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🔴Things You Can Do That Will Make Narcissists Suffer And Leave You Forever | Narcissism | NPD
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In the content that I share on my videos, a common theme that frequently recurs is the futility of seeking vengeance on a narcissist. I've often emphasized that no matter how much you yearn for retaliation, it's always best to pick up the pieces and move forward with your life. I have also pointed out that harboring feelings of spite is ineffective, simply because one cannot possibly inflict the same level of harm on the narcissist as they have inflicted on you.
It's a battle that's virtually impossible to win. However, the above statements are not meant to imply that narcissists are impervious to pain. On the contrary, there are certain actions that can significantly hurt a narcissist, even if they don't outwardly show it. These actions can deeply wound them, leaving a lasting impact. In this discussion, I will be outlining some of these actions that can leave a narcissist hurt for a considerable length of time.
Hello everyone, welcome back to our channel! If this is your first time visiting us and you harbor a keen interest in understanding more about narcissistic abuse, I encourage you to subscribe right away. Also, if any queries arise as you navigate through this topic, please feel free to pose them anonymously. Now, without any further ado, let's delve deep into the subject matter at hand.
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🔴The Narcissist Discarded You But It Makes Them Crazy And Suffering! 👇🏼
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I don't wish to hurt them and get myself exhausted trying! They are not going to change unfortunately.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. While we can't force others to change, we can control our own responses and actions. Stay strong and take care of yourself. Your insight is valuable to this community. 😊🙏
Discernment
They don't change because it WORKS FOR THEM!!!!
Yes, it would waste your time.
I won't bend to their will!
Living well is the best revenge. Don't look back. That will drive them nuts as it is, and I suggest you do your very best to go on without them, because they never really have been thinking about what's best for you. It's time you did. ❤
Thank you for sharing such empowering advice. It's absolutely true that focusing on our own well-being is the best way to move forward. Living well and prioritizing our happiness is indeed the best 'revenge'. Your words will surely inspire others who are going through similar situations. Let's continue to support each other on this journey.❤️
When after some time had passed from leaving the narcissist I was contacted again. I didn't believe that I was missed but only that they were alone and lonely and that I was better than nothing. I might have been one of several on the list of ppl to call when needed. I'm so glad that information on narcissism is reaching the masses and becoming part of everyday discourse. Thank you.😀
I'm really glad to hear that you've found the strength to see the situation for what it truly is. It's often not about us, but about their inability to be alone. You're absolutely right, education on narcissism is essential and I'm happy to contribute to this discourse. Your strength and insight are inspiring. Stay strong and thank you for sharing your experience. 😊
This is spot on
You are just “supply “
1. ignore them
2. finding fault with them
3. rejecting them first
4. moving on
5. fear of being forgotten
6. move on with someone else
Do all of these without spite.
Now, go listen to an actual human speaking.
Thank you for your insightful comment. This can be a valuable guide for those navigating similar situations. Keep continue to share your wisdom!
have done first 4 in the last week so far
What hurts a Narcissist is not giving them any emotions and the silent treatment. Don’t take any of their emotions seriously, crush their emotions in a matter of fact way. If you do this please please never let them back in or trust them again.
Thank you for your comment. Your advice about maintaining emotional distance and avoiding re-engagement is a valuable perspective. It's always important to prioritize personal well-being and mental health in these situations. Thanks again for sharing your insights!
The best way to destroy a narcissist is block delete never go back pick yourself up take pride in your appearance do all the stuff they stopped from doing show them what they are missing never go back to a lit 🔥 firework you will get burt let drowned in there self pity remember your not a babysitter to these children and there problems never be a option YOU ARE AMAZING THATS WHY THEY WANT YOU BACK there is a reason there behind you because there not your future ❤
Your comment is full of empowerment and resilience, and I couldn't agree more. The best revenge is indeed to live a fulfilling and happy life, out of the narcissist's reach. Focusing on self-care and personal growth, and reminding ourselves of our worth are crucial in healing from a toxic relationship. Your words serve as a great reminder that everyone deserves respect, love, and happiness. Thank you for your encouraging and insightful words. Keep shining and stay amazing!
I will never hurt no person. I care for all humanity. I pray that God will continue to protect these people, healing them with a healthy mindset and to maintain peace and happiness for the rest of their lives. Thanks for this message. God bless. ❤
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful sentiment. Your compassion and empathy are truly inspiring. It's wonderful to see your care for humanity and your prayers for peace and happiness. I'm glad you found value in the message. May you also be blessed with peace, happiness, and good health. Take care, and keep spreading the love. ❤
"I will never hurt no person".........
