I Chose The Wrong Girl. This Is What Happened.

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  • @bizzyAC
    @bizzyAC 2 роки тому +812

    If you're trying to be a high value man you should also look for a high quality woman. A woman that is not only "aight" but who has standards, works on themselves and is caring and loving. Don't settle for less bois.

  • @kelvinsbowties
    @kelvinsbowties 2 роки тому +380

    This was the case with my ex. We were infatuated with each other , fucked around and generally enjoyed each other’s company but had a rocky foundation, but still decided to get into a serious relationship anyway. It didn’t workout .We still have mutual respect and love for each other but knew it just wasn’t healthy. It’s definitely more difficult to get out of that loop the more attractive the woman . Sex will have guys act out of character and out of frame lol. Be smart fellas

    • @BigBoiTurboslav
      @BigBoiTurboslav 2 роки тому +20

      So true dude. I was a low quality man and the first chick that showed me interest I full on went for her. After 4 years I realized that we didn't have shit in common or anything. As I started improving myself, getting fitter, having ambition - women who used to have no interest in me started showing me interest. And the funniest thing is that now cause I have such an abundance of choices all of the "lower quality" women don't interest me. Funny how that works. The chick I am currently seeing has a masters degree and is a competitive powerlifter. The difference in the sheer quality of this woman and my ex boggles my mind.
      So moral of the story lads - don't chase whatever woman shows you attention, chase lifting PRs.

    • @dannydanny865
      @dannydanny865 2 роки тому +6

      Not a fart smella

    • @loomergamesmostlyinjustice9089
      @loomergamesmostlyinjustice9089 2 роки тому +3

      yea bro post nut clarity hits diff

  • @keethana5852
    @keethana5852 2 роки тому +1893

    Women aren’t some secret mystery species. They’re literally humans. Treat them as such. Be present in their conversations, value their time, and actually get to know them. We need to stop placing lust in front of humanity and focus on self-improvement and your confidence. 🙌🙌

    • @kathedrink
      @kathedrink 2 роки тому +15

      Facts bro, i love ur channel @keethan a

    • @eggmansoup2606
      @eggmansoup2606 2 роки тому +7

      Exactly bro, i love ur channel keethan

    • @steamaccount6693
      @steamaccount6693 2 роки тому +4

      true bro

    • @bigboiimprovements1646
      @bigboiimprovements1646 2 роки тому +2

      @@kathedrink you are right bro, i subbed

    • @JeffCaplan313
      @JeffCaplan313 2 роки тому +1

      If I don't desire a woman, then why should I desire to get to know them?
      And if I do desire a woman, why shame my natural instinct to procreate?

  • @AlecBGood
    @AlecBGood 2 роки тому +57

    I appreciate how honest you are about the kind of man you were. You respect yourself enough to show us the degenerate life you lived, and you respected yourself enough to grow and be a better man. That kind of self-respect is infectious, and I'm glad to say I've caught the bug.

  • @Bibyte
    @Bibyte 2 роки тому +25

    "Adonis is humble, but has high self love" That's one of the most important rules for live, don't mistake pride as self love

  • @Masculine_Virtue
    @Masculine_Virtue 2 роки тому +183

    Your decisions might not seem
    So Relevant now but as the years go by your decisions will come back into relevance in your life so make sure you try your best to do & to choose the right decisions my fellow brothers

    • @quinsiero
      @quinsiero 2 роки тому

      Talk to em 😤💯

    • @kyuwildrift5819
      @kyuwildrift5819 2 роки тому +1

      Sorry for copying my comment here :
      Hey guys, hey Hamza.
      I am in a relationship with a high quality girl, she is Chinese and she is a good person in many aspects. She is ofc a virtuous and sophisticated girl.
      We are in a distance relationship since almost 2 years (we met on a discord server, its kinda cringe but it is what it is lmao). I can see her only during few days every 3 mounths.
      I had 1 relationship before i met her and i already feel like she is the right women for me, for my entire life.
      But we are having problems because of me and only because of me, she is the perfect girlfriend as i said (she just miss some confidence sometimes but she is improving).
      The thing is im a degenerate like the old hamza in this video + iv never tried casual sex + i can rarely have sex due to the distance relationship. So im becoming lost, lonely and unstable overall. Also maybe i still have some frustration from my highschool years where i knew i had no chances to attract girls who were attractive to my eyes.
      Im in a moment of my life where im just going to the gym, dieting, playing video games and rarely seeing friends. Im looking for a job atm before i go back to college. So i lack purpose.
      If you guys can give me your opinions or some tips maybe it can help, i dont want to completely ruin my relationship but i feel like i will do it one day....
      Sorry for my english, im french :’))

