Relationship Killers | Episode 132

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  • Опубліковано 19 бер 2024
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    If you’re feeling like your relationship is on the edge then high chances it’s probably dead 👀
    In this episode we get to talk about the different relationship killers from lack of emotional support to possessiveness and it’s A LOT brothers and sisters 😮‍💨😂
    Whether you’re watching with your partner/girl squad let’s unpack together and also tell us what led to the death of your last relationship?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 134

  • @catherinenjoki2636
    @catherinenjoki2636 Місяць тому +68

    I actually love how Murugi communicates, gets to the point within shortest time possible. It makes listening to her very interesting
    I even find myself thinking "be like Murugi" whenever I watch other you tubers who take foreeeever to get to the point😓

    • @twentytwo3840
      @twentytwo3840 Місяць тому +2

      It coz of her communication style. She's direct...most people are passive

    • @ashlee1142
      @ashlee1142 Місяць тому +2

      Yeah, I love her concise way of communicating.

  • @RoseSchwinn
    @RoseSchwinn Місяць тому +181

    If you feel someone is lower than you, that's your body telling you you are misaligned and have no business connecting with them. When you call it contempt, you are essentially dismissing your own internal guiding authority. Religious conditioning makes us disobey ourselves by gaslighting us into condemning and dismissing our inner voice. I'm sure you thought thinking someone is lower than you is pride on your part thinking you are better than or superior. But no. If someone is below you, your body warns you, and asks you to keep off...they will drain you, and drag you down to their level. Only connect with people you feel you are on the same level

  • @BeatriceGithenya
    @BeatriceGithenya Місяць тому +46

    I have learnt so many new English words from this podcast.My articulation and confidence has been influenced ❤.

  • @dorineangulu2898
    @dorineangulu2898 Місяць тому +16

    That part where Murugi said ' God has a sense of humor' got me. You really get tested with the thing you really yearn for mostly.

  • @teteyian3258
    @teteyian3258 Місяць тому +31

    Thank you Lyd....its struggling with infertility Issues. Barren and impotent are no longer courteous words to use on people with child bearing issues

  • @celineogoye906
    @celineogoye906 Місяць тому +56

    Would you mind inviting maurice matheka the sexologist..it could be such an exciting episode

  • @annkangethe3943
    @annkangethe3943 Місяць тому +18

    For sure Lydia is great listener

  • @margaretkanganga4882
    @margaretkanganga4882 Місяць тому +10

    i totally understand when Lyd says about insecurity like literally you are in the office maybe something [popped up and you had to extend for few minutes but you HAVE to send them pictures for them to believe you are in the office or any other place if it's maybe 6 or 7 and you are not at the house yet. Wangu ady alieka whatsapp yangu kwa simu yake to monitor who i talk to.I lost weight upto 46kgs coz it was draining but i thank myself i left and few months later am happy, no stress and am at 54kgs.

  • @JMandy
    @JMandy Місяць тому +13

    Did not expect this conversation to get that deep into the roots of everything 😏🤓

  • @wambuimuthoni4221
    @wambuimuthoni4221 Місяць тому +8

    I loved the part where Murugi said that they are looking for a good church and how she described her preference... I found it so funny 🤣

  • @phy.Nyambura
    @phy.Nyambura Місяць тому +43

    As an upcoming podcast babe ,this has to be the best channel .Also you guys have helped become so much better in grammar ,expression and articulation ....Ilysm

    • @EmmeGee_M
      @EmmeGee_M 3 дні тому

      right? absolutely eloquent

  • @Spinkly
    @Spinkly Місяць тому +35

    Lydia was so specific with the Japanese men with dreds. Is there something she wants to tell us 🤣🤣🤣

  • @daisydeeh2860
    @daisydeeh2860 Місяць тому +7

    God knows how much we love this channel 😂❤️always educating and enlighting us on real life situations

  • @mutaicherobon6550
    @mutaicherobon6550 Місяць тому +5

    I love the sense of humour 😅😅 i laugh my heart out every time i watch TMI.Thank you ladies❤