If you don't set boundaries in every relationship, you become a doormat because people will start walking all over you. Even God has rules and boundaries, so why shouldn't we? After all, we're in his image? We can't let others trample our rigit's, that's what boundaries are for.
You don't want to hurt them, but also remember how they hurt their victims. Sometimes there comes a time for the silent treatment, so ignoring them is key when it's absolutely necessary. If you find someone is controthing and they constantly harass you at given opportunities when they have access to you, sometimes you just have to ignore them. When you must cut them out of your life, ignoring them is part of that process. There comes a time even the President must ignore people when it's absolutely appropriate.
@@user-el8nz4yu4t Your compassion and resilience are truly inspiring. It takes a lot of strength to hold onto empathy and kindness after going through such a difficult experience. I agree with you, causing suffering to others is not the solution. Instead, focusing on healing, understanding, and moving forward is the healthier approach. Your perspective will undoubtedly resonate with many and provide them with hope and strength. Thank you for sharing and wishing you continued peace and resilience.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
I'm really sorry to hear about your tough situation. Breakups can be incredibly painful, especially when you still have strong feelings for the person. It's normal to feel a sense of loss and to miss them dearly. While I can't provide professional advice, I would recommend seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional. Time and self-care are crucial during this healing phase. Remember, it's okay to feel the way you do and it's okay to seek help. Thank you for being brave and sharing your feelings here.
Who is she please?@DarylSimpson58
I would love to speak to the spiritual counselor too
The thing is most of us suffer from guilt when we critique them. As they answer with silence and withdrawal
Thank you for your thoughtful comment. It's completely normal to feel guilty in such situations, considering the emotional manipulation often involved. Remember, it's important to maintain healthy boundaries and prioritize your well-being. Stay strong and keep learning. We're here to support and guide you.
I wish 0 harm 4 most , BUT A NARC IS NOT WORTH MY LOVE N KINDNESS
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Dealing with narcissism can indeed be challenging. It's important that we strive to create a world where we respect and understand each other. Continuing deep discussions on this topic is crucial.
I blocked him and his flying monkeys, I do not want to see him, I ignore him, his continuous and relentless cheating did the work for me. I want him to forget me. I compare him to a kin cobra and to a mamba.
Devils in blue suede shoes .. CHAMELEONS. Shapeshifters. EVERY thing they say they ARE. They aren't. Keep getting educated AND stay Dedicated....❤
I'm really sorry to hear about your experience, but it sounds like you're taking strong steps to protect yourself, which is commendable. Comparing him to a king cobra and a mamba underscores the danger and toxicity you've experienced. Remember, it's important to keep focusing on your own healing and growth. Thank you for sharing your story, and I hope my videos can provide some help and comfort. Stay strong! ❤️
Do not seek vengeance or harbor bitterness, but awareness is absolutely critical. Remember they think nothing like you. They may not be impervious to pain, but their pain is different from yours. Narc. pain is self-absorbed, shame-based, & self-loathing versus broken hearted pain. Rejection or any corrective suggestion can cause disproportionate offense. Almost all the narcs. I know will get v. depressed, even if temporarily (again, self-absorption). When the mask slips, they not only can become extremely mentally abusive, you will not recognize them. They become psychological terrorists, but only to the particular designee of their angst. It is like a demonic takeover that only you get to witness. They lie, cheat, steal and exploit, yet they have zero self-awareness. Looking at self and the damage they have caused is too painful.
Thank you for sharing such a profound and detailed understanding of narcissistic behavior. Your insights are incredibly valuable and will certainly help others recognize and navigate similar situations. Awareness is indeed the key, and understanding these dynamics can help individuals protect their own emotional health. Remember, we're here to support and guide you through. Stay strong and keep sharing your insights.
@@user-el8nz4yu4t Your strength and compassion are truly admirable. I completely agree with you - the best response to such situations is not revenge or bitterness, but to focus on our own healing and personal growth. Your ability to wish well for your ex, despite everything, shows immense strength of character. I'm glad to hear you've found your freedom. Your story will undoubtedly inspire many who are in similar situations. Wishing you continued peace and happiness.
Yep! Happy for you. I am psychologically free as well.
All these things you have listed are ways that healthy people protect their own honour to deal with a Narc and it helps you grow and learn to love yourself.
Thank you for your positive feedback. You've highlighted an important point - dealing with challenging situations like these indeed helps us grow as individuals and learn to appreciate ourselves. It's a testament to our resilience and ability to protect our own honor. Lets continue this journey of self-love and growth together. Your contribution to this discussion is greatly appreciated.
