Don’t forget part 1 of the “mean girls of fat acceptance” 🍩 ua-cam.com/video/GOYkpegqu0A/v-deo.htmlsi=L09CT6-FLK-nYX0e Part 1.5 of the mean girls of fat acceptance (which got demonitized 💔) 🍩 ua-cam.com/video/lO6Lqr-5yDU/v-deo.htmlsi=WXICngleUN2gln1a ♥️And check out rosie! ♥️youtube.com/@quirkyloverosee?si=SkOTJe1eq8KpC25h
As a former fatty and current thin mint, fat acceptance is hurting us. It's no different than a group of alcoholics meeting each night at a bar to drink together. "I don't have a problem, everyone I know drinks this much." If one of those alcoholic stops drinking do you think their "friends' would check in on them or cheer them on? No! Because their "friendship" was never based on genuine connection, their "friendship" was a product of the substance they all abuse together. If one person gets help everyone else is confronted with the fact they might have a problem and we can't have that in fat acceptance.🍩🙉🙈
As a functioning alcoholic. Yea i would not surround myself with people like that. I want to be healthy. I already am delusional due to my mental health issues 😂😂😂 i got that part down pack 😂😂😂
Agreed. For a brief moment I saw fat positivity everywhere and I started to beleive it and I just ate and then it was bad because I'd be craving all the time, I found it more difficult to move around and the final straw was when my thighs began to rub together and it took longer to wipe my behind 😅 I was like, it must be BS that they are happier, im not happier, I was craving food constantly! I'm glad I'm getting healthy again now. I have more energy now though I'm still overweight I've gained muscle and lost fat
@@petunia7623 It depends like the FLDS, Warren Jeffs took an elderly, frail man off his medications and sent him away. He wasn't the best person in the world, but he had the genuine respect and trust of the members, whereas Warren only had fear. He got a full on dramatic, martyr style funeral when he died alone a few months later, although family members who had left weren't allowed to attend.
@@iknowyouwanttofly The woman was bedridden when they got together, she died at 1000lbs or so. There's one thing falling for someone who's disabled and needs a lot of care, there's another actively seeking someone to fulfil your fetish, posting fetish shit everywhere with them and literally feeding them to death. Of course most people who are disabled didn't make themselves that way, FAs did
I don’t think ALR is a good or even decent person but I just see someone who has a lot of childhood trauma in her. She really has a-lot of demons and it’s unfortunate she hasn’t gotten the help to deal with them. She has the resources to.
Listening to her story makes my heart drop - her mom wasn’t the mom she needed her to be - not letting your child go outside? Encouraging sitting in front of tv all day? And then the abuse and hurt. I hope her life takes a turn for the better genuinely
See, I would understand more if her mom was in a situation like we are. We don't allow our toddler outside because we live on a major road where cars go 45-65mph, where people allow dogs to raom around unleashed, and where our meth addicted neighbor throws her needles willy nilly and has a cat hoarding problem that's resulted in 16 unvaxed mean af cats wandering between my house and her house. They are under no circumstances allowed outside. Now, when we leave town to see my parents or his parents, both our 2½ and 4mo olds are outside a majority of the time. My dream is to get my family out of this nightmare of a house and into a bigger home with a lot of property (something very attainable in the south). The only thing stopping us is interest rates and rising home prices. The second those rates drop below 5%, were packing our shit, selling, and moving. I HATE this deathtrap.
But I want to add this: despite being stuck inside, we go out to the parks, rivers, and lake all the time with them. Plus, we dont allow our children to eat junk 24/7. Because of how we've fed them, our 2 year old has no interest in candies or sweets. She won't throw a tantrum after seeing a hersey bar or sucker. She eats a better diet than most adults. I'm gonna be doing the same thing with our second daughter starting next month. I'm very proud of my girls. They aren't picky and aren't behind cognitively like many toddlers nowadays are. I worked really hard with my 2yo and my 4mo old will be learning the same way and experiencing the same things as her sister. Where we live is our only caveat, but eventually even that won't hold them back. It's all about how you interact with your kids and work around the issues or boundaries your family may face.
@@lunaballunabad parents don’t even think or worry about if their child is getting out or playing enough. you’re doing great, i’m sure you’re kids are happy and loved as long as their mother worries about them
I always thought "fat" was more derogatory than "obese" because obese is just a medical term while fat is subjective and usually used in a derogatory way 💀 it's like being offended because your doctor called you underweight
So accepting that they need to tell everyone how a person who chose to get healthier thinks they're [insert some really horrible stuff] when that's actually not the case at all.
Michelle, discovering your channel changed my life! I was deep into fat acceptance/body positivity and I was 220 lbs (I'm 4'10" so... yeah i looked like a piglet) and if said that being fat had its perks and i felt self-conscious to do certain things... people would call me "fatphobic" and "bigot" Then last month I stopped talking to these people, started gym, eating healthy... I'm 15 lbs down and even my skin is looking better
Oh how this one hits so hard right now, me and my partner kicked ourselves out as staff cause we just spoke the truth and my best friend since childhood, got so triggered, went online and directly indirectly jabbed us, just cause we called them out on their toxic behavior. We were so close, now we're avoiding them cause the true colors finally showed when you call them out lol, sorry if that was confusing
I love how when you are fat, but not super morbidly obese they don't think you're fat at all. Because they all got so used to being humongous they don't realize that they are beyond fat. The "Standard sized" fat people are still fat.
I used to think that fat acceptance was a body positive movement for overweight people, that not everyone has to be a gym rat, having a belly or double chin is human etc. It wasn't until i saw this tiktok video of a girl saying that XXL is not plus sized that i realized there's a very specific demographic that they're "accepting" ie morbidly obese people
this is true, I run a size 18/20 store depending and I've been called skinny, and I'm like no, I'm still fat- i know this, I'm just not the type of fat they think I should be to be called fat... I don't understand the mental gymnastics, then I see those clips and realize these people haven't matured beyond high school.
Its even leeching into daily life, not just internet. I have had a mindset similar to that as a “standard fat” person and i have grown to learn that my weoght no matter how u look at it is hurting me and will absolutely cause issues later in life. Even my partner says sometimes that “ur not THAT fat” but in comparison to what/who? My bmi is way too high and it hurts to breathe when i let go fully… id say thats catalyst to change. It was for me…
Honestly, it's great that she genuinely apologized for her actions and supporting this movement. It's difficult to pull out even an insincere apology from perpetual victims, so for her to not only see the error of her ways, but to apologize is a big positive. ❤️❤️
The bravery needed for that public apology in this day and age is just unbelievable. She made me have a little more hope for humanity! I sincerely hope she finds healing and lives the best life.
I've been "midsize" according to the "fat spectrum," and yet I was 120lbs overweight at my peak. Gross. Giving labels and "ranks" for "fatness" is absolutely disgusting.
That's crazy. And I remember that a few of them even shame you for not being fat ebough Btw I wonder where muscular people fall on the "fat spectrum" lol.
SO much respect for Rosie! The humility, self-awareness, willingness to apologize for her former mean-girl behavior… She inspires me. Also, her face is naturally so much prettier than Tess Holiday’s.
I think being humble just makes people look prettier I don’t think they look too different but the negative experience people have with Tess makes them reject her entire being
I was scrolling through this comment or something like it, when she went to flex I had to rewind it a couple times because holy cow her arms are insane in such a good way
It’s “my body, my choice”…until that choice is to lose weight, go to the gym and stop being fat 💀 The truth is that all if this is just so they feel less insecure about the fact that they couldn’t lose weight.
Correction: They were insecure because they were too lazy to take the steps and make the right choices to lose the weight. - They are more than able to, they're just lazy.
As someone who escaped that "Adult" community and content.....it was when I got to 498lbs and started seeing the guys into feeding someone to the point of no longer living that I escaped it by fleeing on a red eye flight from my ex husband who made me do it to pay for his video games......it is a terrifying community....please please please never get into this
Your abhorrence to mouth sounds/chewing/slurping makes me feel so incredibly validated, thank you. And thank you SO MUCH for muting those sounds when showing clips in your videos. I will never understand how people can enjoy watching/listening to that kind of content. It makes me want to rip my hair out.
as a misophonia sufferer, I think we have a sort of anti-ASMR response, so it's like living on the opposite end of the spectrum. it is wild to imagine people enjoy those noises when they make you and I feel fight or flight like a mfer lolol
@@peachy_lilithis!! so many ASMR sounds that is supposed to be relaxing drive me up a wall, can’t stand it at all! Chewing noises is the worst of the worst!!!
@@aaaccc7173 Same! I'll never understand the ASMR mouth sound mentality. I want to scream and change the channel or turn the volume off. I can't stand those dreadful eating and mouth noises.
26:37 is me! I’ve been a subscriber for so long and I never thought I’d see myself on one of these videos 😂 that clip is from a tiktok I made in 2021 when I was dealing with low self esteem and seeing girls with my body type made me feel better. Love your content, but that definitely caught me off guard! 😅
Not me crying rn. The opening skit had me scream laughing! I’ve gone through so much growth and change, and I’ve really been struggling with my mindset in recent history. The timing of this video in my life I think is very much for a reason, because I feel a new found sense of motivation I have not felt for a couple months. Growth, change, choosing health is really really hard for me. Thank you for making this video and working with me. I really appreciate you Michelle and I really appreciate the time I’ve gotten to know you. Thank you 🩵🩵🩵
Your photo as a kid reminds me so much of myself. Thank you for being brave and transparent, Rosie. Seeing other survivor success stories inspires me a lot personally.
These videos are always so sad to watch. I understand the need for feeling accepted but essentially killing yourself for that acceptance isn't worth it.
people like these, usually want mememe, but they will put 0 work on anything. i have 0 sympathy, its decision made and real education is there and seen/experienced everyday. Its not unrealistic to be healthy, it takes discipline.. which nobody wants to put the struggle in.
