I wish to remember this one ... But there would be damn looooong cues everywhere. Not to mention all the phone calls that start with one-minute silence :D
Notes and summary for myself The seven deadly sins of Speaking 1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about someone who is not present. People will not trust you because a while later, you will gossip about them. 2. Judging: It is hard to listen to someone who consistently judge you during a conversation. 3. Negativity: Having a negative viewpoint on things. 4. Complaining: which is mere viral misery. Could be on anything, politics, sports, or the weather. 5. Excuses: Not taking responsibility for our actions and being a blame-thrower 6. Exaggeration: Drawing an imaginary image and inflating stuff excessively. It can get to the point of outright **lying**. 7. Dogmatism: stating your opinions as if they are facts without consideration of an evidence to support your claims. In other words, Bombarding people with biased opinions on a certain topic. - Foundation of powerful speech (HAIL) 1. Honesty: Being clear and straight. Not using deception and lies. But using brutal and unnecessary honesty could hurt people. "Honesty tempered with Love". 2. Authenticity: Being yourself and not imitating a non-genuine persona. "Standing in your own truth". 3. Integrity: Be your word. Do what you say. Be trustworthy, and take responsibility. 4. Love: Wishing people well. No judgement. - Toolbox of Speech (Voice) 1. Register: Talk from your chest, not the nose or throat. "We vote for the politicians with lower voices". People associate depth with power and authority. 2. Timbre: The way the voice feels. "Rich, Smooth, Warm, like hot chocolate." It is a skill that can be trained. 3. Prosody: Talking with enthusiasm, having a rhythmic voice, and not being monotonic like a robot. Avoid repetitive prosody as if every statement was a question. 4. Pace: Talk normally and slow right down to... *Emphasize*. Talking fast or slow at the right time is key in conveying your point. 5. Silence: A powerful tool to bring attention. Should not be filled with filler words such as UH's and UM's. 6. Pitch: To deliver an idea or ask a question and being understood. (The caps-lock of speech) 7. Volume: The quieter the better in bringing attention. But don't be too quiet all the time and don't be a broadcaster too. Pay attention to your loudness. - Warm up the toolbox of voice 1. Arms up, take a deep breath and sigh. 2. Lips: (BA BA BA) 3. Lips: Horse sound 4. Tongue: Exaggerated (LA LA LA) 5. Tongue: Roll an R (RRRRR) 6. The siren (WEEEE [High] yoooo [Low]) Speaking is one part of the puzzle because having a good conversation also depends on being a good listener. Edit: Reconstructed the phrasing of the point of dogmatism. Thank you for all the beautiful replies.Happy to make your day a bit easier :)
Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement. Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢
"There's nothing wrong with a LITTLE BIT of silence, is there?" Well he said a little bit and you left it out completely.... it entirely changed the meaning...
Four things I learned from watching this talk 1. "Seven deadly sins of speaking to avoid" 1) gossip -> I need to work on this sin 2) judging -> I need to work on this sin 3) negativity -> I need to work on this sin 4) complaining -> I need to work on this sin 5) excuses 6) lying (embroidery, exaggeration) 7) dogmatism (confusion between fact and opinion) 2. what I need to say: four powerful cornerstones of speech to make a change in the world c.f. "hail means to greet or acclaim enthusiastically" 1) H: honesty (be clear and straight) 2) A: authenticity (be myself) 3) I: integrity (be my word) 4) L: love (wish them well) 3. how I need to say: tools to play with to increase power of my speech 1) register: e.g. if wanting weight, lower pitch of voice 2) timbre: the way voice feels e.g. breathing, posture 3) prosody: rhythm (e.g. not monotone) 4) pace: e.g. slow to emphasize 5) pitch: e.g. make pitch high or low 6) volume: e.g. louder to emphasize 4. exercise the following before making a presentation 1) arms up to sigh out with ahh 2) lips with ba ba 3) lips with brrr 4) tongue with la 5) tongue rolling an r 6) siren from we to aww
Gil Su Kim You made a summary and shared it with everyone. You must have been the nicest kid in class when you were in school. (Or, now that I think of it, maybe you still are. I don´t know your age.) Thank you, I appreciate it.
+Gil Su Kim I reckon he missed one: Defensiveness (and I did wonder if the list should include fake humility/the apology reflex, but I suppose that comes under Lying, with a hint of Excuses)
Judgment is good but only as a starting point, that should follow with "but I can help you...." Unfortunately, most judgments are about: now go and fix your own problems. Like, if I could do it alone don't you think I wouldn't do it already?!
@@romanstryzhyk9156 New Testament was written by Greeks and they were "smart ones" and philosophers of the ancient times. Problem is, Romans highjacked it and changed the meaning and turned metaphorical story to literal ones, it became the story of materialistic magic. But then Revelation was added, like the fairy in the Sleeping Beauty altered the witches curse, so did they added "Apocalypse" part in it. But Apocalypse literally mean "unveiling", finding something that was hidden - the hidden meaning and the truth that if you take story of Jesus as metaphor and not literal story of a man who died and then zombified, you still can make it all fit and meaningful. Like plot twist gives you the key to re-read the book or re-watch the movie and go through the same path but now there's completely different meaning. And that key, actually, is what brings the "destruction of the world as we know it" because once you see you cannot unsee and nothing is the same any more.. New Earth, but just from the cultural perspective, we'll still have to stop the bullshit we're doing in polluting everything around us. Because once we destroy the Paradise on Earth, there'll be nothing to enjoy. As for the "gnashing of teeth" (anger) and "weeping" (sorrow) - that's reserved for the people who'll realize that everything they thought they knew - was a lie. Unfortunately, Kubler-Ross realized anger comes way before sorrow, so you'd be stoned before they get to the "sorry" part. Better leave it as it is then, in a century it won't matter anyway. Everyone's back to the pre-birth realm, the void.
"People prefer voices which are rich, smooth, warm like hot chocolate" Julian said, knowing his voice sounded rich, smooth and warm, like hot chocolate.
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The Dont's Habits to move away from -- Seven deadly sins of speaking: 1. Gossip 2. Judging 3. Negativity 4. Complaining 5. Blame-throwing (Excuses) 6. Embroidery, exaggeration --> lying 7. Dogmatism (my way or the highway; conflating fact and opinion) The Do's H.A.I.L -- Four (4) cornerstones of powerful, change-making speech H - Honesty: Being true - straight and clear. A - Authenticity: Be yourself. [Standing in your own truth.] I - Integrity: Be your word. [Doing what you say.] L - Love: Wish them well. Toolbox (the voice) - Some tools Register - (P.s. Depth is associated with power and authority.) Timbre - The way your voice feels -- rich, smooth, warm (can be trained!) Prosody - the sing-song, the meta-language, the root 1 of meaning in cnversation. Pace - including silence (don't have to be filled with ums and ahs) Pitch - to indicate arousal, etc. Volume - excitement (loud), attention-grabbing (quiet) Warm up your voice! 1. Arms up, deep breath in. Sigh out. Lips: 2. Ba-ba-ba-na 3: Brrrrrrr Tongue: 4. Exaggerated la-la-la-la 5. Roll an RRRRRR 6 The siren - Weeee (high)... awwww (low) [Repeat] The only one if able to do only one.
Did he just influence such a large group of people within 10mins to make them stand and do some warmups like that? He proved his technique to be true. Amazing!
Wow it's so amazing. People from all around want to hear and interact, they come and sit in silence with others to hear someone elevated on a stage with an electrically-amplified voice. Lo and Behold, they are listening to the person on an elevated stage with an amplified voice! IT MUST BE A MIRACLE!
@@TheFogLakeshore Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement. Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢😢😢😢
I just wanna share something that happened to my voice, to see if others experienced this too. I used to have a higher pitched voice. But through the years where I have done a lot of self education, I saw that my voice was changing. It was going deeper. The more I found myself and felt better in this world, the lower my voice got. I literally have found my own voice now haha. Now when I speak I feel more calm, and people listen to me way more! 😊
Thank you for the great info, my takeaways: - Things to avoid: - Judging - Excuses - Gossip - Dogamatism - Complaining - Lying - Negativity - HAIL to greet or acclaim enthusiastically H - Honesty → Be clear and straight A - Authenticity → Standing in your own truth I - Integrity → be your word L - Love → Wish them well - Voice Register - Speak from the chest → Depth = Power and Authority Timbre - Way your voice feels → Rich-smooth-warm - Train your voice - Voice Coach - Breathing and posture Prosody - SIng song → Meta language - Monotonic tone is boring - Make it livilier with changing up the tones - Repeatative Prosody coming up Pace - Pace up - Slow down → Emphasize - Silence Pitch - High and low pitch signify different meaning Volume - Vary volume according to purpose - Warm Up Exercises Arms Up → Deep breath in and sigh out Aaaaahhhh Lips → Bupp Buppp Buppp → Brrrrrrr Brrrrr Brrr Tongue → La la la la → Thrrrrthhrr → Champagne for the tongue Pitch Weeeee - Oooooo
If these types of interpersonal skills along with mindfulness meditation were taught in schools, we would live in a much more sane world. Intelligence isn't just about memorizing facts.
+MatthieuAmherst Actually mindfulness meditation seems to be what is being called the third wave of therapy and is becoming more popular every year among therapists. Some are even saying it could overtake CBT. I've found both CBT and mindfulness to be very useful. It's a great tool for therapists, so I don't think it will put them out of a job. Remember that they work to help people, so many of them would do well to spread the word.
boy have I learned that public speaking is not just to simply speak in front of an audience, there are broader and deeper aspects that make one’s speech interesting; where you would actually listen to what they are saying. It is compelling to learn the many ways you could competently speak in front of an audience, more than just articulating words and thoughts but rather, the way you speak those words and thoughts. Great video! great speech!
