How To Be Less Feminine (And More Masculine)
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"It's alright if you are weak. The problem is when you don't improve."
I meant working on myself by improve.
Szia ✊😌
Mm
" Being weak is not your fault, staying weak is"
@@hanishsaiteja4740 fuegoleon quote
My mother was a feminist, and her wacko beliefs and actions led to a lot of detrimental things in my life as a boy. That being said, I am working on my resentments toward her for this and am overcoming negative feminist programming. I like your positive message, Hamza. I made a video about the wacko things my mom did and said.
Good job my man 💪
good on ya
True, my mom is a turbo feminist, she only taught me complete garbage. Concepts like it's ok to be weak, it's ok to do no physical activity, it's ok to follow what everyone else is doing.
Men who grow up with such moms will be complete weaklings.
Bro your name is ironic right?
Stay strong brother
When I was really small like around crèche(kindergarten for Americans)the crèche I went to was run by nuns. They weren't stereotypical nuns, they were hard scrabble East European Betty's. If the boys got into a fight, playing aggressively they told us to sort it out ourselves. I think that and the way I was raised, helped me to have this "try to do it myself" mindset. I try to do something on my own as far as possible without asking my parents for help. Man, I miss those nuns.
It's good for us women to know this kind of stuff if we want kids .
Love how non toxic Hamza community is
Thanks a lot
im hella grateful for being easter european
east Europe has beautiful landscape and beautiful culture and people
I tought you were going To say that the nuns joined the fight, just fucking R.K.Ong some poor gindergateners.
Also, I have a story of my own.
This story was told to us by our teacher (male). There were two boys fighting In hes class, like really just fucking fist fighting. He went and broke the fight and called the princible to the class, the princible told to got to hes office while he and our teacher spoke. When the boys left our princible asked the true finnish question: "so, Who won?"
I've always done things on my own, mainly due to my family being full of pride. It's just how I was raised, and my Dad always says it was an accident.
The best way to be more masculine is to start valuing your purpose and your goals more, and love and joy, less.
Over the past year, I’ve subconsciously started in the direction towards doing exactly that, and I’ll just say, it’s a beautiful feeling when you feel yourself acting and thinking more masculine.
Once you feel more masculine, you automatically start making so much more progress in your self improvement, because it feels like something from within is pushing you to, telling you that you’re on the right path
Wym by love and joy less
You need to stop prioritizing love and joy so much. Get on your purpose and start setting and completing goals and the love and joy will come naturally from that.
@@tomjames8569 I prioritize loving and enjoying my purpose.
damn, I read this in your voice lol 😅
That’s ridiculous. What would be the point of self improvement and purpose if you feel less joy and love lol. That just defeats the whole purpose
*How To Be Less Feminine:*
-Devalue love and joy
-Prioritise your mission over your emotions
-Find you current goals and achieve them
But remember balance out the masculinity with a pinch of femininity since most women don't want a emotionless "sigma male"
@@lamikatnero3256 yeah, develop your masculine side but don’t kill your feminine side 👍
I don't agree with Hamza here, If you've ever done psychedelics you'd know that first one is bs.
Love and joy are not feminine, especially love and self love. Love for your fellow humans most of all. Lacking such a realization prevents you from being Adonis. Most probably wouldn't understand what me and Hamza mean by love.
We shouldn't be obsessed with labeling things as X or Y, some stuff not everything. Everyone has nipples, estrogen, and self expression. An extraterrestrial wouldn't label these as feminine.
@@asclepius.dionysus agreed.
Just be IceCold
Great vid as always bro. Important topic. ✊💯
David 💪🏻
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I was raised by a single mother, but i don't feel feminine, i am mostly masculine. My mom took the role of both mother and father to raise me, i respect her and love her.
My mom was also a single mother and my brother is masculine as fck
Being raised by a single mother make you feel like you have to fill the role of the father
Brilliant for you. You’re sounding sane and loving.
@@motiplanet394 exactly this
Same thing with me 😊
Bro you have no idea how much of a positive influence you have had on my life. I have started to completely turn around my life through your help and my mindset. I am grateful for your videos Hamza
Let's go bro 🔥💪🏻
Everyone is bro
Thank the red pill
@@HardcoreGamer499 scp 500?
