5 Secrets Women Don't Want Men To Know
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- Опубліковано 7 лип 2024
- Here are the top 5 things women don't want you to know about dating, marriage and relationships
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0:00 Intro
0:52 They monkey branch (mate switch) faster then you thought
2:19 Hypergamy doesn't care about relationship equity
4:05 They date more people simultaneously than you do
6:06 Women get bored faster then men in relationships
7:29 Women cheat as much as men, but mostly when ovulating
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Good job
You cant really use that to determine this as true it really all depends
good video but you aren't in a car...
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Guy cheats: He's such a jerk
Girl cheats: He must have been a jerk to her
Montu shah damn this is simple and 100% accurate
Truth sir
I actually always thought the opposite from that. When a guy cheats I think that he had a good reason since the woman seems to want to make such a big deal of him cheating. But when a woman cheats she acts like she doesn’t care and is justified to cheat and it makes me feel like she only did it because she could.
screw the unfair world
Absofreakinlutely.
Women get mad at men for not sharing there feeling but most women won’t say what they are truly feeling.
They don't care how or what you feel. They care about how they feel about your feelings.
Anime. Ain’t that the damn truth
@@philmecup Out of context that's one of the funniest lines I've ever read
Anything you may feel will just make you look "weak" to them. Wanting to know how you feel is just another shit test.
They're plumbing for weakness when they ask you about your feelings - it's a trap to see if you express any of the qualities they claim they want in a man, and if you indicate any, it will lower your desirability ever after. Everything is deception with women - nothing is straightforward or what it seems on the surface.
Bravo - have seen this many times.
I'm sick of so many alpha seeking, beta training, validation loving, personal gratification motivated women who want the power of a man, the privileges of being female, and the responsibilities of neither.
Nailed it here.
Exactly!
What about being two halves that together make a whole and make the world better?
@@CarolinHauser what a load of rubbish only old woman think like that, only very few I mean such a small percentage of young woman even do what you are suggesting they are called real wife's, not these fake imitation we have running around trying to play house.
Here here
The 5 Commandments every man Should live by.
1. You can love women or you can understand women, but you cannot do both.
2. Nice guys don't finish last. Nice guys are not even in the race.
3. If you treat a woman like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan.
4. No matter how solid or stable you think your relationship or marriage is, she will always have a man on deck.
5. She is never truly yours. It is just your turn.
And they call US pigs?
The first was so powerful
You're Goddamn right!
You should add " Don't chase them . Let them chase you " . They need to prove their worth.
Depends on the woman
I was married for 9.5 years, that's when my wife decided to confess to me she had a boyfriend for over a year, I was shocked that she hid it so well. I divorced her because of it, and I've been happy ever after. I've had girlfriends and friends with benefits, But I've never gotten to the point where I wanted to remarry. I'm older now and time has taken it's toll, So now I can sit back and watch and see how they work. It's interesting to see how they work men against men, for a prize not worth keeping. Thank god I'm older, single, and wiser. I love being single, can go and do whatever and whenever. Good luck to the young bucks out there, maybe they should watch this video?
Same
My best sexual experiences with women was when I took charge and assumed the Alpha role... since by nature I'm Beta it was a I opening experience. I don't agree everything in this video but take what you can use and discard the rest... thanks for some great free content
I'm a woman and I feel the same.
You are a very wise man.
Not all people are meant to mate for life. Some are. If that's what you want then that's what you have to find.
To this day I can't comprehend how easily they can just ghost from a long term relationship like it was never anything. They really don't care about us at all. All they care about is themselves. Never forget that guys.
Sam H most women prioritise their children.
This... and what other women think about them
A 1 they think they do. Then when they can’t, they ask daddy to help
I have seen the ghosting multiple times. It is the default action. Believe it.
She had a boyfriend for 4 years, and a month after break up she came too me. I never knew I was her rebound till I heard it from word of mouth. The whole time I was with her, she literally showed no remorse.
Fathers undo the fairy tales our mothers told us. You owe it to your sons.
What I find most insane in my 27 years of living is that back when I was a player and cheating on girls I found girls respecting and chasing me more, but as I grew older and saw the damage I did and hearts I have broken and finally deciding to put my best foot forward and be a loving, loyal, and respectful guy I find I have been attracting girls with very narcissistic characteristics. It’s sad to admit but I felt I lived a happier life being a disrespectful cheating asshole to girls than I am now being loving, caring, and loyal...
Those girls you are attracting now, love them with your heart. Be gentle to them. That's what they want. Give them the attention they want. All the time when together with them.
The game is reversed now
@@BieluChukwu9 .. what? Hell no.
Give a narcissist attention? no way is that a good idea.
OP... Maybe change where you are picking up girls. If you could pick up young girls for hookups... That place is not where you find girls that are ready to settle down with loving good men.
This is my story too
Maybe you should say NO to those narcs you’re attracting. You are signing up for your own torture if you’re dating them.
I learned last year the hard way that there is no relationship equity for men. What you did during the relationship has no value to a woman. Only how she feels at that particular moment matters to her. Your effort during the relationship means nothing to her. In fact more often than not they resent you for being good to them because when they end the relationship for selfish reasons they are inconvenienced by the microscopic amount of guilt they feel for screwing you over. They get over that guilt VERY quickly though.
kuunami ..Yeah that's why it's best to look for balance or not put in too much work.Whateva just as long as the man didn't spend too much money,let her ass find her own way it gets their attention real quick and never will be forgotten by them even if they find a simp weak wuusy.
kuunami I completely agree, don’t do anything for women, if it is something, make is small, and not often, very rarely.
kuunami yea man learned the same way bro.
+kuunami
it depends on the woman. Usually the slutty ones are as you described. Don't look for sluts! Look for woman that cares for family!
ZedZedski I’m a woman and I agree with you 100%
🙁 Sorry to read all these comments from all you guys, don’t date mean insecure women specially the “10s” they are usually the worst kind of women.
I'm a hairstylist and mostly everything you said is true.
Thank you for being honest
Thank you for your honesty
Lol I’m sure you hear it all
^ Dated a hairdresser for many years, they hear everything.
Thank you. Do you know why this is like this and why do modern women differ from their mothers and grandmothers?
Woman date up until they hit the wall. Then they become cat owners
Also, a woman with 2 pets is infertile
Its almost like they are going their own way.
@@redhammer92 fascinating, right?!! 🙃
@mecanicotop ahahahah
And buy tons of lube and toys
On point number 4, decreasing of desire: every wedding I’ve been to, the guy cried with happiness and the woman didn’t. In most of them, the woman looked kind of sad. Like sad to be cashing in her chips. In the wedding vows of one of them, no joke, the girl said “sometimes marrying you will feel like the hardest decision I’ve ever made, but I promise I’ll try my best to work through those moments with you”. Wow, how romantic, thanks honey.
At least she was honest, ppl should appreciate that because it seems like most woman treat being dishonest and shady as a fun hobby.
When the groom cries she's thinking "if this level of guy cries for me and is so happy to be with me, maybe I could have done better"
She planted the seeds of failure rather early in that relationship...
@@meatpopsicle1567 Maybe he pressured her to get married...
@@nc0849 Maybe she's a gold digger who suddenly realized that looks don't last forever and she'd better get married now before her face starts looking liker her feet. Even still, that's no guarantee the marriage will last five years. If it's a struggle for her to stay in it, she will bail out of it at the drop of a hat. All she needs, in her mind, is the flimsiest of excuses to gain back her "independence."