I can just imagine a bunch of people applying for a job position, all gathered outside the boss' office going: "RRRRRRRRR" "BA! BA! BA! BA!" "WEEEEEYYOOOOOOOWEEE"
Vocal Exercises begin at 7:50 : 1. Raise arms above head, take a deep breath, sigh loudly. "AAaaaaaaahhhh." 2. Warm up lips."Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop." 3. Blow Raspberries. "Bbbbbrrlllthhhhh." 4. Exaggerate LA's. "LA. LA. LA. LA. LA." 5. Roll an R. Like champagne for the tongue. "RrrRrRrrRrRrrRrR." 6. The Siren. The WE's are always high and the oo's are always low. "WWWEEEEEeeeeeeeeeooooooowwWWWEEEEEeeeeooooooooowwwwwwwwwww." I enjoyed writing this.
"If you wish people with love its really hard to judge them" , its absolutely true . I try to do this everyday . No matter what wish people well and you will find yourself free of all the negativity. And a smile from that stranger will make your day
Coming from a family who is high strung, intelligent, passionate and constantly talking over each other (remarkably well, I might add) this calm, deep voiced way of conversation not only seems hard, but would make me virtually invisible if I tried it with them. This might work on strangers, but still seems like a difficult adjustment to make into a habit..
Great one. From last 1+ month am struggling while writing my resume sweet and short. And see how he has completed such a big topic in just 9 min. Oh simply outstanding.
Me to my crush: hey I wanna talk to you about something *Starts excercising my voice in front of her* Her: leaves in silence Me:*still excercising* wEeEEeOOoO
Conversation and speaking is truly an intricate art. The mastery of it takes discipline composure and consistency, among many other things. I now take every single interaction I have, whether it be a physical interaction or via any digital format text messaging, etc. I take it as a test for myself every time. I then rate my conversion based on how well I applied this great information to work on all my weaknesses each time I strive to do better than my last interaction. How to correctly apply this information is key. Thank you for sharing this information with us all. To anyone reading this comment, I really do wish you all the best. The more we practice, the better we all become so start now and take action immediately speak light and positivity all day every day. Children of the light stay close to all those who speak and live life positively.
Man didn't take a single step throughout his speech of around 10 minutes, yet was sounded so perfect with everything he said. Julian Treasure, his name speaks for his class. This is by far the best TED talk ever. 💯
The trick is, whenever you're talking to people have confidence in yourself don't look shy, look into people's eye, don't bow your head down a minute unless you checking the shoes or down-wear. But first hit your throat, Mnmn Mnmm... •••Men speak with a little base in it, avoid speaking to fast. •••Ladies speak calmly men automatically like that. Avoid, Eh, ehm, etc in the middle of your speech. Just pause and continue with the next word,then everyone in the audience will automatically see you as an intelligent person subconsciously. It's a human trick.
True. Also, How about just saying the TRUTH? Which DOES include Gossiping, Judging etc. How abt emphasizing that ppl who ONLY tak positive are Pretentious Liars and are NOT Truthful. Like this man- Julian Treasure could be one of them. I am sick of those "Wanna be a Good Human Hypocrites" !! Just be Truthful
@@euphoria156 You're right, it's in the confidence bracket...Who ever speak the truth is confident and does not care about what anyone thinks. As long as it's the truth, it's done. *Some people also lie boldly tho
I assumed this would be your basic talk on vocal coaching, how to carry and conduct oneself in public speaking. But he went to a deeper level and emphasized how we should speak about goodness, light, and positivity ❤ A concise message that hit the mark precisely ❤
I was a professional pilot back in the days when carbon mikes were the only choice. As a female, I learned to lower my voice’s pitch in order to activate the carbon crystals. Discovered that I also got a lot more respect and was heard better when I used the deeper richer timbre. Also stopped ending all sentences like a question. That really eliminated a lot of confusion with air traffic control.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I worked with school age children, and was led by The All Knowing one to learn about these styles and forms of communicating. Really does make a difference!! Especially when shaping and cultivating a young humans learning experience. SHALOM
When I was learning to fly (PPL) was told that I sounded like a mouse by my second instructor. I'd already done 13 hours with my first instructor. Lost my confidence to fly as easily as that. (1st instructor left as got a job with an airline). He was all the qualities needed to be an top class instructor because I flew my first solo under his guidance. My 2nd instructor wasn't and I gave up flying sadly. How to speak made all the difference to me. Will always appreciate the first instructor for an amazing life experience. Second instructor can't take that away.
"Understanding would be the norm" I love this and I live for this! It's so important to be present and always go into a conversation with the goal to understand as much as you can and if you can't -> accept.
This was truly a great video to improve our skill in speaking especially giving a speech. The speaker giving us some tips how to deliver a powerful speech. He makes contact with the audience by giving a little joke while talking so that the audience isn’t bored and interested in the material. Such a confident and clear speaker because every words he says can be understood. In the last video he invites the audience to put into practice the tips that he has already given. Amazing!!!!️ thank you for the new knowledge
Treasure identifies several common issues that prevent people from feeling listened to when they speak, including: 1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about those who are not present. 2. Judgment: Forming judgments about others while they are speaking, which hinders true listening. 3. Negativity: A pessimistic attitude that obstructs constructive communication. 4. Complaining: Habitually complaining without offering solutions. 5. Blame: Failing to take responsibility for one’s actions. 6. Exaggeration: Using overly dramatic or inaccurate language. 7. Dogmatism: Mixing facts with opinions irresponsibly. Solutions Offered Treasure presents four pillars for effective speaking: 1. Honesty: Speaking truthfully and clearly. 2. Authenticity: Being oneself and speaking with integrity. 3. Integrity: Saying what you mean and meaning what you say. 4. Love: Wishing the best for others, which creates a positive atmosphere in communication. Vocal Techniques Treasure also shares several vocal techniques to enhance speaking ability, including: - Adjusting pitch from high to low to add strength to the voice. - Using intonation and rhythm to capture the audience's attention. - Employing silence strategically for greater impact. Conclusion Treasure emphasizes that if we want our voices to be heard, we must pay attention to how we speak and the environment around us. By applying these principles, we can create a world where effective communication and mutual understanding are commonplace. NPM: 24083010004 Name: Saif Ali Zaky Ashiblie
I had saved this to ‘Watch Later’ for quite sometime now, but this morning, while still in bed, I had the sudden urge to watch it, and I am so glad I did. I now know why I have problem with getting people’s attention when I speak to them. Most of this applies to me, I put my hands up. I am grateful for this video. It has done me an immeasurable amount of good.
Yeah; that's what love is. I can't believe you millenials; what with sleeping couples in bed that are weirded out with saying "I love you" like it's perverted; damn kids need to get off the lawn that is the English language and metaphysical concepts of altruism.
This is really helpful. I have once used some of the tactics but without knowing the full set. I think that I must repeat this video before each speech I need to deliver. May God bless you!
I have never taken notes throughout an entire, first watch of a piece. I kept pausing and rewinding every couple moments to do so, it was honestly a fantastic speech.
Julian explains how our words, tone, and delivery shape whether people truly listen to us, emphasizing honesty and vocal variety. It made me realize how often I speak without much thought, and I’m excited to start applying her tips to see how they change the way people respond to me.
I really loved the way, the idea for this talk, begin with a problem, suggest a solution, offer Hands-on experience for the audience. Beautiful sir, thoroughly enjoyed every frame of this video. The activity towards the end, I believe many of us will be a different speaker after that. Thank you for this.
This is an awesome talk...direct to the point, of being a conscious speaker. So love the tips and techniques. He's a great communicator, he got me glued.
I remember this was the first video I saw when I was learning English, now I can understand pretty must of it , almost everything what a huge difference, I'm pretty happy now
How did u learn it stronger? Do u have any tips to improve or extend my english skills. In my opinion i need to learn more vocabulary to understand the most phrases exactly. The most time I understand the sense, but i would like to get everything
Here's a detailed scenario incorporating the points you provided, focusing on a workshop setting: **Scenario: The Power of Voice Workshop** **Setting:** A bright, airy community center room. Chairs are arranged in a semi-circle facing a central space where the workshop leader, Anya, stands. A whiteboard displays the words "HAIL" and "Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking." A small table holds a pitcher of water and glasses. **Participants:** A diverse group of 10-12 adults, ranging in age and background. They represent various professions and levels of public speaking experience - some are confident, others visibly nervous. **Workshop Leader:** Anya, a charismatic and experienced communication coach, exudes warmth and authority. **Workshop Flow:** **(1) Introduction (15 minutes):** Anya begins by engaging the participants with a thought-provoking question: "Have you ever felt unheard or dismissed? How did that make you feel?" She facilitates a brief, respectful sharing of experiences, highlighting the universal desire to be heard and understood. She then introduces the concept of the human voice as a powerful tool for change, giving examples of both positive and negative uses of voice (inspiring speeches vs. hateful rhetoric). **(2) The Seven Deadly Sins (10 minutes):** Anya presents the "Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking" (gossip, judging, negativity, complaining, excuses, exaggeration, dogmatism), explaining each sin with relatable examples and encouraging participants to identify their own weaknesses. She emphasizes the importance of mindful communication and the impact of these sins on relationships and personal effectiveness. **(3) The Four Cornerstones of Powerful Speaking (15 minutes):** Anya introduces the "HAIL" framework (Honesty, Authenticity, Integrity, Love). She elaborates on each cornerstone with practical examples, emphasizing the importance of balancing honesty with kindness and empathy. Participants are encouraged to reflect on how they can integrate these principles into their daily communication. **(4) The Vocal Toolbox (20 minutes):** Anya introduces the vocal techniques (register, timbre, prosody, pace, pitch, volume), explaining each concept clearly and demonstrating how they can be used to enhance the impact of speech. She incorporates interactive exercises: * **Register:** Participants experiment with speaking in different registers (high, low, mid-range), noting the different effects. * **Timbre:** Anya guides participants through simple vocal exercises to improve their timbre, focusing on breath control and resonance. * **Prosody:** Participants practice reading a short passage with different prosodic variations, emphasizing the impact of rhythm and intonation. * **Pace & Silence:** Anya demonstrates the power of pauses and varying pace to create emphasis and build suspense. * **Pitch & Volume:** Participants practice modulating their pitch and volume to express different emotions (joy, sadness, anger). **(5) Vocal Warm-ups (10 minutes):** Anya leads the group through a series of gentle vocal warm-up exercises (humming, lip trills, tongue rolls), emphasizing the importance of preparing the voice before speaking. **(6) Q&A and Conclusion (10 minutes):** Anya opens the floor for questions and provides personalized feedback to participants. She concludes by reiterating the importance of mindful and powerful communication, emphasizing the potential for positive change when people speak consciously and listen attentively. She leaves participants with a handout summarizing the key concepts and exercises covered in the workshop. This scenario provides a structured and engaging learning experience, incorporating both theoretical knowledge and practical application of the concepts. The interactive elements ensure active participation and promote a deeper understanding of the material.
