1. You always 2nd guess yourself 1:00 2. You overthink everything 1:34 3. You trust other opinions more than your own 2:10 4. You don't validate your own experiences 2:40 5. You're afraid to speak up 3:23 6. You try to control everything 4:00 7. You struggle to recognize your worth 4:28 8. You're overly self critical 4:59 Have a gr8 day every1.
@@kodiak9079 honestly, i didn't expect a response like that ;( . It's because I like to support causes I feel make a positive difference in the world, just like I like to support charities etc (it's not about the emojis)... not at all
I imagine a lot of people with self-trust issues probably learned it from someone else growing up. When you get treated as if everything you do is wrong and you can't make decisions on your own for a long time, you come to believe it's the truth, when the truth is the person telling you those things was likely either using it to manipulate and control you or was projecting their own insecurities onto you.
I agree with you. I relate to everything that's on the video. I have been told I'm not good enough and constantly compared to others for a very long time by my parents. They make me feel like my opinions and decisions don't matter and they say they know what's best for me. I trusted them more than myself. I'm still struggling to make choices and decide on my own even though I'm 22, and if I don't ask for their opinions, they constantly belittle me and make a big scene and make me blame myself for smallest of things. I'm tired of this. I'm working hard on making a lot of changes in me through therapy. I know I still have a long way to go. I'll continue to trust myself whatever the situation is.
I was going to say something, but then I started to overthink about it, and then I felt weird, because that was what the video was about. Me having trouble trusting my judgement. ..... I probably shouldn't be sharing my feelings on the internet anyway TBH.....
@@MedhiniBHegde exactly same situation has been happening to me. I regret my past immensely. all my decisions, so much so that I struggle to take the call all by myself. I always need someone to validate me for my decisions. I have become so dependent on others especially my mom. I feel scared all the time. as if something bad happens she will be there to support me. I know is the consequence of extremely low self confidence but it has been since a really long time and now its becoming difficult for me to get out of this. and I m 24 but still dependent on my family. Although I have taken therapy but none of them were able to understand me. I have been struggling to make decisions regarding my therapists too.
@@rhythm2238 exactly, mate. I could never do anything without them, and that's what they wanted. They don't understand what we are going through, no matter how many times we explain it to them. It's always our fault. It's absolutely tiring😔 But we are still young and have big future infront of us. Let's work hard together to make our dreams come true, mate😄
Yeah, I do have all the signs. Its really hard to not always doubt myself when I do something. But im trying my best everyday, you should also do the same :D
I lack self-love and self-confidence, I just feel that I'm just a terrible human being and I'm just a burden to everyone. And because of that I feel like I NEED to help people around me, but at the same time I feel that I'm going to mess up and everyone will judge me, cause I'm not good enough. It's just, painful when people say good things about me, because I just feel like they're lying or/and making fun of me, and that just makes everything worse.
you are loved because god is love.. we all can relate I feel empathize. if God lives u it doesn't matter who lives us. fisrt beleive God lives u he does. no matter what u do or did. he will forgive u. and forgive your self and the people who hurt u forgive sets u free. peace. be kind to your self and others . Thai video is very right on. praise the Lord. he will set u free. 🙏☝️😇
I thought being an indecisive, insecure, closed perfectionist, pessimist and overthinker were part of my character... i guess there's a real reason why i've been like this for these past few years, the weird nightmares furtherly explain it as well
Same, I don't think it's been that long though. Ever since I moved in with my cousin this year. It's like I'm always one mistake away from being kicked out of the house and put in a foster home... Like how can you have a good day without thinking that if you mess up one time, you may be sent to a foster home and then life's all messed up ;-;
I just wanna get through this last year of high school and finally be independent. I'll earn what I get and only then will I truly be deserving of everything given, since I earned it.
@@arwabarnatThanks!! Well, she kicked us out and made an excuse that it was her job arrangements. She didn't trust us at all to stay at the house on our own BUT she's perfectly ok letting me stay at my grandma's house alone for a week by myself. Soooo hypocritical. Glad I don't have to deal with her right now, I don't talk to her at all unless I need something and I guess our grandma's is the best place for our situation right now until college. We don't know anybody and this place is practically the hood but I do like not having to worry about my cousin doing something. That stress just ruined everything back then. At least now I have a temporary job at a clothing store and I like the people I work with alot more than I did working fast food in my cousin's house. Work is more fun here, probably also has to do with not as much stress. Just thinking about my cousin gets me angry, so I don't really do that unless someone asks. 2 more months till I'm on my own and I'm gonna be so glad when that time comes!
Summary: (Update added timestamp :D) 1. You always second guess yourself 1:00 2. You overthink everything 1:34 3. You trust other peoples opinion more than your own 2:10 4. You dont validate your own experiences 2:40 5. You're afraid to speak up 3:23 6. You try to control everything 4:00 7. You struggle to recognise your worth 4:28 8. You're overlycritical of yourself 4:59 There you go :)
Wow, thanks! Have a good day everyone! Don’t stress yourselves, take a break from UA-cam if it pressures you too much. Your mental health is more important then videos. Also, smileeeee! My favourite quote is be like a pineapple, wear a crown. If u need any help, don’t hesitate to reply to this comment! Bye!
