Men's Rights vs Feminism: Is Toxic Masculinity Real? | Middle Ground

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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  5 років тому +21904

    Hey Goodhumans, we hope you enjoy this episode and we hope it sparks meaningful & productive dialogue in your lives, as well as here in the comments. To keep up with what we're doing and for episode sneak peeks, follow us on Instagram! instagram.com/jubileemedia

    • @DreamlandRoses
      @DreamlandRoses 5 років тому +1905

      I think having an Incel to represent Men's rights activism, isn't exactly the best thing.

    • @ms.flowers1049
      @ms.flowers1049 5 років тому +424

      Jubilee pathetic

    • @superskullmaster
      @superskullmaster 5 років тому +1175

      Jubilee having that incel on was a mistake. That kind of man is an issue. The other 2 however have a good grip on men’s rights but you should also have had a black man on there because there are men’s rights issues in the black community that should have been brought to the light.

    • @agentpiggles6685
      @agentpiggles6685 5 років тому +594

      when one of the feminist said she would laugh at mens rights thats honestly disgusting that just shows how toxic feminism is

    • @jomaldotco
      @jomaldotco 5 років тому +233

      You literallly picked men that knows nothing

  • @novalidavenport1994
    @novalidavenport1994 4 роки тому +4922

    Every time Derek said the words “even women”, the camera did an Office style pan over people’s faces because they are grossed out

    • @cyborgninja5489
      @cyborgninja5489 4 роки тому +23

      It's because the left is the master of optics. They present "their truth" instead of an objective reality.

    • @dylanmiller1140
      @dylanmiller1140 4 роки тому +2

      American Son yah nothing is wrong wi he presenting your opinion as you are doing here. Yes people with beliefs will present opinions that’s not a conspiracy theory. If you made this video it would have a heavy right slant, and that’s ok.

    • @simonjaz1279
      @simonjaz1279 4 роки тому +2

      @Jason Tang yeah but um...equity for what exactly? They get what they work for as do men

    • @cyborgninja5489
      @cyborgninja5489 4 роки тому +1

      Jason Tang Preach!

    • @DemonsCrest1
      @DemonsCrest1 4 роки тому +2

      ​@@simonjaz1279
      *yeah but um...equity for what exactly? They get what they work for as do men*
      When feminists say they want "gender equality" they want "equal outcomes" (achieved by treating the sexes unequally). MRAs want "equal treatment" and believe that since women and men are equal, both sexes should be treated the same.

  • @missinglegs
    @missinglegs 5 років тому +129522

    Watching a discussion that you're not able to take part in is the most frustrating thing ever...

    • @claudiabenedito2928
      @claudiabenedito2928 5 років тому +9028

      i wanted to shout at my screen so many times

    • @Ashutok
      @Ashutok 5 років тому +1586

      Same

    • @DominicOrnelas
      @DominicOrnelas 5 років тому +2417

      Great way to practice listening, but I agree!!!

    • @eagle3676
      @eagle3676 5 років тому +1337

      @pawtatuh e3e Some of the women were annoying as well. I don't need you to protect me. Why scream that? The guy was making a very different point

    • @1memeyboi246
      @1memeyboi246 5 років тому +232

      @@eagle3676 big brain jk I agree with you

  • @NexusKing1
    @NexusKing1 5 років тому +141097

    There's 3 groups in this discussion
    1. Men Rights
    2. Feminists
    3. Derrick

    • @ranyl7744
      @ranyl7744 5 років тому +5703

      I see one group. Uneducated people.

    • @jirenthegrey3782
      @jirenthegrey3782 5 років тому +2781

      @@ranyl7744 true I wasted 10 mins of my precious life in this

    • @dub814
      @dub814 5 років тому +698

      No Admiral Ackbar, It's a trap!

    • @jackisawesome3
      @jackisawesome3 5 років тому +2789

      Derrick just came right out with that degree in incel, jesus.

    • @rayensabandar8392
      @rayensabandar8392 5 років тому +1071

      Well, I understand where Derrick is coming from. I mean, he said that he was very traditional and if we were really talking about the old times like when men would really try everything to get a women. They would go and buy them flowers, they would pay the meal on their date, they would compete with other men because they really do like that woman, they would always be there for the woman, they won't cheat on their wife and kids. They would really be their guards (wife and kids) if there was a burglar entering the house or they met a mugger on the street, men would go and work for their family and the women would stay and raise their kids until they grow up. But now, men doesn't compete and give the best that they can to women, some would just rather catcall the women and force the woman to like them and go home with them. That's not toxic masculinity, those men doesn't have any type of masculinity in them. We cannot go and say that those men are masculine. Derrick just wants men to be what they used to be, a caring and protective people that they should be

  • @Aiibh
    @Aiibh 9 місяців тому +2513

    I can't believe "Men and woman are different but equal" is an actual prompt. Like that is BASIC humanity 😭😭.

    • @Honeydewcrisp
      @Honeydewcrisp 8 місяців тому +109

      Exactly. Asian guy’s definition makes no sense. “Im not saying one is superior” that is the definition of inequality.

    • @Sekoishere
      @Sekoishere 8 місяців тому +97

      @@Honeydewcrispso are you ignorant or defiant because you completely missed what he said he said there not equal is in what there suited for but equal as humans but fundamentally they do different thing but still make up that even 50%

    • @eggchomp
      @eggchomp 7 місяців тому +37

      @@SekoishereWhy do you think the phrasing of the question was “different but equal”? It already accounted for those differences

    • @Viewable11
      @Viewable11 7 місяців тому +11

      You are not aware that the words "different" and "equal" are mutually exclusive because they mean the exact opposite. George Orwell introduced this way of abusing language in his novel "1984". Orwell named it "Doublethink": to simultaneously hold to mutually exclusive opinions on a topic. shaping these thought into words builds "Doublespeak", e.g. "war is peace".

    • @Honeydewcrisp
      @Honeydewcrisp 7 місяців тому +22

      @@Viewable11 i figure what they meant more accurately would be equity. Men and women are both needed in society, we cannot live without the other. They are needed in different things and are therefore equal in that sense

  • @saltysloth6814
    @saltysloth6814 4 роки тому +11533

    can’t get over how done the three women look every time Derrick talks

    • @kjobful
      @kjobful 4 роки тому +107

      Because women are attracted to men with more testosterone which is why the Asian guy is getting his point across more without interruptions. Women and men treat the more attractive people better. Derrick makes many valid points but the women don’t like him being the one to bring them up. Lol

    • @kumozumo
      @kumozumo 4 роки тому +745

      kjobful why are you comparing a debate to... attraction? like it literally doesn’t have anything to do. Btw a lot, and when i say a lot i mean a LOT of women are attracted to women so like, your point?

    • @saltysloth6814
      @saltysloth6814 4 роки тому +348

      kjobful pretty sure Bea was pretty open to what Derrick was saying... the only reason you can tell they don’t like what he’s saying is not because of his looks, but because he literally stated that he doesn’t believe men and women should be equal... how is that a valid point?? he really thinks men are superior to women, claiming that kids aren’t equals to adults.. probably the worst analogy to use. also, the two other men i would say had valid points when it came across divorce trials and custody over children because i could understand an argument like that, but derrick is on a whole other level that’s just completely one sided.

    • @kjobful
      @kjobful 4 роки тому +22

      salty sloth women historically have been treated like kids and babied by society since the beginning of time which is what has led to women having this extreme sense entitlement in western cultures. So him comparing them to children is more spot on than women would like to admit. My only knock on his statement is he didn’t provide and evidence to back his statement. And there is OVERWHELMING evidence to back that statement/comparison. And to be clear I don’t support feminism or mgtow both are capitalist funded movements to keep men and women fighting. But the non emotional dialogue is extremely healthy.

    • @saltysloth6814
      @saltysloth6814 4 роки тому +167

      kjobful okay... but maybe women don’t want to be “babied”? women also don’t want to be compared to children, simple as that. yeah, maybe we have been because we weren’t aloud the same privileges as white males, but still. derrick wants to go back to where males were highly superior to women, that’s why they don’t like what he’s saying.

  • @jellythejellyfish7035
    @jellythejellyfish7035 4 роки тому +4551

    I saw everyone talking bout how they hate Derrick and I was like who's Derrick, then I saw the men walk in and it was all clear.

    • @filmsbysarah596
      @filmsbysarah596 4 роки тому +16

      Jelly the jellyfish ikr lol 😂

    • @ethanpurple3872
      @ethanpurple3872 4 роки тому +2

      Same😂

    • @diadiaa892
      @diadiaa892 4 роки тому +5

      oh he's most likely saying that bc after a female heard the words coming out of his mouth, they made the right decision and waled away.

    • @alice-vg2kh
      @alice-vg2kh 4 роки тому +37

      Bro same. I skipped to the middle and I was expecting to be confused trying to find out who's Derrick, but I knew it the moment I saw him

    • @annyaw6233
      @annyaw6233 4 роки тому +1

      Jelly the jellyfish LITEEALLY

  • @a.a9021
    @a.a9021 4 роки тому +54138

    This comment section taught us: it's not Men vs Women, it's Men and Women vs Derrick

    • @sarahh5604
      @sarahh5604 4 роки тому +510

      😂

    • @behising5193
      @behising5193 4 роки тому +783

      They all agreed that men and woman should be working together, as shown here we totally can, but i think a big problem is that they are trying to change one side of the medal without touching it all(maby a bad excample?) because both sides got problems and both sides got advantages, so its just them flipping the coin all the time instead of bringing it together like some human rights movement? Thats at least what I see from this video its just them telling each other both sides got their issues to deal with, like anyone who ever wasin a relationship for mor than a month knows(explains Derricks standpoint :P). Comming from a man dunno how that helps but thats my thought on it.