@@Oleg_Ivanov. I don't know. I haven't been able to stop it completely, but I feel that focusing on what we don't like just makes it bigger in our experience.
+Deos That's like saying "there's no such thing as fruit" just because there are lots of different types of fruit. If you see an apple or an orange, that's a fruit. Just like if you hear a Yorkshire accent or a Dorset accent, that's a British accent.
Communication is about human connection. Being able to communicate effectively is one of the best life habits. Good listening is among the most important principles of great communication. It is common for most people to listen not with the intent of understanding, but with the intent of replying. Listening with the intent to understand is to fully understand that person intellectually and emotionally. You ensure that you understand by repeating back to them what they said and mirroring their emotions. By doing so, you help them structure their own thoughts and feelings. This type of listening can lead to truly open and trusting communication.
This is my first comment on any video over UA-cam. Totally amazing. I would want to hear & practice this often. But I'm also sure that a good speaker may fail but a good listener would never fail.
Speaking is one thing but the tone in which you speaks with is of utmost importance. Such a confident and clear speaker: he catches your attn within the first 1 minute with his calm tone and eye contact. Alot to take away. 💯
I was a speech & debate champion in HS & college (Harvard) and then a debate and speech coach at the HS and college levels for more than 30 years, as well as a founder of urban speech and debate. Everything Julian Treasure says here is exactly what high school speech teachers try to convey to their students each and every day; policy debaters try to persuade by facts and logic, whereas events like oratory involve rhetorical methods (some of which are mentioned in the talk) for persuasion. These essentially are known to us as LOGOS and ETHOS; the best speakers can not only control register, timbre, prosody, pace, silence, pitch and volume, but also can start a speech with a hook, an introduction, a topic sentence, 2-3 arguments, surrounded by rhetorical flourishes (three words starting with the same consonant is a famous one) a conclusion and a closing hook. I'm lucky enough to have been teaching the last few years standardized tests, and getting across how to write, or how to speak, is a delight with young kids. They should all watch this You Tube!
My daughter is a freshman in HS and is taking honors classes. We just watched this today for her homework project to study Pathos, Ethos and Logos. It was a pleasure working side by side with her. I am a little concerned because she is so focused on performance and the end goal of attending Brown University that I sometimes feel she is missing the value of effective communication and how empowering that can be in infinite circumstances. Do you have any words of wisdom that will honor her enthusiasm and allow for her to get her hand on the heart beat of the moment. I am only now going to college at age 54, so I'm a bit of a late bloomer and she is sure to pass me up academically.
@@kimilivingston2521I'm just 29 and not a communication coach. But I do agree with your view on how a good communication is more powerful and important than a single instance of getting into a good university. Great speakers may or may not have finished their college but they can get many great things done by simply communicating. Wars can be stopped, business deals can be brokered, true friends can be gained, experiences can be learned. To have such skills under your belt means you can walk through the world without the riches or the certificates but do not suffer a single day. I'm sure you're an amazing parent for seeing this point for your daughter. You don't need other people, just use your own words to teach her.
You are a great public speaker. You did something great that emphasises the fact that you are a great public speaker: letting the audience participate.
Thank you for sharing. I got some important information. 1. 7 deadly sins of speaking : Gossip, Judging, Negativity, Complaining, Excuses, Lying, Dogmatism. 2. " If you are wishing somebody's well, it is very hard to judge them at the same time. " 3. "Tempered with love, honesty is a great thing."
This is great insights especially the seven deadly sina of communications. The society, our parents ... we heard them gossiping so our brain functions in a way that this is normal but it is not. It is an illusion that fog up with negativity. People even gossips just to feel close to one another. It is okay to vent your problems but never gossips in day to day basis. It is very unhealthy.
I wish this was actually true. But in my humble experience to many people I come off as a boring individual simply because I refuse to gossip yet love to talk about things that matter. Most people like trivial talks, they can only connect to one another by bad mouthing someone. I have a sister who isn't a bad person,but man does she love to gossip and talk about stupid, irrelevant things. And yep: she has tons of friends and acquaintances.Which is not something that I can say for me. But I don't expect the whole world to like me..i'm just surprised how undervalued some values are nowadays.
Darja, it sounds like your sister may have what you call many "acquaintances", but not many friends. People who live off of the negative energy of gossiping about others are parasites and are likely very unhappy internally that they do these things to save face. Please do not think yourself inadequate because you may have less outwardly appearing " friends". Your conscience knows that you are doing the right thing, and that is what truly matters. Your conscience is the greatest friend, and though it is hard to understand at first, befriending that conscience will bring you much more joy and happiness than trying to attain happiness through many fake and superficial friends. I speak of this because of my own personal experience, and in mine, I am 100% confident that I am more satisfied and happy as an individual by knowing in my being that by ignoring the petty and immature urge to gossip, I know that what I am doing is right. This surely brings more happiness than fitting in to the cult of the world which is so wrong and in high numbers, but also very convincing.
cohavideos Thank you very much for your opinion, even though I share it and live by it, it is sometimes so hard to be 'alone' in these values/opinions.. But I agree, one should never ever have to change oneself just to be like others and to please them. In the bottom of my heart I'm happy that I'm not like others whose only goal is to talk trash, but I wish there were more people that think like we do. Wow now I sound so vain. :) Happy Christmas!
darja25 it definitely is hard to stand firm in your convictions when everyone around you is telling and shouting at you that you are wrong. That is why it is so important to a) make spiritual or loving friends who accept you the way you are, and b) to constantly check in with your 'self' and to interiorize with meditation and introspection, also making sure to tell yourself that you are "the captain of your ship and the master of your fate". Enough people around us may have their sails so lost in the winds of delusion that they can only make themselves feel better by talking trash and bringing others down. If almost everyone around you is doing this, it is important to have at least you making sure to tell yourself that you are loved and what you are doing is right. It may sound vain, but the truth is that this world is very confused, and though vain it may sound, it is much better to do good for yourself and others knowing within that you are right, instead of becoming frustrated and wishing the world was better. Be the change, said Gandhi. Meditate on that. And then be fearless about being that change. It is scary to be alone sometimes but it is the path of all successful people who have forged ahead in all worthy pursuits of life. If you are interested in getting help on that path, look up SRF (Self-realization fellowship). The founder, Yogananda, brought many ancient scientific techniques of Yoga from India for help on the path of right action and meditation, which it sounds like you are doing very well on so far. I wish you the best darja. Merry Christmas, and hope you have great holidays coming up.
cohavideos Thank you on the advices, but the only sailor of my ship and master of my fate is JESUS who is the only path and way. Congratulating me Christmas and at the same time promoting fake religion such as Yoga is something where I draw the line on this conversation, because I don't believe in your philosophies, even though they may be well intentioned. They are simply based on something fake that is called self realization or new age philosophies which is a false doctrine. No man can save himself without Jesus. "Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." John 14:6 I hope someday you realize this. Blessings!
darja25 lol....welcome to reality. Bertrand Russell once said, *"The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt."* On top of that, those in the status-quo mentally-dim majority are actually *_turned off_* by intelligent conversation. Sadly, this is the norm. Luckily, there's a solution: Only associate with highly intelligent interesting creative ethical people. : )
What's amazing to me about this is that the exercises he has the audience do at the end are the exact things my 1 year old nephew does all the time. He's literally teaching himself how to talk!
Out of all the suggestions listed, I think "Pace" is perhaps the most difficult to implement. We live in a world where people don't have the patience to listen to someone who speaks slowly. You'll get interrupted constantly, or people will simply stop listening because you're taking up too much of their time. Too frequently you'll have to say what's on your mind really quickly, or not at all. Really, everything mentioned is an excellent practice, but it's only useful when speaking with someone who practices the same principles.
This is what makes arguments harder to because if you take too much time to think your response they lose interest but to quickly and you say something incorrectly to what you actually want to say
Technology is litteraly changing our brain function. Keeping the brain constantly wired with cell phones, text facebook, email, UA-cam and other social media is giving us short attention spams. Customer service, sales person even owners of businesses who sell for a living don't take the time to charm a customer anymore. Worst thing is that it's even changing the women's brain who are known to be more expresive and detailed. Even they don't like repeating things more than once. LOL!
