Summary: 1) You get bored with small talk 2) You’re careful with your words 3) You are socially awkward 4) You struggle to make good friends 5) You don’t get out much 6) You’re overly analytical 7) Your mind constantly craves exercise 8) You’re always feeling pressured to succeed
@Marisol M WARNING: [Please if you prefer understanding what I said and making sure your not misinterpreting what I said please read the entire comment or read it twice to make sure. Since this is a pretty long comment.] Or it means the person has self doubt because they are self aware of their lack of intellect. Or it's the other way around since just, because ones intelligent doesn't mean they are good at self awareness. If one doubts their intellect it's, because they know their intellectual flaws so they assume they aren't that intelligent. If one lacks self awareness, but is intelligent they may doubt their intellect, because they don't want to make assumptions about themselves when they don't know much about themselves. After all most intelligent people tend to do to much learning about THINGS rather than PEOPLE. So they might not be that self aware about themselves. Since weirdly enough learning more about others helps one learn more about themselves. So if you don't do enough socialising you won't understand yourself that well. Unless you do constant self reflection, which I am not 100% sure that would always work out for a person. Since you need more than self reflection to help understand yourself. Since you need to be able to look at other perspectives to further your understanding of yourself. Therefore you still need social interaction. Since most intelligent people are introverted or socially awkward this generally causes problems with the person's self awareness. Though this is not taking into account other things that might be able to by pass all that. Another thing to consider is that this video lists traits that MOST intelligent people have. Their is bound to be abnormality. Like extravert geniuses do exist. There is also the fact that plenty of people have these traits that are listed in the video, but are not geniuses. Most geniuses are introverts, but most introverts are not geniuses.
@Marisol M This is not true. Highly intelligent people rarely lack confidence in their general intelligence, instead they lack confidence in any specific opinion. Understanding that hidden facets of a construct can radically change ones understanding and opinion. Highly intelligent people see and and understand that that any equation which represents a real life phenomenon is going to be immensely complex making high levels of confidence in any specific model irrational.
Same brader it's making us holding our selves back with our own hands and at the end of day your intelligence is just thoughts n ideas that you can't achieve
Indeed. Especially with “neurotypicals”: depending on the country, they are either fairly logical or absolutely absurd when it comes to interaction, with figments like “unwritten rules” that they can’t even define themselves, or using very watered down terms to speak about matters of a serious nature because the truth is too bold for their little minds to handle. I could continue into a full-on rant about this, but that would be a touch long winded for a comment.
omg... I totally relate to that.... I don't have many friends and I feel very guilty at the fact I'm too selective about people. Honestly, having to know more things than others is a real curse. There are some times I think of this as a curse because no one understands you at all, and it's hard to state all of your thoughts out loud, because there are too many of them. I wish I had OP ways of speaking and I wish I could think less carefully about what I'm about to say. Heck, I'm thinking about what I should say not to be offensive or degrading in anyway right now. Honestly, people out there who want to know more... Sometimes, knowledge is a curse that makes you very, very, very depressed. (once you know how the world and people are, you truly value wholesome moments for what they are)
1. you get bored with small talk 2. you're careful with your words 3. you're socially awkward 4. you struggle to make good friends 5. you don't get out much 6. you're overly analytical 7. your mind constantly craves excersize 8. you're always feeling pressured to succeed Have a nice day!
Yeah all of the above for me. But I never thought I was that smart. Like I sometimes struggle with simple tasks and often overlook the most obvious things.
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There are different fields of "highly intelligent". If the IQ is not for you, try the EQ - Emotional Intelligence Quotient. It's more rewarding, anyway. And if that's not for you, you'll find something. Or you create something. Your choice.
I would say that as soon as I speak of my ideas relating to science and philosophy and human constructs like marriage my friends who are always judging people and relaying useless information about how much they remember from the past and where they have been, they seem to be annoyed with me that I don't remember those things or I say I try not to judge people. I have begun to realise as I get older that I live in this 24 hours because this is all we have and I've wasted so much of my life in the company of people who just have good memory's for people's lives they have come across, hey ho thanks for this,
@Fallon Waye you can find happiness- before you find awareness. If you're not aware you arent aware of who knows what, whats not to be happy about? Life would be exceedingly more simple and easy to understand. And how can you truly feel entitled to tell someone else their happiness is wrong or incorrect? I think i just argued in defense of science deniers but 🤷
The connotations of ignorance are always negative. Even if ignorant people tend to be happier, it doesn't mean that their lifestyle is more practical than the one of those who are aware of the harsh side of the world. The more knowledge you accumulate, the more benefits it rewards - because with more knowledge, navigating around the world becomes easier; your life becomes generally better. It is better to search for the flaws of something, rather than only watching its positive side.
I’m bored, so....timestamps! 1. You get bored with small talk - 1:13 2. You are careful with your words - 1:51 3. You’re socially awkward - 2:23 4. You struggle to make good friends - 3:10 5. You don’t go out much - 3:54 6. You’re overly analytical - 4:26 7. Your mind constantly craves exercise - 5:05 8. You’re always feeling pressured to succeed - 5:36
thoguht about doing the same after i lost interrest in the video after the first 40 seconds. now i need to search for something else to stop my mind from overthinking everything D:
@Devon S Can you rationalise why being "at peace" should be taken in a negative context? My take with your comment is, if it is always about "progression", it feels like the capitalist version of mental health.
The one trait this video missed was, people who talk to themselves. Self narration is very helpful with staying on track of your day to day tasks, and also really great for your mental health.
I think that is not only in highly intelligent, but in more smart than others. I think that it was out because of that. Btw its only my opinion dont hate🤷♂️.
"Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people." I appreciate the quote. The thing is, we also need to talk about people and events even if we prefer talking about ideas because learning about what is going on in your small circle, school, workplace, and city... is a way to gather data on the outside world, no doubt the smart people love all kinds of information and data. This awareness is also crucial for making informed decisions and understanding the context in which we live. Everyone gets bored of small talk at some point;). Still, exchanging small talk is better than non-engaging with people (like sticking your mind to books, and studies), because we all crave some sort of communication for better or for worse. I think every small talk is an opportunity to add a tool to your skill set. The stories you wouldn't consider worth telling may teach you something. Not to forget, the " Gossiping" is actually an evolutionary concept. Discussing people helped early humans form alliances, identify threats, and build cohesive communities. I am not saying you should talk badly behind people, but when someone tells you things, try not to be bored with the facts and analyze the situation. Try to understand why they gave you that random piece of info at that very moment. Life gets less boring, and people become more interesting. All of this to say, talking about ideas might be seen as the hallmark of great minds, but as long as you do not want to live in a thought bubble, you need all kinds of people around you to help you improve yourself and find the network to excel in your path. Discussing ideas, events, and people is equally important in creating a well-rounded and informed individual. Embracing all types of conversations can lead to intellectual stimulation, practical knowledge, and strong social networks. This balanced approach not only enriches personal growth but also enhances one’s ability to navigate and contribute to the world effectively.
It's a good description of a highly intelligent person who happens to be an analytical introvert with social anxiety, it's also a good description of an analytical introvert with social anxiety that has a normal or even below average level of intelligence. This is far from the only archetype for intelligence.
I would say that there is truth to this, but not from every angle ;) I can only talk about research in Germany, but look up Prof. Rost and his research on giftedness. It is a huge, ongoing research project on the development of gifted children (defined as IQ of 130 or more) and found, among other things, that giftedness is a contributing factor of resilience. Many gifted children are better adjusted, better at making friends and less likely to be thrown off balance emotionally than their peers. The struggles described in this video, however, do exist as well
maybe the introvert thing holds a bit of truth, i mean, my father (pretty wise guy) says that those who listen are the wise and intelligent ones; so you could say which tend to, not always, be introverts. * shrug *
My Mom cried when she read my first standardized test scores in First grade; she said being so intelligent, I'd never be happy. Fifty years later, I can tell you that I am actually very happy, but it required stepping away from what she and most others would consider 'success'.
@@aminbinsalim1995 - everyone's path is unique. It took me a long time to realize my own happiness fell outside of the daily practices of those society considers 'successful'.
@@floydblandston108 It seems like you equate happiness to success, am i wrong to infer that? If that's how you view it then why? And please pardon me for inquiring if it's too invasive or personal. And if i may add some more questions. First of all i respectfully think you're mother was just worried about you but didn't know to use a better way to say it, and i apologize if It's like i am rubbing salt in your wound but knowing that it took you this long to find your happiness, where then lyed the problem? Did you try for example to do what you're mother told you in order to be happy but actually were wrong untill you were able to get out of it on your own? Or do you see some thruth to what she said based on your experience and what you witnessed around you regarding people that are intelligent or highly intelligent? Props to you for your efforts and finding happiness
@@floydblandston108 Thank you for the suggestion, but with all due respect does it have to do with our discussion? Because as far as i am concerned, i've asked you a few questions, if you're not willing to respond it's totally ok but i wonder if i might be misunderstood or not but at least i know i yet to actually be explicit with my intention so i think it would be reasonable to give you the befenit of the doubt. Does your comment means you got what i intend to convey or that you assume you got it? P.S: I assume you are someone who has toughness but please do not worry, i mean no harm
I know I've always been a highly intelligent person, and a lot of the social issues described in points 1-5 I definitely struggled with as a kid. However, I'm older now and people have described me as a social butterfly. My emotional intelligence has skyrocketed in the last 2-3 years from journaling, and paying more attention to my feelings (perhaps too much (paralysis by analysis lol)). Anyway, don't think that you need to be socially awkward to be smart because you can be smart and outgoing at the same time! Don't put yourself in a box!
I've never seen a community on youtube as supportive as this one, I feel like any of us can say whatever is on our minds and people will automatically be supportive and friendly. You guys rock!
I'm not intelligent at all! But there's this friend of mine who's a genius, he's super intelligent and creative. And he has to deal with all those struggle. It breaks my heart when I think people are afraid of talking to him when he's actually one of the sweetest people I've ever met. Don't be afraid of the smart kid, guys, they propably just need a friend.
He is very lucky with a friend like you. Intelligent people really crave loyalty and dependability, and having their heart broken really hits them quite hard. So you being there for him probably means the world to him. I wish I had a friend like that 'xD
@@user-unknown173 And yes, that is absolutely correct. The smarter you are, the more you view of the world. Including the uglier sides of things. That can really affect one's mental state. I have noticed this, myself. I try my best to stay optimistic, but sometimes I just get pessimistic and think the world is just a repetitive pattern of people making the same mistakes over and over and there is nothing I can do to change it. Then I stop to think: "I CAN". Every little bit helps. Giving just a little bit of hope to another person can already mean the world to someone. So that is what I do, now. Spread positivity and tell everyone things will be okay. Mental health is immeasurably important and it needs to be taken more seriously in today's society. Even geniuses forget to see the bright side to things and need reminding sometimes.
@Jou t6 Well... as a "smart" person myself, I can attest to the fact that... "doing stupid things to get more friends", is a bad idea. We can't really tell the difference between "stupid" and "pointless". "Stupid" things are idiotic things that could appeal to the average Joe since it's something weird and wild, which is interesting. "Pointless" things are boring and unappealing things. And these things sound like one and the same things to my ears. Stupid stuff is pointless. Pointless stuff is stupid. But there IS an actual difference that decides whether you'll be interesting to other people or not.
It really is true. As much as I would love to be ignorant and happy, I need to know the truth about things and keep learning more. Curiosity is my vice
Ignorance isn't actually bliss. Its temporary bliss. Eventually all the drama explodes in your face. Better to face reality while its a pebble and not wait till its a boulder that you can't stop.
@Delta 38 but it still applies. Ignorance could lead to problems being made in the future is what i think he's talking about. Not ignoring current problems in the present but ignoring details that will help in the future
So that's why I am like this! I try hard to find friends and no one understand what I am actually seeing ,because I overthink everything! Thanks a lot!
You're probably depressed ... _because_ you are intelligent.... and surrounded by friggin idiots (in comparison). Projecting? Why yes!!! yes I am!! ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ ... still.. might be true for you too.
@@andyappleton3353 😂 I was gonna mention this too. The dumber a person is the more confident & smart they think they are because they don't know what they don't know. But when you learn more you start to realise there's so much you still don't know & are therefore less confident. Unless I think you hit the end genius level & then you know you know a lot on that topic/s.