Your profile picture looks kinda nostalgic in an epic way…
Aristotle said happiness is the achievement of an end goal, having a telos, a purpose. I think of this when I am at work, and I have really enjoyed where I work. Thank you for making these videos Hamza.
Sup cousin
Then why do they say the important is the journey, not the destination?
Based Aristotle
I really think Hamza should include some Aristotelian virtue ethics in his video's like you are saying. Aristotle basically agrees with everything Hamza says. Life is about achieving eudaemonia through practicing intellectual virtues and gaining skills to become a better person. What Hamza says about flourishing as a human being and constantly self improving coincides perfectly with Aristotle's works.
-Devalue love and joy
-Prioritise your mission over your emotions
-Find you current goals and achieve them
Imagine how low IQ, heretical and atheistic Hamza is to devalue love. Your prophets of God: Jesus, Buddha, Krishna and Mohammed ALL TAUGHT SELFLESS LOVE AS THEIR MAIN MESSAGE.
Hamza man , I just want to say I am so thankful and full of gratitude for your existence, I am nearly 21 years old now from Egypt and you’re the only UA-camr on UA-cam that has my upmost respect, you’re the only self improvement UA-camr that has actually inspired me to make a difference in my life. Because of you I have started meditating, gratitude journaling , exercising 4-6 times a week and reading daily.
I just want to say Thankyouu so much for being like an older brother to me and a big role model for how to be a masculine man in the modern era.
Btw I wrote today in journal “I am grateful for hamza”
i am 14 years old and started my self improvement yesterday after a fail during the process, so i am starting over. and even if i am 14 years old i see too that my peers are so feminine. my biggest problem is technology, i am addicted to it so much that sometimes i dont do important things or maybe stay with others because i wanna grind the game and not my mental health and body. I am confident that it will be good this time. cheers boys
I'm in the exact same position as you I wish you luck on conquering all the challenges that come your way
good luck buddy
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I am 13 years old, I am self improving and i'm doing pretty well 👍
Can you make an update of your self improvement journey ? And if you doing good please, give me advice 😁 (If I did mistakes, it is because I am not english)
whats wrong with being feminine
I think I speak for most people who watch these videos Hamza when I say you are like an older brother figure for all of us truly a role model and teacher at every step! Keep it up and have a nice day you and everyone else
the perfect brother. money, gains and brains
I wouldn’t say he’s like the perfect older brother. But I do like a lot of his videos. The essence of masculinity is to know yourself that’s a no your capabilities as a man. His videos of Quinto don’t get me wrong it’s just that a lot of these self improvement videos you got to take them off the grain of salt.
Of course there is no perfect but I would say Hamza atleast isn't full on bs like a lot of other self improvement UA-camrs
thank you Hamza!
100%
My father raised me feminine more than my mother, no wonder I was anxious, awkward, embarrassed, depressed. But I know for a thing that won't stop me from being masculine so don't give up no matter what, we got this💪💪
My father didnt care to raise me so i was raised by my mom and 2 other women as all the men of the house were out working
@@7860092 my father didn’t raised me either all he cared about was weed and beer
“Why are men starting to look like women” in addition to your answers my biggest personal adjustment was fixing my “anterior pelvic tilt” which is basically the technical term for gamer posture. Forward tilted hips, spine curving inward and shoulders slouched, hanging forward. I would love to see you do a video bringing anterior pelvic tilt as well as calm confident posture with it (because you can “over correct” your posture which is the same as the puffed up chest/invisible lat syndrome guy). MOST people in our generation have this and it takes time and consistency to correct, I’ve been at it for over a year and I’m still not satisfied.
Keep legs relaxed , stand up with shoulders straight, but stay relaxed. Do some pullups , rows , and pulling exercise. 😂
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hips in, shoulders back is how i always go, just to where my spine is straight
2:57 is a big thing for me, being a teenager on the self improvement thing. I have extremely wide hips due to some messed up bone genetics, which I only found out about within the last few months since I was always just told as a kid that I was just fat. The strange part is I've never been more into the diet and routine or worked out as hard as I do now, but after learning that somehow it helped? I think it's because it's something that can't really change, and it allows me to see the progress I've made everywhere else motivating me more. I don't know what this is, maybe a little rant or something that someone with the same issue might see. Stay hard friends, you got this.
