MICRO-CHEATING | Episode 133

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  • Опубліковано 26 бер 2024
  • Micro-cheating ; something that your partner may be doing that isn’t necessarily sleeping with someone but could be considered as cheating 🫢
    In this episode, we get to navigate the fine line between “innocent gestures” and relationship red flags as we lay open some actions that could erode trust and bring a lot of insecurity in relationships 🫨
    Let’s all gather in the comment section as you give us other examples of micro-cheating you may have experienced or cannot condone.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 127

  • @kirimikajuju
    @kirimikajuju Місяць тому +114

    I'm so sorry Lydia and Murugi too for losing a loved one. The fact that you have continued to show up and give us engaging content ,at a time when it might feel easier to step away shows your commitment to your craft and audience. Please know that you have a supportive community of in-betweeners standing behind you, I offer my heartfelt condolences and unwavering appreciation for continuing to show up.❤❤❤

  • @peruthmwenkanya2508
    @peruthmwenkanya2508 29 днів тому +12

    It's the ''are you drunk?'' for me.. Lydia can be really funny😂

  • @sellahchabe1248
    @sellahchabe1248 Місяць тому +54

    Lydias hair is giving ❤❤.You look good ladies .

  • @faithnjoki1471
    @faithnjoki1471 27 днів тому +5

    "Are you drunk?"
    I'm still on the floor 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @angelinematina7049
    @angelinematina7049 Місяць тому +21

    Not lydia shouting Jezebel at murugi😂😂😂

  • @sherismith8361
    @sherismith8361 Місяць тому +25

    I went through micro cheating but I was too lazy to break up. He was texting some girl he had met and he was venting to her about our relationship. (We were in college). I saw the messages aka shed some fake tears and we continued. We broke up the next year tukiwa long holiday. They're now married so ni Mimi I was standing in the way of true love 😅😅

    • @brie2545
      @brie2545 Місяць тому +1

      Wueh😂😂😂! Girl how did you reach acceptance stage (like for real this is smne else's man) hugs though 😊

    • @ImmaculateIsaboke
      @ImmaculateIsaboke Місяць тому

      🤣opps .

    • @hossie101
      @hossie101 26 днів тому

      Ouch😳

  • @user-lv6se9jg1o
    @user-lv6se9jg1o Місяць тому +50

    I'm gonna have to disagree, emotional cheating should not be excused, it's actually worse than physical cheating.

    • @akiinefaexperiencinglife
      @akiinefaexperiencinglife Місяць тому +9

      I agree,it shouldn't be excused(it'sjust (un)fortunate that someone can get away with it)..I do not think it is worse than physical cheating,it's a step towards the physical cheating if one is not consciously aware of it...and I would say that we should evaluate our emotions to learn more about ourselves and our behaviours,for our own well being and those closest to us.

    • @oliviakadesa2754
      @oliviakadesa2754 16 днів тому

      Llllllllllllllllllllolllllllllllllolllol9lllll😊llllllllllollol

  • @hildamaloya5214
    @hildamaloya5214 27 днів тому +6

    Your friendship guys is so beautiful I really like it it's my prayer that you guys must remain friends forever.
    I think the other example of micro cheating is saving your X's photos in your phone,like taking them from social media and be saving them in your phone so that you can keep seeing them

  • @angelayez9114
    @angelayez9114 Місяць тому +24

    Had to pause at 41:36 for a short story, a guy I was going on the date with for the first time came with his friend who was more funny, charming, and was attentive to me. Guys, I was confused!!😄😄😄 Let’s just say I chose not to go out again with the guy I had initially come to see.

  • @royalusala8527
    @royalusala8527 Місяць тому +52

    Even this thing of He/She is not my type/standard is skewed sana... Everybody is better than you in something.. Everybody has something you don't have.. Its a large Ego statement!

    • @sheeireri3716
      @sheeireri3716 Місяць тому +6

      King betweener in the buildiiing 🔥🔥😊.

    • @lindaawuor1446
      @lindaawuor1446 Місяць тому +2

      For sure

    • @hellenirungu8542
      @hellenirungu8542 Місяць тому +3

      The type thing doesn't always refer to where one is in life or what they are good at it. It is just a preference thing. For instance, I don't like mouthy guys, and if I notice you talk too much, you def aren't my type.