And that the smart people are outnumbered by the fools, this world is not made for highly intelligent people. If you are not socially educated/integrated then you got massive problems to get into an habitat where you can use your intelligence properly. social inequality and an unleashed misanthropic capitalism are the roots of most of individual struggles with what this clip framed so nice as "social awkwardness". What got this in common with the COVID-19? The consequence of the virus is, that the virus works as an catalyst. In lesser time, as without this nasty little boy, we will see worldwide the issues in "our" system. And IF we are smart enough (or if the smart people are loud enough) than we got perhaps a chance to fix our problems. And the virus is the less important problem we got. Who is not making the Rick Grimes move in the last year, will know what i mean...
Well thats why being wise is better than being intelligent or smart, as u get to succeed in every aspect of your life in the best way possible witha high EQ too.
What if one's assurance rests in God? God is all knowing and all powerful. I don't think that applies in all situations. Our minds are limited and we can never fully comprehend the mind of God; Creator of Heaven and Earth
Indeed. The key with intelligence is, I’ve found, to not let one’s questioning get so far that one begins to second guess and onverthink too far, but to not let it be so low one blindly or impulsively goes along with anything. Being smart means being questioning, and questioning tends to turn on oneself at times, leading one to imposter syndrome and the like. Whereas the Dunning-Kruger effect runs rampant in some parts.
@Seeing Through thats true of course. But it doesnt feel like that. It feels as if you had failed in some way (maybe because you expect from yourself to be better than others but at that moment it seems as if you are not? That might be it). Even if you know no one expexts you to never make mistakes. I guess its possible to overcome that but its hard.
I don't feel "highly intelligent" even when people say that, but I identify with all of these. It's good to know that this thing I've been struggling since I was a child is not so uncommon
Same here. I don't see myself as super intelligent, I know some people who I would call really intelligent, I'm below them. But... if I watch just enough youtube videos about "average people", interviews, I get cringy right away in the face of the stupidity that flows out the mouth of some humans... I scored a 154 QI test and it felt awkwardly easy as in I don't understand how you could get any of it wrong. So i guess i'm not bad at logic. But.. i don't think i'm smart, i just think most of us are pretty dumb.
Also the fact she said the Lawn Flamingo isn't interesting is baffling to me. Imagine how much time, care and effort someone put into molding that lawn flamingo's shape
the biggest struggle I can think of is: "am i actually smart enough, or am I going on confirmation bias based on what a few individuals close to me have said"
Just watch the general buzz in the comments of several issues. if you see the overwhelming sea of widow licking, floor drooling stupidity represented by 80+% of the comments you are likely smart. If you think 80% of the comments are interesting, you are one of THEM...
(burp) Moooorty . tbh a smart person shouldn't have a hard time communicating with anyone because they're smart enough to recognize how other people communicate and match their level effectively. The "smart people hate small talk" thing immediately throws me off because small talk is a great way to get to know someone and communicate with very low stakes. To imply that "smart people" only want to talk about high-concept, complicated shit is stupid. I love debate and media analysis and high-concept stuff, but it gets exhausting. Talking about the weather or a something "unimportant" is easy. It's like saying "talented baseball players don't want to just play catch" or something. Of course they do. Shoot.
M-K-L i don‘t agree with that statement. Actually, highly intelligent people have a hard time communicating with other people, because they usually have other mannerisms and interests. Thats why gifted students are often bullied in school, apart from the jealousy. Being socially intelligent isn’t the same as being highly intelligent 🤷♀️
Tinker Belle “gifted students are bullied in school” is exactly the kind of generalization that causes this misunderstanding. It isn’t even necessarily accurate. As a socially anxious gifted student who was never bullied in school, I feel the need to voice that this correlation between intelligence and social ineptitude is complete bologna. There are confident smarties. There are shy dummies. It’s never as black and white as many like to think.
I don't care if I'm seen as intelligent. I think that being curious is more self satisfying because it's an enjoyment to learn new things rather than an achievement. I'm glad I'm of the curious sort. Being aware is fun!
I am a pseudo-intellect, I always purport to be intelligent. I am skilled at making impractical ideas sound brilliant, just like Karl Marx with communism. I am so good at being a pseudo-intellect, that I had once even managed to convince a person who has 140+ IQ into believing that I am intelligent.
It's sad to realize that school taught you only that intelligence is having good grades and if you study worse, you"ll mean nothing to society. Imagine just being sociable, intelligent, nice, funny and confident person - then you go to school and the enviroment kills your personality, you become depressed, anxious, tired kid with self image issues :(
Jip I’m in that club. My teacher told me when I was 5: I am to dumb and it’s not worth explaining anything to me. Forever afraid to fail or especially be bad at sth in front of someone
Man that is just 100% true! Hopefully sometime or some year schools will better understand the human mind and change their depression system of learning.
The purpose of most education systems is not to create intelligent citizens capable of critical thinking. The purpose is to create citizens who are willing and capable of running machines and systems without thinking about the purpose and sensibleness thereof.
Struggle: When people see you're intelligent in one thing they'll automatically assume that you're some sort of superhuman and you end up disappointing them at some point.
Yea. People tend to think people who are smart know everything. No, that’s wrong. That’s knowledgeable people, and even then, they barely know a thing.
Indeed. Even beings of immense power such as us are still, technically, human. Just because one is endowed with a certain talent, that does not mean they are then superb at everything else. Reality has balances to it. There are no absolutes in nature. Case in point: sometimes one can speak at length with immense eloquence, and other times things just aren’t quite functioning properly, and the sentences end up terse or choppy.
As a smart person, please enjoy your life. You guys might think that our life is like a paradise. But it's not. I usually don't fit in with other people. What's even worse is that I have some slight mental issues. Being smart also creates stress and depression. Smart people don't like love. They focus more on their career. But don't be jealous, everyone is good at their own things!
I think I'm very smart and she's right, it can be very lonely and sometimes sad. Also there's a major test to patience and me being a female can make it difficult with certain men. That's why I tell people I think being intelligent is sometimes overrated. There's so much more to life than just being smart. But I also understand the admiration.
She didn't mention the name of any condition, but what she said matched up perfectly with something called "high potential". I have it, so I can tell... It's not pleasant, let me just say that. Expectations are the worse thing, personally they cause me to backpedal and do awful, disappointing myself and everyone else in the process. Anxiety is pretty much my whole life at this point.
It sucks. If you're smart everybody around you thinks that you know everything. And if you failed once, those hardships and efforts that you showed them will disappear like a freakin smoke. They'll get disappointed. Ps. IM NOT SMART.
It sucks. If you're smart everybody around you thinks that you know everything. And if you failed once, those hardships and efforts that you showed them will disappear like a freakin smoke. They'll get disappointed. Ps. IM NOT SMART.
I feel, and have been told that I am an emotionally intelligent person. A struggle I have had is having my mental health issues down played. When speaking to a therapist, councilor or close friend I never feel they can gauge how serious an issue is to me because I am able to articulate my feelings on the topic so well. I do feel being that aware of your feelings about a certain issue is a big first step in improving mental health. However, just because you are emotionally intelligent enough to recognize your in pain doesn’t mean you are equipped with the tools to solve it on your own.
Yes. This. All day. I had a therapist tell me not long ago that I can't possibly have ADHD because I'm too smart. And when I'm able to analyze and articulate my feelings of depression, anxiety, etc. they look at me like I'm just there trying to score drugs or, as one person said to me, am just overly sensitive and "feel things too much." I've switched therapists a couple of times looking for a better fit. I spoke with one recently about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help with my day-to-day ADHD struggles but, because I was able to talk about it intelligently, she said, "I don't know why you're here. What is it you want me to do?" I stopped seeking help after that one and am now just trying to brute force my way through. I've considered finding another doctor and dumbing it down when I'm there but, tbh, I don't want to spend the next couple of years with them just throwing antidepressants at me while they try to figure out the symptoms I'm already exquisitely aware of. I'm just hoping to find one that understands you can be intelligent AND struggling at the same time.
With me it's like, the more I am honest to the people around me, is the more they don't understand me. I can't get through to anyone. But I am able to explain myself thoroughly and honestly. It's frustrating.
@@johnplaysgames3120 My father have ADHD and is really intelligent. ADHD doesn’t have any thing to do with your intelligence. But having ADHD can make it more difficult to focus and hence make it more difficult to learn something. I kind of compare it to dyslexia. My head can’t make sense of the letters and the letters switch places and is all over the place, but it helped my spelling by learning specific methods for dealing with dyslexia that help to “structure” the letters in my head instead of “running wild”. It quite hurtful to have stereotypes of people with ADHD/Dyslexia other disabilities “All being stupid”. Because they not all stupid they just need the right tools to deal with their struggles. I hope you try to seek help again and find someone who actually understands ADHD and not just look at the stereotypical way. It helped my dad out a lot to have a specialist and it change him for the better. Hope the best for you
I'd rephrase that to "the wisest men are self conscious of their intelligence and therefore decide to do something good with it". There is absolutely nothing wrong with thinking you are smart as we're all intelligent humans. Now what do you do with your intelligence is what makes a person wise
At age 2.5, I got diagnosed with autism in the high functioning area. So I tend to think really logically. But I am so glad, I'm starting to overcome these struggles bit by bit. Because you can learn everything, and if you are one of the people who has these struggles, you can learn it even easier. So I'm fully on my journey to improve my communication skills so I can function well socially. I also really got fascinated in analyzing emotions and how the mind works and this really helped building EQ and feeling better overall.
1. You get Bored with Small Talk 2. You’re Careful with your Words 3. You’re Socially Awkward 4. You Struggle to Make Good Friends 5. You Don’t get Out Much 6. You’re Overly Analytical 7. Your Mind Constantly Craves Exercise 8. You’re Always Feeling Pressured to Succeed
Not to be rude or anything but, I think the video is talking about specific people around a person (about neighbors, family drama, lovers' quarrel, etc.) and sociology is more on the ideas (theories, etc.) about people in general... Isn't it?
funny cuz the quote was taken seriously even tho it really meant people who *complain* on people's behavior This is the reason how artistic simplicity can overcloud true intent.
You get bored with small talk✔️ (but I still pretended to enjoy it because I didn't want to hurt my friend's feelings) You're careful with ur words: NOPE 🙃 You're socially awkward: Maybe You struggle to make good friends: Maybe You don't get out much: ✔️ (i'm too lazy 🙂) You're overly analytical: Maybe Ur mind constantly craves exercise: ✔️ (I like mathematics and science) You're always feeling pressured to succeed: Maybe Do u know why i click this video? Because.... I am the class champion
Sometimes people with high intelligence have struggled greatly in school but when they are taught something that catches their interests and they are successful within learning in said interest they can go very far with it when guided in the path to follow their interests.
I feel in this regard being intelligent is very similar to being a high functioning autist. Amazing at some things, but if they're not interested they struggle
“They may be rare, but they’re out there” Thank you. I really want to make friends. I have at times dumbed myself down and that changed everything. People became more comfortable around me and tried to include me. Unfortunately I was still lonely and found myself aching for meaningful conversation. So I decided to stop pretending.
hmm, yea well a lot of my friends are there to sort of dumb it down for me so I don't have to so more people join our friend group clearly even them some times are like "dude shut up" then I realize I have gone off on a rant.
I have the same struggles. I got into the popular group of my neighborhood but I had to dumb myself down. Anyone here wanna be friends? I *cannot* find anyone to strike a meaningful convo with qwq
@AGreatDay I feel this on a personal level... I have over 100 friends but I still feel so alone. No one understands me. I try to talk to my parents about this but they still don't understand. If you wanna be friends I'm here cause I totally need a new friend that gets me and that I get them!😂👍
Jamie Epic EXACTLY! I have no idea why it exists. I feel like I’m forced to ask someone about the weather or that event going on last night. I just wanna ask someone about what they think life’s about or why we invented something or even why constellations occur. Like the sorta stuff that gets your mind awake.
I consider myself a smart enough person. This video spoke to me, especially the lonely bit. Let me know if you want to chat or play the videogames. We gotta stick together if we can.