Me too
Sometimes my freinds call me thicc 😂
It can be what we call love handles too. I've had them and still have them, but they're way smaller than before now. Stay hard brahs, we've got this
Wider hips are better for strength stuff. More stability. You may not get V taper, but can build lot of muscles. See greek Hercules statue. None of them have scrawny midsection. Thick core muscles.
I'm pretty sure I have gyno like Hamza. I am still young and can reverse it with my current better habits but it's something I'm really insecure ab. Seeing that hamza has it as well helps and hopefully it will be reduced in the future. Good luck to you and you can use those wide hips for strength instead of looking pretty. Stay strong bro.
@@amasrid9432 love handles are different
Thicc ass is different 🤣
Shits fucked honestly, the things that social media presents to us young boys is disgusting, do not be afraid to be masculine, stay void of all distraction, maintain respect and self control, reach your goals.
Idk about you but social media just shows me buff guys
I am less of a failure than you and what you're criticizing are
Wym I highly doubt anyone is scared of being masculine
I want to be more masculine
Ok guys that's enough. Let's change the world together. Let's be the first generation that brings back the masculine values and teach their children as such. We can do it and we NEED to do it
Preach brother
@@nobody4404 we march on my cat brother!
Let's go
3:59 Masculine
Spoiler: you guys aren't gonna change shit
Thank you Hamza. My father was in my life but always absent because of work and his other endeavors.
I’m just starting to shape into a man I want to be .
Hamza the information your bringing out into the world is so crucial more people should listen to you mad respect g the world now a days is absolutely nuts
As a wise man once said “it’s ok to show emotions but when it’s time to show that traditional masculine side of yourself you need to be able to do that, that balance is key to being a man”
Who was the wise man?
and when is the time exactly to show your traditional masculine side??
@@gforce97 during tough times. Aka 100% of your time when youre outside. 50+% of the time when inside your house.
I'm 16 years old and have been watching your videos for a while now and have never taken the things you say in your videos seriously but this video has inspired me to improve myself I've tried the journey of self improvement before and have failed but today is the start thank you for your posting this video and keep up the good work 👍
@@kingnative no lol
Bro I got motivated only by 1 red pill video and my life has changed a lot. I discovered red pill at 15 now i will be 16 in 1 month. My first video whih i watched was the33secrets why women cant love you.. it opended my eyes I wasnt even wuestionizing it cuz i knew what he is saying is true cuz i saw it playing out before also just workout meditate rly.. thats not hard i workout 6x a week i used to workout 4months 3x a week fbw steong lifts but now i switvhed bro split 6x a week cuz i cba to stay at home for 4 days i love to workout. From doing barley 70kg on squat in 5 months i am able to do 125-130kg for 5 times. Bench 1 rep around 115-120kg before barley doing 90kg for once. I weight 88kg 177cm height got a lot of complements feim girls and boys from school just grind force your self bro... you will enoj the progress you make. ( my eng is bad cuz I aint native ) stop playing video games stop fapping do all good habbits and u already stand out feom the crowd in couple of years.
@@nohandglovesinthegym4075 thanks man that was very informative
Wish I was watching youtubers like him when I was 16
In self improvement it will feel like you're making 0 progress for a long time, you just gotta keep moving
I've been angry, sad and depressed even with how I am, how my life is. Let me say your channel was a life changer. I love the idea of the mission, the goals. It makes it easier to focus on what I want. But small goals are so much easier to complete, which was amazing advice, we get overwhelmed when we have huge goals, having small goals such as "today I'm going to clean my room" sets positive habits and mindsets. Thank you brother
That squeaky voice is gold. Imma join your cult, man.
Keep making such interesting videos. I love them
"evaluate current goals and missions", what a quote 👌👌👌🔥🔥🔥
Thank you Hamza. Just thank you. Also this has to be the greatest movement going on right now for young men. Keep inspiring others. For better versions of us and for a better world.
i remember in grade 6, i had this friend in my group that was a huge delinquent. he would fight anyone, he didnt care about getting hurt. but he was also super friendly. my friend group was mostly nerdy, but i was more into physical activity, and running etc... eventually we became really close, once when we were walking from school together he just asked me do you want to fight, first to tap out loses. i was board so i agreed. it was such a blast. we both had massive respect for each otehr being friends and if 1 person tapped out, the other would just pick them up and compliment them. there was no deeper reason we fought other then to have fun. thats the kind of fighting i love, when both people consent and WANT TO HAVE FUN. theres a part in being a man that just makes you want to fight. but society just thinks every sort of fighting is just from anger and hatred. thats why its mostly men that play fighting games, because competing and testing you're abilities is just fun to men. if a person is just fighting to be dominance or they have hatred for someone, then i think that fighting should be stopped cause thats not cool
Hamza has had such a great impact on mine and many others self improvement journeys, hes like the caring older brother that most of us never had.