I think a lot of it stems from trauma with bullying. I never had problems with my weight growing up, but I was picked on mercilessly for being "ugly" (I had friends, but they were also bullied) or having "dirty skin" (my skin is brown). I imagine for some fat activists, fat acceptance is the first time in their life they have been accepted (seemingly) without conditions beyond just being themselves. It's no wonder they'd cling to it. Doesn't justify their behavior, but it makes it understandable.
Why the HECK are UA-camrs allowed to say erectile disfunction but not eating disorder!?! Both medical conditions, both probably triggering or whatever. That's DAMN stupid. Also not being alert to swear is lame
Erectile disfuntion is not a social contagion and there aren't group of men sharing content and encouraging each others decisions. It also isn't fatal.
@@KFrost-fx7dt What I don't understand is the favor for BED but will strike any ANA related things. Just someone talking about their experience has so much hate in the comment sections saying things like, "Why are you romanticizing it? (they're not) This could have a bad effect on children who come across this video." But not for videos with BED?
Because one is essentially nature making fun of men and these assholes find that hilarious. But oh no, the moment that a disorder that is often conflated with us girls, gotta slap that shit down with the fire of Satan.
Girl when I tell you these videos are helping me lock in on weight loss, I have PCOS so it's tough but I'm taking baby steps and I'm already like feeling a difference/seeing a difference in my eating patterns , I'm proud of myself ;)
ABSOLUTELY, I was obese and is from a family with generational obesity problem (they don’t think so), when I started losing a lot of weight, they started catering to me by cooking and buying what food they find appealing as to tempt me to overeat or something (thank God I don’t like the same food), when I decline them, they get ANGRY. One of my fat aunt admitted when she saw my weightloss that she cooks pancakes for me to make me gain weight intentionally and that she will do it again.
@@athena_cr my moms adopted family was like that. They refused to respect we were part east asian. So naturally we are tiny. Because to them “blk dad = you are literally just blk because lets be delusional and uphold one drop rule”. They would FORCE me to eat. It gave me body dysmorphia especially when you consider i grew up in USA and being a bw and petite is NOT attractive
@@Quirkyloverosee All the best to you in your journey. I know that word is sometimes overused, but you've overcome so much and you still have a bright future ahead. Excited for you!
I've been fat, I've been thin, now I am at a weight that is normal for my age and height. Do I crave fried chicken and ice cream and chips and dip and pie? Oh yeah!! There are some foods I can still enjoy in moderation, but others I know to stay away from because I will binge myself silly. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be healthier.
Oh me too . And I love to cook , for me it's therapy . I eat what I want now. I mean I have no forbidden foods. But I remind myself this isn't the last apple pie I will ever eat. I can have a slice not the whole pie .
@suzycue9087 I don't think I was personally addicted. I know some are. I think I just ate my feelings . I was comforted by food. I learned to work through my feelings. My first inclination when I'm sad or angry was to eat and once I started I didn't stop. As I said it was a 2 year process for me. I don't think there is one answer for every. I was an emotional eater .
It sounds like, in addition to trauma, she was an incredibly smart girl suffocated by Mormon parents and was probably b o r e d as shit. It's not a wonder she developed an addiction, especially to food, because food was probably the only thing they actually let her have access to.
For a moment I thought you meant "Being fat at a job" and I was like, yes it sure does. It affects how your co-workers treat you and it can make it physically and mentally painful to get through the work day. These people who get paid to eat probably can't work outside the home anyway
Right, like I’m just a bit overweight with a gut and it feels bad enough that I’m trying to get rid of it, can’t imagine how terrible being morbidly obese must feel…
I think a big part of the problem is that they refuse to accept that healing your relationship with food doesn't equate to eating whatever you want all the time. Giving any thought or planning or, god forbid, restriction to your food choices is automatically "disordered" to them, because of THEIR unhealed relationship with food. The projection in the HAAS community has always been off the charts though, I guess that's nothing new. Good on Rosie for breaking free and offering apologies, that takes guts 💜
It’s so bizarre. They’re absolutely just trying to find a reason to continue eating too much garbage food. It’s absolutely an addiction problem. They seem to equate just eating vegetables or fish with a punishment. If they would take just a bit of time to learn how to cook, they could have delicious food and feel so much better. Fried food and desserts are certainly tasty, but haven’t they noticed how gross they feel afterwards? I’ve been overweight for a long time and have fluctuated over the years, but apparently I’m just a ‘small fat’, so they wouldn’t listen to my wise advice anyway. I just want to go from a size 18 back to a 14 this year. I do try to eat real food, but if I’ve allowed myself to overindulge a bit, my jeans tell me if I have gone too far and I’m more careful for a few days until they’re loose again. I just very rarely even buy food that’s too problematic for me. Every few months I will get some Cheetos, but I know it’s a special treat, because I’ve been very focused on NOT GAINING! I suspect that they’re all wearing elastic pants and refuse to use a scale. They’re just lying to themselves and they’re going to end up in an early grave. I went from a size 24 back to a 14 in my late 20’s. I’m 54 now and I don’t think I would be alive today if I hadn’t have done that. She really is impressive. I’m so glad she escaped that ‘community’.
It's an easy way out. Healing your relationship with food has something to do with limiting or wrong beliefs about food. Esp extreme beliefs like so and so veggies have this, and cause this, etc. Ya know? CBT might help and Acceptance Therapy, as examples I believe.
That really is harmful when I was overweight I thought my relationship with food was fine because I'd eat whatever I wanted and food restrictions reminded me of people dealing with restrictive eating disorders but my relationship with food was literally not fine I was overeating someone with a healthy relationship with food actually listens to their body they don't eat for the sake of eating
The problem with the HAAS (Health At Any Size) movement is they don’t really believe it - they have a very narrow definition of ‘any’. It, only includes people who are clinically obese - that is a medical term with a defined BMI/hip-waist ratio. Shaming people who want to be a lower weight for any reason is not health at ANY size, it’s health at oversized. And their definition of health is not great. I’m saying this as someone who has been classed as morbidly obese and has worked very hard to lose it for health reasons to reduce the risk of my cancer returning.
I'm black and I still don't understand how the fat acceptance community or obesity is equated to blackness. Admittedly, I am a "thin" and the smallest/lightest in my family but no one is obese or unhealthily overweight (including extended members, i.e. cousins, in-laws, grandparents/-aunts, etc.) I'm also 40 and none of the black people I know are obese; family, friends or otherwise. I'm so confused!
They want to co-opt something you cant change to justify bad behaviour. It one thing to champion the more curvy or muscular genetics of SOME African ethnic groups. But no human body type is obese unless you have a serious RARE illness.
Black people are among the highest percentage of obese people in the United States. But some of that is due to not living near a grocery store and living in areas that are considered a food desert. In addition, to not having the finances to afford quality foods.
It's crazy how they refer to themselves as " existing in a ' bigger ' body " as if that body just HAPPENED to them. Opposed to them cultivating that ' bigger body ' by way of their lifestyle habits. They've perfected victimization.
Yeah it's so weird. The first time I heard that I thought it was about someone like me. I'm a naturally "big" girl as in im tall have big breasts, hips and wide shoulders you know things that you actually can't control. Not your fat percentage.
Yes. Like I sympathise that it's hard to lose weight especially when you were never though to eat right but the solution is not to just give up and convince yourself your health no matter what.
As a 5 foot nothing chick who's now 271 (lost 10lbs) I can safely say, "I'm OBESE!!!!" Being obese is not cute, diabetes is not cute, not being able to breathe properly isn't cute, not being able to walk up a flight of stairs without being out of breathe isn't cute.
Keep going you're doing great. I was 271 now 248 and determined to get to 150 in a year. We've got this. I'm sick of abusing my body in order to comfort my empty feelings with food. There is no joy in being obese only more emotional and physical pain. Best of luck to you.
15:28 that's her stomach??? Wtf !! I first thought it's a TABLE - which she has kept the cake on. Then I saw it moving so I reversed a couple seconds. WTF!!!
While I'm sympathetic to obese people struggles (feelings of isolation, not being comfortable in any of your clothes, limited dating pool) I don't understand the rage at those that seek to change that. I'm 5'9" and I used to weigh 235 at my heaviest. I am 185 now and looking to lose another 15-20lbs. I can honestly say that I love the way that my smaller body can move, and how my muscles warm when I run or lift weights. I wish I could meet these angry people, just to try and show them how much better life can be when you get to a healthy bmi.
That's very kind of you but you'd most likely enrage them more by showing them it's possible. One person's inspiration is another insecure person's failure.
They are raging, because they want what you have, just without putting in the work. So they try to take you down, so you're as miserable as them. Typical bully behavior
Why is YT protecting abusers by censoring words of abuse?!? Victims are suvivors, we need to give them the attention and love they deserve! The abusers can go to jail to hopefully rebilitate in life, but the victims, their stories need to be spread and met with love and support! F YT policies!
they do it in order to "prevent" abusers from spreading abuse as if a defining point of abusers isn't their talent for being so subtle one doesn't realize they are being abused until they are stuck 😒 but as an ultimate abuser, UA-cam knows how to hide the fact they don't give a f*ck about causing harm for personal profit by hiding behind useless actions like censoring "bad" words regardless of the context they are used in 🙄
I don't think that's what UA-cam is doing. They don't want people to profit off of certain topics so they won't monetize and have ads for. But this also leads to these videos being lower on the algorithm. It's capitalism having unfortunate consequences not design
I think health problems such as obesity and anorexia nervosa should be screamed to the top of our lungs to bring people's attention to it. Same with words such as suicide and rape. If you hide it people don't pay attention to it or treat it with the serious regard that these issues need. UA-cam should not be only about entertainment.
They promote those who promote living the words they ban. It's insane. You can't talk about starving yourself, the A word, but you can watch Eugene Coonie brag about doing it and putting herself on display as a horror sideshow. And UA-cam pays her for it.
