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  • Опубліковано 29 кві 2024
  • Everyone’s been talking about Netflix’s latest show, ‘Baby Reindeer’, which follows the true story of an aspiring comedian who finds he’s being stalked after a seemingly innocent encounter. Our women are just some of the many who have been watching, and they feel like the show’s brought the dangers and realities of stalking into the forefront of people’s minds. They’ll be sharing some of their personal experiences of stalking, and discussing what you may need to do if you find yourself in such a situation.
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  • @mary_syl
    @mary_syl 24 дні тому +45

    Just because he was nice to her, didn't immediately set boundaries or underestimated the threat from her does NOT MEAN he encouraged the stalking!!!! 👿 Shame on you!! He did not deserve being terrorized and STALKED by this woman! She went after his friends and parents too! She's a criminal.

    • @kristina4395
      @kristina4395 22 дні тому

      He checked her online, saw she was a convicted stalker that was in jail and then he went on facebook and 10 sec later ACCEPTED her friend request.. thats when it STARTED. He had a choice to not accept when he was aware who she was.

    • @S-rn6xn
      @S-rn6xn 19 днів тому +4

      @@kristina4395 I hope you say that to every single woman who stays with abusive men then

    • @mary_syl
      @mary_syl 19 днів тому +4

      @@kristina4395 Victim blaming 👎

    • @rachelharding751
      @rachelharding751 16 днів тому +1

      ⁠@@S-rn6xnexactly! Whilst I’ve never been in an abusive relationship, it feels very different inside a relationship than it looks from the outside. You’re dealing with real people. We don’t always behave rationally.

  • @S-rn6xn
    @S-rn6xn 26 днів тому +42

    See how male victims aren’t taken as seriously? They talk about baby reindeer and say ‘oh he encouraged it’ but hen they show a video of a female victim where they’ve created a video and serious campaign yet don’t seem to blame the woman for encouraging it… why don’t they talk about the uproar in male victims coming forward to abuse from women?

    • @DM-it1qf
      @DM-it1qf 23 дні тому

      Because in this instance they were speaking about a woman who was murdered.

    • @S-rn6xn
      @S-rn6xn 22 дні тому

      @@DM-it1qfthe women in the video looks very alive to me

    • @msmilano7091
      @msmilano7091 20 днів тому

      The whole “ what was she wearing@ topic comes up anytime someone talks about Make/female SA
      It’s the first thing a woman gets asked if she reports it.
      For some reason there is always some attempt at justification either way

    • @S-rn6xn
      @S-rn6xn 19 днів тому

      @@msmilano7091 that’s a lot. Women get campaigns started for them and women March through streets. What happens when a man is a victim? The woman who did it gets a chance to explain herself on a tv interview, women everywhere make excuses for her, say he is just as bad, loose women the ‘feminists’ say ‘he encouraged it’ (which they’d never say if it was a woman victim), a tend on tiktok of women making jokes about the whole thing and what she said to him, and it’s overall not taken as seriously as when it’s a woman…

  • @julielewis5051
    @julielewis5051 Місяць тому +287

    I do like Coleen but was extremely disappointed in her and Brenda when they said this poor man had encouraged it at a times! You'd never say this about a woman who was a victim of stalking. The series was showing a real situation where things arent black and white, the man clearly had his own mental health issues and had very low self esteem, so you can see why at times he craved the attention. These comments made me feel very uncomfortable for this poor guy

    • @mazda2038
      @mazda2038 Місяць тому +79

      He himself admits he did encourage as such

    • @anisah8807
      @anisah8807 Місяць тому +41

      Richard Gadd himself admits this tho, he kept messaging back and meeting up with her. A woman who had unwanted attention wouldn’t do this

    • @SaintMTi
      @SaintMTi Місяць тому +28

      But he did encourage it

    • @flowerpink724
      @flowerpink724 Місяць тому +3

      She was talking about her feelings throughout, not her overall conclusion.and she talked about her own stalking issue. And how she felt bad for the guy. Your comment is wrong. You obviously didn't watch the whole clip

    • @jacquelinehillson9589
      @jacquelinehillson9589 Місяць тому +9

      Trauma makes folk do strange things.

  • @jacquelinehillson9589
    @jacquelinehillson9589 Місяць тому +74

    Stalkers don’t care about restraining orders, it’s futile, it’s complex , you can’t reason with madness.

    • @angeleyes3396
      @angeleyes3396 28 днів тому +3

      So true. You’ll save yourself time and a lot of heartache to either get them arrested or move/change your number.

