The 6 People Most Likely to CHEAT! (Men & Women)

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  • @a.alexander9221
    @a.alexander9221 7 років тому +4213

    I wish cheaters would just attract other cheaters. It would make everything so much easier for the rest of us

    • @raceb
      @raceb 7 років тому +139

      Can I get an amen!!

    • @veggiemama921
      @veggiemama921 7 років тому +32

      Umm I don't know YES!!! My ex did just that lol! They do each other and whomever else they see fit to do smh.

    • @geneivadyes9804
      @geneivadyes9804 7 років тому +17

      #AMEN!!!!!

    • @dominicankandie5957
      @dominicankandie5957 6 років тому +3

      Umm I don't know say that again!!

    • @WorldOfARandomVegan
      @WorldOfARandomVegan 6 років тому +1

      Umm I don't know Agreed!

  • @Tiptwonine
    @Tiptwonine 7 років тому +1126

    People who are selfish or self centered will usually end up cheating, they're always thinking about themselves first smh

    • @lillianpitts9853
      @lillianpitts9853 6 років тому +20

      Tiffany Jones amen my husband is this way getting divorce asap

    • @atiabasmith229
      @atiabasmith229 6 років тому +4

      Tiffany Jones your so right

    • @tayahcarter7649
      @tayahcarter7649 6 років тому +18

      I should of took my love interest word for it when he told me he was selfish and wanted me to himself! Your right he was both selfish and self centered.

    • @orangecloud8820
      @orangecloud8820 5 років тому +26

      I feel like these are also the people that gives silent treatment, because they don’t feel their spouse deserves to know anything or have any responses from them. I dated one and he’s like that

    • @darylcray9463
      @darylcray9463 5 років тому +3

      Tiffany Jones so very true i met a woman who we was cool but there are so many red flags however being raised right i see through the bullcrap

  • @rellie1horter
    @rellie1horter 6 років тому +558

    A man will also cheat when he knows youre out of his league and you dont know your worth. After i left my ex for his filth he told me he was always afraid of losing me and would feed his ego with lessor a.k.a looser women. When youre with someone and everyones always asking you including their own family how they got you its a red flag that everyone knows he isnt worthy but you. Never dull your shine for anyone. I did this and all it did was make me feel like an even bigger fool when it was finally over. Im thankful to know my worth now and i wont be settling ever again. Its better to be alone than holding on to a fraction of a man just because you love what he could be.

    • @sokham27
      @sokham27 5 років тому +19

      Hort Shire Been there - this one is too true 💯

    • @assiabenslimane2589
      @assiabenslimane2589 5 років тому +18

      Same situation

    • @lorenna9922
      @lorenna9922 5 років тому +17

      Omg girl yesss you 1000% correct this also happened to me

    • @nosugarcoating9778
      @nosugarcoating9778 5 років тому +8

      So so so true I’m struggling to get out

    • @lorenna9922
      @lorenna9922 5 років тому +24

      @@nosugarcoating9778 girl let him go its 1 of the best things ive ever done it was hard yes but it was so so necessary!! Self love and boundaries are so important. If you stay and you allow the behaviour you are teaching him you do not love & respect yourself and so he will continue disrespecting you and violating your boundaries. we deserve better, a confident man who treats us right and he will come but focus on you. Start a business, read more, sage your space, pray, exercise and watch commedies whilst eating fruits. Surround yourself with people who truly have your best interest at heart🤗 you can do it... your peace of mind is so important you deserve to sleep peacefully ❤

  • @BallCDO
    @BallCDO 3 роки тому +20

    He was talking about himself 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @logikgirl12
    @logikgirl12 7 років тому +913

    I would add men or women who never healed and were not over their exes but still rushed into a new relationship.
    I would also add men or women who settled just to avoid being alone, then realized there were better matches out there; but still didn't have enough courage to end it and go back to being single.

    • @believinginme82healing94
      @believinginme82healing94 5 років тому +7

      These are FACTS hunni so freaking TRUE

    • @rjrenee4783
      @rjrenee4783 5 років тому +2

      💯

    • @brianag1175
      @brianag1175 5 років тому +2

      THIS!

    • @ChrisTian-wx1rh
      @ChrisTian-wx1rh 5 років тому

      I’ve been the second paragraph but will never go thru it again

    • @angelstarfire
      @angelstarfire 5 років тому

      True! As cringey as I sound, this sounds a lot like the female protagonist in mangas and animes . No wonder I dislike them so much.

  • @stygiansun3318
    @stygiansun3318 6 років тому +362

    I would add; the insecure person. Goes both ways (both men and women). Insecure people, they like the validation given to them by outside attention and don't shut it down the way someone who is secure would. Eventually if opportunity presents, they will cheat.

    • @christinaronaldo4217
      @christinaronaldo4217 5 років тому +9

      You're talking about my ex. Lol.

    • @bamababii5989
      @bamababii5989 5 років тому +2

      This is true

    • @moisepicard3417
      @moisepicard3417 5 років тому

      @blahblahblah mememe Oh, so you think know the world very well to a supreme scale for you to say, "If I could guess 95% of the world is insecure or has insecurities if not 100%?" Regardless, if we all cheat or not. Or, if the majority of the world cheats or the whole wide world cheats.

    • @claramorey6187
      @claramorey6187 5 років тому +5

      My ex exactly. He also flirted with whoever just to get attention and would tell me shit like "nah we just friends she knows I'm just Jk" like srsly 🙄?

    • @africacarey
      @africacarey 4 роки тому

      Exactly

  • @Caraf
    @Caraf 5 років тому +219

    "They cheat with whoever has a pulse"😂

    • @shalaneford1290
      @shalaneford1290 4 роки тому +2

      Alleah Fuentes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @bernadettekelly2772
      @bernadettekelly2772 4 роки тому +4

      Once i was in the hairdressers ! He called me on camera , the hairdresser was very pretty ! First thing came out of his mouth was " does she have a boy friend ? I felt embarressed i went numb !

