-Don't treat women like NPCs. They are real people with goals, emotions, and a history. -You attract what you are. -Social media and porn perverts our preception of women. -Learn to not be defeated by the anxieties and fears of having an attractive partner. -Do no lust over flesh, but make sure to appreciate beauty.
@@iamstraight4798 are you familiar with video games? Non-playable characters. NPCs are typically merchants that sell you stuff, characters that give the hero a quest, the dragon you have to slay as a part of that quest, etc. One dimensional characters that exist to support the hero's journey. The OP is telling us to think of everyone as the main characters of their own story.
You attract what you are? By that logic I'm a millionaire who lives in the ghetto. (No, I think there's some real truth there, but live is long and full of errors).
You're wrong to a degree because all females are programmed. Females can't think for themselves, they're either under a positive reinforcement or a negative reinforcement.
Same, but mine is in 3 days. I've been exercising and meditating, doing what hamza recommended and I can already see the difference of how I acted in the past.
There is such a thing as porn of the mind. Not thinking about sexual things in your head is the same as not viewing it with your eyes. Don't do either.
@@johnniewalker3134 it's kinda hard not to think of something like that ya know. I'm a 15 yrs old teen going through puberty so it's pretty hard not to think of something like that. But I do stay away from porn since like 4 or 5 days ago and I think that's enough. Compared to what I was, I see a HUGE difference, my willpower has increased, I'm more motivated to work out, and I'm getting confidence to interact with any strangers. I just waved to a stranger jogging/walking, even tho he didn't respond I felt really great and I do hope it made his day and motivated him more. Still don't have confidence to talk to a girl tho, lol.
@@rudgerldelacamara53 the problem for most men/young men is not knowing what to say/ not being funny. Most if not all woman want to laugh and have fun day to day. If you can manage that then the rest comes some what easy. Your're young youll figure it out/
I spent 6 and a half years in a relationship with a very attractive girl, and at the same time I was becoming less and less attractive while she just kept improving. I got a lot of that sort of attention and also many comments of all kinds. At the beginning it was a problem every time we wanted to go partying or something, because I love dancing but if she was there I just had to become a bodyguard and I hated that shit, sometimes I'd even have nightmares of fighting another dude to death, it was messed up. However things improved a lot mindset-wise, often times we would just joke about that, and she was also quite a trooper, so she would allow nobody to exceed the limits. At the end she left me and its the most valuable lesson she taught me (learning to love and take care of myself again). By that point I had already started to do it but after the breakup I really started to take off. Now, 3 years (and a few girls) later I'm light-years ahead of that version of myself. Now there's a girl that I love and I've been helping her to become stronger and braver to deal with some hard stuff in her life. She also supports me and encourages me and after a few months of a very special friendship and going through some hardship together I've kissed her for the first time, and I'm literally in heaven right now because (she's really cute, okay, but) she's probably the most beautiful soul I have ever seen Edit: August update: we're in a relationship since May and we have just moved in together. We have a project in common and it's running smooth like butter
@@pewtercamaro Well whenever it stops making things better for the both of us, I'll make sure to end it. Meanwhile we'll keep enjoying our time together. Have a nice day sir
watching too much isn’t good for though, so keep a controlled amount of watch time on your devices in general and you’ll be happier, I know this because I went through the same process, Anyways have a good day
I am Greek and i believe you are just describing a different culture. Firstly, Greeks will talk to everyone. In tourist areas, the locals will speak to all the tourists, whether they are men or women. You could be a sad looking guy sitting at a random place with headphones on. Someone will still speak to you. Secondly, stares are common here. People will stare at you, and there is a good chance they will remember you the next day even if they interacted with a lot of people. Thirdly, Greeks are rather flirtatious, bordering on sexual harrasment. Especially the older generations will flirt a lot with tourist women, but this has stopped happening. Nowadays the locals are hitting on women less, so if you are noticing it today, you should imagine how it was like 2 decades ago.
from your experience, do other countries in Europe or in other parts of the world have a similar culture? Does Italy or other Mediterranean countries have that culture as well?
@@Leo-pt9ei I'm from Italy, obviously it depends on the area but generally, in this topic, Italy isn't like Greece. People can be nice but I think nobody will notice you if you are too much "passive". Staring it people is considered awkward, especially when you are in public transport, it makes feel anxious.
Now that I watched this video, I remember a small story from 10th grade. Its a moment of my life when I definitely didnt feel like I was objectifying women. I was in the dorm, its 3-4 pm, and there is a group of students who looked 1 or 2 years younger than me. And there were 4 girls in a separate group, who saw me look down at them. One of them shouted at me somewhat loudly a ,,Hello!", and I was a bit nervous, so I shouted back at her that as well, while I was also waving at them. It was a funny little moment that now made me a bit happier. 🤣💯
Κοίτα. Προσωπικά πιστεύω πως σαν κοινωνία δεν είμαστε σε τόσο άσχημη κατάσταση όσο οι Αμερικανοί (το κυριότερο δημογραφικό του καναλιού). Είμαστε κάτι ενδιάμεσα μεταξύ του παραδοσιακού και του μοντέρνου τρόπου προσέγγισης σχέσεων. Ωστόσο ακόμη και εμείς είμαστε σε κάποιο βαθμό συννένοχοι. English translation Look. I personally don't believe that Greek society is at the same level as the American one (which is the main demograpic of the channel). We are something in between the traditional and modern approach to relationships. However, we stil contribute to the phenonomenon.
@@grekusPotatus i get what you mean, but traditional approach ain't nothing bad imo, the full modern approach is psychopathic and wierd something in between is the best
as a man do male make up wear sexy male outfit skin routine hair routine style facial hair style scalp hair carry self walk certain way ... girl at gym told me I was cute. "uh. thanks" never spoke to her after that day. took picture of leaf showed friends had a good time
As a Greek im happy that you cane to Santorini i hope that you didn't regret the travel . Also i feel that i have to apologize for the citizens of the island that maybe made you uncomfortable,tryst me we are more friendly and not wierd. amazing work btw keep working!!!