  • @tarasmith2055
    @tarasmith2055 Місяць тому +60

    He did not encourage anything. He was a kind person. And like all kind people he blamed and questioned himself. He felt responsible for this complete stranger. I know that feeling

  • @jacqui9176
    @jacqui9176 Місяць тому +36

    The real Martha is ranting on her Facebook page, she isn't well, she actually looks, types and sounds very much like Martha.

  • @mazda2038
    @mazda2038 Місяць тому +65

    Remember the actor who played him is the actual writer as well

    • @cherylvince3872
      @cherylvince3872 Місяць тому +20

      The actor/writer is the guy who suffered the abuse

    • @jackd9928
      @jackd9928 29 днів тому +3

      The same guy it happened to (allegedly). Never mind the writer.

  • @Liamgane2
    @Liamgane2 29 днів тому +16

    If a woman was abused and stalked these woman would not be saying she encouraged it

    • @grrrrbabyverygrrr8165
      @grrrrbabyverygrrr8165 29 днів тому +2

      Yeah leave that to men to say. Like they do on almost every case like this. "She was asking for it" etc.

    • @S-rn6xn
      @S-rn6xn 26 днів тому +1

      @@grrrrbabyverygrrr8165no they don’t at all. But look at the difference in the conversation about the man and women in this video… the man ‘oh he encouraged it.’ Then the women, they make a video campaign for it and take it seriously…

    • @grrrrbabyverygrrr8165
      @grrrrbabyverygrrr8165 26 днів тому +1

      @S-rn6xn this was a very recent thing, though. Up until about 2015 and even now, women still get blamed when people attack them. Men need to start talking more like women did. But your support of each other is abysmal.

    • @hairgeek95
      @hairgeek95 25 днів тому

      I read another comment they said he admitted that he did encourage it at some point.

    • @Liamgane2
      @Liamgane2 24 дні тому

      @@hairgeek95 tbf most victims of abuse normally go back to there abuser and keep going back . Men or woman victims

  • @antoncannon7279
    @antoncannon7279 25 днів тому +9

    Trust Colleen to make another topic all about her!!
    Bore off 🤣🤣

  • @JoTracy
    @JoTracy Місяць тому +19

    Psychology in Seattle channel did a fantastic analysis of this show

  • @user-nu2vg5lw3o
    @user-nu2vg5lw3o Місяць тому +51

    I was stalked and the police asked me if I had encouraged it! 😢

    • @onehandednedned6673
      @onehandednedned6673 Місяць тому +1

      Yes the police have to do that, cut ties or not

    • @afveteran
      @afveteran Місяць тому +1

      Police can be insensitive, because their training I believe is shades of black and while to gray for instance. I think any person who is questioned by the police choose there words wisely and note the name of the police person.

  • @czarnakawa7958
    @czarnakawa7958 21 день тому +4

    What do you mean by 'lots of stalkers have mental health issues'? Stalking IS a mental health issue.

  • @marionthomas5947
    @marionthomas5947 Місяць тому +10

    This is where care in the community has got us to.

  • @melplayz90
    @melplayz90 Місяць тому +8

    what's bizarre is the stalker came out saying they're going to take legal action against the makers of the show and yet they wanted to remain private, I'm like you've just outed yourself lol. I was stalked for years by someone I knew and nothing was done, there needs to be more put in place to protect women, children AND men because we will at some point in our lives have to deal with something like this.

    • @JupiterSlim
      @JupiterSlim Місяць тому

      Yep and she just did a taped interview with Piers Morgan that will be coming out soon

  • @lenasims3085
    @lenasims3085 Місяць тому +47

    I really cannot with Ruth as a moderator. The lady does not allow free conversation and she takes a whole minute to ask a simple question.

    • @monalisa7
      @monalisa7 Місяць тому +3

      Agree with you today. I thought Charlene was Interruption Queen but Ruth was just as bad today. Didn’t let Brenda finish.

    • @katiecashman922
      @katiecashman922 Місяць тому +1

      Agreed

    • @95jujo
      @95jujo Місяць тому +3

      No . Ruth is a great anchor. Charlene seems to have nowt to say. She has not been stalked. 🤷‍♀️

    • @sabinabirnie3761
      @sabinabirnie3761 Місяць тому +2

      I do wish Colleen would not dye her hair such a severe color, I always find myself looking at her hairstyle and not concentrating on what she is saying, I like her very much and prefer her as the show’s anchor to Ruth. Colleen is an attractive lady and it would be nice to see more of her face than this mass of black hair.

