I'm here to remind the babes who download to watch later...lets appreciate that we are able to do that but also as you download remember to like and on the process of download let them ads run so our girls continue to bring us all these rich episodes...Ameeeen sambarry?
I love your shows ladies! Good job. Being a single lady, never dated, very financially stable and own my own house in a gated community....I can't imagine sharing my beautiful space with a man, with all the inconveniences that would come with that.
Imagine because of watching tmi I feel so matured in my twenties. No way im people pleasing ...im extremely intentional about the dating. Its about my self worth on the line😑no wasting any bit of myself 💯😐😐
Shiv and shiku met in their 20s and it still worked , so did most of our parents. You can meet the love of your life at 21 . There's no age limit for finding a lifetime partner, it just takes a lot of work and understanding each other.
This episode is eye opening. Take home message: 1.) Don't assume. Define who you are to each other early on in the relationship. 2.) Ask those difficult questions like are you going to marry each other. 3.) Date other people as you wait to find a suitable partner for you to marry . 4.)Meet family and friends of each other early 5.) If you removed money as a factor, would you date the person you are with now?
Im I the only one who has noticed Lyds jeans have one thigh looking like the African continent? Anyway I digress, real conversation here. Dating in your 30s is definitely very different. Especially when one has done the internal work and understood themselves and what they want.
True true, what you focus on grows... that's why I am always a fan of kina Wajesus and Dominion fam for being loud with their working marriages and relationships... they are fr standing in a gap, and despite any drama, they're being brave. Loved this episode❤
About the cheating, it's rampant. I personally turn down more married men than single ones. And running into people's husband's on dating sites is what got me to leave dating sites 😂. I am not saying there are no good men, I am saying majority are vile and don't even think they are.
Hapana hapana I shiver when you do the compromised TMI statement/song 😢 it's good to compromise on some things but somethings are just good. Plz go back to singing not singing feels boring like an intro to a boring lecture 😭😭😭😭
I always resonate with Lydia's POV, especially on relationship matters. Every time she speaks, I'm like, yaass! Giirl same, that's something I would say /do.
am like lyd rightnow...more intentional..im on bumble and the experience is nice,,not yet gotten anyone compatible like that but am more vigilant and not just dating
Just to add on, the ugly in dating, when money is involved. You've gotten to a point you are comfortable with one another and you lend him money out of goodwill then hapo kwa malipo!!!Yooh!sh*t becomes the ghetto 😢
Funny thing if you wanna search it up there is a trend called gwababa which is the fear of approaching women so when you talked about are men still approaching women sometimes you don't to be put in a humbling experience
I agree with Lydia 💯.Dating in your 30s is totally different from the 20s.What I know and what now at 32 is totally different from what I wanted when I was younger.And about the high level of prostitution on dating apps it's totally true aswell.Its so sad when all men see their on the sites is a booty call.I am a high value woman I have my boundaries and men get shocked when I tell them am not on the app for prostitution.And all yes its raining everywhere even here in Zambia the dating pool stinks.
Interesting episode as usual. However the ending was abrupt, Lydia was cut off mid sentence and there was no montage after the episode. Error during editing in post production ? 🤔.
Is it just me or I feel like Murugi is always targeting Lydia for things that she thinks Lydia "should" have. Lyd is so matured and has grown and I love to see that about her😍
People underate marriage. Its a lifetime commitment and it has little humans involved that need you more. I wish People do it by choice and not societal pressure.
Yes I would still get married to my husband if he didn't have money. Because that is not what attracts me to him. I am attracted to his genius mind, maybe because I am a sapiosexual. Never met a man like him. Then couple it with he is kind, composed, honest, good in...🤭many years later, I still look back and smile that I landed him😍
Dating outside Kenya is worse especially in the Gulf nations. It's hard to know if the guy is truly interested in you or he's just interested in company (sex) and that has worsened my avoidant nature.
Weeh and the fact most are married back at home and cheating on their wives without even a hintof guilt. I couldn’t do it always wondering whether you are just a placeholder?!!
I'm here to remind the babes who download to watch later...lets appreciate that we are able to do that but also as you download remember to like and on the process of download let them ads run so our girls continue to bring us all these rich episodes...Ameeeen sambarry?
One thing about Murugi, “I feel like we should do an episode on….” is always at the tip of her tongue!😂 I love it!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I love your shows ladies! Good job.
Being a single lady, never dated, very financially stable and own my own house in a gated community....I can't imagine sharing my beautiful space with a man, with all the inconveniences that would come with that.
gurlllll tapping into that financial stability
Imagine because of watching tmi I feel so matured in my twenties. No way im people pleasing ...im extremely intentional about the dating. Its about my self worth on the line😑no wasting any bit of myself 💯😐😐
Righttttt
Me to gosh I feel like I know everything, 😂I love tmi😢
Ikrrrrrr tell me about it. I feel so mature for my age and mind you I'm just 20
Shiv and shiku met in their 20s and it still worked , so did most of our parents. You can meet the love of your life at 21 . There's no age limit for finding a lifetime partner, it just takes a lot of work and understanding each other.
