I am 20 and i’ve never had a girlfriend

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  • @yairmatayev
    @yairmatayev 2 дні тому +5

    Look,
    You’re focused on the negative perspective, and that’s very relatable. I’m 31 and have only had a total of one year of relationships, so I’ve been in your situation for 10 more years, and I know exactly what you’re talking about.
    I’ve learned that life can be awful, but it can also be great.
    In reality, though, it’s neither-it’s something in between.
    Try to find that balance as well.
    Nothing is perfect in this world.
    Don’t approach things expecting them to be perfect, because most likely, they won’t be. Even if something feels perfect at the beginning, it can turn into the exact opposite later. So just chill, laugh about it, and accept that’s how life is.
    We all face different issues at different stages of life. It can feel so sad and unfair, but there are also moments of great fortune. I know you want a girlfriend, and that’s what matters to you right now. But remember, this is your sad moment now, and there will be an opposite to it later. Just watch how things evolve, almost as if life were a movie.
    Most likely, you’ll repeat many of the mistakes others, including myself, have made with women because you’ll want to learn for yourself rather than rely on other people’s warnings. So go ahead and do it. Take action. The more you do, the more you’ll increase your chances of enjoying a relationship-and also of getting hurt by it.

  • @jh-3839
    @jh-3839 Місяць тому +32

    Nobody dies a virgin. Life fucks us all

  • @ndmx1334
    @ndmx1334 Годину тому +1

    girl at 22 almost 23 now, significantly good looking and never had a bf or a relationship. thanks for making this video cuz i always thought there was something messed up about me for not being like everyone else. Look, we’re too good for this. don’t be sad because god will give you what you’re looking for when you’re focused fully on yourself. follow your intuition and don’t stress it too much. 20 is young and it’s never over. genuinely you’re pretty and look very nice. it’s hard to find good people these days so just stay real and there will be a circumstance where everything will be natural and you’ll find the one and laugh thinking about why you were even worrying. you’re blessed and staying away from evil things like dating apps and clubs. never good people there so no use looking. and regarding finding a v1rgin i think you’re completely entitled to it as you’re one yourself (blessed). don’t listen to people who say it’s unrealistic cuz it’s not. like attracts like. best of luck cuz life can go from 0-100 real quick.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  Годину тому

      @@ndmx1334 thank you, i love that

  • @Nicole-o9n1j
    @Nicole-o9n1j 3 дні тому +5

    You are fr one of the most handsome guys I’ve ever seen. You’re so PSL… I am seriously jealous of every girl you’ve had interest in.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  3 дні тому +3

      @@Nicole-o9n1j idek if this is a legit comment or not but thank you..

    • @Nicole-o9n1j
      @Nicole-o9n1j 3 дні тому

      @ it is ☺️

  • @casey-zd5mj
    @casey-zd5mj 27 днів тому +12

    I'm a 30 y/o in the same spot, doesn't change until you make it change. I tried to focus on hobbies and shit throughout mid 20s and all a sudden I was 27 and still never had a gf. you gotta actively search and approach, that random run into a chick type shit never happened for me.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  26 днів тому

      @@casey-zd5mj rooting for you man 🙏

    • @biker0777
      @biker0777 13 днів тому

      facts, but how ? Online Dating is basically bullshit and speaking to a random girl at the street doesn't work either

    • @thebostonministry8099
      @thebostonministry8099 7 днів тому

      IF U HAVE TO APPROACH A WOMAN ITS A WRAP! WOMEN APPROACH THE DUDES THEY REALLY WANT. IF U ARENT IN THE NHL, NBA, MLB, NFL, OR SOME SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCER WITH A LOT OF CLOUT DONT BOTHER APPROACHING THEM

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  7 днів тому +1

      @ yea i talked about that in my other video essentially

    • @thebostonministry8099
      @thebostonministry8099 7 днів тому +2

      @@llamasixzero ITS GOING TO GET WORSE THERE IS THE 80/20 RULE IN FULL AFFECT BUT I THINK ITS REALLY 90/20 WHERE 90 PERCENT OF THE WOMEN ARE CHASING AFTER THE TOP 20 PERCENT OF MEN AND THERE IS A STUDY WHERE WOMEN HAVE CLAIMED AVERAGE MEN ARE UGLY I FEEL SORRY FOR U HAVING TO GO THROUGH THIS PAIN

  • @humegoon_6817
    @humegoon_6817 2 дні тому +3

    Dude youre a good lookin bloke, dont stress too much about it cuz 20 is young as fuck. Also its a little unrealistic trying to chase a virgin unless youre in a religious community then it might be possible.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  2 дні тому +1

      @@humegoon_6817 Thank you, honestly though it’s a virgin wife or bust

  • @bimmyfrizzo3988
    @bimmyfrizzo3988 8 днів тому +5

    I gave up on girls since 2003. I see em as nothing but self centered narcissists.
    I prefer to be alone all the time. I just don't wanna see anybody after work.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  8 днів тому +2

      @@bimmyfrizzo3988 you are stronger than me man, for some reason i still have think ill find her..