+Charity Diary I totally agree - in my university, people think that those who speak faster are actually more intelligent because they can squeeze more content/ having much more things to say about something than someone who speaks slower (because that person is just trying to drag out the presentation and doesn't actually have much to say)
I love this!❤😊❤ I love seeing people be able to speak confidently, and to use their voice in a way which is both powerful, but also compassionate and empathetic.❤😊❤ I love Julian's point about how when we're speaking, we can really use our voice to create an environment of warmth and connection - by changing our delivery and tone. I love how that is able to help people feel so much more understood ❤😊❤
00:16 How to speak powerfully and make change in the world 01:27 Avoid negativity and complaining for better communication. 02:43 Four powerful cornerstones to impactful speech 03:58 Honesty tempered with love is essential for effective communication. 05:03 Voice qualities play a significant role in communication. 06:17 Mastering prosody can enhance communication effectiveness. 07:34 Warm up your voice before important talks. 08:44 Speaking consciously in a sound-conscious environment is key for better understanding
Die Gewohnheiten, die wir ablegen können, wenn wir wollen, dass uns zugehört wird (0:50): 1. Klatsch und Tratsch 2. Urteilen 3. Negativität 4. Beschwerden 5. Entschuldigungen/Ausflüchte 6. Übertreibungen/Lügen 7. Dogmatismen, Verwechseln von Tatsachen und Meinungen Wie statt dessen (HAIL)(3:20): - Ehrlichkeit (sei korrekt, klar und deutlich - verbunden mit Liebe) - Authentizität (sei du selbst) - Integrität (handle wie du sprichst, sei vertrauenswürdig) - Liebe (wünsche den Anderen Gutes) Werkzeuge (4:38): Stimmlage - Sprich mit der Brust - Stimme, um dem Gesagten mehr Gewicht zu verleihen Klangfarbe - reich, sanft, warm (kann man trainieren) Satzrhythmus/Klangfülle - melodischer Singsang versus Monotonie/Eintönigkeit Tempo - Unterstreichen des Gesagten durch Schnelligkeit oder Verlangsamung oder Schweigen/Stille Tonhöhe - je nach Tonhöhe werden andere Emotionen transportiert Lautstärke - begeistert oder aufgeregt: hohes Volume, Aufmerksamkeit steigernd: leises Volume Ab 7:45 Aufwärm - Übungen für die Stimme Bin sehr begeistert von dieser kurzen und würzigen Anleitung! Vielen Dank, Julian Treasure (was für ein Schatz!) und TED ! Allen Vorbeikommenden einen schönen Tag!
He didn't use any "uhm"s or "eh"s in his speech. Absolutely amazing.
At 5:10 but aside from that... Lol
+chawbok He noticed... look at his throat 5:13
Amazing? That stuff is basic. Somebody didn't listen to the exaggeration portion of this talk. ;)
+Niek de Gier Must have taken some time to master his speech. I need to learn this too.
+SilentMover95 A good way to avoid filler words and increase effectiveness is to make eye contact with whomever you are talking to.
If everyone took an extra minute to think before speaking, the world would be such a better place.
I wish to remember this one ... But there would be damn looooong cues everywhere. Not to mention all the phone calls that start with one-minute silence :D
@@theb166-er3 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣good one❤
As my father used to say... make sure the brain is engaged before operating the mouth.
And the most awkward place lol
Eleven to the sun it will not be a problem as long as you’re not judging someone else.
Notes and summary for myself
The seven deadly sins of Speaking
1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about someone who is not present. People will not trust you because a while later, you will gossip about them.
2. Judging: It is hard to listen to someone who consistently judge you during a conversation.
3. Negativity: Having a negative viewpoint on things.
4. Complaining: which is mere viral misery. Could be on anything, politics, sports, or the weather.
5. Excuses: Not taking responsibility for our actions and being a blame-thrower
6. Exaggeration: Drawing an imaginary image and inflating stuff excessively. It can get to the point of outright **lying**.
7. Dogmatism: stating your opinions as if they are facts without consideration of an evidence to support your claims. In other words, Bombarding people with biased opinions on a certain topic.
- Foundation of powerful speech (HAIL)
1. Honesty: Being clear and straight. Not using deception and lies. But using brutal and unnecessary honesty could hurt people. "Honesty tempered with Love".
2. Authenticity: Being yourself and not imitating a non-genuine persona. "Standing in your own truth".
3. Integrity: Be your word. Do what you say. Be trustworthy, and take responsibility.
4. Love: Wishing people well. No judgement.
- Toolbox of Speech (Voice)
1. Register: Talk from your chest, not the nose or throat. "We vote for the politicians with lower voices". People associate depth with power and authority.
2. Timbre: The way the voice feels. "Rich, Smooth, Warm, like hot chocolate." It is a skill that can be trained.
3. Prosody: Talking with enthusiasm, having a rhythmic voice, and not being monotonic like a robot. Avoid repetitive prosody as if every statement was a question.
4. Pace: Talk normally and slow right down to... *Emphasize*. Talking fast or slow at the right time is key in conveying your point.
5. Silence: A powerful tool to bring attention. Should not be filled with filler words such as UH's and UM's.
6. Pitch: To deliver an idea or ask a question and being understood. (The caps-lock of speech)
7. Volume: The quieter the better in bringing attention. But don't be too quiet all the time and don't be a broadcaster too. Pay attention to your loudness.
- Warm up the toolbox of voice
1. Arms up, take a deep breath and sigh.
2. Lips: (BA BA BA)
3. Lips: Horse sound
4. Tongue: Exaggerated (LA LA LA)
5. Tongue: Roll an R (RRRRR)
6. The siren (WEEEE [High] yoooo [Low])
Speaking is one part of the puzzle because having a good conversation also depends on being a good listener.
Edit: Reconstructed the phrasing of the point of dogmatism.
Thank you for all the beautiful replies.Happy to make your day a bit easier :)
tbh thanks I was looking for a comment like your
You are an angel
May god bless you
Thank you all
Happy to help
THIS IS GOING TO HELP! Thank you!!!!
He such a good speaker. I like the way he spoke and his confidence. I love his speech
this is the shortest 9 minute that have passed. What a life-changing speech.
Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement.
Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢
Dead A** channel! Lol
Ikr! I thought it had been like a coupla mins n the video ended!
meh
His speech is like his head. Clean and smooth
😂😂😂😂
Underrated comment
Bro went personal😂
how can a person do compliment and assault at the same time
your comment has prosody as well.
"Theres nothing wrong with silence, is there?"
This man has obviously never been to dinner with my family.
😂
lol
Lol
"There's nothing wrong with a LITTLE BIT of silence, is there?"
Well he said a little bit and you left it out completely.... it entirely changed the meaning...
LMAO!!!
anyone here 2024😂 ?
Yeah hbbi; nd commenting, he said its had to listen when they’re negative but for me its had to talk to them.
Yeah man
Yes
Yea bro
Yes 😂
Four things I learned from watching this talk
1. "Seven deadly sins of speaking to avoid"
1) gossip -> I need to work on this sin
2) judging -> I need to work on this sin
3) negativity -> I need to work on this sin
4) complaining -> I need to work on this sin
5) excuses
6) lying (embroidery, exaggeration)
7) dogmatism (confusion between fact and opinion)
2. what I need to say: four powerful cornerstones of speech to make a change in the world
c.f. "hail means to greet or acclaim enthusiastically"
1) H: honesty (be clear and straight)
2) A: authenticity (be myself)
3) I: integrity (be my word)
4) L: love (wish them well)
3. how I need to say: tools to play with to increase power of my speech
1) register: e.g. if wanting weight, lower pitch of voice
2) timbre: the way voice feels e.g. breathing, posture
3) prosody: rhythm (e.g. not monotone)
4) pace: e.g. slow to emphasize
5) pitch: e.g. make pitch high or low
6) volume: e.g. louder to emphasize
4. exercise the following before making a presentation
1) arms up to sigh out with ahh
2) lips with ba ba
3) lips with brrr
4) tongue with la
5) tongue rolling an r
6) siren from we to aww
Gil Su Kim You made a summary and shared it with everyone. You must have been the nicest kid in class when you were in school. (Or, now that I think of it, maybe you still are. I don´t know your age.) Thank you, I appreciate it.
:( _when I speak by action, then people only able to listen by perception_
+Gil Su Kim
Do all of that Gil and you will have become a robot!
+Gil Su Kim
I reckon he missed one: Defensiveness
(and I did wonder if the list should include fake humility/the apology reflex, but I suppose that comes under Lying, with a hint of Excuses)
Thank you angel of God. Note taker
4:06 " If you are wishing somebody's well, it is very hard to judge them at the same time. " impressive expression, so real.
Judgment is good but only as a starting point, that should follow with "but I can help you...."
Unfortunately, most judgments are about: now go and fix your own problems.
Like, if I could do it alone don't you think I wouldn't do it already?!
Agreed. I need to remember this.
It was written in Holy Bible two thousands years ago, interesting fact. All new is forgotten old
@@romanstryzhyk9156 New Testament was written by Greeks and they were "smart ones" and philosophers of the ancient times. Problem is, Romans highjacked it and changed the meaning and turned metaphorical story to literal ones, it became the story of materialistic magic. But then Revelation was added, like the fairy in the Sleeping Beauty altered the witches curse, so did they added "Apocalypse" part in it. But Apocalypse literally mean "unveiling", finding something that was hidden - the hidden meaning and the truth that if you take story of Jesus as metaphor and not literal story of a man who died and then zombified, you still can make it all fit and meaningful. Like plot twist gives you the key to re-read the book or re-watch the movie and go through the same path but now there's completely different meaning. And that key, actually, is what brings the "destruction of the world as we know it" because once you see you cannot unsee and nothing is the same any more.. New Earth, but just from the cultural perspective, we'll still have to stop the bullshit we're doing in polluting everything around us. Because once we destroy the Paradise on Earth, there'll be nothing to enjoy. As for the "gnashing of teeth" (anger) and "weeping" (sorrow) - that's reserved for the people who'll realize that everything they thought they knew - was a lie.