    • @jithinff8686
      @jithinff8686 2 роки тому

      @@kyuwildrift5819 Brother, its just my suggestion that leave the girl and never go into a long distance relationship at all costs no matter what if she is beautiful then definitely she is getting smashed and stop playing video games and occasionally see your friends bcz relationships worth more than meaningless videogames and whatever you are feeling right now is completely normal just do what your gut is saying to you ,,THANK YOU FOR READING THIS MUCH AND I HOPE THE BEST FOR YOU WHATEVER THE DECISION YOU TAKE

    • @kyuwildrift5819
      @kyuwildrift5819 2 роки тому +2

      @@jithinff8686 I dont think leaving her is the right decison, she loves me so much and i love her a lot as well
      Maybe i should just be patient and find things / purpose to keep my mind busy

    • @kyuwildrift5819
      @kyuwildrift5819 2 роки тому +2

      @@jithinff8686 Also its not bcs a girl is pretty that she is getting smashed lmao, she just has more men around her
      Just like i have more girls around me bcs im attractive

  • @1931Tre
    @1931Tre 2 роки тому +394

    When you were talking about the girl you were living together with, I just realised I had exactly the same relationship with my ex. We had incredible sex, we lived together but the relationship was really toxic. I'm really ashamed of my own behavior back then for being an asshole and I hope she is too. But I still sometimes think about her and her being like my soulmate but I still know that I would never want to be in a relationship with her anymore, because it was so fucking toxic. I just wanted to write this because I got the feels about the girl again because you had the exact same story.

    • @sugarlv6434
      @sugarlv6434 2 роки тому

      Pretty cool. That is why I value a face and a soul from a girl. Booty is kind of and add on. She can be thicc but at the same time I seriously don't care. I have been to 2 dates but both girls rejected me and I am good. I am working on myself and in my house.

    • @no8592
      @no8592 2 роки тому

      That's why fornication is a sin and we should be not having sex until we are ready to commit to the woman for the rest of our lives

    • @princeynolmembrebe7393
      @princeynolmembrebe7393 2 роки тому +4

      I wish you luck

    • @bobankefer828
      @bobankefer828 2 роки тому +6

      I had the same type of relationship too, sex was top notch. I've broken up with her over a month ago because of the toxicity, no bad blood towards her, we just had different views when it comes to relationships.

    • @generalkaboom6642
      @generalkaboom6642 2 роки тому

      @@bobankefer828 How do you lose your virginity and how can I lose it?

  • @mateo2724
    @mateo2724 2 роки тому +241

    Stick or twist. I’ve decided to hold off on dating until I’ve leveled up enough to be able to attract the high quality woman that I truly want. I’m not settling for anything less

    • @Dj0enderman3000
      @Dj0enderman3000 2 роки тому +11

      Same bro, don't lower your standards or goals raise your ambitions and efforts

    • @Goatlikeitornot
      @Goatlikeitornot 2 роки тому +3

      Same

    • @Rudzani
      @Rudzani 2 роки тому +8

      Based and Adonispilled

    • @noyemisarkisian7842
      @noyemisarkisian7842 2 роки тому +2

      rooting for you man 💯💯

    • @mateo2724
      @mateo2724 2 роки тому +1

      @@noyemisarkisian7842 thanks bro 💯

  • @JohnnySylvano
    @JohnnySylvano 2 роки тому +232

    I've had a lot of "Friends" who were attached to these short term pleasures, and this led them to have soul ties with the girls they've slept with. They would constantly mention some of them during mid conversation. Depressed. Desperate. Down bad. You name it. Choose a girl you would want to exchange energies with wisely boys.

    • @otstudios1260
      @otstudios1260 2 роки тому +1

      exactly, same morals.

    • @heftymagic4814
      @heftymagic4814 2 роки тому +3

      Soul ties are a psychological issue, it has nothing to do with new age abstract concept of "energies" so childish

    • @3z3O
      @3z3O 2 роки тому +11

      @@heftymagic4814 it’s not childish just because you don’t understand it

    • @Headhunter1-e4v
      @Headhunter1-e4v 2 роки тому

      @hefty magic lol says someone with magic in their name 😂. Energies has been a concept for Thousands of years since the dawn of time ancient times.

  • @connor.chan.jazzman
    @connor.chan.jazzman 2 роки тому +26

    Hearing Hamza talk about how toxic he used to be gave me more hope in my personal progression, because I used to be an absolute PoS and I'm still in the early stages of trying to rewire my brain from the fucking poisonous ideologies of porn, masturbation, and dopamine addiction. More people gotta be humble and honest like this.

    • @Jake-cj5xe
      @Jake-cj5xe 2 роки тому +1

      I was there with you for a long time as well man. Not open to receiving love from women who I knew were good for me, and turning to the toxic ones who indulged my own ego. Acknowledgement alone is a huge step. Making a conscious choice to change those conditioned behaviours is definitely a process. I'm still working on it every day, much like you. Good luck brother.

    • @d-raid8334
      @d-raid8334 2 роки тому

      What does pos mean?