Besides, how could he possibly pressure her into marrying him? Is he holding a gun to her head?
Remember, 80% of all divorces are initiated by the woman.
You know, there was a video where a guy said that you should NEVER believe what a woman says, but what she does
He's 1000% Right. Coach Red Pill has a video on that.
great advice for anyone really, male or female
So true! Took me a too long to figure that out.
@@StayFractalesque nah! Mostly for men.
... Deadass !!! ... idgaf what they say: I watch what they do - period !!! ...
They fart. Another secret they don't want you to know.
and usually have messier smellier shits too
Good One -- Funny
Yes, we have monthly period, you guys do not, be be!!!
We even save it up for night time and cut loose under the blankets as a warning sign.
lol
No matter how solid or stable you think your relationship is, she will always have a man on deck.
Plan B or even plan C,D,E,or F.
Two things I have said for years: (1)Women always have a Plan B. (2) Women never jump until they have picked out a landing spot.
nope.it's bad to generalize.been with a lot of girls and always knew them pretty well..i had those pussy on lock..if you know what i mean..they never NEEDED to have a man on deck cause i satisfied them in that department plus others..having fun and all that..no boring times....the reason for breaks were always women and their sudden mood changes and their need to change me...hell no..sorry that you had those experience BUT speak for yourself man..don't generalize like it's like that for all..learn from your mistakes man..cheers
Goran Hrastovik shes always ready to jump just flash the greenback and the booze and show where the parties at and she’s flat on her back showing you her crack!
@@goranhrastovik5364 Just because you just never knew about Plan B doesn't mean it wasn't there. Those sudden mood changes occurred when she was ready to execute Plan B. You were in the dark.
The "emotional bank account" reference really hit home with me. Some motivational speaker I listen to years ago taught that concept and I bought into it hook, line and sinker. After many years in an unhappy marriage it became evident that the bank account didn't exist. It was just a bottomless pit they could never be filled.
After being married for 17 years and in 2 relationships in the last year I’ve learnt that society has changed and everyone is selfish. There is no good old fashioned love anymore. If it’s out there then it’s very very rare..I’m just gonna concentrate on loving myself from now on cause I’m done with relationships. Period!
45ounce Never again.....they are all sluts
Date women from other countries
It still exists and it is rare when it's truly real. But believe its still out there and real. And if you have the qualities that you look for in someone else I believe that you'll have it. But we can't expect to find qualities in others that we don't possess ourselves. You'll be more likely to find it. And don't ever take it for granted or take advantage of it when and if you do.
Me too
You are correct . Time wasters and money spenders . I do a good enough job of that on my own let alone with someone else’s help.
The golden rule: the only thing women are capable of being loyal to are her children. Period.
not even in many cases...
Sadly the second one is only sometimes
The majority of children assasinations are made by women, so not even that.
They will be loyal to their cats after the wall rapes them.
Not all of them. I'ma single Dad. I wouldnt call it a lack of loyalty - just a lack of empathy.
Well, that was depressing.
Truth is never depressing. It's enlightening!
@@Biosynchro Amen, my brother. Truth will set you free.
red pill over blue.
... ikr ... lmmfao ...
Comfortable lies over inconvenient truths. Ehhh ??
so true about women being bored quicker in the relationship. Notice how most women say they want a man that can make them laugh?
they want to be entertained.
It took me decades to realize there is no such thing as relationship equity with a woman. A woman's reciprocal input ends as soon as the benefit has been given to her. It's Briffault's law...
And women get pissed off when you call them out on their own bullshit.
You’re fucking stupid. This is coming from a male.
@@jean7725 sure dude named janet
@@nihalchowdhury1629 my boyfriend was on my account... I don’t know whats going on...
@@jean7725 come with a better story next time loser
Richard Cooper: "The Man Whisperer"
Coming from a women’s perspective, I can vouch for everything you’ve said. Not proud of these things either. Thank you tor speaking elephant 👏
@Alpha Lion Its like women are incentivized to feel entitled with men to get what they want. Unless a woman has really examined herself (shadow aspects), I can vouch that this traits are very common with women. Most women are trying to see what they can get and how they can benefit by being with a man. I think it is a recent thing that women began to marry for love instead of it being a financial/support thing.
@@FeonaLeeJones women have never married for love ever, i don't think they're even capable of that since what they love is resources
Ive been knowing this most woman i talk always end up telling me some dark personal things honestly i dont take it personal i always try to get to know the mom more cause how the mother is the daughter is
You all disgusting
@@Victhemighty i have 20 times more resources then him .. why would i need someones resource 😅 some women marry men that simply deserve them🦋
Alot of women are real good at playing the good girl role.
Men and women are extremely playful by nature. But in different ways.
and they are some of the MOST sneaky ones!
great great actors. deception behind all that makeup. never trust them
@@jlc7300 good girls are the most sneaky, not some of the most..
@@xxcrucificioxx everything about a woman is a lie.
So then I want to ask honestly, what is the point of even being in a relationship if 99% are just messed-up self-esteem draining head games, which women are better at? I don't like the prospect of living without a lady in my life, but the head games and double standards make me feel that it is the better choice, rather than losing my mind to the manipulative dance we call dating.
Us older guys have to go after the younger Barbie Dolls under the age of 18 to even have a real good chance for TRUE love is the ONLY way I see it otherwise I give up at the age of 58 still lean strong and in great shape for my years !!!! The young Barbie Dolls haven't had they're minds distorted by BAD BOYS and haven't slept with every John, Dick and Harry in the dictionary from A to Z !!!!! Now I know trying to do this sounds perverted and wrong but in reality it is what parents WANT for they're Barbie Dolls is a real GOOD Christian MAN who will be true and loyal at all times !!!!
Jeffrey Elliott go to jail sir
You're 40 years late, buddy
@@JudgeHoldenTudix lol xD
There is no point. That's why most of us don't bother. Until there's a serious economic collapse or war held in America. Females will not change
The monkey branch is so true! Know a girl who i have known for 9 years and in those 9 years iv never known her single for longer than 10 days. And each new man has always higher on the social ladder than the last.
That disgusting!🤨
Not to good at maths or darts for that matter. The thousand and fifty seventh dude was he ever found
I had a two years relationship with my first girlfriend. After 3 months, she got a new boyfriend. It took me a couple years to move on from that, then started dating again.
I am over 60, beyond dating age, but I will stress to you younger guys: watch this video over and over. Richard is exactly right about women.
I am 20 and soaking this shit up like a sponge my man !
Very good insight. Another thing is that women initiate much more physical violence than you think. Two reasons:1. Most guys won't hit back. 2. Most guys won't say anything.
Legalize Freedom my wife used to hit me all the time and I never understood it
@@BrandonViani
You should've smacked the hell outta that rude being.
I finally got enough of that BS and I hit back knocked her right on her ass, something I never thought I do but enough is enough you can punch me in the face over and over out of scratch my eyes out you're going to get your ass kicked. I don't care who you are. And all she wanted after 21 years is the ability to get a restraining order and everything that we put together in that time frame. And give a damn about anything else. It's worth getting knocked on her ass
@@raydeal5777
You do the right thing, my friend. You should smack back. Never understood this "never hit a woman, ever!". BS! If a rude child, fruit of bad-parenting, was to slap me on the face or start punching me for absolutely no reason, or just out of unjustified anger, I'd show that child how to respect an adult. Obviously, with the appropriate force for a child. I do the same to women. I hit them back in the same proportion they hit me. I'm no punching bag. GTFO here. If I don't accept such behaviour from a child, that usually knows no better, I will do it from an adult woman? If I'll educate children, I will educate women. Women are over-grown children, anyway.
