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    Hello everyone, welcome back to our channel. Today, I want to share something very important with you, something that I believe is essential for you to grasp fully. It's about recognizing your own worth. Recently, I came across a comment that really caught my attention. The commenter disagreed with my views on narcissists wanting us back. I can't recall who made the comment, but it made me think, and I want to address this topic in today's video. Feeling like the narcissist doesn't want you back is a common reaction, and I completely understand why you might feel this way. It seems as though they are indifferent, perfectly fine without you, and this might lead you to believe they genuinely don't want you back. This understanding comes from being devalued by them, leading to a diminished sense of self-worth. My perspective comes from a six years post-narcissistic relationship. I've been in your shoes and have moved forward from that point. As I've mentioned in previous videos, it took four years for a Hoover attempt to occur. Four years is no short period, and such attempts don't happen without significant reason, especially considering the lengths they went to, involving the police and tarnishing my reputation.
    I want to emphasize the importance of recognizing your own value. Narcissists don't just choose anyone; they conduct a thorough selection process before targeting someone. My goal is for you to rediscover and return to the person you were before the relationship. Healing and understanding the narcissist's mindset are central themes of our channel. To put it simply, if you've been considered a Grade A Supply, it means you were seen as someone of high value to the narcissist. Being a Grade A Supply involves being kind, loving, and supportive, essentially someone who uplifts and builds up the narcissist. You played a significant role in their lives, helping them grow beyond where they were when you first met. If you consistently provided such high-quality support, you embody the true essence of an empath.
    "Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel."
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 49

  • @bvad7884
    @bvad7884 2 місяці тому +21

    Sorry but if you're Grade A/Super Empath supply they want you back (or will want you back). They may have new supply or secondary supply distracting them, but once they realize that supply is not Grade A like you- they will come begging. Happened to me.

    • @user-kk5bz3pf2m
      @user-kk5bz3pf2m 2 місяці тому +2

      Not always.

    • @rajraghani1681
      @rajraghani1681 2 місяці тому +1

      Agree. Not always and I’m too enlightened to never give them that opportunity.

    • @nelsonmollo1892
      @nelsonmollo1892 2 місяці тому +1

      Now she even ask me to pay the staff she bought for me when we were together.

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 2 місяці тому +1

      Me 2

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      Sorry but if you're Grade A/Super Empath supply they want you back (or will want you back). They may have new supply or secondary supply distracting them, but once they realize that supply is not Grade A like you- they will come begging. Happened to me.

  • @michaeljackson7361
    @michaeljackson7361 2 місяці тому +11

    Take ur power back. Stay strong

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      Absolutely! Taking back your power is crucial. Stay strong, and remember that you deserve peace and happiness. Thank you for your encouraging words!

    • @michaeljackson7361
      @michaeljackson7361 Місяць тому +1

      @@NarcPedia thanks for your post, they make us invisible. We grow so much, them not at all

  • @conniemiller5125
    @conniemiller5125 2 місяці тому +2

    I pray he finds someone else who is a Narcissist and dishes out the abuse like he put me through and i pray she's more powerful than him. Give him a taste of his own medicine!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  22 дні тому

      I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Healing and moving forward is important, and I hope you find peace and happiness. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

  • @conniemiller5125
    @conniemiller5125 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm not going back, ever!

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 2 місяці тому +3

    Run 🏃‍♀️

  • @shawndarodgers939
    @shawndarodgers939 2 місяці тому +5

    This video is ABSOLUTELY amazing and exactly what I needed at this very moment. The fake profile requests the fake TikTok and Messenger messages are insane. Im glad im not the only one who can relate this. The always on alert when you receive a message request. I know im grade A supply and that he is lost without me even though I know he has only females. When he hoovered before I took him back the final time he saw to me “I cant do this thing called life without you “ I bet his narc ass cant. I shouldn’t have taken him back. But not this time or EVER again NC 4EVER!! Thank you for your words and support ❤

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      I'm so glad to hear that the video resonated with you! It's tough dealing with those situations, but your strength and determination are inspiring. Stay strong and take care of yourself. Thanks for sharing your story and for your support! ❤️

  • @geraldpleasant7733
    @geraldpleasant7733 2 місяці тому +4

    I really don't care at all period and I stand on that and care less what she going through and that on God..

