My Brother Is Being Stupid With Money!

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  • Опубліковано 28 гру 2024

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  • @TheRamseyShow
    @TheRamseyShow  4 роки тому +9

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  • @a-a-ronbrowser1486
    @a-a-ronbrowser1486 4 роки тому +294

    I was taking a sip of my drink and choked a bit when I heard “he has insider information on an investment” lol

    • @a-a-ronbrowser1486
      @a-a-ronbrowser1486 4 роки тому +23

      kappelmeister123 I did, I grabbed my pen and paper for that knowledge but no luck

    • @herbertscott9575
      @herbertscott9575 4 роки тому +1

      @@a-a-ronbrowser1486 Blue Star Jets

    • @redcomic619
      @redcomic619 4 роки тому +16

      Dave didn’t even go back to touch that one 😂

    • @newtonraymond77
      @newtonraymond77 4 роки тому +19

      Spilled my coffee on this one, if it's actually true then it's a crime that can get him jail time and charged but we all know it's some con man selling salt to a slug

    • @Legend-jl1ls
      @Legend-jl1ls 4 роки тому +6

      It was Tesla

  • @Cookieboy70
    @Cookieboy70 4 роки тому +259

    I was worried I would hear my sisters voice

  • @soccermatt6
    @soccermatt6 4 роки тому +117

    I’m 21 and debt free and I save 1000$ every 2 weeks while using my 4 side hustles to pay the bills. Gotta stay financially motivated !

    • @wanefelicia8779
      @wanefelicia8779 4 роки тому +1

      Dang! U got some good side hustles

    • @Riyaanreality
      @Riyaanreality 4 роки тому +2

      I’m currently looking for side hustles, any tips?

    • @soccermatt6
      @soccermatt6 4 роки тому +2

      riyaan officiate sports is straight cash and you choose your own schedule

    • @Adriftingleaf
      @Adriftingleaf 4 роки тому +2

      yo respect to you my dude. keep up the hard work. We might not be able to control how smart, talented, or physically gifted we are. The one we can control is how hard we can work. but also my friend make sure you treat yourself too.

    • @luisasterioquerubin6829
      @luisasterioquerubin6829 4 роки тому

      Doing great being debt free.

  • @nickbehrooz596
    @nickbehrooz596 4 роки тому +36

    Desperate = Stupid... God I love Dave. In being a fan/listener/10 year graduate of FPU listening to Dave honestly never gets old. I can be having a bad day, turn on a 6 minute video and it changes my mood. Love you Dave! Thank you

  • @coryascott
    @coryascott 4 роки тому +92

    "It was a minor event” HAHAHA

  • @larisaRod93
    @larisaRod93 4 роки тому +39

    I honestly feel so bad for family members that feel responsible for another family members else actions or choices. I understand this concern comes from a loving stand and they want to help them to not continue to make dumb choices but in the end you can’t help them if they don’t want to be helped. 😔

    • @AznBoi871
      @AznBoi871 3 роки тому

      If you can see your loved one struggling you never stop trying to help no matter what. If you can't get them to listen ask yourself what you can do to make them listen but never turn your back when you know a better way.

  • @Geletin911
    @Geletin911 4 роки тому +132

    Dave was fishing for that story lol

    • @random-nz7dy
      @random-nz7dy 4 роки тому +21

      It definitely matters. Depending on what he did it may or may not be easily explainable

    • @Geletin911
      @Geletin911 4 роки тому +3

      @@random-nz7dy not saying it doesn't matter to the Landlord, but doesn't make a difference for the show.

    • @Krrish85
      @Krrish85 4 роки тому +14

      Yeah lol, he wants the story bad.

    • @chrisbrown18andup
      @chrisbrown18andup 4 роки тому +2

      @@Geletin911 it's good radio though

    • @Geletin911
      @Geletin911 4 роки тому +9

      @@chrisbrown18andup for sure man...I mainly listen to feel better about my life with all the boomers and financial retards calling in.

  • @conquerandwin
    @conquerandwin 4 роки тому +36

    "I'm not going to be a problem for you..." The first thing I'd think is, "He's going to be a problem for me."