  • @adamkaczmarek4751
    @adamkaczmarek4751 2 роки тому +37

    Video on Point, 1 yr of relationship with the mentally unstable woman with the bipolar disorder (she left therapy and drugs) shattered my mental health and affected every thing in my life. Wrong person can doom you

    • @Dang_Lin-Wang
      @Dang_Lin-Wang 2 роки тому +6

      At least you learned your lesson without marriage or kids (!?!)
      Always be scanning for borderlines and never ever shack up with a chick on psych meds.
      The slightest hint of manipulation, vindictive behaviour or problem history/family/ debt you ghost that shit asap.

    • @adamkaczmarek4751
      @adamkaczmarek4751 2 роки тому +3

      @@Dang_Lin-Wang You're right, she was also a victim of physical/mental violence from her mother (divorced parents, her father cheated her mother). If the person is aware of mental problems and is not willing to do anything (she sent me to the therapy after some arguments - "I have depression/bipolar disorder and childhood traumas so YOU have to go to the psychologist" - interesting logic and reasoning). Lessons learned, not willing to working on mental health is a big red flag

    • @Dang_Lin-Wang
      @Dang_Lin-Wang 2 роки тому +4

      @@adamkaczmarek4751 sorry to hear that mate. It's the sign of a good heart to want to love and give someone with a troubled past the things we think they want and need to get their life "back".
      In reality, their experience often renders them unfit for healthy future relationships and it's the empathic types that get swallowed up in the resulting chaos. In many cases its not their fault as the damage was done in childhood so as sad as the situation is, protecting your own physical and mental health is the number 1.
      Hope you recover okay from your ordeal and can move forward positively having a big chunk of experience under your belt. 👍

    • @adamkaczmarek4751
      @adamkaczmarek4751 2 роки тому +4

      @@Dang_Lin-WangI was really trying to help her, after stupid argument she left me and it was really shocking for me (she multiple times treated me as her savior and reason to live - some borderline kind of behaviour). I am recovering - self improvement really changed me as a person. The experience ive gained helped me with my self-growth and will be valuable with the future relationships. I am grateful for that, there is no growth without suffering

    • @Dang_Lin-Wang
      @Dang_Lin-Wang 2 роки тому +4

      @@adamkaczmarek4751 maybe take a look at the "idealize/devalue/discard/hoovering cycle associated with cluster b personality disorders. Maybe some introspection into yourself too. Why you tolerated this behaviour, even for a minute. What doesn't kill us and all that... Best wishes to you Sir..

  • @OttoMaticInc
    @OttoMaticInc 2 роки тому +118

    ngl this has left me stricken because I thought I was being arrogant. For the past few months I mostly felt uninspired by the women I met because the women of my target group are between 20 and 25, and I must humbly say that most of them rely on their sexual attractiveness or sheer beauty to maneuver through life, yet I have met maybe 2 out of 10 women who are not downright undateable because of their character/behaviour.
    I know my standards are high but I have now realized that a solid 6-7/10 both in terms of character, compatibility and attractiveness is way better than dating a 8-10 who is complete garbage as company.
    Here I thought I was being unreasonable and just now you come up with this topic.
    Bless you brother.

  • @thorn7005
    @thorn7005 2 роки тому +17

    Joined gym in November 2021, went only twice that month. Started watching Hamza’s vids in mid December 2021. Started taking gym seriously from January 2022, went from 88kg to 74kg since then. Thanks hamza for making these videos

  • @sm_artx
    @sm_artx 2 роки тому +21

    The girl I was with had nothing going for her except for the fact that she was good-looking and we had great sex. There was literally nothing else. But we both deluded ourselves into believing that we wanted to spend our lives together, even through our core values were at odds. Damn, she didn't even respect my parents enough to call them after they took care of her when she was sick! I was being toxic to her as well. Over all, it was a goddamn poisonous relationship and I found myself giving up on my own goals and desires in life just to move in with her. Fortunately, she began to feel that I was getting in the way of her career and broke up with me. It's been over a month and I am the happiest I have been in the last 2 years. Focusing entirely on my growth (physical and emotional) and taking care of my family now.

  • @Death_Metal_Head
    @Death_Metal_Head 2 роки тому +19

    To this very waking second I'm ashamed to admit that I allowed sexual attraction to multiple women to control me over the years when I knew it wasn't the right thing, and when deep down I didn't see myself in a long-term relationship with them. But I led them on because the sex was good and we had fun together. I lied to them and I allowed them to develop feelings for me when I didn't feel the same towards them. I used them for sex. I caused other human beings with hopes and dreams and legitimate feelings to truly be hurt by my sickening actions. May God forgive me.