    • @nikkanavarro9066
      @nikkanavarro9066 4 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @SS-su3rn
      @SS-su3rn 3 роки тому

      They are its called swingers
      They got a group

  • @MsNobody
    @MsNobody 5 років тому +98

    My Ex gave me silent treatment when we had arguments. I found it very unattractive. so when he cheated he was blaming me... so I said "excuse me, don't blame me for your shortcomings. you made that choice on your own. if I have to use the same excuse you had I would've cheated on you not once but several times. I am an attractive woman & get hit on, but did I choose to cheat, no! so No you're not blaming for that. you did that because you wanted to. it's your sin therefore one day you will pay for it, goodbye".
    he tried to come back I said no.... now I am engaged with a wonderful man after a year of being cheated on. I am happy that I stood my ground.

    • @roseinharlem8152
      @roseinharlem8152 4 роки тому +2

      Your ex was a bonafide narcissist. Glad you got away from that.

  • @ashleymanriquez7745
    @ashleymanriquez7745 7 років тому +99

    Get this right ladies, GROWN** MEN DO NOT CHEAT, BOYS DO. There are 18+ adult BOYS that just cheat & do not know what the fuck they want. If the guy you're talking to doesn't mention growing together and striving for greatness with each other and does not only say it but his actions prove it, has a job/career, and seems to give off the vibe that he KNOWS exactly what he wants, if he doesn't do or demonstrate all that then girl, your dealing with a grown BOY not a man.

    • @asiakemp3355
      @asiakemp3355 7 років тому +6

      Many guys have those same conversations with women pertaining to growing together and etc but still do wrong by you. Most guys just love to tell you what they feel you want to hear and will be telling you the same exact thing he tells to every other women that comes after you.

    • @ashleymanriquez7745
      @ashleymanriquez7745 7 років тому +4

      Asia Kemp Exactly; they just love telling us stuff we would want to hear. Thats why its best to believe him only when he shows you that he means business meaning he has his life together & is ready to somewhat commit to you; it can only be proven through actions. Words mean nothing if there is no truthfulness behind it which they can only be shown through actions.

    • @asiakemp3355
      @asiakemp3355 7 років тому +5

      You're absolutely right, but what I'm saying is some of these dudes truly be wolves in sheep clothing. I was dealing with a guy and he talked a good game and walked the walk, but in the end he was playing me. I believe it was because he doesn't love himself and until he finally decides to, he will only continue to ruin every good woman that comes in his path. The facades people put up is nuts...

    • @ashleymanriquez7745
      @ashleymanriquez7745 7 років тому +4

      Asia Kemp Absolutely right, I had the same thing happen to me. The shit we put up with is unbelievable. All the wasted time, effort, emotions, words etc.

    • @asiakemp3355
      @asiakemp3355 7 років тому +4

      All for the sake of what we think is love at the time smh. So very annoying.

  • @StephTheYah
    @StephTheYah 7 років тому +177

    You were right about that girl who feels neglected because that was me at one point in my life. I was 19. Thought i had it all figured out said "i feel neglected" started talking to other dudes. That shit made me even MORE lonely than i was at first in the end. I played myself but i learned a valuable lesson & onto better things now

    • @77462377
      @77462377 6 років тому +2

      Steph Liliana Excally, Yes

    • @SuperMeg82
      @SuperMeg82 6 років тому +12

      Steph Liliana you aren't the only one. It makes you vulnerable :( turns you into someone you never thought you'd be!

    • @sophierutherford2338
      @sophierutherford2338 5 років тому +5

      Same here! Except I didn’t go out trying to talk to other guys... one guy started treating me a million times better than my boyfriend did. I began to wonder how he could treat me so well but my boyfriend would either be ignoring me or making me cry.
      I always held my hands up to my mistakes. Now, the lesson is definitely learnt from and I’ve been able to grow from it.

    • @farrahpalms8649
      @farrahpalms8649 5 років тому

      That what I did started talking to other men more cause he had no time for me not home or bearly home he talking to other female and he had the nerves to bring a female home and that one hurt and crashed me

  • @jessicaalen3533
    @jessicaalen3533 5 років тому +96

    Cheaters make marriage life soo difficult; especially, when they deny and never acknowledge it.

  • @diddyboppin5904
    @diddyboppin5904 5 років тому +140

    Another cheater is the insecure woman who's always "innocently" flirting with everybody and needs the self esteem boost every guy she comes across

    • @lovelyroses2314
      @lovelyroses2314 4 роки тому +13

      diddy boppin That goes for man as well.😊

    • @shanika8
      @shanika8 4 роки тому +4

      I was cheated on by a guy and a girl both made the same excuses both broke my heart but I moved on from both of them

    • @lunarl6172
      @lunarl6172 3 роки тому

      It sounds to me that you’re the insecure guy, because I’m mistaken to flirt with every guy and I never once cheated on my ex over the 10years he accused me of because it was HIM who was projecting his guilt

    • @Hamptino
      @Hamptino 3 роки тому

      @@lunarl6172 Lol... somehow it's still the man's fault. Take accountability

  • @JoannaSavage71
    @JoannaSavage71 7 років тому +1140

    #7- Unresolved Mommy/Daddy issues, ladies walk don't run if you meet a man who has or had a bad relationship with his mother not all but most will treat you with the same disrespect.

    • @Amariellah
      @Amariellah 7 років тому +30

      Joanna Savage you are 100 percent correct

    • @Amariellah
      @Amariellah 7 років тому +106

      I also.know men whom treat their Mom well and treat girlfriends and wives horriibly

    • @JoannaSavage71
      @JoannaSavage71 7 років тому +15

      True, there's exceptions to every rule some men evolve and aren't victims I have a lot of respect for those men.

