This New ‘Big Back’ Trend Has TikTokers Crying Fatphobia
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- Опубліковано 17 кві 2024
- A new “big back” TikTok trend in which people stuff their shirts while comedically showing how they act when they’re hungry is now receiving backlash in the form of accusations of “fatphobia.” Are fat jokes hateful of fat people, or is it just good fun? Let’s talk about it.
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So sick of everything being a "phobia".
That's phobiaphobic
@@MrJimmyWalsh😂
Agree. Can’t be a phobia if you aren’t scared of it.
@@MrShrimpy72True. No one is seeing a morbidly obese person and running away screaming 😂
Yeah, it can be a lot and wear away compassion for people with phobias that effect them in a serious way. However, don't see these tiktok skits falling into that type of phobia category... 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Phobic? That would imply we’re scared. We are not scared , but only recognize that obesity is unhealthy.
Was thinking the same thing. People keep using "phobic" whenever they get annoyed with someone else's viewpoint.
Phobic also means a strong aversion to something. Pick up a dictionary.
How long has it been since you’ve used a dictionary? Phobic is not just fear
@@deepakmenon6720 exactly. Like hydrophobic = water repellent. Oil is not afraid of water.
I've never like fat ppl there wronguns this is well funny why do ppl be fat.
Shouldn't hunch-backed people be more offended by this?
Wait, your right but they don’t care lol
as a person with bad posture it is really funny from that perspective
In all honesty, the term 'hunch back' is rather derogatory. The clinical term is Scheuermanns kyphosis.
But those are big words for the babies on tiktok.
@@earthsecho4770 Thanks for that, actually. I didn't know what the clinical term is. I'll bet most people don't.
I’d bet Cushing Syndrome sufferers will ignore this.
Nobody is BUILT morbidly obese. That takes millions of calories
Exactly. There are very few people out there that can’t lose weight because of some underlying issue.
thats a bar
@@ratty2012Well actually scientifically gaining weight is zillions of times easier than losing. You also have to account for budgets.
@@isimperialistsome of the simplest ingredients are the cheapest. It's just that people don't want to take the time to prepare meals, so they buy prepackaged high calorie/sodium/sugar/unhealthy foods for quick meals.
No it does not take millions of calories! It’s takes unbalanced hormones! 🙄
I don't fear fat people, i fear becoming fat.
My grandmother was a beautiful healthy(not skinny, but a healthy curvy) woman in her youth and she became morbidly obese with age and she died a slow painful death with diabetes and kidney failure. She died prematurely and has missed out on so many things she would have loved/enjoyed. Everyone around her watching her decline, not being able to reverse anything, having to give her round the clock care, witnessing her becoming delusional on several different medications.
Being unhealthy doesn't just hurt you, it hurts everyone who cares about you.
Valid concern.
They can destroy your furniture in a second. Be afraid.
Same... I don't fear fat people (though I do find them gross), I fear becoming fat
Have you ever considered that she'd rather eat herself to death than stick around with you and your family? 😂 Just joking. In the spirit of big back joking.
Al Bundy would not survive in this society.
Lol right! I always loved to watch married with children, and get a kick out of just watching UA-cam videos of al talking smack to the fatties lol!
He would be jealous all these people are being pigs and eating all the food while he gets none 😂
I'm from the Archie Bunker generation. He would never even have gotten on tv today.
He would be an anti hero and demonized like well, I’m not sure but he would have an audience somewhere just not on network television.
As a young man I obviously adored Kelly, but Peggy was the total MILF. Al Bundy couldn't satisfy her but I surely could.
Totally haram TV in this day and age.
Fat jokes ONLY seem to be offensive when it’s aimed at women.
Men know why they're fat and don't make excuses
Yep. Any fat male in a movie or tv show is there to make jokes or be laughed at. Fat women however are queens
REAL ASF
True asf
That is because most women are easy offend when they called fat or ugly! Most men don't care.
