I mean yeah haha having 5 kids is too many if you are a single parent. Even 1 is a lot I hear. I can't imagine 5. And in America. Maybe in another country it would be easier. But USA doesn't give a fuck.
There's this crazy thing you can do, it's called fixing your pets. People will go to a vet and get quoted $300 and then never consider it. There are numerous resources in Texas to get it done for free, especially for low income families.
Don’t have more children if your only childcare solution involves the oldest child watching their younger siblings while you work. That’s unfair to the oldest child.
Maybe I missed this but aren’t there daycare or govt programs that help pay for daycare and stuff for lower income individuals like someone in her shoes?
@@JudithLawrence718even if she got all of his paycheck she would only go further in debt because she would see it as extra money to buy stuff. Not use it to pay off debt.
Make large batches of food when you are home and freeze it for the week. The 14 year old or grandmom ought to be able to reheat it. Use a slow cooker; throw food in it in the morning, have dinner ready. Buy bulk. Shop sales; buy whatever meat and veg are cheapest this week. Shop at Goodwill. Do the things poor people have done for generations. People seem to have forgotten these things.
Goodwill is pretty much a racket now. I do agree with the slow cooker/breadmaker. Getting a breadmaker was a game changer, way better and cheaper than store bought.
To be fair, I make good money from my psych degree but you have to be committed to going into further schooling. An associates degree in psychology won't get you much though, you need an ed.s., psy.d., or phd for it to be a worthwhile investment
@@lukienmanAssociate's in things like business or tech related give you a little more help. Nice way to get a decent entry level office job but to move up, you'll need further education.
@@lukienman As an experienced recruiter and employee for many many many years. This advice is not true in the slightest. Literally, only justified by people who got scammed out of their 25 grand+ from getting a bachelors to enjoy a few more years of partying at college.
My wife went through that, she raised her little brother when she was 11. And then she was going to raise her sister at 24 years old but I took her out of there.
To have my chin length Mohawk cut, blown out, and colored (peekaboo and bangs in fun color with neutral color to the rest) cost $250 every 6 weeks. Full head of hair in a pink that vibrant with no roots showing (meaning that she keeps up with the roots) and with brows that dark…easily at LEAST $250, but probably closer to $500.
It depends. Maybe she does it herself. Then it’s not that expensive: 50$ for bleach and developer every couple of months and probably 30$ for a hair mask with pigments maybe every one to two month. At least that’s what it costs me keeping up with my color at home. But it’s still a waste in her situation and not needed.
At this level of poverty, it doesn't matter how cheap she manages to get hair, makeup, nails, etc. Extra stuff like that has to be cut for the sake of her children. She has to accept her natural appearance cuz she can't afford to be pretty or show off her personality through appearance anymore.
This episode drove me crazy. Why is it that everyone who wants to bring up income inequality has 5 kids from 4 different guys, a $800 car payment, works 30 hours a week, and has no car insurance. The amount of lack of responsibility is WILD.
I met someone on tinder years ago and we were out having drinks and she was talking about income inequality in America and she had me for a min cause something yea are a little out of whack but then tells me she went to a private college on LI that cost her 35k a year to study art… I was like I went to state college 4K a semester to study accounting
About the food situation. 1. She qualifies for WIC for the younger children. 2. Food banks. 3. Talk to the county about increasing EBT. Also, if she picks up another day at Amazon, she'll be full-time. Amazon helps full-time employees pay for school. Also, no hate. But get a IUD or some form of birth control.
I suspect she has resistance to number one and two on your list, because she doesn’t see herself as lower class. But yeah, until she’s doing better with child support, she needs the money. She’s spending $50 plus for fast food which is probably pretty good for all, still hamburger helper and other budget meals at home would be a better idea. I get why she’s uncomfortable with being associated with being a welfare mama, but she is working hard to turn that around.
At this point she should be looking at getting her tubes tied. No reversing it later if she meets someone else or her situation improves. You've done your bit for the continuation of the human race. Have a ribbon. Your uterus has retired.
@@ellistea1024once i accepted food banks are for people like me the grocery bill went way down. i go to 2 food shelves a week and that pretty much takes care of me. one even has a free hot meal served afterwards!
She drives a brand new suv with no car insurance, has five kids with 3(?) different men, spends $175/month on coffee, takes payday loans to pay for frivolities… And blames her situation on income inequality? Sounds like she’s never made a responsible decision in her life. THAT’S the issue.
I really appreciate Caleb reminding parent’s that their lack of financial planning is going to negatively impact their children for decades to come. I financially support my mother who, like these guests, never saved anything and squandered any extra money on eating out every Friday night, going to the movies every weekend, buying unneeded new clothes, etc. My mother’s lack of financial planning negatively impacts generations in our family as I now am taking money away from saving for my own child’s future to pay my mother’s rent.
My adult kids wish I would spend more on them, but we don’t ever want to put our futures on them. The goal is to leave them with something. My husband said the other day he hopes when his parents pass, we don’t have to pay off debts. They aren’t married, but both a financial disaster.
With those kids ans a disabled mom, her mom should file for disability. Her mom would then qualify for sec 8 housing. There are nice apt complexes that have units for that. Also, she could qualify as her mom's caregiver. Her mom sounds like she needs care too. . Or she herself can file for sec 8. She's way below the poverty line and they have units with 4 bedrooms. So many people just don't know how to navigate that and get in over their head. Also, since she admitted to committing food stamp fraud openly, she may be cut off now and have a cps investigation.
@@vagabond251 I like to think it does, but people are too embarrassed to admit their spending habits are purely due to impulse and wanting to chase a temporary high.
Emergency fund came into use this week. Boiler catastrophically failed - baby due imminently. New boiler being installed on Monday - no need to borrow/take on debt - no worry - this is why we have the emergency fund.
It's incredible how an emergency fund changes how you handle emergencies. It sucks having to put out the money, but the stress it saves allowing you to focus on what's important is priceless. Last year, my husband was in a car accident, and an emergency fund made it far easier to handle.
Classifying yourself as middle class when you're a single mother making $21 an hour is a level of delusion I didn't think I'd be seeing today. Unfortunately she is in poverty, and well below that line with a 7 person household
Fun fact mcdonald's actually sells their coffee on store shelf. I like their coffee too so I did the sensible thing and bought the tub for $14, comes out to 6 cents per cup of coffee
@@katl1489 but if you are getting the associates free, why not get on that translates into job opportunities... it's why I got mine in lab science. Then you can go get a 50k a year job and work toward a bachelor's+ in something you are passionate in. Or go to a trade school which can be subsized and/or stipended.
@@JS-kc2xs yeah nursing is great too... sometimes the programs have wait lists cause the demand is so high but you can spend a year or two getting other requirements out of the way... a lot of programs but you need to go in with a plan.
I feel for that 14yo having to be a parent already while going into high school and likely not getting enough sleep themselves. I feel for those kids so much.
My Mom grew up like that. It didn’t do her any favors in the nurturing department that’s for sure, she does her best but she never got what she needed as a kid
This show has genuinely changed my life and outlook on little meaningless purchases. I learn from EVERY VIDEO and I can't stop binging them. Thanks again for EVERYONE involved in putting these on- especially the people who come on. I couldn't even imagine having that kind of openness to the world. Thank you to the whole team behind production and etc also! You guys ROCK.
THE COFFEE bit hit close to home! I tracked Mcdonalds, Dunkin, and Starbucks.... spent $827 in a 3 month span on literally coffee from these places.... Bought a $32 Mr coffee maker...with my additives to my coffee, every cup made at home costs me $0.12 2 cups a day, 6 days a week. After that, for 3 months of coffee, I spent a total of $61.87
Great to hear this and I’m so glad I hate coffee. I would need to be paid well to gag some down. So gross. 🙂 Another thing you can do is ask for some gourmet coffee for gifts at Christmas, etc. I send some to my brother every year.
Getting a “degree” in real estate (to be a realtor) is such a scam. Go pay a few hundred bucks to get a license. Don’t pay a college thousands for the same thing 😭
There are waaaay too many real estate agents here. Plus no car equals no going to showings, etc. She should just get a data entry job she could maybe do from home on a used computer.
I don't think she comprehends what a realtor's schedule is like either, you have to be available constantly especially if you're starting out and there is a lot of competition. Who's going to watch her kids when she has to randomly leave? Was she going to do if she goes 6 months and sells one house? There's a reason the majority of realtors quit within the first year.
She clearly is not pursuing that path, as she doesn't even understand the difference between a Realtor (trademarked term, meaning member of the Association of Realtors) and a real estate salesperson. This is info you learn on day 1 when you begin to study real estate.
I was in the same position you’re putting your 14/12 year old. They’re going to hate you once they’re older. You can’t put that much responsibility on a child.
I was also I that position and I don't hate my parents at all did I like it at the time no but did or do I hate them no and I was spending my summer breaks watching my sister
@@nkh4593 You babysat all the time? Diaper changed all the time Were you the one to wake up at night. Every night? Did you have to shower the kid? Change her clothes after bed time wetting? Which happens to be also a shared bed? With you? I’m sorry there has to be resentment there, because when you bring it up they just tell you It didn’t happen YOU wanted to be an older sister Get over it Eye roll
@@traphuntnstuff8096you realize the courts order them to pay that much because having a kid is EXPENSIVE!! It takes two to make a baby and it’s on them to pay their share
I called my mom after this episode and thanked her for giving me the best support while struggling as a single mom. Episodes like this really make me grateful for everything she did to ensure my childhood was great.
Wait wait wait… So military guy is paying $1000 in support for the one kid that he has by her and she’s trying to drag him to court for more because it’s not enough for her to provide for her 4 other children? WHAT?!?!
