed on motorbikes when you're walking or bicycling. Overall kind of annoying.
Haha yeah there's no perfect place! But Bali is such a nice place to live❤️
burnout is a normal and I think the most important thing is how you pick up yourself after burnout. For me sometime if I record everything I forget to enjoy the moment and end up seeing everything using the lens. Sometime you need to just enjoy the moment and yourself.
Thank you for your honesty ♥️
You're welcome❤️
take care of you
Yees this is exactly what I'm focusing on now! To find the balance and enjoy life NOW. Thank you, and back🙏
Oh No..I'm so sad hear about that..as your subscriber and your friend actually I feel what you're feeling...wake up my brother from this situation find out your energy for positif result...you're not alone we all always support you whenever...
Thanks so much🙏🙏 I feel better already and feel like I'm going to a better and happier direction!
Thanks for sharing great video
Thank you!🙏🏽
Been hearing the same for the 32 years I have spent surviving and learning and growing spiritually living on Bali.
We used to say if you haven't survived 4 years here you haven't made the transition yet. We did not have phones, motorbikes, places to sleep, or white bread and smoothies. We were not allowed to work, immigration harassed everyone, and all thought we may be spies if we used cameras a lot. Yet I had spent the time to read the few books on the Balinese and their culture and beliefs.
First I learned to travel on the old transport bemo vans from village to village. Usually, 23 or more packed in with some chickens, ducks, and pigs. Second, you get Bali belly, the next day find an apotik and they all have medicine for it and get fixed in two days.
Next sleep free in the village by politely asking the village head to sleep in the open walled-roofed Banjar structure.
Make sure you cover yourself with Autan mosquito cream legs arms hair and face.
Use your sweatshirt and backpack for a pillow. Usually, you can enjoy meeting some locals there and may get some rice and veggies for free sarapan. Then hop on the next bemo to the next village, town or wherever.
That's just the beginning. I got no sympathy if you do not think that life must revolve around Echo Beach Canggu and you need others to talk to and a girl.
Find yourself first, watch listen learn from locals, not other lost souls trying to survive in the same boat you came in, with the same goals, video and smoothie needs.
I still only use a computer or phone turned on a few minutes a day.
Watch the flowers in sunlight happiness, smell the wind near the ocean until you can know when fish swim near you. Smile drenched in a rain or thundershower.
Feel the life all around you.
Stop feeling important, kill the ego, root your spine into the ground become one with the earth.
God there is so much great stuff to learn and the older Balinese are great teachers, spend time with them in villages.
Bring some balloons for the kids.
They do not even allow you to read learn Sikala Niskali until you are over 55 years old.
Your just a young puppy, learn to listen, learn to study the religion, crafts, art, family unity, rituals, kite flying and be content with the journey. Even the cricket fights, rooster fights, surfing, soccer, Feel sorry for yourself in Paradise, make me laugh.
Hi Joose, I can very much related to your experience of living in the dream and not feeling happy, and wondering why. I watched your video since your first day in Bali, the happy tears… I think you need a change, may be it’s time to go to another country? Or if you can visit the poor neighborhood people who need help, and do some good things for them, this may change how you feel about your life, and it might help!
Thanks May! I want to try to make it work here because after all, Bali is my favorite place ever. And I know that changing place doesn't fix my issues. And I love to be here! But yeah I definitely want to help more people, animals, and nature here in Bali🌿✨
The rice fields looks really beautiful.
They reslly are😍
Btw..ur vlog is awesome bro..as always 👍👍
Thanks so much🙏
You can't escape yourself. Whatever you're dealing with will follow you. The grass isn't greener, it's just different.
So true🙏✨
hope your master going smooth and ya i think you need a next chapter/step find a companion, try indonesian maybe 😁, but always keep it in mind that there are always good and bad people out there, hope you find a good one👌. semangat👊
Haha I think I'll drop out now😄 life is too short to do something you don't love! Thanks I'm definitely open for that, the right one will come across eventually🙏
UA-cam is a tough game buddy and Bali can be overwhelming as well. I (Jay) went through the same period. I discovered meditation and every morning I start with physical activity while thinking about the things I appreciate in life, even small ones. Suddenly, that feeling is gone.
Yeah man that's it! Happy that you figured it out🙏 You're still in Bali?
@@JooseTheNomad Yes, still in Bali 🙂
@@jayandalina nice!! You live in Canggu? :)
@@JooseTheNomad Yeah, right in the centre🙂
@@jayandalina haha nice man! See you around :)
Just dont change of who you are ,mate😁 then you will enjoy every second of your life anywhere you are🙏
Yeah for sure👀🙏
i understand the feeling. for me what works in similar situations is, taking a break. i mean a real break. i have to be put in an environment completely different from what created burnout. different people, experiences, food, etc. the new experience kind of shocks my body and mind. and this new experience must be something I really look forward to. so basically i shock the system with something i really really like doing.
i have noticed I get burnouts like this every 2 months. so if I don't take rests every 2 months, everything in my life suffers. the rest takes 3 days and it is enough for the coming 2 months.
i would advise you to observe yourself during this period and see how your emotions react to different things. all the answers are within you. you just need to be open enough to see them.
