Games Your Ex Plays When They Want You Back
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- Опубліковано 21 лип 2024
- In this video, we discuss the mixed messages and indirect ways that exes communicate to you when they are in the process of reconsidering the relationship. Understanding the ways that they can put you on hold can help you to protect yourself from confusion and disappointment.
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Expect games from an individual who does NOT know what they want. In the end, never be an option to someone who does NOT put you first.
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Games 🙄 just stay focused on your health goals and what you want for yourself! It'll all work out
Simple. People don’t play games on the the people they love.
This is EXACTLY what my ex is doing.
Broke up 4.5 months ago, 4 months NC.
She reached out after 29 days saying basically “i miss you so much and not talking to you is so tough but sorry i’m not ready”. I told her that’s fine, that being friends is not good enough for me, and she can let me know if she changes her mind.
65 days later she reached out again with the “i can’t stop thinking about you” messages, so i asked her if she wanted to get together, cook some dinner, catch up. She turned me down again, saying she was busy and it’s not that she didn’t want to, and that when things get less busy she’d love to. But she didn’t reschedule (but lots of small talk around that). Again, i acted like that’s fine with me, and she told me “you’re in my heart, you know this.” I reiterated that friendship wasn’t good enough for me, and couldn’t she see she was giving me mixed signals? I told her I’m trying to move on with my life and if she ever gets to a place where she wants to genuinely try again, she can message me, and we’ll see where i’m at. She apologised, said that i’m right and it’s not fair, and that “next time i reach out it’ll be for only one reason. I’ll be back soon”.
It feels so manipulative - i’m genuinely trying to move on with my life and she keeps getting there to try and stop me from doing that while being unable to commit to me. It feels like the grief process of the breakup just resets every time.
It really hurts, but if she does it again, i will tell her that it was amazing knowing her, that i will always cherish her, but that it’s time to part for good, and I hope she has a wonderful life.
It’s now been 29 days since she last reached out, and I’m emotionally drained.
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Practically the same thing I’m going through with my ex. Just slightly different. My ex reached out a little after two months saying she missed talking to me. I asked her when she was free to talk (long distance relationship). Twice she told me she would let me know. A week after that she texted me basically mad that I haven’t reached out since the breakup and told me she wasn’t attracted to me anymore. She broke up with me. I told her that the reason I haven’t reached out was because I wasn’t respecting her decision. I reiterated that I’m not interested in being just friends. That I missed her and her daughter but I can’t move on if I remain just her friend in the hopes that one day it changes. It wouldn’t be fair to either one of us. She replied back a couple of hours later with just “okay”. The next morning I woke up to 3 texts basically saying that she isn’t attracted to me anymore, I need to move on, there’s no future for us and she’s not the one for me. Told me to have a good one. That happened on Sunday. I haven’t replied back cause I don’t know what to say to something like that. Then yesterday she sends me a post on Instagram. It’s like wtf.
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I want to hear more about avoidants avoiding wanting you in their lives, but don't want to get attached, because that will make the inevitable abandonment affect us. Like, don't get attached to a puppy if you're not keeping it, and don't name an animal that you have to slaughter. It makes it hard to lose them. You kind of brought it up, but I'd like a video specifically about this.
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You guy's are simply wonderful, thank you!
All of these signs were on point with my LDR situation. Definitely gonna watch this more than once to really soak my brain with this knowledge. It truly is making my anxiety go down a bit. Thanks for always being a big help to me and everyone else out there 👊
Same here... I'm in LDR and same things happening with my ex... Do you respond to his texts or ignore?
@@Fitlover24 Well as Coach Craig says, if they reach out you shouldn't ignore them because they're at least making an effort to message you. They could honestly be doing something else with their time if they wanted to. But if they decide to give time to text you. Then that's a good sign. Cause in my opinion, if someone really doesn't care anymore. Then they would do whatever it takes to get rid of you in their life. Then they wouldn't give any time of day to talk to you at all.
