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Congrats on hitting 1M !!!!!!!!!!!!!! thats awesome
We need more takitos shirt haha
I admire your restraint. I would've most likely been moved to violence
Love that Caleb expanded on the post debt side, at 1:08:50. I want to listen to money guys but I just hear Caleb so much better.
Got no debt and want to make that leap to investing in something other than real estate, but first I need knowledge.
@@curryvictim1697 Honestly since starting to watch his videos this past month, I’ve been a lot more financially conscious. I’ve been able to pay off a credit card completely in over 3 years. It’s so liberating. I’m close to paying off the other one I have, and after that most of my money is going towards padding my savings for when I move in with my significant other. I have thought about investing in real estate, but maybe once I’ve graduated from college and make more money.
“We both want a kid…”
No. Don’t bring a child into this mess of a relationship.
Just. Don’t.
Dealing with that now. Good friend of mine is filing for bankruptcy after swapping between 5 cars in 2 years, rolling over negative equity each time, buys his chronically unemployed gf a brand new jeep that gets repo'd and then they announce they're not only pregnant, but also getting married.
Like we need more of either of these specimens littering this fine country.
yikes@@kevinmoehring8259
KILL ME@@kevinmoehring8259
@@kevinmoehring8259oh heavens
Dude, you cannot drag her for smoking weed when you’re paying for OF and gambling…I’m sorry yall need to split up and just get your shit together
paying for an OF when you're in a relationship has got to be some form of cheating... despicable
100% and he was spending waaaaaay more than her $50 a week !! He’s pathetic
They're both train wrecks. Split up and grow up.
pH is free and he's paying for OF 😂
@@RickyRicardoMJF Send him to the gulag!
Caleb has transformed into 45% finance analyst, 35% therapist, 20% detective.
On GOD bro this man is dope 😂
And 100% entertaining - love watching!
LMAOO
😂😂😭😂😭😂😂😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 thanks, that made me laugh
Seeing people like this make me content I’m doing ok I’m life. I maybe 24 with a long hour warehouse job spending all of my free time drawing game assets on my iPad and trying to put it all together on my laptop might never payoff but atless by 30 I will have a stable job that pays decent and has decent insurance.
37 isn't even old. Honey, dump the loser and find somebody who loves you.
Simp
@@ryantaylor330 cmon Ryan 😐
Im sorry but for settling down and starting a family 37 is old for a woman. 27 is old a woman’s prime age for settling down and starting a family is 18-25. After 30 all pregnancies are considered geriatric. They should both leave each other she deserves someone to treat her better and he’d be happier with a wife his age or younger.
she should find a stable 50 yr old. the man should be a little older in the marriage.
@@BradLee208well tbh I think that’s mainly from the misconception that your kids chances of birth defects double by the time you reach forty as a woman. This is kinda misleading as it’s double of like .4 percent so in all reality it’s only making a birth defect slightly more likely to happen. But people hear double and think women just should only get pregnant at those ranges lol it’s just kinda dumb a non issue a lot of women 35 and up will destroy their mind over.
This guy: “I’m more traditional. I like the woman to do all the housework.”
Also this guy: “I don’t want to be the only one supporting us.”
Then guess what, my guy? You aren’t traditional, you’re just lazy.
at 17 minutes they talk about how he's paid 100% of the bills for 2 years. She says that she helped pay for some stuff, but then he paid her back. So that means he paid 100% of everything. So by the numbers, he is traditional, taking care of all of the bills, and working? How is that lazy?
I think his annoyance is that she's not the traditional gf. He says at 19 minutes he comes home from work, and he still has to do all the housework when she's not even working? Sounds like she also doesn't want to have s*x with him regularly, etc.
Sounds to me like she is the lazy one?
@@dannystalford5029I'm not going to fully disagree with that there might have been a labor discrepancy throughout some parts of their relationship but why is it either or that's lazy? Like homey literally admitted to going to Starbucks and getting a muffin or whatever every single day when you could just get it at home. He doesn't even want to take the time when the right kind of corn he likes so he subscribes to curated only fans content. Like dude no one is a shining star here why is it so important to specifically label someone as the lazy one? While I understand that might not be your intent, but when you end your comment saying doesn't that make her the lazy one? It really makes no sense.
@@sRazzle27
Well, first of all, I didn't call anyone lazy until the original commentor did.
My only point is that IF you consider him lazy, when he's paying all the bills and working consistently, then according to the information presented, she is far lazier.
I'm only applying the same logic the first lady commented here, and seeing if the contradiction bothers her?
Personally, i lean more towards your thinking. That this is mostly inconsequential. I'm not saying either of them is more right than the other, so you may have misunderstood my sentiment.
I think they're both as bad as each other. But calling him lazy whilst ignoring all the arguments to the contrary is unfair.
Also this woman: Not doing any kind of household chores while the man is out there paying ALL the bills for 2+ years. But hey, women logic ☕️
@@VirusZero0140 there is no such thing as women logic, just pathetic men who think they know how women work, but have in fact, never been around one that was remotely interested in them.
If you're ever depressed about being single at least feel solace in the fact that you aren't stuck in a relationship like this.
The only thing worse than being alone, is not.
@@nitehawk86so true my friend
It's sad that we all want to be loved, but then we make it so hard to actually give love and be loved....
Crazy.
Yes!😂😂
@@nitehawk86misery loves company..
Him blaming his girlfriend for paying for OF because of an age gap is just straight up narcissistic behavior. Girl you need to dump this child.