Doesn't even answer the question in the title, the whole video is him flexing. I'm a 5'7 ugly brown dude, looking at her in the eyes won't make me attractive to her.
I’ve been in a really bad mood lately, Broke my leg, family treating me bad, got back into video games sister calling me sexist and hitting me for saying stuff like I don’t like modern feminism. Hamza’s vids are really helping me rn even tho I can’t pursue my goals. I discovered this channel a year back and it changed my life. One day I dream becoming like you. Thank you Hamza
@Tony Angelou well wdy expect? They're emotional creatures so if YOU'RE MOODY and direct that energy at them, they'll boomerang it back at you g. Take a deep breath, calm down, and focus on self improvement and projecting positive vibes.🖨️💯🧔🏾♂️
As a woman, I thank you for this HONEST ADVICE! I DO get those looks and it's quite an ego boost but when a person looks at me like an object, it can quickly change my mood and just wanna put on a big coat. So, thank you for putting THAT out there, KIND SIR!
Hamza Im really glad that you went back to more of your old video format with less memes and more of you just talking. ngl when the videos were super edited I stopped watching for a while. But this one was a banger. Keep making videos and working hard.
Hey Hamza, I'm 13 years old and I looked at some of your videos they''ve inspired me to start going to the gym and start changing myself I also started going to kickboxing and I started reading box more and educate myself more. Thank you for your advice because without it, I would've probably ended up like those jefferies.
I started at 19 now i’m 20 and my life has changed, please keep going you don’t know how great it is to start at your age. Everything is working out for me but i should’ve started at your age
The *muah* when you walked past the uber made me burst out laughing, self improvement is going pretty well with me and I use youtube just to check your new vids, love you man, you're awesome
Something I noticed is that over time of being on self improvement I've stopped looking at people's bodies when I talk to them and instead keeping eye contact
The Adonis part actually made me smile with the taking a picture of his favourite leaf and his followers sending him a picture of their favourite leaf I don’t know why it was just kinda cool feeling like that’s something like I would do if I had access to be able to go out everyday and just explore which is something I like to do but can’t and want to try and incorporate more in my life
Smoothly editing the videos less. You are now staying on screen and your dialogue is not being interrupted, slowly going back to an older format. Nice!
Actually I saw a girl crying so I stopped and talked to her she was really sad so I definitely wanted to help but she goes to my school. I hope to see her again
The one thing that makes me the most uncomfortable is speaking. I really hate my voice, it's nothing special at all. It sucks. I can't be confident when my voice sounds shit. I don't know if it's possible but I'd be really interested in a video speaking & voice.
Honestly, great advice not looking at women as an objective. How do I explain this? You’re very obsessed about your self help journey which I am so happy that you’re sharing with us. I just can’t help get the feeling that you’re beginning to see the world as how you want it to be. You get me? As to make a lot of things fit into the self help narrative you’ve created for yourself when there’s many things in play. Just a thought. Love the channel and mission to empower us young men.
Starting watching your vids and wow how my lift has changed. I was so red pilled and always thought why my relationship wouldn’t be at its full potential but this is real shit 👍🏼
I have a hard time with making eye contact with strangers honestly. I have an eye injury from playing baseball in highschool that left me with two very different pupil sizes once my right eye healed. The right pupil is pin point tiny and the left is fully dilated always. And the amount of strangers I've had ask me if I'm on drugs or give me odd looks and comments like I'm a crazy person is off putting tbh. I forget I even have it most of the time. But all it takes is like one woman I make eye contact with to give me a strange double take or that look like they're investigating something off to remind me. I know it's an insecurity but damn it gets old. I have had some people think it's cool like I have eyes like David Bowie or I had one girl say I have "brilliant eyes" once to remind me its something unique I guess. But I don't know how to fully own it or what to do to get rid of this insecurity yet because I think most women find it off putting and that hurts because eye contact is needed for intimacy.
It’s crazy how people will openly insult a person without even knowing them or getting to know them. On some level this is an insecurity for you and that is completely normal. For this topic it is hard for me to give advice, but what I can say is that improving yourself like going to the gym to build to physical and impressive body will help. It will boost your confidence and help you feel comfortable in your own skin.
I think a key step here that is barely being talked about in the comments is how he said it takes time to truly feel things changing. I needed this message today, thanks Hamza.
Victim blaming never helps anyone, porn addicts don't quit porn because they're told they're losers, it just makes them more depressed and sends them back to porn.
Hey Hamza, I saw your video about changes to the main channel, and I want to say I much prefer these longer form videos. Not quite as rambling as the 2nd channel, but the information is more specific and not just a rehash of some Jeffrey Adonis motivation every video. Great work brother, and just wanted to say I'm excited for your future videos!
WAIT HAMZA WERE YOU IN CANADA AT THE TIME? Cause if that’s the case that guy who did the kissy face might’ve been me. I was arm wrestling my friends when I saw somebody that looked extremely like you, I remember holding eye contact and that guy just did the kissy face outta nowhere, we were in a mall in Calgary City.
I remember when I decided to create an Instagram, but when I saw the wall of half-naked women, I realized why I never bothered making one so early on. Now, my email gets flooded with Instagram notifications and can’t be bothered to go back and delete my account. Same with my Twitter account. I gave my high school friend access and he changed the wallpaper to pink flowers and other feminine features back in 2014 and it’s been like so ever since.
N ot gonna lie to you Hamza this is my first video watching my friend recommended you to me because you changed his life for the better. Love this video
women think im weird because i usually am very friendly but reserved, i think they confuse it for flirting while i really am just trying to be normal friendly to all people.
Some people these days tend to conflate friendliness with sex. I have moments like that were just plain friendliness is seen as flirtatious. It's funny like that!
@@applesandgrapesfordinner4626 Its really annoying when the woman thinks i actually want to bang her and acts like a total bitch and distant. the 'flirt' game which i have no interest in playing.
