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Hello, everyone! Welcome back to our channel. Today, we're delving into a captivating exploration of the aftermath when a narcissist discards you. Buckle up for a revealing journey into their suffering, the mysterious workings of karma, and the unique insights that define this experience. From the empath's perspective to the narcissist's struggles, we're covering it all. So, sit tight, hit that like button, subscribe for more insightful content, and let's embark on this enlightening ride together!
The Narcissist perhaps believed that they could find happiness. They convinced themselves that they could find joy without your presence. They were under the impression that they could easily discard you. They had a vision of a wonderful world, a place where the grass appears greener. They gazed upon you and made the judgment that your grass was tainted, and as a result, you were tainted. They planned to move ahead, to discard you, and to pursue happiness. This was their internal dialogue, this was their conviction, and they acted on this belief despite all that you had done for them.
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As far as it concerns the narcissist I must exclaim, and from my gut, that I can not conceive suffering such horrendous fate, till death, and perhaps, beyond?`My own experience was very, very painful. And yet, now, past it, I have no feelings of revenge, no feelings for the need of celebration. Something in me, to whom, the narcissist showed at times, though very few, realizes there were moments, again, few, when the narcissist was honest to himself, and against himself, must have loved me. And, for me recognizing that smidgeon of love renders me incapable of delighting in their fate. Above all, the narcissist, (for me) exposed (to me) the deepest part of my soul. And for that, I am grateful. For, that deepest part of my soul, has by today granted me the impression, the expression of the self that I am. And this has brought me peace and joy, though their glimmer maintains me, through the very day. There is no greater truth than this to live by. Thank you, for this particular video, For its enlightenment received.❤and,🙏
For those of you still in the "what just happened?" stage, remember, the narcissist discarding you was likely one of the biggest blessings of your life.
WTF just happened. Correct. Duper's Delight. played like a Grand Piano. . Like I have said countless times in other threads. In the beginning. I even told her to slow her roll. You're either the BEST Actress in the world or your just that good ..i ..i didn't know about BPD/NPD... I liked her personality but hey. It's a disorder.....😮❤...
Absolutely, the initial shock and confusion of being discarded are incredibly painful, but with time and perspective, many come to see it as a turning point towards a healthier and more self-empowered life. It can indeed be a hidden blessing, freeing you from the cycle of manipulation and allowing you to grow in ways that were previously stifled. Hold onto that hope and keep moving forward. Your future self will thank you for it.
@@NarcPedia 💜🙌💪👏 ..
I'm TRYING to find peace in this. The discard was loud, hurtful, and ALL the friends we had knew and treated me like trash.
@@sp8813 Finding peace after such a tumultuous experience can be incredibly difficult, especially when it feels like you're facing it alone. The betrayal of friends can sometimes be just as painful as the discard itself. Remember that this is a reflection of their character, not yours. It's important to seek out a supportive community-whether online or in person-that understands what you're going through and can offer the compassion and friendship you deserve.
As you work towards peace, allow yourself to grieve the loss of what you thought you had, and give yourself permission to feel all the emotions that come with it. Healing isn't linear, and it's okay to take it one day at a time. You're doing the right thing by trying to find peace, and with each step, you're moving closer to a place where the hurt will be less and the peace more. Hang in there.
Once they have someone, they always believe they could do better. They're total losers
It's a tough realization to come to, but you're right-narcissists often operate under the belief that the grass is always greener elsewhere, which is a reflection of their own insecurities and need for validation. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I hope you find strength and support in this community.
Narcissist's don't suffer they are just an empty shell. Ever notice their eyes? Soulless! Once the mask is fully off and you see the creature under It! RUN! It doesn't matter who does the discard! If the narc. is gone! Thank the good lord!
Your observation about the emptiness that seems to lie behind the facade of a narcissist is quite astute. It's often said that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and in these situations, they can reveal a lot about the lack of genuine connection and empathy. Recognizing the true nature of such individuals can indeed be a startling and defining moment. You're absolutely right-whether you initiate the separation or they do, the important thing is that you're free from a potentially harmful and draining situation. It's a moment to reclaim your life and start on a path toward healing and self-discovery. Thanking the good lord and moving forward with your head held high is the best way to go. Here's to brighter days ahead, filled with genuine connections and peace. 🙏
Amém! ❤
I cannot go back with them. They will destroy me, thank God I found out sooner than later
Recognizing the potential for harm in a relationship and taking steps to protect yourself is a brave and wise decision. It's good to hear that you were able to gain this insight early on. Trusting your instincts and choosing your well-being is something to be commended. May you find strength and peace as you move forward on your journey. If you're ever in need of support or wish to share more, this community is here for you. Thank God for giving you the clarity you needed. Stay strong.
They thought that the grass was greener, but in reality, it wasn’t. 🎯💯
Indeed, it's a common misconception that can lead to regrettable decisions. The idea that something better is always out there can cause some to overlook the value of what they have. It's a lesson often learned too late that the grass is not always greener on the other side, and sometimes it's the care we put into our own grass that makes it flourish. Thank you for sharing that insight.
Look it never is. You have to water the grass (and that means every grass).
Where was their comfort when they embarrassed you, and put you down infront of people, they gave you none, so they deserve less than none.
It's clear that those experiences left a deep impact, and it's understandable to feel that way. When someone shows no regard for your feelings or dignity, it can certainly challenge the notion of extending empathy to them. Thank you for sharing your perspective; it's a reminder that respect and compassion should be mutual.
Totally agree 👍🏾💯 I learned from my own toxic evil narcissist experience Nolalower9Ward ⚜️⚜️
I have always resented the day I met them. Resented every torturous moment spent with them. Bewildered as to why I didn’t kick them to the curb when I was aware of being mistreated, unloved and exploited in EVERY way. This video offers a deeper perspective on the “why.” I hope the universe isn’t holding out on any more lessons for me that match that one.
It's completely understandable to feel resentment and bewilderment about such a painful past experience. It's tough to look back and question our own actions, but it's important to remember that hindsight is always clearer than what we see in the moment. I'm glad that the video provided you with a deeper perspective and hopefully some closure on the 'why' behind your experiences.
The lessons we learn from difficult experiences are often the hardest, but they also tend to leave us with the most valuable insights. Here's hoping that the universe has gentler lessons in store for you from now on, ones that bring you growth without the pain. Stay strong, and keep moving forward.
Be thankful And forgiving, wish them luck and don't look back! 🥰🥰
Stop it. Do not take anything ' personal ' with them, as nobody is inside them in the first place. Narcissists don’t know how to love; they can’t afford to spare the energy to learn, because they’re always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they don’t understand the concept - they can’t feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else.
Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissists value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. Loads of them brag about being a good parent and seek compliments for that only to hide their masks...
When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing... They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves.
When they toss you out, it’s no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old. None of this is personal. They’re too terrified to have close personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain..
.. This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesn’t know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, it’s from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection., .
And, Moreover, if you think They are the one that 'made' you feel then you're still under their control/spell, you're still wrapped up in their neverending inner delusions/dar-kness, and you learned nothing. Truth is, you were loving YOURSELF the entire time you were interacting with them as they were doing nothing more than mirroring you, as there is nobody inside them in the first place, therefore there was nobody for you to love but yourself (as they themselves are incapable of true empathy/love).
Stating that they made you feel is like saying an empty robot made you feel, or an empty soda can made you feel. And in the same way it's completely ridiculous to think a Narc made you feel anything...As they were doing nothing more than mirroring you in the beginning. Based on a lie and you cannot truly feel for lies.
They are completely incapable of processing their emotions, they don't know how to. And that is why when you state that you love them they greatly resent it, they turn you into an enemy and play their games. Because inside they ask themselves- " how can you possibly love this ? '
Unless you get over these massive hurdles and understand the bigger picture of Universal spiritual truths in your relationships then you will never be the truly empathic powerful loving spirit being you truly are to love the world/heal the world. ..
Much love !..
Let it go, it's in your past, as long as you feel and verbalize the way you are feeling right now, the universe will send you more, by default you will attract more of this. He's gone and can't hurt you anymore. He's now a part of your past. Stay strong.
@@robertdemeter5793man this is the most wonderful comment I have ever read in this topic. I would love to read more from you. I have never interpreted all of these things this way. This perspective is mind blowing and eye opening. ❤
I got used for a baby. She never wanted a father for her child or a partner for her. I have never met my child and shes a year old. The smear campaign kept me from even trying to go to court to see that little girl. It is horrible, and she doesn't even care about that child. Worst chapter of my life.
That’s horrible! Praying everything works out for you, and that God puts you and your little girl together. 🙏
@@djw8504 Someday, I have faith it will be.
I'm deeply sorry to hear about your situation. Being used in such a way and then being separated from your child is heartbreaking. It's important to remember that you have rights as a father, and despite the smear campaign, the legal system can provide a pathway to those rights. It may be beneficial to consult with a family law attorney who can guide you through the process of seeking visitation or custody. Your daughter deserves the chance to know you, and you deserve the opportunity to be a part of her life. The actions of others don't define the entirety of your story. There's still room for happier chapters ahead. Stay strong.
@NarcPedia I now believe this is the only path to see my daughter. I've spent the past year getting over the narc, and praying to God. I have tried to heal so I can fight for her correctly. I wish I would have done something sooner, but I wasn't in the best place emotionally to make a good decision. The entire thing really messed me up. This channel, and others have helped me understand what the heck happened. I want to thank you for everything! I will see my baby one day, I know it!
@@jdubbya348 I agree ☝️ I’ve heard and seen friends of mine that had issues with maybe not having a stable home or addiction problem, so they were kept out of their children’s life, until they got clean, and took the ex to court. I feel like Judges do respect a parent fighting to see their kids no matter what. I guarantee that if you went forward with custody rights, you wld be granted at least joint custody. Who knows, maybe just mention that you are planning to take her to court, she may wanna allow it just to keep it from going in front of a judge. Your child needs you as much or more than you need her. Keep your head up and fight!! Prayers for you. 🙏
No narcissist that discarded me has suffered. It's actually the contrary. They continue to celebrate their victories over this guy while continuing to enjoy life to the fullest.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It can indeed seem like the narcissist is unhurt and even thriving after causing so much pain. However, it's important to remember that their seeming 'happiness' is often just a facade. True happiness comes from genuine relationships and empathy, both of which narcissists struggle with.
Thank you for sharing your feelings and experiences. You're not alone in this journey.
@NarcPedia An 8.8 moment magnitude apology for taking so long to reply to your comment. It would've been great to have met you in person to discuss this in greater depth.
You have to remember they have new supply and that person is fun for now. So the narc is observing waiting to make it's move with some form of toxicity. And do know their talking to other people to.
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I did the reverse discard after my twin took her own life and the family came after me like a virus. Changed my number and left them all and wrote a book about it just published . I have peace of mind now.
I am profoundly sorry to hear about the loss of your twin and the subsequent challenges you faced. It's inspiring to hear how you've taken control of your narrative by changing your number and distancing yourself from such a toxic environment. Writing a book is a powerful way to process and share your journey, and I commend you for having the courage to do so. Congratulations on your publication, and may you continue to find peace and strength in the days ahead. Your story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.
I did the same thing. Im on my second book as well speak😂😂😂
My Condolences on loss of your twin. Congratulations on your book.
What is the name of your book, and where can I find it?
It takes a lot of strength and courage for what you did. Good job!!!
You can get away from them, but they can never leave themselves. That’s the worst punishment. After cheating on me and I left, he’s on girlfriend 3. No relationship with him will last because he isn’t the catch he used to be. The man I married was smart and handsome, the man I left.. not so much! While he could charm practically anyone two decades ago, that doesn’t seem to work anymore because he’d gotten too rude and people don’t put up with it.
There's a lot of truth in what you're saying. Escaping from a toxic person is a relief for you, but they're stuck with themselves and their behaviors, which ultimately can lead to their downfall. It sounds like you've observed a clear decline in how others perceive him over time, which is often the case when someone's negative traits overshadow their initial charm. It's a sad reality, but also a form of natural consequence for their actions.
It's good to hear that you've moved on from that situation. Personal growth and self-realization are invaluable, and it seems you've gained a lot of wisdom from this experience. May you continue to find peace and happiness on your own path, away from the negativity of the past.
Totally agree 👍🏾💯 And I know from my own experience with a toxic evil narcissist Nolalower9Ward ⚜️⚜️
this is so real. my ex cheated on me and hoovered me and then discarded me again. she’s in her second relationship and i’m still healing
Why do you know this? You're not NC? 🫤
@@eyekantbeme I wish I were NC.. it’s as low as it can get, but he’s been dragging out the divorce for three years now. Luckily, the kids are legal adults now, they just started to see him less because he has such a bad temper, but sometimes they tell me about something that happened with one of his girlfriends because it bothered them.
