Dating - The good, the bad & the ugly | Episode 131

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  • Опубліковано 12 тра 2024
  • For all those dating put your hands up 🙌🏽 and for those who aren’t, do you remember how your dating experience was ?
    In this episode we will be talking about all things relationship mostly DATING 🥰 as we look at both the good side and ugly side through our eyes 🫣
    Be sure to share with us your dating experience below in the comments and also let us know can you relate with some of the things we’ve talked about? 👀
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 187

  • @beatriceamundi4000
    @beatriceamundi4000 2 місяці тому +109

    I'm here to remind the babes who download to watch later...lets appreciate that we are able to do that but also as you download remember to like and on the process of download let them ads run so our girls continue to bring us all these rich episodes...Ameeeen sambarry?

  • @princess_keri_precious
    @princess_keri_precious 2 місяці тому +97

    Imagine because of watching tmi I feel so matured in my twenties. No way im people pleasing ...im extremely intentional about the dating. Its about my self worth on the line😑no wasting any bit of myself 💯😐😐

    • @ashleynganga
      @ashleynganga 2 місяці тому

      Righttttt

    • @user-rj6po5dy4f
      @user-rj6po5dy4f 2 місяці тому

      Me to gosh I feel like I know everything, 😂I love tmi😢

    • @user-qt6wr4pf4k
      @user-qt6wr4pf4k Місяць тому

      Ikrrrrrr tell me about it. I feel so mature for my age and mind you I'm just 20

  • @nalwovie954
    @nalwovie954 2 місяці тому +36

    One thing about Murugi, “I feel like we should do an episode on….” is always at the tip of her tongue!😂 I love it!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @alycemuigai3769
    @alycemuigai3769 2 місяці тому +30

    Im I the only one who has noticed Lyds jeans have one thigh looking like the African continent? Anyway I digress, real conversation here. Dating in your 30s is definitely very different. Especially when one has done the internal work and understood themselves and what they want.

  • @mitchellmaina83
    @mitchellmaina83 2 місяці тому +14

    Shiv and shiku met in their 20s and it still worked , so did most of our parents. You can meet the love of your life at 21 . There's no age limit for finding a lifetime partner, it just takes a lot of work and understanding each other.

  • @lornahbuffy2201
    @lornahbuffy2201 2 місяці тому +45

    Okay, u have prooved your point..you were right singing is better!! Lets do that. Let's go back to singing...we apologize

  • @Augenia
    @Augenia 2 місяці тому +15

    There is something about Lydia's honesty ❤❤❤

  • @maremboke
    @maremboke 2 місяці тому +153

    Now I really miss the singing tmi 😂

  • @patriciatum1677
    @patriciatum1677 2 місяці тому +41

    Met my man on bumble, marrying him in a month 😌

  • @flonya1334
    @flonya1334 2 місяці тому +33

    I love your shows ladies! Good job.
    Being a single lady, never dated, very financially stable and own my own house in a gated community....I can't imagine sharing my beautiful space with a man, with all the inconveniences that would come with that.

    • @edinahkendi9871
      @edinahkendi9871 2 місяці тому +4

      gurlllll tapping into that financial stability

  • @richardjoelweaver6949
    @richardjoelweaver6949 2 місяці тому +25

    Murungi whoever does your make up does phenomenal job!

  • @muthonimwirikia
    @muthonimwirikia 2 місяці тому +32

    Loving Lyd's blazer😍🔥🔥🔥

  • @marythuo8404
    @marythuo8404 2 місяці тому +16

    did @Lyd say she's dating 🎉🎉 yaaaaay.. congratulations big sis..

  • @paulinekwamboka121
    @paulinekwamboka121 Місяць тому +12

    This episode is eye opening.
    Take home message:
    1.) Don't assume. Define who you are to each other early on in the relationship.
    2.) Ask those difficult questions like are you going to marry each other.
    3.) Date other people as you wait to find a suitable partner for you to marry .
    4.)Meet family and friends of each other early
    5.) If you removed money as a factor, would you date the person you are with now?