    • @tarrinawatson7933
      @tarrinawatson7933 4 роки тому +908

      I haven’t watched the whole video yet but I’m going to guess Derrick is the guy in the yellow.
      Edit: Yehp, that’s definitely him.

    • @christinedrummond4040
      @christinedrummond4040 4 роки тому +316

      I cringed at a lot of what he was saying, but also when Kursat kept insisting men was a class. Oof.

    • @Deeedayy
      @Deeedayy 4 роки тому +71

      Christine Drummond ok buddy, they both were actually making valid points and shutting down a lot of the feminists invalid points. But as a woman you probably instinctively side with the other women and blindly disagree with the other sides points just because they are not women.

  • @ButWhySeventeen
    @ButWhySeventeen 5 місяців тому +681

    I'm going to be honest I would have refused to shake Derrick's hand regardless of which side I was on

    • @thestvr
      @thestvr 4 місяці тому +14

      You're so real for saying thattt

    • @ilovewhippedcremß
      @ilovewhippedcremß 3 місяці тому +6

      Omg tru

    • @leomajor88
      @leomajor88 2 місяці тому +9

      Same. He looks like a chronic master debater.

    • @SunIsLost
      @SunIsLost 20 днів тому

      Yep

  • @darkone6189
    @darkone6189 4 роки тому +2388

    You can see the frust on everyone's face when derrick speaks , like not only from the feminist side but from the MA side too , they are like "why gotta open you mouth"

    • @darkone6189
      @darkone6189 4 роки тому +3

      @Angry Egalitarian facts

    • @umamifan
      @umamifan 4 роки тому +5

      derrick just committed suicide because of all the hate he got... rip

    • @sdbzfan1
      @sdbzfan1 4 роки тому +5

      @@umamifan is there an article for that I wanna see

    • @khaledbayado6983
      @khaledbayado6983 4 роки тому +1

      @@umamifan wait fr??

    • @somnosultanate4314
      @somnosultanate4314 4 роки тому +9

      @@umamifan hopefully thats true

  • @svetxo
    @svetxo 4 роки тому +870

    oh God, the way Derrick looks at those women and says things with a sarcastic undertone like 100% of sure I CAN'T

    • @dragonfly56flyswatter97
      @dragonfly56flyswatter97 4 роки тому +10

      So true It was Cringe hearing him say all that face to face with a Feminist saying that online with a comment is a Different statement

    • @sheeshdhhshd1980
      @sheeshdhhshd1980 2 роки тому +2

      He’s embarrassing like when he laughed when they stepped up on the first question. Also of course he had to look like that.

  • @josephforesta1276
    @josephforesta1276 4 роки тому +1900

    i haven’t seen a single comment that wasn’t about derrick

    • @eliesh3833
      @eliesh3833 4 роки тому +41

      Including yours, ironically enough.

    • @angelwashere4259
      @angelwashere4259 4 роки тому +3

      I have

    • @angelwashere4259
      @angelwashere4259 4 роки тому +3

      But was hard to find

    • @parkerasel8129
      @parkerasel8129 3 роки тому

      @@angelwashere4259 hi chrollo want to have dinner and discuss Hisoka?

    • @notevenhuman8141
      @notevenhuman8141 3 роки тому

      Check my comment. Derrick does suck but videos like this beed to have comment sections about the bigger picture

  • @ythunter4288
    @ythunter4288 5 місяців тому +255

    The men's side was very understanding and the women's side as well. Then, you have Derrick.

    • @nevergiveupbaby1720
      @nevergiveupbaby1720 4 місяці тому

      Mens side a bunch of sexists

    • @aaraiznadeem1321
      @aaraiznadeem1321 3 місяці тому +15

      " you came in with your little research" thats what you call understanding lol

    • @alexa7437
      @alexa7437 2 місяці тому +7

      “Why do you need a whole men’s rights movement?”
      That doesn’t sound very understanding

    • @엄복순-i6n
      @엄복순-i6n 2 місяці тому +4

      @@alexa7437but why do you?

    • @alexa7437
      @alexa7437 2 місяці тому +5

      @@엄복순-i6n watch the video and listen to what Kursat actually said and you’ll understand.

  • @jeanageertgens6723
    @jeanageertgens6723 4 роки тому +52709

    I feel like they should've found a girl who went along with men's rights or a man who was a feminist

    • @mijangos.4818
      @mijangos.4818 4 роки тому +375

      Men can’t be feminists, sweetie

    • @jacobsteinberg7702
      @jacobsteinberg7702 4 роки тому +6024

      Ari Mijangos Ruiz I’m a man who considers myself a feminist lol

    • @jacobsteinberg7702
      @jacobsteinberg7702 4 роки тому +5122

      Bengiamino feminists don’t hate men you toad

    • @sofam9645
      @sofam9645 4 роки тому +4628

      Ari Mijangos Ruiz literally not true. Feminism means the belief that men and women are equal. The large majority of men believe that too. Men can and should be feminists.

    • @alexisreyes8111
      @alexisreyes8111 4 роки тому +153

      Jeana Geertgens they hav another video similar to this one where they do!

  • @ngweso
    @ngweso 5 років тому +97540

    Y’all know those women held back a lot of words for Derrick

    • @98ilovemonkeys
      @98ilovemonkeys 5 років тому +4818

      Joy their faces say it all

    • @shumob4901
      @shumob4901 5 років тому +539

      @@M4RZ1Z I like watching Naruto

    • @shumob4901
      @shumob4901 5 років тому +180

      @Lea Sford you like Naruto

    • @Mike_A1114
      @Mike_A1114 5 років тому +1741

      Now I’m not a feminist, but I was hopin one of em would explode on him 😂

    • @paralyzerzeta4305
      @paralyzerzeta4305 5 років тому +88

      @Lea Sford If your hope is realized then you yourself have lost this discussion.

  • @kmw4040
    @kmw4040 4 роки тому +1672

    Did anyone else read the comments about Derrick and immediately know who he was before he introduced himself just by looking at him

  • @es.ech.33
    @es.ech.33 4 місяці тому +409

    sometimes you can judge a book by its cover. the guy in yellow is proof of it.

    • @camaraman645
      @camaraman645 3 місяці тому +5

      i already thought he was going to be a piece of sheet, the rest on two men seems pretty resonable and actually debates.

    • @ineedagaybf34_35
      @ineedagaybf34_35 3 місяці тому +1

      This is so fr

    • @rubenkulikyan3283
      @rubenkulikyan3283 3 місяці тому

      I dont care bout deric but the woman completly failed on 16:30

    • @Kerry-dw3ox
      @Kerry-dw3ox Місяць тому +1

      ​@@rubenkulikyan3283sorry some people don't have a photographic memory

  • @muskaart1136
    @muskaart1136 4 роки тому +22734

    Derrick digs himself into a deeper hole with everything he says

    • @ihatethisusernameupdate
      @ihatethisusernameupdate 4 роки тому +351

      Yup. He seemed to realize that too, but a little too late.

    • @SabatSch95
      @SabatSch95 4 роки тому +272

      Derrick isn't even remotely representative of what the MRM wants. In fact, a part from Kursat I don't think any of them were MRAs. Zach is more of a conservative who's worried about men's role in society. He's clearly religious and seems motivated by this.
      "Real" MRAs though actually oppose all manners of gender roles across the board. They have zero interest in "going back to the past" and actually agree with feminists when it comes to equal treatment regardless of sex. I'm not an MRA myself but I have read a lot of their literature and it's really disappointing to see how they weren't represented in this video AT ALL. Derrick especially is a sad troll who'll give the MRM an even worse reputation than they already have.

    • @mikaelatagaylo8765
      @mikaelatagaylo8765 4 роки тому +142

      @@SabatSch95 This is actually a good insight. Thanks for this. It would have been cool to hear more of what MRA actually stands for because from the video it seemed like the three men didn't really have a solid ground of what they would define as MRA --so it was difficult to understand their side especially the incel hahahaha.

    • @SabatSch95
      @SabatSch95 4 роки тому +12

      @@mikaelatagaylo8765 Those interviews are called the "raw files" btw.

    • @SelphieFairy
      @SelphieFairy 4 роки тому +51

      @@mikaelatagaylo8765 IMO that's probably because MRA is heavily based in being reactionary toward feminism. It's not about men, but about fighting against feminism.

  • @mangomonet2464
    @mangomonet2464 4 роки тому +18204

    The way the women are looking at derick when he’s talking is killing me

  • @innatebubble121
    @innatebubble121 4 роки тому +3513

    This one was the most tense. They seemed like they hated each other before even discussing.

    • @mayaowen6557
      @mayaowen6557 4 роки тому +179

      True...but have you seen the flat-earther + scientists one? Cause I think that one takes the cake for intensity haha

    • @innatebubble121
      @innatebubble121 4 роки тому +58

      Maya Owen I probably shoulda just said they hated Derrick. But yeah, the flat earth one just has the scientists looking annoyed.

