She Asked TikTok If She Could Wear Braids. They Let Her Have It.

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  • Опубліковано 27 бер 2024
  • A white girl asked TikTok if she could wear a box braids hairstyle that she saw mixed-race influencer Nara Smith sporting. Now she’s gone viral and is being accused of racism and cultural appropriation. Let’s talk about it.
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  • @IAMSUPREME22
    @IAMSUPREME22 Місяць тому +1012

    That one black girl wearing straight af hair while telling a white girl she can't wear braids. 💀💀💀😭😭😭

    • @kaylawayla7199
      @kaylawayla7199 Місяць тому +88

      Exactly what I was thinking 😭

    • @rangerchief8004
      @rangerchief8004 Місяць тому +83

      You can’t point that out to hypocrites.

    • @carrieruston3770
      @carrieruston3770 Місяць тому +63

      and, at least the white girl has real hair

    • @mikemichael777
      @mikemichael777 Місяць тому

      Those are the hypocritical kweens

    • @jasminesploots6986
      @jasminesploots6986 Місяць тому

      They'll call it oppression that white people push them to straighten their hair

  • @iamneverwrong6635
    @iamneverwrong6635 Місяць тому +981

    Her Biggest Mistake was asking permission for anything. NEVER placate the mob.

    • @chuiduma
      @chuiduma Місяць тому +42

      Especially on tiktok. Of ALL the platforms, it's the one I'd most expect to see this amount of outrage in the responses. 🙄🙃

    • @user-tg1pu5mo2r
      @user-tg1pu5mo2r Місяць тому +6

      Word

    • @amethystmoonchild6568
      @amethystmoonchild6568 Місяць тому +6

      She asked for the content and attention & everyone gave it to her

    • @ViolosD2I
      @ViolosD2I Місяць тому +6

      Yeh it's like a big sign saying "Here is someone you can manipulate and feel accomplished doing it!"

    • @16kma
      @16kma Місяць тому +8

      fr she did that to herself. looking like a fool asking permission to do wtf she wants to do with HER hair. crazy.

  • @clarabella8
    @clarabella8 Місяць тому +558

    LOL, this madness is only a USA thing. Here, in Europe black girls from Africa voluntarily do braids on white women. I have long red hair and they ask me every time to braid it, even a male collegue of mine asked me to let my hair to be braided by his mom, who is a pro. Here black women are happy to share their talents and culture and white women are happy to share theirs and to celebrate together.

    • @winniekeogotsitse1111
      @winniekeogotsitse1111 Місяць тому +56

      I was thinking the same thing cause in South Africa, a white woman was filming herself being braided and a lot of South African women complimented her.😕

    • @mermaid4109
      @mermaid4109 Місяць тому

      That's bc our government constantly tries to promote violence and racism so they can control. People are ignorant sheep and fall forit all.

    • @laurazaions
      @laurazaions Місяць тому +16

      Same in Brasil

    • @mattmccullough1093
      @mattmccullough1093 Місяць тому +32

      It never used to be an issue in america. The whole hair thing is a new modern day thing. Is that started in the 2020s. I come from a mixed race family and hair was never a race issue when I was growing up. It just wasn't. Wasn't even thought of.

    • @davidpar2
      @davidpar2 Місяць тому

      The problem, as it _always_ does in situations like this, lies with the enablers. Why would you ask such a ridiculous question. As if you need the internet’s approval to do what you want with your own hair, and as if you don’t know that. America has more than its fair share of white saviorists, and it’s revolting.

  • @veloceon325
    @veloceon325 Місяць тому +104

    The only mistake this girl made was asking people that are terminally online if a hairstyle is acceptable.

    • @deniseberman8633
      @deniseberman8633 Місяць тому +6

      Why on earth did she have to ask permission? Screw that!

    • @zolandia5262
      @zolandia5262 15 днів тому

      I have to question her motivation in asking on tiktok. Does she just want to kick off some controversy for views? Hope I'm not being too cynical, don't really know much about tiktok.

    • @Oreo.Cat123
      @Oreo.Cat123 5 днів тому

      Black women put a lot of different products in their hair to make it manageable for box braids. Most of these women start their box braids from the roots to their ears. Then they add extensions to exaggerate the extend the length of hair.

  • @FannyAdamsGhost
    @FannyAdamsGhost Місяць тому +1528

    American Privilege: Gate-keeping braids. Nobody owns braids OR dreadlocks.

    • @FAVanguard
      @FAVanguard Місяць тому +28

      Did you know hair discrimination act was recently just passed?
      Imagine certain groups just recently being able to be free from being punished for their natural hair.
      When you belong to such a group, it's understandable why certain people react emotionally when you see members of those same oppressive group now being celebrated as 'edgy and radical' when they wear your traditional hair.
      I have no skin in this game, I'm purely looking at it from a psychological perspective.

    • @frankcaggiano8282
      @frankcaggiano8282 Місяць тому +63

      ​@@FAVanguardit's already been illegal to discriminate based on race for a while. If a hair thing was specifically only a thing for that race, that would mean they're already being discriminated against, and a new law restricting discrimination based on "hair" would be for optics only. Almost like it was never about hairstyle.... 🤔

    • @Anna-fw7lm
      @Anna-fw7lm Місяць тому +69

      Rest assured: ancient chinese dreadlocks and viking braids can be wore by anyone.

    • @rodschermerhorn6996
      @rodschermerhorn6996 Місяць тому +4

      I was just going to write that!

    • @rodschermerhorn6996
      @rodschermerhorn6996 Місяць тому +28

      Nobody owns braids

  • @DinoDave_84
    @DinoDave_84 Місяць тому +534

    Vikings: 🤦‍♂
    Paleo Europeans: 🤦‍♂
    Indians: 🤦‍♂
    North American Natives: 🤦‍♂
    All cultures with traditionally long hair in their ancestry: 🤦‍♂
    The Neanderthal in the corner: *coughs*

    • @rosexoxo_Roblox
      @rosexoxo_Roblox Місяць тому +7

      Fr!

    • @tammy6610
      @tammy6610 Місяць тому +18

      Think how weak of character you have to have a meltdown over this poo

    • @rosexoxo_Roblox
      @rosexoxo_Roblox Місяць тому +29

      @@tammy6610 Ikr, the double standards for a fricking braided hair style are crazy. I am black myself and I always thought the argument about braids having a lot of history was dumb because saying it shouldn't be worn by white people and people of other races is just dumb. Most of us black girls wear braid because they are cute not because of its history at all. So silly people have to explain themselves for this. The double standard is crazy, just my only complain about white people when they wear braids is to make sure it won't yank out, your hair, and to be very careful like the lady said in the video as it can lead to bald spots.

    • @ScandalUK
      @ScandalUK Місяць тому +9

      Romans and Egyptians, Celtic and Aztec - it’s always been black and white using braids lol

    • @quandaone3366
      @quandaone3366 Місяць тому +1

      @@rosexoxo_Roblox you not black 😂

  • @Saravon
    @Saravon Місяць тому +214

    I'm German, Polish, Irish, Scottish and Norwegian as well as Cree Indian...all of those cultures wear and have worn braids forever. This is absolute nonsense.

    • @quandaone3366
      @quandaone3366 Місяць тому +2

      Black people hair is different from every other race

    • @DarkAngel2512
      @DarkAngel2512 Місяць тому +8

      ​@@quandaone3366stating the obvious. How the eff is that relevant?

    • @DerpyFaery
      @DerpyFaery Місяць тому +5

      The blacks who are saying only blacks own the hairstyle aka braids = IGNORANT
      Go study world culture and pick up some general knowledge.
      Braids aren’t just part of your culture. The first time I saw braids? Mongolian ladies in period dramas and documentaries. Yea. Not black.

