It's funny how a big part of maturing isn't really to overcome ones condition but to accept it. To accept that things take time, to accept that you can only do one thing at a time, to accept our silly self who wants to have fun and so on. This seems to be true for so much more. Like accepting that one feels the way one does and therefore choosing to move on instead of combating it.
I decided to quit the 2024 reading challenge (and all reading challenges moving forward) because it made reading more of an anxious thing vs a thing of enjoyment. My reading habits have been sh*tty lately, but the last thing I wanna do is add unnecessary stress to myself.
"in the end, even if i got everything i'd ever wanted, these will be the moments that i still ask for. so why trade these moments for anything else." 🥺💗
7:57 When you said , just be in the physical surroundings...i just listened to the birds and leaves outside my house..and i dont know what happened , but i just felt *so peaceful* . *The restlessnes just stopped* . I was just able to do my work wothout touching my phone one hour later till now. Thanks
“I don’t NEED to do every single thing under the sun.” Thank you so much! I can relate, hope we can meet one day in real life (just hoping, nothin than that😂), productive mate!😂 One more thing you guys can try is taking 3 deep breaths (for a little calm moment), then ask yourself what is important to you? That’s the next necessary thing.❤
Somedays ago I downloaded social media just cause my friends constantly told me to (which made me feel left out not having an account) ... After some days I noticed I have been less patient with things, more irritated and more addicted to my phone.. I honestly didn't feel like myself and i felt like i could have done some other hobbies of mine instead of scrolling mindlessly (I'm on festival break so ya) .. Anyways so even after my friends tried to convince me otherwise I still deleted it and ur video helped me a lot ❤ .. Like really. After watching this video, it feels like I did the right thing listening to myself instead of other people who don't live my life.
Im in my first semester break and after coming to terms of my anxiety and overthinking, I feel like it is great to stay off social media for periods of time. I felt less inclined to check up on people and thinking I am not good enough ever since I found this tip. Your channel really helped me prove myself more that I don't need to always be on my phone and I should focus on myself. Hopefully it gets better as I continue my college year.
I’ve been slowing down recently. I make a habit to spend at least four hours outside and really get in touch with everything that’s around me. It becomes my place of happiness where I’m not trying to always improve on something, but I’m just allowing myself to exist. As odd as a statement, existing is the biggest gift that tends to go unnoticed. ❤
i love you so much, felt like the big sister i wish i had. not only am i taking the advice, i am shifting my perceptions. Please continue doing this, making people change their views.
I teared up while listening to your reminders of wisdom and seeing your excellent video edits. In a culture that tries to keep us in perpetual perceived and real chaos, your video was much needed. Thank you.
I have never encountered any videos that I would like so much before. Your tone of voice, the choice of music, beautiful scenes of your place and nature, themes, and reflection of your thoughts - everything is perfect. You are the kind of person whose personality I find so inspiring. This video made me desire to change some things in my life to have it like this, like you showed: slow, deliberate, soft, and honestly full of love. Thank you very much for this. It really helped and I hope you will continue to upload your videos. I almost sobbed watching this.
Wow I can't believe I randomly clicked this video and you put my exact thoughts and actually said them aloud. I now can feel slightly more at peace knowing that it's not just me that feels this way. Thank u
You brought me so much comfort and peace with explaining something I have been feeling. When I was little, I used to feel so alive and in the present. But as I got older, it felt like I was taking on a lot more responsibilities and tasks just to feel like I was doing something. Like, these tasks made me a productive individual, when in reality it just made me feel like a robot going through the motions of a set life or something… I want to make a promise to myself, a promise that I will only do tasks that are necessary and do them with patience and gratitude. That way I can spend more time doing fun things and hanging with loved ones, because that is what matters the most in life- living a way that makes you happy. Thanks again for making me realize this, and all the comfort your videos bring me. Keep up the good work! 😊
Thank you~♡☆ I have severe anxiety and am overwhelmed these days bc of major life changes (moving out from mom + new college). To be prepared for a mature life, I tried to make as many improvements as possible in cooking, cleaning, fitness, running, cycling, yoga, finance, reading, sightseeing, socializing, mental health habits....... etc (planned to add English, French, and fashion lolll ). I spread thin and felt so stuck that I procrastinated every day for more than 8h in social media. I felt like I was betraying myself. But you know what? You opened my eyes. Thank you very much for helping me (and others) to find peace and simple joy in our lives☺️🩷💫
For once in a long time, this kind of video spoke to me in some way. It was so relatable without me having to feel guilty or pressured. You were really able to find the right words to calm my mind and actually provide some advice. It's really not that serious, we need to do things that we like more often and take some time to listen to ourselves...