I also think that the prevalence of microplastics has severely changed life as compared to 40-50 years ago. Nevertheless, I think that you're spreading a good message and you have really helped me get into the gym and improve myself. Thank you
Haha… indeed, the decline in sperm count has absolutely nothing to do with what Hamza says, with a lot of confidence of course, the most common trait of ignorants.
It highly probably has a lot more to do with environmental contamination as you say
There's a book about this.
There's microplastics in our blood too 😢
Started loving the main Channel again
I grew up in a household where masculinity was oppressed. This video is necessary.
It is really necessary.
Mind if I ask how?
@@JustaRandommonarchist
Aggressive behaviour such as play fighting wasn't welcome. Any martial-arts films where banned. Was not allowed to have an opinion that challenged adults, any fight for dominance was met with extreme disdain. We were expected to follow rules without explaination just BC we were boys. We were treated like work horses. And when we did express our feelings we weren't encouraged to do so effectively or educated how to. Hardly any of us have experienced leadership roles, we've all been abused by women in relationships one way or another.
@@justintime1309 oh wow. That must if been tuff
Yeah man Basically you just carry this fear of going after what you want, like being masculine is a bad thing. You have this fight to remember, and this fight to go out of your way to be assertive. It just feels unnatural to be yourself.
I missed your longer videos. Nowadays the quality is higher sure, but by making your videos longer you allow to make the idea more understanding to others and even lets you explain progress steps. Awesome job brother
This stuff is lifechanging for so many, you should do a video with some cult members talking about how they've changed and grown thanks to your content
This man has already changed the course of our generation.
We are apart of the minority that knows about self improvement. Self improvement is not mainstream and I’m not sure it ever will be. “These alone are my readers, my rightful readers, my predestined readers: what do the rest matter? -The rest are merely mankind” -Friedrich Nietzsche
I will literally create 1000 YT accounts just to Like this video 1000 times. Hamza ur videos are becoming more and more amazing. Keep growing and maturing ur spirit because I have not come across a more perfect example of Jephrey to Adonis DONE RIGHT in 2022+ ur absolutely killing the game we need to get the nation on board w this movement. I work with youth. I am 33 myself and this applies to all men and all boys for sure.
So do it
Dude instead of making 1000 accounts do a thousand pushups and make him proud
@@thiccchonker8862 that's what I was about to write , 1000 pushups Les gooo
What a pathetic, weak slave he’s made of you.
Get your shit together dude. You are not his lackey.
You were gifted with critical thinking abilities. Use your gift.
I love your videos. They always motivate me, and I've finally reached a point in my life where I would rather suffer and grow than be comfortable yet falling apart. The only part, is I'll get to the end of your videos and always think... "Kay, now how do I do any of that."
I have to admit, you've created a channel, that is one of the most useful these days, including for me.
Before I've found you I tried to talk to one girl in my high school class and despite her weebiness I thought this could work. I've gone out with her for a walk, but at one point I've made some major creepiness mistakes and after just plainly asking her out (because I've felt anything more would be an over-investment) I've heard, that she was never interested in me and by that mess ups she is still pissed off from me, and this was 2 months ago. I've learned several things:
1) You can't postpone the moment of asking out. Courage to do that has to come fast, no hesitation.
2) Don't try to find a way to "modify" her interests to suit you. If they don't match yours too much, it'd be better to find another soon-to-hoped-to-be a loved one.
3) There's always another girl waiting, so if you see you can't save this relation, do that.
Now I've learned from my mistakes, I promised that previous hoped-to-be that she'd decide whether to talk to me (she probably won't ever) and well... I understood she's just not gonna ever find a second half without changing her mindset (and also apparently she's asexual, could have caught that).