    • @catherinedavis9196
      @catherinedavis9196 24 дні тому +1

      I'm french, Irish, German, American (basically a bunch of different races mixed into 1) and native American, to be specific I'm from the Iowa tribe and I don't even know what my grandpa is because he was adopted. A lot of those backgrounds had braids, so some people need to understand a SINGLE race DOES NOT own any hair style or trend or any of that. Egyptions actually started doing braids first which puts black and white people in the wrong with this. Doing braids has been adopted into many cultures which gives everyone a right to do what they please with their hair and body, it doesn't matter what anyone says or thinks about how you dress or look

    • @user-rl7mt4gh3o
      @user-rl7mt4gh3o 21 день тому

      @@quandaone3366
      there were white women & white guys that have afro hairstyles too since the 1970s & 1980s

  • @userishawt
    @userishawt 29 днів тому +35

    How the hell did they find a way to get mad at the girl for literally saying “it’s so beautiful I want to wear it and I’m asking permission” SHE LITERALLY APPRECIATED IT AND EVERYTHING 💀

  • @tylerpatterson3857
    @tylerpatterson3857 Місяць тому +2204

    Braids are not even unique to black culture… the big scary Norse wore them routinely

    • @aRAINofBLOOD
      @aRAINofBLOOD Місяць тому +170

      Native Americans, much?

    • @space_pollution
      @space_pollution Місяць тому +295

      The Celts also wore dreads 😱 the horror

    • @renatobrkanovic6282
      @renatobrkanovic6282 Місяць тому +304

      Greek women wore braids. And i mean ancient greek in the BC era..

    • @redacted2275
      @redacted2275 Місяць тому +47

      ​@@aRAINofBLOOD Why are you being sassy in your reply? 🤨

    • @nasseemdouz2198
      @nasseemdouz2198 Місяць тому +3

      @@space_pollution racists.

  • @MrsB197something
    @MrsB197something Місяць тому +646

    Vikings, Celts and many Germanic peoples in general ALL wore braids this is beyond ridiculous and lizzo should focus on taking better care of her body not attacking a kid.

    • @Anna-fw7lm
      @Anna-fw7lm Місяць тому +55

      We mediterraneans wore braids too
      Not even dreadlocks are exclusive of black people. Ancient chinese are famous for that!

    • @adyanuwu8690
      @adyanuwu8690 Місяць тому

      💀

    • @TheTourbusIndividual
      @TheTourbusIndividual Місяць тому +9

      Thank you!!!!!
      Sincerely,
      A Norse-Scot-Irish

    • @yanimobongo6752
      @yanimobongo6752 Місяць тому

      💀

    • @DinoDave_84
      @DinoDave_84 Місяць тому +14

      @@Anna-fw7lm Any ancient humans that could grow more than scalp stubble ended up with dreadlocks, they're a natural phenomenon in literally every hair type except for folks who can only grow the little stubs. All anyone has to do is not comb their hair for a few months.

  • @johncasey2137
    @johncasey2137 20 днів тому +16

    I heard her say Nara Smith got tiny braids, but I never once heard her call them Nara Smith Braids.

  • @stevenalexander6713
    @stevenalexander6713 Місяць тому +415

    "It's always sets us back 17 years"
    That would actually be a good thing. 17 years ago things were a lot more sane than they are now.

    • @samanthaorologio6866
      @samanthaorologio6866 Місяць тому +23

      Such a great point. I miss 17 years ago so much.

    • @legolokicars5820
      @legolokicars5820 Місяць тому +4

      ⁠@@samanthaorologio6866im a bit torn, as 17 years ago i was like 2 months old. At the same time, culture has seemed to get progressively worse since then, so either i have a crazy fucking skewed point of view or culture has gotten progressively worse. Im not sure.

    • @IzzySalami
      @IzzySalami Місяць тому +2

      Yo, throw me back 17 years ago RIGHT NOW. That was the last time I saw my first love 😩😂 But, no really. I had so much fun in my early teen years, before I moved away from my hometown.

    • @brie2964
      @brie2964 27 днів тому +2

      Very true! I’m in my early 30’s and I can’t believe how racially divided everything is currently. Hard to believe that this is the current state of the country.

  • @kayceeb1845
    @kayceeb1845 Місяць тому +468

    Why would she ask permission. I had braids on vacation in the Caribbean and didn't ask anyone because I do what I want and no one owns a hairstyle.

    • @NiqVFancy
      @NiqVFancy Місяць тому +58

      It's legit something the ladies in the Caribbean do for people coming off cruise ships. People are wild!

    • @meganjaime7728
      @meganjaime7728 Місяць тому +34

      Same! I was 12 and my family went on a vacation to celebrate my great grandmother’s birthday and my sister and I got braids by some local ladies. Nothing bad happened to our hair though. Maybe it’s because we just got our hair braided (no extensions or anything just our own hair braided very tightly). Maybe it’s because we actually have pretty curly hair. 🤷🏻‍♀️😊

    • @starsapphirelee5714
      @starsapphirelee5714 Місяць тому

      She was afraid of being "cancelled"! Lame. The reason this country is a mess is because they are a bunch of scared PC sheep!

    • @kayceeb1845
      @kayceeb1845 Місяць тому +21

      @@meganjaime7728 My hair is straight, thin, fine all the crappy hair things (even though I always get compliments on my hair). My hair was absolutely fine. I only took it out because my head got sunburned and it was starting to itch and peel. I used a lot of conditioner, cut the rubber bands off and combed the hair out one braid at a time. No issues what so ever.

    • @homesteadgmad8223
      @homesteadgmad8223 Місяць тому +2

      Exactly.

  • @OKTCars
    @OKTCars Місяць тому +805

    if Lizzo disagrees, then you're probably right.

    • @warriordad79
      @warriordad79 Місяць тому +14

      😂😂Did Amala just call lizzo an a list celeb?😂😂😂😂

    • @LARDYCHRIST
      @LARDYCHRIST Місяць тому +40

      Good on Lizzo trying to creep her way back into relevancy 😂

    • @Zachary_s
      @Zachary_s Місяць тому +6

      She's the one who made her employees tweak or get fired?

    • @jadeforestco
      @jadeforestco Місяць тому

      Probably?

    • @tomjackson4374
      @tomjackson4374 Місяць тому +15

      If Lizzo eats a ham sandwich is she a cannibal?

  • @emmanuellaolenloa4416
    @emmanuellaolenloa4416 Місяць тому +61

    It's the audacity to gatekeep braids when you're wearing their hair on your head 🤦. People should get a life😒

  • @Windgoddess78
    @Windgoddess78 Місяць тому +93

    Her first mistake was going to Tiktok for permission in the first place. If she did that in Trinidad, nobody would bat an eye

    • @aj8124
      @aj8124 Місяць тому

      im from Trinidad & literally anybody wears braids here. i swear black Americans cause their own problems

    • @vernelledouglas1801
      @vernelledouglas1801 7 днів тому +1

      Yup, we Trinis know cultural appreciation. We celebrate cultural diversity.

  • @shippo481
    @shippo481 Місяць тому +731

    But black women literally put Asian and Brazilian women’s hair in their head

    • @user-dg7nx6oy6t
      @user-dg7nx6oy6t Місяць тому +7

      *on*

    • @shanchan8247
      @shanchan8247 Місяць тому +22

      But not white hair so apparently that makes the difference

    • @theluckystoveshow
      @theluckystoveshow Місяць тому +16

      😂😅😂😅 so true!!! Though I go for synthetic 😂 I used to always go for bone straight

    • @Phoenix2312
      @Phoenix2312 Місяць тому

      There are also Black Women who wear Wigs to look more "Western" ... Nikki Minaj is a great example - Her hair is NOT Naturally Straight, She wears Wigs!!! So are they not stealing from Western Culture trying to hide their afro hair?
      I thought the point was to be Proud of being Black, Not hide who you really are!