    • @HerSerenity22
      @HerSerenity22 7 років тому +51

      If a man doesn't respect his mother than he will never respect a woman until he resolves the problem. You will always stand as a reflection of his momma

    • @JoannaSavage71
      @JoannaSavage71 7 років тому +7

      Exactly Tiffany Allison . Amen to that!.

  • @miahailey4200
    @miahailey4200 7 років тому +141

    That silence type of guy... Oh yes!!!. My ex was a great example. He never wanted to talk about our issues or future together. This video really answer my question that I never knew..

    • @inappropriatebible
      @inappropriatebible 6 років тому +1

      Moon Starz
      Yep. Me too

    • @jessicaalen3533
      @jessicaalen3533 5 років тому +1

      The silent-treatment kinda guys...soo true. I'm married to one.

    • @tinleanerallen5927
      @tinleanerallen5927 5 років тому

      So true I'm in a relationship like that now..

    • @moisepicard3417
      @moisepicard3417 5 років тому

      @@coffeefiend1085 And, I am glad that he felt the exact same way about you.

    • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
      @glitterboxglitterbox1939 5 років тому

      Don't Care About Ignorance i forgot about Those ones though!

  • @phoenixfire4640
    @phoenixfire4640 6 років тому +161

    silent treatments are narcissistic characteristics! my ex narc gave them to me all the time when he didn’t like something

    • @jamaicanflavor3737
      @jamaicanflavor3737 4 роки тому +7

      Or your ex just didn't like to argue?

    • @kateh2434
      @kateh2434 4 роки тому +18

      +island spice silent treatments are a form of psychological torture. So yeah, it is. It’s got nothing to do with not wanting to argue. Silent treatments used to make you feel like shit and give into them.

    • @jamaicanflavor3737
      @jamaicanflavor3737 4 роки тому +13

      @@kateh2434 Yes I know, because I'm married to a narcissist. There are some people like myself, who will rather remain silent than argue, which could be confused with narcissistic behavior. The best way to get revenge on a narcissist, is to give them the same treatment they give you.

    • @kateh2434
      @kateh2434 4 роки тому +3

      @island spice bang on. I agree.

    • @candypretorius517
      @candypretorius517 4 роки тому +5

      I just can't prove it but I my intuition tells me he did cheat.

  • @Lastdon56
    @Lastdon56 3 роки тому +19

    The new game on UA-cam:
    Go to a Derrick Jaxn video
    Go to the comment section
    Click on Sort By, and hit Newest First
    Laugh your ass off.

  • @morganprince8910
    @morganprince8910 6 років тому +1299

    U forgot one .....the narcisist

    • @queenana9
      @queenana9 6 років тому +9

      Morgan Prince Yessssss😫😫😫

    • @JStrong77
      @JStrong77 6 років тому +4

      Yep.

    • @okaygee4132
      @okaygee4132 6 років тому +46

      Morgan Prince that is covered by the "selfie" king

    • @reyelfather
      @reyelfather 6 років тому +5

      I'm a narcissist I haven't cheated

    • @rb641
      @rb641 6 років тому +1

      Morgan Prince Yesss girl

  • @journeyinwellness
    @journeyinwellness 7 років тому +92

    True. My ex cheated on me because I was a come up for him. Other women started noticing him because I was with him. He would always say I am not used to getting all this attention from women. 🤦🏾‍♀️ shoulda listened to my intuition. I won't doubt me again.

  • @DrTLEvans
    @DrTLEvans 3 роки тому +13

    Chiiillllleeee 😩 do we have to guess which category to place you in, DJ?🤔🤭🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @TheQShow53
    @TheQShow53 4 роки тому +23

    This is so damn true! I was married to a guy who never wanted to discuss anything in the end he cheated !

  • @spongebnellie
    @spongebnellie 7 років тому +126

    "Dipping in your woman's walls" 😂😂😂💀💀 I'm dead

  • @heidyacosta6798
    @heidyacosta6798 7 років тому +97

    100% on point!! Laughed a lot with the selfie guy 🤣

  • @MasterOZero
    @MasterOZero 6 років тому +57

    Sex doesn't have to be the only form of cheating. She can line somebody up to replace a man and that's what emotional affair plays

  • @hlumelomelo1829
    @hlumelomelo1829 3 роки тому +20

    🤣🤣 talking about himself

  • @rosexhill
    @rosexhill 7 років тому +166

    At the end of the day, it all comes down to self love. It is very essential, learning to love yourself fully and unconditionally. We are so eager for love that once or a couple times in our lives we are willing to sacrifice a part of ourselves and what we believe in, in order to attain love. Thus, losing ourselves in the process and being clueless about it until the "love" dissipates. We have to always be careful with who we entertain and share ourselves with. Not everyone will always appreciate our entirety and that is fine. We are not obligated to "hold" someone down and cater to their wants and needs when that person only holds us back, that's not loyalty. THAT IS STUPIDITY. Learn to not seek fulfillment in others but rather yourself. Make sure your mental, spiritual, emotional, and physical intact. #TeamJaxn

    • @catricemcglothin8048
      @catricemcglothin8048 7 років тому +9

      Rose Hill ! Yes! You hit it out the ballpark with this!! Great post!

    • @rosexhill
      @rosexhill 7 років тому

      Catrice McGlothin thank you hun! I appreciate it, god bless.

    • @_theerealnono_7694
      @_theerealnono_7694 7 років тому +3

      Say that for all the mofos in the back! Yasss! 👏👏👏

    • @dominicankandie5957
      @dominicankandie5957 6 років тому +1

      Rose Hill Yes!! Say That! Say that! Say that!