Yeah it is the 1 dad that is actually paying.... That is the ones that usually get screwed over with the child support bc the women think they should get more from that since it's what they are receiving from since can't get it from the other deadbeats
It's almost like doing the right thing isn't worth it lol... I would never agree to child support I would fight with every last penny to have 50/50 custody
This literally made me feel sick. The fact that a SINGLE PARENT OF 5 is acting so childish and neglectful with her finances is shameful. Some people should be forbidden from having children. Her kids deserve SO much better.
@@JorgeDeZacatecas Can we like .. not ignore that she clearly escaped a very abusive relationship? I get it you guys wanna feel better about yourself but still
And now she will also be working to put something into home budget, and her mother is proudly saying that she's very adult and ressponsible...WELL DUH...someone in that household needs to be acting like ADULT
My wife does hair, I know that pink hair is a multi process. First Bleach since she is not a natural blond, then the "fashion" Colors. Clients pay $300+ to have this done. Her color is not a cheaper one and either she just did it or really spent money. Most of these colors wash out within 2 weeks. Even something like artic fox would not take hold without certain chemicals that you need a license to buy. Point is she is wasting money on pink hair, which I personally feel if you can't keep it from staying vivid becomes a trashy look, which attracts trashy men. Or you spend lots of money to keep it fashionable. Oh ya probably $60 for the shampoo and conditioner for Fashion colors. Fact is I know people pay my wife $250+ for this hair and it really fades after a week or 2.
Yeah I spend about half that on a cut and highlights. But yes you're right. She needs to lay off the hair. It's a big expense (unless she trades for it or literally does it herself).
I know it’s not the grandma’s job to watch the children, but it does fascinate me that grandma wouldn’t provide the absolute basic supervision of making sure the children don’t drown, burn the house down, or physically harm each other to assist her daughter who is struggling financially and who apparently assists grandma. Makes me beyond grateful for my parents.
I have 5 kids and the absolute basic that you are describing would not be something a disabled grandma could do consistently. Thats my kids though, with the help of the older two this situation is probably different.
So she borrowed the entirety of a new car, to get a 3rd row, but lives 5 minutes from her job, and almost never shuttles all 5 kids, and can't afford insurance on it...*facepalm*
@@JorgeDeZacatecas true. I bet that thought never even popped up in her tiny little brain. She didn’t seem to bright. There is a 0% chance she sells the car.
THIS. YES! Thank you for saying it! She should be taking the cats to the shelter, she isn't in a place to take proper care of them. What if they have a medical emergency, there's no ways he could pay for that.
I know someone with 3 kids from 3 different guys - and a dog... Recently, she was complaining about how she had to pay $2,000 in "dog fines". What! Apparently, the dog keeps getting out and the local authorities send her fines... (Oh, BTW, she also has to pay to have a breath analyser fitted to her car so she can keep driving after having received numerous drunk driving convictions) Some people have messed up lives for a reason - rather than helping themselves, they actively make things worse.
Depends if she’s a natural blonde or light hair. Doing it herself (unlikely with her) it could be relatively cheap. Though if you go to a salon it’s insane.
Not defending her choices in anyway, but she may dye it herself. I have yellow hair and have been dying it myself for the last 5 years to save money. It only costs me about $15-$20 in product to bleach and dye it.
@@allisonlogsdon3490 I tell you what when I was living in poverty there's no way in hell I was spending any of the cash I had on cosmetics of any kind. That money goes to rent and food. Enough food at home to make it until the next paycheck and save the rest for rent and transportation to get to/from work and that's it. This lady is on crack.
"I need more child support for his 2 children as it's not enough to cover all 5 children" *5 min later "I use the $1000 child support to pay off my $900pm car payment"
I think a lot of men don't mind taking care of their kids, but if I was the child's father, I'd be pissed that the money I'm forced to give her to care for our child is going to her car payments. Smh
Insanity 😢I'm unfortunately someone who's sons father is addicted to drugs and has no job, he had another child the state gave to his mother to provide support to. I receive Zero child support whatsoever doing it all on my own. I can't believe how people waste it.
I’m sorry. Did she admit that she took out credit cards with no intention of paying them?!?!?! Then she complained about being forced to pay them because they are in collections!!!!!! To me, this was one of the most outrageous things any guest has said. WTF!
When people run out of moves they stop thinking long term and focus on getting through each day. Not all that surprising someone with a bunch of kids and no money was desperate at some point. Yeah I don't think anyone has phrased it like she did. But is it really that much worse than someone taking out credit with intention of paying it back but not the ability to? She's just a bit less deluded than some other guests with stuff in collections.
@@Bexamous The difference would be moral and responsibility. Yes, if you borrow something, you should pay it back. Simple and clean and lack of it is nothing to be proud of.
She gave up on life. She said she had given up. I truly applaud her honest. I believe a lot of the guest do this and don’t have the courage or decency to admit it they never played on paying them back.
@@curtbrown554 have you watched other audits recently? The people are awful to listen to and clearly don’t want help. She at least listened and acted like she was taking in what Caleb had to say
I feel so bad for the two oldest daughters... the amount of parentification that's happening is so sad. Those girls don't get to be kids, they are just mommy #2 and mommy #3. Gross.
She keeps talking about being a mom, but due to her lack of self-discipline and self-denial, she drags her kids into what are totally avoidable situations.
I really hope those girls find an engineer or an accountant and can stay loyal and break the cycle but they'll probably just be pin-cushions for Trailer Park Chad like mommy.
That's what happens to the girl children when a mother has more than 1. It's despicable and shows not everyone should have kids. A kid shouldn't ever be a parent. Idc how much they help. YOU'RE THE PARENT
6 credit cards paid off and im now in the mid 700s (which is huge for me) Sofi as well as Experian has helped immensely. Guys! A lot of what Caleb says in his ads are factual! Start that journey NOW. You're only holding yourselves back!
I grew up in a low income household. I would BEG my mum for a Club Penguin membership and she said no every. Damn. Time. You know why? Because it was that or groceries and she was a fucking adult and chose groceries! God!
Same exact situation down to the club penguin membership
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Good for your mom! I'm older and was out of the house by this point - but my Mom chose the Club Penguin membership for my younger siblings - and guess who is still supporting her Mom today? THIS GIRL.
My 18 yr old wanted all kinds of memberships, well nope. My younger ones if they want a gift card they need to do chores and with ONLY the money they earn they can buy a gift card every couple months. It's crazy to give your kids everything. Parents are responsible for a house, home cooked food, shoes and clothing. Not gaming bullshit. Especially if you don't have the money. They need to learn.
Currently going through school, too, with two kids, 13 yrs apart and a fresh breakup. Her decision to have 5 children without stability on her end is wild to me.
@@Las645 i don’t get why I’m getting responses like yours. I’m saying if someone is not financially able to provide for 5 kids, they shouldn’t have had 5 kids. Congrats on ur mom for doing what she needed to do, just like the rest of us do
Mercy, why continue to have children with one man after another without first becoming stable financially and emotionally?!!!! It is the kids that suffer.
Yes thank you for that comment. It's clear she is dealing with problems of her own. Talking from experience, my mom was with her boyfriend for 10 years who put her down everyday and was convinced that she doesn't need to save while paying for the bills for HIS house and HIS car etc. She had 0 in her account with no savings for 10 years yet he earned more and always had savings. She knew it wasn't right but she already had her own issues from trauma and then on top of an unhealthy relationship. We moved out and that's when she relieased how he manipulated her and now we are living better than ever without him! You cannot judge somebody in relationships like this you don't know their situation in that time of life
I don't think the point was to have kids. It just sounds like they weren't being responsible. She didn't have those kids on her own, the men take half the responsibility and blame.
I wonder why she can't find some sugar daddy to take care of all of this baggage... 5 kids, a bunch of debt and debt inducing habits. Yeah, it's a mystery.
This guest is humble and respectful toward Caleb. She even reacted to his demeaning jokes in a calm manner. I give her a lot of credit for that alone. As so many others have said, it’s not easy being a guest on this show. Wishing her and her family all of the best.❤️
This ^^ She might have a history of making poor decisions but this is a mom genuinely trying to improve herself and provide a happy life for her kids. Humble and gracious to get help is always a good sign
She took it well and maybe Caleb was too flippant about it, but on the other hand somebody's still gotta call out the poor decisions. Not just financial decisions. 5 kids with 3 (4?) different deadbeat fathers is insanely irresponsible. The last one wasn't even that long ago
Caleb is witty but has a big heart. I know that he didn’t mean to disrespect her. He wants his guests to do better with their finances and reacts strongly to bad decisions.
Did she say she has a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology? She could possibly get a job as a head Teacher at the Fort SamHouston Daycare. They do provide free childcare and health, dental and vision insurance and an HSA account for her and her Children. They also pay College Tuition Reimbursement and she’d work normal hours.
I got my son to start watching your channel before he got in a bad habit. He’s 22 with zero debt and decent job he loves. His vehicle won’t last long but he should be able to buy one cash by the end of the summer. He’s now contributing monthly to his retirement and insists on putting $10/month to his little brother’s education fund. Im so grateful that he’s avoided the early mistakes I made.
Even worse its actually only 1 kid thats his and she keeps trying to hit him for more and more child support as she mentioned in the first 5min. No way that 1 kid cost more than $1,000 a month on an average normal month for food and basic stuff. Muchless more than $2,000 because why should the dad pay 100% of the childs needs? Shes trying to ring the 1 semi-responsible guy shes been with dry to pay for all her other even worse mistakes. Women like this got me fucking terrified dude.