Major respect to people that can completely turn their lives around for the better. Losing weight isn't easy when you're that size and also battling food addiction, the inevitable plateau. I've always been underweight so I've had the opposite problem but I know its hard. Major respect to people that stick at it
That motivation 😮😮😮 I truly admire your motivation, I'm in a place right now where I can't find the motivation to use dental floss and I knly brush these past few weeks 😂😂 I wish I had your motivation, keep up the great work 🎉🎉
4 years ago I was 530lbs, when I was younger I almost fell down the hole of Fat Acceptance....Almost... However, after having 2 kids I wanted to live. I wanted to be able to keep up with my kids, go out with my husband, and hike (I fucking love hiking!), and just live life. I didn't want my family, who's already lost many members to addiction to suffer losing me also. Even my own mom passed away when she was 49 due to years of abusing her body to addiction, and I did NOT want my own kids to feel the heart ache that I went through of losing their mom so early if I could help it. In 2022 I had enough, Ive lost 330lbs give or take and atm I'm 200lbs. I workout 4-5 days a week, and I'm always moving (mostly because I have a 1yo and a 4yo) lol they keep me going. If I would of fallen down that hole of Fat acceptance, I do believe I would be long gone by now. They need to call it what it really is, Death Acceptance, Giving up Acceptance. Anyway, Love you Michelle! ♥
When you talked about having a unique body type and a lot of clothes not fitting you quite right-it’s so true. I’ve been on a weight loss journey for the past 6 months (down 30 with a GW of 145) and even at my lowest, I still had a heck of a time finding clothes that fit me. At 5’4” with wide hips, a small waist, and normal-sized shoulders, this is forever a struggle lol. I wouldn’t change my body’s natural shape for anything though. But the extra weight just makes it harder to move and I love hiking and being active. And since being on a weight loss journey, this has gotten so much easier! Anyway, love yours and obesetobeast’s content. They are super motivating to me!
Same here! Its like your plus size but other parts of your body isn’t so shopping for clothes has always been a struggle for me since I was a teen because my waist is three sizes smaller than my hips/thighs/butt. But losing weight makes a huge difference 💕
They were likely bullied in school so now they are trying to flip the script and are relishing finally having their own clique, being able to gatekeep it, judge and put down others… when really they’re just making fools of themselves.
God bless Rosie for seeing the light! It looks like she really is making progress, no matter how difficult the road is. As someone that's been over 300lbs and still struggling with weight loss, I comend her for putting in the work and loving herself enough to fight to stay alive. We don't have to like our bodies, but we should do our best to take care of them if we value life and all the beautiful moments it has to offer. I'm grateful to follow your channel Michelle because you're really empathetic with those of us struggling that want to change, but you also come in with that cold splash of reality that motivates me to fight back against my own bing eating issues.
I recently went away with a friend who turned out to be HEAVY into fat acceptance. Felt like I was losing my damn mind. It’s nice to hear some normal takes again 🤯
Been here since your channel was “My Thoughts Will Probably Offend You” and you’re still like my rational older sister, who I adore! 🍩 and I lovveeeee this documentary type of content!!
god forbid someone wants to be healthier and thus be more physically and mentally positive, but no!! you’re “skinny” now so your body is no longer embodies positivity 💀
I'm gonna say it again. Obesity is the new smoking. It's very important to Social Security to have a certain number of people die before they are old enough to collect retirement benefits. Smoking was glamorized at one time, just as being a fatty is today.
You just reminded me at one point there were smoking and non-smoking sections in restaurants...even though the smoke traveled to the NS area alllll the time. I hope more people realize the danger they're putting themselves in with this joke of a movement.
Maybe over in the US but here in Britain it puts a massive burden on the NHS. Both metaphorically because we all pay for deathfats to be bailed out of the consequences of their troughing in taxes, but also literal. Every hospital has a story of a nurse or doctor or paramedic who hurt themselves trying to move or reposition a hamcannon. Sadly, we're only at best about 5 years behind America in obesity stakes and massive ultra processed calorie blowouts are becoming a thing here increasingly.
Agree with this. Everything at least in capitalist countries like the U.S comes down to making money. They don't care about our health as that's less money in their pockets. Shh is sick sad and absolutely insane or ridiculous.
Girl, I love your doll intros, or doll moments in general. You really have a talent for making people laugh, I didnt even watch the full video yet but had to leave this comment because I love your content. Funny and educational with a little sprinkle of sass! Here is a donut! 🍩
It’s apparent they are jealous of the ones who are doing the work to get healthier…they can do it too. Work hard , eat better, it’s obtainable. You should be HAPPY for people making life changes that will help them!
It's true. People who feel poorly about their weight but stuck in the cycle usually take shots about people who change. My guess is that it's emotionally easier than fully acknowledging that 1) you've been complicit & 2) making yourself work harder
Rosee you have shown so much courage! I'm super impressed with your resilience and determination to achieve your goals. I'm so sorry about the malicious, cruel haters. It is so obvious they are jealous, and are struggling with other kinds of immaturity and pettiness and desire to avoid the truth about health. Michelle, thank you so much for interviewing this super brave, awesome role model!! ❤❤❤
The ironic thing is fat acceptance was needed for those women who fall into the "mid" "small fat" section, woman who aren't strick thin with 0 body fat and because of that they think they are disgusting, obese and unattractive, still live relatively healthy lives but aren't athletes. It should never have been used to make dangerously obese people think they are healthy.
This was an excellent breakdown of her life's events. Not hiding and ultimately making excuses for what she's done to others but at the same time, not ignoring her trauma that lead her to this point. Very dignifying video of Rosee. I hope she gets to see this and I hope all the comments supporting her helps drown out the hate and backstabbery of the movements she's left behind.
The thing that upsets me the most about the fat acceptance community - and which I don’t see talked about often - is that there are people starving in the world while they glorify scarfing down thousands more calories than they need. I’ve just realised that they meet at least one of the eight requirements to be deemed a “C Word” - ostracising and attacking anyone who tries to leave.
@@jessicaschneider4043mukbang essentially started as eating a gourmet fancy meal and chit chat with audience. It's considered rude and miserable to eat alone in Asian culture Whatever nicokado does is not mukbang
@@jessicaschneider4043No, that’s not remotely what I said. Thin mukbangers eat normally or even less than most in between mukbangs to balance out the excess food. That’s no different to people eating more than usual on special occasions. The fat acceptance community overeat every single day.
It's not like whatever they're eating would otherwise have gone to a starving child in Africa. If anything, be upset about the environmental damage of the overconsumption of food
It is insanely hard, especially when someone has fears and traumas to contend with internally, to break out of an ideology and admit one's complicity in a harmful situation. So proud of her, this chick is gonna go far with her new journey!! Very excited for this one
I was 110 Kg (240lbs), I was always pudgy, even as a kid. Started suffering major health issues in my 20's too, breathing issues etc and friends and fam were starting to worry, my bedmate complained of my epic snoring. Clothes were getting boxy and unflattering. Plus medication were not helping. In 2013, I had enough....I got work as a cleaner, changed my eating, lifestyle and outlook. Now I am at 55Kg or 130lbs and not only is my health fantastic now but so is my outlook on life. I can eat yummy stuff but now I burn it off. Been same weight for over a decade. Best thing I ever did. It's not a chore anymore, it becomes the norm. Plus, talk about cute clothes!!!
Dont forget electrolytes, drinking water all day long is good but if your body isnt absorbing it cuz you dont have enough potassium or sodium. Osmosis causes water to be drawn towards salt so a lil palm of sea salt does wonders for you
@@ettaetta439if you’re just starting the habit and your body isn’t used to it you absolutely will pee every 30 minutes. It, like everything, has an adjustment period.
Michelle I love your videos!! Has really helped me gain some perspective on my own weight. Heaviest at 260, now down to 205. Still a big girl on a mission 😤
I was today years old when I heard the term "small fat." As a what they call "small fat" person who has lost 40lbs so far, I feel so much better physically and mentally being my size now and losing weight than I did two years ago when I started my weight loss. It's sad that they want to treat people with other body types like trash when they complain about how hard they have it with "fat phobia" and judgement on their sizes. They're the very bullies that they hate
@@markusgorelli5278 I mean, I'm also already fat. So I don't have to fake that initially. The point is to get them to throw money at me for it so I can afford to buy myself a home gym so I can lose it.
This is absolutely horrifying in many different ways. How disgusting that YT tacitly encourages this self-harm. How is this different from pr0n? Thank you for the video! You are very brave to dive into this world, especially as someone who cannot stand the sight and sounds of people eating. 🙏😓
I wonder if its because it in a roundabout way promotes buying and overconsuming products which is a very advertiser friendly behavior so they dont stop all of this because nestle and co fuckin LOVE it because they make BANK off this attitude
i dont like this community and their videos much either but a group of people harming themselves through eating is NOT the same as widespread filmed r-pe and abuse
@@thatfuzzypotato1877 that’s brilliant! That totally makes sense! And UA-cam must make a lot of revenue off that as well. Speaking of profits, I also find it so bizarre how the activists are always talking about the evil diet industry and how they have been oppressed by it, and are taking a bold revolutionary stand by ignoring it. The diet industry is maybe 10% of the size of the food industry, which they never mention. And the pharmaceuticals industry is possibly bigger than the food industry. When weight watchers announced they were dumping their method which they used for 60 years in favour of giving Ozempic etc prescriptions, that is mega bad!. 🤔
In Scientology, if you don’t go through the “correct” method of leaving the church, (which basically means paying a tonne of money) and you speak out against their abusive practices, your entire family and all of your friends are ordered to never speak to you or have any kind of contact with you ever again. Fat acceptance is really starting to sound like Scientology to me
@@CastIronCookie It isn’t. It’s because in order for content creators to get paid, brands want to have their ads shown on more family-friendly/marketing-friendly content. The only exception seems to be for some of UA-cam’s biggest creators.