I hope this knowledge stays with me, because I've found way better girls that have way better interests and actually are willing to chit-chat. I've chosen the one, that seems the best, she's really so charming (and also not that kind of "independent" women that despise men). I plan to confess love to her until the end of school year.
And speaking of video, I always had that internal urge to do something masculine and I've finally found that momentum to keep going with it. I finally watch automechanics videos, I spend a bit of time on a shooting range, doing dumb shit with friends (that doesn't revolve around games, like one day we've made a Molotov cocktail and threw it inside of an abandoned bunker, so basically we're becoming technicians-chemists). I hope to maintain it from now on.
you got this bro
but, please, do not "confess love" to women. they dont care about your feelings, they only care about HOW you make them feel ("what makes sense in your head doesnt make sense in their emotional heart"). Once you understand that + abundance mindset you will be unstopable
lore
If she didn’t say she loves you then don’t confess bro, you’re still a kid so I wouldn’t worry about that stuff if I were you. Enjoy your youth but make sure to be safe along the journey
These past couple of years I've literally been depressed and even at times suicidal. Your videos seriously give me a feeling of belonging. I've been going to the gym a lot lately, eating extremely healthy, reading and focusing on my overall mental health.
Things are starting to look up for me lately. I've been a lot better and charismatic with the people around me as well.
Thanks Hamza and fans.
Good for you bro. Keep fighting.
its true brother i went that down as well and i was suicidal and depressed but this cult just changed my life and how i view this world :)
That's great to hear brow!
@@MyEyes5 Thanks
@@Fares_belal199 Same. Knowing that people like this exist gave me hope.
great work Hamza, i really appriciate these videos and i can relate to most of what you are saying. I am trying to get a more masculine mindset, and i do find these types of videos helping me understand how to achieve that. All Support from DENMARK!
Love the new style of videos
Saying the things you say publicly would get me cancelled. I’m so glad you’re a voice for us men.
cancelled ? Who cares? If your beliefs are the right ones, you don' t need people like that around you, trust me
this is off topic but that's a cute pfp you got there
@@xtxl I almost got kicked out of medical school for having views like Hamza’s so you’re wrong when you say it doesn’t matter. It does. I nearly lost my career to cancel culture.
@@taleseylad1249 thanks haha
@@HassanPoyo where did this even happen at???
next thing you know they're gonna cancel stores for needing to pay money to get a product
Daily uploads, it’s actually insane. Thank you Hamza
It’s more than daily, and it’s amazing.
I really needed this, thanks old bro!
Bro thank god I found your UA-cam channel back when you had 120k 😎 I love every single one of your videos man straight up changing lives out here Fr
Hamza, you are my rolemodel and hero, I wish I had a friend like you. I have taken it upon myself to change my classmates from weak feminized boys, to men. You inspire me so much Hamza, pure love.
Bro I love you ... Thanks for changing my life 🙏
Legend, thankyou 💯💪💪💪
Just bought the book, cant wait reading it. Thanks.
im here to make myself more feminine
based
Based
Hard times are here, let us become strong men
thank you hamza , i have been looking for a video like this for a while
Thank you Hamza you have truly inspired me to change and I want to also thank this community:)
Thank you Hamza, this is the video for me. I have been insecure that i am "feminine" for way too long, i will continue pursuing my dream to be a better man
In my opinion showing emotion isn't bad if it's something that is actually super serious, I see guys crying over things like rejection from girls, or being insecure about little things. I've been rejected a few times and never cried and infact moved on very quickly and felt as little emotion as possible and I'm boutta start working out/going to the gym. I've felt much happier especially since I've been as you said working on goals on things I do in general, like doing things outside or just doing certain work etc. Your videos are definitely helpful in any way. Edit: some goals I've made is something like beginning to write movie scripts, I wanna be a movie writer/director, and trying to spend more time just doing home workouts and just other things that involve eating and well just genuinely doing stuff, goals don't just mean oh yeah make this happen or a bunch of big things, it's little things that escalate into a higher difficulty and check them off in order
I'm glad you came to Thailand. Your fan form Thailand
Your videos always come at a time when I need them the most
You are absolutely right Hamza. As men we have to conquer. Objective after objetive. Mission after mission. Happiness is like an achievement after conquering a goal. But the happiness is not the objective, it’s like a reward.
