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    Hello, everyone! Welcome back to our channel. We're so glad you're joining us today. We've prepared an insightful discussion for you, The topic is “Things That Will Make Narcissists Regret And Trigger Them To Want You Back”. We hope this video will provide you with clarity and empowerment. Let's dive right in!
    Narcissists often have a skewed perception, failing to recognize the worth of others until it's too late. This can manifest as a harsh dismissal where they belittle and make you feel unwanted. It's perplexing how, after pushing you away following a shared relationship, they begin to revalue you.
    The revaluation generally happens because we, as empaths, are chosen. Not every past connection is revalued by the Narcissist, but as empathetic individuals, we stand out. Some may argue that thinking we're superior is narcissistic. However, considering the malicious people in the world, those causing harm without remorse, we indeed stand above.
    We strive to do our best, filled with love and kindness, and avoiding harm to others. It's unfortunate that we often get intertwined with toxic individuals. The world is filled with narcissistic, toxic people who cause harm and engage in destructive activities. If we, as empaths, abstain from such activities, we indeed stand above.
    Emphasizing our empathetic abilities after a harsh dismissal can lead to an awakening, a natural progression. Being chosen and empathetic is not a flaw but a strength. We, as people, are held in higher regard due to our empathetic nature, setting us apart from the rest.
    #Narcissist #Narcissism #NarcissisticAbuse #ToxicRelationships #MentalHealth #NPD #Psychology
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 62

  • @Phil..._
    @Phil..._ 7 місяців тому +20

    Move forward not backwards. You're worth much more

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      Absolutely, your words are very empowering. Moving forward and focusing on self-worth is indeed crucial, especially after experiencing a difficult relationship. Thank you for this valuable advice and for reminding us all of the importance of self-love and progress. Keep watching and sharing your insights!

    • @Ms_SexxyDiva504
      @Ms_SexxyDiva504 4 місяці тому

      Totally agree 💯👍🏾 Nolalower9Ward ⚜️💃🏽

  • @chilo597
    @chilo597 7 місяців тому +8

    It was hard...but me and my children can breath again.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      I'm truly sorry to hear about the difficult times you've been through, but I'm immensely proud of your courage and strength. It's wonderful to hear that you and your children are now in a place where you can breathe again. Your journey is an inspiration to many. Remember, you're not alone, and your well-being is the most important thing. Thank you for sharing your experience. Stay strong and keep moving forward.

    • @patrik-vw4ek
      @patrik-vw4ek 4 місяці тому

      Same here...great isn't it☺️

  • @jasonsmith3594
    @jasonsmith3594 7 місяців тому +6

    5 words of the best advice I can ever give any of you.. YOU DONT WANT THEM BACK….❤

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely, your advice is spot-on. It's essential to remember our worth and not fall back into toxic patterns. Thank you for sharing this valuable piece of advice with our community. It's comments like yours that make this platform a supportive and insightful space. Stay strong and take care! ❤️

  • @ericking4072
    @ericking4072 7 місяців тому +9

    AFTER WHAT SHE PUT ME THROUGH IT WOULD TAKE ALLLLLLOTTTT TO REKINDLE ANNNNYTHING!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому +2

      I'm really sorry to hear that you've had such a tough experience. It's important to remember that it's okay to prioritize your own wellbeing and mental health. Rekindling a relationship, especially one that has caused harm, is a personal decision that should be handled with care. If you ever need to discuss or learn more about these topics, feel free to ask. Thank you for sharing your feelings here, and I hope my content can be of some help.

    • @HendriMNasir-mz1ro
      @HendriMNasir-mz1ro 7 місяців тому +3

      Dont ever return back.Close all doors forever.Leave the narcissist.Move forward.They have no value and only came to your life to DESTROY you.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому +1

      @@HendriMNasir-mz1ro Your words are powerful and full of truth. Closing the door on such relationships can indeed be a significant step towards recovery and self-love. Thank you for sharing this important advice and for reminding us of our worth. Your insights are highly valuable. Keep watching and sharing your thoughts!

  • @boomshine7
    @boomshine7 7 місяців тому +7

    you don't want them to want you back...

