That's call putting fear, 😨, doubt 🧐, impatient, thirsty thoughts, in front of we're our true & real faith, confidence, & self 💕💕😘 love 💝 & respect is supposed to be standing!!! Giving in & settling means fear 😨 & time got the best of us & we let go of truly believing we will receive our true match & blessing of the right God 🙏🙏🤙👍😅👍💕😘💕🥰 given man that God 🙏🙏 himself has & is getting him prepared for us & vice a versa! With the right timing ,& usually after the work of healing, growing & knowing our purpose & get fulfillment & happiness we should be walking in ,& our right mate match only adds to our life & purpose they can't be our master of our life's true derp joy & daily happiness it wouldn't work if we aren't balanced & healthy with our life - self first!!!! Same for his life 😉!!!
So so very true. I’ve been listening to you say this for a long time. It was what I experienced at a young age. At 19 years old I didn’t know that it was me sticking to my standards which led my then boyfriend to want to respectfully ask my parents for my hand in marriage at the age 21. We remained engaged, and since he was older he waited for me to graduate. We were completely broke college grads and he gave his last to buy me an engagement ring. Although we learned and grew together I was clueless to relationships but understood my value and was an extremely driven biomedical science major destined to graduate without getting sidetracked. I never felt pressured, or no Jedi mind tricks, because I think he knew I would have kept walking. So, he was patient. I thought this was the norm. And even in marriage with having surgeries or when I was ill and even giving birth to our 2 children he still waited. The right one will wait. Tony is absolutely 100% right and on point with this.
Excellent word of encouragement & on your life's blessing from God 💗💕🥰😘🙏🙏 in you & your husband's marriage & life together with your children,!!!!!!!!! God 🙏🙏🤣🤣 bless you !!!!!!!!
Exactly!! If he knows you are the woman for him, he will wait..period. If he doesn’t wait…..Bye 👋🏼✌🏼life is too short, ijs. Continue to stay and be blessed! 🙏🏼
Getting right with God is #1. I've been told by a man that if I dont give it up then another woman would 🚩. Wait on The Lord!!! God Bless you Tony! We appreciate you so much!
Let her get pushed & dogged out & cheated on or abandoned with his 🐥🍼 baby suddenly & not let that be you!!! God's guy will honor you 💖🌞🙏 & his on body as God commands us to be holy with our body, decisions & he gives the blessed results for submitting to God's plan in faith our right guy is coming & we need to be ready not tripping with some user.
This makes me know that I’m not wasting my time holding out. I’m 30 and a virgin and I’ve had a variety of characters tell me that no man will wait, I’m missing out, I should just try it. Missing out on what? STDs and heartbreak?? Tuh!
I wanted to wait till marriage but started to waiver as I got in my mid 20's. Right before I gave in and I met my husband through a mutual friend who knew what we were looking for in a relationship. My husband required that we wait till marriage. We got engaged within 6 months and married within a year.
Honestly the wait is for Christians if he’s not a Christian he’s not waiting so it’s basically for us to weed out the bad and get with a godly man these men that are not Christian will not wait. It’s like if you meet someone he needs to get to know you so he can wait
I've had one guy recently playing such mind games and I blocked him. I know my worth and I will not entertain nonsense just to have a man in my life. I'm open to receiving a decent man who's worthy of a Queen like me; meanwhile I'm good working on myself and my purpose
I just want to say, I’ve listened to Tony G for a year. After I healed from past relationships trauma. I legit followed Tony G to almost a T! And I’m now engaged In under a year after we met.... A man will indeed for sure wait when you are the woman he wants!!!! I will be married in a few months ❤️ we are finalizing our wedding! Tony G is a blessing and I’m so happy God guided me to his page and I followed what he teaches!!!
Tony got me over here emotional and teary eyed because this is a painful truth. And I don’t know why some black men do this to black women including the “Christian” ones. Tony is God sent for real and teaching us how to recognize game
We get hurt needlessly when we don't have plans, healthy Godly boundaries & standards with the good expectations. We can't let being lonely, thirsty, impatient with kissed faith for God 🙏🙏 to help us both get ready for God 🙏🙏 yo put both together - prepared as healthy 🌟 💕💕, life mind & spirits to match rightly with our right partner. Being in our purpose affects who are mate will be are it should. Being healed 😊, faith filled & happy not expecting a mate to make us happy is key to being ready. Adding to each other's lives & God given purpose to serve God 🙏🙏 together but in our own purpose that still match is a way God works with love 💘🙏😘💘 & marriage as well!!!!!!!