    • @royalusala8527
      @royalusala8527 Місяць тому +4

      @@hellenirungu8542 It's still the same.. My point is, that mouthy guy may have been better for you 8n the long run compared to the one u chose instead of him, coz of the mouthy thing.. He has very many other great qualities!

    • @dorahmulinge3800
      @dorahmulinge3800 Місяць тому +2

      Somebody tweet this❤❤❤. So true

  • @esthermulu1229
    @esthermulu1229 Місяць тому +17

    Lyd ,,your Hair is incredible babe

  • @danielmiyaba8816
    @danielmiyaba8816 Місяць тому +35

    I might not be the first here .. but atleast I'm here... Denims I love ❤❤❤❤❤.
    And the buns both the neat and messy ate ... I love you guys
    Kenya kingbetweener

  • @Young_Techiez
    @Young_Techiez Місяць тому +7

    😂😂loved Lydia's point on 'things are easier said than done'

  • @esthermulu1229
    @esthermulu1229 Місяць тому +11

    However if its my man's friend who is funny,, there's always a limit😂😂" Lyd that limit laughter" 😂am down on the floor

  • @margaretkanganga4882
    @margaretkanganga4882 Місяць тому +8

    always here thanks for reading my comment Lyd😍

  • @lizznjeri9231
    @lizznjeri9231 Місяць тому +18

    Lidya I am like you,I roll with the punches in almost all situations, until my daughter recently accused me of toxic positivity

    • @wambuigorgeous
      @wambuigorgeous Місяць тому +6

      Daughters keep us in check 😂 I was told I'm always on my phone and I insist she limits her screentime, I was told start with yourself 😂

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 22 дні тому

      That.sounds like something my daughters would say 😂😂😂

  • @NyandengAGarang
    @NyandengAGarang Місяць тому +12

    Pole sana kwa msiba, Lydia KM.

  • @faithwanjiru6927
    @faithwanjiru6927 Місяць тому +4

    Loved this episode, Lyd's fire today 💯

  • @claranyaga8984
    @claranyaga8984 Місяць тому +1

    beautiful set

  • @YouAreMyFavoritePodcast
    @YouAreMyFavoritePodcast 28 днів тому +3

    Murugi Munyi Murugi Munyi Murugi Munyi !
    ❤🌹

  • @Dorothyasamoahgh
    @Dorothyasamoahgh Місяць тому +1

    It's definitely Tmiiii❤❤❤

  • @bennykimanibk
    @bennykimanibk 28 днів тому

    I really learn alot from you awesome people. Much appreciated.

  • @ImmaculateIsaboke
    @ImmaculateIsaboke Місяць тому

    the background is beautiful 💗💗💗

  • @annemwaura3910
    @annemwaura3910 Місяць тому +2

    TMI🎉❤

  • @Empress_Hellena
    @Empress_Hellena Місяць тому

    These queens are Gorgeous!!❤❤❤

  • @Shanshan-fe6cw
    @Shanshan-fe6cw 28 днів тому +1

    This was such a beautiful episode. Loved every minute of it babes❤!

  • @magdalinekinyanjui404
    @magdalinekinyanjui404 14 днів тому +1

    Love the tops ladies😊👌

  • @esthermulu1229
    @esthermulu1229 Місяць тому +2

    Big siz come this side,,It's wed and surprise 🎉🎉🎉 against Definitely TMI

  • @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw
    @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw Місяць тому +4

    Its Lyd hair ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bettiekym
    @bettiekym Місяць тому +2

    My condolences dear,may Guks rest well.

  • @norahkaranja4054
    @norahkaranja4054 Місяць тому +4

    Murugi what has bloating got to do with a ring??😂😂

  • @joyceyugi9266
    @joyceyugi9266 Місяць тому +5

    I'm sorry for your loss Lyd. On other news, you both look so good. Also the amount of self - awareness and growth I've experienced ever since I began listening to this podcast is so profound. I'm so grateful ❤.

  • @hopewangari5970
    @hopewangari5970 25 днів тому +1

    The double tap part lol!!!