Agreed. You forgot emotional violence. That shit can begin from Minute #1 she failed the door lock test. Or any other test!
There is a second version of Monkey Branching, which i would call "Reverse Monkey Branching" it's basically when a woman tries to use you as a backup if the situation with the new man goes bad.
EX gf tried to put me in the friend zone after dumping me,i of course cut all contact, long and behold two years later, i bought a nice car, nice sport bike and make much more than when i was with her and suddenly she starts messaging me that we should go out etc. Perfect example for what you said, ive never even answered her, now whenever once in a while she sees me in town she has the face like i killed her whole family, women take rejection much more worse than majority of men i know.
Harper Wayne Yes, never let her hit the rewind button. Do you want to spend your life knowing you weren't her first choice?
Once i was daiting a girl for about 6 months, at some point she told me she had the desire to start living with me to support me, help me with my business etc... i answered i wasn't interest to take the frequentation at that serious level, one week later she posted some pic of her in vacation with an other man, i think she had this loser as a backup for a long time waiting to see which branch was the most solid for her to grab.
Monkey Branching is more like skipping fast from a man to another, or eventually holding on 2 branches at the same time waiting to understand which one is more suitable.
Man, everything you've said is so true. I find myself at the very same spot when I was dating a girl a year ago and went through some problems, but I never break the relationship for real with her (anyway, she choose to understand what she wanted to understand), but to my surprise she shows up with some new guy between one or two weeks later without a notice (she kept it in secret from me, but I figure it out). Two thoughts came in my mind, she was at least keeping conversations with the dude at the same time she was with me and kept it secret for the same reasons you listed above. I didn't know the "technical term" for this at the time, now I know... and the behavior seems pretty standard...
The more reseach and test, the more I figure that womans (men too) are all about basic patterns, it's not an one size fits all (but definitelly there's a pattern).
My gf of 4 years who I was gonna put a ring on this year dumped me for a guy she met just a few weeks ago.
She said it wasn't bout other guys, but went and banged him the very day she dropped me and told me he was much better than I am at everything
Never in my wildest dreams did I see that coming. I did everything in my power to keep her happy. She always insisted on marriage. And out of no where she turned around and said she was seeing other guy and can't marry me
And the worst part of it is, she gave me herpes
Now I feel too tired and too old to get back into the dating game
Holy fuck dude. 👀👀
That's rough!
I mean,... Damn.
Good old Stanley
Don't worry about the Herp, its not a big deal. It is a skin virus from the same family as chicken pox. 8 out of 10 people who have it don't even know they have it. I have HSV1 for about 6 or 7 years before I realized it. As for her, she did you a favor. Its better to be the guy getting monkey branched from then the guy getting monkey branched to. How would you feel if you started dating a girl and she cold heartedly dropped the last guy for absolutely no reason other than the fact she was bored? If she does it once, she will do it again.
That is why you shouldn't ever give a chance to promiscuous people. They have highest potential of leaving you for someone and leave with an ugly painful scar of STD or HIV AIDS.
I’m reading your book and it’s definitely filled with the uncomfortable truths that I’ve needed to face and accept. That’s how I know it’s true. Thanks so much for what you do. It matters.
In Malcolm X's biography he states that most women are "tricky, deceitful, pieces of flesh." There is one hell of a lot of truth in that statement!!
@@erikjohansson6579 beta opinion
that is why these fake liberal blacks never mention him , but he is a legend
is that quote true though, now i checked and he said that black women are the most unprotected human beings in usa, maybe someone faked this quote
@@learnnottogiveaf8747 I believe he would say something like that. I remember reading in his autobiography how he specifically said that he learned essential lessons from his pimp friend back in his youth
In the mid 90's the great Tupac coined the term "Money over Bitches" how prophetic of a rapper he was lol
#2 I learned the hard way. Never, ever, EVER think white-knighting gets you anywhere with women. I know a couple of women who secretly call white knights "fart catchers," and laugh at them behind their back.
My 2 cents:
Factoring out the allure of intelligence and talent common to both sexes, here is the primary difference between men and women:
A man's lust is fuelled by physical beauty.
A woman's lust is fuelled by physical beauty AND wealth.
When a man suddenly loses his money, in the eyes of a woman, he goes from Kirstie Allie 1982 to Kirstie Allie 2017. While most men have the honour, integrity, and deep soulful love not to leave, women are not beholden to these 'male' values, and will ditch you like a used latte cup in the blink of an eye.
There's a very true fact you mentioned.
I for one have noticed that one of the biggest misconceptions we men make is assuming that women in general have the same set of ethics that we have.
Sad fact, they don't and mostly never care about the crap called "ethics" They know only "I can vs. I can't " and not "It's good vs. It's bad"
Finding a good women is difficult, defining what a good women is is even more difficult. ( or I may lack enough experience so far )
#notallwomen 😅
So weird what experiences some people gather.. Though, it might depend on where you live.
In any way.. I don't think this is how genereally all women in the world are.
Also, the way you describe it, it almost sounds like they must be less of a human than you are. The values you spoke about aren't just "male values", those are general values that human can have or not have.
It's most likely that those values can be found equally much or probably equally rarely in both genders.
If you truly believe that the way you described women, is how they generally are, than maybe you should do some social experiments on that or probably better get some well approved scientists to do them for you.
Harley Quinn
No way we men think of woman as less of a human. You are making a wrong conclusion that came from you own pattern of thinking of judging of people: they're either as human or less human. Your premise is your own, no one suggested that.
No, not at all, we adult men think a child is immature, sensitive, and irresponsible, fragile, and needs to be taken care of and never given full power so that he doesn't harm neither himself nor the whole family.
That never resembled thinking of the child to be less of a human. Once human then a full human. Whether he was a rational human or not.
Women, are wise, responsible, and full of mercy, forgiveness and understanding, only after their hormonal storm is gone i.e. after menopause or let's say in middle age. Those are among the wisest people of the whole society. Young women are non of that.
Actually, women due to their emotional, and physical, ( and I may add ethical ) weakness as young growing girls and young mothers, they end up very "diplomatic", rational and fully wise, and ethical individuals as middle aged women. It's the weakness of a female, or rather her insight into her weakness, is what makes her the good individual that she ends up being.
Current gen liberated girls and women just keep fighting their own weak nature by denying it, instead of getting around it and learning from it. They've never known that the greatest strength is knowing one's own weaknesses. They never self-criticize and never actually grow. They may never get to be rational responsive ladies at all, even at a late age, or they may but with a bitter taste in their mouths, which bad but better than not.
I'm of course not sure that I'm right, but this is how we traditionally (and may be evolutionary-based) tend to think of women, and that may be very useful for balancing family structure that's being broken today.
Wake up, guy your dreaming
I ended a LTR relationship, thanks to my knowledge and gut instinct. She asked if i have another women in my life. I said no I'd rather be alone. She mentioned she went to talk to a counselor that very week. Her dad passed away in June and was going through grief. In that regard I show my sympathy. But if she's using grief as clout to jerk me around, monkey branching etc then sayonara
same it's strange
if a guy does it why is it shocking
when women do it all the time???
I don't have someone else , I just wanted out
"Why don't men want to commit anymore?" I should send them the link to this video..... It does nothing but waste time and resources for a man to get involved with a woman and her to do list nowadays.
