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🔴The Narcissist Does This Everyday When You Go 'No Contact' With Them | Narcissism | NPD
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Hello everyone! Welcome back to our channel. We appreciate you taking the time to join us today. In this video, we're going to delve into a topic that affects many people worldwide: What happens when you decide to go 'No Contact' with a Narcissist. This is a question that many people ponder over, curious about the thoughts and perceptions of the narcissist when you choose to cut off all communication with them.
Now, the reaction of the narcissist largely depends on the duration you've been associated with them. Have you been with them for years or just a few months? How deep and long-standing is your relationship with this individual before you decided to go 'No Contact'? The longer you've known the narcissist, the better you'll understand their behavioral patterns.
Generally, when you go 'No Contact' with a narcissist, here's what transpires. You stop communicating with them; you go 'No Contact'.
This leads the narcissist to believe that if you wish to reconnect, the responsibility lies with you. In the initial stages, the narcissist is likely to be resilient. They believe that they can break you down. This is their thought process: "I'll make you succumb to my will because I won't be the one to chase after you". They perceive themselves as superior, believing that you will eventually crumble and reach out to them.
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🔴The Narcissist Discarded You But It Makes Them Crazy And Suffering! 👇🏼
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Agreed ❤️
Stay no contact! And never go back. Enjoy your life. Be happy ❤
I couldn't agree more with you. Staying no contact and focusing on personal happiness is the best way to move forward after a narcissistic relationship. Thank you for sharing this positive and encouraging message. Your support means a lot to us. Keep watching and spreading positivity! ❤️
But, she is a morally righteous Nice narcissist. 🙏😊
She doesn't mean to hurt me.. It is just making me aware and responsible for who I am in my healing process.. Lol.
If anyone claims to be a Healer, watch their Patterns of behavior, if something feels icky.. 😯🎰😁
I am
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Why? What do narcissist do
Walking away and NEVER going back is so powerful. Their loss.
Absolutely! Walking away from a toxic relationship, especially with a narcissist, can be an empowering step. It's a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the desire for healthier relationships. It's indeed their loss. Your comment will surely inspire others who might be in a similar situation. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Being alone and being lonely to different things l love my own company
Amen! ✝🕎🛡⚔⚔⚔🩸⚖🪔🔥👑👑👑🕊
Stay no contact at all times. The permanent door slam!
Thank you for your advice. Going no-contact can indeed be an effective and necessary step for many people dealing with narcissistic individuals. It's a strong boundary to set and can be crucial for one's mental and emotional health. Thank you for reminding us of this important strategy. Stay strong and take care.
Don't get confused by the lovebombing or sweettalk, they never mean that, they only use it to manipulate you.
They don't love you. Don't believe anything or give them any Empathy.
You will find someone who means well with you, they will let you know by acts, not just by big words.
Thank you for your insightful comment. You're absolutely right, recognizing the patterns of lovebombing and manipulation is crucial. It's important not to confuse these behaviors with genuine love and respect. As you mentioned, actions speak louder than words. Let's continue to support each other on this journey of understanding and healing. Stay strong.
OMG NEVER go back to a narcissist. They don’t change, it’s all about them never you!! Run and take your sanity over temporary relationships with a narc.
Absolutely, your advice is spot on. Going back to a narcissist often leads to a repeat of the same toxic patterns. Stay strong and keep advocating for healthy boundaries!
Stayed to work things out after financial infidelity in 2017. She lied and said she was paying off her bills so we could buy a house. I asked every 6-8 months how her finances were going and for three years she said “it’s going good!” Got a knock at the door and chase bank was serving her papers to PAY UP! Found out she was $60,000 in debt! Fast forward 2021 caught them in an affair with a young coworker. Went total no contact after that. Im only sharing because be aware financially irresponsible is a huge red flag! I missed it and want people to know look into their finances because they lie about the money!!!
The four cycles I went through the bombing she wasn't even narcissistic just a heroin addict that's all I could see how is the best grade a supply that's what I learned Whyitlasted decades
Stay no contact and be prepared for the sudden return. STAY QUIET and keep your peace! They DON’T change.
Thank you for sharing this valuable advice. Maintaining no contact and preserving one's peace and well-being is indeed crucial when dealing with narcissistic behaviors. Your words will undoubtedly provide support and guidance to others going through similar situations. Stay strong and continue to share your wisdom!
I'm proud to say I have been free of him since September. Stay no contact
Congratulations on taking such a significant step towards your own well-being! Your strength and determination are truly admirable. Maintaining no contact can be challenging, but it's often an essential part of the healing process. Thank you for sharing your experience. It's sure to inspire others who may be going through similar situations. Stay strong and take care.
Great!
No it’s not that they didn’t care for you as much as you thought, it’s that they didn’t think you would ever actually leave. They want the power and want to avoid accountability. They don’t want to chase especially if they think you will… so they will wait you out for as long as they can. Until they are forced to reach out after realizing that they are not going to win this.
You've made a very astute observation about the dynamics often at play with narcissistic individuals. It's true that the power dynamic and avoidance of accountability are central to their behavior. They often miscalculate the resilience and resolve of the person they are trying to control. It's a form of manipulation, expecting the other person to cave in. Recognizing this pattern is a crucial step in breaking free from their influence. Thank you for sharing your insights-it's a valuable reminder to stay firm in one's decision and not to engage in their games. Your input adds depth to the conversation and can help others understand what might be happening in their own relationships.
Never Indulge In Self Pity, Better Days Ahead. Always Value Your Self Worth, Think Big. Have Faith 🙏🙏🙏
Absolutely! Your words resonate with positivity and strength. Valuing self-worth, having faith, and looking forward to better days are key to overcoming challenging times. Thank you for sharing this empowering message. It's a wonderful reminder for all of us. Keep watching and spreading positivity!
