Matthew 6 1“Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven. 2Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. 3But when you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4that your charitable deed may be in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly.
richardjohanson5421 Not sure that this scripture would apply to Kris's kindness in offering that free guide, after all, how else would those in need know its available? In a different setting, sure. But we must also remember the scriptures that warn us not to punish good with evil. As i see it, Kris is doing tremendous good in helping others navigate this perilous ordeal, why would any wish to pummel that good with an admonition, perhaps misapplied? Food for thought.
Scary, sounded like me. I repent and follow Jesus’ teaching, love and peace. God has given me a 2nd chance. All glory to God! “For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.” - John 3:17
@@martygo5273 me too 😭. It’ll be our 3 month anniversary next wed, and the last 3 years have been the hardest years of my life. It’s felt like 10 years, I am exhausted from the ups and downs, back and forth, walking on eggshells because of the rage and unpredictable, yet predictable behavior.
This is why I havent processed everything from my parents all these decades. They never miss a church service, twist scripture and never change their ways. So confusing
I got hoovered a couple of weeks ago and at first it made me feel sick and then it made me feel scared because I know this person is evil with evil intentions. Then I felt sad for what should’ve been and what could’ve been. You can’t go back though. You can never go back because they really do only want to hurt you and belittle you and use you as a way to purge all of their hatred and rage.
@@thirstonhowellthebird Thank you for your comment. I said when I left my narcissistic emotionally abusive husband he was making me a container for his pain, but I love the way you put this. It's a "way to purge all of their hatred rage."
@@vfree4579 I always pray for the narcs I consider "victims of their upbringing" (learned how/taught to be narcissistic by example): those who don't actually realize / are cognitively aware they are exhibiting narc behaviors (subconsciously carrying out their "training/programming") because there is hope for them to ACTUALLY change! Of course this is intended to help them get the help they need to break the chains of their bondage & then help to set others like them free so that the cycle of demonic influence will be stopped from infecting & affecting future generations. It's good for your soul & healing that you are out of that situation. Don't go into a relationship without the benefit of external evaluation by Professional Christ-following counselors who MUST be brought into these situations so that there is external witness & accountability brought to bear against the principalities & powers that are behind the anti-Christ behaviors humans label as "mental/behavioral issues". Knowing what you're dealing with / getting into / up against is 99% of any battle!
@@ronaldschlager4888 it is. Have u not seen the criminal activity or behavior working with the government from social media? U can't convince me that the government didn't create social media to not have media trolls to attack and lie slander campaign. Just look at how they did trump 😂 using him as America's poster boy even for freedom of speech.
@@ronaldschlager4888 many times they have commuted fraud felony and will pay for all the years of them acting this way when they get caught in the fraud…payback time is good ….
I feel you. Check out Adam Magaña of Active Church in San Luis Obispo, California. Unbelievable narcissist. He’s a professional conman. I’d do anything for him to be exposed and ruined. It’s tough to wait on. I’m with you.
Not our concern. Yes, we want justice, we want vindication but I can tell you, man’s approval is not what we should be seeking and not what we should be looking for. Elijah did not have man’s approval, he stood in the obedience of God alone. I know it’s hard but ask the Lord to shift your focus to Him and not justification by man. God knows the Truth.
You are after God's own heart! That is the right attitude to have. After all the years the sexually abusive narcissists have gotten away with hurting my mother, mother-in-law, mine and my husband's daughters, and at least one or two others, the predators still deny everything, and still claim they follow Jesus. Due to insufficient evidence for all but one victim, the two narcissistic predators have evaded prison for all but one victim. Talk about temptation to want to take matters into our own hands. But what got my attention was the day my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ told me, " It's not about what they( the predators) deserve. It's about what I ( the Lord Jesus) deserves." Anybody out there who is willing and able, please pray for me, and my family, that we remember what our God says in scripture: " Vengeance is the Lords. I will repay" says the Lord. Thanks you, and God bless. ♥ 🙏
@@misfitty-vd6kv Life would become awful if you don't have a plan. It is better to put a plan in place and then move in for the divorce. You plan with a purpose that when you walk away it's no turning back.
One of the ways I spot a narcissist is, they are never satisfied, never content and never happy. They are always immediately looking for more. If that's not a curse I don't know what is. Not to know the joy of a simple gift, the pleasure of a kind word or simply enjoying the beauty God puts all around us because you are obsessed with getting more. Narcissists create their own punishment.
Narcissists break your spirit. Praying for anyone that's been tormented by them. My family member was a nurse. Nice to strangers and everyone. She abused me my whole life.
Magnificent gratitude beautiful SOUL, I hope Ur healing and safe now. It's lovely to be in such a learning and loving safe place together in unconditional love 💖🌹😘Take your time healing deeply and forgiving yourself slowly ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜 I'm 9 weeks away and learning to DEEPLY FORGIVE MYSELF, I learned self LOVE and my narcissistic husband went mad.....
*Id settle for at least 45% of the US population acquiring anything resembling self-awareness. We're not embarrassed enough by OURSELVES. That's the object lesson of this comment section.*
God's desire is to see every one receive mercy, forgiveness and come to salvation including the narc, but there's also, justice and righteousness which are the foundations of his throne. When you endure the narcs pervasive behavior pattern that go on without a thought of God and having no remorse the natural and spiritual recourse has to come into play, its the law! Otherwise, no one would serve God if there were no justice.
When they destroy your life, your physical and emotional wellbeing, then you want justice. These are not just words. I know that their treatment contributed to me getting cancer in the middle of my life, at 37 as a single mom and then still being treated like garbage by them. Being almost violently robbed of my life, definitely robbed of my reproductive system and health, my time, energy, sanity and much more, almost being forced to having to leave my child behind as an orphan, being forced into premature, sudden menopause which puts me at higher risk for alzheimers, osteoporosis and heart disease, not to mention premature aging, I wonder where is their cancer at? That's the least they deserve for justice to be served. It's only by God's grace that we found it early even though this type is always discovered late and even though I have never been sick in my life and going to the doc was the furthest thing on my mind, so that I'm planning to make it out alive. These are not just words, this is real. Narcs destroy human beings and lives, except it's too late by the time you figure it out. Emotions are chemical compounds that are released into the body and they can make you sick. Yes I don't want them to go to hell, but do you think after deliberately doing that type of damage to a person, they don't deserve any repercussions? Where's the justice for the victim? God is a God of justice and the Bible says that even for every single word you speak you will have to answer for. With good reason, even a word can do something to you since words have power. There's cause and effect in everything. There must be justice or God wouldn't be who he is.
@TheHelenhunter I wish I knew what to tell you, except that it encourages me that despite the harm that has come to you, you have not given up on the Lord. Many people in your situation would have because they do not see His justice happen right then and there. But it will. We live in a fallen world where things like this are going to happen. Wicked men and women will do wicked things to you and others. But in due time, their foot will slip. If you have not done so, look up the sermon given by the Puritan preacher Jonathan Edwards titled, "Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God." He speaks of the same thing, that though justice hasn't come yet, it will. It may be a harsh read, but this is only because we as Christians today are so incredibly soft. God bless you, and I wish you well.
My husband preaches and is involved in all ministries and he is cold, calculating and very cruel and evil towards me and our children. Praying God removes him from our lives
Look up Jonathon Welton who was the same- His wife finally left him and it was in that action he reflected on himself. Oftentimes you will have to take action and not continue to tolerate the sin and hypocrisy and protect your children and in those steps God will work within.
I do too. ..My ex husband is in the ministry and is a narcissist too. Slept around while on the pulpit, manipulated my daughter too, so she acts like she's a perfect Christian and meanwhile is a narcissist too. She has separated "just" me from my grandchildren and hates that they love me so much. It breaks my heart but it is what it is.
It seems many victims of narcissists need to actually witness the narc's comeuppance in order to believe that justice will be done. That is a waste of energy. Let it suffice that the narc will be held accountable in our Creator's own good time, regardless whether we witness it or not. Instead, put your energy into healing yourself!
I agree and personally I don’t want to see what God has in store for them. I don’t like to see people suffer. It makes me sad. I have enough to answer for. Thankfully Jesus is my savior and my sin debt is paid but I still have to focus enough on my actions to try to keep from sinning more. That takes enough of my energy.
I can’t believe how true this is. Every evil that is planned for you will be turned back on them. This very thing happened to me over the last three years. I never wanted or wished bad on the other person but trusted that God would have the final say. And let me tell you God fights for his kids.
That narcissist is God’s kid. The healthy don’t need a physician. He don’t come to heal the healthy He came to heal the sick, the poor, the needy. He came to live the unloved and to put the lonely in families. You claim you don’t wish bad on them yet you celebrate the idea that God is going to punish them while forgetting that you yourself deserve the same punishment. Grace is the reason why we don’t get what we all deserve. Might want to think about that. God is not sitting there waiting to punish broken and damaged people, those broken and damaged people are the ones he literally died for.
@@Bobjones-g6c So long as the narc, or anyone else, doesn't engage in deliberate, willful sin: Hebrews 10:26-27, it says: “For if we go on sinning willfully after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, but a certain terrifying expectation of judgment, and the fury of a fire which will consume the adversaries.”
@@Bobjones-g6c I don't think she is celebrating in a bad way, she is celebrating that the Lorf delivered her from the Narc...and you are right...the sick are the ones that need medicine, but that's not a reason that people have to take the Narc abuse or not feel joy when delivered from them..and yes!! The Lord is Mighty to save from those satanic agents, carriers of jezabelic spirits, A/K/A narcissists....and what the people of Israel, and all the people in the Bible did when the Lord delivered them from evil and wickedness??? They celebrate and glorified the Lord for His vengeance and deliverance against the enemies...Hallelujah!!!😂❤❤
Celebrate your deliverance, rejoice in the Lord your God!! I have a Narc ex "friend", and no matter the evil and wicked fruits that a person has, she always says that the person is a "child of God"...and she says that because she wants to manipulate people into believing that no matter what she does, how much she gossips around, how much drugs she uses, she still a child of God...she wants people to hold her to a non accountability standard...a 50+ toddler's behavior!! That's her cuddling lullaby, to never change and to do whatever she wants in church...but they cannot manipulate God...Hallelujah!! Rejoice in your victory, as all people from the Bible has done...there's no need to stay gloomy, after the Lord get rid of our enemies...God bless you!!!😂 Live your life to the fullest in the fear of God, and don't pay attention to people trying to make you feel guilty because you asked the Lord, and He worked it out in your favor...in all wars, there's one side celebrating, and the other losing...if you chose the Lord's side, celebration is inevitable!!! The Lord is our Father and Defender, He too fought a Narc for me, and I am enjoying my peaceful life...Glory to God!!!....I am so happy for you, God bless you!❤
@@lillyrose1422 um, no matter what she does is IS still a child if God, how dare you suggest she is not and then use the name of the Lord to validate your point. The arrogance of some Christians is astounding. Who are you to tell anyone on behalf of God who is His child and who is not?
Bless those who persecute you bless and do not curse. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Do not take revenge My dear friends but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written It is mine to avenge I will repay says the Lord.
True. Justice is never evil. Justice brings good. Them not being responsible for their evils is evil and injustice. Injustice is evil. Justice doesn't mean hating them.
I used to be a narcissist but Jesus changed me and has been changing me non stop since COVID began,So many things Jesus has delivered me from, Thankyou Jesus.
I am so happy for you. I hope my narcissit wife of 10 years will find Jesus again. We are divorcing now, but I want her to change for the sake of our daughter, and for her because I really loved her
@@hereisayana8207 narcs don't want to be narcs in the first place, if you go deep into a narcs past your going to find a world of hurt from the past and a lil boy or girl trying to survive it no matter what it takes.. You'd do the same if you were in their shoes, exactly the same, do not kid yourself.
Praise God Continue to move forward in JESUS. I’m happy for you and I thank God for saving your life. You are going to be a mouth piece for the LORD to lead other narcissists to JESUS.