She’s the adult and acts like the 25 year old.
!!!!! Girl RUN
When you told him to shut up, I loved that. He needs to be put in his place.
Facts!!!!!!!
Because ain’t no way I would put up with this, but this is what happens when a woman is not financially independent in terms of her finances. Trust and believe if her finances were in check, and in order, there is no way she would be with this guy. This video needs to be shown to every single teenage girl who’s in the ninth grade!
I'm not even two minutes in and have already wished he'd stop talking.
Timestamp??
@@tilt285Same his voice 💀
@@Urmominmydms17740:30
If my bf ever dragged me onto a show just to attempt to embarrass me, and then I found out he’s spending a bunch of money on only fans there would be a screaming match followed by a break up. She is clearly coping by smoking.
He is clearly coping with her drug dependence by subbing to onlyfans. See how silly that (woman) logic is rofl...
@@dincerekin you’re right I’m just a silly girl 🤪, sorry my opinion offended you :( . Can I make you a sandwich or something to make you feel better?
@@dincerekinno way you're defending a porn addict lmao
Ya no.
@@dincerekin”woman logic” 😂😂😂 boy grow up.
"She's old, so that's why I need to go to OF."
Girl, don't settle for that. He knew your age when he got with you, if he has a problem with it leave. You're not that old.
this….this guy is insufferable.
@@pabloescobarschanclas He blames everything on her age. Makes me wonder what his excuse would be if she was 27 instead
@@zainmalik1872” immaturity”
@@zainmalik1872he probably selects a partner based on what he can get away with, a partner who is put together, financially stable or at least confident wouldn’t put up with this constant negging. He is gross and she has her self confidence at the bottom of a lake somewhere.
i’m not saying he isn’t being a dick… but she is pretty old for any man who wants a family. do you really think men who want to start a family would strike up a relationship with a woman in her late 30s by choice?
Honestly, I think the BF has villainized her so much that she actually believes he's a better financial person than she is. I hope she leaves his dumb *ss, she'll find someone who will treat her with respect.
This comment ☝🏻
Yeah it's insane that she was literally calling herself the anchor in the beginning of the video
Dude 100% took the Apple Watch and reported it "stolen" 🙄🙄
😂😂😂
💯
He literally brought her on here to embarrass and humiliate her. Dude is a huge narcissist.
Sexist too
she sucks.
100% he continually called her out and he took 0 accountability. He is awful!! He is latched on her and has ruined her financially.
@@stacypickelmann5862she was ruined before him though, what are you talking about ? they both suck.
@@stacypickelmann5862he's a p.o.s....but she is and was too and he did nothing to change that
You can’t be the “traditional” bf AND not make enough money to comfortably sustain two people AND complain about dishes AND complain about your gf not making enough money… we gotta pick a struggle here
The most enraging episode so far lol
For real, all he knows for sure is that whatever the problem is, it’s her fault.
Sadly, he’s not rare. There’s a lot of men like him. Want women to do the domestic labor and still contribute heavily with finances. They tell you they want to provide, but resent you for providing. Tell you they want you to pay bills and work, yet resent you for not cooking and cleaning after him as much.
She isn't contributing to either.
As a “traditional” guy, I completely agree w this comment. Although if helping w the dishes once or twice a week takes some stress of my gf then I think that’s a good ROI. And my in return my gf makes financially smart decisions which makes it easier for me.
Dude is a total gaslighter. She does wrong but he is worse. Bro, stop pointing a finger at her and fix your shit.
hes fuckin sinister, always an excuse to big himself up and put her down. Shes not perfect by any means but hes awful.
It's better to be 37 and single than deal with this
Why would you go out with someone older and bring it up constantly like you’re doing them a favour? They look about the same age.
Because this is the main factor of why they are together. She doesn’t value herself and afraid to be alone. He needs someone he can dominate over and he wouldn’t get this from most girls his age.
Lmaooo forreal, he acts like he’s so much more attractive than her
For real you can tell the age thing is something he brings up every chance he can get and it's not feeling like it's meant in a positive way 🥺
Yeah theyre both fat haha@SB-dx4wi
@@StaciaBielkayou can't even find women who don't live on tik Tok 24/7 at age 25... He's a smart man
Him blaming OnlyFans on her for being "older" is disgusting. Rather than own up to being unfaithful and poor financial decisions, he tries to humiliate her. Even porn is free. It's not because she's older, he doesnt know how to be a good partner to her or respect her.
Who said she is worth respecting?
@@Yoddevery person is worth respecting (except criminals)
@@Yoddok, don’t be a dick.
@Yodd sounds like something to share with your therapist
Onlyfans is not cheating
I don't usually comment, but damn. The way that he holds everything against her is WILD. She is not a financial "angel" by any means, but this guy is a menace! He is a pot calling the kettle black, but in the case the kettle is off-grey, and the pot is matte black with 6 coats.
This guy thinks he’s a financial alpha male😂 he has no idea what it means to work hard and make sandwiches to work. No self control or discipline and will also blame it on her. SMDH.
Clearly he has no discipline. Look at his fitness level….
