Right? It's also just so SO nasty. Like my last ex has a brother and the idea of dating him is just disgusting to me. I'm not trying to collect the whole family collection kthanx.
Those suggestions were spot on. Control freaks will always get worse as the relationship progresses, and when it ends (any time they feel like they are losing control).
Yeah so the story of the sister who lost a baby after she slept with her sister's husband? She actually didn't get karma. Because as much as she found out that her husband was cheating on her, she didn't walk in on it and she didn't walk in on it with it being another sibling. Cheating is one thing. Cheating with somebody's own flesh and blood? That's a whole next level and the consequences of what happened in this case are a perfect example of why
The time being stolen is relatable AF. I am also a work at home stay at home mom. 4 kids ...3 in school and one still at home. On MY BIRTHDAY my mom came and picked up my toddler. My husband out of all people immediately stole every once of some me time I may have had by asking me to take him to his office so he can do something. By the time I got done waiting for him in a parking lot it was then time to pick up the other 3 at school. He is an ahole level1 and 2 in many many situations. It's blatant that he doesn't take me seriously or respect ls me and if it wasn't for these 4 kids and me currently not making enough to support us I would be more than gone
For story 2. That does suck she lost the baby. That being said. You ahould never put anyone else theough anything you wouldnt be willing to go through yourself. Sister has the parents. Op has the life and family she needs and wants. If she doesnt want to reconcile that is her right and choice. Her sister made her bed now she can sleep in it with someone else's husband.
Geezus, hire a housekeeper for Nov. and Dec…. Have someone come in once a week or two to do the vacuuming, mopping, bathrooms, etc. and then bf only has to do like dishes and laundry and he doesn’t feel like he’s getting overloaded and OP can focus on her work those two months. Between their two salaries they ought to be able to swing that for just 2 months.
Stories 1-4: none of these men are marriage material. Story 1: Controlling, cheating, possibly abusive asscon 1 Story 2: Cheated with her sister while she was miscarrying. Then did it again Story 3: Momma's boy to a problematic degree. Story 4: They're not married, thank goodness, but still: we've heard stories here where men expect their partners to still do 50% of the cleaning tasks while doing 75%-100% of the childcare then think their partners are being lazy when they can't. He seems like the type.
She could use it against him during arguments to prove whatever she needs to like when he lies or gas lights I wished I would have had one when me and my husband would go at it and he lie like a dog 😂and turn that shit around to be my fault 😮😊
Story#2 ima just say it cuz I’m assuming other people are thinking it the sister is prob trying to steal OP’s current bf I mean why contact someone you haven’t talked to for years because ur going trough hell if she was genuinely sorry she would of genuinely apologized with the mentality that OP might not accept her apology because one she isn’t obligated and two because she can admit OP went trough something worse she lost 3 people in one day unlike herself who lost 2 and unlike OP she has the suport of both her parents unlike OP because their parents didn’t take her side (technically making those 3 into 5 people) And with all of that in mind if she was genuine she’d give an honest apology without any expectation from OP
Out of curiosity, where did you find the link that you were trying? I'm checking every instance to see if I have a broken link, because Apple Podcasts should be available internationally by default (according to Apple). If the link you tried wasn't this one, try this one. podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reddit-said-it/id1652999330 Please let me know if this one works out and, if so, where you found the bad link. Thanks!
I would take a hammer to that indoor camera
Mother-in-law snooping in your trash should be an ass con one since she told the whole family without even asking
Also think that test could been her friend and what then or she could miscarriage that day
That "60 year-old tantrum" was great ! ! It had me crying laughing😂😂😂
UPDATE in the camera family, they are getting a divorce and he moved out. Camera immediately came down once he left
Good!
I dont care if she's still submissive ... consent is consent and if she's not consenting that can tred close to if not cross the line to abusive
Story number 2. The sister should have remembered how she got her husband. Why would she think he's going to be any different with her.
LOL! 😂😂 the 60 year old tantrum! I hope she’s not putting all her eggs in that husband basket.
The indoor camera one. Unplug it or cover it.
To the Karma one the parents said that sister had it worse I disagree atleast it wasn't her SISTER that he cheated on her with.
Right? It's also just so SO nasty. Like my last ex has a brother and the idea of dating him is just disgusting to me. I'm not trying to collect the whole family collection kthanx.
Those suggestions were spot on. Control freaks will always get worse as the relationship progresses, and when it ends (any time they feel like they are losing control).