When you don't trust yourself, you might feel uncomfortable spending time looking inward. You might try to keep busy all day by constantly getting involved in activities or thinking about small things outside of yourself. Break the habit of looking away from yourself by patiently looking inward👍
waw it's a bit hard when you state things clearly in front of you, specially when it comes down to describing yourself! i go through all these 8 things everyday, I try to pep talk myself sometimes, but in the end I always feel I'm not good enough! or I'm not worthy! Somehow I feel the opposite, but at times my actions just seem to take me back to these assumptions! I know I'm good, I just find it hard to prove to myself that I am good, before proving to others that I am!
Well I could say that I want this candy but my mom recommends me another option I say I want the candy I chose but then my mom doesn't hear me and says huh?! And then I say I want her candy option instead
I definitely struggle with this, and I really want to fix this. I'm tired of beating myself up and I really want to learn how to love myself before it's too late. I want to start enjoying things more and being a happier person
I personally think that you guys are doing a great job with spreading awareness about these topics but I feel like you should make videos about how to fix it or how to cope with it as well.
The memory thing is a hard one for me to trust, I do have hallucinations that I remember more vividly than non-hallucinatory experiences. So I think my distrust of myself and my decisions come more from not interpreting the world properly to begin with. Though I will say I had most of these, if not all, before being diagnosed with psychosis.
I practically raised myself, my own parents don’t trust themselves ! It’s a struggle, but I really do appreciate this video!!! Very helpful and pushing me to go to therapy 💕
All of those things explained what I do, also for one of my school projects I picked peer pressure for my category and all of the signs for having it also explained everything I do. :/
I adore these videos cause they show me things I used to do and that I have overcome or am in the process of learning to overcome. It shows me that progress is possible and that each day we can decide to be better and to just try!
Loved this video. Well explained. It's so important to have a good relationship to ourself. 😍 I haven't learned this while growing up so I know how hard it can be. Good thing is now I know 100% that you can change this. If you don't trust yourself you hold yourself back from so many cool things. That's sad. I think this stuff should be included in school early on.
Your words made me cry, now I realized how much I used to hate myself for my honest mistakes, I realized I need to stop being so fixated on thoughts of becoming perfect
In the past I struggled with some pretty bad self doubt. But I’ve been managing to get over that and now I’m becoming more confident in myself and my choices
This is the first video that describes me fully, it's strange for me becouse those points were for me "little things" that are just part of me, and it's weird for all of them to relate to lack of trust... But It's also nice to understand from where all of those parts of me might stand from, thank you for this video.
The fact that this was the first video to legitimately make me tear up, because that doesn’t happen that often.... I felt every sign but the one about being overly controlling I dunno where it started or where it came from but it’s the worst, and I dunno how to fix it.
To be honest psych2go finally made a video I relate to completely. 😳 I don't form good relationships, I get easily frustrated when I can't control a simple situations and panic when I forget, lose, or misplace something. I tend to be possessive to items that are sentimental to me. Self doubt is an annoying feeling but I do have my good days. 🙂
I am everything that you said. I've struggled with it so much, even with the littlelest decisions that I make everyday, like what clothes to wear, and what music I should listen to and many more. It sucks knowing how I easily trust other people and but not myself. And I always end up regretting my decisions and then question whether it's right to regret it. It's just a mess. But the good thing is I am willing to work on it. I want a better life, and I'll start by regaining my trust, back to myself.
I guess that's what it's like to be in your mind when you don't trust yourself, there's the side of yourself that is actually you, and then there's the side of yourself that doesn't trust yourself, what a bizarre cycle of doubt, especially since according to nature, you should be the first person you trust, I wonder where self doubt comes from? I know I had it when I was younger but now that I've gotten older I have no idea where it came from, I've even forgotten what I had self doubts about.
I'm going through a situation now but these explain exactly how I feel about taking the action I need to take. Fear is what's holding me back as is regret for choices taken over the years. Well done in this video.
1. You always second guess yourself (sometimes) 2. You overthink everything (sometimes) 3. You trust other peoples opinion more than your own (nope) 4. You dont validate your own experiences (sometimes) 5. You're afraid to speak up (nope) 6. You try to control everything (try to do my best to make things more convenient but don't bother with things I can't control) 7. You struggle to recognise your worth (I don't feel less than or inferior to others but think that my existence is pretty insignificant in this universe and on rare occasions feel it would've been better If I never existed) 8. You're overly critical of yourself (√)
Orange Dragon wth what’s wrong with those people? Just because you like something childish, scary, hilarious, or anything in general doesn’t mean that it isn’t important as your own opinion
isnt it weird how i am in some of these videos and i comment saying that these all i can relate to or i have “subject”? Its true, i have many mental disorders and i only like to share it on the internet rather than saying it to my real friends. Thx and stay safe!
