8 Signs You Don't Trust Yourself

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2020
  • Learning how to trust yourself is the key to creating a healthy relationship with yourself, as it fosters a deeper sense of self-love, self-compassion, and self-confidence within us. But for a lot of us, self-trust doesn’t always come so easily. Many people often struggle with issues of self-doubt that can lead them to sabotage their own chances of happiness and success. So, how do you know when you don’t trust yourself? In this video, we've listed out a few signs that can help you figure it out before it’s too late!
    If you relate to this video and want to learn how to trust your gut again, we have a video on the gut instincts you shouldn't ignore: • 7 Gut Instincts You Sh...
    Writer: Chloe Avenasa
    Script Editor: Morgan Franz
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Music & Sound Design: Urban Goose Studios
    Animator: Ceechan
    UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
    Mirels, H. L., Greblo, P., & Dean, J. B. (2002). Judgmental self-doubt: Beliefs about one’s judgmental prowess. Personality and individual differences, 33(5), 741-758.
    Govier, T. (1993). Self‐trust, autonomy, and self‐esteem. Hypatia, 8(1), 99-120.
    Lehrer, K. (1999). Self-trust: A study of reason, knowledge and autonomy.
    Olson, K. C., Poehlmann, K. M., Yost, J. H., Lynch, M. E., & Arkin, R. M. (2000). Subjective overachievement: Individual differences in self‐doubt and concern with performance. Journal of Personality, 68(3), 491-524.
    Hermann, A. D., Leonardelli, G. J., & Arkin, R. M. (2002). Self-doubt and self-esteem: A threat from within. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 28(3), 395-408.
    If you have any stories to share with us or video requests, please email us at editorial@psych2go.net

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1644

    Do you struggle with self doubt?

  • @ray0co486
    @ray0co486 3 роки тому +1623

    Here we are sitting on a couch thinking about how horrible was my tone in a conversation with a girl that I talked 4 years ago.

    • @mariluisa6837
      @mariluisa6837 3 роки тому +154

      Here we are in the future-

    • @Kai-iy3kk
      @Kai-iy3kk 3 роки тому +149

      Here we are sitting in my room watching this and thinking of all the productive things I could be doing but still watching this.

    • @chieludz
      @chieludz 3 роки тому +25

      @@mariluisa6837 and its *right*

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +246

      The past can not be changed, but you can always use the past to change the future ;) Mistakes are important to learning.

    • @headow322
      @headow322 3 роки тому +17

      @@chieludz Nothing to fear, no one to fight🎶

  • @nolifegirlie
    @nolifegirlie 3 роки тому +787

    When you have all of the signs....

    • @user-tg6lh5mq8x
      @user-tg6lh5mq8x 3 роки тому +14

      볼타오로네 same bro..

    • @faivana_
      @faivana_ 3 роки тому +36

      Yeah, I do have all the signs. Its really hard to not always doubt myself when I do something. But im trying my best everyday, you should also do the same :D

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +42

      Are you Korean?! :)

    • @lianicole3704
      @lianicole3704 3 роки тому +12

      ARMY!!

    • @pupururiin
      @pupururiin 3 роки тому +8

      FIREEEEEE!!!!

  • @PlanetPsych
    @PlanetPsych 3 роки тому +1822

    1. You always 2nd guess yourself 1:00
    2. You overthink everything 1:34
    3. You trust other opinions more than your own 2:10
    4. You don't validate your own experiences 2:40
    5. You're afraid to speak up 3:23
    6. You try to control everything 4:00
    7. You struggle to recognize your worth 4:28
    8. You're overly self critical 4:59
    Have a gr8 day every1.

    • @PlanetPsych
      @PlanetPsych 3 роки тому +182

      @@kodiak9079 honestly, i didn't expect a response like that ;( . It's because I like to support causes I feel make a positive difference in the world, just like I like to support charities etc (it's not about the emojis)... not at all

    • @g.3925
      @g.3925 3 роки тому +13

      i love you

    • @MidnightPrairie
      @MidnightPrairie 3 роки тому +35

      kodiak it’s cause he wants to support the channel. If I got a patreon it wouldn’t be for the stickers and stuff it would be to support the channel.

    • @osirisianplays8089
      @osirisianplays8089 3 роки тому +12

      thank you Planet Psych :)

    • @DarkS707YT
      @DarkS707YT 3 роки тому +1

      SIMP JK

  • @Ashley-gw9jh
    @Ashley-gw9jh 3 роки тому +1874

    Honestly psy2go really be knowing how I feel and it's starting to get to me 😭

    • @rapidlyfast2792
      @rapidlyfast2792 3 роки тому +11

      'Pissy' to go LMAO

    • @basdf3544
      @basdf3544 3 роки тому +9

      True

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 роки тому +2

      It’s so uncanny

    • @alexm6653
      @alexm6653 3 роки тому +28

      That's why I'm watching it a lot more than I expected.

