I've been married 16 years. I can tell the boys and men watching this that they need to take this woman's advice seriously. I am guilty of being the nice guy who is afraid of disagreement and I let my wife walk all over me. My wife has no respect for me. The video is pure gold. I wish I would have heard this advice before I got married. A man need to get right with God and learn to obey him so he can learn to properly lead a woman and children.
@@JohnJames-xj7df I didn’t notice it much when I was younger and def made woman an idol. Not as far as some went. But Adam; Sampson; Abraham and other stories show men giving up God or his plan to please a woman. Not to mention proverbs. Though the woman also represents false religion. Some don’t know that either. That women = false religion; fornicating/drunk = false doctrines; adultery = worshipping idols. So obvious now that I see.
@@geebee8989 I wonder why we don’t just do covenants like we do with friends? We have lost the wisdom of covenant. The word says if we give mercy and are sincere the bond of covenant is kept by grace. We break mercy or truth and the connection is lost and the grace is gone…until we repent. So no matter what contract we sign. We don’t keep mercy and sincerity/vulnerability……the covenant is broken. This is cause of 100% of relational issues. No love without 2 people and God. And many wedding oaths we can’t keep. Condemning us. Satan did a good job.
One thing you forgot to mention is that most women will never apologize. Even when they know they're wrong, so "bringing the problem to the table" will definitely lead to an irrational, emotionally driven argument.. now what? And if my words are too valuable to waste, then I'm not even gonna bother going down that road.
Then seek your Heavenly Father’s Wisdom Jn.14:26, 1Jn.2:27 Make an appointment set a date n time ask n just listen with your hearts ear HEART which is the 3 letters n the middle of your HEART
You speak truth. It’s the same for any business negotiation as well. Your biggest power is the ability to walk away. If you set boundaries, you have to be willing to walk if they keep stepping over.
Key moments: 01:19 Stand Firm 07:03 Hold onto Your Word 09:32 Get Things Done 10:41 Take Initiative 12:17 Visions 15:19 Take Risks 17:27 Lead Other Men 19:32 Be Forgiving 21:10 Self-control 24:51 Be Privileged 28:05 High Self-esteem 29:30 Embrace Solitude 30:03 Respect Her 31:11 Be Protective 32:12 Make Eye Contact
I’ll ask you…..what is the motive in your heart when you write that your grandfather is an apostle? And why do you call yourself a cult leader. It’s def a red flag for anyone with discernment. Though I enjoy your content. What your grandfather was means zero in the kingdom of heaven.
I think what you trying to say know your own identity. Don't let others change your perspective because of trend, don't be ignorant and learn to listen, and be a person would able to lead in good situation. But as 21 man, I should not pick a woman that I need to disagree with and that's all. That is your point in the first place to disagree with her in the first place. Why? women don't really like men that they control, they also like try to control a strong disagreeable man. I see that in many stories that they pick to listen.
Disagreeing With Alice is a paradox. Because she already said that to make a woman respect you is by disagreeing with the woman. But disagreeing with Alice means you agree with her. Because you're doing exactly what she told us in the video. But I still disagree with you 🤨
One correction on 18:08 Mentally healthy men don't judge how desirable a woman is based on other men's like/pursuit of her, otherwise we as men would blindly think prostitutes, OFers and IG 304s are desirable just because they have many male followers. But that's not the case. On the contrary, the less she is exposed, known, and/or sort after by other men, the more desirable she is. It is only women who can be swayed to think a man is desirable just because other women find him attractive
You're right men and women are wired differently. Women want men who are wanted by other women. Men prefer a woman who is hidden, special, and exclusive to only themselves. When a girl gives attention or her body to multiple men it's an automatic turn off.
"It is only women who can be swayed to think a man is desirable just because other women find him attractive" Men will do the same thing if they are raised under the same pretense of being measured by what they have instead of who they are. Why do you think celebrity is such a big thing?
@@stephenkolostyak4087 Not exactly. Celebrities receive a lot of attention regardless of their gender. In fact, it's worst for females because men do not want their female celebrity crush to be in a relationship. Just look at what happened to the Weather News Reporter girl when fans found out she was in a relationship. Another reason is that men like to fantasize that their female crush celebrity doesn't have anyone. So the lesser followers or fans she has, the more desirable she is in the man's eyes, because it means lesser competition.