    • @bambi7999
      @bambi7999 4 роки тому +5

      this comment made me audibly giggle

    • @stevesquad7110
      @stevesquad7110 4 роки тому +4

      worst thing, I don't agree with eather of the 6

    • @coldturkey6547
      @coldturkey6547 4 роки тому +15

      I think that was more Derrick and the feminist the French dude was respectful and factual and zack just wanted a different view and cared about men though

  • @sofia-pq2jn
    @sofia-pq2jn 6 місяців тому +1322

    derrick looks like he screams at his mom if she forgets mustard in his sandwich

    • @Disci-pain
      @Disci-pain 4 місяці тому +9

      Assumptions are dangerous things

    • @ganjalfcreamcorn8438
      @ganjalfcreamcorn8438 4 місяці тому +97

      @@Disci-pain so is derrick if he doesnt get his mustard.

    • @Danyphantomsimp
      @Danyphantomsimp 3 місяці тому +16

      @@ganjalfcreamcorn8438LMFAO I AM DEAD

    • @MaddieJane-hs9en
      @MaddieJane-hs9en 3 місяці тому

      FRR

    • @Jcat-ze4lf
      @Jcat-ze4lf 2 місяці тому +2

      @@ganjalfcreamcorn8438YOU’RE AMAZING.

  • @casec892
    @casec892 4 роки тому +588

    Derrick referring himself as an incel in his introduction told me everything I needed to know about him right away

    • @terrabiker
      @terrabiker 4 роки тому +7

      the way he thinks and speaks and looks , no he's not incel , he harvest the fruit of his own actions. He's being punished , and I must say rightfully so. These kind of idiots shouldn't be allowed to breed.

    • @haileymoehlmann9198
      @haileymoehlmann9198 4 роки тому +3

      @Meat Pole people who self identify as incels typically come from a place of having bad experiences with women that cause them to polarize themselves against women as a whole. I'm not sure if you're familiar with TERFs but it's like the male equivalent of that. Some talking points revolve around feeling as though women only chase "Chads" which is the idea of a perfect handsome man, the idea that all women are manipulative and/or gold diggers, and that their personal issues with developing relationships with women are the result of problems such as these.
      Hope that helps

  • @HIThitech
    @HIThitech 4 роки тому +2560

    What I expected to see in the comments: *People arguing about rights*
    What there is: *People hating on Derrick*

    • @oddlynot6653
      @oddlynot6653 4 роки тому +47

      David Hernandez Eh, I don’t blame em. Some people are just not the likable type *cough* Derick.

    • @tusharchandra4276
      @tusharchandra4276 4 роки тому +48

      I think both Derrick and Mimi need to check their attitudes. All the other four were people who you would like to have a conversation with, especially Bea and Zach. But Derrick's idiocy and Mimi's blind faith put them on the top of my 'Stay away from' list

    • @kaiajackson8538
      @kaiajackson8538 4 роки тому +1

      Ikr I love it 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

    • @SDLXVI
      @SDLXVI 4 роки тому +6

      Derrick isnt that bad

    • @moniielka2458
      @moniielka2458 4 роки тому +27

      @@SDLXVI said no one Ever... 😂

  • @taterman0247
    @taterman0247 5 років тому +12444

    The two guys on the sides of Derrick are just like: crap, this dude is ruining our whole argument

    • @user-gb2ol2cp1n
      @user-gb2ol2cp1n 5 років тому +17

      Taterman 02 who is Derrick

    • @imnotaweebyounormie547
      @imnotaweebyounormie547 5 років тому +197

      @@user-gb2ol2cp1n The incel... the one with the fricking yellow jacket lol

    • @memwaandic5039
      @memwaandic5039 5 років тому +59

      @Julius Songling haha Wow. Should put that in quotation. Maybe the lady on the left would have been better choice of words... but then again. You chose it... =[

    • @memwaandic5039
      @memwaandic5039 5 років тому +2

      @@imnotaweebyounormie547 Haha... yeah

    • @user-gb2ol2cp1n
      @user-gb2ol2cp1n 5 років тому +4

      I'm Not A Weeb You Normie ok

  • @haset332
    @haset332 9 місяців тому +1587

    bro introduced himself as an incel☠️☠️

    • @OZZIEBUILDING
      @OZZIEBUILDING 9 місяців тому +32

      They chose the worst of both sides

    • @Amirg206
      @Amirg206 4 місяці тому +25

      ​@@OZZIEBUILDING you gotta admit it was funny af

    • @s.tay1804
      @s.tay1804 4 місяці тому

      🤡

    • @sthepcorms6747
      @sthepcorms6747 4 місяці тому +5

      ​@@OZZIEBUILDINGThere's no way you actually believe in that statement

    • @OZZIEBUILDING
      @OZZIEBUILDING 4 місяці тому +3

      @@sthepcorms6747 what it is each of them act like the other has no problems in their life

  • @havannaborland3073
    @havannaborland3073 4 роки тому +820

    i love all the women’s expressions whenever derrick talks

  • @bellaselamet6231
    @bellaselamet6231 3 роки тому +1191

    “I feel empathy for the other side”
    Derrick: *hesitates*

  • @sw3at890
    @sw3at890 4 роки тому +1127

    Derrick is that one student that didn’t research for his group presentation

  • @allierennie1248
    @allierennie1248 3 місяці тому +237

    “I don’t need you to protect me. I just need you to not harm me.”
    Winner

    • @smayansrivastava12s32
      @smayansrivastava12s32 3 місяці тому +11

      Lazy fantasy

    • @basichumanrights.
      @basichumanrights. 3 місяці тому +6

      @@smayansrivastava12s32why so?

    • @smayansrivastava12s32
      @smayansrivastava12s32 3 місяці тому +13

      @@basichumanrights. because we live in reality not a lala land. And the reality sucks

    • @basichumanrights.
      @basichumanrights. 3 місяці тому +9

      @@smayansrivastava12s32 okay? So it’s better to spread what they want, some people actually need to hear this and some won’t listen and some will 😐

    • @smayansrivastava12s32
      @smayansrivastava12s32 3 місяці тому +1

      @@basichumanrights. ok

  • @bestietay5087
    @bestietay5087 3 роки тому +6131

    I can feel the other men saying in their heads “Derrick you’re making us look bad stfu.”

    • @mirora2212
      @mirora2212 3 роки тому +57

      Yeah

    • @totorodud
      @totorodud 3 роки тому +11

      nope

    • @mrmoon6831
      @mrmoon6831 3 роки тому +429

      Honestly the other guys were alright and have pretty decent points and then derrick is just there practically saying women are just here for sex and babies 🤦🏻‍♂️😂

    • @theworldofnea8337
      @theworldofnea8337 3 роки тому +68

      exactly and he's on another video called im an lncel... but like the other guys were alright... well zach is probably the only one that didn't sound a little ehh at one point he didn't laugh at any of the woman of act as if it's incorrect, or they were sounding ignorant..

    • @shelbymckinney2606
      @shelbymckinney2606 3 роки тому +40

      I feel like he should have been there that way the other 2 men can see exactly what kind of men the women in the room have to protect themselves from.

  • @AaronMatthews
    @AaronMatthews 5 років тому +17266

    question: men=women?
    derrick: hmmmm, child...

    • @dragonsquirrel7663
      @dragonsquirrel7663 5 років тому +141

      Derrick is my father figure

    • @nf6075
      @nf6075 5 років тому +371

      Erin : tHat’S nOt vEgAn

    • @DeeznutztheOG
      @DeeznutztheOG 5 років тому +183

      This is hard to comment on because I think many people have seen women act childish and it’s more socially acceptable because society has in the last 100 of years treated women as a commodity to be locked away, wed off to produce kids and stay at home without as much responsibility as men who overall had to protect family from threats, deal with decision making, providing income. This is controversial statement and it is definitely seen with some women who don’t want to take responsibility and grow up but it’s also a problem society has created and some people want to protect this traditional outlook but then complain about it later. Now we’re in a time period where women don’t need protection, can have equal education opportunities and can work and do jobs that men mainly dealt with and it’s amazing and a lot more easier for both sexes to deal with tackle together. I hope people can understand that and hopefully Derrick if he’s looking through these comments.

    • @Roan.bot.
      @Roan.bot. 5 років тому +26

      Cheeze berries I do agree. If you need the whole world to clear the way an change for you to be comfortable then you have a little bit in common with a child.

    • @ma2443
      @ma2443 5 років тому +23

      @@DeeznutztheOG same here, some people just act like we're not men enough and im very sure you mustve heard that saying too, i dont think its generally targetted against a specific gender though more or less just childish people acting childish

  • @torchybeacon245
    @torchybeacon245 3 роки тому +3527

    25% of the comments: random stuff
    75% of comments: everyone vs derrick

  • @DrBoX89
    @DrBoX89 7 місяців тому +37

    I think this is a really important discussion to have. Bridging this gap is important. Being a traditionalist, I will always acknowledge that many women have experienced terrible things. Some at the hands of men. I feel for them and will always validate those experiences. Using blanket statements like men’s response to feminist idealogy (albeit certain aspects) is angry or toxic is not the way forward. We must ALL listen to each other to truly find the middle ground.

  • @jmakemson
    @jmakemson 4 роки тому +1354

    Somebody needs to tell Derrick that "Heath Ledger's Joker" is not a valid personality.