I got my husband hooked on this show. We are learning so much about money and I feel so eager to do more with my money. Thank you Caleb! Your wisdom and roasting, is the huge kick in the a$$ we needed!
Man can't tell you how much this show has helped me. On my way to being totally debt free and you yelling at other people instead of me changed my life
No it’s not. Literally the birth rates are going down and people are having less kids and they’re the brokest any generation has ever been. I know so many childless people complaining about living paycheck to paycheck.
@@Las645since women are usually the ones paying for poor decisions involving children, we have to look out for ourselves. I wouldn’t care what a man does. I’d only care about having children I can’t afford, if I was of childbearing age. We have the ultimate control over getting pregnant.
So just avoid multiple kids from multiple partners, payday loans, buying a new car while owing money on last loan, working less than 40 hours and eating out for all of your meals.
Former Amazon worker here. I BARELY made it by while working there as a single person. Even after a promotion, the money wasn’t enough. Instantly got triggered when she said she didn’t have time to make coffee/food etc. Get a cheap coffee maker & do some damn food prep. Meat + seasoning + veg + crockpot. It’s not hard. Stop eating out & buying wants. Try & get promoted or look for a WFH job.
I think people forget we have government assistance:( she could get Wic which will pay for 3 of her kids food such as formula, fruits, veggies, baby food and toddler foods….she would qualify for the max EBT amount too which is 500$+. That alone would cover like 800$ in food alone. She could even buy grounded up coffee beans with it, all she would need is a coffee filter and boiled water that’s 15$ give or take. She needs to use these resources if she hasn’t already! She could also apply for TANF which gives you money for rent and bills which with 5 kids and someone on disability she would 100% qualify for!! This would cover so many expenses so she can focus on her bills and loan payments.
While I agree with all these programs for a temporary length of time, they won't fix the root of the problem, her spending. Our taxes shouldn't be spent on enabling her poor spending habits.
She mentioned that her foodstamps were cut down to 300 dollars a month because of her income. Her income includes the child support and her paychecks from Amazon.
@@Julia-b9xI’d rather the children be taken care of than worry about how much she buys in coffee, even if it’s frivolous. As someone who grew up poor, I appreciate the support I got. My dad’s spending at a time when utilities were being shut off & we didn’t have enough food in the fridge was a betrayal, it damaged my relationship with him permanently. But at least when the food stamps came in I could eat.
38:40 ARGH! I work in property management. Mostly low income units. She dose what so many poor people do. Has multiple kids working, struggling and gets a pet. YOU CAN NOT AFFORD A PET! A pet is a luxury for when you have time and disposal income.
Seriously. My dog recently died from cancer. Just the two weeks before he did cost us about 1200 with pet insurance, and some hours away from work. It’s a big expense
A pet she couldn't figure out how to get fixed. I personally don't think income level should determine pet ownership (there are terrible owners who have a lot of money) but you need to show you have a plan to care for them properly. 5 random kittens says otherwise.
It drives me crazy too! So many people get pets while not being able to take care of themselves and then cry a river when their pet needs medical help. Then the added layer of not spaying them and letting them be outdoor makes me livid. There are free services in her area for spay and neuter. Irresponsible all around.
One pet is generally not a big expense... initially. One does have to budget periodic vet visits to assess their overall health and prevent big issues. They do get old though. Here, the problem is not just a pet. It's 6 pets since they didn't get it spayed! (And how did it reproduce? Probably outdoor cat, which is not only a bad thing for the environment, but also increases the chance of diseases or accidents that are costly) Plus five kids. Just my bonus is way more than most guests yearly salary, and I couldn't afford five kids - not enough money and (even more importantly) time.
I appreciate her willingness to change and the fact that she didn’t completely argue and disregard everything he said. She was willing and on board. It was refreshing!
Props for her going on. I know she’ll get this turned around. I like how she’s open to the criticism and not being defensive. Onwards and upwards. Rooting for you!
Caleb!! I’m debt free!!!! Thank you so much for posting these videos, they really motivated me. Paid off 20k @ 29% APR. I was hemorrhaging money on interest monthly. You put that fire under me
@@ariellenakia6780 I went mad aggressive, but it definitely varies with your salary. Initially I was paying 2400/month just to get rid of it. Living like a broke person 😅 then I got a full bonus from work, and cleared the rest of it. Definitely a huge blessing from my God
Birth control should be free and freely available at every gas station, library, bus stop, etc. Raising children in poverty isn't fair for them, or the people who have to pay for them.
She really did behave pretty well on the show ... I wonder how well she'll stick to these plans. She seems to be truly contrite and ready to make a change ... who knows.
I agree she did an excellent job. The comments on this episode is so brutal that I would never come on the show if I was ever in debt to which I have never been in debt. The people and his comments which are his followers are brutal to all the guest. It’s unconscionable.
She obviously won’t change. Five kids, dead beat dad(s), in debt. YET $300 spent for FRESH pink dyed hair. How does the hair dye help her 5 kids? Or help her to improve her life? It’s 💯 “but I waaaaaaaaaant it” She will NEVER change. Just hope her children can survive public education and become productive.
@@amylynndurkan3205she is taking the 1 responsible dad to court for more child support when he only had ONE kid with her. She is trying to explain how he adopted another kid and so he should pay child support for that kid too. She is getting 1k a month from him which is basically their entire food and groceries budget for all kids. Meanwhile she fucked a bunch of deadbeat bad boys and is just "trying to contact them". Lol. Besides, her whole story of him not allowing her to work reeks of manipulation. If he was taking on the responsibilities of earning for the household and let her take care of the kids he was only helping her - that is a privilege. But she spins it as if he held a gun to her head and didnt let her work, yeah right. And, considering how open she seems to be to having babies with deadbeats, who knows why that marriage ended. Was she faithful. The women ive seen in her situation marry a responsible man who will fund the money, fuck bad boys behind his back and then when the guy leaves they use the fucked up court system to drag him through the mud.
I would augment beans and rice to fruit and nuts, cuz gd those things take forever to cook. I swear no matter how long I simmer those beans they never get soft. Same with the rice
@@dustinseth1rice is easy but very particular in how to cook. Basic rice typically takes me 17 min to simmer to perfection. I also like caramelizing onions in the pot before I put the rice and chicken broth (instead of water) in. Make the flavor so good!
Every time Caleb starts listing the vendors in the expenses, I just think of Jim Carrey: “jury duty, jury duty, blackmail, pink slip, eviction notice!”
No only that, leaving the kids with a disabled mom that stays in her room and does not supervise the children while she is having to work.... Yes you do what have to do to survive, but definitely don't go on a booming Internet show admitting to the crimes. She can lose her children and her food assistance to be on this episode if the wrong person is to see it. And by knowingly admitting this while being recorded and willingly knowledge that it is going to be posted on UA-cam for anyone to watch, it is admissible in court as evidence.
Holy shit her completely admitting “it makes me feel good to spend money”. That’s the most honest I’ve seen a guest. … equally I’m only at that point in the episode and I’ve watched enough of these to know this could fuck up 😂
This episode was infuriating. Everyone makes mistakes, but she made a career out of bad decisions at this point. If you’re not on stable ground with 2 children…the solution isn’t to have 3 more. I’m a single mom, daughter is 25. I made a conscious decision to stick with the ONE. I have some rough times and was grateful that I only had one child to take care of!
My friends and I now say things like "Caleb wouldn't approve that purchase" or "you have sweaters at home" when we're about to be spontaneous. Thanks for the motivation to keep us on track!
Ugh, She needs to have her cat spayed. There are low cost spay/neuter clinics. Hate when people are irresponsible with their pets and contribute to pet overpopulation.
Here, it's so bad they're doing it for free to $15 to get people to fix their animals. The feral cat population is beyond bad and shelters are over full.
I love this channel Caleb is actually a really good guy doing this for people he sincerely cares and sometimes that means being horrible. These people are blessed to have him look over their lives!
My mom had me at 19 and had 5 kids by 30. Now she’s a nurse practitioner, empty nester before age 50, and out of the 5 of us produced a 3 entrepreneurs, a realtor, and a pre med student studying to be a doctor. If she continues to educate herself and decides to flip that switch, it’s crazy how fast she can go from this situation to having the world in the palm of her hand. I’m rooting for you!
Today's post-show is fun, maybe we will find Zoe and Noah true loveeeeee ua-cam.com/channels/Le_q9axMaeTbjN0hy1Z9xA.htmljoin
I hate it here
(Jk thank you for employment)
You can't say "the dealership fucked you" she fucked herself going to that dealership
@@NoahChryslercan I have your job?🤣 I need my McDonald's Premium Coffee
Noah is a great person 😊
“Oh and my cat had 5 kittens”
“Oh my god your whole house needs to stop BREEDING” 💀💀💀💀
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The fact that your pfp is of a cat makes it 10X funnier. 😂😂😂😂😂
I mean someone had to say it...
I mean yeah haha having 5 kids is too many if you are a single parent. Even 1 is a lot I hear. I can't imagine 5. And in America. Maybe in another country it would be easier. But USA doesn't give a fuck.
There's this crazy thing you can do, it's called fixing your pets. People will go to a vet and get quoted $300 and then never consider it. There are numerous resources in Texas to get it done for free, especially for low income families.
Don’t have more children if your only childcare solution involves the oldest child watching their younger siblings while you work. That’s unfair to the oldest child.
Not only that but helping to take care of grandma as well.
Maybe I missed this but aren’t there daycare or govt programs that help pay for daycare and stuff for lower income individuals like someone in her shoes?
She needs to talk with her husband's commanding officer and she'll get her child support plus a percentage of backpay Asap.