@@user-el8nz4yu4t Thank you for sharing your perspective and experience. I completely agree that freeing oneself and going no contact can be a very effective way of dealing with a narcissist. The emphasis should always be on personal healing and moving forward, not on causing suffering. I apologize if any part of my video suggested otherwise. Your strength and resilience in overcoming such a difficult situation are truly commendable. I'm glad to hear you've found your freedom. Wishing you continued peace and strength.
Precisely. I’ve learned they do not care, self esteem or not. He still goes out and dates, bare backs spreading toxicity. These types DO. NOT. CARE! They do what they want to do and turn it around and blame YOU for the same when all YOU did was try. And in the end all you did was waste your energy and time expecting things like an apology or a WHY. It’ll never happen, so they do what they want when you ignore them. It’s best to walk away and heal from the harm they caused.
Thank you for sharing your personal experiences and insights. Your comment underscores the importance of understanding how narcissistic individuals operate. It's indeed a difficult journey dealing with such people who lack empathy and often cause harm without remorse. You're absolutely right - walking away, focusing on healing, and prioritizing our own well-being is often the best course of action. Your words will undoubtedly resonate with many and provide valuable perspective. Thank you for contributing to this conversation and helping others feel less alone in their experiences. Stay strong! 💪🙏
I left with no notice one night while he was out with a buddy. I can relate to much of what your video discusses about narcissistic injuries. I know I dealt him a huge blow, but he is already trying to move back into my life, afraid, and yet afraid not to be close to me. I am beginning to move on with someone else, and hoping that I can prevent my heart from ruining another good relationship for him.
I'm really sorry to hear about your difficult situation. It's very brave of you to take steps to protect your wellbeing. It's important to remember that it's okay to prioritize your happiness and mental health. Starting fresh can be challenging but also rewarding. Keep your focus on building a healthy relationship with your new partner and don't let past experiences dictate your future. You deserve happiness and peace. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
I had the same issue it’s called trauma bonding it’s something for you to look into so you can heal and have a happy relationship
I try to be very careful in assuming someone is a narcissist. I have met people who clearly are, some who definitely have some behaviors having lived with a narc and been victim themselves
Thank you for your thoughtful comment. I completely agree with you. Labeling someone as a narcissist shouldn't be done lightly. It's important to remember that people who exhibit narcissistic behaviors may be victims themselves, or they may be dealing with their own set of challenges. Let's continue to approach this topic with sensitivity and understanding. Your insights are very much appreciated.
I blasted a lot of the narc’s gaslighting statements on Facebook. We grew up in the same town and have a lot of mutual alumni friends. 3 of my favorites: 1. “When the narcissist comes home with herpes and accuses you of giving it to her.” 2. “When the narcissist says we’re going to separate and I’m still going to keep my marriage vows.”3. “We’re just going to separate until you get the help you need.” I have been completely no contact with the narcissist since December 15th. A friend of mine on Facebook, that can still see her profile said, “She has been conspicuously quiet on this format. I think that she knows that everyone knows that she is not a good person.”
Thank you for sharing your personal experience. It sounds like you've been through a lot. It's incredibly brave of you to call out these gaslighting tactics publicly, which can help others recognize similar patterns in their own lives. Going 'no contact' is often a difficult but necessary step towards healing. I hope you're taking care of yourself during this time. Remember, you're not alone, and this community is here for you.
I treated her like she treated me!
I only did it for a week because that is not who I am . It did feel.good the 1st couple of times but after that I felt dirty.
I did this to see if my girlfriend really was a narcissist because I had doubts.
I have doubts no more and it has helped me to move on!
Now I just have to honor myself with NO CONTACT!
I feel bad, she is ill, but I had to come to.the realizations that I can not help her! So sad!
It sounds like you've been through a difficult process of discovery and self-reflection. Mimicking someone's behavior to understand them better can be insightful, but it's commendable that you recognized it didn't align with your values. Choosing no contact is a brave step in prioritizing your well-being. It's normal to feel a mix of emotions, including sadness for her illness and the situation. Moving on is important, and honoring your need for no contact is part of that journey. Take pride in your strength to make tough decisions for your health and happiness. If you ever need support or want to talk, this community is here for you. Stay true to yourself.
Karma gets them. So much so it's hard to witness even if you're a victim.
Thank you for your comment. The concept of karma, where one's actions eventually come back around, is indeed a belief that many people find comforting. It can be difficult to watch someone face the repercussions of their actions, even if they've caused harm. Your empathy, even in such circumstances, speaks volumes about your character. Please remember that it's okay to distance yourself from negativity and focus on your own healing. Your input adds a thoughtful perspective to our discussion. Keep sharing your wisdom and stay strong! 💪🙏
After living 23 years with my covert narc ex, I finally figured out how to tiptoe back out of her minefield, and effectively , legally say "I Undo". Last August, I induced a situation that lead to her last discard. Since then, she has made multiple attempts at hoovering her way back to witch I block and ignore. She even showed up at the 8 month mark unannounced after driving the 750 mi. Distance, and my response was to contact the sheriff department, and have her escorted off the property with a no trespassing order. I'm now trying to sell my property, and plan to leave the continent entirely, learning a new language and disappear so far off grid that she will never find me. Even if she finds out where I've gone, she won't want to go there.