It's so sad because once God has had enough of their abusive, toxic, hard-hearted, cruel and wicked deeds, it's like the point of no return. The Bible speaks of and warned the Jezebel spirit (the Narcissist) in the book of Revelation, and how God gave her "space" to repent, but she WOULD NOT. Therefore, He [God] will throw her (the Narcissist) on a bed of affliction. I've seen this and it ain't pretty! They may seem to get away with mocking God, and abusing people for a LONG time, but mark this, they are storing up God's wrath. The LONG time is the "space" He has given them to repent. God sure enough, will not be mocked. Whatsoever a man (human) sows, THAT shall he also reap.
My ex...christian covert narc even swore on Jesus Christ that he did not cheated on me......during 2 years i had no idea of what was narcissism....but always felt that i ve started to idolize him ( the narc )...my time was his time, ive known the whole cycle of narc abuse. Yes they are possessed... Because all narcs in the whole world act the same. As if they have been cloned.
My stepmother has been a malignant narcissist for decades.if i could drscribe her- she has a phd in manipulation, Lies, & false guilt shaming. She has destroyed many relationships over the years, and she has violent tendencies also. The Last straw for me was when she got caught ruthlessly beating my Father while he was helpless on his deathbed. I recently started praying for her salvation and to help me with my anger issues towards what she has done & ive come to the realization that she dug a pit for herself over the yrs and she's buried deep in it, and its impossible for her to dig her way out- Only divine intervention (Jesus)can save her.
32 years of narc abuse for me. The last time i got the smirk. The passive aggressive silent treatment, i said to God that i forgive him and this peace and calm came over me. 12 hours later i found him dead in his room. May God have mercy on his soul.
My narcissist is a doctor in theologie. Got to know him through a Christian datingsite. He proved to be a real classic one when he was at my place. Almost took over my household, complained about everything. When he got angry and screamed to F...off, i called the police and had him removed . After four months he wanted to restart the relationship . He claims he remembers nothing about his misbehaviour. All contact is done. I pray for healing, i trust Gods interventions in this.
Oh ya? When would you say God finally did this? I’m waiting….. Wake up. His treats the narc with loving care and the victims…well we just suffer daily. Thanks alot God!!
My narc husband died a painful and miserable death and those who know what I endured all say their hair stood up all over them when they heard the news. Even my pastor said my husband resisted the Holy Spirit in anger and was turned over to his own devices. Im still healing a year later...
@@hereisayana8207 I can tell you he did NOT see me! He was in ICU for 4 days, underwent 2 surgeries, and suffered a LOT of pain. My son saw him once and he said he wished I was there....nope. No contact means NO contact. I was told that when he was in extreme pain, he cussed out loud and then threw his arms up in the air and begged God to forgive him. I can also tell you that a week before his death, he told someone that he hoped he did not die and go to hell. That's all I know.
My narc husband, turned ex, after filing for divorce due to an abusive marriage also dropped dead of a massive heart attack. I forgave him and continued to pray for him, until I found out about his sudden passing which was not surprising to me because he was evil incarnate and I knew justice would be swiftly delivered.
Mass media used asca weapon to create mass hypnotism. Dr.Andreas Desmet coined the phrase "mass formation" to describe the blind following of masking and lethal injection mandates.
I was praying about this very thing this morning... struggling with whether God would ever bring justice, and THIS comes across my feed! Thank you, Lord.
This is 1000% my mother. No matter how good you are to her the meaner she gets. Always miserable, no food they eat, TV show. Sunshine or rain. I have never met a person who literally lies every breath she takes. This video was spot on pure truth.
I was talking about this subject too this morning with my friend, we have both suffered narcissistic abuse. Thank you lord for leading me to this, you have answered all my questions.
No power of hell, No scheme of man. Can ever pluck you from His (God’s) Hands. Till He (God) returns, or calls you Home. Stand in the power of Christ, in Jesus mighty name!
“No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me,” Says the Lord (Isaiah 54:17 NKJV)
God is not mocked. Revenge belongs to him. This is why I don't worry myself about getting even. I was done so wronged by the narcissist in my life. Now she's alone with no supply. Without repentance of their actions, they will receive the penalties from the One who will give justifiably. For the measure you use will be measured to you. Thank you so much Kris for using story from the Bible to show a perfect example of a narcissist is, and how it's relatable today.
I had reason today again to be so angry at the narc when he managed to insult my little boy and call him names after he did something wrong. Usually I will be sooo upset, angry, bitter, yelling, screaming, ruminating all day if he does something wrong to my child, it's literally eating me up alive. Today the thought came into my mind that God will revenge and I was able to completely release and let it go. No more pain and hurt on the inside, I know that God will pay him back for every single word, he will take care of it, I don't have to worry or lose my sanity over how we're being treated (as single mom). I felt free as a bird. God is so good, he is the solution to everything.
@@TheHelenhunter God is good but yet vengeful.. interesting view point. I thought God was Love.. hmm So God contradicts himself? So then He will also have the revenge on your for those you have hurt, will he not?
@@JamieAndrick For all the good and all the bad. The Bible says you will be held accountable for every word you speak, but yet you will be rewarded for even a glass of water you give to the needy. God is many things. He is love and he is justice.
@@TheHelenhunter Read it again.. Every word is for the here and now. I feel for you and those that believe God is a vengeful God.. smh Every thought and word you speak is judged because that is how he created it.. you can have what you say, judge not, lest ye be judged. Many references, do your research, dig a little deeper. God is only one thing! LOVE
Read Hebrews 2:14 gods going to do away with Satan his rulership over mankind. & Undo all damage Satan has do he's given us hope to live forever in peaceful paradise where there be no wicked evil or hate anywhere. He's also going to reunite us with our loved ones by means of a Resurrection! (Revelation 21; 3, 4.) So yes it will happen where we'll be able to live without them ever again! What a wonderful future we have to look forward to God is very loving kind & merciful! (Deuteronomy 4;31).
Wow that is such a powerful statement. Peace is the one thing they will never have. Which is why they are always lurking around spiritual people. They are trying to figure out the "gimmick" in people that have peace. And it drives them crazy because there is no "gimmick" that they can imitate. Especially when they cannot impress or manipulate people that are at peace and know themselves.
You are a 100% correct!! They are never granted TRUE PEACE because they are of the devil,roaming around to seek, hope to destroy you (your spirit) AND they even may plan to kill. STAY AWAY. Believe me.....their hate for you runs ver deep, They wear many masks to reel you in, but MAKE NO MISTAKE...... They are PURE EVIL. Ask for God’ help & protection😊 Blessings/ narc free
They are often given multiple illnesses as a means to draw them closer to God. But many times they just want all the pity, are never genuinely remorseful, and will never change (except for the worst), thinking they are ill as in God is shining in their favour. It's been an absolute mind-boggling thing to witness!
my goofy, good christian, brother in law faked cancer to swindle others out of money. you get one guess what hes dying of for real this time. no need to fake no mo.
The narcissist in our family has been tormenting people for over thirty years. God help us. I've been praying for her for soooo long. Why don't things improve? Innocent people are suffering!
At the bare minimum, please consider that the person in question may no longer even be able to be saved anymore. They may have crossed the line, and now there is nothing but judgment for them. I'm not saying this IS the case. I'm saying that this can and has happened. Please at least consider this possibility, and if after doing so you have concluded that he/she has, then leave them be to their end. "Every plant that has not been planted by my Father will be pulled up by the roots. Leave them, for they are blind guides..." Take care. And remember- Sunday is coming.
Are they EVER held accountable??? While they are still on earth, I have NEVER seen it. We, too have the evil, now dead grand father(molester) who was never forced to admit what a pedo he was, or be accountable in any way. It is disgusting,appalling, and unforgivable. It is also too late because no one wanted to speak up.Sickening!!! There is comfort in knowing he WILL be ( has now been) held accountable by the Ultimate JUDGE😮) There is consolation in that. The entire situation is extremely disheartening to say the least. BE AWARE of all the evil around you. Stay close to God. And expose these demonic monsters!! They leave behind story upon story of their scarred victims who sometimes suffer a lifetime after the abuse of these satanic entities👹😔
Narcissists have literal demons controlling their thoughts and actions. They have a reprobate mind that is no longer open to the Holy Spirit. They have chosen the devil's ways. That being said, praying for them is an absolute waste of time. You can only pray that their victims find peace and freedom.
@@rosalindr4975There is retribution when they are on the other side. Everything is recorded... everything is known. And the abuser will be held accountable.
I am currently stuck in the psychiatric system where narcissistic psychiatrists keep speaking down to me during my appointments as if I am a lesser human being. I have been polydrugged and now I have to deal with devastating side effects. May God heal my OCD, depression and trauma, and punish these narcissists. Psychiatric mistreatment and gaslighting are real and devastating.
Envision yourself out of that medical facility or away from the abusive situation FEEL IT REAL it will happen….God dwells within us …… make the unseen seen Please read Neville Goddard the truths he writes and speaks about are the truth …..peace be with you ✌️🫶🏻🧘♀️
I understand Shawn; I have experienced this. I hopped from one to another. it was with hindsight that I saw their patterns of abuse, using the vulnerability and inherent trust one places in such a person. God will deal with them and He will heal You and all of use who have been doubly broken. Put your eyes and mind and heart and faith on God and never look away.
It would be so nice to see survivors of long term narcissist abuse. I want to hear from people who have succeeded after the horror. It would give me hope too!
After a 21 year marriage of lies and dishonesty. It took me 4 years but I am free and finding my health and healing. He has turned our children against me because like a true bully he can’t stand alone, he must gain support. I know The Lord is working and He will restore the years the locusts have eaten. My focus is in my health and healing and being with Almighty. God will repay justly in His time. I adore Kris and her ministry it is so helpful. God bless! Health and healing IS possible and even likely when we focus on The Lord who is the restorer of our souls.
@@sharonwisdom I too have gone through the same. Next month will be 5 years of not being with my children. But God… I stand in hope and prayer over my children. God knows the tears I’ve watered the many seeds with. I pray for restoration of your family.
I'm a survivor of a covert narc for many years. God took me out from the narc life. I went NO contact since then I'm getting healed and delivered with the help of the Lord. We're not alone. God is there with us he sees and hear all the things the narc does to us. I gave my ex narc to the Lord in prayers. Vengeance is the Lord. GOD will take care of them.
Here I am. A Survivor. 26 years I have been with my Wife who is a covert Narcissist. She is currently using her “ways” to turn our 19 year old Son against me. It’s absolutely Evil. She literally laughs in my face after she does it. It is diabolical. She cheers him on when he disrespects me. I have had long talks with him about this. He understands she is a manipulator. She had childhood Trauma and learned to be a Narcissist from her Mother. Everyday I get up and literally live in relationship HELL. Passive Aggressive behavior all the time. I am becoming a Master of Greyrocking because I am dealing with cunning demons. I am working on ME. I have lost 100 pounds and am climbing out of depression. I am trying to follow God’s command of just being Loving towards her even though I GET NOTHING in return. There has been no intimacy for over a decade. No touching at all. She declared herself off limits to me as she says she has decided to give up sex for life. She for a while would make me food and put her hair in my food, just to see my reaction. I cook for myself now. Sometimes I wonder if she will poison me. I hope not. I have recovered from my Deep Dark Depression I have decided to not commit suicide because then Satan wins. I will not harm her because Justice is not mine to give out. So everyday I work on me and try to figure out how I am going to escape this. I am 59, with medical body issues. I am working to advance my career as I am jobless and trapped. She knows this and tells me I am a failure. I just reject those thoughts. Satan isn’t going to win. I just praise God. Everyday is a gift. ❤
In a sad way, this was cathartic to hear. I feel sorry for the narc in my life, but after 55 yrs of wickedness, I have a serious disease and no support from them now. So tragic. I leave them in the hands of the One who made them and will deal with them justly.