Amen
This is exactly what I have experienced for a year. I will NEVER let anyone do this 2 faced shit to me, again. The killer is the woman he has his supply from and other buddies, do not see it at all.
If there's no integrity, there's nothing.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's tough to go through such situations, but it sounds like you've come out stronger and more aware. You're absolutely right - integrity is key. Remember, your strength is in your ability to recognize the signs and refuse to be treated in such a way again. Stay strong and keep moving forward!
The fact that they think that’s a win I think says it all. Imagine playing that hateful game your whole life only to reveal you were a monster.? yes, they can have that ‘win’😂
Thank you for your comment. It indeed speaks volumes about their mindset if they consider such behavior a 'win'. It's a sad reality that they don't see the damage they cause. But, as you rightly said, it's a 'win' we can let them have while we focus on our own growth, well-being, and genuine relationships. Stay strong and keep moving forward.
Love Bomb you, devalue you, discard you.
What a life.
The cycle of love bombing, devaluation, and discarding is indeed a harrowing experience. It's a life that no one deserves. Recognizing this pattern is the first step towards breaking free from it. Thank you for sharing, and I hope you find the peace and happiness you deserve.
Yap. Happened to me in that exact order, but I'm good now.
I resonate every word of this video. Such a mental drain to live with them be it in office or at home. Problem is, when you are a narcissist magnet, you can recognise them but can't avoid being around them. You will find them everywhere as a boss, friend, husband, brother, father mother, sister aaah!
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It can be incredibly draining to constantly deal with narcissistic individuals in various aspects of life. Please remember, your feelings are valid and it's okay to seek help. I hope my videos can provide some comfort and guidance. Always prioritize your well-being and don't hesitate to seek professional help if needed. Stay strong and take care!
I'm so tired, spent, woreout, been this worst ten years of my life
@@stephaniemarshall6788 I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It sounds like you've been through a very tough time. Remember, it's okay to seek help. Reaching out to a mental health professional could be a good option to consider. Their guidance can provide you with the tools to navigate these challenging feelings. You don't have to do this alone. Also, try to take care of your physical well-being, as it's closely linked to how we feel emotionally. Please take care of yourself. You're stronger than you think, and things can get better.
Wasting your time On A toxic person is Situation that you don't want to continually repeat. It wears out your Self-esteem...Be true to you 🙏
Absolutely, your point is spot on. Investing time and energy in a toxic relationship can indeed be draining and detrimental to one's self-esteem. Your advice to 'be true to you' is powerful and essential. Thank you for sharing this wisdom. 🙏
Every word you said is 💯 percent true, especially the argument part, they love the issues and arguments to calm down then they will come back to start deceiving theirselves as though nothing happened, those people are heartless 🥺
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It's indeed disheartening to see how some people can create conflict and then act as if nothing happened. Your words highlight the importance of recognizing these patterns and protecting ourselves from such toxic behavior. Stay strong and take care of yourself. You're not alone in this journey.
I have been experiencing this for the past 8 months.
@@prempraveen3728it's not easy bro, if you have tried your best and yet no improvement leave the relationship.
Never go back to a lit firework you will always get burnt there demons that will drag you down to there hell you be the light show them you are amazing do the things that they stopped you from doing ❤
What a powerful metaphor! Your words will absolutely ring true for many people who have been in similar situations. The journey of rediscovery and reclaiming one's life after such an experience can be quite liberating. Your encouragement to be the light and pursue personal passions is a motivational reminder to all. Thank you for sharing this inspiring message and your positive vibes. You're absolutely right - we are all amazing in our own ways. Keep shining! ❤️
Yes just left one and never going back to this crazy ass person I am going on with my life that God wanted me too 😊😊
@@NarcPedia you’re absolutely amazing that’s what they feed off show you off to there friends and family till they get bored do all the things they stopped you from doing your not a babysitter to there shit 💩
Leave Your Past Where It Should, Period.
Absolutely. It's necessary to acknowledge our past, learn from it, but also remember not to let it hold us back. Your comment is a powerful reminder of the importance of moving forward. Thank you for sharing this valuable advice. Your insights are highly appreciated. Keep watching and sharing your thoughts!
YES I AGREE!
I recently cut off ties with a narcissist. I was in denial that he was one at first, but then slowly but surely the signs appeared. As an empath, he often took advantage of my emotions and played the victim. He was only nice to me when he benefited from it, but his lack of empathy taught me that he wouldn't hesitate to cheat on me and lie to me. The worst thing is that I felt guilty the whole time, and it took a serious event for me to realize he has been using me for his own gain the whole time. Now the worrying has started because he is my colleague and will probably start gossiping about me. I don't want to create unnecessary drama, but I feel like if it doesn't stop then I will have to go to the HR department. And still I find that hard because I have the tendency to protect the one I love, but in this case I will have to be ok with the fact that I am allowed to defend myself. In my other relationships we always managed to end things on a positive note, but I tried with him and it just made it worse as it was a reason to overstep my boundaries again. Doorslamming is hard, but it seems that it is the best thing to do with a narcissist. And I need to remember, it was him, not me. To everyone here: it is not your fault!
I'm truly sorry to hear about the challenging situation you've been through. Cutting ties with a narcissist, especially when they're a colleague, is indeed tough. It's important to remember that you have every right to protect your emotional well-being and to set boundaries. If the situation at your workplace becomes unbearable, don't hesitate to reach out to HR. They're there to help ensure a safe and healthy work environment. Your insights about doorslamming and taking care of oneself are very valuable. You're absolutely right - it's not your fault. Stay strong, and thank you for sharing your story. Your journey and resilience will surely resonate with and inspire others in similar situations.