Unfortunately, Kubler-Ross realized anger comes way before sorrow, so you'd be stoned before they get to the "sorry" part. Better leave it as it is then, in a century it won't matter anyway. Everyone's back to the pre-birth realm, the void.
@@ScorpioHR I found that description very interesting.
...Also, confusing, but maybe that's because I am sleep deprived.
"People prefer voices which are rich, smooth, warm like hot chocolate" Julian said, knowing his voice sounded rich, smooth and warm, like hot chocolate.
This is so funny
thanks bro haha
Yah that "see what i did there?" 🤣
That whole section is him proving it. He is literally implying he trained for that voice.
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The Dont's
Habits to move away from -- Seven deadly sins of speaking:
1. Gossip
2. Judging
3. Negativity
4. Complaining
5. Blame-throwing (Excuses)
6. Embroidery, exaggeration --> lying
7. Dogmatism (my way or the highway; conflating fact and opinion)
The Do's
H.A.I.L -- Four (4) cornerstones of powerful, change-making speech
H - Honesty: Being true - straight and clear.
A - Authenticity: Be yourself. [Standing in your own truth.]
I - Integrity: Be your word. [Doing what you say.]
L - Love: Wish them well.
Toolbox (the voice) - Some tools
Register - (P.s. Depth is associated with power and authority.)
Timbre - The way your voice feels -- rich, smooth, warm (can be trained!)
Prosody - the sing-song, the meta-language, the root 1 of meaning in cnversation.
Pace - including silence (don't have to be filled with ums and ahs)
Pitch - to indicate arousal, etc.
Volume - excitement (loud), attention-grabbing (quiet)
Warm up your voice!
1. Arms up, deep breath in. Sigh out.
Lips:
2. Ba-ba-ba-na
3: Brrrrrrr
Tongue:
4. Exaggerated la-la-la-la
5. Roll an RRRRRR
6 The siren - Weeee (high)... awwww (low) [Repeat] The only one if able to do only one.
Mathieu Blake thank you very much!
Lmao that last bit
@@richardparker9091 You got it.
👌👌👌 thank you so much
Careful, he's a Hero
Did he just influence such a large group of people within 10mins to make them stand and do some warmups like that?
He proved his technique to be true. Amazing!
Wow it's so amazing. People from all around want to hear and interact, they come and sit in silence with others to hear someone elevated on a stage with an electrically-amplified voice. Lo and Behold, they are listening to the person on an elevated stage with an amplified voice! IT MUST BE A MIRACLE!
Its easy to do that actually
@@TheFogLakeshore Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement.
Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢😢😢😢
He's like adolf h
I just wanna share something that happened to my voice, to see if others experienced this too. I used to have a higher pitched voice. But through the years where I have done a lot of self education, I saw that my voice was changing. It was going deeper. The more I found myself and felt better in this world, the lower my voice got. I literally have found my own voice now haha. Now when I speak I feel more calm, and people listen to me way more! 😊
Good for you.
You're either hitting puberty, or your inauthentic way of forced speaking is starting to damage your vocal cords.
omg same!!! i notice it most when i laugh, it comes from my chest like he mentions in the video.
I haven't found my voice yet sadly but this comment gives me hope
Thank you for the great info, my takeaways:
- Things to avoid:
- Judging
- Excuses
- Gossip
- Dogamatism
- Complaining
- Lying
- Negativity
- HAIL
to greet or acclaim enthusiastically
H - Honesty → Be clear and straight
A - Authenticity → Standing in your own truth
I - Integrity → be your word
L - Love → Wish them well
- Voice
Register
- Speak from the chest → Depth = Power and Authority
Timbre
- Way your voice feels → Rich-smooth-warm
- Train your voice - Voice Coach
- Breathing and posture
Prosody
- SIng song → Meta language
- Monotonic tone is boring
- Make it livilier with changing up the tones
- Repeatative Prosody coming up
Pace
- Pace up
- Slow down → Emphasize
- Silence
Pitch
- High and low pitch signify different meaning
Volume
- Vary volume according to purpose
- Warm Up Exercises
Arms Up → Deep breath in and sigh out Aaaaahhhh
Lips → Bupp Buppp Buppp
→ Brrrrrrr Brrrrr Brrr
Tongue
→ La la la la
→ Thrrrrthhrr → Champagne for the tongue
Pitch
Weeeee - Oooooo
5:58
Wow thank you. 😊
Thanks a lot!!!
Thank you! Imma write this in my notebook
thank you so much
If these types of interpersonal skills along with mindfulness meditation were taught in schools, we would live in a much more sane world. Intelligence isn't just about memorizing facts.
That's true man
+Micah Buzan Yup :) Therapists would be out of a job.. and the world would be so different. I wonder at the possibilities
+MatthieuAmherst That would be a real problem for status quo...
+MatthieuAmherst Actually mindfulness meditation seems to be what is being called the third wave of therapy and is becoming more popular every year among therapists. Some are even saying it could overtake CBT. I've found both CBT and mindfulness to be very useful. It's a great tool for therapists, so I don't think it will put them out of a job. Remember that they work to help people, so many of them would do well to spread the word.
+Micah Buzan Couldn't agree more
Not one time did my mind wander or drift away. This was pure excellence.
Same here hope you're ok
mine did on the NEGAtivity
@@nanab3959 😢
🙈 Me reading this comment in the middle of watching the video
Yes...what you say is true
boy have I learned that public speaking is not just to simply speak in front of an audience, there are broader and deeper aspects that make one’s speech interesting; where you would actually listen to what they are saying. It is compelling to learn the many ways you could competently speak in front of an audience, more than just articulating words and thoughts but rather, the way you speak those words and thoughts. Great video! great speech!
Now this gentleman here cuts right through the chase, I usually dislike long introductions to the real subject. A lovely lecture indeed.
Iky Scars cuts right TO the chase
Iky Scars here cut??
Iky Scars exactly my thought in the first 10 seconds
SP95 ntR Intended ! Hahaha
Iky Scars hence his ted talk topic
I can just imagine a bunch of people applying for a job position, all gathered outside the boss' office going:
"RRRRRRRRR"
"BA! BA! BA! BA!"
"WEEEEEYYOOOOOOOWEEE"
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that's hillarious=))))
dewie 🤣
😂
yes well that's why you would find a quiet place to practice I would hope lol
4:01 "Tempered with love, honesty is a great thing." What a powerful statement; so, so true.
Teaching something after mastering it yourself is an art. And he’s an artist
Vocal Exercises begin at 7:50 :
1. Raise arms above head, take a deep breath, sigh loudly. "AAaaaaaaahhhh."
2. Warm up lips."Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop."
3. Blow Raspberries. "Bbbbbrrlllthhhhh."
4. Exaggerate LA's. "LA. LA. LA. LA. LA."
5. Roll an R. Like champagne for the tongue. "RrrRrRrrRrRrrRrR."
6. The Siren. The WE's are always high and the oo's are always low. "WWWEEEEEeeeeeeeeeooooooowwWWWEEEEEeeeeooooooooowwwwwwwwwww."
I enjoyed writing this.
CoffeeWithKyle lol I am sure you did
CoffeeWithKyle I listen it every morning
CoffeeWithKyle h
Glad you did it!!! 😂👌🎊🎊
😂😂😂
I like his head it is shining
Shining so bright i couldnt focus on the talk
lubed fucking head
His head is brighter than my future
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Cut it off and take it home- it's what I do
"If you wish people with love its really hard to judge them" , its absolutely true . I try to do this everyday . No matter what wish people well and you will find yourself free of all the negativity. And a smile from that stranger will make your day
Very true! Heroic opportunities don't cross our path very often.
A blatantly spurious assertion.
Just like ur comment made me smile😊
This video was posted 9 years ago but today (05-01-2024) I have been able to get a lot of value from it
Absolutely amazing 💯
Thank you.
You watched it on 5-1 - my birthday 😍
i feel like youtube recommendations are personally attacking me
😂 same
lol
Same😂
This time around they're just trying to help because it cares about you.
Hahahaha in fact it's attacking all human beings!
Imagine someone being late and walking in at 8:49
Omg😂😂😂❤👏
*Goes to check sign*
"Is this the "How to start a cult" talk?"
Imagine someone being late and walking in at 8:30
OMG
Omg lol hahaha
He speaks so clearly, even I can understand almost whole words
Yes it's likE mE
Coming from a family who is high strung, intelligent, passionate and constantly talking over each other (remarkably well, I might add) this calm, deep voiced way of conversation not only seems hard, but would make me virtually invisible if I tried it with them. This might work on strangers, but still seems like a difficult adjustment to make into a habit..
he sound so professional. i did the warm up a minute in lobby before job interview. i passed but requiring psychological test.
footangnang laaggg hahaha. xD
He is an incredible professional speaker. I thoroughly enjoyed this talk!
same here! I also really love Andrew Solomon's talk about depression. Both him and Julian are professional and impactful speakers. :)
How am I the only one who finds his voice grating?
One of the best 10 minutes I spent in my life using UA-cam.
+Alan Niemies REAL TALK
respect
Alan Niemies
Suggest u watch more useful vids like this then! there certainly are plenty of them
⭐ really helpful
Great one. From last 1+ month am struggling while writing my resume sweet and short. And see how he has completed such a big topic in just 9 min. Oh simply outstanding.