  • @hestiaa9354
    @hestiaa9354 4 роки тому +60

    I’m not sure that he’s going to listen. When people are scared, they do incredibly dumb things. When fear overcomes common sense, disasters happen.

    • @Maharajan1204
      @Maharajan1204 4 роки тому +1

      Ms. Hestia right point Perhaps a little perfectionism, perhaps low self esteem.
      You do realise that you're just a person…and that is okay. We all make mistskes…however, rather than looking at it pejoratively, look at it as a teaching… an opportunity to learn and grow. Don't allow it to cripple you because as a human entity who is in control of her sphere, decisions are a part of your life.
      When you have to make a decision and it scares you, ask the Creator for guidance and help. He will help you.

  • @matte4123
    @matte4123 4 роки тому +29

    Just came to see if it was my sister calling in. Its not!

    • @xxZerosumxx
      @xxZerosumxx 4 роки тому +1

      So you're being stupid with your money?

    • @matte4123
      @matte4123 4 роки тому

      @@xxZerosumxx you are too if you're watching the same videos, genius...

    • @xxZerosumxx
      @xxZerosumxx 4 роки тому +1

      @@matte4123 I see you've been triggered.

    • @matte4123
      @matte4123 4 роки тому

      @@xxZerosumxx lol ever heard of "projection"?

    • @xxZerosumxx
      @xxZerosumxx 4 роки тому +1

      @@matte4123 lol, nice try.

  • @lazyakers
    @lazyakers 4 роки тому +70

    Over 9 minutes... these are usually the really juicy calls.

    • @geezy4000
      @geezy4000 4 роки тому +2

      You beat me to it. My thoughts exactly.

  • @mmcgahn5948
    @mmcgahn5948 4 роки тому +9

    Stay out of your brother’s private affairs. Give him advice and if he is stupid enough to ignore you that’s his problem, not yours. When he is in trouble, he will come around and hopefully he will listen to you before it’s too late.

  • @jillwilkerson2032
    @jillwilkerson2032 4 роки тому +3

    Dave is right. I had an eviction and I was honest about it and an understanding landlord rented to me.

  • @freeze1305
    @freeze1305 4 роки тому +91

    He must be part of /r/WallStreetBets.

    • @randy25rhoads
      @randy25rhoads 4 роки тому +1

      GunQuickie HE WANTS THOSE TENDIES

    • @joshuakhan8099
      @joshuakhan8099 3 роки тому +2

      hopefully he made some money off of gamestop.

    • @dirtbikedave8898
      @dirtbikedave8898 3 роки тому

      @@joshuakhan8099 i was hoping to find this comment when i heard this XD My crayons will have a different type of taste once this is over

  • @Ali-ws6mu
    @Ali-ws6mu 4 роки тому +39

    Most people who think they have “insider information” just have speculation from company employees who know very little. Very few people have insider information unless they are directly involved with the board of a company which I highly doubt this guy is, and even if he was why would they give this dude classified info?? Lol

    • @candirockstar135
      @candirockstar135 4 роки тому +3

      Exactly. Her brother sounds like a garden variety criminal/con artist.

  • @Alex-xl3yr
    @Alex-xl3yr 4 роки тому +56

    SEC: has entered the chat...

  • @tonygordon5771
    @tonygordon5771 4 роки тому +5

    You're a good Christian and a great man Dave. Thank you.

  • @TheCobruhAlienat0r
    @TheCobruhAlienat0r 4 роки тому +27

    She didn't explain why he couldn't just renew the lease where he's at currently.

    • @glorymanheretosleep
      @glorymanheretosleep 4 роки тому +8

      Because he enjoys younger women a little too much.

    • @marywebb9127
      @marywebb9127 4 роки тому +9

      @@glorymanheretosleep really 🙄 Maybe his ex put out a fake domestic violence charge. I know someone who did just to ruin their ex's life.

    • @greenAbbot
      @greenAbbot 4 роки тому +12

      @@marywebb9127 Maybe...but you have zero to go on to reach that conclusion.