@@DualShot so so kind of you to reply with a thoughtful answer.... That really helps to clear my confusion .. Thx a million for this... And I truly pray you the best results in your situation too....
The worst thing is being in a on again and off again relationship.. When both keep saying it's over,yet somehow finding a way to continue contact in some way, even after weeks or a month of no contact..Then trying to be so called friends, that always gets twisted... 😭
The absolute worst. Not knowing why it's not working or why it's not ending. Aaarrgh 😕
Best not to stay friends
Yeah it is on point. It's happening to me now. Thanks for this another great video. I keep watching your videos, at night in bed for me to fall asleep (😁) because it comforts me, and in the morning while preparing going to work to keep inspiring me😊. You 3 are the BEST 👌😘
True that
Thank you Craig, Margaret and Victoria ☺you are keeping me sane during this very difficult situation in my life. (Without knowing what is NO CONTACT) I went auto-NO CONTACT after my boyfriend broke up with me- no begging, pleading and really no contact directly after he broke up with me (going 5 yrs of relationship) for his parents, I am way too hurt and not having the energy to beg and plead .. or even kneel.... I thought I was too mean by doing so but you all had given light that NO CONTACT is the rightful thing to do, it sucks and its brutal but if not because of it I would never knew how strong I am. I do want him back, If its meant to be it will be. MORE GREAT VIDEOS PLEASE. 💞💕💓❣
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Please make a follow up video on what to do when exes play these games! Love the videos!
Ignore them…. It is manipulation when they do this stuff.
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Excellent content. Very helpful and it keeps me in check. Thank you.
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Earlier this year my ex was trying to get me to reach out to her by 1st talking to someone I know and mentioning they had mutual friends knowing that it would get back to me 2nd she unblocked me on fb AGAIN 3rd added a song to my list on spotify. I didn’t budge and still haven’t spoken to her.
Brilliant coaches, these are exactly same things happening with me, I'm in LDR, my ex keeps reaching out on n off ,sometimes being warm and then vanishes... I'm so so confused
Did they Rebound?
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A girl I dated for a couple months reached back out to me after 3 months of NC talking about a yogurt I introduced to her when we dated. I referenced the yogurt and asked how she has been. She replied and then I did saying I’d love to hear more about it and she should come to my place for dinner this weekend. She said she was busy with work and I said cool, figure out your schedule and let me know. She took over a day to respond and then told me she still just wants to be friends. So, I reiterated that I want her more than a platonic relationship and to reach out if she changes her mind.
Not exactly sure how to take this. I kind of get the feeling she is hardcore testing me right now to see if I’ll chase and be needy (I was needy when we dated).
I went into NC after she said we were done. The interesting part was I wasn’t begging for her to come back into the relationship but during our conversation she kept trying to instigate the argument saying we’re done multiple times and left me on read when I said “I understand and respect your decision.I love you and hope you can find what makes you happy and if you change your mind you know where to find me. I’m going to focus on my dream.” It’s been two weeks since I’ve heard from her and idk what to do🤷♂️
Stay strong.. I’ve been watching a lot of these videos for 6 months since my girlfriend broke up with me by text .. its heartbreaking - but have to accept they may never come back.. I think mine has gone completely
Any update?
I'm in same situation.
Focus on your dream, never mind her.
Update?
I am moving on from my ex I had to block him from everything. He sent me a friend request on Facebook three days after we ended. I truly am doing it for myself and I have never had the urge to text him and I work with him. He is talking to a new girl three weeks after we dated and Ik he’s sad. The first two weeks he was and the third week he was happy because of the girl I knew right away. So proud of myself for how I’m doing move on guys most exes don’t truly care unless they show it through their actions. Just focus on you, my ex I found out still has me on snap after a month because I think I blocked him even though he doesn’t watch my stories I know he’s holding on. This is what makes me stronger we are worth so much more
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If ex is confused about wanting you or not then the relationship died. Its over.