Me to my crush: hey I wanna talk to you about something
*Starts excercising my voice in front of her*
Her: leaves in silence
Me:*still excercising* wEeEEeOOoO
LOL!!! You were supposed to do that BEFORE she came over
I think the point is to do the exercises in private. That is, make it a morning ritual. Just as you would exercise your body.
@@AlexAnder-rv1gu They normally come uninformed. Suddenly she is there.
Crazy.......
LOL
This is a really good demonstration on how you can be more impactful when talking to people. I sincerely feel like I just learned a whole lot
It's useless when you are surrounded by people for a lack of a better word "idiots"
Conversation and speaking is truly an intricate art. The mastery of it takes discipline composure and consistency, among many other things. I now take every single interaction I have, whether it be a physical interaction or via any digital format text messaging, etc. I take it as a test for myself every time. I then rate my conversion based on how well I applied this great information to work on all my weaknesses each time I strive to do better than my last interaction. How to correctly apply this information is key. Thank you for sharing this information with us all. To anyone reading this comment, I really do wish you all the best. The more we practice, the better we all become so start now and take action immediately speak light and positivity all day every day. Children of the light stay close to all those who speak and live life positively.
AWESOME 👌
Man didn't take a single step throughout his speech of around 10 minutes, yet was sounded so perfect with everything he said. Julian Treasure, his name speaks for his class.
This is by far the best TED talk ever. 💯
"How to speak so that people want to listen"
- Guy at 1:25 "sleeps"
Damn you're attentive af
😂
Strange)
I don't wanna listen to him too)
j j noticed that too🤣🤣
I’m fuckin crying my guy was slump
The trick is, whenever you're talking to people have confidence in yourself don't look shy, look into people's eye, don't bow your head down a minute unless you checking the shoes or down-wear.
But first hit your throat, Mnmn Mnmm...
•••Men speak with a little base in it, avoid speaking to fast.
•••Ladies speak calmly men automatically like that.
Avoid, Eh, ehm, etc in the middle of your speech.
Just pause and continue with the next word,then everyone in the audience will automatically see you as an intelligent person subconsciously.
It's a human trick.
True. Also, How about just saying the TRUTH? Which DOES include Gossiping, Judging etc. How abt emphasizing that ppl who ONLY tak positive are Pretentious Liars and are NOT Truthful. Like this man- Julian Treasure could be one of them. I am sick of those "Wanna be a Good Human Hypocrites" !! Just be Truthful
@@euphoria156 You're right, it's in the confidence bracket...Who ever speak the truth is confident and does not care about what anyone thinks.
As long as it's the truth, it's done.
*Some people also lie boldly tho
'Men automatically like that'🤣🤣🤣 i don't really care🤣🤣🤣
@@anuoluwapoobipehin4894 Same with some men being attracted to other men.
Things don't seems all that okay with all humanity ,people got preference.
So Elon Musk is not intelligent because he stutters while talking?
I assumed this would be your basic talk on vocal coaching, how to carry and conduct oneself in public speaking. But he went to a deeper level and emphasized how we should speak about goodness, light, and positivity ❤ A concise message that hit the mark precisely ❤
He absolutely demonstrated all of his techniques. Amazing.
I don't know how many times I've watched this one in the course of 10 years. It's simply amazing!
I was a professional pilot back in the days when carbon mikes were the only choice. As a female, I learned to lower my voice’s pitch in order to activate the carbon crystals. Discovered that I also got a lot more respect and was heard better when I used the deeper richer timbre. Also stopped ending all sentences like a question. That really eliminated a lot of confusion with air traffic control.
I know nothing of “carbon mikes”. Or activating carbon crystals. Do tell!
Thank you for sharing your experience. I worked with school age children, and was led by The All Knowing one to learn about these styles and forms of communicating. Really does make a difference!! Especially when shaping and cultivating a young humans learning experience. SHALOM
The technical term for ending sentences like a question is "upspeak".
When I was learning to fly (PPL) was told that I sounded like a mouse by my second instructor. I'd already done 13 hours with my first instructor. Lost my confidence to fly as easily as that. (1st instructor left as got a job with an airline). He was all the qualities needed to be an top class instructor because I flew my first solo under his guidance. My 2nd instructor wasn't and I gave up flying sadly. How to speak made all the difference to me. Will always appreciate the first instructor for an amazing life experience. Second instructor can't take that away.
@@channel-so2st You mean "Upspeak?"?
*Walks into the boss's office to ask for a raise*
Boss: "Yes, How can I help you?"
Me: "PRRRRRRRRRRRR WEEEEEEYOOOOOOOO WEEEE"
😂
😂😂😂
*boss impressed* *gives promotion too*
He said *”before”*
😂😂😂😂
"Understanding would be the norm" I love this and I live for this! It's so important to be present and always go into a conversation with the goal to understand as much as you can and if you can't -> accept.
This was truly a great video to improve our skill in speaking especially giving a speech. The speaker giving us some tips how to deliver a powerful speech. He makes contact with the audience by giving a little joke while talking so that the audience isn’t bored and interested in the material. Such a confident and clear speaker because every words he says can be understood. In the last video he invites the audience to put into practice the tips that he has already given. Amazing!!!!️ thank you for the new knowledge
This was 10 minutes of my life well spent.
9:58*
Not the best 10 minutes i wasted of mine
ua-cam.com/video/GkvqJmVMC3E/v-deo.html
ted talks never disappoint ...
Yes, I am a better person for it
0:13 Intro
0:33 7 deadly sins of speaking
2:45 4 positive/powerful elements in speech
4:22 The toolbox
7:44 Vocal warmup
9:05 Conclusion
Gracias !!
Yes
Not all heroes wear capes
Some of us are born leaders!
🎉
I felt like the video went for 2 to 3 minutes. Came to the realization that it was 9:59 minutes long.... This man wasn't lying.
Treasure identifies several common issues that prevent people from feeling listened to when they speak, including:
1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about those who are not present.
2. Judgment: Forming judgments about others while they are speaking, which hinders true listening.
3. Negativity: A pessimistic attitude that obstructs constructive communication.
4. Complaining: Habitually complaining without offering solutions.
5. Blame: Failing to take responsibility for one’s actions.
6. Exaggeration: Using overly dramatic or inaccurate language.
7. Dogmatism: Mixing facts with opinions irresponsibly.
Solutions Offered
Treasure presents four pillars for effective speaking:
1. Honesty: Speaking truthfully and clearly.
2. Authenticity: Being oneself and speaking with integrity.
3. Integrity: Saying what you mean and meaning what you say.
4. Love: Wishing the best for others, which creates a positive atmosphere in communication.
Vocal Techniques
Treasure also shares several vocal techniques to enhance speaking ability, including:
- Adjusting pitch from high to low to add strength to the voice.
- Using intonation and rhythm to capture the audience's attention.
- Employing silence strategically for greater impact.
Conclusion
Treasure emphasizes that if we want our voices to be heard, we must pay attention to how we speak and the environment around us. By applying these principles, we can create a world where effective communication and mutual understanding are commonplace.
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Julian Treasure sounds like an adult entertainer name. This is the best Ted video I have seen, and the only one I wanted to see twice.
For your first acclaim, I accord too.
I had saved this to ‘Watch Later’ for quite sometime now, but this morning, while still in bed, I had the sudden urge to watch it, and I am so glad I did. I now know why I have problem with getting people’s attention when I speak to them. Most of this applies to me, I put my hands up. I am grateful for this video. It has done me an immeasurable amount of good.
1:25
*How to speak so that people want to listen*
the man with grey hair: sleeps...
Hahah...wat a observing skills...😂😂
lolz
maybe he was already dead and the staff forgot to carry him away :D And an old tale said that the man in grey is still lying in the hall until now
He was writing down notes
indead. 😂
Anyone here on September 2024🔥🔥👀
Yeaah😊
Yes
Yeaaa😂
Yes
Yes i am.
1:24 that guy. So perfect
It costs like 6000$ to attend, lol
That nap better be worth it
Aeonian Sybaritic
Yes, it does
www.ted.com/attend/conferences
Aeonian Sybaritic
please elaborate
The old man with glasses at the right sleeping
Maybe he's the kind who internalises his listening?
How to be a great public speaker:
Step 1. Have a British accent
End of steps
that is so accurate lol
@@rajaaahmad2336 😁
If you have a British accent in America.... your immediately getting all the attention 😂😂
@@fieldkasrel3140 you're*
bruh i am british but i still can’t speak😭
Nice definition of Love....wishing someone well. I like that.
Yeah; that's what love is. I can't believe you millenials; what with sleeping couples in bed that are weirded out with saying "I love you" like it's perverted; damn kids need to get off the lawn that is the English language and metaphysical concepts of altruism.
This is really helpful. I have once used some of the tactics but without knowing the full set. I think that I must repeat this video before each speech I need to deliver. May God bless you!
I have never taken notes throughout an entire, first watch of a piece. I kept pausing and rewinding every couple moments to do so, it was honestly a fantastic speech.
You‘re not the only one 🤓
Cam,Would you like to be my friend?
I think my neighbour saw me doing the warm up. Time to move
Er Wars 😂
Happened to me too😂
Hahaha...
LOL 😂😂
*inserts Mr. Bean's face as he is discovered doing sth weird by other people and tries to turn away
His head is brighter than my future.
+Jen Tan (Jaye) lol this comment made me die of laughter
+Jen Tan (Jaye) Great example of ... if you wanna gossip, be funny ;-)
+Jen Tan (Jaye) I might quote this in the future xD.