Honestly glad this popped up on my recommended, thank you for reminding me that living in the present is all I need for myself right now. I was feeling super overwhelmed that I wasn't doing enough, but I am, I just need to take a deep breath. Wonderful message and beautiful clips in the video!!
feel like i've found a gem with this channel..... resonated so much with this video. lately i've been becoming aware that it doesn't actually matter how productive i am in a day, i'll still feel that guilt and anxiety around not having done enough. i sort of realised that i'd actually been very disciplined over the past few days and still equally had that nagging feeling that i'm a lazy waste of potential. it was to the point that i wasn't even _aware_ of the amount i'd done until i recapped it all. i think part of that unsatisfied feeling spawns from not having actually immersed myself in the process, having done it for the sake of having done it - which ironically just leaves me feeling like i haven't actually done it. i'd read a book, write a song, go on a walk, study, meditate, and because i wasn't present throughout any of it, it would feel like just yet another wasted day. i am starting to feel like doing things just to feel like you've "done enough" is more of a waste of time than not bothering to do anything at all - the presumed value in the activity is lost to the fact that you didn't properly experience it. my next step is going to be to try and eradicate that need within me to "feel productive" and to start properly living. thank you for this
These videos are so beautiful to me, the editing is wonderful. Nonetheless the way you articulate these messages is absolutely eye opening. This channel is a gem!!
/i feel the same. I just passed my medical entrance exam where I was literally studying 17 to 18 hours daily. It's been barely 5 days and I have this ansxious rushed energy where i feel like i am wasting my time, not being productive. i just need to remind myself its okay to take time for myself and just do nothing. sometimes you with your thoughts alone bring more peace and understanding of life than any prolific books, podcasts, work etc
i found one of your videos pop up on my page and i sought it to be intriguing, so i put it in my playlists. now watching it, im so glad i took the time to ACTUALLY watch it rather than to just keep it in my playlist or watch later, i love your channel and your words are so simple yet so alluring, i'd love to watch you and your channel grow, xo! 💓
same , i don't know what i need to do know, life make me feel tired , i sometime ask myself that who am i , what is my purpose when i exist in the world with so much change and i can't chase with it . thank you if someone see my comment , i hope you can find the mean of life ( sr if i make mistake because i just have learnt english in a short time ) 😄😄
All great advice and observations! Your cinematography and editing is improving with every video; this video is conveying great information and it's doing it in such a visually interesting way. Keep up the good work, I and many others appreciate and enjoy your efforts!
Thank you for making videos like these… watching your vids was a coincidence, I had a shitty attitude towards myself and to my tasks and studies… sometimes it felt like i’m on the edge, but sometimes i’m just laying pn my bed… I don’t know what to do so I’m now listening to your words, tearing up… I always thought I matured in some cases but still I’m still immature and just suffer frok my own doing… ugh.. 😢
Please don't ever delete this vid 🥺 Those are the exact thought am habits I'm trying to cultivate, thanks for verbalizing it and sharing it with us. 💚💙
This video found me exactly when i needed it...thank you so muchhh, im falling in love with your videography ahhh, every shot gave me a sense of comfort which i didnt know i could get through a yt video (i hope it made sense lol)....coudnt relate more to all the things you talked aboutt...thank youuu...truly eye-opening...keep goinggg
You have no idea how long I’ve been waiting for someone to answer this question/ make this video. I’ve been feeling this way for months now and I didn’t know what to do or what I was feeling. Thank you so much :D. You actually made my day today. I hope you have an amazing life.