This guy has tremendous insight! As a 60 year old bachelor I've dated every type of woman out there.....I find myself agreeing with this guy nearly 100% of the time.
Truth bombs hurt, especially the women that don't want men to know about their nature.
I'm 20 years old, Canadian architecture student. Was with a girl for almost 2 years and was fairly happy with her. She was a little bit "slow" but hid it very well lol. The reason I stayed with her is because she didn't show any of the traits of an interest in hypergamy and seemed to love me for me. had to end the relationship due to moving across the province for an 8 month student job with the government. A few days after we break up she invites me to her house to see her one last time before I leave. She asks me if construction workers make more $ than architects (They do according to a "friend" of hers) gives me a watch as a parting gift and asks me to leave. 1 week later I find out shes seeing another guy who just so happens to be a construction worker. She was talking to the guy 2 days after we split up.
Not even mad at her. I'm pissed at myself for letting her fool me. A one man band from here on out.
Your lucky you avoided a lot of shit in the future
Riley Ireland WOW she sounds stupid.
Not so slow, eh?
Henning Kallweit Very
Every woman has several guys in the friend zone. When you leave, she picks one of them to step up.
Firstly, as a nurse and I must say your veins are every nurses dream lol
Another great video though and I completely agree with your 5 secrets!
With respect to women losing interest in the men after X period of time, I very much believe that to be true, simply because it happened to me often. With age and with knowing my own behaviour and being willing to recognise reoccurring patterns,I decided to take ownership for my emotions and acknowledge that sometimes it is you and not them.
When I feel as though I am heading down that sloop I swiftly make attempts to re-interest and re-orientate myself back to my parter, I believe that's what makes a successful relationship, a willingness to be VERY honest and upfront about your emotions and then find solutions either in solitude or in the confinement of your partner.
Most women, and I can speak on behalf of my female friends, reach the downward slope phase and just slide the hell on out and onto the next Mr Grass is Greener. There are 2 type of people in life, those willing to work for something or someone and those always seeking the greener side :)
Those people who are looking for the greener grass will never find it. True happiness comes from within. It’s an extremely simple concept but it’s 100% accurate. That’s the problem and that’s what these people (men and women) don’t acknowledge. There will always be new and different problems around the corner. If you never stop to acknowledge them and do what’s right to fix them then you’re bound to continue making those same mistakes again and again and thus always chasing your happiness. Or thinking that someone else is supposed to provide you with the magic pill...it’s not up to that person, it’s your own responsibility. Take ownership, have integrity and treat others how you want to be treated.
“Or”, she is just bat shit crazy, so it’s time to go😀
Take away vibrators and chicks would hump anything.
Your tricks are not working here.
I have told people multiple times that love is about commitment, you have to decide to make it work. Unfortunately both sides have to believe and do this (Not lie about being committed).
I wish I'd come across this site years ago....my mate was brought to the brink of suicide with his wife of 20years which nearly broke him. Your common sense and truthfulness is spot on and I hope it reaches the men that need you
#4 she drags you into marriage and then cuts off the faucet of what you got married for. And feels totally justified. can you imagine as the man if you just quit your job and said I'm not going to provide what you married me for? And felt totally justified in doing so she would divorce you in a second.
never get married
That actually sounds like a great response to a frigid wife.
"Honey I'm home... I quit my job" 😎
(Obviously "gift" away your money to friends for safekeeping first)
Then explain that since the wife isn't feeling in the mood for sex, you aren't feeling in the mood for work.
Bwahaha
you just highlighted the scariest experience in the world. SO SO TRUE!!
I fucking hate people like you guys, can’t even for a second get your head out of your ass. You all are fucking idiots.
@@breakingthemasks LOVE IT :P
I really wish I had a dad like you. It would have saved so much drama/headaches/confusion, but at least I am redpilled now and still soaking up vast amount of knowledge everyday. And I have no babies, still in early 20s, so I can build up my future.
Thanks so much. Cheers.
B Also watch 'Mgtow is Freedom,' another legendary bombardier of truth.
DADA
@Nathanb B
I didn't call him dad necessarily, I just said it would have been amazing if I had a father figure like him. I grew up without my dad.
I don't think he is just another dude who is older than me, he is one of the biggest red pill youtube channels out there right now that I can resonate, if you really think his advices are not that great, why are you on his channel? Maybe you had your dad when you were growing up, but I never had a strong father figure growing up?
Thanks for your consideration, but stay in your lane please.
@Robgoren. Thanks man.
Nathanb B stop shaming like a woman. Thats what they do on the feminist.
Monkey branching is absolutely a thing and it sucks In the middle of my 5-year relationship my girlfriend met another guy and she hung on to him for dear life. She wanted to keep having sexual interactions with him while still dating me but I had to break us up but just like you said she wanted me to keep me in the friend department and it was probably just for backup.
Rich, I've been happily married for almost 14 years to a phenomenal alpha man and we have 2 young children, our oldest being a 4 year old boy. We have a 9 year age gap, my husband being the older one which I think has been key in making our marriage so successful. I feel unbelievably blessed to have such a great alpha male example for my son bc as we all know I have no idea how to properly raise a boy. I came across your channel and have been binge listening every chance I get. Your videos are so relevant for both men & women.... you are killing it with your content and you are doing a great thing for men everywhere. I've always been worried about the young men in this country; growing up with radical feminist societal ideas telling them its not ok to be men, let alone manly men. Just wanted to leave a quick comment & let you know that your info is great !
I'm married to the wife of my youth for almost 44 years. My mother introduced me to her. Our parents know more than we do about people and can direct us wisely in the area of lifetime spouses. My wife is a Christian woman that I can fully trust and not have the kind of problems that I see in relationships around me. Praise God.
You are blessed my man. We should all be so lucky.
That or they USE YOU to improve thier relationship with thier boss. My father was famous for trying to set me up with HIS BOSS' DAUGTHER. Thinking that by my dating the daughter, he might get on the in track for the next big promotion.
Congratulations.
You got very lucky my friend, psychological science actually dictates parents are horrible, the absolute worst judges when it comes to setting their kids up with someone. I'm glad it worked out for you but please don't give that advice to anyone! To often parents get in their kids relationship business and screw things up, horribly!
@Griffith Taka,a Christian is a new creation and not a slave to sin. It does make a huge difference.
i still love women but i have my guards up
HeedAndSucceed I
As always
The only power a male has in a relationship is the ability to LEAVE, dump her, WALK OUT. Therefore it is VITAL that males NEVER form any financial entanglements w women unless they ALWAYS benefits from them. But don't fool yourself: Hypergamy is a BITCH, there is no tricking it, no reasoning w it, you have to just lay it out there, up front, at the beginning. So, good fuk'ing luck in the dating pool, because there is no chlorine to cure the outrageous shittiness of 99.99999999997% of women.
".....and 'jacket' on."
you mean after the first date ?
I highly believe all of this! I think the solution to this problem is
1- self improvement why? Because when you are better off in all areas chances are you will be happy no matter who is around you,
2- self improvement
3 self improvement
4- Learn and accept life cycles on everything learn that everything has a beginning a development and an end
5- on every relationship enter it with purpose, wether to have children, companionship, or fulfillment but always always maintain your identity in all ways and maintain your sanity and your freedom which means dont get attached to nobody, love , serve, forgive, learn but never get into the game of attachment always maintain your mind knowing where you were before and came from and where you are going, because when time comes and it ends, the pain will be a lot less
I don't know, my GF left me for a guy in his mid 30s that lived with his parents, didnt own a car and works 20 hours a week at a dive bar as a fry cook so she definitely didnt monkey branch upward, but she is kinda crazy to begin with. Now they are married and he's responsible for all her student loan debt in her quest to be a graphic designer, lmao. I miss the hot sex but i can see she did me a huge favor leaving me for a loser.