Being someone who has spent 6 years going from over 550 to 296, I still have a long way to go, but for a 58 year old with MS I'm pretty damn proud of myself! I had to go against all my Dr. advice to do it but I'm now off all my meds and spend much more time out of my wheelchair. IT IS NOT HEALTHY TO EMBRACE OR PROMOTE OBESITY! There is no "phobia" about it...y'all getting upset is your guilt driven response to you choosing to embrace a seriously dangerous lifestyle
keep at it -you got this ❤
So happy for you and your success! I understand needing to go against all your doctors advice to succeed. Some of our bodies didn't read the food pyramid guidelines. Good luck and God bless.
You should check out ASEA to help with your MS!
You deserve ALL the likes and all the kudos & credit. Good for you!!!! You’re an inspiration!!!! 🎉
Wow, it takes such determination to work that hard for 6 years. And to know your own body well enough to go against the advice of your doctor. I'm 58 years old as well and have been doing keto for a while. I feel SOOOO much better than I used to. All the best to you!
How can more than half of the population be a marginalized group? 😂
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You must be from the US😂
Lmao
I can tell you as a skinny person who eats a lot of junk foods and sweets and tons of sugar, we may not see results of us getting fat but we feel horrible and it still does affect us in a negative way. Now I'm trying to eat clean and healthy.
I can agree
The only ppl offended by the jokes are the people who are insecure about it, and who don’t actually think they can be beautiful and be fat. Which is fat phobic. They are simply projecting
Right. There are no big backs in Gaza. Haha!
She said, “it’s 2024, can’t you think of a better joke…” NO WE CANT JOKE ANYMORE IN 2024. Where did americas back bone go?
It's still there -- just hard to find with all that back fat going on
@@austinrivers2885 😂😂😂
I think there are still Americans with a backbone BUT so many of the people that are on social media are severely over sensitive.
Nah they know they are fat but yes we should think of better jokes
This trend is funny. I heard they make funny half-breed jokes too. Half-breeds are all the worst parts of the pure breeds. Nappy heads, flat butts, and enough insecurity to point out the weaknesses of others without offering resource solutions. I've also heard about CRT stories that are entertaining, but crybabies can't let us just laugh and enjoy. They want to sensor light hearted fun. We gotta tell these snowflakes to just laugh it off and endure what others find amusing and emotionally fulfilling.
Being fat is incredibly physically dangerous on every level. It should NOT be promoted and healthier food options should be more resdily available. People should also be taught to cook from scratch again.
Basic, healthy foods options are available everywhere as is information. People just have to care enough to avail themselves of it.
@JenniferoftheSea By readily available, I meant healthy "fast food". There's not much at this point. If you're on the road and need a quick meal during your travels, all drive-throughs are pretty much garbage food, and the same can be said for convenience stores. Education on food and health also needs to change. Like I said, people need to learn to cook from scratch again.
Ppl also need to stop making the excuse that unhealthy food is cheaper when it's really not. Learning how to cook would help a lot and healthier fast food may help or trying to figure out a way to get ppl motivated to cook bc that's a big issue too. But if ppl ate proper nutrients they'd have healthier minds and bodies and would be more apt to cook and exercise.
Saying that information on healthy eating is readily available is VASTLY oversimplifying things. Are you not aware of the thousands of different diet trends…? That all claim to be healthy? Don’t eat fat, don’t eat carbs, let’s get you into ketosis, eat more veggies but not nightshades, corn is too sweet to count as a veggie, be a vegan it’s healthy, be a carnivore it’s better for you, you should eat paleo like your ancestors, what about an alkaline diet? Or anti-inflammatory? Or maybe Mediterranean is the way to go? People are OVERWHELMED trying to figure out how to eat healthy, they’re tired and their brains are foggy from the junk food that’s easy to grab in between work shifts when they don’t have time to cook, and they don’t have the mental capacity to sift through all the info out there. YOU may have an idea of what you think is healthy, but even another healthy/fit person could come along and completely disagree with you. There is information out there, yes, but there is *too much* of it, and it’s all so contradictory. Yes, people need to eat healthier. Yes, people need to live healthier and be more active. No, it’s not easy. It’s definitely harder for people with less money and less time. Yes, our kids should have more time in school being taught how to care for themselves and their bodies, including learning cooking from scratch. So much time is wasted on BS in public schools, but not on skills kids actually need
As an obese woman I agree. I have lost over 200 lbs but still large and in pain on a daily. It's hard to lose the weight so I say watch what you eat
Girl what was that intro oh my gosh 😂😂
She was just a bit bloated.