    • @ahjiiahjiiutt9bro0was92
      @ahjiiahjiiutt9bro0was92 5 років тому +1

      I can't argue with your perspective Mrs (Ms). At the end of the day, if we don't love ouselves, were going to subject to anyone, and everyones "games."

  • @classy-uv4vf
    @classy-uv4vf 7 років тому +722

    OMG I'ma be single forever. You can't trust no one 😭😭

    • @elmorab.2921
      @elmorab.2921 6 років тому +11

      classy 247365 Same😩😧

    • @ashleymarie9483
      @ashleymarie9483 6 років тому +6

      classy 247365 oh damn shit all of us is!! When he put it like that... That last point... Smh. Alot of men won't expect..

    • @laurabarber6697
      @laurabarber6697 6 років тому +5

      classy 247365 get yourself a new phrase! :-) don't let some jamoke from your past that hurt you ruin your present and your future. You look like a real princess and you deserve the very best!

    • @loricrockett-owens5117
      @loricrockett-owens5117 6 років тому +3

      classy 247365 I'm basically the same way.

    • @loricrockett-owens5117
      @loricrockett-owens5117 6 років тому +8

      classy 247365 I'm divorced. I refuse to get married again. Getting married would be like pulling teeth now to me.

  • @pequenaesposa3286
    @pequenaesposa3286 4 роки тому +36

    I've been on UA-cam all night till 7 am, my ads are ALL like "go to sleep" 🤣

  • @Splendiva
    @Splendiva 5 років тому +61

    who is watching in 2019?. Any man or woman who always resort to silent treatment is not only childish or a cheat but has a whole lot hidden away from their partner. They are narcissists as well because, they'er sucking and draining up their partner's energy by refusing to have a dialogue! They also would do anything to keep their partner down as much as they could and that is where the abuse starts. Ladies and gentlemen, you deserve so much better rather than being bitter....'CAT walk out' Slient treatment is not only a sign of immaturity but TOXIC too! Much love guys!!

    • @miss.courtneyeyesopened4288
      @miss.courtneyeyesopened4288 4 роки тому +2

      I disagree because I give the silent treatment alot bc I don't want to say anything hurtful or if I feel like there is no point in going back and forth with you I will go completely silent but my sign is CANCER TOO SO YOU KNOW.

    • @aquilascott8218
      @aquilascott8218 4 роки тому

      Thanks. Yuo are pot on.

  • @videogamequeen
    @videogamequeen 7 років тому +250

    I believe a successful relationship is with two people & two people only. When too many people get involved, it can cause your ship to sink. #TeamJaxn

    • @channingpeterson87
      @channingpeterson87 7 років тому +8

      videogamequeen amen

    • @jessicaluna4445
      @jessicaluna4445 7 років тому +1

      videogamequeen yeah mine did but im good now.

    • @JStrong77
      @JStrong77 6 років тому +2

      Yes! My monster-in-law ALWAYS interfered and was invited to interfere (by my husband) so it's at the point of sinking. No one will be "good enough" like his "mommy". I've tried to make it work for the better but there's no use, he's mentally immature and TOO MUCH of a momma's boy.

    • @JStrong77
      @JStrong77 6 років тому

      I wish I would've known this before I married him.

  • @renettejones478
    @renettejones478 7 років тому +65

    I ain't gonna lie I was the neglected one. But what found out is that I was just running to other men for attention. Then They wouldn't even be what I truly wanted. Learned my lesson

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 7 років тому +20

      Renette Jones I was also the neglected one. Went on a date with another man. He was really awesome but I was spiritually unsettled the entire time. I could not move forward with him. I realised that its just not who I am. I am faithful and honest by nature.

    • @JStrong77
      @JStrong77 6 років тому +7

      I can relate, although it only happened ONCE..but should've never happened AT ALL. Lesson learned.

  • @83rbaker
    @83rbaker 3 роки тому +19

    Derrick Jaxn type #7.

  • @naye0369
    @naye0369 5 років тому +273

    Now what I would like to know is what types aren’t cheaters 😅💯😊🤔????

    • @ta_nimal2023
      @ta_nimal2023 5 років тому +20

      For real. I love the vids talking about good men not to pass up. Lets focus on the positive too maybe it will grow. 😂🤣🤔🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @AMan-xy3lx
      @AMan-xy3lx 5 років тому +26

      The types you ain't feeling 😂

    • @juneofspades2374
      @juneofspades2374 4 роки тому +7

      People who havnt been cheated on yet

    • @eugeneordonez9753
      @eugeneordonez9753 4 роки тому +1

      Okay

    • @juneofspades2374
      @juneofspades2374 4 роки тому +16

      THE TYPE THAT WONT CHEAT. IS THE ONE U WOULDNT WANT.. HE IS HEAD OVER HILLS IN LOVE... INFACTUATED WITH EVERYTHING YOU DO OR SAY... WILL MARRY U LESS THAN A YEAR. WILL DRIVE FAR DISTANCES JUST TO SEE YOU. NO WOMAN WANTS A MAN LIKE THAT.UNLESS SHE IS ALSO CRAZY IN LOVE

  • @perfectlyyoubeauty
    @perfectlyyoubeauty 7 років тому +1172

    Anyone who doesn't respect themselves and has unresolved issues with relationships and with commitment is most likely to cheat! #teamjaxn

    • @carolloraine223
      @carolloraine223 7 років тому +7

      Perfectly You Beauty ..yes totally agree!

