Stop CHASING One Person and Do THIS Instead

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
  • Throughout all forms of media and storytelling, our society is obsessed with the concept of the other half. Half of the songs on the radio are about relationships failing and missing out on what "should've been" or how things "were meant to be". We have stories about princes and princesses, finding your one true person and living happily ever after.
    And while there's nothing wrong with finding a person you really like, these stories have an incredibly damaging effect on our individual expectations of reality. They portray reality as if we are meant to be "half a person" in search of our "other half" that will somehow fix us and make us feel complete.
    In this video, we discuss how this belief is incredibly damaging and contributes to ending far more relationships than it builds. We discuss the importance of REDUCING importance. Of relaxing and not clinging. And how by doing all of these things, you strangely become MORE likely to find the one person you're looking for in the first place!

КОМЕНТАРІ • 37

  • @Qtipz123
    @Qtipz123 23 дні тому +6

    Wow!
    Did I ever need this.
    I recently confessed to my crush of close to over a year how I felt.
    Little did I know, I was "in love" with the idea of her and not the reality of her.
    Time to be whole by myself. Love yourself before loving others.

  • @user-cf8xz2zw5n
    @user-cf8xz2zw5n Місяць тому +17

    Actually, Einstein said "imagination is life's preview for upcoming attractions ". But if one or the other gives up on this idea that was created or lacks faith then it will fail all the time.

  • @nathalielelan8611
    @nathalielelan8611 Місяць тому +27

    People who are familiar with the teachings of Neville Goddard, who want to be conscious manifesters, they know they can have anyone on this planet, because we are all connected through one consciousness.
    It's a fact that we have to fullfill ourselves, we have to love ourselves because we are love, we have to go back to the source (through meditation, breathwork, shadow work...). We can manifest any person because everyone is yourself pushed out (EIYPO, it's the most controversial concept from Neville, because people are afraid of taking someone's free will but in fact no one has free will in your reality. But, it's a must to have a strong self concept, because we manifest through the concept that we have about ourselves. Letting go in the world of conscious manifesting is living in the end. It's living in imagination, no matter what the current circumstances are. If someone wants to be with a specific person, all they have to do is to be in that committed relationship with that person in the imagination and persist in it. Because the external world reflects our inner world. Imagination is the cause, the external world is the result. As Neville stated what is in your imagination is more real than what's in the 3D, therefore, the living in the end should be done in your mind, it's a state of mind. Living in lack is a state of mind, so change the state and your circumstances will be in your favor.
    Hope this is helpful for people who are struggling.

    • @inirzsrh8976
      @inirzsrh8976 Місяць тому +1

      The thing is I always get the person I want but they always leave so I don’t know what to do

    • @nathalielelan8611
      @nathalielelan8611 Місяць тому +2

      @@inirzsrh8976 maybe you get insecure or feeling not good enough when you are in a relationship?

    • @inirzsrh8976
      @inirzsrh8976 Місяць тому +1

      @@nathalielelan8611 possibly yes

    • @phenicelofton6444
      @phenicelofton6444 Місяць тому +1

      Well spoken❤

    • @Biophotogenesis
      @Biophotogenesis Місяць тому

      Does this not contradict the primary message of this video?

  • @jameslucop4503
    @jameslucop4503 26 днів тому

    Andrew - this is so clear and beautiful. You are doing a very very great service to the world. X

  • @Freedomandspice
    @Freedomandspice Місяць тому +6

    I feel called out but it’s all good. 😂❤

  • @JazzToong
    @JazzToong Місяць тому

    WOW DAMN YOU GOT IT ALL RIGHT. YOU WENT ALL THROUGH THE THINGS I WAS THINKING AND NOW I'M ENLIGHTENED. THANK YOU!

  • @hadsena
    @hadsena 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks Andrew for your enthusiasm
    I love listening to your videos and your experience
    It does resonate with me a lt

  • @graciebob753
    @graciebob753 Місяць тому +1

    Love your videos and the way you talk 😊

  • @a.d.b535
    @a.d.b535 Місяць тому +1

    I hope you are not fighting the continuity of relationships (which is a stabilizing force in society). If our parents hadn't settled down with their 'one' more of us would suffer from broken homes.

  • @skincarerainbow4950
    @skincarerainbow4950 7 місяців тому +3

    Very insightful

  • @mellissagalgey8879
    @mellissagalgey8879 2 дні тому

    How did you change your own inner narrative and dialogue

  • @_saraloreti
    @_saraloreti Місяць тому

    Thank you for this video! I need this😊

  • @basil806
    @basil806 Місяць тому

    You're speaking truths.

  • @RobbiJamesVogt
    @RobbiJamesVogt Місяць тому +1

    You’re good!

  • @playlistwedding7806
    @playlistwedding7806 23 дні тому

    Then, dear Andrew,, can you explain what is the task of the left one?
    Ok, make yourself happy alone, change your life etc.
    But I think that it is a misconception from the life coaches:
    Dear left ones: it is not a mistake to feel the way you feel. It is not a mistake to feel love about someone, even she/he left you!
    And i disagree, it is a big deal to be left.

  • @Christina-yr1ru
    @Christina-yr1ru Місяць тому +2

    Very cool! We are all going “whoops!” 😂

  •  Місяць тому

    Ha ha. Brother you're kicking as$

  • @user-kw2bx5fw8v
    @user-kw2bx5fw8v Місяць тому

    Very true

  • @dontcaretochooseone
    @dontcaretochooseone 29 днів тому

    Can't reach that point. I am still needy

    • @EternalTruth2222
      @EternalTruth2222 6 днів тому

      Don’t victimize yourself no one is coming to save you, it has to be you

  • @Jupura2810
    @Jupura2810 3 місяці тому

    This is perfect!❤

  • @eternallyviv
    @eternallyviv Місяць тому +3

    Julien blanc copy paste. Word to word almost. And tonality etc. Stupefied by false prophets all over.

    • @vaishuvj2712
      @vaishuvj2712 Місяць тому +2

      He doesn't get to the point .. just blabbering on n on for 15 mins .saying relax... That's stupid!!!!

    • @lvl18abilities
      @lvl18abilities Місяць тому +1

      @@vaishuvj2712 fr i dont get this shit i dont think i got to the part where he says what to do instead, ive watcehd it like 3 times already, on my 4th watch to see if im being dumb

    • @vaishuvj2712
      @vaishuvj2712 Місяць тому +1

      @@lvl18abilities lol I don't even get how people praise him and keep watching his videos . He's been blabbering for the entire video..repeating...but doesn't give a proper solution...don't worry your not dumb.. he's just useless

    • @lvl18abilities
      @lvl18abilities Місяць тому

      @@vaishuvj2712 fr 😭