  • @wanjiraschannel6931
    @wanjiraschannel6931 Місяць тому +9

    Contempt, unmet needs (most stemming from unspoken expectations), misalignment... these definitely led to the death of my last ☹😭 taught me so much about myself though and what to keep in mind in my next one so yay 🤗

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL Місяць тому +19

    Jamani I'm in a meeting mmesema earpod ni skio moja ingine meeting eee😂😂❤ consistency check❤

  • @user-su9br6zz7e
    @user-su9br6zz7e Місяць тому +5

    Murugi gives how issues present practically and KM has a lot of theory 😂

  • @wangarinyambura9797
    @wangarinyambura9797 Місяць тому +8

    Murugi's outfit 🤩🤩🤩

  • @sherrynalwanga8928
    @sherrynalwanga8928 Місяць тому +7

    Lack of communication is key killer because at times it could be a mis understanding

  • @agnesgeraldine181
    @agnesgeraldine181 Місяць тому +3

    OMG..Lyd and Murugi I missed y'all so much🥺❤. I'm sorry I can explain😅I haven't been active much but I am glad to be here and having listened to this conversation,I can say that it makes me see so much growth within myself.My last relationship was a killer cos that man never respected me. He was disloyal,he destroyed my self esteem by body shaming me all the time,borrowing money yet I felt he would have been the one giving the money to me since I was 18 hustling and he was 25 at the time.I expected him to be more mature.Anyways,I have experienced so much growth and rynow I am in a relationship that I believe will lead to marriage.I loved this whole conversation and you look absolutely gorgeous❤

  • @dandi.23
    @dandi.23 Місяць тому +12

    You two are a blessing to us the young generation of women,your agemates and women.
    WE LOVE YOU AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU SO MUCH IN ALL WAYS ALWAYS❤

    • @dandi.23
      @dandi.23 Місяць тому +1

      Tmi to the whole wide world🥹

    • @dandi.23
      @dandi.23 Місяць тому +1

      🚀🚀🚀

  • @lisamwajuma9892
    @lisamwajuma9892 Місяць тому +14

    Favorite hour every Wednesday

  • @hamelynmotika1807
    @hamelynmotika1807 27 днів тому

    You guys have been making my day for a year now. I'm becoming a better version of myself every day. it's like you became my sisters, and it helps me not to miss home too much. Please don't break this union. Ensure this relationship ain't dying oooo. Cheers from SC

  • @lorrecco
    @lorrecco Місяць тому +5

    Great conversation as always. Joan today looks like a real mke mwema

  • @karensquest
    @karensquest Місяць тому

    uuuuhhh its definately TMI. Your are both my favs 💓

  • @anindomercy1238
    @anindomercy1238 Місяць тому +5

    Postpartum depression lead to the end of my relationship. it's sad because now I'm struggling emotionally and financially

  • @izziejames2994
    @izziejames2994 Місяць тому +3

    Its definitely TMI🎉🎉🎉

  • @pellacyber9561
    @pellacyber9561 Місяць тому +7

    what led to my last relationship was lack of attention and toxic behaviours and emotional abuse

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Місяць тому +4

    Outgrowing each other

  • @user-mh4xq3mj8s
    @user-mh4xq3mj8s Місяць тому +6

    I really struggle with expectations I really learnt a lot

  • @Med_learn33
    @Med_learn33 Місяць тому +1

    looking stunning ladies!!

  • @JanetOgola-xb9nn
    @JanetOgola-xb9nn 7 днів тому

    The best podcast!❤

  • @annedeki1265
    @annedeki1265 Місяць тому +1

    Hi besties, I believe 100%Lydia is purely me... How she think, decision making, How she look at life, How she treat others nd Her feeling, how sensitive she is ~She can talk on my behalf nd my arms are held nd I will be very comfy with her take**❤❤❤

  • @e.s.t.a.r
    @e.s.t.a.r Місяць тому +4

    Codependency was it. Loved the episode🎉. So informative!

