How to Speak So That People Want to Listen | Julian Treasure | TED

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  • @MrDuck313
    @MrDuck313 9 років тому +37278

    He didn't use any "uhm"s or "eh"s in his speech. Absolutely amazing.

    • @chawbok
      @chawbok 9 років тому +705

      At 5:10 but aside from that... Lol

    • @rodrigosegura2400
      @rodrigosegura2400 9 років тому +454

      +chawbok He noticed... look at his throat 5:13

    • @RonCorwin
      @RonCorwin 9 років тому +252

      Amazing? That stuff is basic. Somebody didn't listen to the exaggeration portion of this talk. ;)

    • @SilentMover95
      @SilentMover95 9 років тому +106

      +Niek de Gier Must have taken some time to master his speech. I need to learn this too.

    • @AntiComposite
      @AntiComposite 9 років тому +260

      +SilentMover95 A good way to avoid filler words and increase effectiveness is to make eye contact with whomever you are talking to.

  • @meditationrelaxclub
    @meditationrelaxclub 6 років тому +19196

    If everyone took an extra minute to think before speaking, the world would be such a better place.

    • @theb166-er3
      @theb166-er3 5 років тому +236

      I wish to remember this one ... But there would be damn looooong cues everywhere. Not to mention all the phone calls that start with one-minute silence :D

    • @nomadequipment2177
      @nomadequipment2177 5 років тому +34

      @@theb166-er3 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣good one❤

    • @oldhounddog57
      @oldhounddog57 4 роки тому +99

      As my father used to say... make sure the brain is engaged before operating the mouth.

    • @eleventothesun1158
      @eleventothesun1158 4 роки тому +19

      And the most awkward place lol

    • @sangto5385
      @sangto5385 4 роки тому +6

      Eleven to the sun it will not be a problem as long as you’re not judging someone else.

  • @MysticsofIndia
    @MysticsofIndia Рік тому +3792

    this is the shortest 9 minute that have passed. What a life-changing speech.

    • @mingyuhuang8944
      @mingyuhuang8944 Рік тому +32

      Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement.
      Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢

    • @WHITE-pz8sv
      @WHITE-pz8sv Рік тому

      Dead A** channel! Lol

    • @VSlingshot-xzx
      @VSlingshot-xzx 6 місяців тому +2

      Ikr! I thought it had been like a coupla mins n the video ended!

    • @amenotejikara7589
      @amenotejikara7589 5 місяців тому

      meh

    • @arnavtete7793
      @arnavtete7793 17 днів тому +1

      sadhguru!

  • @prking2582
    @prking2582 Місяць тому +151

    It's 2025 but still people come here to learn that how to speak ! Great job !

  • @swine13
    @swine13 4 роки тому +5026

    "Theres nothing wrong with silence, is there?"
    This man has obviously never been to dinner with my family.

  • @ondermetu
    @ondermetu 4 роки тому +3092

    4:06 " If you are wishing somebody's well, it is very hard to judge them at the same time. " impressive expression, so real.

    • @ScorpioHR
      @ScorpioHR 3 роки тому +30

      Judgment is good but only as a starting point, that should follow with "but I can help you...."
      Unfortunately, most judgments are about: now go and fix your own problems.
      Like, if I could do it alone don't you think I wouldn't do it already?!

    • @Marmer
      @Marmer 3 роки тому +3

      Agreed. I need to remember this.

    • @romanstryzhyk9156
      @romanstryzhyk9156 3 роки тому +9

      It was written in Holy Bible two thousands years ago, interesting fact. All new is forgotten old

    • @ScorpioHR
      @ScorpioHR 3 роки тому

      @@romanstryzhyk9156 New Testament was written by Greeks and they were "smart ones" and philosophers of the ancient times. Problem is, Romans highjacked it and changed the meaning and turned metaphorical story to literal ones, it became the story of materialistic magic. But then Revelation was added, like the fairy in the Sleeping Beauty altered the witches curse, so did they added "Apocalypse" part in it. But Apocalypse literally mean "unveiling", finding something that was hidden - the hidden meaning and the truth that if you take story of Jesus as metaphor and not literal story of a man who died and then zombified, you still can make it all fit and meaningful. Like plot twist gives you the key to re-read the book or re-watch the movie and go through the same path but now there's completely different meaning. And that key, actually, is what brings the "destruction of the world as we know it" because once you see you cannot unsee and nothing is the same any more.. New Earth, but just from the cultural perspective, we'll still have to stop the bullshit we're doing in polluting everything around us. Because once we destroy the Paradise on Earth, there'll be nothing to enjoy. As for the "gnashing of teeth" (anger) and "weeping" (sorrow) - that's reserved for the people who'll realize that everything they thought they knew - was a lie.
      Unfortunately, Kubler-Ross realized anger comes way before sorrow, so you'd be stoned before they get to the "sorry" part. Better leave it as it is then, in a century it won't matter anyway. Everyone's back to the pre-birth realm, the void.

    • @isaacm4268
      @isaacm4268 3 роки тому +1

      @@ScorpioHR I found that description very interesting.
      ...Also, confusing, but maybe that's because I am sleep deprived.