    • @marywebb9127
      @marywebb9127 4 роки тому +6

      @@greenAbbot True but a lot of people's lives are getting ruined by lies. It hurts the real victims.

    • @cathyrowe594
      @cathyrowe594 4 роки тому +7

      @@marywebb9127 I also know a person who's life is permanently ruined because of being on the list for a minor, nonviolent event & a gungho prosecution.

  • @ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy
    @ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy 4 роки тому +27

    Understood he’s trying to do a 180 for the better but having that mess in his record, geez. It will be a tough battle.

  • @DA-ft8eb
    @DA-ft8eb 4 роки тому +14

    In Dave's defense, i think he means: desperate = irrational.

    • @ronaldcliffin9020
      @ronaldcliffin9020 4 роки тому +1

      Dave is quick to say Stupid. I am sure after all these years, he means Stupid.

    • @jcherestal
      @jcherestal 4 роки тому +1

      @@ronaldcliffin9020 lol was saying the same thing😂 P.H.D in D.U.M.B.

  • @vladamirkb1
    @vladamirkb1 4 роки тому +4

    Think before you do.

  • @arcticrest8368
    @arcticrest8368 4 роки тому +8

    Sketchy call....

  • @mashruralam5795
    @mashruralam5795 4 роки тому +3

    That was a great proverb Dave quoted.

  • @MrsThollo
    @MrsThollo 4 роки тому +8

    I hope it's not a drug deal.

  • @billwhite5853
    @billwhite5853 4 роки тому +3

    My dear mom is 91 yo and has buried herself in debt. $569K reverse mortgage and $80K misc debt. She does not listen to my advice, her spending habit does not change. Expenses is more than her income. I am worried that when she dies I might be the one to spend $$$ for her burial, etc.

    • @aKjohn8798
      @aKjohn8798 3 роки тому +1

      Keep it cheap, if she cannot be financially responsible then she gets a finacially responsible funeral. If that means cremation or getting a coffin cheap from a company and getting a cheap gravesite then so be it

    • @leec5170
      @leec5170 3 роки тому

      @@aKjohn8798 You don't need a coffin for cremation. Scatter ashes in a place the person loved. Have a memorial service after the fact in a church hall and invite everyone who loved the deceased. You'd be surprised how nice this can be!

  • @mrcalderon93
    @mrcalderon93 4 роки тому +2

    Sounds like a real gentleman

  • @einstini15
    @einstini15 4 роки тому +4

    If he thinks he can make a house down payment from a $1000 ... he be buying stock on margin and therefore could be losing alot more than a $1000... or if he tries short selling.

  • @KMF3
    @KMF3 4 роки тому +3

    No she doesn't need to solve his problem he needs to solve his problem she has nothing to do with that

  • @mmp495
    @mmp495 Рік тому

    It is hard to watch a train crash in slow motion. Sometimes those hard things make an impact and wake them up….don’t enable. Enabling keeps the person from growing and learning.

  • @jasonzelic9030
    @jasonzelic9030 4 роки тому +4

    He’s desperate. He isn’t going to read and study. He doesn’t know where he is living next month.

  • @KimberlyNoellexo
    @KimberlyNoellexo 4 роки тому +31

    Thumbs up if you Love Dave !

    • @elmateo77
      @elmateo77 4 роки тому +1

      Fishing for likes on youtube is sad...

  • @djpuplex
    @djpuplex 4 роки тому +18

    R/wsb strikes again.

    • @DaTwinzz
      @DaTwinzz 4 роки тому

      Hahaha that's what it sounded like to me

  • @lynettepettitt655
    @lynettepettitt655 3 роки тому +1

    Where's the questions about the wife's income/debt? Or her financial opinion?

  • @ianmowbray3284
    @ianmowbray3284 4 роки тому +21

    Sometimes you can’t fix stupid I feel for the child.

  • @Ryan_DeWitt
    @Ryan_DeWitt 4 роки тому +23

    There is no hope for someone like that generally.