    • @LadyMinNYC
      @LadyMinNYC Місяць тому +57

      can't complain about cultural appropriation when y'all are out here buy 15" of Brazilian virgin hair then dying that ish platinum blond. Stop it. 😂

  • @Scoots1994
    @Scoots1994 Місяць тому +644

    People from Scotland wore braids centuries ago. There is nothing "black" about them.

    • @Sylvia-ps8tg
      @Sylvia-ps8tg Місяць тому

      If we would try to keep our ‚cultures‘ no asian or dark skin human could do ballet or opera. Or use electricity and so on. Its a joke😂😂😂

    • @Sylvia-ps8tg
      @Sylvia-ps8tg Місяць тому +18

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @aine2115
      @aine2115 Місяць тому +22

      Not just braids, but specifically "corn rows". To denote power and status.

    • @Bibitiebabitieboo
      @Bibitiebabitieboo Місяць тому +10

      See y’all are talking only about braids with no added hair. When we talk about braids we mean box braids, knotless braids, Senegalese twist, rope twist, cornrows, Marley twist, boho braids etc. That would mean if I want hip length knotless it is my hair with 26 inch 1b expression kanekolon hair or if I want Marley twist I would by kinky hair or Marley twist hair. Y’all don’t do that only black folks so this argument of yours is not even on the same page as to what we mean.

    • @raelv504
      @raelv504 Місяць тому +18

      ⁠@@Bibitiebabitiebooactually I have been told a lot that braids as a whole are “black culture” despite other cultures having them as well so while that may be what you’re referring to, that’s not always the argument that gets thrown at us.
      Though people can wear whatever braids they want on anyone at any time.

  • @georgianachivoiu9596
    @georgianachivoiu9596 Місяць тому +206

    I am from Romania, an eastern Europe country. Until 1989 we were under communism and we had no TVs and no news from outside the country. My grandmother and grand-grandmother had braids all the time and were part of our culture and our family as well... so I am having a hard time understanding how these hairstyles are attributed to only one race/culture.

    • @saraorsara2835
      @saraorsara2835 Місяць тому +18

      USA never dealt with this Race. There is no such thing as race…….. people have different “Melanin” . Thats it. How people are labeling this is ridiculous.

    • @jezlawrence720
      @jezlawrence720 Місяць тому

      @@saraorsara2835 Yah imagine getting so uptight over a bloody phenotype.
      "Have you seen tortoiseshell cats? They are SO entitled, not like the noble and oppressed ginger cat."
      Sounds stupid, because it is stupid.
      "Race" is itself a racist term that came out of racist tribal thinking ffs, why are people so bloody intent on taking us back into segregation and cultural supremacy philosophies?

    • @leapfrog9656
      @leapfrog9656 Місяць тому

      They are showing complete ignorance and lack of knowledge by crying "victim" and appropriation. I never shout about how uneducated I am, especially with pride.

    • @moriahriker1831
      @moriahriker1831 Місяць тому +4

      The best I could come up with is it's the type of braids I don't hear anybody fighting about dreadlocks it's probably because they look disgusting 🤢🤮🤧

    • @gerdahepburn1905
      @gerdahepburn1905 Місяць тому +8

      I am over 80 grown up in Europe we all wore braids as jung girls…

  • @LoveGod-ObeyGod
    @LoveGod-ObeyGod Місяць тому +43

    I'm a South African with mixed heritage. Here in South Africa (and even in Africa in general) we don't care! 😅 The so called black people in my country love it when white people wear their hair in typical african styles. I guess that's why people say South Africa is a friendly nation. Not sure why black people who are born and raised in the USA (the younger generation) are so sensitive, my parents went through racism during apartheid that most black americans can only imagine. I will quote the lovely Candace Owens "life's tough, get a helmet." 🤷‍♀️

    • @user-tg1pu5mo2r
      @user-tg1pu5mo2r Місяць тому +4

      👍👌💪
      Shouldn't they be honored instead of angry 😅?

    • @LoveGod-ObeyGod
      @LoveGod-ObeyGod Місяць тому

      @@user-tg1pu5mo2r 😅

    • @DarkAngel2512
      @DarkAngel2512 Місяць тому +4

      They need to watch what happened in Rwanda to understand what racism is. Someone liking how many black people wear their hair and choosing to copy is not racism. Telling them they cant copy because of their race is racism.

    • @shaelovesJesus
      @shaelovesJesus 29 днів тому +1

      Yaaaaaasss

  • @LucyAllisonforever
    @LucyAllisonforever Місяць тому +238

    What’s so funny about this is they have an issue with white women wearing braids BUT when they wear a blonde wig it’s not the same. Ridiculous

    • @kaylawayla7199
      @kaylawayla7199 Місяць тому +35

      I’ve actually seen some on TikTok getting offended when white people wear wigs, claiming that’s racist too. It’s insane

    • @sylth4103
      @sylth4103 Місяць тому

      @@kaylawayla7199they also get offended if white people tan because they think they’re trying to be “black” lol. I think most of these Black people are just very racist and have something going wrong in their life. They have to project it on others.

    • @LucyAllisonforever
      @LucyAllisonforever Місяць тому +26

      @@kaylawayla7199 I’ve seen that too! It makes no sense. Like they will b**ch about everything while doing those same things. I genuinely don’t understand why HAIR is what we are deciding to spend our time fighting about.

    • @Sunnysidestoriesandmusic
      @Sunnysidestoriesandmusic Місяць тому

      @@LucyAllisonforeverbc they hate white people and want to bully whitey into submission

    • @jemiinou
      @jemiinou Місяць тому

      blonde hair is a genetic mutation. anyone can randomly genetically mutate and have blonde hair at birth including dark skinned individuals. it is not the same. you do not even know the science behind your own hair.

  • @NodSquad
    @NodSquad Місяць тому +393

    Lizzo doesn't deserve to have an internet opinion after her "eat the banana" scandal

    • @HeWhoIsWhoHeIs
      @HeWhoIsWhoHeIs Місяць тому +30

      What the fuck is a lizzo?

    • @saltyclanker8440
      @saltyclanker8440 Місяць тому

      A walking, talking, Milk Dud. 👍 ​@@HeWhoIsWhoHeIs

    • @JackGuynes-dg4vx
      @JackGuynes-dg4vx Місяць тому

      When are some good hearted people going to roll Lizzo back into the ocean.

    • @JackGuynes-dg4vx
      @JackGuynes-dg4vx Місяць тому

      ​@@HeWhoIsWhoHeIsA land whale.

    • @LidiaGetRiddaya
      @LidiaGetRiddaya Місяць тому +53

      @@HeWhoIsWhoHeIs a lizzard with a flute.

  • @Chrisstinnaa
    @Chrisstinnaa Місяць тому +45

    She also never said they were Nara Smith braids she was saying that Nara Smith has these braids and she likes them
    Also you KNOW that if she was “naming the braids” after the one complaining about her “renaming” the braids she wouldn’t be complaining lol

  • @AmadeAmaya
    @AmadeAmaya Місяць тому +31

    Did you also know that people from Eastern Europe also braid their hair? It's not really a race issue

    • @hedaheda1609
      @hedaheda1609 Місяць тому +3

      Not only in Eastern part, braids have been present since ancient times throughout all Europe.

    • @AmadeAmaya
      @AmadeAmaya Місяць тому +2

      @@hedaheda1609 I never wrote that only people from Eastern Europe braided their hair. People all over the world braided their hair

    • @hedaheda1609
      @hedaheda1609 Місяць тому +2

      @@AmadeAmaya I'm not accusing you of anything, just adding to what you said.

    • @deniseberman8633
      @deniseberman8633 Місяць тому

      No because they don’t want to have anything to do with Europeans.