I dont like to think of myself as a genius, but- i have been labeled as one (MENSA). Ive always been very socially awkward, indecisive, but as someone with adhd, impulsive and little attention. Along w the problems of attention, I feel as if “I already tried that, learned it, i dont wanna do it again”. Ive struggled a lot, honestly this video helps
@@auronyx18 it is weird when i am so into the world, that when my parent come in, they wonder why i am spinning my hands in a circle. I was imagining beyblades... Other times, isekai stuff
I do the same and my parents said that i will forget those things without reading or writing but i remember everything i read or make some notes on some topic in my mind. And it’s totally normal for me.
Unlesa you're also high in dark triad traits, if you mean emotional confidence, they have a lot of that. But if you mean rational confidence then yeah, hard to tell where you are on the totem pole since you can't read minds. You know you're up there in intelligence but just not easy to be confident about how high up/who might be more capable.
“But they’re so shallow!” “But what if they don’t like you?” “But why should I care how much they like you?” “No questions, acceptance and high social status is mandatory.”
Technically, historians study events and map out patterns and psychologists study the inner workings of the human minds, map out patterns and try to figure out ways to find the reasons behind them. So.... meh
Sorry, if I offended you. That wasn't what I was trying to do. And I'd like to apologize in advance if what I write next seems mean or rude (...I'm usually not a good judge of that lol) but I wasn't trying to make an amusing comment. It was more of a.... passing observation of sorts. (I'd like to apologize again if you're offended. Sorry.)
Crystal Conners No, no. I’m sorry for the misunderstanding, you didn’t offend me, your observation was in the right and relevant. I only pointed out that my comment wasn’t trying to be informative, but just for laughs :) I‘m sorry if my comment sounded defensive, or otherwise passive-agressive. I’m not good at determening this thing either :/
I agree with what you say for many people, but I think it also plays a huge role how u get raised. Many high intelligent people behave like that even in their childhood. Also, many people with high iq also have the asperger syndrome, which is actually the main cause for these social problems. I think that if you're one of the people who don't have the asperger syndrome and are raised well, they can live very good in society. I have an iq of 145, I experienced that on my own. It sounds pretty sad, but people with high intelligence have to learn to "level themselves down" to the level of other people. As you can learn basically everything better the younger you are, same goes for levelling yourself down. I mean at the end there are dozens of people who aren't high intelligent, we have to learn how to live on their world if we wanna live their too. EXCEPT FOR THE FIRST THING HOLY MOLY I HATE SMALL TALK SO MUCH OMFG lol.
This has been the last decade of my life. Knowing I could be successful in most things I'm interested in if I could just get out of my own damn way, but never finding a way to break through. Been one long negative feedback loop.
I usually ignore these personality dissection videos but this oneis very much right on the nose. It's hard to look back on the decades of struggle that cmpromise the lives of those whose intellegence and/or sensitivity exceeds that of those surrounding them. I really demands a serious attempt to come to terms with this reality but finding ways of acceptance inside one's self is the best course of action. We cannot blame ourselves for the conditions we are born into.
1.Majority of people think they're smarter than average. 2. Most idiots consider themselves smart and know-it-all. Truly intelligent people realize how much they dont know, and there's always room for improvement.
Actually I don’t know about that, I perceive that very differently, like, from my young age I was always persuaded that I was better at something than another (maybe to encourage myself because I had always had a very low self esteem, but that’s not the right mentality I know that already) and I tend to think it this way even now (I could add that I think I’m pretty intelligent but I don’t want to sound presomptuous or something… So sorry in advance for making you all reading this thinking that even tho a few are likely to see this comment) So anyway huh. Yea. I don’t know what’s going on my mind, and I’m also asperger with autistics tendencies so that might be the reason why that’s not very clear in my brain…
I've learned one solid thing, related to intelligence: Any attempt to discuss intelligence or to define it, invariably backfires socially, to the point that no truly intelligent person will ever discuss it.
We should discuss and seek to discover what intelligence really is. It greatly helps people understand and relate to others, especially if they are of above average intelligence. But yes, discussing does often backfire. It's a very tricky thing to talk about when it really shouldn't be.
8 Struggles of being a highly intelligent person 1. You get bored with small talk 1:13 2. You're careful with your words 1:52 3. You're socially awkward 2:23 4. You struggle to make good friends 3:12 5. You don't get out much 3:55 6. You're overly analytical 4:27 7. Your mind constantly craves exercise 5:06 8. You're always feeling pressured to succeed 5:37
Im not that smart but I have all those sings and the worst are 6 and 8 ,😭😭💔 i think il gonna act so stupide if i go to a new shcool to avoid 8 even if my grades go low but for 6 its hard i dont now how to not do it i really sturggle with it everyday i hate it😭💔 +I hate jealousy and most people around me are jealous from me I hate it shy can't they just be happy or inspired anyways
Being overly analytical is the part that relates to me, I literally analyse things when there is nothing to analyze left and it results to a wrong answer and makes me very indecisive
@@Shura_01 nah bro don't say that there are many things idk & somebody else will or even Master, just gotta find the type of subjects u find worthwhile or something that catches ur interest
summary of the video: 1. You get bored with small talk 1:12 2. You’re careful with your words 1:52 3. You’re socially awkward 2:23 4. You struggle to make good friends 3:11 5. You don’t get out much 3:54 6. You’re overly analytical 4:26 7. Your mind constantly craves exercise 5:06 8. You’re always feeling pressured to succeed 5:36 recommend watching to learn more
I can totally relate to the feeling pressured to succed, even withing myself, the constant craving of mind stimulating activities, being overly analytical, and not getting out much. But the one thing that I dont relate to (luckily) is the lack of friends. I have found mulitple freind groups that I fit into so well, its hard for me to even decide which I like better.
I love Socrates. Here is another quote of his that comes to mind. "Smart people learn from everything and everyone. Average people from their experiences. Stupid people already have all the answers".
Ran Adam there’s a distinct difference between highly analytical people and conspiracy theorists, highly analytical people work mainly off of evidence while conspiracy theorists work off of beliefs.
I can relate to pretty much ALL of these... except for the one about the words. I often don't think very much before I speak, which leads to trouble sometimes:P Great video, though!
I was put in the box of being “the smart kid” at a very young age. I hated it, and I hated school because of it, so I stopped trying. I was never interested in the busywork of facts and information that school teaches, but I was fascinated by people, their thoughts and their motivations. So now, I’m just an oddly insightful friend to people because I’ve learned to read people a little too well.
This is me, kind of. I was also labeled as ”the smart kid” or you know, ”the A child”. It wasn’t really how I saw myself and I found it really annoying, but I still had to do my best to get good grades to get a good education and job later on in life.
Socrates used pure logic to pick apart other people's logic for a living, he didn't need to know anything (facts) to do that. That is what that quote really means.
In Plato's dialogues Socrates always leads off that he knows nothing in debate with some expert then proceeds to take him apart per Plato who was the script writer thus giving Socrates a certain advantage.
Me: depressed, paranoid, careful, only 2 friends, constantly stressed, unable to keep any interest in anyone or anything, and little to no ability to emote with people. Me: I must be sMorT
I am confirmed highly intelligent, and YES, you portrayed it so well!!! Mostly watched this video for fun, i love watching your videos since i dont feel like im rotting away when i do :D
I have a ninth one. After having lived with a genius for thirty years, I concluded that his greatest handicap was a total inability to understand what life was like with average or even above average intelligence. He didn’t understand effort. For the very few things that were difficult for him he became extremely frustrated. His usual learning process was so different that I would describe it as being downloaded. Nonetheless, I wouldn’t trade the experience of being with him for all those years. I got smarter. He learned more social skills. He was in the end much loved by many people and made some meaningful contributions to this world.
This is not in the video? It’s pretty common in teaching where faculty are learning as easy because they were naturally gifted students and learned easily.
@@macdisciple What this video thinks is, if you are really intelligent you work way too much to gain that, I know this isn't true. If you are really smart you just understand stuff easily. (It's way more complicated of an explanation than that, I'm just lazy)
Sounds like my wife and me. If I enjoyed something it was no effort to master it. Over the years I have learned to see life through her eyes. My expectations of others were thereby lowered. I became less critical. Took me several decades to get that. 55years together now. I don't know how I would have made it without her. She says the same about me. Life is a wonderful adventure.
Bless your heart. I think I'm likely in the same stratosphere as your husband, although in somewhat different ways, and have many of the same struggles. I've met a wonderful woman that does those same things for me, yet she has a real issue where she thinks she's stupid, or not smart enough 🤦 Neither of those things are in the slightest way true, and I've never thought that way about her even for a moment. Truth is she's bright, I value her opinion on everything, but the speed at which I process information can intimidate some people. For the record I'm not bragging and take no pride in my intelligence. I did nothing to earn the talent I was born with it and that does not make me special. Everyone has some gift or talent. Many people can fix cars, make amazing artwork, run fast, or play instruments the first try, I cannot do any of those thing. My gift just happens to be more visible and I like to remind myself of that often. Hearing people constantly pump you up can make you an awful person. Any advice outside what I'm doing already ie. being patient, reassuring her, letting her know I think she's the special one in the relationship, etc? I don't want to lose her over misplaced inadequacy. I'm the lucky one not her and I make sure she knows that's how I feel.
@@ColinSemple I'm incredibly extroverted. I don't know a stranger BUT it does get lonely feeling like the smartest person in the room a lot of the time and not being able to start a conversation about what interests me without getting confused stares. I definitely understand what you're saying.
Well not really. I have friends in my class that are extroverted and share all these traits. And um my class is a gifted class (meaning on a test the students scored above the 98th percentile of the population in terms of intelligence)
Why would you hope for that ? We want people to think they are intelligent and we want them to be incorrect but think they are correct this makes it easier for us actual intelligent people who suffer these drones daily the opportunity to utilise these NPC characters to our benefit and make profits and build and innovate while they are distracted by things that we imply or teach them is important or is worth something , happiness for example , they think they need this or that it’s actually real or something that can be attained lol , the clever part is you just dangle something and say this will make you happy or show them another drone claiming to be happy and get them to smile because we told them smiling means happy , and boom they buy it , but it’s a double edged sword see even though happiness is just a concept and not a tangible proven or sustainable thing or feeling that doesn’t mean it can’t be attained. If they believe this house or car or clothes will make them happy then they will make themselves happy to the best their brain can be it , now this doesn’t last long because humans are better at suffering and hardship and adversity it’s why our species is the dominant species we are worse than cockroaches, you can try and drown and your body will automatically try to survive even better example is a drowning person will drown another person in order to survive without even thinking twice the instincts just kick in and it’s auto mode . So what we do is we let purchase our happy products then we get their influences to demonstrate they don’t bring happiness anymore which they don’t for long anyways because being happy is boring . Best idea was a pandemic , i didn’t buy into the danger of it but u thrived i the fear of society , watching these idiots buy all the toilet paper and show the true nature of humans when it’s do or die they always pick themselves over others it’s only later they will be kind to others and share things etc onl after they have seen someone else do it which is why they panic buying stupid shit in the first place , I could go on forever but I forgot what I was talking about because I’m looking at my memories of these idiots haha omg but yeah don’t go educating people please I need them dumb so I can exploit them , cheers
@@noompsieOG well you were onto something really important before you lost your train of thought! Kind of like how the media has spent a year dividing us with the most ridiculous allegations , used the word white in every negative connotation there is ,and applied it to all white people didn’t matter if your a good person or racist or not, got a lot of us hurt and mistreated by the ignorant, and now are putting all these let’s do this together commercials like what :now we’re good white people who care! Wow what a miracle, overnight the white people suddenly care and work together!just like that!
Watching this makes me realize why the world will never get along or heal itself....all the smart people don't have a voice and are too reserved to speak up
I have a dream of making a place were intellectual,awkward or silent people who don't like to talk publicly but want to express they're knowledge. A place where only smart or mature people can come and discuss on an unimaginable reality, a future that will be good for both smart and intellectually challenged people but the ultimate problem is that I do not have the knowledge of coding nor can I program as I am only a 5th grader so I am inviting a programmer to help me make a website that will help me and other people like me who are socially shy but intellectually great 😃😃
I have a question. If intelligent people dont have a voice, doesn't that go against the multiple intelligence theory? That states all people are intelligent in their own way. One multiple intelligence category is linguistic. Linguistic intelligence are found in people who knows when and how to speak up. They know how to use words, either through speaking or writing, to adequately convey their thoughts. So if intelligent people are reserved and dont have a voice. Does that mean linguistic people arent intelligent?