@@JudithLawrence718even if she got all of his paycheck she would only go further in debt because she would see it as extra money to buy stuff. Not use it to pay off debt.
@@jodeemackenzie or maybe she shouldn't of had 5 kids, split between 2 people
One thing this show has taught me is above all else, no payday loans.
OMG! Too many people do this it’s sad. My neighbour did this. She’s not been my neighbour since 2016 eventually all that debt caught up…
No CHILDREN.
or be a single mother. lol
And to STOP having more children when you couldn't even afford the 1st one!!!
Uber eats and excessive amounts of fastfood. FTFY, you're welcome lol.
Make large batches of food when you are home and freeze it for the week. The 14 year old or grandmom ought to be able to reheat it. Use a slow cooker; throw food in it in the morning, have dinner ready. Buy bulk. Shop sales; buy whatever meat and veg are cheapest this week. Shop at Goodwill. Do the things poor people have done for generations. People seem to have forgotten these things.
Also get a breadmaker
I thought those were normal things…
Goodwill is pretty much a racket now. I do agree with the slow cooker/breadmaker. Getting a breadmaker was a game changer, way better and cheaper than store bought.
You dont need a bread maker. A bowl, a wooden spoon, two hands and fire (oven) has been standard equipment for millenia!
I do that and I live in a single household and don’t have debt. It’s also just a super convenient way to feed yourself when things get busy.
“My degree”
“Oh good”
“In psychology”
“Ohh….”
That’s what I thought! Psychology degree is worthless unless it’s at least a masters.
To be fair, I make good money from my psych degree but you have to be committed to going into further schooling. An associates degree in psychology won't get you much though, you need an ed.s., psy.d., or phd for it to be a worthwhile investment
@@magoog9864. an associates degree in anything is completely useless. If you aren't willing to get at least a bachelors, don't bother.
@@lukienmanAssociate's in things like business or tech related give you a little more help. Nice way to get a decent entry level office job but to move up, you'll need further education.
@@lukienman As an experienced recruiter and employee for many many many years.
This advice is not true in the slightest. Literally, only justified by people who got scammed out of their 25 grand+ from getting a bachelors to enjoy a few more years of partying at college.
Your parentified daughter will 100% resent you for taking away her childhood. She deserves to be a kid too. So fucked up.
My wife went through that, she raised her little brother when she was 11. And then she was going to raise her sister at 24 years old but I took her out of there.
I helped with my baby sister and it lead to me knowing I never want kids. Which honestly was worth knowing.
@@kayligosame 😅
Parentified son here. Its true.
@@bigLsupreme 2nd that
I just want everyone to know that a box of condoms is $10.
Or can do tummy shower.. cheaper
He needed to actually factor that in the monthly budget!
Or free from planned parenthood. Better yet, birth control pills.
@@michaeltamares7974 "bUt It FeElS sO gOoD BArEbAcK" 🙄
mil wives, enough said
He didn't ask how much it costs to maintain her pink hair.
To have my chin length Mohawk cut, blown out, and colored (peekaboo and bangs in fun color with neutral color to the rest) cost $250 every 6 weeks.
Full head of hair in a pink that vibrant with no roots showing (meaning that she keeps up with the roots) and with brows that dark…easily at LEAST $250, but probably closer to $500.
It depends. Maybe she does it herself. Then it’s not that expensive: 50$ for bleach and developer every couple of months and probably 30$ for a hair mask with pigments maybe every one to two month. At least that’s what it costs me keeping up with my color at home. But it’s still a waste in her situation and not needed.
It looks like she wants to hold on to her youth for dear life and on top of that she is irresponsible? Not a good look.
Probably because it looks like a wig not real hair, so it’s not necessarily a new purchase & she can wear it forever as long as she maintains it
At this level of poverty, it doesn't matter how cheap she manages to get hair, makeup, nails, etc. Extra stuff like that has to be cut for the sake of her children. She has to accept her natural appearance cuz she can't afford to be pretty or show off her personality through appearance anymore.
The amount of people that feel comfortable admitting to crimes on this show is astounding 😂
At least she's not smuggling tortillas.
@@SpoonHurlerno just committing other felonies
@@SpoonHurler😂😂😂
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@@SpoonHurler Oddly specific, which episode is that?
You should date Caleb's producer. I hear he recently overcame autism.
Damn 😂😂😂
Calab did him dirty, but I keep coming back
I hope this becomes a new Taquito style inside joke where Caleb tried to embarrass the guy somehow in every episode 😂
😂😂😂
@@Scrimjer Caleb, not Calab.
You should hand out free coffee makers and a loaf of bread to every guest. Could get a sponsor.
😂😂🤣🤣
That’s actually a clever idea 😅
She should just buy instant coffee and carry a thermos of hot water with her
The coffee maker is $20 for the cheapest and she can buy ground McDonald's brand coffee if it's that important to her
My Goodwill has an entire shelf of coffeemakers for $3-5.
This episode drove me crazy. Why is it that everyone who wants to bring up income inequality has 5 kids from 4 different guys, a $800 car payment, works 30 hours a week, and has no car insurance. The amount of lack of responsibility is WILD.
Thank you for this comment lmao. 🤣 I’ll never understand it
Idk how people come on this show and say woe is me but they made their situation 💀
I met someone on tinder years ago and we were out having drinks and she was talking about income inequality in America and she had me for a min cause something yea are a little out of whack but then tells me she went to a private college on LI that cost her 35k a year to study art… I was like I went to state college 4K a semester to study accounting
Women ☕
@@rustyshackleford2185are you blocking out the incel videos from your mind or what 💀
Caleb, we paid off the last of my wife’s student loans today!! Time to beef up our emergency fund some more, been watching for a little over a year :)
WOOOOOOOOOOO that's amazing!!!!!
Lets goo thats awesome
Let’s goooooo!!!!!!
Good for y'all! God bless! 🙏🙏🙏
You’re a simp for paying off HER loans. She no longer has a financial incentive to stay with you. -300 she leaves you in the next few years
About the food situation.
1. She qualifies for WIC for the younger children.
2. Food banks.
3. Talk to the county about increasing EBT.
Also, if she picks up another day at Amazon, she'll be full-time. Amazon helps full-time employees pay for school.
Also, no hate. But get a IUD or some form of birth control.
I suspect she has resistance to number one and two on your list, because she doesn’t see herself as lower class. But yeah, until she’s doing better with child support, she needs the money. She’s spending $50 plus for fast food which is probably pretty good for all, still hamburger helper and other budget meals at home would be a better idea. I get why she’s uncomfortable with being associated with being a welfare mama, but she is working hard to turn that around.
At this point she should be looking at getting her tubes tied. No reversing it later if she meets someone else or her situation improves. You've done your bit for the continuation of the human race. Have a ribbon. Your uterus has retired.
You can’t talk the county into a food stamp increase. The guidelines are followed to the T.
33hrs a wk is full-time for healthcare purposes (source: www.healthcare.gov/glossary/full-time-employee/)
@@ellistea1024once i accepted food banks are for people like me the grocery bill went way down. i go to 2 food shelves a week and that pretty much takes care of me. one even has a free hot meal served afterwards!
She drives a brand new suv with no car insurance, has five kids with 3(?) different men, spends $175/month on coffee, takes payday loans to pay for frivolities…
And blames her situation on income inequality?
Sounds like she’s never made a responsible decision in her life. THAT’S the issue.
0 accountability. I don't have much sympathy for this women.
She has pink hair so that’s salon visits every 2 months for touch ups. This is so insane
Feminism
Bright colors is nature's way of saying danger!
It’s 4 men.
1. Oldest in Colorado
2. The ex husband
3. The guy with the sporadic payments
4. Dual citizen guy that they are trying to find
“My fourteen year old watches my kids at night.” Very telling wording there.
?
That kid is giving away their childhood for their siblings.
@@hulkslayer626 “watches MY kids,” not the fourteen year old’s siblings. It’s like she’s separated them into different categories.
@@a.millli oooooohhhh! Got it! Thank you 😊
Caleb hates his producer…
Last week he’s autistic and this week he is getting set up with a single mother of 5 children with at least 3 baby daddies…
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OMG! I was dying laughing at that part!! "Oh you arent!?!?!"
Least Noah would score 😂
@@TheSorrowWithinMeHe’s getting subbed in after other players ran up the score…
Well we know she puts out.
I really appreciate Caleb reminding parent’s that their lack of financial planning is going to negatively impact their children for decades to come. I financially support my mother who, like these guests, never saved anything and squandered any extra money on eating out every Friday night, going to the movies every weekend, buying unneeded new clothes, etc. My mother’s lack of financial planning negatively impacts generations in our family as I now am taking money away from saving for my own child’s future to pay my mother’s rent.
You need to get yourself out of that, it is NOT your task!
My adult kids wish I would spend more on them, but we don’t ever want to put our futures on them. The goal is to leave them with something. My husband said the other day he hopes when his parents pass, we don’t have to pay off debts. They aren’t married, but both a financial disaster.
With those kids ans a disabled mom, her mom should file for disability. Her mom would then qualify for sec 8 housing. There are nice apt complexes that have units for that. Also, she could qualify as her mom's caregiver. Her mom sounds like she needs care too. . Or she herself can file for sec 8. She's way below the poverty line and they have units with 4 bedrooms. So many people just don't know how to navigate that and get in over their head. Also, since she admitted to committing food stamp fraud openly, she may be cut off now and have a cps investigation.
Good luck
That is really not fair on you or your spouse.
At 14:22 when she says “it makes me feel good to spend money” that was one of the most honest distillations of why so many people end up here.
Absolutely. I think the reason so many people don't admit it is because it's a hard pill to swallow.