    • @DanaPrice
      @DanaPrice 3 роки тому +1

      Me too hon 😔

  • @kroolan974
    @kroolan974 3 роки тому +456

    Me clicking on this video knowing damn well I don’t trust myself but just wanna confirm anyway

    • @wibberinksan1770
      @wibberinksan1770 3 роки тому +12

      Same here. Just dubble checking ; -)

    • @asmaaebrahiim4572
      @asmaaebrahiim4572 3 роки тому +6

      Same here😂😂😂

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +23

      So, how many signs described you?

    • @kroolan974
      @kroolan974 3 роки тому +7

      Psych2Go 7 ☺️✨

    • @pandaattackz967
      @pandaattackz967 3 роки тому +15

      @@Psych2go All of them except trying to control everything

  • @squidleystudios277
    @squidleystudios277 3 роки тому +794

    I imagine a lot of people with self-trust issues probably learned it from someone else growing up. When you get treated as if everything you do is wrong and you can't make decisions on your own for a long time, you come to believe it's the truth, when the truth is the person telling you those things was likely either using it to manipulate and control you or was projecting their own insecurities onto you.

    • @MedhiniBHegde
      @MedhiniBHegde 3 роки тому +65

      I agree with you. I relate to everything that's on the video. I have been told I'm not good enough and constantly compared to others for a very long time by my parents. They make me feel like my opinions and decisions don't matter and they say they know what's best for me. I trusted them more than myself. I'm still struggling to make choices and decide on my own even though I'm 22, and if I don't ask for their opinions, they constantly belittle me and make a big scene and make me blame myself for smallest of things. I'm tired of this. I'm working hard on making a lot of changes in me through therapy. I know I still have a long way to go. I'll continue to trust myself whatever the situation is.

    • @green_demon1491
      @green_demon1491 3 роки тому +21

      I was going to say something, but then I started to overthink about it, and then I felt weird, because that was what the video was about.
      Me having trouble trusting my judgement.
      .....
      I probably shouldn't be sharing my feelings on the internet anyway TBH.....

    • @bigscarysteve
      @bigscarysteve 3 роки тому +11

      According to my father, I couldn't do anything right. How many of these things do you think I identify with?

    • @rhythm2238
      @rhythm2238 3 роки тому +16

      @@MedhiniBHegde exactly same situation has been happening to me. I regret my past immensely. all my decisions, so much so that I struggle to take the call all by myself. I always need someone to validate me for my decisions. I have become so dependent on others especially my mom. I feel scared all the time. as if something bad happens she will be there to support me. I know is the consequence of extremely low self confidence but it has been since a really long time and now its becoming difficult for me to get out of this. and I m 24 but still dependent on my family. Although I have taken therapy but none of them were able to understand me. I have been struggling to make decisions regarding my therapists too.

    • @MedhiniBHegde
      @MedhiniBHegde 3 роки тому +6

      @@rhythm2238 exactly, mate. I could never do anything without them, and that's what they wanted. They don't understand what we are going through, no matter how many times we explain it to them. It's always our fault. It's absolutely tiring😔
      But we are still young and have big future infront of us. Let's work hard together to make our dreams come true, mate😄

  • @-k1ts0-97
    @-k1ts0-97 3 роки тому +79

    I lack self-love and self-confidence, I just feel that I'm just a terrible human being and I'm just a burden to everyone.
    And because of that I feel like I NEED to help people around me, but at the same time I feel that I'm going to mess up and everyone will judge me, cause I'm not good enough.
    It's just, painful when people say good things about me, because I just feel like they're lying or/and making fun of me, and that just makes everything worse.

    • @anisomniac5931
      @anisomniac5931 3 роки тому +8

      You describe me better than I ever could.

    • @annmaryjohn3258
      @annmaryjohn3258 3 роки тому +7

      I feel ya. You just described me!

    • @kimberlybogert7031
      @kimberlybogert7031 2 роки тому +6

      I hope your doing much better by now and take care🌺💖

    • @alaskafisherman
      @alaskafisherman Рік тому +1

      you are loved because god is love.. we all can relate I feel empathize. if God lives u it doesn't matter who lives us. fisrt beleive God lives u he does. no matter what u do or did. he will forgive u. and forgive your self and the people who hurt u forgive sets u free. peace. be kind to your self and others . Thai video is very right on. praise the Lord. he will set u free. 🙏☝️😇

  • @treznopresto4878
    @treznopresto4878 3 роки тому +562

    Summary:
    (Update added timestamp :D)
    1. You always second guess yourself 1:00
    2. You overthink everything 1:34
    3. You trust other peoples opinion more than your own 2:10
    4. You dont validate your own experiences 2:40
    5. You're afraid to speak up 3:23
    6. You try to control everything 4:00
    7. You struggle to recognise your worth 4:28
    8. You're overlycritical of yourself 4:59
    There you go :)

    • @DanDan-zv4ql
      @DanDan-zv4ql 3 роки тому +5

      Wait, what's the number eight?
      Nvm-

    • @treznopresto4878
      @treznopresto4878 3 роки тому +3

      @@DanDan-zv4ql I already added everything :)

    • @dontknowlol2062
      @dontknowlol2062 3 роки тому

      Always has thanks man

    • @reesespieces
      @reesespieces 3 роки тому +4

      Wow, thanks! Have a good day everyone! Don’t stress yourselves, take a break from UA-cam if it pressures you too much. Your mental health is more important then videos. Also, smileeeee! My favourite quote is be like a pineapple, wear a crown. If u need any help, don’t hesitate to reply to this comment! Bye!

