Giving you bad makeup, boring nudes, and contacting ex’s | Episode 51 | Give It To Me Straight
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- Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
- Have you ever received a nude that was just…boring? Alex definitely has. In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon discuss receiving boring nudes, video-game-obsessed boyfriends, and getting “off”. Alex says she would never marry someone who couldn’t get her off but then again, she married Jon. Marriage is all about sacrifice, I guess.
0:00 - Intro
23:45 - I’ve Never Had An Orgasm
27:20 - Boring Nudes
30:59 - Does My Friend Not Like Me?
33:34 - My Acquaintance Is Having An Affair
39:30 - My Husband Hates My Makeup
44:36 - He Plays Too Many Video Games!
48:39 - Moving Out of State
53:24 - Do I Tell My BF About My Abortion?
57:31 - I Contacted My Ex’s Sister
1:01:14 - My Ex Boyfriend is An Influencer
1:06:28 - Reading Your Secrets
1:09:21 - What Are You Over?
1:10:58 - Listener Review
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Gotta agree with Jon. If you’re in a relationship you should not be going to someone else’s hotel room. Period.
Agreed! WHAT PROFESSIONAL business do you have in someone’s hotel room!? It IS common sense. 🤷🏼♀️
Yup!! 100% why put yourself in that situation
Agreed… I’d have to say, hotel in general! Why put yourself in a bad situation. Naive
i watched this episode and must have zoned out on this entire question. anyone have a timestamp?
@@rebeccatennell2894 it’s referencing their last podcast where a married gals boss made a move on her. The question was unclear if she met him at the hotel bar or his hotel room during a work trip - Jon got a lot of back lash for “victim blaming” cause he told everyone not to go to the opposite sex’s hotel room
Victim blaming is a thing but what Jon did is not victim blaming…. Two things can be true. The boss shouldn’t be a terrible person, AND she can also use best judgment, (especially being in a relationship) and not put herself in that position. 🤷🏽♂️
Agreed
Jon is going to LOVE the amount of people agreeing with him 😂😁 I’m another one 🙋🏻♀️
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Love all the band aids on your laptop😂 its growing per episode @@giveittomestraight
John is 100% right, you wouldn’t go to someone’s hotel room if you were in a relationship. Walking home in the dark might be the only way they can get home. Meeting in their hotel room is like meeting them in their bedroom at home, just weird when you can meet downstairs in the lobby or restaurant.
I agree with John. Just don’t fucking go to a hotel with anyone if you’re in a relationship. Point. Blank. Period. I don’t care if it’s my boss. I would have just suggested to meet somewhere else.
Society has somehow confused accountability with victim blaming.
I completely agree with Jon about not going to the boss’ hotel room. The boss in that situation is scum, but we also have to have some accountability and self awareness.
Honestly i with john …..i mean the world is full of shitty people but we need to have some self awareness…
Exactly, we cannot pretend that there’s no bad people in this world!!
I think John is right. Even as a single woman, I wouldn’t go to my bosses hotel room for security and potential impropriety reasons. There is a level of common sense EVERYONE should have. As a woman, I should be able to walk at night without worrying, but that’s not the case in real life, it’s dangerous, so I’ll limit potential dangers where I can.
I 2nd that
It’s SO SIMPLE. You have no business going to another man’s hotel room. Not victim blaming, but also - common sense ain’t so common.
I love how the bandaids keep growing and y’all don’t even address what happened to the injured computer 😅😅
Jon is 100% correct! She does need to be self aware just for her own protection. That is common sense. And yes, the guy is still wrong.
I agree with Jon she is accountable he invited her to his hotel even if it is just at the bar, not a good look all the way around. Boss aside whatever his intentions were.
Agreed! Besides, it's not like the guy pushed himself on her. She willingly met him! And when she declined he didn't push further. He's wrong for asking a married woman but yeah..
I agree with John! Justifying her behaviors, isnt going to change cultural dynamics. We 100% make men And women accountable for their actions.
Are we gonna go play monopoly!? No, we all know what the hotel room insinuates.
She was wrong. Easier way to put it ;
You dont want to get fat dont eat chocolate cake.
The women was 100% wrong for going into the hotel room. Its not victim blaming its making a grown women accountable.
Women these days tend to blame men for a lot of situations.
Women want loyal men hold your own gender accountable as well.
Jon is right 100%…. At some point you have to have common sense and realize why someone is inviting you to their room vs the hotel bar or a restaurant. Come on now.
Alex is glowing! You're so beautiful girl!!
John you are 100% right about going to your boss’ hotel room being inappropriate!
I love that John is talking about the season for Virgin River. I’m all about that.
