There's a thing called learned helplessness, where a person believes he or she can not do something even more every time he or she sucks in that. This is what leads to giving up anything in life. The one who suck in something tends to believe things and life in general are really hard due to it. And it's a thing which is definitely not easy to deal with. Now let me make a compliment: you have such a delicious voice.
Mei, you're awesome! Of all the people I watch on UA-cam, you're the one I look forward to watching the most. You have a great mix of philosophy and creativity on your channel. You also come across as such a lovely person. What you say is right. If you end up in denial about sucking at something, the only person you end up fooling is yourself. Recognising you suck at something is the gateway to taking on the responsibility of improving. Knowing your current limits is also helpful, because you can push against them to expand them without pushing too hard and failing catastrophically.
I can relate to this so much! I’m in my first few months working in sales, which is completely new to me, and I’ve faced a lot of different challenges. TBH it’s tough! But hearing your perspective I realized that actually admitting you “Suck at something” isn’t seems like a bad thing, cuz no one is perfect and just try to be honest of something can really make you to get more experience and make progress! Thx for sharing your thoughts and that’s really trueeeeee!!😀 然后最后真的就是感觉你很像一个人生的引路人哈哈, also like a teacher (像老师！！always encouraging or pushing us to achieve our goals!! 加油吧！💪🫡😎
thank you for this! I can totally relate to saying one sentence and being quiet for 5 minutes, and a bunch of other experiences you've had too. so refreshing to see like-minded people pursue their goals and aspirations :)
Hey meiqii, just wanna share a bit. I found your videos on my yt homepage randomly, several months ago. And your thoughts in it was so interesting that it made me subscribed and watched lot of your videos after that, up until this time. In hindsight though, for youth like us, it's been kinda hard to find people who still stick boldly to their principle, or at least I wanna put it "a little braver mentally". I know it's hard to do so in this times, but there came you in this channel. You're giving this vibe of "hey, we're together fighting for our dreams." I could see the dedication and pure intention in it. And I was pretty much helped too, when I found myself in stuck moments or a bit overwhelmed with all my works, hobbies, and stuff. What you're doing, helps people to get to know themselves little by little, sustain them in hopes and dreams, and inspire them to keep working on their passion. Keep up the good work, girl. It's been touching many souls, opening many eyes, and I believe will be reaching out to more people. Time to time ;)
i’ve been dealing with trying to be a perfectionist and being disappointed when i don’t live up to that standard, so this is exactly what i needed to hear. thank you
Feels relatable. When I do something I feel like I'm already not really good at it seems much easier to work hard for it . Recently everything feels draining. I keep feeling I'm back to square one .
I really can't thank you enough for this video. This is exactly my situation rn. My half yearly exams just ended and for a fact it did not went well. Being a good student all school years this hit me hard and i felt like a failure. I acknowledge that i procrastinated i wasted time i made a hell lot of mistakes and as you said i used to daydream, i was always in a delusion that 'everything will work out I don't need to do this rn' (spoiler alert it infact DID NOT work out). Being in this 'rock bottom' i feel was necessary for me to understand the importance of things and solve my mistakes i mean this situation is what is meant for me to become a stronger and better person. I promise myself and to you that i will work hard and achieve better in my finals. ( Started watching you some time ago and randomly decided to subscribe and am happy that it was a fruitful decision byee ily 🤍.)
Stopp this is so right. I'm a high school student right now, and I've noticed that on the tests that I'm not too worried about are usually the ones that I do bad on 😭
When you talked about "That guy who hasn't picked that brush in 5 years and who's finally picking it up", that kinda uppercut me in the jaw. I'm that guy. Been drawing for more than 30 years since my early childhood, then after a massive burnout due to working in the animation industry, it's been over a decade I haven't even picked up a pencil for anything personal. To this day, my brushes are still waiting for me to pick them up ... Can you not call me out like that ^^ ?
ur old videos are shit nahhhh… girl they were freaking awesome (the words plus the experiences of yours, the value that they hold is huge plus u have acknowledged them and helping us to overcome them with ur past and present videos ❤) Living in this soo called modern age where nasty things are sugar coated for the sake of camouflaging reality with more unrealistic talks You know they is a saying that “beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder”(I heard that from my teacher 😊) no matter how good or how beautiful the things can be at the end of the day it comes this that how things perceived by the people Thank you ❤ meiqiii for this video I can replay it when I feel unmotivated
Wow, such a great video girly!! As someone who 😭 put down the paintbrush for YEARS, and recently picked it back up and feeling sucky.. It’s taught me a lot and I’m learning to have that resilience, and push through even when it’s hard. I appreciate this video and your perspective, it’s so needed in this world. Keep going 😊❤
i love your energy so much. im almost the same age as you, but im nowhere close to how positive and amazing you are. i dream to be like you one day ^w^
So I'm first...bro is so healing i have been crying since yesterday because I'm literally sick of all of this but you posted thank youu so much for the video❤
Hi meiqi I'm new here, good advice from you btw jeez you're actually so mature for people our age(I'm born in 2005) keep posting more vids like this so inspiring, btw where are you from? You're in like college or university?