    • @Wet_Paper_Eater
      @Wet_Paper_Eater 3 роки тому +5

      Dang it I do all of those..

  • @varianzero7469
    @varianzero7469 3 роки тому +429

    Oh yeah, I definitely don’t trust myself. Or most people for that matter.

  • @FuzzyRedVelvet
    @FuzzyRedVelvet 3 роки тому +274

    I experience this everyday, I'm glad others can relate. Even if I get any answer right, I always check it on the web.

    • @mariawaheed4073
      @mariawaheed4073 3 роки тому +19

      That's pretty relatable actually I was doing my homework and even tho I wrote the correct answer I still wanted to check my note book

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +25

      Do you relate to perfectionism too?

    • @FuzzyRedVelvet
      @FuzzyRedVelvet 3 роки тому +5

      @@Psych2go My parents have it, it probably passed on to me and my siblings.

    • @mariawaheed4073
      @mariawaheed4073 3 роки тому +3

      @@Psych2go A lot actually, and it's starting to get very bothersome

    • @gna96
      @gna96 3 роки тому +2

      Maria Waheed I struggle with protectionism as well unfortunately

  • @aleksandraeftimova8836
    @aleksandraeftimova8836 3 роки тому +63

    I thought being an indecisive, insecure, closed perfectionist, pessimist and overthinker were part of my character... i guess there's a real reason why i've been like this for these past few years, the weird nightmares furtherly explain it as well

    • @leontineketting97
      @leontineketting97 3 роки тому +1

      Same, i have these things for like 8 years now and this explains a lot why i'm like that!

    • @alexosow
      @alexosow 3 роки тому +1

      Same, I don't think it's been that long though. Ever since I moved in with my cousin this year. It's like I'm always one mistake away from being kicked out of the house and put in a foster home... Like how can you have a good day without thinking that if you mess up one time, you may be sent to a foster home and then life's all messed up ;-;

    • @alexosow
      @alexosow 3 роки тому +2

      I just wanna get through this last year of high school and finally be independent. I'll earn what I get and only then will I truly be deserving of everything given, since I earned it.

    • @arwabarnat
      @arwabarnat 3 роки тому +1

      @@alexosow that must be taught but good luck with that!! I hope you're okay now and you're away from that stress and pressure ♡

    • @alexosow
      @alexosow 3 роки тому

      @@arwabarnatThanks!! Well, she kicked us out and made an excuse that it was her job arrangements. She didn't trust us at all to stay at the house on our own BUT she's perfectly ok letting me stay at my grandma's house alone for a week by myself. Soooo hypocritical. Glad I don't have to deal with her right now, I don't talk to her at all unless I need something and I guess our grandma's is the best place for our situation right now until college. We don't know anybody and this place is practically the hood but I do like not having to worry about my cousin doing something. That stress just ruined everything back then. At least now I have a temporary job at a clothing store and I like the people I work with alot more than I did working fast food in my cousin's house. Work is more fun here, probably also has to do with not as much stress. Just thinking about my cousin gets me angry, so I don't really do that unless someone asks. 2 more months till I'm on my own and I'm gonna be so glad when that time comes!

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 3 роки тому +77

    When you don't trust yourself, you might feel uncomfortable spending time looking inward. You might try to keep busy all day by constantly getting involved in activities or thinking about small things outside of yourself. Break the habit of looking away from yourself by patiently looking inward👍

    • @thedivyanshii
      @thedivyanshii 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/02fIIYQYz_E/v-deo.html

  • @billclaraweaver2132
    @billclaraweaver2132 3 роки тому +202

    Yep all this is me except the controlling part

  • @Th1nA1r
    @Th1nA1r 3 роки тому +49

    Can we get a video on tips to build self-trust? It would be super super helpful! Thank you for all the work you guys put into these by the way!

  • @ashfeatherartz
    @ashfeatherartz 3 роки тому +266

    bro I have AnXiEtY these signs just come naturally-

    • @naragrace3870
      @naragrace3870 3 роки тому +7

      WillowWolfProductions Same!! Maybe that’s why we don’t trust ourselves.

    • @Kai-iy3kk
      @Kai-iy3kk 3 роки тому +4

      Anxiety hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah ✌

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +57

      Anxiety.. is part of self doubt..

    • @stxrmgvn7069
      @stxrmgvn7069 3 роки тому

      Right I was thinking the same thing

    • @stxrmgvn7069
      @stxrmgvn7069 3 роки тому +1

      Anime Freak what’s the joke ?

  • @biscuitcollection5764
    @biscuitcollection5764 3 роки тому +65

    I found your channel while i trying to find what me, an introvert is. And after that i become proud of being just me. 😊

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +12

      Glad you discovered yourself!

  • @cloub_gacha9135
    @cloub_gacha9135 3 роки тому +149

    Video: "Do you relate to this video?"
    Me: Every. Single. One.