    • @bimmyfrizzo3988
      @bimmyfrizzo3988 6 днів тому +2

      ​@@llamasixzero You don't need em. Trust me, They'll ruin your life.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  6 днів тому +3

      @ most likely but i gotta continue the bloodline bro

  • @lopyrax2884
    @lopyrax2884 21 день тому +17

    bro you are handsome, im honestly surprised, life is so cruel nowadays

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  21 день тому

      @@lopyrax2884 i appreciate that, even if i really am good looking i can agree that it’s cruel asf.

    • @lopyrax2884
      @lopyrax2884 20 днів тому +2

      ​@llamasixzero i feel you bro, i dont know since im straight but you seem like a handsome guy to me that girls would be all over. However in my country its pretty normal, im 17 and most my friends that are 15-16-17 dont have a girlfriend or didnt have one at all too. If you really want to know why it is like it is probably blackpill will answer you if you search it well

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  20 днів тому

      @ i’ve read up on the blackpill stuff and there is definitely some truth to it. also whether or not being single at any age is a problem depends on the situation, and in mine it is an issue.

  • @dh6hb7ub94
    @dh6hb7ub94 25 днів тому +6

    I had my first girlfriend at 21 and it was just 3 months. Then I met my current girlfriend, the second at 22 and we've been tohether for more than a year now. I even started college at 23. Never too late. Just don't care of the average.

  • @supremek3103
    @supremek3103 5 днів тому +3

    I subbed I resonate with you heavy bruh

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  4 дні тому +1

      @@supremek3103 i appreciate it bro 🤙 more to come

  • @JPort561
    @JPort561 5 днів тому +5

    this is exactly how I picture a 20yos perspective to be lol.. I was there 10 years ago

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  5 днів тому

      @@JPort561 i’d love to know what it was like dating in the early 2010s 😭

    • @JPort561
      @JPort561 5 днів тому +1

      @ it wasn't what you imagine it to be bro lol the best thing you can do is save every penny and invest for the long term and hold your investments. Everyday(including today, as I write this comment) I kick myself because I was an idiot. I bearly wanted to work because I felt enslaved to the 9 to 5 so I figured dj/producer/rapper was the way to go, wasted hella money and time doing it when all I had to do was simple.. go to work at the restaurant (which i viewed as a low level job) clean tables eventually moved up to barback save every dollar while living at home, then invest the money and hold while continuing to do the same thing over and over and potentially invest in bitcoin.. but instead I smoked weed hung up with losers and was lazy as could be and depressed. So sad to look back on when heinsight is 2020 now.. dont make the same mistake bro

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  5 днів тому

      @@JPort561 sheesh missing out on bitcoin sucks, but yeah i will never drink/smoke and im going to try to make some money on the bull run this year and heavily focusing on making some money per investments. If a girl comes along than that’s great but i gotta chase the bag.

  • @izaiahmartinez
    @izaiahmartinez 17 днів тому +5

    This video was weirdly honest and you're easily an 8/10

  • @velha2999
    @velha2999 5 днів тому +4

    the worst part is that ur actually handsome unlike me (21yo) and i also never had a girlfriend LOL

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  5 днів тому

      @@velha2999 i’m alright.. lol, i seen a lot of couples tho where i am taller and objectively better looking than the boyfriend and it has become apparent that looks really aren’t everything but they definitely help so maybe i just need to step my game up

  • @zachf1212
    @zachf1212 2 дні тому +1

    There’s no predicting what the next months of your life will look like. Who knows maybe you’ll meet someone. In the meantime continue working on yourself because the grind is never over. There’s always a room for improvement. Stay positive

  • @elijahwoodard714
    @elijahwoodard714 21 день тому +8

    Proof that looks pretty much don't matter for men.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  21 день тому +3

      @@elijahwoodard714 i don’t know what matters than 😭

    • @elijahwoodard714
      @elijahwoodard714 21 день тому +2

      @llamasixzero I know man. I'm in the same boat kinda. I'm 6'3" lean with a sharp jawline, older women have called me handsome but that's it lol. I've only ever been in situationships with not that attractive women. Society really tries to pigeonhold you into being something you're not. Nobody likes kindness, everyone loves toxic behavior. You're doing good for yourself and you're very attractive, I promise you that it's not you it's society.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  21 день тому

      @@elijahwoodard714 appreciate it bro 🙏

    • @Zo-se4hj
      @Zo-se4hj 2 дні тому

      ⁠​⁠@@elijahwoodard714I think it’s an issue for nice guys and nice girls. If u r a good person it’s sadly hard to find relationships now. What a fucking society we live in for dating 😭

    • @elijahwoodard714
      @elijahwoodard714 2 дні тому +1

      @Zo-se4hj women can literally be whatever and do whatever and still find someone. If you're a reserved and quiet man you're screwed.

