Christian If You Want a Healthy Marriage Follow These Tips
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- Опубліковано 7 тра 2021
- A good marriage is hard to come by and in today's times, it seems to be even harder. There is a lot of advice out there on this subject, some is good and some is not so good. After 32 years of being with my husband, serving the Lord for only 28 of those years, raising 4 Children, and weathering many storms, I have a few things I would like to share with anyone who desires to have a stable, long lasting marriage.
Excellent advice! I wish this was taught in our youth! It would save so much heartache...
Totally agree!
Agreed! 18 years married. We do not have opposite gender friends or friend time alone. We are each others friend. If my husband cant go with me i would rather be home with him
I agree. Love does not keep score. We call that fighting dirty. We have a heart to heart and squash those issues and leave them in the past as they are handled peacefully
Hello! I am coming over from searching like channels , homestead vlogs. I have subscribed and look forward to checking out your channel. Nice To Meet You!
Thank you so much for your wisdom and this channel! It has blessed me and we need Godly older women to teach us you get ones who are not married yet. Huge blessing! Thank you so much! God bless you!
Hi Nicole, Thank you for your kind words! So glad it was a blessing! God bless!
I subscribed when you measured out things with your hand in your recipes. Then I saw that you were faith-based as well. Amazing.
I love it! Thanks for sharing that! God's richest blessings to you!
We cut the cable years ago. Dont miss it. My husband like funny home videos. Not reality.
I love your channel I feel comfort listening 🎶 I just wanted to say thank you and that your family's words are a light in the times of darkness may God bless you over and abundantly ❤
Sheena's keto Homestead; thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words! We are so grateful that our videos have been a blessing to you! God's richest blessings to you!
Great marriage skill advice Lea! 👍 💜
Good tips! Thank you for sharing!
I agree with you, wonderful video.
Excellent advice. I can’t think of a thing to add. Thank you.
God bless you and thank you. Kenny and I will be married 36 years in December. We have had our good and bad but we have worked through it and I am so thankful that we both have stayed the course . God has been so good to us and I thank him for seeing us through. God bless you and Ron and may y’all have many more happy and blessed years ahead.
Wonderful excellent advice - thank you Lea :)
I didn’t want you to stop!💗
I’m Sharing this! Thank you so much Lea! Praying for all of you while you’re loving on your mama!🥰 Have a blessed Mother’s Day!💕
Thank you so much!! God's greatest blessings to you my friend!
You have a wonderful godly man. My heart is breaking for a friend whose marriage is ending after thirty nine years. They were thought to be a Christian couple. Unbelievably the husband has been taken over by Satan and he started going on meet up sites and gambling. He has no remorse. So sad.
This kind of wisdom is so hard to find these days! Thank you for sharing with us and making UA-cam a better place while honoring God and his plan for marriage/family life.
So agree and so many go into marriage with the emotions high and the chemical reaction( warm and fuzzy, newlyweds) and when that all wears off you have to work at what you have, it's a daily choice and through prayer, good communication and true love it is such a wonderful thing. Like you said there are dry times and times when one or the other or maybe both are misaligned but with God, prayer and commitment it all can be worked through and your marriage will be better for it. I'm blessed to say that I'm married to my best friend, soulmate and with God we're working on 38 yrs married and have know one another for 41 yrs. Looking forward to the family discussion(s) because we struggle still in this area and feel we've failed in many aspects. Thank you as always for sharing what is on your heart and God Bless you and the family.
Good words for the ladies. Thank you.
Thanks that's helpful that you shared these insights as these days satan is really attacking christians and especially marriages.
I enjoyed your video very much. Great advice. Best was making your marriage God centered and 2nd was the discussion about getting rid of the t.v. Incredibly insightful. Thank you .