  • @zarastar8460
    @zarastar8460 3 роки тому +21

    everyone relates to the problem but why isn’t anybody talking on how to solve it?

  • @sgrbear3810
    @sgrbear3810 3 роки тому +153

    Me: *sees title* You already know that you do, why are you watching?
    Also me: But what if I don’t, though
    Me: YoU’rE dOiNg It RiGhT nOw!!!

    • @keegie_creeper146
      @keegie_creeper146 3 роки тому +3

      Same

    • @allahnajohnson3675
      @allahnajohnson3675 3 роки тому

      Mood

    • @OneBoredCatbug
      @OneBoredCatbug 3 роки тому +1

      I guess that's what it's like to be in your mind when you don't trust yourself, there's the side of yourself that is actually you, and then there's the side of yourself that doesn't trust yourself, what a bizarre cycle of doubt, especially since according to nature, you should be the first person you trust, I wonder where self doubt comes from? I know I had it when I was younger but now that I've gotten older I have no idea where it came from, I've even forgotten what I had self doubts about.

  • @darcthenightwitch
    @darcthenightwitch 3 роки тому +74

    waw it's a bit hard when you state things clearly in front of you, specially when it comes down to describing yourself! i go through all these 8 things everyday, I try to pep talk myself sometimes, but in the end I always feel I'm not good enough! or I'm not worthy! Somehow I feel the opposite, but at times my actions just seem to take me back to these assumptions! I know I'm good, I just find it hard to prove to myself that I am good, before proving to others that I am!

    • @saeedsule1807
      @saeedsule1807 3 роки тому +2

      Same honestly!

    • @leontineketting97
      @leontineketting97 3 роки тому

      Same with me

    • @cloudieskye5130
      @cloudieskye5130 3 роки тому +1

      Well I could say that I want this candy but my mom recommends me another option I say I want the candy I chose but then my mom doesn't hear me and says huh?! And then I say I want her candy option instead

  • @probablynot2123
    @probablynot2123 3 роки тому +25

    I think the biggest sign is the fact that I tapped on this video as fast as possible

  • @DoomsdayGoddess96
    @DoomsdayGoddess96 3 роки тому +10

    I definitely struggle with this, and I really want to fix this. I'm tired of beating myself up and I really want to learn how to love myself before it's too late. I want to start enjoying things more and being a happier person

  • @antiusinferno9396
    @antiusinferno9396 3 роки тому +58

    The memory thing is a hard one for me to trust, I do have hallucinations that I remember more vividly than non-hallucinatory experiences. So I think my distrust of myself and my decisions come more from not interpreting the world properly to begin with. Though I will say I had most of these, if not all, before being diagnosed with psychosis.

    • @cassandrajoiner9933
      @cassandrajoiner9933 3 роки тому +1

      Do meds help?

    • @skylovermc2146
      @skylovermc2146 3 роки тому +1

      Antius Inferno Same.

    • @skylarpepple3896
      @skylarpepple3896 3 роки тому +1

      Same, I've been seeing things and hearing stuff to

    • @antiusinferno9396
      @antiusinferno9396 3 роки тому +1

      @@cassandrajoiner9933 No they don't they gave me some odd side effects as well that were not helpful to my situation.

    • @cassandrajoiner9933
      @cassandrajoiner9933 3 роки тому +1

      @@antiusinferno9396 I hope you are coping then. Does it get any easier?

  • @debussy7538
    @debussy7538 3 роки тому +49

    Man this channel know more about me than my family.

  • @aestthelicx4408
    @aestthelicx4408 3 роки тому +28

    "I dont think I relate this"
    "Nevermind i relate to this"
    I related to all of them
    Well this is bad 🗿

  • @minaminumahata5344
    @minaminumahata5344 3 роки тому +8

    I personally think that you guys are doing a great job with spreading awareness about these topics but I feel like you should make videos about how to fix it or how to cope with it as well.

  • @probablyes
    @probablyes 3 роки тому +11

    I don’t know what I’d do without this channel. Thank you to everyone who puts so much thought ad care into it

  • @love.laniiiii
    @love.laniiiii 3 роки тому +48

    When you have serious trust issues & learn you’re part of the problem..

  • @lesliemorganking3283
    @lesliemorganking3283 3 роки тому +9

    I’m teaching myself self love. Some days I love myself some days I don’t.

  • @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_
    @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_ 3 роки тому +7

    I practically raised myself, my own parents don’t trust themselves ! It’s a struggle, but I really do appreciate this video!!! Very helpful and pushing me to go to therapy 💕

  • @gurmail6615
    @gurmail6615 3 роки тому +8

    I have depression, social anxiety, and I don’t trust myself
    And you know who’s fault it is?
    The school systems, and myself

    • @OrangeDragon04
      @OrangeDragon04 3 роки тому +2

      The bullying started my anxiety, allways checking myself for mistakes and getting laughed at anyway, because I said that I like STAR WARS a month ago.