Girl, I just went no contact with a colleague I used to date. I had to quit my job and took less pay just for peace of mind. He's moved on with his new supply. Sometimes, I wished I had spoken to HR about him because of his disrespect, but I chose to move on. Protect your mental health and do what's best for you.
Never a good idea to play mind games with anyone. Give them a chance and communicate your expectations and follow through with what youve told them. Be honest
Thank you for your insightful comment. You've highlighted the importance of honesty and clear communication, which are indeed essential in any relationship. It's a reminder that even in challenging situations, maintaining our integrity and treating others with respect is crucial. Your perspective can provide valuable guidance to those dealing with similar situations. Keep continue to share your wisdom!
Can you get a megaphone 📣
So the narcissists can hear that 😂
@@keithwittman4741 sure...NEVER A GOOD IDEA.....lol
RG was jk😂,like they would listen anyways.
I was with the narc 32 years and there is absolutely no situation that could have me allow any contact, ever.
32 years is a long time, and it's clear you've come to a very firm and resolute decision. Your determination to maintain no contact is a testament to your strength and commitment to your own well-being. Thank you for sharing your resolve; it's a powerful statement that may inspire others who are still in the process of making such difficult decisions. Stay strong and continue to prioritize your peace and healing.
Why is this my life I’m so broken 😢!!! I’m not going back again!!! Time to heal my broken heart and the pain is unbearable 😢
I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a tough time. It's okay to feel broken; it's part of the healing process. Please remember that it's okay to seek help, whether it's from trusted friends, family, or professional counselors. Your pain is valid, and you're incredibly brave for choosing to heal and move forward. You're not alone in this journey. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. Please take care of yourself. 💛
You're not alone💔 me too. Be strong 💪🏾
How r ya today?
Bless you! Your comment has helped me to remember how strong we can be.
I'm so sorry to hear about your son, and for what you have been through.
But very happy to hear that you're in a season of blessing, and well deserved by the sounds of it.
Thank you for your kind words! It's comments like yours that make sharing my experiences worth it. I'm touched to know that my journey has resonated with you and helped in some way. We all indeed have a strength within us, sometimes we just need a little reminder. I'm truly grateful for your blessings and empathy. Let's continue to uplift and support each other in this journey. Stay strong and take care!
His flying monkeys talking about him getting fit and being out on the pull looking for ‘the right girl’- yup, someone who will put up with being manipulated. I’ve always been fit and am trusting I will meet someone to BUILD with in the near future. We are not the same.
This is the best information on dealing with a narcissist ever💯
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled to know that you found the information useful. It's comments like yours that motivate me to keep researching and sharing. Stay tuned for more content, and take care!
Facts.
They just talk to all the other supply anyway regardless of wether your talking to them or not,it makes no difference
You're absolutely right. Narcissists often have multiple sources of what is referred to as 'supply', which are people they manipulate for their own gain. It's a harsh reality, but realizing this can also be empowering. It helps us understand that their actions are not about us, but rather a reflection of their own issues. Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's important to remember our worth and not let ourselves be defined by their actions. Stay strong!
@@NarcPedia no worries absolutely,,
This man that was always telling me I want to be with you and it's you I wake up thinking about and go to bed thinking about ..well a little looksee into his phone told me a very different story .so when I wasn't around he had spirit fingers and was working away .more than 3 females
@@Angola88 I'm truly sorry to hear about your painful experience. Discovering such betrayal can be incredibly hurtful. It's important to remember that you deserve honesty, respect, and care in your relationships. Your strength in sharing this experience is commendable, and I hope you find healing and peace. Remember, it's okay to prioritize yourself and your wellbeing. Thank you for being part of our community and for sharing your story. Stay strong! 😊
Be The Bigger Person With A Big Heart, Don't Hold Grudges. Be The Person Willing To Listen But Never Take Advantage To Get Even, Take Things With A Smile Let Your Silence Speak. The Best Is Yet To Come, Pray & Have Faith 🙏🙏🙏
What a beautiful sentiment! Your words remind us all about the importance of maintaining grace and kindness, even in the face of adversity. Holding onto faith and optimism can indeed lead us to better days. Thank you for sharing such a positive and uplifting message. May we all continue to grow and learn together. Take care. 😊
Amen
Religious narcs are the worst. This crap on makes you more of a target.
This video is so factual
I'm glad to hear that you found the video factual and informative! That's always my goal when creating content. Thank you for your support!
When one can identify one. Smile and walk away. The narcissist who will claim they are not, will be very verbal. Talk, Talk, Talk...Control, Control, Control. Just walk away from stupidity! Smile! 😊
Thank you for your straightforward and wise advice. Walking away from someone who's trying to manipulate can indeed be the best course of action. Your point about control is very insightful; it's one of the primary tactics narcissists use to maintain their influence over others.
Smiling and walking away is a simple yet powerful response. It shows that you're not willing to participate in their game, and you're choosing peace over conflict.
Keep spreading positivity and wisdom. 😊
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This is exactly how my husband was!! A very emotionally abusive relationship!!
I'm truly sorry to hear about the emotional abuse you've experienced. It's incredibly brave of you to share your story and to recognize the situation for what it was. Please know that you're not alone and there are resources available to help you heal and move forward. Your strength and resilience are inspiring, and your story can help others who may be in similar situations. Thank you for sharing and being a part of our community. Take care of yourself.
Every Single Word, Resonates!!!! 🙌
Thanks 🙏
I'm so glad to hear that the content really speaks to you! 🌟 Thank you for taking the time to let me know-it's feedback like yours that fuels my passion for sharing these messages. If you ever have any questions or need further support, don't hesitate to reach out. 🙏
Forgiveness And Letting Go Is The Best Healer, Strength Lies On The Calmness Of Your Mind. Free Your Self From The Things That Shatter Your World.