@@stephenkolostyak4087 I've always regarded celebrity fandom as a mental illness, especially in adult males. Women and children can get a pass depending on their level of obsession with the so-called celebrity, because it is in their instinctive nature to look up to and/or follow something/someone. A man should not have the right to be that gullible/docile
@stephenkolostyak4087 I've always regarded celebrity fandom as a mental illness, especially in adult males. Women and children can get a pass depending on their level of obsession with the so-called celebrity, because it is in their instinctive nature to pedestalize and/or follow a fellow human being for how it feels. Men only adopted that behavior fairly recently. A man should never have the right to be that gullible/docile
I just feel like you'd raise wonderful kids , teaching them about how to be good, moral and strong . I can already tell You understand the key differences between men and women , because you understand our different roles within a family. You've embraced your femininity and you're very intelligent, it shows. And for that you'd make the perfect wife, to someone, someday. Plus you are Christian! Your dad made a great job
*I'm overjoyed and grateful to see God's blessings and abundance manifest in my family's life. We're thriving and happy once again, and I can now provide for my loved ones even in retirement, thanks to a remarkable weekly income of $67,000. It's a game-changer after* *facing many challenges*.
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Funny how a soft voice and the right articulation can make anything sound as wisdom to the man with no spiritual discernment. Lies are usually the sweetest; it's the bitter fruit that will save you. But once you've tossed it in your mouth for a bit; you've never tasted anything like it anywhere else in this world, and there is no worthy substitute. Every day, I ask the Lord to grace me with more; Gods Holy truth. Without it, we are lost and deceived.
That’s a strong and encouraging message! I really appreciate how you’re standing firm in the truth, even when it’s unpopular. It’s true-men in this day and age have their own set of challenges, especially when it comes to leadership in the family. I like how you tied in patience, highlighting how God is patient with us and how we, in turn, are called to reflect that patience. You’re absolutely right in not being a doormat, but rather taking the role of educating and leading your wife from a place of love and with God’s wisdom. It’s a journey, but it’s one that’s so worth it when grounded in God's truth.
Alice, you are so wonderful. It is so encouraging to see someone who simply finds truth from the Bible. I hope more women try to set their standards from His will and His words not from civil law or the so called constitution or public education or their friends, etc. God bless you.
This video is gold. I did grow up pretty much alone without guidance. It took me a decade to find this things out by trail and error. This video is straight up facts. I can agree with most of the things
yeah I found that children and women *need* to test men so that they know where the ‘walls’ are, so that they can feel safe, within those walls. If you agree or say yes to everything she says (agreeing with her every whim, like a shifting sand), it’s as you say Alice, she wont feel safe, she wont respect you, nor will she want to be in or start a relationship with someone she can’t trust and lean on, like a wall/Rock. In the same way that Christ is to the Church.
Women are adults, if they are running tests they are manipulative and we should move on. Or they will never grow up. Don’t do people favors by allowing them to stay children.
I just love how you talk softly with so much love , you are doing this so willingly and you are really helping me with your teachings about how to live my life. Love you a lot Alice❤
All that was sincere and nice to read. Except the last part. Don’t love a stranger on the internet making videos for thousands of people. Don’t cheapen that word. You can admire her, but you don’t love her. Don’t love a woman who doesn’t know who you are bro.
@@rhythmdroid I think you got confused, I didn’t say I was in love with her. Jesus said in John 13:34-35 New International Version 34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” Did Jesus say not to love someone because they’re a stranger? do I follow you or Jesus?
Thank you for your thoughtful advice-it truly makes a lot of sense to me. I’ve been single my entire life, and I have to admit, I often feel uneasy when it comes to interacting with women. I’m afraid of potential arguments or conflicts, so I mostly stick to talking with men in my daily life. I hesitate to approach conversations with women because I fear it might disrupt my sense of peace.