@stupot_64 just some water weight! 😭
She turned into the arrogant and mean Candace Owens.
it was the best ngl
Kids shouldn't be on TikTok, if she's worried about some kid crying... They shouldn't be on the app in the first place 😂
ADULTS shouldnt be on tiktok...
@@BoinkrNanis listen, you're not wrong 😂 trying to get my mom off of the damn thing as is
@jeanie7555 in particular, ADULT WOMEN, shouldn't be on tiktok let alone social media at all. Women surprisingly don't know how BC affects their brains I doubt any at all know the extent it affects women's brains. Before you say we'll what's the difference between men and women, well, mostly our value/validation systems and natural behaviors. Mens value systems are internalized, hence why we like compliments and remember them, they ultimately have zero affect on us at all. Women's value systems are 99% external. Mix a woman's value systems with a woman primitive need to compete with other women for mates and how likes/DMs affect women's dopamine...our studies found that social media affects women more negatively than actually shooting up heroine. Not much affects seen in men or boys and most of us don't even use social media anyway.
Women are fucking themselves up atm because their brains are on masse warped by the usage of social media.
If you're a woman and made it down this far without allowing your feelings to make you rage quit(lack of emotional control over reading comments is a serious symptoms of how social media is depleting your ability to critically think.) And don't believe this, take 5 months no social media and then go back to it and feel that heavy ass hateful decline into negative mental health lol. 3 ex gfs, still havnt returned to social media. Each one told me they felt healthier. Like yup.
If women on TIKTOK ismt enough evidence for other women then they will be victims themselves and oh well because I can say, most suitable male mates won't put up with tiktok usage unless they're genz gen alpha and have never known life without it
That was by far the funniest intro ever. As an obese person being fat isn’t good. It doesn’t bring happiness, it brings depression and self esteem issues, which causes people to binge eat to feel better. I’m working with my doctor to lose weight before it’s to late and my progress is going good. At this point fat jokes are funny because they’re so relatable 😂
You got this, dude! Persistence is key.
Great work! Keep going!
You’re worth it! ❤
Wow sorry you’re still betraying yourself by humoring and befriending your bully. This video is not funny. Obesity is a painful journey.
Congrats!
As a former 300lb man it is easy eat less food and move more. Loose your big back and gain a strong back.
As an overweight woman who works out, fasts regularly and eats healthy and can’t lose weight without hormones and thyroid meds it’s NOT that simple!
It’s not easy but well worth it
@@daringgreatly8473 I think a more appropriate mindset is that it's not easy for everyone but certainly attainable and worth it.
@@bn09185 it’s not attainable for everyone. I will workout and push the rest of my life but may never “look” fit. Yet there are thin people who look fit and can’t even run/walk a mile! Making fun of someone’s appearance is never okay. Life is short! Why ruin someone’s brief moment on this earth?
@@daringgreatly8473 He's talking about and to people without thyroid/hormonal issues, no need to be offended. Along with that, due to your actions you are still significantly healthier than overweight people who eat twice the amount of an average person and do no exercise.
I'm a 58 yr old, 5' 9" old man with rheumatoid arthritis. I was over 300 lbs just 2 years ago. I am now under 200 lbs and have no pity for the big boys and girls. If I can do it with my medical problems without any surgical or professional help, then they can, too. Maybe this will wake up a large portion of them. Love the videos, Amala!!
but if they took initiative and changed their lives for the better, they would have to forfeit their victim card and then what would they do with their day?
p.s. congratulations to you! that is an amazing accomplishment :)
@@amandajones7939 Thanks Amanda!
Good job!
This world would be better without tik tok and twitter!
Its not the apps, its user error, always. Most people dont have any discipline at all
Kids didnt get a hard crack on butt to remind then of who was in charge and wasnt them @BoinkrNanis
If you've eaten yourself to deformity, maybe it's time to reevaluate your life choices.