  • @dorothyshee777
    @dorothyshee777 Місяць тому +1

    My favorite podcast ❤

  • @tetyootornado1598
    @tetyootornado1598 Місяць тому +4

    The only negative tbing avout this channel is that it ends. 😢😢

  • @dorothyclangat9840
    @dorothyclangat9840 Місяць тому +3

    I love it here❤

  • @charityndegwa2057
    @charityndegwa2057 Місяць тому +1

    👏👏👏👏,I love it here❤

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva Місяць тому +1

    Girls you went deep with this one ❤ wow 🤩

  • @irenegitonga5368
    @irenegitonga5368 Місяць тому +1

    All time favourites 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @constancemutua1070
    @constancemutua1070 Місяць тому +1

    Johnny from Kiambu and Japanese men with dreadlocks took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭. Lyddd!!

  • @missinjairu1448
    @missinjairu1448 Місяць тому

    😅😂😂😂"for example when i talk to you and you pick up your phone...' Lyd😅 I love you.

  • @paulinekamau2575
    @paulinekamau2575 Місяць тому +1

    Yeey! Its definitely TMI

  • @The_Introverted_Pisces
    @The_Introverted_Pisces Місяць тому +1

    Murugi is soo funny 😂😂... You also look fabulous. I love that skirt

  • @royalty_11
    @royalty_11 Місяць тому +1

    It's TMI🎉my favourite part about Wednesdays

  • @annemwaura3910
    @annemwaura3910 Місяць тому +1

    Tumefika🎉🎉TMI ❤

  • @lynbee1238
    @lynbee1238 Місяць тому +2

    ❤Love you girls❤

  • @TashaNjagi
    @TashaNjagi Місяць тому +7

    Wednesday made so much better❤🎉

  • @Kamesh338
    @Kamesh338 Місяць тому +1

    I love my Wednesdays because of you girlies 🤌❤️

    • @Kamesh338
      @Kamesh338 Місяць тому

      So I'm really the narcissist in my relationship 🙂‍↔️🤔 Y'all are our saviors as online Big sisters 🥂

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva Місяць тому

    The line you said .. wait I am not a Floating angel 👼… ? 😂😂😂 I get it Lyd 😊😊

  • @malusisarahmulola
    @malusisarahmulola Місяць тому +2

    I think outgrowing each other and not really having the same beliefs about life..lack of communication in every way..no intimacy in the unsexual way.....etc...is what might end the Relationship 🤦

  • @evatwili157
    @evatwili157 Місяць тому +1

    The link to the podcast that Lydia mentioned please 😊

  • @missmuroti
    @missmuroti Місяць тому +2

    @tmi ...you guys didn't tag the podcast on love lyd was talking about...

  • @lovesoniah772
    @lovesoniah772 Місяць тому +1

    Listening to you both always makes my day😊❤❤

  • @paxliviacherono7157
    @paxliviacherono7157 Місяць тому +10

    We can call it a Wednesday ❤

    • @valentinengare3022
      @valentinengare3022 Місяць тому

      Absolutely love this comment. I mean how else would you define Wednesday without these two beauties? ❤❤

  • @joyceyugi9266
    @joyceyugi9266 Місяць тому +1

    Wednesday has officially begun ❤

  • @teresiahnyokabi78
    @teresiahnyokabi78 Місяць тому +1

    I'm always here

  • @TumpeineMapenai
    @TumpeineMapenai Місяць тому +2

    I love you guys 😘

  • @Nyabokeonyonka
    @Nyabokeonyonka Місяць тому +1

    Where’s that link ??😢😢 the one for we are real children

  • @KeziahKamau-qu9pe
    @KeziahKamau-qu9pe Місяць тому +1

    Lyd u look amazing 😍 😍

  • @wairimuuu
    @wairimuuu Місяць тому +2

    From 38:03 to 38:55 ni ukweli mtupu 😂💯

  • @mohshii6672
    @mohshii6672 Місяць тому

    Lyd is not herself today...what's up hun? Sending love❤

  • @shaniceamira4201
    @shaniceamira4201 Місяць тому +3

    Inbetweeners ndio nadonjo ...kuko aje uku . 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @MerryhopeNyagha
    @MerryhopeNyagha Місяць тому

    Japanese men with dread got me on the floor😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rizikiokumu
    @rizikiokumu Місяць тому

    I agree with you lydia, my dad never paid attention to me for a child. When my husband assumes me. It hurts me to the core. I would love.him to be the opposite of my dad.