I will never understand why people stay in relationships when they clearly don’t like each other
Because both of them don't feel like they can do any better, it will not end until one of them cheats and finds someone else (aka their 'safety net' goes away)
I see it all the time and yeah its a bit sad and nonsensical
either gluttons for punishment or they don't want to admit they made a big mistake. They should try counseling and if that doesn't work; call it a day. Finances are the number one reason couplies split/divorce
Desperation and having someone to blame for their failures
Loneliness and insecurity. She seems so defeated and I’m sure she is afraid to leave n be in an even worse situation and he’s younger and clearly young minded. It’s very tit for tat with him
Takes time and money to do the "dating" thing
He insults her constantly, she lacks confidence, he’s addicted to porn, they broken up multiple times and they can’t communication properly… therapy or call it quits.
He’s an immature macho jerk. She needs to work on her self-esteem and work on developing a career. Break up already!
To me it sound kinda toxic and abusive. I see myself in her in my previous relationship and it was terrible, I had to realize after one year that its toxic. He always put blame on me and I went with it. We broke up and it’s been the best decison of my life❤. I hope they get it all together or just end it for f sake!
Call it quits - therapy isn't going to fix all this
@@Phonexwingtook the words right out of my mouth
Call it quits he wants someone younger. And he needs individual therapy for his porn addiction.
37:03
Cynthia - $20
Augustina - $80
Nichole - $5.01
Celila - $500.00
We need to find out who these people are and why he sent them money.
Looks like Cynthia, Augustina, and Nichole got the cheap end of the internet-handout. Celia is making *bank*
I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING. like why didn’t he ask him about head random cash apps??? they’re not even consistent. this poor woman.
Celila fine, i seen her
Strippers & OF online SW’s.
Right! I have to wonder if Caleb saw that and just didn't want to open that can of worms.
Omg I feel so bad for the lady. The smugness of the guy is appalling. The way he looks at her with disdain is heartbreaking. She needs to leave this mofo ASAP!!
Him: "I have traditional values, i want to pay for everything and she stays home"
Also him: She doesn't contribute money
When they got to salaries, I was expecting him to make more with the attitude. He’s only 25, so 55k is pretty good, slightly above average and I’m sure it will go up in time. But I assumed he was going to be atleast 100k. I’m 24 and at 90k. I couldn’t imagine shitting on a gf that much. Especially if he doesn’t care, but then also needs her to contribute.
Right??? How does Caleb not dive into that?
@@youngcansuela8327 to be fair they were just saying so much stuff and like half changing their story constantly, and when he started to bring up that topic I'm pretty sure the guy deflected it by saying that she spends so much money on weed.
Thank you bc I was thinking exactly this.
Sounds like alpha bro BS
BREAK UP!!!! this is an insanely unhealthy relationship
Agreed. Screaming red flags and toxicity.
She can’t she’s too old
@@Furio666no she isn’t. I met a guy who is 37 while I’m 23 when both of us were servicing our Audis. He was only divorcing and now fully divorced a year later. It’s never too late !
They're codependent..
@@kendramarie6981lol surprise most men like young women 😂
Bro is dragging her in the mud. He deflects all of his bad spending on her. 😭
That was incredibly sweet of you to cover the first couples therapy session.
He clearly hates her. He talks down to her, talking bad about her, doesnt acknowledged anything she does. Wants a traditional lifestyle but is so pissed he has to pay for everything
He wants to be the man of the house but he wants a sugar mama to pay for everything. He's mad that she isn't a sugar mama but he knows he can't afford to live on his own or care for himself. He is emotionally abusing her.
You can tell that he's the one that folds the towels
He thinks his value is higher than it is. If his value was higher he wouldn't be with a 37 yr old
@@dontbotherwithreplying1543 Because the stay at home girlfriend apparently doesn't do the housekeeping?
Yeah if you hate her age so much why are you with her??
Dude is acting like he’s a financial God and a GIFT to their relationship making $55k. Get a grip, dude. 😂
Well, she makes just over half of that. They are at each other’s level financially!
You do know that over all he is making what half of the USA citizens are making. To be honest I think if we compare it to the data we have he actually out earns over 45-55% of the working people.
@paulsoaresjr12345678 thats cap avrig income is 45k a year
@@djtoxicdhgThat is literally the textbook definition of what median means.
Did you fail reading comprehension, statistics, or both?
@@user-ep8qh8sh8cif someone makes nearly double you’re not equal what 😂
Its soooooo annoying how Caleb is trying to ask HER questions and he keeps interrupting like please stfu
Every time she speaks he talks over her. People like this drive me crazy
He’s spending on OF and she’s spending on weed…they both seem really unhappy and want to have a kid??? Please don’t.
PREACH!!!
Some people think a kid will fix an unhappy relationship and it's just not true, and not fair to the kid
Ugh. I hate when people pursue the bandaid baby route. It never works.
Weed has nothing to do with being unhappy. Buying porn does. And if you think that you can become addicted to weed, let me just point this out for you. You cannot physically become dependent on marijuana, the same way you become physically dependent on heroin, meth, alcohol cigarettes, you can die if you quit any of those substances cold turkey. You will not die if you quit weed cold cold turkey.
@@dayne6597so being high is good an watching porn is bad. Mmm I wonder if the girl has toys .
This man could not WAIT to embarrass this woman in front of anyone he possibly can. It’s incredibly sad and she needs to leave him, he is systematically destroying her confidence to make himself feel like more of a man. It’s gross. (Yes, she is not perfect but she didn’t intentionally embarrass her partner when she could have, he did.)
Yeah she seems to doubt her self confidence it's sad indeed.
She needs to care about herself so much more damn.
She needs to get out of this relationship and not look back. I hope she stops smoking and finds a good support system.