That makes too much sense. We don't do that around these parts. Up is down.
Most deformed bodies are not over eating! Lipedema! Cushings! Low Thyroid! But I’m glad you think it’s all so simple.
@@daringgreatly8473stop saying words you don't understand. Lipedema, easy fix. But wahhhh. Cry.
@@jamessanders6715 easy fix? 🙄 Please humble yourself. Be thankful your fitness journey has been so simple and easy instead of being self-righteous!
@@daringgreatly8473 I dont have to make excuses, I'm not the one defending anything.
I like thick ladies but there is such a thing as too much. Anything once it reaches a certain extreme becomes bad or unhealthy.
💯
It goes for everything. Not just fat.
So the youngest generation can't say "fat"? They had to come up with the term "big back"? That's sad!
My grandmother says your back porch is getting big. Referring to a butt. 😂😂
it’s just a joke, a trend. as gen z we say things like fat, fattie, fatso, big-backed, biggie, and anything inbetween. our generation is only sensitive ONLINE apparently.
It comes from the song baby got back.
@@girlsdrinkfeck ? where did you hear this
Seriously, overweight or plus-size isn't PC enough??
Anyone who lashes out like that. Is obviously mad and hurt. Calm down. And get on the treadmill
They have a right to be mad and hurt! Bullying is wrong.
@@daringgreatly8473 who was bullying them?
@@valdezwashington8334 this entire post, video and comments!? Hello!
@@daringgreatly8473soft
@@daringgreatly8473Actually, no one has a 'right' - that proud, entitled attitude is what got us to the place where people think angry, profanity laced videos are acceptable...
Fat jokes have always been hilarious, no amount of wokeness will ever change that.
Scotland will with hate crime. They will arrest you and take your computer. Facts.
I didnt have a mother and the yo mama iokes still made me laugh out loud! People cant take anything nowadays 😂
Just because it’s always been one way does not make it right. Please evolve. Be a better human.
@daringgreatly8473 😂 Clearly, someone is feeling some type of way about that big backedness. You need to let that sensitivity go biggums
@@daringgreatly8473 Babe I'm sorry to break it to you but you're on the wrong side of the internet.
I’m big but don’t get offended! However when people put a pillow JUST on there back makes them look like hunchbacks not big backs! lol
Takes a big person to find a cope like this. Talk about missing every point.
You just missed the point completely huh?
@@Brads-strung-outWtf? What cope? Don't be a dick for no reason.
@@RustedOatmeal was I talking to you?
I grew up with everybody saying, "Your Mom is so fat..."
That was high comedy, 12-year-old style.
Its not a phobia, its disgust.
But per definition it is a phobia. I hate the usage of "fatphobia" it's uverused and dumb.
why do you even care though??? focus on yourself. it's weird commenting negative shit like that on the internet, shows you're very bothered by their existence.
@@linaaveya90 maybe we are tired of being told what to say or what to like. Why are you so sensitive? It's some random comment on the Internet. Maybe work on getting a tougher skin. Cause jokes are coming back.
@@trishlarocca I know he didn’t say anything remotely offensive and he was just clearly stating facts. There’s always that one person that gets so pressed.
I wouldn’t say it’s a disgust though either, just an acknowledgment of behavior (or just a dumb, funny tik tok trend)
OMG those glasses fit you really, really well!
Ikr, I was like wow those glasses look great on her
Some people just can't take a joke.
The ironic thing is, if they cannot laugh at the joke, people will just laugh directly at them.
Exactly I’m a big back and I think they are hilarious
Little children crying should not be on TikTok period!
Take me back to the 90s PLEASE! I can't take it no more..
No one acted like this when the joke was on skinny people🙄
People are not built obese. That takes time and calories.
I have never met a person who is happy with their obesity, many fat people struggle to lose, are in the process of losing weight, and fight to just get through each day of discomfort, inconvenience, and other people's hatred toward them for looking different. I don't see the point of going online publicly, making fun of heavy people, and enticing others to also. What if we made fun of people who are imm0bile, can't he@r, are bl!nd or has n@ppy h@ir??? You know this is not just light fun and you know you don't help people by ridiculing them. The only thing people get out of this is expressing their cruelty to fat people so they can feel superior to fat people.