Thanks Kelly.
was the guy super attractive or tall or muscular or popular? Maybe for one of those reasons
@@beastmasterbg no actually he was one of the homliest guys you'd ever want to see. Tall, skinny, had a homeless hillbilly look to him and bad teeth. Damdest thing i ever saw.
So true we live in a different world today . There is no loyalty anymore. Woman are so different today . We have to read books and have dating coach's . What the hell happened to our society in the old days men where men and a woman was a lady and treated a man like a man . Now We live in a superficial world . Thanks for the great advice . Very true .
Feminism happened boi
Scott Dickens USMC turn your eyes on Jesus that’s all you need
@Elle D Why would any man want to please a disloyal harpy like you? Why would a man want to buy your affection, your loyalty, when he has no guarantees in return? When there was a semblance of a binding contract, you might have gotten away with this selfish screed, but you idiots have destroyed your own agency.
You learned from the historic well poisoners (the mother's and daughters of your whole civilization destroying ideology), but you failed to learn the most important lesson, that even the most based of them know; you don't poison your own well. You poison the enemy wells. No man want's to pay to sleep with someone who has set themselves up as the enemy.
The explosion of social media, the internet, and technology happened
Sin, created all this my Brother
Not surprised about the ovulating thing. But ladies...just because you find someone attractive, and he's interested and willing, doesn't mean you should sleep with him.. control your urges. Or, break up with your current guy. He deserves someone who wants only him.
Rachel T. I wish that more females would be as honest like you that should've been the most like and the highlighted comment.
love your answer...
Rachel T.
Damn it girl.......
Same goes for the guys out there....
Wish more women was like that
Thank you!
My man you are a GENIUS. I'm 34 and i was married for 11 years with three beautiful kids and everything you've been saying is soooo true. I can understand why some people get emotional over these topics. But people like me who KNOW what relationships are like can relate so mich with everything you say. I ended my marriage and started dating a gorgeous woman and the boredom like you said started QUICKLY. She loved me a lot but I could clearly see there was no future and had to end it also. Now I gotta move on to the next best thing😅
From my experience I know more women that cheat than men cheat👍
I would never cheat. Only average looking woman. No man would want any average looking girl
@Caroline-No sane man would ever believe that a woman would never cheat. We might pretend we believe you but just playing along
@@BrotherReubens I would never do such a thing. Definitely not me.
I have to disagree a little bit on the monkey branching. Women tend to have a relationship already set up before they end it with you. I've seen it with friends of mine and their ex-wives, and I've experienced with with my ex. Women like to create escape plans months or weeks in advance of leaving you, which is why marriage counseling is a joke. If you've gotten to the point of needing marriage counseling, she's already decided to ditch your ass, and likely has a replacement lined up.
And the odds are good, out of spite, once divorce proceedings get going, she'll be shacking up with one of your best buddies.
Randy van Vliet true.
Neil Thackeray true
My ex cheated with my best friend a few years into our marriage.(a long... long time ago). The emotional pain of being deceived by two people you deeply care about is life changingly debilitating. I will probably never whole heartedly properly trust people (male or female) till my dying day. It leaves you severely fucked up for a long time.
Best to just keep relationships with women light and fluffy;)
Out of 2000 women in relationships in a poll (onepoll.com), 43% had a backup man in case current relationship ended, 8 out of 10 are in contact with the backup man, 15% said their feelings were stronger for the backup man, 50% said their partner was aware of the backup man, 1 in 5 admitted it was a friend of their partner, 1 in 10 said backup man already confessed his undying love to them. (What a good guy;)
This is based on assuming women were being completely honest in the poll...The actual numbers are probably much worse if all women in the poll were actually being whole heartedly honest.
In a digital world with ego inflated, entitled "girl power" bitches and thirsty white night orbiting simps at every turn...what kind of results do people honestly think they're going to get in serious relationships or marriage nowadays? Keep it light and fun and treat her right, but don't get all shocked and butt hurt if/when you find out she's just another disloyal tart, cause loyalty is a dieing trait in modern women today.(and in many men as well) Unfortunately, there is absolutely no shaming allowed of the modern strong women of today, regardless of the shitty, disgusting things they do. When shit turns sour it's always the man's fault, (even if its simply because she got bored and decided she now wants to go "explore" her sexuality after watching "eat, pray, love".)
These are simply the sad facts of modern society today.
Guys...just don't bother with marriage....ever. Anymore it's all just a game to most women, and they've generally got nothing to lose and only stuff to gain when they decide to do it.
And if you ever find yourself saying "my girl would never do something like that"...well...go ahead and throw the dice and marry her and see what happens. Maybe you'll get lucky.
matches my observations almost 100%.
I'm a 65 y/o man...you are dead on...men need to learn to build their own lives and choose which woman they will share that life with.
Sadly, it's not about finding someone to share it with, it's more like which one do you want to sponsor... since i'm not an AA member, i'm not doing it.
Don't share anything
In my experience, women feather their second nest before leaving the first.
The juice is not worth the squeeze.
So true !
FM I’m sorry that you’ve experienced this too. It’s an extremely bitter pill to take.
Things that life has taught me
(T.Y. Jill Robbins, Warren, Mary Schmich, Albert, mom, and the unknown couple [via Sherry])
1. Most people are about as happy as they choose to be. Let that sink in.
2. Be genuine and don't compare yourself to others. If you think someone else's life is a cakewalk, remember that you are only seeing what they allow you to see. Don't worry about what other people do.
3. Love isn't just a feeling, it is also a choice.
4. I enjoy my own company more than the company of most other people...I don't have to apologize for being an introvert. I know who I am, and I’m that good.
5. There are some things I'm just never going to be good at: There are a lot of things I am damn good at.
6. Don't surround yourself with people who don't want to be with you or value you. This is true in all types of relationships.
7. Don't always wait for someone to do something nice for you: spoil yourself once in a while. Buy the good coffee, don't wait for a special occasion to open that bottle of wine.
8. Enjoy every sandwich. You never know when this will be the last one.
9. Use the good china, all the time. If you need this explained to you, then re-read this list until you understand.
10. Imagination is a greater teacher than knowledge.
11. This is YOU'RE life. No one else gets to live it for you, or tell you how to live it.
12. It’s not important for everyone to like, love, understand, or respect you.
13. Read “Wear Sunscreen” by Mary Schmich.
Long Lost that’s a good list, thanks
@@FreeAgent99 thank u. the philosophy's that rule my life....
Recently experienced about 80% of these behaviour patterns in a long term (14 month) relationship. She was plate spinning and talked about an open relationship, but then she went on a date with another guy (I knew she was doing this, and I had laid out my boundaries on paper; mistake one). She told me that the date was casual and that he would be just a friend. I asked if she told him about her relationship with me and she said “no, it didn’t come up”
I called her on this, and she simply set me up to do the breaking up. I was so heartbroken but when we talked two weeks later she said she was in another relationship with him. So I did my best to move through the feelings of heartache, and one month later she texts and wants to be friends. This is the same exact scenario that she was in when I met her. It’s a test to see if her new boyfriend can handle it and pass the jealousy test. I called her on this and she would not address it but only would tell me that she didn’t feel like she did anything wrong.
