AITA Compilation - The April 24th, 2023 Session - Dusty Thunder Reactions

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  • @alissonvonderlane862
    @alissonvonderlane862 Рік тому +6

    27:25 HE is the narcissist!

  • @tinadorrell9841
    @tinadorrell9841 Рік тому +6

    #1 the aunt took her disappointment they they never got her a cake and took it out on her 7yr old nephew, he suffered because all the adults are selfish.

    • @Frogbjb
      @Frogbjb 11 місяців тому

      100% ESH, anyone could have communicated but didn’t

  • @aphroditeheart
    @aphroditeheart Рік тому +8

    I truly do not care about how they assumed they'd get a cake in the first one.
    Assuming makes and *** out of you. Nothing is guaranteed. You have to ASK so people know you WANT that. Nta

  • @tcfan80
    @tcfan80 10 місяців тому +2

    As a parent myself, I have never NOT had input on my kids birthday cake. Whether it's the flavor, theme, size, whatever. I have never, and would never, just assume someone else has it covered. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @2user000
    @2user000 Рік тому +2

    I agree w the restaurant manager…and I’ve been in the industry for over 20 years. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @andreapadilla6962
    @andreapadilla6962 Рік тому +5

    Story 6: He's TA, without a doubt. Yeah, it could be rude offer to pay if you're going with someone super close and in a superior position as you: Like a uncle, parent or a grandparent.
    But its also good maners offer to pay, specially if they are already treat you so much in this journey, and he has all the lunch time to think about it. For what he said, he knew it was a "good manners" too hecause gf told him.
    I understand why she would resent the idea of ​​being with someone who not only takes advantage of the courtesy of others, but can't even pretend to reciprocate.

  • @fvp101
    @fvp101 Рік тому +3

    Story 2. My heart breaks for that girl.
    I had Covid December 2020. I still (July 23) have no spice tolerance - it was destroyed. My appetite is done.
    My nose changed too. Several favourite perfumes now smell hideous to me 😢

  • @Mrs.HardKover
    @Mrs.HardKover 6 місяців тому +2

    Offering to pay: he is TA. She flat out told him her and her families cultural expectation AND she said in the OFF chance that her dad accepted OPs (insincere) offer to pay, that SHE would pay OP back for he bros and dads meals! He’s a jerk.

  • @kandicegienow
    @kandicegienow Рік тому +2

    Story #5 - NTA! As an insurance adjuster with years of experience, (I am also an anxious driver) there is no way anyone would intentionally get into a collision for a free meal 😅. It is very stressful and scary, good on OP for understanding her feelings and doing something to make her feel better, instead of worse.

  • @hannahsmith8002
    @hannahsmith8002 Рік тому +13

    As someone with gasteroparesis (essentially partially paralysed stomach) who often has to order off the kids menu so that I can actually enjoy eating out without feeling bad for wasting a lot of food, the server story really bugged me. There are so many reasons that people do this from chronic illness to neurodivergence to eating disorders to financial issues and I think that if someone wants to order off the kids menu, you should just let them do that.

    • @aphroditeheart
      @aphroditeheart Рік тому +1

      An autistic here seconding that the server story also bugged me. If it's only a $2 difference, what was the fuss? I know my brother who is middle school age, also autistic, would definitely also tear up if he couldn't have the single thing on the menu that he could eat. We've never gotten him to eat any sauce on noodles. Her immediately tearing up and opting not to eat on instinct just screamed food related trauma to me.

    • @tracyison2289
      @tracyison2289 11 місяців тому

      Agreed! My husband has Gastroperisis, his stomach is fully paralyzed. They have done all they can for him and he can’t eat much at a time. Sometimes he barely eats once a day. I also have issues and prefer to order off the kids menu at Restaurants.

    • @michellemartinov6267
      @michellemartinov6267 11 місяців тому

      Food can be taken home

    • @icygubler
      @icygubler 7 місяців тому

      Yeah, I was thinking about that as an autistic person. My best friends are non-autistic (at least officially) and if they have somewhere they want to be able to go, I want to be able to accommodate. And, yes, they go places I want to go, too.

    • @krisrowan
      @krisrowan 7 місяців тому

      My brother and daughter are both autistic and have a limited food range that are considered safe foods to them. We have eaten so many cheeseburgers with ketchup and fries at fancy restaurants. They try their best and are adults, autism doesn't allow large menus sometimes.