Thanks for your videos, I was with a covert narcissist for 9 years, it was a strange relationship but I loved him and thought he loved me, we had many good times together and lived together for a time until he started relying on my financially and I shut it down, he returned to his mothers at the age of 54 and has been there ever since, he is now 58. She I believe is narcissistic also and enables him and looks after him, I believe it is called enmeshment. We had an incident a couple of years back and he flew into a rage when I was over there and physically pushed me out of the house while she watched. She then phoned the police on me. I was in disbelief and totally triggered as I had a very traumatic experience years prior to this with the police when they came to deliver me the tragic news that my mother who was mentally unstable had hung herself (yes a significant and contributing factor to my life). I have run from police whenever I see them ever since. My covert narc asked me after the event "Was their visit constructive", I still remember thinking what a cold and strange choice of words. It was then I started discovering narcissism and its many forms and putting the pieces together, all the signs were there, triangulation, lovebombing, gaslighting, rage fits, mimicking, inappropriate and disproportionate responses to both situations and criticisms, inability to deal with stress, inability to fix any issues, avoidance, massive silent treatments, victimhood, telling me I was the abuser (and to be fair I have a temper and tend to react when attacked, something I'm working on as I give away my power, I react with my tongue). I have been and still are to an extent trauma bonded, and I am trying my hardest to heal, but it is hard, when my therapist who is wonderful and specialises in narcissistic abuse told me it was hard work, I now know what that means, it is the hardest thing I have ever done, and I am scared all the time that I will fail. I have been a strong and confident person my entire life, some days I feel I'm winning and many I feel I will never get there. I have never felt so much hurt and isolation since childhood, and have had to revisit those moments. He knew this, he knew my fear was being alone and possibly ending up like my mother, I told him. I literally handed over all of my inner fears and I did so believing, genuinely believing that he would treat them with respect and kindness. The really scary thing is that he pretended to all the while using them against me with all the methods everyone talks of. The only way I know this to be true....I can feel it, that is the one true compass point and I have stopped thinking that it is in my imagination, it's not, it happened, the discard I believe often happens when they know you are the only person, other than their previous partners who may not have labelled it, they know you truly see them for who they are, because the mask mine wore, although there were flags, it fits like a glove. This is the first time I've written this down anywhere, and it makes me cry, not for him, for myself. How did I get here? When can I leave and where is the door out? I have loved with all my heart, overlooked all of it, I feel like a stupid woman who can't handle rejection, yet in my heart I know it's not me, it's the broken shards of my life that I allowed an inept person to try to help me put back together, I now realise the only person who can do that is me. Thanks for listening and reading.
Thank you for sharing your story with such courage and honesty. I'm deeply sorry to hear about the traumatic experiences you've gone through. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Many people, like yourself, have endured similar experiences and are now on the path to recovery.
Recognizing the pattern and acknowledging the abuse is the first and most significant step towards healing. It's evident that you've taken that step. It's okay to feel scared and unsure, healing is not linear and it's perfectly normal to have good days and bad days.
Your strength shines through in your words, and it's clear that you're a survivor. Please continue to seek help from your therapist and don't hesitate to reach out to support groups. They can provide a safe space to share your experiences and feelings, and you can learn from others who have gone through similar experiences.
Lastly, remember that it's okay to feel hurt and it's okay to grieve. It's a part of the healing process. You're not a 'stupid woman who can't handle rejection', you're a strong person who's been through a lot and is still standing.
Don't lose hope. There's always a way out and the door is right there, within you. You've already opened it by choosing to heal. Take one day at a time and believe in yourself. You're stronger than you think.
Stay strong, and thank you for being a part of our community. Your story will undoubtedly help others who are in similar situations.
What a story. I'm sorry your Mom didn't get the help she needed. Families don't always know how to deal with mental illness, and please try to forgive her if you already haven't. Be grateful for your experience because look where you're at now, you are healing. If his grown ass is sucking his Mama's boob then let him, he's not in your bank account. Mine is still living at his sister's house sleeping in his Mama's bed, and that's exactly where he belongs. Bums, can't even stand on their own feet but wanna tear someone apart. My mouth can be bad too, but that's the way you learn how to fight them back. I felt like a complete nut because it always something, he wasn't satisfied unless I was upset. I don't like speaking to anyone with disrespect and I stopped when someone told me what's in your heart comes out of your mouth. Think about that. I then decided no contact was my way out. Therapy has and is a big factor in my turn around. He is apart of your past now, he can't hurt you anymore unless you go back. You are improving and you are important, the bomb.com! Pray and ask God for healing and he will answer. I wish we could meet!! I'd give you a hug, keep your head up and stay true to the great woman you, that's his problem look what he lost!!
Another thing using your personal life, and things you trusted him with hurts so much. He failed to have your back emotionally and mentally, trying to drown you, nothing but ignorance. Be glad his broken and broke ass is gone.
Think about it like this we are watching and using the information from these videos to heal and continue to put our lives back together. You are not alone, I feel great that I stumbled upon this messin around on my phone, to me our communication and sharing our comments is therapy as well. Let us continue to be here for one another.
I feel your pain I went through six years before I left during a tantrum meltdown, as we moved together to a foreign country. So yes I realized that I would be isolated and stuck if we signed a lease together so I told him we should live apart as he needed to work on his behaviors. I was willing he said soon after he was not and wanted a divorce , fine when me gave my all for six years and he was way better off after all that , and yes he has used my fears against me. I live peacefully now , no body to bring me down or say mean things for no reason or have tantrums when I didn’t give 100 percent attention , I hope you heal and sending a big hug. It isn’t easy I miss him , but know I can never live with him again to be put in a position for abuse. Meanwhile im talking with some supportive minds . I know one day I will be talked out “ and I will put it behind me like a bad dream. The sooner the better .
Im still ignoring and have blocked him. It hurts but it hurt mire staying. Ans it was a lie from the beginning ❤
It takes a lot of courage to make the decision you've made, and it's clear you're prioritizing your well-being. While both choices bring pain, choosing the path that leads to healing and self-respect is a powerful step. The hurt from leaving may be sharp now, but it's a pain that will fade with time, unlike the enduring hurt of staying in a lie. Keep taking care of your heart. Sending you strength and support. ❤️
Ezekiel 36:26-27 KJV
A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh. And I will put my spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes, and ye shall keep my judgments, and do them.
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Thank you for sharing this uplifting passage. It speaks to the hope and renewal that many seek, especially after difficult experiences. May everyone find the strength and support they need to heal and move forward with hearts open to compassion and understanding.