Thank you for this video and other your videos too. Lately I’ve been feeling so much pressure and I’ve been overthinking literally everything. I kind of felt like I’m going to lose myself because I didn’t (and still not sure) know what I even like, because I just do things automatically. It felt like that there is nothing I like in this world when it’s just actually that I have been doing just things that the internet ”kinda want me to do”. And I felt like that I have to ”filter” myself to be a happy and enjoyable person. Even now I feel overwhelmed by the fact that I’m venting here but honestly I don’t know if it even matters😅 Yeah, so I also wanted to say that this video was really beautiful visually and just so meaningful to me and surely to others too. Yeah, thank you:)
Thanks.i mean it. Lately i just feel Unhappy with my life,with my day by day habbits and I want to put some order in my life. to take more control and feel free and happy to.
Great advice. It reminds me of something in the beginning of Tolstoy's Anna Karenina: (to) become oblivious in the dream of life.... (to) live for the needs of the day .... (to say) "we'll see later on" (like, oh well it doesn't all have to be clear to me at all times). And honestly it feels like social media tries to make folks feel the opposite way🤔. I found myself constantly being slapped on the wrist and antagonized by randos and just said whatever im out. glhf✌😑
your content is literally a breath of fresh air in a world of fleshy overwhelming content that is created only for gaining views 🤍thank you for inspiring me to grow every single day. also, the quality of your videos improved a lot; so grateful to be able to watch your videos. never stop creating!
Thank you for this video , a lot of the time, I feel the need to be doing more than what i am doing, and at the end of the day, I feel guilty for not doing anything. I learnt how to get away with those unnecessary thoughts from your videos. Simple and effective!
ive been lost for the past, what, month? and i just binged your videos, and gosh. i love them so much. they feel like someone hugging me warmly and patting my head. i feel like i can do anything, and that my future is in my hands when i watch your videos. you deserve so much more recognition, i praise you
thank u so much this is what i am feeling right now and the words i need to be heard. I am currently waiting to go to Japan for my work and i feel so scared and impatient to get there soon. But i can't contol the process with those documents and visa process so i guess i can only wait patiently.
Hi I also came out of this shell you are my inspiration for starting my own real life. Character Jst having a break from social media is a big change of creating memories, then forgetting what life is.❤
I have so much anxiety I am changing school because my friends left it either but I am regretting it now going to a new place where I don't know anyone I am dying inside
“Sometimes we end up scrolling on social media because it doesn’t involve committing to an activity” what a line 😭💕
It's funny how a big part of maturing isn't really to overcome ones condition but to accept it. To accept that things take time, to accept that you can only do one thing at a time, to accept our silly self who wants to have fun and so on. This seems to be true for so much more. Like accepting that one feels the way one does and therefore choosing to move on instead of combating it.
Malingsia
Wow that hit's deep thank you : )
Completely agreed!
this was like a studio ghibli film, it was lovely.
Glazing hard
fr it felt so nice
2:23. This hit me, I have always considered myself patient person. but I realize I have patience with other people but zero patience for myself.
I decided to quit the 2024 reading challenge (and all reading challenges moving forward) because it made reading more of an anxious thing vs a thing of enjoyment. My reading habits have been sh*tty lately, but the last thing I wanna do is add unnecessary stress to myself.
Never thought my thoughts would resonate with someone else so much.
❤
it feels good to have ppl who're just ppl
@@youngandmeowtiful ppl who are just ppl , umm that's a interesting thing
"in the end, even if i got everything i'd ever wanted, these will be the moments that i still ask for. so why trade these moments for anything else." 🥺💗
7:57
When you said , just be in the physical surroundings...i just listened to the birds and leaves outside my house..and i dont know what happened , but i just felt *so peaceful* .
*The restlessnes just stopped*
. I was just able to do my work wothout touching my phone one hour later till now. Thanks
girl I swear you're reading my mind or something, I've literally never had someone speak to my soul like that
“I don’t NEED to do every single thing under the sun.” Thank you so much! I can relate, hope we can meet one day in real life (just hoping, nothin than that😂), productive mate!😂
One more thing you guys can try is taking 3 deep breaths (for a little calm moment), then ask yourself what is important to you? That’s the next necessary thing.❤
the 'patience' section is so real oml the goodreads and to-do list part! that is my life. i had to stop using goodreads for my own health
Somedays ago I downloaded social media just cause my friends constantly told me to (which made me feel left out not having an account) ... After some days I noticed I have been less patient with things, more irritated and more addicted to my phone.. I honestly didn't feel like myself and i felt like i could have done some other hobbies of mine instead of scrolling mindlessly (I'm on festival break so ya) .. Anyways so even after my friends tried to convince me otherwise I still deleted it and ur video helped me a lot ❤ .. Like really. After watching this video, it feels like I did the right thing listening to myself instead of other people who don't live my life.
