Why narcissists will sabotage your relationship
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- Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
- They can’t form intimate connections #narcissistic #narcissism #narcissist
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They want you to be head over hills in love with them, but they are not capable of that kind of love in return.
Mine kept asking if I was in love with them and then threw a huge tantrum when I said no.
They will also sabotage the relationships of people they know.
Bordem is anger for a narc. Bordem should be a huge red flag.
Mission Impossible to save the relationship. Stable=boredom. Boredom leads to chaos, leads to destruction. If you manage to find a way past that sabotage, they turn around and do it again! Only way out,.....RUN!
Yesss!!!
Run like hell.
I got that sometimes growing up from people who have seen me smiling and started a fight or and argument just to snap me out of it (smiling) . For no reason! WTH?!
one of the best videos you ever did
Boredom and anger is so true! Always causing chaos. So glad I am out of that situation now-8 months no contact!
I find this a shocking message, because it opens a new door, a door to the cold hard truth. Rather destroying you and your love, then being bored, can it get anymore empty..
Done after decades of this stupidity. I realize he’s twisted and a torturer and I’ve moved on and away. Hardest part now is the waiting game: divorce. A word thst doesn’t exist in a narcissist’s world if assets are involved.
The great thing is now it's up to the court.
It's easier for me to co-parent with the court than it is for me to co-parent with my ex. Narcissism is a real bitch to deal with.
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Totally
This is The Most SPOT on of all the Videos I have seen n heard ( I Remember in the first few months with my COVERT NARCISSIST GF ) I even asked her ( why she keeps throwing Grenades into our relationship... She was going out of her way to Blow our LOVE up or at least what appeared to be LOVE ( I don't recall I ever got a answer that made any sense ) What I heard was ( It's just a misunderstanding) This was in the very beginning...by the the end of the 3rd month ( I knew everything already ) but obviously I'm stupid because I stayed for 3 more years of Emotional abuse. I learned about ( Covert Narcissist) And realized she was Sick beyond anything that I could do or anyone to help her... + She doesn't want to Change , because she Needs the Control n Manipulation she has over men...any man she seduces into her BED... the rest is easy ,as men are easy to manipulate once a woman sex weapon them. Close to my leaving her she said ( I treat you AWFUL on PURPOSE, because I love you very Much 😳...her Exact words.. If this doesn't indicate Extreme mental ILLNESS , nothing will
You’re not stupid to have stayed 3 more years, I stayed 4 1/2 years (he broke up with me AGAIN 3 weeks ago) they emotionally manipulate and pull us back in especially if there is a trauma bond, they are very good at it and we want to believe it so much
Sorry for your experience I really hope you’re doing ok, it’s so tough to get through
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They are emotionally void. simple
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