Can an 18 year age gap work? Millions of Dollars & 3 Kids later, Valeria Lipovetsky says Yes

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  • Опубліковано 23 лип 2024
  • In today's episode, the boys welcome super-influencer & model Valeria Lipovetsky alongside her husband Gary to chat blowing up on social media, navigating million dollar brand sponsorships, creating a content powerhouse, how to make money on Instagram, their 18-year age gap, building a social media family, the back-end of creator business, expanding a social media empire & MORE!
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    0:00 - Intro
    1:52 - How Gary & Valeria met
    4:17 - Getting friend zoned
    6:37 - Getting passed friendship
    8:07 - Modelling in New York
    10:17 - Proposing after 2 months
    15:17 - Starting on Instagram
    16:48 - Getting pregnant & worrying about the future
    17:53 -Expectations as a married couple
    20:58 - How sneaky men are
    22:08 - Navigating tough times in marriage
    24:28 - Being a leading man in the relationship
    26:37 - Valeria searching for her passion
    27:53 - Learning how to monetize through IG
    30:38 - Discovering UA-cam
    32:53 - Growing pains and turning into a business
    34:33 - First big money from brand deals
    36:28 - Gary’s lucrative business
    38:23 - How Gary 10x’d Valeria’s brand
    42:38 - The importance of choosing a right partner
    43:18 - Oprah of our generation
    44:58 - Starting a business with your spouse
    46:43 - Getting videos with 100 million views
    51:03 - Investing in the brand
    53:53 - Building trust and creating the perfect team
    58:13 - Finding a perfect CEO
    58:53 - Being in the public eye with a family
    1:01:53 - Gary building a personal brand
    1:06:08 - Being a visionary as a creator
    1:07:53 - Moving from Toronto to Miami
    1:15:18 - Vision behind clothing brand
    1:17:23 - The money behind Valeria Inc
    1:20:03 - Expanding the brand empire
    1:22:53 - The myth of “smaller” creators
    1:25:33 - The key to blowing up
    1:27:23 - The mass content plan
    1:32:03 - The brand deal process
    1:35:13 - Most interesting brand partnerships
    1:36:18 - Securing outbound partnerships
    1:39:43 - Influencing 6 million people
    1:43:28 - Securing 7 figure brand deals
    1:46:18 - Selling Valeria Inc?
    1:49:28 - Creating content forever?
    1:52:53 - Doing meetups
    1:54:09 - Does Money Buy Happiness?
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  • @moneybuyshappiness
    @moneybuyshappiness  Рік тому +4

    Get 20% Off + Free Shipping @Manscaped with the code "MBH" at manscaped.com!

  • @1.3.7
    @1.3.7 Рік тому +51

    Valeria could do everything by herself with the same success. He is just trying to always control her and attribute her success to him.

  • @juliawainstein8622
    @juliawainstein8622 Рік тому +85

    "i don't like poo" im sorry you think all these moms are out here liking poo?? 😂😂

  • @sharaguzman9414
    @sharaguzman9414 Рік тому +241

    The importance of choosing a good life partner. Valerie is absolutely right.

    • @moneybuyshappiness
      @moneybuyshappiness  Рік тому +6

      One of the most important choices in life ✅

    • @eunicedith
      @eunicedith Рік тому +3

      Valeria speaking wisdom ❤

    • @talkingtochapri
      @talkingtochapri 9 місяців тому +4

      Good life partner 🤭💀 Grandpa is half-dead and looks like her grandfather. Let's be honest, she wouldn't have married him if she came from a rich or middle-class background 😅

  • @laurelgeorge3766
    @laurelgeorge3766 Рік тому +151

    It’s so nice to stumble onto a podcast that has truly talented hosts… this felt really natural and fun to listen to.

  • @beasgoes
    @beasgoes Рік тому +101

    Dont use that "i cleaned your poop" on your child. The obligation to take care of them is yours, dont use that against them. You are the one responsible for them, don't act like u did them a favor.
    BOTH parents should take care of the children equally.

  • @akwamarilla
    @akwamarilla 10 місяців тому +15

    It’s the fact that they were married and she was doing UA-cam and Blogs for months and he didn’t know about it. Like how do you not discuss each others day. He only cared about her day once he saw a business opportunity.

  • @cicirue101
    @cicirue101 Рік тому +56

    This was so cool to listen to. I have been a Valeria fan since the beginning of her UA-cam (2017) career and it is so cool to hear the behind the scenes of how she got here. This couple is just amazing all around as parents, business people, and just genuine humans.

  • @sarahs7043
    @sarahs7043 Рік тому +75

    Why is he so dominating? Did you see how he was yelling at her to “stop, stop, stop” when Valeria was mentioning that she always has a choice to leave the marriage?

    • @samsara7337
      @samsara7337 Рік тому +19

      21:06 for those who want to see..yea, that was awkward!