  • @Bitter_Biscuit
    @Bitter_Biscuit 4 роки тому +13680

    Notes and summary for myself
    The seven deadly sins of Speaking
    1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about someone who is not present. People will not trust you because a while later, you will gossip about them.
    2. Judging: It is hard to listen to someone who consistently judge you during a conversation.
    3. Negativity: Having a negative viewpoint on things.
    4. Complaining: which is mere viral misery. Could be on anything, politics, sports, or the weather.
    5. Excuses: Not taking responsibility for our actions and being a blame-thrower
    6. Exaggeration: Drawing an imaginary image and inflating stuff excessively. It can get to the point of outright **lying**.
    7. Dogmatism: stating your opinions as if they are facts without consideration of an evidence to support your claims. In other words, Bombarding people with biased opinions on a certain topic.
    - Foundation of powerful speech (HAIL)
    1. Honesty: Being clear and straight. Not using deception and lies. But using brutal and unnecessary honesty could hurt people. "Honesty tempered with Love".
    2. Authenticity: Being yourself and not imitating a non-genuine persona. "Standing in your own truth".
    3. Integrity: Be your word. Do what you say. Be trustworthy, and take responsibility.
    4. Love: Wishing people well. No judgement.
    - Toolbox of Speech (Voice)
    1. Register: Talk from your chest, not the nose or throat. "We vote for the politicians with lower voices". People associate depth with power and authority.
    2. Timbre: The way the voice feels. "Rich, Smooth, Warm, like hot chocolate." It is a skill that can be trained.
    3. Prosody: Talking with enthusiasm, having a rhythmic voice, and not being monotonic like a robot. Avoid repetitive prosody as if every statement was a question.
    4. Pace: Talk normally and slow right down to... *Emphasize*. Talking fast or slow at the right time is key in conveying your point.
    5. Silence: A powerful tool to bring attention. Should not be filled with filler words such as UH's and UM's.
    6. Pitch: To deliver an idea or ask a question and being understood. (The caps-lock of speech)
    7. Volume: The quieter the better in bringing attention. But don't be too quiet all the time and don't be a broadcaster too. Pay attention to your loudness.
    - Warm up the toolbox of voice
    1. Arms up, take a deep breath and sigh.
    2. Lips: (BA BA BA)
    3. Lips: Horse sound
    4. Tongue: Exaggerated (LA LA LA)
    5. Tongue: Roll an R (RRRRR)
    6. The siren (WEEEE [High] yoooo [Low])
    Speaking is one part of the puzzle because having a good conversation also depends on being a good listener.
    Edit: Reconstructed the phrasing of the point of dogmatism.
    Thank you for all the beautiful replies.Happy to make your day a bit easier :)

  • @salmaimtiazsabri
    @salmaimtiazsabri Місяць тому +3

    I don't know how many times I've watched this one in the course of 10 years. It's simply amazing!

  • @hospitalcleaner
    @hospitalcleaner 4 роки тому +7994

    "People prefer voices which are rich, smooth, warm like hot chocolate" Julian said, knowing his voice sounded rich, smooth and warm, like hot chocolate.

    • @pyaesama
      @pyaesama 4 роки тому +85

      This is so funny

    • @hospitalcleaner
      @hospitalcleaner 4 роки тому +24

      thanks bro haha

    • @patzchan1900
      @patzchan1900 4 роки тому +18

      Yah that "see what i did there?" 🤣

    • @RuneKatashima
      @RuneKatashima 4 роки тому +40

      That whole section is him proving it. He is literally implying he trained for that voice.

    • @sangamharsolia5069
      @sangamharsolia5069 4 роки тому +27

      Exception : Severus Snape

  • @gilsukim
    @gilsukim 9 років тому +6989

    Four things I learned from watching this talk
    1. "Seven deadly sins of speaking to avoid"
    1) gossip -> I need to work on this sin
    2) judging -> I need to work on this sin
    3) negativity -> I need to work on this sin
    4) complaining -> I need to work on this sin
    5) excuses
    6) lying (embroidery, exaggeration)
    7) dogmatism (confusion between fact and opinion)
    2. what I need to say: four powerful cornerstones of speech to make a change in the world
    c.f. "hail means to greet or acclaim enthusiastically"
    1) H: honesty (be clear and straight)
    2) A: authenticity (be myself)
    3) I: integrity (be my word)
    4) L: love (wish them well)
    3. how I need to say: tools to play with to increase power of my speech
    1) register: e.g. if wanting weight, lower pitch of voice
    2) timbre: the way voice feels e.g. breathing, posture
    3) prosody: rhythm (e.g. not monotone)
    4) pace: e.g. slow to emphasize
    5) pitch: e.g. make pitch high or low
    6) volume: e.g. louder to emphasize
    4. exercise the following before making a presentation
    1) arms up to sigh out with ahh
    2) lips with ba ba
    3) lips with brrr
    4) tongue with la
    5) tongue rolling an r
    6) siren from we to aww

    • @neuralnetwork17
      @neuralnetwork17 9 років тому +528

      Gil Su Kim You made a summary and shared it with everyone. You must have been the nicest kid in class when you were in school. (Or, now that I think of it, maybe you still are. I don´t know your age.) Thank you, I appreciate it.

    • @gnouveli
      @gnouveli 9 років тому +31

      :( _when I speak by action, then people only able to listen by perception_

    • @SearchBucket2
      @SearchBucket2 9 років тому +12

      +Gil Su Kim
      Do all of that Gil and you will have become a robot!

    • @Gottenhimfella
      @Gottenhimfella 9 років тому +16

      +Gil Su Kim
      I reckon he missed one: Defensiveness
      (and I did wonder if the list should include fake humility/the apology reflex, but I suppose that comes under Lying, with a hint of Excuses)

    • @realniqqa101
      @realniqqa101 9 років тому +40

      Thank you angel of God. Note taker

  • @countmein5164
    @countmein5164 2 роки тому +1572

    Did he just influence such a large group of people within 10mins to make them stand and do some warmups like that?
    He proved his technique to be true. Amazing!

    • @TheFogLakeshore
      @TheFogLakeshore Рік тому +8

      Wow it's so amazing. People from all around want to hear and interact, they come and sit in silence with others to hear someone elevated on a stage with an electrically-amplified voice. Lo and Behold, they are listening to the person on an elevated stage with an amplified voice! IT MUST BE A MIRACLE!

    • @abderahmanedrai2122
      @abderahmanedrai2122 Рік тому +3

      Its easy to do that actually

    • @mingyuhuang8944
      @mingyuhuang8944 Рік тому +8

      ​@@TheFogLakeshore Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement.
      Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢😢😢😢

    • @vaxerpl
      @vaxerpl 7 місяців тому

      He's like adolf h

  • @InvestorsGuidebook
    @InvestorsGuidebook 28 днів тому +29

    10 years has passed... and this video still remains one of the best speeches of all time

  • @no_budie
    @no_budie 10 місяців тому +93

    He such a good speaker. I like the way he spoke and his confidence. I love his speech

  • @ChristinaDunlap100
    @ChristinaDunlap100 4 роки тому +1446

    Not one time did my mind wander or drift away. This was pure excellence.

  • @wowkolkata2189
    @wowkolkata2189 Місяць тому +1

    Great one. From last 1+ month am struggling while writing my resume sweet and short. And see how he has completed such a big topic in just 9 min. Oh simply outstanding.

