Living Alone with Style and Confidence: Creating Your Perfect Solo Sanctuary

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024

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  • @czarina7786
    @czarina7786 Рік тому +37

    My whole house is a she shed. I am really enjoying living alone for the last 8 years. I'm 64. Retiring in the fall. I date here and there. I'm blessed in many ways Thanks !

  • @junethiel632
    @junethiel632 Рік тому +15

    I relocated twice after my husband passed away nearly 7 years ago. Had to initially find a rental apartment that would allow my little dog to be with me, after selling our house. Then, when a flat became available for me in the retirement village I reside in, I had to relocate once more. I live inside my work space now, in a tiny 23 sq meter flat, surrounded by beautiful gardens and pathways. I like the French Provencal style, but with a modern twist here and there, to keep it fresh. I love saturated yet soft colours, and my flat''s palette is mainly pale gray, white, duck egg blue and tiny touches of silvered purple. I love a touch of shabby chic, but most of all I want my space to give me a warm welcome home hug each time I walk in! Being an artist and professional calligrapher, my (very few) walls hold small ledge shelves, on which I can interchange my own creations.... My other love is music, as I sing and play the piano - even the tiny sunroom which doubles as my teensy lounge, has a French Louis chair, bthat is covered in a modern vintage (faded) purple , gold embossed fabric! Because space is at a premium, I have zero curtains, instead, for security as well as controlling light and temperature, I have American shutters in white. It works! I love to have a harmonious yet comfy home, nothing jarring....though some things may surprise a few folks. No matter, since I live here alone......🙂

  • @nancyj7702
    @nancyj7702 Рік тому +26

    Good Morning 🌞 Everyone,
    This event is wonderful timing for me. I am in the process of decorating my condo. Yesterday painters transformed my balcony/porch into a lovely and calming retreat. I love sitting there with my plants and wicker furniture. 😄
    Have a wonderful day from
    Newark, Delaware 🌻

    • @RealinNYC
      @RealinNYC Рік тому

      Sounds delightful. Something I always wanted or thought about doing. Had a terrace for 44 years. Never really used it much. Did a little decorating with plants. Move a year ago. No terrace. I miss it.

  • @jayne1905
    @jayne1905 Рік тому +2

    I turned 60 in May. Married, divorced, relationships that failed, I felt trapped in the end suffocated infact. My last relationship ended 5 years ago, the relief when I walked away. I went to work, I transformed my home, it's my sanctuary. Loving my solo life, I never get lonely, happy and drama free. Thankyou for your words totally resonates with me, I'm out there and shining 😊❤

  • @lex6819
    @lex6819 Рік тому +8

    My decor style is cozy, thrifted, romantic academia. I'm 54 but it's never too soon to learn from others how to live happily and well at any age

    • @martimar7181
      @martimar7181 Рік тому

      Can you describe romantic academia? I’m intrigued! 😊

  • @peggybaggenstoss3817
    @peggybaggenstoss3817 Рік тому +3

    I enjoyed this video. In 2013 I was divorced after 12 years of marriage. That was my second marriage.
    My first marriage I bought the Home Interior products for decorating.
    In my second marriage we used his furniture from his family that he already was using. He wouldn’t allow me to decorate as I wanted.
    So now I’m feeling like a Free bird as I enjoy decorating with things I buy in my world travels.
    My whole townhome is my sanctuary.
    I enjoy French Country, pastels, soft , flowing fabrics, silk, wool, cultural clothing and jewelry, and functional items. I use the quilts my grandmothers and mother made, and everything I own… nothing is saved for “ company”.

  • @judithpearson3968
    @judithpearson3968 Рік тому +11

    I'm kind of eclectic. People who meet me think I'm an extrovert. I do love people, but I have to have time alone to re-energize, to be with my books and cats, to be quiet. That carries over in every pat of my life: decor, clothes, relstionships,etc. I do love that blouse, Margaret. It really looks good on you. Have a great day and thanks for sharing.

    • @czarina7786
      @czarina7786 Рік тому

      You sound like an ambivert. Me too.

  • @janetkenny4861
    @janetkenny4861 Рік тому +7

    I ended up with much of my parents and even grandparents hand me downs in furniture earlier in life when I was struggling after divorce. It has been liberating to let a good deal of it go as I really pare down and define my style. I have also found some fun new to me pieces that I just enjoy looking at. I’d say my style is eclectic, colorful and whimsical. Totally me. Somehow it all comes together in a home I love to be in. Great video!

