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I feel like the good thing about the internet has always been that you can share your thoughts with other people and get messages across easily and quickly, but these days people are really overusing it to share such unimportant and trivial content just for views, to the point it makes you forget why you're even using it in the first place. Anyway, I always love your videos!

I can truly relate i have always a crumbling feeling to justifying myself

16 year old here, never had a girlfriend and because Im used to it at this point, I like being single. No bs, I dont need to pay for food every week at very good resturants on dates, i dont need to hear constant whinning, I dont need to share a bed, I dont need to live up to any girls expectations. I don't need to constantly be texting her, I dont need to be a simp, Im really liking this. Strong alone, die alone. Thats my motto about dating. I dont need women just as much as women dont need me. Women can go date a bear, I dont care. But lets say I did still have interest in getting a girlfriend, what kind of girlfriend would I get? An asian one.

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So relatable. I feel like it is very possible for me to have crushes(had one in 7th grade,finally got over them in 11th) but I haven't liked anyone since then. I'm a Senior now and the closest I've had to a relationship was fake ones on Snapchat and most of them were creeps.

really insightdul video!!! i would like to add though for anyone who's seeking for a higher purpose for existence, look into religion, in Islam, its mentioned in the quran that our purpose and the reason for our existence is solely to worship Allah(SWT) and with that (being a muslim), you will inherently shape your life to the ways and teachings of the Quran and our prophet(SAW) and you'll find that life's a lot easier and much more meaningful truly and you'll find comfort and certainty through believing and knowing for a fact that you have a higher purpose which is to attain heaven and worship Allah

I want to change my mentality of needing to prove my existence. I felt like that for a long time, but I couldn't really grasp what it was. I didn't realize it until I went through a lot of suffering because I was born with a chronic illness called COPD. I felt like a burden whenever I got really sick and had to be hospitalized. My family loves me, and they sacrificed their time and energy to take care of me. I didn't want to disappoint them and make them feel sad. I try my best to take care of my health, but sometimes I feel like it's too overwhelming and painful for me. I wished that I wasn't born at one point. However, I'm learning to change that toxic mentality because I believe in God, and He created me for a purpose that I don't know the reason yet. I have faith in God because He sees the whole picture, and He has a plan for me that is good. Thank you for making this video Meiqii. You are so wise and thoughtful.😊❤ To whoever who is reading this, God loves you! You are not alone and He is with you if you allow your heart to be open and pray to Him. God sent His only son, Jesus to die on the cross for our sins. If you accept Jesus as your savior and friend, He will save you when He comes back at the end of times and you will live in His eternal kingdom, Heaven. Also, He will overflow you with blessings and give you the peace and hope that this world cannot give you. I hope this message reaches your heart and that you think about it. If you are interested in reading the Bible, I suggest you read the gospel, which is Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. It is about the life of Jesus written by His disciples from their perspectives.🙏📖 May God bless you and be with you.❤ Psalms 139:14 NKJV [14] I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well. Psalms 55:22 NKJV [22] Cast your burden on the Lord, And He shall sustain you; He shall never permit the righteous to be moved. Romans 8:18 NKJV [18] For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.

Looks are objective and the beauty premium in our careers & romantic life are well researched (height & race as well). But funnily enough, it’s men who are penalized with a seggIess Iife if they don’t Iook the par. I find it so funny the Iengths vvomen go through to Iook better🤣

most of us, asian kids have this problem

If my kids won't live for Love, what will they Live for? ua-cam.com/video/6C0QS3IDyP8/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared

You answered your own question, you're over thinking things. Write down your worries and thoughts and cut the useless ones out. Figure out your goals and relationship goals and find a dude that shares them. Importantly find out your boundaries with intimacy and write it down. What character traits in a man do you value most (kindness, hard work etc). Stick to these. You may have to be friends with a guy first so meet guys at places where the good ones are: 1. University organizations 2. Church 3. Volunteering 4. School clubs Etc etc. Don't think you need to sacrifice goals for a man... find a man that is ambitious and appreciates your ambition too. And stop over thinking. Write it all down when you are

Now is also a good time to share that i have recently started making YT videos and be great if people could support ☺ I should be uploading one in the next day or so, as well as (hopefully) getting more regular 💛

It's really great that I've just seen this video because it's reminded me of an even subtle internal dialogue/subconscious belief I have that in some way or another which believes that I have to suffer or be drained intensely in some way to feel joy (And like you said in this video to be worthy of my own existence.) I'm currently looking more into where it's actually come from; And I think a lot of it is people sending me messages either implicitly or explicitly that I am too quiet, slow or introspective etc. I'm someone who has these personality traits and generally love to go at my own pace but a major theme throughout my life has been comparing myself to other people my age who seem to race through life effortlessly eg Mastering loads of music instruments, having strong friend groups, constantly having plans and more recently somehow being able to find a job after degree and going from one relationship to the next etc. However, through awareness of these things I give much less of a fuck about it now and a lot of me going at my own pace has led to things aligning in my life which feel true to me and my values ☺ It all works out ❤

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Feeling lost and uncertain about my path, I find myself grappling with the question of how to truly embrace life again. It’s as if I’m wandering through a fog, unsure of the direction I should take.