Thank you for this wonderful video. God is indeed the best therapist in the world. Let’s offer everything to Jesus, he is the truth and way to the Heavenly Father. Let divine intervention take its place on what we’ve all been through. 🙏🏻♥️
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You're very welcome, and I'm glad you found the video wonderful! It's heartwarming to hear that your faith provides you with comfort and guidance. Offering your struggles up and seeking divine intervention can be a source of immense strength and healing for many. May your journey continue to be guided by such faith and hope. Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your perspective. Blessings to you! 🙏🏻♥️
Amen
They discard me. But they still following me. It doesnʻt make any sense
I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situation. Narcissistic individuals often exhibit confusing and contradictory behaviors, which can be very hard to understand and cope with. Remember, their actions are a reflection of their issues, not yours. It may be helpful to seek professional advice if you're feeling distressed. Stay strong, and take care of yourself. You're not alone in this.
how do you know this truly? they don’t care, they don’t think like normal people and been doing this behavior so long they know how to change they mindset to not care. I wish i truly knew but probably never will
It's true that trying to understand the mindset of someone with narcissistic tendencies can be incredibly difficult. They often don't show care or concern in ways that others might, and their behavior patterns can be deeply ingrained. Many times, they've developed ways to justify their actions to themselves, which can make it seem like they don't care.
The knowledge shared in these videos comes from a combination of psychological research, clinical studies, and the shared experiences of those who have been impacted by individuals with narcissistic traits. Even with all this information, it's often hard to truly know what goes on in someone else's mind, especially when their way of thinking is so different from the norm.
It's okay if there are things about their behavior we can't fully understand. The important thing is to focus on your own well-being and to seek support when you need it. Remember, you're not alone in your quest to make sense of these experiences.
Narcs don't suffer for their
discards one was waiting in the wing all the time 😉
You've touched on a painful reality that many people experience. Narcissists often line up their next source of attention before ending their current relationship, which can be incredibly hurtful. Thank you for sharing your insight with us. Stay strong.
My adversaries are setting a trap for me to fall in but they're the ones who are going to fall into their own traps.
That's a powerful perspective to have! It's often said that those who set traps for others end up caught in them themselves. By staying aware and true to yourself, you're navigating through these challenges with wisdom. It's important to keep focusing on your path and integrity; let their actions be their downfall, not yours. Keep shining your light and staying above the fray. Your resilience and insight can turn their traps into your triumphs. Stay strong and keep moving forward!
@@NarcPedia thank you as well, your welcome too, better to stay strong and be resilient. We all fall but what matters is how one can pick oneself up!
We the people who are trying to be better after an narcistic relationship are always going through the intense suffering after the break up.
While they are just showing off their new partner, roaming around in fun and even bringing in the guy in the same apartment where i live. All these actions are surely to make me suffer more.
Where is their sufferings in this?
It's truly painful to witness a narcissist seemingly move on without a care, especially when their actions appear to be deliberate attempts to cause you more pain. It's important to remember that their lack of visible suffering doesn't mean they're happy or fulfilled. Narcissists often use these displays to mask their own insecurities and to maintain a facade of superiority.
Their 'suffering' might not look like yours because they experience and process emotions very differently. What seems like fun and freedom might actually be a frantic scramble to avoid facing their own emptiness or inadequacy.
Focus on your own healing and personal growth. The path to being better after such a relationship is challenging, but it's also filled with genuine self-improvement and emotional development-something that is more valuable and long-lasting than the superficial displays you're seeing from them. Surround yourself with support, engage in self-care, and continue working towards a healthier, happier you. Your healing is what truly matters.
You are not a narcissist. Therefore you win always. ... I don´t think they live such a wonderful life after you - it is all for show (if you see pictures with somebody else or wonderful pictures)... Narcissists in fact died long ago (in their childhood) and they live a sad life (because they can´t love anyone truely).
I have a question. Around the 4 minute mark you said THEY HAD A CHOICE TO CHANGE??)) Are you saying they Really do try. AND they just fall into bad habits.. .... ill never feel bad for her. Guilt tripped the shit out of me. ..😢 . Wow. Funny you say that. She made me say things I never thought I was capable of saying....Reactive Abuse...😮😅❤...
At the 4-minute mark, I mentioned that while narcissists have the ability to choose different actions, change is often difficult due to their ingrained patterns and lack of insight into their behavior. It's not so much about them consciously trying and failing to change; it's more about the deep-seated nature of their personality disorder, which makes genuine, lasting change challenging.
Please don't feel compelled to feel bad for someone who has guilt-tripped or manipulated you. It's important to protect your emotions and well-being. What you experienced, reactive abuse, is a common response when pushed to your limits. It's understandable to have moments where you react in ways that aren't typical for you when under extreme stress. Remember to be gentle with yourself as you heal from these experiences.
@@NarcPedia 🙌💜💪😎👏..
I am sure you are not alone in this. I also had my battles and said a lot of mean words (I am not proud of that and myself because of it)... BUT: I am a taurus (zodiac-sign) and my temper was challenged (with a lot of red clothes).
I am 73 year old I do not trust in your advices since I have lost all my posesions, my house and my children. live alone, and very dissapointed to have listened to my psicotherapist advices to leave the toxic person, we must fight for what we love, I do not want to be in an asylum for the rest of my life.
I'm truly sorry to hear about the losses and hardships you've faced. It must be incredibly difficult to deal with such significant changes, especially later in life. It's important to fight for what we love, but it's equally important to ensure that what we're fighting for is not detrimental to our well-being. Sometimes the advice to leave a toxic situation is given with the intention of protecting you from further harm, though it can come with its own set of challenges. It's never too late to seek out community support or to build new relationships that can bring comfort and companionship. Please know that your feelings are valid, and it's okay to seek a second opinion if you're unsure about the advice you've been given. Your strength is evident in your survival, and I hope you find peace and a sense of community in the times ahead.
Psychopaths do not know how to apologize.
@@NarcPedialove or not love its very miserable to stay in a castle with a narcissistic person..
They pretend a lot
Choices and consequences.
Period.
Take responsibility and accountability for choices.
Absolutely, choices and their consequences are at the heart of our experiences. Taking responsibility and being accountable for our actions is key to personal growth and healthy relationships. It's a powerful stance that can lead to a greater understanding of ourselves and how we interact with others. Thank you for emphasizing such an important principle. It's a straightforward yet profound reminder for us all.
How do you match this with the fact that they forget you? You don't exist anymore, so how can they struggle with the memory of you if you are simply erased from his brain?
