How To Speak With Confidence & Authority (3 EASY TRICKS!)
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Thank you
I want to have self confidence... I always failed on interview at because of this matter
Did y yaww
I mean "What do I have to lose"🧐....AND EVERYTHING to gain
Pog
My weird fear is that when I speak confidence, people are thinking “what the hell are you doing? You’re not allowed to be confident”….
Thats exactly what i have which is ridiculous
@@myskullwashere wow
Don’t think about other peoples opinion do you🤍
😂
I also have this weird fear that whenever I speak with confidence, people would see it as being rude 😅
The last tip is really helpful I needed to hear that, I tend to talk fast and I really deep down inside of me hate it
There's a channel by a voice coach called Jay Miller, he's very good. I have recently completed one of his free courses which concentrates on slowing down your speech.
The jist of it is that you cant simply tell yourself to slow down, without finding yourself naturally speed up again. Instead, you should practice "competing behaviours". Habits that make it hard to talk fast, such as speaking with your mouth a bit wider, breathing deeply into your belly when you reach a comma or the end if the sentence, and trying to relad the shoulders and jaw when you speak. This makes it more difficult to speak quickly, and as a result, allows you to speak at a more deliberate, clear pace, which makes you appear more confident and self assured.
Same. I’m quiet but when I talk, I talk really fast sometimes people don’t get me once. When I start talking once and to repeat it again would make me really hate myself too.
It’s good to know that I’m not alone. Thank you for sharing bro. We’ll get through this! 💪🏽
Same here I speak so fast and people actually get irritated at me which makes me so conscious as if I don't know how to talk
me too
I have almost never been taken seriously, even though I have innovative ideas that other people sometimes snatch as their own and receive the rewards for them. I know this is due to my voice - which sounds like a little kid (something physical I can't do anything about) and I also am extremely shy and don't know how to deserve success. I love these pointers you give. They are so sensible and practical. Thanks!
dont worry man you win'll and one advice for you dont give a f about others
I feel the same way and i am not taken seriously sometimes too but the tips in this video will certainly help 😃
I feel the same way and i am not taken seriously sometimes too but the tips in this video will certainly help 😃
It happens to me too because of my low voice. My teacher asks me to speak boldly every single day.
Yep me too
Bc of this I'm really insecure about myself :(
And comment is also 1 year old ago :(
Having a confident voice while public speaking will make a huge difference on the impact it has on the audience.
My biggest takeaway was that I am in my own movie called life and I am the actor and no one cares about me, the cameras are not on me. I'm one of those people who use like more often in their speech, and I normally present my ideas as a question, I will try on to pause when I speak, hopefully I'll get confident with speech, this video was very helpful❤
I overthink a lot about how others perceive me and this limits my ability to share what I truly believe in, worrying that I might offend them so each time I speak I tend to filter some of the ideas they might misunderstand. But I realized I'm not really making a point nor an impact in their lives. I just wasted the opportunity to really connect to the person... thank you for this eye-opener.
Visit Brad Yates EFT (emotional freedom technique) on Overthinking. The realization that a lot of people have overthinking issues are because of blockages in our body. Tapping softly the meridian points using several fingers very much like acupuncture without the needles, helps release energy that’s been blocked much like what happens with the concept of a dam.
I needed this ! I have social anxiety && I’m alwaaays seeking acceptance & always feeling judged it’s so annoying , but I’m gonna practice these tips and see if my confidence boosts !! Especially the last tip!! I talk so fast because I feel like I gotta get it out quick or they’ll lose interest , when in reality me talking fast is causing them to lose interest . Thank you so much!
This sounds great! Lets do this! 🙌😄🚀 - Abigail from Success Insider
Did it help ?
This describes me perfectly.
When you speak fast your voice also becomes monotone. It is the biggest conversation turn off I see. But it is so hard to get over
Hows it going
"Giving up the need to be liked and serve Truth Bombs instead"
"Speak up for what you truly believe in"
"Power of .... PAUSE ..."
Another brilliant, brilliant "Truth Bombed" video, Tim, thank you so much 🙏🏻❤️🎁
You rock.
Using filler words less was another good tip he said at the end.
My takeaway is the tone. Speaking with more authority. Now for me...in person speaking face to face I have more authority...but over the phone it’s like I’m timid. Plus having to go ummmm and/or like does really sound very below but I can’t help it. It is something to master. I am dying to sound confident over the phone.
Thanks for sharing this, you've got this!! 🙌💯 - Mary from Success Insider
🤣 samee
same!!
Oh, I love how he mentions his 10 second pause before speaking. That’s massively powerful when interacting with an audience and it builds the excitement and desire to know what’s about to happen. Basically it stops people from being distracted with their phones or their conversations. Really neat idea!
This 7 minutes video is really a life-changer. You shared really effective things.