Soooo relatable😣…….. soo grateful for having u in my life thank you meiqiii ❤

i have few frnds who are middle child and as an elder daughter i can understand the feeling of being a burden and having to be perfect in everything

I relate a lot to the father caring about education and changing his family life that exactly what i felt as well where if im not doing enough then im spoiled ungrateful brat . If im asking for money then im ungrateful brat if i do want anything for myself im ungrateful brat 😂😂 if anything i became too of a grateful humble brat but yeah i dont feel my accomplishments. And I didn’t have ambition to be honest i just wanted to finish uni as a thank you message to my father for everything he did to me and support he gave me so then i can take control of my life and do whatever i want go out try life do mistakes without feeling guilty. Thank you so much for sharing this it reminded me that all i wanted was freedom .

suffering is a complicated virtue

I'd say both extremes (the perfectionnist "I'm gonna do it all, never enough", and the "I'm content with what I have, why more ?") are not ideal, and a balanced life lies somewhere inbetween. It's like a spectrum. To each their own, so the secret of a happy life is to see where you sit in this spectrum. Do you enjoy mostly accomplishing new things and leave everything done in the dust ? Or do you still need to stop by sometimes to smell the roses, and actually enjoy and celebrate what you've just accomplished before taking on the next step ? Or do you just enjoy the roses and don't want to leave the flower field ? As an indie animation short film director, when I was a student at my art uni, each student had to go through the living hell that was the production of our own animation short, one for each student. And for 5 to 8 months (for me, at least), it was no seeing my friends, no love life, no sleep (before 4am), only drawing, thinking, preparing our storyboards, then animating/coloring/BG drawing/compositing/editing non-stop until the end of the year. And when we actually managed to cross the line at the end, it was one week of blissful party at Annecy's International animation film festival (basically the Cannes festival of animation), where we got to celebrate our year long hell, straight into one week of paradise, and share our hard work with the rest of the world's animation students & pros. It was absolute bliss. And having done it for 7 years in a row made me cherish this period in my life, and imprinted the preciousness of rewarding yourself with something big after a big long effort.

If we're too strict on our discipline, we end up forgetting why we want to have discipline in the first place. The reason we make to-do-lists and want to have discipline is not in order to be productive but in order to carve out more time to do what we love. When we lose sight of this our to-do-lists become meaningless lists of chores. Btw. watching your videos has really inspired me to start considering starting my own UA-cam channel. So thanks for that!

GIRL WTF, i saw this on my recommended and how the hell does youtube know my life??? And girl i love your video soooo much❤

Nice girl ❤❤❤ Thanks for sharing.

Thank you girl…you gave my childhood self back to me who was unafraid and unbothered of doing stuffs that she liked.😂

Thank you 😊

i wish i had some expectations and pressure to achieve put on me when i was younger. when it feels like no one will notice or care whether you achieve anything it's hard to see any point in investing effort into anything.

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I'm literally suffering from the same thing I feel like I'm a burden I feel like I never do enough I'm in a constant chase never looking back and celebrating what I already achieved Thanks for video I feel better now ❤

Thank you for this video, I wish you all the best in life :")

Justify deez nuts. I am here for the party. Everything else can get tossed.