@@TurntwobouncelandIt doesn't fill anyone else with a sense of dread and anguish?
@@vagabond251 I like to think it does, but people are too embarrassed to admit their spending habits are purely due to impulse and wanting to chase a temporary high.
Everybody love to spend money
But with 5 children? You have to spend better
People don’t take the dopamine hit you get from shopping/eating our into consideration. Or maybe even know they get it.
Every time I feel bad about my financial situation, I pick a Financial Audit video, and my day is brighter! 😄 thanks Caleb
Literally here to remind myself I’m doing fucking amazing 🤣
Seriously
@@Freedom-at-any-cost for me "it could be worse" 😂
Second I heard 5 kids.. my jaw dropped.
what was she thinking? I wouldn't go near a man after the second child if I wouldn't trust I can have a stable family
And by 4 people is just astonishing
Wait for it, gets worse
@@amoose8439IT GETS WORSE!?!
😮
Emergency fund came into use this week. Boiler catastrophically failed - baby due imminently. New boiler being installed on Monday - no need to borrow/take on debt - no worry - this is why we have the emergency fund.
Wow... I'm sorry, but I'm glad you had it ready to go!! A good lesson for everyone here.
Yeah bought a new house a few years ago. Within the first 8 months had to drop $14k on a new AC/furnace. Still building it back up.
It's incredible how an emergency fund changes how you handle emergencies. It sucks having to put out the money, but the stress it saves allowing you to focus on what's important is priceless.
Last year, my husband was in a car accident, and an emergency fund made it far easier to handle.
Well done! Best to you and growing fam!
@@Wenisssssthat’s tough, for that price I’d be tempted to rub sticks together in the winter and spray myself with a hose in the summer
Classifying yourself as middle class when you're a single mother making $21 an hour is a level of delusion I didn't think I'd be seeing today. Unfortunately she is in poverty, and well below that line with a 7 person household
Single mother of 5, with a useless disabled mother, five kittens, and delinquent fathers….shes swimming with 8 anchors
Yeah 7 people at $40K/year is crazy poverty
Let's be honest here. One of the problems is that she didn't took the precautions to prevent her multiple AND preventable pregnancies 🤦🏻♀️
But she drives a new car - she must be middle class
@ymi0613 that does not matter at this stage, the kids are here already, its about how she can make the best of it
Fun fact mcdonald's actually sells their coffee on store shelf. I like their coffee too so I did the sensible thing and bought the tub for $14, comes out to 6 cents per cup of coffee
I did the same thing. I also figured out how they make their ice coffee to make at home
I love McDonald's coffee as well. I never knew I could buy off the shelf. I've seen Starbucks but not mcd's
@@alexushitz6114do you know how they made their hazelnut ice coffee??
@@chelsiewilson3443 unfortunately no. I only figured out the normal one
I used to think I was the only one who liked their coffee because it’s always heavily discounted at TJ Maxx.
"I need to make more money. Let me go get an associates in psychology " said no one, ever
When you're low-income you can get your associates for free. To get your bachelors is not free at all.
@@katl1489 but if you are getting the associates free, why not get on that translates into job opportunities... it's why I got mine in lab science. Then you can go get a 50k a year job and work toward a bachelor's+ in something you are passionate in. Or go to a trade school which can be subsized and/or stipended.
I made money of my associates 😮😢
@@SpoonHurlerexactly! Or even nursing. Not psychology lol
@@JS-kc2xs yeah nursing is great too... sometimes the programs have wait lists cause the demand is so high but you can spend a year or two getting other requirements out of the way... a lot of programs but you need to go in with a plan.
Pro tip: being on financial audit does not give you legal immunity.
I say this all the time "you shouldn't have said that guest x"
Excellent point …..
It's easy to report them as well.
She better hope her ex doesn’t see this. He’d report her with a quickness.
I Hope Caleb Edits that out for the sake of her children and also for the sake of the children of her friends! 💔😢
I feel for that 14yo having to be a parent already while going into high school and likely not getting enough sleep themselves. I feel for those kids so much.
That's wrong WRONG
She is Lazy I'm so pissed
Wrong it's so WRONG
She doesn't know what she is doing robbing the children time and mental health. I'm so pissed
The Dads should step up and take care of their kids when she works.
@@chachisadventures3378that too
My Mom grew up like that. It didn’t do her any favors in the nurturing department that’s for sure, she does her best but she never got what she needed as a kid
This show has genuinely changed my life and outlook on little meaningless purchases. I learn from EVERY VIDEO and I can't stop binging them. Thanks again for EVERYONE involved in putting these on- especially the people who come on. I couldn't even imagine having that kind of openness to the world. Thank you to the whole team behind production and etc also! You guys ROCK.
THE COFFEE bit hit close to home! I tracked Mcdonalds, Dunkin, and Starbucks.... spent $827 in a 3 month span on literally coffee from these places....
Bought a $32 Mr coffee maker...with my additives to my coffee, every cup made at home costs me $0.12
2 cups a day, 6 days a week.
After that, for 3 months of coffee, I spent a total of $61.87
Props to you for figuring it out!!!
Bruhhhhh buying coffee at those places is such a money grab😭.
And coffee is addicting so of course they're all making bank.
😱🫣 thats inspiring!
No wonder Caleb gets so ANGRY when his guests try to justify buying corporate coffee! 😂 That's an insane savings in 3 months. Congrats! 🎉
Great to hear this and I’m so glad I hate coffee. I would need to be paid well to gag some down. So gross. 🙂 Another thing you can do is ask for some gourmet coffee for gifts at Christmas, etc. I send some to my brother every year.
Getting a “degree” in real estate (to be a realtor) is such a scam. Go pay a few hundred bucks to get a license. Don’t pay a college thousands for the same thing 😭
It's not even her goal to be a real estate agent. She just has the vague notion that more school = more money somehow, no matter the degree.
There are waaaay too many real estate agents here. Plus no car equals no going to showings, etc. She should just get a data entry job she could maybe do from home on a used computer.
I don't think she comprehends what a realtor's schedule is like either, you have to be available constantly especially if you're starting out and there is a lot of competition. Who's going to watch her kids when she has to randomly leave? Was she going to do if she goes 6 months and sells one house? There's a reason the majority of realtors quit within the first year.
She clearly is not pursuing that path, as she doesn't even understand the difference between a Realtor (trademarked term, meaning member of the Association of Realtors) and a real estate salesperson. This is info you learn on day 1 when you begin to study real estate.
Go to Family Dollar and buy a coffee pot for 12.99.
I was in the same position you’re putting your 14/12 year old. They’re going to hate you once they’re older. You can’t put that much responsibility on a child.
I was also I that position and I don't hate my parents at all did I like it at the time no but did or do I hate them no and I was spending my summer breaks watching my sister
My mom was in this position and she also resents her siblings
@@nkh4593
You babysat all the time? Diaper changed all the time
Were you the one to wake up at night. Every night?
Did you have to shower the kid? Change her clothes after bed time wetting? Which happens to be also a shared bed? With you?
I’m sorry there has to be resentment there, because when you bring it up they just tell you
It didn’t happen
YOU wanted to be an older sister
Get over it
Eye roll
@@nkh4593that’s you babe. Everyone is different
I was also in that position. Much resentment towards my Mother. Hard to have an immature, narcissistic, selfish Mother.
The crazy thing is she was broke after her divorce and has to go into debt to survive… and then proceeded to have 3 more kids with dead beats 😭
She was banking on the military guy to save her 😂
Dead beats? Have you ever seen what courts order men to pay?!? It’s absurd!! Most men CANT pay.
@@traphuntnstuff8096 Then those men shouldn't be having kids and abandoning them. Those men are bums
@@traphuntnstuff8096you realize the courts order them to pay that much because having a kid is EXPENSIVE!! It takes two to make a baby and it’s on them to pay their share
@@traphuntnstuff8096one guy only has to pay 370 and can’t do that consistently. That’s dead beat
"Us in the middle class"... Lady is not in the middle class as a single parent of FIVE! Is living on food stamps middle class now?
If she's middle class then I'm a Rockefeller
In Biden’s America yes.
She's BUYING food stamps... clearly an action performed by the middle class 😄😄😄😄
@@masterpooshi6031
Bingo 👏🏼
@masterpooshi6031 my dad raised 4 of us on like $60k, we are all now adults and he's struggling more even with 4 fewer kids. Let's Go Brandon!
I called my mom after this episode and thanked her for giving me the best support while struggling as a single mom. Episodes like this really make me grateful for everything she did to ensure my childhood was great.
Moms that hold it down for their children deserve the world.
Wait wait wait…
So military guy is paying $1000 in support for the one kid that he has by her and she’s trying to drag him to court for more because it’s not enough for her to provide for her 4 other children? WHAT?!?!
This is for 2 kids but the other 2-3 baby daddies should pay to ..
@@mariagates473 It’s for one. She explains it later in the video.
@@jb4076 dang so it’s 4 baby daddies ?
Yeah it is the 1 dad that is actually paying.... That is the ones that usually get screwed over with the child support bc the women think they should get more from that since it's what they are receiving from since can't get it from the other deadbeats
It's almost like doing the right thing isn't worth it lol... I would never agree to child support I would fight with every last penny to have 50/50 custody
This literally made me feel sick. The fact that a SINGLE PARENT OF 5 is acting so childish and neglectful with her finances is shameful. Some people should be forbidden from having children. Her kids deserve SO much better.
The pink hair says it all. She thinks shes in high school still or something
She’s on the show to get help. I think the kids are fine. Let her try figure it out. And succeed.
She’s not smart. That’s how she ended up pregnant 5 times.
She’s scared to work while actively parentifying her eldest kids….