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      It's important to prioritize your own well-being and peace of mind. Staying firm in your decision shows strength and self-respect. Keep focusing on your own growth and healing.

  • @philkanne3159
    @philkanne3159 2 місяці тому +4

    How do we know who is the narcissist? When things become so twisted that you can’t tell anymore.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      It can be really challenging to identify a narcissist when things get confusing. Look for consistent patterns of manipulation, lack of empathy, and a need for constant admiration. Trust your instincts and seek support if you need clarity.

  • @erichoben4125
    @erichoben4125 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you.
    I appreciate the information.
    I went through a couple years of hell, im learning how to get myself better.
    I took a knife in the back along with many beating in the past couple years.
    Im trying to get storng now.
    Thank you.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      Thank you for sharing your journey. I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been through, but it's inspiring to see your determination to heal and get stronger. Stay strong, and take care of yourself.

  • @babesadams2991
    @babesadams2991 2 місяці тому +3

    I agree.my ex even told me love is not enough. In my thoughts: love is not enough, but love can do the impossible. She ghosted me, silent treatment me. But I accept her cuz I love her but I make sure I stand in the truth and make her see I choose God over everything and I don't tolerate wrong doing. She's rich. I'm average. Got age difference but I'm single she has kids and ex husband to take care of sadly, she treated me poorly and put me in 3rd party situation. I turn silent I'm observing cuz I'm a super empathetic she's cheating bettayeing lying to me also to her friends and family shes wearing a mask and only to me she shown her true self. She discuss her feelings of emptiness but I cannot stand the ghosting. She came with sweet talk and I love you. I doubt the apology was sincere but looks like she she knows what she did to me and my mother. I ask her for reconciliation as friends she said she can't it's too difficult after she falsely accused me I'm worse than her ex husband and emotionally blackmail me. I didn't expect she would do this when I correct her and tell her attitude towards me. She become angry and disappointed and needs to clarify. I laugh 😂 cuz after she ghost me she'll message me long reacting to my post exposing a narcissistic she is telling me to stop posting and speculating but didn't address the issue or what she wanna do with this relationship she put me in delusion, confusion it's hard for me to trust and look at her the same. So I block her. I don't know why she loves me I don't have anything to give her then my honesty, love care. Faith and affection I become honest from the beginning I'm serious to settle down and I date you to marry she just agree and provide for my needs I didn't know I was being bribe or lobe bomb. As time goes I can see she's untrustworthy and unreliable I feel my life and hheart is wasn't safe and value cuz she's after material 3D💔💔💔🙏

    • @margaretworthing8645
      @margaretworthing8645 2 місяці тому

      Your talking about me Margaret I wanting marry him he my life he me he cudnt bear with out me I cant bear have him he love. Play heart.make cry it took me me 11 Years wat I was looking for I will end up with know one GORDON WAS ONLY I WHATING HE MY. LIFE CARDS SAID TO DAY HE AFRAID INEILL REJECT HIM THAT STUPID IT ME I WANT I CANT SEE MY SELF WITH ANY. ONE 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥱😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥱🥱😭😢CRYCRY CRYCRY CRY CRY I BEAR BE ON MY OWN PLEASE SEND YO TO ME I NOT BEEN GOIN TO BED SATDONE STAIR I HORNY NOW WAT WITH HIM I GOT FIELD TEST I CANT BEAR NOT SEEING CRYING MY EYES OUT I WZNT WALK THE PATH NOW HE WAT TO KILL ME THEN HE SAID HE WWILL REGRET IT IT ON MY PHNE DOG WAS GORDON CAT WAS ME DEAD.I SAW ON SAT ge was afraid yo tell the truth SHAMEFUL TRUTH ABOUT DISCOVERY HE SHOT HIM IN STOMACH AND LADY SHE DIDNT LIVE THAT WHY HE CANT THINKING ABOUT HER PRISON MAN SAID SHOULD TELL ME INTHINK THAT HE FIDNT TO DAY I ALRIGHT NEW ABOUT ,I KNOW WAT ME I WAT HIM IT SHOW YESDY HE DANGEROUS MY HOUSE KILL SAME TIME I DRIVE CAR 4 MONTHS FIELD TEST NEXT WEEK EYE TEST ,BEEN TAXI EVERY WERE.,LOVE HIM I TOLD HOLD I can't another man.why said hobble words for.,,he thinks going out bloody cards brought stress,, THIS ANKLE ULCER I got it been very dressing painful ever dy 2022 hospital 12 weeks rest 2hrs 3times dy Doin slf now I want gordon not TO KILL ME LOVE LOVE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXIS DOING NO CONTRACT