You’re so right. Like going in this show is already airing dirty laundry but I would never belittle my significant other like this. This is stuff I say behind close doors and if nothing changes I leave
She seems to be ok with him spending money on OF. Absolutely no.
It was gross. I felt when she mentioned someone in her family doesn't approve her life she almost said being with him.
When he says he is traditional but complains she doesn’t work - these ppl are confused 😊
She’s 37. She’s not old. I’m so confused by that. 37 is middle of the road and a perfectly fine age.
Too old to not care about retirement.
@@coye9rnot for Dave Ramsey 😂😂
So... he wants her to cook and clean everything, but then ALSO WORK FULL TIME AND PAY HALF THE BILLS????
😂😂😂
This guy has a massively inflated ego..
Momentarily I work part-time and my partner works two jobs, he STILL helps out with chores when he can without hesitation or me asking 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ This guy is looking for a free maid
My girlfriend works 6 days a week at a nail salon cause she wants to. I pay 95% of all the bills and anything she wants/needs. I expect her to clean cook and take care of the house.
And he is talking about working a 8-6 day as if it’s a long ass day lmao bro I’m literally working 7am-7pm 5x a week. This guy is so out of touch I hope she leaves him.
@@ChachoTradesthat's fine if you're paying 95%
Not to mention the dude doesn't even make enough to be expecting her to do all the house work and pay some of the bills.
MAAM. DO. NOT. HAVE A CHILD WITH THIS MAN!
That's a boy sir, not a man.
Prolly can’t have kids
I don't think either one should have kids.
I think they're ideal for each other, but should stay kid-free.
SIR, DO NOT HAVE KIDS WITH THIS WOMAN
I’m 25 years old and recently got a new job that pays 35+ an hour and have made good financial decisions. One of the biggest motivators I’ve had is a high school economics teacher that gave me a card that I keep in my wallet that says “Don’t buy stuff you can’t afford”. Thank you so much for that advice Evans!
This dude said “yeah my mom kicked me out when I was TWENTY YEARS OLD.” 😂😂😂 Yaa, Tan Viejo. 😂😂
😅😅😅😅
Your girlfriend findging out you use OF in front of people had gotta be embarrassing enough. Let alone over a million subs...
love to see it
To the life of me, I don’t get why pay for OF when pornhub is free. It’s crazy
Probably not for him he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong because he has a higher sex drive 🙄
porn addict thingz
His reasoning is insane. What a creep
This relationship is toxic. They both resent the hell out of each other. Forget the finances, they need to go their separate ways.
They seem like they are co-dependent on each other. Also doesn't help that the guy seems to be dragging the girl down with him finanically.
I'm in a toxic relationship
100% just an awful relationship.
They are 2 people who should not be together. Their relationship is a shit show and they can’t survive like this. Best they just split and call it a day.
If I even attempted to act like this towards my wife in the first couples years of living together before marriage I would have been kicked to the curb 😅 same goes for her lol I would not have stayed with someone who doesn’t want to try to improve
leave--divorce is a beautiful thing@@bryanwelch6209
@@stephenrich97I disagree, I think this show is one step to see. I hope they see the comments. Maybe the self reflection especially of the man. My husband and i started out probably worse. On top, just toxic. Everyday at each others throats, and they don’t even seem close to how toxic my husband and I were. But after 3 years, sounds weird but we just figured it out. We did use resources though. But been with him 7 years now. Lets put it this way, when we were broke and at each other’s throats, I use to get bad anxiety in our studio apartment where the front door was facing the bed that was the only furniture we had. We figured it out before we left though, he made things happen and I kept my promises. So sometimes you might despise each other after honey moon phase, but I really do recommend attempting to grow out of it. It did for me, and my sister went through same thing. Even my mother in law told me of how they would get into physical alterations, but they have been married 30 plus years. Also, sometimes a man is an absolute D and doesn’t realize it, my husband.. but he grew from my mentions and wisdom as I always worked to empower him spiritually, emotionally, physically, financially and even hormonally.. for me😂
My man's was getting busy on OF and he's tripping cuz she smokes a lil bud 😂😂 my ol lady would've left me 😅
This guy is def 100% a narcissist. He most def “tried to get their finances in order” just so he could get on this show to humiliate her.
As a SAHM, I hate his duality. “I’m pissed she won’t help me pay the bills” and “I’m a traditional man. I want to pay the bills and come home and not worry and the place”. You can’t eat your cake and have it too. Equal bill responsibilities, equal home responsibilities.
Ikr I was just thinking about that LMFAO traditional my ass
Amen
Exactly!! Pick a lane and stick with it sir. This couple has serious issues but that mindset will only make it worse.
You gotta remember you live in the US. Which is more 50 50 guy girl, however many people in other countries do 100 0 male female as traditional. The guy was trying to imply that he wants to be 100 0 but cannot afford it. 50 50 is good too because equal expense breakdown make equal sense.
He literally just doesn't want to clean and cook but still wants the extra income. What an asshole
She was unemployed for only a few months but he just holds that against her so much. Such an unsupportive relationship.
Bottom line- he doesn't want to spend not another dollar on her. He communicated he wants the money he earns to be spent on him. He really should be single...
What you think a woman would do lmao
if we're being honest she's a loser and he has a god complex. neither of them benefit from being together, being as old as she is and only making 30k is ridiculous and him acting as though she would be nothing without him is such a terrible relationship to see unpacking
It wasn't that she was just unemployed . It was that she quit her job and refund to take a job for two months... and sat around smoking weed and not fulfilling her domestic responsibility
@@truebengalsfanbe supportive…?