I'm dating this guy whom I met when he was coming back from military service. I was through all of it. Every type of abuse, molestation, lived in sin for years. I was done with romantic life. Nothing was romantic about me and my life. And I met a first man in my life who claims he's a virgin. I am a born again virgin for 2.5 years now. I'm not saying that he'll be my husband, but the quality of men I started to meet after listening to Tony! All of them are nice guys, gentle, have jobs and aspirations, no abuse, and we don't have to be sleeping on the first date! It's like a fairy tale. NO MORE ABUSE! WOW! Thank you Tony!
I’ve heard many men and women say they need to TEST it out before making the marriage step because s3x is so important to them. But there’s some that will indeed wait. Me personally, I’m not as concerned by that as I am a man’s character, integrity, values, etc. Once married, y’all can teach one another about your preferences, etc.
Yes, teach each other your intimate needs but with Gods awesome 😎💖🌞 blessings on your marriage & sex life big time. You trust in God & he will have the right man for you ,& without 🌠🍁 nor sex games to try it first that's an excuse for men to use to get in your bed. You right to trust God's way not a man's way.
@Priscilla Yeah, it’s a big thing. That’s the only person you’re intimate with or else it’s cheating. Also, if you’re not getting your needs met, that opens the door for cheating to happen. I’m not going against the message but that’s still an issue to consider as well. I guess everything has a risk so that’s one risk if you wait till marriage 😅 They also had a room on Clubhouse and 99% of the men said this would not be realistic because of this 🤷🏽♀️ 😬
A true man, especially man of God should and will wait. That's why as Christian's and women and men of God we should be equally yoked. On the same accord, honoring God and getting to know one another outside of the bedroom. And just because a man allows you into his bedroom, doesn't mean he'll allow you in his heart. Love begins in the heart, and lust begins in the bedroom. If a man feels in his heart that you're THE One, he'll embrace the challenge and the wait. Dating is data-ing, collecting data, to see if he's potentially THE One. Keep God first, don't compromise your Christian values, pray up and be discerning of who you date. 🙏🏼💖💍💎
Really needed to hear this.. Last guy I spoke to i cut it off.. Not dealing with mind games... N only wanting sex.. I have tons of self respect for myself 👊
Thank you for this message Tony. There’s so much foolishness out here and Jedi mind tricks where so-called men will say “oh I have to get the sex out of the way.” That makes no sense at all and it shows he has no genuine interest. As women we have to use discernment. 🙏🏾✨
Mean cause a man spend money on you, and can take you on trips doesn't mean he is the one for you. Most times its only a one time thing when a man does this but, after he gets what he wants from a woman, he may not lavish her again.
@@bridgethampton5433 yes his hand movements and his wording cracks me up yo. I’m always waiting for the upside down v he does with the hand the “ broke busted and Disgusted . The U HEA ME, and the GOD BLESS YA 😂🤣🤣🤣
Wow…This was right on time! God knew b/c this has been on my mind heavy for the past few days.I was just looking at the society we live in & the type of men that I encounter, it seemed so impossible.Thanks for confirmation that a man will indeed wait🙌🏾
Does a man know what he wants from a woman besides sex? As a women I think it’s disgusting for a man to seem like he’s waiting by the door for the go ahead. I’d rather be by myself.
You are right Tony, the man who seriously desires that woman will wait. And for those who do not wait, it is good to know because then you set them aside. Value yourself as a woman so that others can value you. Wait for committment of marriage AND marry, then no more wait. ❤
I have traveled many times with no sex involved. It has also been a first date in the past where I am invited on vacation as the date. Majority of this is how you carry yourself. I haven't had many men "try" me.
@@amandaslay6045 Wow you've travelled overnight with someone as a first date. If you don't mind me asking,"How long into the relationship was the 1st date and where did you go"?
Pair this info from TG w/ Redefined TV (Jerry Flowers- pastor)...Unlearning your Type, Cuffing Season 2 series. Praising/Thanking God for these gems!!!