I'm so sorry you're very ill from a lifetime of this. Please spend the rest of your life continuing to place this in God's hands. In the end sadly we can't regain those lost years nor change a narcissist. They were damaged in childhood by narc exposure themselves and they morphed into a narcissist to survive. We victims also damaged by narcissist parents & relatives. The more I read posts the mire I see the patterns are generational. Narcissists hate & discard ill people who no longer are any use to their needs. God will ground him in living hell misery with no more supply, totally abandoned. God's power surpasses all narcissists Praying for
Trust in Jesus Christ always, He died for your sins also. You will receive not only all Gods inheritance but also a perfect body SOON! 1 Corinthians 15 is comfort for you! If you could specify your disease perhaps we can talk about natural remedies e.g. mykotherapy medicinal mushrooms which are my favourites. God has given so much help to heal our earthly pain, see Revelation 22:2. 🙏❤️ Blessings your way, MARANATHA!
Without going into much detail, I've finally left my ex narcissist of 20 years. But my kids and I are stuck in home falling apart with my ex on the same property. We need a way out to heal and start a new life!! But being a single mom with low income we can't afford the cost of a new home. It's been 3 years waiting for a door to open. Could use prayers. Thanks for your videos!!
I was in worship and I was thinking of the insane outburst from the narc the night or two before and a Holy Spirit whisper came to me clear as day and said " I saw it, don't worry, hes not getting away with it" . I KNOW God KNOWS and I know he has a plan and justice will be served one way or another. I know this relationship is coming to an end by the strength of God's hands, and all I have to do is receive that freedom & be free indeed. Plans are in place , many doors have opened & its coming to the point of just walking through that door & living the life God intended for me to live. Definitely still the hardest thing ive ever had to do but God also showed me a vision of whats to come and my purpose in this life & I hold on to that promise knowing it is just on the other side of this. I am so incredibly weak right now but I know how strong my God is!! I can do this & I will be blessed. Spiritual warfare is so so REAL. I know God wants me to fight this battle of a lifetime and one day I WILL Share my testimony of being finally completely FREE!! He allowed this because he knows I can do it! He believes in me, I have to reach deep down and believe in myself again that I can do this!!! There are lives and souls attached to this testimony, if I can't do it for myself I have to do this for them! Ive never seen someone be given so many obvious chances and opportunities to repent and then turn right back away from truth, and goodness every single time. 🙏🏻🕊️ Pray for me in Jesus name ✝️🕯️🙏🏻
May The Peace Of Our Messiah Flood your Soul As you Are Delivered From The Gate Of Hell You Have OverCome By The Blood Of The Lamb And The Word Of your Testimony And you Love Not your Life Even To The Death EL MELEKH NE'EMAN!!
I'm on my way out too, I've been weak, I'm still am because I'm not gone yet. Then we have to deal with the people who don't know, while we are lied on. Yes, God is here we know we can Thank him we're not like this and only hope and pray others will see and wake up to the warfare we go through. The Body of Christ knows, not the ones who play church, but the true believers know. ❤ So be joyful in that 🥰 May our Father continue to show you love, power, and peace. ❤
If anyone is in a narcissistic marriage and in an abusive relationship. I can't imagine that our loving father in heaven wants you to be in this abuse!!! Thousands of women have been severely injured and killed because they were told to stay by the church or other Christians. I can't believe that our loving father approves of this🙏
Men are severely abused mentally in narcissistic marriages. I've known many young men that committed suicide over before my married and haven't not a child with whom men that are evil ,absolutely evil. And they lie and cry .the first thing they do is run out and get a protection order of abuse .that sets the stage for them to run with it .cause it's always the man ,right.
He doesn't approve. Please search the scriptures. God instructed for husbands to love the wife like Jesus loves the church. God does not condone abuse.
@@DavidJackson-y1q Yes men have been female narcissistic abuse victims also . Through the years, statically. Far more female murders and abuse have been from the men!
This actually makes me so sad because I don’t want the narcissist in my life to suffer. It makes me sad to know that this will happen to them. I understand that God has given them many chances to turn from their ways. This just makes me sad. I want to shake them and say look look at what is going to happen to you if you don’t change your ways.
I know right, I was so sad seeing my narcissist almost ex-husband in divorce court today. He looked so frail and depressed in then when he opened his mouth it immediately reminded why we were here Ugh 😫
@@sadiyyahicks3184 just imagine if you stayed. 😳. How would your health be. I've been enjoying peace for 2 years now. Wouldn't change it for the world.pray for him. That's all you should do.
I don’t pray for justice, I pray she finds truth and healing. She was still my wife and the mother of my children, though we have nothing to do with her. Even with her constant vindictive and spiteful attempt’s at revenge, I pray she’s made whole..
Yes indeed. I am praying for my husband to find salvation. I pray for God to send people that could help us, and pray for him to seek help. And pray for myself and my son to be covered by the blood of Christ. Please pray for us.
I love your perspectives on spiritual warfare in other videos. I've noticed a huge uptick in this narcissistic behavior across our culture. I think that Satan is upping his efforts because he knows his time is running out. It is doubly important for us to stand strong in our faith, and keep on the Armour of God. Stand strong!
I needed this word of encouragement, as this week has been tough. I was crying yesterday, thinking that the narcissist has gotten away with the things he has done to me and God is just silent. Really a test of my faith in God.
I Was There A Couple Of Days Ago Too Asking Him How He Can Let This Wickedness Go On? That I Cant Even Eat The Food They Keep Trying To Feed me,.. I Speak Peace Over you And I ToDay
Stop the tears and be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. The Bible says : The Lord will fight for you and you shall hold your peace.” Start reading all scriptures on courage, strength/strong, rtc
Amen. He does. I was dating a woman for 6 months ( I shouldn't have been dating ) because I was seperated and NOT divorced and flipped over the handle bars of her bicycle and got a concussion. If that isn't a sign then I don't know what is?...
This just reminds me of how my narcs mom is always in a manipulative manner pulls out the "parents are your second god" line in the pursuit of discouraging me in my relationship with God. But glory to the Almighty God am now aware of their deceit.
They might have gotten away with it here on Earth but just because they got away with it here, and they broken the laws here it doesn't mean that they will get away with breaking the laws on Earth because they will get it again on the day of judgment when the father condemned for breaking the laws on Earth and hurting his children. They do reap what they have sown. You reap on Earth and reap on the day of judgement.
Not always. My mother’s children have walked away. But at 86, she’s surrounded by extended family and church ladies who think she’s a saint and we are the demonic ones
You have described my mom! She goes to church every Sunday and tells us she prays so hard for her 3 adult kids while shaming us verbally on how she is upset and embarrassed we are all "fat" and how beautiful we used to be when we were thin. She says we are too sensitive when talking to her about our weight. On the other hand she is very over weight and in poor health but that's ok to her. All of her church lady friends think she's a Saint. Only if they knew she bad mouthed them behind their backs. I feel sorry for her because her adult kids self worth is all about their weight. It's all image to her. What ever happened to unconditional love?
@@JR-zx8ll How awful it is that Narc Moms want a relationship with an idealized version of a child who does not exist.... while her real children are starved for her acceptance. Prayers for you, dear sister. I felt every word of your story.
Please pray for me and my hubby and my elderly dad his main caregiver-my sister a,religious narc causes us SO much stress and trouble almost constantly . She has caused probs at the first assisted living care facility then this new one nor getting along with some of the staff and finding fault with the care of my dad. Now she is finding fault with this caregiver from an outside agency that we employ to send caregivers to the home to help my dad with things like showering and drinking water and walks because the home only has 2 staff members to care for 10 residents. My dad has Dementia lacks motivation to shower etc. My sister told this caregiver things that I said about her that are malicious and absolutely not true . Ugh. My hubby and I value this lady 👩 she really cares about my dad is very good with him. My sister even called the agency to complain about her . My sister is the one who found the agency set everything up. We take turns on things because I can't do it all im swamped up to my neck with my dads dental and doctor appts right now. Please pray for divine intervention. Before this gal quits or gets fired -she is very valuable to us
I don't want him to suffer. I want him to know what happiness is . I want him to realize how his every word has affected those around him. I want God to show him this and forgive him!
Me 2 this is the best humble answer,God know Everything why, they R they way they R,alot of things in their lives have happened 2them 2 be this way sometimes not getting enough attention from they parents so I have no hate but I did suffer ao hard,but still gratefully chosen by God
Thank you for this message. I have been dealing with a man that is straight out of a horror movie for 33 years. I’m praying with all my heart God will bring justice to this situation. My hope and trust is in the Lord!🙏
Idk if it was in this video, but when you talked about forgiveness, God laid it on my heart to forgive, and I could feel this weight just yanked off me. It was INCREDIBLE. I didn't realize I was harboring that, but now I know why He tells us to forgive. It's for YOU, not them. It will never excuse the behavior, and it will release those demons on your back. Definitely a deliverance, for SURE❤❤❤Your channel has brought such clarity for me. THANK YOU.
My mother turned people agaist me. She stole from me more times than I can count and blamed my brother. She also took years & opportunities from me. Just this morning I wonder will I ever get justice? I will say, she died and was miserable the last two years of her life. Then this showed up in my feed. I guess, God is telling me not to worry. He has taken care of her. His timing is perfect. I needed this reminder. Thank you.
This sounds a lot like my mother. I was literally JUST thinking (bitterly) about all the money she stole from me to the tune of tens of thousands of dollars, and then this comes up on my feed. She did MUCH more than that but the money was on my mind, as I'm struggling financially like so many are.
@rhiannancaraway I'm so sorry. My mother stole money from me, my brother, and my dad. They take whatever they please and get mad at us for having a normal reaction.
I know Justice will come but the process is slow... God gives them chance to repent and comforts those who preserve. Those who trust God wins every battle. Just stay in faith. Pray, pray, pray. Do good works regardless to others. Avoid them ..stand your ground. Do not back down.
Exactly. Because Jezebel was a narcissist. And she killed naboth and tried to kill Elijah. Poor Elijah when he kept having to run to get away from Jezebel. 😢 He was so tired and frightened did he told Abba that he wanted to die. And then the Angels came and comforted him. 😢 I love Abba Yahuah TMH look what he done for Elijah when Elijah's Spirit was tormented by Jezebel! He's very kind and sweet loving father to protect his children. Fear not for the prophets were persecuted before we were.
You have good intentions, but I think these are empty wishes. The point is that they don't want to change - that's why they are narcissists. And God respects our free will and, as such, will not change anyone .
They don't want to change... I feel that our prayers are falling on deaf ears because they're going to have to want the help in order for them to change. I pray for my legal guardians many times. If they don't want the help what good does it do to pray for them if they do not want to help themselves? I feel for them but they're going to have to want the help for themselves to get the help that they need. And then let the father take out that heart of Stone to replace it with a heart of flesh and to give them eyes to see and ears to hear.
@@user-iq4ow3fn1tI agree with you 100%. These are very stubborn people who don't want the help believe me I should know I lived with them for 18 years. They do not want to change they think they know it all and they cannot be moved. They are like a stone you cannot reason or talk to a stone.
What God will do to a narc once they have consistently expressed their own, demonically possessed 'free will'... Only God will judge. Walk around these sad, twisted beings, toward the Light. Always. Thank you Pastor Reese for your ministry. As someone who has suffered the life long consequences of narcisstic behaviour from a 'loved one' I feel a genuine sense of comfort hearing your messages of salvation from God. Thank you and Bless you.
I’m telling you it’s like she’s talking about my life, because I’m going through it with my narc, I’m so happy I clicked on this video now I know I just need to let God fight him for me.