  • @lusamafatman1517
    @lusamafatman1517 Рік тому +891

    His speech is like his head. Clean and smooth

  • @mathieublake1670
    @mathieublake1670 5 років тому +2959

    The Dont's
    Habits to move away from -- Seven deadly sins of speaking:
    1. Gossip
    2. Judging
    3. Negativity
    4. Complaining
    5. Blame-throwing (Excuses)
    6. Embroidery, exaggeration --> lying
    7. Dogmatism (my way or the highway; conflating fact and opinion)
    The Do's
    H.A.I.L -- Four (4) cornerstones of powerful, change-making speech
    H - Honesty: Being true - straight and clear.
    A - Authenticity: Be yourself. [Standing in your own truth.]
    I - Integrity: Be your word. [Doing what you say.]
    L - Love: Wish them well.
    Toolbox (the voice) - Some tools
    Register - (P.s. Depth is associated with power and authority.)
    Timbre - The way your voice feels -- rich, smooth, warm (can be trained!)
    Prosody - the sing-song, the meta-language, the root 1 of meaning in cnversation.
    Pace - including silence (don't have to be filled with ums and ahs)
    Pitch - to indicate arousal, etc.
    Volume - excitement (loud), attention-grabbing (quiet)
    Warm up your voice!
    1. Arms up, deep breath in. Sigh out.
    Lips:
    2. Ba-ba-ba-na
    3: Brrrrrrr
    Tongue:
    4. Exaggerated la-la-la-la
    5. Roll an RRRRRR
    6 The siren - Weeee (high)... awwww (low) [Repeat] The only one if able to do only one.

  • @ayaankhan5624
    @ayaankhan5624 Рік тому +935

    Thank you for the great info, my takeaways:
    - Things to avoid:
    - Judging
    - Excuses
    - Gossip
    - Dogamatism
    - Complaining
    - Lying
    - Negativity
    - HAIL
    to greet or acclaim enthusiastically
    H - Honesty → Be clear and straight
    A - Authenticity → Standing in your own truth
    I - Integrity → be your word
    L - Love → Wish them well
    - Voice
    Register
    - Speak from the chest → Depth = Power and Authority
    Timbre
    - Way your voice feels → Rich-smooth-warm
    - Train your voice - Voice Coach
    - Breathing and posture
    Prosody
    - SIng song → Meta language
    - Monotonic tone is boring
    - Make it livilier with changing up the tones
    - Repeatative Prosody coming up
    Pace
    - Pace up
    - Slow down → Emphasize
    - Silence
    Pitch
    - High and low pitch signify different meaning
    Volume
    - Vary volume according to purpose
    - Warm Up Exercises
    Arms Up → Deep breath in and sigh out Aaaaahhhh
    Lips → Bupp Buppp Buppp
    → Brrrrrrr Brrrrr Brrr
    Tongue
    → La la la la
    → Thrrrrthhrr → Champagne for the tongue
    Pitch
    Weeeee - Oooooo

  • @RoselyneNiyo
    @RoselyneNiyo 5 місяців тому +2

    This is really helpful. I have once used some of the tactics but without knowing the full set. I think that I must repeat this video before each speech I need to deliver. May God bless you!

  • @Efalstrup
    @Efalstrup 2 роки тому +99

    4:01 "Tempered with love, honesty is a great thing." What a powerful statement; so, so true.

  • @aeronaut7346
    @aeronaut7346 5 років тому +2765

    Imagine someone being late and walking in at 8:49

  • @OHMyResistance
    @OHMyResistance 5 років тому +1654

    I can just imagine a bunch of people applying for a job position, all gathered outside the boss' office going:
    "RRRRRRRRR"
    "BA! BA! BA! BA!"
    "WEEEEEYYOOOOOOOWEEE"

    • @Itsab1234
      @Itsab1234 5 років тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/GkvqJmVMC3E/v-deo.html

    • @yveltal7012
      @yveltal7012 5 років тому +12

      that's hillarious=))))

    • @hmmm4758
      @hmmm4758 5 років тому +6

      dewie 🤣

    • @sarilangakhusi1350
      @sarilangakhusi1350 5 років тому +2

      😂

    • @stephenlakin1828
      @stephenlakin1828 5 років тому

      yes well that's why you would find a quiet place to practice I would hope lol

  • @adrineyanukhyan3121
    @adrineyanukhyan3121 2 місяці тому

    Julian explains how our words, tone, and delivery shape whether people truly listen to us, emphasizing honesty and vocal variety. It made me realize how often I speak without much thought, and I’m excited to start applying her tips to see how they change the way people respond to me.

  • @IKY94Zac
    @IKY94Zac 8 років тому +1809

    Now this gentleman here cuts right through the chase, I usually dislike long introductions to the real subject. A lovely lecture indeed.

    • @Chimpmanboom
      @Chimpmanboom 8 років тому +10

      Iky Scars cuts right TO the chase

    • @NabeelAhmed-ln3fw
      @NabeelAhmed-ln3fw 8 років тому +1

      Iky Scars here cut??

    • @bernardomoreira
      @bernardomoreira 8 років тому +4

      Iky Scars exactly my thought in the first 10 seconds

    • @LukzaFactory
      @LukzaFactory 8 років тому

      SP95 ntR Intended ! Hahaha

    • @159753smith
      @159753smith 8 років тому +5

      Iky Scars hence his ted talk topic

  • @santoshraja2000
    @santoshraja2000 4 роки тому +354

    "If you wish people with love its really hard to judge them" , its absolutely true . I try to do this everyday . No matter what wish people well and you will find yourself free of all the negativity. And a smile from that stranger will make your day

    • @neolam2362
      @neolam2362 2 роки тому +7

      Very true! Heroic opportunities don't cross our path very often.

    • @raeighnisha428
      @raeighnisha428 2 роки тому

      A blatantly spurious assertion.

    • @pavnisingh-ep6vl
      @pavnisingh-ep6vl Рік тому

      Just like ur comment made me smile😊

  • @footangnanglaaggg2827
    @footangnanglaaggg2827 8 років тому +133

    he sound so professional. i did the warm up a minute in lobby before job interview. i passed but requiring psychological test.

  • @amberfaille394
    @amberfaille394 3 місяці тому +2

    I’d love to live in a world that sounds more beautiful. Adorable video. Thank you.

  • @klashenkoff633
    @klashenkoff633 5 років тому +2769

    I like his head it is shining

    • @axeaclick
      @axeaclick 5 років тому +73

      Shining so bright i couldnt focus on the talk

    • @mahakala
      @mahakala 5 років тому +10

      lubed fucking head

    • @vksherlockholmes
      @vksherlockholmes 5 років тому +76

      His head is brighter than my future

    • @JodBronson
      @JodBronson 5 років тому +4

      " Head Polish " - They sell " Bee Bald! 😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️

    • @ragingbonercontrolcentre
      @ragingbonercontrolcentre 5 років тому +6

      Cut it off and take it home- it's what I do

  • @MicahBuzanANIMATION
    @MicahBuzanANIMATION 9 років тому +4226

    If these types of interpersonal skills along with mindfulness meditation were taught in schools, we would live in a much more sane world. Intelligence isn't just about memorizing facts.