Tony I'm not one for many comments but is the best and you put a little funny spin on it. I am so agreeable with what you have said. I am a saved woman and as some say "ole school". Keep up the good work. Blessings to you and yours
Whew!! This was so good Tony & so very true!! You have got to stick to your standards & not give in no matter what because they will wait & prove to you that you are worth tihe wait💯🎯
So he wasnt really faithfully waiting.they were waiting for you to give it up, but had others that were giving it up. We as Women need to do better to get better.
My fiance and I live together sleep in the same bed and have never had sex!!...When I told him I wanted to wait from the beginning of our relationship he respected me and first and foremost GOD enough to wait until our commitment ceremony...YES a man will wait for the Woman he truly loves with every fiber of his being 💕 I had a comment of why we live together so if I may add he's Quadriplegic so he requires 24 hour care so a commitment ceremony is the best way to Vow before God During COVID-19 and his condition!.. he's in the hospital now very sick please send your prayers up 🙏🏽 Thank You
@@c.l.9344 No because he is paralyzed and in need of 24 hour care so I wouldn't expect to be the full woman in his life I should be.. by not caring for him! 🙏🏽
Omg 😱 I wish I came across this video 2-3 years ago. My ex boyfriend really showed out with all the wining, dining and shopping. Next thing you know, we took it past first base until he eventually hit a home run 😫. After all my years of abstinence, I got finessed. Had to break up with him because ultimately he was not my person (husband) and I didn’t want to sin anymore. (The sin debts weren’t fun to pay.) Ladies, Tony is 100% correct! Stick to your guns no matter what. Don’t let a man pursue you like that unless you know this man is going to put a ring on it and marry you before sex. P.S. Son at the end is super adorable and well mannered! 🙌💯
People! I feel like we're on Tony's ark at this point. Like this World is going somewhere else and we have the chance to survive and keep our values (or find them!)
🤣🤣🤣 OOOOH! Bro Tony!! OOOOH OOOH!! That’s It RIGHT THERE… 💯💯💯I LOVE IT! SPEAK Man of God!!! You on Point here! 🤣🤣🤣 THANK YOU!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 God Bless you in EVERY WAY!!!
Thanks Tony. Tony🤦it's so much going on right now til I'm very thankful that I have a head start in listening to your videos 😭like you said earlier ( I need to start believing in myself more) and I'm so guilty of that. God bless us women of God, He is able.
exactly.. they dont want women to make their own decisions and have their own opinions..I notice it..they d. dismiss you and become aggressive..and wont ever pursue in fact
💎💭 Hey Tony!! Can you please do a video on certain men insisting that overseas women are better than American women (in terms of femininity & submissiveness).Please share your thoughts on this. Thank you!!
Thank you so much Tony for sharing this video with me. You were spot on! It’s like the scenario you gave, as I was listening I was that woman. I’ve been with that man that you were describing. Thank you for giving The amazing depiction of reality for most women at least for me anyway.
Why do men play these crazy games! That's so childish. I know I've turned down at least 50 men, probably more, because I'm not compromizing any more. I don't care how much money he has. If he is the one God has for me, he will wait until the marriage night! I ain't compromizing! Been celebrate 7 years now. Wow God! guess I'm in the 1%. In the end I know I will win this game! Tony if you know of a 1% man that loves God and is doing well financially, because I am, please send him my way! Also, I'm a content writer on my job. Please let me know howI can get into the ghost writing business. Thanks for your reply Tony!
Thank you, Mr. Tony! This is such good reinforcement. If you have the time, would you mind speaking on whether you should go on vacation with someone before marriage and what boundaries you should set? For instance, if I push for separate bedrooms and he is against it, I think that’s a red flag, but I’d be happy to know your thoughts on the matter. Thank you again for being an unashamed man of God!
I have done this many times successfully. You did list a red flag though. Odd for someone to be against you having your own room. Was it because he was paying for 2 rooms? lol
I wouldn't have let a man spend that sort of money on me, or even go on a big vacation/trip with him unless he was my husband, maybe fiance. It's one thing to pay for dinners, or small gifts and excursions. I don't even mind a little road trip or something small like that, but an all-expenses paid, extended trip to Puerto Rico?..absolutely not.
“A man will wait, the thing about it is, most women don’t require it.” TG
That's call putting fear, 😨, doubt 🧐, impatient, thirsty thoughts, in front of we're our true & real faith, confidence, & self 💕💕😘 love 💝 & respect is supposed to be standing!!!