    • @rayoflight7416
      @rayoflight7416 2 роки тому +3

      what made you realize your behaviour or when did you start to think of it as a problem? im glad you came to that point honestly. as someone who has been played like that and also was deeply inlove with that person.. im glad to read your comment, makes me feel less crazy, cause the whole struggle of it is not knowing what to believe amymore 😅

  • @iBrenzy
    @iBrenzy 2 роки тому +59

    When you be having sex carelessly there is no intention behind it asides the bragging rights you could get and pleasure. Get someone who shares a similar vibe or energy to you and i'm saying this because with sex you're exchanging energies. If you gonna do it with them make sure their energy can match yours bc you're not gonna feel all down and gloomy from it
    Keep grinding ppl💯

  • @burhanuddinsakarwala5033
    @burhanuddinsakarwala5033 2 роки тому +7

    I broke up with the 'perfect' one because I couldn't be emotionally available, especially in a LDR because I moved abroad.
    I don't regret breaking up with her, I regret dragging her through the dirt in a committed relationship. Never cheated on her or anything, but I made promises I should never have made.

  • @timdang3655
    @timdang3655 2 роки тому +16

    I'm 19 and I've never dated because I'm 5'5 and in high school I got bullied for being single so that kind of pushed me further away from dating. It's kind of hard meeting new people so I just stuck with ppl who I knew in high school, they're good friends btw. I set my standards a bit higher than before. Now I make it harder for girls to earn my trust because I have a hard time trusting girls or even anyone. I know it may sound like me having trust issues but I'm just not gonna take a risk that could end horribly.
    Trust is very important in a relationship so just my piece of advice: If you have a hard time trusting ppl, then maybe you shouldn't be dating, it'd be better to stay single.

    • @justanotherguy4178
      @justanotherguy4178 2 роки тому +4

      Rip bro

    • @thatfo3364
      @thatfo3364 2 роки тому +2

      Bruh Ik guys that are shorter and still dated, don’t make height an excuse

    • @justanotherguy4178
      @justanotherguy4178 2 роки тому +1

      @@thatfo3364 yh same but they usually really good looking. Luck you if you are

    • @menfirst.1802
      @menfirst.1802 2 роки тому +2

      Lol you short bro game over for you

    • @menfirst.1802
      @menfirst.1802 2 роки тому +1

      Become a monk

  • @Fizzitskr
    @Fizzitskr 2 роки тому +67

    Man, seeing this made me smile so hard because I committed in that type of relationship, where she liked me but I didn’t at first.
    That woman I dated in 2018-2021 changed my life by breaking up with me and being in a rebound relationship right after, which I had to find out even though she denied it. That shit was hell for me and my mental health for a couple of months but eventually got to the point, where I am grateful that it ended. I cut contact and deleted her everywhere to grow - and man what a decision. I will not stop the grind and someday the right person with the right values will appear at the right time. We will all make it!

    • @Ciuotorino
      @Ciuotorino 2 роки тому +2

      keep going king

    • @majorana2323
      @majorana2323 2 роки тому +7

      Bro , I got a very similar story.
      I never had a girl so I've accepted the first one who liked me but at first I didn't like her, but then I got addicted to sex and intimacy.
      When we broke up I've agreed but after a couple months I've started to feel lonely and I had to face this pain. AND I'M SO FUKIN GRATEFUL!
      Never stop grinding man!

    • @littleasianpenis3263
      @littleasianpenis3263 2 роки тому +1

      shouldve took the black pill bruh

    • @yapX001
      @yapX001 2 роки тому +4

      Are you me dude? I was with a girl from 2018-2021 who I was absolutely down bad for, and then she broke up with me and entered a rebound (I think they're still together idk). Shit absolutely destroyed me and I still bear the scars. It was like living in a fantasy when I was with her and I'll admit I still sometimes miss it - but man I did not grow as a person at all. Keep on grinding king.

    • @Fizzitskr
      @Fizzitskr 2 роки тому +3

      @@yapX001 Damn. Also the two above
      I feel very grateful that we shared the same suffering in the most similar way.
      We won‘t suffer again, I promise. Those type of girls were meant to stay at the bottom e.g. the last thing I knew about my ex was that she dropped out of school to work and play video games with her new bf while I educate myself, work for a bit of money and get to the gym at least 4 times a week.
      In the end you have to be proud that this person won‘t hold you back from growing anymore, they will always commit in new relationship without having a personal growth, when being single. This is the moment to find out paths in life and that one person gave us that chance
      I wish you guys all the best from Germany!

  • @JackDSquat
    @JackDSquat 2 роки тому +2

    This has to be one of the best vids on this channel. It’s so simple but so true

  • @ayubsselfdevelopmentjourne3931
    @ayubsselfdevelopmentjourne3931 2 роки тому +64

    Choosing the wrong girl could mess up with your craft, ambitions and productivity. That’s why all us kings deserve a high value feminine woman who we can achieve our goals with.