  • @itsalexanderhere
    @itsalexanderhere 8 днів тому +3

    You make your own luck don’t forget that.

  • @Zo-se4hj
    @Zo-se4hj 2 дні тому +1

    I am very surprised u haven’t had a girlfriend before, and u are way above average looking it’s not ur looks. I agree with everything u said and are in ur exact position but as a girl haha. If u were living near me I would 100% be interested in u. It’s just sad that the decent people actually find it so hard to find a relationship. Also red pill thing is not true decent girls don’t care about status, money and superficial shit that’s only these fake ass girls like ig models who expect the impossible 😭

  • @gelatoruntz4200
    @gelatoruntz4200 8 днів тому +3

    a girl i was talking to who was ur age was the final nail in the coffin for me by the end of the year im done

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  8 днів тому

      @@gelatoruntz4200 i tell myself there’s always next year but i don’t want to go through another year tbh lol

    • @gelatoruntz4200
      @gelatoruntz4200 8 днів тому +1

      @ honestly man it’s like u wanna be in that situation but at the same time u don’t

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  8 днів тому

      @ real.

  • @thegorgeousboy5671
    @thegorgeousboy5671 21 день тому +2

    I'm 31 and never had a girlfriend

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  21 день тому

      @@thegorgeousboy5671 hang in there bro 🤞

  • @supremek3103
    @supremek3103 5 днів тому +1

    bruh I missed on teen love too, and I do have plenty of options rn im not gonna lie man with attractive girls but there's somethin bout teen love that I want and I know I'll never get.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  4 дні тому

      @@supremek3103 same same, trying to keep the dream alive

  • @XPMORPHINE
    @XPMORPHINE 10 годин тому +1

    Im 25 never had a kiss,never talked to a girl.And youtube keeps reccomending me this sh$t

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  9 годин тому +1

      @@XPMORPHINE at least i’m relatable and you’re not seeing a bunch of young couples lmao

  • @TwistedLullabies
    @TwistedLullabies 22 дні тому +6

    This is normal now

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  21 день тому +3

      @@TwistedLullabies for a lot of good men, yes unfortunately we are going to waste

  • @fausto123
    @fausto123 3 дні тому +1

    My dude if you're that handsome and never get kissed, we're doomed.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  2 дні тому

      @@fausto123 we doomed then 🙂‍↕️

  • @carlitosbrigante6889
    @carlitosbrigante6889 23 години тому

    These girls aren’t worth the time bro.

  • @mossproductions6004
    @mossproductions6004 3 дні тому +1

    Highly recommend gaining a lil bit of weight 134 is very light 150 would be fine since you don't want to bulk. I'm 5'5 and weigh more than you currently

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  2 дні тому

      @@mossproductions6004 the crazy part is i eat pretty much whatever i want

    • @mossproductions6004
      @mossproductions6004 2 дні тому

      @llamasixzero mass gainer just gain a few more pounds and you will look improved

    • @soul-heart
      @soul-heart 4 години тому +1

      @@llamasixzero Trust me, I was exactly like you, you need to eat A LOT! You may think you're eating enough, but it took me about 4yrs to go from 125 to 165 as a 6'3" male and the bulk of it was that I just wasn't eating enough for my activity levels. Also go to the gym. Don't need to lift too heavy. Just go a couple times a week and lift enough to stimulate your muscles, should be enough to help keep some of the weight on.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  4 години тому +1

      @ i’d like to get taller actually but i’m happy with my weight and physique

    • @soul-heart
      @soul-heart Годину тому +1

      @llamasixzero Hey that's ok. I was just saying that I didn't understand how much I actually needed to eat in order to gain weight because just like you I could eat anything and not gain a single pound.
      Maybe get to 140, as I felt good at 140 but still looked skinny, but as long as you're healthy, eating enough for your lifestyle then you'll be just fine.
      Also while you may not think so, you definitely look good and have some really nice hair.