    • @natsdaley9615
      @natsdaley9615 Місяць тому +1

      She's married to Eamon Holmes nuff said

  • @ABC-dw7pe
    @ABC-dw7pe 10 днів тому +1

    I’m more worried about Darien?! Why won’t he now go to the polcie

  • @normaholloway9116
    @normaholloway9116 Місяць тому +19

    My comment is not about ‘Baby Reindeer’, it’s about Coleen’s rude behaviour……….Janet apologised to Coleen for interrupting when expressing her thoughts…….but no apology from Coleen when she in turn interrupted Janet……….this just stood out to me.

  • @annewood5562
    @annewood5562 17 днів тому +1

    I believed him from the start, stalkers don't care if you call the police, courts or anything. You're their target and that's all they see.

  • @FlashySolution
    @FlashySolution 14 днів тому +3

    Colleen making it all about her again

  • @carolclapp6732
    @carolclapp6732 Місяць тому +7

    Absolutely enjoyed it

  • @TheBagpuss1967
    @TheBagpuss1967 21 день тому

    I’ve been stalked and it’s awful , it makes you so anxious and wary to walk down the road on your own 😢 I’m glad that there is a protection order in place now . There wasn’t mobile phones about when it happened to me 🙁

  • @victoriamacpriest7130
    @victoriamacpriest7130 8 днів тому

    Janet has a great perspective

  • @uxtp29
    @uxtp29 Місяць тому +9

    Please spare us from the hasbeens and their unsolicited opinions

  • @skiwelnitz3406
    @skiwelnitz3406 17 днів тому +1

    I see a whole new law coming out of this.... Marthas Law... to protect perps.... not the victims.... Its an interesting scenario at the very least.... feel for all involved... But do believe Fiona is revelling in all the drama

  • @mariehaverty8209
    @mariehaverty8209 Місяць тому +6

    This goes both ways!!

  • @Andtherewaslight427
    @Andtherewaslight427 Місяць тому +5

    I am on the first episode.

    • @bluecheesey701
      @bluecheesey701 Місяць тому +3

      Is very good I watched it all lastnight, gripping

  • @JoTracy
    @JoTracy Місяць тому +6

    Its a brilliant depiction of Narcissism

    • @Purplelemon5033
      @Purplelemon5033 Місяць тому +1

      Just imo Id say more Machiavellianism . I don’t think Martha loved herself and he wasn’t rich or famous or anything so there was nothing for her to gain materialistickly she was obsessed with him . Very complicated person I’d love to know what a psychiatrist would think

    • @orangewarm1
      @orangewarm1 25 днів тому +1

      Nothing to do with narcissism.

  • @azillliasmith2734
    @azillliasmith2734 День тому

    He encouraged it and probably had the idea from the start that he would write about it and it would be a good idea for a script...... and moneymaking for him......

  • @Dublin10
    @Dublin10 20 днів тому +1

    Let’s not talk about he’s own issues.what a great series.apart from anything else.the guy is such a great actor,hope he doesn’t go back into comedy,not with that acting talent.

  • @kelly6696
    @kelly6696 26 днів тому

    How can you analyze it when half the panel haven’t watched it through?

  • @PelvisPresley7294
    @PelvisPresley7294 Місяць тому +2

    Oh he encouraged it. You would never hear them say that about a woman. Women are innocent even when. Proven guilty. Zero accountability.

    • @deadshot3993
      @deadshot3993 Місяць тому

      Welcome to a man world we always the blame

  • @theeggtimertictic1136
    @theeggtimertictic1136 25 днів тому

    Its about damage. Damage ruins lives and has ripple effects.

  • @aliciascat9433
    @aliciascat9433 Місяць тому +2

    Half of them haven’t watched and they are bluffing.

  • @debbiesimpson1493
    @debbiesimpson1493 23 дні тому

    Whats wierd about all this is if the nice side of her had stayed nice they probably could of become good friends qnd helped each other.

  • @AT-AT-AT-AT
    @AT-AT-AT-AT Місяць тому +1

    they cannon admit it…

  • @mauragonzalez3190
    @mauragonzalez3190 21 день тому +3

    Women are a million times more vulnerable and suffer much more from stalkers....

  • @user-pi2sx1er6i
    @user-pi2sx1er6i 13 днів тому

    Should be called the colleen show.all about her as usual

  • @BasJon
    @BasJon 16 днів тому

    If she really did all he said then yes she is a disgusting human being, I have to say episode 4 hit me so hard.....

  • @InterestedCitizen
    @InterestedCitizen 25 днів тому +3

    If Richard truly did not want the real Martha (Fiona) to be flushed out, he should have insisted Netlix at least chose a very thin blond actress with maybe a Texas accent.

  • @angeljewellery___
    @angeljewellery___ 25 днів тому

    I found it extremely difficult to watch . This happens in our world . There is very little help available. These things are disturbing. And it’s complicated. This is more what we should be talking about - help for both parties .