Hey Hamza, Just wanted to express my gratitude for creating the community you’ve built. Embarrassingly, I have an addiction to porn, but I was in denial for the longest time. You made me realize the content I was watching was leading me to objectify women, even when I kept denying it to myself. Thank you again for changing my mindset!
0:52 something i would do , my friends got me into snap but i hated the idea of waking up and doing snap streaks so i stopped i only go on the app sometimes to post about a cool thing i bought or found or maybe send 1 photo to someone then i will disappear , much happier
This is really where modesty comes in for women. I know it’s fun to go out and be seen. But if you’re alone you put yourself in danger and if you’re with your man you put him in danger 😬 It’s just something to think about if you are a really good looking lady - and you don’t need Hamza to tell you girls! You already know this.
Okay, then I will start wearing burka like saudi women. It is so easy to judge women when you aren't one. That's how rapists think. She's attractive- she is guilty.
Bro, your experience sounds exactly like mine with my girlfriend. I was on holiday with my GF in Madeira, she dressed nice, a bit sexy maybe, we went to the city center and she got stared at by so many people bro. Mostly guys but even women. They were not looking for just a second, most of them were staring. That was an eye-opener for me like wow, it's that easy for a girl to get attention. But the funny part is, most men who were looking at her on that island were old haha
Hamza, thank you for existing in this way. I do need help with something. I workout and I have a pretty decent body with normal facial features but according to you it is not just about the looks right? I am pretty weak with my instagram and other social media platforms. I am a little privacy conscious I think if I add people they will invade my privacy, they will try to get close to the girls that I have already added on my instagram. So I have 2 questions. 1) How to overcome this fear? 2) How to actually crush it on instagram?
Nothing wrong being harmlessly weird They're right, but that is not a bad thing. Someone can love you for that exact reason that you are weird for the same reasons someone may not.
I had a beautiful experience last Sunday at a restaurant, I was the fat guy growing up and only ever got rejected at school. There was this roped off section of the restaurant that had the best booths and seating it was completely empty and we had no reservations. My mother and cousins were all okay with having a shitty place to sit at, but I decided to go talk to the women at the front desk, I convinced them to let us stay in the roped off section, they even put up a sign saying "this section is reserved for a private party, thank you for understanding ~Management" Eventually the waitress came back, I flirted with her and made her laugh, later she came back with her friend and I made them both laugh and literally jump with excitement. My family members were all shocked at how I was able to do this, it felt great. Thank you Hamza Ahmed Thank you Elliott Hulse
6:40 Fun fact: in post-communist Eastern Europe it's generally inappropriate (at least that's how I was raised) to smile at people so now you're stuck with just looking them in the eye, but that without a smile can be seen as threatening.
Hamza, i am 37 years old from NYC and I want to thank you for giving the fellas a positive or "refreshing" discourse on their individual manhoods. that whole fresh&fit mess of boys is to be 86'd asap.
Hamza can u do a video on insecurities.. i m going BALD. And i m dying from the anxiety. It's so hard to accept even though I want to.. it's so hard. I think bout if girls will find me attractive anymore and people will laugh at me.. could you give me a reality check
The zombies you speak of looking at their idea of a woman often also look at you, the strong man, in a different weird way because of porn as well. And I believe that’s multiplied when you the man are on semen retention. Looks of jealousy mixed with confusion because they can’t believe a strong version of a man exists and is able to date such an attractive woman.
I was weirded out by the attention I was getting when I went out with an attractive girl and everyone was super-nice to us (one exception but still) The fun part, we aren’t even in a relationship (we are best friends since she friend-zoned me) but I know EVERYONE is probably thinking otherwise
That’s weird… I’m worried about that when i start hanging out with this hot girl i know. But whatever, if they try to mess with us i will intervene and tell them to back off.
about a year ago, i used to be a whole different person and i can tell by how i used to walk and talk and how people looked at me and how i looked at people, but around that time alot of things changed and my personality almost did a 180 degree shift, at that time my mentality started to get better and 2 months ago from now i started really working out, and i can tell that people dont see me as a normal guy anymore. i dont look like one year ago me to women, its to the point where you can know who is an "npc" and who isnt, and when you do both of you will have this drive to talk to each other, which is honestly surprisingly expected
Maybe If it's like idk something like "mommy's soft submissive boy gets cuddles ASMR" or sum but if it's just like tapping noises your probably fine bro lol
Nowadays, men have a hard time understanding women. They aren't complicated at all. You know how you're feeling right now? How you're breathing, how you're thinking, and ultimately, how you're conscious? Women feel the same way. They experience the world just the same as you. They are human beings, not some mythical creature. If you're scared around women, it means that you're expecting things from them. You're projecting your insecurities and desires on them. The best way to get out of this is ultimately to read The Power Of Now by Eckhart Tolle, which together with A New Earth is the best book ever written. If you, however, want practical advice, then do what Robert Greene says: get out of yourself. Starts listening to the other person, and forget about what you want from them.
Wrong. Why? because where is your proof?Are you exactly a female?If not, then how can you ever really know if they are the same way as you are? Yeah they may tell you, but that doesn't actually mean they're the same as you. Women and Men perceive the world differently, because they are treated differently by default. I know that you're trying to encourage people to just not be worried about them, but clearly making assumptions about things isn't the right way to go about it imo. It's also funny, you can see that we as males on this video have to see them as human and not as women while there aren't too many videos that tell them to see us as men and not really human.
@@Yusa_Beach women see men as humans. They don’t dehumanise them, they don’t see them as sexual objects. That’s why there aren’t videos like that. Men lack a lot of empathy that’s why a lot of people create such videos to explain such obvious things. Why would any man think that a woman isn’t a human??!?
@@xxxmxxwm1564 1. You can't speak for every woman, you're mearly giving your own opinion and experience. Get rid of it and tend to look in the direction of someone else's and consider another. (The majority perhaps, because if there are multiple people with the same opinion then surely there's a problem.) 2. You don't have to just be deemed a sexual object to be dehumanized. And 3. There aren't any videos about women treating men as sexual objects, but there are definitely videos about women treating men as just tools of utility and completely disregarding them once they are done using them. Look at the videos, look at the experiences of others to see why some men have said that some women don't see human. And as you can see, if men were lacking in empathy, they wouldn't be here in the first place.