That's a great question. Narcissists are known for their ability to 'discard' and seemingly forget their victims, but this often isn't about forgetting as much as it is about control and manipulation. They may act as if they've forgotten to induce feelings of worthlessness in their victims. Remember, their actions reflect their own insecurities and failings, not your worth. If you're dealing with this situation, it's crucial to focus on your own healing and self-care. Thank you for your insightful comment.
@@NarcPedia Thank you for your prompt .answer. Fortunately it is an old story, the worst is gone.
Also my father was a malignant narcissist as soon as he passed the devil sent a younger version of my father God forgive for unequally yoking myself to a unbeliever I'm just glad God made a way for me to leave thank you Lord Jesus 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It's a profound journey you've been on, and it's inspiring to hear how your faith has been a guiding light for you, especially through such difficult times. It's wonderful that you've found the strength and support to leave a toxic situation. Your gratitude towards your faith and the role it played in your liberation is moving. May you continue to find peace and strength in your beliefs, and may your path forward be filled with hope and healing. Thank you for sharing your experience, and God bless. 🙏🏾
It's so true - as hard as it is: if you take them back they can't help but to fall back into their grandiose, entitled state of being. IT WILL ONLY BE WORSE!!!!! THEY WILL LEAVE YOU IN EVEN WORSE SHAPE than you find yourself right now. I had to LIVE IT to heed the warnings of these podcasters.... it's truly the way it works 😞
Your experience speaks volumes, and it's a potent reminder of the cycle that can occur when dealing with individuals who have narcissistic tendencies. It's often only through living through these experiences that the full weight of the situation becomes clear. Your emphasis on the inevitability of returning to toxic patterns is a stark warning to others who might be contemplating giving their narcissistic partner another chance. Thank you for sharing your story. It's a brave and helpful act that may guide others in their decision-making. I hope that sharing your journey here brings you a sense of solidarity and support. Remember, you're not alone, and you've taken a huge step in your healing process by recognizing and accepting these hard truths. Stay strong. 🙏
Excellent video thank for sharing I have see them suffer in my dreams and in real. Devine plans is the best plan one must trust and be patient God and His timing unfolds miracles! Trust Gods plans!
Thank you for your encouraging comment! It's heartening to hear that you've found value in the video. Your faith in divine timing and the belief that patience will lead to miracles is a powerful sentiment. It's a beautiful reminder that trusting in a higher plan can bring us peace and hope, even in the face of adversity. May your path continue to be guided by such trust and patience.
I gave everything for my narc ex..it was like pouring tea to a leaked cup...i was exhausted, i tried my best to please her..but at the end, she discarded me brutally..i called her, she was pretending like i was stranger in front of her new supply.. disgusting creature
I'm sincerely sorry to hear about the pain you've been through. It sounds like you've had a very challenging experience, and it's important to remember that you're not alone. Your feelings are valid, and it's okay to grieve the loss of the relationship. But also remember, her actions do not define your worth. You deserve respect and kindness. Stay strong, focus on self-care, and continue to move forward. We're all here supporting you.
Oh yes they will find empathetic people over & pver; they've made a career of this. My ex had some before me and now has moved his game into the church. They don't have a problem lowering their standards as they age out.
It's quite disheartening to see such patterns continue, especially when they infiltrate spaces that are meant to be safe and nurturing, like a church. Narcissists often have a knack for seeking out empathetic individuals who they perceive as easy targets for their manipulative behaviors. It's concerning that they adapt and perhaps even refine their strategies over time, without regard for the values and sanctity of certain environments.
Your ex's willingness to 'lower their standards' is a reflection of their need to seek out whatever supply they can, regardless of the context. This behavior is unfortunately a testament to the persistent nature of their tendencies.
It's important for communities, including churches, to be aware of such behaviors and to protect their members from potential manipulation. Your insight is valuable and could be a cautionary tale for others. Thank you for sharing, and may you find peace and strength as you move forward from that past relationship.
It's like you talking straight to me 🙏🏿
I'm so glad to hear that the content resonated with you on a personal level. It's my aim to provide insights and advice that can feel relatable and helpful. Your feedback is much appreciated and it encourages me to continue creating content that can make a positive impact. Thank you for tuning in and taking the time to comment. Stay strong! 🙏🏿
You're right on point please keep em coming
Same here 😂
I hate the video at first because Robo-voice, but I kept listening and it was wonderful and I realized you may need to protect your identity. God Bless you.
Freshly discarded 12/5/2023. 3rd Cycle and final cycle.
I appreciate your feedback and understanding regarding the use of the robo-voice. I'm glad that you found value in the content despite the initial impression. It's incredibly brave of you to share your experiences here. Remember, every end is a new beginning. Stay strong and continue to take care of yourself. You're not alone in this journey. Blessings to you too.
I think that they live in an imaginary world. She moved on but always asks for help. I have kids with her, so I am a permanent supply despite being discarded very harshly by that individual. I only wait and see what happens. They just smash everyhting and you have to build up everything again, thats the game.
I am interested in that one: Do you help her? Because that has to be difficult for you with a kind heart to say no... (For me personally it is ...).
@@IsabellaPiesch On the one hand yes she knows how to use my kindness. But in the most of the cases I do it for my children anyway she says, so she takes it for granted. Very difficult believe me
@@mehmetakif5842 I know.... Those people use your kindness big time... You have to set strong boundaries and just say no.
😲 WOW!! Sooo true..
All my sister had to say was "I'm sorry" 😞
It's amazing how powerful a sincere apology can be in mending relationships and healing wounds. Sometimes those two simple words can make a world of difference. It's unfortunate when they go unsaid and leave situations unresolved. Thank you for sharing your experience; it's a reminder to us all not to underestimate the impact of acknowledging our mistakes and seeking forgiveness.
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This is a unique perspective on narcissistic relationships. I feel it's divine ring of truth. Thankyou
I'm glad this perspective resonated with you and felt meaningful. Sharing insights that feel like they hold a 'divine ring of truth' is what I aim for in my videos. Your feedback is greatly appreciated. Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment!
9:04 right here. They led down a path that they realized they made a messy discard. 😊
It sounds like you've had quite an experience! Remember, every situation, even the challenging ones, can lead to growth and new insights. I'm glad to hear that you're in a better place now. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Stay strong and keep smiling! 😊
Is it supposed to be a comfort? Who cares? I'm free from caring what him or his friends think.
Congratulations on reaching such a liberating stage in your journey! It's incredibly empowering when you realize that you're free from the opinions and judgments of others, especially those who've caused you harm. Your comment is a testament to your strength and resilience. Keep prioritizing your peace and happiness. Your experience and mindset can certainly inspire others who are in similar situations. Thank you for sharing!