Thank you for your insightful comment. You've beautifully articulated the power of forgiveness and letting go. It's a challenging journey, but one that can lead to profound healing and peace. Your words will undoubtedly resonate with many viewers going through similar experiences. Keep sharing your wisdom, and stay connected with our community. Your input is greatly appreciated!
forgive, forget, move on.
@@lilfairycupcake Absolutely, forgiveness can be a powerful tool for healing. However, it's important to remember that forgiving doesn't mean forgetting the harm that was done or allowing it to happen again. It's about letting go of the hold that the experience has on you, for your own peace of mind. Moving on is a personal journey that takes time, and it's perfectly okay to do it at your own pace. Stay strong, and remember, you're not alone in this.
hate/dwelling is very draining on ones being, has no value.@@NarcPedia
Forgiveness is a myth spread by those of you that use your religion to shove down people's throats. Forgiveness should ONLY be given to those who ACTUALLY CHANGE the behavior, otherwise it's empty BS.
……and they aren’t always good looking !
Sometimes they are very homely!
Attractiveness has nothing to do with NPD
The moral=Just RUN
Thank you for your comment. You're absolutely right. Narcissism isn't tied to physical attractiveness. It's a personality disorder that can affect anyone, regardless of their looks. Thank you for sharing your insights.
No use taking them back they won't change my ex is still trying to manipulate and control me because he wanted to stay friends that's the only reason he wanted to stay friends so he can be nice and loving to his new supply and I was copping his shit again that's finished now I want nothing to do with him any more he's evil I've blocked him now enough is enough
I'm really sorry to hear about your difficult experiences. It sounds like you've been through a lot. But it's important to commend yourself for recognizing the toxic patterns and taking a stand by setting boundaries. Blocking him and focusing on your own healing and well-being is a strong step forward. Remember, it's okay to prioritize yourself. You deserve peace, respect, and a healthy relationship. Stay strong and keep moving forward. You're not alone in this journey.
Excellent video!
Thank you for your positive feedback! I'm delighted to hear that you found the video excellent. Your support means a lot and encourages me to continue creating informative content. Thanks for being a part of this community!
You can almost always situate so the person absolutely cannot find you again to come back around. That’s going no contact. It can be a scary step but if you allow them back in you will regret it bitterly. This person is very troubled to be doing this stuff and they won’t change. No matter if 50 yrs goes by they will still be the same using person. They won’t have an epiphany of how they blew it and now they’re sorted out. Makes me laugh thinking about that.
Thank you for sharing your insights. You're absolutely right, going no contact can be a challenging but necessary step towards healing from a narcissistic relationship. It's a strong boundary that can protect us from further harm.
Your comment underscores the importance of understanding that we can't change a narcissist, and that expecting them to suddenly realize their mistakes and change their ways is often unrealistic.
I appreciate your contribution to this conversation. Your experience and wisdom will undoubtedly help others who are navigating similar situations. Thank you for being a part of this community.
THIS IS REALLY GOOD...POINTS ON TRACK
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I have gone no contact. He reaches out to me in texts. I finally just blocked him. I have seen him once in 18 months. I.really haven't anything to say to him.
I commend you for taking steps to protect your peace and wellbeing by going no contact and blocking him. It's a brave decision and not always an easy one. Keep prioritizing your own health and happiness. Remember, there's a supportive community here for you whenever you need. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Stay strong and take care! 💪❤️
No contact is interpreted as a hostile act by the narcissist, so don't be surprised about that happening. Also, going no contact is seen by them as provisional, where they feel sure you will eventually crumble, so expect them to step up their game. Main thing, stay firm. Maintain no contact!
Your advice is spot on. Going no contact can indeed be seen as a challenge by the narcissist, and they might intensify their efforts to regain control. Your reminder to stay firm and maintain no contact is valuable. Thank you for sharing your insights and encouraging others in their journey of healing. Your contribution to this discussion is greatly appreciated.
OMG this is so him😢😅
I'm sorry to hear that you can relate so closely. Please remember, you're not alone in this. Stay strong and take care of yourself. Don't hesitate to reach out for support when you need it.
"Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in " The Godfather 3. ***Take my advice : Ditch them and NEVER go back !***
Thank you for your advice and for sharing that powerful quote from The Godfather 3. It's indeed crucial to maintain healthy boundaries, especially when dealing with narcissists. Your comment will surely help others who are going through similar situations. Let's all strive to surround ourselves with positivity and respect. Stay tuned for more videos!
@@NarcPedia Thankyou for your kind reply, i think you know im speaking from painful experience..
By definition, going no contact means neither one of you is on the other person's mind for even a split second.
That's an interesting take on no contact. Ideally, it does mean completely disengaging and allowing each person to move on with their lives without the other taking up space in their thoughts. However, it's also natural that, especially in the beginning, it might take some time to reach that level of detachment. Healing is a process, after all. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on what no contact should mean. It's a goal that many aspire to in their journey of recovery from a difficult relationship.
Sometimes people have kids. No contact isn't an option. And saddest thing. Narcisist will make kids narcisists.
You've highlighted a very real and difficult aspect of these situations. When children are involved, no contact isn't always possible. It's a delicate balance to maintain your own wellbeing while managing interactions for the sake of the kids. It's also a legitimate concern that narcissistic behavior could influence the children, which is why it's so vital to provide them with a counteracting environment of empathy and healthy boundaries. Seeking professional guidance can be crucial in navigating this complex dynamic. Your awareness and concern for your children's emotional development are important. Stay strong and keep advocating for a healthy environment for both you and your children.
You can also watch this one!
Co-Parenting With A Narcissistic Ex. Is It Impossible?
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Honestly was blind to her behavior and was made to believe I was a narcissist & she was the empath. Infact in turned out to be the opposite. Everything this video has said has hit me, she was/is the narc. I finally gained gain the courage to leave and I feel so good about it.