It’s actually mostly because extremely smart people are told by stupid people so often that they’re wrong, that they just give up and do something like, make a game
@@Yani_Ya My father is a highly intelligent person who I actually consider to be narcissistic. I on the other hand am overly empathetic and am considered, at least by the military, to be highly gifted enough to have any job I wanted. But me underestimating my ability chose carpentry and masonry. I even during placement accidently tanked an exam to be in linguistics. Meaning half way through I got impatient, thinking I was all wrong, just randomly filled in the rest of the blanks. When turned in and compared to the charts I found I was all right up until that point. Thereby failing the test and not being considered for the job. This was all done at the eighteen year old level when I was 32. At a time when plasticity had become a thing of the past for me, or at least I thought it was.
@@casinogiant I didn't really get the last few sentences (sry English isn't my first language) but the smarter u are, the bigger the increase in empathy is. And the opposite too. I mean that u become more and more sociopathic without being a sociopath. And u do both at the same time which is actually quite funny. Ur "empathy and non-empathy levels" increase at the same rate. Which one u pick depends on ur surroundings although u can switch between the two multiple times in ur life. I must say that I am not a psychologist or something like that. This is just what I've noticed.
How do you deal with the pressure to succeed? The pressure from within specifically. Also, that bit on knowing things other don't being a secret pleasure, spot on.
When people only notice your existence when they need the next answer to the test. When people question why you need to go into such detail in an explanation When people only talk about drugs, sex, and alcohol When you get one answer wrong on the test and immediately question your entire method and line of thought When people dismiss you when you need help because they always assume that you will figure it out When you are weighing the pros and cons, but people keep pressing you for an immediate answer or solution When you can't decide on how to start, so you just don't start or heavily procrastinate When people think you are lazy, but you just don't do anything unless you are sure it is perfect When two people that are arguing want you to take a side, but you try to look at all the angles and end up angering both sides When you try to be honest, but it just hurts others because you are not tactful When you need to choose a path, but don't want to commit because of the potential repercussions When you're in a group, but you feel more alone than when you're by yourself because you're always the minority When you realize you said the wrong word or used the wrong phrasing right after stating it Wen peeple spel thing not corect an uze bad gramur evn tho da computer corects it four u When the ppl folk sound like they be txting on a formal paper like cmon bruh y u use slang m8 When you make a mistake and people say, "I thought you were smart." When someone who is factually wrong insists that they are correct even after you give them extensive evidence as to why they are not When you realize that you have become somewhat like the group you are in and curse yourself for falling into the herd When you are afraid to tell people your hobbies because you are afraid that people will think of you as a nerd When you wish that you could just think like everyone else and be blissfully unaware because it is easier than looking into the depths of reality and yourself
Academic performance is a completely overrated way to measure intelligence. Its mostly based off of memorization. So the school related struggles you mention does not apply to all intelligent people. Some intelligent people are disinterested academically. I relate to the antisocial tendencies. Mainly because i like to think about things and i can't do that around people where im forced to constantly read social clues
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Summary:
1) You get bored with small talk
2) You’re careful with your words
3) You are socially awkward
4) You struggle to make good friends
5) You don’t get out much
6) You’re overly analytical
7) Your mind constantly craves exercise
8) You’re always feeling pressured to succeed
Ty💞
Ok I might relate to most of these, but I'm still dumb.
... that just means I’m an introvert
@@bendavis6457 I relate to all of these but I am the dumbest person alive
Intelligent people know what to say in social surroundings they don't feel awkward only dorks do
Biggest struggle: *answering whether I am actually highly intelligent or just a smug idiot*
😂😂😂
OKeily tbh I think I might be both
@Marisol M WARNING:
[Please if you prefer understanding what I said and making sure your not misinterpreting what I said please read the entire comment or read it twice to make sure. Since this is a pretty long comment.]
Or it means the person has self doubt because they are self aware of their lack of intellect. Or it's the other way around since just, because ones intelligent doesn't mean they are good at self awareness.
If one doubts their intellect it's, because they know their intellectual flaws so they assume they aren't that intelligent. If one lacks self awareness, but is intelligent they may doubt their intellect, because they don't want to make assumptions about themselves when they don't know much about themselves. After all most intelligent people tend to do to much learning about THINGS rather than PEOPLE. So they might not be that self aware about themselves. Since weirdly enough learning more about others helps one learn more about themselves. So if you don't do enough socialising you won't understand yourself that well. Unless you do constant self reflection, which I am not 100% sure that would always work out for a person. Since you need more than self reflection to help understand yourself. Since you need to be able to look at other perspectives to further your understanding of yourself. Therefore you still need social interaction.
Since most intelligent people are introverted or socially awkward this generally causes problems with the person's self awareness.
Though this is not taking into account other things that might be able to by pass all that.
Another thing to consider is that this video lists traits that MOST intelligent people have. Their is bound to be abnormality. Like extravert geniuses do exist. There is also the fact that plenty of people have these traits that are listed in the video, but are not geniuses. Most geniuses are introverts, but most introverts are not geniuses.
I always just say, I am just smart enough to realize there is no good way to answer that question.
@Marisol M This is not true. Highly intelligent people rarely lack confidence in their general intelligence, instead they lack confidence in any specific opinion. Understanding that hidden facets of a construct can radically change ones understanding and opinion. Highly intelligent people see and and understand that that any equation which represents a real life phenomenon is going to be immensely complex making high levels of confidence in any specific model irrational.
“Your mind has the munchies” is the cutest description of this problem that I’ve ever heard... I like it, thank you! :D
Yes
Helo I Am InTeLiGeNt
You are a brain. Feed that thing well.
I fill those munchies by playing games and doing mentally challenging things
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being socially intelligent is also an aspect of being intelligent. Its the overthinking everything that makes it hard for me
I couldn't agree more.
Same brader it's making us holding our selves back with our own hands and at the end of day your intelligence is just thoughts n ideas that you can't achieve
same im like always trying to get in the otherd minds to act like they want to that I almost lost myself
Indeed. Especially with “neurotypicals”: depending on the country, they are either fairly logical or absolutely absurd when it comes to interaction, with figments like “unwritten rules” that they can’t even define themselves, or using very watered down terms to speak about matters of a serious nature because the truth is too bold for their little minds to handle.
I could continue into a full-on rant about this, but that would be a touch long winded for a comment.
"Intelligent people tend to have less friends than the average person. The smarter you are the more selective you become"
-Nikola Tesla
I don't know if someone famous actually said that but that is an interesting statement
I dont have any friend and m
Im dumb af
omg... I totally relate to that.... I don't have many friends and I feel very guilty at the fact I'm too selective about people. Honestly, having to know more things than others is a real curse. There are some times I think of this as a curse because no one understands you at all, and it's hard to state all of your thoughts out loud, because there are too many of them. I wish I had OP ways of speaking and I wish I could think less carefully about what I'm about to say. Heck, I'm thinking about what I should say not to be offensive or degrading in anyway right now. Honestly, people out there who want to know more... Sometimes, knowledge is a curse that makes you very, very, very depressed. (once you know how the world and people are, you truly value wholesome moments for what they are)
I really think I shouldn't have said that... also, I really like the quote you found. This comment is underrated.
fewer friends, not less friends
"There is so much inputs, that it blocks your output... " Allright that is the perfect explanation.
2 weeks late on my essay on abstract concepts. Decided to write one on "Fear". Well, fear of failure has eliminated my ability to write it
You try writing an essay about the concept of fear when you have performance anxiety! Its an ironic cycle of pain!
I’ve been looking for a way to explain that for so long, and now I finally have one!!
Yes..... U r right......
Bcz of this problem, people used to call us Confused.....
Yes
1. you get bored with small talk
2. you're careful with your words
3. you're socially awkward
4. you struggle to make good friends
5. you don't get out much
6. you're overly analytical
7. your mind constantly craves excersize
8. you're always feeling pressured to succeed
Have a nice day!
Thank you
Guess I’m not smart
Highly intelligent
all of these apply Tom me besides 2
Yeah all of the above for me. But I never thought I was that smart. Like I sometimes struggle with simple tasks and often overlook the most obvious things.
as someone with autism i find your videos super helpful with trying to explain to people how i see the world... and i have to say thank you... even though it may not seen like a lot this is for a neurodivergent person... i love seeing your videos in my feed and you always are there to push me in the right derection when im confused on life... via in a realtionship where i do not know if im the jerk or if i just dont understand... thank you Psych2go
I guess i’m smart enough to know that i’m not highly intelligent.
humble brag
I know nothing- Socrates
Based on what the Dunning Kruger experiment results tell us that means you are probably one of the smart ones. ;)
There are different fields of "highly intelligent". If the IQ is not for you, try the EQ - Emotional Intelligence Quotient. It's more rewarding, anyway. And if that's not for you, you'll find something. Or you create something. Your choice.
23kgoat lol i feel that
This video is just telling me I’m not highly intelligent in 8 different ways
At least You are funny ;)
Me too 😭
Mist opportunity to say in 9 different ways
All the 8 traits come with drawbacks also, so you must be grateful
Im not highly intelligent.... im Just only High.
"Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know." Ernest Hemingway
"Ignorance is bliss." -Thomas Gray
I would say that as soon as I speak of my ideas relating to science and philosophy and human constructs like marriage my friends who are always judging people and relaying useless information about how much they remember from the past and where they have been, they seem to be annoyed with me that I don't remember those things or I say I try not to judge people. I have begun to realise as I get older that I live in this 24 hours because this is all we have and I've wasted so much of my life in the company of people who just have good memory's for people's lives they have come across, hey ho thanks for this,
@@suzangroves959 that's really beautiful
@Fallon Waye so true
@Fallon Waye you can find happiness- before you find awareness. If you're not aware you arent aware of who knows what, whats not to be happy about? Life would be exceedingly more simple and easy to understand. And how can you truly feel entitled to tell someone else their happiness is wrong or incorrect? I think i just argued in defense of science deniers but 🤷
The connotations of ignorance are always negative. Even if ignorant people tend to be happier, it doesn't mean that their lifestyle is more practical than the one of those who are aware of the harsh side of the world. The more knowledge you accumulate, the more benefits it rewards - because with more knowledge, navigating around the world becomes easier; your life becomes generally better. It is better to search for the flaws of something, rather than only watching its positive side.
"this is your fate, you need to be here, always" I cried.
Me clicking on this thinking I’m highly intelligent
Same hahhaha
Same hahhah
thanks for bursting my bubble (,:
Me too 😂
yes omgggg i hate this
I think I'm just semi-intelligent, introverted and a procrastinator
DANK DERP420 fair enough fair enough.😂 I feel yah
Same
I think I am the same.
Same lol
h e h
same
I’m bored, so....timestamps!
1. You get bored with small talk - 1:13
2. You are careful with your words - 1:51
3. You’re socially awkward - 2:23
4. You struggle to make good friends - 3:10
5. You don’t go out much - 3:54
6. You’re overly analytical - 4:26
7. Your mind constantly craves exercise - 5:05
8. You’re always feeling pressured to succeed - 5:36
Make this the top comment
Thank you!
thoguht about doing the same after i lost interrest in the video after the first 40 seconds. now i need to search for something else to stop my mind from overthinking everything D:
What a load of crap
That's just an introvert
Thank you for clearing it up for me
I have no questions at all
🙂 Good luck 🍀
People who are consistently at peace with their own mental health in this day and age. They are probably the new smart we all aspire to be.
If there was a slew of replies here, I'd hope they'd be as sane and quait as your reply but mayb one day
@Devon S Can you rationalise why being "at peace" should be taken in a negative context? My take with your comment is, if it is always about "progression", it feels like the capitalist version of mental health.
hope ur well xx
@@jordanhaynes9728 Thank you, you too ❤
@Devon S are you disturbed or perturbed.
The one trait this video missed was, people who talk to themselves. Self narration is very helpful with staying on track of your day to day tasks, and also really great for your mental health.