I wish we were lowkey friends irl you inspire me to write things and go experience life
Im in my first semester break and after coming to terms of my anxiety and overthinking, I feel like it is great to stay off social media for periods of time. I felt less inclined to check up on people and thinking I am not good enough ever since I found this tip. Your channel really helped me prove myself more that I don't need to always be on my phone and I should focus on myself. Hopefully it gets better as I continue my college year.
I’ve been slowing down recently. I make a habit to spend at least four hours outside and really get in touch with everything that’s around me. It becomes my place of happiness where I’m not trying to always improve on something, but I’m just allowing myself to exist. As odd as a statement, existing is the biggest gift that tends to go unnoticed. ❤
The part where you talked about patience is everything I wanted to hear...
i love you so much, felt like the big sister i wish i had. not only am i taking the advice, i am shifting my perceptions. Please continue doing this, making people change their views.
"Just do fun shit w/o overthinking it" 💯
I teared up while listening to your reminders of wisdom and seeing your excellent video edits. In a culture that tries to keep us in perpetual perceived and real chaos, your video was much needed. Thank you.
everything you said resonated with me so much 😭 thank you for this
I have never encountered any videos that I would like so much before. Your tone of voice, the choice of music, beautiful scenes of your place and nature, themes, and reflection of your thoughts - everything is perfect. You are the kind of person whose personality I find so inspiring. This video made me desire to change some things in my life to have it like this, like you showed: slow, deliberate, soft, and honestly full of love. Thank you very much for this. It really helped and I hope you will continue to upload your videos. I almost sobbed watching this.
Wow I can't believe I randomly clicked this video and you put my exact thoughts and actually said them aloud.
I now can feel slightly more at peace knowing that it's not just me that feels this way. Thank u
You brought me so much comfort and peace with explaining something I have been feeling. When I was little, I used to feel so alive and in the present. But as I got older, it felt like I was taking on a lot more responsibilities and tasks just to feel like I was doing something. Like, these tasks made me a productive individual, when in reality it just made me feel like a robot going through the motions of a set life or something… I want to make a promise to myself, a promise that I will only do tasks that are necessary and do them with patience and gratitude. That way I can spend more time doing fun things and hanging with loved ones, because that is what matters the most in life- living a way that makes you happy. Thanks again for making me realize this, and all the comfort your videos bring me. Keep up the good work! 😊
Thank you~♡☆ I have severe anxiety and am overwhelmed these days bc of major life changes (moving out from mom + new college). To be prepared for a mature life, I tried to make as many improvements as possible in cooking, cleaning, fitness, running, cycling, yoga, finance, reading, sightseeing, socializing, mental health habits....... etc (planned to add English, French, and fashion lolll ).
I spread thin and felt so stuck that I procrastinated every day for more than 8h in social media. I felt like I was betraying myself. But you know what? You opened my eyes. Thank you very much for helping me (and others) to find peace and simple joy in our lives☺️🩷💫
For once in a long time, this kind of video spoke to me in some way. It was so relatable without me having to feel guilty or pressured. You were really able to find the right words to calm my mind and actually provide some advice. It's really not that serious, we need to do things that we like more often and take some time to listen to ourselves...