There is something about Lydia's honesty ❤❤❤
This episode is eye opening.
Take home message:
1.) Don't assume. Define who you are to each other early on in the relationship.
2.) Ask those difficult questions like are you going to marry each other.
3.) Date other people as you wait to find a suitable partner for you to marry .
4.)Meet family and friends of each other early
5.) If you removed money as a factor, would you date the person you are with now?
If you remove number 5 many women will run away
Okay, u have prooved your point..you were right singing is better!! Lets do that. Let's go back to singing...we apologize
Loving Lyd's blazer😍🔥🔥🔥
Im I the only one who has noticed Lyds jeans have one thigh looking like the African continent? Anyway I digress, real conversation here. Dating in your 30s is definitely very different. Especially when one has done the internal work and understood themselves and what they want.
did @Lyd say she's dating 🎉🎉 yaaaaay.. congratulations big sis..
Murungi whoever does your make up does phenomenal job!
And phenomenal is just the word😂😂
Yaaay! It's Definitely TMIIIIIIII 💃🏿. Happy belated birthdays Queens 🎂🎂🎉🎉. Aki mapenzi wewe😅🤭.
Met my man on bumble, marrying him in a month 😌
gurlll congratulations....am on the app trying trying
Ah😮 After I uninstall it jana😂😂
Congratulations hun. All the best❤
That's nice congratulations
😂😂@@lilianemwaura7218
True true, what you focus on grows... that's why I am always a fan of kina Wajesus and Dominion fam for being loud with their working marriages and relationships... they are fr standing in a gap, and despite any drama, they're being brave.
Loved this episode❤
Wonderful wonderful wonderful intro 🎉🎉love it love it .... we're back to it😊I won't stop reminding you guys 😭❤
Belated Happy Birthday, girls..and yes, it's definitely Tee-Mmm-Iii
Let's keep it at singing, ladies ❤
About the cheating, it's rampant. I personally turn down more married men than single ones. And running into people's husband's on dating sites is what got me to leave dating sites 😂. I am not saying there are no good men, I am saying majority are vile and don't even think they are.
Y'all are preaching!!!
These are the good old days❤🎉
Lyd, your outfit is it hunny!🔥
Sometimes i worry am just too healed 😂😂😂 it will take a miracle🙏🏽😜
I think Ivy's point was pretty much clear, most of us just got triggered 🤣🤣🤣.
That woman is really triggering intellectually,very wise,she leaves me with panick attacks anytime I listen to her😂😂
Foreal foreal 💯💯@@petronillahmueni7577
😊 I love how Lyd had grown
I really love this conversation cause i really need it as a single 27yr lady
Now I really miss the singing tmi 😂
Me too😂
Me too 😂😂😂
Same
Me three😂
Me one hundred 😢
Dating in my 30s and YAS! No time to dwell on what’s not working 👐🏽
Lyd you look amazing in this episode. Love the fit.❤
It's definitely TMIIIIIIIIIII❤🎉
You should now start doing movies or documentaries. Its such a joy listening/watching you guys i need waaaaay mooooore tiiiiiimmmmmeeeeee lol
Hapana hapana I shiver when you do the compromised TMI statement/song 😢 it's good to compromise on some things but somethings are just good. Plz go back to singing not singing feels boring like an intro to a boring lecture 😭😭😭😭
I'm at work but I can't miss watching your episodes among the first people😍
We can download now again🎉 am I not a happy subscriber, I've been missing episodes cause of work buuut now we back!!!
In love with this already ya'll look stunning ❤
I always resonate with Lydia's POV, especially on relationship matters. Every time she speaks, I'm like, yaass! Giirl same, that's something I would say /do.
Its Lydia's Hair For me 🤩🤩
I have been sleeping on this channel😮 time to set camp ❤😂
This is really the best episode. I'm definitely making wiser dating decisions.❤❤
am like lyd rightnow...more intentional..im on bumble and the experience is nice,,not yet gotten anyone compatible like that but am more vigilant and not just dating
Not 62 tomorrow 😂. Lyd you have a way with words.
Love you ladies!!! ❤
Just to add on, the ugly in dating, when money is involved. You've gotten to a point you are comfortable with one another and you lend him money out of goodwill then hapo kwa malipo!!!Yooh!sh*t becomes the ghetto 😢
A man who loves you will never ask you for money hunnie... Run!
Another beautiful episode...Related so much ❤
Happy 😊 birthday 🍰 hunnies ❤❤❤
Happy birthday to you my loves though it's late 💞💞💞 nawapenda sana
met my fiancee on ok cupid cheers to finding our people!!!!
Did you pay
Why are we not singing "it's definitely tmiiiiii," 😢😢now there goes one of my underated pleasure of life 😂😂
Funny thing if you wanna search it up there is a trend called gwababa which is the fear of approaching women so when you talked about are men still approaching women sometimes you don't to be put in a humbling experience
I love you guys so much 😫❤️
🫶🏽🫶🏽
Happy new year ladies🎉
In my introspection about dating I was thinking of the same thing..... extending grace. Literally a few minutes ago 🤯
imagine saying the intro with you guys and there's no singing!!! please bring it back. Hii ya sahi haibambi!