Also Tony Robbins's 6 Human Needs method helped me to find what i was missing.
Yeah man I feel you. Break is definitely something that helps and is needed sometimes. It's harded to take those when the work is something I love haha. But I'll try to do it more often! And that's a great tip to do something very different, maybe I could do a yoga/meditation retreat here in Bali! Would probably help a lot✨
@@JooseTheNomad ok. in that case, I don't know if you are familiar with the '6 human needs' theory by Tony Robbins. Very shortly, the 6 needs are certainly, variety, significance, love & connection, growth, contribution. everyone has 2 main needs. my main 2 needs are certainty & growth. however, when I haven't had variety for over 2 months, I break down and burn out. this theory has helped me a lot in studying my own reactions, patterns, and fears that hold me back. hope it helped.
@@umangasarathchandra717 thanks for telling me man. Definitely sounds very valuable theory. It's good to keep eye on all those aspects if they're present in our life. Thank you🙏
Keep spirit Bro, Happy Always..
Thank youu!!🙏
@@JooseTheNomad .. You're Welcome.. 🙏🙂
Good luck in finding the balance, Pohjanpoika, tsemppiä.
Thank you :) Kiitos pohjolan herra!
Awww...man Hmmmm...I can give you TLC .... sending you TLC energy! ♥️♥️♥️ next time visit Bali I will give you in 3D! 😁
What is that?😬
He just found out that he loves modern big cities n skyscrapers more than nature's beauty n tranquility👍
Everybody has their own likings
Me?😂 definitely not😂
Enjoy. one of my prospect country
Thank you!
Hello my friend. I also live in Bali but I'm older and I will tell you that your problem is not related to Bali or anywhere. You are just experiencing a post traumatic stress. This doesn't happen only when bad things happen. Some people suffer from this after having a child or getting married etc. It is just because of the big change in your life. The good news is that this will pass. The headache comes from the stress, also the bad sleep. The Bali belly is not related but stress can also give you stomach problems and suck all your energy as well. Its just your body thinking that you are in a constant state of protecting from something bad. But this "bad" doesn't exist. But you body feel like it does. The fact you cried when your plane landed can be a signal that you are on the edge of emotional feelings. Try to relax. Exercise. And most important: stop thinking about tomorrow. Tomorrow doesn't exist yet. Tomorrow you deal with tomorrow, if you know what I mean. Live for today. Don't worry about something that doesn't exist yet and you will be happy. Once again, read about post traumatic stress on situations that are supposed to be good. Reading helps you to understand and once you understand what you have you will deal with it. Hope this helps you.
Yeees I know Bali is not the problem. I need to look inside! Thanks for the comment is very valuable. Thank you🙏
I used to feel the same way when I went alone, everywhere, the important thing is to have friends in the world, so it's not lonely
Yeees I have many but sometimes it doesn't help the feeling so much
@@JooseTheNomad Just try to start looking at art painting, maybe you can get to know yourself again, if you're still in Bali, just visit Ubud, Antonio Blanco, who knows.
Read about the Ley lines and you will understand. Bali is a massive energy vortex. Everything in you will be magnified and held up to you like a mirror. It will crush you or it will make you rise to your truest version of yourself. It will take time, but it is what you have been sent here for. Even if you do not know it yet. For me that journey took me years ago to Uluwatu, where I stayed and surfed for 6 years. And where I slowly shed everything I thought I knew about myself and discovered spirituality with Balinese friends. It is not an easy journey, but a call from the soul to begin your work. SO many people have experienced it here, it is not a place like any other where you will face yourself so strongly. I have been around the globe a few times, but Bali is really something else energy wise. So embrace whatever goes on in all its magnitude, good or bad, tons of lessons you will learn if you keep your eyes open and many hard ones too, but it is part of growth and finally realizing, accepting and healing it. All the best!
Wow. Everything you said was so true and powerfull! Good reminder thanks so much🙏✨
They KEY is to trust the (divine) process. That is indeed my daily mantra. I trust that everything happens in the exact right moment for the exact right reason. And if you don't get it, that same lesson will be repeated on a more intense level. It nudges you, then it slaps you, then it kicks you and finally you yet smashed with a brick on the head: and then you either wake up or get destroyed. For me disaster had to struck until I finally learned, and now I'm grateful for it, because I needed the hard lessons to break out of old patterns. Only if you don't trust the process, if you try to control, struggle against it, try to escape it or feel like a victim, that's when things get worse. So to save you a few years: trust the process and relax into not knowing. Because your journey is yours to watch, learn and grow. And have a good laugh about it or cry. It doesn't matter. Just allow it and trust. And as you see, things are already shifting, because you start to understand that taking care of yourself (not everything/everyone around you) and spending time in silence is the gate to start the inner journey to reconnect with yourself. It's the most difficult thing ever --- to face yourself. But then you will live, and not just exist.
@@kerswin3460 very wise words🙏 did you see the latest video update about this topic?