    • @kazonikz
      @kazonikz 9 років тому +71

      That's true man

    • @MatthieuAmherst
      @MatthieuAmherst 9 років тому +78

      +Micah Buzan Yup :) Therapists would be out of a job.. and the world would be so different. I wonder at the possibilities

    • @trpessoa
      @trpessoa 9 років тому +5

      +MatthieuAmherst That would be a real problem for status quo...

    • @wellesradio
      @wellesradio 9 років тому +24

      +MatthieuAmherst Actually mindfulness meditation seems to be what is being called the third wave of therapy and is becoming more popular every year among therapists. Some are even saying it could overtake CBT. I've found both CBT and mindfulness to be very useful. It's a great tool for therapists, so I don't think it will put them out of a job. Remember that they work to help people, so many of them would do well to spread the word.

    • @Abulous1986
      @Abulous1986 9 років тому +1

      +Micah Buzan Couldn't agree more

  • @mu9608
    @mu9608 3 роки тому +245

    He speaks so clearly, even I can understand almost whole words

  • @Sassy_classii
    @Sassy_classii 6 місяців тому +1

    What a terrific speaker ! And such an important topic .

  • @coffeewithkyle1911
    @coffeewithkyle1911 8 років тому +329

    Vocal Exercises begin at 7:50 :
    1. Raise arms above head, take a deep breath, sigh loudly. "AAaaaaaaahhhh."
    2. Warm up lips."Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop."
    3. Blow Raspberries. "Bbbbbrrlllthhhhh."
    4. Exaggerate LA's. "LA. LA. LA. LA. LA."
    5. Roll an R. Like champagne for the tongue. "RrrRrRrrRrRrrRrR."
    6. The Siren. The WE's are always high and the oo's are always low. "WWWEEEEEeeeeeeeeeooooooowwWWWEEEEEeeeeooooooooowwwwwwwwwww."
    I enjoyed writing this.

  • @ysa7823
    @ysa7823 Рік тому +192

    I assumed this would be your basic talk on vocal coaching, how to carry and conduct oneself in public speaking. But he went to a deeper level and emphasized how we should speak about goodness, light, and positivity ❤ A concise message that hit the mark precisely ❤

    • @SweetSagan
      @SweetSagan Рік тому +6

      He absolutely demonstrated all of his techniques. Amazing.

  • @dannymacoi2287
    @dannymacoi2287 5 років тому +779

    The trick is, whenever you're talking to people have confidence in yourself don't look shy, look into people's eye, don't bow your head down a minute unless you checking the shoes or down-wear.
    But first hit your throat, Mnmn Mnmm...
    •••Men speak with a little base in it, avoid speaking to fast.
    •••Ladies speak calmly men automatically like that.
    Avoid, Eh, ehm, etc in the middle of your speech.
    Just pause and continue with the next word,then everyone in the audience will automatically see you as an intelligent person subconsciously.
    It's a human trick.

    • @euphoria156
      @euphoria156 5 років тому +12

      True. Also, How about just saying the TRUTH? Which DOES include Gossiping, Judging etc. How abt emphasizing that ppl who ONLY tak positive are Pretentious Liars and are NOT Truthful. Like this man- Julian Treasure could be one of them. I am sick of those "Wanna be a Good Human Hypocrites" !! Just be Truthful

    • @dannymacoi2287
      @dannymacoi2287 5 років тому +10

      @@euphoria156 You're right, it's in the confidence bracket...Who ever speak the truth is confident and does not care about what anyone thinks.
      As long as it's the truth, it's done.
      *Some people also lie boldly tho

    • @anuoluwapoobipehin4894
      @anuoluwapoobipehin4894 4 роки тому +8

      'Men automatically like that'🤣🤣🤣 i don't really care🤣🤣🤣

    • @dannymacoi2287
      @dannymacoi2287 4 роки тому

      @@anuoluwapoobipehin4894 Same with some men being attracted to other men.
      Things don't seems all that okay with all humanity ,people got preference.

    • @ksxjjxdx5890
      @ksxjjxdx5890 4 роки тому

      So Elon Musk is not intelligent because he stutters while talking?

  • @nitahudson343
    @nitahudson343 4 роки тому +438

    He is an incredible professional speaker. I thoroughly enjoyed this talk!

    • @bawlstars7857
      @bawlstars7857 3 роки тому +1

      same here! I also really love Andrew Solomon's talk about depression. Both him and Julian are professional and impactful speakers. :)

    • @chaoswitch1974
      @chaoswitch1974 2 роки тому

      How am I the only one who finds his voice grating?

  • @javianjohnson8746
    @javianjohnson8746 4 роки тому +155

    This is a really good demonstration on how you can be more impactful when talking to people. I sincerely feel like I just learned a whole lot

    • @cherylzaccone9685
      @cherylzaccone9685 2 роки тому +2

      It's useless when you are surrounded by people for a lack of a better word "idiots"

  • @listenupmusicpeeps
    @listenupmusicpeeps 4 роки тому +80

    I had saved this to ‘Watch Later’ for quite sometime now, but this morning, while still in bed, I had the sudden urge to watch it, and I am so glad I did. I now know why I have problem with getting people’s attention when I speak to them. Most of this applies to me, I put my hands up. I am grateful for this video. It has done me an immeasurable amount of good.

  • @BarbaraFinley-e9v
    @BarbaraFinley-e9v 3 місяці тому +1

    This is one of the most helpful tutorials I’ve watched!

  • @kingzeus36
    @kingzeus36 Рік тому +41

    Conversation and speaking is truly an intricate art. The mastery of it takes discipline composure and consistency, among many other things. I now take every single interaction I have, whether it be a physical interaction or via any digital format text messaging, etc. I take it as a test for myself every time. I then rate my conversion based on how well I applied this great information to work on all my weaknesses each time I strive to do better than my last interaction. How to correctly apply this information is key. Thank you for sharing this information with us all. To anyone reading this comment, I really do wish you all the best. The more we practice, the better we all become so start now and take action immediately speak light and positivity all day every day. Children of the light stay close to all those who speak and live life positively.