    • @deej5608
      @deej5608 7 років тому +11

      Perfectly You Beauty WELL SAID

    • @gigimccray986
      @gigimccray986 7 років тому +20

      Perfectly You Beauty its time for them to grow up

    • @Axel-mp4bd
      @Axel-mp4bd 7 років тому +45

      Tell it tell it tell it again!! People are just selfish in this generation and dont have a clue of what love even is let alone how to maintain a relationship because morals aren't being taught no more as sad as that may sound . Smh

    • @jasmenholmes1684
      @jasmenholmes1684 7 років тому

      Katy Combs

  • @daublex2388
    @daublex2388 7 років тому +268

    Like the guy with the pretty mugshot! He got out of prison, started making money modeling and then cheated on his wife with some rich female. Perfect example of #1

    • @a.alexander9221
      @a.alexander9221 7 років тому +4

      7xelbuaD Yes!

    • @ruth5316
      @ruth5316 5 років тому +5

      I disagree to some extend. A true person that loves you will be there for you richer or poorer. Through different seasons of life. If they aren't then they really weren't for you

    • @moisepicard3417
      @moisepicard3417 5 років тому

      @@ruth5316 Well, you can definitely tell that to every woman on the planet.

  • @JackieDare
    @JackieDare 6 років тому +76

    The man who gives the silent treatment. He would use the treatment as step one in his selfish plans. I think he used it as a way to justify, in his mind, a reason for his behavior so he could convince himself that he was not to blame for his lust and that I somehow deserved it. This was always proceeded by never confessing a thing. But, women know. The funny thing... he never thought I had the right to protect myself by not being intimate with him anymore. Women need men who are kind enough to protect them from the ways of this world. None of the men in my family ever showed me the ropes. I had to learn the hard way about the silent treatment.

    • @jadesmith7983
      @jadesmith7983 4 роки тому +2

      Jackie Dare You sound like me. I Definitely learned the hard way as well.

  • @natabeautiful
    @natabeautiful 5 років тому +36

    "The loyalty of a women shows when you have nothing, the loyalty of a man shows men they have everything..."

  • @crystalfrager3828
    @crystalfrager3828 7 років тому +139

    No one has a right to cheat and hurt someone else. There is no acceptable justification for that. Those people should just be honest with themselves, be single and hook up with people who only want to mess around not mess with someone who wants a serious relationship. [***Oh, and on the other side of the coin, No respect for people who knowingly target and/or go after someone they know is taken(married or boyfriend/girlfriend relationship). That is trifling!

    • @bernieg.2590
      @bernieg.2590 7 років тому +12

      Crystal Frager I definitely agree with you on this one, BUT, unfortunately it happens in this world today there's no such things as morals, standards, and values. These men don't have a f&@$? clue young or old. Sad but true my husband was 52 and still a fuckboy after no longer being able to control me.

    • @thedeejaeebee5babee
      @thedeejaeebee5babee 6 років тому

      Crystal Frager 💯

    • @thedeejaeebee5babee
      @thedeejaeebee5babee 6 років тому

      Wild Flower Also 💯

    • @JStrong77
      @JStrong77 6 років тому

      Does one time count?

    • @toeachitsown2050
      @toeachitsown2050 6 років тому

      I completely agree

  • @tpthecalm9438
    @tpthecalm9438 3 роки тому +19

    derrick, derrick, derrick, derrick, derrick, & finally derrick😂😂😂😂

  • @pgirl9959
    @pgirl9959 6 років тому +32

    Always end up in a #1 situation. How are you going to betray the girl who upgraded your entire life, TF 🤦🤦

  • @kylipsso
    @kylipsso 6 років тому +166

    Way too much game and too much drama in the dating scene. At 40 years old this is beyond disheartening to hear! It’s like all the good ones are taken and all that’s left are man-child’s, the rejects, and leftover headaches of other women.
    I rather stay single! 😒

  • @senecahordge4960
    @senecahordge4960 7 років тому +111

    I was always been told been hurt people hurt people. I have dealt with guys who have I have dated you hold them down then they do a switch. Start acting like you aren't worth their time or they don't know what you talking about. #TeamJaxn

    • @erickaj7373
      @erickaj7373 7 років тому +20

      Me too. They're called users! They always try to come back because they feel like they can ALWAYS use you. I had a guy who didn't want to be in a relationship, but was mad that I wouldn't let him use me💁🏽👋🏾 Lesson learned.

    • @molarbear8725
      @molarbear8725 6 років тому +7

      they sound like narcissists lovebomb, devalue, discard

    • @bakerinthehouse5346
      @bakerinthehouse5346 6 років тому +3

      True. I saw that coming and left him to his 'beautiful' self and his ex . That's all he cared about anyway. I watch what they DO. What they SAY means nothing if sh--doesn't match up.

  • @monijenee
    @monijenee 7 років тому +162

    U forgot about married ppl, they have a category of their own

    • @moisepicard3417
      @moisepicard3417 5 років тому +1

      +Ramonica Lavigne. He is probably not talking about married women.

    • @saysHotdogs
      @saysHotdogs 4 роки тому

      Lol married women might fall into the category of “neglected” women
      In fact yes, that’s usually what’s going on

  • @keekp
    @keekp 6 років тому +44

    "This ain't the 1940s, I been sleeping with Sallie Mae down the street"....😂

  • @goldenlady3495
    @goldenlady3495 6 років тому +65

    #7: Someone who's a follower/easily manipulated/ weak willed. I can't expect u to be loyal if you don't trust ur own judgement.

  • @toyaanderson9571
    @toyaanderson9571 7 років тому +19

    Oh wow. As soon as he mentioned men taking massive selfies I thought to myself, "he must be gay". Men don't do that. And sure enough that's what Derrick stated.