When Jon said he’s waiting for the right weather to watch a show… I felt that 🤣
My wife and I stand with John. Holding an offender accountable and taking personal responsibility for your inability to mitigate risk as it pertains to placing yourself in inappropriate settings aren’t mutually exclusive. FAR from victim-blaming.
If John felt personally attacked for being lumped into a category of people who are insensitive to victims, by all means let the man defend himself.
Not everyone has common sense, so we need more people to educate others about minding the pros and cons of your decisions beforehand.
I have a kiddy pool with a shallow amount of water in it that I trained my dogs to “rinse your feet” in. Guide them in with a treat, they get the mud out of their fur and then you just towel dry and it’s SUCH a game changer.
I feel bad for Jon's ex, though, the fact that she'll have to miss out on your content! It IS funny 😂
I’m with Jon as well! He is right. One cannot be naive; you have to be smart and not put yourself in certain situations. That’s it.
I’m with Jon! Like you should know better if you’re in a relationship to not go to someone’s hotel room. That’s just setting you up for a disaster.
Jon saw Alex before the wedding and asked her "Are you the cake????" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
I live in New Jersey! We don't pump our own gas and do not ever tip.
Why don’t they let u pump your own gas ?
Alex is glowing. You look amazing girl! 💕
100% with Jon re: the hotel room. Definitely not victim blaming, just Inappropriate to go to a hotel room for either sex when in a relationship, like he said
Regarding the gamer: Ouch, that sounds exactly like my daughters bio. I'm curious if that's him and his current gf/fiance lol! Anyways, it was a serious problem. I spent 3 years hoping it would get better and it never did. I LOVE games, but I know what I value and I make those things a priority above video games. It ended after I kept coming home from work and he couldn't even feed, bathe, change the babies diapers, and I would get home from work at 11pm and find my sweet babies asleep on the cold linoleum floor. I had to send my mother to my apartment to check on the babies because I couldn't trust him to do the right thing. I have zero regrets about moving on. You and your future deserve better. I'm confident after four years you have addressed the issue MANY times. Best wishes to you friend. Keep in mind, what we value determines what we will do.
100% agree with John. Men and women regardless need to not put themselves in compromising situations.
I agree with John. We also need to held accountable for our decisions. You know what’s right and appropriate. He’s a pos for asking her to meet him there but going was her decision. This wasn’t her walking on the street and something happened.
Alex - you are glowing!!!!!! ❤️
23:50 Coming from a woman who has only been with 1 guy for 25 years. I also had a problem reaching an orgasm. It isn't always the guy that needs to help the woman climax. If you aren't allowing yourself to feel connected, he isn't able to help you. And if anything, you're may give him a bad complex and honestly wouldn't know what to do to help you. You have to learn how to move in a way that pleasures yourself (not maturbation) and tell him what you like. That's the only way you're going to be able to figure it out. If you're not comfortable doing that, then it's an insecurity in yourself that you need to work through. If you can't get past that, then there's more than just sex and orgasms that's standing in the way of your relationship.
😂 The way Jon is looking at the camera listening to the first question 🤣
Love the podcast! And congratulations! BTW Doc from Virgin River also pays a Doc in Hart of Dixie :)
I 100% agree with Jon. No married person should be going to their boss’s hotel room at night. Regardless of the reason, that’s inappropriate. I’d be livid if my husband did that. You could easily to a common area or group setting.
Alex, you are glowing! ❤
Alex, I avoided the monkey bars too. I could never do a pull up during the annual school fitness tests. I blame it on our height. So happy for yall! P.S. I went back to school, now 46, and have been a little stressed. Yall's podcast is 1 of my outlets. Love it!
I think Jon is more or less saying that in a relationship it’s not appropriate. But I see where others are coming from saying he’s victim blaming but I truly think he’s talking on the side of the relationship
1000% agree with Jon regarding the hotel room situation. It doesn’t even seem Alex understands the point he’s trying to make. Like it’s completely lost on her 😂
If yall ever made merch I would 100% buy it!!!
Even if her boss is a complete gentleman, my wife has no business in his hotel room.
“You have a short neck.” *Stares intensely at John’s neck*
the show doc was on was “heart of dixie” i think it lasted 4 seasons but love that show & virgin river! btw watch the last season because it was so good & intense!!!
A paneled wall or wallpaper would be nice. 1:10:46
Congrats on Baby Boy 👼✨
Regarding telling your partner about a past abortion: if the abortion is effecting you mentally/emotionally/physically and it’s effecting your ability to function or it’s changed your view on some major life aspects, tell him about the abortion. If you feel any emotional turmoil over the abortion, he should know about it so he can understand you and your actions/emotions in the future. If the abortion has not effected you negatively, and you don’t need his support to deal with it, then don’t feel obligated to tell him.
Get the GIK Acoustics art panels!! They look nice and are great for acoustic dampening!