I'm truly sorry to hear about the struggles you've had to endure. It's a testament to your resilience and courage that you've been able to take such decisive steps to protect yourself and reclaim your life. Selling your property and moving to a new place sounds like a fresh start, and learning a new language is a great way to immerse yourself in a new culture. Remember, it's important to rebuild your life in a way that brings you joy and peace. I wish you all the best on your journey ahead. Stay strong and take care!
One thing I might add is if you have something going for you that maybe they might secretly want and you'll never know. They may pass it off as they may like something but would never use it when you have something better than they have. I happen to be a limousine fan and I've known some people in the industry over the years. If you know someone currently in the industry and maybe you know that one narc in your Outer Circle, you don't know what they met secretly be feeling when you get to go in a limousine and they don't, you know the owner and they don't. Or let's say you're dating that chauffeur. That narc may call your significant other "honey". You must remind them hey that's my honey and then the narc gets mad at you for standing up for what's yours, even if it was done in a friendly manner. I'm sorry but I don't want someone else calling my significant other "honey"! I'll bet you if she calls other people's mate honey, she probably steals them from others, which may actually raise the question if that person may happen to be a homewrecker. I can only wonder how many relationships especially marriages she broke up over the years
Thank you for sharing your personal experiences. It's certainly challenging when you have to deal with someone who doesn't respect boundaries or relationships. It's important to stand your ground and protect what matters to you. And yes, it's crucial to be aware of such behaviors and take appropriate action. These situations can be tough, but your courage in sharing helps others who might be in similar circumstances. I appreciate your insight.
Just say no to them each time. Say your busy and have other things on if they try to hoover you.
Your advice is spot on and it's a powerful reminder of the importance of setting boundaries. Saying 'no' can indeed be a powerful tool when dealing with attempts at manipulation. Thank you for your input and for encouraging others to prioritize their own well-being. Your contribution to this discussion is greatly appreciated.
@@NarcPedia its a pleasure. I think that saying no and then refusing to engage in argueing when they flare up is very disarming for a narcissist. They do not know what to do with it. If they start their reverse blaming, and their statements about how good they have been with you when you were growing up, to false guilt trip and shame you, etc, as a technique. Just say that you do not want to get into arguements and strife with them and that you do not feel the need to justify or explain yourself to them. Then go no contact with them. I think that this is the best way to avoid dicord, shouting and loss of personal peace when dealing with these victim narcissists. They make up the most pathetic of excuses imaginable. I am done with nonsense like this as it is not needed in my life or in yours for that matter. They treat you like rubbish incessantly so you get fed up and subtly point this out to them. They then become the victim and accuse you for their toxic behaviour which they have inflicted upon you when you stand up for yourself and set boundaries. Finally, they give you the silent treatment because they know they are wrong and will not apologise and stop their toxic behaviours. When you are at your most needy, they abandon you amd then make excuses for why they have done so. I am done with these clowns, I am not inteterested in them at all. They are not worth my time. They are disengenuous and deceive us all with their false personas.
I'm seeing a Psychologist now,.the Narc tried to break me! He is very seldom at home! I am moving on and getting better.There was too much Mental abuse! Thank you for sharing your video, much appreciated! Many thanks
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I'm sorry to hear about your experience, but it's truly inspiring to see your determination to heal and move forward. Seeking help from a psychologist is a great step towards recovery. I'm glad to hear that the video has been helpful for you. Remember, you're stronger than you think. Keep going, and take care!
Thank you so much! Your words mean a lot! No contact is no problem! I never needed her. I loved her with all of my heart and now she doesn’t get that privilege anymore! She discarded me. I can live with that.
You're welcome! It's great to see that you're embracing the no contact rule and recognizing your own worth. Loving someone deeply and then choosing self-respect after being discarded is a powerful testament to your strength. It's inspiring that you're able to move forward with such a positive mindset. Keep valuing yourself and the love you have to offer. Your heart is a privilege reserved for those who appreciate it. Stay strong!