    • @jokerblum6255
      @jokerblum6255 Рік тому +17

      Hope she finds a better man

    • @talkingtochapri
      @talkingtochapri Рік тому +3

      I hope she dumps that grandpa and sends him to a retirement home 💀

    • @HortenseLapasse
      @HortenseLapasse 12 днів тому

      ​@@talkingtochaprishe really looks like a great person it genuinely makes me sad to see her with him 😭

  • @claudialora9659
    @claudialora9659 Рік тому +41

    If mansplaining, weaponized incompetence and a lightbulb had a child:

  • @lenasprw6523
    @lenasprw6523 Рік тому +23

    I truly enjoy listening to Valeria, she’s got so much to say that I need to hear. Honestly this format is perfect for her. And what a power couple! People often don’t understand what it means to be in a partnership, this dynamics is not easy, but it is so worth it. Huge shout out to Gary for stepping down and letting Valeria BE. It can be hard for men, let alone older ones, so I think it’s important to acknowledge that if we can. And Valeria - just 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Icon, so much power, knowledge. You are inspiring

  • @deezed6478
    @deezed6478 Рік тому +43

    Could you imagine if people acted in the workplace the same way so many men act at home? Like hey boss, listen, I know you hired me but I’m not gonna do all these necessary jobs I don’t want to do, but you can trust me to contribute later. I also just can’t do this task because I’m just not good at it, sorry. *then complains after getting fired.*

  • @dianalastovska8386
    @dianalastovska8386 Рік тому +71

    Interesting, to me Valeria seems much, much more mature than Gary.

  • @joykayoga
    @joykayoga Рік тому +5

    I love how you all lift each other up! How the first instinct (half way) through receiving a compliment is to redirect it to crew/partner. Truly humble and beautiful!

  • @CLEOPATRA2311
    @CLEOPATRA2311 Рік тому +103

    Someone needs to state that the age gap works (for a awhile) if someone is loaded with money...Daddy issues beautiful immigrant girl meets Grooming immature narcissist .He try to sealed the deal by impregnated the girl right away in the fear she ll go away.The guy looks like her father and he doesn t even sound like he is evolved in his family at all. He wanted someone to raise his kids as he works on his business already being a middle age man.How is that a good example of a father and a husband ?
    Valeria seems like an nice , talented,grounded person, but the business she created for herself having 3 kids at the same time, was due to money privilege.Having everything provided and having nannies gives you the time to be creative, so you dont be just a housewife or someone s wife.I know so many couples like that...woman when hits 40 and kids are grown leaves the marriage and end up happy with someone their age with a big alimony .

    • @hb5664
      @hb5664 Рік тому +61

      I'm so happy I found this comment. The producers of this podcast only seem to like positive comments, which says a lot. Why are so many people commenting here that they have such a beautiful relationship? Usually the internet is full with "How to spot a narcissist" videos, where the first thing they state is "if he proposes to you within the first couple of weeks and claims that you belong to him and he's lovebombing you, get the fuck out" and in this case, people are like "wow, such an inspiration" . When he said "After 10 days, I told her You Are my Wife!" I got the chills. It seems more like that he saw her young age as something he can still "form" into the character he wanted, and that she was vulnerable to his authority and wealth.
      All of a sudden age does not matter anymore (and the power relations that naturally appear if one of them has more life experience), all of a sudden it does not matter that the guy is disgusted by the poop of his own kids and simply denies to change their diapers, all of a sudden all of the shit coming out of this man's mouth is like "oh my god, thank you for your honesty".
      Yes, he got criticism for that, but looking at the comment section here, he has enough supporters who motivate him to continue spreading his opinions all over the internet. This generation is fucked up, let me tell you. As long as the money flows and that dude has a trophy wife to fit into his lifestyle, that's all he seems to care about. As long as she is fine with it, good for her. But let's not normalize and support this. We live in a society where social media fame and big business is suddenly all we seem to care about. Nothing wrong with traditional roles and family values. But this guy thinks being the "provider" means only bringing home the money. A provider, a man, is also someone who can provide support to his wife and children and be the strong shoulder to rely on once it gets tough. That dude took the sentence "traditional roles" and brought it to a whole new level. Not wanting to be involved in your child's first couple of years and their upbringing overall, because it's annoying, just screams "I'm a narcissist". He can't get any benefits out of them (love is apparently not so important), so he leaves it to his wife. Everyone watching this should rethink their view on a healthy relationship and should stop admiring this. Let's not make these people and their opinions more important than they are. Yeah money is important to have, but this is just fucked up and they should stay away from influencing young adults with this. I don't want young women to accept this bullshit from their partners, thinking it's totally normal.

    • @sandrabojovic4817
      @sandrabojovic4817 Рік тому +14

      What can I tell you? I'm disgusted beyond words. But, if this sugar daddy scheme works for the two of them, good for them, I guess? I mean, I wouldn't want to be their child. What will their children learn about male-female relationships?

    • @user-lc4sg3tv1k
      @user-lc4sg3tv1k Рік тому +6

      Well recently had a closer look, and realized that there is nothing but a community of ~ estimated 100 people on this channel who regularly comments and praises how wonderful, amazing and great everything is. From the 2 Million subscribers, only 30-80K watch the videos. I got disappointed in her integrity, I just made a comment on kids exposure and she ranted on this. She is constantly exposing her kids including her toddler. I feel sorry for this little guy, as I feel sorry for the kids being used as cash cows. Of course they love their mother. All kids do until they are grown up and possibly question things. You should not take love as consent or as a proof for your correct decisions.