I should have KNOWN you were going to say this about the tv... I don’t think my husband would EVER go for this and I’m in deep prayer about some of the shows he watches. Some of them are so baddd and I no I’m no saint either. But he grew up in the Philippines and for him being here is a chance for him and our children to have to have things and experiences he never had and I can SEE with my own eyes the little ways that the devil is constantly trying to get us to hurt heads together and it is SO exhausting. I only know of one show I really am even ok with my kids watching on Netflix and that’s veggie tales lol it has some Bible verses in it here and there and tries to teach lessons but
Everything else is trying to teach my babies everything else I’m trying to re condition my mind to turn away from bc I’m trying to grow in my faith. If you see these could you say a prayer for me and my family please. I know God has plans for me and pray he will use me to be the light in my family and to teach my babies but these are definitely crazy times that leave me sometimes feeling defeated. Everyday I need to pray for strength
Hi Lea (seldom do I meet someone with the same spelling as mine :) ) I truly feel for your plight. Keep praying, God is faithful and when we seek his ways, he opens doors that we never dreamed of. I know it is a heavy load but if you could keep your children occupied with reading or play or helping you while your husband watches stuff, that could be an option. Also, I don't know your communication relationship with your husband but maybe you could speak with him of your concern for the children of what he watches and that you don't want to take that from him but maybe you could create a designated area for him to watch whatever and whenever he wants but at the same time keeping the children from it. Maybe he could wear headphones as well so not only are the children not seeing it but not hearing it. I know that some would be resistant to either suggestion and so then the responsibility falls on you again. Could you provide your children with some form of device with headphones so they could watch stuff approved by you in another room while your husband watches what he wants? Whatever the case, i would encourage you to talk to your children (depending on the ages) of the importance of picking wisely what they watch. While not using their father as an example of what they shouldn't watch, let them know that what Daddy watches isn't healthy for little mines but again, don't create a divide with their father and them. Please keep in mind, how you approach that is very important because you don't want them to have a negative image of their father nor do you want him to get upset with you on what you say to the children. But for your children you can be the example by not watching but picking other things to do at that time and training them to do the same. Pray conviction upon your husband for your families sake but don't get impatient while the Lord works things out. Show love and not distain, and just be an example. You and your family are in our prayers!
@@ArtisanAcre Thankyou so much for this again!! I know nothing is impossible with our creator but my husband now currently thinks I’ve lost my mind and so does my family. They think I need mental help and my step dad even said if I don’t “water down,” my beliefs so to speak my dad and uncle have been talking about trying to get me committed. But they’re on the west coast. I understand about your replies being late I don’t mind at all bc well life is life I don’t expect everyone to be plugged in 24/7 especially you and your family. My husband also keeps bringing divorce however and I can do my best to just submit and everything but the more I grow in my faith (I’m obv not perfect,) the more and more it seems like everything he’s ok with or encourages is everything we are not supposed to be ok with. However like u mentioned before I have a lot of praying to do.. this won’t be easy and if he keeps bringing up divorce I feel like he wants one. Idk if the LORD could be telling me it’s ok to let go bc maybe life would be easier for me to walk in the truth or if that’s just the devil trying to breach my thoughts. There’s a lot of yelling and verbal abuse that goes on and I’ve been a part of it in the past too.. I try not to do that now and just keep my mouth shut while being battered with insults spleen at me but I know it could be worst. I don’t know if I should just keep pushing forward and humble myself like a daughter of Sarah or if that’s not what is implied or not. Either way it brings me comfort knowing y’all actuall do read these comments ❤️
@@blessedsuburbanmamma7062 have you talked to him about how hurtful the insults are when things calm?
I think the divorce is from what he has been watching.
Please cut out the TV shows when he isn't home and or the kids and ask him to please watch his shows in the evening and you move the kids to their rooms then. Reorganise the evening routine so you sit with them and teach them in some of the evenings. You can even do board games.
Thankyou❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️💞
You’re welcome 😊!
my marriage of 48 years i put my family first chris as not put one day in are life as a gamekeeper in the uk hard work trust love is what you need
Lea, How can I send you a private message?
Hi Denise, inheritthepast@gmail.com is our email.
Put your wife above your own ego and YOU will be fine. Humans are an absolute disaster when it comes to judging character and it will manifest itself early on in the marriage. Preparing yourself for your second marriage may be harder than the one you just left.
Hi Ray; it truly is simple isn't it!? However because we are humans, it is so hard....or at least we make it that way. Simply put others before self, just as the Lord did when he robed himself in flesh. Thanks for watching!