  • @missinjairu1448
    @missinjairu1448 2 місяці тому +17

    I think Ivy's point was pretty much clear, most of us just got triggered 🤣🤣🤣.

    • @petronillahmueni7577
      @petronillahmueni7577 Місяць тому +2

      That woman is really triggering intellectually,very wise,she leaves me with panick attacks anytime I listen to her😂😂

    • @missinjairu1448
      @missinjairu1448 Місяць тому

      Foreal foreal 💯💯​@@petronillahmueni7577

  • @mercythairu2943
    @mercythairu2943 Місяць тому +9

    Is it just me or I feel like Murugi is always targeting Lydia for things that she thinks Lydia "should" have. Lyd is so matured and has grown and I love to see that about her😍

  • @maryirungu8521
    @maryirungu8521 2 місяці тому +24

    I really love this conversation cause i really need it as a single 27yr lady

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 2 місяці тому +15

    Yaaay! It's Definitely TMIIIIIIII 💃🏿. Happy belated birthdays Queens 🎂🎂🎉🎉. Aki mapenzi wewe😅🤭.

  • @herb_a_day
    @herb_a_day 2 місяці тому +8

    About the cheating, it's rampant. I personally turn down more married men than single ones. And running into people's husband's on dating sites is what got me to leave dating sites 😂. I am not saying there are no good men, I am saying majority are vile and don't even think they are.

  • @MinPatience
    @MinPatience 2 місяці тому +6

    Dating in my 30s and YAS! No time to dwell on what’s not working 👐🏽

  • @franciscaampratwum8397
    @franciscaampratwum8397 2 місяці тому +47

    Naaaa...let's go back to singing 😂

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe 2 місяці тому +5

    Y'all are preaching!!!
    These are the good old days❤🎉

  • @wanjiku805
    @wanjiku805 2 місяці тому +10

    Not 62 tomorrow 😂. Lyd you have a way with words.

  • @_mumbinjenga
    @_mumbinjenga 2 місяці тому +6

    It's definitely TMIIIIIIIIIII❤🎉

  • @sheyogutu
    @sheyogutu 2 місяці тому +3

    I have been sleeping on this channel😮 time to set camp ❤😂

  • @mercypeter402
    @mercypeter402 2 місяці тому +9

    I'm at work but I can't miss watching your episodes among the first people😍

  • @scovie6926
    @scovie6926 2 місяці тому +6

    Belated Happy Birthday, girls..and yes, it's definitely Tee-Mmm-Iii
    Let's keep it at singing, ladies ❤

  • @user-mz6zm9oe5i
    @user-mz6zm9oe5i 2 місяці тому +5

    In love with this already ya'll look stunning ❤

  • @vivianrono6287
    @vivianrono6287 2 місяці тому +1

    This is really the best episode. I'm definitely making wiser dating decisions.❤❤

  • @buyisilembatha3854
    @buyisilembatha3854 2 місяці тому +2

    Another beautiful episode...Related so much ❤

  • @sherrynjoroge5467
    @sherrynjoroge5467 2 місяці тому +2

    You should now start doing movies or documentaries. Its such a joy listening/watching you guys i need waaaaay mooooore tiiiiiimmmmmeeeeee lol

  • @hakayi9130
    @hakayi9130 Місяць тому +4

    Lyd, your outfit is it hunny!🔥
    Sometimes i worry am just too healed 😂😂😂 it will take a miracle🙏🏽😜

  • @sibagumede1469
    @sibagumede1469 2 місяці тому +2

    We can download now again🎉 am I not a happy subscriber, I've been missing episodes cause of work buuut now we back!!!