  • @suzanneantonich4106
    @suzanneantonich4106 Рік тому +2

    finding you, and your words, online, have been a godsend to me at this stage of my life. At 65 years old, and after having been a solo caregiver for my mother for the past five years, and just losing her, I kind of lost ‘myself’ in the process; and I’m finding that starting over pretty much now, is difficult. Your videos are giving me a lot of new ideas and inspiration though and I thank you so very much. Keep up the wonderful work.

  • @KathyFaye
    @KathyFaye Рік тому +9

    “Go out in the world and shine.” That’s a beautiful statement, Margaret. That will be my mission while I run errands this afternoon and visit my mom.

  • @MsNZgal
    @MsNZgal Рік тому +12

    Great revisit on this subject Margaret. Thank you. "Surround yourself with things that you love" I totally agree. I live and travel in a van and tend to do this on a small scale due to lack of room. I love subtle details. I buy items then add a personal touch to them. It could be a tiny row of stitches along the edge of a pillow, or a photo frame that I can add an interesting pattern to, or tiny embroidered flowers along the edge of a sheet. I also collect cards with interesting art which I am starting to line my van walls with. (I need to be careful not to overdo this though). I guess I would be classed as Eclectic. I love your pearl earrings btw.

  • @wendykurchak3965
    @wendykurchak3965 Рік тому

    Super ideas!

  • @californiaglo9666
    @californiaglo9666 Рік тому +10

    Your videos always provide me with inspiration. I love my friends, but none of them enjoy makeup, decor or travel. Your videos are what I need in my life. ❤😊

  • @faribamoghaddasi7446
    @faribamoghaddasi7446 Рік тому +3

    Dear Margaret ❤
    I have my chair in front of window at my work place and every morning when I come to work,first open my I pad and listen to your videos at least 2 of them, you are really my Soul mate ❤ I really appreciate you and wish you all the beautiful things on your way.
    Send you hugs and love from Dubai, United Arab Emirates.

    • @sixtyandme
      @sixtyandme  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for your kind words - wishing you every happiness in the world x

  • @nancystinger7393
    @nancystinger7393 Рік тому +4

    Your video made me think about my own personal style at this time. I recently moved into my own place after renting rooms for a while. They were usually furnished . I am just beginning to purchase furniture and decorate so this topic is so relatable. When I was married years ago my style was so different and I’m finding myself again both personally and in my surroundings. Great topic Margaret ❤️

  • @chantellucky4565
    @chantellucky4565 Рік тому +7

    Nice flowers! Beautiful blouse! Love your topics!

  • @joanneleonard7913
    @joanneleonard7913 11 місяців тому

    I have two cafes: one is in Fredericksburg and one in Arlington. How's this for quirky: Fredericksburg cafe is housed in an antique church and the front has entrepreneur's business cards lined up for the taking; artists, photographers, caterers, etc. Arlington Cafe is New Orleans- ian cuisine, catering, and coffee and the ladies room is wallpapered with real recipes. Both are decorated just perfectly!

  • @lauraswann5543
    @lauraswann5543 Рік тому +1

    Very interesting topic Margaret, thank you. I like clean, uncluttered airy places that are beautiful, original and unique. I don"t follow trends. I only buy things I absolutely love. I'm not materialistic, so it can take a long time to find an object that I love, but I don't mind waiting until I find something I love. I don't buy things that just "will do", that are just "ok." And I love good books, and tea. My ideal room would probably be a beautiful old-fashioned tea-shop with lots of good books to read, lol ! 💖

  • @alisatjaden3906
    @alisatjaden3906 Рік тому +4

    You look So Pretty today! Love your top! ❤💖🤗

  • @gerb3664
    @gerb3664 Рік тому +4

    Loved this! I am in rental with too many favorite pictures, too many restrictions on nails and hammers. HaHa. So? Well I have a garage that is going to become an art gallery. I can leave my puzzles together. i can cover the walls. Put 2 chairs out front and invite passer-byers to stop and chat. Plug in boombox for quiet music. Stop by!