Practice makes perfect, with more practice u will
Become more confident !
super well said, ability to speak is like a muscle you need to exercise it and practice to be stronger in it
How do i stop shaking while presenting
Pause. That's is my greatest take away. I recently had a job interview where I know the job but my confidence wasn't good enough. Lessons learned
The other week when I was lining up for maths outside of the classroom, I saw my one of my friends who I hang out with at lunch getting pushed around a bit by one of my other friend's friend. I had no idea what to do because the guy who was pushing my friend was obviously just being sarcastic and having fun, but my friend looked really uncomfortable and really anxious. I over analysed the situation and before I knew it, it was already over. I felt like a total coward. I couldn't concentrate that lesson because I was too busy thinking about what I had done, or rather, what I hadn't done. A couple days later, I heard that the same guy had been messing around with my friend again, taking his stuff or whatever, so I decided to just man up and confront him. After the lesson before lunch I walked up to him and told him that I heard about what he had done. I'm around average height, but I don't have a very imitating appearance and this guy was much taller than me, so he obviously didn't see me as much of a threat. He didn't really take me seriously probably because although I spoke with facts, I didn't speak confidently. I don't have any social disorders or anything, but when doing stuff like this, I get really, really nervous. I couldn't stop my voice from shaking, I could stop stuttering and pausing, my head was getting hot, my throat was contracting and hurting and I sounded like an absolute idiot. He just told me that I didn't know sh*t and walked away. I haven't heard of him picking on my friend since, and I talked to my friend about him to see if he was alright. He just seemed to see him as annoying. I still feel like I could have done more to protect my friend, and although this happened a good month or so ago, it still gets to me. Thanks for reading if you got this far, and if you have any advice, say. Thanks Success Insider!
I have been there many times. It still happens, but you get better and better with these things over time. Good for you taking up for your friend.
Your a really good friend for sticking up for your friend. I would say don’t care how it was done as long as it was done. Meaning that with your voice shaking or not you still did it and I think that takes a lot of courage. And you still did something to help your friend so I think you should feel proud of yourself. I haven’t been in a situation like this before because…well honestly I’m the friend that would get picked on. So I know if you where my friend and I was getting picked on, and you stand up for me, I would be really touched and happy to have a friend like you. Have a good day!
BRO THANKS, all the videos out there be like "dress more confident" or stupid tips that dont help at all, but he actually gives tipps about how to speak, how to use your voice!!!!!!
"Nobody cares about you", I love that :)
And nobody will :)..
bro this is actually an incredible video, i have severe anxiety and thats an understatement, believe me, sometimes I feel like im the most anxious and socially awkward person in the world and I can tell you relate to that in a way and have found real happiness and im on my journey too. Thank you for your part
I relate so much to the social anxiety. Here I am 4 years later taking acting classes and speaking in front of people. Don't get me wrong I still have anxiety but I've learned how to cope with it and how to calm myself down:) I still have a long way to go but then again you can never really get rid of feeling nervous, but you can definitely find ways to control it. anyway good luck to others out there with anxiety!:) you can do it!
Thanks for sharing this you are so awesome!! - Mary from Success Insider
😊😊😊😊😊
The truth bombs gave me so much confidence. I learned that I should not care about what others think and I should focus on what I believe in. Thank you very much! This helped a lot. My oratorical speech contest is coming up next week. I'm glad that I clicked this video :)
"Give up the Need to be Liked" ~Love That. Stay Blessed
Straight to the point with practical tips and examples on how to speak with confidence. Point 1 has blown my mind 🤯! I constantly speak in a higher tone. I didn’t realise this makes everything I say sound like a question, seeking approval.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my UA-cam channel 6 months ago about self development. Now I have 351 subs and > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
@@Strixey Thank you!
Implementing the lessons I learned throughout the years of lots of trials and errors changed my life trajectory and learning that there’s a yin and yang in everything. I wouldn’t have appreciated the power of kindness if someone was not cruel to me. I wouldn’t have realized the importance of growth if I didn’t see myself stagnating. I wouldn’t have appreciated the importance of health if I didn’t get sick. I wouldn’t have realized the importance of real love if I haven’t witnessed my parents’ relationship slowly fall apart. I wouldn’t have appreciated the importance of mindful money consumption if I wasn’t broke. I wouldn’t have appreciated the growth of my UA-cam channel if I didn’t start at 0.
The problem I have with speaking is that I tend to repeat myself and I never know when to start talking in a group conversation. I get talked over a lot at home so I have a bit of a stutter and I also have social anxiety. Hopefully I can improve before school starts again :D
My family members all for vying for attention when in fact everyone takes turns being heard. 🙄
so glad found this on yt. thanx for the tips and guidance!
I am going to take action on pausing and taking tonality from high to low. Thank you for this great video Tim.
I like the idea of each sentence spoken and ending on an upbeat higher tone (provided it fits the context). Also adding dramatic pause between some parts, so you can show you are thinking while speaking and not rambling. These points are gold. Thanks for this video!
Spot on! Short to the point. Thank you
Thanks Tim. Love the vid. Short and straight to the point
All of these were so great! My biggest take away is looking in the eyes 10 seconds and I’ve practiced pause but I feel like you re-introduced to me how this works. Thank you!
Thanks for the reminder that tone will change how the listeners perceives you.
It really made sense when you said that if you believe in something that will show confidence when you speak about it
Your 3 points are absolutely true, gonna try it for my tomorrow's presentation. Thanks !