9 Empowering Tactics to Make Narcissists Regret Everything They Have Done To You
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Just don't spend too much time pleading to God for change in the heart of a person who has no intention of seeking the same. God's on it, He knows what's up. Save yourself is what He's trying to tell you now. ❤
My theory is I am who I am I will NEVER EVER change who I am for anyone but I do have my days I'd like to lower my standards but then remind my self not to go to his level I dealt with a Narcissistic person for 30 yrs best way right now I ignore him completely!!! going through a divorce he wanted but now drags on I do not want to see hear or speak to him again I let my Attorney handle all...and yes he tried calling the other day out of the blue...didn't answer... everything being said in this video is SPOT ON!!!
Thank you for sharing your personal experience. It's incredibly brave of you to stand up for yourself and maintain your personal standards. Ignoring a narcissist can indeed be a powerful strategy. I'm glad you found the content of this video to be accurate and helpful. Stay strong and remember, you're not alone in this journey. Wishing you all the best in your ongoing situation.
I left two woman because of narcissistic behaviors. Now they have banded together to form an alliance to see that I suffer the consequences of leaving them. They now accuse me that I will hurt them and therefore are afraid of me. One has accused me of vandalizing her car, steal, vandalize her house. Called the cops on me. Has flying monkeys to make sure I don’t go on their streets as I’m driving, stalking. Pretty nasty woman.,
It's incredibly tough to face such a coordinated attack, especially when you've made the difficult decision to leave toxic situations. Remember to protect yourself legally and document any false accusations or harassment you may experience. It might also be beneficial to seek legal advice to ensure your rights are protected. Keep focusing on your well-being and maintaining distance from this negativity. Your resilience in such an adverse situation is admirable. Stay strong and take care.
@@NarcPedia -this is the answer I was looking for. I have thought about seeing the sheriff like they called on me. Wondering what to do. One of the sons was in prison. The other person’s son is missing. I thought I was kind to these women but they like to control people, narratives. Don’t want to hear any truths. What they’re doing is projecting. I am a very strong person. I go about my business even though they both like to get my goat. They’re like leeches. If you were by yourself in a lake and one attached itself to your back and you couldn’t get it off. As long as they have each other then they are strong as one. I ignore them. They have put me in a lower position where my dog craps. Their sons have been elevated….
Losing you is their karma 🙂
Thank you for your comment. Indeed, everyone faces the consequences of their actions at some point. Losing someone who cared for them due to their own harmful behavior could be considered as their karma. It's important for everyone to treat others with kindness and respect. Your insight is greatly appreciated.
DO THEY HAVE A HEART TO BE BROKEN???
No! They just have a set of muscles in their chest to pump blood.
Thank you for your comment. It's understandable to question the emotional capacity of individuals who display narcissistic behavior. However, it's important to remember that while they may struggle with empathy and genuine connection due to their condition, they are still human beings. The focus should be on understanding their behavior and protecting ourselves rather than diminishing their humanity. I appreciate your participation in this discussion, and I hope my content continues to be helpful to you.
I exposed his narcissist truth nature. This he said pained him more than anything he's ever experienced in past relationships
It must have been a difficult but necessary step to take. It's a brave thing to stand up against such behavior, and I hope you're taking care of yourself in the aftermath. Stay strong and continue to trust in your own judgment.
Well done, loved it.
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that you enjoyed the video. Your feedback means a lot and motivates me to continue making content that can help and inspire others.
You great and make much sense thank you
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm really glad to hear that the content is resonating with you. It's my goal to provide helpful and meaningful insights. Take care!
It is Very exhausting being them. That's why they sleep for days. From my experience..Narcos injury...😮
It's indeed exhausting to deal with the draining energy of those exhibiting narcissistic behaviors. Your insight adds a valuable perspective to the discussion. Stay strong!
@@NarcPedia 💞💞
I caught him on a dating site, and the same one that I met him on. I made a fake account took a screenshot of his pic. And I wrote liars and a cheater across the pic and sent it to him. I blocked him and changed my number, too. I AM DONE !
Your courage to stand up for yourself is admirable. Cutting off contact is a major step towards healing. Stay strong and focus on taking care of yourself. Thanks for sharing your experience.
@@NarcPediaThank you so much for sharing ❤️
I have blocked him for two weeks and proud of myself and found a new love I great again like I used to be
That's wonderful to hear! I'm so proud of you for taking steps to prioritize your mental and emotional health. Embracing new beginnings can be a powerful part of your healing journey. Continue to be strong and take care of yourself. Remember, you're deserving of love and respect. Keep moving forward and embrace all the positive changes in your life. Best wishes!