@@Yusa_Beach What do you want from the people here in this comment section? He just said general things that are important for all human beings, not details that come only for men or only for women. You are the one here projecting your own insecurities and negative energy here.
I look and look for a good while building up my 🔥 then the end games on and I have to allocate my resources strategically while maintaining the passion in order for the domino effect of (guilty)pleasure, to be expressed accordingly, and subsequently, mentally rated/recorded, for future improvements.
How’s you guys gain confidence? I’m pushing myself in areas I find hard, but still find it difficult... but I’ve got better. Maybe it’s a slow process, but all tips are welcome
With all these videos and the self-improvement journey, I think my confidence is really rising. With confidence I mean feeling like you genuinely are someone worthy of love, respect and admiration, and feeling good about yourself, feeling like you can reach high places. What isn't improving much is social anxiety and approaching people (regardless of gender - I also have difficulty approaching guys). I don't know to what point most of social anxiety can actually be erased, but I think with many many experiences with people in general you will losen up. How do you feel?
Spending time with new people. I went to a new school recently and my social skills have definitely improved (I’m a girl tho, I was always shy & I am also autistic so it’s harder for me).
@@hairyballs4284 not just with girls, anyone. Tbh my biggest area is socially, which I’ve been actively doing... pushing myself, and I feel better for it. Still difficult thou. Sometimes I’m fine, other times I’ll get super shy.
-Don't treat women like NPCs. They are real people with goals, emotions, and a history.
-You attract what you are.
-Social media and porn perverts our preception of women.
-Learn to not be defeated by the anxieties and fears of having an attractive partner.
-Do no lust over flesh, but make sure to appreciate beauty.
You just can tell you wil simp over every girl she aint a god she is just ugly and stinky in the morning like Evryone
whats an npc
@@iamstraight4798 are you familiar with video games? Non-playable characters. NPCs are typically merchants that sell you stuff, characters that give the hero a quest, the dragon you have to slay as a part of that quest, etc. One dimensional characters that exist to support the hero's journey. The OP is telling us to think of everyone as the main characters of their own story.
You attract what you are? By that logic I'm a millionaire who lives in the ghetto. (No, I think there's some real truth there, but live is long and full of errors).
You're wrong to a degree because all females are programmed. Females can't think for themselves, they're either under a positive reinforcement or a negative reinforcement.
Delete all social media. Talk to people, read your choice of books, master your work/school/career. We're gonna make it, if we will it 💪
Yesterday i deleted Everything. Instagram, Snapchat, discord, Netflix, and left only 1 game.
@@kraljpingvina5761 Nice. Next step Is delete also that 1 game. Keep going we will make It!
@@kraljpingvina5761 is that game clash royale
@@AG-ck1zr 😂😂
@@AG-ck1zr apex mobile
2 months of no porn and I can already see crazy differences between how I used to be and how I am now. Hopefully I continue this :)
Keep on grinding brother
Same, but mine is in 3 days.
I've been exercising and meditating, doing what hamza recommended and I can already see the difference of how I acted in the past.
There is such a thing as porn of the mind. Not thinking about sexual things in your head is the same as not viewing it with your eyes. Don't do either.
@@johnniewalker3134 it's kinda hard not to think of something like that ya know.
I'm a 15 yrs old teen going through puberty so it's pretty hard not to think of something like that.
But I do stay away from porn since like 4 or 5 days ago and I think that's enough.
Compared to what I was, I see a HUGE difference, my willpower has increased, I'm more motivated to work out, and I'm getting confidence to interact with any strangers.
I just waved to a stranger jogging/walking, even tho he didn't respond I felt really great and I do hope it made his day and motivated him more. Still don't have confidence to talk to a girl tho, lol.
@@rudgerldelacamara53 the problem for most men/young men is not knowing what to say/ not being funny. Most if not all woman want to laugh and have fun day to day. If you can manage that then the rest comes some what easy. Your're young youll figure it out/
I spent 6 and a half years in a relationship with a very attractive girl, and at the same time I was becoming less and less attractive while she just kept improving. I got a lot of that sort of attention and also many comments of all kinds. At the beginning it was a problem every time we wanted to go partying or something, because I love dancing but if she was there I just had to become a bodyguard and I hated that shit, sometimes I'd even have nightmares of fighting another dude to death, it was messed up. However things improved a lot mindset-wise, often times we would just joke about that, and she was also quite a trooper, so she would allow nobody to exceed the limits. At the end she left me and its the most valuable lesson she taught me (learning to love and take care of myself again). By that point I had already started to do it but after the breakup I really started to take off. Now, 3 years (and a few girls) later I'm light-years ahead of that version of myself. Now there's a girl that I love and I've been helping her to become stronger and braver to deal with some hard stuff in her life. She also supports me and encourages me and after a few months of a very special friendship and going through some hardship together I've kissed her for the first time, and I'm literally in heaven right now because (she's really cute, okay, but) she's probably the most beautiful soul I have ever seen
Edit: August update: we're in a relationship since May and we have just moved in together. We have a project in common and it's running smooth like butter
You simped a bit towards the end but great story bro. I’m happy for you.
@@iwantgoals1566 hahahahahahah fair enough bro, I'll take that. Have a great day 😘
I am happy for you sir. Let's keep on improving now and to the future!
One day it will end…nothing lasts forever
@@pewtercamaro Well whenever it stops making things better for the both of us, I'll make sure to end it. Meanwhile we'll keep enjoying our time together. Have a nice day sir
Can't believe I really hated this content at first but then actually got addicted as I kept watching more and more. Thanks bruv!
watching too much isn’t good for though, so keep a controlled amount of watch time on your devices in general and you’ll be happier, I know this because I went through the same process, Anyways have a good day
Dummi you should get addicted to gym not videos. 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Addition isnt good
he said he's switching back to the less edited and cringe content.