Great video thank you! And so true. I have narcissistic in-laws and after 36 years of being ostracized and disregarded by them God finally chose ME as an instrument of justice. All those years I was the family scapegoat with my in-laws, and I kept praying that God would do something about their mean/cruel behavior towards me, but I had no idea that God wanted to use me. Last year God opened my eyes to their abuse and then put it on my heart to confront their abuse. I kept praying that God would use my husband since that's his family, but God chose me instead; and as an added blessing my husband stood by me against his own family. My husband could see the abuse, but he didn't know what to do. And after we informed his family that we need to "take a break" one sister-in-law, in particular, went completely ballistic and launched a smear campaign against me; she even called our adult son trying to sow seeds of doubt about me claiming that I was "holding my husband hostage" and other ridiculous lies. But that didn't work and only made things worse for *her* ...and when my husband learned what she did he cut her off. She tried to buy his love by sending him a birthday present, but that gift was returned because we can't be bought. We're praying that she will repent and apologize, but that day may never come. In the meantime we're simply staying away from her.
But what are we to do when the Nar is our own beloved adult son. You see the hurt he has always caused, his arrogance and blindness and it so grieves me to think God will not save him. I HAVE to keep on praying He will and all those who my son has affected. What a huge heart ache.
I pray for my Mother, the narcissist in my life. I also pray for my Father who has buried his head in the sand and been codependent. I turn it over to God. It's not my place to judge them. Not anymore. I still love them.
❤🙏🌹 the same here. My legal guardian stepfather buried his head in the sand while his wife was beating me up. But the past is the past and I've left them in the father's hands as well. Vengeance is his and he will repay
My elderly mother had spent a lifetime attending church. She goes to church 3 times a week-Bible study, bell choir, ladies’ aid. I have never once seen her open her Bible at home. Never. She drove my father into an early grave with her neglect. She’s alienated all four of her daughters and sowed seeds of dissension amongst them. To the world she presents as a sweet, timid godly little old lady. But her grandchildren avoid her and her daughters frankly can’t wait until she’s gone. We can’t all be wrong about her. She professors to be a Christian, But what her family sees is a cold and distant resentful bitter negative self-absorbed covert narcissist. God has been keeping her alive, 87 years so far and despite failing health she has only gotten worse. I am not that sure about my mothers salvation anymore because I don’t see any fruits of the spirit in her at all. At times I’ve even wondered if she is demon possessed. I feel like she despises me and has my whole life. She seems to be in opposition of the spirit of love, tolerance, forgiveness, generosity… All those qualities which saved Christians are supposed to display toward other people. I don’t expect a transformation of character at this late stage and I can only give her up into God’s hands and let Him decide what to do with her. Christianity for her seems to be more of a social outlet and way to front for people about how pious she is. Only God knows if it’s genuine but by the evidence of my eyes it’s not.
Sorry for this,it's too sad and sadly happening to me.I never ever imagine I would any time disrespect my mum,but today we severed ties. She's late 80's just like yours,a retired pastor but a gold-digger. I'm here first born in my early 60's with two children and six grandchildren and another one on the way. My mother used to ask for money from myself and both my children and I didn't see that good for my family because she got five sons and three daughters but is bent on destroying my family.She wanted control over all of us but I told her off though my children didn't see the danger she was posing.I got myself out of her hook and it's years since we talked. She uses church as her cover up because she noticed I was not much into the church thing,I feared their money gimmicks and pray at home.
Believing in Jesus only, will not save us. BUT we have to obey him!!! And let him clean us from demonic possession and being born again! Get baptized and have a relationship with him! Receiving the Holy Spirit inside of us. I know these type of „Christians“. And there will be Christians in hell! Because they didn’t obey God and weren’t born again.
@@justinamusyoka4986 No contact is best because she isn’t going to change. Feel good about your decision and just be sure to have your own end of life plans in order so that you don’t have to completely rely on your children when you can’t take care of yourself anymore. Sometimes the medical needs become more done children who are not trained nurses should be expected to take on, even when they are loving. My mother is the opposite of a gold digger. She is parsimonious. She gets some kind of self-righteous satisfaction over being as cheap as possible. Everything is a one-way street with her whereby her children have to always be the ones that call and invite her to meals and prepare food- She offers nothing. She has unfortunately become just like her mother, which is a feature that we dreaded and hoped wouldn’t happen but actually she’s always been like this. We just didn’t realize as children that all mothers weren’t this way. Despite her Christianity I think she fears death and clings onto her house and her things thinking that she is somehow going to keep on living for years and years. It’s not going to be that long, or at least I pray not. It will be a mercy to us all when she goes. She’s off to Bible study again today for her helping of virtue signaling about how much she loves the Lord.
The same song being played out in many homes. Personal experience. The Holy Rollers are the worst. And no, the one I know doesn’t really read the Bible
@marywenzel3199 This does not sound like an easy situation Mary.. sounds like she is missing The Father’s love😢. You have to forgive her-with your words to her face. How she responds is not important, what matters is that you lay it down and walk in grace/peace. I pray God gives you strength and freedom 🙏
Very true. What makes me sad is they are involving kids, other people who really don't know the truth. And of course the true victim is the culprit and the abuser is the victim.
I don’t wish any evil on my “Christian” narcissistic mother and her flying monkeys - my siblings. It feels so unjust that they can continue their unjust bullying with no consequences. My sincere concern is their eternal salvation.
I don't know how my dad stayed married to my narc mother for so long. She torments him every single day: gaslighting, mocking, starting fights, micromanaging, humilation. She uses him like a slave and tries to do the same with me. Sometimes I just watch with pity hoping he will stick up for himself.
Repentance is the only pathway to salvation. The narcissist must see the error of their own behavior, and ask Jesus to transform them. The true gospel message is "repent AND believe" then Christ redeems. This is why so many so church goers call themselves "Christian" because they belong to a denomination, but have never laid down their lives at the cross. Jesus said in John 3, "unless a man is born again, he cannot see the Kingdom of heaven" he was saying in essense that the carnal man must die with Christ to live again. Pray for their eyes to be opened to their own sinfulness, leading them to repentance that brings salvation thru genuine faith in Christ.
Exactly! All I want people like my legal guardians to do is just leave me alone. I don't wish I will on anybody. I just want people like my legal guardians to leave me alone who feel that the laws of the land do not apply to them. They feel that they could go and do whatever they want to do and not get Justice for it. Those are the type of people that first Timothy says to turn away from.
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richardjohanson5421 Not sure that this scripture would apply to Kris's kindness in offering that free guide, after all, how else would those in need know its available? In a different setting, sure. But we must also remember the scriptures that warn us not to punish good with evil. As i see it, Kris is doing tremendous good in helping others navigate this perilous ordeal, why would any wish to pummel that good with an admonition, perhaps misapplied? Food for thought.
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they coast for a Very short Time
Scary, sounded like me. I repent and follow Jesus’ teaching, love and peace. God has given me a 2nd chance. All glory to God!
“For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.” - John 3:17
Please restore my years, Lord.
Amen ‼️
Mine to jesus, because I lost a lot of years
Amen, dido
This! This is all I ask Lord, please 🙏🏻
He promised to but man hurry up already!!
The narcs that say they believe in Jesus are the most confusing and tricky ones. I have finally learned to watch peoples actions and not their words.
I married one. It has been a long suffering journey.
Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth does speak.
@@martygo5273 me too 😭. It’ll be our 3 month anniversary next wed, and the last 3 years have been the hardest years of my life. It’s felt like 10 years, I am exhausted from the ups and downs, back and forth, walking on eggshells because of the rage and unpredictable, yet predictable behavior.
This is why I havent processed everything from my parents all these decades. They never miss a church service, twist scripture and never change their ways. So confusing
@@martygo5273same here, 29 years. So pious, makes me sick!
When GOD sets you free from evil. Do NOT revisit it. That’s is your Justice.
I got hoovered a couple of weeks ago and at first it made me feel sick and then it made me feel scared because I know this person is evil with evil intentions. Then I felt sad for what should’ve been and what could’ve been. You can’t go back though. You can never go back because they really do only want to hurt you and belittle you and use you as a way to purge all of their hatred and rage.
Amen
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Thank you for your comment. I said when I left my narcissistic emotionally abusive husband he was making me a container for his pain, but I love the way you put this. It's a "way to purge all of their hatred rage."
@@vfree4579 I always pray for the narcs I consider "victims of their upbringing" (learned how/taught to be narcissistic by example): those who don't actually realize / are cognitively aware they are exhibiting narc behaviors (subconsciously carrying out their "training/programming") because there is hope for them to ACTUALLY change!
Of course this is intended to help them get the help they need to break the chains of their bondage & then help to set others like them free so that the cycle of demonic influence will be stopped from infecting & affecting future generations.
It's good for your soul & healing that you are out of that situation.
Don't go into a relationship without the benefit of external evaluation by Professional Christ-following counselors who MUST be brought into these situations so that there is external witness & accountability brought to bear against the principalities & powers that are behind the anti-Christ behaviors humans label as "mental/behavioral issues".
Knowing what you're dealing with / getting into / up against is 99% of any battle!
Narcissist behavior should be a felony crime!
Amen.
@@ronaldschlager4888 it is. Have u not seen the criminal activity or behavior working with the government from social media? U can't convince me that the government didn't create social media to not have media trolls to attack and lie slander campaign. Just look at how they did trump 😂 using him as America's poster boy even for freedom of speech.
Amen!
Technically it is .⚖️
@@ronaldschlager4888 many times they have commuted fraud felony and will pay for all the years of them acting this way when they get caught in the fraud…payback time is good ….
The Lord says
"Vengeance is mine"
Amen
Amen
I don't care about revenge, I just want the truth to be revealed for all to see. The truth about who he really is and what he did.
I feel you. Check out Adam Magaña of Active Church in San Luis Obispo, California. Unbelievable narcissist. He’s a professional conman. I’d do anything for him to be exposed and ruined. It’s tough to wait on. I’m with you.
Get used to the liklihood that may never happen. Focus on taking care of yourself.❤
Not our concern. Yes, we want justice, we want vindication but I can tell you, man’s approval is not what we should be seeking and not what we should be looking for. Elijah did not have man’s approval, he stood in the obedience of God alone. I know it’s hard but ask the Lord to shift your focus to Him and not justification by man. God knows the Truth.
@@Ravenwood71 amen.
God has been faithful through this and has redeemed me of that mess.
@@trustmaker1014 same!!
I don’t want revenge, I want him to find God.
You are after God's own heart! That is the right attitude to have.
After all the years the sexually abusive narcissists have gotten away with hurting my mother, mother-in-law, mine and my husband's daughters, and at least one or two others, the predators still deny everything, and still claim they follow Jesus. Due to insufficient evidence for all but one victim, the two narcissistic predators have evaded prison for all but one victim. Talk about temptation to want to take matters into our own hands. But what got my attention was the day my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ told me, " It's not about what they( the predators) deserve. It's about what I ( the Lord Jesus) deserves." Anybody out there who is willing and able, please pray for me, and my family, that we remember what our God says in scripture: " Vengeance is the Lords. I will repay" says the Lord. Thanks you, and God bless. ♥ 🙏
I dont know you or who you are referring to, but I want that, too, for the person you are referring to. Wouldn't that be nice? It would be.
The only thing they'll find is new people
I pray for him every day.
On my knees, in fact
@@chrissemenko628 you're wasting your time. Forget, but don't forgive them, they don't deserve it
Not all narcissists are loud or abusive- they can be very calm & "outwardly " nauseatingly charming..
So true. My husband is like this
NOT ALL WOMEN ARE HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES. GO GET YOUR DIVORCE AND WATCH HOW AWFUL LIFE BECOMES.
@@misfitty-vd6kv Life would become awful if you don't have a plan. It is better to put a plan in place and then move in for the divorce. You plan with a purpose that when you walk away it's no turning back.
Completely agree. My wife who says she is filing for divorce is exactly this way. She cannot admit she does anything wrong.
The covert ones are toxic 😈
for everyone scrolling and listening to the video, go read forbidden manifestation by zara blackthorn. then come back to thank me
One of the ways I spot a narcissist is, they are never satisfied, never content and never happy. They are always immediately looking for more. If that's not a curse I don't know what is. Not to know the joy of a simple gift, the pleasure of a kind word or simply enjoying the beauty God puts all around us because you are obsessed with getting more. Narcissists create their own punishment.
