My son has autism. I gave him chores growing up that matched his age and ability level. I did my best to encourage him to develop his own level of independence because I knew that the best thing I could do for him to is to assist him in becoming a self-sufficient human being. Whether your kids are developmentally delayed or not, parents are responsible for teaching their children to become productive members of society. He is now 24 and is doing remarkably well. He's working at a job he loves and is happy and well-adjusted and quite independent. If your child grows up to be productive, independent and can live on their own, you've done your job as a parent!
Nah!! The ADHD one really wound me up. First of all, real ableist of the friends mother to assume that people with ADHD are so disabled that we can’t do basic chores. We can, it’s hard at times, but we can and we must. Second of all, especially as teenagers, we not only have to learn the general concept of chores and housekeeping but also we have to find ways to do the chores that work for us. This girl has an advantage cause she’s already diagnosed, so this system will inevitably let her figure things out plus she already said she doesn’t mind the system. The friend and the mother are out of line there and you can already see how entitled this friend is. Kudos to the OP for such an great system. I wish I had one of those (grew up with undiagnosed ADHD 😅).
The mom is also teaching her daughter how to work with her ADHD to get those things done. There’s a reward system and easy and clear reminders around the home. This mom is giving her daughter all the tools she can to help her be successful. Another ADHDer here
I would've filed the police report anyways and just gave everyone a heads up that it was coming. It's my car and I get to decide what happens when someone else damaged it.
ADHD is sometimes debilitating and can be paired with debilitating conditions. It still doesn't stop people from needing to learn to be responsible adults, and chores can go a long way towards that.
Story 1: In a Filipino household, we're used into cooking more than expected if there's a guest coming in, so that they can bring home some of it. Still, not a reason to take the food of a pregnant hostess.
As someone who has ADHD kids IT's a fantastic Idea, I also am a support worker to kids with ADHD etc and THis is definatly something we use. ADHD loves reward, They enjoy doing things and they can Hyper focus and often cleaning is one of those things that can help. Having a list is perfect because it gives her less pressure trying to remember them. Great job mum, don't let anyone tell you different.
As someone diagnosed with ADHD I fully support this mom! Way better than the system we had when I was a kid / teenager (no board just expectations - and a hell lot of passive-aggressive snarky comments - and of course no payment).
As someone who has a manager at work who has ADHD who literally can not function I think this is amazing. Basically this manager treats everyone with no respect (excluding one associate they like and their 3 superiors) and constantly makes mistakes or just neglects to do their job entirely making the rest of us fix or pick up the slack. They are constantly leaving early or calling out and basically saying that their brain works so differently that they can’t cope like others and nothing can be done.
15:59 I’m ADD/ADHD and I did chores growing up and I didn’t get paid for them but now it’s safe to say I can hyper focus at work and get task done efficiently and correctly. I do have off days but my coworkers understand how me and my brain work to help me stay being an effective coworker because of things I discovered worked to keep my on task at home when doing chores.
Exactly. One thing is potentially needing accommodations for those off days (like your coworkers understanding how your brain works). Another thing is to use ADHD as an excuse to not do anything and expect the world to revolve around you, which if what I think the friend of the OP’s daughter already showing to believe in.
