This CLOWN WORLD Dispute Is Going Insanely Viral on TikTok
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- Опубліковано 22 бер 2024
- A confrontation between an Asian mother and a bakery worker has gone massively viral on TikTok for tens of millions of views. One alleges racism, the other alleges fatphobia-but both of them are wrong. Let’s break it down.
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My Korean grandma would straight up tell you if she thought you were fat. She wouldn’t say it like this. 😂😂
My Latina grandmother would agree. 😂😂😂
@@kizi180older people regardless of race tend to speak up what they are thinking.
Dude hilarious
It’s always telling when people have never traveled abroad, especially Asia or Africa. People are so blunt everywhere else.
Sounds like my Mom. I was 90 pounds. You are going to to be fat
Can we please stop assuming malice? People like this cashier are horrible
It's called projection. And I agree.
@@jocopowell same, agree 100%
I agree we shouldn't assume malice but shouldn't that also apply to assessing the cashier? She might have sincerely got it wrong and then regretted interfering.
@@trapd00rspiderNah.
@@trapd00rspideryes it does apply but that requires another level of awareness these people also lack.
*”Social media has made y’all way to comfortable disrespecting people & not getting punched in the face”* -Mike Tyson
@@-_-_-_-318comfortable to disrespect people and not getting punched in the face FOR disrespect
@@-_-_-_-318made people comfortable talking shit with no consequences because they're hiding behind their keyboard.
I lolled so hard at this comment. Thanks for bringing light to these ridiculous days!
Although I generally agree with the quote, it doesn't really apply to this video. No one was actually being disrespectful.
She confronts them and then when she's called out, she runs, leaving her poor colleague to deal with the situation 😂
She really did hot potato the situation to her after she realized she was wrong
She probably went in the back to post a tiktok video on the days oppression.
@@talon310calif while eating a family sized coffee cake by herself! 🤣
Leftists are fucking cowards.
This whole situation could have been solved with a genuine apology once she realised she was wrong. She could have said "You are right, I misheard the conversation and misunderstood the situation. I should not have said anything, sorry.".
This is honestly depressing. Just a nice lady making conversation with someone ordering what she said is her favorite cake. No bad intentions whatsoever. There was no problem until the cashier made a problem. This is a perfect example of people just looking to be offended.
100% a perfectly normal human interaction between the mom and the other customer….
The cashier should not have interfered in things that have nothing to do with her, making it about “fat phobia”…
And The Son shouldn’t gone into it being about race…
Had those two just minded their own business - nothing would have occurred in the first place…
The mom got her answer about the coffee cake she was interested in, the other customer left happy with his cake… it was just a normal human interaction that has occurred billions of time throughout history….. but because of social media making everyone unsociable….. it turned into a complete saga for no real reason other than people liking to feel offended all the time.
*The world has gone completely insane..!*
Yeah, a prime example of cancel culture. It's dangerous to say anything, no matter how friendly or innocuous. So much for free speech.
As soon as they were called out and embarrassed the cashiers condescending “You guys have a great day” then walked away pissed me off. Like bitch don’t try and dismiss me FUCKING APOLOGIZE!
It was difficult to watch her going through those completely unnecessary emotions. I hope she knows she's supported here.
The really sad part is there will be thousands of people on the internet who will call the mother fatphobic. Just looking for the next thing to be offended by.
If that were my employee, I'd fire her. Her job is to smile and handle the register, that's it.
100%
No doubt.
She will cost you customers, if she hasn't already.
Maybe upsell and make recommendations too but yeah.
With the minimum wage hike, you now receive unsolicited assistance with every purchase.
@@keithdrummond1003 🤣
The cashier is the "fatphobic" by automatically assuming there is some kind of "phobia." OMG, why is this cashier sticking her nose into someone else's business?
Because she is overweight.
Isn't that woke SOP? Some white woman bitching about cultural appropriation when it isn't her culture.
This is why I don't take fat women seriously. They go on and on about how they are oppressed. But not a single mention of how the gap between their legs is oppressed. What about the oppressedship your thighs do to your legs I ask. What about their freedom. They never reply.
because her names is pinochio!
Cause she's fat herself and overly sensitive about it, and is making everything about her.