  • @patchouliatdawn
    @patchouliatdawn 8 годин тому +1

    Nice hair dude

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  4 години тому

      @@patchouliatdawn thx bro 🤙

  • @TwistedLullabies
    @TwistedLullabies 22 дні тому +2

    I got some advice though. Expecting a girl that's 16+ to be a virgin is like expecting to win the lottery twice. And you have to use dating apps or social media, as it's how most people meet now, along with it being the most safe and efficient way to approach women. Do you think you think you're randomly going to bump into one while you're out and about like it's some Disney movie?

    • @mksk4395
      @mksk4395 21 день тому

      best chances you have to meet a girl is social circle, school, university and work environment. In my youth, I was very depressed so I didn't capitalize on that. And when I was 17 I switched occupation into a field with almost just men (computer science).
      So I gotta play into the dating circus and have to register into dating apps sooner or later. If you are an adult like me, with no options in your field of work, the best places comes down to you as an individual, but I'd say hobby clubs, conventions and dating apps are your best options. But dating apps are extremely superficial so you need very good appearance to be succesfull there

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  21 день тому +1

      @@TwistedLullabies So real. i am getting concerned that it’s never going to happen, and very sad what has happened to our young women.

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  21 день тому +2

      ⁠@@mksk4395i haven’t had a real interaction with a girl since i was in high school, i also hate dating apps so im completely lost and confused as to why i never got mine like seemingly everyone else.

    • @Zo-se4hj
      @Zo-se4hj 2 дні тому +1

      Bro what I’m 19 and a virgin. I have plenty of hobbies and a good lifestyle but don’t go out. I have a very good physique as I work out a lot and are probably about a 6.5-7/10. So I don’t even know what to do anymore 😭

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  2 дні тому

      @@Zo-se4hj tbh you should just start approaching guys first if you are interested in them, success rate is much higher for women that approach.

  • @Skate-Steve
    @Skate-Steve 7 днів тому +2

    Same as you but 44

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  7 днів тому

      @@Skate-Steve i’m almost half way to 44 🥲

  • @Ghoul-Mask
    @Ghoul-Mask 19 днів тому +1

    You're a pretty boy, you'll do fine

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  19 днів тому

      @@Ghoul-Mask i mean.. so far so (not) good

  • @maddiecmears
    @maddiecmears 17 днів тому +3

    You are attractive so don't think its your looks. Coming from a girl let me tell you: show interest. Girls fall in love with guys who make them feel safe, secure, like they can giggle and relax and just be a little girl again with. It sounds strange but its true, its common that girls won't like you at first but then they will. Again its not your looks, you are above average aesthetically (IMO). You are only 21 years old, 21 YEARS OLD. I am 20 myself almost 21. I also dont drink or go out, i only go to work, and i am in the process of building myself and you can too. Sure you can find people at the bars, but what are their deep down intentions you know?
    There are women out there who will start to like you. Find what you like in girls, where would those types of girls be? You are humble, but i don't think you are seeing your full potential. The best thing is the slow burn, see who she is as a person, without the expectation that she will date you. Again ive had one 2 month relationship in my life so i cannot really talk but i will say, you will be #1 for someone. Build yourself. Girls are sooo attracted to men who build themselves. And no you didnt "miss your chance". Anyways ill continue writing but i mean this in the nicest way, get TF out of this victim mindset, the version of you who has a girl that loves you equally is there, but you must shift your mindset and energy first.

    • @Judah92
      @Judah92 5 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂 we’re not listening to any more of y’all’s lies because y’all say one thing but it’s not the same in reality is the complete opposite the women are all chasing the Chads guys with the six pack muscular guys jawline etc 😂😂

    • @maddiecmears
      @maddiecmears 5 днів тому

      The women chasing those men are not looking for emotional stability as a first priority then. I’d choose an average guy that’s emotionally stable over a 6 pack muscular guy that has no emotional regulation, IMO!

    • @Judah92
      @Judah92 5 днів тому

      @ that’s what women
      Do in they prime years they chase after the men the ideal man he dumps them
      Then she wants the average guy lol not tripping but I been on both sides so I know a woman wants snd needs

  • @SLRTD
    @SLRTD 26 днів тому +2

    same bro

  • @SangheliosGaming
    @SangheliosGaming 3 дні тому +1

    Bruv, I'm 32 and I never had a gf wtf.