She should have stayed at home mom and learned how to keep man
@@JorgeDeZacatecas Can we like .. not ignore that she clearly escaped a very abusive relationship? I get it you guys wanna feel better about yourself but still
@@JorgeDeZacatecas are you crazy ?
@@SadreathI don't think she's a reliable narrator boo. I'd like to hear his side
@@JorgeDeZacatecas interesting view that knowing how to keep a man solves issues. People who leave relationships often have good reasons for doing so.
"my oldest helps with grandma" oh no no no no. Not just grandma, probably all the other kids too. That poor kid.
And now she will also be working to put something into home budget, and her mother is proudly saying that she's very adult and ressponsible...WELL DUH...someone in that household needs to be acting like ADULT
These thumbnails are getting increasingly unhinged
The titles as well🤣
Yes
I’m here for it
Right? She's not even remotely trailer trash. She's significantly more well spoken than Caleb.
@@somedudeinatunnel3102 it's just for the algo. He has explained a few times he goes over the titles & thumbnails with the guests ahead of time.
My wife does hair, I know that pink hair is a multi process. First Bleach since she is not a natural blond, then the "fashion" Colors. Clients pay $300+ to have this done. Her color is not a cheaper one and either she just did it or really spent money. Most of these colors wash out within 2 weeks. Even something like artic fox would not take hold without certain chemicals that you need a license to buy.
Point is she is wasting money on pink hair, which I personally feel if you can't keep it from staying vivid becomes a trashy look, which attracts trashy men. Or you spend lots of money to keep it fashionable. Oh ya probably $60 for the shampoo and conditioner for Fashion colors. Fact is I know people pay my wife $250+ for this hair and it really fades after a week or 2.
Good pick up didn’t catch that
I am a stylist and this is 100% accurate…
Yeah I spend about half that on a cut and highlights. But yes you're right. She needs to lay off the hair. It's a big expense (unless she trades for it or literally does it herself).
I know it’s not the grandma’s job to watch the children, but it does fascinate me that grandma wouldn’t provide the absolute basic supervision of making sure the children don’t drown, burn the house down, or physically harm each other to assist her daughter who is struggling financially and who apparently assists grandma. Makes me beyond grateful for my parents.
All while gma asks for money like no ma'am
@@Theaterkid4L9733wants money but won’t assist in any other way
I have 5 kids and the absolute basic that you are describing would not be something a disabled grandma could do consistently. Thats my kids though, with the help of the older two this situation is probably different.
I don't know if I would want her to watch my kids seeing as the job she did with this one
I have two daughters and if it weren't for my mom and my mil , I'd be dead! They never said no to care for my girls. I'm eternal grateful!!!
So she borrowed the entirety of a new car, to get a 3rd row, but lives 5 minutes from her job, and almost never shuttles all 5 kids, and can't afford insurance on it...*facepalm*
I know someone who insisted on a third row SUV. She has two kids. I have no idea who sits in the third row.
@jessicadawson2353 the bank until its paid off
She could have got a 2500 Toyota minivan 😭😂 these people are something else and then I fell over when she had 40k in student debt 😭😭😭
@@JorgeDeZacatecas true. I bet that thought never even popped up in her tiny little brain. She didn’t seem to bright. There is a 0% chance she sells the car.
Girl math
Dave Ramsey’s solution: sell the kids 😂
"Make the kids think they're next" haha
Yeah, that sounds Dave.
Rice and beans, beans and rice
And only replace them when the "kids" envelope has enough cash 😂
True that😂😂😂😂
In conclusion,
You don't have to have kids in every relationship you're in. Kids are not trophies or mandatory to love someone
“Us in the middle class” my brother you are impoverished 😢
Why is it so many people who are already drowning, feel the need to go get more responsibility in the form of pets? Leave the poor cats out of it.
THIS. YES! Thank you for saying it! She should be taking the cats to the shelter, she isn't in a place to take proper care of them. What if they have a medical emergency, there's no ways he could pay for that.
It's because life is so hard and aninalnprovides you with love and sooths your anxiety. Basically, a little bit of joy in dark times
Now your giving kitty mental issues😢@@karollad
Right?!?? I'm not even in debt and I won't get one cuz I feel like I don't make enough to support a pet responsibly 😭
I know someone with 3 kids from 3 different guys - and a dog...
Recently, she was complaining about how she had to pay $2,000 in "dog fines". What!
Apparently, the dog keeps getting out and the local authorities send her fines...
(Oh, BTW, she also has to pay to have a breath analyser fitted to her car so she can keep driving after having received numerous drunk driving convictions)
Some people have messed up lives for a reason - rather than helping themselves, they actively make things worse.
maintenance on pink hair is veryy very expensive.
Depends if she’s a natural blonde or light hair. Doing it herself (unlikely with her) it could be relatively cheap. Though if you go to a salon it’s insane.
That’s what I was thinkinh
My thought too.
Not defending her choices in anyway, but she may dye it herself. I have yellow hair and have been dying it myself for the last 5 years to save money. It only costs me about $15-$20 in product to bleach and dye it.
@@allisonlogsdon3490 I tell you what when I was living in poverty there's no way in hell I was spending any of the cash I had on cosmetics of any kind. That money goes to rent and food. Enough food at home to make it until the next paycheck and save the rest for rent and transportation to get to/from work and that's it. This lady is on crack.
"I need more child support for his 2 children as it's not enough to cover all 5 children"
*5 min later
"I use the $1000 child support to pay off my $900pm car payment"
I think a lot of men don't mind taking care of their kids, but if I was the child's father, I'd be pissed that the money I'm forced to give her to care for our child is going to her car payments. Smh
@@rebeccaherr9463when i heard she gets $1000 for child support i was like and you cant pay your bills???
I am so proud of her ex husband for moving to another state where Texas can’t make him pay more. 😂
Insanity 😢I'm unfortunately someone who's sons father is addicted to drugs and has no job, he had another child the state gave to his mother to provide support to. I receive Zero child support whatsoever doing it all on my own. I can't believe how people waste it.
I’m sorry. Did she admit that she took out credit cards with no intention of paying them?!?!?! Then she complained about being forced to pay them because they are in collections!!!!!! To me, this was one of the most outrageous things any guest has said. WTF!
When people run out of moves they stop thinking long term and focus on getting through each day. Not all that surprising someone with a bunch of kids and no money was desperate at some point. Yeah I don't think anyone has phrased it like she did. But is it really that much worse than someone taking out credit with intention of paying it back but not the ability to? She's just a bit less deluded than some other guests with stuff in collections.
@@Bexamous The difference would be moral and responsibility. Yes, if you borrow something, you should pay it back. Simple and clean and lack of it is nothing to be proud of.
She gave up on life. She said she had given up. I truly applaud her honest. I believe a lot of the guest do this and don’t have the courage or decency to admit it they never played on paying them back.
@@scarfamelly Nice try. When you have 5 kids under your roof, "giving up on life" is not an option. That's an luxury. This woman cannot afford it.
And she admitted to benefits fraud 🤭
Someone who can take a joke and seems like a decent person. Y’all hit the jackpot with her! These audits are so much nicer to listen to.
She sounds nice. Caleb actually comes off more as a jerk screaming at her a couple times
A decent person? She blames everyone else for all of her self inflicted problems. How is that a sign of a decent person?
@@curtbrown554Amen. 🙏🏽
On the contrary, she sounds absolutely awful.
@@curtbrown554 have you watched other audits recently? The people are awful to listen to and clearly don’t want help. She at least listened and acted like she was taking in what Caleb had to say
I feel so bad for the two oldest daughters... the amount of parentification that's happening is so sad. Those girls don't get to be kids, they are just mommy #2 and mommy #3. Gross.
She keeps talking about being a mom, but due to her lack of self-discipline and self-denial, she drags her kids into what are totally avoidable situations.
I really hope those girls find an engineer or an accountant and can stay loyal and break the cycle but they'll probably just be pin-cushions for Trailer Park Chad like mommy.
@@andrew8168Why find an engineer or an accountant? There's nothing stopping them from becoming engineers or accountants.
@@andrew8168wtf? Why do they need to depend on someone and not gain skills to be independent?
That's what happens to the girl children when a mother has more than 1. It's despicable and shows not everyone should have kids. A kid shouldn't ever be a parent. Idc how much they help. YOU'RE THE PARENT
6 credit cards paid off and im now in the mid 700s (which is huge for me) Sofi as well as Experian has helped immensely. Guys! A lot of what Caleb says in his ads are factual! Start that journey NOW. You're only holding yourselves back!
I grew up in a low income household. I would BEG my mum for a Club Penguin membership and she said no every. Damn. Time. You know why? Because it was that or groceries and she was a fucking adult and chose groceries! God!
Same exact situation down to the club penguin membership
Good for your mom! I'm older and was out of the house by this point - but my Mom chose the Club Penguin membership for my younger siblings - and guess who is still supporting her Mom today? THIS GIRL.
My 18 yr old wanted all kinds of memberships, well nope. My younger ones if they want a gift card they need to do chores and with ONLY the money they earn they can buy a gift card every couple months. It's crazy to give your kids everything. Parents are responsible for a house, home cooked food, shoes and clothing. Not gaming bullshit. Especially if you don't have the money. They need to learn.
My parents would provide dilemmas for me. Webkinz memebership? Sure but no pop tarts or cereal. Make your choice. Things like that.
I remember stealing my moms credit card to by runescape gold because I was a degenerate child
"Us in the middle class". Girrrl, you aint in the middle class yet.
I was thinking that, she's very much working to survive and in the hole, she's working class lmao
The only thing about her lifestyle that’s middle class is having a brand new SUV… except she can’t afford it, so it’s going away too.