    • @gurmail6615
      @gurmail6615 3 роки тому +1

      Orange Dragon wth what’s wrong with those people? Just because you like something childish, scary, hilarious, or anything in general doesn’t mean that it isn’t important as your own opinion

  • @angelwings8752
    @angelwings8752 3 роки тому +14

    All of those things explained what I do, also for one of my school projects I picked peer pressure for my category and all of the signs for having it also explained everything I do. :/

    • @thedivyanshii
      @thedivyanshii 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/02fIIYQYz_E/v-deo.html

  • @JZ-cd9tb
    @JZ-cd9tb 3 роки тому +7

    Oh hey, look. Psych2Go is summarizing my WHOLE LIFE. Too accurate, mate. Too acurate.

  • @kcidkcusi
    @kcidkcusi 3 роки тому +54

    Oh that's sad. if I don’t trust myself how can I trust anybody else?

    • @nani-rq7ro
      @nani-rq7ro 3 роки тому +8

      ikr.It’s hard for me to trust anyone cause I scared if they will walk away one day.I scared if they will make me hurt,try to backstab me without me knowing.I really hate myself for that.
      I don’t trust myself either.
      (sorry for my bad english)

    • @Kai-iy3kk
      @Kai-iy3kk 3 роки тому +4

      @@nani-rq7ro It's fine. I have these feelings too.

    • @icefallssnowstorms3224
      @icefallssnowstorms3224 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah it is I hope everyone in the comment section can eventually trust themselves and others too!

    • @leontineketting97
      @leontineketting97 3 роки тому +2

      I can relate to this😟😟

  • @strawberry-4
    @strawberry-4 3 роки тому +47

    #5 comes on the screen*
    My instant thought: Step out, Step out of the sun if you keep getting burned~
    I’m probably the only one who thought about that song- oh well-

    • @dakotayork4233
      @dakotayork4233 3 роки тому +7

      Don't worry, trust me,
      *YOooOooOuuUuuuUu arEee NoOt aLoOnEe*

    • @emmasnoeberger2689
      @emmasnoeberger2689 3 роки тому +6

      On the outside, always looking in. Will I ever be more than I've always been?

    • @lesliemorganking3283
      @lesliemorganking3283 3 роки тому +4

      Emma Snoeberger cause I’m tap tap tapping on the glass, waving through a window oh I try to speak but nobody can hear so I wait around for an answer to appear as I’m watch watch watching people pass waving though a window.

    • @fairytailgirl123
      @fairytailgirl123 3 роки тому +3

      @@lovesickrat4567 oh
      Can anybody see, is anybody waving back at me?

    • @beiweiwei5239
      @beiweiwei5239 3 роки тому +2

      I feel like I know this song...but what is it ?!?😩😩😩🥺

  • @juna3218
    @juna3218 3 роки тому +6

    When a channel helps you more than your fRiEnDs and family...
    Thanks though❤this channel really helps

  • @HaloJumper7
    @HaloJumper7 3 роки тому +4

    1. You always second guess yourself (sometimes)
    2. You overthink everything (sometimes)
    3. You trust other peoples opinion more than your own (nope)
    4. You dont validate your own experiences (sometimes)
    5. You're afraid to speak up (nope)
    6. You try to control everything (try to do my best to make things more convenient but don't bother with things I can't control)
    7. You struggle to recognise your worth (I don't feel less than or inferior to others but think that my existence is pretty insignificant in this universe and on rare occasions feel it would've been better If I never existed)
    8. You're overly critical of yourself (√)

  • @Hi-DE3021
    @Hi-DE3021 3 роки тому +2

    I'm going through a situation now but these explain exactly how I feel about taking the action I need to take. Fear is what's holding me back as is regret for choices taken over the years. Well done in this video.

  • @carolinalenis1578
    @carolinalenis1578 3 роки тому +4

    I adore these videos cause they show me things I used to do and that I have overcome or am in the process of learning to overcome. It shows me that progress is possible and that each day we can decide to be better and to just try!

  • @zerodiamond4206
    @zerodiamond4206 3 роки тому +12

    You guys are very informative, I obtain new knowledge every day.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +2

      So glad to hear! Any favourite writers from our team?

    • @zerodiamond4206
      @zerodiamond4206 3 роки тому +1

      @@Psych2go I don't necessarily have any favourites. I think you're all great at informing, your team as a whole is excellent.

  • @user-is5xj3tb1b
    @user-is5xj3tb1b 3 роки тому +7

    Hearing you're voice makes me feel calm, and fades all my Problems💕💗 thanks so much! ✨💜 i really love you! 💜

    • @thedivyanshii
      @thedivyanshii 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/02fIIYQYz_E/v-deo.html

  • @XG912
    @XG912 3 роки тому +6

    To be honest psych2go finally made a video I relate to completely. 😳
    I don't form good relationships, I get easily frustrated when I can't control a simple situations and panic when I forget, lose, or misplace something. I tend to be possessive to items that are sentimental to me. Self doubt is an annoying feeling but I do have my good days. 🙂

  • @ehthatsmineh
    @ehthatsmineh 3 роки тому +7

    I have trust issues when it comes to friends and I guess that means I also have a lot of self doubt
    One time I was scolded by my parent for being indecisive, I couldn't pick between 1$ and 5$
    And there's a lot more of experiences like that-

    • @thedivyanshii
      @thedivyanshii 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/02fIIYQYz_E/v-deo.html

  • @rawrGriff
    @rawrGriff 3 роки тому +7

    I don’t know y’all. Every time I’ve trusted myself something goes wrong so it seems justified.