Thank you for sharing your personal experience. It takes immense courage to recognize and escape from such a situation, and I'm glad to hear that my video could provide some clarity for you. Your journey is a testament to your strength and resilience. Keep prioritizing your wellbeing and remember, healing takes time. Stay strong and keep moving forward! 💪
My situation right now!! Thanks for this guidance and clarity
I'm really glad to hear that the content of this video resonated with your current situation and provided some guidance. Remember, you're not alone, and it's okay to seek help when needed. Stay strong, and take care of yourself. Thank you for your feedback.
@@NarcPedia not many people understand my situation and asking me to compromise again and again for sake of my kids but i know my safety is at stake here. And my personal growth is stopped since i am in this relationship. Where can i get help if i need?
@@marias4837 I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. It's important to prioritize your safety and well-being. There are numerous resources available to help individuals in situations like yours. Depending on your location, you might consider reaching out to local domestic violence hotlines or support groups. Professional counselors and therapists can also provide valuable guidance. Legal advice may also be beneficial. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and there are people ready to support you. Stay strong and take care of yourself. Thank you for reaching out and sharing your story.
@@NarcPedia thanku so much ❤️
Me too
My narcissistic abuser was my sister. She clearly could not get a replacement supply - so, when I went full no-contact, she stalked me.
For 15 years. She stopped after I got a friend to write on her last letter, "RTS DEC'D". Since then, she only occasionally stalks me
I'm truly sorry to hear about the challenging experience you've been through. It's incredibly brave of you to take the steps necessary to protect yourself and maintain your well-being. Your persistence and resilience are inspiring. Remember, you're not alone and there are resources and communities, like this one, that are here to support you. Thank you for sharing your story. You never know who it might help. Stay strong!
Great information needed to hear it thankyou ❤
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My brother picks locks and goes into my place every time I have to go to the doctors.
This is a concerning situation. It's important to prioritize your safety and privacy. If possible, consider changing your locks or enhancing security measures in your home. If you feel safe doing so, it might also be beneficial to have a direct conversation with your brother about boundaries and privacy. Remember, taking steps to protect yourself is not only necessary but also your right.
New subscriber saying Thank you for the narc content.
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Thank you so much for this message this is very helpful
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This answers so many questions
I'm glad to hear that the video has been helpful and provided some clarity for you. Understanding narcissistic behavior can be complex, but it's an important step towards healing and growth. Thank you for your support!
You hit this right on the nail 😢I was with my narcissist for 7 years and listening to this has broken my heart I was even denial that he was a narcissist and everything you spoke on was our relationship and it’s so true every time we broke up and I went back he treated me worse until one day I exploded I just couldn’t do it anymore I was driving myself crazy I had lost myself 😢I’m on the road to healing ❤️🩹 🙏
I'm really sorry to hear about your struggles, but please remember that your bravery in recognizing the situation and deciding to step away is a huge step towards healing. It's completely okay to feel overwhelmed right now. Healing takes time and it's a different journey for everyone. You're not alone in this process, and it's important to reach out to friends, family, or a mental health professional for support. Keep moving forward, and trust that with time, things will get better. Stay strong! 💪💖
@@NarcPedia thank you 🙏 it’s just been a week and i already feel the weight lifted off my shoulders what keeps me going and I know I shouldn’t read his texts but it helps me continue on how he’s so selfish and blames me for everything it’s like he lives on a different planet no accountability and is living his life as though I never was his girlfriend I’m so thankful i know God is my shield 🛡️ now because the moment I finally let go I felt a great sense of peace . To me that was my sign of confirmation
@@MsDreya22 It's wonderful to hear that you're already feeling a sense of relief. Reading old texts can be painful, but if it reinforces your decision and aids your healing, then it's part of your process. Remember, it's his lack of accountability, not you. It's great that you're finding strength and peace in your faith. Keep going, you're doing incredibly well. Your strength and resilience are inspiring! Thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Thank you I’ll keep that in mind 👍🏾
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Thank you, Good info 👍👍👍
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I went no contact and just yesterday after three months of no contact, he tried to hoover me by text, but I didn't respond. Ha! Cake in his face,!
Congratulations on your strength and resilience! Going no contact and maintaining it even when he attempted to 'hoover' you back in shows your determination. It's not always easy to resist such attempts, so you should be proud of yourself. Remember, your well-being and peace of mind are paramount. Keep prioritizing yourself. Your comment will surely inspire others who are in a similar situation. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Thank you. I needed to hear this.@@NarcPedia
Wow! you hit the money about narcissist
I'm glad to hear that my content resonated with you! It's a complex topic, but it's so important to understand and discuss. Comments like yours motivate me to keep sharing and expanding on this subject. Thank you for your kind words and feedback. Stay tuned for more insights!
Shame - that gnawing sense of being flawed, defective, and unworthy of love - drives us to construct a self that we think (or hope) will be acceptable to others. Being rejected, banished, and humiliated are among the most painful human experiences. We may perpetuate our anxiety and exhaust ourselves trying to use our intelligence to figure out who we need to be in order to win the acceptance and love that we crave. Rather than relax into our natural, authentic self, we twist ourselves into knots in order to belong and feel safe.
When our experience has taught us that it’s not safe to be authentic, we labor long and hard to design and polish a self that we think we be acceptable. For
Thank you for sharing such a deep and insightful perspective. It's so important to recognize the struggle of trying to fit in and the value of embracing our authentic selves. Your words resonate with many, and I appreciate your thoughtful contribution.
All u are saying is surely clear about a narcissist, I have observed them too.
It's validating to hear that your observations align with the information presented. Your input is valuable. Thank you for engaging with the content and for your confirmation.