I have no donut emoji to give but your edits are great, keeps it up! Digging the content - keeping it real with the themes while staying soft with the presentation can be a tricky roadmap to navigate. Next stop, 1m subs!
Eating too much was my first unhealthy coping mechanism. Later, that same pattern of reaching for external comfort in unhealthy things manifested as alcoholism. Now that I'm in recovery, I believe that people who tell me that I shouldn't punish myself by working out and losing weight are either recognizing what I'm doing as something they want to do but won't or they're skinny/fit people who want to save me from how they think I feel about myself. I wanna be healthy and happy more than I want to get drunk and eat junk food, and people are so quick to pull you back into that bucket of crabs, I think, because all they give a shit about is feeling like they're correct. It's easy to lie and make yourself feel safe, but it's hard to be honest, work hard, and keep yourself safe.
UA-cam be loving to censorship! I was banned for a day for making comments about how the hurricane relief was not going! Your videos are amazing, and you need your own series!! Lots of love from NC💜
Hearing about her past is heart wrenching. The unique circumstances of neglect(even if done unwittingly or ignorantly) by her parents just tug at my heart. Baby girl deserved so much better. As a girl who also was a book worm as a kid, it just hits close to home. I was also passed over sportwise because I was very small for my age, only when i had a growth spurt in high school and shot up to 6ft did I suddenly engage in activity because I almost suddenly was expected to(?). It's so wild how our upbringings and unique set of circumstances can affect us all so differently. I'm halfway through the vid and excited to hear about how things turn around for her
I hope the people who want to be healthy, GET healthy. It's ridiculous that the HAES movement claims to be so positive yet would rather their 'members' die than lose weight
"inflation" practice really made me mad... I fight for years against my bloating and I can't make it go away ... Just to think that some people are making this kind of thing for esthetic purposes makes me sick. Don't do that to yourself people 😞
When I first heard about body positivity I thought they stood for accepting yourself as you are (dress up what you got) as you move towards your best self as you get healthier. For example just because I am fat now doesn't mean I should try to look good and feel good now and that will lead to better mental health for any transition I choose to make. Boy was I wrong . Stay strong everyone. Peace and Blessings 🙏🏾
Restarting my weight loss journey and stuff like these vids always serve as a great reminder of why I am changing my lifestyle. Starting week two today and so far so good, a full week hadn't even fully passed before I started feeling physically better after dropping added sugar and greasy foods. Thank you for always putting out the quality content you do Michelle!
I absolutely adore the fact that according to FA ✌🏼healing your relationship with food✌🏼 is overindulge on highly processed, trash food until you grow to the size of a small house 🏠. That's healing alright, yeah...
Rosie seems like a sweet and intelligent young woman. She articulates her experience with empathy for the others still stuck in that world. I hope her life and health get better and better.
OMG. I didn't even notice either cause I also thought it was a table. What the hell is wrong with these people thinking this is healthy?! Can this lady even walk??
It is insane how some of those women claim that they can be healthy at their size. I am fat (6ft, almost 300lbs) and trying my best to lose weight rn because its just uncomfortable....cant imagine being half a foot shorter but weighing more...
I have always been a tall and thin woman. I gained like 25 pounds over the last few years and it really was very uncomfortable even though I was still in the normal BMI category. I’ve lost 20 pounds of it and feel so much better. I always side eye the really heavy fat activists who claim they don’t have any pain.
Don’t forget part 1 of the “mean girls of fat acceptance”
🍩 ua-cam.com/video/GOYkpegqu0A/v-deo.htmlsi=L09CT6-FLK-nYX0e
Part 1.5 of the mean girls of fat acceptance (which got demonitized 💔)
🍩 ua-cam.com/video/lO6Lqr-5yDU/v-deo.htmlsi=WXICngleUN2gln1a
♥️And check out rosie! ♥️youtube.com/@quirkyloverosee?si=SkOTJe1eq8KpC25h
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The music in this video is too loud, drowns out your voice.
Michelle I will be an editor for you, I have 10+ yrs experience
Weird qu.
How many barbies/dolls do you have & where do you keep them?
@@MylissRuth obviously. It’s the sponsor of the video.
As a former fatty and current thin mint, fat acceptance is hurting us. It's no different than a group of alcoholics meeting each night at a bar to drink together. "I don't have a problem, everyone I know drinks this much." If one of those alcoholic stops drinking do you think their "friends' would check in on them or cheer them on? No! Because their "friendship" was never based on genuine connection, their "friendship" was a product of the substance they all abuse together. If one person gets help everyone else is confronted with the fact they might have a problem and we can't have that in fat acceptance.🍩🙉🙈
Thisssss!!
As a functioning alcoholic. Yea i would not surround myself with people like that. I want to be healthy. I already am delusional due to my mental health issues 😂😂😂 i got that part down pack 😂😂😂
I always compared it with pro-ana, but yeah alcoholism is also a good comparison.
Agreed. For a brief moment I saw fat positivity everywhere and I started to beleive it and I just ate and then it was bad because I'd be craving all the time, I found it more difficult to move around and the final straw was when my thighs began to rub together and it took longer to wipe my behind 😅 I was like, it must be BS that they are happier, im not happier, I was craving food constantly! I'm glad I'm getting healthy again now. I have more energy now though I'm still overweight I've gained muscle and lost fat
Well said.
Cults also treat people as if they've passed when they wake up and leave, too.
@@petunia7623 It depends like the FLDS, Warren Jeffs took an elderly, frail man off his medications and sent him away. He wasn't the best person in the world, but he had the genuine respect and trust of the members, whereas Warren only had fear. He got a full on dramatic, martyr style funeral when he died alone a few months later, although family members who had left weren't allowed to attend.
Yep!
THIS!
@@petunia7623cough, veganism cough😂
And impose levels on members and celebrate the most pious and adherent. You are so right! I can’t believe I never connect this ‘movement’ to a cult.
Amberlynn Reid is dating a feeder who fed their last woman to death. She moved on to Amber 2 months after her funeral.
Tommy Slommi (Emily) is so disgusting. Amber is a horrible person but I don't think even she deserves to have a person like that in her life.
Why are it legal to talk someone into eating themself to death?!? Its so abusive
@@iknowyouwanttofly The woman was bedridden when they got together, she died at 1000lbs or so. There's one thing falling for someone who's disabled and needs a lot of care, there's another actively seeking someone to fulfil your fetish, posting fetish shit everywhere with them and literally feeding them to death. Of course most people who are disabled didn't make themselves that way, FAs did
That’s terrifying wtf
I don’t think ALR is a good or even decent person but I just see someone who has a lot of childhood trauma in her. She really has a-lot of demons and it’s unfortunate she hasn’t gotten the help to deal with them. She has the resources to.
Listening to her story makes my heart drop - her mom wasn’t the mom she needed her to be - not letting your child go outside? Encouraging sitting in front of tv all day? And then the abuse and hurt. I hope her life takes a turn for the better genuinely
See, I would understand more if her mom was in a situation like we are. We don't allow our toddler outside because we live on a major road where cars go 45-65mph, where people allow dogs to raom around unleashed, and where our meth addicted neighbor throws her needles willy nilly and has a cat hoarding problem that's resulted in 16 unvaxed mean af cats wandering between my house and her house. They are under no circumstances allowed outside. Now, when we leave town to see my parents or his parents, both our 2½ and 4mo olds are outside a majority of the time. My dream is to get my family out of this nightmare of a house and into a bigger home with a lot of property (something very attainable in the south). The only thing stopping us is interest rates and rising home prices. The second those rates drop below 5%, were packing our shit, selling, and moving. I HATE this deathtrap.
But I want to add this: despite being stuck inside, we go out to the parks, rivers, and lake all the time with them. Plus, we dont allow our children to eat junk 24/7. Because of how we've fed them, our 2 year old has no interest in candies or sweets. She won't throw a tantrum after seeing a hersey bar or sucker. She eats a better diet than most adults. I'm gonna be doing the same thing with our second daughter starting next month. I'm very proud of my girls. They aren't picky and aren't behind cognitively like many toddlers nowadays are. I worked really hard with my 2yo and my 4mo old will be learning the same way and experiencing the same things as her sister. Where we live is our only caveat, but eventually even that won't hold them back. It's all about how you interact with your kids and work around the issues or boundaries your family may face.
@@lunaballunabad parents don’t even think or worry about if their child is getting out or playing enough. you’re doing great, i’m sure you’re kids are happy and loved as long as their mother worries about them
“Don’t use the word obese, especially if you’re talking about a fat person” That’s the only time I’d use that word
I always thought "fat" was more derogatory than "obese" because obese is just a medical term while fat is subjective and usually used in a derogatory way 💀 it's like being offended because your doctor called you underweight
I'll just switch to corpulent, I guess.
Right? Oy
I prefer fat because it feels like less of a euphemism.
Morbidly obese would make these women flip
The amount of effort that you put into these doll-verse skits blows my mind. I love them so much lol
I'm a big fan as well XD
Me too!
Just thought the same thing!!! Those tiny details are so good
same
Gives such unhinged MyFroggyStuff vibes 😂😂
They're so happy and accepting, they need to bully anyone who doesn't agree with them. Definitely makes sense to me😅
So accepting that they need to tell everyone how a person who chose to get healthier thinks they're [insert some really horrible stuff] when that's actually not the case at all.
They don't want to be bullied and judged, but there they are doing it to others. Acceptance goes both ways.
They’re such bullies!! And the fact that they can’t understand that is nuts.
This is why it’s a cult in my eyes. Why are you bullying people who aren’t even saying anything against you?
it's scary how much they act like those high school mean girls
Michelle, discovering your channel changed my life!
I was deep into fat acceptance/body positivity and I was 220 lbs (I'm 4'10" so... yeah i looked like a piglet) and if said that being fat had its perks and i felt self-conscious to do certain things... people would call me "fatphobic" and "bigot"
Then last month I stopped talking to these people, started gym, eating healthy... I'm 15 lbs down and even my skin is looking better
Proud of you doll! It’s a journey, you got this!
period 💋
🎉🎉🎉❤
That's so awesome!