    • @temenow
      @temenow 7 місяців тому

      AWESOME 👌

  • @dr.alan.niemies
    @dr.alan.niemies 9 років тому +120

    One of the best 10 minutes I spent in my life using UA-cam.

    • @zmaska
      @zmaska 9 років тому +12

      +Alan Niemies REAL TALK
      respect

    • @paulden3158
      @paulden3158 8 років тому +1

      Alan Niemies
      Suggest u watch more useful vids like this then! there certainly are plenty of them

    • @_harsshh0780
      @_harsshh0780 8 місяців тому

      ⭐ really helpful

  • @cherrysatin730
    @cherrysatin730 10 років тому +28

    I felt like the video went for 2 to 3 minutes. Came to the realization that it was 9:59 minutes long.... This man wasn't lying.

  • @joetuipulotu440
    @joetuipulotu440 5 місяців тому

    Love this talk. My friend and I actually did the exercises (lol) and I must say, they will come in handy in the future. (We will do it again)

  • @レオナルドディカプリオ-s3c

    人を惹き付ける話し方
    このタイトルに惹き付けられてきました。

  • @ichundmeinjayjay
    @ichundmeinjayjay 5 років тому +3436

    "How to speak so that people want to listen"
    - Guy at 1:25 "sleeps"

  • @ChristinaCxo
    @ChristinaCxo 4 роки тому +69

    "Understanding would be the norm" I love this and I live for this! It's so important to be present and always go into a conversation with the goal to understand as much as you can and if you can't -> accept.

  • @و0....2225
    @و0....2225 2 місяці тому +3

    قُلۡ هُوَ ٱللَّهُ أَحَدٌ (1) ٱللَّهُ ٱلصَّمَدُ (2) لَمۡ يَلِدۡ وَلَمۡ يُولَدۡ (3) وَلَمۡ يَكُن لَّهُۥ كُفُوًا أَحَدُۢ (4)

  • @ednafrench6269
    @ednafrench6269 3 роки тому +372

    I was a professional pilot back in the days when carbon mikes were the only choice. As a female, I learned to lower my voice’s pitch in order to activate the carbon crystals. Discovered that I also got a lot more respect and was heard better when I used the deeper richer timbre. Also stopped ending all sentences like a question. That really eliminated a lot of confusion with air traffic control.

    • @dakotaridgek9
      @dakotaridgek9 2 роки тому +8

      I know nothing of “carbon mikes”. Or activating carbon crystals. Do tell!

    • @Kalilah555
      @Kalilah555 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience. I worked with school age children, and was led by The All Knowing one to learn about these styles and forms of communicating. Really does make a difference!! Especially when shaping and cultivating a young humans learning experience. SHALOM

    • @channel-so2st
      @channel-so2st 2 роки тому +5

      The technical term for ending sentences like a question is "upspeak".

    • @skippy6462
      @skippy6462 2 роки тому +2

      When I was learning to fly (PPL) was told that I sounded like a mouse by my second instructor. I'd already done 13 hours with my first instructor. Lost my confidence to fly as easily as that. (1st instructor left as got a job with an airline). He was all the qualities needed to be an top class instructor because I flew my first solo under his guidance. My 2nd instructor wasn't and I gave up flying sadly. How to speak made all the difference to me. Will always appreciate the first instructor for an amazing life experience. Second instructor can't take that away.

    • @EinSofQuester
      @EinSofQuester 2 роки тому +2

      @@channel-so2st You mean "Upspeak?"?

  • @eyecamd
    @eyecamd 5 років тому +27

    I have never taken notes throughout an entire, first watch of a piece. I kept pausing and rewinding every couple moments to do so, it was honestly a fantastic speech.

  • @Brumfield85
    @Brumfield85 6 років тому +337

    This was 10 minutes of my life well spent.

  • @weyakassoma6312
    @weyakassoma6312 5 місяців тому

    powerful speech, completely changed my communication perception.

  • @jeehyesa5160
    @jeehyesa5160 2 роки тому +21

    Before mentioning his highly fluent speech I could feel how confident he is about himself. What an amazing speech I have ever seen! Love it!

  • @saifayesh3385
    @saifayesh3385 3 роки тому +808

    *Walks into the boss's office to ask for a raise*
    Boss: "Yes, How can I help you?"
    Me: "PRRRRRRRRRRRR WEEEEEEYOOOOOOOO WEEEE"

  • @dannysunwantedopinions
    @dannysunwantedopinions 4 роки тому +43

    I’m very pleased to see almost 30 million views for this video. I feel like healthy communication is a dying art form.

  • @enigma3297
    @enigma3297 5 років тому +3145

    Me to my crush: hey I wanna talk to you about something
    *Starts excercising my voice in front of her*
    Her: leaves in silence
    Me:*still excercising* wEeEEeOOoO

    • @AlexAnder-rv1gu
      @AlexAnder-rv1gu 5 років тому +89

      LOL!!! You were supposed to do that BEFORE she came over

    • @jasontighe3927
      @jasontighe3927 5 років тому +16

      I think the point is to do the exercises in private. That is, make it a morning ritual. Just as you would exercise your body.

    • @RuzoOwzy
      @RuzoOwzy 5 років тому +14

      @@AlexAnder-rv1gu They normally come uninformed. Suddenly she is there.

    • @leegyamfi8211
      @leegyamfi8211 5 років тому +1

      Crazy.......

    • @jeffrynaguirre5153
      @jeffrynaguirre5153 5 років тому

      LOL

  • @jenkinomusic
    @jenkinomusic 2 роки тому +714

    0:13 Intro
    0:33 7 deadly sins of speaking
    2:45 4 positive/powerful elements in speech
    4:22 The toolbox
    7:44 Vocal warmup
    9:05 Conclusion

  • @LetsLearnwithvigneshnow
    @LetsLearnwithvigneshnow 3 роки тому +153

    I really loved the way, the idea for this talk, begin with a problem, suggest a solution, offer Hands-on experience for the audience. Beautiful sir, thoroughly enjoyed every frame of this video. The activity towards the end, I believe many of us will be a different speaker after that. Thank you for this.

    • @leticiachiok8057
      @leticiachiok8057 2 роки тому +1

      This is an awesome talk...direct to the point, of being a conscious speaker. So love the tips and techniques. He's a great communicator, he got me glued.

  • @Jointjourney-lp3cl
    @Jointjourney-lp3cl 6 місяців тому

    Love it. So clear and concise and the conclusion is perfect.

  • @tommykiki5840
    @tommykiki5840 9 років тому +40

    That was the fastest 10 min of my life. This guy is amazing.