  • @SunshineVickie
    @SunshineVickie Місяць тому +3

    Why do I usually envision Eli as Lyd's match!? 😂😂😂 y'all tell me it's not just me please

  • @joyceyugi9266
    @joyceyugi9266 2 місяці тому +3

    Lyd you look amazing in this episode. Love the fit.❤

  • @faithmwanda9818
    @faithmwanda9818 Місяць тому

    I love you addressed the issue from last episode. And I get what Ivy was saying

  • @akiinefaexperiencinglife
    @akiinefaexperiencinglife 2 місяці тому +4

    Happy new year ladies🎉

  • @user-wo8tn1cm4k
    @user-wo8tn1cm4k 2 місяці тому +3

    Its Lydia's Hair For me 🤩🤩

  • @deemb5284
    @deemb5284 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm happy with the intro it's giving 35

  • @alicewambui3420
    @alicewambui3420 2 місяці тому +4

    I'm heree🎉🎉 Wednesday made check☑️

  • @suzannembithe9221
    @suzannembithe9221 2 місяці тому +6

    I was used to 'its definitely tmiiii... ' I'll get used to though 😭😂😂

  • @mercythairu2943
    @mercythairu2943 2 місяці тому +5

    😊 I love how Lyd had grown

  • @odufaikogho5674
    @odufaikogho5674 2 місяці тому +2

    Love you ladies!!! ❤

  • @tendokaren4418
    @tendokaren4418 Місяць тому +1

    Wonderful wonderful wonderful intro 🎉🎉love it love it .... we're back to it😊I won't stop reminding you guys 😭❤

  • @maureenndinda3001
    @maureenndinda3001 2 місяці тому +2

    Congratulations Lydia 😊

  • @adventureswithphi405
    @adventureswithphi405 2 місяці тому +5

    imagine saying the intro with you guys and there's no singing!!! please bring it back. Hii ya sahi haibambi!

  • @olivianorah4742
    @olivianorah4742 2 місяці тому +1

    In my introspection about dating I was thinking of the same thing..... extending grace. Literally a few minutes ago 🤯

  • @princess_keri_precious
    @princess_keri_precious 2 місяці тому +8

    The conversation about removing money from the equation 🥴🥴

    • @royalusala8527
      @royalusala8527 2 місяці тому

      pertinent indeed.. Ladies need to ask that question... And be willing to humbly listen to the answers

  • @josiegacau
    @josiegacau 2 місяці тому +9

    met my fiancee on ok cupid cheers to finding our people!!!!

  • @thehkc.collection
    @thehkc.collection 2 місяці тому +3

    i can hear your whispers lydia☺

  • @baddieszn5599
    @baddieszn5599 2 місяці тому +2

    Happy birthday guyss ❤😊

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 2 місяці тому +4

    am like lyd rightnow...more intentional..im on bumble and the experience is nice,,not yet gotten anyone compatible like that but am more vigilant and not just dating

  • @shankebaso
    @shankebaso 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤ love the TMI talks

  • @faithwambui2641
    @faithwambui2641 Місяць тому +1

    It was an awesome episodes🥺❤

  • @rhodesmugo
    @rhodesmugo Місяць тому +1

    Happy 😊 birthday 🍰 hunnies ❤❤❤

  • @perismkala4275
    @perismkala4275 Місяць тому +1

    Happy birthday to you my loves though it's late 💞💞💞 nawapenda sana

  • @dewpew4714
    @dewpew4714 2 місяці тому +4

    Yes I would still get married to my husband if he didn't have money. Because that is not what attracts me to him. I am attracted to his genius mind, maybe because I am a sapiosexual. Never met a man like him. Then couple it with he is kind, composed, honest, good in...🤭many years later, I still look back and smile that I landed him😍

    • @BintiPritty
      @BintiPritty Місяць тому

      Love this for you ❤😊

  • @fareedmatovu4336
    @fareedmatovu4336 2 місяці тому +4

    Funny thing if you wanna search it up there is a trend called gwababa which is the fear of approaching women so when you talked about are men still approaching women sometimes you don't to be put in a humbling experience

  • @Sherri997
    @Sherri997 Місяць тому

    I always resonate with Lydia's POV, especially on relationship matters. Every time she speaks, I'm like, yaass! Giirl same, that's something I would say /do.