bro i bet youre in my walls because ive been struggling with studying and especially maths even thoughive always been this "prodigy" or whatever but these days i felt like my ego was eating me up until today i solved my first past paper and instead of a perfect mark as usual i got barely a 89 but its just the thought of having to tell myself that i suck or that i wont be able to do as good as before after my slump that i had a few months ago, the thought itself is the struggle likei cant get myself to struggle like i should soi can achieve the goal i have but as you said almost no one knows how im going by or if im as good or not so idk what to do like how to face things without ego?
thats also a thing that on tiktok sprituality rabbit hole gets ppl, when they say theres no such thing as lack.. nd u should just automatically think youre good at/have everything already to get to a higher self STFUU not based in reality
Your dreams are yours. Theirs are theirs. Stop to compare and start to take action. Break the thing you want in small simple steps that you can achieve easily. Think on other things as a way to get what you want. Stop looking to others' success as if they are better than you, and start to look as if they can get that, you can also succeed, counting that they were born with the same capacity as yours. Learn with them what they made to get there, and follow their steps.
I’m always thankful for getting positive inspiration from all your videos! Running a channel in podcast could be another great idea that I’d like to highly recommend. Love from korea 🤍
girl woke up and chose to save lives, LITERALLY
There's a thing called learned helplessness, where a person believes he or she can not do something even more every time he or she sucks in that. This is what leads to giving up anything in life. The one who suck in something tends to believe things and life in general are really hard due to it. And it's a thing which is definitely not easy to deal with.
Now let me make a compliment: you have such a delicious voice.
"the person who put the brush away 5 years ago, but picks it up again" that's good shit
the part about having a yt channel is so true 😭
Everytime when I’m on the verge of tears , your videos find me and I can dust myself and get back up. I wish you the most happiness
rock bottom is like a glass surface, just when you think you've hit it, it shatters and you keep falling through
Mei, you're awesome! Of all the people I watch on UA-cam, you're the one I look forward to watching the most. You have a great mix of philosophy and creativity on your channel. You also come across as such a lovely person.
What you say is right. If you end up in denial about sucking at something, the only person you end up fooling is yourself. Recognising you suck at something is the gateway to taking on the responsibility of improving.
Knowing your current limits is also helpful, because you can push against them to expand them without pushing too hard and failing catastrophically.
I can relate to this so much! I’m in my first few months working in sales, which is completely new to me, and I’ve faced a lot of different challenges. TBH it’s tough! But hearing your perspective I realized that actually admitting you “Suck at something” isn’t seems like a bad thing, cuz no one is perfect and just try to be honest of something can really make you to get more experience and make progress! Thx for sharing your thoughts and that’s really trueeeeee!!😀
然后最后真的就是感觉你很像一个人生的引路人哈哈, also like a teacher (像老师！！always encouraging or pushing us to achieve our goals!!
加油吧！💪🫡😎
thank you for this! I can totally relate to saying one sentence and being quiet for 5 minutes, and a bunch of other experiences you've had too. so refreshing to see like-minded people pursue their goals and aspirations :)
We need more people like you, ur such a amazing person I can’t rn
Hey meiqii, just wanna share a bit. I found your videos on my yt homepage randomly, several months ago. And your thoughts in it was so interesting that it made me subscribed and watched lot of your videos after that, up until this time.
In hindsight though, for youth like us, it's been kinda hard to find people who still stick boldly to their principle, or at least I wanna put it "a little braver mentally". I know it's hard to do so in this times, but there came you in this channel. You're giving this vibe of "hey, we're together fighting for our dreams."
I could see the dedication and pure intention in it.
And I was pretty much helped too, when I found myself in stuck moments or a bit overwhelmed with all my works, hobbies, and stuff.
What you're doing, helps people to get to know themselves little by little, sustain them in hopes and dreams, and inspire them to keep working on their passion.
Keep up the good work, girl.
It's been touching many souls, opening many eyes, and I believe will be reaching out to more people. Time to time ;)
i’ve been dealing with trying to be a perfectionist and being disappointed when i don’t live up to that standard, so this is exactly what i needed to hear. thank you
ok why did this video actually made me want to study so hard...WHAT!!?!
Feels relatable. When I do something I feel like I'm already not really good at it seems much easier to work hard for it . Recently everything feels draining. I keep feeling I'm back to square one .
I really can't thank you enough for this video. This is exactly my situation rn. My half yearly exams just ended and for a fact it did not went well. Being a good student all school years this hit me hard and i felt like a failure. I acknowledge that i procrastinated i wasted time i made a hell lot of mistakes and as you said i used to daydream, i was always in a delusion that 'everything will work out I don't need to do this rn' (spoiler alert it infact DID NOT work out). Being in this 'rock bottom' i feel was necessary for me to understand the importance of things and solve my mistakes i mean this situation is what is meant for me to become a stronger and better person. I promise myself and to you that i will work hard and achieve better in my finals.