  • @cbrooks7981
    @cbrooks7981 7 років тому +171

    No 5 tho...he's cheating with another man 😂. #DWL

  • @hollygamble15
    @hollygamble15 4 роки тому +26

    MAN 2 YEARS LATER BUT I HAD TO DIG FOR THIS VIDEO JUST TO COME BACK AND SAY YOU WERE RIGHT ABOUT THE SELFIE BOYS. I'm PISSED 🤣🔫

    • @myrnatrev873
      @myrnatrev873 3 роки тому +2

      Omg, sorry to be nosey but what happened what did you find out??

  • @ludreamafortune5002
    @ludreamafortune5002 6 років тому +84

    That silent treatment dude UGH!! Hate them speak up and be a man .

    • @jessicaalen3533
      @jessicaalen3533 5 років тому +2

      Mine lacked emotional intelligence to say the least.

    • @1kmilez
      @1kmilez 4 роки тому +2

      Mine is that guy.Whenever I tell him how i feel about the relationship, wanting to fix the issues underlying it, he goes off and avoids me and tells me its all on my mind. Maybe I do overthink things but his actions are showing it all.

  • @erickaj7373
    @erickaj7373 7 років тому +20

    Yes! The guy who takes the selfies. It used to make me SOOOOO uncomfortable how many selfies he took of HIMSELF. 😂😂😂

    • @wonderfullymade5191
      @wonderfullymade5191 5 років тому

      Grey MaryAnne yes!! All the dick pictures! Everyday a new dick picture! Why?

  • @Tabaitha_Elle
    @Tabaitha_Elle 7 років тому +124

    I always thought a guy that posted a lot of selfies was kinda strange.

    • @rosieparez
      @rosieparez 4 роки тому +4

      They are bitches and want someone to look at them

  • @ebonyblackleysingleton5590
    @ebonyblackleysingleton5590 6 років тому +84

    All men are not ready to be committed with the women real talk cause they out having too much fun right now until everything start braking down on them can't stay young forever

    • @MrJM-zr1hk
      @MrJM-zr1hk 5 років тому +5

      It's the same for women, being able to cheat is way to easy even if you tell the women you have a girlfriend or wife. They don't care! They come after you even more.

    • @MrJM-zr1hk
      @MrJM-zr1hk 4 роки тому

      @Evelyn Brown Accountability for both the man and woman, but either way 99% of women won't take any responsibility for their actions, nobody is innocent here.

  • @mariahsmith5380
    @mariahsmith5380 3 роки тому +7

    This didnt age well LMFAOO 😭😭🤣

  • @theresabrown5977
    @theresabrown5977 7 років тому +238

    How a relationship starts is how it will end... he cheated w u he will cheat on u! #teamjaxn

    • @bernieg.2590
      @bernieg.2590 7 років тому +8

      Theresa Brown YEP!! Lesson learned.

    • @katinamarie6651
      @katinamarie6651 5 років тому +2

      I cheated on my narcissist husband with the paralegal when sneaking a divorce behind his back then I married the paralegal who now cheats on me 🤣 oh well, at least I got away from the narcissist.

    • @user-ot6eb2tg4z
      @user-ot6eb2tg4z 5 років тому

      Katina Marie seems like you just ended with another narcissist.

    • @vickvique3859
      @vickvique3859 3 роки тому

      Woow never thought of that before

  • @laurenlocd3180
    @laurenlocd3180 7 років тому +525

    I don't understand the men cheating because of convenience. There's nothing more of a convenience than your girl 😑

    • @icewater4725
      @icewater4725 7 років тому +1

      Oh thats Lauren 😂 😱

    • @joshm8649
      @joshm8649 6 років тому +64

      Cathee45 a cheater is a cheater, there is no explanation

    • @frenchfries2378
      @frenchfries2378 6 років тому +15

      yeah
      they want the convenience of easy 'outside sex' with no strings, without the pressures of a relationship. They dont need to help with the house work to get it, or do the dishes to get it. They just sneak around behind ur back to get it whenever they want it and claim to be at work or the dentist... so yeah, it could be convenience...

    • @jwhite0074
      @jwhite0074 5 років тому +5

      Women cheat way more than men. As a ups delivery driver I get offers from married women so often that I've lost complete trust for you women.

    • @jamesdejohnette4106
      @jamesdejohnette4106 5 років тому

      No, you dont understand, its b/c she's " different " convenience, that's not
      same as his regular convenience girl.

  • @ceegabe1555
    @ceegabe1555 6 років тому +9

    Many of us were trained to be social workers. I did the same until I realized that all of my efforts in understanding and nuturing them raised them UP to become a better and financially stable man for another relationship. 🐦

  • @packers1225
    @packers1225 3 роки тому +11

    This aged well

  • @akebaflowers
    @akebaflowers 7 років тому +95

    You really dont know how much u have given me so much advice on a marriage of 14yrs i gave my all a man i thought i really knew been with since 7th grade and he cheated and left me alone pregnant with 2 older kids and niw he wants back after being with this woman for 1yr and 4mo while i still stayed faithful and now im over it and im finding my happy ☺ #TeamJaxn

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 7 років тому +20

      AKEBA FLOWERS Wow, the nerve of your ex husband. How does he expect you to just take him back after doing that to you? You are a strong woman and a wonderful mother to be able to still take care of your family while going through so much pain and betrayal. I wish you and your children all the best for your future.

    • @Miss_NeNe
      @Miss_NeNe 7 років тому +13

      AKEBA FLOWERS good job!! Im a single mother of 2 as well. Trying too make it on youtube. I always tell my ex.... "you got what u wanted" and "you made ur bed, go lay in it"... then I walk off and say "wit yo punk ass" 😂😂😂 #ImPetty #ButImHappyNow #teamjaxn

  • @aucuria
    @aucuria 7 років тому +224

    Live by the sword, die by the sword. And the selfies! 😳 #Deep

  • @WorldOfARandomVegan
    @WorldOfARandomVegan 6 років тому +19

    You had me laughing with #6! Man: "I cheated." Woman: "No WE cheated." So true. I'm binge watching your videos!