Chore Story: In my house there were 2 kinds of chores 1. You are part of this family and live here chores ie cleaning your bathroom, taking out trash, etc things that help with the mess you make as a member of the household and family. 2. Optional extra chores - things that make you money. We gave our son an allowance that was based on age, participation in school & sports, and completing the bulk of #1 chores. This was given biweekly and was mostly based on behavior and school because he was a very busy athlete so consistency in chores was more difficult especially during seasons. However if he wanted to earn extra money he knew he could do extra chores to earn money and we would add that to his allowance. We decided on giving the allowance regardless of amount of chores because of his busy schedule with sports and other activities, we wanted him to learn to budget and as an only child we did not want him to feel that he could/would/should just get what he wanted when he wanted. So the set allowance that could and was taken away when the attitude was bad. But also the opportunity to say hey I can go out and rake the leaves for $2 a pile and make some extra money. BTW he also has High Functioning Anxiety along with sensory issues so not exactly neuro-typical over here. As far as using the ADHD as a disability - that actually does not surprise me. I am a Gen-Xer with an 18yr old child so that should give you an idea of my age LOL Anyway - when I was growing up I had a friend who lived down the street, one day her mom calls us in and sits me down very seriously at their table. She wants to talk to me about my friend B. You see there was something that I needed to know about B, something that made her different. Something that made it important that I was kinder, gentler, more patient with B. My 9 year old brain is going crazy thinking she has some kind of condition and hoping that none of the games we had played had hurt her. Nope, B was dyslexic, yup dyslexic. When I went home and talked to my mom she pointed out the other people in my life who were also dyslexic that were all just fine. She fully explained to me what it meant. Me being a well above grade level reader who had always been asked to help thought it was great that we were friends that I would be able to help her. Nope, that was not a thing, she could not be helped. I couldn’t help her she was gonna live with this the rest of her life and I should never bring this up again because it was mean to brag about how well I could read. So long story long she believed she couldn’t do, be, achieve anything because of her dyslexia and she barely graduated high school. My other friends with dyslexia, all successful in their careers. I feel sad for that girl whose mom thinks that her ADHD is a disability. I have so many amazing people in my life with ADHD - most if not all extremely successful in their lives and careers. All because no one ever told them it was a disability or let them believe it was. Good job to the OP for teaching her daughter how to LIVE with ADHD not suffer from it.
John was sleeping with Amy before they went on the vacation or he had given her all of the signals that he had intended to, and was interested in her Hopefully original poster has moved out😊😊
The adhd one your job as a parent is to prepare your child for the next phase of life that is what op is doing the other mother is likely failing in her job as a parent and needs to wake up
Story 5: Idk how people come to be married to a spouse that is still under a parent's thumb. I would be surprised to learn that he showed no other red flags when it comes to his mother. Usually most MILs aren't dumb enough to demand to hold a newborn b4 the parents. I can only imagine the levels to which she will try to intrude with the baby. Hubby better get on the same page as OP & quick or get to steppin'. I'd be dragging him.to couples counseling so someone outside the situation can referee. I think OP said nothing when husband 1st tried telling her he'd keep MIL out of delivery in order for her to be 1st to hold the baby because she knew there was no reasoning with him. That was another mistake because he took her silence to mean agreement & she had to know he would do that because of how he was speaking. He wasn't leaving room for her to say no & wasn't asking. Fair if she just didn't want to keep talking about it in that moment but the issue was never resolved & they thought they got their way. No bueno. This is another red flag for controlling behavior-for which it appears he got from mommy dearest. I hope OP is okay & found peace in this situation.
Story 1: I though MIL was the asshole until OP said she was pregnant. Then I went into a minor rage at MIL. Literally taking food from your pregnant Daughter in Law is fucking ridiculous. Especially when she's doing chores before she gets to sit down and eat! Unreal. Fuck that MIL
I've been with my fiance for almost 5 yrs, every holiday the family gets together besides almost never bringing anything for the meal the rest of the fam take food home. His cousin and hubby even have been bringing their own containers because they know and expect to take food home 😒
Story 3: our special needs so has chores. Easy things like helping with taking out the trash, opening/closing the blinds, putting his clean clothes away, etc. he has to become as functional as possible with no one doing everything for him.
I personally have ADD and my middle son has ADHD. You will have responsibilities as an adult that you can't run away from. You have to learn ways to do what you need to do. My son absolutely has chores. It may mean I have to basically hold his hand while he does it sometimes but I still hold him responsible. He has chores he does simply because he is a part of this house and he has optional chores for an allowance
Story 2: BF should be thrilled that his GF went so far to get that bill down. And to be honest, sometimes you DO need to pester them. Otherwise they'll just brush people off.
You… think the hospital isn’t aware they’re overcharging? All she did was make the next ten patients bill’s 8x the average instead of 7x so they can make up the difference they just lost.