    • @kristinacvetkovic5620
      @kristinacvetkovic5620 Рік тому +3

      ​@@hb5664 bravoo! Great thinking ❤

    • @jokerblum6255
      @jokerblum6255 Рік тому +5

      This should be the top comment!!!

  • @DanceAway152
    @DanceAway152 Рік тому +11

    i thoroughly enjoyed this. As a follower of Valeria’s for quite some time now, it’s incredible to hear her and Gary’s perspective and vision of the business side of content creation. Learnt a lot through this.

  • @stellamaxwell777
    @stellamaxwell777 Рік тому +11

    Came here from Val’s channel! Honestly one of the most interesting interviews I’ve listened to in recent memory. Fantastic job, guys 🎉 The ads weren’t to my liking, but I may not be your target demographic 😅 Keep up the great work!

  • @lilia_spn
    @lilia_spn Рік тому +24

    16:09 maybe help the child and change it's diaper? What's wrong with this dude... "You have a nanny, go ask the nanny" this is weird on so many levels
    I have never heard of these people and i don't care about their "Influence" but this is just ridiculous.
    Lousy podcast host. They didn't even address this comment. I haven't heard a single confronting comment. It seems more like a brand deal than a serious podcast.
    Bruh i'm clicking off of this.

  • @gracewilson6640
    @gracewilson6640 Рік тому +6

    I stumbled unto Valeria’s UA-cam when she was at 40k subs, it was a steep rise even for me the viewer to see and she deserves it all.

  • @irinazoda
    @irinazoda Рік тому +21

    I'm in the middle of the interview and i'm so happy I have another hour to enjoy it. I'm in love with Valeria but hey Gary such a smart and wise man! Thank you guys for the interview!

    • @moneybuyshappiness
      @moneybuyshappiness  Рік тому

      Glad you enjoyed it Irina! They are an awesome couple 😎

    • @tamaraiakymenko9924
      @tamaraiakymenko9924 Рік тому

      One of those interview which you could watch another 3 hours. Indeed.

  • @kaitlinbiddau
    @kaitlinbiddau Рік тому +43

    What a great episode 👌🏼 the guests keep getting better ! I love Valeria and Gary because I relate to Valeria alot (3 kids before 30 & married) so I took alot from this pod. Thanks so much guys!

    • @moneybuyshappiness
      @moneybuyshappiness  Рік тому +1

      Our day 1 Kaitlin! Glad you took value from this one! We appreciate you ❤️

  • @elizabethwilk9615
    @elizabethwilk9615 4 місяці тому +2

    Valeria success is in her wisdom and humility as such a young age. The fact her husband saw that and encouraged her is a blessing.

  • @Fivetimesthree
    @Fivetimesthree Рік тому +64

    Truly an amazing episode. Lots of space for natural conversation with sincere curiosity from the Interviewers. I wish Val also did this content bcus she’s so good at this particular format.

    • @moneybuyshappiness
      @moneybuyshappiness  Рік тому +8

      Agreed! She killed it in this type of chat, we will bring them back for a part 2 🤗

  • @dianethompson6804
    @dianethompson6804 Рік тому +17

    Money doesn't buy happiness, but it buys comfort and better health care! If you can afford to go to the Dr and the dentist, you get regular checkups and tests that lead to better over all health! Also you can afford the groceries that fuel your body more efficiently!

  • @indoorphine
    @indoorphine Рік тому +63

    this guy creeps me out so much. old men who try sneak into very young females pants are just gross

    • @cdb88
      @cdb88 Рік тому +7

      yeah same. he's weird.

    • @AHMEDZAC
      @AHMEDZAC Місяць тому

      Cry about it

    • @vaportrails7943
      @vaportrails7943 Місяць тому

      What’s creepy is people on the internet saying this kind of stuff about people they don’t know.

  • @elenavasiliu2827
    @elenavasiliu2827 Рік тому +2

    I am so thankful that you took the interview with both of them, I follow Valeria since the beginning (making healthy snacks and so on) and I find their evolution fascinating!

  • @maraszekely
    @maraszekely Рік тому +60

    Garry is trying to make Valeria this Oprah person but she is loved because she is humble and not that arrogant celebrity type. What brought her truly fame was her innocent sweetness, her wonderful family and her interesting life-path, not the megastar mindset and act. I am following her from the start. So what's the point of making more money if you lost yourself in the process? You can never buy yourself back after that.

    • @moneybuyshappiness
      @moneybuyshappiness  Рік тому +2

      Well said! Valeria has been able to stay grounded and true to herself while building an empire 🏆

  • @zaram2806
    @zaram2806 Рік тому +30

    100% predatory vibes and it's being normalized on a podcast. Sickening.