The new guy makes more money than I currently do And I see where she was simply monkey branching to a more affluent opportunity. Definitely going to keep my eyes open to these red flags in the future.
Roland Peltier You're her fall back guy. Cut ties with her indefinitely. She's not a trooper.
yes, totally understand you body. I was there once and it is horrible. You just cannot see the bad cold person she really is. The best you could do is write a letter to the other guy telling him 'he is next on the list'... that could help you get even...
just use her wats the problem want to get married
Anyone wanting an open relationship is not serious about you, so if it is a serious relationship you want, get the hell away ! Don't even think twice, run!
Open relationship? You still want to bang the fat woman around the corner.
In my 52 years I know more women that have cheated on men than men cheated on women.
You really want that I believe this???
I've had four serious relationships (I'm 32)... three of my girlfriends cheated on me. Got red pilled at 30 (too late if you ask me, but better late than never).
My current girlfriend wouldn't dare cheat on me... and if she does, oh well, piece of trash I didn't try much with anyways lol.
BS, then it is RARE. OR SHE CHEATING BECAUSE HE IS!!
@@duderanch18237 Sexist awful guy you are.
10223220
Did you bother to find how why?
Excellent points. Women like you for what you can do for them ( companionship, social status, sex, financial) Its tricky because when you think you got them its easy to slack off but instead you have to stay useful.
I like how you have to add "rational" to sisters at the beginning.. so true 😂
Every woman I've ever been with has had more partners than me and I've had my fair share.
SteelerCell2K8 Agreed.
MD M ....you're actually not supposed to get into relationships with ladies of the night ....it's really hard to compete against professionals;)
(Fun fact: the brothel in Deadwood SD was active and open until the early 1980s. It was technically illegal, but local authorities turned a blind eye. I'm in Deadwood as I right this, so it just kinda popped into my head. There's only gambling nowadays:(
MD M Damm really?
haha stop banging hookers bro
MD M so???
I got a lot of women when I was with other women. They can sense desperation. Keep a step ahead of them boys.
Or when you're alone and concentrating on your life not chasing other women.
It's also a proven concept that women will prefer a man who is proven to make other women happy. It's called preselection, and it's commonly used by pick up artists.
@@annaf.1 Oh you don't? Cool. Actions speak louder than words and has been proven over and over again women speak such things but do the opposite. You're not fooling anyone.
Also, typical woman reaction. Resorting to shaming. I guess all women really have been biologically programmed to shame which is a shallow trait for a human. Also, "vice versa" is what you're trying to say? At least try to sound knowledgeable before you criticize others. Otherwise you just look dumb. You got nothing going on on you.
@@annaf.1 Be sarcastic as much as you want to the guy you're addressing but the wall takes no prisoner.
@@annaf.1 Aw again with shaming? Do you have anything better? My uncle got divorce raped by a bitch and took my cousins. You're delusional. Yeah sure "my experience" is mine alone - yeah as if other people don't experience what I have seen. Have you been living on a cave? Or you just don't want to accept the evil women are capable of doing and are still doing today? No man in this world need a scientific mind to realize other men's suffering and just be blind about it and preach women for the angel that they are not. Take your own advice. Your sweet words don't mean anything if your actions say otherwise. Pretty sure that the thousands if not millions of men who suffered from false allegations and divorce rape are not shared with other men right? Right?
My first gf in high school was with me for a few months. Broke up and got back together another few months later. She got cancer, went through chemo, I stayed with her and now two weeks before prom she broke up with me. I should’ve known from the first breakup with the abruptness that it would happen again. This just highlights the bank analogy. Even sticking with her through cancer doesn’t mean shit
Aww that's sucks!
This is a good example to prove loyalty doesn’t mean shit for them
This is a good example to prove loyalty doesn’t mean shit for them
@@juanmunoz198 she never owed me anything. She shouldn’t be forced to stay with me just because i wanted to stay with her. I get where you’re coming from but you can’t view it from a place of anger. You’ll just become bitter and get nowhere.
@@Kyle111 It was more to prove the concept of "banked favours/doing jobs for them doesn't change anything" in the video, right?
I have a female friend who told me that for years, when she was in her 20’s, whenever she was ovulating, would go out on the town looking for men to sleep with. Not sure if she would do this when she was in a relationship, but it just proves that women are definitely more promiscuous around when they are ovulating.
All this stuff should be taught to our young men. I wish I knew any of this before age 49!
Take the term “I wish” out of your mindset , the fact is you know now . We all learn , adapt and grow over time.
Most of them don't listen to us , older experienced, men. They don't learn until it hits them really hard
Should be part of the school curriculum!
I’m married for 20 years to an amazing lady. But before meeting her, I had my share of emotionally debilitating heartbreaks. Realizing that the quality of women are getting worse by the day, I am here for my son. And I am teaching him these things.
I am a Turkish Canadian who lives in Canada since the end of 2013. Now I am 25.
My friends from both high school a d college would find this guy "sexist"
This is how weak my generation is. Completely pusified
If she's using you as a piggy bank, RUN.
I can't stress this enough, a relationship should not be focused around material objects and money.
Don't let yourself get played.
Gosh. After watching a couple of your videos I sure am glad that I was a lucky lady with my 21 year happy marriage before losing my husband to cancer. Back out there dating after a ten year wait to raise the kiddos. This is brutal - I don’t even know where to begin with how jaded people are now!
Don’t loose your time and energy on today’s dating race! It’s so cynical! Your next man can suddenly appear in front of you out of nowhere.
Every man needs to be informed so that they can make better decisions for themselves
5 reasons and truths experienced by myself, currently going through a divorce...
Woolyshark I to just finished a bad divorce
Boy did she turn on me
Never Married...NO Children...NO Way!
Not in this (IN)Justice 'System'.
You need to pick up a wife in South America or Vietnam friends. No woman in the US is worthy.
sad, wait a few more years and see how lonley you will be, lonliness is moserable
@@greatestever7623 lonliness makes people miserable.
49... never married...no kids...clean lifestyle outside of marriage.
I win. !
@@serpico7308: YesSir, You do! (I dig the name, as well! Serpico had a Pair & then some!)
5 secrets about women men don't much care to even learn about anymore. 😂
Wow! Open my eyes so that I can see. I've always had an inkling about what was just under discussion, but this video solidifies my convictions.
Another man saved! This channel does good work.
The more we know the less i want to get involved with women. Happy being a single guy long before i ever even heard the term mgtow
The ironic part: They'll always played the victim role when men cheat!!!
Do they? Or they fucking leave the guy and become a doctor.
They play it when they have cheated as well.
@@shannonnorland6377 Both.
@Mr Offensington I said women play victim when they're played!!!!
Agreed, one of my best friends Just now decided he wanted to be single he told her he wants to be single.. what does she do? Accuse him of cheating, take to Facebook, and get everyone’s sympathy, now he’s an asshole not just for leaving her but she made up So Many Ridiculous excuses as to why he left like “My birthday is in a week” “It’s the Holliday’s and he left me” now everybody scorns him. He is an outstanding guy and me and all of the other guys 100% understand his situation and support Him.
I just felt my heart blackening the more this video went on. What a world we live in.
Thank you for this info I've been Stressing For no reason
Completely right on point. They are always looking for the next upgrade, even if they Dont know it. Can't trust any woman. Its not your woman.... Its just your turn!! That's what I tell myself.
Speed Racer factz
Thats what U had cold facts
True.