  • @danaehernandez9084
    @danaehernandez9084 3 роки тому +3

    This video helped me realize what I needed to find in myself and what was missing in me.
    Thanks for this video.

  • @raidomani
    @raidomani 3 роки тому +1

    In the past I struggled with some pretty bad self doubt. But I’ve been managing to get over that and now I’m becoming more confident in myself and my choices

  • @gnabu7127
    @gnabu7127 3 роки тому

    This videos made me realized I need help and now because of that I'm starting to go to with a psychologist, and you don't know how much better I feel, yet, I struggle with self-confidence the most. But to people out there who might read this, you're precious, valuable and amazing ❤

  • @gabrielaasencio3823
    @gabrielaasencio3823 3 роки тому +3

    keep your head up my loves, you’re so strong and amazing and if i could i’d be besties with you all 💗

  • @ExploreYourPossibilities
    @ExploreYourPossibilities 3 роки тому +4

    Loved this video. Well explained. It's so important to have a good relationship to ourself. 😍 I haven't learned this while growing up so I know how hard it can be. Good thing is now I know 100% that you can change this. If you don't trust yourself you hold yourself back from so many cool things. That's sad. I think this stuff should be included in school early on.

  • @gabrielacoronel8115
    @gabrielacoronel8115 3 роки тому +2

    Really need this video, thanks 💕

  • @minerva7699
    @minerva7699 3 роки тому +1

    I love these animations so much. An inspiration 💕

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much :) Is this your favorite one from us so far?

  • @hannahabajero4597
    @hannahabajero4597 3 роки тому +4

    When youtube knows you better than anyone... This was in my recommendations 😭

  • @caroline-jz8np
    @caroline-jz8np 3 роки тому +15

    holy crap I really don’t trust myself

  • @alexandria.d1253
    @alexandria.d1253 3 роки тому +2

    The fact that this was the first video to legitimately make me tear up, because that doesn’t happen that often....
    I felt every sign but the one about being overly controlling
    I dunno where it started or where it came from but it’s the worst, and I dunno how to fix it.

  • @n1fffan
    @n1fffan 3 роки тому

    you guys really have an interesting timing with putting this video out, with me struggling to even commit myself to seek help for issues, it's almost scary how well this video fit me

  • @keegie_creeper146
    @keegie_creeper146 3 роки тому +22

    Me: * Clicks Video knowing that I already don't trust myself * Also me: "All of these correspond with me"

    • @thedivyanshii
      @thedivyanshii 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/02fIIYQYz_E/v-deo.html

  • @MrJoon360
    @MrJoon360 3 роки тому +7

    Fear and self-doubt have always been the greatest enemies of human potential.
    -Brian Tracy

  • @damiana.9544
    @damiana.9544 3 роки тому +2

    This is the first video that describes me fully, it's strange for me becouse those points were for me "little things" that are just part of me, and it's weird for all of them to relate to lack of trust...
    But It's also nice to understand from where all of those parts of me might stand from, thank you for this video.

  • @itsjustmoss1281
    @itsjustmoss1281 3 роки тому

    This video felt like the video embodiment of a sub tweet lol. I’ve struggled with trusting myself my whole life and I finally started working on it in an effective direction a few months ago after making some decisions that made my confidence in myself even weaker. Moving out of my abusive household has definitely helped. Living on my own has helped give me a greater perspective on my life and time to recognize that many things I was told was my fault in my youth wasn’t or wasn’t worth hating myself as long as I grew from it. It’s still something I’m constantly working on but it gets better every day.

  • @Phane02
    @Phane02 3 роки тому +40

    Topic: guys who love "take charge" women!

    • @patrickramseyart
      @patrickramseyart 3 роки тому +3

      Ooh, sign me up

    • @untraptbutterfly
      @untraptbutterfly 3 роки тому +5

      Good to see this... I'm pretty sure that's why my relationship works so well and evolves consistently and grows such a beautiful garden but often others have said... "He's a man he should lead... He's a man he should xyz ect " ... This really bothers me because he is a man Human and I'm a woman Human but that has no bearing on our strengths and ability's... I know what I want and how to make it happen and he loves that... He allways gets that cheeeezzzy smile and says it's whatever!!! What can I do to help... And in turn I am able to guide us to our next level where we both succeed... He doesn't like the pressure of "being a real man" what the heck does that even mean ... And I totally couldn't fit in the little box that is a "good woman bare foot at home" we are just humans ... Evolving in our own way!!! If you read this know YOU ARE PERFECT just the way you are!!! Hugmongous hugs and may heaps of happy love and peace wrap you in perfect wings!!! 🦋🦋🦋

    • @patrickramseyart
      @patrickramseyart 3 роки тому +1

      @@untraptbutterfly I'm so happy for ya'll. And so happy to hear it. It sounds like the ideal relationship for me. Hopefully someday I'll find her (or even better, she'll find me.)