    • @t.h.mcelroy6597
      @t.h.mcelroy6597 4 роки тому +4

      *ded* 🤣

    • @supposedlyaperson2168
      @supposedlyaperson2168 4 роки тому +6

      Lmaooooo, you put it into words

    • @DemonsCrest1
      @DemonsCrest1 4 роки тому +3

      @@supposedlyaperson2168
      _"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win” originated with Mahatma Gandhi_

    • @eliscola9492
      @eliscola9492 4 роки тому +2

      This is the best comment I’ve ever seen

    • @Cnftti
      @Cnftti 4 роки тому +1

      @@DemonsCrest1 I haven't seen any fighting going on, the whole point is to avoid that

  • @claudiapuha4682
    @claudiapuha4682 4 роки тому +738

    This is how every question ends up:
    They have a civilized conversation, Derrek speaks, and then it becomes chaos.

    • @sulfur_americium2993
      @sulfur_americium2993 4 роки тому +10

      I really wanna like your comment but it’s at 69.

    • @BrysonConroy
      @BrysonConroy 4 роки тому +3

      @@sulfur_americium2993 u can like now lol

    • @count7340
      @count7340 4 роки тому

      Not chaos ... Syndrome!!

    • @sterbenkayasy9795
      @sterbenkayasy9795 4 роки тому

      like number 609

    • @AHRandolph
      @AHRandolph 4 роки тому

      Derrek speaks and then I wonder why he is even allowed in the conversation

  • @Adriana-ri7of
    @Adriana-ri7of 4 роки тому +95415

    I would have LOVED to see a feminist man and a men's rights woman.

  • @Jamestron
    @Jamestron 7 місяців тому +1929

    Bro Derrick should never be allowed to go near a woman

    • @spiritvlogz6090
      @spiritvlogz6090 5 місяців тому +34

      He clearly doesn’t want to

    • @Do27gg
      @Do27gg 5 місяців тому +25

      Pretty telling that they chose to get a mental case like Derrick but not an equivalent for the women’s side

    • @warlocksunited2e580
      @warlocksunited2e580 4 місяці тому +11

      ​@@Do27gg well tbf alesha on the womens side is pretty mental, so many of her takes in this are massivly uninformed and based on what she thinks is true about men rather than any actual fact

    • @bensongathua5548
      @bensongathua5548 4 місяці тому +2

      Thats just your opinion bro.

    • @Luke-qj5jn
      @Luke-qj5jn 4 місяці тому

      I died lmao!!!

  • @naturallyirem997
    @naturallyirem997 4 роки тому +8269

    They should have gotten a man feminist and a woman men’s rights person... or just replaced Derrick.

  • @kennedyanne3961
    @kennedyanne3961 4 роки тому +727

    You can tell everyone was weirded out and uncomfortable around Derrick

    • @tobymcinnis7031
      @tobymcinnis7031 4 роки тому +6

      Might be worth empathising with what it's like to be him and know that what you're saying is true.

    • @jazzyfizz2038
      @jazzyfizz2038 4 роки тому

      I was watching him

  • @katharrington1220
    @katharrington1220 4 роки тому +14026

    the other guys were probably like “godamn derrick quit making us look bad”

    • @draculemihawk7945
      @draculemihawk7945 4 роки тому +221

      So true 😂

    • @HarrisChoudhry
      @HarrisChoudhry 4 роки тому +161

      I know I was

    • @alenkavenx2056
      @alenkavenx2056 4 роки тому +205

      Though they didnt need help either

    • @ayofrtho7014
      @ayofrtho7014 4 роки тому +228

      Well they clearly didn't tell him anything to stop him... actions speak louder than words, my friend.

    • @aaronblaine3251
      @aaronblaine3251 4 роки тому +282

      Bored Bored bored Well the thing was it was a discussion to allow everyone to share their opinions. Like they said they all have different perspectives, yet they fall under the same vague umbrella of Men’s Rights. And the other two should not be judged based on his comments, they are completely different people with completely yet somewhat similar perspectives.

  • @FernandoPerez-uq6rl
    @FernandoPerez-uq6rl 5 місяців тому +34

    I resonated with a lot of things from both sides. people often forget that we need each other and need to seek to understand each other

    • @RisumiesEdits
      @RisumiesEdits Місяць тому +1

      What I still fail to understand is why women say wage gaps exist despite it being debunked thousands of times, because IF wage gaps existed, the corporations/companies would ONLY hire women because they wouldn't be paid as much, so the companies expenses would significantly decrease.

    • @IDK-ep1zz
      @IDK-ep1zz Місяць тому

      ​@@RisumiesEditsthey are looking for an argument

  • @andrewdevine2369
    @andrewdevine2369 4 роки тому +645

    Derrick shouldn't have been there, all he did was push the conversation back about 10 steps every time he opened his mouth

    • @americanfreedom8517
      @americanfreedom8517 4 роки тому

      and that's the point. what bode lang's video Faking Authority, Destroying Merit

    • @swoods8015
      @swoods8015 4 роки тому

      Couldn't have put it better myself

    • @gkjkghsgfgfga5209
      @gkjkghsgfgfga5209 4 роки тому

      Thats why im glad he was there lmfao

  • @sea_of_love
    @sea_of_love 4 роки тому +4159

    the men's rights activist people were also embarrassed by derrick

    • @LanxPenzenpepper
      @LanxPenzenpepper 4 роки тому +271

      All of us men are embarrassed that derrick is himself a "man"

    • @ryanmoores8170
      @ryanmoores8170 4 роки тому +181

      @@LanxPenzenpepper correction: all of us men are embarrassed by anyone that thinks a "men activist" is a real thing

    • @potatoistudying2
      @potatoistudying2 4 роки тому +14

      Maybe he didn't learn enough history.

    • @mackenzie8703
      @mackenzie8703 4 роки тому +32

      Ryan Moores you are my new favorite person

    • @KiddSteely
      @KiddSteely 4 роки тому +26

      he was the worst person they could have chosen for this episode lol

  • @leolasabatini4604
    @leolasabatini4604 4 роки тому +19707

    All the women facial expressions when derrick speaks is killing me 💀💀

    • @Tanaysia-Laniece
      @Tanaysia-Laniece 4 роки тому +308

      Lmao right Aleyshas face 💀💀

    • @enixma820
      @enixma820 4 роки тому +59

      Natasel Wait whose side are you one here? I am very confused with those words that are on my screen.

    • @bloopbop181
      @bloopbop181 4 роки тому +8

      Natasel Do you mean that no matter what side your on it has some wrong faults?

    • @yousifxg4mer318
      @yousifxg4mer318 4 роки тому +3

      Natasel sorry but that is irrelevant , not in all arguments one of the side is right , in some argument non of them are wrong so it doesn’t matter , while in some argument both of them are wrong like in this argument both of them had faulty expressions that don’t even represent the least part of the society , they didn’t talk about real problems they talked about irrelevant matters

    • @addie8080
      @addie8080 4 роки тому +3

      Natasel you confusing me lmao.

  • @dutchvanderlinde9400
    @dutchvanderlinde9400 11 місяців тому +130

    In my opinion. We are different but equal. We complement each other differences.

    • @omotayosatuyi252
      @omotayosatuyi252 7 місяців тому +11

      Facts I mean ofc we aren't equal in every way. I do think that we are equal in most things

    • @andrerussell5130
      @andrerussell5130 6 місяців тому

      🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️​@@omotayosatuyi252

    • @liamreid4161
      @liamreid4161 4 місяці тому +4

      I personally disagree that men and women are equal, and I don't think women should be pursuing equality, but rather equity.
      Equality doesn't always mean fairness.

    • @daliam8715
      @daliam8715 3 місяці тому

      Why do you not think we are equal?

    • @DayvorMusic
      @DayvorMusic Місяць тому

      @@liamreid4161 What's equity and fairness to you? Women have privilege over men?

  • @michael-cw8qs
    @michael-cw8qs 3 роки тому +736

    "I don't think you can be friends with women," derrick says after being rejected

    • @ponderofluna8345
      @ponderofluna8345 3 роки тому +4

      So he just marries random women?
      XD

    • @coribakescakes4279
      @coribakescakes4279 3 роки тому +16

      Not taking a girl to prom really did a number on derrick

    • @namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404
      @namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404 3 роки тому +6

      @@ponderofluna8345 nah this dude will be forever single

    • @sushilameena2965
      @sushilameena2965 3 роки тому

      @@namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404 lol your username and pfp😂😂..and hi armyblink

    • @aliciamarie2551
      @aliciamarie2551 3 роки тому +3

      @@ponderofluna8345 funny of you to assume he’s ever going to get married.

  • @jasminecastillo1441
    @jasminecastillo1441 5 років тому +1233

    I think this was the first middle argument I've watched, where everyone did not hug at the end

    • @professionallabelmaker744
      @professionallabelmaker744 5 років тому +234

      I don't want to imagine hugging derrick

    • @get6149
      @get6149 5 років тому +93

      The men were worried about going in for a hug because the women were feminist

    • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
      @marlonmoncrieffe0728 5 років тому +28

      At least they shook hands...

    • @yagadoobigidibobbibigabiga38
      @yagadoobigidibobbibigabiga38 5 років тому +91

      They didn't feel like the other side understood them. Both sides felt like they just got further away from each other than where they started, probably. That was so sad.