  • @user-lb4ip3hb9k
    @user-lb4ip3hb9k Рік тому +28

    Amazing episode ❤.. guys really good questions, the conversation was amazing, absolutely natural, educational, with so much value...loved it ..I don't know how the 2 hours passed 😅

    • @moneybuyshappiness
      @moneybuyshappiness  Рік тому

      It was just as fun for us! A lot of education and gems in this one 🤩 thanks for tuning in Majusa!

  • @Smiley145
    @Smiley145 Рік тому +5

    Hey! Thanks for this amazing episode ❤
    I can say that you guys are the best hosts ever , I love the way you’re spreading the vibe and listening carefully without interrupting the guest.
    Keep going! I’m waiting for more episodes 😀

  • @luciiiana27
    @luciiiana27 Рік тому +29

    most dads changed diapers, girl you just have a sexist husband, the generalization about men was cringe

  • @melisagalli3693
    @melisagalli3693 Рік тому +36

    I liked when valeria said i always have choice

  • @miosotiscortes6214
    @miosotiscortes6214 Рік тому +10

    I love Valeria so much, she is so composed and clever!

  • @innafox5853
    @innafox5853 Рік тому +118

    There is something very unsettling about him. She seems like a very sweet girl but she grew up without a father so it was so wrong for him to take advantage of her like that. Them being wealthy and him getting her pregnant so fast does make it all seem better than it actually is though and makes them more willing to make it work

    • @sophiasmile5195
      @sophiasmile5195 Рік тому +3

      She grew up with a father figure aka. Her stepdad. Oftentimes she mentioned it how she never needed her real father because she had one

    • @innafox5853
      @innafox5853 Рік тому +6

      @@sophiasmile5195 if I remember correctly that wasn’t until she was like 10 and then they divorced and it was ugly. Not sure at what age. But girls who date older men have daddy issues, periodt

    • @Yuna2346minji
      @Yuna2346minji Рік тому +1

      @@innafox5853 the idea of girls dating older men because they have "daddy issues" is a myth.

    • @fireandsugar2625
      @fireandsugar2625 Рік тому

      ​@@innafox5853No all of us do so don't generalize us. Period. My husband's 11 years my senior. No daddy issues but you are unbelievably ignorant.

    • @mizzhelloo
      @mizzhelloo Рік тому +3

      What’s unsettling about him is that he’s trying to portray that he’s “the boss” in their marriage and it’s coming off very cringy lol
      Valeria is not a foolish girl.
      She knows that she can leave if she wants.
      She’s still with him because she likes him lol
      Watch her interview with her mother on her channel.
      Both her and her mother are strong women.

  • @mary.kedych
    @mary.kedych Рік тому +61

    I love this couple! Can listen them for ever 😅😅
    Thank you guys ao much for the interview! It's great! ❤

  • @znieszka
    @znieszka Рік тому +23

    this is a Joke right! She came from Russia a place where everyone at that time wanted to leave - all the Russian girls are taught from day one merry rich and leave Russia. All she saw was the rich American Russian she was 20 what do you think a girl likr that knows. Her mom raised her to be a wife to a rich guy!

  • @ferguzman1490
    @ferguzman1490 8 місяців тому +3

    No one in the comments is talking about how good the questions were! That’s the first step to spark a brilliant conversation. You guys were great!!

    • @moneybuyshappiness
      @moneybuyshappiness  8 місяців тому

      We appreciate that! Glad you enjoyed the chat❤️😎

  • @fruityeva
    @fruityeva 10 місяців тому +9

    My opinion: It probably is a bit concerning having children so young and so fast after dating and getting engaged. I can imagine how desperate Valeria felt at that time to have children at such a young age. But from a business perspective. Having a partner who knows about business and believes in you can be really helpful and can push you so much. Really crazy how much impact they have now.✌️ Thank you for the episode. I learned a lot about the behind the scenes of the creator economy and what it takes to get to the top. ☺️

    • @annakirshenbaum1458
      @annakirshenbaum1458 7 місяців тому

      What's wrong with having children so young? I wish I had kids at twenty. She'll be a free person at forty. At twenty, you have much more energy. You know, those nights when you party till morning and are fresh as a cucumber the next day - that crazy amount of energy wasn't given us so we could dance and drink our life away, it's so we could spend sleepless nights taking care of our kids and still function the next day. Valeria is the one who did it right.

  • @Spicytots5
    @Spicytots5 Рік тому +6

    Love this video! Just a suggestion, I think that having all guests in the same frame would be easier on the eyes than moving for each different side talking.