    • @AmadeAmaya
      @AmadeAmaya Місяць тому

      @@deniseberman8633 Sounds racist

  • @JackGuynes-dg4vx
    @JackGuynes-dg4vx Місяць тому +170

    Yet nothing is said when a black woman has straight blonde hair. If one is an act of racism then all are.

    • @maxm807
      @maxm807 Місяць тому +8

      how straight blonde hair comparable to braids

    • @DinoDave_84
      @DinoDave_84 Місяць тому +48

      @@maxm807 Simple, it's an artificial practice just like braiding. It requires a straightening iron and bleaching. A style's a style. If they want to go by "who had it first" anyway, then egg on their face. The oldest documented case of braided hair is actually prehistoric, and on a pasty fellow. The Neanderthal "Ice Man" they found frozen in the alps had braids. That's a bit older than all these folks citing a seven thousand year old West African tribe. For perspective, the Neanderthals died out around *forty* thousand years ago.

    • @CroMagnon42
      @CroMagnon42 Місяць тому

      ​@DinoDave_84 we also have an ancient carved mammoth ivory of girl w braids

    • @Sylvia-ps8tg
      @Sylvia-ps8tg Місяць тому +5

      @@DinoDave_84😂😂🎯

    • @espon2112
      @espon2112 Місяць тому +4

      @@DinoDave_84if you can do that research then you’d also know ‘black’ people can range from blonde hair blue eyes to dark tight coiled hair .. because you know ethnicity .. and ‘black’ is a skin colour.

  • @thelakelady
    @thelakelady Місяць тому +702

    This is the most ridiculous thing I've heard in a while! I am native American but appear "white" to most. Braids have been multicultural forever and if we want to go there and cry cultural appropriation then why to certain people wear BLONDE WIGS/EXTENSIONS and get blue contacts!? Please explain why THAT'S ok and me wearing braids that aligns with MY culture is not??????

    • @Anna-fw7lm
      @Anna-fw7lm Місяць тому +36

      Viking had braids
      Ancient chinese had dreadlocks

    • @notinterested8452
      @notinterested8452 Місяць тому +6

      I have absolutely no sympathy for anyone nor do I care who they claim to be.

    • @saoirse_mavourneen
      @saoirse_mavourneen Місяць тому +43

      Have you seen the videos of people saying you guys are fake and black people are the real natives, that you guys stole their heritage. I'm not even kidding. I'm Irisb and apparently we did the sane thing 😅

    • @saoirse_mavourneen
      @saoirse_mavourneen Місяць тому +29

      ​@Anna-fw7lm Hindus too, the God Shiva has dreads. The celts too, the Roman's when describing them said they had hair like snakes. A lot of Native American tribes also traditionally wore braids. Ancient Roam and Greek also worse braided styles Etc. Etc.

    • @stupidkitty84
      @stupidkitty84 Місяць тому +41

      Haven't you heard? They say black ppl can wear blonde wigs because "some blacks have naturally blonde hair." They are being facetious with that bit of data. Black ppl with blonde hair are part of aboriginal tribes and that blonde hair is usually very brassy color (nearly orange) and very kinky/tight curled. So, no, straight platinum blonde wigs is NOT based in reality.

  • @aureal693
    @aureal693 Місяць тому +14

    As a white girl who loves to try new hairstyles, including box braids, cornrows, feed in braids etc, i have never had trouble in person wearing braids out in public, least not to my face. And never damaged my hair because i purposely dont leave them in for as long or overly tighten my grip. I even had many girls of all colors ask me to braid there hair cause they see me wear them. I do what i want end of story.

  • @MichelleM18
    @MichelleM18 Місяць тому +8

    The vikings also had braids, they were white. People need to stop asking and just do their hair how they want.

  • @lynnegrove3194
    @lynnegrove3194 Місяць тому +201

    Viking braids are thousands of years old. Funny they look just like box braids. I don’t care that other cultures steal blonde and red hair or wear blue contacts but if you scream at this white woman then don’t do the same thing to other races. How is admiring something a micro aggression? Braids are universal and have been from the dawn of time. Nobody owns styles.

    • @Anna-fw7lm
      @Anna-fw7lm Місяць тому +20

      Also, ancient chinese are famous for their dreadlocks (I'm commenting this everywhere 'cause a lot of people here don't seem to know)

    • @flonoiisana4647
      @flonoiisana4647 Місяць тому +2

      Blonde hair is not exclusive to Whites. So Pacific Black pacific islanders, without ever being mixed with Europeans have blonde hair. Same for red hair, although pretty rare. But who cares, it's one's head and hair and they get to decide themselves.

    • @wandertree
      @wandertree Місяць тому +17

      @@flonoiisana4647 Definitely the exception, not the rule. And they certainly don't have glossy, straight or wavy hair.

    • @lynnegrove3194
      @lynnegrove3194 Місяць тому

      If you’re not a member of those races they consider that appropriation . It is an example of hypocrisy.

    • @thelakelady
      @thelakelady Місяць тому +11

      @@flonoiisana4647 that is a genetic anomaly. And?

  • @Farrah_Rxse
    @Farrah_Rxse Місяць тому +86

    The fact the girl in the video was so enthusiastic and exited to get braids and was talking about her childhood memories and how beautiful she thought of this hairstyle made me so pissed that she had to get all of this hate 😭😭

    • @deniseberman8633
      @deniseberman8633 Місяць тому +1

      By who intelligent people, nope, I don’t think so.

  • @christineeleonorepoppe6745
    @christineeleonorepoppe6745 Місяць тому +14

    I did live on Mallorca in my early 20's and had a good friend from Ghana who begged me to braid my hair so I said yes...the braids she did looked so beautiful but unfortunately I had an allergic reaction to the fake hair she used and had to take them out not even two week's later...it was such a cool and simple time because people chose to share cultures and it also created a beautiful bond between all of us... what I find ridiculous is why that one black Lady complained about people asking her why she doesn't embrace her natural hair... personally I love seeing black women rocking their natural hairstyles because it's gorgeous

  • @HardCoal08
    @HardCoal08 22 дні тому +4

    I also never heard the white girl refer to the braids as Nara smith braids

  • @Hopespringseternal
    @Hopespringseternal Місяць тому +154

    White woman here, and what was annoying about that girl asking was how she pretended to be ignorant. It was as if she hoped to go viral for the wrong reason. Just braid your hair and turn off ticktock. Done.

    • @navviil3ra
      @navviil3ra Місяць тому +24

      this is so real, like girl.. you do you and turn off social media while you’re at it. all these people live and breathe tiktok. its sad.

    • @DutchIsraeli
      @DutchIsraeli Місяць тому +16

      Yes I agree! She must have known the huge discussion she would start. Just ask your friends. Why splash it all over social media? Now if she does get them, it will be this huge thing.

    • @nadyad349
      @nadyad349 Місяць тому +10

      Yup.. clickbait

    • @whitesoxMLB
      @whitesoxMLB Місяць тому +5

      100%

    • @hello-mynameis
      @hello-mynameis Місяць тому +1

      xo

  • @stephenjason7575
    @stephenjason7575 Місяць тому +144

    I am a Full-blooded Nigerian, most of these women here Criticizing the white woman also involve in culture appropriation black women do not have Stright hair.

    • @lavaughnrannow879
      @lavaughnrannow879 Місяць тому +9

      Thank you...can't we all just get along ❤

    • @TheSpiderInUrWalls
      @TheSpiderInUrWalls Місяць тому +20

      Last time I checked most black Americans wear western clothing and speak English? That’s appropriating my language and clothing style. And nobody cares, it shouldn’t matter. I have no right to gate-keep any of this, and neither does anyone else.

    • @lavaughnrannow879
      @lavaughnrannow879 Місяць тому

      @@TheSpiderInUrWalls I don't even know why we came up with terms like, "Gatekeeping." Isn't that just to keep people out? WTF

    • @natashanidalaigh7966
      @natashanidalaigh7966 Місяць тому +3

      Exactly! Let everyone do what they want with their hair who cares!