Agreed
I think that is not only in highly intelligent, but in more smart than others. I think that it was out because of that. Btw its only my opinion dont hate🤷♂️.
Agreed, I do it a lot
I’m very curious on this. Can you expand on self narration?
Do you mean as in saying out loud what you’re currently doing?
I believe most humans do talk themselves but not out loud so I assume you mean speaking out loud to ones self.
Who else finds that the most appealing conversation is with yourself?
yep
Yup ... Ariana Grande said that ... lol differently.
Yes
Honestly, same.
y e s
"Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people." I appreciate the quote. The thing is, we also need to talk about people and events even if we prefer talking about ideas because learning about what is going on in your small circle, school, workplace, and city... is a way to gather data on the outside world, no doubt the smart people love all kinds of information and data. This awareness is also crucial for making informed decisions and understanding the context in which we live. Everyone gets bored of small talk at some point;). Still, exchanging small talk is better than non-engaging with people (like sticking your mind to books, and studies), because we all crave some sort of communication for better or for worse. I think every small talk is an opportunity to add a tool to your skill set. The stories you wouldn't consider worth telling may teach you something.
Not to forget, the " Gossiping" is actually an evolutionary concept. Discussing people helped early humans form alliances, identify threats, and build cohesive communities. I am not saying you should talk badly behind people, but when someone tells you things, try not to be bored with the facts and analyze the situation. Try to understand why they gave you that random piece of info at that very moment. Life gets less boring, and people become more interesting.
All of this to say, talking about ideas might be seen as the hallmark of great minds, but as long as you do not want to live in a thought bubble, you need all kinds of people around you to help you improve yourself and find the network to excel in your path. Discussing ideas, events, and people is equally important in creating a well-rounded and informed individual. Embracing all types of conversations can lead to intellectual stimulation, practical knowledge, and strong social networks. This balanced approach not only enriches personal growth but also enhances one’s ability to navigate and contribute to the world effectively.
It's a good description of a highly intelligent person who happens to be an analytical introvert with social anxiety, it's also a good description of an analytical introvert with social anxiety that has a normal or even below average level of intelligence. This is far from the only archetype for intelligence.
True this video is clearly about introvert
Right lol I feel like this is based on stereotypes and personality more than anything
I would say that there is truth to this, but not from every angle ;) I can only talk about research in Germany, but look up Prof. Rost and his research on giftedness. It is a huge, ongoing research project on the development of gifted children (defined as IQ of 130 or more) and found, among other things, that giftedness is a contributing factor of resilience. Many gifted children are better adjusted, better at making friends and less likely to be thrown off balance emotionally than their peers. The struggles described in this video, however, do exist as well
maybe the introvert thing holds a bit of truth, i mean, my father (pretty wise guy) says that those who listen are the wise and intelligent ones; so you could say which tend to, not always, be introverts. * shrug *
Thank you! This was my problem too. I know a lot of super-intelligent extroverted people without social anxiety....
"Intelligence knows it limits whereas ignorance knows no bounds." Anonymous(Dont know)
This anonymous guy knows alot of things i've been seeing that guy in every quote in books or in the internet
@@louietorres6628 fr guys a genius
Great quote :D
“There are two things that are infinite, the universe and human ignorance, but I am not to sure about the former.”
😂
My Mom cried when she read my first standardized test scores in First grade; she said being so intelligent, I'd never be happy.
Fifty years later, I can tell you that I am actually very happy, but it required stepping away from what she and most others would consider 'success'.
Does that mean you are happy but only fifty years later or how should your comment be interpreted?
@@aminbinsalim1995 - everyone's path is unique. It took me a long time to realize my own happiness fell outside of the daily practices of those society considers 'successful'.
@@floydblandston108 It seems like you equate happiness to success, am i wrong to infer that? If that's how you view it then why? And please pardon me for inquiring if it's too invasive or personal. And if i may add some more questions.
First of all i respectfully think you're mother was just worried about you but didn't know to use a better way to say it, and i apologize if It's like i am rubbing salt in your wound but knowing that it took you this long to find your happiness, where then lyed the problem? Did you try for example to do what you're mother told you in order to be happy but actually were wrong untill you were able to get out of it on your own? Or do you see some thruth to what she said based on your experience and what you witnessed around you regarding people that are
intelligent or highly intelligent?
Props to you for your efforts and finding happiness
@@aminbinsalim1995 - have you read 'Candide' by Voltaire? If not, I would suggest you start there.
@@floydblandston108 Thank you for the suggestion, but with all due respect does it have to do with our discussion? Because as far as i am concerned, i've asked you a few questions, if you're not willing to respond it's totally ok but i wonder if i might be misunderstood or not but at least i know i yet to actually be explicit with my intention so i think it would be reasonable to give you the befenit of the doubt.
Does your comment means you got what i intend to convey or that you assume you got it?
P.S: I assume you are someone who has toughness but please do not worry, i mean no harm
I know I've always been a highly intelligent person, and a lot of the social issues described in points 1-5 I definitely struggled with as a kid. However, I'm older now and people have described me as a social butterfly. My emotional intelligence has skyrocketed in the last 2-3 years from journaling, and paying more attention to my feelings (perhaps too much (paralysis by analysis lol)). Anyway, don't think that you need to be socially awkward to be smart because you can be smart and outgoing at the same time! Don't put yourself in a box!
I've never seen a community on youtube as supportive as this one, I feel like any of us can say whatever is on our minds and people will automatically be supportive and friendly. You guys rock!
well as long as it adverstising friendly...
Paper!
Im not a dad, not even an adult and im already pulling the dad puns... 🙈
I'm not intelligent at all! But there's this friend of mine who's a genius, he's super intelligent and creative. And he has to deal with all those struggle. It breaks my heart when I think people are afraid of talking to him when he's actually one of the sweetest people I've ever met. Don't be afraid of the smart kid, guys, they propably just need a friend.
He is very lucky with a friend like you. Intelligent people really crave loyalty and dependability, and having their heart broken really hits them quite hard. So you being there for him probably means the world to him. I wish I had a friend like that 'xD
@@user-unknown173 And yes, that is absolutely correct. The smarter you are, the more you view of the world. Including the uglier sides of things. That can really affect one's mental state. I have noticed this, myself. I try my best to stay optimistic, but sometimes I just get pessimistic and think the world is just a repetitive pattern of people making the same mistakes over and over and there is nothing I can do to change it. Then I stop to think: "I CAN". Every little bit helps. Giving just a little bit of hope to another person can already mean the world to someone. So that is what I do, now. Spread positivity and tell everyone things will be okay. Mental health is immeasurably important and it needs to be taken more seriously in today's society. Even geniuses forget to see the bright side to things and need reminding sometimes.
Man
thank you bro you are the best thats true man
😭Thanks man.
@Jou t6 Well... as a "smart" person myself, I can attest to the fact that... "doing stupid things to get more friends", is a bad idea. We can't really tell the difference between "stupid" and "pointless". "Stupid" things are idiotic things that could appeal to the average Joe since it's something weird and wild, which is interesting. "Pointless" things are boring and unappealing things. And these things sound like one and the same things to my ears. Stupid stuff is pointless. Pointless stuff is stupid. But there IS an actual difference that decides whether you'll be interesting to other people or not.
My favourite saying is “ignorance is bliss” and this is best applied here.
Mine is "If our lives are but a spark in the eyes of gods, then let us blind them".
Or "When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags".
It really is true. As much as I would love to be ignorant and happy, I need to know the truth about things and keep learning more. Curiosity is my vice
Ignorance isn't actually bliss. Its temporary bliss. Eventually all the drama explodes in your face. Better to face reality while its a pebble and not wait till its a boulder that you can't stop.
@Delta 38 but it still applies. Ignorance could lead to problems being made in the future is what i think he's talking about. Not ignoring current problems in the present but ignoring details that will help in the future
So that's why I am like this! I try hard to find friends and no one understand what I am actually seeing ,because I overthink everything! Thanks a lot!
When you don't know if you're intelligent or just depressed.
You're probably depressed ... _because_ you are intelligent.... and surrounded by friggin idiots (in comparison). Projecting? Why yes!!! yes I am!!
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... still.. might be true for you too.
How bout both
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
@@LNDMajorr247
It might undermine the energy necessary to perform, but yes it definitely can
@Σταυρούλα
WHAT are you talking about?? Where did you get that idea from?
Fact: The average person thinks they’re smarter than the average person.
How that so ??
Yez so true
@@kakam458 sameeeee
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect
@@andyappleton3353 😂 I was gonna mention this too. The dumber a person is the more confident & smart they think they are because they don't know what they don't know. But when you learn more you start to realise there's so much you still don't know & are therefore less confident. Unless I think you hit the end genius level & then you know you know a lot on that topic/s.
"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts"
And that the smart people are outnumbered by the fools, this world is not made for highly intelligent people. If you are not socially educated/integrated then you got massive problems to get into an habitat where you can use your intelligence properly. social inequality and an unleashed misanthropic capitalism are the roots of most of individual struggles with what this clip framed so nice as "social awkwardness". What got this in common with the COVID-19? The consequence of the virus is, that the virus works as an catalyst. In lesser time, as without this nasty little boy, we will see worldwide the issues in "our" system. And IF we are smart enough (or if the smart people are loud enough) than we got perhaps a chance to fix our problems. And the virus is the less important problem we got. Who is not making the Rick Grimes move in the last year, will know what i mean...
This! 100%
that quote is attributed to one of my all time favorite philosophers: Bertrand Russell
Well thats why being wise is better than being intelligent or smart, as u get to succeed in every aspect of your life in the best way possible witha high EQ too.
What if one's assurance rests in God? God is all knowing and all powerful. I don't think that applies in all situations. Our minds are limited and we can never fully comprehend the mind of God; Creator of Heaven and Earth
“The problem is that idiots are full of confidence, and the intelligent are full of doubt.”
Indeed. The key with intelligence is, I’ve found, to not let one’s questioning get so far that one begins to second guess and onverthink too far, but to not let it be so low one blindly or impulsively goes along with anything.
Being smart means being questioning, and questioning tends to turn on oneself at times, leading one to imposter syndrome and the like.
Whereas the Dunning-Kruger effect runs rampant in some parts.
I am definitely full of doubt, thanks self awareness!
“The problem with being intelligent is that it REALLY hurts when you do something stupid.”
-Someone I can’t remember
Also the truth. You basically cant allow yourself to make any mistake. Not for the other peoples sake but for your own.
Humility may be an intelligent choice.
oh yeah... really true
@Seeing Through thats true of course. But it doesnt feel like that. It feels as if you had failed in some way (maybe because you expect from yourself to be better than others but at that moment it seems as if you are not? That might be it). Even if you know no one expexts you to never make mistakes. I guess its possible to overcome that but its hard.
I think that's pride?
I don't feel "highly intelligent" even when people say that, but I identify with all of these. It's good to know that this thing I've been struggling since I was a child is not so uncommon
Same and I am all of these and none of these at the same time
Well the "Highly intelligent people succeed in University and get good jobs" is wrong.
how do you feel about quantum physics? or are you more of a philosophy type of guy? Music? Art?
Same here. I don't see myself as super intelligent, I know some people who I would call really intelligent, I'm below them. But... if I watch just enough youtube videos about "average people", interviews, I get cringy right away in the face of the stupidity that flows out the mouth of some humans...
I scored a 154 QI test and it felt awkwardly easy as in I don't understand how you could get any of it wrong. So i guess i'm not bad at logic. But.. i don't think i'm smart, i just think most of us are pretty dumb.
@@rohansampat1995 I like all of it.
"Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people."
Truest quote I've heard in a while. Incredible!
Well. What does it mean if you discuss all three?
Also the fact she said the Lawn Flamingo isn't interesting is baffling to me. Imagine how much time, care and effort someone put into molding that lawn flamingo's shape
Eleanor Roosevelt is the one who said it
Don't get it. Great statisticians discuss events, and I don't think they're average.
@@danielanderson6933 it was done in a factory by a mechanical assembly line. Now you know why it interests nobody to talk about it. Lol
So good and familiar, thank you! ❤
“you don’t go out much”
me: in lockdown
also me: ah, intelligence
This is the best comment I've seen in about a decade
Remember, the lockdown is socially acceptable hermitism. Finally, I feel justified.