    • @jaredkoehn1626
      @jaredkoehn1626 9 років тому +30

      +Tomas Petkovski That's what she said!

  • @christineparma166
    @christineparma166 5 років тому +64

    I love that quote: "Complaining is viral misery." Yes! It infects and debilitates the host (speaker) and the receiver alike. Absolutely amazing talk!

    • @Oleg_Ivanov.
      @Oleg_Ivanov. 5 років тому +1

      But sometimes you need to complain a little😄.

    • @Altamisal
      @Altamisal 5 років тому +3

      @@Oleg_Ivanov. I don't know. I haven't been able to stop it completely, but I feel that focusing on what we don't like just makes it bigger in our experience.

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 4 роки тому

      oof this hits close to home now with a real virus on our tails

  • @Buthyful
    @Buthyful 9 років тому +136

    I had 4 cats sitting around me, I tried to do the Wee waaa and they all ran hehehe :)
    Very beautiful talk.. Thank you

    • @rosacutejenniely8339
      @rosacutejenniely8339 9 років тому +1

      +Buthy ful What's the Wee waaa? oo.....00

    • @rosacutejenniely8339
      @rosacutejenniely8339 9 років тому +2

      +Buthy ful Oh I get it now.... haahahaahahah!!! You're hilarious! xP

    • @Buthyful
      @Buthyful 9 років тому +3

      +rosacute jenniely heheheheheh it also made me laugh loudly when they freaked out :-D hehehe

    • @gmoschwarz
      @gmoschwarz 9 років тому +2

      +Buthy ful eruditefeline.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/crazy-cat-lady-color.jpg

    • @Buthyful
      @Buthyful 9 років тому

      +gmoschwarz Hahahahhahahhahahahahahaha

  • @aki-y7b3u
    @aki-y7b3u Місяць тому

    for such 9 freakin minutes you delivered that smoothly, if i were that i would likely just yapp no joke..

  • @juandeleon5798
    @juandeleon5798 4 роки тому +33

    I remember this was the first video I saw when I was learning English, now I can understand pretty must of it , almost everything what a huge difference, I'm pretty happy now

    • @mRrsx3
      @mRrsx3 4 роки тому +1

      How did u learn it stronger? Do u have any tips to improve or extend my english skills. In my opinion i need to learn more vocabulary to understand the most phrases exactly. The most time I understand the sense, but i would like to get everything

    • @abdulkadirozek600
      @abdulkadirozek600 4 роки тому

      How long have you been learning for English?

    • @minatohirano
      @minatohirano 4 роки тому

      Instead of must it’s much

  • @VikramTV_FitnessFreaks
    @VikramTV_FitnessFreaks 2 роки тому +58

    Clear , Crisp and Concise ..... Kudos Julian

  • @AnthonyMonaghan
    @AnthonyMonaghan 8 років тому +29

    Nice definition of Love....wishing someone well. I like that.

    • @samwallaceart288
      @samwallaceart288 8 років тому

      Yeah; that's what love is. I can't believe you millenials; what with sleeping couples in bed that are weirded out with saying "I love you" like it's perverted; damn kids need to get off the lawn that is the English language and metaphysical concepts of altruism.

  • @AlejandroVillahermosa-rp5bt
    @AlejandroVillahermosa-rp5bt 5 місяців тому +1

    i listen this ted talk for the improvement and groth of me

  • @P4nzerk93
    @P4nzerk93 8 років тому +11

    Julian Treasure sounds like an adult entertainer name. This is the best Ted video I have seen, and the only one I wanted to see twice.

  • @-skyandrainbows
    @-skyandrainbows Рік тому +51

    I just wanna share something that happened to my voice, to see if others experienced this too. I used to have a higher pitched voice. But through the years where I have done a lot of self education, I saw that my voice was changing. It was going deeper. The more I found myself and felt better in this world, the lower my voice got. I literally have found my own voice now haha. Now when I speak I feel more calm, and people listen to me way more! 😊

    • @KoalaHtet
      @KoalaHtet Рік тому +2

      Good for you.

    • @ZenAndPsychedelicHealingCenter
      @ZenAndPsychedelicHealingCenter Рік тому +1

      You're either hitting puberty, or your inauthentic way of forced speaking is starting to damage your vocal cords.

    • @hihelloitsmo
      @hihelloitsmo 8 місяців тому +1

      omg same!!! i notice it most when i laugh, it comes from my chest like he mentions in the video.

    • @dravenvise5833
      @dravenvise5833 Місяць тому +1

      I haven't found my voice yet sadly but this comment gives me hope

  • @darrelldavis9841
    @darrelldavis9841 4 роки тому +14

    You don’t know how much I love and appreciate this video because I definitely wish the world was more lively so that way depression will decrease

  • @Sunaina_gahlyan
    @Sunaina_gahlyan 6 місяців тому

    Well i must say it’s great (the way your summarise is awesome)Thankyouu for that great information 👏❤️

  • @LKonstantina915
    @LKonstantina915 5 років тому +3882

    i feel like youtube recommendations are personally attacking me

  • @premachan7677
    @premachan7677 2 роки тому +9

    Speaking is one thing but the tone in which you speaks with is of utmost importance. Such a confident and clear speaker: he catches your attn within the first 1 minute with his calm tone and eye contact. Alot to take away. 💯

  • @royalhighness8383
    @royalhighness8383 Рік тому +207

    I'm learning more on the internet than I'm learning in school

  • @saifalizaky4112
    @saifalizaky4112 2 місяці тому +2

    Treasure identifies several common issues that prevent people from feeling listened to when they speak, including:
    1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about those who are not present.
    2. Judgment: Forming judgments about others while they are speaking, which hinders true listening.
    3. Negativity: A pessimistic attitude that obstructs constructive communication.
    4. Complaining: Habitually complaining without offering solutions.
    5. Blame: Failing to take responsibility for one’s actions.
    6. Exaggeration: Using overly dramatic or inaccurate language.
    7. Dogmatism: Mixing facts with opinions irresponsibly.
    Solutions Offered
    Treasure presents four pillars for effective speaking:
    1. Honesty: Speaking truthfully and clearly.
    2. Authenticity: Being oneself and speaking with integrity.
    3. Integrity: Saying what you mean and meaning what you say.
    4. Love: Wishing the best for others, which creates a positive atmosphere in communication.
    Vocal Techniques
    Treasure also shares several vocal techniques to enhance speaking ability, including:
    - Adjusting pitch from high to low to add strength to the voice.
    - Using intonation and rhythm to capture the audience's attention.
    - Employing silence strategically for greater impact.
    Conclusion
    Treasure emphasizes that if we want our voices to be heard, we must pay attention to how we speak and the environment around us. By applying these principles, we can create a world where effective communication and mutual understanding are commonplace.
    NPM: 24083010004
    Name: Saif Ali Zaky Ashiblie

  • @psgaming_443
    @psgaming_443 7 місяців тому +9159

    anyone here 2024😂 ?