All of you listen up to this old fart. I was married for 51 years. She never cheated and yes up until she got sick we had sex. Take your time and look beyond her bust line. How does she keep herself, her place, and does she treat people well? Is she kind and generous. Is she honest and does she managed things well. Is she lovable.
@@harrymcnicholas9468 Thanks for a glimmer of hope in the comments... Are you/she religious?
spot on!
I remember a lady friend of mine, who was so miserable when she found out her guy was cheating on her and she approached him crying how he could do this to her. And his response was "You have cheated on me a dozen times, every time I am away you fuck someone else". And it was true. Only in her mind it does not count, because she never got confronted about it.
An older man told me once that if you put a bean in a jar every time you have sex the first year of marriage, and then take one out every time after that, you will never empty the jar.
Great video, keep them coming!
Most men need to be aware that they generally become more attractive as they age and the reverse is true for women. As for my first ex-wife, my mother and her friends all told me up front that I was too attractive for my fiancé and that they were shocked that I would lower my standards for beauty with a woman. Of course my comments were that I loved her. Of course, after my ex-wife tried to emasculate me over time this also came to my mind as to why I had so lowered my standards. After my divorce, and having watched my ex age over a period of over ten years, she is just butt ugly. I at this point often have women hitting on me and telling me how handsome and regal I am. Go figure.
Haha men don’t become more attractive as they age... at least past 35. That’s a fairytale men like to believe
@Lee van cleef [citation needed]
Women age fast and poorly. That is why they use so much makeup. Men are naturally better looking as they age in general. Just a fact.
@@Nastyfinger1444 Citation please since it's a "fact"
@Lee van cleef The majority of men do as well. That's just as much of a "fact"
Women don't want men to know about MGTOW.
MGTOW Rising Anytime I've mentioned it they don't bother me once they know what it is
Too late. Cats out of the bag and there will be an anti-feminist revolution soon.
INTJ Jen ...agreed. ..Some of us fuck boys have a pretty good sense of humor about all this gender ridiculousness. Better to laugh than cry.
INTJ Jen ...I was referring to mgtow 101. He calls all his watchers "fuck boys"...it's kinda funny; )
MGTOW Rising Mgtow?
Just introduced to your channel. So far I love your 'Logo'. That's a good start, right? LOL
I agree with everything I've seen you say so far and I seen like 3 of your videos. I enjoy them and I knew most of this just happy too see I was on the right track.
My father always told me this tip when I started dating.
Don't marry a beautiful woman bc then you'll be miserable all your life.
Marry a slightly 'less attractive' woman and you'll have a happy marriage.
He always spoke in these parables.
It means if you if you marry an attractive woman, you'll always be worrying if she's cheating, and trying hard to "keep her" attention.
Asia premise, have the girl chase you and you'll have a happy marriage.
I of course married a gorgeous woman and she divorced me after 5 years. Never once did she care to apologize or be sorry, took 90% of vacations with her gfs, no compassion etc.
I now understand.
@Skyly it's true with social media a 5 thinks she's a 8.
Your father was right. Never marry a beautiful woman. There's just too many swinging dicks out there. You may be better than all of them some of the time, or some of them all of the time. But you'll never be better than all of them all of the time. Its only a matter of time before she sees one she likes better than you. Then you're doomed. She'll find a reason to divorce to you. She'll fabricate one if she has to, but it will happen.
I tend to agree with this and practice, but - better is good for a reason, because it's better. And if you don't challenge yourself constantly you are not doing the fundamental thing that makes you male and makes you more attractive - COMPETING! Being human is a constant process of curiosity, discovery, and survival - if we stop learning we cease to live and only exist. Rise to the challenge of living - just remember to never be afraid because there are always plenty more where she came from - and if you feel that way she will sense it - women just know when they have a guy who doesnt need her quite as much as she needs him.
@Skyly Exactly. Even the fatties get loads of attention from above average men. There's no easy way out of this.
@Skyly because they can, and guys fuck everything they see, and that's why it has to stop finaly.
Be a man and get your drives under control, it's about time.
this guys the real deal. opening your mind to better understand the REAL traits and workings of women can be a semi painful experience - it kills a lot of the romantic notions we have - but it's knowledge that vital to dealing to what is clearly an enemy to mens happiness.
Number 5: trying unconciously to become pregnant by an Alpha male.
*consciously
i really appreciate that you put the 5 in the description.
A while back I started a new job and my work partner was a young pretty mixed race girl, she had kids but said she was single and needed this job and didn't want to mess with any of the guys there. So I talked polite with her and didn't flirt. 3 weeks later she went to a different shift and one of my friends from that shift calls me from her house, I said what are you doing there, he said what do you think! So much for not messin with any of the guys.
Dude that what they all do. I hawe a bestie for some 5 years and last summer she split up whit her bf for cheating on him! I was at sea working 6 months away and after she split up i got an chance to go ashore for 3 days wanted to meet her and mabey hawe some fun whit her, she was also down whit that, we had agreed to meet first thing Im home. Guess what happened when I got home on the first night. I meet her dressed like a slut whit some random dude she knew for like 3 days and acting like am bareley ewen there next to her ofcourse she fckd him that night and left me hanging! Then she hit the wall cuz the guy just forgot about her after walking outta door and after like always she comes crawling back to me telling me how it hurts and she feels bad, but after that I didnt feel nor view her like I did before so that kinda ended it all cuz I just didnt give a shit anymore :) Newer take it hard bro or think your at fault its just them not ewer using their heads and when they get some connection finally its "already too late." Say that next time this happens to you and head up high walk away fuck it!!!
@@MidNightFreakOZ yeah I've seen alot of women act like assholes like this. They love you as long as they can use you, but once they think they can do better they start treating you like you never really mattered. They'll tell you enough to keep you around, they still want to be "friends" in case they need a 'back up' later. In case their other relationship fails.
My friend was dating his gf for almost 3 years, she cheated on him twice and he forgave her bc she "admitted" to them. But then one day randomly breaks up with him saying she wasn't happy anymore. She said she needed to "work on herself" and they remained FwB since she was the only vagina he was getting and she promised him they were gonna work on their relationship to find out later she'd been monkey branching and sleeping with a bunch of other dudes, whenever he confronted her for it she always had an excuse for her actions and lies. Plus whenever we were around her she'd always eyeball my fiance, making him uncomfortable. Making it so obvious, just being disrespectful. So young, yet so stupid. She wanted to apparently get back together with him but he couldn't trust her anymore and she failed to meet her expectations so she started dating a new dude she tried to pull the whole "but.. I still wanna be friends" card. He told her no and blocked her and kept her blocked ever since. It's been about 8 months now since she's been with this dude and she's always positng how much she loves him and wants to be with him forever yet still tries to text my friend at random #'s asking him to unblock her, and that she still loves him and wants to smoke and chill with him again. He asked me what it meant and I told him "her boyfriend isn't making her happy obviously so she wants you as her back up". He agreed and still isn't talking to her. I'm ashamed what my gender has let themselves become. It's manipulative, and sad.
Painful truths that have to be said
As a man you have to make sure that you're stable in all aspects of your life so that you'll have options when it comes to women / dating. Have ZERO TOLERANCE for 🐂💩
the kicker is the buck doesn’t stop there my friend. you can be a pretty noble & selfless stand up guy with your head on straight, all your shit put together, know exactly what you’re looking for as it’s compatible with who you are as a man and still get the short end of the stick in relationships with women all because somehow “you just aren’t cracked up what I thought you to be” or “this isn’t working out because I’m booooored.”