It was once great but didn't survive so why would it work a 2nd time?
Move on
Hi Craig
My ex saw me with an ex who she hates but got the complete wrong end of the stick. She saw me with a friend at a table in a bar and assumed that I met up with her when really she just came and said hi. My ex has be blocked on social media and I do stalk her tik tok as she makes videos about me. I think she’s seeing someone else but she still seemed to be angry about me with another girl in a bar as she replied to my friend picture that he posted saying “loooooool” when looking at her tik tok comment section she had a conversation with a friend about the fact that I was with a girl that my ex hates saying that “he wanted another chance with me and then went out with the girl who he told me he’d never get with” she’s completely seen the situation in the wrong light. I want to give things another go and I don’t want her to be angry and hate me. I feel like I should make contact with her to explain things but then she will know I stalk her tik tok. Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks
Craig please talk more about LDR.
They don't play games sometimes because they're confused you need to be more elaborate it's because your feeding the ego , pride , and they don't have to do much and they'll be w/everyone but YOU !
Well my ex says shes doesn't want me then stalks my fb stories been no contact i messed up yesterday an i reached out to see if she still cared an told her i was goin to start talkin to other people instead of letting her reach out like i have been but i did find out she hasnt moved on tho
My ex tried to make me jealous with her rebound on social media and a few months later she contacted my brother. She still has a lot of my clothing. Two pictures of her wearing one of my hoodies (transitional object) still on her social media (three years later!) Blocking and unblocking on social media is a BIG one. Another thing my ex did. It shows that they are wrestling with their emotions and their feelings for you. My ex is VERY rejection sensitive, hence the hesitation in making direct contact.
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Hi coaches, can you do a video on long distance relationship break ups? There are so many videos saying that we should keep in touch with our exes to get them back. What do you think about this? Does NC work with long distance break ups? Thank you!
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Hello Coach Craig. My Ex Gf a week ago posted a story that was directed towards me. We broke up 7 months ago and It was a very rough bad breakup. Lots of yelling and anger. She posted a story about an incident that we had. Not a very good incident actually. Made it seem like i’m a bad guy. She didn’t use my name, but pinned the location and was very descriptive verbiage about the incident. Should Ignore it? I’ve had several of our common Friends reach out to me about it
I think thats exactly what she is doing. After a month of disappearance sees me add a woman, women liking my posts. Then starts liking my posts. So I reach out and now she ignores me. I think she is keeping me at a leash end. In the month and a half we dated she would tell me that men would hit on her but she was with me. I am so angry she played me. I fell in love with her. I am thinking of removing her from my social media and blocking her. Now I am in the angry stage
Mine isn’t playing any games any more.. she breadcrumbed me for a bit - but now completely gone and not answering any emails
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Yesterday, My ex popped on a ceremony I had with my friends. She left an item and wanted to take it today. She wanted us to meet at a location she suggested, but told her to meet me where I was. She is the one who contacted me, I didn't initiate any contact. Did I fall for her bait?
10:58 this makes sense honestly. Like, one day my ex is asking to FaceTime, double texting, and flirting w me like crazy… and then 2 days later when I ask if she wants to get lunch, she says she doesn’t think it’s a good idea and that she’s only comfortable with occasionally texting… but then double texts again when I don’t respond to that and continues to look at my insta story every night before she goes to bed.
women are a headache. Why do we bother with them?
If Craig or somebody else could give me an opinion of this I would be grateful. My ex broke up with me one week ago. I have made No Contact from day one. Not a single message or anything. Today is his birthday, I haven't congratulated him. We have a mutual friend on FB, I congratulated her, he probably saw that. And now he had unfriended me on FB. The reason he broke up with me is he said that we were too different (extrovert/introvert) and that it could not work for him. And also, he is a good looking guy who is probably used to women going after him, and he was the one who pursued the relation and told me he loved me from the start. I wonder, is my silence (no problem for me as an introvert) bother him so much? Is he playing games?