  • @anaisjanuary1
    @anaisjanuary1 Рік тому +82

    Thanks for the video. It had a few interesting social media business highlights, especially for people who dream of becoming influencers. Nonetheless :1. The husband is a bit too over confident and cocky (even if he plays the humble card... Badly). When he said Valeria should not be doing beauty and fashion when she will be older because of simply bering older... Damn. The market for older women influencers is just starting and omg we desperately need that. Mature and older ladies need to see people like them get dressed and being confident and beautiful not just 20 year old girls that they simply cannot relate to (anymore). Valeria is so relevant especially because she is a mother of 3 and wife and looks beautiful and has an almost normal life. But his comment on age and beauty not mixiging together speaks a lot on his view of the world... Proof being he chose and hijacked a super young wife. 2nd. Their body language during the interview. Like omg! 😂 They didn't touch hands or not even the tip of the fingers... Not only for a second. This speaks vooooolumes. Not sure what their personal relation is but damn... It does look really cold and distant and business oriented. I mean... How can any couple talk for 1h30min and not touch once! Also... Her body seemed to be closed, arms crossed, in deffense almost nonetheless her legs were open towards the guys interviewing them 😂😂😂. His body language spoke volumes too: not leaning into her, not even caressing her like litte friendly tap on her knee or shoulder. What he leaned into was the microphone and omg he was all over that microphone : he wants to showoff his wisdom and business knowledge... He wants to show off basically (and he does try hard to create a personal brand even if he says he doesn't). This man encouraged his wife and saw her potential but... I don't know, it feels a bit opportunistic from him and it almost looks like he is exploiting his wife (I exaggerate but still... The feeling is off). I hope she will still do beauty and lifestyle and mom content and maybe 2nd mariage content lol for women in their 30 then 40 then 50 and so on... and that she sees and trust more her instinct and potential.

    • @Lostintheflames12
      @Lostintheflames12 Рік тому +11

      physical touch doesn't seem to be their first love language.
      It's definitely words of affirmation, which they both speak so highly of one another, and even when they haven't been cued in the conversation. Thats a beautiful thing.
      Maybe they didn't show love in a very physically noticeable way, but I definitely heard it. This is coming from someone who really identifies with sharing love verbally when in public, over physical touch :)

    • @anaisjanuary1
      @anaisjanuary1 Рік тому +1

      @@Lostintheflames12 indeed. Maybe maybe

    • @MBlondeRebellion
      @MBlondeRebellion Рік тому +10

      @@Lostintheflames12 yeah very nice, what about the part where a 38 y/o meet a 19 year old teen and try to hook up with her? and then marry her when she just became legal and she became a mother in the speed of light at just 22 . it speaks volumens. 18 years apart is not that big when someone is 30 and the other 48, but at 19/20, my god. I just feel he was in a rush to became afather, thats why he didnt let her get a break and inpregnant her that fast. 2) so funny they talk all about success but very light tap into how much is due to him having $$$ to hire nannies, whcih is not cheap in canada. They married and right away had a condo in center, nannies, she was able to not work...... not the reality of 80% of the world population where couples even in their 30s both work fulltime, have to save up for rent or get a morage to buy house and live the kids in a kindergarden when they are months old.

    • @Lostintheflames12
      @Lostintheflames12 Рік тому +1

      @@MBlondeRebellion ... did i set them up? match make them? i'm just talking about how they seem to be showing love to one another on this podcast... any issue you have with their relationship shouldn't be directed toward me.

    • @MBlondeRebellion
      @MBlondeRebellion Рік тому

      @@Lostintheflames12 i really coudnt care less about you boo

  • @desikoleva9436
    @desikoleva9436 Рік тому +4

    She's got it all within her in order to be what she wants to be! I've always been a fan! I think they go well together and it's a good partnership because she creates and he scales it by the sounds of it. I do hope though.. that she is truly happy in her marriage because without a doubt she deserves it!

  • @adelynnleeshanlee
    @adelynnleeshanlee 4 місяці тому +1

    Omg this is the best interview I’ve watched, because I learned so so much. So much insights, learnings, and unselfish sharing. Pls do more of these! Thank you :)

  • @GoonAdventure
    @GoonAdventure Рік тому +51

    sorry for being the person who doesn't romanticize this type of relationship, I think it's a sexist stereotype, the way he talks about her as if it were a trophy for his ego....🙄

    • @lillykoller
      @lillykoller Рік тому +21

      It's so crazy !! I think she is so much smarter than him so he has to play the macho-card like she is his property. And I think he acts like an asshole and is like "yeah i am a man I am allowed to"

    • @chrysistef4514
      @chrysistef4514 Рік тому +7

      Absolutely agree. There is so much well hidden manipulation and because of Valeria’s past and unstable family situation it was easy to handle her. I also believe that Valeria , even though she is lovely, does not necessarily enjoy all the attention. I feel that she is being pushed to perform because Gary is more outgoing. And no, opposites don’t attract. Some people are better off with their own tribe.

    • @GoonAdventure
      @GoonAdventure Рік тому +3

      @@chrysistef4514 so well said

  • @BusinessFinancialNetwork
    @BusinessFinancialNetwork Рік тому +9

    BBM old school vibes more relationships nowadays start as friendships it’s authentic. #MBHpodcast rocks Gary is sharp af 🧠📈 and Valeria is talented 👏🏽

  • @Chicquette
    @Chicquette Рік тому +9

    Nice topic. Quick tip, the guests microphones were really low volume and had to listen on max, and then when you two spoke it just blasted the car speakers. Perhaps balance out the volumes a bit more?

  • @taram9401
    @taram9401 Рік тому

    this video was so amazing I'm so thankful for all the raw info!!!!