You might like my content too g lets go
I am Greek and i believe you are just describing a different culture. Firstly, Greeks will talk to everyone. In tourist areas, the locals will speak to all the tourists, whether they are men or women. You could be a sad looking guy sitting at a random place with headphones on. Someone will still speak to you. Secondly, stares are common here. People will stare at you, and there is a good chance they will remember you the next day even if they interacted with a lot of people. Thirdly, Greeks are rather flirtatious, bordering on sexual harrasment. Especially the older generations will flirt a lot with tourist women, but this has stopped happening. Nowadays the locals are hitting on women less, so if you are noticing it today, you should imagine how it was like 2 decades ago.
from your experience, do other countries in Europe or in other parts of the world have a similar culture? Does Italy or other Mediterranean countries have that culture as well?
@@Leo-pt9ei Albania as well
@@Leo-pt9ei I'm from Italy, obviously it depends on the area but generally, in this topic, Italy isn't like Greece.
People can be nice but I think nobody will notice you if you are too much "passive".
Staring it people is considered awkward, especially when you are in public transport, it makes feel anxious.
Greeks aren't real.
Facts
Now that I watched this video, I remember a small story from 10th grade. Its a moment of my life when I definitely didnt feel like I was objectifying women. I was in the dorm, its 3-4 pm, and there is a group of students who looked 1 or 2 years younger than me. And there were 4 girls in a separate group, who saw me look down at them. One of them shouted at me somewhat loudly a ,,Hello!", and I was a bit nervous, so I shouted back at her that as well, while I was also waving at them. It was a funny little moment that now made me a bit happier. 🤣💯
Jól van Tamás, ne hagyd magad! ;)
@@krue. dik itt vannak magyarok is
@@nbarneyy Igen vannak és próbálnak jobb emberré válni :))
Idk what this is.. lmao I was banging 10s when I was a loser XD y'all, just get out there and get what u want. These yt algorithms are weird
@@krue. helló belló
I love how Hamza laughs at the ridiculous scenarios he makes but he knows they need to be told
As a Greek, I would say that WE have this as a problem and it's hard to escape it. Sadly you will see it quite a lot at Greece
Don't worry it's not about country I'm sure that every country deals with the same problem
This shit is everywhere bro trust me.
Κοίτα. Προσωπικά πιστεύω πως σαν κοινωνία δεν είμαστε σε τόσο άσχημη κατάσταση όσο οι Αμερικανοί (το κυριότερο δημογραφικό του καναλιού). Είμαστε κάτι ενδιάμεσα μεταξύ του παραδοσιακού και του μοντέρνου τρόπου προσέγγισης σχέσεων. Ωστόσο ακόμη και εμείς είμαστε σε κάποιο βαθμό συννένοχοι.
English translation
Look. I personally don't believe that Greek society is at the same level as the American one (which is the main demograpic of the channel). We are something in between the traditional and modern approach to relationships. However, we stil contribute to the phenonomenon.
hi from Turkey
@@grekusPotatus i get what you mean, but traditional approach ain't nothing bad imo, the full modern approach is psychopathic and wierd something in between is the best
“And sin, young man, is when you treat people as things. Including yourself. That’s what sin is.” - Granny Weatherwax
_"... Including yourself..."_ - Overlooked and worth pointing out ☝🏻...
Thanks for sharing that
@@mkayokay3192 ofc. The more I think abt it the more true it is within my experience.
….
as a man
do male make up
wear sexy male outfit
skin routine
hair routine
style facial hair
style scalp hair
carry self
walk certain way
... girl at gym told me I was cute.
"uh. thanks"
never spoke to her after that day.
took picture of leaf
showed friends
had a good time
As a Greek im happy that you cane to Santorini i hope that you didn't regret the travel . Also i feel that i have to apologize for the citizens of the island that maybe made you uncomfortable,tryst me we are more friendly and not wierd. amazing work btw keep working!!!
*came *trust
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Greetings to Greece from Turkey
Πες τα Χρησταρα
@@user-on9vx8ee1n the trust one I understood, y and u really look alike in Greek
Confidence, & self improvement can turn any man into a 1 to a 10, keep elevating my fellow brothers & the rewards will come 💪🏽👑
Yesss
Facts bro, that’s the gift of being a man
🙏🏽
Well said king👑
@Sigma males are rare you're taller than most women just chill brah
Why Women Think You're Weird: you watch youtube videos about why women think youre weird
Doesn't even answer the question in the title, the whole video is him flexing. I'm a 5'7 ugly brown dude, looking at her in the eyes won't make me attractive to her.
You re right, I'm clicking off
got me in a catch 22
It got recommended and idk why i clicked 🥶
Where is your growth and learning mindset.
I’ve been in a really bad mood lately, Broke my leg, family treating me bad, got back into video games sister calling me sexist and hitting me for saying stuff like I don’t like modern feminism. Hamza’s vids are really helping me rn even tho I can’t pursue my goals. I discovered this channel a year back and it changed my life. One day I dream becoming like you. Thank you Hamza
your sister crazy
Cut these people from your life as soon as you are financially able for your own mental health
@Tony Angelou well wdy expect? They're emotional creatures so if YOU'RE MOODY and direct that energy at them, they'll boomerang it back at you g. Take a deep breath, calm down, and focus on self improvement and projecting positive vibes.🖨️💯🧔🏾♂️
Why would your sister do that? Fucked up
As a woman, I thank you for this HONEST ADVICE! I DO get those looks and it's quite an ego boost but when a person looks at me like an object, it can quickly change my mood and just wanna put on a big coat. So, thank you for putting THAT out there, KIND SIR!
No one cares what you think ^^
I agree with you I would hate being looked at like an object
This is the doubt…sensation is different when it comes from attractive guys or not? The disgust is the same?
boy do I have a religion for you
And when woman put on a “big coat” they are oppressed
Hamza Im really glad that you went back to more of your old video format with less memes and more of you just talking. ngl when the videos were super edited I stopped watching for a while. But this one was a banger. Keep making videos and working hard.