So my ex dumps me 39 days ago via text. One week before my birthday. So I stated I didn’t want a platonic friendship while leaving the door open. Went no contact. We went on a date two weeks ago. It went very well (so I thought). When I dropped her off she admitted that she kept intentionally putting off me getting the remainder of my stuff. She reached out two more days and then pretty much disappeared!! With the exception of commenting on a few Facebook posts. Which I put no stock into. It’s emotionally painful to me!! It is really difficult. I have continued to leave her alone though.
She wants to get one over on you is all. If someone leaves you they don't deserve you! You fell into the trap of her hurting you it gives her power to pull another fast one on you and she evilishly walks away with more power so she thinks. In reality it will go bad for her at some point for being evil like that. Don't let it happen again. Hopefully she never shows up again so that u never have to deal with her unstable trickery again. Let it go it's not strong minded to be with a weak minded individual who will only bring u down instead of lift u up. She's toxic 🏃♂️ run. And if she does pop up again... ignore her block her. Get your power back.
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Okay a important question I have, that not any dating coaches have really addressed is:
What if an ex follows us on social media?
(1): if our account is public do we follow them back
(2): if our account is private do we allow the request or deny it, and do we follow them back
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Why does my Ex girlfriend blocks and unblocks a lot of times?
She umblocks me, I give her no attention and i will blocked for the next 4 weeks!!
I do not understand what she really wants?
The breakup was at 2.6.21… what should I do ??
What about, "I'm not happy and need to work on myself. I don't want to be together but im not asking for a divorce." And say you don't have to leave. (Married for 10 years)
Hi Coaches! Last week, I was at an estate sale and my ex girlfriend was there. I had not seen her in two years. It was not a good break up. She did some really nasty things to after we broke up. Since there she has had an off and on boyfriend. To make a long story short, she saw me main in the main living room, When I saw her I casually left to the back yard. She followed me out there, I stayed a minute then left to the garage. She then followed me to the garage. I then left and got in line to pay for some items. She then came over to the line and stood about two feet from me pretending to look at an items on the table. She stood there for about two minutes. I never looked her way, nor did she say anything. She finally left. What do you think her intentions were? It was obvious she was following me around. Your help would be appreciated. Thank you.
she wanted you to talk ,what's happened since?
I recently changed my profile photo after 3 months, my ex decided to change his to an old photo of him and his gf (last Christmas) right after I changed mine.
I can’t help but think that it’s on purpose because he’s done it before and admitted to doing it just to make me jealous.
My ex texted me after 8 months of NC, asking for pics of our dog.. I was also contacted by a mutual friend who had warned me that him and his rebound broke up and he was talking about me & would probably reach out. And he did. I didn’t even address him or acknowledge him, I just simply sent him what he asked for which was a couple pics of the dog.. it’s been 24 hours and he hasn’t replied.. was that tooo harsh?
What happened since? He was testing the waters
If somebody could answer my question, I would appreciate it. My ex threw it in my face that she was using Reddit for finding places for a date to go on with somebody. This came up because she was triggered seeing a Reddit notification on my phone. She started it off by playing stupid like “do you what Reddit is?” And I didn’t know what the point of the question was, so I just brushed it off. But she brought it up again and she was like “the reason I bring it up is because bro you can literally ask ANYTHING on there”. To which I responded, “ok, such and such, what kind of questions have you been asking…..? 🙄”. I just felt like she was trying to throw it in my face to see what my reaction would be. Why else would you be triggered and why else would you bring it up twice if you weren’t trying to get to that point?
Explanation for the hang out: she wanted to be “friends” but of course was trying to reap all the benefits of having somebody around to validate her looks and feelings without the commitment 😂😂😂😂. ANYBODY WHO BEEN DEMOTED TO THIS POSITION…. RUN FOR THE HILLS AND DONT LOOK BACK, YOU ARE FREE!!!!!!