Very well said!👍
Being a narcissist is punishment in itself. These people are always miserable and never know peace.
@@LeannaRuthJensen 💯💯💯
@@beckyriggs1869 Judas was a narcissist! Money grubbing! A vessel for Satan to dwell!
I agree 200%.
I'm so happy God removed the narcissist from my life thank you Father 🤎
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Won't he do it ?!?!!! 😊
Yes. Thank you, Lord!
You don't even need to cross them, you just have to exist.
Exist with happiness ❤
@@seashell1038 agreed
I'd add that they also require you to apologize for your existence 😊.
Narcissists break your spirit. Praying for anyone that's been tormented by them. My family member was a nurse. Nice to strangers and everyone. She abused me my whole life.
So sorry
You will be restored 🕊️
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Magnificent gratitude beautiful SOUL, I hope Ur healing and safe now. It's lovely to be in such a learning and loving safe place together in unconditional love 💖🌹😘Take your time healing deeply and forgiving yourself slowly ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜 I'm 9 weeks away and learning to DEEPLY FORGIVE MYSELF, I learned self LOVE and my narcissistic husband went mad.....
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"Do not be deceived. God shall not be mocked. Whatsoever a man (person) sows so shall they reap." (KJV)
Preach the Lord will not be mocked!
Huzzah!!!
Preach!
AMEN!!
Amen!!!
This is exactly why we need not to repay evil for evil!! The wrath of God handles those who’ve done others wrong!!
I don't crave justice for narcissists! I crave that narcissistic people change and do a 180 and get saved by the power of Almighty God!
*Id settle for at least 45% of the US population acquiring anything resembling self-awareness. We're not embarrassed enough by OURSELVES. That's the object lesson of this comment section.*
God's desire is to see every one receive mercy, forgiveness and come to salvation including the narc, but there's also, justice and righteousness which are the foundations of his throne. When you endure the narcs pervasive behavior pattern that go on without a thought of God and having no remorse the natural and spiritual recourse has to come into play, its the law! Otherwise, no one would serve God if there were no justice.
@@srtbluekat6748 *CASE IN POINT*
When they destroy your life, your physical and emotional wellbeing, then you want justice. These are not just words. I know that their treatment contributed to me getting cancer in the middle of my life, at 37 as a single mom and then still being treated like garbage by them. Being almost violently robbed of my life, definitely robbed of my reproductive system and health, my time, energy, sanity and much more, almost being forced to having to leave my child behind as an orphan, being forced into premature, sudden menopause which puts me at higher risk for alzheimers, osteoporosis and heart disease, not to mention premature aging, I wonder where is their cancer at? That's the least they deserve for justice to be served. It's only by God's grace that we found it early even though this type is always discovered late and even though I have never been sick in my life and going to the doc was the furthest thing on my mind, so that I'm planning to make it out alive. These are not just words, this is real. Narcs destroy human beings and lives, except it's too late by the time you figure it out. Emotions are chemical compounds that are released into the body and they can make you sick. Yes I don't want them to go to hell, but do you think after deliberately doing that type of damage to a person, they don't deserve any repercussions? Where's the justice for the victim? God is a God of justice and the Bible says that even for every single word you speak you will have to answer for. With good reason, even a word can do something to you since words have power. There's cause and effect in everything. There must be justice or God wouldn't be who he is.
@TheHelenhunter I wish I knew what to tell you, except that it encourages me that despite the harm that has come to you, you have not given up on the Lord. Many people in your situation would have because they do not see His justice happen right then and there.
But it will. We live in a fallen world where things like this are going to happen. Wicked men and women will do wicked things to you and others. But in due time, their foot will slip.
If you have not done so, look up the sermon given by the Puritan preacher Jonathan Edwards titled, "Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God." He speaks of the same thing, that though justice hasn't come yet, it will. It may be a harsh read, but this is only because we as Christians today are so incredibly soft.
God bless you, and I wish you well.
My husband preaches and is involved in all ministries and he is cold, calculating and very cruel and evil towards me and our children. Praying God removes him from our lives
Look up Jonathon Welton who was the same- His wife finally left him and it was in that action he reflected on himself. Oftentimes you will have to take action and not continue to tolerate the sin and hypocrisy and protect your children and in those steps God will work within.
@@Beloveddaughter24 amen, thanks for the encouragement 🙏
I do too. ..My ex husband is in the ministry and is a narcissist too. Slept around while on the pulpit, manipulated my daughter too, so she acts like she's a perfect Christian and meanwhile is a narcissist too. She has separated "just" me from my grandchildren and hates that they love me so much. It breaks my heart but it is what it is.
@@40cclay I can fully relate. Only God can deliver us and he will. Sending prayers
Prayed for you & your children, Carol 🌸.
It seems many victims of narcissists need to actually witness the narc's comeuppance in order to believe that justice will be done. That is a waste of energy. Let it suffice that the narc will be held accountable in our Creator's own good time, regardless whether we witness it or not. Instead, put your energy into healing yourself!
@@jbrown2908 what a fucking joke. God never does anything to anyone who shits all over people.
You are so right.
God will have justice and repay them for everything they have done
I agree and personally I don’t want to see what God has in store for them. I don’t like to see people suffer. It makes me sad. I have enough to answer for. Thankfully Jesus is my savior and my sin debt is paid but I still have to focus enough on my actions to try to keep from sinning more. That takes enough of my energy.
@@marianmalone9523 RIGHT ON!
Wish I had your heart!@@marianmalone9523
I can’t believe how true this is. Every evil that is planned for you will be turned back on them. This very thing happened to me over the last three years. I never wanted or wished bad on the other person but trusted that God would have the final say. And let me tell you God fights for his kids.
That narcissist is God’s kid. The healthy don’t need a physician. He don’t come to heal the healthy He came to heal the sick, the poor, the needy. He came to live the unloved and to put the lonely in families. You claim you don’t wish bad on them yet you celebrate the idea that God is going to punish them while forgetting that you yourself deserve the same punishment. Grace is the reason why we don’t get what we all deserve. Might want to think about that. God is not sitting there waiting to punish broken and damaged people, those broken and damaged people are the ones he literally died for.
@@Bobjones-g6c So long as the narc, or anyone else, doesn't engage in deliberate, willful sin: Hebrews 10:26-27, it says:
“For if we go on sinning willfully after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, but a certain terrifying expectation of judgment, and the fury of a fire which will consume the adversaries.”
@@Bobjones-g6c I don't think she is celebrating in a bad way, she is celebrating that the Lorf delivered her from the Narc...and you are right...the sick are the ones that need medicine, but that's not a reason that people have to take the Narc abuse or not feel joy when delivered from them..and yes!! The Lord is Mighty to save from those satanic agents, carriers of jezabelic spirits, A/K/A narcissists....and what the people of Israel, and all the people in the Bible did when the Lord delivered them from evil and wickedness??? They celebrate and glorified the Lord for His vengeance and deliverance against the enemies...Hallelujah!!!😂❤❤
Celebrate your deliverance, rejoice in the Lord your God!! I have a Narc ex "friend", and no matter the evil and wicked fruits that a person has, she always says that the person is a "child of God"...and she says that because she wants to manipulate people into believing that no matter what she does, how much she gossips around, how much drugs she uses, she still a child of God...she wants people to hold her to a non accountability standard...a 50+ toddler's behavior!! That's her cuddling lullaby, to never change and to do whatever she wants in church...but they cannot manipulate God...Hallelujah!! Rejoice in your victory, as all people from the Bible has done...there's no need to stay gloomy, after the Lord get rid of our enemies...God bless you!!!😂 Live your life to the fullest in the fear of God, and don't pay attention to people trying to make you feel guilty because you asked the Lord, and He worked it out in your favor...in all wars, there's one side celebrating, and the other losing...if you chose the Lord's side, celebration is inevitable!!! The Lord is our Father and Defender, He too fought a Narc for me, and I am enjoying my peaceful life...Glory to God!!!....I am so happy for you, God bless you!❤
@@lillyrose1422 um, no matter what she does is IS still a child if God, how dare you suggest she is not and then use the name of the Lord to validate your point. The arrogance of some Christians is astounding. Who are you to tell anyone on behalf of God who is His child and who is not?
Living with a narcissist is like being in prison without parole
Love this! Joel 2:25 “ I will restore all the years the locusts have eaten…”
Evil is rewarded in this upside down world! Those people are miserable though. They have no clue that material things will never bring happiness.
This world was never different.
Bless those who persecute you bless and do not curse. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Do not take revenge My dear friends but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written It is mine to avenge I will repay says the Lord.
Yes,but pray warfare prayers and use the scriptures of war like Psalm 35, then God will revenge for you
True. Justice is never evil. Justice brings good. Them not being responsible for their evils is evil and injustice. Injustice is evil. Justice doesn't mean hating them.
Amen 🙏😘!
Better too forgive and bless them vengeance belongs too the lord he's my vindicator
2 kings 9:33. , Isaiah 54:16, 17, Isaiah 59:15....., Rev 18:6
Psalm 75.. he will deal with the wicked and strengthen the Godly..❤️
I used to be a narcissist but Jesus changed me and has been changing me non stop since COVID began,So many things Jesus has delivered me from, Thankyou Jesus.
Why don't you want to be a narcissist anymore? Just curious
I am so happy for you. I hope my narcissit wife of 10 years will find Jesus again. We are divorcing now, but I want her to change for the sake of our daughter, and for her because I really loved her
@@hereisayana8207 narcs don't want to be narcs in the first place, if you go deep into a narcs past your going to find a world of hurt from the past and a lil boy or girl trying to survive it no matter what it takes..
You'd do the same if you were in their shoes, exactly the same, do not kid yourself.
This is a very rare occurrence. I pray more narcs can find Jesus and repentance.
Praise God
Continue to move forward in JESUS. I’m happy for you and I thank God for saving your life.
You are going to be a mouth piece for the LORD to lead other narcissists to JESUS.
It's so sad because once God has had enough of their abusive, toxic, hard-hearted, cruel and wicked deeds, it's like the point of no return. The Bible speaks of and warned the Jezebel spirit (the Narcissist) in the book of Revelation, and how God gave her "space" to repent, but she WOULD NOT. Therefore, He [God] will throw her (the Narcissist) on a bed of affliction. I've seen this and it ain't pretty! They may seem to get away with mocking God, and abusing people for a LONG time, but mark this, they are storing up God's wrath. The LONG time is the "space" He has given them to repent. God sure enough, will not be mocked. Whatsoever a man (human) sows, THAT shall he also reap.
❤truth
Even though we have a child together I got to the point where I had to block him I cannot take the disrespect anymore
YOU GOT THAT RIGHT
Yep
My ex...christian covert narc even swore on Jesus Christ that he did not cheated on me......during 2 years i had no idea of what was narcissism....but always felt that i ve started to idolize him ( the narc )...my time was his time, ive known the whole cycle of narc abuse. Yes they are possessed... Because all narcs in the whole world act the same. As if they have been cloned.
“Your enablement will not change them.”
Thank you-
@mr.melontoyou If anything, enablement will give them fuel to burn you further.
It is no longer my responsibility to change this person. God Blessings
@@Jeweler46 it never was
@@locsta409
Just wishful thinking...
@@eg4151 yes, I totally understand what you meant! Just reinforcing reality. I know I need some reality reinforcement myself while I heal
I was just having a conversation about what happens to narcs eventually. A lot of them end up miserable and alone, blaming others for their condition.
The punishment for being a narc - is being a narc.
@@nonawolf7495 You reap what you sow
Seems to me like the person had too much dealings with narcs ....
My stepmother has been a malignant narcissist for decades.if i could drscribe her- she has a phd in manipulation, Lies, & false guilt shaming. She has destroyed many relationships over the years, and she has violent tendencies also. The Last straw for me was when she got caught ruthlessly beating my Father while he was helpless on his deathbed. I recently started praying for her salvation and to help me with my anger issues towards what she has done & ive come to the realization that she dug a pit for herself over the yrs and she's buried deep in it, and its impossible for her to dig her way out- Only divine intervention (Jesus)can save her.