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I ghosted him for 2 months. He didn't like that and ended the relationship
It sounds like you took control of the situation by deciding to distance yourself. That's a brave decision to make, and it's not easy. Remember, if someone cannot respect your need for space, they may not respect other boundaries as well. Keep prioritizing your well-being. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Sometimes they do things to get you to force them to "pull the plug." They feel like they have to call the shots, and they want to look justified in doing it. How sick is that?? 🙄
Not giving him money that's number one
Don’t call them a narcissist,I did and he said that I was toxic and then the silent treatment. All of this is exhausting and you just want it all to end somehow, doesn’t matter how just end.
I'm really sorry to hear about your distressing experience. It's indeed exhausting dealing with such situations. Remember, it's okay to prioritize your mental and emotional health. Sometimes, walking away from toxic relationships can be the best thing we can do for ourselves. Please don't lose hope. There is help and support available, and things will get better. Take care of yourself.
@@NarcPedia Thank you so much 👩🏼🫶🏽🌹
Pretend they don't exist: that will irritate them!
Thank you for your suggestion. Ignoring can indeed be a powerful tool in dealing with narcissistic behaviors. It's always good to remember that our well-being should be our priority. I appreciate your input.
we went to couples counselling so she could characterize me as temperamental. Over the 4 year relationship we had a revolving door at my apartment.
Months later the therapist emailed to ask how I was doing. Completely emotionless I explained that I was doing fantastic after connecting the dots on a relationship with a covert narcissist. I copied the BLOCKED Vampire. Of course she’d leave the door open a crack by not BLOCKING ME.
Side note, she sees this therapist regularly to talk about the anxiety she has a student.
Because I saw an easy opportunity to expose her I could not resist. Because it’s the therapist I know it will cut deeply.
Thank you for sharing your personal experience. It sounds like you've been through a lot during and after your relationship. It's a strong step to recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior and take action to protect your emotional well-being. Stay focused on your healing journey, and remember it's okay to establish boundaries and prioritize your own mental health. Keep moving forward, and stay strong.
It's too late to start pretending
It's too late for a new beginning
Later than the sunset
Later than the rain
Later than never to love you again.
Your words carry the weight of both resignation and poetic reflection. It seems like you're expressing the finality of moving on from a relationship where chances for reconciliation have passed. It's a poignant acknowledgment that sometimes we have to accept the end of one chapter to begin another. Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt sentiment. May you find peace and a new beginning in your journey ahead.
What hurts narcissist deeply they will never experience love on this earth and that is very sad for her and as a human being and far as me go with her it permanently close I stand on this boundary and till king Jesus takes the air from this body that he created from dirt, Even though she makes calls different burners phone numbers I don't even entertain notions no more in my heart she needs to suffer as long God allow her live on earth and all evil acts she committed against her creater God o mighty and other people she hurt without remorse or empathy and that me includes me as well. My discernment is on now for any female narcissist and too tell you the truth I learn a lot of dealing with a narcissist and I got experience and that is a plus for me. And I will not let that horrible experience happen to me again because it is very painful process to go through for sure and amen to that and peace 🙏
We must set boundaries in every single relationship. After all, even God has boundaries and we're in His image. We can't let anyone trample our rights and walk all over us like doormats. Not even God is a doormat, neither should we be doormats. There comes a time we really need to enforce our boundaries, even if it requires ending a relationship if it's absolutely necessary and all else has failed. Sometimes you must ignore narcs when you realize something isn't right about someone and you just can't put your finger on it. Sometimes you must ignore them when they start trying to control you and even harass you. Years ago there was this woman who I kept sensing something about her just wasn't right and I just couldn't put my finger on it. She had a habit of being a bit controlling, and one time she got on my nerves so much to the point I had to become scarce and limit her access to me by making it as close to impossible for her to assess me as absolutely possible. One time I was eating with a friend at this one place where she worked as a volunteer. She started bothering us and I just ignored her. That's when she started raising her voice and even screaming and getting up in my face from across the table she should've stepped away instead of harassing me like she did. I knew she was there and I could hear her, but I didn't want nothing to do with her and I tried to get through it and I did to the best of my ability. We also attended the same church and I usually sat all the way to the back away from everyone. One time at home I wrote her a letter of explanation of the incident where she harassed me and why I was ignoring her. I let her know something about her has been wrong with her for years and I've always known but couldn't put my finger on it period of course it was to point some stuff out and to encourage her to take it to God whatever it was. All I know is something about her wasn't right and shortly after she got that letter is when she quit contributing Fried Chicken to our church dinners. Still today I have no contact with her, but she's friends with someone I know. When this potential narc found out I could