*Sips Coffee*
"You dont go out much"
*Takes Sip With PINKY Up*
Ah, to be intelligent.
Here, take my like
KSKSKSKSKSKSKSKSK MY LUNGS
the biggest struggle I can think of is: "am i actually smart enough, or am I going on confirmation bias based on what a few individuals close to me have said"
Just watch the general buzz in the comments of several issues. if you see the overwhelming sea of widow licking, floor drooling stupidity represented by 80+% of the comments you are likely smart.
If you think 80% of the comments are interesting, you are one of THEM...
@@86Corvus so 90% of the people who read them are smart?
Yes
The fact that you question yourself that way should give you your answer. Unintelligent people don't question.
@@ramyfarah5293 what is question
“Highly intelligent person”
Hoo boy I’m curious what kind of crowd this is gonna bring in
Is this sarcasm supposed to mean you think only idiots who think they're smart will watch this
Yea, these can be just usual introvert things that doesnt have to mean that you are smart
(burp) Moooorty
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tbh a smart person shouldn't have a hard time communicating with anyone because they're smart enough to recognize how other people communicate and match their level effectively. The "smart people hate small talk" thing immediately throws me off because small talk is a great way to get to know someone and communicate with very low stakes. To imply that "smart people" only want to talk about high-concept, complicated shit is stupid. I love debate and media analysis and high-concept stuff, but it gets exhausting. Talking about the weather or a something "unimportant" is easy. It's like saying "talented baseball players don't want to just play catch" or something. Of course they do. Shoot.
M-K-L i don‘t agree with that statement. Actually, highly intelligent people have a hard time communicating with other people, because they usually have other mannerisms and interests. Thats why gifted students are often bullied in school, apart from the jealousy. Being socially intelligent isn’t the same as being highly intelligent 🤷♀️
Tinker Belle “gifted students are bullied in school” is exactly the kind of generalization that causes this misunderstanding. It isn’t even necessarily accurate. As a socially anxious gifted student who was never bullied in school, I feel the need to voice that this correlation between intelligence and social ineptitude is complete bologna. There are confident smarties. There are shy dummies. It’s never as black and white as many like to think.
"There's nothing wrong with being who you are. In the end, others don't validate or create who you are, only you do."
Love it❤
Everyone's ego: let me introduce myself.
I feel personally attacked
facts
Psych2Go: Pats head
:It’s going easy on you:
Hello :D
As small minds talk about people
I don't care if I'm seen as intelligent. I think that being curious is more self satisfying because it's an enjoyment to learn new things rather than an achievement. I'm glad I'm of the curious sort. Being aware is fun!
Being aware can become insanity.
I am a pseudo-intellect, I always purport to be intelligent. I am skilled at making impractical ideas sound brilliant, just like Karl Marx with communism. I am so good at being a pseudo-intellect, that I had once even managed to convince a person who has 140+ IQ into believing that I am intelligent.
Tired of playing the game.......
@Soul Dash smartest thing I’ve read in a min.
@Soul Dash bro knock it off 😂😂
It's sad to realize that school taught you only that intelligence is having good grades and if you study worse, you"ll mean nothing to society. Imagine just being sociable, intelligent, nice, funny and confident person - then you go to school and the enviroment kills your personality, you become depressed, anxious, tired kid with self image issues :(
@@ailenecuevas9598 that is not right...that teacher should be fired.
I don’t have to imagine🥲
Jip I’m in that club. My teacher told me when I was 5: I am to dumb and it’s not worth explaining anything to me. Forever afraid to fail or especially be bad at sth in front of someone
Man that is just 100% true! Hopefully sometime or some year schools will better understand the human mind and change their depression system of learning.
The purpose of most education systems is not to create intelligent citizens capable of critical thinking. The purpose is to create citizens who are willing and capable of running machines and systems without thinking about the purpose and sensibleness thereof.
Struggle: When people see you're intelligent in one thing they'll automatically assume that you're some sort of superhuman and you end up disappointing them at some point.
Yea. People tend to think people who are smart know everything. No, that’s wrong. That’s knowledgeable people, and even then, they barely know a thing.
Indeed. Even beings of immense power such as us are still, technically, human. Just because one is endowed with a certain talent, that does not mean they are then superb at everything else. Reality has balances to it. There are no absolutes in nature.
Case in point: sometimes one can speak at length with immense eloquence, and other times things just aren’t quite functioning properly, and the sentences end up terse or choppy.
This is what I tell my new bosses. Lol. It's a painful fall from the top, so please don't put me there.
too true. One time everyone saw that I had all A+'s and it ruined me forever. My standard for a low grade is now anything other than an A+.
As a smart person, please enjoy your life. You guys might think that our life is like a paradise. But it's not. I usually don't fit in with other people. What's even worse is that I have some slight mental issues. Being smart also creates stress and depression. Smart people don't like love. They focus more on their career. But don't be jealous, everyone is good at their own things!
When you're not intelligent enough but is watching this...Ohh well.. im just curious what it feels like to be smart 😅
I think I'm very smart and she's right, it can be very lonely and sometimes sad. Also there's a major test to patience and me being a female can make it difficult with certain men. That's why I tell people I think being intelligent is sometimes overrated. There's so much more to life than just being smart. But I also understand the admiration.
She didn't mention the name of any condition, but what she said matched up perfectly with something called "high potential". I have it, so I can tell...
It's not pleasant, let me just say that. Expectations are the worse thing, personally they cause me to backpedal and do awful, disappointing myself and everyone else in the process. Anxiety is pretty much my whole life at this point.
It sucks. If you're smart everybody around you thinks that you know everything. And if you failed once, those hardships and efforts that you showed them will disappear like a freakin smoke. They'll get disappointed.
Ps. IM NOT SMART.
It sucks. If you're smart everybody around you thinks that you know everything. And if you failed once, those hardships and efforts that you showed them will disappear like a freakin smoke. They'll get disappointed.
Ps. IM NOT SMART.
Not that good especially with mental issues like i have : )
I feel, and have been told that I am an emotionally intelligent person. A struggle I have had is having my mental health issues down played. When speaking to a therapist, councilor or close friend I never feel they can gauge how serious an issue is to me because I am able to articulate my feelings on the topic so well. I do feel being that aware of your feelings about a certain issue is a big first step in improving mental health. However, just because you are emotionally intelligent enough to recognize your in pain doesn’t mean you are equipped with the tools to solve it on your own.
honestly, your therapist sucks. change immediately. opinion from a neuroscience student who has dabbled in psychology (just starting out though)
Yes. This. All day. I had a therapist tell me not long ago that I can't possibly have ADHD because I'm too smart. And when I'm able to analyze and articulate my feelings of depression, anxiety, etc. they look at me like I'm just there trying to score drugs or, as one person said to me, am just overly sensitive and "feel things too much." I've switched therapists a couple of times looking for a better fit. I spoke with one recently about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help with my day-to-day ADHD struggles but, because I was able to talk about it intelligently, she said, "I don't know why you're here. What is it you want me to do?" I stopped seeking help after that one and am now just trying to brute force my way through.
I've considered finding another doctor and dumbing it down when I'm there but, tbh, I don't want to spend the next couple of years with them just throwing antidepressants at me while they try to figure out the symptoms I'm already exquisitely aware of. I'm just hoping to find one that understands you can be intelligent AND struggling at the same time.
This!
With me it's like, the more I am honest to the people around me, is the more they don't understand me. I can't get through to anyone. But I am able to explain myself thoroughly and honestly. It's frustrating.
@@johnplaysgames3120 My father have ADHD and is really intelligent. ADHD doesn’t have any thing to do with your intelligence.
But having ADHD can make it more difficult to focus and hence make it more difficult to learn something.
I kind of compare it to dyslexia.
My head can’t make sense of the letters and the letters switch places and is all over the place, but it helped my spelling by learning specific methods for dealing with dyslexia that help to “structure” the letters in my head instead of “running wild”.
It quite hurtful to have stereotypes of people with ADHD/Dyslexia other disabilities
“All being stupid”. Because they not all stupid they just need the right tools to deal with their struggles.
I hope you try to seek help again and find someone who actually understands ADHD and not just look at the stereotypical way.
It helped my dad out a lot to have a specialist and it change him for the better.
Hope the best for you
best quote I live by is "The wisest man is he who does not believe he is wise."
Stay humble and hungry for more knowledge.
I'd rephrase that to "the wisest men are self conscious of their intelligence and therefore decide to do something good with it". There is absolutely nothing wrong with thinking you are smart as we're all intelligent humans. Now what do you do with your intelligence is what makes a person wise
The correct answer
This is true. As I've got older, I've realised how much I don't know. There's just so many deep subjects, and so much to learn out there.
Wise people realize that they know barely anything compared to all information but can still recognize that they are wiser compared to others.
"The only thing I know is that I know nothing" ~Socrates/Plato :p
At age 2.5, I got diagnosed with autism in the high functioning area. So I tend to think really logically. But I am so glad, I'm starting to overcome these struggles bit by bit. Because you can learn everything, and if you are one of the people who has these struggles, you can learn it even easier. So I'm fully on my journey to improve my communication skills so I can function well socially. I also really got fascinated in analyzing emotions and how the mind works and this really helped building EQ and feeling better overall.
1. You get Bored with Small Talk
2. You’re Careful with your Words
3. You’re Socially Awkward
4. You Struggle to Make Good Friends
5. You Don’t get Out Much
6. You’re Overly Analytical
7. Your Mind Constantly Craves Exercise
8. You’re Always Feeling Pressured to Succeed
Thanks 🤗
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9. You don't play fortnite
I agree with 8th One iam little stressed
I can relate to 1,3,4,5 and 6
"...small minds discuss people."
Sociologists: 👁👄👁
Underrated.
Severely underrated
Not to be rude or anything but, I think the video is talking about specific people around a person (about neighbors, family drama, lovers' quarrel, etc.) and sociology is more on the ideas (theories, etc.) about people in general... Isn't it?
@@amiraaxel2935 correct, you got the idea
funny cuz the quote was taken seriously even tho it really meant people who *complain* on people's behavior
This is the reason how artistic simplicity can overcloud true intent.
*relates to all points*
me: guess im smart
dunning kruger effect: or are you?
*vsauce music starts playing*
Goddamn i didn't even wanted to watch this video because of that paradox. Guess i was right
@@pabloarriagada4339 You were right? About what? What paradox?
Same for me
What is the dunning kruger effect?
Gijs v. M. when stupid ppl think they’re smart
You get bored with small talk✔️ (but I still pretended to enjoy it because I didn't want to hurt my friend's feelings)
You're careful with ur words: NOPE 🙃
You're socially awkward: Maybe
You struggle to make good friends: Maybe
You don't get out much: ✔️
(i'm too lazy 🙂)
You're overly analytical: Maybe
Ur mind constantly craves exercise: ✔️
(I like mathematics and science)
You're always feeling pressured to succeed: Maybe
Do u know why i click this video? Because....
I am the class champion
Sometimes people with high intelligence have struggled greatly in school but when they are taught something that catches their interests and they are successful within learning in said interest they can go very far with it when guided in the path to follow their interests.
I think you just described ADD people.
@@catwitdabigdog2076 I have ADHD and ASD
@@AngelofDeath333 Neurodivergence is correlated with higher intelligence.
Yeah that’s true
I feel in this regard being intelligent is very similar to being a high functioning autist. Amazing at some things, but if they're not interested they struggle
“They may be rare, but they’re out there” Thank you. I really want to make friends. I have at times dumbed myself down and that changed everything. People became more comfortable around me and tried to include me. Unfortunately I was still lonely and found myself aching for meaningful conversation. So I decided to stop pretending.
hmm, yea well a lot of my friends are there to sort of dumb it down for me so I don't have to so more people join our friend group clearly even them some times are like "dude shut up" then I realize I have gone off on a rant.
I have the same struggles. I got into the popular group of my neighborhood but I had to dumb myself down. Anyone here wanna be friends? I *cannot* find anyone to strike a meaningful convo with qwq
@AGreatDay I feel this on a personal level... I have over 100 friends but I still feel so alone. No one understands me. I try to talk to my parents about this but they still don't understand. If you wanna be friends I'm here cause I totally need a new friend that gets me and that I get them!😂👍
Jamie Epic EXACTLY! I have no idea why it exists. I feel like I’m forced to ask someone about the weather or that event going on last night. I just wanna ask someone about what they think life’s about or why we invented something or even why constellations occur. Like the sorta stuff that gets your mind awake.