I have trust issues when it comes to friends and I guess that means I also have a lot of self doubt One time I was scolded by my parent for being indecisive, I couldn't pick between 1$ and 5$ And there's a lot more of experiences like that-
Every single one of these things hits way too close to home, I grew up with these sorts of messages drilled into my head and I was constantly shut down for little things. Now multiple therapists have said my worst issue is my self confidence. My lack of self worth has even almost ended my current relationship on multiple occasions (thankfully I've gotten much better at containing it).
ikr.It’s hard for me to trust anyone cause I scared if they will walk away one day.I scared if they will make me hurt,try to backstab me without me knowing.I really hate myself for that. I don’t trust myself either. (sorry for my bad english)
This is me 100% same with being a overthinker as well, I’m fully aware that neither is good for me. I’m in a rut, stuck, hard for me to get out. No matter what I try I struggle so much, it’s pretty upsetting honestly, a lot of times wished I had more self confidence in myself.
Holy shit. I’ve never realized how often i feel like i’m remembering wrong when my gut was right. I know i’m not alone but it feels good to know there’s a good way to deal with it.
These explain me to the fullest😔. And it was mainly because for a long time I was taught that the choices I choose are “dumb” or “stupid”, and I always go with what other people tell me I should go with.
2:04 - I've actually elevated this line of thought to such a level that I looped back to making decisions much quicker because "If any decision I make is destined to be wrong anyway, what's the fcking point of fretting over it?"
Yeah, they all felt relatable to a decent extent. It's weird how you can easily submit to someone else's opinion, yet simultaneously also want to be the one in control.
I am just like that I am just understanding about life life is a game I used to feel broken like no one love me but now I am no one can love me like me I believe in myself thank you for those powerful words
#5 comes on the screen* My instant thought: Step out, Step out of the sun if you keep getting burned~ I’m probably the only one who thought about that song- oh well-
Emma Snoeberger cause I’m tap tap tapping on the glass, waving through a window oh I try to speak but nobody can hear so I wait around for an answer to appear as I’m watch watch watching people pass waving though a window.
Yes, i dont trust myself to speak because I fint want to make a fool of myself. It stemmed from my very younger years. Because of this video I'm excited and challenged to grow self trust, self love self compassion. Thank you Amanda. 🐯❤
I definitely don’t boss people around and try to be overly controlling, but the rest fits me pretty well. I really am tired of myself, but not motivated to work on myself.
Good to see this... I'm pretty sure that's why my relationship works so well and evolves consistently and grows such a beautiful garden but often others have said... "He's a man he should lead... He's a man he should xyz ect " ... This really bothers me because he is a man Human and I'm a woman Human but that has no bearing on our strengths and ability's... I know what I want and how to make it happen and he loves that... He allways gets that cheeeezzzy smile and says it's whatever!!! What can I do to help... And in turn I am able to guide us to our next level where we both succeed... He doesn't like the pressure of "being a real man" what the heck does that even mean ... And I totally couldn't fit in the little box that is a "good woman bare foot at home" we are just humans ... Evolving in our own way!!! If you read this know YOU ARE PERFECT just the way you are!!! Hugmongous hugs and may heaps of happy love and peace wrap you in perfect wings!!! 🦋🦋🦋
@@untraptbutterfly I'm so happy for ya'll. And so happy to hear it. It sounds like the ideal relationship for me. Hopefully someday I'll find her (or even better, she'll find me.)
This videos made me realized I need help and now because of that I'm starting to go to with a psychologist, and you don't know how much better I feel, yet, I struggle with self-confidence the most. But to people out there who might read this, you're precious, valuable and amazing ❤
it takes a while but you can teach yourself trust. I grew up learning trust issues from being bullied but now i've come to realize that i matter more than what people around me think and my individual oppinion of myself is more valid than anyone else's. If you have trust issues my advise is good luck and try some self reflection and meditation those negative voices and mistakes you've made may be a part of you but they're not all of you. remember the past is meant to learn from and not dwell on. Find friends you can trust and believe and help them.
1:02- Second guessing yourself 1:36 -You overthink everything 2:11- You trust other people's opinions more than your own 2:42- You don't validate your own experiences 3:23- Your too afraid to speak up 4:01- You try to control everything 4:29- you struggle to recognise your worth 5:00- You're over critical of yourself 5:37- Outro
I found this video so helpful that I'm not the only one. All of these apply to me. I don't trust myself to do anything right, doubting myself etc. Thank you Pysch2go 😀
Self love is the most important of all kinds of Love. The Bible says to " Love your neighbor as yourself.". So you must have a healthy measure of self love before you can truly love others. Build up your self love.
This video is so true for me it’s scary. I don’t trust myself or my thought process. Plus I always have the feeling that I am not doing enough. I’m so afraid to be a failure.