  • @janetstraw191
    @janetstraw191 Рік тому +1

    Cosy, romantic and eclectic. 🥰

  • @janicechapman310
    @janicechapman310 Рік тому +2

    Hello from British Columbia. Thanks for the lovely postings. 😀

  • @60sandrestless88
    @60sandrestless88 Рік тому

    Nature, Autumn, Uncluttered

  • @musicismysanctuary5813
    @musicismysanctuary5813 Рік тому +1

    Pretty ❤ Simple ❤and comfortable ❤

  • @ForReal1962
    @ForReal1962 Рік тому +2

    Inspire me is making me think about what I should do with myself.
    Thanks

  • @lucytitus2183
    @lucytitus2183 Рік тому +4

    Such a helpful topic. So inspiring! Thank you for this.❤️🤗

  • @thefox08
    @thefox08 Рік тому +9

    Margaret, you look very pretty today! I've been told that women our age don't look good with shiny eye shadow, but it's beautiful on you. I think I will revisit that look! My style is pretty much boho, with an intense love of nature. Thank goodness, the hippie in me is still alive 🥰

    • @sixtyandme
      @sixtyandme  Рік тому +1

      thanks so much - i think the secret with shiny eye shadow is to just keep it on the eyelid - it really makes the eye sparkle :-)

    • @viannam5483
      @viannam5483 Рік тому

      @@sixtyandme Margret, can you share the name/brand of the eye palette - that gold is stunning! and I love the lip color as well, and how about the glowy foundation? Maybe a short tutorial on this look? ANd did I say it looks so lovely on you?!!! I can be described as a romantic, bohemian, elegant.

  • @simplelivingwithconniekeen9485

    Pretty blouse! And I love the flowers. For me, I am still boho but also moving to simple, mix & match styles. I gave away all but 3 jeans and sticking with comfortable and accent pieces. Good topic!

  • @mrdarcy9379
    @mrdarcy9379 Рік тому

    Hi Margaret, what a great topic. Ive really enjoyed reading the comments below. I loved how you described the cafe you chose. There's a little village nearby where I live, on the edge of the Yarra Valley and it's a very "artistic" town. And there's a coffee shop/bookshop there that I adore.. very similar to the one you chose. All the wood has a certain patina to it, walls decorated with wonderful art by local artists and a Fire place. Oh and most importantly, GREAT COFFEE 😊...at the entrance to the coffee shop is a beautiful gift shop. I just love it. Its altogether different, colourful, interesting. And yes very eclectic. 😊

  • @evaclaudialeiner1255
    @evaclaudialeiner1255 Рік тому +1

    Thank you and good times!

  • @roseanncimino9049
    @roseanncimino9049 Рік тому +1

    Love your Blouse

  • @marshamclachlan4052
    @marshamclachlan4052 Рік тому +1

    Hi, I am new to your channel. I am also a senior boho inthutiest. I would love to see your decorating style and colors. The more color, the better, imo! 😂

  • @beckyarmstrong6857
    @beckyarmstrong6857 Рік тому

    I enjoy your program so much

  • @debra832
    @debra832 11 місяців тому

    Hello Margaret,
    I really enjoy listening and watching your videos. for the last year or two I have been in and out of nursing homes. prior to that I haven't lived alone for years. now I have a beautiful brand new apartment and I'm having a real hard time transitioning.. I was wondering if you had any ideas for me
    Debra

  • @maryepperson2275
    @maryepperson2275 Рік тому +1

    I enjoy your videos so much!

  • @debbiefischer945
    @debbiefischer945 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤Awesome video..thank you

  • @ladyyaya6782
    @ladyyaya6782 Рік тому

    Lovely video! My house is Shabby Chic. My personal style is classical, vintage, bohemian ❤💄

  • @carollewis5931
    @carollewis5931 Рік тому

    I thought straight away hippy but I guess that's basically the same as Boho in style

  • @lanamichalski3208
    @lanamichalski3208 Рік тому

    Hi Margaret, I hope you are doing well. I love living alone, and I tend to lean toward (or I should say learning to be more minimalist ), clean lines, leaving space for admiring beautiful pieces. May I ask....I love that eye shadow you are wearing....what is the brand & color? Thank you!

    • @sixtyandme
      @sixtyandme  Рік тому

      you are very welcome - i am honestly not sure of the eyeshadow but probably toasted by urban decay :-)

  • @katiamartinelli3911
    @katiamartinelli3911 Рік тому

    I consider myself eclectic so I have modern, ethnic, antic and classic mixed in a sober way. I also have more than one religion object. I am Catholic though

  • @shirleymcmurtrie7853
    @shirleymcmurtrie7853 Рік тому

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