Giving in & settling means fear 😨 & time got the best of us & we let go of truly believing we will receive our true match & blessing of the right God 🙏🙏🤙👍😅👍💕😘💕🥰 given man that God 🙏🙏 himself has & is getting him prepared for us & vice a versa! With the right timing ,& usually after the work of healing, growing & knowing our purpose & get fulfillment & happiness we should be walking in ,& our right mate match only adds to our life & purpose they can't be our master of our life's true derp joy & daily happiness it wouldn't work if we aren't balanced & healthy with our life - self first!!!! Same for his life 😉!!!
Moral of the story. Men will do anything for the kitty! Stay strong ladies we have the power to wait
Yes we do
So so very true. I’ve been listening to you say this for a long time. It was what I experienced at a young age. At 19 years old I didn’t know that it was me sticking to my standards which led my then boyfriend to want to respectfully ask my parents for my hand in marriage at the age 21. We remained engaged, and since he was older he waited for me to graduate. We were completely broke college grads and he gave his last to buy me an engagement ring. Although we learned and grew together I was clueless to relationships but understood my value and was an extremely driven biomedical science major destined to graduate without getting sidetracked. I never felt pressured, or no Jedi mind tricks, because I think he knew I would have kept walking. So, he was patient. I thought this was the norm. And even in marriage with having surgeries or when I was ill and even giving birth to our 2 children he still waited. The right one will wait. Tony is absolutely 100% right and on point with this.
WOW, thanks. That's a refreshing testimony.
Wow. Amazing. This is encouraging. 🙏🏾
Loving your story ❤️
Excellent! Thanks for sharing ❤️
Excellent word of encouragement & on your life's blessing from God 💗💕🥰😘🙏🙏 in you & your husband's marriage & life together with your children,!!!!!!!!!
God 🙏🙏🤣🤣 bless you !!!!!!!!
Exactly!! If he knows you are the woman for him, he will wait..period. If he doesn’t wait…..Bye 👋🏼✌🏼life is too short, ijs. Continue to stay and be blessed! 🙏🏼
This is wayyy more complicated than I thought! I may be single a loooong time
I used to believe this.
@@YourFaveScribe what do u believe
Getting right with God is #1. I've been told by a man that if I dont give it up then another woman would 🚩. Wait on The Lord!!! God Bless you Tony! We appreciate you so much!
Let her get pushed & dogged out & cheated on or abandoned with his 🐥🍼 baby suddenly & not let that be you!!!
God's guy will honor you 💖🌞🙏 & his on body as God commands us to be holy with our body, decisions & he gives the blessed results for submitting to God's plan in faith our right guy is coming & we need to be ready not tripping with some user.
@@alishadennis7769 🔥🔥🔥
Wow somebody said fr ? Yes I agree when GOD sends the right person he will wait
"Puerta Rick-uh" had me at dead 😂
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TG stop please stop! I was like where😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 LOL
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SCREAMING 💀😂😂😂😂
This makes me know that I’m not wasting my time holding out. I’m 30 and a virgin and I’ve had a variety of characters tell me that no man will wait, I’m missing out, I should just try it. Missing out on what? STDs and heartbreak?? Tuh!
amennnnn
KEEP yours! They just wanna mess you up mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally
I wanted to wait till marriage but started to waiver as I got in my mid 20's. Right before I gave in and I met my husband through a mutual friend who knew what we were looking for in a relationship. My husband required that we wait till marriage. We got engaged within 6 months and married within a year.
The “right” man will wait for me!! The one that won’t , isn’t for me! Keep it moving!!
Preach😌😌
Yep. I’ve eliminated so many f boys by not opening my legs. I’m sure they ran online to find an easy woman to boost their destroyed ego
Bottomline...stand on it.
Honestly the wait is for Christians if he’s not a Christian he’s not waiting so it’s basically for us to weed out the bad and get with a godly man these men that are not Christian will not wait. It’s like if you meet someone he needs to get to know you so he can wait
right. if hes not christian, im not waiting for him to wait for me. he's getting the boot early.
@@tjaspire Well said Amen 💯🎯💯
So called Christian men don't wait either. Sadly it's the case alot.
Well the deacon wouldn’t wait for me sooooo he’s BLOCKED! It has nothing to do with being a Christian.