Me: *ah yes i dont trust myself when it comes to thinking ideas and holding something fragile-* _Edit: btw- im inlove with the art styles🥺_ Edit 2: aight- i finished th video and now i know that i dont trust myself-
I only realised today that I relate to most of these. I’m crying right now but I’m grateful that I know this is a problem that I can improve :) This really hit hard.
This video felt like the video embodiment of a sub tweet lol. I’ve struggled with trusting myself my whole life and I finally started working on it in an effective direction a few months ago after making some decisions that made my confidence in myself even weaker. Moving out of my abusive household has definitely helped. Living on my own has helped give me a greater perspective on my life and time to recognize that many things I was told was my fault in my youth wasn’t or wasn’t worth hating myself as long as I grew from it. It’s still something I’m constantly working on but it gets better every day.
Do you struggle with self doubt?
Psych2Go yeah probably
Apparently
Always
31 dolls ... I hope you are joking
No
Here we are sitting on a couch thinking about how horrible was my tone in a conversation with a girl that I talked 4 years ago.
Here we are in the future-
Here we are sitting in my room watching this and thinking of all the productive things I could be doing but still watching this.
@@mariluisa6837 and its *right*
The past can not be changed, but you can always use the past to change the future ;) Mistakes are important to learning.
@@chieludz Nothing to fear, no one to fight🎶
Honestly psy2go really be knowing how I feel and it's starting to get to me 😭
'Pissy' to go LMAO
True
It’s so uncanny
That's why I'm watching it a lot more than I expected.
Me too hon 😔
1. You always 2nd guess yourself 1:00
2. You overthink everything 1:34
3. You trust other opinions more than your own 2:10
4. You don't validate your own experiences 2:40
5. You're afraid to speak up 3:23
6. You try to control everything 4:00
7. You struggle to recognize your worth 4:28
8. You're overly self critical 4:59
Have a gr8 day every1.
@@kodiak9079 honestly, i didn't expect a response like that ;( . It's because I like to support causes I feel make a positive difference in the world, just like I like to support charities etc (it's not about the emojis)... not at all
i love you
kodiak it’s cause he wants to support the channel. If I got a patreon it wouldn’t be for the stickers and stuff it would be to support the channel.
thank you Planet Psych :)
SIMP JK
I imagine a lot of people with self-trust issues probably learned it from someone else growing up. When you get treated as if everything you do is wrong and you can't make decisions on your own for a long time, you come to believe it's the truth, when the truth is the person telling you those things was likely either using it to manipulate and control you or was projecting their own insecurities onto you.
I agree with you. I relate to everything that's on the video. I have been told I'm not good enough and constantly compared to others for a very long time by my parents. They make me feel like my opinions and decisions don't matter and they say they know what's best for me. I trusted them more than myself. I'm still struggling to make choices and decide on my own even though I'm 22, and if I don't ask for their opinions, they constantly belittle me and make a big scene and make me blame myself for smallest of things. I'm tired of this. I'm working hard on making a lot of changes in me through therapy. I know I still have a long way to go. I'll continue to trust myself whatever the situation is.
I was going to say something, but then I started to overthink about it, and then I felt weird, because that was what the video was about.
Me having trouble trusting my judgement.
.....
I probably shouldn't be sharing my feelings on the internet anyway TBH.....
According to my father, I couldn't do anything right. How many of these things do you think I identify with?
@@MedhiniBHegde exactly same situation has been happening to me. I regret my past immensely. all my decisions, so much so that I struggle to take the call all by myself. I always need someone to validate me for my decisions. I have become so dependent on others especially my mom. I feel scared all the time. as if something bad happens she will be there to support me. I know is the consequence of extremely low self confidence but it has been since a really long time and now its becoming difficult for me to get out of this. and I m 24 but still dependent on my family. Although I have taken therapy but none of them were able to understand me. I have been struggling to make decisions regarding my therapists too.
@@rhythm2238 exactly, mate. I could never do anything without them, and that's what they wanted. They don't understand what we are going through, no matter how many times we explain it to them. It's always our fault. It's absolutely tiring😔
But we are still young and have big future infront of us. Let's work hard together to make our dreams come true, mate😄
When you have all of the signs....
볼타오로네 same bro..
Yeah, I do have all the signs. Its really hard to not always doubt myself when I do something. But im trying my best everyday, you should also do the same :D
Are you Korean?! :)
ARMY!!
FIREEEEEE!!!!
I lack self-love and self-confidence, I just feel that I'm just a terrible human being and I'm just a burden to everyone.
And because of that I feel like I NEED to help people around me, but at the same time I feel that I'm going to mess up and everyone will judge me, cause I'm not good enough.
It's just, painful when people say good things about me, because I just feel like they're lying or/and making fun of me, and that just makes everything worse.
You describe me better than I ever could.
I feel ya. You just described me!