"What is your role in this?" was the perfect response. Her face proved that was the first time the thought that it was none of her business had entered her head.
I lived in South Korea for 5 years. If they think you're fat or gaining weight, they just tell you, no euphemisms. 😂
Same happens here in South Africa. We're brutally honest and no one gets offended. We just laugh it off unless. As long as it doesn't get personal then it's cool
basically every Asians (Black and Latinas too apparently). if you're fat they just gonna tell you straight in front of your face
I had a fat friend go work as a teacher in South Korea and on his second day they replaced his normal desk chair in the staff room with something like a car seat.
It was like that in Ecuador years ago, I don’t know how it is now. But when I was there, they’ll ask, How is so and so doing, has she gotten any bigger? I worked with teens, and they were telling me, “Miss, you are getting fatter.” 😮. I just had to suck it up and get fit. Which I did. 🙌🏽
Truueee I'm korean and English Fluent and I vividly remember when my boss told me to translate her telling the other foreign friend to lose weight 🫠🫠🫠 I lied lol
I can't stand when someone is offended on behalf of someone that wasn't even offended
The fact that she couldn't even answer when the son asked, "So what's your position in this?"
In Korea this is a very normal question to ask as food is often made for multiple people because Koreans like to share dishes rather than eat just one thing by themselves.
So I guess busy body Karen cashier was racist? Her energy was fat where it seeps into other peoples business.
Now that makes complete sense. Thank you for sharing your comment. ❤
I think that supports my feeling that it was a comment with a good chance to be interpreted as rude but did not intend harm. She just assumed cultural similarity and was perhaps less aware that in America with much higher obesity it is rude to talk about how much someone will be eating.
The internet is like a zoo for people
Internet was a mistake.
Lmao good one 😂
More like a mental asylum.
@@jakomioftherose2434the original design and reason was good, it devolved into a mistake but mostly I blame social media
@@Movieandgamefan100 sadly we can’t sit back and watch mental asylum patients run around like animals 😂
as a black man i am personally getting sick of everyone messing with little old asian ladies. they are the sweetist ppl in this damn country.
you called them 'little'. You're sizist. Furthermore, 'old' is an offensive term. You should refer to them as ...well, you shouldn't refer to age at all. It's ageist. Also, you assume they are Asian. They may identify as another race. If it weren't for the fact that as a black man you can't be racist, your comment would be very racist. Check that privilege. ;)
So true 😂
@@-KMA-true, same here in the UK
Let me share a lovely story regarding an older Asian lady in my neighborhood. More than thirty years ago, we bought the worst looking house in a great neighborhood. It was on a corner lot, so every passerby could see the progress we were making on renovating not only the house, but also the horribly neglected yard. We had two young children, ages 4 and 5, so it took a lot of energy to not only work on the property, but also take care of the kids and spend quality time with them. One day just blended into the next, as there was so much work to do, and so little money to spend. After 18 months of non-ending yard work, I was very lonely, I was losing hope, and becoming depressed. One sunny afternoon, a car stops at the curb. An older Asian lady got out, with something in her hands, and began complimenting me on all the dedicated work, and how the yard was turning into a “happy place” that brightened her days. She had brought me a cake as thanks for brightening her day! Now, this was not just any cake…..It came from a bakery that I couldn’t possibly have afforded. I told her I couldn’t accept such a generous gift, but she insisted, because my hard word had provided her with year-round changing colors (flowers, blossoming trees, roses, and fall colors) that she’d not seen since leaving her native country, Japan, as a young woman. I hadn’t realized my efforts had such an impact upon anyone. This singular act, from a complete stranger, immediately lifted my day (I began crying, and she wiped my tears). To this day, I don’t know her name. She’s probably dead by now. That was the most delicious chantilly cake I’d ever tasted, probably because of the selfless, and generous, act of a complete stranger.
In nyc they are not lol
I was once in an uber and told my son, "that is why I don't like black" I was talking about my pants that were full of lint. The uber driver was black. When I realized I panicked and tried to fix it by telling my son, "I meant black clothing". The driver just laughed at my panicked response. Fortunately he was an older and educated black man and knew that I wasn't being racist.