    • @georgegreen1948
      @georgegreen1948 5 років тому +32

      The men. Are scared of accusations

  • @scholliski
    @scholliski 4 роки тому +14523

    Men’s rights vs feminism vs Derrick
    You decide.

    • @wolframeickerestinpeace2562
      @wolframeickerestinpeace2562 4 роки тому +135

      I don't get what people hate about Derrick.

    • @maybethisismarq
      @maybethisismarq 4 роки тому +746

      Wolfram Eicke Rest in peace he’s sexist

    • @bustin9938
      @bustin9938 4 роки тому +479

      @@wolframeickerestinpeace2562 being an incel is not involentary you do it to yourself

    • @sotired2245
      @sotired2245 4 роки тому +54

      SCREW EM ALL. Except for non sjw feminism, then I'm with them, but currently in this video, f*** all of them.wait no my bad only Derrick and two of the feminists are tawxic. One of the feminists that I have called toxic arent all that bad. MAINLY SCREW DERRICK.

    • @bestbread3446
      @bestbread3446 4 роки тому +13

      Which one is derrick

  • @vamp3heart176
    @vamp3heart176 5 місяців тому +155

    Derrick literally explained toxic masculinity 😭

    • @STIMULATION_NEEDED
      @STIMULATION_NEEDED 3 місяці тому +1

      Could we get a timestamp?

    • @Apexwingman
      @Apexwingman Місяць тому

      @@STIMULATION_NEEDEDthey mean that he is the definition of it, by his actions

    • @STIMULATION_NEEDED
      @STIMULATION_NEEDED Місяць тому

      @@Apexwingman I just need a timestamp because of how much he is toxic masculinity.

  • @dr.liljay2874
    @dr.liljay2874 4 роки тому +1335

    Me: Comes to comments to look for insightful opinions.
    Everyone: *Derrick*

    • @mekasa6721
      @mekasa6721 4 роки тому +1

      Same😤

    • @erickamunoz9497
      @erickamunoz9497 4 роки тому +2

      DR.LILJAY It’s because he shouldn’t of been there

    • @auranimm
      @auranimm 4 роки тому +3

      @@erickamunoz9497 I think he should, Ericka, he's an archetype, a representation of the mentality of a lot of people out there. I do think it's inherently problematic to give more volume to people with those opinions, but in this specific contest with the potential of counterpoints, it might have been constructive. Would not give him a UA-cam channel, though, intolerance towards intolerance isn't hypocritical.

    • @matthewb4988
      @matthewb4988 4 роки тому

      @@auranimm "intolerance towards intolerance isn't hypocritical."
      It can be. What counts as intolerance and who gets to make that call?
      If your "intolerance towards intolerance" is greatly disproportionate to the intolerance itself, then that is hypocritical. Likewise if one is authorized to decide what counts as intolerance and another is not, then you can have a situation where: A(authorized party) does something mildly intolerant to B(non-authorized party) deeming it acceptable and not intolerant, B responds exactly in kind, A deems that intolerant and therefore worthy of escalation.
      Otherwise I think I agree.

  • @elizabeth-lw9tw
    @elizabeth-lw9tw 4 роки тому +3994

    Nobody:
    Derrick lookin like a whole 4th grade boy and then a middle school boy attitude-

    • @SpecificValio
      @SpecificValio 4 роки тому +17

      Istg he looks like the youngest person here with his attitude.

    • @respectablegunowner
      @respectablegunowner 4 роки тому +3

      He’s dead he killed himself smh

    • @vashikumar3681
      @vashikumar3681 4 роки тому

      Ugh yes this

    • @hottieschicken
      @hottieschicken 4 роки тому

      @@respectablegunowner big if true

    • @apt8446
      @apt8446 4 роки тому +13

      That's disrespectful to middle schoolers, I'm sure most have them have better views than Derrick ugh

  • @jasonvoorhees5180
    @jasonvoorhees5180 4 роки тому +527

    Before Derrick even said anything I’m looking at this man like “Yep he’s gonna be _that_ guy”

  • @acethefiredragon8525
    @acethefiredragon8525 7 місяців тому +38

    Derrick is definitely a discord mod. He acts, talks and looks like one. Honestly.

  • @jessicavasquez-luna8087
    @jessicavasquez-luna8087 4 роки тому +562

    I like Zach he was genuinely trying to like understand the other side and asked questions while still expressing his side respectfully. I absolutely cannot stand Derek wtf is he talking about I think that he needs therapy tbh, the fact that he said men shouldn’t show their emotions with woman. How do you deepen relationships with them like- . Also idk why he seems homophobic to me and if he doesn’t like woman so much why doesn’t he go date a man? like I need him to really just take some self reflection and everyone who genuinely agrees with him too.

    • @uuproverlord8324
      @uuproverlord8324 4 роки тому +7

      I agree

    • @uwuuwu9401
      @uwuuwu9401 4 роки тому +5

      i think zach has a youtube channel- zach hing. hes rlly respectful about it all too.

    • @aj9590
      @aj9590 4 роки тому +15

      Derrick is an incel. His literal purpose in life is to hate women and view them as an inferior gender. Feel bad for his mom or whoever raised him to be the clown that he is today. Yikes🤣

    • @aintfor3394
      @aintfor3394 4 роки тому +9

      I think derek gets rejected by woman so many times because he looks like a crushed pineapple and now he hates woman.

    • @TheFrostyMan21
      @TheFrostyMan21 4 роки тому +2

      And kursat is the intelligent guy that no one understands

  • @nicknameyu3588
    @nicknameyu3588 3 роки тому +3825

    I genuinely don't understand why Derrick wants a patriarchal world. He won't be considered as a 'real man' in that world, and those 'real man' could just bully him and won't be condemned.

    • @calthekonqueror312
      @calthekonqueror312 3 роки тому +130

      The only reason he's even there is to give feminists a way to use the "strawman argument"

    • @MrAlepedroza
      @MrAlepedroza 3 роки тому +155

      @@calthekonqueror312 Pretty much. I still can't get who had the great idea of inviting an incel like him to such a discussion. It only handicapped the men's side of the debate, making them look worse. Ayesha, on the other hand, at least looks a bit more sympathetic even despite me not agreeing with her points.

    • @rexisnox577
      @rexisnox577 3 роки тому +19

      I know he looks like your standard capital g gamer and yes i play video games but i dont identify as a gamer.

    • @antares6998
      @antares6998 3 роки тому +33

      He was an absolute child.

    • @calthekonqueror312
      @calthekonqueror312 3 роки тому +40

      @@Plaky He does not even remotely represent anyone I ever met in person, guess I'm lucky. He is definitely an incel but that does not represent mra. They fight against "injustices" against men. Feminists fight against "injustices" against women. I try to look at things fairly and call out bias when I see it either way. In this case I feel that Derrick is a misrepresentation of their movement meant to make them look bad.

  • @ellis4306
    @ellis4306 4 роки тому +2930

    20% of the comments: *opinions on the topic*
    80% of the comments: Derrick

    • @genericname2165
      @genericname2165 4 роки тому +25

      I mean,, Derrick is kind of a big deal

    • @milfslayer2195
      @milfslayer2195 4 роки тому +3

      he is the video

    • @akilbrazier1421
      @akilbrazier1421 3 роки тому +30

      Exactly lol it’s annoying af when you’re scrolling through the comments trying to find meaningful conversations on the topic trying to see people’s opinions and even learn something, and all you see are comments about Derrick.

    • @romang.8022
      @romang.8022 3 роки тому +1

      lol, not even 80%💀💀

    • @katied9206
      @katied9206 3 роки тому +1

      @@akilbrazier1421
      He is annoying

  • @Caine61
    @Caine61 8 місяців тому +19

    The camera cuts to Alyshea’s face every time Derrick spoke

  • @cyclopzdavinci3815
    @cyclopzdavinci3815 4 роки тому +647

    "-Sometimes finding a girl at all is hard."
    For him I can see why...

  • @sarahjade2320
    @sarahjade2320 4 роки тому +7889

    there was really a three-way conversation:
    feminists
    mens rights activists
    derrick

  • @kyraphelan7357
    @kyraphelan7357 5 років тому +682

    “I can protect myself, I am very capable of doing what I need to do”
    Derek: ok sure

    • @sleepypigeon8560
      @sleepypigeon8560 5 років тому +9

      @PC 2020 You aknowledge that it's better having men and women protecting each other? Many women that said they are capable have been asaulted.

    • @rosalocalinda
      @rosalocalinda 5 років тому +14

      I wanted to smack him through the screen

    • @zeefaaldown3231
      @zeefaaldown3231 5 років тому +19

      @@sleepypigeon8560 What's your point? People who get assaulted can be body builders and professional fighters, they still get assaulted. Terry Crews has been sexually assaulted and he knew he could handle himself well in a fight, but he chose not too because he knew the situation can escalate. Some people do fight off attackers. So again, I don't understand the point you're trying to make?

    • @starsmoonlight8840
      @starsmoonlight8840 5 років тому +2

      @@zeefaaldown3231 Exactly. Sleepy Pigeon, you don't seem like you look through all the cracks of assault.