As a woman I feel the same way 😅 We tend to be better at healing social conflict, but that sounds paradoxical when I think about how dramatic and conflict driven so many women are. In my view it is not a paradox, it’s a symptom of many women’s suffering femininity. Men have an easier time letting things go, but sometimes that is no good because true forgiveness is difficult and shoving anger to the back of your mind isn’t the same as forgiving. Women have a harder time letting things go, that can either be good or bad. Women have an affinity for drama, social conflict, again can either be good or bad. In one sense it could mean a woman has a good grasp of drama. When dealing with two fighting friends she can pinpoint what exactly is making the conflict take root. She won’t consider the matter settled and let go of those roots until they are uprooted. After that is done, reconciliation can begin. In another sense, it could mean a woman likes drama. Kinda like how I can only enjoy a video game if it’s hard, but that’s harmless. Regardless of harm, it fun to stir up social conflict because it is a realm she is familiar with, that’s her game. Honestly I don’t know what advice to give you in terms of taking that leap… maybe it would help if you knew the kind of woman who wouldn’t break your peace would probably be just as wary (about her behavior) talking to you as you are to her haha. I know I would be afraid of making a man uncomfortable, or saying something autistically rude, if he mustered the courage to approach me cold turkey.
Same bro, I'm 26. Do you by chance have problems with pron? Or maybe it's more of a symptom of not knowing who you are and what you stand for that you're not willing to stand your ground.
Advice: talk to them like you do with your male friends and do not try to hit on them directly, treat them like normal people. First they must feel comfortable with you, the things get easier
Interesting, and very impressive Alice. These are the truths that I learned by going through tons of relationships (bads and goods, with of course struggles) in my 20s, and now I'm in 30s with much clear understandings. Relationships are now the things I usually don't get suffered from as I've got closer to the fundamentals of women's psychology. You look very young (at least compared to me haha), and surprisingly you know all of these stuff-- by being able to speak with clear words. Go Alice!
Praise God! Great things are at to come which this Earth didn't see till this Day. I love to see our brothers and sisters are growing amazing all over the world through the help of holly spirit to become a mature son's and daughter's and represent father. We aren't ordinary person we are here to dominion over all the Earth in the name of Jesus Christ. Respect Alice and prayers from Nepal for Chinese people.
These videos are very helpful especially coming from a woman’s perspective really great for better understand the inner workings of it all super appreciate the effort thank you!
This is spot on. This is all about perceived weakness and perceived strength. Same with keeping or breaking one's word. It's an indicator of strength or weakness of character. Also strength does not need to gossip because strength doesn't care about the constantly changing "opinions" of gossip.
I know a man who does all of these things. Let's just say I know him very well. It is all an elaborate act and he is abusive towards his wife under the guise of competence. It was actually one of the things that made me break up with a girlfriend and stop dating. It often does not play out how she outlined it in the video, that is simply the ideal. Women are used to being abused in prior relationships, and then when you get together with her she has a warped perception of what strength and weakness are. She will view you as weak for NOT being abusive (I don't mean physicallyy, moreso in other aspects). At least in my experience, and a good few people I know. I don't find it fulfilling to even engage with modern women anymore because of this. I don't want to have to constantly keep somebody under my thumb in these weird perceived ways. I don't want to have to maintain an image 24/7. Especially for woman who is asking a lot for what they bring to the table.
This is very true information. The problem for me is that it’s so hard to find a woman who deserves me at my best like this. It’s so much more demanding to be a good man than it is to be a good woman, and still most women do not appreciate what we bring. It’s so much easier to be a follower, to be feminine, etc etc than to be courageous, take initiative, be a man of your word, etc. And I have been this man before for multiple women. They told me that I made them feel calm and safe and protected. Still, they were insecure because they felt unworthy of me, and they would do all sorts of things to sabotage the relationship. It’s nuts. I guess I just needed to walk away and try with someone else but I tried to help them heal and lift them up, and eventually they dragged me down until I had to leave and heal myself to get back to my healthy masculine nature.
Alice, you are truly doing God’s work here. I can see the clarity in your God given wisdom and speaking the truth for all young men to hear. Thank you and Lord bless you.