  • @rustykeating8785
    @rustykeating8785 7 місяців тому +1

    Easy my friend...you're gonna break your hand with these cake stories!!❤😂❤😂

  • @krypto1976
    @krypto1976 Місяць тому

    It also begs to ask why the dont hasnt or wont give him the money he wants

  • @Anna-J0
    @Anna-J0 Місяць тому

    Story 2: I got Covid back in 2022. It completely tanked my tolerance to spice and salt. I LOVE spicy food, curry being a favorite. I’m so sad that my tolerance to these foods I love is gone.
    I’m so sad for this girl

  • @hbrecker
    @hbrecker Рік тому +5

    The kid/young adult/assconaut from story 3 is def displaying hard core anti-social behaviors. What a poor sweet lady I feel so bad for her.

  • @jeannatejenn-lundfelt9330
    @jeannatejenn-lundfelt9330 Рік тому +12

    Story 6. Op is TA. He has not play for a thing with her and her family. I understand the gf in this, I would be turn off by a man child who just uses my family for free money.

    • @karenfishes66
      @karenfishes66 Рік тому +3

      Agree. I definitely get that feeling too.

    • @carolynsteele9929
      @carolynsteele9929 Рік тому +2

      100% agree with you. Her family has treated him SO often and this was a small subset of his family and an opportunity to pay for fewer people. He is awful for not offering and the dad would not have let him pay. In the gf’s shoes, I would look at him differently too. Dusty rarely misses but he messed up this time

  • @persaunna
    @persaunna Рік тому +1

    The prom girls restaurant story: god this made me so angry

  • @jacklynne111974able
    @jacklynne111974able 3 місяці тому

    I feel just like the woman who lost her son. My son is 30 and I still try to reach out to him but I don’t have anything to give him so he doesn’t have time for me. I have a granddaughter I’ve seen twice and she’s 3. My stepmom gives him money so he visits her often but neither have anything to do with me. I lost him completely once he got with his gf.

  • @tiffanyweaver3355
    @tiffanyweaver3355 Місяць тому

    Story 3 😢it’s just sad that all he wanted was money

  • @tracyison2289
    @tracyison2289 11 місяців тому +1

    You really love cake!! 😂😂 4:59

  • @michellemartinov6267
    @michellemartinov6267 11 місяців тому +1

    God I worked my first job at Denny’s and all of us hated seeing church groups and prom groups. We did not have automatic gratuity for large groups and church groups left us bible verses and no money plus ran your ass off and teens made huge messes on table and no tips!

    • @Mrs.HardKover
      @Mrs.HardKover 6 місяців тому

      Bible verses as a tip?! How unbelievably arrogant! Would they like Bible verses as their meal?! It IS their “spiritual food.”

    • @michellemartinov6267
      @michellemartinov6267 6 місяців тому

      Indeed!

  • @QueenofChaos80
    @QueenofChaos80 10 місяців тому +1

    Regarding story #2:
    Big hugs to Candy Thunder, bc I had covid in Sept of 2021 and can completely relate! It completely stole my taste & smell. It took months to return, and it's still far from what it was. I, too, had sooo many of my fav foods/candy, beverages & scents ruined. It's to the point that, nothing ever sounds good when I'm hungry.🤷🏽‍♀️
    OP is DEFINITELY TAH for not only running back to the manager over & over to rile him up; but then to refer to that young person as a "crybaby on the patio", definitely wins them the Ascon1 title.💯✌🏽

  • @Goblue373
    @Goblue373 Рік тому +10

    I still think OP in story 6 is TA ! I do t believe it was a spur of the moment thing. He laughed at the suggestion rather than talking like an adult should do. He is happy for everyone else to pay for him but can’t even try to be nice and show his appreciation by footing the bill this one time . I would be so put off as well.

    • @savannahlee5454
      @savannahlee5454 Рік тому +3

      Agreed! It sounds like people have paid for more than $150 of things for him too, so he should have been prepared to spend that amount anyways

    • @persaunna
      @persaunna Рік тому

      I also agree.