  • @jazmineramos8200
    @jazmineramos8200 5 років тому +128

    Making me want to throw the whole relationship out lol

  • @alynsak
    @alynsak 7 років тому +31

    That last one cracked me up because it's so true. A guy wants to run around with whomever? At least the woman is smart enough to find a real man and do one better.

  • @weekendgetawaywithme
    @weekendgetawaywithme 7 років тому +26

    #7: a man/woman that feels like he/she settled by being with you.

  • @valorreigns9825
    @valorreigns9825 3 роки тому +8

    ADD YOURSELF TO THE LIST 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jasminemcdermott9402
    @jasminemcdermott9402 6 років тому +14

    My ex thought that I was cheating and neglected me. I know he was cheating because of what he thought. I cheated emotionally but was keeping an eye on a really nice guy who is connected to my job and way better than my ex. Now that we broke up, this guy has stepped forward and my ex can't even compete.

    • @ssscybro2
      @ssscybro2 6 років тому +2

      Jasmine McDermott and hes prob thinkin the same thing about u maybe you were just not good for eachother

    • @heide-raquelfuss5580
      @heide-raquelfuss5580 4 роки тому

      I am glad for you! If he hadn't cheated on you, you would not have met the right guy for you at the end. Bless you both😉

  • @cuddlebunny1270
    @cuddlebunny1270 7 років тому +21

    Omg....the first type of cheater described my first to a T...thats crazy! He was in college like myself when we met i stayed with him right up until he met his career goal of becoming a pilot.

  • @m_4300
    @m_4300 7 років тому +34

    😂😂😂😂😂 agreee with the selfie statement ! Those dudes were never for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Brian-qc7rr
      @Brian-qc7rr 6 років тому

      I had a friend like this, cheated on a drop dead gorgeous girl, so I can confirm

  • @andreholly2294
    @andreholly2294 3 роки тому +23

    He should probably delete this video now

    • @asiadriver798
      @asiadriver798 3 роки тому +2

      Well I guess he better delete all his videos then

  • @meaganmillermm
    @meaganmillermm 6 років тому +16

    I was #4/#6 before because I didn't have the self respect to walk away from a shit situation. Ladies respect yourself cuz no matter how dirty someone does you it doesn't feel good to get revenge

  • @FullofSouthernCharm
    @FullofSouthernCharm 7 років тому +490

    the six people most likely to cheat are the six people who want to cheat... if you want to cheat you will regardless of the situation... if it is a thought in the head then you have already cheated... just my opinion..#team jaxn

    • @corsicanlulu
      @corsicanlulu 7 років тому +27

      exactly. it starts in the heart and im not christian anymore but i agree w/ jesus when he said that if u already cheated in ur heart and w/ ur eyes then the deed is done

    • @hemeothunder
      @hemeothunder 7 років тому +7

      FullofSouthernCharm best comment so far...😎✌️

    • @Theinsomniac826
      @Theinsomniac826 7 років тому +5

      FullofSouthernCharm correct👍

    • @Aprilpie13
      @Aprilpie13 7 років тому +12

      FullofSouthernCharm - Exactly! Cheating doesn't discriminate, a cheater is just simply a cheater.

    • @JM-qg9bo
      @JM-qg9bo 6 років тому +5

      FullofSouthernCharm He's breaking it down in clear terms for those who walk around with blinders on.

  • @MyBikinisTravel
    @MyBikinisTravel 7 років тому +36

    I think its not just the dudes posting selfies all over their gram, but females too. Plus, it just shows how shallow they are.

  • @CB-gl5xn
    @CB-gl5xn 5 років тому +5

    Yes, preach!!! The silent treatment is just a grown man tantrum. You stated a lot of true facts.

  • @CB-sj7cf
    @CB-sj7cf 3 роки тому +4

    Comedic gold😂😂

  • @Lauradalpini
    @Lauradalpini 7 років тому +43

    Yo..you got deep on this. Its been a min since you put a video out this long!!! Thank you.. love these when you go in

  • @Ashley-uv5ib
    @Ashley-uv5ib 7 років тому +275

    I Need you to get a talk show and cancel that STEVE HARVEY GUY. REAL TALK PASTOR JAXKN

    • @miapdx503
      @miapdx503 7 років тому +9

      Ashley Slay For real. This man is real.

    • @Ashley-uv5ib
      @Ashley-uv5ib 7 років тому +4

      miapdx Portland yessss girl

    • @TiffanyLewis1987
      @TiffanyLewis1987 7 років тому +3

      Ashley Slay I concur chicka slay... 😉

    • @mysterious_goddess6680
      @mysterious_goddess6680 6 років тому +2

      Ashley Slay I agree. But he might do the radio first as guest before he gets a talk show spot. And before that guest host/appearance on someone else show to get his name more out there and most of all networking.

    • @jennifercaldwell533
      @jennifercaldwell533 6 років тому

      He's a pastor?

  • @angelatrebor8681
    @angelatrebor8681 4 роки тому +2

    The minute my exhus started being sneaky & lied to me about being with another woman.. even tho we were seperated.. i saw our foundation of trust was gone.. and i told him to keep her.. and i filed for divorce. If he hid the cheating and wouldn't have lied about a few things..and just "sowed-his-wold-oats".. i would never have known & wouldn't have divorced him. But my feelings for him were shattered when he lied..my love for him was diminished.. i lost all respect for him & knew it would never be the same if i tried to work it out with him. I don't believe in jealousy- if your partner pursues someone else..let your partner go.. no matter how much it hurts. It would have haunted me to stay with him & wonder if he'd lie or be sneaky in the future. A clean break to move on seemed like less future pain.