    • @antkot1897
      @antkot1897 2 роки тому

      fuck this shit
      saying that all of us deserve a high value feminine woman, is like saying that all woman deserve high value man
      you don't deserve anything
      You got what you earn

    • @keineahnung472
      @keineahnung472 2 роки тому

      No y’all don’t deserve good women cause treat them like shit and still chest on them with sluts

  • @JustBeBetterOscar
    @JustBeBetterOscar 2 роки тому +10

    Damn Hamza I respect your consistency you've been uploading daily you're a true inspiration. I'll take it as a sign to start working harder and upload more

  • @elgeorge2896
    @elgeorge2896 2 роки тому +53

    So there was this girl I had a crush on in high school, and I wanted to her impress her by learning a little bit of Tagalog(the language spoken in the Philippines). So I walk into class all confident thinking that she’s gonna think “wow he speaks my language, he’s so culturally intelligent and well rounded”
    So I go up to her and I say “Kamusta ka” which means “hello” and she looks at me and says “what?” And i repeated it and she says “boy idk wtf your talking about”
    And my stupid ass says “so uh.. you don’t know ur language?” Which was a terrible thing to fucking say in retrospect.
    And she says “excuse me??” And I said “Ur not Filipina?” and she says “NO” all surprised and then I said “are you Thai or Indonesian?” And she goes….
    “IM BLACK, YOU IDIOT”
    I never spoke another word to her again. That’s all I have to say about that.

    • @randomstuff2848
      @randomstuff2848 2 роки тому +13

      Bro wtf

    • @yes7855
      @yes7855 2 роки тому +18

      Looool. Good story telling bro, made me laugh. And rip to you, kudos on the effort regardless 😂

    • @hiimargo7058
      @hiimargo7058 2 роки тому +1

      Imagine going up to a chick and all she says is *chimp noises*

    • @georgeb5262
      @georgeb5262 2 роки тому +3

      At least you learned a new language.

    • @hiimargo7058
      @hiimargo7058 2 роки тому

      @@georgeb5262 its not even a language

  • @awabalmahi5196
    @awabalmahi5196 2 роки тому +2

    Its painful to think about all the people you have hurt in your life

  • @hibye8445
    @hibye8445 2 роки тому +10

    Those daily vids really makes my day, whenever I feel like watching a useless vid u start to upload and save me from Jeffrey lifestyle 🍂

  • @ousider6539
    @ousider6539 2 роки тому +1

    Trying to get this week of exercise with a sleep disorder. Hanzma has motivated me to stay disciplined. LETS GOOOOO!!

  • @EmaniXros
    @EmaniXros 2 роки тому +8

    I can relate. It’s only when you’re older and mature, you look back and think damn….that girl was a real one😂

  • @wellmaruprepareduknowim3272
    @wellmaruprepareduknowim3272 2 роки тому +3

    I understand that with all the knowledge you have now you see into the past and think much of what you did was an error, but it probably wasn’t, if you are proud of the man you are now, you gotta understand that you all your characteristics came from your past and how you decided to react to certain situations, that is what really defines your personality

  • @ILikeCivics
    @ILikeCivics 2 роки тому +1

    Yo hamza you fvckin chad,this vide helped me , a month ago i didnt have any girls and i was like Jeffrey , but now 5 girls said they have a crush on me and im not gonna ask any of them out ,i use them as freinds im waiting for a muslim girl couse im muslim too so yeah thanks allot

  • @harryruns1
    @harryruns1 2 роки тому

    0:54 Holistic self improvement, love that term. Lot's of brutal honesty in this one, realist UA-camr out there.

  • @rupertholmes5828
    @rupertholmes5828 2 роки тому +55

    Man Hamza, I've had bros who have acted like this, and all I can really say is I feel disappointment towards them, this does not reflect what manliness is supposed to be. I however am extremely proud you have gained the ability to turn around and now influence an upcoming generation of young men to be better. Well done.

  • @mateo2724
    @mateo2724 2 роки тому +9

    Instant gratification is sleeping with all the low quality women around you and wifing up any one of them that shows you affection. Delayed gratification (Adonisssss) is knowing that you are worth more than this and not getting into a relationship until you’ve leveled up and are able to attract the woman of your dreams

  • @jts6134
    @jts6134 2 роки тому +9

    Hamza you've been smashing it with these uploads recently. Appreciate it big bro 💪🏾💯 we're one step closer everyday to becoming Adonis

  • @erledigaeth106
    @erledigaeth106 2 роки тому +4

    bro im so sad for that girl

  • @TheREALHugo4
    @TheREALHugo4 2 роки тому +26

    Quality matters. If you make the wrong choice, you'll feel you've wasted your chance. Life is short so don't waste the opportunities life is giving you, even Hamza.

  • @SAGARROY-hs6lh
    @SAGARROY-hs6lh 2 роки тому +1

    On point. Thank you so much for making this video, I needed to hear this. Moment of realisation!