    • @kayjacoby290
      @kayjacoby290 7 місяців тому

      Leechy BF needs to go bye-bye. Her family routinely buys him dinner/meals; they took him on vacation. His response is to laugh in her face when she suggests he do the bare minimum in a goodwill gesture. And he can't buy 2 extra people brunch? He was willing to pay for his own - and gasp! - GF's meals. How TF is him buying 3 meals besides his own like her treating 8 (extra? or including him?) people to a meal?
      She can do better. She deserves so much better.

  • @caitlinanderson6798
    @caitlinanderson6798 Рік тому

    Story 5- 10000% NTA that girl is going to feel so much more comfortable coming to her dad with her mess ups knowing he's not going to disown her for her mistakes, for the ex the daughter will know fine well she can't go to her for anything

  • @JessterDean
    @JessterDean Рік тому +1

    Thank you for all your time and effort that goes into these. I always enjoy your insight and opinions.

  • @jannafolsom1069
    @jannafolsom1069 Рік тому

    The only thing I known about String Theory, is Sheldon digs the heck out of it. Z😅

  • @rhay.brewer
    @rhay.brewer 2 місяці тому

    If it were me, I'd try redox cell signaling molecules supplement. Helped me with my taste issues after the no-no bug. I used to have to basically soak my food with salt after, but now I feel like I've regained probably most of my taste buds than before I started it.

  • @taylorwright7428
    @taylorwright7428 Рік тому +3

    Honestly, I'm an emotional person, and usually I don't like making a scene, but it can be hard to stop myself in the moment if I can't get away from the situation to diffuse. The girl in Story 2 saying "I'm fine, it's fine." probably means it, and might be trying to be apologetic because being an emotional person sucks sometimes, man! (Though I can't fully say on that last part because I didn't hear her say it, I'm basing that off my own experience.) Give people a little grace, ESPECIALLY if you don't know them.

  • @christineheminger7762
    @christineheminger7762 11 місяців тому +1

    I was annoyed that the server called the prom girl a crybaby. There are medical issues that can make crying for little or even No reason a possibility. The person crying probably hates it more than observers could even imagine. Getting attitude from people who don’t understand that it happens doesn’t help anyone. The fact that doctors don’t have a hope of fixing it-even if they tried (which they don’t)-makes the whole thing even more hopeless and makes it even harder to stop. Never mind when additional stress is involved.
    With proms things being priced like mini-weddings, I thought maybe she only had a small amount of money left to cover going out to eat after her dance and could only afford the children’s meals.

  • @paulanderson2225
    @paulanderson2225 3 місяці тому

    Story 2 OP and manger did nothing wrong. The group had more people than the reservation request. They didn't say she couldn't have the noodles. Just couldn't order it off the kid menu.

  • @wendycanuck1019
    @wendycanuck1019 Рік тому +1

    No. She’s NTA. My son is a teacher and tutors in math. Not everyone can do that. She wants the best for her son. Her MIL is obviously educated, but I wouldn’t want a lawyer performing brain surgery, and a history major is not the best choice for a math tutor, unless she minored in math, and as an educated person myself, I would understand if my DIL wanted someone qualified tutoring my grandchild in something that is NOT my major. I wouldn’t even be offended. I’d understand it.

  • @arymillarosewood8774
    @arymillarosewood8774 Рік тому +1

    2nd story borhered me so much. When i got Covid i had no taste for months and it made eating anything such a horrible and depressing part of my day. There were only a few things that felt okay enough in my mouth that i could handle everything was a gross slimely tasteless mess. After months of it i feared i would never enjoy food again and everytime someone talked food it made me sad thinking how much i missed so food.
    Thankfully i finally got most of my taste back so there arr foods in can enjoy again however my tongue is now super sensitive to spicy food. I LOVE SPICY. Now however even a little spice makes my tongue tinggle and the spicy stuff i really enjoyed makes my tongue actually hurt and i can't do it anymore. 😢
    So to hear them say that about the girl who lost a lot her taste to covid makes me mad. It is bad enough that she can't enjoy food so much anymore then having to watch others enjoy but then to be told you can't order the only thing on the munu that would taste okay for you simply becuse it is on the wrong munu.
    I swear some people just have no heart for others.