This is an incredibly edit
The quality is growing while the content is peaking
The gains are showing 💪💪
I think we all needed to watch this video. Crazy thing is this video came at THE perfect time in my life. Thank you Hamza
Thanks Hamza, your videos had gave so much energy to improve myself, fight my insecurities, push myself forward and overall to be a better man, a better human. Love you bro 👊
The fire that gets lit inside me every day from these videos sprouts from my ex who constantly manipulated me into thinking I was insecure and I had toxic masculinity… the knowledge I could give to her today is insane.
let people be what they want to be
I appreciate that you found back to your old way of making videos on your main channel.
thanks you so much, this video helped me a lot!!
I’m down for this Cult!
Looking forward to growing with you brothers
Welcome brother
This is a great video and I completely agree that men should be more masculine right now. I know this personally as my strive to be more masculine has led me to improve many things about myself such as a healthier and more "asthetic" body, higher grades, and my girlfriend. But I dissagree with your statement that men should be like rocks. Maybe I misunderstood but you said to endure hardship and endure negative emotion and to get the job done. I have been studying the philisophies and teachings of bruce lee and his core practice is to be like water. To find the light within the darkness. What this means is to find the joy and growth in hardship. For example I recently broke my arm, but instead of brute forcing myself through the hardship like a rock, I instead thought of it as a learning expirience and something I could grow from. This is a simple example but from this mindset I was able to go through the hardship without a heavy heart. Afterwards I was able to regain my strength back through exercise, and I am now just as fit as I was before.
Sam great editing in terms of the background sound
💆🏼♂️This was helpful and encouraging.. Thank you!!
As someone who just recently found out I am on the autistic spectrum, I want to give my own experience. Being masculine can mean a lot of things to a lot of people, but I personally think it means having the power of bringing yourself and others up, being self-sufficient, and having a less shallow short-term view of the world. Ironically, the friends in my life who would be classed as "manlier" for being into other manly activities such as sports are were nothing like this and as a kid, these people made me view being "manly" as a negative, which made SO confused about my own self-worth and identity, and I still battle with these problems to this day. It's even harder when my only father figure who I loved, died when I was just 13. People like hamza are helping me take out the negative traits I've associated with "masculinity" and finally figure out what true manliness is about. Thank you hamza.
Over the course of self improvement I have been naturally devaluing love and joy I thought that I was becoming calloused and emo but I am glad that I am still on the right path
man why dose ur words hits so different and effective💪💪💪
you saved my life i love you
Something that I've been thinking a lot about recently is related to what Hamza said about not trying to be happy all the time.
Going through some pretty severe depression and loneliness has taught me that if you want to be happy you have to be willing to embrace the tough times in life as well. You have to be familiar with sadness, misery, and suffering if you ever want to feel true joy, happiness, and fulfillment.
Therefore we as men should strive to always be accomplishing our mission and fulfilling our duties 1st and foremost. The way you feel comes 2nd. Nothing will make you feel more masculine than doing what you know you should do despite not wanting to do it. Thanks for bringing that point up Hamza, great video.
Without bad times, good times mean nothing
Started working out like 2 months before turning 14 during covid cause I was skinny. It wasn't really a bad thing like my friends from school wouldn't make fun of me and stuff. But I wasn't happy with being skinny. Almost 16 now. Not skinny anymore and still working out. Working out made my body a lot better and helped me mentally too in raising my confidence level and stuff. Really glad I made the decision to workout 2 years ago. And for those who plan to improve themselves, it's not late. But the sooner you start, the better.
I Thank you Hamza
Great advice! been watching your videos for a while now hamza and I have literally seen you GLOW UP!
Listen to this advice & take action! IT WORKS!
Good thing that I started doing things like Workout, boxing and educating myself to be more masculine a year ago.
It was the best decision, if I haven't started a year ago I don't know what I would be like now.
Remember boys, it's not who you are but what you DO that defines you. Join the movement and we will help guide anyone struggling.
Batman?
ty i needed this
Thank you hamza you’ve changed my view man. 👍👍👍
Negative emotions aren't weakness. Emotional dysregularion is. You can't choose how to feel, but you can choose if you act in a healthy manner under the emotional pressure. And no, neither tantrums nor suppression of negative emotions are healthy reactions. Be more mindful and improve your emotional intelligence, kings. Suppression of emotions just because you were told to is not an act of strength, it's an act of weakness. Same goes with tears and tantrums after the slightest negative feedback or perceived failure. It's not being "more emotional", it's being controlled by your emotions (probably mainly shame).