  • @Gus_Chiggins
    @Gus_Chiggins 4 роки тому +12

    Oh lawdy

  • @knowledgeiskey1319
    @knowledgeiskey1319 4 роки тому +3

    Dave Ramsey: 👐🙏👐🙏👐

  • @clarifyingquestions
    @clarifyingquestions 4 роки тому +5

    This is not a landlord responsibility - if a person does not have enough friends, family, co workers, church community etc to all chip in how is this to go to the landlord? I am assuming that the landlord is also someones family member, co worker, friend etc and gives like no one else to support these people.

  • @JA-re8gi
    @JA-re8gi 4 роки тому +8

    When you are in a desperate financial position, you will crazy things like buying front loaded mutual funds from your smartvester or sell all of your gold at it's all time low.

  • @chartuck
    @chartuck 4 роки тому +6

    BIG YIKES

  • @gemechannel2899
    @gemechannel2899 4 роки тому +3

    Learning from the pro, always!

  • @MrBrewman95
    @MrBrewman95 4 роки тому +6

    Did Chris Hansen sit down with him?

  • @georgewagner7787
    @georgewagner7787 2 роки тому

    Never seen Dave speechless

  • @catgodfrey6451
    @catgodfrey6451 4 роки тому

    Unfortunately you have to look the other way. I had to learn to back away. Give him love, but that's it.

  • @susansauls8902
    @susansauls8902 4 роки тому +7

    He needs to provide a copy of the court documents / police report to the landlord.

  • @dancebrittany23
    @dancebrittany23 2 роки тому

    She should've called Dr John!

  • @RoamingInterests
    @RoamingInterests 4 роки тому +4

    I know people who don't even check the background.

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 4 роки тому +19

    When you make a book or class recommendation to someone you can just look at their behavior and know if they’ve looked at it yet.

  • @f86tune48
    @f86tune48 3 роки тому +2

    He probably bought gme stock and she feels stupid now

  • @dataodokpa5431
    @dataodokpa5431 4 роки тому +9

    sounds like the brother is going to start selling drugs...

  • @Will-oj3un
    @Will-oj3un 4 роки тому +6

    “Lil ol’ man that has a lil ol’ place to rent like me”
    Dave is being super modest considering there’s nothing little about his net worth

  • @libertyquest
    @libertyquest 4 роки тому +2

    He said minor event haha

  • @janhatcher6991
    @janhatcher6991 8 місяців тому

    can you say you don't know what to do so don't do anything. He's a big boy and he'll have to figure it out. No advice you give him will make any difference. He's gonna do what he's going to do so I would just stay out of it and let him figure things out.

  • @jeffreyrivers1983
    @jeffreyrivers1983 4 роки тому +24

    At the end of her day It is none of her business...

    • @katrinaumana2127
      @katrinaumana2127 4 роки тому +1

      Exactly! I stopped trying to help my brother. He has no property& is on disability. His life went from bad to worst with him loosing custody of his twin sons.

  • @nicksincredibleopinion
    @nicksincredibleopinion 4 роки тому

    He's on the what list? Listened 3 times and still can't understand.

    • @nicksincredibleopinion
      @nicksincredibleopinion 4 роки тому +1

      Ok, Dave addresses it. I know what list. And I would automatically disqualify him as a tenant.

  • @heididiego3719
    @heididiego3719 4 роки тому +5

    I'm making my car payment biweekly which I get paid every two weeks. My payment is for $604 and I send $302 is this ok or should I just pay it on a monthly basis? Anyone?

    • @bobbyb7672
      @bobbyb7672 4 роки тому +3

      Weekly will save you a little on interest.

    • @wanda520
      @wanda520 4 роки тому +24

      Sell this car. Too expensive.

    • @heididiego3719
      @heididiego3719 4 роки тому +1

      @@bobbyb7672 oh thank you so much for the advice.