    • @sleepypigeon8560
      @sleepypigeon8560 5 років тому +1

      @@zeefaaldown3231 I'm centering in female because it's the theme they are talking about, I know theres all kinds of people who also need to be protected

  • @terrasmith2707
    @terrasmith2707 11 місяців тому +28

    They should definitely redo this one

  • @aisyamcc
    @aisyamcc 4 роки тому +1822

    Did he really just say “I don’t think you can be friends with a woman so...”(8:34) I’m not even gon hate... that’s just sad bro... I have no words💀

    • @imtats
      @imtats 4 роки тому +99

      Aisya McCormick like, if you can’t be friends with a woman...why would a woman find you desirable 😂

    • @q.t.gamingfamily
      @q.t.gamingfamily 4 роки тому +101

      I'd like to understand how does he planning on getting a girlfriend without even befriending her first. Be like back in first grade: "hey, you're my girlfriend now"; Girl "Okay" lol

    • @m.t2824
      @m.t2824 4 роки тому +9

      @Lzb Lmvm how so is feminism disgusting?

    • @UserRobot215
      @UserRobot215 4 роки тому +3

      @@m.t2824 how is feminism disgusting? Lol just look at the pride marches or the womens marches. The only thing you'll find in those marches is filth.

    • @miavelie2627
      @miavelie2627 4 роки тому +15

      @@UserRobot215 that is despicable how is anyone's sexuality disturbing, its who they are. And we are all born marked for evil, but you are in the top tear for assholes.

  • @criticalhit9626
    @criticalhit9626 4 роки тому +9455

    Derrick: *speaks* Everyone: 😐

    • @bingustm5034
      @bingustm5034 4 роки тому +69

      Ight imma like

    • @coltonhenry7990
      @coltonhenry7990 4 роки тому +27

      meme man 2.0 owo u have the perfect profile pic for that comment 👌🏿👌🏿

    • @bingustm5034
      @bingustm5034 4 роки тому +10

      @@coltonhenry7990 thanks

    • @GrahamGotGame
      @GrahamGotGame 4 роки тому +42

      Critical Hit couldn’t help but feel like that kid is the worst kind of person to ask for this show.

    • @coltonhenry7990
      @coltonhenry7990 4 роки тому +2

      meme man 2.0 owo ur a 🐐

  • @rosewalls8776
    @rosewalls8776 3 роки тому +2121

    Derrick: **telling a black women it would be better to go back to the past**
    "Oh yeah that's just derrick being friendly"

    • @rumi5979
      @rumi5979 3 роки тому +17

      Ikr

    • @kennedyjojackson1202
      @kennedyjojackson1202 3 роки тому +45

      Sometimes i think i would like to try and be in one of these videos, then I heard that part and wanted to reach through the screen.

    • @rosewalls8776
      @rosewalls8776 3 роки тому +28

      @@kennedyjojackson1202 honestly same, it annoyed me so much. The audacity of some people ffs

    • @danielhart7156
      @danielhart7156 3 роки тому +3

      What he meant by that was, if we go back in the past where women actually appreciate men for kind and gentle gestures, are actually expected to cooperate in a relationship, and have the feeling they should help everyone other than themselves, it would be nice. Now, I am definitely NOT speaking for all women, but this is geared toward the modern radical feminists. And besides, they were talking about gender, not race, so the details about everyone's races and ethnicities isn't relevant to this topic.

    • @audegatta5724
      @audegatta5724 3 роки тому +3

      She's brown, please , van you see her color? Why you american must talk always about black people?

  • @ilovebakugokatsukimorethanu
    @ilovebakugokatsukimorethanu 7 місяців тому +99

    im covering my drink around derrick

  • @avam3740
    @avam3740 5 років тому +36082

    Derrick: I’m a youtu-
    Everyone: *I’m gonna stop you right there*

    • @dragoncakebomb549
      @dragoncakebomb549 4 роки тому +516

      nessie now has a phone why do I feel like Derrick only got one like on his UA-cam videos

    • @cadengriffiths2036
      @cadengriffiths2036 4 роки тому +618

      I literally said oh my god here we go 🙄

    • @anitadimaya
      @anitadimaya 4 роки тому +928

      That black womans face when he said youtuber lmao

    • @camilacalvet474
      @camilacalvet474 4 роки тому +28

      Bro

    • @Mal-x2x
      @Mal-x2x 4 роки тому +35

      garlic bread thats exactly what I did lmao

  • @narwhalepoptart39
    @narwhalepoptart39 5 років тому +2624

    When Derrick said he’s a UA-camr Aleysha’s face had me dead.

    • @oscarlohens8586
      @oscarlohens8586 5 років тому +60

      If he gets that look before even saying he's an incel I almost can't blame him for being one.

    • @bryansalinas5547
      @bryansalinas5547 5 років тому +62

      Aleysha was by far the most toxic one in the room

    • @billrussell4832
      @billrussell4832 5 років тому +34

      @@bryansalinas5547 ikr and people like her are the reason why feminism and men's right are a thing. Her behavior is really childish.

    • @niijigod3864
      @niijigod3864 5 років тому +58

      @@billrussell4832 That's a pretty ignorant statement, and I as a straight Male I know as a fact that most women biologically are more open to expressing how they feel subcontiously and sometimes have trouble keeping in their feelings as much as men do. As you heard her say, she has definently had bad expereinces with men in the past and wants justice. I am black too and I have a huge idea of where she's coming from. I am not a men's activist nor am I a feminist, I'm only speaking from a general human perspective. My point is, just because a women's actions can seem childish at times doesn't mean they are because she was definently upset with every right to be upset, for a completely acceptable reason and to not see that makes you ignorant like the dude in the yellow jacket.

    • @niijigod3864
      @niijigod3864 5 років тому +6

      @@billrussell4832 Obviously I know about the real childish acting/literally crazy women I see but I can tell she doesn't represent that level of excitement.

  • @eliza243
    @eliza243 4 роки тому +20633

    The disappointment on the women’s faces when Derrick talks...

  • @Hype-xcwasant
    @Hype-xcwasant 3 місяці тому +15

    “I didn’t come with a list”
    “Just 1”
    “I didn’t come with a list my dude

    • @EarlsTea
      @EarlsTea 3 місяці тому +14

      proves shes wrong lmao you dont need a list for one

  • @lane_kraft05
    @lane_kraft05 3 роки тому +4295

    This isn’t Men’s Right vs. Feminism
    It’s Men’s Rights
    vs.
    Feminism
    vs.
    Derrick

    • @veryrealdrdog
      @veryrealdrdog 3 роки тому +171

      Actually this is Everyone vs Derrick

    • @PolymathAtif
      @PolymathAtif 3 роки тому +5

      @@veryrealdrdog who is derren

    • @PolymathAtif
      @PolymathAtif 3 роки тому +2

      I mean derrick

    • @veryrealdrdog
      @veryrealdrdog 3 роки тому +44

      @@PolymathAtif The incel with the yellow sweater.

    • @TheM.F.
      @TheM.F. 3 роки тому +49

      It’s two educated young men and a confused virgin vs feminism

  • @mylesthegoat9380
    @mylesthegoat9380 3 роки тому +18301

    Derick: finding a girl is hard
    Also derick: why would I be friends with a woman?

    • @racheldixon5528
      @racheldixon5528 3 роки тому +90

      Mylesthe Goat Ikr it’s just logic

    • @hannah-7525
      @hannah-7525 3 роки тому +132

      Women and men cannot be just friends. It is against nature

    • @autumnperez6232
      @autumnperez6232 3 роки тому +922

      @@hannah-7525 Um, what? As a woman have no problem being friends with a man. Although for a man, it’s difficult for them to have a friendship with a woman.

    • @hannah-7525
      @hannah-7525 3 роки тому +82

      @@autumnperez6232 men and women cannot be friends because they are opposites. It usually ends up being something sexual/romantic. If not, you’re not actually “friends” you’re more acquaintances.

    • @ougintoga7195
      @ougintoga7195 3 роки тому +378

      @@hannah-7525 lol no

  • @hannah-bn1mz
    @hannah-bn1mz 4 роки тому +1689

    i can’t tell if derricks hair is wet or just greasy

    • @gigiroxx17
      @gigiroxx17 4 роки тому +90

      Hannah Johnson definitely greasy 🤮🤢🤢

    • @ghostfaceandme
      @ghostfaceandme 4 роки тому +93

      obviously greasy.... I can smell the creature from here.

    • @papipapo8762
      @papipapo8762 4 роки тому +7

      Hannah Johnson all three

    • @liahr4971
      @liahr4971 4 роки тому +1

      Greasy

    • @hugejackedman7423
      @hugejackedman7423 4 роки тому +20

      Everything about that guy is greasy.

  • @christykambu9355
    @christykambu9355 9 місяців тому +22

    I like how as soon as yellow jacket spoke everyone immediately knew what type of person he was and his vibe

  • @hasnainashraf2600
    @hasnainashraf2600 4 роки тому +1402

    The video title should be: "Men's Rights vs Feminism vs Derrick: Is Toxic Masculinity Real?"

    • @hatem7678
      @hatem7678 4 роки тому

      اصص يا طعمية

    • @emilysanchez499
      @emilysanchez499 4 роки тому +5

      If they don’t edit this I’m gonna be pissed💀

    • @fright747
      @fright747 4 роки тому

      Honestly

    • @kalciumsthename
      @kalciumsthename 4 роки тому

      @Liam Tate Not really the words I would pick, but like the whole 'I'm not like other girls' are sorta related to that.