cook a big huge salmon, they were on speaker and the narc was saying she didn't know I could cook. I replied back that she wasn't supposed to know! I don't know if they're still in contact, and I don't care as long as that problem child doesn't come my way. As far as I know, she ain't well anyway, and I think she pretty much stays home. I think but I'm not 100% sure. Anyway as long as she stays over there we'll get along great. Then there's another person I later realized was also a narc that now lives in a neighboring town. She doesn't seem to come here much, so she's not bothering no one over here that I know of. Once in awhile she may call my friend, but quickly end the call when my friend mentions I'm visiting her. I'm kind of glad the narc's car broke down though, I thank God took it off the road to stop whatever he saw that we couldn't. The car break down with a part going into the engine was a rather rare problem for that model of car this narc had. That's why I think it's possible that God could've taken it off the road. Whether he did or not, it serves her right for how she treated others, especially her passengers. She didn't want you touching nothing in the car, as though she had something to hide. She tried to say the car had electrical issues, but I think she was scared I'd find out the real truth because one time it was raining and what's the first thing we do? Roll up the window. Well, by natural instinct that's exactly what I did and this narc screamed at me for 5 minutes give or take. She didn't move fast enough to be able to roll up that window to possibly prevent water from getting in the door and causing more problems. Now I wonder if that car ever had even near the issues she was claiming. I tend to think there we're more likely to be mechanical issues and not so much electrical. I think she might possibly have had a habit of lying, and maybe she had something to hide for all I know. I just don't know, but she decided to move on and I'm fine with that. She hasn't tried to re-enter my life because she now has new supply
Thank you for sharing your perspective! Setting boundaries is indeed crucial for our well-being, and it's interesting how you've navigated challenging situations. It takes strength to recognize when someone may not be a positive influence and to take steps to protect yourself. Your story about the woman from your church and the other person in the neighboring town highlights the importance of self-care and being aware of toxic dynamics. It's great that you've found ways to maintain distance from those who may not contribute positively to your life. If anyone else has had similar experiences, feel free to share your thoughts and strategies for dealing with such situations. We can all learn from each other's experiences. 😊
They already are empty inside
Your comment underscores the deep emotional void that is often associated with narcissism. It's a complex and challenging issue. It's important for everyone dealing with such situations to remember to protect their own emotional well-being. Thank you for sharing your insights.
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Thank you! I'm glad you found the content helpful. Your feedback is greatly appreciated!
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Self Worth, Self Respect Matters. Its Going To Be Painful, But The Choices And Decisions That We Make Bears Responsibilities And Lessons To Impart.
Well said! Self-worth and self-respect are indeed foundational to making healthy choices, even when those choices are difficult. The pain is often a part of the growth process. Each decision carries with it the weight of responsibility and the potential for valuable lessons. Thank you for highlighting the importance of taking ownership of our choices and the learning that comes with them. Keep valuing yourself and moving forward with courage.
It's hard to do but completely ghost without warning. Do not answer their calls. Then wait for all the crazy text messages. DO NOT RESPOND. Enjoy the show. 😅
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's clear that you're recommending a course of action that worked for you. Let's continue to support each other in this community!
It's best to make boundaries and distance hurts them
Thank you for your comment. You're absolutely right. Setting clear boundaries is a crucial step when dealing with a narcissist. It not only helps protect your own well-being, but also sends a clear message that their manipulative behavior won't be tolerated. Stay strong and keep maintaining those boundaries.
NOT WORTH THE TIME OR ENERGY!!
ONCE EXPOSED, AWAKENED…. MOVE FORWARD AND THANK THE UNIVERSE FOR ANOTHER CHANCE TO LIVE YOUR BEST & INTENDED LIFE 🕊❤️🙏
Thank you for your empowering words. It's important to remember that moving forward and focusing on living our best life is key after such experiences. Your perspective is highly appreciated. ❤️
Break a heart? They don't have one.
Thank you for your comment. It's true that narcissists can often seem heartless due to their lack of empathy. However, it's important to remember that narcissism is a personality disorder, and those who suffer from it often struggle with deep-seated issues. It's always helpful to approach the topic with understanding and a desire to learn more. Let's continue to learn and grow together on this journey.
@@user-el8nz4yu4t I appreciate your feedback and I'm sorry if any part of my video gave the impression that I'm promoting causing harm. My intention was to encourage understanding of narcissistic behavior to better protect ourselves and set boundaries. I certainly do not endorse causing suffering to anyone. The focus should always be on healing and growing as individuals. I apologize if my message was unclear, and I will strive to communicate more clearly in future. Thank you for bringing this to my attention.
@@NarcPedia I have very serious issues too, but I do not go out and heartlessly and intentionally destroy another person's life.
The characterisristics of the narcissists that you discussed is the same characteristics that our pastor possesses nowadays. If a Christian is showing the behavior of a narcissist what do you them in a Christian word?