    • @simplysuzan21
      @simplysuzan21 Місяць тому +2

      @@TheSpiderInUrWalls though I dont see any problem with white people or anybody wearing braids your example of cultural appropriation is off. Most non white and English speaking countries were colonized and forced to adapt the language and clothing so it’s just not an equal argument. A more appropriate example would be the rampant obsession some black women have with wigs and extensions that do not reflect our natural hair textures while having the audacity to speak on others wearing so called “black hairstyles”

  • @jamiespelledtherightway
    @jamiespelledtherightway 19 днів тому +3

    The African hair braiding place I go to has pics of the styles on the wall. Well, one of those styles is “Bo Derek braids” and they use a picture of Kim Kardashian 😂

  • @DM-uv3sd
    @DM-uv3sd Місяць тому +3

    Amala, Thank You for being You!!! Love your channel and content. Your observations are so on point.

  • @ssesf
    @ssesf Місяць тому +369

    As a descendant from the vikings, I would like to object to the cultural appropriation committed by ethnic Africans.

    • @deb7834
      @deb7834 Місяць тому +58

      Me too. Iv got red hair so I don't think black people should have red hair. Cultural misappropriation

    • @KinkKeeNUFC
      @KinkKeeNUFC Місяць тому +57

      Same 🙌 No straightening or bleaching their hair either.

    • @wandertree
      @wandertree Місяць тому +53

      Me too. I have natural, straight blonde hair, and black women need to stop appropriating blonde hair and straight hair.

    • @Sylvia-ps8tg
      @Sylvia-ps8tg Місяць тому +2

      Loved that🎉🎉

    • @RealHouseMouse2
      @RealHouseMouse2 Місяць тому +17

      No speaking English neither, that too is cultural appropriation

  • @meganjaime7728
    @meganjaime7728 Місяць тому +105

    She said the hair style was beautiful… I don’t see a problem. Also every culture has had braids (since the beginning of time) so trying to claim braids is silly to me.

    • @Anna-fw7lm
      @Anna-fw7lm Місяць тому

      The problem is that she's beautiful... and white...
      So, she triggered white-envy to become feral

  • @ru_s8
    @ru_s8 24 дні тому +3

    as of this point, Amala, you’re one of my new favorite creators. 💜

  • @jojomillward675
    @jojomillward675 Місяць тому +2

    I adore you Amala. You made me feel sane again for thinking the way I do. It’s so nice to share social values with a fellow mixed girl across the pond. 💚

  • @Misshandyamber
    @Misshandyamber Місяць тому +298

    This intro is WILD 😂

    • @harmonylovell8899
      @harmonylovell8899 Місяць тому +19

      real I’m living for these intros😂😂😂

    • @shirleyelliott2985
      @shirleyelliott2985 Місяць тому +7

      Too funny😂😂😂

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 Місяць тому +8

      It is ONLY a problem when they think they are better for wearing that hairstyle, or they think they can do it better when it comes to braids. The WW who genuinely like the style And appreciate all BW do to make these styles happen, go for it. 😁👍🏽

    • @TruCunt
      @TruCunt Місяць тому +6

      This intro is the craziest she’s ever done 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Misshandyamber
      @Misshandyamber Місяць тому +7

      @@TruCunt right, I’m sitting here with my braids like damn, it ain’t that serious lol 😂

  • @slytheringingerwitch
    @slytheringingerwitch Місяць тому +90

    I didn't realise that people 'own' hair and hair styles. What about hair colours, should we ban that too? It's so crazy, what is wrong with people?

    • @user-sb3pr2dm3c
      @user-sb3pr2dm3c Місяць тому +15

      Please don’t give them any ideas. I beg of you.

    • @Anna-fw7lm
      @Anna-fw7lm Місяць тому

      Vikings are famous for their braids
      Ancient chinese are famous for their dreadlocks
      ...those racist people are gonna be famous for their mental impair

  • @mal1719
    @mal1719 Місяць тому +4

    i have 3B hair as a white girl and i have gotten box braids twice because my friends were practicing on me! i have also had french braids with extensions countless times! i have gotten major backlash for having my hair in braids but i just don’t care. i got my braids out of appreciation and to let my friends practice a technique before doing it on a client :) i LOVE having braids and thankfully i am strong enough to let others opinions of me go. i have been called cruel things for having braids but i am so lucky that i have amazing friends that stand up for me and encourage me to continue getting whatever hairstyle i want ❤️

  • @laurazepam8382
    @laurazepam8382 Місяць тому

    How have I been watching your videos for months without being subscribed to your channel?!
    Immediately subscribed when i realised. 😊

  • @ginajohnson6501
    @ginajohnson6501 Місяць тому +51

    How can anyone sit there and say that getting braids is a black thing but have poker straight hair that is not typical of being black?

    • @jemiinou
      @jemiinou Місяць тому

      and typical of being what, white? straight hair is a genetic mutation so it can happen to anyone regardless of skin tone. "nara braids" or correctly, box braids are culture. please find me a caucasian in history wearing anything close to the style she was referring to. you can't because as some point our history our hair was considered unruly and we were forced to straighten it. us wearing straight now is completely a choice and a sign of freedom. nothing something i expect you to ever understand.

  • @angiehughes6583
    @angiehughes6583 Місяць тому +67

    I just got back from the Bahamas where at least a dozen black women offered to braid my hair (I’m white). The only people I saw getting their hair braided were young black girls. It made me wonder if the hair stylists in these tourist areas are losing business because people are afraid they’ll be judged if they get their hair braided?

    • @lizthedisjointedzebra692
      @lizthedisjointedzebra692 Місяць тому +30

      That's actually been a huge discussion. I remember back when I was in middle school(late 90's, yes, I am old lol) it was ALL THE RAGE for girls that went on a Caribbean cruise to get beaded cornrows when they docked at one of the islands. Yes, white girls. If you came back from spring break with beaded cornrows, you were THE SHIT lol. And I guarantee that entrepreneur's braid businesses in the Caribbean have taken a huge hit the past decade or so, with much fewer people getting their hair braided.

    • @fredhughes4115
      @fredhughes4115 Місяць тому +5

      @@lizthedisjointedzebra692 Middle school - early 70s. You ain't that old kid.

    • @Sofasurfa
      @Sofasurfa Місяць тому +3

      @@fredhughes4115 I’m going to out age you sixties here. Either of you remember the film 10 with Dudley More and Bo Derick. I think that’s when the trend started. I have very long very thick hair even though I’m sliding rapidly into my seventies and I always have, not a look I ever wanted, not one I really liked but even if I did I don’t think I would have had the patience to have it done. But at least I wouldn’t have had to use someone else’s hair added to my own to do it 🧐

    • @danamarie8718
      @danamarie8718 Місяць тому +1

      @@SofasurfaI remember that movie!

    • @Sofasurfa
      @Sofasurfa Місяць тому

      @@danamarie8718 👍🏻

  • @krystalshepherd4582
    @krystalshepherd4582 Місяць тому +8

    It's annoying and weird that she even asked.

  • @Vanadisir
    @Vanadisir Місяць тому +103

    I'm a living historian, recreate the Viking era. Better believe I both braid and dread my hair.
    Fight me about it.
    Fake dreads for weeks, same application as box braids, no damage.
    The girl talking about "protective styles" is a joke, sitting there with her straightened hair, how is that relaxer and hot flat iron "protecting your hair", also, if braids are exclusive to the black culture, straight hair is exclusive to white. Sad.

    • @karismaedwards4262
      @karismaedwards4262 Місяць тому +1

      Okay you’re being ignorant or just didnt listen - the “straightened” hair is a sew in AKA weave which protects her natural hair by keeping it unexposed.