Bro if you like hamza you'll love my content don't take my word for it give it a shot
Hey Hamza, I'm 13 years old and I looked at some of your videos they''ve inspired me to start going to the gym and start changing myself I also started going to kickboxing and I started reading box more and educate myself more. Thank you for your advice because without it, I would've probably ended up like those jefferies.
Nice
Nice
Good for you 👍
15 year old here, same.
Best self-improvement channel I've found
I started at 19 now i’m 20 and my life has changed, please keep going you don’t know how great it is to start at your age. Everything is working out for me but i should’ve started at your age
I just started watching his vids, and now my life is getting better. Thanks man keep going. :)
The *muah* when you walked past the uber made me burst out laughing, self improvement is going pretty well with me and I use youtube just to check your new vids, love you man, you're awesome
Think of her with the lense of being your friend, this actually goes for male and female.
Something I noticed is that over time of being on self improvement I've stopped looking at people's bodies when I talk to them and instead keeping eye contact
if I don't look at her breasts how would I know if she's attractive or not
After my gym workout yesterday I experienced that so much when I had to take the bus, many looked at me for couple secs, that usually never happens
The Adonis part actually made me smile with the taking a picture of his favourite leaf and his followers sending him a picture of their favourite leaf I don’t know why it was just kinda cool feeling like that’s something like I would do if I had access to be able to go out everyday and just explore which is something I like to do but can’t and want to try and incorporate more in my life
Smoothly editing the videos less. You are now staying on screen and your dialogue is not being interrupted, slowly going back to an older format. Nice!
thank god there isn't a thousand edits a second now lol... like you said on ur second channel I'm gonna love the main channel again.
I'm grateful for this video as it reminded me to do my daily meditation
Bro a girl just said I'm kinda cute, it's been like 2 hours but I'm still blushing.
Forget about it (sigma grindset)
If you treat a girl like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan
Actually I saw a girl crying so I stopped and talked to her she was really sad so I definitely wanted to help but she goes to my school. I hope to see her again
again thank you hamza
This video is way calmer than the others, its sooooo much better in my opinion
The one thing that makes me the most uncomfortable is speaking. I really hate my voice, it's nothing special at all. It sucks. I can't be confident when my voice sounds shit. I don't know if it's possible but I'd be really interested in a video speaking & voice.
Maybe check out videos of others channels on how to deeper your voice or better it
Or just don't give a damn about your voice. Most problems don't just begin from other people, but ourselves.
dont speak like the voice in your mind. Talk normally
Honestly, great advice not looking at women as an objective.
How do I explain this?
You’re very obsessed about your self help journey which I am so happy that you’re sharing with us. I just can’t help get the feeling that you’re beginning to see the world as how you want it to be. You get me? As to make a lot of things fit into the self help narrative you’ve created for yourself when there’s many things in play.
Just a thought. Love the channel and mission to empower us young men.
Nailed it. 🎯💯
Usually watching on yr w no comments section, but I really been fw you hamza even the videos before the edited vids were quality
Starting watching your vids and wow how my lift has changed. I was so red pilled and always thought why my relationship wouldn’t be at its full potential but this is real shit 👍🏼
Bro if you like hamza you'll love my content don't take my word for it give it a shot
I have a hard time with making eye contact with strangers honestly. I have an eye injury from playing baseball in highschool that left me with two very different pupil sizes once my right eye healed. The right pupil is pin point tiny and the left is fully dilated always. And the amount of strangers I've had ask me if I'm on drugs or give me odd looks and comments like I'm a crazy person is off putting tbh.
I forget I even have it most of the time. But all it takes is like one woman I make eye contact with to give me a strange double take or that look like they're investigating something off to remind me. I know it's an insecurity but damn it gets old. I have had some people think it's cool like I have eyes like David Bowie or I had one girl say I have "brilliant eyes" once to remind me its something unique I guess. But I don't know how to fully own it or what to do to get rid of this insecurity yet because I think most women find it off putting and that hurts because eye contact is needed for intimacy.
It’s crazy how people will openly insult a person without even knowing them or getting to know them. On some level this is an insecurity for you and that is completely normal. For this topic it is hard for me to give advice, but what I can say is that improving yourself like going to the gym to build to physical and impressive body will help. It will boost your confidence and help you feel comfortable in your own skin.
I think a key step here that is barely being talked about in the comments is how he said it takes time to truly feel things changing. I needed this message today, thanks Hamza.
Interesting perspective. I'll try this. Thanks Hamza!😊❤
Victim blaming never helps anyone, porn addicts don't quit porn because they're told they're losers, it just makes them more depressed and sends them back to porn.
Hamza recorded a stock pile of videos before shaving his beard. Good shit.
Grateful for you brother🔥🙏❤️
Loving the more Chill vids
no idea bro, since i started my self improvement journey 3 years ago i have never attracted a single woman
😭😭😭
How old are you? If i may ask
@@HThB 20
@@kenzofps487 you still have to talk to girls, dont be weird about it though, like just as friends
Hamza can be described in one word legendary
Im guilty of this. Im trying to get better but it's so easy to lose yourself with social media
Hey Hamza, I saw your video about changes to the main channel, and I want to say I much prefer these longer form videos.
Not quite as rambling as the 2nd channel, but the information is more specific and not just a rehash of some Jeffrey Adonis motivation every video.
Great work brother, and just wanted to say I'm excited for your future videos!
WAIT HAMZA WERE YOU IN CANADA AT THE TIME? Cause if that’s the case that guy who did the kissy face might’ve been me. I was arm wrestling my friends when I saw somebody that looked extremely like you, I remember holding eye contact and that guy just did the kissy face outta nowhere, we were in a mall in Calgary City.
I remember when I decided to create an Instagram, but when I saw the wall of half-naked women, I realized why I never bothered making one so early on. Now, my email gets flooded with Instagram notifications and can’t be bothered to go back and delete my account. Same with my Twitter account. I gave my high school friend access and he changed the wallpaper to pink flowers and other feminine features back in 2014 and it’s been like so ever since.