Lmaoooo imagine telling my African mother to pay me for my chores. ND people are not incapable of simple tasks, the other mum needs to mind your household
I can relate with the chores part for story 3, my family usually made me and my brother have chores (we had chore charts on the fridge but we took them down a while ago since we don’t use them anymore) and we used to never get money for them the only reason why we started to get money was because I cleaned a huge pile of dishes (our stove and counter had piles of it due to us being behind with a bunch of stuff going on) and I ended had to somewhat clean a huge pot of moldy spaghetti to the point I couldn’t even finish it and my dad had to clean the rest but my mom paid me because of how big the task was. Causing a domino effect where my brother would ask for money when he did chores since he found out I got some. The whole money part can be not even an option for some people, like my close friend cleans her whole house due to how her family is and they see it as something she has to do or else the house will never be clean (I won’t go too much into detail with that due to certain details)
Story 3: genuinely wish my mom would have done a chore chart for my ADHD ass too cause I can barely function doing chores. She did when I was little but having that structure as a teen it would have been nice.
I never get these MIL stories, I had the absolute best mother in law ever . In her eyes I could do no wrong and same with my kids all of them I brought 3 kids into the marriage. My first MIl was MIA so when the marriage was over I just moved on . So with my second marriage my MIL was one of my best friends. I thank god every day for her being in my life , she was an amazing woman. I will miss her every day.
Pretty sure the hospital is gonna continue charging ppl 7x more than they should. They dont care whose lives they ruin. The only reason they cared here is she was gonna cause them pain otherwise.
When a hospital makes a big boo boo it takes a bit of insistence to get it made right sometimes the red tape it takes to get through paper and its pushers🤷
No chores because of ADHD? My great-grandson (8) has autism. My granddaughter, his mother, has him and the other 2 boys (7 and 5) do chores. These chores are on their individual white boards. These boys can wash dishes, vacuum, make beds, general clean-up. They get paid with monopoly money that their parents let them exchange for special or extra treats and also teach them how to save to get something special at the store (toy, game, whatever). The 8 YO is the most helpful of all. He appreciated the ability to make extra "money" and the concept of saving is exciting to him. ADHD an excuse? Pu....lease......
13:46 ADHD adult here with Autistic traits. I served in the Army and am self employed as a truck driver. To the friends mom and everyone like her, quit infatilizing us. We're not incapable, our brains just operate a little differently.
I wish my parents had given me more chores🤷🏼♀️ I had chores but not enough to set realistic standards for adulthood my first few months on my own was a nightmare! I also didn’t get paid for chores 😅 my parents provided me everything I needed and quite a few things I wanted I didn’t need an allowance for anything other than maybe some early lessons in money management 🥴
As a kid I was never given chores. My mom was told she was infertile after losing her 4th pregnancy so I was her miracle child. I never had to do anything for myself. My siblings were mostly grown up and had no issues, but as an adult I'm now trying to work out how to cook and basically adult. I wish I was given chores and shown how to do things even though teenage me would have bitched about it. BTW my dad worked overseas and was not involved in parenting duties as he didn't have a paternal bone in his body.
Also my daughter has ADHD, and neither of us or her doctor have ever characterized it as a disability. I’ve never seen my Daughter as developmentally disabled. Distracted? Yes. Amazing smart with a 4.0 GPA and capable of everything? Yes
Adhd causes debilitating DAYS not an entire life it’s only debilitating lifelong if you are never taught coping skills to help you have a fruitful life but at your speed🙌🏼 I have adhd some days I can’t take the squirrel but most days my medications and day to day habits I have in place make most days functionality easily attainable
Disabled seriously the writing it on the board probably works really well and is accommodating I have adhd and am a teen just because a kid has adhd doesn’t mean they can’t be a functioning member of society or take care of themselves like it is hard it really is but never doing it then being alone is the worst idea because they don’t even know where to start that really pissed me offfff leave other parents alone
There’s a certain population that thinks the world needs to learn to adapt to people who are neurodivergent rather than those people adapting to society, and sometimes they take that to the point of being detrimental to those people, because they’re giving those kids excuses to not learn or try things rather than expecting them to figure out how to do things in ways that work for them and being cooperative in that learning.