  • @aronnn8480
    @aronnn8480 3 роки тому +94

    Lol self-love? Never heard of her

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 роки тому +8

      Hahahahha thisssss

    • @Kai-iy3kk
      @Kai-iy3kk 3 роки тому +5

      Who is she and why is she here get her out

    • @jacktheIV44
      @jacktheIV44 3 роки тому +6

      I have, she’s very kind. Self doubt is a b*tch, tho...

    • @Kai-iy3kk
      @Kai-iy3kk 3 роки тому +3

      @@jacktheIV44 I agree, but self-doubt . . . she'll be back. Soon.

    • @donnalehman1832
      @donnalehman1832 3 роки тому +2

      Self love is the most important of all kinds of Love. The Bible says to " Love your neighbor as yourself.". So you must have a healthy measure of self love before you can truly love others. Build up your self love.

  • @carolinethurner537
    @carolinethurner537 3 роки тому

    This is soooo me! Thanks for sharing

  • @Xtarlina27
    @Xtarlina27 3 роки тому

    Can relate to all the signs, and struggle to accept that hope is possible. Thank you for showing this content to help us understand ourselves and each other.

  • @Palikawii
    @Palikawii 3 роки тому +8

    this was in my recomended....TvT
    also, 2 minutes ago-

    • @thedivyanshii
      @thedivyanshii 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/02fIIYQYz_E/v-deo.html

  • @starberrie7300
    @starberrie7300 3 роки тому +9

    oh now there’s no comments from a month ago cool

    • @starberrie7300
      @starberrie7300 3 роки тому

      kodiak idk there’s usually comments from a month ago like they’re time travelers

  • @kate777_
    @kate777_ 2 роки тому

    I only realised today that I relate to most of these. I’m crying right now but I’m grateful that I know this is a problem that I can improve :) This really hit hard.

  • @rosaliegudito1177
    @rosaliegudito1177 Рік тому

    I am everything that you said. I've struggled with it so much, even with the littlelest decisions that I make everyday, like what clothes to wear, and what music I should listen to and many more. It sucks knowing how I easily trust other people and but not myself. And I always end up regretting my decisions and then question whether it's right to regret it. It's just a mess. But the good thing is I am willing to work on it. I want a better life, and I'll start by regaining my trust, back to myself.

  • @TmeiH
    @TmeiH 3 роки тому +9

    Me who forgot everything that happened yesterday: 👀

  • @romancewriter1
    @romancewriter1 3 роки тому +5

    Has Psych2Go been spying on me? Because this sounds a lot like me

    • @thedivyanshii
      @thedivyanshii 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/02fIIYQYz_E/v-deo.html

  • @EndariDeathgrin
    @EndariDeathgrin 3 роки тому

    I still remember the time I found your channel and I'm glad did. You guys are great!!
    Sincerely.

  • @ambersgoofballcorner
    @ambersgoofballcorner 3 роки тому

    I love this channel so much!!!

  • @HaloJumper7
    @HaloJumper7 3 роки тому +3

    Is it me or does the VO by Amanda sound sad along with the music. Her last "I sure do" made it more evident.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +2

      Could be.. the winter is coming.

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 3 роки тому

      Psych2Go 😂😂😩

    • @HaloJumper7
      @HaloJumper7 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go Damn! That sounds so White Walker cold that not even Dracarys can stop it.

  • @alie3992
    @alie3992 3 роки тому +6

    *101 views* *126 likes*
    me: “now I don’t trust youtube...”

  • @MaryJane-yl5ew
    @MaryJane-yl5ew 3 роки тому +1

    This channel is growing soo fast and i'm happy for it💞💓💗💖

  • @dedea0909
    @dedea0909 3 роки тому +2

    when you relate to every single point😳

  • @eh.okei.2564
    @eh.okei.2564 3 роки тому +4

    Me: *ah yes i dont trust myself when it comes to thinking ideas and holding something fragile-*
    _Edit: btw- im inlove with the art styles🥺_
    Edit 2: aight- i finished th video and now i know that i dont trust myself-

  • @DrLizListens
    @DrLizListens 3 роки тому +5

    Hey, way to call me out. 🙃

  • @PapaJohn144
    @PapaJohn144 Рік тому

    Each point described me perfectly.

  • @delmi864
    @delmi864 2 роки тому

    Yes, i dont trust myself to speak because I fint want to make a fool of myself. It stemmed from my very younger years. Because of this video I'm excited and challenged to grow self trust, self love self compassion. Thank you Amanda. 🐯❤

  • @PolishCowvsJuan
    @PolishCowvsJuan 3 роки тому +37

    Who else randomly found Psych2Go one day and has been watching ever since?