Omg when talking about Virgin River…I’m from a small town, 250 people and yes it really is like that! Everyone knows all about you, your business, and just about everything you’ve ever done 😂 It’s a lifestyle lol. So much so that when someone gets a different vehicle it throws everyone off for weeks. I live in a town of 5000 now and I miss aspects of the tiny town life.
Watching Virgin river feeds my dream of moving to big bear lake lol, I love that show.
Use the "erase my face" washable face cloths for makeup removal! For Kobe's paws. They're soft and remove everything!!
I have a 4, 3 & 1 year old and were moving from PA to FL in July before my daughter starts kindergarten. I totally feel ya on do it now before they're really all in school etc. We're keeping our house and renting it up here then renting if FL for the first year & see if we like it etc. Love your advice ❤
Good for you guys, best of luck!!
Jersey girl here. Nope, I don’t tip at gas stations, unless someone cleans my windshield. I never carry cash, so I usually stop them. Then they always smile and say it's all good. It’s part of your service.
I agree, John... I have the same experience with my dog liking to dig into mulch.
i can understand why her boss hit on her, she played along, she agreed to go to his room which is totally inappropriate, she gave him a sign to hit on her. she is not a victim, nobody a victim here
Jersey here! Have never tipped at the gas pump or heard of anyone doing so.
Commenting about the doctor from virgin river! 😂 he played a doctor in hart of Dixie! Also same thing, he doesn’t care for the girl who goes to work with him then she grows on him. I had to look that up when I started watching it also bc it’s funny it’s so similar.
Get an invisible fence around the landscape so he can't go in that area. Have had to do that cause I had a dog who liked to eat flowers 😅
Invisible fence is a smart idea!
Whenever we dogsit and have 3+ dogs here and it's wet outside we set up a bunch of towels just inside the door and put a pen around it so we can all hang out on the towels until paws are dry. Thick fluffy towels and comforters seem to work best to help get the paws dry. I've seen mud mats which are supposed to be good for this too but we haven't tried them.
Here in Oregon no one tips gas attendants, also the law changed and you can do it yourself now but there are still attendants so it can be a little awkward now. As a person originally from Wisconsin I really enjoy not getting out in the cold to pump my gas.
Agree with you Jon! 100%!
omg Alex, I don't know if it's a pregnancy thing, but you look radiant 🤩
Thank you Alex for your rational commentary, before you even gave your examples to help Jon try to understand I had ‘kid in a hoodie’ and Treyvon Martin in the back of my mind. Like regardless of what a person wears, or does, that 100% doesn’t justify another person that acts against them. Regardless of prevailing opinion. There was a period of time when prevailing opinion was women couldn’t vote or own homes not to mention much more despicable policies. All these people arguing the woman should know better, miss the point that Alex was making about victim blaming generally which is, it doesn’t matter! Also, replay the question because at no point did the woman say it was her boss’s room. And yes a public space like the hotel bar is very different. Jon just own that you disagree with this particular woman’s actions and hold her responsible for part of the outcome but as far as not victim blaming, you’re still wrong, because that’s exactly what that amounts to. Just in this scenario many people are willing to focus blame on the ‘victim’ here along with you.
jersey girl here 👋🏻 you only tip gas attendants on holidays or extreme weather.. not every single time
Agree with Jon!!!
I have the same issue with my 2 dogs but when it rains! Our yard gets muddy because they have messed up the grass from digging 😣 but what i do i have a bucket outside a fill it up with water just enough to deep in their paws and rinse them lol 😅thats been my fastest solution because they dont like their paws touched either lol
I’m in NY & live in a town where they pump our gas. I never thought about tipping until now… Thanks Jon. *cue anxiety* 😅 Also, Jon is right about hotel room subject!
At the gas stations in Oregon (where you can’t pump yourself) the attendants get excited to see out of state plates because they think they’re supposed to tip. Locals don’t tip at the gas station.
I agree with John
I get John’s point of view. It’s not victim blaming it’s just saying she was naive. If you’re in a relationship you shouldn’t go to someone’s room for a “drink” when they could have got the drink at the hotel bar 🤨
Jon can’t pick anything physical to “be good at” he will end up throwing his back out again 😂
I agree Jon! Boundaries, don’t go to your boss’s hotel room!
100000% with Jon! Anyone in a relationship should not even put themselves in that situation.
John is so right and anyone who doesn't understand him is not for me.
Omfg Alex I can relate to when it’s inside it’s the best but I don’t care to look at it 😂💀 29:54
Even if you’re not a relationship, don’t go somewhere sketchy with someone you don’t wanna be with. Duh 😂
I agree with John.