Bill Reduction - I typically agree with your assessment of the ascon scale but I completely disagree with you on this one. No person deserves to be harassed for doing their job. I understand the company had made choices but support all the way to the board were no responsible for these decisions. I think I am with the boyfriend on this because of the tone and nature of how the people were treated. You didn’t see the emails and there could have been a significant amount of vulgarity or threats. We are responsible for our actions in a vacuum (only responsible for yourself). Would you treat people this way without the bill? No? Then you shouldn’t treat people that way. End of story. I think he should be grateful but I think she did go overboard. Ascon 4 to both.
Highly doubt there was "vulgarity and threats." Nothing in her post suggests she would speak that way to the administration. *that belief is reinforced after a trip to the post to see OP comments.
Story 2: NTA that’s exactly how you have to go about those bills.
My son has autism. I gave him chores growing up that matched his age and ability level. I did my best to encourage him to develop his own level of independence because I knew that the best thing I could do for him to is to assist him in becoming a self-sufficient human being. Whether your kids are developmentally delayed or not, parents are responsible for teaching their children to become productive members of society. He is now 24 and is doing remarkably well. He's working at a job he loves and is happy and well-adjusted and quite independent. If your child grows up to be productive, independent and can live on their own, you've done your job as a parent!
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Nah!! The ADHD one really wound me up. First of all, real ableist of the friends mother to assume that people with ADHD are so disabled that we can’t do basic chores. We can, it’s hard at times, but we can and we must. Second of all, especially as teenagers, we not only have to learn the general concept of chores and housekeeping but also we have to find ways to do the chores that work for us. This girl has an advantage cause she’s already diagnosed, so this system will inevitably let her figure things out plus she already said she doesn’t mind the system. The friend and the mother are out of line there and you can already see how entitled this friend is. Kudos to the OP for such an great system. I wish I had one of those (grew up with undiagnosed ADHD 😅).
The mom is also teaching her daughter how to work with her ADHD to get those things done. There’s a reward system and easy and clear reminders around the home. This mom is giving her daughter all the tools she can to help her be successful. Another ADHDer here
Yep. It make me mad because all of this is actually very useful for her now and in the future, it's important know that you need to do certain things
I would've filed the police report anyways and just gave everyone a heads up that it was coming. It's my car and I get to decide what happens when someone else damaged it.
ADHD is sometimes debilitating and can be paired with debilitating conditions. It still doesn't stop people from needing to learn to be responsible adults, and chores can go a long way towards that.
Story 1: In a Filipino household, we're used into cooking more than expected if there's a guest coming in, so that they can bring home some of it. Still, not a reason to take the food of a pregnant hostess.
As someone who has ADHD kids IT's a fantastic Idea, I also am a support worker to kids with ADHD etc and THis is definatly something we use. ADHD loves reward, They enjoy doing things and they can Hyper focus and often cleaning is one of those things that can help. Having a list is perfect because it gives her less pressure trying to remember them. Great job mum, don't let anyone tell you different.
As someone diagnosed with ADHD I fully support this mom! Way better than the system we had when I was a kid / teenager (no board just expectations - and a hell lot of passive-aggressive snarky comments - and of course no payment).
As someone who has a manager at work who has ADHD who literally can not function I think this is amazing. Basically this manager treats everyone with no respect (excluding one associate they like and their 3 superiors) and constantly makes mistakes or just neglects to do their job entirely making the rest of us fix or pick up the slack. They are constantly leaving early or calling out and basically saying that their brain works so differently that they can’t cope like others and nothing can be done.
15:59 I’m ADD/ADHD and I did chores growing up and I didn’t get paid for them but now it’s safe to say I can hyper focus at work and get task done efficiently and correctly. I do have off days but my coworkers understand how me and my brain work to help me stay being an effective coworker because of things I discovered worked to keep my on task at home when doing chores.