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому +1

      You're absolutely right. It's important to prioritize self-love and self-respect, especially after experiencing a toxic relationship. Sometimes, not wanting them to want you back is a sign of growth and progress. Thanks for sharing this insightful comment. It's a valuable reminder for all of us. Keep watching and sharing your insights!

  • @sallydaly5597
    @sallydaly5597 7 місяців тому +5

    Thank you, I appreciate your message.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      You're very welcome! I'm glad to hear you found the content helpful. Your appreciation means a lot and encourages me to continue creating valuable content. Feel free to share any topics you're interested in or any questions you might have. Thank you for your support!

  • @scleo1959
    @scleo1959 7 місяців тому +2

    What a boost of encouragement. Raise the bar, indeed. This is a video I of course will listen to more than once. It covers such detailed information on the healing journey. I have always looked at the time spent in the relationship with the narcissist as a total waste of time in my life. I will try to see it now as a catalyst for change for the better.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      It's wonderful to hear that the video served as a source of encouragement for you. Revisiting the content to reinforce the message is a great strategy, and I'm glad you found the information detailed and helpful for your healing journey.
      Reframing the time spent in a relationship with a narcissist as a catalyst for change is a powerful shift in perspective. It's not easy to do, but it can transform feelings of regret into a source of strength and personal growth. Your willingness to adopt this viewpoint is already a significant step towards healing. Thank you for your comment, and I wish you continued strength and positivity on your journey.

  • @hibbertsh
    @hibbertsh 7 місяців тому +3

    This video was powerful.
    It resonated completely, I feel the narc does regret discarding but won't be the one to make contact... no, they are cowards and want you to reconnect.
    That will not happen from my side, I am resolute about that!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. It's incredibly empowering to hear that you've made such a resolute decision and are standing by it. It takes a lot of strength and courage to do so when dealing with a narcissist. I'm glad that the video resonated with you and could provide some support during this journey. Remember, you're not alone, and your determination is truly inspiring. Keep going! 😊

  • @amykayhenrichs9574
    @amykayhenrichs9574 6 місяців тому +1

    I really want to meet the person or people who have written these videos and thank them. I have watched a lot of videos and read a lot of articles since the second discard. This material is profound and specific to my current situation. The healing is in process but the hurt was so significant that it seems to be happening in small incremental pieces. Thank you so much sharing. Thank you. Thank you. I love you.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      I'm deeply touched by your message and so grateful to know that the content I create has been helpful in your healing journey. Please remember, healing takes time and it's perfectly okay to take small steps. You're doing incredibly well. Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your experience. It's messages like yours that motivate me to keep creating and sharing. Sending you lots of love and strength on your journey. Stay strong! 💖

  • @timahawk3220
    @timahawk3220 7 місяців тому +2

    My ex Narc went out and played around we spent years living together for him to leave and go play with other girls he came back asking me to live with him. He said even though I be out here playing around I want u to come live and be with me. I told him we were done. He left again to comeback and told me I’ll come back to u in a heartbeat. He literally dated a stripper and after she asked for $ and he said no she went about her business.
    Why would u want someone who dated a stripper and what else would she want besides your $. He said she was lying and manipulative 😂 uuugh no Duh! He said he’d comeback and thought we could be something. I told him I’m good! This video is true because he told me he wish things stayed good so we could go on vacation again and reconnect 😅so basically he knew the stripper girl was a game,they like to play games as this video states. Sir u do not deserve me,please go seek help I told him. He said we can go to couples counseling. I told him NO! It’s hun who need me the help not us together 💯 everyone I knows says he will be back. Well I don’t want him to come back. Please go ahead sir. Go ahead,bye bye

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your story. It takes a lot of courage to stand up for yourself and say 'no' to a situation that doesn't serve your best interests, especially after such a long and challenging history with your ex. Your decision to prioritize your well-being and refuse to participate in a cycle of manipulation and disrespect is admirable. You're right, as the video suggests, narcissists often play games, and it's essential to recognize and step away from these unhealthy dynamics. You've shown great strength and self-respect in your actions. Stay firm in your decision, trust your instincts, and remember that moving on is a sign of your resilience and commitment to your own happiness and health.