It's indeed challenging when someone who is in a position of leadership or trust exhibits characteristics of narcissism. In Christian terminology, such a person might be referred to as a "false prophet" or "wolf in sheep's clothing". These terms are used to describe individuals who may outwardly appear righteous but are actually deceiving others for their own benefit. It's important to approach such situations with wisdom and discernment. If you're uncomfortable with your pastor's behavior, consider seeking counsel from a trusted mentor, elder, or another spiritual leader. Thank you for your question.
Your video advice is brilliant but why use a robot voice? Spoils it for me .
it's easier making voice with AI, and also my accent is worse than a robot's. Hopefully it's not a problem for you. Thank you for your comment.
Please I would like to hear a deferment relationship not always husband/ wife. Eg,mother and son relationship
Thank you for your suggestion. It's important to cover all types of relationships when discussing narcissism. I appreciate your interest in seeing content about other relationships, such as between a mother and son. I'll certainly consider this for future videos. Please continue to share your valuable insights and ideas. Thank you!
My xnarcs flying monkeys that i also went no contact..and who used to be my friends that I had introduced to my xnarc when we were dating are starting to reach out to me. It's been a month since my x has tried to contact me. I'm curious how this is gonna play out....flying monkeys are feeling guilty...i can tell. I have only answered them back with shallow friendly hello's...how are you...time shall tell...lol
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It's understandable that you're curious about how things will unfold. It sounds like you're handling the situation with grace and wisdom, maintaining boundaries while still being polite. Remember, it's important to prioritize your well-being above all. Keep going strong and trust in time to reveal the best course of action. We're here for you in this journey. Take care!
This AI goes hard on trying to convince people its real...😂😂😂
Narcissists have a heart?
Thank you for your comment. It's a valid question. They often prioritize their own feelings and needs over others. This can make it seem like they don't have a heart, especially in interpersonal relationships.
L&L narcissist person ❤️☝️🙏
Thank you for your comment. It's not always easy to love and live with a narcissist, but your comment suggests that you're finding a way. Please remember to take care of your own emotional health as well. Your courage and strength are admirable.
What heart?!
Of course their hearts😊
Aren't you creating stalkers by ignoring narcissists?
Thank you for bringing up this concern. My advice to ignore narcissists is not intended to provoke stalking behavior, but rather to encourage individuals to protect their emotional well-being by distancing themselves from toxic relationships. However, every situation is unique and safety should always come first. If you feel that ignoring a narcissist may escalate the situation dangerously, then by all means, seek professional advice and take appropriate actions for your safety. I appreciate your input and will make sure to clarify this in future content.
computer generated voice
Thank you for your comment. I understand that computer-generated voices may not be as engaging as human voices. I'll take your feedback into consideration for future videos. Your input is greatly appreciated!
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I Love your content you are a BLESSING to many plus we are all adults and if someone has a problem with occasional swearing. that's personal problem FUCK EM probably a jealous hating ass Narc lol but all jokes aside your channel is food for the soul knowledge is Power keep doing what you are doing and ignore the critical haters remember Jesus has haters also Much love and Support.
Thank you so much for your support and kind words! It's comments like yours that keep me motivated to continue sharing and creating content. I appreciate your understanding about the occasional swearing - I believe it's important to express ourselves authentically. Your encouragement means the world to me. Let's keep learning and growing together. Sending much love back to you! ❤❤❤
No MF doubt
What hurts narcissist deeply they will never experience love on this earth and that is very sad for her and as a human being and far as me go with her it permanently close I stand on this boundary and till king Jesus takes the air from this body that he created from dirt, Even though she makes calls different burners phone numbers I don't even entertain notions no more in my heart she needs to suffer as long God allow her live on earth and all evil acts she committed against her creater God o mighty and other people she hurt without remorse or empathy and that me includes me as well. My discernment is on now for any female narcissist and too tell you the truth I learn a lot of dealing with a narcissist and I got experience and that is a plus for me. And I will not let that horrible experience happen to me again because it is very painful process to go through for sure and amen to that and peace 🙏
It's clear you've been through a profound and painful experience, and you've come to a place of firm resolution. Holding onto your boundaries is crucial, and it's a sign of strength to stand by them, especially in the face of persistent attempts to reconnect. It's also compassionate to recognize the sadness in the fact that a narcissist may never truly experience love. Your journey has given you wisdom and discernment, which are invaluable tools as you move forward in life. Learning from such experiences can indeed be a plus, as you've mentioned. May your newfound strength and knowledge protect you and guide you towards healthier relationships. Amen to finding peace and continuing on with the lessons learned. 🙏 Take care of yourself and stay true to your boundaries.