N ot gonna lie to you Hamza this is my first video watching my friend recommended you to me because you changed his life for the better.
Love this video
Glad you are on vacations in my country! Have a good stay in santorini Hamza💯
That 15 year old boy was a mini adonis
women think im weird because i usually am very friendly but reserved, i think they confuse it for flirting while i really am just trying to be normal friendly to all people.
Some people these days tend to conflate friendliness with sex. I have moments like that were just plain friendliness is seen as flirtatious. It's funny like that!
@@applesandgrapesfordinner4626 Its really annoying when the woman thinks i actually want to bang her and acts like a total bitch and distant. the 'flirt' game which i have no interest in playing.
I appreciate your confidence
Great Video! Thank you hamza for the good advices!
“Why women think you’re weird”
You make all life decisions based on the type of women you can get.
Hey Hamza,
Just wanted to express my gratitude for creating the community you’ve built.
Embarrassingly, I have an addiction to porn, but I was in denial for the longest time. You made me realize the content I was watching was leading me to objectify women, even when I kept denying it to myself. Thank you again for changing my mindset!
Don't give up bro, the road may be long and rough but you have what it takes to be a man.
Stay strong king.
You got the same name as me in real
Same, we're gonna make it bro 💪
Prefered this video alot compared to your most recent videos ,can see your acting on what you spoke about on hamza unfiltered
0:52 something i would do , my friends got me into snap but i hated the idea of waking up and doing snap streaks so i stopped i only go on the app sometimes to post about a cool thing i bought or found or maybe send 1 photo to someone then i will disappear , much happier
Imagine how uncomfortable is for me and my mom when people of all ages ogle at her without any trace of shame
Women do it to
Gigachad and his leaf are canon now.
Good on ya Hammer. Good video.
I don't really know how he doing this but everytime he gives an advice i really felt some flare of motivations!!!
This is really where modesty comes in for women. I know it’s fun to go out and be seen. But if you’re alone you put yourself in danger and if you’re with your man you put him in danger 😬
It’s just something to think about if you are a really good looking lady - and you don’t need Hamza to tell you girls! You already know this.
Bru
A part of what you said is plainly wrong bro. How i being attractive a danger to the guy?
@@franklynhartkamp5667 watch the video again. Hamza explains it.
Okay, then I will start wearing burka like saudi women. It is so easy to judge women when you aren't one. That's how rapists think. She's attractive- she is guilty.
@@user-te6ch8ep7n I am a woman
“A woman has an easy life because of you”
thank you for shouting out my country, also you can visit crete it's one of the biggest islands in the world it has a lot of seas check it out
Love this video style
Completely unrelated, but RIP to all the kids who died in Ulvade, Texas. They were so young, America needs to do better man
Dude, that really was unrelated
Bro, your experience sounds exactly like mine with my girlfriend. I was on holiday with my GF in Madeira, she dressed nice, a bit sexy maybe, we went to the city center and she got stared at by so many people bro. Mostly guys but even women. They were not looking for just a second, most of them were staring. That was an eye-opener for me like wow, it's that easy for a girl to get attention. But the funny part is, most men who were looking at her on that island were old haha
LETSGO the vids are back baby💪
thanks hamza
Thank you for understanding the way how creepy guys look at us and how normal men do. Very few men understand this.
Bro if you like hamza you'll love my content don't take my word for it give it a shot
@@RickyLoweYT why do you have to randomly advertise your content
no one wants your only fans honey go bother someone else
There is no such thing as normal men. We all see you as objects of our desires. Some men are just way better at hiding it .
like an old author from Vietnam once said:
"20 years old, we're not stone and rock, but we're not all flesh either."
Thank you Hamza ♥️ you are a very cool guy
I went there with the family a while back, Santorini is truly beautiful
Hamza, thank you for existing in this way. I do need help with something.
I workout and I have a pretty decent body with normal facial features but according to you it is not just about the looks right? I am pretty weak with my instagram and other social media platforms.
I am a little privacy conscious I think if I add people they will invade my privacy, they will try to get close to the girls that I have already added on my instagram. So I have 2 questions.
1) How to overcome this fear?
2) How to actually crush it on instagram?
Overcame this issue, No more a pussy to showing who I am and whatever I was fearful about Alhamdulillah.
Tysm brother ❤️
> Why women think that u r weird
Well, that's because they are right
Nothing wrong being harmlessly weird
They're right, but that is not a bad thing. Someone can love you for that exact reason that you are weird for the same reasons someone may not.
The first thing Jefferey said caught me off guard my mum was around 😂
Your my inspiration bro
I had a beautiful experience last Sunday at a restaurant, I was the fat guy growing up and only ever got rejected at school.
There was this roped off section of the restaurant that had the best booths and seating it was completely empty and we had no reservations. My mother and cousins were all okay with having a shitty place to sit at, but I decided to go talk to the women at the front desk, I convinced them to let us stay in the roped off section, they even put up a sign saying "this section is reserved for a private party, thank you for understanding ~Management"
Eventually the waitress came back, I flirted with her and made her laugh, later she came back with her friend and I made them both laugh and literally jump with excitement.
My family members were all shocked at how I was able to do this, it felt great.
Thank you Hamza Ahmed
Thank you Elliott Hulse
Whenever i read comments like this one, it always puts a huge grin on my face
😐
🤡
That's awesome Christian. These kind of moments are why we go on self-improvement
Bro if you like hamza you'll love my content don't take my word for it give it a shot
6:40 Fun fact: in post-communist Eastern Europe it's generally inappropriate (at least that's how I was raised) to smile at people so now you're stuck with just looking them in the eye, but that without a smile can be seen as threatening.
That's just sad.
Seems to explain a lot about the history.
Idk, smiling while look at someone can be seeing as threatening as well
Hamza, i am 37 years old from NYC and I want to thank you for giving the fellas a positive or "refreshing" discourse on their individual manhoods. that whole fresh&fit mess of boys is to be 86'd asap.