We're cheering you on!! We believe in you Alice!!
Be cautious of the love bombing that happens in certain communities. Love quickly turns to scorn when you stop peddling the dogma.
So true. Very cult like.
Oh how this one hits so hard right now, me and my partner kicked ourselves out as staff cause we just spoke the truth and my best friend since childhood, got so triggered, went online and directly indirectly jabbed us, just cause we called them out on their toxic behavior. We were so close, now we're avoiding them cause the true colors finally showed when you call them out lol, sorry if that was confusing
Added note: Sorry my grammar sucks. English is not my first language. More note: we're in the cosplay community lol
Very well said, and the reason why love bombing turns toxic so quickly -is because it's not really authentic.
Nicely worded!!
I love how when you are fat, but not super morbidly obese they don't think you're fat at all. Because they all got so used to being humongous they don't realize that they are beyond fat. The "Standard sized" fat people are still fat.
I used to think that fat acceptance was a body positive movement for overweight people, that not everyone has to be a gym rat, having a belly or double chin is human etc. It wasn't until i saw this tiktok video of a girl saying that XXL is not plus sized that i realized there's a very specific demographic that they're "accepting" ie morbidly obese people
this is true, I run a size 18/20 store depending and I've been called skinny, and I'm like no, I'm still fat- i know this, I'm just not the type of fat they think I should be to be called fat... I don't understand the mental gymnastics, then I see those clips and realize these people haven't matured beyond high school.
This is TRUE. I was a size 16/18, but at 5’2” the world just does NOT see you as “a thin”. Nor did my health.
I know! I'm obese according to the BMI, but I'm not even on their freakin' fat level chart!
Its even leeching into daily life, not just internet. I have had a mindset similar to that as a “standard fat” person and i have grown to learn that my weoght no matter how u look at it is hurting me and will absolutely cause issues later in life. Even my partner says sometimes that “ur not THAT fat” but in comparison to what/who? My bmi is way too high and it hurts to breathe when i let go fully… id say thats catalyst to change. It was for me…
Honestly, it's great that she genuinely apologized for her actions and supporting this movement. It's difficult to pull out even an insincere apology from perpetual victims, so for her to not only see the error of her ways, but to apologize is a big positive. ❤️❤️
There is absolutely hope for her to improve.
I hope she improves and takes her life and health back. Massive kudos to her.
Agreed!! It's super difficult to be so honest about how we've hurt other people and been wrong
I appreciate this comment a lot 🩵🩵 it took me ten years but I finally woke up to the wrong I was doing.
The bravery needed for that public apology in this day and age is just unbelievable. She made me have a little more hope for humanity! I sincerely hope she finds healing and lives the best life.
I've been "midsize" according to the "fat spectrum," and yet I was 120lbs overweight at my peak. Gross. Giving labels and "ranks" for "fatness" is absolutely disgusting.
Weirdos love their isolated boxes for being pro freedom
That's crazy. And I remember that a few of them even shame you for not being fat ebough
Btw I wonder where muscular people fall on the "fat spectrum" lol.
SO much respect for Rosie! The humility, self-awareness, willingness to apologize for her former mean-girl behavior… She inspires me. Also, her face is naturally so much prettier than Tess Holiday’s.
I think being humble just makes people look prettier I don’t think they look too different but the negative experience people have with Tess makes them reject her entire being
I takes so much grace and courage to admit being wrong. Good on her for taking accountability rather than taking the easier route of doubling down.
GURL. The biceps are bicepin. I was hypnotized lmao
Those shoulders too damn
Read this right as she said “welcome back” 3:02 and flexed and oooh my gooood
I was scrolling through this comment or something like it, when she went to flex I had to rewind it a couple times because holy cow her arms are insane in such a good way
It’s “my body, my choice”…until that choice is to lose weight, go to the gym and stop being fat 💀
The truth is that all if this is just so they feel less insecure about the fact that they couldn’t lose weight.
Correction: They were insecure because they were too lazy to take the steps and make the right choices to lose the weight. - They are more than able to, they're just lazy.
They know they don't have the strength to work on themselves, so they want everyone else to be just like them
You don't even need the gym, just go outside and take a freaking walk or do sitting exercises 😂
You can lose weight without going to the gym. Home workouts are just as good, and way cheaper :)
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As someone who escaped that "Adult" community and content.....it was when I got to 498lbs and started seeing the guys into feeding someone to the point of no longer living that I escaped it by fleeing on a red eye flight from my ex husband who made me do it to pay for his video games......it is a terrifying community....please please please never get into this
side note that was 4 years ago and I am now 389lbs and still losing!
You're awesome! Keep it up!
You are doing great & saving your own life 💪🏻
They become sexual objects, are not loved for their soul which is a re-enactment of their original trauma.
So true!!
100% correct n very insightful wow 👏
It sucks that it always takes someone dieing for people to open their eyes and admit it's a problem.
@@error404webpagenotfound at this point, it hasn't even taken death
Therapist here: you are sooo on point, Ty for saying that!
Very happy for Rosie, that she managed to make it out.
I wish her the best, healthy life that she deserves.
She's a lying liar who lies
She is super gorgeous 😍 I hope she does lose weight and get the body she wants and feels healthy and happy with. ❤
Your abhorrence to mouth sounds/chewing/slurping makes me feel so incredibly validated, thank you. And thank you SO MUCH for muting those sounds when showing clips in your videos. I will never understand how people can enjoy watching/listening to that kind of content. It makes me want to rip my hair out.
Also, swallowing. I die inside everytime I have to sit near a loud swallower, lol
as a misophonia sufferer, I think we have a sort of anti-ASMR response, so it's like living on the opposite end of the spectrum. it is wild to imagine people enjoy those noises when they make you and I feel fight or flight like a mfer lolol
The mouth slapping noises... I can't handle that, it makes my skin crawl 😭
@@peachy_lilithis!! so many ASMR sounds that is supposed to be relaxing drive me up a wall, can’t stand it at all! Chewing noises is the worst of the worst!!!
@@aaaccc7173 Same! I'll never understand the ASMR mouth sound mentality. I want to scream and change the channel or turn the volume off. I can't stand those dreadful eating and mouth noises.
26:37 is me! I’ve been a subscriber for so long and I never thought I’d see myself on one of these videos 😂 that clip is from a tiktok I made in 2021 when I was dealing with low self esteem and seeing girls with my body type made me feel better. Love your content, but that definitely caught me off guard! 😅
You’re gorgeous
@ thank you! That is so sweet 🥲
Not me crying rn. The opening skit had me scream laughing!
I’ve gone through so much growth and change, and I’ve really been struggling with my mindset in recent history. The timing of this video in my life I think is very much for a reason, because I feel a new found sense of motivation I have not felt for a couple months. Growth, change, choosing health is really really hard for me. Thank you for making this video and working with me. I really appreciate you Michelle and I really appreciate the time I’ve gotten to know you. Thank you 🩵🩵🩵
Thank you for all of this rosie!!! We are cheering for you!!! You CAN do it! 💪🏽
We belieeeeeve! You did a first HUGE step, and we are thankful for that and we gonna support you too ♥
You got this Rosie! Enjoy the fall air today & remember you are never alone! ❤
Wow so nice seing you here ! Congrats on your participation, takes guts ! Hope you'll get to the well balanced life you seek (and work for) soon ❤
Your photo as a kid reminds me so much of myself. Thank you for being brave and transparent, Rosie. Seeing other survivor success stories inspires me a lot personally.
These videos are always so sad to watch. I understand the need for feeling accepted but essentially killing yourself for that acceptance isn't worth it.
people like these, usually want mememe, but they will put 0 work on anything. i have 0 sympathy, its decision made and real education is there and seen/experienced everyday. Its not unrealistic to be healthy, it takes discipline.. which nobody wants to put the struggle in.
I think a lot of it stems from trauma with bullying. I never had problems with my weight growing up, but I was picked on mercilessly for being "ugly" (I had friends, but they were also bullied) or having "dirty skin" (my skin is brown). I imagine for some fat activists, fat acceptance is the first time in their life they have been accepted (seemingly) without conditions beyond just being themselves. It's no wonder they'd cling to it.
Doesn't justify their behavior, but it makes it understandable.
Amen. 🩵🩵🩵
Obviously being skinny to be accepted is evil, being fat to be accepted is empowerment? So weird.
Why the HECK are UA-camrs allowed to say erectile disfunction but not eating disorder!?! Both medical conditions, both probably triggering or whatever. That's DAMN stupid. Also not being alert to swear is lame
Maybe because eating disorders are more likely to affect teens and children. That's my guess.
blame the fat acceptance movement, they all have eating disorders and cannot accept it.
Erectile disfuntion is not a social contagion and there aren't group of men sharing content and encouraging each others decisions. It also isn't fatal.
@@KFrost-fx7dt What I don't understand is the favor for BED but will strike any ANA related things. Just someone talking about their experience has so much hate in the comment sections saying things like, "Why are you romanticizing it? (they're not) This could have a bad effect on children who come across this video." But not for videos with BED?
Because one is essentially nature making fun of men and these assholes find that hilarious. But oh no, the moment that a disorder that is often conflated with us girls, gotta slap that shit down with the fire of Satan.
Girl when I tell you these videos are helping me lock in on weight loss, I have PCOS so it's tough but I'm taking baby steps and I'm already like feeling a difference/seeing a difference in my eating patterns , I'm proud of myself ;)
Its giving “misery loves company”
This this this!!! This is exactly it!!!
ABSOLUTELY, I was obese and is from a family with generational obesity problem (they don’t think so), when I started losing a lot of weight, they started catering to me by cooking and buying what food they find appealing as to tempt me to overeat or something (thank God I don’t like the same food), when I decline them, they get ANGRY. One of my fat aunt admitted when she saw my weightloss that she cooks pancakes for me to make me gain weight intentionally and that she will do it again.