    • @amandaanderson3394
      @amandaanderson3394 4 роки тому +1

      Put the money back and pay it monthly sounds like it would be better cuz interest is covered in full

    • @heididiego3719
      @heididiego3719 4 роки тому +1

      @@amandaanderson3394 thank Amanda I think I'll do that

  • @yayyareaa2997
    @yayyareaa2997 4 роки тому +26

    Jeffrey Epstein? Is that you? 🤔

    • @JA-re8gi
      @JA-re8gi 4 роки тому +6

      Nah, the clintons suicided him!

    • @cristianvalencia981
      @cristianvalencia981 4 роки тому +1

      J A Dam, Clinton’s suicide one of Trump’s friends. I guess he won’t be able to be friends with him anymore....

    • @Mexicobeanpole
      @Mexicobeanpole 4 роки тому

      Cristian Valencia 😂😂

  • @JP-qm5ec
    @JP-qm5ec 3 роки тому

    insider info lol

  • @teebone2157
    @teebone2157 4 роки тому +6

    1k down payment lol

  • @MsJoyce31202
    @MsJoyce31202 4 роки тому

    OH NO !!!!

  • @expectthabest951
    @expectthabest951 4 роки тому +9

    Yeah.....AIGHT IMMA HEAD OUT 🚶🏽‍♂️✌️

    • @notmebutyou8350
      @notmebutyou8350 4 роки тому +1

      👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @DevHazy
    @DevHazy 6 місяців тому

    I’m sorry we skipped over the sex offender????

  • @nomgcata7556
    @nomgcata7556 4 роки тому +2

    i love you

  • @macywilson8127
    @macywilson8127 4 роки тому +7

    Hope he didn't rapne someone

    • @carojames6776
      @carojames6776 4 роки тому +6

      There is an elephant in the room that nobody wants to talk about.
      This one I would disown.

    • @DevHazy
      @DevHazy 6 місяців тому

      He did actually

  • @KTSpeedruns
    @KTSpeedruns 4 роки тому +11

    No amount of help or advice you get from Dave will fix stupid. This woman’s brother is going to continue to do stupid, no matter what.

    • @ligerllama
      @ligerllama 4 роки тому

      Reiden Lightman Yep, I was thinking the same thing. Yikes!

    • @debrawilliams7983
      @debrawilliams7983 4 роки тому

      Reiden Lightman You may be right

  • @MyMainMan756
    @MyMainMan756 4 роки тому +1

    ...

  • @deynna45
    @deynna45 4 роки тому +2

    He needs to go work as a private military contractor

    • @elmateo77
      @elmateo77 4 роки тому +5

      Or in the Catholic church

    • @teresayeates3437
      @teresayeates3437 3 роки тому

      With his record I think he could not do either.

  • @jthompson6189
    @jthompson6189 4 роки тому +5

    I don't care how reasonable the story is, no way id let him in my rental. Not worth the risk. Maybe he is a good guy, but what if he ain't.

    • @luvtheLordJesus
      @luvtheLordJesus 4 роки тому

      Craziness...the lady who married him is brave...bwoy

    • @teresayeates3437
      @teresayeates3437 3 роки тому +2

      Not to mention having a child around him.

    • @DevHazy
      @DevHazy 6 місяців тому

      Never

  • @jillwilkerson2032
    @jillwilkerson2032 4 роки тому

    What about co-signing a lease for him?

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 2 роки тому

      Never! Don't do that for anyone! Haven't you ever watched Judge Judy?

    • @loriej9297
      @loriej9297 9 місяців тому

      The problem is the guy is a sex offender - not that he can't afford an apartment. Co-signer won't help with that. Keeping his dick in his pants would have helped but that ship has sailed.

  • @tempestgodx5001
    @tempestgodx5001 4 роки тому +5

    First💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @heididiego3719
    @heididiego3719 4 роки тому +2

    And I put $200 extra biweekly on my principal. Is this ok ?

    • @ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy
      @ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy 4 роки тому

      Putting too much work. I understand what youre trying to do. The extra $200, make sure it goes directly and only to the principal. Stealerships tend to take some and send it to interest as well.

    • @heididiego3719
      @heididiego3719 4 роки тому

      @@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy oh really? Oh man I'm just desperate to get this darn 2017 Nissan Sentra get paid. I've been paying it for exactly 3 yrs and I still owe stupid $19,000 !!!