This is something that’s been pondering in my mind that I couldn’t put together. The insight I got from this is awesome, thank you bro.
As soon as I started weight lifting, I realized just how strong, fit and muscular a mans body can be, I’ve only been lifting for like 3-4 months, but I’ve lost tons of fat, while gaining muscle and strength, my voice has gotten deeper and I’ve become more proud and confident. All it took was to finally do it.
Good job keep it going man
What was your starting weight and current weight?
@@chaosevolution I was 170 now I’m 155, I lost weight pretty fast cause I’m also in sports and hit puberty so it’s probably easier for my compared to older guys.
@@tobydorion1258 how long did it take?
@@kcool3483 To see progress it takes like 2 months to see some or more, I was chubby so I lost my excess fat faster than someone with major weight issues. Just stay consistent with your plan and it works.
thank you so much man you really feel like a close uncle your sound
This hitted, thanks
This guy shows how to be a real men in positive life
Its ok to cry. Its ok to be emontional. But you should always keep going.
thanks will do big motivation.
Great topic truth
I'd honestly say a good way to have a balance is at home and with people who are close to you, it can be alright to be feminine.
Though when out and about its definitely good to be masculine and focus on your goals and missions.
1. Don't be afraid of challenges and responsibility. These are opportunities to grow and become stronger.
2. Find your purpose and accomplish them
Thanks homie ❤
Boundaries and self respect are 2 most important traits in anyone ... but especially a masculine man. HOW CAN PEOPLE RESPECT YOU, IF YOU CAN'T RESPECT YOURSELF?
Learned that the hard way.
I quit gaming, stopped hanging out with friends who only wants to drink/smoke and talk about nonsense and started solely focusing on the thing I’ve always knew I was meant to do. Never felt better in my life 💪
High value video, keep it up ham let’s not conform to modernity
mad respect for you Hamza
One other important thing to note is how toxic, endocrine-disrupting chemicals in our environment are wreaking havoc on our physiology. Phthalates, BPAs, parabens and preservatives, and even birth control residue in the water supply and pesticides like atrazine are all messing with our hormone levels, but it's something we can become aware of and minimize. I'd highly recommend the book "countdown" by Dr. Shanna Swan for more on this topic.
Moms here in Slovakia are build different, my mom actually encouraged me to go outside more and to be more masculine but I just didn't beacues I thought it would worthless to go outside if I have no friends (I had no friends at the time and I still don't mostly beacues of my autism, im 17). I wish I took her advice.
Take her advice … now.
You’d have been better off taking her advice earlier, but you’ll be better of if you take the advice now.
Its not too late man
@@takezyzz how can i make and find freinds at 16?
@@_______unknown_______ talk to people about stuff you like youre always gonna have atleast 1 thing with someone in common. For example 2 of my hobbies are working out and playing basketbal. I started working at a store as a side hustle last month(im also 16 btw) and theres a muscular guy who works there so i asked him if he goes to the gym and it started a conversation and now we always talk about the gym when we see each other. Theres also another guy who works there and i asked him do you also go to the gym, he said no so i asked him if he plays other sports and he said basketbal so we started a conversation about basketbal and he even got me in contact with his coach so i can play at his club. In summary all u gotta do is talk to people and ask questions without overdoing it not to look weird people have more in common than we think. Btw once you have a couple of friends its much easier to make new friends since you become friends of their friends and form a group it gets easier as you make friends. Goodluck bro
@@_______unknown_______ my dad makes friends with a lot of people
and he's age 50+
Iam grateful to hamza.i watched his videos for a month and then did the that he told in his Videos and later i experienced something that i haven’t in my life and i developed a lot of things in my life so thanks hamza
The editing on this video is amazing
I'm 15, and I am proudly male. My hair is like 3 feet long, I wear AF1s, sometimes like misting myself with pumpkin spice fabreese just to smell like 'fall', and im not ripped. I have a gf, I have a car and can legally drive (Idaho), I have a part time job that I love, I love school, and I love my life.
I hate these people like Hamza who make a living off their cult following where you're never man enough, you're never perfect. Wanna know the secret to happiness? Gratitude. Literally be honest with yourself, watching these videos will not get you anywhere.