I clicked on this video because the thumbnail was beautiful and I was not disappointed❤
Thank you for this 💕
so underrated atp
this is actually so helpful genuinely
Honestly glad this popped up on my recommended, thank you for reminding me that living in the present is all I need for myself right now. I was feeling super overwhelmed that I wasn't doing enough, but I am, I just need to take a deep breath. Wonderful message and beautiful clips in the video!!
feel like i've found a gem with this channel..... resonated so much with this video. lately i've been becoming aware that it doesn't actually matter how productive i am in a day, i'll still feel that guilt and anxiety around not having done enough. i sort of realised that i'd actually been very disciplined over the past few days and still equally had that nagging feeling that i'm a lazy waste of potential. it was to the point that i wasn't even _aware_ of the amount i'd done until i recapped it all. i think part of that unsatisfied feeling spawns from not having actually immersed myself in the process, having done it for the sake of having done it - which ironically just leaves me feeling like i haven't actually done it. i'd read a book, write a song, go on a walk, study, meditate, and because i wasn't present throughout any of it, it would feel like just yet another wasted day. i am starting to feel like doing things just to feel like you've "done enough" is more of a waste of time than not bothering to do anything at all - the presumed value in the activity is lost to the fact that you didn't properly experience it. my next step is going to be to try and eradicate that need within me to "feel productive" and to start properly living. thank you for this
These videos are so beautiful to me, the editing is wonderful. Nonetheless the way you articulate these messages is absolutely eye opening. This channel is a gem!!
/i feel the same. I just passed my medical entrance exam where I was literally studying 17 to 18 hours daily. It's been barely 5 days and I have this ansxious rushed energy where i feel like i am wasting my time, not being productive. i just need to remind myself its okay to take time for myself and just do nothing. sometimes you with your thoughts alone bring more peace and understanding of life than any prolific books, podcasts, work etc
This was sorely needed today. Thankyou so much.
i found one of your videos pop up on my page and i sought it to be intriguing, so i put it in my playlists. now watching it, im so glad i took the time to ACTUALLY watch it rather than to just keep it in my playlist or watch later, i love your channel and your words are so simple yet so alluring, i'd love to watch you and your channel grow, xo! 💓
same , i don't know what i need to do know, life make me feel tired , i sometime ask myself that who am i , what is my purpose when i exist in the world with so much change and i can't chase with it . thank you if someone see my comment , i hope you can find the mean of life ( sr if i make mistake because i just have learnt english in a short time ) 😄😄
i just felt so better after watching the video...thanks for psoting it
Thank you. I really needed this. My pointless youtube scrolling finally gave me something I needed.
Really really liked your video! It's so beautifully made and honestly the only thing that could make it better is a crispy mic. Im subscribing!
this made me cry because is the same way i was feeling and didn´t know how to put it in words, tsm !
literally angel and universe sent 🥹🤍 needed it so much
All great advice and observations! Your cinematography and editing is improving with every video; this video is conveying great information and it's doing it in such a visually interesting way. Keep up the good work, I and many others appreciate and enjoy your efforts!
Thank you for making videos like these… watching your vids was a coincidence, I had a shitty attitude towards myself and to my tasks and studies… sometimes it felt like i’m on the edge, but sometimes i’m just laying pn my bed… I don’t know what to do so I’m now listening to your words, tearing up… I always thought I matured in some cases but still I’m still immature and just suffer frok my own doing… ugh.. 😢
omg such a beautiful video (the message and the cinematic footages). love it!! it help me a lot, thanks🤍
Please don't ever delete this vid 🥺
Those are the exact thought am habits I'm trying to cultivate, thanks for verbalizing it and sharing it with us. 💚💙
This video found me exactly when i needed it...thank you so muchhh, im falling in love with your videography ahhh, every shot gave me a sense of comfort which i didnt know i could get through a yt video (i hope it made sense lol)....coudnt relate more to all the things you talked aboutt...thank youuu...truly eye-opening...keep goinggg
You have no idea how long I’ve been waiting for someone to answer this question/ make this video. I’ve been feeling this way for months now and I didn’t know what to do or what I was feeling. Thank you so much :D. You actually made my day today. I hope you have an amazing life.
Thank you for this video and other your videos too. Lately I’ve been feeling so much pressure and I’ve been overthinking literally everything. I kind of felt like I’m going to lose myself because I didn’t (and still not sure) know what I even like, because I just do things automatically. It felt like that there is nothing I like in this world when it’s just actually that I have been doing just things that the internet ”kinda want me to do”. And I felt like that I have to ”filter” myself to be a happy and enjoyable person. Even now I feel overwhelmed by the fact that I’m venting here but honestly I don’t know if it even matters😅 Yeah, so I also wanted to say that this video was really beautiful visually and just so meaningful to me and surely to others too. Yeah, thank you:)
Exactly what I needed to hear. You potrayed everything so beautifully, this felt like the premium side of youtube. Much love
You're really underrated. Thank you so much for the content you post.