    • @Vanadisir
      @Vanadisir Місяць тому

      Mhm, So you're saying no african american woman has ever bleached or straightened her own hair, making it look more eurocentric? Wearing a wig to imitate another races hairstyle is the same thing. Bleach and straightened looks the same a a blonde straight wig. Every person that bleaches and straightens their hair does damage to their hair. That's what bleach and heat does, no matter how curly it is or isn't. My comment is not just about this one video.
      By the way, I wear dreads, and I am white.
      I hope that offends as many of you as possible because I am sick of this. @@karismaedwards4262

    • @Vanadisir
      @Vanadisir Місяць тому

      @@karismaedwards4262 that would keep anyone's hair protected. If you wear euro centric hair you are copying the hair of another race, it is hypocrisy, in wig form or with bleach and straighteners. Bleach and straighteners damage everyone's hair.

  • @Auny111
    @Auny111 Місяць тому +100

    Oops, Nordic peoples of the north also wore braids soooooo . Argue all day if you want but nobody OWNS hairstyles lmfao.

    • @shanchan8247
      @shanchan8247 Місяць тому +2

      True! It only got out of fashion due to Anglo Saxon colonization. They viewed the Nordic peoples as savages and forced Christianity on them.

    • @Aqollo
      @Aqollo Місяць тому +1

      True, and you can go further back in history, and look at the germanians, gauls, celts amongst others. 🇫🇴🇩🇰🇫🇮🇮🇸🇳🇴🇸🇪

    • @luvluvbug
      @luvluvbug Місяць тому

      Not the same kind of

  • @kelleyr8702
    @kelleyr8702 Місяць тому +2

    Great video, Amala! Makes me think of some of my favorite earrings, which I call my “cultural appropriation earrings,” large gold hoop that have my name in cursive inside them.

  • @OzPiggy87
    @OzPiggy87 Місяць тому +1

    NGL, you had us in the first half [minute], Amala. 🤣

  • @user-pt1ky6db9y
    @user-pt1ky6db9y Місяць тому +119

    7:51 The irony of saying this while imitating straight (white/asian) hair is funny to me. 😂😂

    • @thickerthanyourmomschesthair
      @thickerthanyourmomschesthair Місяць тому

      Just like braids don't belong to a specific race or culture, neither does straight hair. That's the point here. That NO hairstyle, type, or texture belongs to a specific race or culture of people. There are African people with naturally straight hair. There are Islanders with naturally straight hair. There are Europeans with naturally curly, coily, kinky hair. It's hair. It's not a racial/cultural identifier.

    • @user-pt1ky6db9y
      @user-pt1ky6db9y Місяць тому

      @@thickerthanyourmomschesthair I understand that. I am saying her logic is not internally consistent.

    • @lizthedisjointedzebra692
      @lizthedisjointedzebra692 Місяць тому

      I mean, are we surprised that racists are also hypocrites?

    • @aj8124
      @aj8124 Місяць тому +3

      REAL 😂

  • @Darklovefly
    @Darklovefly Місяць тому +202

    If thats the case then no more Dutch braids and blonde hair for black people then! Honestly, thinking hair is racist is pathetic.

    • @thickerthanyourmomschesthair
      @thickerthanyourmomschesthair Місяць тому

      Blonde hair doesn't belong to white people, though. There are dark skinned people with naturally blonde hair in the world. I think it's the indigenous people of the Solomon Islands. They have naturally blonde hair and no European DNA.
      I agree with you about the Dutch braids, however. I just think your reasoning about blonde hair is flawed. The point being, I guess, that no hair type, texture, or style belongs to a specific race or culture, and it's racist to think so.

    • @Kairii-Kylie
      @Kairii-Kylie Місяць тому +4

      It's racist to anyone not of the race of black to say they aren't allowed to wear braids because of their race. Racist to all races

    • @Anna-fw7lm
      @Anna-fw7lm Місяць тому +1

      Vikings are famous for their braids
      Ancient chinese are famous for their dreadlocks
      ...those racist people are gonna be famous for their mental impair

    • @flonoiisana4647
      @flonoiisana4647 Місяць тому +3

      Actually... Some Blacks have natural blonde hair without mixing with Whites. Solomon islands for instance. Just to say, people do whatever the heck they want with their hair, ANYWAY.

    • @SpicyPlur
      @SpicyPlur Місяць тому

      Especially from a black girl with a weave that simulates another raves hair type 😂 rules for the.

  • @karlatabor5463
    @karlatabor5463 Місяць тому +1

    Good advice. Thank you. I used to put french braids in as a young woman. But I never braided too tight because it would give me a headache. I loved them.

  • @Nimble.ninja910
    @Nimble.ninja910 Місяць тому +1

    As a grown ass woman, she really set the camera up, took the video, edited it, looked at it one more time before posting and decided to post it instead of being a adult and going to do it without ANYONE’s approval. That’s the only genuine problem i see in this video😂

  • @murrrkit
    @murrrkit Місяць тому +155

    asking strangers on the internet a PERMISSION to do something to YOUR hair is crazyyyy

    • @opinionspectrum
      @opinionspectrum Місяць тому +7

      You are right on the money. I was about to type this out word for word.

    • @nomadichomebody4230
      @nomadichomebody4230 Місяць тому +5

      That’s what happens when you rely on the internet for validation and income

  • @jack002tuber
    @jack002tuber Місяць тому +87

    MLK once had a dream where people would be judged on the content of their character and not the color of their skin. He's dead now, so is his dream.

    • @preskorpop144
      @preskorpop144 Місяць тому +2

      I wrote a song called
      Why My Dream Ain't Coming Back
      Where is love in culture
      Where is love in diversity
      Why they is so much hate in this world
      why we are so afraid of each other
      Where is the dream of the amazing man go
      We are still stuck in that lost cloud
      With the rain of hate
      Why my dream ain't coming back
      Just Why
      Why my dream ain't coming back
      Please tell me
      my dream ain't coming back
      please let my dream come back to the world
      With all my heart and soul
      let my dream come back
      Right now
      Inspired by Elvis Presley If I Can Dream and MLK

    • @sylth4103
      @sylth4103 Місяць тому +6

      i’m wondering if black people even know what they mean when they say racist stuff. they always toss around the term /phrases like it means nothing but in reality it does. i was 15 when all this race stuff started a couple years back and it did affect me. now it’s just pissing me off lol

  • @turnerjaynesjr
    @turnerjaynesjr Місяць тому

    Amala you don't worry what others think of yourself. I've been getting my cornrows since I was 16. And it has damaged my hair. But I love them.

  • @BluegrassKnight
    @BluegrassKnight Місяць тому +2

    I have a news flash for anyone who thinks braids are a culturally black hair style, not only is that not true, but it's also not even just a human thing either, there is some evidence that Neanderthals, as well as other human cousins and possibly even our own ancestral species braided their hair, so "hair braiding" is just part of who we are as humans! There is archeological evidence that every culture and ethnicity on earth has or had braiding present in it, so if you have hair don't ask permission to braid it, just do it, it's your right as a human to do so!

  • @bsembach69
    @bsembach69 Місяць тому +55

    If this is the standard then I better not see another black with stark blonde colored hair............ever.

  • @addie7495
    @addie7495 Місяць тому +89

    I had a black college roommate in 2003 who did my hip-length white girl hair in box braids and no one even blinked. It was a fun thing to do and it was fun to wear for awhile and not one single person on campus ever said a thing about it being racist. But... 2003 was a different time I guess.

    • @GregKhar-NU-Metalhead2000
      @GregKhar-NU-Metalhead2000 Місяць тому +1

      Late 90s-mid 00s are the era of nu metal,everyone has deadlock or braids, guys from Korn,Incubus singer,Slipknot,P.o.d

    • @clarkkent6927
      @clarkkent6927 Місяць тому

      Back in the 80's and 90's most white girls I know and seen did the Braids as well and no one said anything

    • @deniseberman8633
      @deniseberman8633 Місяць тому

      These young people have been brainwashed to complain about everything and make everything racial. It’s sickening.