I consider myself a smart enough person. This video spoke to me, especially the lonely bit. Let me know if you want to chat or play the videogames. We gotta stick together if we can.
I wish UA-cam didn't remove the survey cards. I miss them...
Same.
Wait youtube did-
I got a survey card today though
@@Γιώργος-ε3τ same-
UA-cam did what!?
I dont like to think of myself as a genius, but- i have been labeled as one (MENSA). Ive always been very socially awkward, indecisive, but as someone with adhd, impulsive and little attention. Along w the problems of attention, I feel as if “I already tried that, learned it, i dont wanna do it again”. Ive struggled a lot, honestly this video helps
Me: instead of exercising my brain normally, imma just imagine things all in my head without writing it down. It is healthy...
I do the same XD My aunt literally thought I was depressed because I sat in my room for 2 hours imagining the plot of a story.
@@auronyx18 it is weird when i am so into the world, that when my parent come in, they wonder why i am spinning my hands in a circle. I was imagining beyblades...
Other times, isekai stuff
I do the same for years. It's cool coz im happy inside my mind. It's a place where i can be everything. Always thinking..
#INTP problems
I do the same and my parents said that i will forget those things without reading or writing but i remember everything i read or make some notes on some topic in my mind. And it’s totally normal for me.
POV: you relate with all of these, but you don’t have the confidence to consider yourself intelligent
Well... I am NOT intelligent. I was just tested for a higher-than-average IQ
Unlesa you're also high in dark triad traits, if you mean emotional confidence, they have a lot of that. But if you mean rational confidence then yeah, hard to tell where you are on the totem pole since you can't read minds. You know you're up there in intelligence but just not easy to be confident about how high up/who might be more capable.
Yea cuz I don’t know which way to turn
intelligent people realize they are not intelligent and so they strive to learn more, making themselves more intelligent.
@@intensopower9398 same, just tested above average, that's not being highly intelligent, it's just plain intelligent
What alot of people in the comments need to know is intelligent people may have social anxiety, but social anxiety doesn't give you intelligence.
I love you.
Yesh and that's why I'm still a fricking idiot(I don't even know how to spell this lol)
Correct my friend
@@NexTheCorrupt gross
Ahh yes… my brain telling me that im intelligent or special, just to protect me of realize how average I am…
This is super relatable.
Imagine being annoyed at everyone around you, but at the same time craving their acceptance... It's miserable.
“But they’re so shallow!”
“But what if they don’t like you?”
“But why should I care how much they like you?”
“No questions, acceptance and high social status is mandatory.”
Sadly I can say I've experienced this before, and it's pretty horrible especially if you're awkward.
Why does an intelligent person want to be accepted by a group of dumb people? Better to be alone.
That’s how I feel all the time. I think my classmates are imbeciles, but at the same time I really want to fit in with them :/
Exactly...
me: *watches video to confirm that i’m stupid*
Same
It’s been confirmed
we been known and just looked for further reassurance lmao
🤣🤣lmao me too
Your profile pic is my current facial expression
"Average minds discuss events"
Historians: ...I'm going to pretend I didn't see that.
"Small minds discuss people"
Psychologists: Are we a joke to you?
Technically, historians study events and map out patterns and psychologists study the inner workings of the human minds, map out patterns and try to figure out ways to find the reasons behind them. So.... meh
Crystal Conners True, but that doesn’t make for an amusing comment.
Sorry, if I offended you. That wasn't what I was trying to do. And I'd like to apologize in advance if what I write next seems mean or rude (...I'm usually not a good judge of that lol) but I wasn't trying to make an amusing comment. It was more of a.... passing observation of sorts. (I'd like to apologize again if you're offended. Sorry.)
Crystal Conners No, no. I’m sorry for the misunderstanding, you didn’t offend me, your observation was in the right and relevant. I only pointed out that my comment wasn’t trying to be informative, but just for laughs :) I‘m sorry if my comment sounded defensive, or otherwise passive-agressive. I’m not good at determening this thing either :/
I agree with what you say for many people, but I think it also plays a huge role how u get raised. Many high intelligent people behave like that even in their childhood. Also, many people with high iq also have the asperger syndrome, which is actually the main cause for these social problems. I think that if you're one of the people who don't have the asperger syndrome and are raised well, they can live very good in society. I have an iq of 145, I experienced that on my own. It sounds pretty sad, but people with high intelligence have to learn to "level themselves down" to the level of other people. As you can learn basically everything better the younger you are, same goes for levelling yourself down. I mean at the end there are dozens of people who aren't high intelligent, we have to learn how to live on their world if we wanna live their too. EXCEPT FOR THE FIRST THING HOLY MOLY I HATE SMALL TALK SO MUCH OMFG lol.
The worst combo is being highly intelligent yet suffering from anxiety and depression...
omg yessssssss
Indeed.
This has been the last decade of my life. Knowing I could be successful in most things I'm interested in if I could just get out of my own damn way, but never finding a way to break through. Been one long negative feedback loop.
Those are very common among intelligent people. Anxiety and depression.
Yes
Nobody:
Me:
“I suck at making friends, must be a genius”
You got it. Just make sure to say “as a highly intelligent individual...” before everything you say
I am good at MAKING friends but KEPPING them is a strrugle
No genius would use such terrible punctuation and grammar!
S P and clearly you can’t understand sarcasm
help me for the love of shrek My comment was referring to your terrible grammar and punctuation; not the tone.
This just gave me a boost of self confidence.
Look up the dunning kruger effect.
Also be aware that Intelligence ≠ wisdom. You can be stupid and smart.
@@shadowbanned3136 I feel like that applies to me
And mine just went down. Now I feel dumb.
@@goddexxratz dumb gang👊
IKR
I usually ignore these personality dissection videos but this oneis very much right on the nose. It's hard to look back on the decades of struggle that cmpromise the lives of those whose intellegence and/or sensitivity exceeds that of those surrounding them. I really demands a serious attempt to come to terms with this reality but finding ways of acceptance inside one's self is the best course of action. We cannot blame ourselves for the conditions we are born into.
"You are not the only one cursed with knowledge. " - purple space guy
He will never be a god for sure
Wow. I love that
1.Majority of people think they're smarter than average.
2. Most idiots consider themselves smart and know-it-all.
Truly intelligent people realize how much they dont know, and there's always room for improvement.
It's called the dunning Kruger effect
Is a roughly-accurate assessment of one's own intelligence impossible? Seems desirable to know how one's tool actually measures out.
That is so true!! Couldnt agree more.
Actually I don’t know about that, I perceive that very differently, like, from my young age I was always persuaded that I was better at something than another (maybe to encourage myself because I had always had a very low self esteem, but that’s not the right mentality I know that already) and I tend to think it this way even now (I could add that I think I’m pretty intelligent but I don’t want to sound presomptuous or something… So sorry in advance for making you all reading this thinking that even tho a few are likely to see this comment)
So anyway huh. Yea. I don’t know what’s going on my mind, and I’m also asperger with autistics tendencies so that might be the reason why that’s not very clear in my brain…
@@aneeku7519 aspie here too🙋♂️
I've learned one solid thing, related to intelligence: Any attempt to discuss intelligence or to define it, invariably backfires socially, to the point that no truly intelligent person will ever discuss it.
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We should discuss and seek to discover what intelligence really is. It greatly helps people understand and relate to others, especially if they are of above average intelligence. But yes, discussing does often backfire. It's a very tricky thing to talk about when it really shouldn't be.
@@jeremiahlow5041
Nah, let's just all call the person that brings it up dumb.
It's a miracle we didn't nuke ourselves out of existence in 1963.
Most people see smartness as how much someone knows that you don't and I think that doesn't even scratch the surface
Also saying that someone isn't smart because they do or don't do something might be just as bad
I'll no longer down my intelligence so others can be comfortable. I love my IQ the way God gave me ❤
8 Struggles of being a highly intelligent person
1. You get bored with small talk 1:13
2. You're careful with your words 1:52
3. You're socially awkward 2:23
4. You struggle to make good friends 3:12
5. You don't get out much 3:55
6. You're overly analytical 4:27
7. Your mind constantly craves exercise 5:06
8. You're always feeling pressured to succeed 5:37
Im not that smart but I have all those sings and the worst are 6 and 8 ,😭😭💔 i think il gonna act so stupide if i go to a new shcool to avoid 8 even if my grades go low but for 6 its hard i dont now how to not do it i really sturggle with it everyday i hate it😭💔
+I hate jealousy and most people around me are jealous from me I hate it shy can't they just be happy or inspired anyways
All lol I still think that I’m incredibly stupid
@@i.like.goblins we are hightly stupid dang✌😎😌
I hate being pressured to succeed, so i literally destroy people's expectations. I hate doing things that exhausts me.
Being overly analytical is the part that relates to me, I literally analyse things when there is nothing to analyze left and it results to a wrong answer and makes me very indecisive
"Those people who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do."
- Isaac Asimov
Nobody in our world is Omniscient wdym?🤔
@@Alex_Aramayo approaching your question to a logical conclusion it would seem that Mr. Asimov was joking, as I was, to quote him in this context. 🙂
I know that I don't anything but still feel stupid
@@adropofgoldensun27 i was Contemplating that but thank you for the kind reassurance
@@Shura_01 nah bro don't say that there are many things idk & somebody else will or even Master, just gotta find the type of subjects u find worthwhile or something that catches ur interest
summary of the video:
1. You get bored with small talk 1:12
2. You’re careful with your words 1:52
3. You’re socially awkward 2:23
4. You struggle to make good friends 3:11
5. You don’t get out much 3:54
6. You’re overly analytical 4:26
7. Your mind constantly craves exercise 5:06
8. You’re always feeling pressured to succeed 5:36
recommend watching to learn more
I relate to all but 2
Why do you gotta call me out.
Guess I'm at least a little smarter than I first thought.
The MVP Thank You
Struggle no.
9. The class votes them as leader
I can totally relate to the feeling pressured to succed, even withing myself, the constant craving of mind stimulating activities, being overly analytical, and not getting out much. But the one thing that I dont relate to (luckily) is the lack of friends. I have found mulitple freind groups that I fit into so well, its hard for me to even decide which I like better.
I love Socrates. Here is another quote of his that comes to mind.
"Smart people learn from everything and everyone. Average people from their experiences. Stupid people already have all the answers".
Socrates never said this.
@@noxteryn thats not what I learned.
I love this!
@@noxteryn doesn't matter
Heeheehaha HAHAHEEHEE 😂😂😂😂😂,I like that one.ty
My professor said I was highly intelligent. He also touched my inner thigh.
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*I’m not sure if I’m highly analytical or just a conspiracy theorist at this point*
Conspiracy theorist = highly curious person.... you know who else was highly curious? Leonardo Da Vinci
@@lightbear939 coincidence? I think not!
Ran Adam there’s a distinct difference between highly analytical people and conspiracy theorists, highly analytical people work mainly off of evidence while conspiracy theorists work off of beliefs.
Why not both?
"Paranoia is just reality on a finer scale."
I can relate to pretty much ALL of these... except for the one about the words. I often don't think very much before I speak, which leads to trouble sometimes:P Great video, though!
I was put in the box of being “the smart kid” at a very young age. I hated it, and I hated school because of it, so I stopped trying. I was never interested in the busywork of facts and information that school teaches, but I was fascinated by people, their thoughts and their motivations. So now, I’m just an oddly insightful friend to people because I’ve learned to read people a little too well.
I relate to this exactly!
Wtf thats the story of my life
omg me too
Me too, but I never completely stopped trying
This is me, kind of. I was also labeled as ”the smart kid” or you know, ”the A child”. It wasn’t really how I saw myself and I found it really annoying, but I still had to do my best to get good grades to get a good education and job later on in life.
"I am the wisest man alive, for I know one thing, and that is that I know nothing."