( Started watching you some time ago and randomly decided to subscribe and am happy that it was a fruitful decision byee ily 🤍.)
Stopp this is so right. I'm a high school student right now, and I've noticed that on the tests that I'm not too worried about are usually the ones that I do bad on 😭
When you talked about "That guy who hasn't picked that brush in 5 years and who's finally picking it up", that kinda uppercut me in the jaw. I'm that guy.
Been drawing for more than 30 years since my early childhood, then after a massive burnout due to working in the animation industry, it's been over a decade I haven't even picked up a pencil for anything personal. To this day, my brushes are still waiting for me to pick them up
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Can you not call me out like that ^^ ?
Please pick them up
ur old videos are shit nahhhh… girl they were freaking awesome (the words plus the experiences of yours, the value that they hold is huge plus u have acknowledged them and helping us to overcome them with ur past and present videos ❤)
Living in this soo called modern age where nasty things are sugar coated for the sake of camouflaging reality with more unrealistic talks
You know they is a saying that “beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder”(I heard that from my teacher 😊) no matter how good or how beautiful the things can be at the end of the day it comes this that how things perceived by the people
Thank you ❤ meiqiii for this video
I can replay it when I feel unmotivated
Thanks for the tips! Looking forward to the progress of this channel!
YEAH! If I'm at rock bottom, the only way is UP!
thank you for this, i’ve needed it.
Wow, such a great video girly!! As someone who 😭 put down the paintbrush for YEARS, and recently picked it back up and feeling sucky.. It’s taught me a lot and I’m learning to have that resilience, and push through even when it’s hard. I appreciate this video and your perspective, it’s so needed in this world. Keep going 😊❤
just pure words that i needed to hear
i love your energy so much. im almost the same age as you, but im nowhere close to how positive and amazing you are. i dream to be like you one day ^w^
her videos honestly make my day🫶🏻😭
Girl when i watched you firts you were at 1 k and nowww girll you've grown and im sooo proud of youuuu
the timing!!! 😭❤️🩹🫂
So I'm first...bro is so healing i have been crying since yesterday because I'm literally sick of all of this but you posted thank youu so much for the video❤
you don't have any social account?? TT you really feel like a good person
i love your voice
Less go 💗✨
Wow… first ilysm (>_
感觉你就像我上学时期的老师一样，不停地PUA班级里的学生
Yes I do feel like that
Im not going to even lie, it dont matter what you say, imma agree with you every single time. Im a simp i dont care
thats a toxic trait right there, watch her as a source of knowledge not dopamine
@@_draindboth can be true at the same time. flop.
Thanks
I did go to a graduation for my college
great video and analysis of tenacity
Hi meiqi I'm new here, good advice from you btw jeez you're actually so mature for people our age(I'm born in 2005) keep posting more vids like this so inspiring, btw where are you from? You're in like college or university?
I was going to class but I dropped out but I did take it before
Thanks ❤
luv the vedio
Youre so cute and give me inspiration
facts
I had a blast recording for my UA-cam channel And I had a Game Chanel
bro i bet youre in my walls because ive been struggling with studying and especially maths even thoughive always been this "prodigy" or whatever but these days i felt like my ego was eating me up until today i solved my first past paper and instead of a perfect mark as usual i got barely a 89 but its just the thought of having to tell myself that i suck or that i wont be able to do as good as before after my slump that i had a few months ago, the thought itself is the struggle likei cant get myself to struggle like i should soi can achieve the goal i have but as you said almost no one knows how im going by or if im as good or not so idk what to do like how to face things without ego?
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thats also a thing that on tiktok sprituality rabbit hole gets ppl, when they say theres no such thing as lack.. nd u should just automatically think youre good at/have everything already to get to a higher self STFUU not based in reality
wait so did you actually run a marathon 👀
Yepp😊
@@meiqiii I have been considering doing on XD
Genuine question, how do you get over watching people around you excel in your dreams?
And let’s say u have a dream n its markets oversaturated is it still possible?
change your perspective, maybe try to learn from them and you'll excel too..
@@_draind i feel u it just hits different seeing people who dont really care get results while ur dying inside
Your dreams are yours. Theirs are theirs. Stop to compare and start to take action. Break the thing you want in small simple steps that you can achieve easily. Think on other things as a way to get what you want. Stop looking to others' success as if they are better than you, and start to look as if they can get that, you can also succeed, counting that they were born with the same capacity as yours. Learn with them what they made to get there, and follow their steps.
I’m always thankful for getting positive inspiration from all your videos! Running a channel in podcast could be another great idea that I’d like to highly recommend. Love from korea 🤍