The beginning had me laughing because honestly it had me hungry.
ongggg
Big back activity(im also hungry)
This ain't just "How people are built".
Correction: how they built themselves.
Sure they are, you know, think of a burger as a brick:P
An irrational fear of fat people (fat phobia) makes no sense to me. You will always be able to outrun them.
Not really! Most fat people I know are more physically fit than these lazy skinny people pretending they are healthy and yet have never walked a mile in their life.
What if you're asleep and one sits on you? 😵
@@daringgreatly8473yo they gonna flatten us 😨
@@The_Super_NOVA are you a toddler? Grow up!
Seems like all my comments are getting deleted.
Everyone is a damn victim these days.
Conservatives are Becoming the biggest bullies.
the thing that stood out to me the most was when the first woman kept saying that people were "born that way, they can't help it."
here's the thing, yes people have different bone structures. i am of german, english, and polish descent so my build is more broad than someone who is of east asian descent. but no one is born naturally obese, that's just not how it works.
just because you don't *wanna* do anything about your weight, doesn't mean you *cannot* do anything about your weight.
Why do I find Amala the teacher hilarious? Thanks for the lesson - I'm ready for any big back capers now.
I found your yt about a year ago. My opinion: this is one of your best videos. I hope young people will take heed and learn to laugh at themselves. I am a 64 year old blond, full chested, blue-eyed part Polish woman. I have heard sooooooooooooooo many jokes: dumb blond, Polish, etc.... I am so glad that I learned to to laugh. Besides, Dolly Parton would say, people always underestimated her. She laughed all the way to the bank. These past 5 years, I got 'big backed'. When I could not reach my feet to put my socks on, I knew I needed to do something about it. I can now reach my feet but have a way to go to get back to a fighting weight and will not stop until I am there. Patience, work and eating less, water, exercising. And finding something to laugh at. The video helped. Thank you!
imagine being afraid of dying young because of multiple disease complications from morbid obesity and being called a fatphobic.
By God just call me fat Hitler at this point, IDGAF.
Whenever I hear someone use the "-phobic" phrase, I tune them out. Either they are a snowflake, have an insufferable personality, or both (maybe one in the same).
The first almost always comes with the second.
People need to sit down and be humble. I make the jokes too, and I’m plus sized. So are some of my friends. We crack ALL THE FLUFFY JOKES!
I think that's part of the problem, too much sitting down.
This video is not funny! It’s bullying and makes people think obesity is a joke.
@@daringgreatly8473😂😂😂😂 cry about it.
The best type of joke is the one shared and laughed at among friends
There is NOTHING entertaining or funny about laughing at someone’s appearance. What’s incredibly sad is how many NON-OBESE women this hurts. MOST women from my generation(Xennials) have body image issues; which comes along with self-hatred, shame, low self worth, & eating disorders. Shame is the biggest hindrance to progress of any kind. Body Positivity means that people see their bodies as something positive, no matter how it looks.
If you don’t think thin women hurt seeing this, you are prob extremely disconnected from other people’s experiences. Something I’m not shocked by with such a narcissistic population these days.
You know who else has a big back? body builders, gymnasts, aerialists, people who use their back muscle regularly. I worked hard for my big back muscles and I'm offended that people offended by big back jokes are assuming we're all fat.
Comedians make fun of everyone! I don’t get mad when they joke about white people! Chappell makes me laugh!
For a second, I thought she was sitting there with her knees pulled in her shirt like ya do when yer a kid.
Lol, I'm 40 and I still do this sometimes.
I'm absolutely here for Amala Thiccpunobi
But you have to pronounce it "Thipunobi", hahaha.
Am-ala-bout thic-pine-hobbis too
Fatfobic?
That would suggest a fear of... oh wait... nope, fatfobic is definitely the right word used in this case! 😂
Right. I have a phobia of being fat.
@maliamichelle2059 No need to feel fear of it.
If you take reasonable care of yourself, eat well then you'll be OK.
A fear of something like that could lead you to become anorexic if you're not careful, and you definitely don't want that.