It's an eye opener video ma'am....loved the way you explained things deeply... Thanks a ton ma'am..
Huge Respect
Stay blessed
Much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm truly touched by your kind words and I'm so glad you found the video insightful. It's my aim to delve deeply into these topics to provide as much clarity as possible. Thank you for your respect, love, and blessings. It's comments like yours that inspire me to continue. Wishing you strength and peace on your journey. Stay blessed too! ❤
Thank you for this 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Dumped the parental unit.
No Contact.
Thank you for sharing. Going 'no contact' is a tough decision, but sometimes necessary. Your courage is admirable. Prioritize your well-being and don't hesitate to seek support if needed. Stay strong! 💪
If narcissistic want attention...if they want to be chased by their partner ..so why do they ignore us (who gives them lots of attention , care and love) ?...why can't they be with us when we are giving our best to themselves..and most importantly the *ATTENTION*
That's a very valid question. Narcissism isn't about a balanced give-and-take relationship. Narcissists often crave attention and validation, but they may not reciprocate the same level of care and love. This is not a reflection on you or your worth, but rather a characteristic of their personality disorder. It's important to focus on your own well-being and consider seeking professional help if you're dealing with this. I hope my content continues to be a source of support for you. Stay strong!
Because they are not wired like us.
That’s the game!! When they know you will chase them, love them and care for them, it’s very sick minded but eventually they will let you beg to give them all of those things. And they will ignore or give you breadcrumbs back and you will start to think that something is wrong with you and there the game starts! They get dopamine of it to see you in pain and questing everything!
Eventually they are using you to project their shame, quilt etc so no blame to them.
Best info.
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Thank you ❤❤❤❤
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I couldn't go no contact because the courts said I needed to keep communicating with my ex. She feed like a vampire for 18 years of mine and my sons life sucking the life right out of us luckily we are finally free from her and able to move on. My poor son was abused and used as a pawn by her. I tried everything through legal methods to protect him but the courts are always on the females side.
I'm sorry to hear about the difficult journey you and your son have been through. It's incredibly challenging when legal circumstances prevent you from fully disconnecting from a toxic relationship. Your determination to protect your son and seek freedom despite these obstacles is commendable. It's great to hear that you're now able to move forward. Remember, healing from such experiences takes time and patience. It's important to seek support, perhaps through counseling or support groups, as you both navigate this new chapter of your lives. Your strength and resilience are inspiring.
the courts are on the side of money, not gender specific. Whoever will keep the money flowing is who they support
It shouldn't be that way but it makes sense. Kind of like a DR prescribing medication that only takes care of the symptoms and not the underlying causes. It seems everyone only cares about money, power, for themselves.
@@vogeljennifer6318that’s not true
This one is dead on!
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Then other videos say that a narcissist is gonna blow up your phone and text you crazy…then this video says they are resilient and try to force you to come back. Everybody is gonna be a narcissist if you watch enough of these videos
Thank you for your comment. Yes, it can be confusing as different resources may highlight different aspects of narcissistic behavior. It's crucial to remember that not everyone who exhibits certain traits is a narcissist. These videos are here to help identify patterns and to provide support for those dealing with narcissistic individuals. It's always best to seek professional advice if you're unsure. Let's continue learning and supporting each other.
Yeah, everyone is a narcissist cuase holy shit. What if they asked for space? Isn't it respectful to wait for thr other person to reach out?
Anyone who crossed your own personal or professional boundaries are not someone you would want or are willing to retain in your life,yes life has its issues realistically I would prefer people to be the last of life's issues✅and this goes for all kinds of people
You've hit the nail on the head! Respecting personal and professional boundaries is crucial in any relationship. It's important to surround ourselves with people who respect these boundaries and contribute positively to our lives. Keep prioritizing your well-being and mental peace, it's the best investment you can make. Thank you for sharing your insightful thoughts!
No contact wasnt my decision. He threatened to call the cops if i contacted him again. I was trying to be a forgiving friend since im so much older than him
I'm sorry to hear about the difficult situation you've been through. It's tough when a relationship ends in a way that feels out of your control. It's commendable that you were trying to extend forgiveness and maintain a friendship. Now, it's crucial to respect the boundaries that have been set and focus on your own well-being. Stay strong, and thank you for sharing your story.
Omgod this really explains her.
I'm glad you found the video insightful! It's important to understand these behaviors to protect ourselves. Thanks for watching.
Thank you ❤❤❤
You're very welcome! It's wonderful to have you in our community. Don't hesitate to share your thoughts or ask questions. We're here to support each other. Stay strong! ❤️
I stayed in contact and up my boundaries cause we have kids together but their grown kids. Our son still stayed with him. Worse mistake. They don’t do boundaries or take No. it inflicted a narc injury. He then told kids he’s can’t come to their house anymore cause of me. All I stated was for him to stop trying to sleep with me. He use to spend the night to get ride to work. BS, but I couldn’t sleep well when he was here. Wake to use restroom or wake from sleep and he’s up starting at me or over me starring. It was weird and I felt very uncomfortable
Navigating boundaries with a narcissist can be incredibly challenging, especially when children are involved, no matter their age. It's unfortunate that your boundaries have been met with such a negative response, but it's important to remember that setting these boundaries is not only for your well-being but also serves as a model for your children.
It's clear you made the right call for your personal safety and comfort, and it's regrettable that it's led to him using access to the kids as leverage. This is a manipulation tactic, and it's vital to stay firm in your boundaries. You might consider seeking the support of a professional therapist or legal counsel to navigate this complex situation, especially if it's impacting your relationship with your children.