  • @d.g.m.04
    @d.g.m.04 2 роки тому +7

    I just turned 18 and I haven't kissed a single girl in my life. I always thought of myself as a pretty valuable person, because I have many hobbys, good grades at shool and a perspective for a stable future. I recently started working out, tried out meditation and journaling (and also nofap) because I want to be a better person with each day. With that being said I worry that this won't help me in getting a relationship and I will be left out alone. Does anyone have any advice for me that would make me more confident in my future and whether I will be able to fulfill the need of an another person appreciating and caring for me. Please just tell me that I won't be alone for the rest of my life.

    • @billcom7066
      @billcom7066 2 роки тому +2

      I would suggest researching religion and implementing it into your life. This life is temporary and we will all die one day. I recommend the channel
      One Message foundation
      I hope this helps you and also taking up another hobby of learning a new language of your interest will definately help you expand your knowledge and make you stand out from other people. Good luck bro.

    • @d.g.m.04
      @d.g.m.04 2 роки тому +2

      @@billcom7066 thank you for the advice I didn't expect this kind of answer

    • @billcom7066
      @billcom7066 2 роки тому +1

      @@d.g.m.04 No worries I wish you the best of luck on your journey brother and don’t worry. Everything happens for a reason, just be the best person you can be and inshallah good things will come to you.

    • @d.g.m.04
      @d.g.m.04 2 роки тому +1

      @@billcom7066 thank you brother

    • @swibrotv1833
      @swibrotv1833 2 роки тому +1

      youre not going to be alone, you still have longe way to go in life. If you find a girl you think worth shooting shot for, maybe just go for it. Youre still young, enjoy in balance

  • @VxDxLx
    @VxDxLx 2 роки тому +2

    It’s kinda crazy when you find a person your comfortable with but, over time you notice that you improve every day and they don’t…

  • @Proxz
    @Proxz 2 роки тому +1

    I love how open you are about your past experiences hamza

  • @josephang9927
    @josephang9927 2 роки тому +1

    I'm 30 and if at this point I never got anything, I think it is probably time to give up on this shit. Too tiresome.

  • @am0eba168
    @am0eba168 2 роки тому +4

    Hamza I am 18 and I still haven't had a kiss, far form it, but also I don't think I am worthy enough for someone's affection just now, there's a long way ahead full of obstacles but I belive that I can make it through

    • @lukadaring7
      @lukadaring7 2 роки тому

      Keep working on yourself in all ways mate it’ll come. Just try talking to women in a nice way and get to know her, keep clean, get strong and be masculine and tough. I’d recommend David goggins and the story of our lord Zyzz for help(good video by Josh Brett on UA-cam about him if you need it). You’ve got this bro we’re all gonna make it fuaaaark

  • @nikidesignsolutionsandgami1518
    @nikidesignsolutionsandgami1518 2 роки тому +1

    Your animations are getting better and better.

  • @billhuss
    @billhuss 2 роки тому +2

    Desperation hurts you got to overcome the bad habit.

  • @SYLOPH
    @SYLOPH 2 роки тому +1

    Thank You for being vulnerable

  • @ahmedessa6093
    @ahmedessa6093 2 роки тому +2

    5:18 indeed soo dumb i respect you my brother iam glad to see u out of that shit u were in i love you brother

  • @uTOLJvr10
    @uTOLJvr10 2 роки тому +1

    Great video ! One of my favourites without a doubt!! The editing it’s perfect and the stories real 🤴🏽

  • @Balasteguisson
    @Balasteguisson 2 роки тому

    Dont know how, but I needed to listen to that right now, you arrived in the right moment

  • @duck8280
    @duck8280 2 роки тому +2

    PRO TIP!!!: Don’t just say yes to the first girl that shows interest in you. If you see red flags in the girl, that stuff won’t get fixed.

  • @sojournermathys
    @sojournermathys 2 роки тому

    Hamza, I watch a lot of your videos, but this one hits home. As I was in the same mindset a while ago.
    I know what you are feeling in regards to your past choices, and it's always disappointing, looking back on it.
    I'm glad you're able to channel that into something positive and learn from it, as well as accepting that it happened.
    When we better ourselves, we often shy away from our previous bad decisions, that may have hurted people.
    Here's to a better present, and a brighter tomorrow. As we both continue to strive to be Adonis.

  • @violetazur
    @violetazur 2 роки тому +1

    Choosing the wrong girl literally shrinked my brain to the size of a peanut and now am trying to recover

  • @atultiwari9528
    @atultiwari9528 2 роки тому

    Bro the editing on this video is just sooo good, props to the editor

  • @hondayamaha3
    @hondayamaha3 2 роки тому

    Thankyou for sharing and being transparent king. I've learned so much. You're one of people I looked up to

  • @grzegorzwrzosek3660
    @grzegorzwrzosek3660 2 роки тому +1

    One of your best videos

  • @yungdanztv
    @yungdanztv 2 роки тому +3

    imagine if the Chinese girl is watching the video now, reunion?