  • @grantaugustyniak6667
    @grantaugustyniak6667 6 місяців тому +1

    Got to say - experiencing narcissistic folks in one’s life - ironically makes you the best version of yourself ever ! We should be thanking them

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      It's very encouraging to see your positive perspective! While dealing with narcissistic individuals can indeed be very challenging, it's true that these experiences can often lead to significant personal growth and self-improvement. It's great that you're able to see the silver lining and use it to become a stronger and more resilient person. Keep harnessing this positive energy and continue on your journey of self-improvement. Stay strong and keep growing!

  • @user-dh4lp2hh5b
    @user-dh4lp2hh5b 7 місяців тому +2

    Who in their right mind would want a narcissist back???????...

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for your comment. I understand your point of view. However, the purpose of my video is not to encourage people to go back to narcissists, but to help people understand their behavior and deal with such situations more effectively. Everyone's experiences and feelings are unique, and it's important to respect that. Let's continue to discuss and learn together. 😊

  • @Ms_SexxyDiva504
    @Ms_SexxyDiva504 4 місяці тому +1

    💫Never go backwards it will only be much worse. Heal and move forward and leave that evil in the past. 2 years no contact and narc free!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Nolalower9Ward ⚜️💃🏽

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  3 місяці тому

      Absolutely, your advice is spot on. Going back only risks further harm, and prioritizing healing and forward movement is essential. Congratulations on achieving two years of no contact and freeing yourself from such a toxic situation. Your strength and resilience are commendable, serving as a beacon of hope for others in similar situations. Keep embracing your journey of healing and growth, leaving the past where it belongs. Here's to many more years of peace and freedom!

  • @homerovillanueva6644
    @homerovillanueva6644 7 місяців тому +2

    Thxs for the Video...

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      I'm glad you found the video helpful! Your feedback is much appreciated. Thanks for watching! 😊

  • @ammarqasem783
    @ammarqasem783 7 місяців тому +2

    I still have hard time how someone can be like that yet they are in a shape of human and can talk and do everyday taks but have 0 empathy I don't understand how that can be accomplished. I've never seen my dad kiss my mom or I don't ever remember my father ever hugged me as child and yet I have so much love to give so much understanding for others so much empathy for others I see the change in me and my hope is that they can change too when you show them love respect kindness all that but yet the reward is disrespect and discard. I'll never understand it not if I life 9 lives.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      It's truly challenging to comprehend how someone can lack empathy, especially when it's someone close to us like a parent. The contrast between your own capacity for love and empathy and your father's behavior must be difficult to reconcile. It's important to remember that narcissism is a complex personality disorder and often goes beyond our understanding. Your hope for change is admirable, but it's also crucial to protect your own emotional well-being. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, people may not change. Your strength and capacity for empathy are remarkable, and focusing on your own growth and happiness is vital.

    • @ammarqasem783
      @ammarqasem783 7 місяців тому +1

      Yes I understand its extremely difficult, sometimes I sit and talk to myself, how can I get someone to see life like a normal human being and get to see how much life to enjoy rather being miserable and use anger to deal with everything in life. Don't they get tired? How is this possible? I'm also a father of two kids and I love Mt kids so much and they love me back so much too I'm the father I never had and because the change in me as a human I have hope in them changing but sometimes I feel like I wanna just run and never look back rather then dealing with a narcissist. I left and I can't do it and my divorce is this Friday.

  • @Taqwah_Tawheed
    @Taqwah_Tawheed 7 місяців тому +2

    Excellent video thank you ❤

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      I'm so glad to hear that you enjoyed the video! Your kind words and support mean a lot to me. It's feedback like yours that motivates me to keep creating and sharing. Thank you so much, and stay tuned for more content! ❤️

  • @raghuji123
    @raghuji123 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much :)

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      You're very welcome! I'm glad you found the video helpful. Don't hesitate to share your thoughts or questions in the future. I'm here to help. Stay strong and take care! 😊

  • @timahawk3220
    @timahawk3220 7 місяців тому +1

    They’ll hurt u and you tell them they hurt and they act like it easy that serious “lack of empathy” then want to rekindle and reconnect smh

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      You've highlighted a key characteristic of narcissistic behavior - the profound lack of empathy. It's truly challenging when someone hurts you and then disregards your feelings, only to later attempt to rekindle the relationship. This cycle can be emotionally draining and confusing. Trust your instincts and take care of yourself.