The exact same detention was done with me, the story seems so much like mine, now hoovering me non stop
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a challenging time. It's important to remember that you're not alone in this. Many people have experienced similar situations and have found ways to cope and heal. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the 'hoovering' attempts, consider seeking support from trusted friends, family, or a mental health professional. Remember, it's okay to prioritize your own well-being and to set boundaries. Stay strong, and thank you for being a part of this community.
You just told my story!
I'm really sorry to hear that you've experienced something similar. It's incredibly brave of you to acknowledge it and share here. Please remember, you're not alone in this. Your journey, strength, and resilience can inspire many others who are going through similar situations. Stay strong and keep going!
If they did, I didn't exactly notice.
Thank you for your comment. It's completely normal not to notice certain behaviors, especially when dealing with something as complex as narcissism. The important thing is that you're now aware and can use this knowledge moving forward. Stay informed and take care!
Thank you for reminding me that I do have a beautiful spirit!
You're absolutely welcome! Your beautiful spirit is your power.
Thank you again for your knowledge❤️
You're so welcome❤️
One of the most incredible pieces of strength I have encountered. Thank you so much.
I'm deeply touched by your comment, thank you! It's heartening to hear that my content could convey such strength. Your support is a huge encouragement for me to keep creating content that hopefully makes a positive impact. Thank you for being part of this journey!
@@NarcPedia you really don't know how much I needed to hear that considering what I'm going through right now. Thank you again.
I have to say it's like you are describing the situation and myself exactly. I wish more than anything I could have helped her and her son. I feel sorry for that kid.
It's incredibly tough to come to terms with the realization that despite our best efforts, we can't always help everyone-especially in a situation involving a narcissist. Your empathy for her son is a testament to your caring nature. Thank you for sharing your feelings. Take comfort in the community here, and know you're not alone in these feelings.
This is spot on Karma and Reap What You Sow My ex's and The Whole Family wants me to PAY THE ULTIMATE PRICE
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough situation. It's never easy dealing with the aftermath of a relationship, especially when it involves family dynamics. Remember, you're not alone, and it's important to surround yourself with a support system that believes in your worth and respects your perspective. Take care of yourself and stay true to what you know is right for you. The concept of 'reaping what you sow' applies to everyone, including your ex and their family. Stay strong.
@NarcPedia Amen to that. I am The Chosen One. My work (inmates @ Pilgrims Pride has wanted me to pay the price for what my sister's whole family and ex's whole family has done years ago. All of this is very real and they are being very MUM about The Price Loop of all flying monkeys
He used me for sex, humiliated me and my son. He dismissed my concerns and continued talking about divorce and dating under his control.
I’m stronger now. I’ve peaked their motive.
This is 100 % true. I had this experiences . I can relate I am so amazed by this video
I'm truly grateful that you found the video relatable and that it resonated with your own experiences. It's always my hope that by sharing knowledge and stories, we can feel less alone in our struggles and more empowered to move forward. Your amazement is the highest compliment, and I'm so thankful for your engagement. Please continue to take care of yourself, and know that you're not alone on this journey.
Yes he wil REGRET it
Very good video. I needed to hear this ❤
I'm so glad to hear that you found the video helpful! It's comments like yours that keep me motivated to continue sharing these insights. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Thank you for your kind words. Take care!
Everything you said resonates so well.
I'm really glad to hear that the content resonates with you. It's important to feel understood and know that your experiences are valid. Thank you for your feedback!
Wow, what she said, it was as if I went for a personal counceling session..
All resonated with me...
In a way narcissist's actions are very predictable, almost universal..
If you learn about the patterns, you can protect yourself from further pain, and set the way free for personal growth.
I told myself not to become bitter, not to feel hate..
Because as you see it in a bigger picture..we invited them in our lives, perhaps as a pre-birth planning..
Nothing happen without a reason....
Thank you for sharing your insights. It's truly powerful to see how understanding the patterns of narcissistic behavior can lead to personal growth and protection. Your perspective on not becoming bitter and seeing this as a part of a larger life journey is very inspiring. It's a testament to your strength and resilience. I'm glad the video resonated with you and provided some helpful insights. Thank you for being a part of this community and for contributing to the conversation with your wisdom.
Thank you for this video. The message in it, is exactly what i needed to hear
I'm truly grateful to know that the video provided you with the message you needed. It's always my hope that the content will reach those who need it most, at the moment they need it. If there's anything more you'd like to learn or discuss, please feel free to share. Thank you for watching, and take care on your path forward.
Thank you I needed to hear this 😢
I'm glad the video resonated with you. Remember, you're not alone and it's okay to seek support when needed. Stay strong and take care of yourself. Thanks for watching and sharing your feelings.
Excellent video presentation about a tough topic.
Thank you!
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you found the video helpful. It's my aim to shed light on such important issues. Stay tuned for more content. Take care!
My ex is a cancerous narcissist, almost a decade of gaslighting had me thinking rather unclear. We had a beautiful child together before she completely lost her mind. She slipped back into "old habbits" months later and left me and our child once I took notice and confronted her. I now work full time and raise our child alone. She sold my info to junkies who I used to live by, and they robbed my house one morning after I left for work. I personally went out looking for my shit after arranging a sitter. I recovered some items, the name of the "man" who did it, and information from several different parties implicating my ex as the orchestrater. I used to think she was so beautiful, I couldn't ever picture a life without her. What a cruel disgusting relm to foster such a parasitic relationship.
I'm deeply sorry to hear about the hardships you've been facing. The situation you've described is incredibly challenging. It's admirable that you're working hard to provide for your child and create a safe environment for them. Please remember to also take care of your own mental health during this difficult time. It could be beneficial to seek professional counseling to help navigate your feelings and this complex situation. You're stronger than you think, and I believe in your resilience. Stay strong.
@@NarcPedia Thank You For Your Kind Words. My Life Completely Changed The Moment I Looked Into My Child's Eyes, For The Better. I Won't Ever Let My Family Down
He actually left me for another woman after a bad argument over his dogs tearing my house up now he’s posting her none stop and he looks happy how do I know ? Friends keep telling me 🤦🏽♀️ I haven’t went to look but every other week he comes to my TikTok page or view my stories this is the worse heartbreak ever and I keep dreaming of him I never want to date an narcissist again
I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. Heartbreak is indeed tough, especially when it involves a complex situation like this. It's important to remember that social media often portrays an idealized version of reality. Focus on your own healing and personal growth during this time. It's okay to take time for yourself, and remember, it's always okay to seek professional help if you need it. You're stronger than you think, and with time, things will get better. Thank you for sharing your story. Stay strong.