The “spread like a eagle” part always take me out 🤣🤣🤣
me too lollllllllllll
Me too 🤣
are there women out there who spread like that for a man they barely know?? I need answers
@@j-tenn226 LMAOOOO aren’t you one of them
@@Sandrinarhonda virgin, so no. Way to assume
I've had one guy recently playing such mind games and I blocked him. I know my worth and I will not entertain nonsense just to have a man in my life. I'm open to receiving a decent man who's worthy of a Queen like me; meanwhile I'm good working on myself and my purpose
Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divorce,.. ......
I just want to say, I’ve listened to Tony G for a year. After I healed from past relationships trauma. I legit followed Tony G to almost a T! And I’m now engaged In under a year after we met.... A man will indeed for sure wait when you are the woman he wants!!!! I will be married in a few months ❤️ we are finalizing our wedding!
Tony G is a blessing and I’m so happy God guided me to his page and I followed what he teaches!!!
Congratulations girl❤️
Congratulations!!!
Congratulations! Tony makes a lot of sense..because he knows men
All glory to God!
yes..a male friend told me that years ago..'you ll find someone who will wait'
Waiting is worth it, it preserves your soul. By not waiting can cause to develop soul ties.
That “massage no funny business “ is always a setup! Run sis
exactly if Russell can wait on Ciara for marriage these men can too !
If you plan on waiting until marriage then there should be no trips together alone, no drinking and no massages.
➕2349063731650⏸⏯⏯???????????????....
@@LA-wv7gf yes, have clear cut boundaries.
Facts.
🙅🏽♀️
Don’t be staying out at his house late at night either
Tony got me over here emotional and teary eyed because this is a painful truth. And I don’t know why some black men do this to black women including the “Christian” ones. Tony is God sent for real and teaching us how to recognize game
God bless your soul ❤️💯🥺
Ephesians 6;12 Is why
We get hurt needlessly when we don't have plans, healthy Godly boundaries & standards with the good expectations.
We can't let being lonely, thirsty, impatient with kissed faith for God 🙏🙏 to help us both get ready for God 🙏🙏 yo put both together - prepared as healthy 🌟 💕💕, life mind & spirits to match rightly with our right partner. Being in our purpose affects who are mate will be are it should. Being healed 😊, faith filled & happy not expecting a mate to make us happy is key to being ready.
Adding to each other's lives & God given purpose to serve God 🙏🙏 together but in our own purpose that still match is a way God works with love 💘🙏😘💘 & marriage as well!!!!!!!
I'm that 1%. Still doing it!! Self control and powerful!
I'm dating this guy whom I met when he was coming back from military service. I was through all of it. Every type of abuse, molestation, lived in sin for years. I was done with romantic life. Nothing was romantic about me and my life. And I met a first man in my life who claims he's a virgin. I am a born again virgin for 2.5 years now. I'm not saying that he'll be my husband, but the quality of men I started to meet after listening to Tony! All of them are nice guys, gentle, have jobs and aspirations, no abuse, and we don't have to be sleeping on the first date! It's like a fairy tale. NO MORE ABUSE! WOW! Thank you Tony!
This is such a beautiful testimony! Keep raising your standards and watch GOD show up and show out!
I've had men use some of these tactics that Tony is describing. This message is what I needed to hear. Thank you Tony. G
Where they at I need a vacation with all expenses paid
Not only is he giving good advise, he’s helping us save our sanity.
Lol at Tony's pronunciation of Puerto Rico (porta ricka lol) 🤣 8:47
I’ve heard many men and women say they need to TEST it out before making the marriage step because s3x is so important to them.
But there’s some that will indeed wait. Me personally, I’m not as concerned by that as I am a man’s character, integrity, values, etc. Once married, y’all can teach one another about your preferences, etc.
Yes, teach each other your intimate needs but with Gods awesome 😎💖🌞 blessings on your marriage & sex life big time.
You trust in God & he will have the right man for you ,& without 🌠🍁 nor sex games to try it first that's an excuse for men to use to get in your bed. You right to trust God's way not a man's way.