Socrates
Once you realize you know nothing then you can learn something..... "THE TOOTH FERRY"
Socrates used pure logic to pick apart other people's logic for a living, he didn't need to know anything (facts) to do that. That is what that quote really means.
Wouldn't that make you tied for wisest with everyone else that knows that same one thing?
In Plato's dialogues Socrates always leads off that he knows nothing in debate with some expert then proceeds to take him apart per Plato who was the script writer thus giving Socrates a certain advantage.
Me: depressed, paranoid, careful, only 2 friends, constantly stressed, unable to keep any interest in anyone or anything, and little to no ability to emote with people.
Me: I must be sMorT
You need a therapy my friend at that point... it helps a lot.
I feel the exact same way
Depressed, intelligent... all the same thing, right?
literally me, but then watched this video and realized am not smort
You just described me
I am confirmed highly intelligent, and YES, you portrayed it so well!!! Mostly watched this video for fun, i love watching your videos since i dont feel like im rotting away when i do :D
I have a ninth one. After having lived with a genius for thirty years, I concluded that his greatest handicap was a total inability to understand what life was like with average or even above average intelligence. He didn’t understand effort. For the very few things that were difficult for him he became extremely frustrated. His usual learning process was so different that I would describe it as being downloaded. Nonetheless, I wouldn’t trade the experience of being with him for all those years. I got smarter. He learned more social skills. He was in the end much loved by many people and made some meaningful contributions to this world.
Sounds like me.
This is not in the video? It’s pretty common in teaching where faculty are learning as easy because they were naturally gifted students and learned easily.
@@macdisciple What this video thinks is, if you are really intelligent you work way too much to gain that, I know this isn't true. If you are really smart you just understand stuff easily. (It's way more complicated of an explanation than that, I'm just lazy)
Sounds like my wife and me. If I enjoyed something it was no effort to master it. Over the years I have learned to see life through her eyes. My expectations of others were thereby lowered. I became less critical. Took me several decades to get that. 55years together now. I don't know how I would have made it without her. She says the same about me. Life is a wonderful adventure.
Bless your heart. I think I'm likely in the same stratosphere as your husband, although in somewhat different ways, and have many of the same struggles. I've met a wonderful woman that does those same things for me, yet she has a real issue where she thinks she's stupid, or not smart enough 🤦 Neither of those things are in the slightest way true, and I've never thought that way about her even for a moment. Truth is she's bright, I value her opinion on everything, but the speed at which I process information can intimidate some people. For the record I'm not bragging and take no pride in my intelligence. I did nothing to earn the talent I was born with it and that does not make me special. Everyone has some gift or talent. Many people can fix cars, make amazing artwork, run fast, or play instruments the first try, I cannot do any of those thing. My gift just happens to be more visible and I like to remind myself of that often. Hearing people constantly pump you up can make you an awful person. Any advice outside what I'm doing already ie. being patient, reassuring her, letting her know I think she's the special one in the relationship, etc? I don't want to lose her over misplaced inadequacy. I'm the lucky one not her and I make sure she knows that's how I feel.
This sounds more like "The Struggles of An Intellectual Introvert"
As an extrovert myself, I felt it applies equally. The desire to be understood and accepted by others is a painful struggle.
@@ColinSemple I'm incredibly extroverted. I don't know a stranger BUT it does get lonely feeling like the smartest person in the room a lot of the time and not being able to start a conversation about what interests me without getting confused stares.
I definitely understand what you're saying.
“Small minds discuss people”
Well not really. I have friends in my class that are extroverted and share all these traits.
And um my class is a gifted class (meaning on a test the students scored above the 98th percentile of the population in terms of intelligence)
@@infinitytme676 you feel like the smartest person in the room
Whao,talk about narcisism
More than being "smart" I'm just....just an introvert
Can relate soooo much
@The Moon
lies
add some people pleaser tendencies a d this video and you get me at school
Same lol
The Moon you haven’t met me I would prove you wrong
The ending lines u said were the one's I craved to hear them for so long and now I am relieved, thank you for clearing me.
Intelligence isn’t the grades you get in school hope yall know that
True that
Tell that to the feminazis.
Why would you hope for that ? We want people to think they are intelligent and we want them to be incorrect but think they are correct this makes it easier for us actual intelligent people who suffer these drones daily the opportunity to utilise these NPC characters to our benefit and make profits and build and innovate while they are distracted by things that we imply or teach them is important or is worth something , happiness for example , they think they need this or that it’s actually real or something that can be attained lol , the clever part is you just dangle something and say this will make you happy or show them another drone claiming to be happy and get them to smile because we told them smiling means happy , and boom they buy it , but it’s a double edged sword see even though happiness is just a concept and not a tangible proven or sustainable thing or feeling that doesn’t mean it can’t be attained. If they believe this house or car or clothes will make them happy then they will make themselves happy to the best their brain can be it , now this doesn’t last long because humans are better at suffering and hardship and adversity it’s why our species is the dominant species we are worse than cockroaches, you can try and drown and your body will automatically try to survive even better example is a drowning person will drown another person in order to survive without even thinking twice the instincts just kick in and it’s auto mode .
So what we do is we let purchase our happy products then we get their influences to demonstrate they don’t bring happiness anymore which they don’t for long anyways because being happy is boring .
Best idea was a pandemic , i didn’t buy into the danger of it but u thrived i the fear of society , watching these idiots buy all the toilet paper and show the true nature of humans when it’s do or die they always pick themselves over others it’s only later they will be kind to others and share things etc onl after they have seen someone else do it which is why they panic buying stupid shit in the first place , I could go on forever but I forgot what I was talking about because I’m looking at my memories of these idiots haha omg but yeah don’t go educating people please I need them dumb so I can exploit them , cheers
Ye, allready know that, grades is just preferences from the teachers side and remember dump stuff while you are in an nihilistic crisis.
@@noompsieOG well you were onto something really important before you lost your train of thought! Kind of like how the media has spent a year dividing us with the most ridiculous allegations , used the word white in every negative connotation there is ,and applied it to all white people didn’t matter if your a good person or racist or not, got a lot of us hurt and mistreated by the ignorant, and now are putting all these let’s do this together commercials like what :now we’re good white people who care! Wow what a miracle, overnight the white people suddenly care and work together!just like that!
I can't tell if I'm the dumbest person on the planet or I'm actually smart.
I mean dumb people don't usually know they are dumb
I feel you...
They say smart people think they are dumb
if you cant tell then you probably dumb
@@whatever6874 I disagree, for to think is to exist. Everyone is intelligent in there own way. I pity those who think less of others. Think about it.
Watching this makes me realize why the world will never get along or heal itself....all the smart people don't have a voice and are too reserved to speak up
omg this spoke volumes
I have a dream of making a place were intellectual,awkward or silent people who don't like to talk publicly but want to express they're knowledge. A place where only smart or mature people can come and discuss on an unimaginable reality, a future that will be good for both smart and intellectually challenged people but the ultimate problem is that I do not have the knowledge of coding nor can I program as I am only a 5th grader so I am inviting a programmer to help me make a website that will help me and other people like me who are socially shy but intellectually great 😃😃
Faek Upanto this is an amazing idea!!!
I have a question. If intelligent people dont have a voice, doesn't that go against the multiple intelligence theory? That states all people are intelligent in their own way.
One multiple intelligence category is linguistic. Linguistic intelligence are found in people who knows when and how to speak up. They know how to use words, either through speaking or writing, to adequately convey their thoughts.
So if intelligent people are reserved and dont have a voice. Does that mean linguistic people arent intelligent?
It’s actually mostly because extremely smart people are told by stupid people so often that they’re wrong, that they just give up and do something like, make a game
Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for posting this! ❤
This really focuses on intelligent introverts that have high empathy.
u know one can't be smart with low empathy right? or was it sympathy?
@@Yani_Ya empathy is definitely a big factor.
@@joshualong7517 my parents say I have a lot of empathy
@@Yani_Ya My father is a highly intelligent person who I actually consider to be narcissistic. I on the other hand am overly empathetic and am considered, at least by the military, to be highly gifted enough to have any job I wanted. But me underestimating my ability chose carpentry and masonry. I even during placement accidently tanked an exam to be in linguistics. Meaning half way through I got impatient, thinking I was all wrong, just randomly filled in the rest of the blanks. When turned in and compared to the charts I found I was all right up until that point. Thereby failing the test and not being considered for the job. This was all done at the eighteen year old level when I was 32. At a time when plasticity had become a thing of the past for me, or at least I thought it was.
@@casinogiant I didn't really get the last few sentences (sry English isn't my first language) but the smarter u are, the bigger the increase in empathy is. And the opposite too. I mean that u become more and more sociopathic without being a sociopath. And u do both at the same time which is actually quite funny. Ur "empathy and non-empathy levels" increase at the same rate. Which one u pick depends on ur surroundings although u can switch between the two multiple times in ur life. I must say that I am not a psychologist or something like that. This is just what I've noticed.
Could you do a „8 Struggles of being a highly stupid person“ please? I need a video I can actually relate to 😅
Titan Girl the fact that you're watching this video, shows that you're curious and trying to learn and are not "highly stupid"
I got a good healthy laugh from this
Same here I need one like now😂😂
@@cecerats r/woooosh
No need. Struggling for stupid people is normal are not counterintuitive.
You missed the most important struggle of all: having to deal with unintelligent people who believe they are smart.
We live in a society where highly intelligent people are doubtful, whereas stupid people are hubris and ignorant. I love the world we live in 😒
Sounds like you've got a rough time 😉😅
haha you got it right!
Condescending, if that’s you’re biggest struggle than you may be over estimating yourself.
FUUUUCK, ur so right omg
How do you deal with the pressure to succeed? The pressure from within specifically. Also, that bit on knowing things other don't being a secret pleasure, spot on.
When people only notice your existence when they need the next answer to the test.
When people question why you need to go into such detail in an explanation
When people only talk about drugs, sex, and alcohol
When you get one answer wrong on the test and immediately question your entire method
and line of thought
When people dismiss you when you need help because they always assume that you will figure it out
When you are weighing the pros and cons, but people keep pressing you for an immediate answer or solution
When you can't decide on how to start, so you just don't start or heavily procrastinate
When people think you are lazy, but you just don't do anything unless you are sure it is perfect
When two people that are arguing want you to take a side, but you try to look at all the angles and end up angering both sides
When you try to be honest, but it just hurts others because you are not tactful
When you need to choose a path, but don't want to commit because of the potential repercussions
When you're in a group, but you feel more alone than when you're by yourself because you're always the minority
When you realize you said the wrong word or used the wrong phrasing right after stating it
Wen peeple spel thing not corect an uze bad gramur evn tho da computer corects it four u
When the ppl folk sound like they be txting on a formal paper like cmon bruh y u use slang m8
When you make a mistake and people say, "I thought you were smart."
When someone who is factually wrong insists that they are correct even after you give them extensive evidence as to why they are not
When you realize that you have become somewhat like the group you are in and curse yourself for falling into the herd
When you are afraid to tell people your hobbies because you are afraid that people will think of you as a nerd
When you wish that you could just think like everyone else and be blissfully unaware because it is easier than looking into the depths of reality and yourself
I relate to most of it thanks 😄
Academic performance is a completely overrated way to measure intelligence. Its mostly based off of memorization.
So the school related struggles you mention does not apply to all intelligent people. Some intelligent people are disinterested academically. I relate to the antisocial tendencies. Mainly because i like to think about things and i can't do that around people where im forced to constantly read social clues
@@nikitaniki19 Yes, now my mind is munching this food for thought. Shit my mind is fucking voracious lol.
My favourite phrase is. One can never design anything idiot proof because one always underestimates the ingenuity of idiots.
My hobby is mathematics. I use to hide this because I did not want to be called a nurd. Now at 69 I don't give a shit.
"I am in this strange condition where i have a low esteem of myself. But i still think i'm better than the others..."
Hey bruh
I love it! So true
@Alex Novak I agree but it's still funny how you said it
@@misrandarmawan6934 what's up!(¬_¬)ﾉ
@@Shaggy_3005M good job for hanging on
I have all these struggles, but not the intelligence.
How are you so sure of that?
Most highly intelligent people realise that they can never truly know anything.
@@jujichop69 Sure but you can have a pretty good idea.
ok dummy, if you say so.....lol
@Maxime True.