  • @sarahakinyi3879
    @sarahakinyi3879 Місяць тому

    I wish the discount was also applicable to monthly subscriptions😅😢

  • @messymbigo6736
    @messymbigo6736 Місяць тому +2

    Earlybird here 🥰

  • @carolinemusila9748
    @carolinemusila9748 Місяць тому

    I just left my 8 year relationship a month ago because apparently my ex 27 yr old guy realized that he wants a polygamous marriage unlike me who can NEVER be in one so I had to leave.

  • @cherrymakena
    @cherrymakena Місяць тому

    Please link the podcast Lydia was talking about in the description box👀

  • @cikunp9546
    @cikunp9546 Місяць тому +3

    The link to the podcast on love that Lydia was talking about is not tagged

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  Місяць тому

      We’ve added it sorry about that 🫶🏽

    • @cikunp9546
      @cikunp9546 Місяць тому

      @@tmipodcastke no worries thanks

  • @brendacarey9506
    @brendacarey9506 Місяць тому

    A meme led to the death of a relationship😂

  • @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw
    @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw Місяць тому +1

    Consider featuring Kwambox

  • @dianamaina7530
    @dianamaina7530 Місяць тому +1

    ❤️❤️

  • @shalommirembe500
    @shalommirembe500 Місяць тому +3

    I currently live in Japan. I literally died ati,the Japanese men with dreads
    😂😂

  • @ZippyKazi-Carzy
    @ZippyKazi-Carzy Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @annekaraba9691
    @annekaraba9691 Місяць тому +1

    The co-dependency part reminds me of the show "why women kill" beth Anne's relationship with husband Robert

  • @winnymwangi984
    @winnymwangi984 Місяць тому +1

    💋

  • @beatricesloan7063
    @beatricesloan7063 Місяць тому

    Loving the conversation but the Japanese men in dreads 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ivynjoro1442
    @ivynjoro1442 Місяць тому +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @muchain2985
    @muchain2985 Місяць тому +2

    Who has Googled Japanese men with dreads 😂

  • @missw.4882
    @missw.4882 Місяць тому +1

    Someone rephrase that 'bar' quote by Murugi's mom ..didn't quite get it

    • @wambuimuthoni4221
      @wambuimuthoni4221 Місяць тому +1

      Me too I didn't get it

    • @splendouruzima3297
      @splendouruzima3297 Місяць тому

      Like getting to the bar first doesn't mean you'll be the first one to get drunk i.e. you may be at a good place now but that doesn't mean you are the first one to win in life. I hope mnaniget. More like kutangulia si kufika

    • @missw.4882
      @missw.4882 Місяць тому

      @splendouruzima3297 thank you!!! It makes sense

  • @Faith.m.m
    @Faith.m.m Місяць тому

    What's the name of the podcast that lyd was talking about?

  • @Grandey38
    @Grandey38 Місяць тому

    Lyd didn't tag the love podcast about us being kids in adult bodies

    • @faithnamu5063
      @faithnamu5063 Місяць тому

      It's on the description box ..I hope you saw it

  • @tracybaraza174
    @tracybaraza174 Місяць тому

    Stuck on Japanese men with dreads 😂

  • @britneyG1837
    @britneyG1837 Місяць тому +1

    I need to try schedule sex, it just seem boring from the outside

  • @perpetualwahu9769
    @perpetualwahu9769 Місяць тому +3

    109th viewer ❤

  • @perpetualjambi7011
    @perpetualjambi7011 Місяць тому

    Japanese men with dreads 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mercykariuki7463
    @mercykariuki7463 Місяць тому

    Japanese men with dreads...really Lydia 😅😅😅😅