@@08wolfeyes oh no. I have a healthy fear of it. I eat well and take care of myself
Not a whole 12 pack of Uncrustables 😂.
My dad has been super skinny all his life and can just eat whatever, never weighing more than 130 pounds at 5'11". But he is not at all healthy. There is this weird perception that he is because he is skinny it is weird. eating unhealthy no matter if your body gets fat or not is not at all relevant.
Um, I like to think I have a big back. In fact, it's quite thick. In some places, particularly the upper section, it actually bulges. But, my big back activities are things like barbell rows, t bar rows, deadlifts, cable rows and sometimes even rack pulls. Sigh. I guess my millennial understanding of a big back isn't current anymore.
I think it was one of the Wayans members that said that comedy was how they dealt with the crappy reality that they were in. It helped them get through traumatic and dramatic events in their life. And like Amala said, with comedy EVERYONE is a target. Plus, laughter is good for the soul, brain, and heart.
Quasimodo was the OG BigBack.
Lol. Big back activity is no exercise...so the sctivity is no activity. Got it.
I bet you there are fat people that don’t want to be fat. Does that make them fat phobic? Because it’s usually due to poor eating habits or possibly low metabolism. It’s not easy sometimes to get skinny.
yea once a fatphobe always a fatphobe your just so misonogonetic honestly I have fast metabolism and i hate everytime i eat a burger i cry because i know im just so privileged you need to be more like me I try to eat at least 6000 calories a day to make the fats feel better also kids need to be trans your racist transphobic and homophobic
I've seen fat influencers (ugh) lose weight and have their audience turn on them for it. It's actually disgusting.
I've noticed that many of the now 'big back' women were once skinny- usually before marriage and or kids - they had no problem 'judging ' chubby kids in high school etc. They did plenty of punching down and now they can't handle it when it's done to them.
I’m glad weight loss is so easy for so many of you. You should be thankful and humble about the grace given you instead of self-righteous! As someone who has struggled my entire life it’s been a horrible journey! I workout, fast regularly, eat healthy but my looks don’t reflect that. Be happy your appearances keep you safe from society’s bulling it’s an awful way to live.
You’re not alone, friend. I hope you’re not spending too much time on the internet. Focus on your healthy lifestyle and not on people’s opinions about your body. I hope you have in person support. I know it can be brutal. ❤
@@psyche8187 💜 thank you!
It wasn't easy. It took me 5 years, a lot of exercise, and better food choices to lose the weight.
it’s not always just about eating healthy, you can eat healthy but eat 3000 calories and still gain weight. i lost when i actually counted exactly how much i ate. it’s not easy but it works, or you need to go to the doctor and do a complete hormonal panel
it’s not always just about eating healthy, you can eat healthy but eat 3000 calories and still gain weight. i lost when i actually counted exactly how much i ate. it’s not easy but it works, or you need to go to the doctor and do a complete hormonal panel
Remember when humor deescalated angry conversations instead of inciting them?
This is not humor. It’s bullying.
@@daringgreatly8473 Bullying is targeted at a specific person. These people don't know you and nobody would know unless you told them, so you are choosing to let them have power over your life.
@@daringgreatly8473😂😂😂😂
@@daringgreatly8473it's humor to me. I used to be fat and getting bullied. I tried dieting for several months, failed several times until finally for a year I made a progress. Now my weight is normal again.
You're just too sensitive, honey. Be honest.
@@daringgreatly8473why are you commenting everywhere. Go for a walk instead
My teen walked through as I was watching this & said it is "big back behavior" not "activities" 😂
That intro making me hungry cause I've only eaten once today LMAO
Ok come on, which of us as kids did not shove pillows into oversized clothes to pretend to be fat?
Thank you. Thank you so, so much. I’m a really bad place right now full of sorrow and pain. really needed to hear this. So again, thank you 🙏❤️❤️
Has someone who suffers from a real phobia (arachnophobia) Im about to start acting with them like i do with spiders. Lets see how they can handle real phobia thrown at them
if you look like you have pillows stuffed in your clothes, that's not a body type, that's a lifestyle.