@Priscilla This is why many say they need to test it. It’s true, people have gotten whole divorces over bad s3x so it plays a role 🤣
@Priscilla Yeah, it’s a big thing. That’s the only person you’re intimate with or else it’s cheating. Also, if you’re not getting your needs met, that opens the door for cheating to happen. I’m not going against the message but that’s still an issue to consider as well. I guess everything has a risk so that’s one risk if you wait till marriage 😅 They also had a room on Clubhouse and 99% of the men said this would not be realistic because of this 🤷🏽♀️ 😬
@Priscilla Yeah, I think we just need to pray this one out for understanding and clarity 😂🙏🏽💙 (if you read this, please make a video about this,Tony)
Yes character is far more important than sex.
A true man, especially man of God should and will wait. That's why as Christian's and women and men of God we should be equally yoked. On the same accord, honoring God and getting to know one another outside of the bedroom. And just because a man allows you into his bedroom, doesn't mean he'll allow you in his heart. Love begins in the heart, and lust begins in the bedroom. If a man feels in his heart that you're THE One, he'll embrace the challenge and the wait. Dating is data-ing, collecting data, to see if he's potentially THE One. Keep God first, don't compromise your Christian values, pray up and be discerning of who you date.
🙏🏼💖💍💎
A very good comment.
@@wandamajette5000 Thank you.
@@c.l.9344 yesss ma’am I adore your comments
@@Sandrinarhonda Thanks sis', just spreading a little knowledge. God bless you! 🙏🏼💖
Really needed to hear this.. Last guy I spoke to i cut it off.. Not dealing with mind games... N only wanting sex.. I have tons of self respect for myself 👊
Thanks for confirming this topic again. Sometimes we need to be reassured. Be blessed.
Tony thank you for reminding us to stay right.. not given into “Porta Ricka“/games lol.
LOL @ porta ricka 🇵🇷
@@c.l.9344 Ok. Lol😂
😂😂😂😂
I laughed so hard when he said that. LOL
@@ewomick ok. & Watching
“Porta Rickn” tv lol
Thank you for this message Tony. There’s so much foolishness out here and Jedi mind tricks where so-called men will say “oh I have to get the sex out of the way.” That makes no sense at all and it shows he has no genuine interest. As women we have to use discernment. 🙏🏾✨
You got me when you broke it down CHEMICALLY
Some wine and feeling fine 😹
Brother tony you don’t know how much we needed this one right here!!!🙌🏾
I can’t with you, you too funny!!🤣🤣🤣 But it’s the truth.. I’m the 1%
Mean cause a man spend money on you, and can take you on trips doesn't mean he is the one for you. Most times its only a one time thing when a man does this but, after he gets what he wants from a woman, he may not lavish her again.
nowadays no one wants to wait everyone lusting it’s sad
Lol I had a drink watching this 😂🤣🤣
I know you laughed 😂 and it’s All truth..
@@bridgethampton5433 yes his hand movements and his wording cracks me up yo. I’m always waiting for the upside down v he does with the hand the “ broke busted and Disgusted . The U HEA ME, and the GOD BLESS YA 😂🤣🤣🤣
A real man will wait
Wow…This was right on time! God knew b/c this has been on my mind heavy for the past few days.I was just looking at the society we live in & the type of men that I encounter, it seemed so impossible.Thanks for confirmation that a man will indeed wait🙌🏾
Stay strong sister 😘💪🏼
@@keziahbrutus Thank you sis! You do the same💓💪🏾
Does a man know what he wants from a woman besides sex? As a women I think it’s disgusting for a man to seem like he’s waiting by the door for the go ahead. I’d rather be by myself.
I’m at work tuned in! 🧘🏽♀️ Be blessed uncle Tony G!
Same.
Absolutely! Growth will make you stop doing stuff you used to do. Great knowledge
“You find out if u saved or not when you driving”😂😂this man cracks me up in every video!
The RIGHT one will wait - point bank periodt! Don’t stoop to their level allow them to rise to YOURS.
You are right Tony, the man who seriously desires that woman will wait. And for those who do not wait, it is good to know because then you set them aside. Value yourself as a woman so that others can value you. Wait for committment of marriage AND marry, then no more wait. ❤
Actions speak louder than words. So if you are willing to do overnight travel with him then he knows you are already compromised.
I have traveled many times with no sex involved. It has also been a first date in the past where I am invited on vacation as the date. Majority of this is how you carry yourself. I haven't had many men "try" me.
@@amandaslay6045
Wow you've travelled overnight with someone as a first date. If you don't mind me asking,"How long into the relationship was the 1st date and where did you go"?