@@athena_cr my moms adopted family was like that. They refused to respect we were part east asian. So naturally we are tiny. Because to them “blk dad = you are literally just blk because lets be delusional and uphold one drop rule”. They would FORCE me to eat. It gave me body dysmorphia especially when you consider i grew up in USA and being a bw and petite is NOT attractive
@@athena_cr good for you for defending yourself 💕 im overweight now. I need to get it together seriously
What an accurate way to look at that? Thanks.
Sounds like Rosie put all those years of reading to use with good critical thinking. Way to go, girl!
Thinking the same thing. Very skilled thinker.
@@debraobrien6069and she speaks so well, too
Thank you all!!!
@@Quirkyloverosee All the best to you in your journey. I know that word is sometimes overused, but you've overcome so much and you still have a bright future ahead. Excited for you!
Truly
I've been fat, I've been thin, now I am at a weight that is normal for my age and height. Do I crave fried chicken and ice cream and chips and dip and pie? Oh yeah!! There are some foods I can still enjoy in moderation, but others I know to stay away from because I will binge myself silly. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be healthier.
Oh me too . And I love to cook , for me it's therapy . I eat what I want now. I mean I have no forbidden foods. But I remind myself this isn't the last apple pie I will ever eat. I can have a slice not the whole pie .
@@rebelhippy2166how did you free yourself from that addiction?
It's not like you can just obstain like 12 steppers
@suzycue9087 I don't think I was personally addicted. I know some are. I think I just ate my feelings . I was comforted by food. I learned to work through my feelings. My first inclination when I'm sad or angry was to eat and once I started I didn't stop. As I said it was a 2 year process for me. I don't think there is one answer for every. I was an emotional eater .
@@suzycue9087 eh, just think about the impact to your health or something.
She is so well spoken, I’m glad someone so intellectual is able to talk about how toxic the community actually is
Rosie seems like such a smart, articulate lady. Glad she is making better choices and putting her health first ❤
I really like her ❤ she seems so fkn nice and smart. I feel so bad for her and everything that went on during her childhood 😢
It sounds like, in addition to trauma, she was an incredibly smart girl suffocated by Mormon parents and was probably b o r e d as shit. It's not a wonder she developed an addiction, especially to food, because food was probably the only thing they actually let her have access to.
Being fat as a job is awful. But being fat feels horrible. The limitations it puts on your activities is astounding.
For a moment I thought you meant "Being fat at a job" and I was like, yes it sure does. It affects how your co-workers treat you and it can make it physically and mentally painful to get through the work day. These people who get paid to eat probably can't work outside the home anyway
Right, like I’m just a bit overweight with a gut and it feels bad enough that I’m trying to get rid of it, can’t imagine how terrible being morbidly obese must feel…
I think a big part of the problem is that they refuse to accept that healing your relationship with food doesn't equate to eating whatever you want all the time. Giving any thought or planning or, god forbid, restriction to your food choices is automatically "disordered" to them, because of THEIR unhealed relationship with food. The projection in the HAAS community has always been off the charts though, I guess that's nothing new. Good on Rosie for breaking free and offering apologies, that takes guts 💜
It’s so bizarre. They’re absolutely just trying to find a reason to continue eating too much garbage food. It’s absolutely an addiction problem.
They seem to equate just eating vegetables or fish with a punishment. If they would take just a bit of time to learn how to cook, they could have delicious food and feel so much better. Fried food and desserts are certainly tasty, but haven’t they noticed how gross they feel afterwards?
I’ve been overweight for a long time and have fluctuated over the years, but apparently I’m just a ‘small fat’, so they wouldn’t listen to my wise advice anyway.
I just want to go from a size 18 back to a 14 this year. I do try to eat real food, but if I’ve allowed myself to overindulge a bit, my jeans tell me if I have gone too far and I’m more careful for a few days until they’re loose again. I just very rarely even buy food that’s too problematic for me. Every few months I will get some Cheetos, but I know it’s a special treat, because I’ve been very focused on NOT GAINING! I suspect that they’re all wearing elastic pants and refuse to use a scale. They’re just lying to themselves and they’re going to end up in an early grave.
I went from a size 24 back to a 14 in my late 20’s. I’m 54 now and I don’t think I would be alive today if I hadn’t have done that.
She really is impressive. I’m so glad she escaped that ‘community’.
It's an easy way out. Healing your relationship with food has something to do with limiting or wrong beliefs about food. Esp extreme beliefs like so and so veggies have this, and cause this, etc. Ya know? CBT might help and Acceptance Therapy, as examples I believe.
That really is harmful when I was overweight I thought my relationship with food was fine because I'd eat whatever I wanted and food restrictions reminded me of people dealing with restrictive eating disorders but my relationship with food was literally not fine I was overeating someone with a healthy relationship with food actually listens to their body they don't eat for the sake of eating
The problem with the HAAS (Health At Any Size) movement is they don’t really believe it - they have a very narrow definition of ‘any’. It, only includes people who are clinically obese - that is a medical term with a defined BMI/hip-waist ratio.
Shaming people who want to be a lower weight for any reason is not health at ANY size, it’s health at oversized. And their definition of health is not great.
I’m saying this as someone who has been classed as morbidly obese and has worked very hard to lose it for health reasons to reduce the risk of my cancer returning.
When I first saw one of your videos, I was like “this chick is kinda rude”. Then I went down the rabbit hole of your videos and GIRL YOU ARE SO RIGHT!
I'm black and I still don't understand how the fat acceptance community or obesity is equated to blackness. Admittedly, I am a "thin" and the smallest/lightest in my family but no one is obese or unhealthily overweight (including extended members, i.e. cousins, in-laws, grandparents/-aunts, etc.) I'm also 40 and none of the black people I know are obese; family, friends or otherwise. I'm so confused!
They want to co-opt something you cant change to justify bad behaviour. It one thing to champion the more curvy or muscular genetics of SOME African ethnic groups. But no human body type is obese unless you have a serious RARE illness.
@thezu9250 no rare illness makes you fat, only overconsumtion of food does
easily confused.
Lying to black people about obesity and its health impacts seems anti-black to me.
Black people are among the highest percentage of obese people in the United States. But some of that is due to not living near a grocery store and living in areas that are considered a food desert. In addition, to not having the finances to afford quality foods.
It's crazy how they refer to themselves as " existing in a ' bigger ' body " as if that body just HAPPENED to them. Opposed to them cultivating that ' bigger body ' by way of their lifestyle habits. They've perfected victimization.
Like an alcoholic just lives in a drunk body lol
Yeah it's so weird. The first time I heard that I thought it was about someone like me. I'm a naturally "big" girl as in im tall have big breasts, hips and wide shoulders you know things that you actually can't control. Not your fat percentage.
@MyName9387-b8e Which makes it insulting for people who are slightly genetically larger than what would be considered, average.
Yes. Like I sympathise that it's hard to lose weight especially when you were never though to eat right but the solution is not to just give up and convince yourself your health no matter what.
As a 5 foot nothing chick who's now 271 (lost 10lbs) I can safely say, "I'm OBESE!!!!" Being obese is not cute, diabetes is not cute, not being able to breathe properly isn't cute, not being able to walk up a flight of stairs without being out of breathe isn't cute.
Congrats, friend! 10 lbs is a great start. You got this. 💪
Keep going you're doing great. I was 271 now 248 and determined to get to 150 in a year. We've got this. I'm sick of abusing my body in order to comfort my empty feelings with food. There is no joy in being obese only more emotional and physical pain. Best of luck to you.
You can do it! It’s really hard, but you’ll feel so much much better with every few pound down. Congrats 🥳
15:28 that's her stomach??? Wtf !! I first thought it's a TABLE - which she has kept the cake on. Then I saw it moving so I reversed a couple seconds. WTF!!!
Omg I didn't even realize until I read your comment. That's absolutely crazy
While I'm sympathetic to obese people struggles (feelings of isolation, not being comfortable in any of your clothes, limited dating pool) I don't understand the rage at those that seek to change that.
I'm 5'9" and I used to weigh 235 at my heaviest. I am 185 now and looking to lose another 15-20lbs. I can honestly say that I love the way that my smaller body can move, and how my muscles warm when I run or lift weights. I wish I could meet these angry people, just to try and show them how much better life can be when you get to a healthy bmi.
Such an encouraging comment! You’re a champion 🎉
That's very kind of you but you'd most likely enrage them more by showing them it's possible. One person's inspiration is another insecure person's failure.
They are raging, because they want what you have, just without putting in the work. So they try to take you down, so you're as miserable as them. Typical bully behavior
Oh wow! I am also 5’9, my heaviest was also 235 and I am ALSO 185 now!! Goal weight is 160.
Yes! It isn't looks alone, it's how your body functions.
Why is YT protecting abusers by censoring words of abuse?!? Victims are suvivors, we need to give them the attention and love they deserve!
The abusers can go to jail to hopefully rebilitate in life, but the victims, their stories need to be spread and met with love and support!
F YT policies!
they do it in order to "prevent" abusers from spreading abuse as if a defining point of abusers isn't their talent for being so subtle one doesn't realize they are being abused until they are stuck 😒 but as an ultimate abuser, UA-cam knows how to hide the fact they don't give a f*ck about causing harm for personal profit by hiding behind useless actions like censoring "bad" words regardless of the context they are used in 🙄
I agree. I think it has lasted so long in society because we are not supposed to talk about it.
I don't think that's what UA-cam is doing. They don't want people to profit off of certain topics so they won't monetize and have ads for. But this also leads to these videos being lower on the algorithm. It's capitalism having unfortunate consequences not design
@@TheNDofUO Does an economic system that doesn't have unfortuante consequences exist?
She’s not. She’s protecting her bottom line. UA-cam will demonetize for the smallest reasons.