  • @annewacuka
    @annewacuka 26 днів тому +1

    This was such a fun episode🤩. It's micro cheating if him and his female friend call each other babe, hun and darling on texts.
    PS: I was the female friend in this case 😭, and he did set a boundary so at least he's not a lizard😂

  • @dorothyshee777
    @dorothyshee777 Місяць тому +3

    Tmi ❤❤

  • @Peacine
    @Peacine Місяць тому

    22:28 😢 losing an Ex taught me everything about disenchanted grief
    So many questions in your head, basically grieving alone and longer

  • @nkathapamela5703
    @nkathapamela5703 21 день тому

    I had so much fun watching this,,,😂😂😂you 2 are adorable 😍 mich love

  • @Dorothyasamoahgh
    @Dorothyasamoahgh Місяць тому +1

    I live for the affirmation and love between Jo and Lyd is so beautiful to watch❤❤❤

  • @yvonne355
    @yvonne355 Місяць тому +2

    Murugiii your jeans ❤❤❤❤

  • @MohandMpymWorld
    @MohandMpymWorld Місяць тому +4

    TMI❤ .
    Nipitieni leo guys

  • @marciajames9434
    @marciajames9434 Місяць тому +2

    Sorry Lydia for you and your family's loss; God's peace surround you all. One more thing, yet another episode where you (Lydia) was extremely funny/hilarious; thank you ladies.

  • @msnique406
    @msnique406 Місяць тому

    Very interesting 👌 👍

  • @joycemuthoni4011
    @joycemuthoni4011 Місяць тому +2

    You look lovely Murugi😊

  • @annmumbi5693
    @annmumbi5693 Місяць тому +3

    I just learnt alot from this episode…and am better for my next man…thank you TMI🥰🥰🥰

  • @joycewamari1116
    @joycewamari1116 Місяць тому +9

    It's the "aaaah Jezebel ndio huyu"😅😅😅 for me

  • @mwendenyaga91
    @mwendenyaga91 Місяць тому +1

    Ehh woow!Fayaa fayaa

  • @hinesightmind
    @hinesightmind 25 днів тому +1

    Sending money to female friends 😢 I've been telling you, sina pesa no Kinuthia No.

  • @BrendanyamburaJosephinelenny
    @BrendanyamburaJosephinelenny Місяць тому +39

    Can we now sing please?😭😭😭 thank you😂

    • @danielmiyaba8816
      @danielmiyaba8816 Місяць тому +1

      I second this thought.... I will be seconds in to the podcast ( the intro bit) and then I'm singing the TMIIIII and my girlies are like pulling an Oprah kind of unison TMII... please sing in some episodes

    • @estherdeborahnakitende1537
      @estherdeborahnakitende1537 23 дні тому

      Please sing in all episodes.🥺 I begun watching this podcast when they were singing so its all i know and sounds best.

  • @naomiwaithera5820
    @naomiwaithera5820 22 дні тому

    your history keeps score there's no running away from it...very thin line na intuition

  • @shanicemumbi6993
    @shanicemumbi6993 Місяць тому +2

    Wednesday dose😊😊😊

  • @giftyalfa2460
    @giftyalfa2460 Місяць тому +6

    I found it soo difficult to move past that demonstrative laugh by Lyd😅😅😂

    • @brie2545
      @brie2545 Місяць тому

      Ikr😂😂😂

  • @yvonnemurugi6795
    @yvonnemurugi6795 Місяць тому +4

    Lydia pole even i got to know your grandpa is my neighbor cant believe you normally come to our neighbor hood .

  • @bettykubai927
    @bettykubai927 Місяць тому +9

    Kucheka nayo nitacheka😂😂. If your friend is funny? I will laugh. I will not be denied laughter. Is it not the best medicine? 😅

  • @gracedaniel726
    @gracedaniel726 Місяць тому +1

    I am more of a Lidya i guess, every time she said to Murugi are you drunk ?? I was like yeah Murugi are you???

  • @julietmwaniki8349
    @julietmwaniki8349 Місяць тому +6

    Loved this episode so much! The phrase 'emotional crutch' is staying with me for a while! I'm wondering if you could do an episode on setting boundaries with friends and partners. As someone approaching my mid-twenties, I'd love to hear your perspective and experience!