Remember, you have every right to feel safe and comfortable in your own home. Your feelings and boundaries are valid. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
omg im faceing this thank you
I'm sorry you're going through this, but I'm glad the video could help. Stay strong and remember to prioritize your well-being. 💪
I Think Big, Prayed. Now Im On My Way To Realize My Plans, Goals And Dreams After A Shattering Cheating. Yes My Ex Cheated On Me After Suffering From Major Series Of Financial Blows, Lost My 25 Year Old Son, Youngest Suffering From Autism And I Have To Carry All The Weight But God Is Good. I Prayed With Only A Few $$$ Then But The Universe Conspires, Im On My Way To See My Broker For My $2m Dream House. Have Faith, Dream Big, Pray 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing your powerful story. Your strength, resilience, and faith in the face of such adversity are truly inspiring. I'm so sorry for your losses and the challenges you've had to endure. Yet, it's heartening to see how you've managed to rise above it all and pursue your dreams. Your journey is a testament to the power of faith and determination. Congratulations on your progress towards achieving your dream house. Keep believing in yourself, keep dreaming big, and keep praying. Your story will undoubtedly inspire many viewers. Stay strong, and may your journey continue to be blessed. 🙏
@@NarcPedia
Prayer Is A Powerful Tool, Pray Without Ceasing, Pray As If There's No Tomorrow And Let God Have His Way In Your Life. Leave The Past Where It Should, Forgive And Let Go. Live Life, Think Big, Pray, Pray, And Pray Until Your Prayers Lift You Up.
@@bonnano5815 Your comment is filled with positivity and faith. Prayer can indeed be a powerful tool for many, providing comfort, strength, and a sense of hope during challenging times. Your reminder to forgive, let go, and focus on the present is invaluable. Thank you for sharing your inspiring thoughts and uplifting spirit with our community. May your faith continue to guide and uplift you. Take care. 😊
@@bonnano5815 That is awesome to hear. Could you share some more wisdom and what is your career... I'm a believer in prayer to the Most High
Makes me really sick
It's truly unfortunate that this topic has struck such a chord with you, but your reaction is not uncommon. The behaviors and effects of narcissism can indeed be deeply upsetting. It's important to take care of your emotional well-being, especially when confronting such challenging subjects. If you ever need to talk more about it or seek resources for support, please remember that you're not alone. Take care and be kind to yourself.
Thank you
You're welcome. ❤️
I don't have a narcissist and this was recommended.
The behaviors discussed can sometimes apply to various types of relationships or interactions. Regardless, I appreciate you taking the time to watch, and if you ever find yourself or someone you know in need of this information, it'll be here. Thanks for stopping by!
Absolutely 💯
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He was alone when i met him so he can be alone now and forever. He's no good!
It sounds like you have had a tough experience, and I'm sorry to hear that. Your feelings are completely valid. Sometimes, distancing ourselves from certain people is the best thing we can do for our mental and emotional health. Remember, it's important to focus on your own healing now. I hope my content can provide some guidance and support during this time. Stay strong!
Run and forget them
Thank you for your succinct yet powerful advice. Indeed, sometimes the best course of action when dealing with a narcissist is to distance oneself and focus on personal healing and growth. Your straightforward approach will surely resonate with others in similar situations. Thank you for sharing your insights.
Yeah, they act if they care, really they don't care, so done with them.... They get rid of you if you don't care and have no contact works
I'm really sorry to hear about your experience, but I'm glad to see you've found a strategy that works for you. No contact can indeed be a powerful tool in these situations, helping to break the cycle and start the healing process. Your strength and resilience are inspiring, and your journey can help others who may be in similar situations. Thank you for sharing your story with us, and keep going strong!
Im overloaded with empathy. This sucks.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It can be incredibly challenging dealing with a situation that brings up a lot of empathy, especially when it involves a narcissistic individual. It's important to remember to take care of yourself, too. Try to set boundaries and seek support from others. Your feelings are valid, and sharing them can often be the first step towards feeling better. Please continue to share your thoughts and experiences, they're valuable to this community.
You have to take charge charge and realize that toxic empathy is a thing . . . Ask yourself why you keep empathizing with an abusive person . . . Examine yourself, set your BOUNDARIES know your worth and walk away . . . Allowing other people to abuse you is a sign of low esteem . Love and abuse can never exist in the same space . Work on yourself . . .
@Blessed591 Thank you! She doesnt love anyone. Not even herself. He mother died a sad woman because of her conduct. She got paid $120k inheritance
I felt like the narc in my relationship, but i know I'm not or at least tried not to be, it didn't really matter about my life events I was going through but she made out to be a narc. But i know I did nothing wrong In the end and tried to fix things.
It sounds like you've been through a challenging time and it's not uncommon to question oneself in such confusing dynamics. Self-reflection is important, but it's also crucial to differentiate between taking responsibility for your actions and being falsely labeled by someone who may not acknowledge your feelings and experiences. It's good that you recognize your efforts to fix things and that you know you've done nothing wrong. Trusting your own judgment and staying true to your values is key. Remember, it's important to surround yourself with people who appreciate and respect you for who you are. Keep valuing your own perspective and continue moving forward with confidence in your actions. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Very true 😔
I appreciate your agreement and engagement with the content. It's always comforting to know that we're not alone in our experiences. Stay strong and remember, this community is here for you. 💪😊
@@NarcPediathank you 😊
If she's not only interested in you and focused solely on you. Get away from her.
Thank you for your comment. You've underlined the importance of mutual respect and focus in a relationship, which is indeed a crucial aspect. If someone is not showing the same level of interest or dedication, it might be time to reconsider the relationship. Your advice can be really useful for many people navigating similar situations. Keep watching and sharing your thoughts!
I think all victims should seek a psychologist, most of them will go back to the narc like they love the bad relationship.
Thank you for your insightful comment. It's indeed crucial for victims of narcissistic abuse to seek professional help as it can provide them with the right tools and support to heal and move forward. Your advice is valuable and might help others who are in a similar situation. Keep sharing your thoughts and let's continue this important conversation.