Exactly. One thing is potentially needing accommodations for those off days (like your coworkers understanding how your brain works). Another thing is to use ADHD as an excuse to not do anything and expect the world to revolve around you, which if what I think the friend of the OP’s daughter already showing to believe in.
Chore Story: In my house there were 2 kinds of chores 1. You are part of this family and live here chores ie cleaning your bathroom, taking out trash, etc things that help with the mess you make as a member of the household and family. 2. Optional extra chores - things that make you money. We gave our son an allowance that was based on age, participation in school & sports, and completing the bulk of #1 chores. This was given biweekly and was mostly based on behavior and school because he was a very busy athlete so consistency in chores was more difficult especially during seasons. However if he wanted to earn extra money he knew he could do extra chores to earn money and we would add that to his allowance. We decided on giving the allowance regardless of amount of chores because of his busy schedule with sports and other activities, we wanted him to learn to budget and as an only child we did not want him to feel that he could/would/should just get what he wanted when he wanted. So the set allowance that could and was taken away when the attitude was bad. But also the opportunity to say hey I can go out and rake the leaves for $2 a pile and make some extra money. BTW he also has High Functioning Anxiety along with sensory issues so not exactly neuro-typical over here.
As far as using the ADHD as a disability - that actually does not surprise me. I am a Gen-Xer with an 18yr old child so that should give you an idea of my age LOL Anyway - when I was growing up I had a friend who lived down the street, one day her mom calls us in and sits me down very seriously at their table. She wants to talk to me about my friend B. You see there was something that I needed to know about B, something that made her different. Something that made it important that I was kinder, gentler, more patient with B. My 9 year old brain is going crazy thinking she has some kind of condition and hoping that none of the games we had played had hurt her. Nope, B was dyslexic, yup dyslexic. When I went home and talked to my mom she pointed out the other people in my life who were also dyslexic that were all just fine. She fully explained to me what it meant. Me being a well above grade level reader who had always been asked to help thought it was great that we were friends that I would be able to help her. Nope, that was not a thing, she could not be helped. I couldn’t help her she was gonna live with this the rest of her life and I should never bring this up again because it was mean to brag about how well I could read. So long story long she believed she couldn’t do, be, achieve anything because of her dyslexia and she barely graduated high school. My other friends with dyslexia, all successful in their careers.
I feel sad for that girl whose mom thinks that her ADHD is a disability. I have so many amazing people in my life with ADHD - most if not all extremely successful in their lives and careers. All because no one ever told them it was a disability or let them believe it was.
Good job to the OP for teaching her daughter how to LIVE with ADHD not suffer from it.
“Mike” will become an abuser. He’s insecure and is alienating her already.
Mike: blah blah blah
Me: byeeeeeee!
I have ADHD and it *can* be debilitating if uncontrolled. Sounds like OP and her daughter have a system that works. OP is def not the AH.
Texting another persons man at 3 in the morning says it all. It’s unacceptable either way. Theirs no good reason for it.
Husband needs a gold star for being on wife side.
Story 3: Lesley needs to get in line as doing chores for money is normal
John was sleeping with Amy before they went on the vacation or he had given her all of the signals that he had intended to, and was interested in her
Hopefully original poster has moved out😊😊
The adhd one your job as a parent is to prepare your child for the next phase of life that is what op is doing the other mother is likely failing in her job as a parent and needs to wake up
Story 5: Idk how people come to be married to a spouse that is still under a parent's thumb. I would be surprised to learn that he showed no other red flags when it comes to his mother. Usually most MILs aren't dumb enough to demand to hold a newborn b4 the parents. I can only imagine the levels to which she will try to intrude with the baby. Hubby better get on the same page as OP & quick or get to steppin'. I'd be dragging him.to couples counseling so someone outside the situation can referee. I think OP said nothing when husband 1st tried telling her he'd keep MIL out of delivery in order for her to be 1st to hold the baby because she knew there was no reasoning with him. That was another mistake because he took her silence to mean agreement & she had to know he would do that because of how he was speaking. He wasn't leaving room for her to say no & wasn't asking. Fair if she just didn't want to keep talking about it in that moment but the issue was never resolved & they thought they got their way. No bueno. This is another red flag for controlling behavior-for which it appears he got from mommy dearest. I hope OP is okay & found peace in this situation.