  • @somestupidname3266
    @somestupidname3266 Місяць тому +1

    I cannot imagine a woman of any other generation asking permission to style her hair however she wants. This culture is weird.

  • @Allebasloveisforever
    @Allebasloveisforever 11 днів тому

    3:39 I just love you girl how supportive you are and how you see the real things in life

  • @AverageTPOTfan
    @AverageTPOTfan Місяць тому +39

    The way she said she wanted the braids for a long time and how she adored them and thought they were beautiful and people still got mad 😭

    • @desiree5895
      @desiree5895 Місяць тому +1

      Ppl even will claim fetishization.

    • @AverageTPOTfan
      @AverageTPOTfan Місяць тому

      @@desiree5895 hm? Wdym by that

  • @ClarkyWarky
    @ClarkyWarky Місяць тому +45

    I'm fkn ASIAN and wore locs a few times! I never got anything but compliments especially from Black people! This was also 10 years ago when people weren't so woke.

    • @OhDontMindMee
      @OhDontMindMee Місяць тому

      Same happened with me. Black guys didn’t care when I did it or when other girls did it. Only the black girls. Some. Not all.

    • @Sylvia-ps8tg
      @Sylvia-ps8tg Місяць тому +5

      Or stupid😂

    • @kaizatengoku3893
      @kaizatengoku3893 Місяць тому

      Yeah Asian not white

    • @user-lg6dr9so8t
      @user-lg6dr9so8t Місяць тому

      @@kaizatengoku3893 are you saying Asians can wear braids but white people cant? Why is that?

    • @userishawt
      @userishawt 29 днів тому

      @@kaizatengoku3893but I thought they were meant for black people, asian isn’t black, so what now, exactly you just hold a prejudice towards white people and let anyone else have braids but white people

  • @marietgagliardi
    @marietgagliardi Місяць тому +2

    I wore braids in high school just to try it out. No one cared. This was back in 80s when people were normal

  • @darrendaine4914
    @darrendaine4914 Місяць тому

    I could listen to Amala talk all day her voice is very soothing

  • @stutteringcris468
    @stutteringcris468 Місяць тому +80

    Don't female MMA/UFC fighters have their hair braided just not have their hair in their eyes? 🤨🤨🤔

    • @gtjtr0
      @gtjtr0 Місяць тому +1

      Still racist

    • @meganjaime7728
      @meganjaime7728 Місяць тому +17

      @@gtjtr0how? They aren’t wearing them out of disrespect they are wearing them because they see the value in that style of braiding.

    • @frankcaggiano8282
      @frankcaggiano8282 Місяць тому +14

      ​@@meganjaime7728while I agree with you, there's no such thing as hair being disrespectful lmao.

    • @meganjaime7728
      @meganjaime7728 Місяць тому +3

      @@frankcaggiano8282 What I meant was that they aren’t choosing the hairstyle to be disrespectful to the culture that the style came from. Does that make more sense? 😄😊I realize I wasn’t super clear in my previous turn of phrase oops!😬

    • @frankcaggiano8282
      @frankcaggiano8282 Місяць тому

      @@meganjaime7728 fair enough! I definitely agree with that haha

  • @AlmightyZurg
    @AlmightyZurg Місяць тому +47

    My boyfriend and I were both fired from a job because he complimented a black women’s hair. He has super curly hair and hers was similar. I wasn’t even in the room when it happened and I was fired because I was with him. He was truly being genuine and nice even other customers were shocked by her being offended and sided with him. Three days later he’s fired and told to tell me I’m also fired.

    • @NiqVFancy
      @NiqVFancy Місяць тому +32

      Literally sue those people please.

    • @FearFanatic86
      @FearFanatic86 Місяць тому +16

      Seriously?!! 🤬How is this not wrongful termination? That's BS!!

    • @DreamsRemorse
      @DreamsRemorse Місяць тому +5

      You should be getting yourself, and himm, a lawyer. I'm sure someone would take iton for free.

    • @Idk-wo1er
      @Idk-wo1er Місяць тому +2

      Just reading this pisses me off. Makes me think of that cow that was asking if her getting a compliment from her co-worker was her being nice or if it was a micro aggression 💀

    • @aloritse
      @aloritse Місяць тому

      Lmaooo, you’re lying. You’re definitely lying. There’s no way it happened exactly like that and then he just got fired and then you did too

  • @ouranos0101
    @ouranos0101 Місяць тому +2

    Girl shouldn't "ask permission". She opened herself up to the woke bullshit on that one. Just do it.

  • @abigailorus2932
    @abigailorus2932 Місяць тому +3

    I'm glad to live in Europe. I have used a similar hairstyle before as a child for practicality, especially during the summer, and to courl my hair and no one told me one I was being racist. I still put my hair in two braids many times because I like it and no one saw it as appropriation. We have even black people here who encourage us to braid their hair in vacation spots as a part of the experience and they do it themselves. I think all those people yelling racism or appropriation in cases like this are totally divisive. Should I say the same when a black people straighten their hair? Because it's a "white" hairstyle, because it's ridiculous.

  • @CarlosEduardo-cj2nh
    @CarlosEduardo-cj2nh Місяць тому +36

    As a Brazilian, “cultural appropriation” also exists in Brazil, but it's worse, because it doesn't make any sense here, all people in Brazil are extremely diverse in our ethnicity. It's even normal for a Brazilian to have blood from 2 or 3 nations such as: Portuguese, Italians, Africans, Spanish, Japanese and etc

    • @myk7371
      @myk7371 Місяць тому +1

      But you all Brazilians... it's the same culture now 😅

  • @blah7160
    @blah7160 Місяць тому +21

    My white looking butt did braids with beads everytime I went to Latin Countries. I loved it. This conversation is so ridiculous. America is supposed to be a melting pot of all the best things but instead of taking that as a compliment we take it as an insult. It's annoying.

    • @deniseberman8633
      @deniseberman8633 Місяць тому

      No one owns anything. We are all just surviving on a little planet floating in space. 😉

  • @drmonroej4
    @drmonroej4 Місяць тому

    8:52 Love the mocking synopsis. Excellently put.

  • @AgainstTheGrain_
    @AgainstTheGrain_ Місяць тому

    liked within the first 30 seconds bc of that intro 😂😂 love this.

  • @wendynordstrom3487
    @wendynordstrom3487 Місяць тому +35

    "Bone straight sew in!" Yes!! Exactly! Hypocrisy at its finest!

  • @dadeligtfuldazzlingderika33
    @dadeligtfuldazzlingderika33 Місяць тому +19

    So years ago one of my black male coworkers braided a black female coworkers hair and he did an amazing job! As I was gushing to him about how great it looked I said, "I wish I could get my hair done like that, its so beautiful I really like the box braids. " and he looked so confused at me and said, "well why can't you?" I looked back at him equalu confused and said, "cause I'm white?" He laughed and said thats the silliest thing hes ever heard of and whenever I wanted to get my hair done let him know and he'd do it for me. I haven't been brave enought to do it yet cause of the backlash but anytime we see eachother he offeres his services.

    • @anglbby444
      @anglbby444 Місяць тому +2

      How sweet!

    • @style_muse
      @style_muse Місяць тому

      I find that black men are often way more polite and accepting than black women are.

  • @peggysherman2811
    @peggysherman2811 Місяць тому +1

    As a 67 year old white woman I think black braids are beautiful. Do I want them or would I have wanted them when I was younger? No, because I would have thought they looked weird on me. I'm comfortable with my hair. But no one owns a hairstyle. That is just crazy. Do what you want with your hair and don't ask permission. It's no one's business but your own.