I can't believe it, am a 16 year old male taking advice on Marriage It Almost Makes me cry to hear how beautiful A healthy Marriage is. Well Said Alice.
great teaching! what spoke to me the most was when you talked about identity and performance. However I read what you wrote on substack but the fact that you talked about it that way reminded me that I have to remember who I am. I have not accomplished great things in my life at all, I have even always been with the mentality of a weak person who did not know himself and who always hid behind his parents to be protected even until the age of 17. But my mentality must be that of who I am in Christ: I am the brother of Jesus and the son of God the Father, and I am loved by the Holy Spirit who is like a Mother to me! I must, like all of us, have the mentality of a King and Queen! I pray for this in the Name of Jesus Christ. Amen
Best advice I have received was from an orthodox priest here on UA-cam. He said there is only room for one wife in a relationship. Meaning be a man and stand firm
Yes, I used to overexplain but learned to get to the point to keep things moving. I know a guy who, before simply lifting a large item, would tell his helper where to put each hand, foot, position his shoulder etc. It was excruciating to witness, lol! It was a habit of thinking with this fellow, he would often get bogged down in irrelevant details and have troubles just getting started. I think this can relate to her point on leading other men as well. I would think of it more in terms of authority - often someone else is the expert in a situation and the appropriate thing to do is defer to his authority. A lot of guys I've worked with have no problems with a rookie asking questions or suggesting an alternative method - sometimes they have good ideas! But I think for most of us if we have to explain more than twice why we want it done a certain way, that the ice is starting to get thin and the answer is now "just do it how I want it done and you will (hopefully) see why".
I agree with some of your points. I have been married for 3 years now, my wife is pretty disagreeable, and I did spend much too long trying to be the agreeable one. She got comfortable blaming me for things I didnt do, and taking her anger out on me. That is partiality due to losing respect as you said. But I feel like becoming more disagreeable is only one part of the puzzle to fix the issue. The underlying thing you must do is embrace your more masculine traits, one of which is being disagreeable. Other masculine traits being honor, responsibility, fierceness, etc. When one person in the relationship cannot take up the masculine role, the other will try to despite not being inherently masculine. Therefore they express their disagreeableness negatively, such as with anger. Women inherently arent good at being disagreeable, and shouldnt try to be. Once I learnt this, my marriage has been much better
Only 8k subs, but you are like a gem. A woman who knows how to speak articulately, knows the Bible, and can project wisdom through deep conversation. Alas it's a rare thing in people these days. I'm 33 and never found a woman like that in the offline world.
Thank you for the words of wisdom. God bless you for the wisdom to share with your brothers and sister in Christ. This may have been the answer to my prayers. Great videos
Two things i wanna mention here 1) these things should be done not because you want your partner to be attracted to you but that self respect, assertiveness, leadership, responsibllity are in general good qualities that are good to have and will make you proud of yourself 2) if someone's wife or girlfriend doesnt wanna have sex with them its entirely possible that the reasons for it are different from what you mentioned, just because your partner doesnt wanna have sex with you it doesnt always mean that you are not good enough, these issues can be discussed
I’ve seen Christian men misinterpret this colloquial concept of adding disagreeableness into their behavior for the sake of being disagreeable as a means to attract women, or masking “nice guy” traits with bad boy ones. Then once they get the girl they’re now at a place of not actually doing the deep work of building legacy, working hard, taking risk. All this effort was to just mask a disagreeable demeanor to hook a woman only to be left with no character to back up worthiness of a woman to actually follow them. Character needs to be built to be righteously disagreeable, and that is earned through trials and tribulations not just something one can mask.
After a couple of videos of Alice teaching, I admit that she has godly wisdom in matters of relationships. She endorses the patriarchy according to scriptures, which is refreshing to hear because of this age of egalitarian church. If only a man would teach the truth of marriage like Alice. She also esteems the correct bible which is paramount for determining the truth of matters.