I hope your doing much better by now and take care🌺💖
you are loved because god is love.. we all can relate I feel empathize. if God lives u it doesn't matter who lives us. fisrt beleive God lives u he does. no matter what u do or did. he will forgive u. and forgive your self and the people who hurt u forgive sets u free. peace. be kind to your self and others . Thai video is very right on. praise the Lord. he will set u free. 🙏☝️😇
I experience this everyday, I'm glad others can relate. Even if I get any answer right, I always check it on the web.
That's pretty relatable actually I was doing my homework and even tho I wrote the correct answer I still wanted to check my note book
Do you relate to perfectionism too?
@@Psych2go My parents have it, it probably passed on to me and my siblings.
@@Psych2go A lot actually, and it's starting to get very bothersome
Maria Waheed I struggle with protectionism as well unfortunately
Me clicking on this video knowing damn well I don’t trust myself but just wanna confirm anyway
Same here. Just dubble checking ; -)
Same here😂😂😂
So, how many signs described you?
Psych2Go 7 ☺️✨
@@Psych2go All of them except trying to control everything
I thought being an indecisive, insecure, closed perfectionist, pessimist and overthinker were part of my character... i guess there's a real reason why i've been like this for these past few years, the weird nightmares furtherly explain it as well
Same, i have these things for like 8 years now and this explains a lot why i'm like that!
Same, I don't think it's been that long though. Ever since I moved in with my cousin this year. It's like I'm always one mistake away from being kicked out of the house and put in a foster home... Like how can you have a good day without thinking that if you mess up one time, you may be sent to a foster home and then life's all messed up ;-;
I just wanna get through this last year of high school and finally be independent. I'll earn what I get and only then will I truly be deserving of everything given, since I earned it.
@@alexosow that must be taught but good luck with that!! I hope you're okay now and you're away from that stress and pressure ♡
@@arwabarnatThanks!! Well, she kicked us out and made an excuse that it was her job arrangements. She didn't trust us at all to stay at the house on our own BUT she's perfectly ok letting me stay at my grandma's house alone for a week by myself. Soooo hypocritical. Glad I don't have to deal with her right now, I don't talk to her at all unless I need something and I guess our grandma's is the best place for our situation right now until college. We don't know anybody and this place is practically the hood but I do like not having to worry about my cousin doing something. That stress just ruined everything back then. At least now I have a temporary job at a clothing store and I like the people I work with alot more than I did working fast food in my cousin's house. Work is more fun here, probably also has to do with not as much stress. Just thinking about my cousin gets me angry, so I don't really do that unless someone asks. 2 more months till I'm on my own and I'm gonna be so glad when that time comes!
Summary:
(Update added timestamp :D)
1. You always second guess yourself 1:00
2. You overthink everything 1:34
3. You trust other peoples opinion more than your own 2:10
4. You dont validate your own experiences 2:40
5. You're afraid to speak up 3:23
6. You try to control everything 4:00
7. You struggle to recognise your worth 4:28
8. You're overlycritical of yourself 4:59
There you go :)
Wait, what's the number eight?
Nvm-
@@DanDan-zv4ql I already added everything :)
Always has thanks man
Wow, thanks! Have a good day everyone! Don’t stress yourselves, take a break from UA-cam if it pressures you too much. Your mental health is more important then videos. Also, smileeeee! My favourite quote is be like a pineapple, wear a crown. If u need any help, don’t hesitate to reply to this comment! Bye!
Dang it I do all of those..
Can we get a video on tips to build self-trust? It would be super super helpful! Thank you for all the work you guys put into these by the way!
When you don't trust yourself, you might feel uncomfortable spending time looking inward. You might try to keep busy all day by constantly getting involved in activities or thinking about small things outside of yourself. Break the habit of looking away from yourself by patiently looking inward👍
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Oh yeah, I definitely don’t trust myself. Or most people for that matter.
Trust issues?
@Psych2Go yeah
Same well kinda
Same
Same
waw it's a bit hard when you state things clearly in front of you, specially when it comes down to describing yourself! i go through all these 8 things everyday, I try to pep talk myself sometimes, but in the end I always feel I'm not good enough! or I'm not worthy! Somehow I feel the opposite, but at times my actions just seem to take me back to these assumptions! I know I'm good, I just find it hard to prove to myself that I am good, before proving to others that I am!
Same honestly!
Same with me
Well I could say that I want this candy but my mom recommends me another option I say I want the candy I chose but then my mom doesn't hear me and says huh?! And then I say I want her candy option instead
I found your channel while i trying to find what me, an introvert is. And after that i become proud of being just me. 😊
Glad you discovered yourself!
I definitely struggle with this, and I really want to fix this. I'm tired of beating myself up and I really want to learn how to love myself before it's too late. I want to start enjoying things more and being a happier person
Yep all this is me except the controlling part
same
Same. Why would I trust myself when I only make bad decisions?
Same!!
Same..
same.
everyone relates to the problem but why isn’t anybody talking on how to solve it?
I personally think that you guys are doing a great job with spreading awareness about these topics but I feel like you should make videos about how to fix it or how to cope with it as well.