I for one am tired of "TRENDS" DONE w TikTok please and thank youuu!! Destroying people's mental health, HELLOOOOOO!!!!
In about 1990, me and my school mates started saying "look, his chest's slipped" when referring to a fat man. I still say it today, I'm 47 and my chest hasn't slipped yet! 😂
It takes about 3500 calories to gain 1lb. Do the math, big back. Put the fork down.
I slowly put my piece of cake back in the fridge 😭
@@jelli_joy 😊
@@jelli_joy 😉 You can do it
"Fat-phobic"? So not approving of an extremely unhealthy thing is "phobic." Guess I am also "smoking-phobic" and "disease-phobic" too.
No one asked you to approve it. You also don't have to go out of your way to bully people.
@@mariposa9506 so telling the truth about the health risks is your definition of bullying? I submit that the bully is the one who insists that everyone else tell a lie because that is what the bully wants, and will scold them and call them names like phobic until the agree to deny reality. The worst part is that the ones who tell the harsh truth about the health risks are the ones who actually care. The ones who tell an overweight person lies obviously don't care that they are helping that person stay on a path that will hurt them.
Why the Chipotle hate? Chipotle is probably the healthiest fast food place.
Having no discipline is not having a different body type. It is a person stuffing their faces. You can help it but choose not to.
Baby got a bit too much back
@@Mikhaillovesideologiesnever
Even Sir Mix-a-Lot got to shout, in panic.
🤣 back that thaaang up 😁
If people are comfortable with what they are, they can't be offended.
I have autism, there is nothing i can do about this, and people have always been offended that my best friend would call me out loud "f*cking autistic ass !!" or to someone with whom i had a misunderstanding he was like "f*cking autist can't get this, his brain is miswired, stop trying to communicate with him you better ask a monkey to shoot rocket to the moon !".
And people were offended, but i've never been, i mean, that's true, i have autism, and misunderstandings are common, i'm more comfortable with someone being able to joke about it and acknowledge he's aware of my condition but taking it lightly, than with people acting like there's nothing, dismissing issues, and in the end getting frustrated because their expectations were unrealistic and/or because they forget that i have autism.
So, if someone fat is really fine with it, why would he be offended ? Only those that aren't at peace and fake being fine are offended, by their own hypocrisy.
My best friend of 18 years is mildly autistic. I'm ADHD. We'll take the piss out of each other for it whenever we see the opportunity. Same with him being Belgian and me English.
It's just what people who are comfortable with who they are do.
Been working on my big back for years, hours of resistance/strength training and serious protein for a big back. How big? The Lunk alarm goes off when I try to enter a Planet Fitness. Just the complete opposite of the big back trend.
Girl you’re looking so good! You look so much happier and are glowing now that you’re taking care of your body properly!!
Jokes about ourselves are the best ones, because they make us laugh at ourselves, which is healthy.
Obesity comes with shame 🌧️🌧️
I'm currently 5'6" and 130lbs, but I train in a dojo 5 nights a week, and I meticulously count calories to stay between 1400 and 1600 per day for 6 days a week, and I get one day per week when I can eat something extra, but without stuffing my gut until my calorie count is tripled or whatever, so I work hard for that. I bust my butt and keep disciplined to earn those extra calories every Wednesday. So those of us who don't have big backs aren't just sitting around and stuffing food and staying slim because we're lucky, we put in the work for that. And for the vast majority of people, not counting the ones who are unable to because of legitimate medical troubles that prevent it for them, they can do the same if they're willing to commit to it.
I don't think anybody actually really wants to promote obesity. I think people just want you to leave obese people alone... Like just leave them alone. There's nothing stopping you from keeping your mouth closed and not insulting another human being...
The body positive movement should have expected a *backlash* of some sort! :P
I have an unreasonable fear of extremely fat people - fatphobic?
Have you ever had one sit on you? I have, it’s not unreasonable
As ALWAYS a great report!!
In the last 1.5 months I’ve lost 30-35lbs.
I did not want to and am now struggling to regain this weight.
Be grateful for what you have.
Nothing tastes as good as being thin feels
Is this an update for 'big boned' ?