He says with a straight face that he's the responsible one, but then takes out a 50 dollar loan for a necklace...
This dude is 100% a joke. He’s just a bully trying to put her down. They need to break the hell up
He thinks being a traditional man means he doesn’t have to do any house work but still have her contribute financially. 😅 The math is not mathing.
also paying for OF
Schrodingers traditional, he is and he isn't whenever it's convenient.
@@abbiereynolds8016men like this and women that stay at home and still expect the man to do house work are why 50-50 gets a bad name. If they would both contribute proportionally it would work. Or, make enough money for her to stay at home and take care of it. It's either traditional or modern, this unhealthy Mish mash is the problem
@marinmarinhola Women that stay home full time aren't the ones expecting men to come home and do the chores too.
It's the women that also have a job but are expected to come home and do all the housework as well simply because they're the women that are complaining and expect the husband to chip in and do some of the chores when he gets home as well. Don't twist this into something it's not.
@@abbiereynolds8016well said.
im a sahm and i dont expect hubby to clean, laundry or dishes...he can help me with the not everyday or week things
often i even do all the lawnmowing etc cause its often dark when he gets home
Not only is he using OF behind her back, but he's cashapp-ing money out to Cynthia, Augustina, and Nichole? Girl, I don't blame you for numbing, but instead of just coping, try to take control of what you can. Go work your butt off and get yourself out of this mess. He clearly doesn't see your worth.
He’s vile
They are both as bad as each other... Terrible relationship.
did he ever mention who this women are? I perhaps naively thought it was family... though its suspicious theyre all women..
Neither one of them are a catch, but he's definitely the more toxic one.
I noticed that too!!!
i don’t like how he cuts her off every question
he absolutely resents her and it’s so obvious. i hope they separate for both of their sakes.
Just based off the only fan's clip in the beginning, I can already tell they're going to have one hell of a car ride home.😂
Bro is sleeping on the couch for the foreseeable future
100%
Wth
Bro 25 dating 37.
big "😬😬😬" energy omg ahhh😅
For those who work at McDonalds and pay your bills: you're doing a great job and thank you for your service ❤
Single people living at home? McDonald's pay isn't like it was 40 years ago! 😂😂😂
For real! From the amount of money spend on fast food on this show they are basically frontline workers lol
Mcdonalds workers the real mvps
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McDonald's the real MVPs. Most people don't know that the McDonald's you go to is owned by a small business owner, not corporate owned like chick fil a
These two can't stand each other. And the audacity of this guy to bring his girlfriend on and try and put all the blame on her when he's spending huge amounts on eating out, gambling, and onlyfans is absolutely wild. They're both doing badly but his delusion to say "i'm trying" is out of this world. THINKING about trying isn't the same as actually trying???? Good lord. They need to split up.
OF?! Girl dump him. Dump him yesterday.
He wants a doormat that he can feel superior to.
She lacks confidence, self worth, doesn't want to be alone and older.
This.
Hole in one buddy
Man summed it up in 2 lines
Wow nailed it.
I think they both got together when they were losers. He’s trying to better himself and is resentful of her still being the same way 4 years ago. He needs to grow up more but she’s a leach.
Her financial behavior is incredibly immature but his relationship behavior is RANCID. Girl, run. You need to get your finances together so that you can leave him.
This. I am in a loving, financially solid marriage. And even my husband knows that I maintain a specific amount of money in my own account in case I need to flee this relationship. Every person should have that security because literally anything could happen.
@@jesekreannelmao, not for emergencies, and not to start a family, but to flee the relationship... thats incredible. Are you sure youre not one foot out the door already?
@@zackbosher104 There's a concept that I learned this year from my gf called financial abused. When a man make more then the woman and he own pretty much everything and use that to control and abuse the woman. My gf want to have her own money so no one can "control" her. It's a scary thing that I never thought of. So, yeah, woman want and need a fund to protect themselves.
She's a predator
@@brycen1087 we don't actually know that, given when and how they say they met.
Dude has 162 dollars in his checking account but he's supporting her...he's barley supporting himself.
paying for OF and complaining about money is wild lmao
The way he puts her down all the time is vile, every time she says anything positive about herself he has something nasty to say. He just wants someone he can feel superior over, only does things for her so he can hold it over her, I feel really sorry for her
Oh absolutely. He wouldn't be with a happy 25-year-old full of potential and opportunity. He went after a woman right in that awkward age when you feel your youth melting away. Someone who is probably willing to settle and who kind of lost their "spark" for life.
Easy to make her think she can't do better than him, I'm sure he tells her how lucky she is to be with someone so much younger...
Funny thing is, if it weren't for him constantly mentioning the age gap, no one would've noticed. He also looks like he's in his 30's...
I think its called "negging", constantly putting his partner down to emotionally manipulate her, you can hear it in her constant agreement with all the dumb shit he says.
@@nitehawk86negging is where you do it to attract someone. This is just abuse
Okay but she’s 37. She isn’t old -she’s older. 4 years ago she was 33/34 years old and he was 21/22.
Why didn’t she get with a dude closer to her age? Was she out of options??
I don’t know but I wouldn’t call her a victim in this.
@@seadragon1456She more than likely didn’t see the age problem, but with the way he is thinking at his age, is going to be a problem. I’m hoping she leaves him, this isn’t healthy between the both of them.