  • @gigiv3261
    @gigiv3261 18 днів тому

    here's the thing about the server story. yeah the manager and the waitress were idiots however, to cry like a toddler when you can't order off a menu X instead of explaining your dietary issue like a girl to the server is ridiculous

  • @cypresswendler4980
    @cypresswendler4980 Рік тому +1

    Also the prom kid could've been autistic or something- you just never know. Don't be rude about someone being upset unless they're being an asshole about it. She was just upset but didn't want to inconvenience anyone.

  • @Rainbowofthefallen
    @Rainbowofthefallen Рік тому

    💙

  • @emilypaxton5601
    @emilypaxton5601 Рік тому +6

    Phew! You're letting OP off easy for Story #1! The real person she was upset with was her mom. But instead of discussing it she decides to punish everyone else in the family. She *purposely* did not communicate it advance that she was not bringing a cake to her nephew's birthday. She knew that an expectation had been built and deliberately chose not to tell anyone in advance that she wasn't going to keep doing it. It 100% *is* her fault that her nephew was cakeless for his birthday, and if we're honest, that is absolutely what she intended to happen! She is an AH. Don't punish kids for mistakes their parents make

    • @Frogbjb
      @Frogbjb 11 місяців тому +1

      I think ESH, she’s TA for the reasons you listed but the rest of the family aren’t much better. Anyone could have communicated but didn’t. The victim in this is the little kid and it’s really all of the adults fault that the kid ended up without a cake.

  • @Ulisemonroe
    @Ulisemonroe Рік тому +1

    Prom Covid story upsets me ...I have cognitive issues because of that darn Covid...it is no joking matter!

  • @rilo7891
    @rilo7891 29 днів тому

    Story 6: ESH. Gold diggers calling him an A1. There are a few in the comments.

  • @mrarroyo1990
    @mrarroyo1990 Рік тому +4

    Man story 2 OP and the manager suck so much.

  • @stefanienabors5822
    @stefanienabors5822 Рік тому

    The OP in the 2nd story is the reason WHY I just don't like many people. 🥺

  • @tracyison2289
    @tracyison2289 11 місяців тому

    37:35 NTA she is the ex for a reason. I would have done the same thing.

  • @tracyison2289
    @tracyison2289 11 місяців тому

    33:03 I’m sorry but parents are allowed to go out with their kids. If he hates people then he can stay home. 🙄

  • @Nadz316
    @Nadz316 Рік тому +2

    Wow! Story 3, that son is a POS. He is an awful, selfish person, sounds like he was super spoiled his whole life. Yuck!
    I get that she is his mother and it is a mothers love but she had no respect for herself and the line about never being alone now that she had a son. I’m not sure but it sounds unhealthy.

  • @jazzyjamster25
    @jazzyjamster25 6 місяців тому +1

    Story 3 it's not the child's responsibility to inform you that his other parent is cheating. Stop putting a child in adult situations! Mom and dad both!

  • @missmoneypenny3917
    @missmoneypenny3917 Рік тому

    🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂

  • @WitchyBaby1998
    @WitchyBaby1998 4 місяці тому

    ASSUMING MAKES AN ASS OUT OF YOU AND ME 3:16 it’s on them I don’t think she’s the asshole. The mom’s fault FOR SURE. She should NOT have assumed cakes take time and effort, flavors were never discussed? Weird to me even when you expect someone to bring something even when we agree to people bringing things I always ask like 12 times to make sure everyone is good and coordinated.

  • @MissDee13
    @MissDee13 Рік тому

    Ehhhh this one is iffy

  • @ApatheticEyebrowRaise
    @ApatheticEyebrowRaise 8 днів тому

    babies are part of life, it's fine. I don't like it, but a like doesn't have enough weight to enforce it on other people in a public setting. The dude yelling at a young mother with child is ewwwwww. If he didn't want to hear a kid, get a later time for dinner.

  • @NOTurDADDY666
    @NOTurDADDY666 Рік тому +1

    I don't understand celebrating birthdays at all 🤷‍♂️ I've literally cut people out of my life for texting me happy birthday when I've repeatedly said i don't celebrate it and to leave me be with that nonsense.

    • @persaunna
      @persaunna Рік тому +4

      You cut people out for wishing you happy birthday?? 😮

    • @NOTurDADDY666
      @NOTurDADDY666 Рік тому +2

      @@persaunna yes. After repeated pleas that they'd simply leave me be. If they can't respect my wish on my ✌birthday ✌ then I can't respect a relationship with them.