“Monkey-branching”, I love that nomer. “Letting go of a weak branch, after making sure the new branch grabbed hold of is comparatively stronger.”
It's all very depressingly true. If you can remove attachment then you remove their power.
Good video Richard. Agree with these. Nothing to be bitter about, but important knowledge to have.
"Nothing" right? Itsjust natural eh
I'm bitter as fuck.
Caleb Contreras every man who gets red-pilled is gonna have a bitter phase. It’ll pass
John, what are you doing here? 😂😂😂😂
Why does your logo look like a pentagram ? Coincidence?
Why would any man want to be in an LTR after coming to this realization?
To have a good time with a woman.
Imagine you hadnt found those videos and had a relationship with a woman.
Only for my son i would LTR a women otgerwise no fucking way haha
Roc Marci profile pic....Nice!!!!
What's LTR?
Trigger Warning The minimum age should be raised to 25 in my opinion, only men who own property, if they served in the military they don't have to own property, and there should be some simple tests to make sure they at least have a basic understanding of what is going on, what each candidate stands for, shit like that, to weed out low information and/or single issue voters. That would be ideal for me. No women though, at all. They also wouldn't be allowed to serve in the military in my perfect society.
Wow, so nice to hear. I thought I was crazy for thinking and knowing all this. Smart dude! Looking fwd to watching more. Thx!
I completely agree with all your statements. I had a severe case of Oneitis a while back. And now I'm back up and running! Thanks for your advice!
How’d you get over it? What was the process like? Currently struggling with the same diagnosis.
This is so true then when they think they have upgraded and realized it was a joke, they want to be your friend again.
They make you think they want to be your friend, but really they just tell you what you want to hear so they can get what they want out of you. They realize the grass actually wasn't greener after all and now need YOU as their crutch. And when the guy caves in they'll give him enough bait to keep him around until they find "better" again then they'll break his heart AGAIN and expect him to understand.
I was already with my boyfriend for 4 years at the time and his ex gf randomly hits him up after not talking since we've been together thinking he's gonna drop me for her or cheat on me with her just bc she wasn't happy with her boyfriend anymore who she was living with at the time, and thought her ex who is now my man thinking he's gonna be her back up. He blocked her. And shortly after he blocked her she met another dude after she left her boyfriend and got knocked up. I swear girls waste no time. I can't monkey branch like that. I don't get it. I wouldn't be surprised now that we're in our late 20's and she isn't as pretty as she use to be and started running out of options I wouldn't be surprised if she was attempting to trap my boyfriend that way he could never leave her completely again considering how shortly she got pregnant afterwards and with a dude who was also in the pic while she was living with her boyfriend.
They always have back ups whether he's just a friend or apart of the family. They never leave the relationship empty handed, they always have guys lined up so they don't have to face their break up alone. Selfish bitches.
It really depends on the woman.Women do not need sex as much as men but the woman that NEEDS sex will approach sex more like a man. She will have a sexual hunger as intense as any mans sexual lust and she will not be satisfied by any one man.A woman will fear the man that can make her sexually dependent on him because he is able to give her sexually and emotionally that which other men have not been able to. A woman that uses her body/beauty to pull a man into here sphere of influence (uses her body like a tool) will be calculating and often predatory with lose morals. Understanding a woman's relationship to her own body is critical in understanding how she relates to men and sex. A woman that can not tolerate "not being in a relationship" will have a relationship in place before she leaves the other one.A woman that sees men as walking wallets will have a relationship with his wallet and will not see him as anything beyond this.A woman who feels safe in a mans arms will look for the man that makes her feel safe.Most women feel inadequate to men and this is why they often are combative, argumentative and stubborn for irrational reasons. The constant feeling of feeling "less than" makes them competitive and conceited. They act like they are everything because they feel like nothing on the inside. This is particularly true for attractive women who believe their only value is from their appearance. The inverse is the obese woman who acts like every man wants her. They do but only because she is easy and she knows it is only the easy sex and not really her that they want. The more she allows men to use her the more worthless she feels and the more superior she acts.Women act cold and superior when they are afraid. Western women have been indoctrinated into believing men are dangerous to a degree far in excess of the reality. They are so afraid of being used that they are sexually aggressive to control who uses who. They fuck men over before men can fuck them over. Dating/sex is war for these women. Most of what women do that appears irrational is a defense mechanism to protect her fragile ego. They are reacting to deep feelings of worthlessness.Western women have been taught that to be crude and rude proves how liberated (cool/hip) they are. Most women are simply echoes of the current culture. They swallow it (absorb it) and than vomit it back out (act out/mirror). They are obsessed with appearing as individuals but are to afraid to leave the herd to truly become an individual. Only the woman who is a true loner becomes a fully self actualized human being. These women tend to have a masculine energy.Feminism and women's liberation has taken from women her true power leaving her feeling like a constant failure and she blames everything except feminism and women's liberation for it, particularly men. Todays woman is trying to be equal to men by becoming like men and they hate men when they are not able to be his equal because they have been taught men are to blame for this. Women refuse to accept the limits that come with being a woman and this is causing self hate projected as hate (blame) onto menSmart women completely reject current western cultures values. Some men call them red pill women but they are simply women who see what the last seventy years have cost women and they want no part of its corrupting influences.
Every time I read your comments I think about things that I haven't thought about before. Thank you for your point of view.
I would say that TRUE western women are the best. But the women you describe are not of true western value.
The intelligentsia have created what women currently are. Women are a product of social engineering because they are more likely to embrace whatever cultural values they are born into. The intelligentsia use women to disseminate their message because biologically women are natural Marxists, socialist, communists. Women are very attracted to collectivist structures because they see these structures as giving them protection. The TRUE western women found this protection through the men they aligned themselves with but increasingly they are replacing men with the state. Women have adopted the values of the ghetto because of the state. The state has corrupted women because women are easily corruptible by their natural inclination to mirror whatever values the current culture embraces. Women are being blamed for what they have become but the true blame falls onto the intelligentsia. Women are natural followers because they are hyper sensitive to their own survival as individuals who find safety in the collective (herd) Women are risk adverse to a degree far in excess of men. Risk adverse people want the guarantees of socialism. The true enemy of men is not women but the states influence on women as the political culture created by the intelligentsia. Feminism was created by the intelligentsia to serve them, not women but sold to women as "Equality" and "Civil Rights" Look at what the state " as civil rights" has done to the black family to understand the devastating effects socialism has on peoples morals. The state using the products of the intelligentsia have corrupted western civilization in general but women in particular. Trickle down theory but with ideas instead of money. Make people think they are victims and than offer to rescue (protect/ fight for) them is how socialism sells its ideology. This morally weakens them and cements their dependence on the state. Socialism creates infantilized adults who remain egocentric, neurotic and suffering from the existential nihilism that their anxiety keeps them trapped in. The child is trapped in all the fears and traumas of childhood as "Victim" This is why so many men increasingly experience women as overgrown self absorbed children. Feminism feeds the ego of women as both victim and powerful, creating cognitive dissonance that results in hate of men and dependence on outside power structures.
Katherine is a man. Just kidding. I like the way you think. :)
+Katherine Kelly
Wow, your comment was really interesting to read. hands down best comment. Really well thought out and brings up a lot of important things to acknowledge as well. I have such a hard time trying to figure out exactly why women are currently acting the way they do. As a female, I'd think I'd be able to see their point of to SOME extent but I just can't wrap my head around the most common behavior at all. And yet you summed it up just about perfectly.
What a fresh look. Subscribed!