  • @leonardoaranas5343
    @leonardoaranas5343 3 роки тому +7

    Yeah, trust yourself then trust nobody especially when red is sus.
    (I swear I'm not the impostor)

  • @ellaweezy0515
    @ellaweezy0515 3 роки тому

    I knew a I identified with 90% of the lottery when I saw title.
    It’s definitely been an ongoing issue for me even though there are results of good decisions I’ve made. But being this way constantly has me in a limbo of making new decisions when necessary.
    Sometimes I’ll ask for the opinions of others doubting my own conclusion and then still not take their opinion but then straddle with their opinion and my own. It can be quite frustrating.
    I do love these psych2go videos. They have really helped me to identify things I need to work on.. they bring awareness or rather provide helpful tips to overcome. I am actually quite aware of myself. Though i try to ignore some faults about myself. They always resurface which means I need to work on them to become a better me. 😌

  • @Th1nA1r
    @Th1nA1r 3 роки тому

    I struggle with this a lot. I'm getting a lot better, and learning to live in the moment has helped tremendously! I found it really really hard not to take everything so seriously, and it's hard to learn that mistakes just don't matter in the grand scheme. The video was right it takes a lot of work and it can be pretty slow going, it does help to learn to trust what others say when they give you complaints otherwise you only have yourself to make it through this, it's a lot easier when you have others to help!
    My prayers to everyone having troubles with this! I know how rough it can be, thankfully there is a solution and it's not easy or fast, so don't worry if you struggle. (I've been struggling with it for 7 to 8 years. And to be honest I did't start getting a grip on it till I met someone who really helped me about 3 years ago. It's a tough battle.)

  • @Melodie-io
    @Melodie-io 3 роки тому +8

    I don’t trust myself I already know that :(

    • @Melodie-io
      @Melodie-io 3 роки тому +1

      kodiak nothing I’m just some person that’s here never said it did anything-

  • @reesespieces
    @reesespieces 3 роки тому +9

    --------------
    To: Psych2Go, Everyone
    From: Red PanDuh
    --------------
    Your animations and topics are always amazinggggggg~! You always put so so so much effort into your videos! Have a great day everyone, smile! Be like a pineapple, wear a crown :’)
    - Red PanDuh
    ----------------

    • @reesespieces
      @reesespieces 3 роки тому +1

      kodiak it’s okay, I’m happy with what I have ^w^

  • @Shenille.
    @Shenille. 3 роки тому

    These explain me to the fullest😔. And it was mainly because for a long time I was taught that the choices I choose are “dumb” or “stupid”, and I always go with what other people tell me I should go with.

  • @bidishadas6658
    @bidishadas6658 3 роки тому

    Thank you for your wonderful videos.

  • @Tteokbokkiiyum
    @Tteokbokkiiyum 3 роки тому +3

    1:02- Second guessing yourself
    1:36 -You overthink everything
    2:11- You trust other people's opinions more than your own
    2:42- You don't validate your own experiences
    3:23- Your too afraid to speak up
    4:01- You try to control everything
    4:29- you struggle to recognise your worth
    5:00- You're over critical of yourself
    5:37- Outro

  • @hemapatel2694
    @hemapatel2694 2 роки тому

    I found this video so helpful that I'm not the only one. All of these apply to me. I don't trust myself to do anything right, doubting myself etc. Thank you Pysch2go 😀

  • @sprihadharan1007
    @sprihadharan1007 2 роки тому

    wow. That was literally such an eye-opener. I didn't understand why I did half those things until I watched this. Thank you so much for that video.

  • @alisonmilla2972
    @alisonmilla2972 3 роки тому +1

    When the video was ending I felt fear because of my past with a
    critical lack of self confidence and a feeling of being miserable.
    I don't want to repeat that period :(

  • @sienna6258
    @sienna6258 3 роки тому

    This channel helps me understand more about myself, I also have trouble trusting myself. It can be really annoying and painful.. But I have a counsellor now and it’s helping me a lot more! Thanks for making this video. :)

  • @abigailcumbus5255
    @abigailcumbus5255 3 роки тому

    I relate to the last two very much! It's hard for me to trust myself so I usually let others handle things that can be messed up because I don't trust myself enough to do them

  • @Brochill161
    @Brochill161 2 роки тому

    Your words made me cry, now I realized how much I used to hate myself for my honest mistakes, I realized I need to stop being so fixated on thoughts of becoming perfect

  • @theidiot4466
    @theidiot4466 3 роки тому +1

    I can relate to all. This is what I keep on doing most of my life. This is something I've been struggling for a while now

  • @DarkestMischief490
    @DarkestMischief490 3 роки тому

    This is me 100% same with being a overthinker as well, I’m fully aware that neither is good for me. I’m in a rut, stuck, hard for me to get out. No matter what I try I struggle so much, it’s pretty upsetting honestly, a lot of times wished I had more self confidence in myself.

  • @karismayumnam6256
    @karismayumnam6256 3 роки тому

    The exact problem I am facing! Thank you

  • @chuuya-ranpo3724
    @chuuya-ranpo3724 3 роки тому +1

    I certainly can relate to this since I struggle constantly with self trust, and I am still trying to work on myself.

  • @inhhoannguyen2900
    @inhhoannguyen2900 3 роки тому

    Thank you psych2go! Your channel is so amazing!