I just found out about u today and I love your videos bro 💙
Hamza can u do a video on insecurities.. i m going BALD. And i m dying from the anxiety. It's so hard to accept even though I want to.. it's so hard. I think bout if girls will find me attractive anymore and people will laugh at me.. could you give me a reality check
The zombies you speak of looking at their idea of a woman often also look at you, the strong man, in a different weird way because of porn as well. And I believe that’s multiplied when you the man are on semen retention. Looks of jealousy mixed with confusion because they can’t believe a strong version of a man exists and is able to date such an attractive woman.
Lest go Hamza
''gotta stay busy kings'' reads captain underpants*
6:43 this part is realteble af. One time I had a very attractive girl look me in the eyes and I looked back. It's a whole nother feeling man
Ikr
@@fakefayaz7994 hamza don't play around the attention from self improvement be out there
I was weirded out by the attention I was getting when I went out with an attractive girl and everyone was super-nice to us (one exception but still)
The fun part, we aren’t even in a relationship (we are best friends since she friend-zoned me) but I know EVERYONE is probably thinking otherwise
That’s weird… I’m worried about that when i start hanging out with this hot girl i know. But whatever, if they try to mess with us i will intervene and tell them to back off.
I NOTICED THIS TOO, if i was out alone it would be SOOO different. Its crazy.
i used to be like this. It’s pretty messed up🙁
about a year ago, i used to be a whole different person and i can tell by how i used to walk and talk and how people looked at me and how i looked at people, but around that time alot of things changed and my personality almost did a 180 degree shift, at that time my mentality started to get better and 2 months ago from now i started really working out, and i can tell that people dont see me as a normal guy anymore. i dont look like one year ago me to women, its to the point where you can know who is an "npc" and who isnt, and when you do both of you will have this drive to talk to each other, which is honestly surprisingly expected
Question for all of y'all... Including Hamza, bc I'm genuinely curious... Does ASMR, no matter what kind, count as porn or guilty pleasure?
Maybe If it's like idk something like "mommy's soft submissive boy gets cuddles ASMR" or sum but if it's just like tapping noises your probably fine bro lol
@@MonoWero okok good phew
Nowadays, men have a hard time understanding women. They aren't complicated at all. You know how you're feeling right now? How you're breathing, how you're thinking, and ultimately, how you're conscious? Women feel the same way. They experience the world just the same as you. They are human beings, not some mythical creature. If you're scared around women, it means that you're expecting things from them. You're projecting your insecurities and desires on them. The best way to get out of this is ultimately to read The Power Of Now by Eckhart Tolle, which together with A New Earth is the best book ever written. If you, however, want practical advice, then do what Robert Greene says: get out of yourself. Starts listening to the other person, and forget about what you want from them.
If i threated men the way i threat women there would be problems
Wrong. Why? because where is your proof?Are you exactly a female?If not, then how can you ever really know if they are the same way as you are? Yeah they may tell you, but that doesn't actually mean they're the same as you.
Women and Men perceive the world differently, because they are treated differently by default.
I know that you're trying to encourage people to just not be worried about them, but clearly making assumptions about things isn't the right way to go about it imo.
It's also funny, you can see that we as males on this video have to see them as human and not as women while there aren't too many videos that tell them to see us as men and not really human.
@@Yusa_Beach women see men as humans. They don’t dehumanise them, they don’t see them as sexual objects. That’s why there aren’t videos like that. Men lack a lot of empathy that’s why a lot of people create such videos to explain such obvious things. Why would any man think that a woman isn’t a human??!?
@@xxxmxxwm1564 1. You can't speak for every woman, you're mearly giving your own opinion and experience. Get rid of it and tend to look in the direction of someone else's and consider another. (The majority perhaps, because if there are multiple people with the same opinion then surely there's a problem.)
2. You don't have to just be deemed a sexual object to be dehumanized.
And
3. There aren't any videos about women treating men as sexual objects, but there are definitely videos about women treating men as just tools of utility and completely disregarding them once they are done using them.
Look at the videos, look at the experiences of others to see why some men have said that some women don't see human.
And as you can see, if men were lacking in empathy, they wouldn't be here in the first place.
@@Yusa_Beach What do you want from the people here in this comment section? He just said general things that are important for all human beings, not details that come only for men or only for women. You are the one here projecting your own insecurities and negative energy here.
Greece has very beautiful places as someone who lives there and I've seen everything yet it still surprises me lol
I look and look for a good while building up my 🔥 then the end games on and I have to allocate my resources strategically while maintaining the passion in order for the domino effect of (guilty)pleasure, to be expressed accordingly, and subsequently, mentally rated/recorded, for future improvements.
How’s you guys gain confidence? I’m pushing myself in areas I find hard, but still find it difficult... but I’ve got better. Maybe it’s a slow process, but all tips are welcome
work on urself, go to gym and try aproaching as many girls as u can with enough failures comes success
no drugs, no alchocol IF U DIDNT try being drunk get drunk it helps with social anxiety BUT ONLY ONCE. push urself more
With all these videos and the self-improvement journey, I think my confidence is really rising. With confidence I mean feeling like you genuinely are someone worthy of love, respect and admiration, and feeling good about yourself, feeling like you can reach high places.
What isn't improving much is social anxiety and approaching people (regardless of gender - I also have difficulty approaching guys). I don't know to what point most of social anxiety can actually be erased, but I think with many many experiences with people in general you will losen up.
How do you feel?
Spending time with new people. I went to a new school recently and my social skills have definitely improved (I’m a girl tho, I was always shy & I am also autistic so it’s harder for me).
@@hairyballs4284 not just with girls, anyone. Tbh my biggest area is socially, which I’ve been actively doing... pushing myself, and I feel better for it. Still difficult thou. Sometimes I’m fine, other times I’ll get super shy.
Attractiveness has many layers , including physical but also accolades, status, personality, drive, etc…
Hamza videos hitting the mark again
i experienced it yesterday... it was AWESOME !!!