+Jen Tan (Jaye) You made my day XD
+Home Sweet Home Productions Lol this comment made me lie of daughter
Julian explains how our words, tone, and delivery shape whether people truly listen to us, emphasizing honesty and vocal variety. It made me realize how often I speak without much thought, and I’m excited to start applying her tips to see how they change the way people respond to me.
That was the fastest 10 min of my life. This guy is amazing.
+Tomas Petkovski That's what she said!
I really loved the way, the idea for this talk, begin with a problem, suggest a solution, offer Hands-on experience for the audience. Beautiful sir, thoroughly enjoyed every frame of this video. The activity towards the end, I believe many of us will be a different speaker after that. Thank you for this.
This is an awesome talk...direct to the point, of being a conscious speaker. So love the tips and techniques. He's a great communicator, he got me glued.
Clear , Crisp and Concise ..... Kudos Julian
Seven deadly sins of speaking:
Gossip (0:50)
Judging (1:08)
Negativity (1:20)
Complaining (1:31)
Excuses (1:42)
Embroidery (1:52)
Dogmatism (2:03)
Four cornerstones of powerful speaking (HAIL):
Honesty (2:20)
Authenticity (2:31)
Integrity (2:40)
Love (2:48)
Toolbox for powerful speaking:
Register (3:02)
Timbre (3:20)
Prosody (3:34)
Pace (3:46)
Silence (3:52)
Pitch (3:57)
Volume (4:03)
Vocal warm-up exercises:
Sighing (4:20)
Lip trills (4:25)
Tongue trills (4:28)
Blowing raspberries (4:30)
Siren (4:32)
I’m very pleased to see almost 30 million views for this video. I feel like healthy communication is a dying art form.
I’m a teacher and these are essential in being an engaging and effective teacher. Great talk.
I, ma teacher and these are essential in being an angaging and effective teacher. Great talk
I remember this was the first video I saw when I was learning English, now I can understand pretty must of it , almost everything what a huge difference, I'm pretty happy now
How did u learn it stronger? Do u have any tips to improve or extend my english skills. In my opinion i need to learn more vocabulary to understand the most phrases exactly. The most time I understand the sense, but i would like to get everything
How long have you been learning for English?
Instead of must it’s much
Here's a detailed scenario incorporating the points you provided, focusing on a workshop setting:
**Scenario: The Power of Voice Workshop**
**Setting:** A bright, airy community center room. Chairs are arranged in a semi-circle facing a central space where the workshop leader, Anya, stands. A whiteboard displays the words "HAIL" and "Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking." A small table holds a pitcher of water and glasses.
**Participants:** A diverse group of 10-12 adults, ranging in age and background. They represent various professions and levels of public speaking experience - some are confident, others visibly nervous.
**Workshop Leader:** Anya, a charismatic and experienced communication coach, exudes warmth and authority.
**Workshop Flow:**
**(1) Introduction (15 minutes):** Anya begins by engaging the participants with a thought-provoking question: "Have you ever felt unheard or dismissed? How did that make you feel?" She facilitates a brief, respectful sharing of experiences, highlighting the universal desire to be heard and understood. She then introduces the concept of the human voice as a powerful tool for change, giving examples of both positive and negative uses of voice (inspiring speeches vs. hateful rhetoric).
**(2) The Seven Deadly Sins (10 minutes):** Anya presents the "Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking" (gossip, judging, negativity, complaining, excuses, exaggeration, dogmatism), explaining each sin with relatable examples and encouraging participants to identify their own weaknesses. She emphasizes the importance of mindful communication and the impact of these sins on relationships and personal effectiveness.
**(3) The Four Cornerstones of Powerful Speaking (15 minutes):** Anya introduces the "HAIL" framework (Honesty, Authenticity, Integrity, Love). She elaborates on each cornerstone with practical examples, emphasizing the importance of balancing honesty with kindness and empathy. Participants are encouraged to reflect on how they can integrate these principles into their daily communication.
**(4) The Vocal Toolbox (20 minutes):** Anya introduces the vocal techniques (register, timbre, prosody, pace, pitch, volume), explaining each concept clearly and demonstrating how they can be used to enhance the impact of speech. She incorporates interactive exercises:
* **Register:** Participants experiment with speaking in different registers (high, low, mid-range), noting the different effects.
* **Timbre:** Anya guides participants through simple vocal exercises to improve their timbre, focusing on breath control and resonance.
* **Prosody:** Participants practice reading a short passage with different prosodic variations, emphasizing the impact of rhythm and intonation.
* **Pace & Silence:** Anya demonstrates the power of pauses and varying pace to create emphasis and build suspense.
* **Pitch & Volume:** Participants practice modulating their pitch and volume to express different emotions (joy, sadness, anger).
**(5) Vocal Warm-ups (10 minutes):** Anya leads the group through a series of gentle vocal warm-up exercises (humming, lip trills, tongue rolls), emphasizing the importance of preparing the voice before speaking.
**(6) Q&A and Conclusion (10 minutes):** Anya opens the floor for questions and provides personalized feedback to participants. She concludes by reiterating the importance of mindful and powerful communication, emphasizing the potential for positive change when people speak consciously and listen attentively. She leaves participants with a handout summarizing the key concepts and exercises covered in the workshop.
This scenario provides a structured and engaging learning experience, incorporating both theoretical knowledge and practical application of the concepts. The interactive elements ensure active participation and promote a deeper understanding of the material.
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I love that quote: "Complaining is viral misery." Yes! It infects and debilitates the host (speaker) and the receiver alike. Absolutely amazing talk!
But sometimes you need to complain a little😄.
@@Oleg_Ivanov. I don't know. I haven't been able to stop it completely, but I feel that focusing on what we don't like just makes it bigger in our experience.
oof this hits close to home now with a real virus on our tails
I had 4 cats sitting around me, I tried to do the Wee waaa and they all ran hehehe :)
Very beautiful talk.. Thank you
+Buthy ful What's the Wee waaa? oo.....00
+Buthy ful Oh I get it now.... haahahaahahah!!! You're hilarious! xP
+rosacute jenniely heheheheheh it also made me laugh loudly when they freaked out :-D hehehe
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+gmoschwarz Hahahahhahahhahahahahahaha
Any one from 2024 ❤😂
Are you from future
Yes brother
@@tanushchakravarty4181 what you do bro ?
@@LovelyDalmatian-yd2tl what you do bro ?
@@MahendraPatel-j7b am a high school student
I'm learning more on the internet than I'm learning in school
"if you don't find a way to make money while you sleep you will have to work hard until you old".
same lol
36 million
how come
same
How to speak so people will listen: Have a British accent
And say it twice apparently
+Gabriel Garcia BAAAAAAAAAAALD MY EYES!!!!!!!!!
+Gabriel Garcia haha ... Actually it's a good point.
+Gabriel Garcia but maybe it's most credible than exaggerated american, didn't ya?
+Deos That's like saying "there's no such thing as fruit" just because there are lots of different types of fruit. If you see an apple or an orange, that's a fruit. Just like if you hear a Yorkshire accent or a Dorset accent, that's a British accent.
Communication is about human connection. Being able to communicate effectively is one of the best life habits. Good listening is among the most important principles of great communication. It is common for most people to listen not with the intent of understanding, but with the intent of replying. Listening with the intent to understand is to fully understand that person intellectually and emotionally. You ensure that you understand by repeating back to them what they said and mirroring their emotions. By doing so, you help them structure their own thoughts and feelings. This type of listening can lead to truly open and trusting communication.
This is my first comment on any video over UA-cam. Totally amazing. I would want to hear & practice this often.
But I'm also sure that a good speaker may fail but a good listener would never fail.
Speaking is one thing but the tone in which you speaks with is of utmost importance. Such a confident and clear speaker: he catches your attn within the first 1 minute with his calm tone and eye contact. Alot to take away. 💯
Before mentioning his highly fluent speech I could feel how confident he is about himself. What an amazing speech I have ever seen! Love it!
I was a speech & debate champion in HS & college (Harvard) and then a debate and speech coach at the HS and college levels for more than 30 years, as well as a founder of urban speech and debate. Everything Julian Treasure says here is exactly what high school speech teachers try to convey to their students each and every day; policy debaters try to persuade by facts and logic, whereas events like oratory involve rhetorical methods (some of which are mentioned in the talk) for persuasion. These essentially are known to us as LOGOS and ETHOS; the best speakers can not only control register, timbre, prosody, pace, silence, pitch and volume, but also can start a speech with a hook, an introduction, a topic sentence, 2-3 arguments, surrounded by rhetorical flourishes (three words starting with the same consonant is a famous one) a conclusion and a closing hook.
I'm lucky enough to have been teaching the last few years standardized tests, and getting across how to write, or how to speak, is a delight with young kids. They should all watch this You Tube!
My daughter is a freshman in HS and is taking honors classes. We just watched this today for her homework project to study Pathos, Ethos and Logos. It was a pleasure working side by side with her. I am a little concerned because she is so focused on performance and the end goal of attending Brown University that I sometimes feel she is missing the value of effective communication and how empowering that can be in infinite circumstances. Do you have any words of wisdom that will honor her enthusiasm and allow for her to get her hand on the heart beat of the moment. I am only now going to college at age 54, so I'm a bit of a late bloomer and she is sure to pass me up academically.
@@kimilivingston2521I'm just 29 and not a communication coach. But I do agree with your view on how a good communication is more powerful and important than a single instance of getting into a good university. Great speakers may or may not have finished their college but they can get many great things done by simply communicating. Wars can be stopped, business deals can be brokered, true friends can be gained, experiences can be learned. To have such skills under your belt means you can walk through the world without the riches or the certificates but do not suffer a single day. I'm sure you're an amazing parent for seeing this point for your daughter. You don't need other people, just use your own words to teach her.