That's my Dad.
32 years of narc abuse for me. The last time i got the smirk. The passive aggressive silent treatment, i said to God that i forgive him and this peace and calm came over me. 12 hours later i found him dead in his room. May God have mercy on his soul.
🙏🏻
God removed mine too
@Drums1963 not everyone’s justice nor peace will come at the same time.
Wow!!!
My narcissist is a doctor in theologie. Got to know him through a Christian datingsite. He proved to be a real classic one when he was at my place. Almost took over my household, complained about everything. When he got angry and screamed to F...off, i called the police and had him removed . After four months he wanted to restart the relationship . He claims he remembers nothing about his misbehaviour. All contact is done. I pray for healing, i trust Gods interventions in this.
God will give me justice. Be still and know that I am God. Amen.
Yes, that's exactly what gives me peace. It's his battle and I am grateful for that! 🙏
Oh ya? When would you say God finally did this?
I’m waiting…..
Wake up. His treats the narc with loving care and the victims…well we just suffer daily. Thanks alot God!!
Let go.
@@LakeHouse1965 god never forces you to accept his care. He loves you nontheless. 😢
A few months ago God gave me this scripture ❤
My narc husband died a painful and miserable death and those who know what I endured all say their hair stood up all over them when they heard the news. Even my pastor said my husband resisted the Holy Spirit in anger and was turned over to his own devices. Im still healing a year later...
Can I ask what he said or saw before death?
@@hereisayana8207 I can tell you he did NOT see me! He was in ICU for 4 days, underwent 2 surgeries, and suffered a LOT of pain. My son saw him once and he said he wished I was there....nope. No contact means NO contact. I was told that when he was in extreme pain, he cussed out loud and then threw his arms up in the air and begged God to forgive him. I can also tell you that a week before his death, he told someone that he hoped he did not die and go to hell. That's all I know.
Sorry you went through that ❤
@@lisaday5876 I'm healing and doing well. The Lord was in control of it all and has taken excellent care of me through it all.
My narc husband, turned ex, after filing for divorce due to an abusive marriage also dropped dead of a massive heart attack. I forgave him and continued to pray for him, until I found out about his sudden passing which was not surprising to me because he was evil incarnate and I knew justice would be swiftly delivered.
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
You say 'stuck in a trance'. What kind of trance?
@@brynne77 mass psychosis, mass hypnosis
@@hanagloriaedelblum5693 What do you mean?
Mass media used asca weapon to create mass hypnotism. Dr.Andreas Desmet coined the phrase "mass formation" to describe the blind following of masking and lethal injection mandates.
Our justice from God is our freedom from them. We must trust God will protect and provide.
Amen🥺
@@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod👏
You said it perfectly
Amen
I was praying about this very thing this morning... struggling with whether God would ever bring justice, and THIS comes across my feed! Thank you, Lord.
God's timing is perfect!
This is 1000% my mother. No matter how good you are to her the meaner she gets. Always miserable, no food they eat, TV show. Sunshine or rain. I have never met a person who literally lies every breath she takes. This video was spot on pure truth.
I was talking about this subject too this morning with my friend, we have both suffered narcissistic abuse. Thank you lord for leading me to this, you have answered all my questions.
@@libbysimpson9127 my mother is just the same!
@@Oceansgreen Amen!☝🏻
What you allow..... Is what will continue , and continue , and continue !
so true
No power of hell, No scheme of man. Can ever pluck you from His (God’s) Hands. Till He (God) returns, or calls you Home. Stand in the power of Christ, in Jesus mighty name!
Amen🙏🏼
AMEN!
Yes and sometimes He calls us to action to protect ourselves 😮😅
@@iw9338 where does the Bible say that? "I will repay says the Lord of Hosts"
In Christ Alone.
I am over 180 days of NoContact! I thank God for giving me the strength to leave. I pray that he would seek some much needed therapy.
“No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me,” Says the Lord (Isaiah 54:17 NKJV)
Amen
God will not be mocked.
The lies they spread will come back tenfold.
people are not punished for their sins, they are punished by their sins. This is strong enough a reminder to keep on the right path. Thank you...
Actually it is both ... but God is the one we sin against, and unless we repent and believe in Jesus, we will all likewise perish. Luke 13📖
God is not mocked. Revenge belongs to him. This is why I don't worry myself about getting even. I was done so wronged by the narcissist in my life. Now she's alone with no supply. Without repentance of their actions, they will receive the penalties from the One who will give justifiably. For the measure you use will be measured to you. Thank you so much Kris for using story from the Bible to show a perfect example of a narcissist is, and how it's relatable today.
Powerful and Just revenge!
I had reason today again to be so angry at the narc when he managed to insult my little boy and call him names after he did something wrong. Usually I will be sooo upset, angry, bitter, yelling, screaming, ruminating all day if he does something wrong to my child, it's literally eating me up alive. Today the thought came into my mind that God will revenge and I was able to completely release and let it go. No more pain and hurt on the inside, I know that God will pay him back for every single word, he will take care of it, I don't have to worry or lose my sanity over how we're being treated (as single mom). I felt free as a bird. God is so good, he is the solution to everything.
@@TheHelenhunter God is good but yet vengeful.. interesting view point. I thought God was Love.. hmm So God contradicts himself? So then He will also have the revenge on your for those you have hurt, will he not?
@@JamieAndrick For all the good and all the bad. The Bible says you will be held accountable for every word you speak, but yet you will be rewarded for even a glass of water you give to the needy. God is many things. He is love and he is justice.
@@TheHelenhunter Read it again.. Every word is for the here and now. I feel for you and those that believe God is a vengeful God.. smh Every thought and word you speak is judged because that is how he created it.. you can have what you say, judge not, lest ye be judged. Many references, do your research, dig a little deeper. God is only one thing! LOVE
So tired of these evil doers. It is never going to stop. Where can you live without them all around you? Cannot take their abuse.
Me too I'm right with ya And not by me I'm in a nest of them
Read Hebrews 2:14 gods going to do away with Satan his rulership over mankind. & Undo all damage Satan has do he's given us hope to live forever in peaceful paradise where there be no wicked evil or hate anywhere. He's also going to reunite us with our loved ones by means of a Resurrection! (Revelation 21; 3, 4.) So yes it will happen where we'll be able to live without them ever again! What a wonderful future we have to look forward to God is very loving kind & merciful! (Deuteronomy 4;31).
We understand you, you have people on this side. ❤
society as a whole has normalized, accepted, and even encourages narcissism. How 😢 sad is that.
@@bonnieromick9397 So are we.
0:11 Just this thumb nail brings so much comfort...
@@kadlacdixon-thedrawmylifep3293 that is what prompted me to check in on it myself. The pain and waiting has been unbelievable.
God gives us peace, joy, hope and a future, life and abundance... those are things Narcs will never have. That is why they hate us.
Wow that is such a powerful statement. Peace is the one thing they will never have. Which is why they are always lurking around spiritual people. They are trying to figure out the "gimmick" in people that have peace. And it drives them crazy because there is no "gimmick" that they can imitate. Especially when they cannot impress or manipulate people that are at peace and know themselves.
You are a 100% correct!! They are never granted TRUE PEACE because they are of the devil,roaming around to seek, hope to destroy you (your spirit) AND they even may plan to kill. STAY AWAY. Believe me.....their hate for you runs ver deep, They wear many masks to reel you in, but MAKE NO MISTAKE...... They are PURE EVIL. Ask for God’ help & protection😊 Blessings/ narc free
@@LoveEndures7 Those are things that the abused are dealing with now! God is awol
They are often given multiple illnesses as a means to draw them closer to God. But many times they just want all the pity, are never genuinely remorseful, and will never change (except for the worst), thinking they are ill as in God is shining in their favour. It's been an absolute mind-boggling thing to witness!
my goofy, good christian, brother in law faked cancer to swindle others out of money. you get one guess what hes dying of for real this time. no need to fake no mo.
@@RedRubyStones For Real! Ty
thank you my beloved sister in Christ! I'm going through a lot at the hands of a narcissist at work
The narcissist in our family has been tormenting people for over thirty years. God help us. I've been praying for her for soooo long. Why don't things improve? Innocent people are suffering!
At the bare minimum, please consider that the person in question may no longer even be able to be saved anymore. They may have crossed the line, and now there is nothing but judgment for them.
I'm not saying this IS the case. I'm saying that this can and has happened. Please at least consider this possibility, and if after doing so you have concluded that he/she has, then leave them be to their end.
"Every plant that has not been planted by my Father will be pulled up by the roots. Leave them, for they are blind guides..."
Take care. And remember- Sunday is coming.
Can relate! My evil grandfather died without being held accountable for incest abuse
Are they EVER held accountable??? While they are still on earth, I have NEVER seen it. We, too have the evil, now dead grand father(molester) who was never forced to admit what a pedo he was, or be accountable in any way. It is disgusting,appalling, and unforgivable. It is also too late because no one wanted to speak up.Sickening!!! There is comfort in knowing he WILL be ( has now been) held accountable by the Ultimate JUDGE😮) There is consolation in that. The entire situation is extremely disheartening to say the least. BE AWARE of all the evil around you. Stay close to God. And expose these demonic monsters!! They leave behind story upon story of their scarred victims who sometimes suffer a lifetime after the abuse of these satanic entities👹😔
Narcissists have literal demons controlling their thoughts and actions. They have a reprobate mind that is no longer open to the Holy Spirit. They have chosen the devil's ways. That being said, praying for them is an absolute waste of time. You can only pray that their victims find peace and freedom.
@@rosalindr4975There is retribution when they are on the other side. Everything is recorded... everything is known. And the abuser will be held accountable.
I am currently stuck in the psychiatric system where narcissistic psychiatrists keep speaking down to me during my appointments as if I am a lesser human being. I have been polydrugged and now I have to deal with devastating side effects. May God heal my OCD, depression and trauma, and punish these narcissists. Psychiatric mistreatment and gaslighting are real and devastating.
Envision yourself out of that medical facility or away from the abusive situation FEEL IT REAL it will happen….God dwells within us …… make the unseen seen
Please read Neville Goddard the truths he writes and speaks about are the truth …..peace be with you ✌️🫶🏻🧘♀️
I understand Shawn; I have experienced this. I hopped from one to another. it was with hindsight that I saw their patterns of abuse, using the vulnerability and inherent trust one places in such a person. God will deal with them and He will heal You and all of use who have been doubly broken. Put your eyes and mind and heart and faith on God and never look away.
Thank you for sharing this information love and light to allAmen
Those pills are poison they are drug dealers for big pharma. Ignorant pieces of you know what.
appointments, as in plural? if you keep going back, who's fault is it?
Lord please have mercy on everyone in need of repentance. Amen. 🙏❤️🙏
It would be so nice to see survivors of long term narcissist abuse. I want to hear from people who have succeeded after the horror. It would give me hope too!
After a 21 year marriage of lies and dishonesty. It took me 4 years but I am free and finding my health and healing. He has turned our children against me because like a true bully he can’t stand alone, he must gain support. I know The Lord is working and He will restore the years the locusts have eaten. My focus is in my health and healing and being with Almighty. God will repay justly in His time. I adore Kris and her ministry it is so helpful. God bless!
Health and healing IS possible and even likely when we focus on The Lord who is the restorer of our souls.
@@sharonwisdom I too have gone through the same. Next month will be 5 years of not being with my children. But God… I stand in hope and prayer over my children. God knows the tears I’ve watered the many seeds with.
I pray for restoration of your family.
I'm a survivor of a covert narc for many years. God took me out from the narc life. I went NO contact since then I'm getting healed and delivered with the help of the Lord. We're not alone. God is there with us he sees and hear all the things the narc does to us. I gave my ex narc to the Lord in prayers. Vengeance is the Lord. GOD will take care of them.