    • @kalciumsthename
      @kalciumsthename 4 роки тому

      @Swaggerdagger more like "Men remain deaf to all the woman's arguments and remain ignorant"

  • @notrlysuretbh
    @notrlysuretbh 3 роки тому +1318

    “For a guy, finding a girl is like, really hard.”
    *kind of ironic coming from a guy like Derrick*

    • @ghostspresence2172
      @ghostspresence2172 3 роки тому +24

      Its not ironic its actually true

    • @malakschlibak8721
      @malakschlibak8721 3 роки тому +30

      @@ghostspresence2172 I mean yeah, you've got to have a personality, you also have to aware of what the girl is attracted to. The girl may not even be straight but as long as you get along well with people it should be easy.

    • @filipdracewicz1446
      @filipdracewicz1446 3 роки тому

      XDDD TRUE

    • @_hoshii5646
      @_hoshii5646 3 роки тому

      @@spandildhaka9398 so what is an eligible woman? a woman who listens to a mans every word? a women who isn’t confident? a submissive woman?

    • @lisasbangsaremorestabletha4660
      @lisasbangsaremorestabletha4660 3 роки тому

      ayyeee Kim Jisoo!!!

  • @mymie3053
    @mymie3053 4 роки тому +717

    Most comments are about how much they hate Derek and I’m living for it

    • @mymie3053
      @mymie3053 4 роки тому +1

      Master_ E true

    • @mymie3053
      @mymie3053 4 роки тому +4

      Master_ E honestly I just laughed at he comments though i don’t actually care what he say I don’t give a crap about anything to do with that or protest

    • @oliviaaa3096
      @oliviaaa3096 4 роки тому +5

      @Master_ E Several men here hate Derrick too

    • @keithwilson9378
      @keithwilson9378 4 роки тому +1

      were u the one that kicked his ass in school and took his lunch money lol just clowning but i cant help it something wrong with him

  • @jeancarlosruiz908
    @jeancarlosruiz908 9 місяців тому +21

    The answer its fight for the rights of all humans and make things more fair FOR ALL.
    If we keep fighting for one side or another side all the law will be dibalanced in some point.

  • @cj222100
    @cj222100 5 років тому +2549

    Derick is like every cliche rolled into one to the point where I'm wondering if he's an actor researching a role.

    • @myafield4039
      @myafield4039 5 років тому +52

      Sadly ive meant men like him

    • @calfinbro
      @calfinbro 5 років тому +2

      cj222100 I had the exact same thought

    • @traviswilkinson5069
      @traviswilkinson5069 5 років тому +8

      Right, like there's no way people
      Like him still exist in this time and bruh if he's real

    • @billrussell4832
      @billrussell4832 5 років тому +2

      @Brandon Bevill I agree and him being a incel is even worse

    • @bluegetsuga8396
      @bluegetsuga8396 5 років тому +15

      As soon as I saw an overweight, white dude in a Venom hoodie, I thought to myself "he's going to make us all look bad isn't he?".

  • @cormac8276
    @cormac8276 4 роки тому +3450

    You shoulda had a feminist who is a man and a women mens rights activist

    • @hannahmiller6678
      @hannahmiller6678 4 роки тому +95

      YES

    • @triipon_2774
      @triipon_2774 4 роки тому +8

      what would that change

    • @cormac8276
      @cormac8276 4 роки тому +223

      @@triipon_2774 it would show more perspectives

    • @AmyJ81
      @AmyJ81 4 роки тому +176

      @@triipon_2774 It would show that there are men and women on both sides, and take away the male vs. female aspect. It also shows a broader perspective. Also, it shows that a person can be an activist for a movement, even when they don't have a person interest and benefit.

    • @nikolaibardin-siekawitch1802
      @nikolaibardin-siekawitch1802 4 роки тому +85

      Derrick is why feminists exist

  • @Biscel.
    @Biscel. 4 роки тому +935

    Everyone just deserves to be treated equally. No one is better than anyone else.

    • @reaganpalmer7981
      @reaganpalmer7981 4 роки тому +151

      except derick

    • @zoezoe8024
      @zoezoe8024 4 роки тому +22

      Someone is always gonna be better. Equality is unattainable

    • @Biscel.
      @Biscel. 4 роки тому +70

      Zoe Kanu I’m sorry that you feel that way

    • @toast_knights8356
      @toast_knights8356 4 роки тому +7

      I mean... zoe's not wrong, some people are just better than other people

    • @beans6765
      @beans6765 4 роки тому +39

      Crebelcombs Yeah. Like many people are better than derrick.

  • @aussiedynasty7792
    @aussiedynasty7792 7 місяців тому +60

    my girl was like "i specifically know of womens groups trying to change things for men" then saying my dude i didnt come with research i cant tell you who is just straight lying

    • @brendonslife4584
      @brendonslife4584 4 місяці тому +14

      cause she knows that its happening she didnt look up that specific question the night before or anything unlike that other guy

    • @Lostachilles
      @Lostachilles 4 місяці тому +7

      @@brendonslife4584 If she knows that it's happening for certain, she'd know the name of at least one of the organisations, or would be able to point him in the direction of where to look, like for a specific court case or a movement or whatever. She couldn't because she was lying.

    • @Rush-Hour-r3t
      @Rush-Hour-r3t 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Lostachillesreal bro

    • @EthernosIV
      @EthernosIV 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@brendonslife4584 im not sure how this channel works but dont they tell the candidates about this debate before it happens? And if they did they should have had their research ready. And even if so she is a feminist who researched about this alot then she must know at least a name.

    • @brendonslife4584
      @brendonslife4584 3 місяці тому +4

      @@Lostachilles not really. I know for a fact there’s movements for world hunger but I couldn’t name you one!! Doesn’t mean I’m lying I just didn’t google it LMFAO

  • @Lolpy.
    @Lolpy. 4 роки тому +1592

    The moment Derrick said “I’m also known as an incel.” I immediately was just like “Oh no...”

    • @laila2607
      @laila2607 4 роки тому +13

      Insert Jontron saying oh no

    • @hannahscott1178
      @hannahscott1178 4 роки тому +19

      as soon as i saw him i knew and when he admitted it i let out an audible sigh

    • @arthurepisodes-full8994
      @arthurepisodes-full8994 4 роки тому +1

      The moment I saw your profile picture I knew I had finally seen everything

    • @jeremyrecto8744
      @jeremyrecto8744 4 роки тому +12

      He was so proud of saying it and he shouldn't be, lmao.

    • @ashleyalbert8859
      @ashleyalbert8859 4 роки тому +4

      It explains a lot of inner frustrations. He needs to try some mediation or healthy ways of being at peace inward. His outward angst is showing.

  • @hEiDi-ju7ru
    @hEiDi-ju7ru 3 роки тому +1047

    The moment of disgusted SHOCK when Derreck said that WE SHOULD GO BACK TO THE OLD WAYS WTF dude

    • @drycoochie2146
      @drycoochie2146 3 роки тому +60

      Well he is a self proclaimed and proud incel. That sort of toxic mentality is expected from his kind.

    • @tjonsmith6365
      @tjonsmith6365 3 роки тому +4

      @@drycoochie2146 name checks out lmao

    • @kingace6186
      @kingace6186 3 роки тому +11

      IKR!!! First of all, the patriarchy is still sound. Second, which time period was he tryna back to?? MAGA head ass

    • @jordenalexis3106
      @jordenalexis3106 3 роки тому +14

      Ikr like of course he wants to go back to the old days cause men could control women all they want and the women couldn't do much abt it

    • @arthurswanson1755
      @arthurswanson1755 3 роки тому +7

      @@kingace6186 wild west days I guess but I don't think he'd survive

  • @snowmimics8259
    @snowmimics8259 4 роки тому +913

    I love how Derrick was like “I can’t have a female friend” like what?!?! You can’t that’s just ridiculous

    • @zebz313
      @zebz313 4 роки тому +4

      You can't unless one of them is in the closet

    • @faiyettes
      @faiyettes 4 роки тому

      I didn't hear that part can you give me the time stamp?

    • @ronaldolech643
      @ronaldolech643 4 роки тому +22

      And that is why he is an incel. Why would a woman want to bang or even go on a date with a guy who is not capable of being a friend?

    • @sheatemyheartouttt
      @sheatemyheartouttt 4 роки тому +1

      @@faiyettes 8:35

    • @Ang7.8
      @Ang7.8 4 роки тому +2

      What does that mean, “can’t”? Won’t or not capable? Is it like the statement “I can’t drive”? Is it that you haven’t learned? Did you lose your license? Are you drunk? Or is it like “a male is my friend and my dog is my friend because I am able to respect their boundaries”?

  • @jaesantos
    @jaesantos 6 місяців тому +7

    As much as I disagree with Derrick, I’m glad he was there coz there’s a LOT of people in this world who share his views. These are the people we have to work on and educate.

  • @mariampapinash6805
    @mariampapinash6805 3 роки тому +542

    that was definitely the first time derrick has ever spoken to a woman

  • @doogallas
    @doogallas 3 роки тому +2708

    When Derrick says he's studied something - it means he's been on google and youtube for a few hours.

    • @victoralejandrotrimmerestr3672
      @victoralejandrotrimmerestr3672 3 роки тому +68

      you mean on r/incel

    • @DiscAgent
      @DiscAgent 3 роки тому +3

      this is a horrible joke i almost killed my self

    • @alishashashasha6909
      @alishashashasha6909 3 роки тому +63

      @@DiscAgent Derrick is that you?