When you mentioned that you loved drawing but that perfectionism made you dread the things you enjoyed, I was like damnnn that's exactly how I feel. One day, when I was 12, I randomly decided "you know what? I want to be able to draw" and I spent every hour of every day of that summers vacation just drawing in my room and I got pretty good pretty fast. And then I went back to school and now I knew how to draw, so everyone was like oh daaaamnn you're so good at drawing, you're so talented and all that. That's when something switched in my mind and what started as something I just wanted to learn and I enjoyed doing, became some "I was good at" and now there was this expectation of me being good. And that's weirdly paralyzing. For instance, I stopped enjoying practicing because when you're practicing something you're really bad at (let's say, hands) you start by drawing terrible drawings. And I absolutely hated seeing those terrible drawings. "Why are these drawings so bad if I'm supposed to be good at drawing? maybe I'm not even good?" and slowly, over time, that worm of perfectionism in my brain started eating away any motivation, and my passion for drawing just vanished. I started thinking "why draw, if it's just gonna look bad anyway? there's no point in drawing something that looks like shit..." This goes hand in hand with having to justify your existence because in a way I had to justify the existence of those drawings you know? and only a few years ago I was finally able to be like "yeah, the drawings are going to look bad, yes I'm not that good at drawing actually, so what??" I needed to give myself permission to make bad drawings, just for the sake of it. I started drawing just to draw, not the intention to make good drawings. And that's when I started enjoying drawing again. There's still some days when I draw something and it looks bad in just the right way that it fires off that side of my brain that goes "well I suck, I should just stop" and it takes a few days, sometimes weeks to get over that thought again, but I'm still trying and figuring out how to deal with it as I go. At least now it takes a few weeks and not years like it did once. I relate so much with that idea of having to justify your existence, in so many ways. I have an older brother and our family house only has two bedrooms so we share the room and sometimes I get that feeling of not having a space for myself, like there isn't space in the world for me to be, I'm taking up space that was previously someone else's. That kind of stuff messes up with your head in so many ways, it's a thought that reaches every single instance of your life, and crawls out in the most unexpected of ways, even with things that you might think have nothing to do with it. It's something I struggle with to this day and watching this video felt so comfy because at least I'm not the only one (being the second child when there was a one-child policy is crazy, if it was me I'm sure my mind would've gone to the same dark places yours did). And that comment about not being able to enjoy drawing struck something in my heart, idk, made me want to write this long ass comment. I've watched your videos for months and your videos have been a great source of strength and wisdom these past few months but I had never written a comment, so since this is my first one I just wanted to say, thanks, your videos are great and it makes me so happy every time I get a notification haha

I am convinced by the fact that not everyone is like Meiqiii, and more people should be like her.

I always get so excited when you post 😭🫶🏼

So pretty...❤🤍

Hi I,’m 16years old girl and your videos are helping me a lot thank u so much you’re my favorite youtuber

To be honest, in some way, you are also benefiting from Pretty Village because I have seen many UA-camrs who make similar content to you if not better, but they are not as attractive as you, so they don't have many subscribers on the other hand. You probably have less video than them, even though you make great videos and they help others But still, I think we all should accept that pretty privilege exists and many people benefit from that, even though it's nothing to be ashamed of, instead, it is an extra advantage for people

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I exit all friendships or alliances and enter into humanity. I do not confirm anyone's biases. Any and all assumptions and accusations will not be believed, befriended, tended, trusted.

the thing I'm struggling with is that I don't have anything to say, it's frustrating that it's the others who always wants to try talking to me and it upsets me how they don't understand I have nothing to say to them nor how to keep a topic with them going

Everyone has a soulmate. Taking anyone's soulmate is a crime against humanity, and being taken by any other than one's soulmate causes agony, not tranquility. Rest comes from remembering The Truth alone. The luxuries (I don't desire it) do not make anyone happy even after watching it in a VR headset or dreaming everything possible in the world, and intuition is able to relate the smell, tastes and texture of any food without even having tried it *in a picture* by pattern matching with existing patterns acquired from childhood, meaning happiness comes from oneself. No one is able to make anyone happy except deceivers are lying to them. All men value trust over beauty, without trust no matter how beautiful, the beauty is perceived as ugly; like a girl being mean to another girl, and the girl being mistreated by meanness considers the girl being mean as ugly, because the girl doesn't trust the mean girl. It's easy to find one's soulmate by intuition, the pattern recognition system, because soulmates have the same intuition, but they don't have the same intuition if they remain in friendships and alliances, and must enter humanity, meaning, do not trust anyone to activate intuition to find one's soulmate, so intuition is forced to pattern to find one's soulmate for having no remaining connection with anyone, and the only connection remaining is one's soulmate. Humans are not animals, they don't eat their own kind like zombies. I exit all friendships or alliances and enter into humanity. I do not confirm anyone's biases. Any and all assumptions and accusations will not be believed, befriended, tended, trusted.

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Bro wtf you're still a child talking like you've spent a lifetime alone

That's cool and all but realistically the world continue being superficial regardless of how you may feel it is or how it should be No disrespect but thimk about it, would you still view the world the same way had you not been borm with above average looks? Welp

I woukd like to suggest some video ideas. • How to find the perfect balance between social norms and individualism. Im conflicted mostly on what is the best/correct way to choose Am I being too selfish or Am I giving away my freedom. What even is good ? •Something on the lines of existentialism and finding meaning/purpose in life.

I feel like you understand me so well 😔

Life is so amazing without social media honestly

Your videos are so magical

Speaking facts queen