  • @mortischahicks5341
    @mortischahicks5341 6 місяців тому +1

    He CAN'T COME BACK HERE!!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      It sounds like you're standing your ground, which is a great step forward. Remember, protecting your space and well-being is paramount. Stay strong and continue to prioritize your peace and happiness.

  • @ernestinaagyapong622
    @ernestinaagyapong622 6 місяців тому +1

    Peace

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      Peace to you as well. Thank you for being a part of this community. Take care.

  • @narcssuckass
    @narcssuckass 7 місяців тому +4

    Mind over Matter!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely, the power of our minds is truly remarkable! Our thoughts and attitudes can significantly influence our experiences, especially when dealing with challenging situations or individuals. Thank you for sharing this valuable reminder. It's indeed important to maintain a positive mindset and stay strong. Keep watching for more insights and discussions!

  • @liztorres3065
    @liztorres3065 18 днів тому +1

    Why would anyone want back a narcissist??

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  17 днів тому

      It's important to understand that many people may feel a strong emotional attachment to a narcissist due to the initial charm and connection they experienced, often leading to confusion and a desire to revisit that relationship despite the challenges.

  • @13rklynsykoo
    @13rklynsykoo 6 місяців тому +1

    👍👍

  •  7 місяців тому +2

    What if you have children with them?

    • @B-Nia
      @B-Nia 7 місяців тому +2

      Ruuuun!!! 👍👍

    •  7 місяців тому +1

      @Eu_B my children are in their mid 20s

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      That indeed adds another layer of complexity to the situation. It's crucial to prioritize the wellbeing of the children. Remember, you can't control the narcissist's behavior, but you can control your own reactions. Always aim to provide a stable, loving environment for your children. If the situation is abusive or harmful, don't hesitate to seek help from local authorities or support services. You might also consider seeking advice from a professional counselor or therapist who specializes in this area. They can provide strategies and techniques to help you and your children navigate this challenging scenario. You're not alone, and there are resources available to help.

    •  7 місяців тому +1

      @@NarcPedia First I need to rescue my children from becoming narcissist. Because she has made them almost half narcissist. Then I need to look into convincing the children that they need to get help. From start to finish it I will have no mercy on her

  • @DJSmoothie
    @DJSmoothie Місяць тому +1

    I want to share this but I hate that title. Realy not shooting to make anyone regret anything, it is what it is sometimes but not tryn to make anyone feel regrets. Why not a fan of the title, but everything else is on point.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  25 днів тому

      Thank you for your feedback! I understand your concern about the title. I appreciate your support and I'm glad you found the content helpful. Feel free to share it in a way that feels right for you!

  • @kevinewing-oo8ix
    @kevinewing-oo8ix 7 місяців тому +1

    Why is this information relevant if you don't, and shouldn't want them back?

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      That's a great point. The goal of sharing this information is not to encourage people to go back to an unhealthy relationship, but rather to provide understanding and context. Knowing more about narcissism can help individuals recognize such behavior, avoid it in the future, and support others who might be in a similar situation. Thank you for your insightful comment. It's important to clarify this aspect. Keep watching and sharing your thoughts!

  • @Phil..._
    @Phil..._ 7 місяців тому +3

    This is a very important video for the abused to hear. Your information is invaluable. Thank you for all that you do. I feel your warmth and your previous pain. I'm still recovering, but 4 months in and things are really starting to improve for me now. I'm free to be myself and love those in my life who truly deserve it ❤‍🩹

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  7 місяців тому

      I'm deeply touched by your words and so glad to hear that you've found the content of this video valuable. Recovery is indeed a journey, and I'm thrilled to learn that you're making progress and finding freedom in being yourself. Your strength and resilience are truly inspiring. Please remember, you're never alone in this journey. Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your experience. Keep moving forward and loving yourself. ❤️‍🩹