Story 1: I though MIL was the asshole until OP said she was pregnant. Then I went into a minor rage at MIL. Literally taking food from your pregnant Daughter in Law is fucking ridiculous. Especially when she's doing chores before she gets to sit down and eat! Unreal. Fuck that MIL
Laundry, dishes, garbage...not bad things to know how to do. Chores are important!
Hahaha you’re so fired up over the first story!! MIL was way out of line and I’m so glad hubby stuck up for wife
I've been with my fiance for almost 5 yrs, every holiday the family gets together besides almost never bringing anything for the meal the rest of the fam take food home. His cousin and hubby even have been bringing their own containers because they know and expect to take food home 😒
I mean this in the nicest way... Why do you put up with this? I'm assuming they do not contribute financially at all
@@live_troublemaker I keep telling him that is our own fault for getting them use to it 🤷♀️
She ate a pregnant woman's food? Like wut.
Story 3: our special needs so has chores. Easy things like helping with taking out the trash, opening/closing the blinds, putting his clean clothes away, etc. he has to become as functional as possible with no one doing everything for him.
I personally have ADD and my middle son has ADHD. You will have responsibilities as an adult that you can't run away from. You have to learn ways to do what you need to do. My son absolutely has chores. It may mean I have to basically hold his hand while he does it sometimes but I still hold him responsible. He has chores he does simply because he is a part of this house and he has optional chores for an allowance
I wish I had this chore system when I was her age. My life today would be much easier.
7. Mike sounds controlling with a touch of Sheldon Cooper.
Story 2: BF should be thrilled that his GF went so far to get that bill down. And to be honest, sometimes you DO need to pester them. Otherwise they'll just brush people off.
Your pregnant and she ate all the food......what a selfish MIL
As someone who grew up with ADHD it is not a development delay.
You… think the hospital isn’t aware they’re overcharging? All she did was make the next ten patients bill’s 8x the average instead of 7x so they can make up the difference they just lost.
Yes but if everyone did this they would have to reduce all bills
Lmaoooo imagine telling my African mother to pay me for my chores. ND people are not incapable of simple tasks, the other mum needs to mind your household
I can relate with the chores part for story 3, my family usually made me and my brother have chores (we had chore charts on the fridge but we took them down a while ago since we don’t use them anymore) and we used to never get money for them the only reason why we started to get money was because I cleaned a huge pile of dishes (our stove and counter had piles of it due to us being behind with a bunch of stuff going on) and I ended had to somewhat clean a huge pot of moldy spaghetti to the point I couldn’t even finish it and my dad had to clean the rest but my mom paid me because of how big the task was. Causing a domino effect where my brother would ask for money when he did chores since he found out I got some. The whole money part can be not even an option for some people, like my close friend cleans her whole house due to how her family is and they see it as something she has to do or else the house will never be clean (I won’t go too much into detail with that due to certain details)
I would have called the hospital, told them to reverse the bill back to $5000 and then dump the guy.
Story 3: genuinely wish my mom would have done a chore chart for my ADHD ass too cause I can barely function doing chores. She did when I was little but having that structure as a teen it would have been nice.
I never get these MIL stories, I had the absolute best mother in law ever . In her eyes I could do no wrong and same with my kids all of them I brought 3 kids into the marriage. My first MIl was MIA so when the marriage was over I just moved on . So with my second marriage my MIL was one of my best friends. I thank god every day for her being in my life , she was an amazing woman. I will miss her every day.
Pretty sure the hospital is gonna continue charging ppl 7x more than they should. They dont care whose lives they ruin. The only reason they cared here is she was gonna cause them pain otherwise.