This man is insufferable. I'm so glad Caleb gave him a reality check, even if he can't understand how rotten he is to his girlfriend.
The GALL to blame her for needing only fans because she's 'old'. Get lost.
Even this women is delusional, they deserve each other and
I agree with you, but I find it odd. Usually when women cheat they will say, "I cheated because you weren't providing what I needed".
So, your comment shows that when it's done to a woman you show the proper emotion anger, hence "get lost"....
Showing that women bullshit. Women KNOW cheating is wrong, and the excuse of blaming the other person for cheating is awful. Women will just try and screw over/gaslight men.
@@hhjhj393dude, I don't know who hurt you (but obviously it was a woman) but you need some help for this rampant misogynistic outlook.
@@hhjhj393 men make this excuse way more by the way, even the man in the show said this.
you think men don't know it's wrong as well?
cheating is never justified by either sex, if you don't like your partner enough to commit to her man tf up and end the relationship.
@@reallygoodgirlYou are gaslighting me lol. No woman has hurt me.
I made a valid point. When women cheat on men they will say, "you are the reason I cheated".
So instead of making a proper argument you now say, "who hurt you lol, incel, misogynist, racist, evil, evil, subhuman".
You are gaslighting me how can you not see that or accept it?
My comment merely suggests that cheating in all forms is wrong, and that someone blaming the other person for cheating is wrong.
Yet you call me a misogynist, and try and belittle me. Thus proving my point on your nature.
When a man watches porn he is evil. When a woman cheats the man is also a loser and evil. It's a lose lose situation for men as usual.
I must be lucky. My 2013 Nissan Altima just passed 225k miles. Going strong.
So every single thing is HER fault? 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Can we talk about how she impulsively quit her job with NO SAVINGS at 37 years old and ended up missing multiple payments?? She’s almost 40 😭
She has the security of her family bankrolling her, I'm more frustrated that she doesn't clean the house because she was busy getting high or stinking the house with cigars.
Plus, she with no retirement, she needs all she can get. If she really is working 80 hours a week, she needs two new jobs
@@JoseFlores-xh5cj Ehh, thats all based upon his word, and throughout the episode hes demonstrated he cant be trusted. My bet is hes very much underestimating the amount shes done, though i doubt shes doing as much at home as she claimed.
@@tlpineapple1she walked from her job with no plan and spends a shitload a week on weed, I have zero doubts she doesn't help much at all lmao
Smoking weed leads to bad decision making. Too many anecdotes ive seen to just be random. A responsible pothead who makes good decisions is extremely rare.
He clearly wants a woman who does all of the housework and acts like a traditional house wife but still contributes as much financially as he does. Like that’s not how that works man
He resents her so much and she wont stand up for herself. These two just need to move on.
“Financially responsible” cause he’s watched 5 Caleb videos 😂😅
I can’t stand when people look down on fast food workers, but then go eat fast food daily. Respect to anyone out there hustling earning their money. Keep working hard!
Right??
People have no respect for those that work in the service industry
I have been saying this for years. I respect anyone that works!!! I don't care if you are the CEO or the burger flipper....equal respect!!!
@@dpayne1943thank you for that …my attitude over the years have also said the same …I respect anyone working and making money so they can lay their bills and be responsible but I refuse to help anyone panhandling or asking me for money when you are obviously healthy enough to get a job
Literally
Man to give yourself an average financial score while having 6 accounts in collection, payday loans, not paying student loans, borrowing from family and cash app...is WILD.
"To be honest though, I feel like" the more I watch the show I think and fear that they maybe right...😅
To be fair having shit finances seems to be the new normal based on the guests we see every week. I think the Hammer score is where you should be if you want to retire instead of dropping dead on the Walmart floor at 78.
I feel like the people on her who say that view 10 as “quite good” in the idea that they have a house, no debts, and a stable job, and being 0 as homeless, and they don’t realize that a) it’s possible to be way more successful than just not having debts and having a decent stable job, and b) they’re way closer to homeless than they think and the only reason they are unlikely to hit that is they have people they could fall back on for a couple weeks if something actually happened (either family or friends that they could stay at for 3 weeks if things went really bad)
Sorry payday loans should be illegal. Every argument I've heard in favor of them is really weak.
These people are in denial hard.
it's honestly scary to think what's it like behind closed door with that man. he seems violent and aggressive. she needs to run
I’m three minutes in the episode and dude is pissing me off. How can you be so irresponsible, mean and disrespectful towards your spouse and act like you’re the greatest men alive.
The AUDACITY to blame their age gap for him paying for OnlyFans is outrageous and did not get enough attention. Throw out the whole man. She needs to get her shit together, and the first thing she can do towards that goal is to dump his ass.
I couldn’t agree more! I hope she reads all of these comments and it encourages her to get tf out!!
Honestly she probably can’t. You can’t survive on your own as an adult making $30k a year, in like 80% of America.
She might be stuck with him due to finances.
@j.g.mcbell9494 she can move in with her family by the sounds of it
She should do the right thing not for her sake but for his sake
@@noraa2635 agreed she should move back with her mom and be single for a few months so she can think about why she even dated someone that much younger than her who is clearly only using her as a roommate.
Owing $21K on a 2013 Nissan Altima is outrageous.
When you continuously trade in cars with negative equity, that’s where you land.
With 190k miles. Car is probably worth 4k. Maybe.
@@tiffanydale4048 Sounds about right. I paid 6.5k cash for my 2014 model 3 years ago when it had 160k miles.