I saw someone had a white dog in a stroller who looked exactly like our little black dog and without thinking (I’m Indian) said, “Oh look they have a little white baby that looks just like sour little black baby!” My husband was like immediately, 🙈🙉🙊
Good thing he didn't clip the video and make it go viral to make you look racist.
@@TheBaumcm If I had been walking along, I would have looked at the Stroller, seen the Dog inside and thought to myself "Awww she's just a Good Fur-baby Momma (Dog Mom)" and kept on walking.
@@Dragonstalon1001that’s the problem- we are not all the same. It’s great that’s what you would have said but there is nothing wrong with what she said either. Making a description and using color is not racism, it’s not hate. Like me saying her pink dress looks like my green dress. It’s so silly and shows we are so sheltered and have nothing else to worry about (which isn’t true but the fact we care more about that then the actual problems say more about us as people and a society) and we are so focused on things that aren’t even some “Isam” or “phobia” that we miss the real hate when it happens
I mean the fact you want to correct her could make me think your the racist one and feel superior that you need too teach her what to say..
@@megchippendale529 Where in the heck are you reading in all of that, to ANYTHING I commented on?? I never said anything about 'Correcting her' or that I want to teach her anything.
You might want to check yourself 1st, since I believe in what Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said and that people should be judged on the content of their Character NOT their Skin Color
My bathroom mirror, scale, and pants size have been accusing me of being fat for decades. If someone in public were to take notice of it, that would destroy my entire self image and I might give in to my mirrors opinion.
😂😂😂😂
When I met my Thai wife many years ago I was in good shape , but her cooking ( and her moms cooking) had other plans . After I was married I put on a " few" pounds
On my second trip to Thailand to see my in-laws again , upon entering the family homestead gate we met my wifes cousin .
I said " Sa wa dee krup " ( hello ) and she said in her broken English " You FAT " .
Omg ! Haha
Was she trying to tell me something ?
A few days later my elderly step mom had borrowed a ladder and was going to clean out the gutters on her 2 story house.
" NO NO.. " I said
" I will do that" and proceeded to go up the old bamboo ladder , all the while my mother in-law apparently protesting in her thai language , which i didnt understand.
I got about 7/8 th of the way up the 16 foot ladder when i heard a crackling sound .
It was like a cartoon from that point on as I attempted to quickly descend the failing ladder . At about the 8 foot mark the ladder became 2 ladders ,( broke in the middle ) sending me crashing to the ground in front of my thai father in law and thus earning my Thai nik name " BOOM" ( most people in Thailand go by a nik name )
Ok... message received. Maybe i need to lose a few pounds .. but wait.... What's that ?
A sale on ribs .... MMMMMMMMMM
Diet can wait a bit longer. lol
Underrated comment
She felt offended because shes eaten one of those cakes by herself.
Lol, I said same. 😁
You win.
😅
Victims... Victims everywhere 😢
With nary a brain to think...
The real question is: why do we even assume that ppl had bad intentions ?
So they can be the hero in their screwed up fantasy they live in.
They're the type of person to see someone laughing in their car and assume "they're laughing at ME!" even though that other person is just listening to a comedy podcast in the privacy of their own vehicle.
Victim mindset from busy body karen cashier.
I used to enjoy friendly conversations with strangers, especially if there was an obvious common interest. I feel like we're all walking on eggs shells now.
I've been accused of being "negative" just for asking questions and not giving instant 100% approval.
I now fear to speak in public. If I need to tell my son anything I will send him a whatsapp even if we are next to each other.
Maybe she shouldn't work at a restaurant if she has issues with "fat phobia". I can't stand these people! 99% of the US is just regular people living their life and not caring what anyone else does or thinks, but social media has given the 1% way too much voice.
These people need to catch a grip💀 everything is offence at this point...
Fr the reason I don’t go out anymore people be mad weird
@@shadariaworthy9456 right they need to toughen up
“Get” a grip?
@@nadogrl not you correcting my broken English 😖 you could get canceled for that
@@nadogrlI kinda like catch a grip tbh lol. Sounds more serious.
Can't say anything to anyone anymore. Just leave your house, stay silent, get what you need, and go back home. Ugh! So sad, so awful, so isolating.