    • @Dannyboy0202
      @Dannyboy0202 25 днів тому

      It was made up its not a true story

  • @DerryPope
    @DerryPope 20 днів тому

    Aww, that voice Colleen puts on to sound intelligent. Bless.

  • @sanalol1
    @sanalol1 20 днів тому +1

    Not Coleen making up a fake story about her ‘stalkers’

  • @mariehaverty8209
    @mariehaverty8209 Місяць тому

    This programmes not helping people who may be fearfully anyway?

  • @sueleitch6396
    @sueleitch6396 Місяць тому +25

    What happened to the man that abused him ?

  • @happyperson1236
    @happyperson1236 29 днів тому +5

    Of course a group full of women think it's his fault, if the roles were reversed they would not be as kind to Martha

    • @FlyyHigh834
      @FlyyHigh834 29 днів тому +1

      it's not his fault but he had issues as well

    • @invisibleman4827
      @invisibleman4827 24 дні тому

      ​@@FlyyHigh834And? Arguably that makes him even more vulnerable to her exploitative behaviour.

  • @gigieyre
    @gigieyre Місяць тому +1

    Colleen that color looks fabulous on you! Definitely your color. Love when Ruth moderates!

  • @teresadale542
    @teresadale542 Місяць тому +13

    Colleen is true narcissist charm plays the victim the show went down hill with that pure manipulist on board

    • @orangewarm1
      @orangewarm1 25 днів тому

      You might be a narcissist

    • @orangewarm1
      @orangewarm1 25 днів тому

      You might be a narcissist

  • @URFUTUREUK
    @URFUTUREUK День тому

    The actress playong it is a right mess for 37.

  • @HoneyHoops-ig9ws
    @HoneyHoops-ig9ws Місяць тому +7

    Brenda looks so defeated today.

    • @rodgerkehl8399
      @rodgerkehl8399 Місяць тому +6

      Wouldn’t you be? Sat beside the likes of Cawleen

    • @nickywilks7928
      @nickywilks7928 Місяць тому

      I thought this when she was on last week.

    • @katfanker
      @katfanker Місяць тому +3

      She never gets a word in, love Brenda!

    • @msrainbowbrite
      @msrainbowbrite Місяць тому +1

      @@rodgerkehl8399 what is your problem with Coleen?

  • @msrainbowbrite
    @msrainbowbrite Місяць тому +13

    i found it soo frustrating. When he had a chance to get out, he jumped back in

    • @benjames77bd
      @benjames77bd Місяць тому +1

      They are not very bright

    • @FlyyHigh834
      @FlyyHigh834 29 днів тому +2

      and kept going back to the creepy disgusting guy who R'd him

    • @magosianogowska5523
      @magosianogowska5523 12 днів тому

      and i hope you never have to come to understand the confusion and fear this kind of harassment causes. it causes you to lose yourself completely. trauma bonding can occur too. it’s far more complicated that most people understand.

  • @Dublin10
    @Dublin10 20 днів тому

    Lose women always make it about themselves 🙈🙈

  • @amyclarke41
    @amyclarke41 Місяць тому +1

    L gs 😊24 h r s b

  • @An-Alien-On-Earth
    @An-Alien-On-Earth 16 днів тому

    He's a fraud

  • @fraiser3330
    @fraiser3330 19 днів тому

    I hated this movie!!
    Don’t know why it’s so popular

  • @chezzachezza7325
    @chezzachezza7325 Місяць тому

    Was so annoying fast forward the last episode

  • @garyowens777
    @garyowens777 Місяць тому +11

    I'm sorry but this man is no victim he encouraged all of it wake up people

  • @rmcwil398
    @rmcwil398 27 днів тому

    It was all his fault from the beginning. He was pathetic. He encouraged her every moment. Even when he confronted her he still managed to goad her into doing it more. No wonder the police don't take it seriously. He is not the victim, she is. She's a victim of his manipulation.

    • @theforeignone721
      @theforeignone721 27 днів тому +3

      How did you watch the show and come to that conclusion??? Tf it was clearly her manipulating him

  • @Realist13
    @Realist13 Місяць тому +1

    The true is, he caused everything that happened to him. A weak individual craving admiration

  • @i67x
    @i67x Місяць тому

    I'm male, been groped numerous times. Never felt abused.

    • @invisibleman4827
      @invisibleman4827 24 дні тому

      Most men do, even if you don't.

    • @abe9458
      @abe9458 24 дні тому +2

      Not about you mate

    • @i67x
      @i67x 24 дні тому +1

      @@abe9458 agreed, it's not about the woke victim society either.