    • @hiccup7376
      @hiccup7376 3 роки тому

      @Reaganomics •101 damn I played myself by replying to a troller bot.

    • @StayPositiveLLC
      @StayPositiveLLC 3 роки тому

      Hey you guys, it’s real. There really is a sisterhood of women who are against men. Feminism is their disguise, look into “Lady Ishtar”- The goddess of war and love. The love she gives is used against you.

  • @taisakuichi5774
    @taisakuichi5774 4 роки тому +4852

    The actual title: *everyone's rights vs Derrick.*

    • @thescotts1326
      @thescotts1326 4 роки тому +22

      HAHAHAHAAHA

    • @guthomayron6161
      @guthomayron6161 4 роки тому +8

      Lmao

    • @rileyashtyn130
      @rileyashtyn130 4 роки тому +5

      Fr

    • @bigfoot1035
      @bigfoot1035 4 роки тому +1

      Yes

    • @brianhawkins3099
      @brianhawkins3099 4 роки тому +6

      Yo Derrick isn’t in the wrong! No one is it’s just beliefs like if you were Christian and I’m atheist! We can still respect eachother and our own beliefs

  • @ScreamingGlitterr
    @ScreamingGlitterr 9 місяців тому +24

    5:13 I LOVE HOW SHE PUT DERRICK IN HIS PLACE OML

    • @rubenkulikyan3283
      @rubenkulikyan3283 3 місяці тому +1

      16:30 i love how he put her in her place
      Derick is a freak they chose the worst guy ever for propoganda. But for some reason they chose normal people for the girls

    • @rubenkulikyan3283
      @rubenkulikyan3283 3 місяці тому

      I wonder whyyy?🤔

    • @lesdaisydoo
      @lesdaisydoo 18 днів тому

      ​@@rubenkulikyan3283a lot of feminists ARE normal people, that's why. It just gets blurred by the minority that misconstrue what feminism actually means.

  • @quintinnelson9364
    @quintinnelson9364 4 роки тому +34269

    2 men's rights activists and 3 feminists + Derrick

    • @yeehaw8835
      @yeehaw8835 4 роки тому +4080

      Derrick is his own species

    • @sowbi3866
      @sowbi3866 4 роки тому +198

      @@yeehaw8835 xD

    • @sowbi3866
      @sowbi3866 4 роки тому +103

      @Zackyboi Sharp xD

    • @avasava7720
      @avasava7720 4 роки тому +194

      derrick is for sure a feminist no doubt about it

    • @gracejohnson2357
      @gracejohnson2357 4 роки тому +369

      Average Mo of course they were triggered and emotional from my POV they didn’t lash out or be near to tears but they did it in a calm way. How else are you supposed to have this discussion or any discussion of any topic at that without having some type of reaction. As long as we find a common ground or end goal without having one side having more power then we’ll finally be set.

  • @royalroho241
    @royalroho241 3 роки тому +945

    “Are you comparing women to children?”
    She was READY to break Derrick at that moment

    • @Chichi0013
      @Chichi0013 3 роки тому +5

      Same

    • @kookiecream7259
      @kookiecream7259 3 роки тому +17

      I was too

    • @justinnamuco9096
      @justinnamuco9096 3 роки тому

      I wonder how that would look like.

    • @eggyama170
      @eggyama170 3 роки тому +7

      @@justinnamuco9096 14 jumbo-sized gummy worms would fly out from under that dark blue undershirt.

    • @mandoesgameing8127
      @mandoesgameing8127 3 роки тому +1

      No she was being a c*nt I don’t need you to protect me I can protect myself just don’t harm me seriously so what am I supposed to do when someone does it I thought you could protect yourself huh 🤔

  • @Lukeschartau
    @Lukeschartau 3 роки тому +1598

    Everyone:
    Derrick: I’m whats called an incel

    • @formeryounglinkmain
      @formeryounglinkmain 3 роки тому +39

      that’s literally what he is

    • @harrypottersucks12
      @harrypottersucks12 3 роки тому +34

      @@formeryounglinkmain regardless of what you think of him and what he is... takes alot of balls to go on camera infront of a large audience and admit to that

    • @morgyhns9235
      @morgyhns9235 3 роки тому +15

      @@harrypottersucks12 it takes no brain cells to do that. No one in the right mind would admit to that

    • @harrypottersucks12
      @harrypottersucks12 3 роки тому +12

      @@morgyhns9235 well considering the whole world hates him I’d say it took a bit of courage to do that. People like derrick lost at birth and were most likely bullied from kindergarten up to high school.

    • @manateevr1017
      @manateevr1017 3 роки тому

      Go back to 2019

  • @Robloxxverse-go5ik
    @Robloxxverse-go5ik Рік тому +40

    Oh great! Some people are going to have a great conversation and maybe agree on something!!!
    Derrick has entered the chat.

  • @Bagellord13
    @Bagellord13 3 роки тому +4068

    *post switched for my personal amusement*

    • @arieljonas9913
      @arieljonas9913 3 роки тому +123

      They don't need to, we have this comment section.

    • @volerasphere
      @volerasphere 3 роки тому +45

      THIS video could've been called that.

    • @josenotmarichan
      @josenotmarichan 3 роки тому +57

      Feminists and MRAs would just team up to say that Derrick is a straight-up misogynist....because he is 🤣

    • @Bagellord13
      @Bagellord13 3 роки тому +22

      @@josenotmarichan I don’t know what Derek’s thought process was, but he just created a whole new side that contradicts MRA and Feminism

    • @hlxmnessy6387
      @hlxmnessy6387 3 роки тому +8

      Derricks getting bitched

  • @summerandrew8690
    @summerandrew8690 3 роки тому +1682

    I wonder what the comment section would look like without derrick

    • @fatboibrian9047
      @fatboibrian9047 3 роки тому +57

      Most likely alot of arguing but derrick seems to have been that unifying force

    • @UniqueSquadUwU
      @UniqueSquadUwU 3 роки тому +2

      DUUUUUUUUDE It would be good

    • @Turtl3slandwaves_1234
      @Turtl3slandwaves_1234 3 роки тому

      Lol same

    • @arizz620
      @arizz620 3 роки тому +19

      Love how nobody is calling out the woman on their awful takes and logicies, instead focus on the ONE awful men's rights activist.

    • @teddybearaf1477
      @teddybearaf1477 3 роки тому +2

      Less funny

  • @nicktalton4047
    @nicktalton4047 4 роки тому +21858

    I wish they had a male feminist and a female men’s rights

    • @uoutoii6211
      @uoutoii6211 4 роки тому +902

      Barret thinking women should be equal as a man isn’t being a simp

    • @likefools_4605
      @likefools_4605 4 роки тому +459

      Barret don’t use the word simp if u don’t know the meaning to it and in what situation it’s appropriate to use .

    • @bubson2981
      @bubson2981 4 роки тому +39

      Ah yes one of the LEGIONS of female mra's

    • @TGLE_YT
      @TGLE_YT 4 роки тому +50

      @Barret 🤡

    • @esmepersis351
      @esmepersis351 4 роки тому +153

      @Barret Male feminists... the (future) king of my heart. I will never date or be in love with a man who believes that he or his gender is superior to mine. I will make this very clear to anyone who ever wants to be my S/O. So unless you live in Alabama and are forced to marry your sister, have fun being single

  • @ektoras_fl4943
    @ektoras_fl4943 5 місяців тому +8

    5:05 I love how she tries to put words in their mouth while she knows what she ment

    • @daliam8715
      @daliam8715 3 місяці тому +2

      That's exactly what he was doing. He was infantalising women and acting as if we are children. He also did compare women to children. He even agreed to this.

    • @ektoras_fl4943
      @ektoras_fl4943 2 місяці тому

      @@daliam8715 🫵🤡

  • @Nombeko
    @Nombeko 5 років тому +28287

    I would have liked to see a male feminist or a female, male rights activist.

    • @user-ei7ed6zy9k
      @user-ei7ed6zy9k 5 років тому +556

      You mean a simp? A simp is no better than an incel. Both losers with no backbone

    • @monagrimm1696
      @monagrimm1696 5 років тому +447

      Nombie why would you as a woman would want to lower yourself and be under men’s control?!

    • @abi2767
      @abi2767 5 років тому +224

      I wanna see Bill Burr in this thing 😂

    • @Rikiwizard
      @Rikiwizard 5 років тому +181

      yeah 1 of each wouldve been good

    • @ihunoble4878
      @ihunoble4878 5 років тому +838

      Mona __ that’s not what it means to be a men rights activist.

  • @pricesymonej
    @pricesymonej 4 роки тому +530

    There's right, there's wrong, and there's Derrick.

  • @gater4616
    @gater4616 4 роки тому +4424

    They should have gotten a man feminist and a woman men’s rights person rather than just 3 men vs 3 women

    • @thewitheringrose8670
      @thewitheringrose8670 4 роки тому +264

      so glad i'm not the only one that thought that

    • @ronja_kkat
      @ronja_kkat 4 роки тому +92

      I immediately thought of that when I saw them

    • @derpdawg3492
      @derpdawg3492 4 роки тому +103

      Replace Derek

    • @dinochickenuggy
      @dinochickenuggy 4 роки тому +96

      Are there really any women who are men's rights activists?

    • @morningboy_
      @morningboy_ 4 роки тому +26

      @@derpdawg3492 yes