  • @stansvitsa1
    @stansvitsa1 2 роки тому +2

    Also I definitely matured through the years, personal and spiritual growth to be mindful of who I give access to my life. It’s very important. And it’s better to be by yourself than with someone toxic.

  • @stansvitsa1
    @stansvitsa1 2 роки тому +5

    My takeaway: you were an alpha bad boy and you still attracted both bad girls and good girls. So it all works. Just work on yourself and be a good kind of alpha. You can be a toxic dictator or a kind and generous king. The choice is yours.

  • @crabb9966
    @crabb9966 2 роки тому +1

    If you looked like that at 17 this confirms your whole idea of self improvement, you didn't look bad but you can see the growth

  • @LindormAce
    @LindormAce 2 роки тому

    i felt so bad after watching the choices hamza in the past big ups to him showing us what not to do

  • @teodortodorov1662
    @teodortodorov1662 2 роки тому +6

    "Hamza's first kiss was at 17 and he call himself embarrassed"
    I'm almost 19 and I have never had first one

    • @abdulbutt2850
      @abdulbutt2850 2 роки тому +2

      dont worry im 21 and i havent

    • @menfirst.1802
      @menfirst.1802 2 роки тому

      Loool your all a bunch of Blackpool virgins

    • @cornevanerk9981
      @cornevanerk9981 2 роки тому +1

      Turned 23 yesterday, first kiss was at 17, and still a virgin, no shame in it man. Take it one day at a time. :)

  • @kizilk0d
    @kizilk0d 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Hamza, this video was really helpful, It really is crucial to set standards for people who you're with.

  • @DrakeMeatRider
    @DrakeMeatRider 2 роки тому +1

    Right on time like usual hamza. I was just about to commit to this low quality girl just cause i wanted a relationship. Now i see i gotta keep grinding and the right one will show up in time. thanks.

  • @dantepepper
    @dantepepper 2 роки тому +3

    Every girl is different some can be more of a headache then you were hoping for

  • @germanfan8185
    @germanfan8185 2 роки тому

    This timing is soooo perfect thank you, Hamza.

  • @billhuss
    @billhuss 2 роки тому +4

    Romance is dead it's best to invest outside of that

  • @multiplyx2787
    @multiplyx2787 2 роки тому

    I started my self Improvement channel yesterday, I am going to make UA-cam my online business and futhur my self improvment, Hamza ur the goat

  • @Mario-vv6tq
    @Mario-vv6tq 2 роки тому +1

    Hi hamza, i didnt watch the video but i will after this comm. I just wanna thank you for teaching me and the young brainwashed generation a lot of good thing, one of them for me is nofap. Thank you and thank you for bein always honest with us. Ur gonna inspire millions of people one day like Zyzz did. U inspired me to do many thing and i just wanna say THANK YOU!

  • @XGoldenPhoenixX
    @XGoldenPhoenixX 2 роки тому +1

    I’m so grateful I’ve never been involved with men like this, and never will ever. 🌸

  • @theshadowrealm1311
    @theshadowrealm1311 2 роки тому

    these edits are next level, so funny, big up the editors

  • @jonasartemeier9168
    @jonasartemeier9168 2 роки тому +2

    I had a similar experience than you, first kiss with 17, and fucked around in uni life with 18, I'm almost 19 now but I practically abandoned clubbing and stuff, I just got a good girlfriend with good values who is also hard working (funny enough she's Vietnamese), I hope I did the right choice but the points of good character traits you listed are definitely in there. There are good women out there but they are rare in a rather hedonistic culture like in the west. Asian cultures still value purity and a hard working attitude, I feel like those nations will rise above the west one day simply because the culture way stronger and does not indulge instant gratification

  • @alfonsoc.950
    @alfonsoc.950 2 роки тому +1

    Dont be too harsh on yourself anyway, you were very young

  • @szynszyl1023
    @szynszyl1023 2 роки тому +2

    I love your videos and I’m actually on my way to nofap and I started doing weightlifting today. Thank you for motivation and wise tips

  • @pixelgreen5837
    @pixelgreen5837 2 роки тому +1

    That god damn meet the spartans Adonis skit man...
    Got me grinning, respect

  • @sondic203
    @sondic203 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much! I’m pretty young so I really appreciate you telling me this before I get older

  • @TheMexicanbeAwesome
    @TheMexicanbeAwesome 2 роки тому

    a good book to compliment this video is the way of the superior man. great read. This video is relatable af lmao

  • @robo7539
    @robo7539 2 роки тому

    Glad these kind of videos are back, I didn’t feel like the shorter 3 min ones applied as much to my current stage of self improvement 👍

  • @timangeles9071
    @timangeles9071 2 роки тому

    I think this is the most important video you’ve made bother, Mashallah

  • @abigailmendez8999
    @abigailmendez8999 2 роки тому

    Bro I love these edits!!!!! Your a good narrator too.