Here I am. A Survivor. 26 years I have been with my Wife who is a covert Narcissist. She is currently using her “ways” to turn our 19 year old Son against me. It’s absolutely Evil. She literally laughs in my face after she does it. It is diabolical. She cheers him on when he disrespects me. I have had long talks with him about this. He understands she is a manipulator.
She had childhood Trauma and learned to be a Narcissist from her Mother.
Everyday I get up and literally live in relationship HELL. Passive Aggressive behavior all the time. I am becoming a Master of Greyrocking because I am dealing with cunning demons.
I am working on ME. I have lost 100 pounds and am climbing out of depression. I am trying to follow God’s command of just being Loving towards her even though I GET NOTHING in return. There has been no intimacy for over a decade. No touching at all. She declared herself off limits to me as she says she has decided to give up sex for life. She for a while would make me food and put her hair in my food, just to see my reaction. I cook for myself now. Sometimes I wonder if she will poison me. I hope not.
I have recovered from my Deep Dark Depression I have decided to not commit suicide because then Satan wins. I will not harm her because Justice is not mine to give out.
So everyday I work on me and try to figure out how I am going to escape this. I am 59, with medical body issues. I am working to advance my career as I am jobless and trapped. She knows this and tells me I am a failure. I just reject those thoughts. Satan isn’t going to win.
I just praise God.
Everyday is a gift. ❤
And me what Reese is describing seems A LOT like the failure Narcissist victims also suffer.... not succeeding at anything and serving the Narcs
In a sad way, this was cathartic to hear. I feel sorry for the narc in my life, but after 55 yrs of wickedness, I have a serious disease and no support from them now. So tragic. I leave them in the hands of the One who made them and will deal with them justly.
Oh they wont deal with sickness at all
I'm so sorry you're very ill from a lifetime of this. Please spend the rest of your life continuing to place this in God's hands. In the end sadly we can't regain those lost years nor change a narcissist. They were damaged in childhood by narc exposure themselves and they morphed into a narcissist to survive. We victims also damaged by narcissist parents & relatives. The more I read posts the mire I see the patterns are generational. Narcissists hate & discard ill people who no longer are any use to their needs. God will ground him in living hell misery with no more supply, totally abandoned.
God's power surpasses all narcissists
Praying for
Trust in Jesus Christ always, He died for your sins also. You will receive not only all Gods inheritance but also a perfect body SOON! 1 Corinthians 15 is comfort for you!
If you could specify your disease perhaps we can talk about natural remedies e.g. mykotherapy medicinal mushrooms which are my favourites. God has given so much help to heal our earthly pain, see Revelation 22:2. 🙏❤️ Blessings your way, MARANATHA!
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I'm in the same boat..
Without going into much detail, I've finally left my ex narcissist of 20 years. But my kids and I are stuck in home falling apart with my ex on the same property. We need a way out to heal and start a new life!! But being a single mom with low income we can't afford the cost of a new home. It's been 3 years waiting for a door to open. Could use prayers. Thanks for your videos!!
I was in worship and I was thinking of the insane outburst from the narc the night or two before and a Holy Spirit whisper came to me clear as day and said " I saw it, don't worry, hes not getting away with it" . I KNOW God KNOWS and I know he has a plan and justice will be served one way or another. I know this relationship is coming to an end by the strength of God's hands, and all I have to do is receive that freedom & be free indeed. Plans are in place , many doors have opened & its coming to the point of just walking through that door & living the life God intended for me to live. Definitely still the hardest thing ive ever had to do but God also showed me a vision of whats to come and my purpose in this life & I hold on to that promise knowing it is just on the other side of this. I am so incredibly weak right now but I know how strong my God is!! I can do this & I will be blessed. Spiritual warfare is so so REAL. I know God wants me to fight this battle of a lifetime and one day I WILL Share my testimony of being finally completely FREE!! He allowed this because he knows I can do it! He believes in me, I have to reach deep down and believe in myself again that I can do this!!! There are lives and souls attached to this testimony, if I can't do it for myself I have to do this for them! Ive never seen someone be given so many obvious chances and opportunities to repent and then turn right back away from truth, and goodness every single time. 🙏🏻🕊️ Pray for me in Jesus name ✝️🕯️🙏🏻
Amen🙏🏼🥺
May The Peace Of Our Messiah Flood your Soul As you Are Delivered From The Gate Of Hell
You Have OverCome By The Blood Of The Lamb And The Word Of your Testimony And you Love Not your Life Even To The Death
EL MELEKH NE'EMAN!!
when we are week the He (the Lord) is strong. He will get you out of wrong situation.
I'm on my way out too, I've been weak, I'm still am because I'm not gone yet. Then we have to deal with the people who don't know, while we are lied on.
Yes, God is here we know we can Thank him we're not like this and only hope and pray others will see and wake up to the warfare we go through.
The Body of Christ knows, not the ones who play church, but the true believers know. ❤ So be joyful in that 🥰
May our Father continue to show you love, power, and peace. ❤
@@SherryONeill Amen!!🙌🏻
If anyone is in a narcissistic marriage and in an abusive relationship. I can't imagine that our loving father in heaven wants you to be in this abuse!!! Thousands of women have been severely injured and killed because they were told to stay by the church or other Christians. I can't believe that our loving father approves of this🙏
Men are severely abused mentally in narcissistic marriages. I've known many young men that committed suicide over before my married and haven't not a child with whom men that are evil ,absolutely evil. And they lie and cry .the first thing they do is run out and get a protection order of abuse .that sets the stage for them to run with it .cause it's always the man ,right.
And men and children too.
He doesn't approve. Please search the scriptures. God instructed for husbands to love the wife like Jesus loves the church. God does not condone abuse.
If I may ask, what at are your thoughts about man in this type of situation?
@@DavidJackson-y1q
Yes men have been female narcissistic abuse victims also . Through the years, statically. Far more female murders and abuse have been from the men!
"God prepared a table for me in the presence of my enemies." amen thank u so much for your ministry its helped out a lot
Comforting
This actually makes me so sad because I don’t want the narcissist in my life to suffer. It makes me sad to know that this will happen to them. I understand that God has given them many chances to turn from their ways. This just makes me sad. I want to shake them and say look look at what is going to happen to you if you don’t change your ways.
Yep
I know right, I was so sad seeing my narcissist almost ex-husband in divorce court today. He looked so frail and depressed in then when he opened his mouth it immediately reminded why we were here
Ugh 😫
@@sadiyyahicks3184 just imagine if you stayed. 😳. How would your health be. I've been enjoying peace for 2 years now. Wouldn't change it for the world.pray for him. That's all you should do.
It makes me sad as well, I don't wish any bad on this person even though they put me through so much.
My narcissist brother took his life last week. He died lonely at the age of 53. So very sad.
I don’t pray for justice, I pray she finds truth and healing. She was still my wife and the mother of my children, though we have nothing to do with her. Even with her constant vindictive and spiteful attempt’s at revenge, I pray she’s made whole..
God will judge us all in righteousness. Pray for her to repent and find Christ for salvation.
Yes indeed. I am praying for my husband to find salvation. I pray for God to send people that could help us, and pray for him to seek help. And pray for myself and my son to be covered by the blood of Christ. Please pray for us.
@blade...u must love her a heck of a lot..
Same
@@lollymadikiza3174 I loved my wife with the love god gave me. Sadly not many people have that in these time’s…
I love your perspectives on spiritual warfare in other videos. I've noticed a huge uptick in this narcissistic behavior across our culture. I think that Satan is upping his efforts because he knows his time is running out. It is doubly important for us to stand strong in our faith, and keep on the Armour of God. Stand strong!
@@CatsMeow14 very true. Satan has lots of minions right now. Too many people love lies and hate truth
I needed this word of encouragement, as this week has been tough. I was crying yesterday, thinking that the narcissist has gotten away with the things he has done to me and God is just silent. Really a test of my faith in God.
I Was There A Couple Of Days Ago Too
Asking Him How He Can Let This Wickedness Go On? That I Cant Even Eat The Food They Keep Trying To Feed me,..
I Speak Peace Over you And I ToDay
@@SherryONeill I totally understand and thank you for speaking peace.
Stop the tears and be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. The Bible says : The Lord will fight for you and you shall hold your peace.” Start reading all scriptures on courage, strength/strong, rtc
Oh, my dear one - I am praying for your heart to be healed, and that God walks close to you in this terrible time. 🙏
You have to believe that God is who he says he is. He’s just no one gets away that why we must all live a lifestyle of repentance
"God will send warnings".
Amen. He does. I was dating a woman for 6 months ( I shouldn't have been dating ) because I was seperated and NOT divorced and flipped over the handle bars of her bicycle and got a concussion. If that isn't a sign then I don't know what is?...
This just reminds me of how my narcs mom is always in a manipulative manner pulls out the "parents are your second god" line in the pursuit of discouraging me in my relationship with God. But glory to the Almighty God am now aware of their deceit.
I’ll never give up on God, ever!
I understood that when I witnessed it with my ex God was very patient with her but turned her over to it , and He took me out of the way to heal !
They'll reap what they sow🙏🏾
Yes indeed they will. They are not exempt from the laws of the land and they are not exempted from the day of judgment.
They might have gotten away with it here on Earth but just because they got away with it here, and they broken the laws here it doesn't mean that they will get away with breaking the laws on Earth because they will get it again on the day of judgment when the father condemned for breaking the laws on Earth and hurting his children. They do reap what they have sown. You reap on Earth and reap on the day of judgement.
I've had many evil ppl try to destroy me. I've seen some of them fall in their own destruction! Oh well!! They chose their own fate!!!
Yep me too. They are starting to reap what they do to others.
Not always. My mother’s children have walked away. But at 86, she’s surrounded by extended family and church ladies who think she’s a saint and we are the demonic ones
could she gave been saved after all those years ?
@@kat-75 No. If she had, I wouldn’t have posted
You have described my mom! She goes to church every Sunday and tells us she prays so hard for her 3 adult kids while shaming us verbally on how she is upset and embarrassed we are all "fat" and how beautiful we used to be when we were thin. She says we are too sensitive when talking to her about our weight. On the other hand she is very over weight and in poor health but that's ok to her. All of her church lady friends think she's a Saint. Only if they knew she bad mouthed them behind their backs. I feel sorry for her because her adult kids self worth is all about their weight. It's all image to her. What ever happened to unconditional love?
@@JR-zx8ll How awful it is that Narc Moms want a relationship with an idealized version of a child who does not exist.... while her real children are starved for her acceptance. Prayers for you, dear sister. I felt every word of your story.
Please pray for me and my hubby and my elderly dad his main caregiver-my sister a,religious narc causes us SO much stress and trouble almost constantly . She has caused probs at the first assisted living care facility then this new one nor getting along with some of the staff and finding fault with the care of my dad. Now she is finding fault with this caregiver from an outside agency that we employ to send caregivers to the home to help my dad with things like showering and drinking water and walks because the home only has 2 staff members to care for 10 residents. My dad has Dementia lacks motivation to shower etc. My sister told this caregiver things that I said about her that are malicious and absolutely not true . Ugh. My hubby and I value this lady 👩 she really cares about my dad is very good with him. My sister even called the agency to complain about her . My sister is the one who found the agency set everything up. We take turns on things because I can't do it all im swamped up to my neck with my dads dental and doctor appts right now. Please pray for divine intervention. Before this gal quits or gets fired -she is very valuable to us
I don't want him to suffer. I want him to know what happiness is . I want him to realize how his every word has affected those around him. I want God to show him this and forgive him!