  • @thebostonministry8099
    @thebostonministry8099 7 днів тому +1

    ITS OVER BRO THEIR STANDARDS ARE TOO HIGH AND THEY HAVE TOO MANY OPTIONS ON ONLY FANS AND SIMPS IN THEIR DM’S

    • @Zo-se4hj
      @Zo-se4hj 2 дні тому +1

      Soo untrue. The girls u r talking about are girls that u only see online like ig models or OF models or chronically online girls. A normal girl who has a normal life which is 90% of girls this is not the case 😭

    • @thebostonministry8099
      @thebostonministry8099 День тому

      @ EVEN AVERAGE WOMEN ARE GOING AFTER CHAD AND TYRONE WHY CANT U SEE THIS EPIDEMIC THATS GOING ON WHERE THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF MEN ONLINE ALL SAYING THE SAME THING THEY CANT FIND A GIRL AND THEY FEEL LIKE GIVING UP! FACE IT IF YOU ARENT IN THE NHL, MLB OR SOME BIGTIME SUPERSTAR U WILL DIE ALONE!

  • @ret2libc0x90
    @ret2libc0x90 21 день тому +3

    You ain't missing anything bro trust me on that. sex is overhyped

    • @mksk4395
      @mksk4395 21 день тому +3

      it really is. Love isn't overhyped imo, but to get real love, there needs to be actual attraction. Something that is very hard to influence. But living alone is definitely a safer bet as the only person you have to rely on and depend on is yourself

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  21 день тому +4

      i’m waiting until marriage to have sex, at least that’s the plan. i’m missing out on falling in love and finding somebody lol

  • @ProfessorMeeks
    @ProfessorMeeks 25 днів тому +8

    Its over

    • @mksk4395
      @mksk4395 21 день тому +5

      our saint has spoken xD

    • @Ghoul-Mask
      @Ghoul-Mask 19 днів тому

      Joever

    • @endalex3893
      @endalex3893 10 днів тому +1

      "Never get up , anything is possible with looks "
      ~Legacy of Meeks~

  • @BrianAlex-df3tk
    @BrianAlex-df3tk 4 дні тому +1

    I’m happy I never had a girlfriend 😅 I just used to be by myself and made over 100k nah I’m good doing me 😂

  • @Yoshsterpalooza
    @Yoshsterpalooza 22 дні тому +3

    Good luck finding a virgin in 2024 lmao, also the whole randomly meeting someone like Disney is cope you have to actively look and approach. Using apps, insta dms and hobbies/clubs is the 2024 meta. Warm approaching at work or school is the next best thing but this isn’t gen x or millenial world anymore.

    • @mmkw5621
      @mmkw5621 21 день тому +1

      The apps really suck

    • @Yoshsterpalooza
      @Yoshsterpalooza 21 день тому +3

      @@mmkw5621 they do, but unfortunately people are socially autistic thanks to social media and covid, so cold approaching is kind of an L these days.

  • @the2kking307
    @the2kking307 13 днів тому +1

    Bruh, you're fine. You still got time to change that

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  13 днів тому

      @@the2kking307 sure i have all of the time in the world but it is so hard to find a good match. It’s now or never.

    • @the2kking307
      @the2kking307 13 днів тому

      @llamasixzero I understand how you feel about not having a girlfriend. Like me I'm like 26 and I never had a girlfriend but one date in my life. I'm going to work on it though

  • @BEACHDUDE71
    @BEACHDUDE71 9 днів тому +1

    53 unemployed virgin living with my parents, you still have time

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  8 днів тому +1

      @@BEACHDUDE71 honestly time does not matter, i could have all the time in the world and it might just never happen. unlikely but very possible.

    • @BEACHDUDE71
      @BEACHDUDE71 8 днів тому

      @@llamasixzero Money would help

  • @taitime3873
    @taitime3873 День тому

    Good lord bro. Everything in your life is FINE man you are simply just not looking

  • @humegoon_6817
    @humegoon_6817 2 дні тому +1

    Dont compare yourself to other brobro

  • @drebelx5061
    @drebelx5061 7 днів тому +2

    make money and travel the world bro

  • @supremek3103
    @supremek3103 5 днів тому +1

    i f w you bruh

  • @aemi1629
    @aemi1629 21 день тому

    nah u look good enough tbh, whats your height? Mb thats the reason, otherwise mb ur just non nt

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  21 день тому +1

      6’0 ☠️ am i cooked??

    • @massimogonzalez9470
      @massimogonzalez9470 17 днів тому

      Nah we are cooked ​@@llamasixzero

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  16 днів тому

      @@massimogonzalez9470 for real 🗿

    • @kzmatr
      @kzmatr 13 днів тому

      @@llamasixzero literally you're in the 20% height-wise as a man in the US so if you think that it is a deciding factor then you better look internally or whether your expectations are realistic

    • @llamasixzero
      @llamasixzero  12 днів тому +1

      i’ve never met a girl that isn’t shallow but i’ll gladly have one prove me wrong, and if anything i’m more valuable internally than i am with my looks imo