  • @andrewmunlin2115
    @andrewmunlin2115 3 роки тому +7

    The man making this video lol.

  • @haterface8812
    @haterface8812 7 років тому +55

    EFF CHEATERS! BE REAL OR BE GONE!!!
    #KEEPITINYOURPANTSORKEEPSTEPPING
    #TEAMJAXN

  • @DovelyDee
    @DovelyDee 7 років тому +14

    That selfie one is so true, lol

  • @nicolast7644
    @nicolast7644 3 роки тому +5

    The algorithm is so petty! Lol

  • @limaslillard2247
    @limaslillard2247 3 роки тому +13

    Yea this didn’t age well 😬🤣

  • @vanaphill2454
    @vanaphill2454 7 років тому +470

    If you improve a man, he will cheat on you. Happened to my girlfriend

  • @bbbjaba4581
    @bbbjaba4581 7 років тому +43

    😂😂😂@the guy that takes a lot of selfies u know what I've always thought a grown man taking a lot of selfies is suspect so I agree with this one #teamjaxn

    • @Pandorafix
      @Pandorafix 6 років тому +3

      Bbb Jaba yeah that's creepy and unattractive

  • @kranstonsimms6605
    @kranstonsimms6605 3 роки тому +19

    Lol damn, which of these 6 are you?

    • @mwapemwelwa3234
      @mwapemwelwa3234 3 роки тому +8

      Came on here for this comment 😂😂😂😂

    • @tynee123
      @tynee123 3 роки тому +5

      DEFINITELY 1

  • @52naturalhairstyles
    @52naturalhairstyles 5 років тому +5

    “Laying on the same pillow he was on yesterday”. Lol!

  • @maryjanderson1962
    @maryjanderson1962 7 років тому +14

    Not dipping into the walls. lmao! good one

  • @classicslayer456
    @classicslayer456 7 років тому +25

    The thing with woman cheating up is that the guy who is in a higher position will only use her for his convenience more often then not.

    • @jdrizzie123
      @jdrizzie123 6 років тому +1

      Everyone has to be a ho to someone

    • @benjaminlincoln2011
      @benjaminlincoln2011 6 років тому +3

      As Les Brown would say: You got that right! And guess what? She finds herself single again, downgrading. How sad...
      I lived that. A woman would almost "court" me for I seemed to be better than her boyfriend of many years. I didn't know she had a boyfriend. So when I discovered that: disgusted... Be cautious all males out there...

    • @ssmyth1835
      @ssmyth1835 5 років тому

      Nah..He sees her as neglected and in need of protection. Men don't readily take on a woman with kids just to play. Too many desperate single and childless women to toy with.

    • @MrJM-zr1hk
      @MrJM-zr1hk 5 років тому +1

      Finally someone who knows what he's talking about, the women are cheating more than the men, Women don't believe if most men are happy at home he's not looking to cheat!

  • @Tasiaamariee216
    @Tasiaamariee216 5 років тому +10

    Soo truu 💯💯💯💯 But Sometimes in life it's better to act the same way they acting towards you 😤

  • @lovingvirgo6524
    @lovingvirgo6524 5 років тому +18

    You need your own talk show! You're awesome!

  • @dollbby3966
    @dollbby3966 5 років тому +25

    Yooooo! The first one! 😭 if you build a man up, he will cheaaaat! Especially if he comes home from jail!

  • @nhampton1115
    @nhampton1115 7 років тому +13

    I've always cheated in my relationships, for different reasons, when I was a kid, I grow up around it, ( I know sad ) but since, i lived and learned. I don't..... the relationship, i'm in now, I have NOT cheated, and I dont want to, how, i feel now, this stage in my life, I will just leave the relationship.

    • @depy2762
      @depy2762 7 років тому +1

      She's not your girl, its just your turn. And her 4 high school ex-boyfriends. And her 9 college ex-boyfriends. And that cute guy at starbucks. And your best friend. And her best friend's boyfriend. And that guy she doesn't remember his name she fucked while on a "girls night out". And two guys she works with at the office.

  • @venusaloha77
    @venusaloha77 3 роки тому +4

    YOU KNOW YOURSELF!

  • @nom3270
    @nom3270 6 років тому +4

    Twiddling her thumbs lmao sallymae down the street 🤣🤣🤣 love this.

  • @LaTashaChante
    @LaTashaChante 7 років тому +19

    lol this is on a hundred! I'm always turned off at a dude full of selfies, they are definitely suspect in more ways than one 👀

  • @corsicanlulu
    @corsicanlulu 7 років тому +13

    communication and honesty is key!!! but i feel like most people act like things dont really bother them....its not a big deal, or theyre too cool and pretend nothings wrong...but deep inside it IS wrong but tehy are suppressing their feelings and acting like nothings wrong....but then when they meet that person that validates what they truly feel? there u go....

  • @pequenaesposa3286
    @pequenaesposa3286 4 роки тому +12

    The girl one with the girl that always goes to another guy for "advice" is the exact same for guys

  • @alii2730
    @alii2730 3 роки тому +7

    YOU!

  • @lovebuglovebug5874
    @lovebuglovebug5874 7 років тому +32

    Nailed it!!! All money is not good money!!!

  • @sherrijones9728
    @sherrijones9728 7 років тому +23

    Yeah the selfie one is spot on...I keep getting validation for the last situation I was in...he was textbook for that description. I have had several heterosexual and several gay men validate it. Its so hard to mentally go there so you just want to not believe it... it just disgusts me! I don't understand men living on the DL. Just be with men! #getbehindmesatan

  • @LL-sd2fc
    @LL-sd2fc 5 років тому +12

    Self-lust? I love it! 😂 And we love you. 😍

  • @yaminewell7791
    @yaminewell7791 3 роки тому +7

    This didn't age well! 😂😂😂