Me 2 this is the best humble answer,God know Everything why, they R they way they R,alot of things in their lives have happened 2them 2 be this way sometimes not getting enough attention from they parents so I have no hate but I did suffer ao hard,but still gratefully chosen by God
It’s so sad. Truly sad😭😭😭the very thing they want, they reject. Brings me to tears
Thank you for this message. I have been dealing with a man that is straight out of a horror movie for 33 years. I’m praying with all my heart God will bring justice to this situation. My hope and trust is in the Lord!🙏
Yepp. God’s justice will reach them‼️ Misery is getting closer❗️Our God is just❣️🙏
Idk if it was in this video, but when you talked about forgiveness, God laid it on my heart to forgive, and I could feel this weight just yanked off me. It was INCREDIBLE. I didn't realize I was harboring that, but now I know why He tells us to forgive. It's for YOU, not them. It will never excuse the behavior, and it will release those demons on your back. Definitely a deliverance, for SURE❤❤❤Your channel has brought such clarity for me. THANK YOU.
My mother turned people agaist me. She stole from me more times than I can count and blamed my brother. She also took years & opportunities from me. Just this morning I wonder will I ever get justice? I will say, she died and was miserable the last two years of her life. Then this showed up in my feed. I guess, God is telling me not to worry. He has taken care of her. His timing is perfect. I needed this reminder. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing this
This sounds a lot like my mother. I was literally JUST thinking (bitterly) about all the money she stole from me to the tune of tens of thousands of dollars, and then this comes up on my feed. She did MUCH more than that but the money was on my mind, as I'm struggling financially like so many are.
@@nkolemwaba2526 You're welcome.
@rhiannancaraway I'm so sorry. My mother stole money from me, my brother, and my dad. They take whatever they please and get mad at us for having a normal reaction.
It's scary how similar our stories all are, from around the world!😒
I love this woman entirely especially when she said, God said ((You shall have no other Gods before God . Exodus)
I know Justice will come but the process is slow... God gives them chance to repent and comforts those who preserve. Those who trust God wins every battle.
Just stay in faith. Pray, pray, pray. Do good works regardless to others. Avoid them ..stand your ground. Do not back down.
Amen. Great reminder.
Same here I agree with you 100%! Please believe and do not faint! 🙏❤️
Every narcissist is a jezebel they behave the way they do because they are already tornented commend them to the Lord and leave them be
Exactly. Because Jezebel was a narcissist. And she killed naboth and tried to kill Elijah. Poor Elijah when he kept having to run to get away from Jezebel. 😢 He was so tired and frightened did he told Abba that he wanted to die. And then the Angels came and comforted him. 😢 I love Abba Yahuah TMH look what he done for Elijah when Elijah's Spirit was tormented by Jezebel! He's very kind and sweet loving father to protect his children. Fear not for the prophets were persecuted before we were.
I pray for the narcissistic people I’ve encountered in my life. I pray they find the One True God and turn from their selfish and damaging ways.
You have good intentions, but I think these are empty wishes. The point is that they don't want to change - that's why they are narcissists. And God respects our free will and, as such, will not change anyone .
They don't want to change... I feel that our prayers are falling on deaf ears because they're going to have to want the help in order for them to change. I pray for my legal guardians many times. If they don't want the help what good does it do to pray for them if they do not want to help themselves? I feel for them but they're going to have to want the help for themselves to get the help that they need.
And then let the father take out that heart of Stone to replace it with a heart of flesh and to give them eyes to see and ears to hear.
@@user-iq4ow3fn1tI agree with you 100%. These are very stubborn people who don't want the help believe me I should know I lived with them for 18 years.
They do not want to change they think they know it all and they cannot be moved. They are like a stone you cannot reason or talk to a stone.
What God will do to a narc once they have consistently expressed their own, demonically possessed 'free will'... Only God will judge. Walk around these sad, twisted beings, toward the Light. Always. Thank you Pastor Reese for your ministry. As someone who has suffered the life long consequences of narcisstic behaviour from a 'loved one' I feel a genuine sense of comfort hearing your messages of salvation from God. Thank you and Bless you.
I’m telling you it’s like she’s talking about my life, because I’m going through it with my narc, I’m so happy I clicked on this video now I know I just need to let God fight him for me.
Keep praying to Jehovah God he knows what you are going through and he loves you very much and will help you I know I've been there
Yes, do your part as well get away, and get your peace. Pastor Kevin la Ewing has videos about the spiritual warfare we face. It helped me alot.
@@patriciapalmer4873 thanks so much
@@jernisharichard5032 great I going to his videos asap thanks so much for your support
God will not be mocked. Amen.
I pray for holy Justice and Mercy, that their hearts may be softened as they turn in submission to Him
Great video thank you! And so true. I have narcissistic in-laws and after 36 years of being ostracized and disregarded by them God finally chose ME as an instrument of justice. All those years I was the family scapegoat with my in-laws, and I kept praying that God would do something about their mean/cruel behavior towards me, but I had no idea that God wanted to use me. Last year God opened my eyes to their abuse and then put it on my heart to confront their abuse. I kept praying that God would use my husband since that's his family, but God chose me instead; and as an added blessing my husband stood by me against his own family. My husband could see the abuse, but he didn't know what to do. And after we informed his family that we need to "take a break" one sister-in-law, in particular, went completely ballistic and launched a smear campaign against me; she even called our adult son trying to sow seeds of doubt about me claiming that I was "holding my husband hostage" and other ridiculous lies. But that didn't work and only made things worse for *her* ...and when my husband learned what she did he cut her off. She tried to buy his love by sending him a birthday present, but that gift was returned because we can't be bought. We're praying that she will repent and apologize, but that day may never come. In the meantime we're simply staying away from her.
The absolute best teaching I have heard about narcissism. GOD BLESS YOU
He will heal them, soothe them, nourish them, teach them, restore them, console them. With utmost mercy and unspeakable care.
I agree 100%.
The more clearly you understand yourself and your emotions, the more you become a lover of what is.
But what are we to do when the Nar is our own beloved adult son. You see the hurt he has always caused, his arrogance and blindness and it so grieves me to think God will not save him. I HAVE to keep on praying He will and all those who my son has affected. What a huge heart ache.
Thank you, Kris. I've seen this many times in my own life. If they don't stop, they will suffer, and some will die.
Yep
Vengeance is his and he will repay.
I pray for my Mother, the narcissist in my life. I also pray for my Father who has buried his head in the sand and been codependent. I turn it over to God. It's not my place to judge them. Not anymore. I still love them.
love from a distance.
❤🙏🌹 the same here. My legal guardian stepfather buried his head in the sand while his wife was beating me up. But the past is the past and I've left them in the father's hands as well. Vengeance is his and he will repay
They are more like mockers who do not like to be mocked.
My elderly mother had spent a lifetime attending church. She goes to church 3 times a week-Bible study, bell choir, ladies’ aid. I have never once seen her open her Bible at home. Never. She drove my father into an early grave with her neglect. She’s alienated all four of her daughters and sowed seeds of dissension amongst them. To the world she presents as a sweet, timid godly little old lady. But her grandchildren avoid her and her daughters frankly can’t wait until she’s gone. We can’t all be wrong about her. She professors to be a Christian, But what her family sees is a cold and distant resentful bitter negative self-absorbed covert narcissist. God has been keeping her alive, 87 years so far and despite failing health she has only gotten worse. I am not that sure about my mothers salvation anymore because I don’t see any fruits of the spirit in her at all. At times I’ve even wondered if she is demon possessed. I feel like she despises me and has my whole life. She seems to be in opposition of the spirit of love, tolerance, forgiveness, generosity… All those qualities which saved Christians are supposed to display toward other people. I don’t expect a transformation of character at this late stage and I can only give her up into God’s hands and let Him decide what to do with her. Christianity for her seems to be more of a social outlet and way to front for people about how pious she is. Only God knows if it’s genuine but by the evidence of my eyes it’s not.
Sorry for this,it's too sad and sadly happening to me.I never ever imagine I would any time disrespect my mum,but today we severed ties.
She's late 80's just like yours,a retired pastor but a gold-digger.
I'm here first born in my early 60's with two children and six grandchildren and another one on the way.
My mother used to ask for money from myself and both my children and I didn't see that good for my family because she got five sons and three daughters but is bent on destroying my family.She wanted control over all of us but I told her off though my children didn't see the danger she was posing.I got myself out of her hook and it's years since we talked.
She uses church as her cover up because she noticed I was not much into the church thing,I feared their money gimmicks and pray at home.
Believing in Jesus only, will not save us. BUT we have to obey him!!! And let him clean us from demonic possession and being born again! Get baptized and have a relationship with him! Receiving the Holy Spirit inside of us.
I know these type of „Christians“. And there will be Christians in hell! Because they didn’t obey God and weren’t born again.
@@justinamusyoka4986 No contact is best because she isn’t going to change. Feel good about your decision and just be sure to have your own end of life plans in order so that you don’t have to completely rely on your children when you can’t take care of yourself anymore. Sometimes the medical needs become more done children who are not trained nurses should be expected to take on, even when they are loving. My mother is the opposite of a gold digger. She is parsimonious. She gets some kind of self-righteous satisfaction over being as cheap as possible. Everything is a one-way street with her whereby her children have to always be the ones that call and invite her to meals and prepare food- She offers nothing. She has unfortunately become just like her mother, which is a feature that we dreaded and hoped wouldn’t happen but actually she’s always been like this. We just didn’t realize as children that all mothers weren’t this way. Despite her Christianity I think she fears death and clings onto her house and her things thinking that she is somehow going to keep on living for years and years. It’s not going to be that long, or at least I pray not. It will be a mercy to us all when she goes. She’s off to Bible study again today for her helping of virtue signaling about how much she loves the Lord.
The same song being played out in many homes. Personal experience. The Holy Rollers are the worst. And no, the one I know doesn’t really read the Bible
@marywenzel3199 This does not sound like an easy situation Mary.. sounds like she is missing The Father’s love😢. You have to forgive her-with your words to her face. How she responds is not important, what matters is that you lay it down and walk in grace/peace. I pray God gives you strength and freedom 🙏
Amen
Their behavior is not acceptable anywhere. So dangerous
Very true. What makes me sad is they are involving kids, other people who really don't know the truth. And of course the true victim is the culprit and the abuser is the victim.
Yep. All backwards don't you think?
LORD LORD LORD REBUKE THE UNCLEAN SPIRIT IN THE NAME OF JESUS LORD LORD LORD HEAR MY PRAYER LORD AMEN 🙏
Thanks for the warning not to seek my own revenge. I needed to hear that. Vengeance is mine said the Lord.
❤🙏🌹
Your hair looks AMAZING Kris!
Very pretty. 🥰
....help them Jesus, help us as well🤕🙏
Thank you for so much. I read Psalm 37:34 this morning. God's justice will prevail.
I don’t wish any evil on my “Christian” narcissistic mother and her flying monkeys - my siblings. It feels so unjust that they can continue their unjust bullying with no consequences. My sincere concern is their eternal salvation.
I don't know how my dad stayed married to my narc mother for so long. She torments him every single day: gaslighting, mocking, starting fights, micromanaging, humilation. She uses him like a slave and tries to do the same with me.
Sometimes I just watch with pity hoping he will stick up for himself.
Repentance is the only pathway to salvation. The narcissist must see the error of their own behavior, and ask Jesus to transform them. The true gospel message is "repent AND believe" then Christ redeems. This is why so many so church goers call themselves "Christian" because they belong to a denomination, but have never laid down their lives at the cross. Jesus said in John 3, "unless a man is born again, he cannot see the Kingdom of heaven" he was saying in essense that the carnal man must die with Christ to live again. Pray for their eyes to be opened to their own sinfulness, leading them to repentance that brings salvation thru genuine faith in Christ.
@@LizaKay0109 So well explained. Thank you.
you are a good person and this comment reaffirmed my faith in the good of people. never let that go
Exactly! All I want people like my legal guardians to do is just leave me alone. I don't wish I will on anybody. I just want people like my legal guardians to leave me alone who feel that the laws of the land do not apply to them. They feel that they could go and do whatever they want to do and not get Justice for it. Those are the type of people that first Timothy says to turn away from.