Love the channel before and still love it! I think I got pregnant with our first a little bit after you so I’m loving the updates! 🩵
I use SKOUTS HONOR paw spray from Petsmart in a Huggies baby wipe with no scent because they are super cheap at Wally Mart 😅 I grab them as they come in door and spray it on the already damp baby wipe and wipe all fours paws then let them in the house!!! I’ll send you a pic of bottle!
5:40 I hear what you’re saying Jon. It’s tough. Not her fault for the assault. It is her fault for inappropriately hanging out with someone. Gotta draw boundaries. He shouldn’t assault people, gotta do better. And good on you Jon for not wanting to victim blame but trying to get your point accroas
13:30 she sounds like the most eager dr ever and I’m here for it ❤
Think Jon is just stating facts! I agree! 100%
Hart of Dixie - he was a doctor in a small town in the south. Rachel Bilson is also a doctor from the city and moves to the small town.
THANK YOU, I couldn’t not figure it out for the life of me
Agree with Jon
Jon, he was a doctor on Hart of Dixie as well
I completely agree with Jon!! It is common sense and not appropriate at all, especially because she's married. She said hotel room , if it was hotel bar I would have made very clear while writing in. Jon you're right
Solution to your dogs black feet smudges: replace carpet with wood or tile. I know that's a major change. Short term solution is a rug that fits in the wash that can be placed by the door. Is this a problem that will resolve once you're not getting rain? I have a dog too and that would be very annoying. You also could replace mulch with playground mulch. They sell it at big box stores. It's unstained.
Yeah it’s only when it’s wet outside. I want to remove the black stained mulch and put in natural brown mulch
I'm 110% on Jon’s side here. Like no doubt about it. It's not victim blaming and I think people who jump to that as a first response need to take a minute and think about it. Because as an individual, keeping yourself safe and out of harms way is your responsibility and if someone violates that - they absolutely should be held accountable - but it's a little too late at that point. Why not rely on yourself. No ones going to look after you like you.
I’ve lived in NY my whole life. I’ve never tipped at a full serve gas station. When I pass through Jersey and get gas I don’t tip either.
Totally agree that when you're in a relationship, your sex life is both of your responsibilities! If you need help doing xyz in ANYTHING, your partner should be part of that work with you. It's not 100% their responsibility but they share it for sure.
I'm from Jersey! The only time I'd ever tip is if they start cleaning my windshield.. that's IF I even have cash on me
We don't pump in NJ...we're not expected to tip. They want us in and out lol. I'm sure they'd appreciate it but there's no tipping jars. And they don't wait for a tip either LOL
You guys should also watch 3 body problem
We just started watching it, it has our attention
@@giveittomestraight OMG Its SOOOO GOOD. We are saving the last episode for tomorrow. also cant believe you answer :) I am enjoying the real life baby content.
Wedding makeup does not have to be caked on to look good in pics!!!!!! It’s so important to look pretty in person too!!!!!
I totally agree with Jon. It's inappropriate to go to your male boss's hotel room. Period.
I agree with John. Both parties need to take accountability and that means looking at it like another man’s hotel room, which she did say hotel room. Not bar. And tried to use it as an excuse bc her husband was friends with her boss.
My husband’s ex started a podcast with some friends. She had released a few episodes when he got word that in their recent episode they talked about their exes and my husband was the ex she talked about. He listened to it and then talked to me about it and I was initially pissed that he wanted to know what she was saying. But after he explained why he did it (their relationship ended pretty badly and he felt bad for some things that were said) I knew he needed some type of closure from that horrible time he went through. She talked about one of the first fights they had and made my husband sound like a complete asshole, but nothing from their break up
I need reaction vids to John watching VR....agree beautiful views!!!
🥳 insomnia has been cured by this new episode!!
Hello!! Silent listener here, just wanted to hop on and comment something, thank yall for making me laugh each week and congratulations on becoming parents 🫶🏽
I’m with John on this one … I would neeeevver in a million years ever go to a bosses hotel room or even hotel bar either one! Because I’m like that’s just not appropriate even if your boss knows you’re married you just don’t go there … yes her boss shouldn’t be awful but it’s also pretty common sense to not go to someone’s hotel
Jon you were not victim blaming at all. My boss is a male and we are friends but if we were on a work trip I wouldn't even consider going to hang out in a hotel room alone with him or any of my male coworkers, it should be in a public setting out of respect for my husband and it would be the same if my husband was on a work trip (his boss is female) there's no excuse. BUT her boss should have never put her in that position to begin with.
I think regardless of gender/ sexual preference, his point was valid. If it was in a hotel room, why go? Even if nothing happened and it was just two friends hanging out, I just know my husband, or I would if he was in that situation, would be like wtf why were you in did you end up in their hotel room? To me it comes not from lack of trust but more respect for your partner, that was point I think Jon was making 🤷♀