UA-cam's so-called community standards are the biggest joke.
I think health problems such as obesity and anorexia nervosa should be screamed to the top of our lungs to bring people's attention to it. Same with words such as suicide and rape. If you hide it people don't pay attention to it or treat it with the serious regard that these issues need. UA-cam should not be only about entertainment.
They promote those who promote living the words they ban. It's insane. You can't talk about starving yourself, the A word, but you can watch Eugene Coonie brag about doing it and putting herself on display as a horror sideshow. And UA-cam pays her for it.
facebook as well.
@@LKMNOP agreed 🙏💚💯💯💯
@@Orquet-qj2nf exactly 💯
Major respect to people that can completely turn their lives around for the better. Losing weight isn't easy when you're that size and also battling food addiction, the inevitable plateau. I've always been underweight so I've had the opposite problem but I know its hard. Major respect to people that stick at it
340lbs now 185lbs and apparently im fat phobic because how dare i. That chart is insane, im an ex superfat now small fat i guess im now invalidated.
You just need to cancel yourself at this point! 😂
Congratulations! I can’t imagine the amount of willpower and hard work you did to lose so much weight. That is really a huge accomplishment.
That motivation 😮😮😮
I truly admire your motivation, I'm in a place right now where I can't find the motivation to use dental floss and I knly brush these past few weeks 😂😂 I wish I had your motivation, keep up the great work 🎉🎉
Just remember your worth it 🙏💚💯
Do you have any tips? Coming from a small fatty 😅
that intro????? YOU ATE
Pun intended
I’m impressed at the prop making for the dolls 😍 (like the little books and clothes etc)
@@Nineau13 yes hehe
4 years ago I was 530lbs, when I was younger I almost fell down the hole of Fat Acceptance....Almost... However, after having 2 kids I wanted to live. I wanted to be able to keep up with my kids, go out with my husband, and hike (I fucking love hiking!), and just live life. I didn't want my family, who's already lost many members to addiction to suffer losing me also. Even my own mom passed away when she was 49 due to years of abusing her body to addiction, and I did NOT want my own kids to feel the heart ache that I went through of losing their mom so early if I could help it. In 2022 I had enough, Ive lost 330lbs give or take and atm I'm 200lbs. I workout 4-5 days a week, and I'm always moving (mostly because I have a 1yo and a 4yo) lol they keep me going. If I would of fallen down that hole of Fat acceptance, I do believe I would be long gone by now. They need to call it what it really is, Death Acceptance, Giving up Acceptance. Anyway, Love you Michelle! ♥
That is amazing!! What a triumph! Keep going!! You WILL hit goals and your kids will mirror your strength and good habits! You got this!
🎉🎉❤❤
I'm just a stranger on the internet here to say congratulations on all your hard work and im proud of you
Holy wow! What an achievement! You’ve got this!
I'm just here to agree with the other comments. Great job on working towards and achieving your goals. You got this! 😊
When you talked about having a unique body type and a lot of clothes not fitting you quite right-it’s so true. I’ve been on a weight loss journey for the past 6 months (down 30 with a GW of 145) and even at my lowest, I still had a heck of a time finding clothes that fit me. At 5’4” with wide hips, a small waist, and normal-sized shoulders, this is forever a struggle lol. I wouldn’t change my body’s natural shape for anything though. But the extra weight just makes it harder to move and I love hiking and being active. And since being on a weight loss journey, this has gotten so much easier! Anyway, love yours and obesetobeast’s content. They are super motivating to me!
Same here! Its like your plus size but other parts of your body isn’t so shopping for clothes has always been a struggle for me since I was a teen because my waist is three sizes smaller than my hips/thighs/butt. But losing weight makes a huge difference 💕
They were likely bullied in school so now they are trying to flip the script and are relishing finally having their own clique, being able to gatekeep it, judge and put down others… when really they’re just making fools of themselves.
I think you are exactly right.
God bless Rosie for seeing the light! It looks like she really is making progress, no matter how difficult the road is. As someone that's been over 300lbs and still struggling with weight loss, I comend her for putting in the work and loving herself enough to fight to stay alive. We don't have to like our bodies, but we should do our best to take care of them if we value life and all the beautiful moments it has to offer.
I'm grateful to follow your channel Michelle because you're really empathetic with those of us struggling that want to change, but you also come in with that cold splash of reality that motivates me to fight back against my own bing eating issues.
I recently went away with a friend who turned out to be HEAVY into fat acceptance. Felt like I was losing my damn mind. It’s nice to hear some normal takes again 🤯
That's always so sad. My best friend once started down that path and I had a heart to heart and honestly felt like I saved her life.
Oof that's rough. Wishing you the best with that friendship lol
5:43 her mother kept her captive and stunted as a young woman. That is emotional and developmental abuse
Been here since your channel was “My Thoughts Will Probably Offend You” and you’re still like my rational older sister, who I adore! 🍩 and I lovveeeee this documentary type of content!!
Same !
I didn't realize she changed her channel name 😂
Body Positivity - Your body is fantastic at every size... unless you are in shape or you try to lose weight. Then you are excommunicated.
god forbid someone wants to be healthier and thus be more physically and mentally positive, but no!! you’re “skinny” now so your body is no longer embodies positivity 💀
@@alijoc yep
I'm gonna say it again. Obesity is the new smoking. It's very important to Social Security to have a certain number of people die before they are old enough to collect retirement benefits. Smoking was glamorized at one time, just as being a fatty is today.
Agreed
You just reminded me at one point there were smoking and non-smoking sections in restaurants...even though the smoke traveled to the NS area alllll the time. I hope more people realize the danger they're putting themselves in with this joke of a movement.
Maybe over in the US but here in Britain it puts a massive burden on the NHS. Both metaphorically because we all pay for deathfats to be bailed out of the consequences of their troughing in taxes, but also literal. Every hospital has a story of a nurse or doctor or paramedic who hurt themselves trying to move or reposition a hamcannon.
Sadly, we're only at best about 5 years behind America in obesity stakes and massive ultra processed calorie blowouts are becoming a thing here increasingly.
Agree with this. Everything at least in capitalist countries like the U.S comes down to making money. They don't care about our health as that's less money in their pockets. Shh is sick sad and absolutely insane or ridiculous.
Average time period to claim pension in the U.K. is 8 years
Girl, I love your doll intros, or doll moments in general. You really have a talent for making people laugh, I didnt even watch the full video yet but had to leave this comment because I love your content. Funny and educational with a little sprinkle of sass! Here is a donut! 🍩
It’s apparent they are jealous of the ones who are doing the work to get healthier…they can do it too. Work hard , eat better, it’s obtainable. You should be HAPPY for people making life changes that will help them!
Nooo! They don’t want to do that work. How dare you make them feel bad by doing what they say they can’t do!
It's true. People who feel poorly about their weight but stuck in the cycle usually take shots about people who change. My guess is that it's emotionally easier than fully acknowledging that 1) you've been complicit & 2) making yourself work harder
Biceps are looking extra cut up today, Michelle! 💪
I noticed that too! ❤ I love the dedication she has!
I am so glad people are finally taking obesity seriously again. This health at every size movement, needs to disappear.
they dont wanna be discrimated against because of their weight yet they make a chart on who is better/more superior based on their weight??
I love being skinni ✨️ it took me 3 hard years of work to get here and ain't nothing taking it away from me.
Yeah it is hard work to reach your body goals you feel happy with. ❤
🎉🎉🎉 you go!!
Well done 🌱 💚. All the best to you!
Proud of you 💚🍓🍏
Rosee you have shown so much courage! I'm super impressed with your resilience and determination to achieve your goals. I'm so sorry about the malicious, cruel haters. It is so obvious they are jealous, and are struggling with other kinds of immaturity and pettiness and desire to avoid the truth about health.
Michelle, thank you so much for interviewing this super brave, awesome role model!! ❤❤❤
Agreed!
The ironic thing is fat acceptance was needed for those women who fall into the "mid" "small fat" section, woman who aren't strick thin with 0 body fat and because of that they think they are disgusting, obese and unattractive, still live relatively healthy lives but aren't athletes. It should never have been used to make dangerously obese people think they are healthy.
This was an excellent breakdown of her life's events. Not hiding and ultimately making excuses for what she's done to others but at the same time, not ignoring her trauma that lead her to this point.
Very dignifying video of Rosee.
I hope she gets to see this and I hope all the comments supporting her helps drown out the hate and backstabbery of the movements she's left behind.
Glad to see you almost at 1 mil. Your sound has gotten much better too! So proud of you! Been with you since 15k!
Haha oh the janky microphone and super loud music days 😂😂 thanks for sticking with me 😂😂😂
@Michellemcd543 🖤 this made my day!
The thing that upsets me the most about the fat acceptance community - and which I don’t see talked about often - is that there are people starving in the world while they glorify scarfing down thousands more calories than they need.
I’ve just realised that they meet at least one of the eight requirements to be deemed a “C Word” - ostracising and attacking anyone who tries to leave.
But if they are thin mukbangers it’s ok?
@@jessicaschneider4043mukbang essentially started as eating a gourmet fancy meal and chit chat with audience. It's considered rude and miserable to eat alone in Asian culture
Whatever nicokado does is not mukbang
@@jessicaschneider4043 That's not in anyway what she even said ..? 😂 You really tried to pull a card that's not even in the deck dude
@@jessicaschneider4043No, that’s not remotely what I said. Thin mukbangers eat normally or even less than most in between mukbangs to balance out the excess food. That’s no different to people eating more than usual on special occasions. The fat acceptance community overeat every single day.
It's not like whatever they're eating would otherwise have gone to a starving child in Africa. If anything, be upset about the environmental damage of the overconsumption of food
It is insanely hard, especially when someone has fears and traumas to contend with internally, to break out of an ideology and admit one's complicity in a harmful situation. So proud of her, this chick is gonna go far with her new journey!! Very excited for this one
I’ve lost 150lbs. I never fell into this community. I really appreciate her coming forward and talking about how toxic it is
This intro...deserves an Oscar.