Joose have you solved this problem by now? I think what you said about enjoying stuff too many times is definitely true because this just have never been a problem to me. Whenever I get something nice, I'll always go back to a more relaxed time where I face reality. It can honestly take like a month long cool down before I do something interesting again. Maybe that's my heavily introverted personality or something but that's just how my rewarding system works.
Yeah that sounds very healthy! And yes I don't have this problem anymore how I used to. Have been very happy lately without the rollecoaster ride haha. But of course it's still hard to find a perfect balance here with everything but that's fine😇🙏
Don't feel like you are bound by these things. This feeling in the long run drains the energy from a person. I'm advised you to take a break and promise that it will not exceed five days and please keep the positive energy in you , go and have fun and sleep when ever you want and you will back with full energy
Thank you!! I'll definitely try to take more breaks🙏
In my relegion... I should minimize to make any complain in my live... specialty in struggling... always feel grateful...
I definitely want to feel grateful. Sometimes it's just hard when you're feeling bad mentally and don't even know why
It’s complicated but happens to most people. If I may give you some suggestions, don’t think too much about yourself, about your own happiness. Life should have purpose too. Try to make others happy and it will create happiness for yourself. Small and easy step that will give you big impact : Adopt a puppy! 🐶. Your life will be different.
Haha would love to adopt a puppy but I can't as I'm not in a position yet to be sure I can live here long long term and have a house. But yeah that's actually another thing I have been struggling with, to find my purpose. But maybe sharing honestly my thought and feelings on UA-cam could be that. Maybe it would help lots of people! Anyways, thanks for the comment🙏
Bali....Some of the cleanest most consistant waves on the planet....I would swap places with you any day...Do you surf? Also Ive heard of Bali belly..I was told to avoid it only eat fried food..
Yes I surf and that's one reason I love to be here! Haven't have ny belly issues anumore, it's usually just one time thing :)
You must prepare well everything, acomodation, culture, food, people. You must survey to internet before visit other place.
It's my third time in Bali🙊
You don't need to force yourself to upload 2 or 3 times per week
Take a break and after you feel better just upload anytime you feel like it, even once a month is fine.
No need to force yourself.
Thank you🙏✨
Good video. Maybe you can try meditation. Happiness (Bliss) cannot be found in the external world... it is available only within yourself. Find it & you will forever be free of any suffering life has to offer! Good luck
Haha I have been meditating every day over 3 years😄 thank you🙏
I feel sorry for you Keep it up bro.. 💙💙💙
Thank you❤️🙏
Life problems follow you wherever you go. Make peace with yourself and everywhere will be paradise.
So true❤️🙏✨
Hi Joose, I am an introvert, and like you, need my alone time to recharge. Something like the programs run at Amrtasiddi Ayurvedic Centre in Ubud for rejuvenation and finding clarity of thought may be worth considering. Take care.
Thank you for the comment and recommendation🙏 I'll look into it! Have been thinking about maybe soing some kind of retreat but haven't really done any research yet! Thanks you too!
I have been to Amrtasiddi twice and it is both healing and challenging. The doctors and staff are soooo caring and kind. Checkout their website and reviews. Good luck Joose...your journey is continuing.
@@christineviking1578 thank you! I'm looking at their website but I don't fully understand what is that place/concept. It's a clinic of some kind?
It's a health retreat...detox, rejuvination. Ayurveda is an ancient form of medicine using plants, healthy food, yoga and meditation as our medicine.
You can probably do a one off appointment to find out more and check out the place. Dr Sujartha is very intuitive.
Nice video. I hope one day you can make a video in another city in Indonesia. Like Jakarta or Bandung city
Thank you🙏 why you wanna see that?🙊
@@JooseTheNomad because i life in Bandung city. And in bandung you can see the volcano. Tea tree Gardens, culinery, Dutch Heritage building and many more
@@IkraDJ10 yeah but why you want to see me there if you already know how it is? Sorry I'm just interested!
@@JooseTheNomad no. I just giving advice about the natural beauty of Indonesia other than Bali. Only that
And if you.make a vlog in Bandung city and Jakarta. Later there will be many viewers whi will watch your video.. it is like content creator Alexander white or Rheett & Claire channel
Nothing is wrong with you .... all you need to do ask your self what the next thing you want .... life is not the destination is enjoying the Journey and dreaming about what the next thing you want .... if you were your own best friend what advice would you give your self? Trust me you know The answer .... Good luck my friend enjoy Bali, the most abundant place your can spend your life. Xoxo
Thank you🙏 I feel like I have much more clarity now after having some break from work and also some alone time!
that’s great ...so what is that clarity feels like to you?
@@nilacrane3896 being clear what's important for me in life and what I should focus on right now :)
Cheers up 🙃🙂
Haha thanks!
Your situation only in short periode .... do not worry man !!! 🤣👍
Yeees that is true🙏
I hope your enjoyed in bali
I am enjoying :)
You have to pace yourself, it’s not a sprit to get everything done, be around Ppl, etc it’s about balancing your energy and time.
MOVE ON GOD BLESS YOU....😇🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩
Thanks🙏🏽😊
It's just because of pandemic maybe, everything is shutting down, low vibe in general in your surrounding makes you feel low too.