  • @startedfromscratch1529
    @startedfromscratch1529 Місяць тому +3

    I can't believe that of everything that happens in the black community we choose this to be outraged about 😔.

  • @SoftJun0
    @SoftJun0 Місяць тому +48

    🤣 The beginning made me high key worried LMFAO you’re literally the best Amala ❤😂

    • @jstuckless
      @jstuckless Місяць тому +6

      Right? Haha, thought we lost her for a second.

    • @warriordad79
      @warriordad79 Місяць тому

      The only mistake the white girl made was asking for permission. You don't need permission. It's your F'n hair!!

  • @goldendragon759
    @goldendragon759 Місяць тому +19

    God forbid anyone take interest in cultures other than their own.

  • @starlingswallow
    @starlingswallow Місяць тому +3

    The only thing this girl did wrong was going on the Internets to ask _permission_ to do what she wants with HER OWN HAIR!!!! 🤯😑🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @Slimeranchchampion
    @Slimeranchchampion Місяць тому +2

    I relate to her 😭 when I was in elementary school I begged my mom(who said no) to get box braids because my friend had them and thought they were so pretty

    • @StrawberryShortcake_15
      @StrawberryShortcake_15 28 днів тому

      I feel bad for younger you. I always thought box braids were so pretty too,especially goddess locks😭

  • @Zilver_blueheart
    @Zilver_blueheart Місяць тому +49

    Why can’t we just be a “ you do you boo” culture 🤦‍♀️ 🫰

    • @katyasehryn8810
      @katyasehryn8810 Місяць тому +5

      That's us sane ppl but we don't yell and fuss about it like the other crowd 🙄

    • @HeWhoIsWhoHeIs
      @HeWhoIsWhoHeIs Місяць тому

      Funny how when a non muslim woman visits a militant muslim country, she's forced to cover her head. Why isn't that appropriation? 🤔

    • @ZyloxDragon1
      @ZyloxDragon1 Місяць тому +1

      Somehow, someway, your comment will also be inappropriate to them. That's the culture they want.

  • @ambermom1793
    @ambermom1793 Місяць тому +16

    So sick of the “cultural/race” baiting that is going on. Can’t we appreciate everything we give to one another and see it as it is a form of flattery.

  • @Arabella-hu8br
    @Arabella-hu8br 19 днів тому +2

    Honestly if this controversy happened over at Instagram reels these women who think they own that hairstyle would get cooked and roasted

  • @littlebirdie27
    @littlebirdie27 Місяць тому +1

    That intro was epic 🤣😂🤣

  • @tracyfoster7360
    @tracyfoster7360 Місяць тому +13

    It’s a 55 year old white female and I had dreadlocks to my waist for two years. Cut them off , got a weave , wear wigs etc. I absolutely love to experiment with my hair. I never had one person approach/ confront me about cultural appropriation. I figured if I was going to be confronted, judged, frowned upon, I’m going to wear my hair the way I want!!!! It’s a hairstyle people! Currently wearing a short blonde buzz cut.

    • @mialuv8503
      @mialuv8503 Місяць тому +6

      And as a black person I love to see that. How is someone doing the same hairstyle as you hateful? If anything it’s admiration, I would love it if someone looked at my hair and said “I want mine like that, it’s so beautiful” . In a way, the way that us black people reacted to the girls video shows just how far we have came in terms of overcoming racism, when our communities biggest problem is a white girl saying she likes our hair and wants to do it the same 😂

  • @FIREBRAND38
    @FIREBRAND38 Місяць тому +23

    Braided hair is SO Scandinavian. They need to get over themselves.

  • @getoveryourself.7516
    @getoveryourself.7516 Місяць тому +1

    I’m definitely getting box braids just because now!

  • @user-cx6vl1tg4f
    @user-cx6vl1tg4f Місяць тому

    This is exactly why i watch you!

  • @trinivegan7649
    @trinivegan7649 Місяць тому +35

    I saw that post and responded. Most people said it would break her hair because of the weight and many white girls lost their hair from braids. I told her braid it with no fake hair. And add something for frizz and get something for the ends so they don’t get undone. But I think think she took it down.

    • @katyasehryn8810
      @katyasehryn8810 Місяць тому +8

      Sharing why it is not beneficial for very to do this is real respect displayed among women. As someone with LONG, stick straight fine hair I know this style long term is damaging.

    • @calvinsmyth
      @calvinsmyth Місяць тому +2

      This is an old story. She did suffer hair breakage and had to cut her hair. She did a follow-up TikTok, as I recall, and took her mistake in stride. There is a YT channel where a hairstylist does B women's hair. I was very surprised at how many of her customers have damaged hair and are bald to the top of their heads. Many look like a darker version of Benjamin Franklin as far as their natural hairline goes. Whether it is from genetics or braid fatigue, I don't know, but I feel for the women if its genetics.

    • @queenofnyc5584
      @queenofnyc5584 Місяць тому +6

      I seen black folks complain about braids breaking their hair off as well. It’s not a race things some people have weak hair and fragile sensitive scalp. My hair loves braids fortunately. It makes my hair grow quick.

    • @saoirse_mavourneen
      @saoirse_mavourneen Місяць тому +1

      They were probably talking about that white girl that chopped her hair after taking braids out because she thought it caused hair loss but in reality it was actually just a bunch of hair that fell out naturally while she had the braids in but were still in the braids. We lose about 100 hairs a day, so I imagine she was shocked when she saw 100x how ever many days she had them in, worth of hair coming out. It doesn't actually matter if your white or black, if you do it too tight or have heavy weave in, it's gonna damage the hair.

    • @saoirse_mavourneen
      @saoirse_mavourneen Місяць тому +1

      ​@@katyasehryn8810 It is damaging for any one to wear tight styles long term, regardless of skin colour.

  • @sugakookie6303
    @sugakookie6303 Місяць тому +33

    Well, Vikings wore braids more like cornrows and not box braids so people should be careful about throwing out the phrase “ cultural appropriation “. A friend of mine went to the Caribbean for her honeymoon and there were ladies at the beach asking to braid hair for like $15…

    • @OhDontMindMee
      @OhDontMindMee Місяць тому +2

      Yup. American problems. I had friends that went to the Caribbean as well and they wanted to braid their hair. People elsewhere don’t get bothered over mundane things. Americans have nothing better to do and some just want to stay mad and have control over others.

    • @monajones1885
      @monajones1885 Місяць тому +3

      Cornrows originated in Africa.
      I also think it’s ridiculous to claim a non black women shouldn’t wear braids tho.

  • @schuylerbarker9188
    @schuylerbarker9188 Місяць тому +1

    I'm white, the black girls in my school always loved to braid my hair. Box braids, micro braids, all of it. I have EXTREMELY thick, curly, and coarse hair, I just happen to be white. There was never any hate or appropriation crap, this is ridiculous

    • @Arnoldman-ep9gw
      @Arnoldman-ep9gw Місяць тому

      Black people just like to complain, no pleasing them

  • @davedefhagan9191
    @davedefhagan9191 26 днів тому

    Ámala is the only one who’s keeping it a 💯 huge respect for her

  • @stellacolv
    @stellacolv Місяць тому +23

    Who told people they get to control how other people wear their hair? Like who do you think you are??? The Queen of hair???

  • @lucyc8306
    @lucyc8306 Місяць тому +21

    So the slavic people, thr mexican/latino people cannot use their own hairstyles??

  • @Ellieangel777
    @Ellieangel777 Місяць тому +1

    Her only mistake was asking for permission

  • @PoisonIvyLLC
    @PoisonIvyLLC Місяць тому +2

    Funny enough, Africans that coined the hairstyle itself, don’t even gatekeep the hairstyle at all.

  • @TrainMan2004
    @TrainMan2004 Місяць тому +35

    Lizzo needs to use that energy at the gym!!!!