Thats how ive lived my entire life, unless someone talk to me
No... I refuse. I will go out, chit-chat
Sure you can. Only way to get rid of snowflakes is to turn up the heat. 😉 say it with a smile and if they are offended, it is on them. If you give in to this nonsense that everybody gets offended by anything, the next time it will just be your mere presence. Funk that, we all have the same rights. Never downplay yourself to accommodate others.
I think part of the point is that the real world isn’t really like this. The cashier was living in a fantasy and pulled in the customers. Things like this usually don’t happen unless you’re expecting them to or feed into them.
@@Thunder1976NL Love that phrase 😂😂 gotta use it sometime
What continues to amaze me about this victim culture is they are so hell bent on being offended that even when they are wrong, they will double down and try to twist the situation to match the narrative in their head rather than having the courage, decency, and maturity to admit they were wrong and apologize.
What a sad way to live your life.
Even when they “apologize” it’s usually followed by a “but” or “because” to excuse the behavior which cancels out the apology.
Rudeness is separate from intent. You can't go around asking minorities, "where are you from?", even if it has nothing to do with the fact that you have identified them as foreign looking.
The goal of customer service is to avoid and deescalate conflict.
This is why I’m no longer a liberal lol. So ridiculous 😑
If you’re not a liberal anymore put your money where your mouth is a vote for the Trump!
@@Mason58654 It's a trap, my dude. Trump's not going to be President forever, and the vast army of bureaucrats and experts the government depends on aren't going to simultaneously resign the moment Trump leaves, in fact they will drag their feet and do exactly what this cashier did.
same bro
@@Mason58654 Putting Trump in office is not going to fix this issue. Need to think harder than that mate.
@@Mason58654 didn’t trump rape people?
The cashier should take the advice of Joey Swoll "You need to do better...mind your own business."
100%.
I've flat out said to cashiers and by standers who have commented on something I've said to others "Excuse me, I wasn't speaking to you." Then continued the conversation.
@marthahoward8254 yes, thank you for letting me know my order is a little unconventional, but how about you don't give me your opinion and just make MY DAMN SANDWICH SUBWAY WORKER!
@@marthahoward8254 Mic drop.
This is how you handle interruptions! Thank you.
By making the argument the cashier inadvertantly called the other customer fat?? This is what happens when you create victims of people, you have to make them the thing you are "protecting" whether they agree or not. I hate people who do this.
This situation is like me (I use a self propelled wheelchair to get around in public due to severe RA and osteoarthritis) assuming every time I am going into a store and someone offers to push me up a ramp or grab a basket for me that they are being "ablest" instead of just being nice and trying to make my day a little easier. I choose to believe the former rather than the latter because even on days where I feel awesome, sometimes it's nice to sit and relax for a moment. I wish more people would appreciate others being kind rather than assuming the worst.
you can definitely tell the cashier was waiting her entire life for that moment
That woman was just asking if the pie can be shared between multiple people 🤣what are we living in
Why did she ask though? I didn’t get it from the context. Was it in a non-transparent box so she needed to know how big a portion is? Or did the cashiers refuse to tell her the size of a portion? I mean I genuinely didn’t get why she asked a customer about how many people a portion is enough for.
Just a conversation starter from an older lady - I get weird one from older people sometimes.
@@ektion It's normal to ask other customers about a product you're interested in. I ask other people at the store or at restaurants all the time. She was wondering about portions. That's it. A genuine question.
@@fattimmy2829 but if you see the size of a cake, can’t you decide for yourself how many portions it is? What if I’m full when I eat 1/4 of a piece and my husband needs 2 pieces? How many portions is it then?
@@ektion It isn't that deep. She was just asking another customer a question. When did it become socially unacceptable to ask about food portions?
Grace. We all need it,and we should all extend it.
I hate people like that in the service industry. Just because you’re miserable or have some kind of self-hating defect, you take it out on random strangers. That employee needs to be fired. She also needs to stay away from the job market until she gets some mental health therapy.