The memory thing is a hard one for me to trust, I do have hallucinations that I remember more vividly than non-hallucinatory experiences. So I think my distrust of myself and my decisions come more from not interpreting the world properly to begin with. Though I will say I had most of these, if not all, before being diagnosed with psychosis.
Do meds help?
Antius Inferno Same.
Same, I've been seeing things and hearing stuff to
@@cassandrajoiner9933 No they don't they gave me some odd side effects as well that were not helpful to my situation.
@@antiusinferno9396 I hope you are coping then. Does it get any easier?
It's scary how accurate this is...
I practically raised myself, my own parents don’t trust themselves ! It’s a struggle, but I really do appreciate this video!!! Very helpful and pushing me to go to therapy 💕
bro I have AnXiEtY these signs just come naturally-
WillowWolfProductions Same!! Maybe that’s why we don’t trust ourselves.
Anxiety hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah ✌
Anxiety.. is part of self doubt..
Right I was thinking the same thing
Anime Freak what’s the joke ?
I don’t know what I’d do without this channel. Thank you to everyone who puts so much thought ad care into it
You guys are very informative, I obtain new knowledge every day.
So glad to hear! Any favourite writers from our team?
@@Psych2go I don't necessarily have any favourites. I think you're all great at informing, your team as a whole is excellent.
Hearing you're voice makes me feel calm, and fades all my Problems💕💗 thanks so much! ✨💜 i really love you! 💜
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All of those things explained what I do, also for one of my school projects I picked peer pressure for my category and all of the signs for having it also explained everything I do. :/
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Man this channel know more about me than my family.
I know Right !
Same
EXACTLY
When a channel helps you more than your fRiEnDs and family...
Thanks though❤this channel really helps
keep your head up my loves, you’re so strong and amazing and if i could i’d be besties with you all 💗
I adore these videos cause they show me things I used to do and that I have overcome or am in the process of learning to overcome. It shows me that progress is possible and that each day we can decide to be better and to just try!
Loved this video. Well explained. It's so important to have a good relationship to ourself. 😍 I haven't learned this while growing up so I know how hard it can be. Good thing is now I know 100% that you can change this. If you don't trust yourself you hold yourself back from so many cool things. That's sad. I think this stuff should be included in school early on.
Your words made me cry, now I realized how much I used to hate myself for my honest mistakes, I realized I need to stop being so fixated on thoughts of becoming perfect
This video helped me realize what I needed to find in myself and what was missing in me.
Thanks for this video.
In the past I struggled with some pretty bad self doubt. But I’ve been managing to get over that and now I’m becoming more confident in myself and my choices
I think the biggest sign is the fact that I tapped on this video as fast as possible
This is the first video that describes me fully, it's strange for me becouse those points were for me "little things" that are just part of me, and it's weird for all of them to relate to lack of trust...
But It's also nice to understand from where all of those parts of me might stand from, thank you for this video.
I’m teaching myself self love. Some days I love myself some days I don’t.
The fact that this was the first video to legitimately make me tear up, because that doesn’t happen that often....
I felt every sign but the one about being overly controlling
I dunno where it started or where it came from but it’s the worst, and I dunno how to fix it.
To be honest psych2go finally made a video I relate to completely. 😳
I don't form good relationships, I get easily frustrated when I can't control a simple situations and panic when I forget, lose, or misplace something. I tend to be possessive to items that are sentimental to me. Self doubt is an annoying feeling but I do have my good days. 🙂
I am everything that you said. I've struggled with it so much, even with the littlelest decisions that I make everyday, like what clothes to wear, and what music I should listen to and many more. It sucks knowing how I easily trust other people and but not myself. And I always end up regretting my decisions and then question whether it's right to regret it. It's just a mess. But the good thing is I am willing to work on it. I want a better life, and I'll start by regaining my trust, back to myself.
Me: *sees title* You already know that you do, why are you watching?
Also me: But what if I don’t, though
Me: YoU’rE dOiNg It RiGhT nOw!!!
Same
Mood
I guess that's what it's like to be in your mind when you don't trust yourself, there's the side of yourself that is actually you, and then there's the side of yourself that doesn't trust yourself, what a bizarre cycle of doubt, especially since according to nature, you should be the first person you trust, I wonder where self doubt comes from? I know I had it when I was younger but now that I've gotten older I have no idea where it came from, I've even forgotten what I had self doubts about.
I'm going through a situation now but these explain exactly how I feel about taking the action I need to take. Fear is what's holding me back as is regret for choices taken over the years. Well done in this video.
1. You always second guess yourself (sometimes)
2. You overthink everything (sometimes)
3. You trust other peoples opinion more than your own (nope)
4. You dont validate your own experiences (sometimes)
5. You're afraid to speak up (nope)
6. You try to control everything (try to do my best to make things more convenient but don't bother with things I can't control)
7. You struggle to recognise your worth (I don't feel less than or inferior to others but think that my existence is pretty insignificant in this universe and on rare occasions feel it would've been better If I never existed)
8. You're overly critical of yourself (√)
This video made me realise I’ve been dealing with trust issues with myself for 9 years.