That’s the norm in the US. A lot of people assume they are in the middle class but are actually not. They’re just living beyond their means.
but living a middle class delusion with her debt 😂
Haha great comment
I went back to school after getting divorced at 39. I’m now an X-Ray Technologist at a children’s hospital and I LOVE what I do. It’s never too late.
it is when you have 5 kids to feed for 18 years each
@kiirstinorr3316 : Good for you! Health care is a field that will never become obsolete.
Excellent choice of career. Well done.
That's awesome! Thanks for helping out the kiddos.
Currently going through school, too, with two kids, 13 yrs apart and a fresh breakup. Her decision to have 5 children without stability on her end is wild to me.
Y’all pls use this lady and her story as a lesson. Do NOT have kids, esp 5, if you are not financially able to. This has to be so hard omgosh
Nothing wrong with having kids, if she did not have children with the type of person she is would lead to worse outcomes
My mom had 4 of us, she wasn’t rich but she wasn’t lazy either. Still provided for us and never put a financial burden on us.
@@Las645 i don’t get why I’m getting responses like yours. I’m saying if someone is not financially able to provide for 5 kids, they shouldn’t have had 5 kids. Congrats on ur mom for doing what she needed to do, just like the rest of us do
Mercy, why continue to have children with one man after another without first becoming stable financially and emotionally?!!!! It is the kids that suffer.
Because she’s broken, you can’t understand it because you’re a responsible human.
Yes thank you for that comment. It's clear she is dealing with problems of her own. Talking from experience, my mom was with her boyfriend for 10 years who put her down everyday and was convinced that she doesn't need to save while paying for the bills for HIS house and HIS car etc. She had 0 in her account with no savings for 10 years yet he earned more and always had savings. She knew it wasn't right but she already had her own issues from trauma and then on top of an unhealthy relationship. We moved out and that's when she relieased how he manipulated her and now we are living better than ever without him! You cannot judge somebody in relationships like this you don't know their situation in that time of life
I don't think the point was to have kids. It just sounds like they weren't being responsible. She didn't have those kids on her own, the men take half the responsibility and blame.
@@skyegroome223she could have told them to only smash with condoms it’s on her 🤣🤣🤣🤣
A selfish person that knows the tax payers will be the daddy to cover he extra costs she cannot, like Medicaid.
5 kids by 4 baby daddies and it’s the economies fault 😂
I wonder why she can't find some sugar daddy to take care of all of this baggage... 5 kids, a bunch of debt and debt inducing habits. Yeah, it's a mystery.
And SHE is the one who left the military guy who wouldve given her a home and security.
@@jaredtandle2596 who is going to be a sugar daddy for that?
@@gh0rochi363 I'm sure some very lucky guy may be able to help out. Lol
@@andrewjackson9948her leaving may not have been the problem, her having 3 more kids on top of the 2 with the military man was definitely a problem
This guest is humble and respectful toward Caleb. She even reacted to his demeaning jokes in a calm manner. I give her a lot of credit for that alone. As so many others have said, it’s not easy being a guest on this show. Wishing her and her family all of the best.❤️
Yeah, he made too many sex jokes and I could tell it made her uncomfortable.
This ^^ She might have a history of making poor decisions but this is a mom genuinely trying to improve herself and provide a happy life for her kids. Humble and gracious to get help is always a good sign
Yeah I feel he genuinely hurt her feelings
She took it well and maybe Caleb was too flippant about it, but on the other hand somebody's still gotta call out the poor decisions. Not just financial decisions. 5 kids with 3 (4?) different deadbeat fathers is insanely irresponsible. The last one wasn't even that long ago
Caleb is witty but has a big heart. I know that he didn’t mean to disrespect her. He wants his guests to do better with their finances and reacts strongly to bad decisions.
"I finished my degree-"
"Very nice."
"-in Psycology."
"Oh..."
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Did she say she has a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology? She could possibly get a job as a head Teacher at the Fort SamHouston Daycare. They do provide free childcare and health, dental and vision insurance and an HSA account for her and her Children. They also pay College Tuition Reimbursement and she’d work normal hours.
@@christinebuckingham8369 she said associates degree unfortunately not bachelors
I got my son to start watching your channel before he got in a bad habit. He’s 22 with zero debt and decent job he loves. His vehicle won’t last long but he should be able to buy one cash by the end of the summer. He’s now contributing monthly to his retirement and insists on putting $10/month to his little brother’s education fund. Im so grateful that he’s avoided the early mistakes I made.
This is how you break the cycle of poverty! Good job 👏👏👏
I’m teary eyed thinking he puts money into his younger brother’s education fund 🥹 congratulations!
Sounds like you raised a good young man! Give yourself a pat on the back for me!
35k for a Mitsubishi is disgusting 🤢
$800 a month car payment for a broke single mother of five. Unbelievable.
Mitsubishi, Nissan, Dodge, all crap. A used Honda or Toyota will last.
Her car payment is double mine, but I make more money than her. that alone blows my mind
It’s 4x my last car payment and I make about double what she does
@@v-2010I own one got the 2016 one in 2019 for 18k with a 300/mo payment 39k miles paid off in 2 years
Anybody confused on how she’s taking the one guy that pays $1000 a month for his two kids back to court but the other guys are getting off easy
Hard to be 100 percent deadbeat in military
He's probably the only one cooperating to his detriment.
Even worse its actually only 1 kid thats his and she keeps trying to hit him for more and more child support as she mentioned in the first 5min. No way that 1 kid cost more than $1,000 a month on an average normal month for food and basic stuff. Muchless more than $2,000 because why should the dad pay 100% of the childs needs? Shes trying to ring the 1 semi-responsible guy shes been with dry to pay for all her other even worse mistakes. Women like this got me fucking terrified dude.
@@Mr_Glock191 kid definitely costs more than $1k a month, especially given the dad doesn't provide any childcare
She has pink hair but she screams red flag.
I got my husband hooked on this show. We are learning so much about money and I feel so eager to do more with my money. Thank you Caleb! Your wisdom and roasting, is the huge kick in the a$$ we needed!
Let's fucking go dude! Great job
Man can't tell you how much this show has helped me. On my way to being totally debt free and you yelling at other people instead of me changed my life
Same. 😂
Same here.
Good job! Stay strong!
I’m shocked she admitted to trading cash for food stamps. That’s kind of illegal
Stupid is as stupid does
people do this all the time, but yes, this is SUPER illegal.
It's been too normalized, they forget it's a crime
This is a pretty normal thing, no one cares its illegal, but I wouldn’t admit to doing this on camera 😂
not kind of. absolutely.
Having kids you can't afford is the number one cause of poverty.
unfortunately thats a fact none of these women want to acknowledge
No it’s not. Literally the birth rates are going down and people are having less kids and they’re the brokest any generation has ever been. I know so many childless people complaining about living paycheck to paycheck.
@@mybdayis420why just women and not men too? One person doesn’t create a kid.
It also put Biden in office
@@Las645since women are usually the ones paying for poor decisions involving children, we have to look out for ourselves. I wouldn’t care what a man does. I’d only care about having children I can’t afford, if I was of childbearing age. We have the ultimate control over getting pregnant.
So just avoid multiple kids from multiple partners, payday loans, buying a new car while owing money on last loan, working less than 40 hours and eating out for all of your meals.
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Good point! Saved us all time!!!!
Don’t forget pink hair
And multiple partners who are basically deadbeats.
Don't forget the 40k in student loans for a phy degree
Former Amazon worker here. I BARELY made it by while working there as a single person. Even after a promotion, the money wasn’t enough. Instantly got triggered when she said she didn’t have time to make coffee/food etc. Get a cheap coffee maker & do some damn food prep. Meat + seasoning + veg + crockpot. It’s not hard. Stop eating out & buying wants. Try & get promoted or look for a WFH job.
A WFH job would be a really great thing for her. If the house isn’t noisy that is. Hard to keep a house quiet with the little ones running around.
@@blackwidowwisp6255 with what skills?
@@goldenretrievermom7945Honestly you don't really need skills to get one but they are hard to find
just interview well
You went from a T1 aa to t3. The pay jump is not even worth it. You would have to be higher up than a T3
Me on M/W/F: refresh, refresh, refresh, HAMMER TIME
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What happened to Monday episode 🥹
@@estellameraz156 he gave his team Monday off for Easter holiday. He posted that somewhere
I think people forget we have government assistance:( she could get Wic which will pay for 3 of her kids food such as formula, fruits, veggies, baby food and toddler foods….she would qualify for the max EBT amount too which is 500$+. That alone would cover like 800$ in food alone. She could even buy grounded up coffee beans with it, all she would need is a coffee filter and boiled water that’s 15$ give or take. She needs to use these resources if she hasn’t already! She could also apply for TANF which gives you money for rent and bills which with 5 kids and someone on disability she would 100% qualify for!! This would cover so many expenses so she can focus on her bills and loan payments.
This is the kind of comments we need for more financial literacy, not just shitting on people
While I agree with all these programs for a temporary length of time, they won't fix the root of the problem, her spending. Our taxes shouldn't be spent on enabling her poor spending habits.
Nah itll just give her more money to spend frivolously
She mentioned that her foodstamps were cut down to 300 dollars a month because of her income. Her income includes the child support and her paychecks from Amazon.
@@Julia-b9xI’d rather the children be taken care of than worry about how much she buys in coffee, even if it’s frivolous. As someone who grew up poor, I appreciate the support I got. My dad’s spending at a time when utilities were being shut off & we didn’t have enough food in the fridge was a betrayal, it damaged my relationship with him permanently. But at least when the food stamps came in I could eat.