@@wandamajette5000 Hi! Within the first 3 months. One guy we went to Orlando and the other Toronto/Niagara Falls as first dates
Bingo
I believe this whole heartedly.
“portaaa rika” i am cryingggggg
this is so on point. i feel this man knows I'm his wife and he comes back before the 90 days seeing if i've moved on. I will not answer again.
Pair this info from TG w/ Redefined TV (Jerry Flowers- pastor)...Unlearning your Type, Cuffing Season 2 series. Praising/Thanking God for these gems!!!
Yessss!
Thank you for the reminder and *example* of how to not be quick to anger while driving. I’ve been struggling with that a lot lately. 😓
Glad I'm not the only one that caught it 🙌🏽💖
The right man will understand and wait. If he breaks up or ghosts before then, he's done you a favour and was just after one thing.
Tony I'm not one for many comments but is the best and you put a little funny spin on it. I am so agreeable with what you have said. I am a saved woman and as some say "ole school". Keep up the good work. Blessings to you and yours
Whew!! This was so good Tony & so very true!! You have got to stick to your standards & not give in no matter what because they will wait & prove to you that you are worth tihe wait💯🎯
Great and pertinent video as usual however your sweet/oldest baby boy’s comment about his shirt was too cute 😊
I truly commend 👏🏽 you and your wife!
The men that have "waited" for me in the past, I know 100% were sleeping with other women to fill that void
Very few are truly waiting.
This is the REALITY we have to face
So he wasnt really faithfully waiting.they were waiting for you to give it up, but had others that were giving it up. We as Women need to do better to get better.
@@InspiredUno True. If it's not another woman, it's their hand.
These men out here are pathetic.
This video subject is RATTT on time!!! Thanks TonyG
Tony where they go!🥴😂😂😂
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I love him he so funny!😂
Tony keeps it all the way 100.... 💯
Porta rican😂😂I love it … great great message💪🏾💪🏾
"Do podcast in the dark" 😂 Tony is hilarious yet insightful.
My fiance and I live together sleep in the same bed and have never had sex!!...When I told him I wanted to wait from the beginning of our relationship he respected me and first and foremost GOD enough to wait until our commitment ceremony...YES a man will wait for the Woman he truly loves with every fiber of his being 💕 I had a comment of why we live together so if I may add he's Quadriplegic so he requires 24 hour care so a commitment ceremony is the best way to Vow before God During COVID-19 and his condition!.. he's in the hospital now very sick please send your prayers up 🙏🏽 Thank You
Wow! What a testimony!
Shouldn't you not live together before marriage though? Isn't that still out of Gods order?!
@@c.l.9344 No because he is paralyzed and in need of 24 hour care so I wouldn't expect to be the full woman in his life I should be.. by not caring for him! 🙏🏽
@@joyceparker5626 Thank You 🙂
@@Tlenee5418 Oh, wow. My apologies, God bless you and your husband. 🙏🏼💖
I needed this pep talk, Tony. Thank you!!
"Does that ring a bell to you" took me out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Great message Tony👏🏽
Omg 😱 I wish I came across this video 2-3 years ago. My ex boyfriend really showed out with all the wining, dining and shopping. Next thing you know, we took it past first base until he eventually hit a home run 😫. After all my years of abstinence, I got finessed. Had to break up with him because ultimately he was not my person (husband) and I didn’t want to sin anymore. (The sin debts weren’t fun to pay.) Ladies, Tony is 100% correct! Stick to your guns no matter what. Don’t let a man pursue you like that unless you know this man is going to put a ring on it and marry you before sex. P.S. Son at the end is super adorable and well mannered! 🙌💯
Tony is so funny talking about some men who do podcast in the dark. The shade is soo direct😂
I want some names lmao but I know he’s classier than that.
@@j-tenn226 Honestly! I stay cracked up with Tony
Thank you for this wonderful reminder. Also, when I say I love the relationship you have with your sons, I love to see it. May God bless your family.
Why would anyone want to be with someone like this smh all the games
People! I feel like we're on Tony's ark at this point. Like this World is going somewhere else and we have the chance to survive and keep our values (or find them!)
After a year of being abstinent i came off my back to only get screwed an ghosted. Wow
I am sorry that that happened to you.
SMH , I don’t understand why you women allow that to happen.