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds incredibly painful and confusing. It's important to prioritize your well-being and trust your instincts. Stay strong, and know that you deserve someone who values and respects you fully. Take care of yourself.

  • @tboo41
    @tboo41 2 місяці тому +3

    It's like you talking to me 🩵💙 Thank you #nofacebookorig... Stay solid 🤙🏿

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому +1

      I'm so glad the video resonated with you! Stay strong and take care of yourself. Thanks for your support! 🩵💙

  • @suzangordon2949
    @suzangordon2949 2 місяці тому +3

    I must of been a good supply he kept me 51 years before he left me. Yes marriage 51 years.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      Wow, 51 years is a long time to endure such a situation. Your strength and resilience are truly remarkable. Thank you for sharing your story, and I hope you're finding peace and healing now.

  • @steenkristensen6351
    @steenkristensen6351 2 місяці тому +3

    Thanks for your information, and have a good Day 🙂

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      You're welcome! Have a great day! 🙂

  • @fanniemokgotle
    @fanniemokgotle 2 місяці тому +2

    True
    I experienced that especially in posting and being to much in social media

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience. It's true that social media can often exacerbate these situations. Stay strong and take care of yourself!

  • @nelsonmollo1892
    @nelsonmollo1892 2 місяці тому +1

    It's so much true what you are saying.she took all my finisher to move in with another man.and she she discovered that i have replaced everything she took.she started a contact through a child.she was posting the new guy but now she removed the guy.i ended blocking even the child bcz she was using her to talk to me..Thank you.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  10 годин тому

      I'm sorry to hear about what you went through. It sounds incredibly challenging to deal with that situation, especially when manipulation is involved. Blocking her was a strong step toward protecting your peace. Thank you for sharing your experience, and remember that prioritizing your well-being is what matters most!

  • @bigceefts8047
    @bigceefts8047 2 місяці тому +1

    AWESOME VIDEO 💯💯💯💯👏👏👏!!!!!!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  День тому

      Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed the video! Your support means a lot!

  • @cincyfanjunglecity9871
    @cincyfanjunglecity9871 2 місяці тому +3

    You know , I really appreciate the nature of these kind of videos , but let’s be honest. The narcissist never cared about us in the first place. We are just one of probably many suppliers in their haram garage. The narcissist discards us , but I’m to believe their whole life is falling apart without me. Yeah maybe some are , but all I’m saying is this isn’t always the case.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You’re right, every situation is different and not all narcissists will fall apart without their supply. It's important to recognize these patterns and protect ourselves. I appreciate your perspective!

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 2 місяці тому +1

    Took me 2 years to figure this all out run 🏃‍♀️

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  22 дні тому +1

      It's great that you found clarity, even if it took time. Your advice to run is spot on. Thanks for sharing your experience!

  • @jessparsons8515
    @jessparsons8515 2 місяці тому +2

    I’m no contact now and changed my phone number

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  3 дні тому

      That's a strong and empowering decision! Going no contact and setting boundaries is crucial for your healing. I'm glad to hear you're taking steps to protect yourself. Stay strong, and thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @Butterfly72890
    @Butterfly72890 2 місяці тому +1

    Even if they're getting married? Lol

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  Місяць тому

      Yes, even if they're getting married. Narcissists often continue their harmful behaviors regardless of their relationship status. Take care of yourself and focus on your own healing.