Somewhat; it's the idea that they can do as they like and maintain that respect, that causes many women to crush their men. That often fails to happen with women who are certain they'll lose everything if they step out of line - presuming they don't absolutely hate the man. There's certain nuances to these things that I've learned from my seeing my grandparents marriage last until their deaths; my mother's first failed marriage to my father, then her second and much mote healthy and successful marriage to my stepfather, and then the countless failed marriages of today's generation and even of the 90s and 80s generations. It's a combination of lacking understanding, lacking discipline on both sides, and people expecting an immediately easy time with simple solutions and answers. Today's men and women are both weak; the young and the old. Somewhere alomg the way, we all began looking for an easy life as opposed to growing strong and wise enough to handle the one we have.
@@Mercurie3 wrong...women doing the wrong thing and crushing a man is backed by the state. You guys thinking you have any control over that are full of wishful thinking. Any one of them can, and will, crush you at any time backed by the weapons of the law and law enforcement. Thinking you can win that game in any circumstance is foolishness on your part. Biblical marriage ceased to be a part of western society a VERY long time ago, even before the boomers were getting married.
OP, your comment is the half truth, bud. Real women respect those who stand their ground, are firm in their beliefs, show intellectual courage and yet are respectful. Those women that do not respect men are not real women. Just like men who do not respect women, children , elderly and animals are not real men even when they say they believe in God (they really don't). It's a matter of honor. It's a matter of truthfulness. Good people are truthful, brave, willing to help, stand their ground and respect others. Good people ARE NEVER crushed. They understand they made a wrong choice, learn from it, and move on. But they are NEVER crushed as they believe in God.
"Get Things Done" - No wonder the girl in my project group got angry when I decide to plan things together. She said, "I want things to be already planned out. I don't want to have to plan things during the discussion." Funny though, because our job in the team is to plan things together 🤦
@@Vaibhavgangwar2mm you're right, not every girl is like that. Thankfully, the other girl in my team was extremely cooperative and planned things with me, while this petty girl was just mostly quiet in the background, unwilling to contribute anything.
People respect authenticity. Show up as your true self, not someone pretending to meet expectations. When you're genuine, it builds trust and creates space for mutual respect.
Sister Alice, I just wanted to thank you sincerely for this deep wisdom for us brothers in Christ. There is so much to learn here. The culture is so anti-man, anti-woman, and anti-baby as well. Thank you for reigniting our identity through this wonderful insight. God bless you.
7 minutes into the video, I find myself thinking this video sounds very similar to ‘a little bit’ of what I read within a book called ‘How to be a 3% man’ written by Corey Wayne. Interesting vid. Thank you.
I recently found your channel, and I applaud your courage and wisdom to speak the truth in these perilous times of overt attacks against all things grounded in Biblical truths. I'm a 4th generation Christian first, a conservative American second, and ANTI-socialist/communist/Marxist third, currently living in my motherland Korea, a country whose low birth rate (
I'm an atheist but see a lot of positive in here. Definitely feels like it comes from a better, less judgemental place than many of the people giving "advice". 美女，祝你好運！
That's exactly the problem. A real Christian would not preach self help dating techniques when most in this comment section is unsaved. This is "christianized" red pill teachings. If you really follow Christ you probably aren't going to get married.
@@darklightprojector2688 How is it copying? If i say 1+1 = 2 am i copying? Or do i have to say it's 4 so that i can be unique? GO back to Redpill videos and cry about how you can't get a girl.
I really enjoyed this video. Well organized and focused. A lot of great ideas presented here. You should consider making 5-10 minute videos on each of the subtopics you presented here. You do have a great potential and there are some easy things you can do to improve your audience reach. Consider investing into basic video recording/lighting gear and hiring video editor to produce videos that look as good as the messages that you are trying to communicate. If you're going to do it anyway, might as well do it in the best way you can.