👍🏿 well said
The cashier handed that lovely lady a verbal bag of 💩, turned her back like a coward and bolted, leaving the reeking mess for her and her son to clean up. Maybe the cashier was about to take her lunch break and was worried they may run out of coffee cake? 🤡
She was offended because she planned to eat the family sized one by herself alone in her car during her lunch break. 😂
I was standing in line at the movie theaters with my son having a conversation, when a women in front of us took what we said among ourselves the wrong way. She wanted to fight me, so dumb. People need to mind their own business
Real talk. If I tried to explain to the cashier that this was just all a mis-understanding and the cashier wasn't having it. I would throw the race card at her. My mom is the same way, her english is a bit finiky. But if the cashier wasn't having any of it even if I was trying to do my best to kindly explain the situation, I'd go petty and throw down the race card. It's the only way people like this will learn how stupid this woke stuff is.
If we can't talk to each other, we fear each other. Mission Accomplished
I just don't talk anymore in public places or with other people that is not my family. I fear getting in trouble. Sad we have gotten to this point.
This is an era of Division.
Divide and conquer.
As a former cashier, I never judged a customer for either buy a cart full of either candy or vegetables. You never know why they are buying what they are buying. And it was never my business, my job was provide good service to have customers to come back.
It was a PRIVATE conversation between the 'Mother' and another Customer, the Employee should keep to themselves and BUTT OUT of conversations that she is NOT a part of.
It’s none of the cashiers business. What is the problem with the US society that makes EVERYONE think they have a OBLIGATION to intervene in a conversation that doesn’t concern them?
Just last week I left a job cause myself and another male were talking about the education system. A female overheard, got offended then insult both of us. Management said I just have to deal with it. So I left lol.
.... and a paraplegic complains that this joke is ableist.
If I had diabetes I would feel deeply offended that people were talking about cake, which I can't have
To be WOKE is "People sitting there who are deliberately waiting for the thrill of being offended" - John Cleese 2022
"Getting offended is what privileged people do" - Vir Das Comedy
When did we forget "sticks and stone may break my bones BUT WORDS WILL NEVER HURT ME"!!
Remember when being actually strong and had endurance was a virtue and being a "victim" was something nobody wanted to be seen as a weakling to be pitied? Now, weakness is a weapon to be used against society for one's own benefit!
The only reason weakness is successfully used as a weapon is because postmodern society enables it.
I mean I think this definitely WAS a case where someone was projecting their own interpretation of english onto some old korean woman for whom english is obviously a second language. Racism? Probably not. But definitely some ignorance born from a narcissistic view of language.
When will people learn to "Mind their own business."
The cashier's duties are what, exactly?
Serve drinks and food.
She's looking for political issues.
She's placing the superhero mantle upon herself.
She will fight oppression, even if she has to create it.
It amazes me how often a person with a simple job would be happier if they just stuck to their job.
Or another spin, with different phrasing: So many people would do better just minding their own business.
The real world isn't filled with people's hurt feelings that are waiting for someone else to save them.
The people that need help now don't have a place to live and can't afford that cake.
So much Main Character Syndrome going around. Though it's grating to listen to another story of stupidity, it's educational so I'll endure.
'MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS' - Joey Swoll
That’s My Korean Mama, I love her, you can’t find a sweeter woman. Neither she or her son have a mean bone in their body. That cashier is rude and a busybody. There’s nothing wrong with him going to his mother’s defense.
Kudos to the son for turning it back on the one creating the problem…the cashier. So he dropped the race card on her! Great! Why should only black people get a race card!?!?! He had it up his sleeve and played it like a master!
The cashier is beyond ignorant here
social justice served with coffee cake
And a big, fat, steaming side order of bullshit. Or is that too fat phobic?
Why would it be the worker's job to police the dialogue between customers?
What's better is the Korean mother just seen that person as a human where the cashier was obviously seeing their heavy weight and so therefore assumed it was about that person eating the food.... It really just shows her own obsession with weight, and her insecurity of it.. and that she is in fact "fatphobic" even though I don't believe someone can be fat phobic, but they can be pro health.
Cashier starts an arguement with me over nothing? Leave your items and walk away. Don't do business with them.
That cashier is the type of person employers reluctantly hire. Those employees are constantly looking for reasons to sue an employer, they're an HR nightmare!
I was a silent listener in a group of people asserting that they have to respond forcefully to each microaggression they encounter. Kept a straight face.
You know what happens when you insert yourself and ASSuME you know what is going on 🥴
Yep…. And the cashier made one of herself 😅
Sweet little lady was just making a basic conversation, and someone took offense for no reason.