Thank you I am grateful for your support.
You're very welcome! I'm glad I could provide some support through my videos. Stay strong and keep moving forward.
❤ 😢 so true thank you 🙏🏽
I'm really glad that you found the content helpful and resonated with it. Your support means a lot. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Stay strong! 💪🙂
The most high God Almighty command's you to forgive them for your sake. He says if you can't forgive their trespass against you. Your heavily father won't forgive you! 🫵🏾 So forgive them from far away!!! ❤️🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing your perspective. Forgiveness can indeed be a powerful tool for personal healing. It's important to note that forgiving doesn't mean forgetting or going back to a toxic situation. Your advice about forgiving from afar is insightful. Let's continue to support each other on our journeys. Stay strong.
thank you so much❤️✌️
You're very welcome! ❤️✌️ I'm glad you found value in what I shared.
Yes mines set me up and I went to jail. And he didn't care.
I'm really sorry to hear about your experience. It sounds very tough and I commend you for your strength to share it here. Remember, it's important to surround yourself with positive influences who genuinely care for your wellbeing. Stay strong and keep moving forward.
❤❤❤❤🥰 Amen Beautiful. God Bless ya help many see in Jesus Name 😉🔥🙌☝️🌞🤗
Thank you so much for your kind words and blessings! I'm truly glad if the content can offer guidance and clarity. May your journey continue to be filled with light and understanding. God bless you too, and here's to helping others find their way. 🙏❤️
Yes 9 months discarded me all right❤
I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Please know that being discarded says more about the narcissist's inability to form healthy relationships than it does about your worth. Take this time to heal and focus on self-care. You are stronger than you think and you will get through this. Sending you lots of strength and positivity. ❤️
Mine discarded me nine months ago too but I think he’s been secretly veting women behind my back and found someone while discarding me. I’ve been sad but I shook it off and I’ve been in a better head space since. I’ve gotten so much accomplished. I raised my credit. toned my body and I’m In the middle of changing my career. I turned my pain into fortunes and I’m still not done.
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They end up with somebody right away because they were already dating them
Indeed, unfortunately, it's not uncommon for narcissists to move on quickly, often because they've already started a new relationship before ending the previous one. It's a painful reality for the person left behind. Remember, it's important to focus on your own healing and wellbeing. Your insights are valuable and will surely resonate with others going through similar situations. Thank you for sharing your perspective.
I gave him so many opportunities and all hebdid was hurt me over and over now il done Karma will get him back
I'm truly sorry to hear about your painful experience. It's hard when we extend trust and love to someone only to be hurt repeatedly. You've shown great strength and resilience in deciding to prioritize your own wellbeing. Remember that it's okay to put yourself first and seek happiness. Healing takes time, but each day is a step forward. Your courage and determination are commendable. Stay strong, and remember there are people who care for you. Thank you for sharing your story.
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All this while narcissistic abuse happens is sickening.
Thank you for your comment. I completely agree with you. Narcissistic abuse is indeed a distressing issue that can have profound effects on individuals and relationships. It's crucial to raise awareness about this and provide support for those who are dealing with it. Let's continue to educate ourselves and others on this matter and work towards a healthier society.
Daniel 2:47 God, surely you are the God of gods and the Lord of kings and the revealer of mysteries.
Thank you for sharing. It seems that faith plays a significant role in your journey and understanding of life's complexities. I appreciate your contribution to this community. 🙏
Makes my life better.
I'm really glad to hear that the video has had a positive impact on your life. That's exactly what I aim for. Thank you so much for sharing your feedback. It truly inspires me to keep creating more content. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
Nobody’s perfect 🔥❤️🔥
Absolutely! We all have our strengths and weaknesses, and it's essential to remember that while we strive for growth and improvement. Thank you for your insightful comment and for reminding us of our shared humanity. ❤️🔥
Thx
You're welcome! I'm glad you found the video helpful.
Karma is real ❤❤
Absolutely, I couldn't agree more! The belief in karma can be a source of comfort, especially in tough situations. It's a reminder that everyone will eventually face the consequences of their actions. Thank you for your comment, and stay strong. Your positive outlook is inspiring! ❤️
@@NarcPedia Thank you for your sweet words, keep up the good work, I am also doing the same thing you are doing 💕
Well, mine isn't crazy and suffering - she's gone on to have a great life. I mean, I'm glad I'm out, but it would have been nice to see her get some karma .....
I understand your feelings. It can be tough to see someone who has caused you pain seemingly move on without any repercussions. However, remember that your journey and healing are not contingent on their karma. Focus on your own growth and happiness. You've taken a big step by getting out of a toxic situation and that's something to be proud of. Stay strong and keep moving forward. Your resilience is your greatest strength.
I am curious what your view of religious narcissists is. I was involved with one who ironically was a member of the clergy- ironcially he did not see or at least admit to me, any discrepancy between his outward personal and his inner reality of how he treated me. I felt that he used religion as yet another tool to dismiss and to hurt me. I tried so hard to reach him…even his religous friends I found were dangerous enablers.
Religious narcissists can be particularly challenging because they often wield a form of authority or moral superiority that can make their narcissistic behaviors even more damaging. It's especially disheartening when these behaviors are masked by religious leadership, as it can create a significant discrepancy between their public persona and private actions. Using religion as a tool for manipulation is a way for them to justify their actions and maintain control.
It's unfortunate but not uncommon to find that individuals within the same community may enable this behavior, often unknowingly. It's important to protect yourself in such situations and to seek support from those who recognize the toxic dynamics at play.
Your efforts to reach him were commendable, but it's important to remember that change must come from within, and you are not responsible for someone else's unwillingness to see or address their harmful behavior. I hope you have found or will find the support you need to heal from this experience. Thank you for sharing your story; it's a powerful reminder to others in similar situations that they are not alone.
@@NarcPedia thank you! the whole experience has been devastating to me as I truly trusted and loved him.