  • @TheUgandancook
    @TheUgandancook Місяць тому +1

    Lydia, that BLAZER, 🔥 🔥🔥

  • @banterwithqueendess7376
    @banterwithqueendess7376 2 місяці тому +7

    Lydd that wig hairstyle looks perfect on you.

  • @user-wo8tn1cm4k
    @user-wo8tn1cm4k 2 місяці тому +1

    We hate change😂😭😭 you've changed everythingg

  • @nisamusyoka9917
    @nisamusyoka9917 2 місяці тому +2

    Personally I miss the old old intro, the sass in its DEFinitely Tmi was it!😂

  • @brighterdays1322
    @brighterdays1322 2 місяці тому +2

    That men are not capable part, weh. Felt it to the core.

  • @noellaliz5911
    @noellaliz5911 2 місяці тому +4

    Just to add on, the ugly in dating, when money is involved. You've gotten to a point you are comfortable with one another and you lend him money out of goodwill then hapo kwa malipo!!!Yooh!sh*t becomes the ghetto 😢

    • @lianawangari1586
      @lianawangari1586 2 місяці тому

      A man who loves you will never ask you for money hunnie... Run!

  • @shanicemumbi6993
    @shanicemumbi6993 2 місяці тому +2

    Can we sing please 🥺😢😢 eeeey!

  • @shelmithmuthoni3841
    @shelmithmuthoni3841 Місяць тому +2

    I feel like the chances of a woman staying unmarried after they hit 30 are very high cos they are soo much aware

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 19 днів тому +1

      It's not about them being aware.. it's about many men's preferences as they age. Her age mates and even older will always go for the younger babes

  • @abbykykys4586
    @abbykykys4586 Місяць тому +1

    Hapana hapana I shiver when you do the compromised TMI statement/song 😢 it's good to compromise on some things but somethings are just good. Plz go back to singing not singing feels boring like an intro to a boring lecture 😭😭😭😭

  • @Monicahkabaria
    @Monicahkabaria Місяць тому +1

    Topic on how to get feminine/femininity energy back😅..am on my masculinity energies ever

  • @janiceaoko4586
    @janiceaoko4586 Місяць тому +1

    Why are we not singing "it's definitely tmiiiiii," 😢😢now there goes one of my underated pleasure of life 😂😂

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Місяць тому +1

    Lyd you look amazing 😍

  • @sharonwanja7303
    @sharonwanja7303 Місяць тому

    Hi thanks for this episode,,
    How long should talking stage last?

  • @graceguya1682
    @graceguya1682 Місяць тому +1

    Interesting episode as usual. However the ending was abrupt, Lydia was cut off mid sentence and there was no montage after the episode. Error during editing in post production ? 🤔.

  • @juligamineofficial734
    @juligamineofficial734 2 місяці тому +1

    Inlove with Lydia's dangaree

  • @natashamuronji102
    @natashamuronji102 2 місяці тому +2

    Not lydia pushing it even further from 40 to 62 for Murugi😂😂😂😂

  • @rizikiokumu
    @rizikiokumu Місяць тому

    Yes Lydia the good, are few. That is for sure

  • @deekmuninga
    @deekmuninga Місяць тому +1

    Sasa now that you’ve removed the singing part, what I am I supposed to do with my life?🤔 Please bring it back abeg.😀 Much love from Uganda.🇺🇬