My sister bought that exact car for half that amount like 7 years ago… that’s insane… that’s practically a new Sentra,
Blasphemy
Is a 700% interest rate even legal? Who would sign that???
It seems like he brought her there just to get yelled at and definitely did not think he would be in the hot seat 😅. I really hope they actually go to therapy, that was a very generous offer from Caleb
I may be wrong, but it seems to me that she is depressed, and she is coping with weed. That’s why she acts like she doesn’t care. She is numb. They really should not be together.
Exactly - depressed, low self esteem, insecure - just sad
Neither of them take care of themselves.
When popeol having a break or so caling time out over a over again do go back-up i thing
If this is what you got from these pairs. Hopefully you're not trying to be a therapist. The man is a child that hasn't lived the whole f-boy scene. And the lady is lazy, this is the reality that the homeboy needs to leave her and continue with the f-boy lifestyle and the woman has to move back with parents and live the same life with zero accountability. It would be a win-win for all.
That's usually how addiction works: nothing else to bring joy, nothing else to make life worth living.
Do NOT have a kid together. This is a disfunctional and unhappy relationship.
You don’t say?!😂😂
Girl! Ur are 37!!! U ARE NOT OLD!! Don’t let that man age u.
Too old to not care about retirement
She's nearing her 40s with no financial sense and chose to date a 21 year old at 33. If she was a man folks would call her a predator
I don't know why this ended up in my feed but holy fuck I cannot look away from this train wreck
This dude has so many red flags, but the thing that got me the most was when he was trying to say her family bailed her out all the time but his dad gave him a chunk of money to pay a payday loan AND cosigned a different loan for him?? Bro come on, the hypocrisy is stunning.
Agreed! Disgusted that her family helps her out from time to time but keeps getting a handout from his dad and then having the audacity to call him an a-hole because he wants the payment in full.
What's a payday loan? I'm not familiar with the term
@@mpc007dictionary definition: a relatively small amount of money lent at a high rate of interest on the agreement that it will be repaid when the borrower receives their next paycheck
He signs her up for an overpriced phone plan, refuses to help her pay it when she's not working, and then complains about her being bad with money---and she doesn't say anything about it? I get the impression she's not allowed to criticize him and is using weed to zone out instead.
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Her face when Caleb was dragging him said it all.
This was definitely everything she's sensed and wanted to say but couldn't because she didn't have the ammunition.
She needs to get her shit together but it won't happen while she's with him.
She needs to RUN.
She won't leave because he's financially supporting her.
Weed is such a drain
HAVE SOME STANDARDS. Girl he’s soooooooo full of himself. Please leave.
He's terrible and there is a reason she stays. Like her aunt told her she's too old to be living like this. She doesn't want to work more or harder and so she'll need a man because she doesn't want to be independent, however no good man is going to deal with a near 40 year old woman who is so financially irresponsible and possibly irresponsible all together. She isn't with him for any reason than she knows he'll be there and she doesn't want to better herself. So she chooses to stay with such a horrible dude (I won't call him a man benefits he's not).
This isn't a couple, it's people that believe they should be a couple with someone and the structure is what makes the partnership
Seeing couples like this makes me realise being single is not that bad at all
😂😂😂
Being single doesn't even have to be the thing tho, just stay away from knuckleheads like these 😂
In 2 minutes I can't stand him.
AMEN. there are a lot of reasons I'm happy to be single, but being the only person in charge of my financial situation is one of the top perks.
Absolutely!!!
Sick and tired of these “I want a traditional woman” men who don’t want to provide like a traditional man. You don’t get to complain about what she brings in. If you’re a traditional man you work to provide everything financially for your woman.
Yup. I’m a trad wife and this is absolutely NOT what my marriage looks like. This was insane to watch 😮. My husband works so hard for our family- I can’t imagine acting like either of these people. They really need to break up and get self help. Cuz dang
@@startingtech3900 idk who you talking bout cause she's working full time.
THIS! My dumbass ex wanted me to cook and clean for him all the time but he sure didn’t bring in the money for the household. He would literally sit on the couch being high af and play his video games while I’m in the kitchen making him food after I came home from a long day of work. On top of that, he kept talking about going back to school to upgrade his education to make more money and after TWO YEARS of being together he still didn’t take initiative to even meet with a academic advisor to take the next step. Not to mention he literally got MAD at me, made it into a full blown argument, because I was vacuuming the house for “too long” while he is sitting on the couch GAMING. I’m sorry but maybe if you helped me do ANYTHING then it wouldn’t take so long. The audacity of these “men” in this world is insane. The way I regret giving this man one second of my time sickens me. He wasn’t a man, he was a boy. Just like this relationship he was younger but only by 4 years so I didn’t think he would be so immature but boy was I wrong. All of this being said.. GIRL, YOU NEED TO LEAVE THIS BOY NOW.
It’s just an excuse to be as lazy as possible. I don’t judge that lifestyle, but if you wanna be a trad man then you have to actually be one. If you want a 50/50 relationship then the men should be helping with housework. Essentially just don’t be a hypocrite
What is provide like a traditional man mean ?
she needs to dip out. he seems emotionally abusive and like he can’t get over her flaws. sure she may smoke a lot, but you have a gambling addiction and spend so much time on OF instead of fixing your relationship. “she doesn’t want to cook so we go out” okay don’t blame her, you could also cook??? tf???
Dude jumped on OF 🤮 because hes tired of her not contributing.