Enjoyed this video very much❤Thank you for sharing with us✨
i'm literally breaking down si bad rn, seeing this video is a literal gift from the universe ❤️🩹
this came exactly when i needed it so thanks
i've been binging your videos and its really made my week better :)
I love these two recent videos you’ve made. Make more of them!! :D
needed this so bad!!!!
Thanks.i mean it. Lately i just feel Unhappy with my life,with my day by day habbits and I want to put some order in my life. to take more control and feel free and happy to.
Exactly the reassurance I needed right now ! Thank you ❤
this is an art!!
HAHAHA!! The title got me laughing cause I really actually don't know where to start! Not only my life but all these studies and exams!!
Great advice. It reminds me of something in the beginning of Tolstoy's Anna Karenina: (to) become oblivious in the dream of life.... (to) live for the needs of the day .... (to say) "we'll see later on" (like, oh well it doesn't all have to be clear to me at all times). And honestly it feels like social media tries to make folks feel the opposite way🤔. I found myself constantly being slapped on the wrist and antagonized by randos and just said whatever im out. glhf✌😑
THX SO MUCH, THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED, YOU SLAY GIRLLL
your content is literally a breath of fresh air in a world of fleshy overwhelming content that is created only for gaining views
🤍thank you for inspiring me to grow every single day.
also, the quality of your videos improved a lot; so grateful to be able to watch your videos. never stop creating!
You are a gift. 😭 Thanks to your videos for being there for me
I feel like I'm always overwhelmed w something.Tysm for this.
Thank you for this video , a lot of the time, I feel the need to be doing more than what i am doing, and at the end of the day, I feel guilty for not doing anything. I learnt how to get away with those unnecessary thoughts from your videos. Simple and effective!
U save me!
Thank you for this video, it was so helpful...
i love ur videos omg😭
This is so relatable. :)
I really love your videos, your voice is so calm and lovely
Bro you're gorgeous✨
im feeling this right now aghhh
i love this video so much thank you
ive been lost for the past, what, month? and i just binged your videos, and gosh. i love them so much. they feel like someone hugging me warmly and patting my head. i feel like i can do anything, and that my future is in my hands when i watch your videos. you deserve so much more recognition, i praise you
i absolutely loved this. really needed it. thank you
this video was so needed, i feel the same, i love this. so gorgeously and lovingly made
I loved the video great job :)
Yesss....I can work with wht I have🥲😂..
thank u so much this is what i am feeling right now and the words i need to be heard. I am currently waiting to go to Japan for my work and i feel so scared and impatient to get there soon. But i can't contol the process with those documents and visa process so i guess i can only wait patiently.
thats what I needed. thankyou
I really like the way you word things
Felt peace.. 🤍✨
Your voice heals me!!❤❤
Thanks Mei, I needed this video
thank you for the video ,, makes lot of sense
This. This is relatable
Hi I also came out of this shell you are my inspiration for starting my own real life. Character Jst having a break from social media is a big change of creating memories, then forgetting what life is.❤
Also my inspiration for starting my own films thanks you ❤
IM JS SOO INLOVE !! ur inspiring me a lotttttt and ur so prettyyyy nd so lovelyyy 😣😫🫶🫶 PLZZ KEEP MAKING VIDS
Wonderful girl, thanks a bunch for sharing. ❤❤
Have an amazing wonderful day.
Really an amazing video !!
I have so much anxiety I am changing school because my friends left it either but I am regretting it now going to a new place where I don't know anyone I am dying inside
Bro!?....I am curious!!!... Always loving your words ʘ‿ʘ
Thank you ❤
Te quiero 💕💖
💗💗💗
I can relate ❤
There was this movie called ugly. It has a book. It was . Hilarious 😂😂😂 it was on Netflix
Omg girl where do you live cause thats literally like my dream place and life 😭
is that Vancouver?
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