  • @TumpeineMapenai
    @TumpeineMapenai 2 місяці тому +4

    I love you guys so much 😫❤️

  • @eshycmwangi
    @eshycmwangi Місяць тому

    Great 💎💎💎 on the GREEN Couch🌟⭐️🌟

  • @carrielmike
    @carrielmike 2 місяці тому +2

    Waaaa. .we stopped singing TMIiiiiiiiiiii😢

  • @veronicahwekesa4845
    @veronicahwekesa4845 2 місяці тому +3

    Now am left singing alone

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Місяць тому +1

    Murugi I love your top❤

  • @naomisheezy
    @naomisheezy 2 місяці тому +2

    I met my husband on Bumble 🐝🥰

  • @mwanjiku6744
    @mwanjiku6744 Місяць тому +2

    Me in the comments section…. Mtangaze msimamo in betweers, are we singing or doing the news stance 😂 or we can have half of both worlds😄

  • @sellahchabe1248
    @sellahchabe1248 Місяць тому

    I agree with Lydia 💯.Dating in your 30s is totally different from the 20s.What I know and what now at 32 is totally different from what I wanted when I was younger.And about the high level of prostitution on dating apps it's totally true aswell.Its so sad when all men see their on the sites is a booty call.I am a high value woman I have my boundaries and men get shocked when I tell them am not on the app for prostitution.And all yes its raining everywhere even here in Zambia the dating pool stinks.

  • @joycemburu8041
    @joycemburu8041 2 місяці тому +7

    Dating outside Kenya is worse especially in the Gulf nations. It's hard to know if the guy is truly interested in you or he's just interested in company (sex) and that has worsened my avoidant nature.

    • @CarenWangare
      @CarenWangare 2 місяці тому

      You are right

    • @mutegikanana2085
      @mutegikanana2085 Місяць тому

      Weeh and the fact most are married back at home and cheating on their wives without even a hintof guilt. I couldn’t do it always wondering whether you are just a placeholder?!!

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 19 днів тому +1

      Gulf also has the worst type of ladies to date. I tried dating two of them and they are the worst type of exes I ever got in my life

  • @janenjoki500
    @janenjoki500 Місяць тому

    The way you mention my name Jane!!! 😂

  • @paxliviacherono7157
    @paxliviacherono7157 2 місяці тому +4

    We can call it a Wednesday

  • @marywanjiku1586
    @marywanjiku1586 2 місяці тому +3

    I stream live to like and comment...then download for my data😂😅😪

  • @winniewixakiror
    @winniewixakiror Місяць тому

    Aah dating in 30… talk about the struggle for of meeting people because of our schedules.. like after work all I can think about is getting home

  • @yolz555
    @yolz555 2 місяці тому +2

    How do you change your mind about those beliefs of men you have seen around you growing up .

  • @rizikiokumu
    @rizikiokumu Місяць тому

    People underate marriage. Its a lifetime commitment and it has little humans involved that need you more. I wish People do it by choice and not societal pressure.

  • @ayikiriizemartha4640
    @ayikiriizemartha4640 2 місяці тому +2

    Can we bring back the singing?

  • @carolynemuthoni8813
    @carolynemuthoni8813 Місяць тому

    I met my fiance on tagged. It's been 10months n going strong ❤

  • @yolz555
    @yolz555 2 місяці тому +6

    Please do a episode on online dating ❤❤
    Kindly invite Benjamin Zulu Global for a collaboration 🎉❤

  • @shelmithmuthoni3841
    @shelmithmuthoni3841 Місяць тому

    My hubby and I were born a day apart 5yrs diff❤ we think we were aligned to be

  • @muthonimbugua8867
    @muthonimbugua8867 Місяць тому +1

    When Lyd mentions ' Lizard'😂😂😂

  • @liviaicharia9923
    @liviaicharia9923 2 місяці тому +6

    Singggggg😂😭
    Much love for you guys tho'❤

  • @anzalbabe
    @anzalbabe Місяць тому

    Several questions were asked, I'll answer one a big NO!, iykyk😂

  • @vanessalusi2590
    @vanessalusi2590 Місяць тому +1

    My biggest question has been ..What would you do if your boyfriend was asking another lady for a chance to date them and even named you a bestie?