These people need to break tf up. Good lord.
As the husband, father, and breadwinner for a single income family (by choice), I will never understand men who want traditional gender roles and then get mad their wife or girlfriend doesn’t contribute enough financially.
It’s because he’s told that he should be a traditional man and have a traditional relationship/marriage but the reality of actually being fully financially responsible for the other person is something he can’t wrap his mind around.
Exactly! 💯💯💯
Same here. It’s about coming into agreement with your partner. My wife and I have been a single income household since we met 5 years ago. When we were dating we immediately combined finances and had the conversation of how we wanted to run our life and what we expected and wanted from one another. We got married and I went to work, going ground up from grunt to management in my job that I have to this day 5 years later and have been the sole breadwinner (like you, by choice) and she stayed at home with our 3 girls. When I come home, I take time to be a father to our babies, and spend time coming together with and loving on my wife. I help with chores, I help her cook and clean, and she helps me with everything and anything I need whatsoever, and without an ask. Because again: we came into agreement about what we wanted. And we don’t have these issues because we knew what to expect and where we were planning to be with our life and came to an agreement together of “this is what we want”. Good on you.
He can’t afford to… because he doesn’t actually want to. He literally can’t hold himself accountable… How is he going to solely support a household?
They want traditional women,but don’t want the responsibility/burden of being traditional men. It’s infuriating dealing with men like this and their delusions.
I guess we gonna ignore all the female names he's cash apping $5 and $500 while his woman is sitting there clueless.
Caleb probably thinking what we all are that it’s some solicitation of prostitution going on and maybe doesn’t want to say the quiet part out loud maybe for legal reasons or he just wants her to figure it out on her own it’s their business for sure. It’s super shady and pathetic tho. I hope her family watches this episode and helps her out of this relationship with conditions of course, like she has to quit weed and find a better job or get a second job
@@andrewg5416 yeah I think there's certain things he doesn't call out loud because it could be embarrassing/dangerous/illegal. Hopefully he has a private chat to them after the show, but tbh that's out of his wheelhouse so I wouldn't blame him for just sidestepping the issue.
@@y0utuberculosisI agree with this I would do the same if I was in his position
@@y0utuberculosishe’s definitely had “woman of the night” on this show. You gotta read between the lines
Wait where was that I think I missed it
I hope she reads these comments because she needs to be in her own and figure her life out because this man doesn’t give a single iota about this woman - he’s soooo pathetic idk how much longer I can watch - I’m getting stupider listening to them
She has a lot of self control. I would be beyond angry if I found out my man was spending money on only fans and then blamed me because I’m “too old.”
He's broke and overweight so I don't know why he's judging her as if he's a 10 out of 10
he is obese not overweight
Abusers always do that. He treats her badly because he wants her to feel badly about herself.
She could 100% do better than him and he knows it. That's why he talks down to her like that. He knows he's not a prize.@@spf_500
@@spf_500 I'd take her over him. Not very far into the episode tbf but she seems a lot nicer (and let's be real she'a s lot more attractive too)
hes morbidly obese lmaooo not overweight
Normalize breaking up! I’ve never seen such a miserable couple in my life. They don’t have kids or shared assets. It’s the perfect time to call it quits and just get your lives together separately. I know the point of the show is not to give relationship advice, but I think part of their finance problems are a direct result of the toxicity between them.
Breaking up is pretty normal, girly
This guy is a walking red flag
That’s why he’s wearing a red shirt
I would rather stay single forever than to be with a man like this. He will never change because he sees nothing wrong with anything he does.
You and me both!! You can just tell he silences her cause of how little she speaks even when Caleb is directly asking her a question!
Problem is she needs his income. She's 37 making 30k a year. Wouldn't be surprised if she leaves the Workforce in a few years altogether. When women hit 40, they hit a wall.
It’s not just him it’s dem lol
It's hilarious how many women are on here blaming the guy for everything when he's doing infinitely more in the relationship than her
@@TheBasedUchiha I am not saying anything about financial contribution. I'm talking about his attitude, the way he communicates to someone he loves (especially publicly) , the blame and lack of responsibility. It's just ugly and unattractive to me.
“I’m real traditional and like to pay the bills and come home and not have to worry about the house” 30 seconds after bitching about her not working while taking care of the house for 2 months. dude sucks and these folks should call it quits, for both their sakes
She has to work 80 hours (in a different job to her current job because her current job isn't good enough), take care of the house, cook him food and all that, whilst he pays rent and bills and holds it over her. What a manchild.
the way he was talking was that she wasnt taking care of house and instead just smoking all day. unless i missed something.
Agreed, I've been a SAHM for 10 years and if my husband were to not appreciate the things I do I wouldn't feel like doing things either. And barking orders isn't going to go over well, which it seems like he does. On the flip side, it is easy as a SAHM to waste the day away and not get anything done and her drug use could make that worse. I have a daily and weekly list of things each week to get done to keep myself on track, she doesn't seem that disciplined, so maybe this is a situation where both have valid arguments. That being said his way of communicating is much worse than hers and he comes off very condescending and insulting. Her confidence is shot because of the constant degrading of her age, blaming everything on her, etc.
Exactly she has no confidence due to his constant demeaning so she’s probably severely depressed
And then 10 mins later says he doesnt want to be the only one supporting them. I dont think he understands what a traditional relationship is.
you can see her heart sink with every transaction read 😕
He's SO disrespectful about her age. Why is she putting up with such a loser?