I have depression, social anxiety, and I don’t trust myself
And you know who’s fault it is?
The school systems, and myself
The bullying started my anxiety, allways checking myself for mistakes and getting laughed at anyway, because I said that I like STAR WARS a month ago.
Orange Dragon wth what’s wrong with those people? Just because you like something childish, scary, hilarious, or anything in general doesn’t mean that it isn’t important as your own opinion
isnt it weird how i am in some of these videos and i comment saying that these all i can relate to or i have “subject”?
Its true, i have many mental disorders and i only like to share it on the internet rather than saying it to my real friends. Thx and stay safe!
I have trust issues when it comes to friends and I guess that means I also have a lot of self doubt
One time I was scolded by my parent for being indecisive, I couldn't pick between 1$ and 5$
And there's a lot more of experiences like that-
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Every single one of these things hits way too close to home, I grew up with these sorts of messages drilled into my head and I was constantly shut down for little things. Now multiple therapists have said my worst issue is my self confidence. My lack of self worth has even almost ended my current relationship on multiple occasions (thankfully I've gotten much better at containing it).
Video: "Do you relate to this video?"
Me: Every. Single. One.
LItterally EVERY SINGLE ONE they discribed my life exactly omg
@@madd1egurl216 I know right!
Yes
Well, you obviously don't trust yourself. ...
@@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 Nope
I can relate to all. This is what I keep on doing most of my life. This is something I've been struggling for a while now
Oh that's sad. if I don’t trust myself how can I trust anybody else?
ikr.It’s hard for me to trust anyone cause I scared if they will walk away one day.I scared if they will make me hurt,try to backstab me without me knowing.I really hate myself for that.
I don’t trust myself either.
(sorry for my bad english)
@@nani-rq7ro It's fine. I have these feelings too.
Yeah it is I hope everyone in the comment section can eventually trust themselves and others too!
I can relate to this😟😟
This is me 100% same with being a overthinker as well, I’m fully aware that neither is good for me. I’m in a rut, stuck, hard for me to get out. No matter what I try I struggle so much, it’s pretty upsetting honestly, a lot of times wished I had more self confidence in myself.
I don’t know y’all. Every time I’ve trusted myself something goes wrong so it seems justified.
SAME THO
Same
Holy shit. I’ve never realized how often i feel like i’m remembering wrong when my gut was right. I know i’m not alone but it feels good to know there’s a good way to deal with it.
"I dont think I relate this"
"Nevermind i relate to this"
I related to all of them
Well this is bad 🗿
These explain me to the fullest😔. And it was mainly because for a long time I was taught that the choices I choose are “dumb” or “stupid”, and I always go with what other people tell me I should go with.
Fear and self-doubt have always been the greatest enemies of human potential.
-Brian Tracy
2:04 - I've actually elevated this line of thought to such a level that I looped back to making decisions much quicker because "If any decision I make is destined to be wrong anyway, what's the fcking point of fretting over it?"
When you have serious trust issues & learn you’re part of the problem..
Yeah, they all felt relatable to a decent extent.
It's weird how you can easily submit to someone else's opinion, yet simultaneously also want to be the one in control.
Oh hey, look. Psych2Go is summarizing my WHOLE LIFE. Too accurate, mate. Too acurate.
Agreed
I certainly can relate to this since I struggle constantly with self trust, and I am still trying to work on myself.
When youtube knows you better than anyone... This was in my recommendations 😭
I am just like that I am just understanding about life life is a game I used to feel broken like no one love me but now I am no one can love me like me I believe in myself thank you for those powerful words
#5 comes on the screen*
My instant thought: Step out, Step out of the sun if you keep getting burned~
I’m probably the only one who thought about that song- oh well-
Don't worry, trust me,
*YOooOooOuuUuuuUu arEee NoOt aLoOnEe*
On the outside, always looking in. Will I ever be more than I've always been?
Emma Snoeberger cause I’m tap tap tapping on the glass, waving through a window oh I try to speak but nobody can hear so I wait around for an answer to appear as I’m watch watch watching people pass waving though a window.
@@lovesickrat4567 oh
Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me?
I feel like I know this song...but what is it ?!?😩😩😩🥺
Yes, i dont trust myself to speak because I fint want to make a fool of myself. It stemmed from my very younger years. Because of this video I'm excited and challenged to grow self trust, self love self compassion. Thank you Amanda. 🐯❤
holy crap I really don’t trust myself
Me too buddy.
😭😭
I definitely don’t boss people around and try to be overly controlling, but the rest fits me pretty well. I really am tired of myself, but not motivated to work on myself.
Topic: guys who love "take charge" women!