The cashier was making the assumption based on the customer too lol.
Amala, the children you bring into this world one day will be blessed to have you as their Mother. Thank you for teaching us not what to think but how to think.
Amala, you have a great way of bringing balance to this world. Thank you for helping us avoid getting caught up in this mess. This footage is like the blind leading the blind. We must be fully aware of what we are fighting for at all times. They got people wasting so much fight on each other 😒
Korean ladies are so nice. Just give her the cake of coffee and SHADDAP.
"what is your role in this?" - perfect response
I like being shamed if I pack on some weight. I want to live a healthy life and a happier life. Grow skins
I keep saying this and it keeps getting deleted. WHY? .... Is the following so offensive????
The best defense against these sorts of people is to laugh at them. Their neurosis is not my problem and I don't mind telling them so. Laugh, tell them they can and should seek help. They don't matter. Make sure they know they do not matter to you. They place themselves in a place of importance, but they need to know they are only self-important. They don't matter.
Some can be scary
MAH pronouns, MAH gender, MAH ethnicity...... 🤦♂
RESPECT MUH AUTHORITEY!
More like Baaaaah they the same smelly sheep herd. Huhuhuhuh they suck! YEEAHH!!!
MAH weight, MAH culture, MAH rights! 😊👍
MAH CAKE!!
MAH MAH MAH
It seems to me that was an "A - B" conversation and the cashier needed to "C" her way out. What happened to minding your own business?
Im From Szczecin/Poland (population: 400k people.. maybe 20 people are black). One day when I was on a tram full of people a black man walked in. ( Nigerian black). The man was very nicely dressed.. a tailor made suit, leather shoes, leather suitcase..
A little girl look at him then she look at her mom and went " Mommy, look! Why is this man so dirty"..
Her mother's face turn red . Haha she looked like a red balloon.. I dont know how many times she said "sorry" to this guy. Everyone on the tram went quiet until he started laughing, then everyone alse staring laughing too..
Haha AWKWARD.....!!!
It's because we Nigerians are grounded in reality and don't believe everything is out to get us. That's so nice of the man, it's just a child being curious ❤️
That is so true… could we all please relax and spare our energy to attack the real problems?
Imagine going out of your way to be offended 24/7 instead of trying to live your life to the fullest.
The cashier needed to just mind her own business
People just get trained that oppression is everywhere. So when they never see it they feel compelled to invent a situation when one doesn’t exist. Especially if it towards them scoring them victim points.
Absolutely
I think we've become a bit too aware of "offensive" things to the point that it's become a "the boy who cried wolf" situation. The word racist has been thrown around so many times its actually devalued real instances of racism, even when I hear words like racist it's a bit difficult to take them seriously because of how overused they are.
You are correct and the scary thing is I tend to now think that every thing is a load of bollox and I have switched off from real concern I now look for the catch rather than check if there is cause for me do something. Got to the point where many of us, particularly us oldies simply can’t be bothered to engage anymore.
An interesting factor here is one of culture:
In places other than the U.S, portion sizes are vastly different. We (the U.S) have above-average portion sizes of all types of food here, and for someone who likely lived in another culture, for someone to see such a thing would likely beg such a question.
The assumption that she gave of "buying it for your family" is an indicator that she wasn't intemtionally criticizing the man's weight, she was trying to rationalize why one person would purchase such an item.
So much for "respecting peoples' culture" from the wokescold employee who probably has nothing more productive to do.
It's very sad the way things are.. Can't even ask a question or have a conversation with a stranger..
So all in all… mind your business.
Exactly 💯 Maybe if we just minded each other's business the world would be a better place for everyone. Sometimes we need to just calm down and take a deep breath and let go of all the anger we feel deep down inside. Then maybe we'll all be much happier human beings
The manager needs to step in and get the cashier, in no uncertain terms, the phrase “mind your own fucking business”. And then make sure she understands that if this happens again, she will be looking for work elsewhere.
100% agreed
I identify as someone that minds their own fucking business
The original "victim" is not even present to say whether he was offended or not. Maybe he was, who even knows though...
“Is it for you or for your family”😭😭😭guys im literally crying. I love this grandma so much. An ICON and a gem
Great video Amala, keep it up. Love the balance you bring.