Christian Covert Narcissist male or female, but far more manipulative, revered and trusted are those in highly respected positions of power ( government, judges, law enforcement, pastors, police, fire, counselors, teachers, etc. ) and by far much harder to expose their true façade and agenda to achieve their own fulfilment, desires, pleasure, advancement and momentary feeling of power over you. Once you have been devalued and discarded without ANY REMORSE! They have simultaneously replaced you with another weak, empathetic, eagerly giving victim to suck the very life out of your heart and soul to fulfill their short lived, never able to fill, black, empty, abyss, heartless hole of a soul of their inherently devil being! They will Always and Forever leave behind them a wake of discarded, broken, destroyed, depressed, empty heartless and souls endlessly searching for closer, understanding, sanity, peace and desperate for anyone to trust and believe in again. Someone to love them as they so desperately desire in return. God help us all!
Have a look at Christ’s view of religious narcissists, read Matthew chapter 23. I am sorry for your experience it can be a major trial to encounter these hypocrites, but read James 1:12 and hold on to your faith. These narc tares in the weekend religious system are just a trial God allowed us to go through.
Lord if the one i love is a narcissist then please help me and give me strenght to walk away and let go and move on with my life. 🙏🙏🙏
Amen.
Seeking strength to make difficult decisions is a brave step. It's important to trust in that inner voice guiding you towards what is healthiest for your well-being. May you find the courage and support you need to walk away from what harms you, and the resilience to move forward towards a brighter, more peaceful future. Remember, you're not alone in this journey-there are many who understand and can offer support. 🙏 Take care and be strong.
@@NarcPedia Amen and thankyou🙏🙏🙏
NO, IT DOESNT MAKE THEM CRAZY & SUFFER
Thank you for your comment. Indeed, it's a complex issue and responses can vary greatly from one individual to another. Some might not feel remorse or suffer after discarding someone, while others might. The key is understanding that the person on the receiving end of such behavior is not at fault and deserves respect and kindness. Your perspective adds important nuance to this discussion, and I appreciate your input.
@@NarcPedia That was nice. The receiver should have passed! 🏉
He is toxic and evil!!!
I really liked this ❤
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm really glad to hear that you liked the video. It's my goal to provide helpful and supportive content. Your positive feedback means a lot to me. Stay tuned for more videos! ❤️
With that PN, I got one experience and lesson .
Life insurance s experience, of course , it there was a good experience, it would be too .
But that is Life .
It's so true that every experience, even the difficult encounters with personalities like narcissists, can teach us valuable lessons. It's like life insurance-investing in our personal growth through these challenges. Thank you for sharing your insight. Keep embracing all that life has to offer!
She threatened me to call the police
I will never thank them for my evolution. I thank Yahweh
Thank you for sharing your perspective. Everyone has different ways of processing experiences and attributing their personal growth. It's wonderful that your faith provides you strength and enlightenment. Stay strong and keep faith!
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Why after so long do i wake up out of a dead sleep, thinking about him? He doesn't want anything to do with me & yet he wakes me up in the wee hours of the morning on a telepathic level.
I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing this. It's not uncommon to have intrusive thoughts or dreams about someone who has had a significant impact on our lives, especially if the relationship was intense or ended abruptly. It's part of the healing process. Try to redirect your thoughts when you wake up - focus on your breathing, do a short meditation, or think about something that brings you peace. Over time, these occurrences should lessen. Remember, healing takes time and it's okay to seek professional help if you're finding it hard to cope. You're not alone in this journey. Stay strong.
I'm at the point that I can't stand being around my husband now I just want out now it may sound crazy but it seems I'm healing while with him until I can get he hurted me our kids to bad our are grown but they deal with him I'm never looking back ever again I can't
I'm really sorry to hear about the struggles you're currently facing. It's incredibly brave of you to express your feelings and the decision to prioritize your well-being. Remember, it's okay to seek help and take steps towards your safety and peace of mind. Your strength and resilience are commendable. Stay strong and take care of yourself. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
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Where do you get this info from if I may ask?
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I did end up in jail.
I'm truly sorry to hear that you went through such a difficult and distressing experience. It's important to remember that you are not defined by these challenging moments, and there is always a path forward. Thank you for your openness, and I wish you strength and hope on your journey ahead.
This is a extended fairy tale
Thank you for your comment. Everyone is entitled to their viewpoint, and I appreciate your honesty. If you have specific concerns or areas you believe could be improved, I'd love to hear more. I'm always open to constructive feedback to make my content better and more relatable.
I’m. Single ❤😊❤. Best wishes for you
Best wishes for you too.
I broke up with the narcissist before new year and he can't accept the fact I get tired....of him in all his lies he always have a strong belief to his self he can find a better than me after all my sacrifice...when he got tantrums is more than a kid.and still while we are in relationship and I'm busy by taking care of him trying to understand and still he needs more attention in different woman.his reason is his only bored so his looking for someone to talk.wow.and I can't handle anymore his fantasy..so I broke up and he can't accept that he threatened by posting a naked pic of me.which is he stole that.and ready sue him if he posted that....bcoz his a sick person evryhis drunk he climb in fence just to go out. Well thank God he give me strength to get out un that relationship...his old enough that's what I thought bcoz his 62 and I'm only 38...I can't imagine that there's a kind of people....give all ur love unconditional but they end its easy for them to forget the effort...
I'm really sorry to hear about the difficult situation you've been through. It sounds like you've had to endure a lot, and it's commendable that you've managed to break free from such a toxic relationship. Remember, it's important to prioritize your well-being and mental health. It's okay to seek help and support from professionals or loved ones during this time. Your strength and resilience are inspiring. Thank you for sharing your experience and for being a part of this community. I wish you continued strength and healing.
@NarcPedia thanks ma'am but yet not so healed but I'm trying to get a strength to my family...I know it's so hard but I have to help myself ..and complete my self steem...I keep watching in all your video it helps me a lot...thank u so much ❤️
I was the third one
Is it a sign that they are suffering? if like 4 wks ago they send me a memorable photo of us 2.
Thank you for your comment. It's hard to say definitively without more context, but sometimes people do reach out with memories when they're feeling nostalgic or missing someone. However, it's important to consider the overall context and your personal feelings about the situation. Please remember that this advice is general and may not apply to every individual case. You might want to seek professional help if you're feeling confused or overwhelmed. Take care!
U ain't nobody to discard me
I'm sorry if my content gave you that impression. My intention is not to discard anyone, but to provide information and support to those dealing with narcissistic behavior. I believe that every individual's feelings and experiences matter. Please know that your voice is heard and valued here. 😊
it's God and only God...He created the universe...the universe is not senscient
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's wonderful to see how faith can provide strength and guidance in difficult times. Let's continue to respect and learn from each other's beliefs and experiences. Stay strong and keep moving forward.
But oh well. Itʻs came from a narcissist point of view
Nope wrong again
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This is from a Zion video.