    • @faithnairuko7351
      @faithnairuko7351 Місяць тому +3

      Hey love
      There's an episode on boundaries.... It's called "Setting Boundaries and Sticking to them"

  • @lilyankamau3111
    @lilyankamau3111 Місяць тому +4

    It's definitely TMI ❤️ 🎉🎉

  • @TashaNjagi
    @TashaNjagi Місяць тому +1

    TMI day 🎉🎉❤

  • @glorykinyua1669
    @glorykinyua1669 Місяць тому +4

    Its definitely TMI...among the first ❤..my Wednesday are always lit 🔥🔥big sisters 💯

  • @Its_at.ieno12
    @Its_at.ieno12 Місяць тому +3

    Tmi team...tuko kwa sanaa!!!😊❤

  • @jessenanette7958
    @jessenanette7958 Місяць тому +5

    First.....love from Rwanda

  • @valokumu3880
    @valokumu3880 Місяць тому +1

    Liking every photo in their feed pls🤦‍♀️front door is there 🚪

  • @patriciasharon3053
    @patriciasharon3053 Місяць тому +4

    Elderly sexuality matters!!🗣🗣😅😂

  • @amandawambui8063
    @amandawambui8063 26 днів тому

    Am sorry Lydia for loosing your Granddad❤

  • @Vlicky_05shotta
    @Vlicky_05shotta 29 днів тому +2

    I love these two, your content is amazing.Also can we talk about boundaries between friends who are dating.So my bf has male friends who happens to be dating a certain chic.My problem is this chic is very close to my guy.I once saw some pics she took in my bfs bedroom and was like😮😮😮

  • @nyamburakimani3726
    @nyamburakimani3726 Місяць тому +2

    Does my ring hurt your finger by Charlie Pride

  • @e.s.t.a.r
    @e.s.t.a.r Місяць тому +1

    Thank you lyd and murugi for this! As usual, very informative🎉. So sorry for you loss, lyd. May he rest well

  • @user-ij4tu6zz2s
    @user-ij4tu6zz2s 26 днів тому

    Are you drunk!!!!😂😂

  • @rastagirl758
    @rastagirl758 29 днів тому +1

    My micro cheating behaviour is a man who sends a woman snaps on snapchat,it feels illegal to me and worse placing the messages to delete after view

  • @lydiaawk
    @lydiaawk Місяць тому +3

    Best thing about my Wednesday today🥺❤️

  • @mercykiaritha350
    @mercykiaritha350 Місяць тому +4

    I needed a pick me up today so seeing TMI has posted is exactly what I needed today🎉

  • @user-oi6bl5rh3u
    @user-oi6bl5rh3u Місяць тому +3

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @user-wo8tn1cm4k
    @user-wo8tn1cm4k Місяць тому +2

    This is the 20th comment, i love being here

  • @danielmiyaba8816
    @danielmiyaba8816 Місяць тому +5

    Sorry for your loss Lyd😢❤

  • @joyesther5916
    @joyesther5916 Місяць тому +4

    Given a case you are dating a guy and some other guy approaches you and asks for your number,what do you do?
    Do you give them your number or your boyfriend's?

    • @annmumbi5693
      @annmumbi5693 Місяць тому

      Your number

    • @juniorkibuthu6928
      @juniorkibuthu6928 Місяць тому

      You don't give out your no/his , respect your partner,, why are you giving out your no in the first place if you are in a relationship

    • @risperbevalyn9670
      @risperbevalyn9670 Місяць тому +1

      if you are not married ...yes

  • @faithchepngetich8033
    @faithchepngetich8033 Місяць тому +5

    One of the guilty people who totally believed I have subscribed but hadn't😰 fixed it though..
    Making it up by subscribing on my work account too🤓
    Keep repeating the "subscribe" message to us, looks like the 99th time's the charm😩

  • @winniepere
    @winniepere Місяць тому +2

    What's the name of the book Murugi was talking about?

  • @mercykitolo6871
    @mercykitolo6871 25 днів тому

    I am triggered😭😭😭

  • @EuniterMumbua
    @EuniterMumbua Місяць тому +6

    They are so self aware, this year I wanna focus on my self awareness journey, anyone to help me with tips on where to begin please?

    • @giftyalfa2460
      @giftyalfa2460 Місяць тому

      Therapy please
      The sermon's been on for long💃🏽

    • @letstalkkenya2
      @letstalkkenya2 Місяць тому

      Check the Stoic philosophy... really helped me

    • @EuniterMumbua
      @EuniterMumbua Місяць тому

      Thanks ​@@letstalkkenya2

  • @maman_moon
    @maman_moon Місяць тому +1

    A man sending money to almost all his exes and somes females friends. That’s my experience

  • @evelynmbithe
    @evelynmbithe Місяць тому +7

    Love how you've styled your hair Lyd. Currently twinning that style will definitely try.
    May your Guka's soul rest in peace.
    Thank you both for showing up more importantly, for showing up for each other.
    ❤️❤️❤️