The cashier should have minded her own business! We were taught that growing up in the 70’s. It didn’t appear that anyone needed her help outside of her job.
When does it become acceptable for a service provider to educate customers on personal matters?
Who knew buying cake was such an ordeal. I was once asked by someone if I had downs syndrome because I looked like someone they knew with downs syndrome (I don't). I also didn't take offence, the person asking clearly had their own issues and I don't consider looking like "someone with down syndrome" as offensive. We all had a good laugh about it in the end. Sometimes you just have to give people grace or the benefit of the doubt. In the end no harm was done. I've honestly been called much worse and the people meant nothing to me therefore, their opinions meant nothing 🤷♀
You're channel is genuinely good and you're a funny intelligent person that gives me hope for humanity
This one is all on the employee. I've been to Portos and I've asked other people if something is big enough to share with others because they have 30+ options for dessert and I always share 2-3 different things with my kids. All I hope from this situation is te employee gets training to either mind their own business or handle the situation better because 99% of the time the employees are a delight to purchase from.
I remember one time I was picking up 10 large pizzas, and the cashier asked me if I was having a party. Can you believe they would ask something like that? How fatphobic is that? Oh, he is buying 10 large pizzas, that obviously has to be for more than one person. The nerve. 😂😂
I work in a gas station and someone came in looking for some kind of vape product, two people, one just turned 18 and the other one was her mother I think. I asked for id's cause it's the law, mom threw a fit and told me I was racist for asking. People are absolutely delusional right now.
I live in a Korean community and I can see how this was a misunderstanding. Older Korean women ask extremely personal questions all the time with complete strangers. They usual y don't give strangers their option or tell strangers what they should do, but they will judge harshly about the stranger with a group of women later of the day. It's more of a cultural misunderstanding because there is a difference of what is appropriate to say in public and what is okay to ask when meeting new people. At first it was a curve ball for me when I was experiencing it myself. I wouldn't even answer the questions because it was so shocking how someone could ask something like that out loud in public. They would ask, "How much money do you make?, Are your parent's proud of you? Why are you still childless?, Is that your husband's money?" They would step back to look up and down on you while making a weird noise, which feels like they're sizing you up. A random elderly korean woman would go through my cart of grocerys (opening the bags and move stuff around) and then ask me if if can cook. Now, I expect that will happen every time I visit Hmart. The bluntness causes them to appear rude. It took me a while to learn that this behavior is normal.
I'm getting dumber from seeing how dumb other people are.
The pure SILENCE from the cashier when the son said “and what is your position in the conversation?”!!!! and then the next thing she says is just “have a nice day” LOL aka “you got me, I have no good answer, I couldn’t back up my baseless, nosy claims, so please begone now”🙄
I’ve had people poke into my conversation and claim I offended someone else. My response was just, “thank you for bringing it to my attention, I’ll go apologize to them.” Then went and told the other person that “so-and-so said you were offended after our conversation, so I just wanted to clear it up, I’m so sorry!”.. so now they know that so-and-so lied on them.
I think it’s a minding your own business problem. A lot of humans have a problem with this.
Every Korean I've known will just call you fat. There's no BS 😂
100% correct 🎯🎯🎯
Thankful for your clear thinking...and humor 😊
Girl I think YT is shadow bannin your channel. I haven't seen any videos suggested in awhile, but I am subbed. I have so many to catch up on 😅😮
Is there an update on this story? Was the cashier fired?
Read the study by Robert Kleck and Angelo Strenta: "Perceptions of the impact of negatively valued physical characteristics on social interaction."
This particular case fits right into what these guys found out - If you're expecting discrimination, you're gonna perceive it everywhere, even when it's actually not existing.
If I was the person buying the cake I would have asked for a to go box and gave her a slice ...and tell the cashier to back off
I want my life to be so petty that I am GREATLY offended if an elderly woman asks about my coffee cake purchase. I want to sue the store and have the state pay my disability for a thousand years because of the trauma I will have suffered over this. Unfortunately, I have a real life to deal with. Such a pity.
Keep up all your good work.
She’s such a Karen, she wanted to see the CUSTOMERS manager…WTF?! 😂
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