Girl, I love your channel ❤
@yasmeen7875 thank you so much ❤️
RIGHT???
The way no video of yours never manages to be boring even in the slightest, your personality is amazing
Deadass Michelle, where are you getting these doll and accessories? Blue bonnet, chicken wings
She may hand make them, but you'd be surprised what doll props you can find online and in craft stores
There’s also mini brands
And those little ones that are about dIY that come in a mystery box
😂😂
Zuru mini brands makes a lot of tiny foods
@@soph9033oh yeah, I see all kinds of stuff like this on Etsy. 😂
I was 110 Kg (240lbs), I was always pudgy, even as a kid. Started suffering major health issues in my 20's too, breathing issues etc and friends and fam were starting to worry, my bedmate complained of my epic snoring. Clothes were getting boxy and unflattering. Plus medication were not helping. In 2013, I had enough....I got work as a cleaner, changed my eating, lifestyle and outlook. Now I am at 55Kg or 130lbs and not only is my health fantastic now but so is my outlook on life. I can eat yummy stuff but now I burn it off. Been same weight for over a decade. Best thing I ever did. It's not a chore anymore, it becomes the norm. Plus, talk about cute clothes!!!
I'm watching this while drinking plain water. I have to pee every 30 minutes but the warranty on my kidneys has extended 😊
Dont forget electrolytes, drinking water all day long is good but if your body isnt absorbing it cuz you dont have enough potassium or sodium. Osmosis causes water to be drawn towards salt so a lil palm of sea salt does wonders for you
Every 30 minutes? I drink nothing but plain water and that isn't normal lol, unless you're exaggerating for fun.
@@ettaetta439if you’re just starting the habit and your body isn’t used to it you absolutely will pee every 30 minutes. It, like everything, has an adjustment period.
@@GravityFallsUpreally? Cool
Michelle I love your videos!! Has really helped me gain some perspective on my own weight. Heaviest at 260, now down to 205. Still a big girl on a mission 😤
I was today years old when I heard the term "small fat." As a what they call "small fat" person who has lost 40lbs so far, I feel so much better physically and mentally being my size now and losing weight than I did two years ago when I started my weight loss.
It's sad that they want to treat people with other body types like trash when they complain about how hard they have it with "fat phobia" and judgement on their sizes. They're the very bullies that they hate
I’m glad you do these videos. Loving yourself has nothing to do with being unhealthy.
Honestly...I need to find who these dudes who are paying out are so I can scam them into paying for a home gym.
Ai graphics are improving all the time. So create a binge eating avatar and let the cash flow. lol.
@@markusgorelli5278 I mean, I'm also already fat. So I don't have to fake that initially. The point is to get them to throw money at me for it so I can afford to buy myself a home gym so I can lose it.
She did mention that website at the beginning of the video
@@TheWolfeDen you really shouldn't be encouraging me to listen to my intrusive thoughts, but thank you. 🤣🤣🤣
I have a family member who has gained a ton of weight over the years and now her health is declining. Health at every size my ass.
It’s refreshing to see people turning their logics autocorrect back on.
i love how you helped Rosie share her story :’) so proud of her!
This is absolutely horrifying in many different ways. How disgusting that YT tacitly encourages this self-harm.
How is this different from pr0n?
Thank you for the video! You are very brave to dive into this world, especially as someone who cannot stand the sight and sounds of people eating.
🙏😓
I wonder if its because it in a roundabout way promotes buying and overconsuming products which is a very advertiser friendly behavior so they dont stop all of this because nestle and co fuckin LOVE it because they make BANK off this attitude
i dont like this community and their videos much either but a group of people harming themselves through eating is NOT the same as widespread filmed r-pe and abuse
@@thatfuzzypotato1877 that’s brilliant! That totally makes sense! And UA-cam must make a lot of revenue off that as well.
Speaking of profits, I also find it so bizarre how the activists are always talking about the evil diet industry and how they have been oppressed by it, and are taking a bold revolutionary stand by ignoring it.
The diet industry is maybe 10% of the size of the food industry, which they never mention.
And the pharmaceuticals industry is possibly bigger than the food industry. When weight watchers announced they were dumping their method which they used for 60 years in favour of giving Ozempic etc prescriptions, that is mega bad!. 🤔
In Scientology, if you don’t go through the “correct” method of leaving the church, (which basically means paying a tonne of money) and you speak out against their abusive practices, your entire family and all of your friends are ordered to never speak to you or have any kind of contact with you ever again.
Fat acceptance is really starting to sound like Scientology to me
And just as toothless as Scientology. Well, almost toothless. Scientology actually puts effort in making people disappear.
I know this isn't the fault of UA-camrs specifically, but I am so sick to death of the self censorship. Just completely done with it.
ME TOO
It's because UA-cam is such a pansy they can't POSSIBLY handle talking about serious topics😒
@@CastIronCookie It isn’t. It’s because in order for content creators to get paid, brands want to have their ads shown on more family-friendly/marketing-friendly content. The only exception seems to be for some of UA-cam’s biggest creators.
I have no donut emoji to give but your edits are great, keeps it up! Digging the content - keeping it real with the themes while staying soft with the presentation can be a tricky roadmap to navigate. Next stop, 1m subs!
Eating too much was my first unhealthy coping mechanism. Later, that same pattern of reaching for external comfort in unhealthy things manifested as alcoholism. Now that I'm in recovery, I believe that people who tell me that I shouldn't punish myself by working out and losing weight are either recognizing what I'm doing as something they want to do but won't or they're skinny/fit people who want to save me from how they think I feel about myself. I wanna be healthy and happy more than I want to get drunk and eat junk food, and people are so quick to pull you back into that bucket of crabs, I think, because all they give a shit about is feeling like they're correct. It's easy to lie and make yourself feel safe, but it's hard to be honest, work hard, and keep yourself safe.
That intro was amazing! I appreciate how much time and details you put into the doll house props. 🍩 emoji for you! ❤
Wishing Rosie the best on her journey! With this mindset shift, I am confident she can do it!
UA-cam be loving to censorship! I was banned for a day for making comments about how the hurricane relief was not going! Your videos are amazing, and you need your own series!! Lots of love from NC💜
I agree
Seriously thank you to Rosie for all the self reflection and courage for sharing your personal story and struggles
Hearing about her past is heart wrenching. The unique circumstances of neglect(even if done unwittingly or ignorantly) by her parents just tug at my heart. Baby girl deserved so much better. As a girl who also was a book worm as a kid, it just hits close to home. I was also passed over sportwise because I was very small for my age, only when i had a growth spurt in high school and shot up to 6ft did I suddenly engage in activity because I almost suddenly was expected to(?). It's so wild how our upbringings and unique set of circumstances can affect us all so differently. I'm halfway through the vid and excited to hear about how things turn around for her
I hope the people who want to be healthy, GET healthy. It's ridiculous that the HAES movement claims to be so positive yet would rather their 'members' die than lose weight
"inflation" practice really made me mad... I fight for years against my bloating and I can't make it go away ... Just to think that some people are making this kind of thing for esthetic purposes makes me sick. Don't do that to yourself people 😞
I was close friends with the girl at 1:45 when I was 7 years old, crazy seeing her pop up on a few well known UA-cam channels recently
When I first heard about body positivity I thought they stood for accepting yourself as you are (dress up what you got) as you move towards your best self as you get healthier. For example just because I am fat now doesn't mean I should try to look good and feel good now and that will lead to better mental health for any transition I choose to make.
Boy was I wrong . Stay strong everyone. Peace and Blessings 🙏🏾
You were right. That's how it started. But it turned dark very quickly.
Still trips me out you can't say eating disorder, but obese acceptance can visually glorify it for views
Hahaha where did you get this Barbie? 0:33
Restarting my weight loss journey and stuff like these vids always serve as a great reminder of why I am changing my lifestyle. Starting week two today and so far so good, a full week hadn't even fully passed before I started feeling physically better after dropping added sugar and greasy foods. Thank you for always putting out the quality content you do Michelle!
LES GOOOO. YOU CAN DO IT.
This is so sad, only 7 mins in but I really hope Rosie has a happy ending.
I absolutely adore the fact that according to FA ✌🏼healing your relationship with food✌🏼 is overindulge on highly processed, trash food until you grow to the size of a small house 🏠. That's healing alright, yeah...
Yep, I felt so healed just looking at their pictures. 🤮
LMAO
Sshh let them live
Rosie seems like a sweet and intelligent young woman. She articulates her experience with empathy for the others still stuck in that world. I hope her life and health get better and better.
Not me checking on my fingers that health is a 6 letter word 😅
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 I did the same
Same, it seems like it should be 5!
@@ANYHOO0 HEALF! 👍📈
i deadass thought the person eating the carrot cake at 15:27 was eating off a table. i can't believe people celebrate that.
OMG. I didn't even notice either cause I also thought it was a table. What the hell is wrong with these people thinking this is healthy?! Can this lady even walk??
She has lost 600+ pounds so far. She was on my 600 Pound Life
@@jaimieking4340She's lost 600+pounds, and is still losing.
@@amandab8433 good for her!! that is something I can get behind celebrating
It is insane how some of those women claim that they can be healthy at their size. I am fat (6ft, almost 300lbs) and trying my best to lose weight rn because its just uncomfortable....cant imagine being half a foot shorter but weighing more...
Yea I'm fat guy
Im 5 ft10 was 275
Couldn't breath couldn't go up stairs
Now 245and dropping
I have always been a tall and thin woman. I gained like 25 pounds over the last few years and it really was very uncomfortable even though I was still in the normal BMI category. I’ve lost 20 pounds of it and feel so much better. I always side eye the really heavy fat activists who claim they don’t have any pain.
it's because they've always been fat and don't know what it's like to not have your pants wear down at the crotch.