🤣🤣🤣 OOOOH! Bro Tony!! OOOOH OOOH!! That’s It RIGHT THERE… 💯💯💯I LOVE IT! SPEAK Man of God!!! You on Point here! 🤣🤣🤣 THANK YOU!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 God Bless you in EVERY WAY!!!
Thanks Tony. Tony🤦it's so much going on right now til I'm very thankful that I have a head start in listening to your videos 😭like you said earlier ( I need to start believing in myself more) and I'm so guilty of that. God bless us women of God, He is able.
East coast here---up late and learning!!
My bf waited for me since we were both 19 years until 25 years old
Literally this right on time for me thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Maaannn this video is so good!!
exactly.. they dont want women to make their own decisions and have their own opinions..I notice it..they d. dismiss you and become aggressive..and wont ever pursue in fact
💎💭 Hey Tony!! Can you please do a video on certain men insisting that overseas women are better than American women (in terms of femininity & submissiveness).Please share your thoughts on this. Thank you!!
Contact him for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divorce,.. ...........
Tony: You find out if you really saved or not when you driving.
Me:😳 Tell the truth shame the devil.
Thank you so much Tony for sharing this video with me. You were spot on! It’s like the scenario you gave, as I was listening I was that woman. I’ve been with that man that you were describing. Thank you for giving The amazing depiction of reality for most women at least for me anyway.
Ahhh, many people were waiting for this message
AWESOME VIDEO.
No lies told Tony!!! You right on!
Thank you Tony for the words of wisdom and encouragement to keep pushing through!!
Why do men play these crazy games! That's so childish. I know I've turned down at least 50 men, probably more, because I'm not compromizing any more. I don't care how much money he has. If he is the one God has for me, he will wait until the marriage night! I ain't compromizing! Been celebrate 7 years now. Wow God! guess I'm in the 1%. In the end I know I will win this game! Tony if you know of a 1% man that loves God and is doing well financially, because I am, please send him my way! Also, I'm a content writer on my job. Please let me know howI can get into the ghost writing business. Thanks for your reply Tony!
amennnn. we chilling not letting no man finesse us with these lavish things.
Heyyyyyy Tony III, what up young man. Great word brother Tony. Thank you
Thank you Thank you Thank you Tony!🙏🏾
Thank you, Mr. Tony! This is such good reinforcement. If you have the time, would you mind speaking on whether you should go on vacation with someone before marriage and what boundaries you should set? For instance, if I push for separate bedrooms and he is against it, I think that’s a red flag, but I’d be happy to know your thoughts on the matter. Thank you again for being an unashamed man of God!
In his discussion he talks about this will typically play out. It will be that 1 percent that won't be persuaded.
I have done this many times successfully. You did list a red flag though. Odd for someone to be against you having your own room. Was it because he was paying for 2 rooms? lol
Amen, Beyoncé, Michael Jackson, Michael Jordan 🙌 ...pressing on...1%
Let's do this 💪
Thank you Tony... thank you so much... we love and appreciate your wisdom..💙...
Waving back! 👋🏿 👋🏿
Thanks!
Bro Tony you sooooo funny not he going to feel dejected 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Be Blessed 😊
Luv u tony gaskins..u an ur wife im disappointed in myself
haaahaha ima already give you a like just cuz of how you tell a true story só funny
''come on nah'' haahahah
Tony, can you please speak on virgins and how men feel about virgins that are waiting until marriage. Is this something that turns most men off?
If being a virgin does turn a guy off he isn’t worth your time anyways. Trust me guys like that are the worst you don’t want them lol
Be bless.
Hi Mr.Gaskins thank you for another great video.God bless you 🙏
Vacations and massages are my Kryptonite. Sorry. Lol. 🙈
What’s crazy is I swear the other day I said “I want to ask Tony to do a video on going on a vacation before marriage.”
What's your question? I have done it many times with no sex involved. It has also been a first date in the past.
I wouldn't have let a man spend that sort of money on me, or even go on a big vacation/trip with him unless he was my husband, maybe fiance. It's one thing to pay for dinners, or small gifts and excursions. I don't even mind a little road trip or something small like that, but an all-expenses paid, extended trip to Puerto Rico?..absolutely not.
If you go on vacay, to Purto Ricka (Puerto Rico) as Tony would say. You have have clean cut boundaries.
@@amandaslay6045 did u share a room and did it lead to a ring?
@@mlitt1996 I agree I feel the same way.