Ironic as hell, with the robotic cpu voice!.. 😂
I'm glad you noticed! The aim is to provide valuable information while keeping things a bit light-hearted. Your comment brought a smile to my face. Thanks for being a part of this community.
Great
Thank you!
He’s stalking me I was with him 3 weeks on and off in my community he thought I can’t see thru him when he’s married and trying to control me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don’t think so he wanted me into his 3rd party I’m not a hoe 🤣🤣🤣 he have kids too but he also sleeps around even with the same sex I just thank God I got out of this relationship is been 12 months no contact I sent him but I stay aways from him my door is always closed
Your courage and determination to stand up for yourself and escape such a toxic situation are truly commendable. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and it sounds like you've done exactly that. No one deserves to be in a relationship where they are disrespected or mistreated. Continue to keep your boundaries strong, and remember, you're not alone. There are many who can learn from your experience. Thank you for sharing your story. Stay strong and continue to put yourself first. 😊💪
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2-9-66 Water 🌊 walk out of my life ! Just keep walking."
Your lost !
Thank you for your comment. It sounds like you've made a firm decision to protect your well-being, which is a significant step. Keep moving forward and remember, your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth. Stay strong!
They don't always have supply options like u think
Thank you for your comment. You're absolutely right that it's not always the case that narcissists have multiple supply options. Each situation is unique and complex. Narcissistic behavior can manifest in many different ways, and the experiences of those involved can vary greatly. It's important to keep discussing and sharing so we can better understand the many facets of this issue. Thank you for adding your perspective to this conversation.
What if you have what they want, but also willing to throw it away in spite of them not getting it?
That's a thought-provoking question. Prioritizing your well-being and peace of mind is crucial in such situations. If you feel that discarding what they want could protect you from further harm, it might be the right choice for you. However, remember that every situation is unique, so consider seeking professional advice if needed. I hope my content continues to provide some guidance. Take care!
put a video of what will happen to a narcissist character upon aging (40, 50 , 60 years ) if we stay with them
Thank you for your suggestion! It's a very interesting topic that would be valuable to explore. Understanding how a narcissist's behavior might evolve with age and what that could mean for their relationships can be critical for those dealing with narcissism in their lives. I'll certainly consider creating a video on this subject. Stay tuned and thank you for your continued support! 😊
How about if you are living in the same house cz you are renting 50/50 i love that no contact rules but if you stay in the same house?
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I met three of them, I did no contact, now she always calling me over and over.
Maintaining the no-contact rule can be challenging, especially if the other person persists in trying to reach out. It's important to stay firm in your boundaries. If you've decided that no contact is the healthiest choice for you, then you might need to take additional steps to enforce it, such as blocking their number or changing your contact information if necessary. It's also helpful to seek support from friends, family, or professionals during this time. Stay steadfast in your decision, and take care of your well-being. Your peace of mind is the priority.
Thank you so much i dated a avodent Dismissive with narcissistic traits they are just as bad never again.
Thank you for sharing your personal experience. It sounds like you've been through a tough time. It's admirable that you're recognizing the patterns and taking steps to protect yourself. Stay strong and continue prioritizing your well-being. You're doing great.
I can’t go completely no contact as I’ve been married 30 yrs to him. I need spousal support from him and I’m going through a divorce
I'm sorry to hear about your challenging situation. It can be difficult to navigate these circumstances, especially when you're unable to go completely no contact. It's important to seek professional advice in this scenario, such as legal and psychological counsel. They can provide practical strategies to help you manage your interactions and establish boundaries. Remember, your well-being is a priority. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
When you put all the chips and cards on the table and count everything… Marriage and relationships are just a plain rip off
As in paying 2.50 for a fountain drink that cost 25 cents to make
There a VERY few women that are actually WORTH it The term “I know my worth” sounds SO corny
Of course YOU think you are worth more than you really are.. Just because a woman is faithful does not necessarily means she a good woman.. she can be bad in MANY other areas
Thank you for sharing your perspective. Relationships, including marriages, indeed come with their own challenges and complexities. It's important to remember that everyone's experiences and perceptions can vary greatly. The value of a relationship or a person cannot be universally quantified or generalized. Each individual and each relationship is unique, with their own strengths and weaknesses. It's crucial to communicate, understand, and respect each other's worth in any relationship. Your insights provide an interesting viewpoint and I appreciate your contribution to this discussion.
Amen
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2 weeks Demon Dave free! This is off topic...i watched a video where it says they can't love their children... demon dave's mom is so proud of him and brags about him. I'm wondering if she knows how evil he is. He's 53. She's 82. Is he able to love his mom or is he just faking it?
Congratulations on your two weeks free from 'Demon Dave'! As for your question, it can be quite complex. Narcissists can often be very good at concealing their true nature, especially from those they wish to impress or manipulate. It's possible that his mother may be unaware of his actions or behavior. As for his ability to love, it's hard to say without knowing him personally. Narcissism can often affect a person's ability to truly empathize and connect with others, including family members. However, every individual is unique and it can vary. Thank you for your comment and question!
Thank you so much! I really appreciate it! I feel like I'm becoming an expert learning about all this stuff! One more question, do they have any kindness in their heart! I love all of your videos! They really help!
@@joycefiore2721Thank you for your kind words and your enthusiasm for learning! As for your question, it's important to remember that narcissists are individuals, and each person is unique. While narcissists might struggle with empathy and can often behave in harmful ways due to their disorder, it doesn't mean they're incapable of any kindness. However, their kindness might be motivated by their own needs rather than genuine care for others. I'm glad to hear my videos are helpful for you, and I hope they continue to provide insight and support. Keep up your learning journey!