Zero money but her hair is freshly done 👀👀👀
And looks absolutely terrible
Ooh good eye, you're right no roots!
Can't be showing roots if you're on the prowl for daddy #5
@@link10909 🤣
Doing your hair on your own is pretty cheap
38:40 ARGH! I work in property management. Mostly low income units. She dose what so many poor people do. Has multiple kids working, struggling and gets a pet. YOU CAN NOT AFFORD A PET! A pet is a luxury for when you have time and disposal income.
Seriously. My dog recently died from cancer. Just the two weeks before he did cost us about 1200 with pet insurance, and some hours away from work. It’s a big expense
A pet she couldn't figure out how to get fixed. I personally don't think income level should determine pet ownership (there are terrible owners who have a lot of money) but you need to show you have a plan to care for them properly. 5 random kittens says otherwise.
But they're so cute 🥺
It drives me crazy too! So many people get pets while not being able to take care of themselves and then cry a river when their pet needs medical help. Then the added layer of not spaying them and letting them be outdoor makes me livid. There are free services in her area for spay and neuter. Irresponsible all around.
One pet is generally not a big expense... initially. One does have to budget periodic vet visits to assess their overall health and prevent big issues. They do get old though.
Here, the problem is not just a pet. It's 6 pets since they didn't get it spayed! (And how did it reproduce? Probably outdoor cat, which is not only a bad thing for the environment, but also increases the chance of diseases or accidents that are costly)
Plus five kids. Just my bonus is way more than most guests yearly salary, and I couldn't afford five kids - not enough money and (even more importantly) time.
Caleb, this morning we paid off the last $18k of my student loans! 🤩🤩
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Fuck yeah!
I appreciate her willingness to change and the fact that she didn’t completely argue and disregard everything he said. She was willing and on board. It was refreshing!
Props for her going on. I know she’ll get this turned around. I like how she’s open to the criticism and not being defensive. Onwards and upwards. Rooting for you!
yes! i actually feel hope for her! she seems like a nice woman who got herself into a horrible situation but wants to be better!
Probably not. This is an example of how generational welfare is born.
i came here from her tik tok where’s she’s crying about this episode 💀. was very defensive lol
@@jxr3460 haha what’s she bitching about?
That didn’t last long… she’s on TikTok
Caleb!! I’m debt free!!!! Thank you so much for posting these videos, they really motivated me. Paid off 20k @ 29% APR. I was hemorrhaging money on interest monthly. You put that fire under me
congrats!!🎉🎉 how long did it take you to pay it off? that’s my situation right now
Congratulations! That's awesome ❤
@@ariellenakia6780 I went mad aggressive, but it definitely varies with your salary. Initially I was paying 2400/month just to get rid of it. Living like a broke person 😅 then I got a full bonus from work, and cleared the rest of it. Definitely a huge blessing from my God
Homegirl is twinning with her cat 🐈⬛ 😂😂😂😂 I lost it at “she had 5 kittens!”
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Birth control should be free and freely available at every gas station, library, bus stop, etc. Raising children in poverty isn't fair for them, or the people who have to pay for them.
5 kids… she conducted herself very well on this show. I commend her for being brave to come on here and actually have the conversation.
Simp
She really did behave pretty well on the show ... I wonder how well she'll stick to these plans. She seems to be truly contrite and ready to make a change ... who knows.
I agree she did an excellent job. The comments on this episode is so brutal that I would never come on the show if I was ever in debt to which I have never been in debt. The people and his comments which are his followers are brutal to all the guest. It’s unconscionable.
She obviously won’t change. Five kids, dead beat dad(s), in debt.
YET $300 spent for FRESH pink dyed hair. How does the hair dye help her 5 kids? Or help her to improve her life? It’s 💯 “but I waaaaaaaaaant it”
She will NEVER change.
Just hope her children can survive public education and become productive.
@@amylynndurkan3205she is taking the 1 responsible dad to court for more child support when he only had ONE kid with her. She is trying to explain how he adopted another kid and so he should pay child support for that kid too. She is getting 1k a month from him which is basically their entire food and groceries budget for all kids. Meanwhile she fucked a bunch of deadbeat bad boys and is just "trying to contact them". Lol.
Besides, her whole story of him not allowing her to work reeks of manipulation. If he was taking on the responsibilities of earning for the household and let her take care of the kids he was only helping her - that is a privilege. But she spins it as if he held a gun to her head and didnt let her work, yeah right.
And, considering how open she seems to be to having babies with deadbeats, who knows why that marriage ended. Was she faithful. The women ive seen in her situation marry a responsible man who will fund the money, fuck bad boys behind his back and then when the guy leaves they use the fucked up court system to drag him through the mud.
This is an uphill battle. Sell that car, eat beans & rice, takes 2 -3 extra jobs, cut up the credit cards. Learn to say "NOOO."
You are talking to a person that isn’t going to do that
But she MUST have her McDonalds coffee!!!!!!
I would augment beans and rice to fruit and nuts, cuz gd those things take forever to cook. I swear no matter how long I simmer those beans they never get soft. Same with the rice
@@dustinseth1rice is easy but very particular in how to cook. Basic rice typically takes me 17 min to simmer to perfection. I also like caramelizing onions in the pot before I put the rice and chicken broth (instead of water) in. Make the flavor so good!
AND get her legs sewn shut.
Every time Caleb starts listing the vendors in the expenses, I just think of Jim Carrey: “jury duty, jury duty, blackmail, pink slip, eviction notice!”
Yes! Hahaha I hear it too
Caleb should get a coffee maker sponsorship and hand them out as this is a recurring theme
Having to make your 12 and 14 year old daughters take care your 3 other kids is down right negligence. This mom is absolute shameless.
WHY is she admitting to benefits fraud on the internet 😮😮😮. Why do people do this. Jesus CHRIST that is DUMB
Did you expect a 32-yr old morally bankrupt woman with pink hair and 5 kids with 4 different loser baby daddies would make smart choices?
Fr😂😂😂
Caleb has a thing for being called as a witness 😉
No only that, leaving the kids with a disabled mom that stays in her room and does not supervise the children while she is having to work.... Yes you do what have to do to survive, but definitely don't go on a booming Internet show admitting to the crimes. She can lose her children and her food assistance to be on this episode if the wrong person is to see it. And by knowingly admitting this while being recorded and willingly knowledge that it is going to be posted on UA-cam for anyone to watch, it is admissible in court as evidence.
Caleb has been getting more blunt as the show goes on and I love it. The tough love in this episode is above average.
some people desperately need it and need friends like this in their life at times! Myself included!
Been watching for a while & proud to say I paid off my car 8k and a 12k credit card 🥹 now planning to cash flow my grad program. Thank you Caleb!
How long did it take
Congrats!!! ❤❤❤
@@mikerodz543 it took me a year!
Started with $5k BS debt and $20K auto loan and debt free today after 18 months!
Edit: Also got a nice little 4 month emergency fund
CONGRATS! 🤗
Congrats on your hard work! Enjoy the reward: your peace of mind! 🙌
Good job! And welcome to the club!
That's awesome! Congratulations ❤️
Congrats. Nice work
Please bring back the on screen debt calculator!!!
Holy shit her completely admitting “it makes me feel good to spend money”. That’s the most honest I’ve seen a guest.
… equally I’m only at that point in the episode and I’ve watched enough of these to know this could fuck up 😂
"Support the guest in the comments."
Caleb, that ship has sailed brother.
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One thing I wished you had mentioned to her is a food bank for her food spending.
Sharing a 3 bedroom apartment between 7 people and buying a brand new car is crazy!
This episode was infuriating. Everyone makes mistakes, but she made a career out of bad decisions at this point. If you’re not on stable ground with 2 children…the solution isn’t to have 3 more. I’m a single mom, daughter is 25. I made a conscious decision to stick with the ONE. I have some rough times and was grateful that I only had one child to take care of!
My friends and I now say things like "Caleb wouldn't approve that purchase" or "you have sweaters at home" when we're about to be spontaneous. Thanks for the motivation to keep us on track!
My mom went back to nursing school when she was 39!! She worked as a nurse for 20 years and just retired recently. We’re cheering for you, girl!
Did your mom have 5 kids and multiple baby daddies who were not paying child support though??
@@deirdrekiely6187irrelevant, calm tf down
Love hearing stories like that. Good for your mum! And way to be a good example to you! ❤
Ugh, She needs to have her cat spayed. There are low cost spay/neuter clinics. Hate when people are irresponsible with their pets and contribute to pet overpopulation.
She’s irresponsible in all aspects of her life. We, as taxpayers and animal rescue, pick up the pieces.
Here, it's so bad they're doing it for free to $15 to get people to fix their animals. The feral cat population is beyond bad and shelters are over full.
I love this channel Caleb is actually a really good guy doing this for people he sincerely cares and sometimes that means being horrible. These people are blessed to have him look over their lives!
My mom had me at 19 and had 5 kids by 30. Now she’s a nurse practitioner, empty nester before age 50, and out of the 5 of us produced a 3 entrepreneurs, a realtor, and a pre med student studying to be a doctor.
If she continues to educate herself and decides to flip that switch, it’s crazy how fast she can go from this situation to having the world in the palm of her hand. I’m rooting for you!
Ur mom is exceptional. The vast majority of these women will raise losers
That's right, she can get out of it. This country does basically everything possible in terms of assistance for people in her demographic 🤝
@@marleyanalyticsThat's also the issue at the same time, as loads of people do become fully reliant on it and complacent with their situation.
The other 70% of single mothers produced children who are now in prison.
Congrats for being an exception to the rule though.
@christianscacchetti9178
I agree she can turn it all around!