Ooh, sign me up
Good to see this... I'm pretty sure that's why my relationship works so well and evolves consistently and grows such a beautiful garden but often others have said... "He's a man he should lead... He's a man he should xyz ect " ... This really bothers me because he is a man Human and I'm a woman Human but that has no bearing on our strengths and ability's... I know what I want and how to make it happen and he loves that... He allways gets that cheeeezzzy smile and says it's whatever!!! What can I do to help... And in turn I am able to guide us to our next level where we both succeed... He doesn't like the pressure of "being a real man" what the heck does that even mean ... And I totally couldn't fit in the little box that is a "good woman bare foot at home" we are just humans ... Evolving in our own way!!! If you read this know YOU ARE PERFECT just the way you are!!! Hugmongous hugs and may heaps of happy love and peace wrap you in perfect wings!!! 🦋🦋🦋
@@untraptbutterfly I'm so happy for ya'll. And so happy to hear it. It sounds like the ideal relationship for me. Hopefully someday I'll find her (or even better, she'll find me.)
This videos made me realized I need help and now because of that I'm starting to go to with a psychologist, and you don't know how much better I feel, yet, I struggle with self-confidence the most. But to people out there who might read this, you're precious, valuable and amazing ❤
Me: * Clicks Video knowing that I already don't trust myself * Also me: "All of these correspond with me"
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it takes a while but you can teach yourself trust. I grew up learning trust issues from being bullied but now i've come to realize that i matter more than what people around me think and my individual oppinion of myself is more valid than anyone else's. If you have trust issues my advise is good luck and try some self reflection and meditation those negative voices and mistakes you've made may be a part of you but they're not all of you. remember the past is meant to learn from and not dwell on. Find friends you can trust and believe and help them.
this was in my recomended....TvT
also, 2 minutes ago-
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Every one of these hit the nail right on the head. How do I get myself back to a place of self-trust?
1:02- Second guessing yourself
1:36 -You overthink everything
2:11- You trust other people's opinions more than your own
2:42- You don't validate your own experiences
3:23- Your too afraid to speak up
4:01- You try to control everything
4:29- you struggle to recognise your worth
5:00- You're over critical of yourself
5:37- Outro
I found this video so helpful that I'm not the only one. All of these apply to me. I don't trust myself to do anything right, doubting myself etc. Thank you Pysch2go 😀
Lol self-love? Never heard of her
Hahahahha thisssss
Who is she and why is she here get her out
I have, she’s very kind. Self doubt is a b*tch, tho...
@@jacktheIV44 I agree, but self-doubt . . . she'll be back. Soon.
Self love is the most important of all kinds of Love. The Bible says to " Love your neighbor as yourself.". So you must have a healthy measure of self love before you can truly love others. Build up your self love.
How can a human have such a calm voice
Is it me or does the VO by Amanda sound sad along with the music. Her last "I sure do" made it more evident.
Could be.. the winter is coming.
Psych2Go 😂😂😩
@@Psych2go Damn! That sounds so White Walker cold that not even Dracarys can stop it.
How does this channel know me better than I know myself!? My roommate & I had a discussion about this just. last. night!
Has Psych2Go been spying on me? Because this sounds a lot like me
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This video is so true for me it’s scary. I don’t trust myself or my thought process. Plus I always have the feeling that I am not doing enough. I’m so afraid to be a failure.
Me who forgot everything that happened yesterday: 👀
Why did I cry while watching this video ?
oh now there’s no comments from a month ago cool
kodiak idk there’s usually comments from a month ago like they’re time travelers
I trust in myself... I love your videos its very helpful and interesting to watch and learn.
Hey, way to call me out. 🙃
I thought I was really indecisive and afraid to talk. This kinda solves it
Who else randomly found Psych2Go one day and has been watching ever since?
Yeeees
Me
Heck yea
Me
This is one of those channels you don’t find, it finds you
OMG I’ve answered YES to every one of these!! How do I change this????
*101 views* *126 likes*
me: “now I don’t trust youtube...”
6 years ago, this is me. But through out the years, i learned to trust and love myself. Willingness is the key.
Me: *ah yes i dont trust myself when it comes to thinking ideas and holding something fragile-*
_Edit: btw- im inlove with the art styles🥺_
Edit 2: aight- i finished th video and now i know that i dont trust myself-
I only realised today that I relate to most of these. I’m crying right now but I’m grateful that I know this is a problem that I can improve :) This really hit hard.
Yeah, trust yourself then trust nobody especially when red is sus.
(I swear I'm not the impostor)
Really need this video, thanks 💕
It never fails... Psych2go always posts the right videos EXACTLY when I'm dealing with what they're about...and it slightly terrifies me
This video felt like the video embodiment of a sub tweet lol. I’ve struggled with trusting myself my whole life and I finally started working on it in an effective direction a few months ago after making some decisions that made my confidence in myself even weaker. Moving out of my abusive household has definitely helped. Living on my own has helped give me a greater perspective on my life and time to recognize that many things I was told was my fault in my youth wasn’t or wasn’t worth hating myself as long as I grew from it. It’s still something I’m constantly working on but it gets better every day.