    • @ikraali172
      @ikraali172 7 місяців тому +27

      Yeah hbbi; nd commenting, he said its had to listen when they’re negative but for me its had to talk to them.

    • @jovanventer1308
      @jovanventer1308 7 місяців тому +11

      Yeah man

    • @rumitlepcha3601
      @rumitlepcha3601 7 місяців тому +5

      Yes

    • @IshanLodh
      @IshanLodh 7 місяців тому +3

      Yea bro

    • @alishaansari1138
      @alishaansari1138 7 місяців тому +3

      Yes 😂

  • @ParadoxBassCube
    @ParadoxBassCube 8 років тому +238

    1:24 that guy. So perfect

    • @Felixkeeg
      @Felixkeeg 8 років тому +42

      It costs like 6000$ to attend, lol
      That nap better be worth it

    • @Felixkeeg
      @Felixkeeg 8 років тому +7

      Aeonian Sybaritic
      Yes, it does
      www.ted.com/attend/conferences

    • @Felixkeeg
      @Felixkeeg 8 років тому +2

      Aeonian Sybaritic
      please elaborate

    • @michaelbryansumner
      @michaelbryansumner 8 років тому +1

      The old man with glasses at the right sleeping

    • @michaelbryansumner
      @michaelbryansumner 8 років тому +3

      Maybe he's the kind who internalises his listening?

  • @jarjarbinks4368
    @jarjarbinks4368 2 роки тому +277

    I love this speech so much that I’m using it for an out of state declamation tournament
    Edit: I got second place overall with it😎

    • @NalaSweetlove
      @NalaSweetlove 2 роки тому +7

      Congrats! 🎉

    • @noexcuses5524
      @noexcuses5524 2 роки тому +5

      This is great insights especially the seven deadly sina of communications.
      The society, our parents ... we heard them gossiping so our brain functions in a way that this is normal but it is not. It is an illusion that fog up with negativity. People even gossips just to feel close to one another.
      It is okay to vent your problems but never gossips in day to day basis. It is very unhealthy.

    • @leek1002
      @leek1002 2 роки тому +1

      Awesome

    • @kwimms
      @kwimms 2 роки тому +1

      @@noexcuses5524 Gossiping is what women do. Like hens in a coup.

    • @creaturemoon1546
      @creaturemoon1546 Рік тому

      @@kwimms wrong. It's a soceital thing. Social media was made for gossiping.

  • @JeonDaisy-zk4fw
    @JeonDaisy-zk4fw 6 місяців тому +2

    Yeah,I have finished active listening,I will take an IELTS exam soon,guys,wish me luck 🍀

  • @mindvolution
    @mindvolution 7 років тому +217

    Brilliant talk. Human intelligence combined with higher levels of awareness will save the world!

    • @c.a.g.3130
      @c.a.g.3130 6 років тому +1

      It is by grace through faith in Jesus Christ alone. For there is no other name under heaven given to man by which we must be saved.

    • @ianandrews4371
      @ianandrews4371 6 років тому

      mindvolution

    • @MackDK77
      @MackDK77 6 років тому +1

      17M and counting, only another 16.83 billion people in the world to watch this video :D

  • @jenjenwithyumi99
    @jenjenwithyumi99 9 років тому +309

    His head is brighter than my future.

    • @_HsHProd_
      @_HsHProd_ 9 років тому +6

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) lol this comment made me die of laughter

    • @anayamehta2000
      @anayamehta2000 9 років тому +3

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) Great example of ... if you wanna gossip, be funny ;-)

    • @HiddenWen
      @HiddenWen 9 років тому +3

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) I might quote this in the future xD.

    • @5uper5ubscriber4
      @5uper5ubscriber4 9 років тому +1

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) You made my day XD

    • @zukodude487987
      @zukodude487987 9 років тому +1

      +Home Sweet Home Productions Lol this comment made me lie of daughter

  • @Anastasia12344
    @Anastasia12344 4 роки тому +3764

    How to be a great public speaker:
    Step 1. Have a British accent
    End of steps

    • @rajaaahmad2336
      @rajaaahmad2336 4 роки тому +80

      that is so accurate lol

    • @Anastasia12344
      @Anastasia12344 4 роки тому +5

      @@rajaaahmad2336 😁

    • @fieldkasrel3140
      @fieldkasrel3140 4 роки тому +168

      If you have a British accent in America.... your immediately getting all the attention 😂😂

    • @goodnameidea7107
      @goodnameidea7107 4 роки тому +19

      @@fieldkasrel3140 you're*

    • @hello-zf2fk
      @hello-zf2fk 4 роки тому +43

      bruh i am british but i still can’t speak😭

  • @floralabie3410
    @floralabie3410 5 місяців тому

    Not me preparing for a speaking competition with this. Loved it

  • @dianaagiselle
    @dianaagiselle 2 роки тому +20

    I’m a teacher and these are essential in being an engaging and effective teacher. Great talk.

    • @NurillahTomo
      @NurillahTomo Рік тому

      I, ma teacher and these are essential in being an angaging and effective teacher. Great talk

  • @DanielMelogpi
    @DanielMelogpi 2 роки тому +11

    This is one of my favorite talks of all time. The presentation itself is a testament of these techniques

  • @libby359
    @libby359 5 років тому +17

    LOVE this. 10 minutes of my life well spent.

  • @rhookainthegame
    @rhookainthegame 24 дні тому

    This video came at the perfect time. Thank you 💪🏻

  • @robbedewolf294
    @robbedewolf294 2 роки тому +79

    This was truly a great speech, clearly the speaker knows and uses his theory very well. Everyone in the aucience was interested, everyone watching the video probably as well. I really wonder what would happen if more people learned and used this theory, not only for big speeches but also for normal conversations. As the speaker said, the human voice is very powerful, and I think the world would be a better place if more people knew how to use it correctly.