  • @ork7295
    @ork7295 2 роки тому

    I like the ending and overall vibe of the video around the end, I think more videos like this would do well and help more people.

  • @rsv298
    @rsv298 2 роки тому

    Great video. Self awareness is key. Think about your reasons what for you do. Are they aimed at impressing other people? That's the path to low self esteem and anhedonia.
    Though I would caution that if the girl is showcasing good values in the start, it doesn't mean that they will continue down that path as commitment becomes more certain. You really have to spend a good amount of time with something to see if they are faking.

  • @oleez5242
    @oleez5242 2 роки тому +2

    This video just got you a new subscriber bud 👍

  • @ogagatuodeinye700
    @ogagatuodeinye700 2 роки тому +1

    This is relative but...
    This is one of your best videos yet, prolly because it's unfiltered so it's different, or came across different, should prolly check out your other channel and wanna say thank you for your consistency, may not always relate to all your traits or agree with all your videos but you keep it real as possible and that counts a lot...cheers mate...

  • @daveyolked.1056
    @daveyolked.1056 2 роки тому

    Hamza this video is a 10/10 well done bro

  • @zsr0690
    @zsr0690 Рік тому

    she is the one you WANT, not the one you NEED

  • @lukerosa8173
    @lukerosa8173 2 роки тому +1

    the editing in this video is top notch

  • @MelonPan_7
    @MelonPan_7 2 роки тому

    Heck yeah i'm turning 17 this october, i literally had no friends since the day i was born never had any romantic relationships and doesn't know what love feels like. I hope my life turns the other way around next year so that this feeling of immense sadness and emptyness would just fade away

  • @callmekoshmar
    @callmekoshmar 2 роки тому +11

    Well, I can't really give you an advice my fellow brothers when it comes to dating since I've never have been in a relationship, but if we look back at the older days we had, back then women wanted a dominant and caring male, and to our surprise this didn't change that much. However the quality of females did change ALOT, so it is essential to set standards both as a male or female. She shouldn't be too good for you, but she should be good enough so that you can call it a true loving relationship.

  • @funnyspoon5120
    @funnyspoon5120 2 роки тому +2

    I got my first girlfriend now. She has problems, but she is a good girlfriend. She has set the standards. She is exactly what I want. She was the only girl who approached me, and shes probably one of the few have taken intrest. But its not that shes the only one I could get, its the one that came to me and that I want

  • @dil8849
    @dil8849 2 роки тому +1

    I made the exact same mistake this year and I regret it so much

  • @michielschipper6152
    @michielschipper6152 2 роки тому

    This is a similar situation to what happened to me when i was 15, so disappointed in younger me but luckily i've grown in 7 years.

  • @jonathan6480
    @jonathan6480 2 роки тому +3

    *Johnny Depp has left the chat*

  • @Omarthedemigod
    @Omarthedemigod 2 роки тому

    It’s hard not to feel desperate for anything when you have nothing. Good advice tho

  • @maronara3398
    @maronara3398 2 роки тому +3

    When Adonis was born the Roman’s didn’t throw him off the cliff, he threw the Roman off.

  • @disobeats
    @disobeats 2 роки тому

    i had a very toxic relationship at 15. in a way im glad it happened, ive experienced the bad and how to avoid it at a very young age so i should be able to make the right decicions moving foreward.

  • @deicide9514
    @deicide9514 2 роки тому

    Goddamn, the vibe and music to this video is amazing. Good stuff Hamza

  • @benjamin_john_turner
    @benjamin_john_turner 2 роки тому +1

    That’s fucked up but mistakes makes us a better person

  • @Kometheus
    @Kometheus 2 роки тому

    That's painful. I've let many good girls go because I've been trash in the past.

  • @WarriorinGarden
    @WarriorinGarden 2 роки тому +2

    To be honest... I truly chose a wrong girl before. Last year before, a month before christmas a girl said she had a crush on me and wanted to date me. I didn't have any standarts for a girl and that's why I agreed to date her. Ah.. Poor me.. It would been better if I could tell my past self to not date her... I got manipulated, tricked and then broken... AT CHRISTMAS... But I'm happy that I started my self-improvement :), thank you Hamza.

    • @improveimproveimprove
      @improveimproveimprove 2 роки тому

      Dont regret anything. I'd say start writing about things you cant change. That could be one of the three things along with another thing. Go for three and more.

  • @Smurfis
    @Smurfis 2 роки тому

    HE SAID IT SO WELL SLAPPING THEM CHEEKS OF THE BAD ONES THAT CAN TAKE IT SLAPSSSSS

  • @eatsaaas3463
    @eatsaaas3463 2 роки тому

    It’s okay,you weren’t ready

  • @LindormAce
    @LindormAce 2 роки тому

    At this rate hamza going to get to 1 million subscribers in no time inshallah