When a hospital makes a big boo boo it takes a bit of insistence to get it made right sometimes the red tape it takes to get through paper and its pushers🤷
No chores because of ADHD? My great-grandson (8) has autism. My granddaughter, his mother, has him and the other 2 boys (7 and 5) do chores. These chores are on their individual white boards. These boys can wash dishes, vacuum, make beds, general clean-up. They get paid with monopoly money that their parents let them exchange for special or extra treats and also teach them how to save to get something special at the store (toy, game, whatever). The 8 YO is the most helpful of all. He appreciated the ability to make extra "money" and the concept of saving is exciting to him. ADHD an excuse? Pu....lease......
13:46 ADHD adult here with Autistic traits. I served in the Army and am self employed as a truck driver. To the friends mom and everyone like her, quit infatilizing us. We're not incapable, our brains just operate a little differently.
I want to see some OP responses to your proffessional opinions!
My husband would be giddy if I saved him $5k on a hospital bill😂
I wish my parents had given me more chores🤷🏼♀️ I had chores but not enough to set realistic standards for adulthood my first few months on my own was a nightmare! I also didn’t get paid for chores 😅 my parents provided me everything I needed and quite a few things I wanted I didn’t need an allowance for anything other than maybe some early lessons in money management 🥴
Ok while I agree with chores for ADHD. ADHD can and is many times is debilitating. So is the depression and anxiety that come with it.
As a kid I was never given chores. My mom was told she was infertile after losing her 4th pregnancy so I was her miracle child. I never had to do anything for myself. My siblings were mostly grown up and had no issues, but as an adult I'm now trying to work out how to cook and basically adult. I wish I was given chores and shown how to do things even though teenage me would have bitched about it. BTW my dad worked overseas and was not involved in parenting duties as he didn't have a paternal bone in his body.
I agree with u dusty new one u said.. deffenetly x
Make sure hubby goes nc with his mom
Children need chores teaches responsibly
Isn’t it just a job if you’re doing small tasks at home. You don’t get paid for chores 😭
Also my daughter has ADHD, and neither of us or her doctor have ever characterized it as a disability. I’ve never seen my Daughter as developmentally disabled. Distracted? Yes. Amazing smart with a 4.0 GPA and capable of everything? Yes
Adhd causes debilitating DAYS not an entire life it’s only debilitating lifelong if you are never taught coping skills to help you have a fruitful life but at your speed🙌🏼 I have adhd some days I can’t take the squirrel but most days my medications and day to day habits I have in place make most days functionality easily attainable
STory 6 tell him goodbye
Disabled seriously the writing it on the board probably works really well and is accommodating I have adhd and am a teen just because a kid has adhd doesn’t mean they can’t be a functioning member of society or take care of themselves like it is hard it really is but never doing it then being alone is the worst idea because they don’t even know where to start that really pissed me offfff leave other parents alone
Mike is hilarious 😂 he
There’s a certain population that thinks the world needs to learn to adapt to people who are neurodivergent rather than those people adapting to society, and sometimes they take that to the point of being detrimental to those people, because they’re giving those kids excuses to not learn or try things rather than expecting them to figure out how to do things in ways that work for them and being cooperative in that learning.
I have children with ADHD and myself have it.. is not a damn disability 🤦🏽♀️ and that’s how you enable lazy entitlement
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MOTHERS-IN-LAW, not mother-in-laws. Please correct this in your otherwise excellent narration.
Bill Reduction - I typically agree with your assessment of the ascon scale but I completely disagree with you on this one. No person deserves to be harassed for doing their job. I understand the company had made choices but support all the way to the board were no responsible for these decisions. I think I am with the boyfriend on this because of the tone and nature of how the people were treated. You didn’t see the emails and there could have been a significant amount of vulgarity or threats. We are responsible for our actions in a vacuum (only responsible for yourself). Would you treat people this way without the bill? No? Then you shouldn’t treat people that way. End of story. I think he should be grateful but I think she did go overboard. Ascon 4 to both.
Highly doubt there was "vulgarity and threats." Nothing in her post suggests she would speak that way to the administration.
*that belief is reinforced after a trip to the post to see OP comments.