Speaking really captivates people's attention. I'm interested in this topic, and thank you so much for the tips and exercises, sir.
LOVE this. 10 minutes of my life well spent.
This is one of my favorite talks of all time. The presentation itself is a testament of these techniques
You don’t know how much I love and appreciate this video because I definitely wish the world was more lively so that way depression will decrease
Brilliant talk. Human intelligence combined with higher levels of awareness will save the world!
It is by grace through faith in Jesus Christ alone. For there is no other name under heaven given to man by which we must be saved.
mindvolution
17M and counting, only another 16.83 billion people in the world to watch this video :D
I'll listen to this later.
Janet Wood ironic 😂😂😂
Thanks for the update
underrated comment !
It was in my 'watch later' for two years
i wouldn;t if i were you janet
You are a great public speaker. You did something great that emphasises the fact that you are a great public speaker: letting the audience participate.
Thank you for sharing. I got some important information.
1. 7 deadly sins of speaking : Gossip, Judging, Negativity, Complaining, Excuses, Lying, Dogmatism.
2. " If you are wishing somebody's well, it is very hard to judge them at the same time. "
3. "Tempered with love, honesty is a great thing."
I love this speech so much that I’m using it for an out of state declamation tournament
Edit: I got second place overall with it😎
Congrats! 🎉
This is great insights especially the seven deadly sina of communications.
The society, our parents ... we heard them gossiping so our brain functions in a way that this is normal but it is not. It is an illusion that fog up with negativity. People even gossips just to feel close to one another.
It is okay to vent your problems but never gossips in day to day basis. It is very unhealthy.
Awesome
@@noexcuses5524 Gossiping is what women do. Like hens in a coup.
@@kwimms wrong. It's a soceital thing. Social media was made for gossiping.
This speech was actually so cool. To be more accurate, he spoke so well that we all wanted to listen.
I wish this was actually true. But in my humble experience to many people I come off as a boring individual simply because I refuse to gossip yet love to talk about things that matter. Most people like trivial talks, they can only connect to one another by bad mouthing someone. I have a sister who isn't a bad person,but man does she love to gossip and talk about stupid, irrelevant things. And yep: she has tons of friends and acquaintances.Which is not something that I can say for me. But I don't expect the whole world to like me..i'm just surprised how undervalued some values are nowadays.
Darja, it sounds like your sister may have what you call many "acquaintances", but not many friends. People who live off of the negative energy of gossiping about others are parasites and are likely very unhappy internally that they do these things to save face. Please do not think yourself inadequate because you may have less outwardly appearing " friends". Your conscience knows that you are doing the right thing, and that is what truly matters. Your conscience is the greatest friend, and though it is hard to understand at first, befriending that conscience will bring you much more joy and happiness than trying to attain happiness through many fake and superficial friends. I speak of this because of my own personal experience, and in mine, I am 100% confident that I am more satisfied and happy as an individual by knowing in my being that by ignoring the petty and immature urge to gossip, I know that what I am doing is right. This surely brings more happiness than fitting in to the cult of the world which is so wrong and in high numbers, but also very convincing.
cohavideos Thank you very much for your opinion, even though I share it and live by it, it is sometimes so hard to be 'alone' in these values/opinions.. But I agree, one should never ever have to change oneself just to be like others and to please them. In the bottom of my heart I'm happy that I'm not like others whose only goal is to talk trash, but I wish there were more people that think like we do. Wow now I sound so vain. :) Happy Christmas!
darja25 it definitely is hard to stand firm in your convictions when everyone around you is telling and shouting at you that you are wrong. That is why it is so important to a) make spiritual or loving friends who accept you the way you are, and b) to constantly check in with your 'self' and to interiorize with meditation and introspection, also making sure to tell yourself that you are "the captain of your ship and the master of your fate". Enough people around us may have their sails so lost in the winds of delusion that they can only make themselves feel better by talking trash and bringing others down. If almost everyone around you is doing this, it is important to have at least you making sure to tell yourself that you are loved and what you are doing is right. It may sound vain, but the truth is that this world is very confused, and though vain it may sound, it is much better to do good for yourself and others knowing within that you are right, instead of becoming frustrated and wishing the world was better. Be the change, said Gandhi. Meditate on that. And then be fearless about being that change. It is scary to be alone sometimes but it is the path of all successful people who have forged ahead in all worthy pursuits of life. If you are interested in getting help on that path, look up SRF (Self-realization fellowship). The founder, Yogananda, brought many ancient scientific techniques of Yoga from India for help on the path of right action and meditation, which it sounds like you are doing very well on so far. I wish you the best darja. Merry Christmas, and hope you have great holidays coming up.
cohavideos Thank you on the advices, but the only sailor of my ship and master of my fate is JESUS who is the only path and way. Congratulating me Christmas and at the same time promoting fake religion such as Yoga is something where I draw the line on this conversation, because I don't believe in your philosophies, even though they may be well intentioned. They are simply based on something fake that is called self realization or new age philosophies which is a false doctrine. No man can save himself without Jesus. "Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." John 14:6 I hope someday you realize this. Blessings!
darja25 lol....welcome to reality. Bertrand Russell once said, *"The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt."* On top of that, those in the status-quo mentally-dim majority are actually *_turned off_* by intelligent conversation. Sadly, this is the norm. Luckily, there's a solution: Only associate with highly intelligent interesting creative ethical people. : )
working on the silence end of things, always feel the need to fill the void, also "finishing evrey statement as a question".
What's amazing to me about this is that the exercises he has the audience do at the end are the exact things my 1 year old nephew does all the time. He's literally teaching himself how to talk!
Out of all the suggestions listed, I think "Pace" is perhaps the most difficult to implement. We live in a world where people don't have the patience to listen to someone who speaks slowly. You'll get interrupted constantly, or people will simply stop listening because you're taking up too much of their time. Too frequently you'll have to say what's on your mind really quickly, or not at all. Really, everything mentioned is an excellent practice, but it's only useful when speaking with someone who practices the same principles.
This is what makes arguments harder to because if you take too much time to think your response they lose interest but to quickly and you say something incorrectly to what you actually want to say
Technology is litteraly changing our brain function. Keeping the brain constantly wired with cell phones, text facebook, email, UA-cam and other social media is giving us short attention spams. Customer service, sales person even owners of businesses who sell for a living don't take the time to charm a customer anymore. Worst thing is that it's even changing the women's brain who are known to be more expresive and detailed. Even they don't like repeating things more than once. LOL!
+shintaro shy Ever talked to someone who talks with the pace of a snail? It's insanely difficult, not to interrupt.
+Charity Diary I totally agree - in my university, people think that those who speak faster are actually more intelligent because they can squeeze more content/ having much more things to say about something than someone who speaks slower (because that person is just trying to drag out the presentation and doesn't actually have much to say)
+Charity Diary look at that guy. You listened for him very carefully although he told not very fast.
I love this!❤😊❤
I love seeing people be able to speak confidently, and to use their voice in a way which is both powerful, but also compassionate and empathetic.❤😊❤
I love Julian's point about how when we're speaking, we can really use our voice to create an environment of warmth and connection - by changing our delivery and tone. I love how that is able to help people feel so much more understood ❤😊❤
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00:16 How to speak powerfully and make change in the world
01:27 Avoid negativity and complaining for better communication.
02:43 Four powerful cornerstones to impactful speech
03:58 Honesty tempered with love is essential for effective communication.
05:03 Voice qualities play a significant role in communication.
06:17 Mastering prosody can enhance communication effectiveness.
07:34 Warm up your voice before important talks.
08:44 Speaking consciously in a sound-conscious environment is key for better understanding
Wow! Informative and entertaining. I was surprised at how much I enjoyed this talk!
Die Gewohnheiten, die wir ablegen können, wenn wir wollen, dass uns zugehört wird (0:50):
1. Klatsch und Tratsch
2. Urteilen
3. Negativität
4. Beschwerden
5. Entschuldigungen/Ausflüchte
6. Übertreibungen/Lügen
7. Dogmatismen, Verwechseln von Tatsachen und Meinungen
Wie statt dessen (HAIL)(3:20):
- Ehrlichkeit (sei korrekt, klar und deutlich - verbunden mit Liebe)
- Authentizität (sei du selbst)
- Integrität (handle wie du sprichst, sei vertrauenswürdig)
- Liebe (wünsche den Anderen Gutes)
Werkzeuge (4:38):
Stimmlage - Sprich mit der Brust - Stimme, um dem Gesagten mehr Gewicht zu verleihen
Klangfarbe - reich, sanft, warm (kann man trainieren)
Satzrhythmus/Klangfülle - melodischer Singsang versus Monotonie/Eintönigkeit
Tempo - Unterstreichen des Gesagten durch Schnelligkeit oder Verlangsamung oder Schweigen/Stille
Tonhöhe - je nach Tonhöhe werden andere Emotionen transportiert
Lautstärke - begeistert oder aufgeregt: hohes Volume, Aufmerksamkeit steigernd: leises Volume
Ab 7:45 Aufwärm - Übungen für die Stimme
Bin sehr begeistert von dieser kurzen und würzigen Anleitung! Vielen Dank, Julian Treasure (was für ein Schatz!) und TED !
Allen Vorbeikommenden einen schönen Tag!
Vielen dank, gute zusammenfassung!
@@SpaceRangerrr Name..LOL...obercool
Great job. Good service. Where can I tip you?
@@humanbeing1429 Virtual tip has arrived...cheers!
@@samarpiene sadly I tip in person lol