  • @appleprieto5350
    @appleprieto5350 Рік тому +1

    The longest YT video I’ve ever watched! I don’t even know these people but it’s so interesting!🎉

  • @lanaconstanti-nova6379
    @lanaconstanti-nova6379 Рік тому +8

    The thing is Lera was brought up by mom who went through Soviet times. All I wanted to say we Russians don't see it as a crime to date or marry someone 20 years older or even more in the old days. For her generation it's unusual, but I am 54 like her mom's generation. So...

  • @andrearoubalova2265
    @andrearoubalova2265 Рік тому +2

    Amazing podcast ✨ really loved that and enjoyed it a lot!
    Love from Czech republic:)

  • @Menuh2022
    @Menuh2022 Рік тому +2

    Loved this episode, keep up with amazing work🎉

  • @nourhaneelsayed7309
    @nourhaneelsayed7309 Рік тому

    I wanna thank You guys for sharing the real story and talking abt it openly it was really helpful

  • @summerbird4288
    @summerbird4288 Рік тому +2

    They’re great couple. Very down to earth, vibrant, joyous ❤

  • @Tia.K.C
    @Tia.K.C 9 місяців тому

    I wholeheartedly agree on the partnership contribution to each others success. Considering they’ve been together for 13 years they have contributed 13 years to each others success and this is key to any long lasting partnership is remembering you are all the ships: friendship, partnership, companionship, and relationship. My parents have always admitted that they make a good team in many areas, they always try to help each other out with almost every area of life, and they thank each other for that help. The representation of Valeria’s support system is obvious.
    My parents practically raised each other having gotten together at 21 😂. My sister the same, she is successful and her husband is her best cheerleader. My father is always encouraging my mom to do what makes her happy.

  • @Valencia_268
    @Valencia_268 Рік тому +5

    So funny how scared people are when hearing a raw story about relationships..Like everyone is so perfect. Guys, it’s 2023 isn’t it? Let’s let people live the way they want! I see no problems in their relationships as long as it’s ok for them.

  • @heidibedidee
    @heidibedidee Рік тому +6

    lol my husband did a very similar thing with driving me home when it was completely out of his way, back when he was pursuing me but I wasn't interested. We are married now with kids.

  • @talhacreates4944
    @talhacreates4944 Рік тому +6

    I'm subscribing, you guys are such natural hosts! Keep it up lads

  • @indoorphine
    @indoorphine Рік тому +79

    it’s sad and uneasy to watch the guys sit in front of her and laugh at the story, its clear to them what strategy Gary used. His actions were all about getting married as fast as possible, then quickly inseminating young bride before she realizes her misery. Now she grows up and becomes aware of having been groomed by an old man. as 19 year old she was not able to see or comprehend it, and now as a woman she begins to realize how disgusting the situation is. she now begins to see she bore children to an old man who used his advantage to exploit her. Her peers are free, dating, falling in love or getting married with men they find attractive, while all she’s stuck with an old baldheaded 50 something with a big belly and grey beard. we all get old, but some of us try and get old with grace, we don’t exploit very young people with unprivileged background who have nobody to protect them from very questionable tactics of old men. he was ready to have kids but she wasnt. He got her pregnant with speed of light to keep her at all cost. if you do something right you take your time, only thief has to act fast

    • @jokerblum6255
      @jokerblum6255 Рік тому +12

      I couldn’t agree with you more. It is really disgusting to watch and I feel deeply sorry for her. In the end, I think her realizations will make her move away from that marriage.

    • @zaram2806
      @zaram2806 Рік тому +8

      You worded everything so perfectly. It’s truly disgusting.
      She is so far into the “relationship” to the point where she’s trying to normalize this predatory behaviour to make herself feel better.
      Nothing about this is normal.

    • @Tantan-cn7gb
      @Tantan-cn7gb 10 місяців тому +1

      This is so true

  • @talkingtochapri
    @talkingtochapri Рік тому +14

    Wtf. It all sounds like a young immigrant girl got groomed by a predator preying on a girl who can't say No. And he was so quick to trap her and made her pregnant. A lot of old dudes do that, they mess around their whole life, and in old age, they look for a nurse with a purse 😅 Age very much matters in a relationship. Every woman deserves a young man who fulfills her needs and spends quality time with her, not an insecure grandpa 🤭 Hope she realise this bs and leaves.

    • @MNDJTM
      @MNDJTM 10 місяців тому +1

      On the other side, I think she saw a good deal and took it.

    • @zahiaiad5751
      @zahiaiad5751 10 місяців тому

      What she will gain in being with a young man who gonna ask her to go 50/50.