Thank you for this tim!
You’re the only person to actually explain and demonstrate the “tone down”. Thank you!
I love how you tell it like it is. And that "its my movie" example is fantastic 👏🏾
Thank you definitely need this in my career to move up. Speaking firmly and with confidence
This is the very best video I've come across and at exactly the right time!
I like all of your points they are very valid. I know the one about pausing is rly Imp because when u pause It gives a dramatic affect + makes the other person want to know what you’re going to say next so they almost have a tendency to listen to you even more. I rly enjoyed your video!
Thanks Tim. This help me realize how I can boost my confidence.
Masterpiece. Thank you so much.
the final point ..pause for 10 second ..i really love it ...it makes u look confident .. people reconize that u know what u talking about ..and they take u seriouslly
Out of all the videos I've watched on this subject, the being passionate tip was by far the best advice. I completely relate to that and you just taught me something about myself. Thanks!
Good video format mate. 3 clear, simple points with simple explanations and nothing too flashy. I will try these next time at work.
Thanks for the help man! I appreciate it this channel is underrated.
The first and last tip were the best take aways in my opinion.
I should have watched this 10 years ago!!! So helpful simple and direct
Wow thank you so much, what a brilliant video. The pause tip was my biggest takeaway, but they were all useful. Cheers.
The pause was new to me, to collect thoughts. You said it in a really unique way
Suffering from social anxiety and I really want to build my cofidence. Thank you for this.
Thank you so much for this video 🎉
As my first job after graduating college, I worked as sales associate. One of the most meaningful take aways from your video and from my training was to always pause after “the pitch.” It put pressure on the client because people feel uncomfortable with silence and felt the need to speak to fill the empty space! I usually secured my sales that way! Tone was another important point that you mentioned and it seems very common among young adults and UA-camrs. It’s very annoying!
I love this, I was being afraid to shoot videos using my face but now I have the confidence and courage to do it. Thankyou for this video.
I’m glad i saw this video. Subscribed right away. This was really helpful. You practised what you talked about. Thumbs up
Very helpful. Grateful to have stumbled upon this video in preparation for interviews.
I needed this! Thank you so much!
Thank you for sharing this.
Great advice, thank you.
Thank you! I’m trying to work on my confidence, I just got a new job, I’m excited to try these when speaking and this is really helpful!
You did a great work here! You have inspired many people to be better at talking. Thank you for that.
Thanks for your time making the video 🙂
thank you alot. i used to feel insecure about watching these types of videos because it was hard to accept that i needed help. but im here now. thank you for your great work. your helping many people with something positive.
Excellent advice! I love the part about people pleasing and being the star of your own movie (and not of anyone else's)
This help me so much! The Power of a Pause... That’s powerful 😊
Very helpful tips! Thank you for creating this ! With so much gratitude 🙏
I have taken everything from this video just as i needed to
You’re great, brother. Thanks a lot 🙏🏼
Pause is powerful! I can’t wait for SMA ♥️. Thank you so much Tim 🥰
Wow thank you so much for this video. So helpful.
Incredible. Thank you for this knowledge you have shared.
Thank you so much. I really needed those tips
I am 32 and I finally have answers to questions I've been asking since I was very little. Thank you so SO much.
You’re welcome Sara! And glad to hear you found it useful! Keep shining your light! 🙏
This was refreshing. Thank you. I'm starting right now!
Amazing advice... Thank you🙂👍
This is gold. ❤
Thank you so much
this video has really improved my speaking/confidence tremendously. Thank you brother ‼
Very clear! Thank you so much fort he advice, it helped a lot.
I found this video awesome thank you. The pause!
Great video,
Thank you! ❤
I really like how you shared the eye contact before speaking.
Awesome implementation of your points of the video. Great job!
Thank you ‼️‼️
Broke it down perfectly
This is so good and exactly what I needed to hear thank you so much
You’re the only person to actually explain and demonstrate the “tone down”. Iam practicing it now and it makes sense now.
I just subscribed! Thanks!
This video comes along just at the right time. THANK YOU I needed this !
Thanks for watching Anna!
Thank you for sharing!
Just incredible.. you spoke out for what's really inside me.. this video is a game changer for me.. thank you 🙏👍
Thank you for making this video it really helped me a lot, can't wait to share this with others.
Thank you.
Thank you 💕
I have social anxiety and asperger, this was so helpful 👌
Thanks so much. This is really true. Very helpful.
Hi Tim I am a rabbi at a synagogue and leading the services sometimes requires singing complicated solo’s and long sequences plus it’s in ancient Hebrew and when doing it on my own I was perfect but in front of large crowd I would shy away and be soft then I stopped thinking about the crowd and how they judging me and I started to fly!!!
This was a big help! Thanks man
I’ll start using this ASAP!
In my job there is a lot of public speaking and as a person who does have self esteem issues, this heaps a lot
Thank you for sharing
Oh my God 😅 I really needed this !!!
Awesome knowledge. My God bless thee young man!
This video is a lifechanger for me.
Great tips! Love it! thanks a lot!