I'm an obese man and I approve this message.
There is nothing wrong here and I'm obese because of my own poor decisions. Luckily, I'm working to rectify the situation and have stopped doing Big Back activities in order to stop being a Big Back individual.
I LOVE the way you speak your thoughts keep going!! ❤❤
5:05 - "Decided to make a joke *back*."
Phobia? Phobia? I'm not afraid. Come at me -- I'll just walk briskly away
I’ve always found making jokes of my problems or just who I am in general helpful. Somethings can be funny simply because they’re true
As a vertically challenged man who's favorite karaoke song is "short people", I approve this video.
1:52 The glasses tho😂👌🏼🙌🏼
Anybody else thought it was an ass thing
Love your channel. Common sense - refreshing.
Dear Amala,
when you see a person with bad burn scars. Do you then think he was too stupid to stay away from the fire?
And when this person says that he finally feels comfortable in his body again, do you then tell him that he definitely shouldn't because he is a symbol of bad use of fire and thus causes others to burn themselves?
Hardly likely!
When we see a burnt victim, we do not wonder whether he intentionally set fire to his house.
Why then do we immediately have an opinion about overweight people as to why they are so overweight?
Some overweight people have severe depression.
Some have a metabolic disorder.
Some people simply have the wrong strains of bacteria in their digestive tract.
Some people are really too stupid to eat really well and take the stairs instead of the elevator.
Some have an invisible disability, like MS, ALS (in the early stages), Fibromyalgia, or something else, their calorie consumption is absolutely through the roof and if they don't want to starve and eat normally, then they get fatter and fatter.
There are so many reasons.
When someone says at some point after years of degrading bullying, cruel treatment at work, in business, in the service industry and other things: I'm at peace with myself, I finally feel myself again and I own up to my excess weight because I've already been on 100 diets and will never get rid of these fat cells in the long run, then he will be laughed at and it will be said that he is saying that being overweight is healthy?
NO, being overweight is harmful, no one WANTS to have it, but some people have to come to terms with it.
7:06 nahh this response is such big back behavior 💀
Also 6:44 what would SHE know about fruit? 💀💀💀 (sorry I had to)
Also sooo sick of people bitching about fatphobic transphobic or any phobics! Who gives a shit. Don’t ❤ the video 🤷🏼♀️
Well, yeah...I workout and eat veggies because Im "scared" of becoming fat, unhealthy, unable to fit in a seat comfortably, unable to find clothes my size without going to a special shop....etc. People with bad habits, morals...etc are simply lazy and instead of working on themselves, everyone has to adapt to them. Do what you want but the rest of us arent obligated to play along with your delusions. Shame(not shaming) needs to come back into society.
I’m a size 8 which is considered average and I just found out that I’m pre diabetic, have high LDL cholesterol,and high non LDL cholesterol. It matters what you put into your body no matter what size you are.
I think skinny people should take the word of overweight people and not make these jokes. there’s a lot that goes into the fat experience and this type of videos are triggering and degrading and worst of all NOT EVEN FUNNY!! It’s just too much to explain, but this is bad. I used to be very overweight and then I lost ALOT of weight and people said I was too skinny and now I’m somewhere in the middle but what I learned from all that experience is that skinny people are treated WAY differently than overweight and that’s sad. I hope there isn’t a kid out there crying because of this video but chances are there is.
Thank you for saying this! There is so much that goes into the fat experience. For me personally it’s been very painful and it’s sad seeing so many hateful comments supporting these types of posts.
How bout no respectfully
@@daringgreatly8473sorry ur fat life sucks people are mean learn to not care
No
💯 Also, it’s just gross to laugh at someone’s appearance…classless & tacky behavior!
Most thin people I know eat as much or more than the obese people I know!
Thin doesn’t = Active Lifestyle
Thin doesn’t = Restricted
Calorie Diet
Thin doesn’t = Dietician
Thin doesn’t = Medical Degree
Thin doesn’t = Good Health
BUT based on the comments, it seems that thin people think they know it all & feel entitled to comment on obese people’s choices. It’s comical that people think they know something about a condition they don’t have.