  • @LearnWithHaJarhgs
    @LearnWithHaJarhgs 7 років тому +16

    You are a great public speaker. You did something great that emphasises the fact that you are a great public speaker: letting the audience participate.

  • @arthurkyriazis9497
    @arthurkyriazis9497 2 роки тому +31

    I was a speech & debate champion in HS & college (Harvard) and then a debate and speech coach at the HS and college levels for more than 30 years, as well as a founder of urban speech and debate. Everything Julian Treasure says here is exactly what high school speech teachers try to convey to their students each and every day; policy debaters try to persuade by facts and logic, whereas events like oratory involve rhetorical methods (some of which are mentioned in the talk) for persuasion. These essentially are known to us as LOGOS and ETHOS; the best speakers can not only control register, timbre, prosody, pace, silence, pitch and volume, but also can start a speech with a hook, an introduction, a topic sentence, 2-3 arguments, surrounded by rhetorical flourishes (three words starting with the same consonant is a famous one) a conclusion and a closing hook.
    I'm lucky enough to have been teaching the last few years standardized tests, and getting across how to write, or how to speak, is a delight with young kids. They should all watch this You Tube!

    • @kimilivingston2521
      @kimilivingston2521 Рік тому +1

      My daughter is a freshman in HS and is taking honors classes. We just watched this today for her homework project to study Pathos, Ethos and Logos. It was a pleasure working side by side with her. I am a little concerned because she is so focused on performance and the end goal of attending Brown University that I sometimes feel she is missing the value of effective communication and how empowering that can be in infinite circumstances. Do you have any words of wisdom that will honor her enthusiasm and allow for her to get her hand on the heart beat of the moment. I am only now going to college at age 54, so I'm a bit of a late bloomer and she is sure to pass me up academically.

    • @KoalaHtet
      @KoalaHtet Рік тому

      ​@@kimilivingston2521I'm just 29 and not a communication coach. But I do agree with your view on how a good communication is more powerful and important than a single instance of getting into a good university. Great speakers may or may not have finished their college but they can get many great things done by simply communicating. Wars can be stopped, business deals can be brokered, true friends can be gained, experiences can be learned. To have such skills under your belt means you can walk through the world without the riches or the certificates but do not suffer a single day. I'm sure you're an amazing parent for seeing this point for your daughter. You don't need other people, just use your own words to teach her.

  • @JamesMalore
    @JamesMalore 6 місяців тому

    Watching this for practice my IELTS Listening skills especially for Listening task 3.

  • @zehansun1751
    @zehansun1751 4 роки тому +2466

    1:25
    *How to speak so that people want to listen*
    the man with grey hair: sleeps...

    • @keerthidammu7700
      @keerthidammu7700 4 роки тому +68

      Hahah...wat a observing skills...😂😂

    • @Taurusandzagros3
      @Taurusandzagros3 4 роки тому +7

      lolz

    • @Flo-sw4hz
      @Flo-sw4hz 4 роки тому +87

      maybe he was already dead and the staff forgot to carry him away :D And an old tale said that the man in grey is still lying in the hall until now

    • @KA-iv1ol
      @KA-iv1ol 4 роки тому +32

      He was writing down notes

    • @potusumanbibingka
      @potusumanbibingka 4 роки тому +6

      indead. 😂

  • @leftyfourguns
    @leftyfourguns 8 років тому +14

    What's amazing to me about this is that the exercises he has the audience do at the end are the exact things my 1 year old nephew does all the time. He's literally teaching himself how to talk!

  • @dtcarthy
    @dtcarthy 6 років тому +9

    Watching this video is one of the main reasons I nailed my dream job interview, thank you Julian!

  • @EnchantéTrinity-z1p
    @EnchantéTrinity-z1p 5 місяців тому

    Really helped me in IELTS speaking

  • @hectorn.6137
    @hectorn.6137 5 років тому +39

    My experience is that most say they want honesty, but you then realize that it's only true if it aligns with their opinions.

    • @Real_MisterSir
      @Real_MisterSir 5 років тому +4

      People want honesty, but they don't wanna have to respond to that honesty if it doesn't fit their interests.

    • @najmasultana3736
      @najmasultana3736 4 роки тому +1

      Yup.. so true

    • @VladislavDerbenev
      @VladislavDerbenev 4 роки тому +1

      @@Real_MisterSir people don't want anything if it doesn't fit their interests by definition of sanity

  • @lifelessons1594
    @lifelessons1594 4 роки тому +15

    Communication is about human connection. Being able to communicate effectively is one of the best life habits. Good listening is among the most important principles of great communication. It is common for most people to listen not with the intent of understanding, but with the intent of replying. Listening with the intent to understand is to fully understand that person intellectually and emotionally. You ensure that you understand by repeating back to them what they said and mirroring their emotions. By doing so, you help them structure their own thoughts and feelings. This type of listening can lead to truly open and trusting communication.

  • @JeffreyRufino
    @JeffreyRufino 2 роки тому +32

    I love this!❤😊❤
    I love seeing people be able to speak confidently, and to use their voice in a way which is both powerful, but also compassionate and empathetic.❤😊❤
    I love Julian's point about how when we're speaking, we can really use our voice to create an environment of warmth and connection - by changing our delivery and tone. I love how that is able to help people feel so much more understood ❤😊❤

  • @teacher_mindset
    @teacher_mindset 28 днів тому +2

    Here in 2025 with 3 speeches coming up. Grateful to have found this talk✨😇

  • @TheAquaticBeef
    @TheAquaticBeef 8 років тому +228

    that one lone laugh at the beginning killed me. 0:45

    • @LukzaFactory
      @LukzaFactory 8 років тому +1

      TheAquaticBeef me too hahaha

    • @TheAquaticBeef
      @TheAquaticBeef 8 років тому +2

      LukzaFactory Haha, it's totally something I would do!

    • @LukzaFactory
      @LukzaFactory 8 років тому +2

      TheAquaticBeef I laugh that way

    • @acharich
      @acharich 8 років тому +1

      😂

    • @generous_coconut
      @generous_coconut 8 років тому +13

      They say... don't be... a sheep... Lol XD

  • @matthewsjardine
    @matthewsjardine 8 років тому +21

    An amazing talk. Thank you for imparting this knowledge on us. I will mostly certainly work on employing it into my everyday speaking. If you forgot all these points covered in this video, I am sure performing those vocal exercises on the spot will surely get everyone's attention hahaha.

  • @erwars8195
    @erwars8195 7 років тому +1418

    I think my neighbour saw me doing the warm up. Time to move