Not lydia pushing it even further from 40 to 62 for Murugi😂😂😂😂
I love you addressed the issue from last episode. And I get what Ivy was saying
i can hear your whispers lydia☺
It was an awesome episodes🥺❤
I agree with Lydia 💯.Dating in your 30s is totally different from the 20s.What I know and what now at 32 is totally different from what I wanted when I was younger.And about the high level of prostitution on dating apps it's totally true aswell.Its so sad when all men see their on the sites is a booty call.I am a high value woman I have my boundaries and men get shocked when I tell them am not on the app for prostitution.And all yes its raining everywhere even here in Zambia the dating pool stinks.
Congratulations Lydia 😊
Sasa now that you’ve removed the singing part, what I am I supposed to do with my life?🤔 Please bring it back abeg.😀 Much love from Uganda.🇺🇬
We hate change😂😭😭 you've changed everythingg
Interesting episode as usual. However the ending was abrupt, Lydia was cut off mid sentence and there was no montage after the episode. Error during editing in post production ? 🤔.
Naaaa...let's go back to singing 😂
Ikr🥲
I feel like the chances of a woman staying unmarried after they hit 30 are very high cos they are soo much aware
It's not about them being aware.. it's about many men's preferences as they age. Her age mates and even older will always go for the younger babes
Is it just me or I feel like Murugi is always targeting Lydia for things that she thinks Lydia "should" have. Lyd is so matured and has grown and I love to see that about her😍
I was used to 'its definitely tmiiii... ' I'll get used to though 😭😂😂
I'm happy with the intro it's giving 35
Can we sing please 🥺😢😢 eeeey!
That men are not capable part, weh. Felt it to the core.
I'm heree🎉🎉 Wednesday made check☑️
❤❤❤❤ love the TMI talks
Great 💎💎💎 on the GREEN Couch🌟⭐️🌟
Hi thanks for this episode,,
How long should talking stage last?
Happy birthday guyss ❤😊
Lydia, that BLAZER, 🔥 🔥🔥
I need the song😢😢
Lyd you look amazing 😍
Topic on how to get feminine/femininity energy back😅..am on my masculinity energies ever
People underate marriage. Its a lifetime commitment and it has little humans involved that need you more. I wish People do it by choice and not societal pressure.
I met my fiance on tagged. It's been 10months n going strong ❤
Murugi I love your top❤
I met my husband on Bumble 🐝🥰
Why do I usually envision Eli as Lyd's match!? 😂😂😂 y'all tell me it's not just me please
Same😊I swear they can make a cute couple
@@ReneeKe-hx4ih soo cute
Personally I miss the old old intro, the sass in its DEFinitely Tmi was it!😂
My biggest question has been ..What would you do if your boyfriend was asking another lady for a chance to date them and even named you a bestie?
He is still looking,. Maybe also keep looking
Lydd that wig hairstyle looks perfect on you.
Yes I would still get married to my husband if he didn't have money. Because that is not what attracts me to him. I am attracted to his genius mind, maybe because I am a sapiosexual. Never met a man like him. Then couple it with he is kind, composed, honest, good in...🤭many years later, I still look back and smile that I landed him😍
Love this for you ❤😊
Now am left singing alone
Me in the comments section…. Mtangaze msimamo in betweers, are we singing or doing the news stance 😂 or we can have half of both worlds😄
Yes Lydia the good, are few. That is for sure
I stream live to like and comment...then download for my data😂😅😪
❤❤love you
Love you right back 🫶🏽
Waaaa. .we stopped singing TMIiiiiiiiiiii😢
How do you change your mind about those beliefs of men you have seen around you growing up .
Can we bring back the singing?
Inlove with Lydia's dangaree
We can call it a Wednesday
Did the episode just cut off at the end? No good bye 🤨🤭
Was wondering why too😅
😂😂😂I have repeated that laar part thinking I clicked the following video
@@petronillahmatheri3947Giiirl 😂 if I hadn’t seen your comment 😅
The conversation about removing money from the equation 🥴🥴
pertinent indeed.. Ladies need to ask that question... And be willing to humbly listen to the answers
Aah dating in 30… talk about the struggle for of meeting people because of our schedules.. like after work all I can think about is getting home
Dating outside Kenya is worse especially in the Gulf nations. It's hard to know if the guy is truly interested in you or he's just interested in company (sex) and that has worsened my avoidant nature.
You are right
Weeh and the fact most are married back at home and cheating on their wives without even a hintof guilt. I couldn’t do it always wondering whether you are just a placeholder?!!
Gulf also has the worst type of ladies to date. I tried dating two of them and they are the worst type of exes I ever got in my life
I hope someday I can be in contact with the one in the black T shirt when I do come again to Kenya looking great 👍 ❤colonel Jamal from dubai
Is it me or did the video just cut abruptly mehn 😭😭😭