    • @talkingtochapri
      @talkingtochapri 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@@zahiaiad5751 do you not all young males ask for 50/50 relationships, my partner doesn't 😅 most people could never date a melting meat grandpa 🤭💀

    • @talkingtochapri
      @talkingtochapri 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@@MNDJTMMaybe, she married for alimony and child support. Because nobody is interested in elderly males their grandpa's age 😂

  • @lalaland1541
    @lalaland1541 Рік тому +2

    I been follow Valeria for 3 year already . love this ! some advice from them really benefit too

  • @maasdd
    @maasdd Рік тому +5

    such an amazing couple , thx for doing this

  • @yoncaa5228
    @yoncaa5228 Рік тому +2

    Amazing episode I loved it and I learned so much! Very Inspiring :) the whole 2 hours were so interesting to listen to! Thank you and keep up the good work :))

  • @dipendrasah4255
    @dipendrasah4255 Рік тому +3

    Let's go, another amazing episode 👏👏👏❤️

  • @vmuz3516
    @vmuz3516 Рік тому +3

    This so funny I literally met my husband at 19, I invited him over through a friend. We were taking for 2 weeks and went on a date and he purposed to me 2 months after and we got married 6 months later we both knew from the very beginning. 8 year later and I’m so grateful to build a family, we have ❤. Hard work pays off

    • @louvrebaby
      @louvrebaby Рік тому

      that’s lovely! 💗

    • @adaw332
      @adaw332 Рік тому

      How old was your husband when you were 19?

    • @vmuz3516
      @vmuz3516 Рік тому

      @@adaw332 he was 21

    • @adaw332
      @adaw332 Рік тому

      @@vmuz3516 It's important that you say it because I guarantee there are a lot of pervs her assuming you are like this girl who married an old creep, and as you are saying, that's not the case at all. It's a 2-year gap, THE NORMAL SITUATION BY FAR

    • @MBlondeRebellion
      @MBlondeRebellion Рік тому +3

      @@vmuz3516 21 and 19 sounds way more healthy and normal than a 19 y/o with a 38 y/o . god, he was starting Uni when she was being pushed out of her mom's uterous!

  • @AnjuliMack
    @AnjuliMack Рік тому +17

    WOWWWW it feels weird to be this early 😂 Excited to hear this one - 18 years clearly works for them. Congrats on the growth guys!! Smashing it, well deserved.

    • @moneybuyshappiness
      @moneybuyshappiness  Рік тому +1

      We appreciate you Anjuli! Thanks for tuning in 🤩

    • @AnjuliMack
      @AnjuliMack Рік тому +1

      @@moneybuyshappiness always supporting rocket 🚀

  • @mariposa1933
    @mariposa1933 Рік тому +3

    For you all naysayers they have an amazing relationship which is totally normal. Dysfunctional relationships are so normalized that when two people have a healthy existence (NOT A PERFECT EXISTENCE) it’s comes off as fake to people. Not okay!
    I had my crap together, am educated and owned two houses before I met my hubby who is 16 years older than me. We don’t even have shared bank accounts. We didn’t need anything from each other and we have no kids although we love them. Unfortunately my health was a problem. We are super happy, have no drama, are each others best friends and married for 10 years now. Nothing is perfect and we do have our moments, but you CAN have a successful marriage WITH a huge age gap and it has nothing to do with money. Circumstance are always different for everyone, but when you seek peace you get peace.

  • @itsrebeccaconte
    @itsrebeccaconte Рік тому +3

    I was in London when there was that meet up, It was AMAZING to meet with them, I hope they will do the same 🥰

  • @360Jelly
    @360Jelly Рік тому +5

    This was a really good interview!

  • @theechubbyone
    @theechubbyone Рік тому +94

    What she was describing is weaponized incompetence. It's actually pretty exhausting and not fair to pass off a lot of the domestic labor and maintenance to women just because. We don't like any of that stuff either.😒😒😒

  • @LyPham-zx1sx
    @LyPham-zx1sx Рік тому +11

    Gary gives you faith for finding the man of your life! That level of wisedom and understanding!

  • @ruxandrastancioiu7924
    @ruxandrastancioiu7924 Рік тому +4

    you guys are amazing hosts!

  • @jbslawnservices2165
    @jbslawnservices2165 Рік тому +7

    You guys just get better and better !

  • @sakshishetty2201
    @sakshishetty2201 Рік тому +112

    Am i the only one who thinks this marriage isn't as perfect as these two are selling it to be?

    • @KayKayshaw
      @KayKayshaw Рік тому +27

      They don’t even make it sound perfect to me…. a marriage isn’t supposed to be exactly the same, marriage to marriage. The “quality” of marriage depends on the characters of each of the spouse, y’ know?

    • @user-gg5pw8iu9d
      @user-gg5pw8iu9d Рік тому +32

      At what point are they selling it to be perfect?

    • @magnolia7321
      @magnolia7321 Рік тому +51

      Lol they are like the realest couple out there that actually doesn’t try to sell their marriage as perfect - they sell it for what it actually is: a union of two different but strong individuals that complement each other

    • @SummerBaby728
      @SummerBaby728 Рік тому +8

      Yes you are because for one, everyone knows no marriage is perfect, and two - no one is selling them as perfect especially not themselves. And three, they don’t give off any vibes of there being any kind of dark thing behind their relationship so your suspiciousness seems unfounded.