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Why couldn't OP take the 3-year old to lunch to meet the brother and his girlfriend? They are all her family.
Or have the brother and gf come to the house to meet with her so she could watch the three year old.
The camera would be joining Jimmy Hoffa.
Lol. First thing that entered my mind was 'get out and find your own place to live' 😅
Story 4 - not only disrespectful but the start of possible controlling behavior.
Baseball bat to that camera.
Imma be honest in story 1 id just move the camrea down so it couldnt see anything
Story 3. Put a lock on the bedroom door
Yeah so the story of the sister who lost a baby after she slept with her sister's husband? She actually didn't get karma. Because as much as she found out that her husband was cheating on her, she didn't walk in on it and she didn't walk in on it with it being another sibling. Cheating is one thing. Cheating with somebody's own flesh and blood? That's a whole next level and the consequences of what happened in this case are a perfect example of why
When you were plugging your other socials, I straight up heard nude content instead of new. It definitely confused me for a sec. I need caffeine lol.
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Lmao I loved your 60 year old tantrum
The time being stolen is relatable AF. I am also a work at home stay at home mom. 4 kids ...3 in school and one still at home. On MY BIRTHDAY my mom came and picked up my toddler. My husband out of all people immediately stole every once of some me time I may have had by asking me to take him to his office so he can do something. By the time I got done waiting for him in a parking lot it was then time to pick up the other 3 at school. He is an ahole level1 and 2 in many many situations. It's blatant that he doesn't take me seriously or respect ls me and if it wasn't for these 4 kids and me currently not making enough to support us I would be more than gone
I had this but didn't know until my 2 year old told me "daddy likes to watch mummy" 😏
Oh boy... that's messed up.. cover the camera that's bullshit.
For story 2. That does suck she lost the baby. That being said. You ahould never put anyone else theough anything you wouldnt be willing to go through yourself. Sister has the parents. Op has the life and family she needs and wants. If she doesnt want to reconcile that is her right and choice. Her sister made her bed now she can sleep in it with someone else's husband.
Judge of AH isn't something you should put on your resume, unless you work as a waxer.
Geezus, hire a housekeeper for Nov. and Dec…. Have someone come in once a week or two to do the vacuuming, mopping, bathrooms, etc. and then bf only has to do like dishes and laundry and he doesn’t feel like he’s getting overloaded and OP can focus on her work those two months. Between their two salaries they ought to be able to swing that for just 2 months.
Stories 1-4: none of these men are marriage material.
Story 1: Controlling, cheating, possibly abusive asscon 1
Story 2: Cheated with her sister while she was miscarrying. Then did it again
Story 3: Momma's boy to a problematic degree.
Story 4: They're not married, thank goodness, but still: we've heard stories here where men expect their partners to still do 50% of the cleaning tasks while doing 75%-100% of the childcare then think their partners are being lazy when they can't. He seems like the type.
Hi , I have a suggestion for opposite of ascon. I've always liked Awesome possum and then you can raise the levels
She could use it against him during arguments to prove whatever she needs to like when he lies or gas lights I wished I would have had one when me and my husband would go at it and he lie like a dog 😂and turn that shit around to be my fault 😮😊
Story#2 ima just say it cuz I’m assuming other people are thinking it
the sister is prob trying to steal OP’s current bf
I mean why contact someone you haven’t talked to for years because ur going trough hell if she was genuinely sorry she would of genuinely apologized with the mentality that OP might not accept her apology because one she isn’t obligated and two because she can admit OP went trough something worse she lost 3 people in one day unlike herself who lost 2 and unlike OP she has the suport of both her parents unlike OP because their parents didn’t take her side (technically making those 3 into 5 people)
And with all of that in mind if she was genuine she’d give an honest apology without any expectation from OP
That's a thought
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the podcast link doesnt work in the uk
Which podcast link are you referring to?
@@dustythunder I’m sorry I’m referring to Apple podcasts
Out of curiosity, where did you find the link that you were trying? I'm checking every instance to see if I have a broken link, because Apple Podcasts should be available internationally by default (according to Apple). If the link you tried wasn't this one, try this one. podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reddit-said-it/id1652999330
Please let me know if this one works out and, if so, where you found the bad link.
Thanks!
@@dustythunder It was on your about page on UA-cam
@@dustythunder link in the email, never works think it’s the country not the link Thanks anyway.
I'll recommend one I read about 6 months ago from "sunflowerpoetess". They one have one story from what I saw