What if your ex watched every single day , every minute of the day for two months but then suddenly stop? Does that mean they are trying to move on ?
He have girlfriend and he wants me to be her friend he dont want me to cut our contacts but its so much pain if i see them on socialmedia if its ok i block him?🥺
It been almost 2 months since my ex broke up with me. And her things are still at my place. She did not even talked about getting them. What could that mean? Does leaving her things in my place mean anything at all?
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My ex still has my keys. I told him, he can send it to me, but he wants to give them in person. We have been on and for the keys more then three times in the last two weeks, but he always flaks the last minute.
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It's been a week since my ex dumped me, he's been saying he wants us to meet then I bring his things, I told him he'll have to come pack himself, I was still hurting too much so he'd send texts every second day to ask if I'm home so that he can come take his things. So last night after watching your videos I decided to accept reality then he doesn't want me anymore, so I texted him I'll be home Saturday you can come take ur things, 😲he didn't reply. So I'm confused he was asking for his things the whole week now he ignores the text to come fetch them. I want him to take his things so that I can start no contact and work on myself. I still want him back though but for now I want to give him his space and I work on myself.
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Give an ultimatum: you’ll come in 48 hours to take your stuff or they’ll go to trash. Or ask a mutual friend to take them away.
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My ex I think he make account lesbian. 😅 All the time he speak I am girl and I love you. He know if he send me like boys I not talk I just block boys. M thinking how much he claver.
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Be yourself and don’t talk about age, aging, stupid stuff like this. Don’t ask if she met other” young” guys. Don’t put uncomfortable questions, have fun and let her be herself as well. Older women are cool and relaxed🥰
My ex show up with his girlfriend across at our friend house about 1 week ago he was holding her hand making sure l saw them l did not let it brother me at all my ex is using his girlfriend to get to me l am in no contact with my ex our son is still hurt and will not spend time with his dad she is always there and for what he did to our family our family is broken up its so sad
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That's horrible Lynette wish I could help
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Hi Craig my ex called me about ten days ago after 6moths of n/c she was a bit drunk but said she want to talk but I said ok nothing since!
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There are plenty of fish in the sea and my ex-girlfriend still hates me
It sucks when you gave that last ounce of breath and they took it granted… It sucks… Who does that?? The survivors ALWAYS overcome…
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My ex and I broke up July 15th. I’ve been in no contact for 22 days. He completely ignores me everyday and acts like he doesn’t see me. On Friday, he saw me with another guy. It was just a friend but he didn’t know that. The next day, I walk by his car, he rolls down the window and is blaring our love song. I looked up at him and smiled and kept walking. He smiled back. Once seeing him inside, he is back to his usual ignoring me and avoiding me. He did the same again today. What do I make of this?
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Gosh. This is exactly what was being happening to me 😄
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Ha, his momma loves me more than he wants me gone. I just got back from a picture perfect trip to Colorado with his momma in a cranberry red Stingray Corvette and his Aunt, Uncle, and Grams took us out to their rent mansion in Estes Park and we got to be obnoxious tourists in the May snow storm! 🤣 His family invited me back and his momma told me I'm her daughter-in-law nevermind he never married me. His loss, my gain. I've got his family, my family, and he can be alone.
Im tired of it! Calling 2 times i dont answer cause im busy! Then i tex back and she says " dont want nothing! Im getting upset were as before the lsst month leaving her alone being nice when she calls etc...but now im getting pist off at this childish behavior! What do i do now???
What a pain in the ass this is
Sorry, no such clinical diagnosis as a nervous breakdown.
Did we say there was?
@@CoachCraigKenneth Margaret mentioned it in this video, if I m not mistaken, no problem..
She mentioned it in every day kind of conversation. I can assure you, Margaret knows the DSM and diagnosis better than the people who wrote it
Dang you look tired in this video lol
WORRIED TOO MUCH ABOUT GETTING HIS EX BACK!!😂