    • @crose9136
      @crose9136 4 роки тому

      that's fine just keep track that they're applying it to the principle and watch to make sure your balance is going down.

    • @ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy
      @ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy 4 роки тому +2

      Koko Puffs I completely understand your frustration. Wait, how much was the total amount of the car? For a small size sedan that’s pretty high.

    • @Nsingh11
      @Nsingh11 4 роки тому

      Buy used from a reputable dealership or private. 19,000 new car I used that same amount to make a addition on my house and going to rent to 4 students at 400 to 430 a month each person 1600- 1720 take this multiply 16,000 to 17,200 in ten months. Do not buy brand new unless you plan on keeping it forever.

  • @Josh-by9fv
    @Josh-by9fv 3 роки тому +1

    Pretty leanant..........🤔🤔 must be the state of Commnifornia. Where Governor Gavin Newsom will allow this guy to babysit his grandkids.

  • @hkmamacmd428
    @hkmamacmd428 4 роки тому +12

    Wait he's on the SO list?! Sounds like this dude needs to be locked up

    • @marywebb9127
      @marywebb9127 4 роки тому +12

      Maybe he was a victim of the metoo movement!

    • @Rachel31525
      @Rachel31525 4 роки тому +5

      Most SOs don’t get life in prison. Either he didn’t get any time or he’s already served it

    • @hedga001
      @hedga001 4 роки тому +2

      Rachel Dekom Deferred sentence and probation!

    • @cierrahirst9614
      @cierrahirst9614 4 роки тому

      It

  • @RM-sp6tc
    @RM-sp6tc 4 роки тому

    '' Greed or feer''

  • @andrew8168
    @andrew8168 4 роки тому +8

    Getting married is the biggest risk a man takes....

    • @debrawilliams7983
      @debrawilliams7983 4 роки тому +2

      Andrew Women take the risk too you know.

    • @andrew8168
      @andrew8168 4 роки тому +5

      @@debrawilliams7983 at a smaller level. Courts dont enforce laws equally between* the sexes.

    • @debrawilliams7983
      @debrawilliams7983 4 роки тому +1

      J B How? Bunch of baloney

    • @westcoastris9041
      @westcoastris9041 4 роки тому +2

      AMEN BROTHA! Amen!!!!

    • @unknownkansasboy
      @unknownkansasboy 4 роки тому +2

      Facts. I was duped for 10 years

  • @RM-sp6tc
    @RM-sp6tc 4 роки тому +1

    I spend 50k debt on girl that i never met

  • @drcat1337
    @drcat1337 4 роки тому +7

    my dog died like if u agree

  • @PositiveVibesONLY_Channel
    @PositiveVibesONLY_Channel 4 роки тому +2

    1st

  • @glorymanheretosleep
    @glorymanheretosleep 4 роки тому +62

    Your brother is not in a problem of your doing. Let him be.

    • @glorymanheretosleep
      @glorymanheretosleep 4 роки тому +8

      @@crewboy23 Maybe, but that is when you tell him "no".

    • @jill9606
      @jill9606 4 роки тому +4

      Why does it have to be her fault he’s in this mess for her to try to help coach him? The point is that she’s trying to help give him advice, not to take on his burden 🙄

    • @glorymanheretosleep
      @glorymanheretosleep 4 роки тому +4

      @@jill9606 It sounded like she GAVE her advice without his consent. Don't be like that? Also if she is thinking about him and his "problems" then she is being nosey.

    • @glorymanheretosleep
      @glorymanheretosleep 4 роки тому +1

      @Gim Paul Interesting family dynamic you come from. Not one of my siblings would ever help me out financially.

    • @mmidou2093
      @mmidou2093 4 роки тому

      Gim Paul well you accept being that person. I have an uncle who everyone knows not to talk to about money, he cuts anyone who asks him for money. I am setting up myself as that person in my family. My brothers and cousins etc know if they ask me for money, I cut them off for a year or more.