    • @kimoralee-bp4eb
      @kimoralee-bp4eb Рік тому +1

      To me they look like “showceros”

  • @user-zg1cy1ct3d
    @user-zg1cy1ct3d Рік тому +3

    The best podcast I’ve ever watched! Wow! ❤😍🔥

  • @KCrvr
    @KCrvr Рік тому +1

    Growth Mindset ❤❤❤ dope interview, thank you for arranging it :)

  • @tatianabarburasi
    @tatianabarburasi Рік тому +2

    Really enjoyed this conversation. Very insigthful. Thank you!!! and btw ... what watch are they both rocking?

    • @moneybuyshappiness
      @moneybuyshappiness  Рік тому

      Thanks for tuning in Tatiana 🤗 I believe they have matching Rolexes !

    • @GoonAdventure
      @GoonAdventure Рік тому +3

      @@moneybuyshappiness nope i think they are patek philippe

  • @anarivodeaux
    @anarivodeaux Рік тому +1

    Wow. What a great interview. Thank you guys!

  • @lgobi2273
    @lgobi2273 Рік тому +4

    Nice video!, I enjoyed to listen how this relationship was built 😊

  • @danielacorreia1566
    @danielacorreia1566 Рік тому +6

    They are so sweet together

  • @changeage
    @changeage Рік тому +2

    What a valuable video! Full of insight and knowledge. 🎉

  • @dipendrasah4255
    @dipendrasah4255 Рік тому +8

    Money in the right hands can change and make so many life happy ❤️❤️❤️❤️💯

  • @klaudiamagyar1088
    @klaudiamagyar1088 Рік тому

    I was already watching her videos in 2016. And by then she was done with the blog. Why do i remember it better?😃

  • @dipendrasah4255
    @dipendrasah4255 Рік тому +2

    Dinner was 🔥🔥🔥❤️. Saw those dinner stories 👊

  • @annadavis6630
    @annadavis6630 Рік тому +39

    this rubs me the wrong way…

  • @noname-tj3rp
    @noname-tj3rp Рік тому +40

    Seriously gross. What does an almost 40-year-old want with a literal teenager? Can't even have a proper convo, worlds are so different. Shes doesn't look like she loves him at all. I guess he was a way into an easy world

    • @juliawinter8604
      @juliawinter8604 Рік тому

      You make him older and her younger as they were😂

    • @vaportrails7943
      @vaportrails7943 День тому

      @@juliawinter860420 years old. A literal teenager. You are smaaart.

  • @mbhclips
    @mbhclips Рік тому +5

    Incredible episode!

  • @dipendrasah4255
    @dipendrasah4255 Рік тому +2

    MBH is the best🔥🔥🔥📈💯

  • @YaseenKhaliiq
    @YaseenKhaliiq Рік тому +1

    Another awesome show ! SICKKK ! 🔥

  • @flukera
    @flukera Рік тому

    The best episode! 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @sargonski
    @sargonski Рік тому +2

    Another Great Video. Keep it Up!

  • @shadyavalleizquierdo7220
    @shadyavalleizquierdo7220 Рік тому +2

    I am just find this and i love it. Love Gary and Valeria

  • @dm3923
    @dm3923 Рік тому +2

    Amazing podcast !!!

  • @Ban00
    @Ban00 Рік тому +1

    Great episode and wholesome

  • @avivitmugrabimakeup
    @avivitmugrabimakeup 9 місяців тому

    One of the most interesting Podcasts 💜

  • @itsvaivi1662
    @itsvaivi1662 Рік тому +29

    Honestly? Gross and creepy money...he is into young girls and she's into money.

    • @jazmeengood
      @jazmeengood Рік тому +3

      She is supposed to be with a bum?! Lol she is young and beautiful smart move on her part

    • @SAJENICOLE
      @SAJENICOLE Рік тому

      Hun thats natural human nature. Women want secruirty, men want to be able to procreate with their mate. Basic human nature. AND how we keep the human race going. Going back to the beginning of time, the men that couldn't hunt and kill, their families DIDNT SURVIVE. The women who couldn't have kids, that family nameDIDNT SURVIVE. lol... SO in the modern age some people don't know how to identify that this is actually VERY basic human nature. ♥

    • @zaram2806
      @zaram2806 Рік тому

      it's disgusting

  • @talkingtochapri
    @talkingtochapri Рік тому +7

    That grandpa is trying to make everything about himself 🤭💀 And no opposite doesn't attract. There is a time and a place for everything.

  • @visionboardpodcast
    @visionboardpodcast Рік тому +14

    We need Valerie and Gary on the vision board podcast!!

  • @chr1staki
    @chr1staki Рік тому +4

    Feeling the new intro 💚

  • @firelordplayz
    @firelordplayz Рік тому +35

    Summary: a pretty young girl fell for a rich old guy who could be her father. The end.

    • @lennalooor
      @lennalooor Рік тому

      Loki my life rn

    • @levismirnoff5450
      @levismirnoff5450 Рік тому

      Who has children at 18? In what low socioeconomic stratum are you? Glasshouse + stones much.

  • @evalinj3740
    @evalinj3740 Рік тому +4

    What a lucky couple🥰 love it!!

  • @Isilub
    @Isilub Рік тому +35

    - How did you know so early she’s good for you?
    - I’m old and ugly and she doesn’t know how to say no.
    What a nightmare. No matter how many millions.