@@joabtextliramos9750remember it's just a matter of desensitizing yourself. You don't need to stare mofos down, most ppl especially sensitive or vulnerable ppl, get intimidated by long stares. It's a very western thing to lock eyes. Best practice is to make eye contact for a few seconds at a time, it helps some ppl to think when talking to look away. I look at ppl when they talk but look away when I talk to keep my roll on words, staring into ppls soul distracts me. Most ppl you talk to will be just as if not more uncomfortable than you, if you can find a state of openness when connecting if will put them in a relaxed state and the vibe will precipitate back and forth. Sometimes you need to command not demand the energy to be a leader. Ppl will unconsciously be drawn to the secure energy because it takes ppl away from fight or flight. Not sure why I wrote all this, but I hope it helps someone
it’s either agree with every choice she makes & don’t commit to her or fully stand your ground about what you think is the right way to do things & what’s best for your family… no matter how cringe… there’s no in-between…
This is such a beautiful channel. Thank you for this. The western society is bleeding. This is what we need more of! Ive never been interested in the bible because of how leftist influenced the church is here in Sweden but you got me curious to start reading the bible by coming from a more healthy perspective. Thank you
I applaud you sir! Totally agree. All societies do this now and it is disgusting. Adults should be treated as adults otherwise you have children. Women are treated as spoiled children often today. Respect is earned from both parties.
Agreed 100%. I don't even date anymore. I grew extremely tired of having to essentially be "on" all the time, and have to constantly keep up this weird delusional image of what a guy should be in her head. That is a lot of effort, and like you said, effort in the name of keeping a woman around who isn't all that great anyway. The only thing most women bring to the table these days is sex, which is not nearly as important as intimacy with a good/quality person.
It tend to be society's norm because many weak men in general let this happen in addition to the "strong positive moment of feminism run amock". Anytime the spotlight is turned around towards the women, they will defend themselves tooth and nail and any actions on their part will be played down as much as possible to the point where it looks as if the men was still the problem.
@@hythlodaeus5818but if the woman brings only sex to the table, it's the man's fault. Most guys just care about sex and forget to assess if the woman has other things to offer.
Hello. I am bad at expressing myself verbally but decent at writing, so I’m just using this as a way to get things out. I don’t expect a reply or anything. As a young woman I deeply appreciate your videos; there are not many Christian women on youtube who have a grasp on things like you do. Being a kind of tomboy it is especially difficult to find content which expounds upon my own thoughts (as far as I can tell, a properly theological view) on femininity and the role of women. Most Christian women who are aiming their content towards women don’t speak about men hand in hand with them. Which is inappropriate, that would be like talking about one of the persons of the trinity without at least mentioning their relation with the other two. Can’t have proper Christology without the Father and Holy Spirit. Many of them talk about femininity in a way that is worth criticizing. Often shallow, outward characteristics. Or they focus on behaviors that are more broad than situational, ex. talking about x y z steps to be a ✨trad wife rather than talking about the cultivation of being that would allow one to be a good wife in any circumstance. I’ll bake a casserole and be nice to look at if it comes down to it, but I also want to be the kind of woman who can be the last line of defense for my child, able to abscond into the woods with them in order to avoid a cruel fate. It’s not that I reject everything they say, it is just deeply un-relatable when I think about the countless different ways things can go wrong in this world. You are touching on such an important point when you say femininity is already in our nature. For a woman, being more feminine means becoming more like God. For a man, being more masculine means becoming more like God. My femininity doesn’t depend on me quitting my construction work, unless it means the difference between being able to care for my family or not. A man’s masculinity doesn’t depend on him quitting a desk job to go work the oil rig, unless it means the difference between him being able to care for his family or not.
Thank you Alice , i was recently led to your channel and i love it . Great Biblical advice and again thanks for being your true authentic self . Your messages are like refreshing water on a hot day. May i ask are you based in China and are you of Chinese decent ? your a wise old soul.....
This is true. My wife and I were discussing doctrine disagreement and I kept cool, as I usually do, I found some ground we did agree with and did not concede where i knew I was correct. This happened this weekend. Needless to say, the marriage bed was holding on for dear life that night.
In regards to the first point, I'm very glad my natural response to some grade A bullshit is almost always a giggle. It helps me look a lot more amused than annoyed, just long enough to realise what's happening and get the guard up proper to defend whatever boundary is being pushed against.
I never seen this channel before. It’s a nice blend between the reality of modern male/female dynamics and applying the wisdom of the Word. It is red pill but very very good to hear this from a young Christian woman. You’re speaking to the reality of the west now and how all of this pulls us away from God.
I've been married 16 years. I can tell the boys and men watching this that they need to take this woman's advice seriously. I am guilty of being the nice guy who is afraid of disagreement and I let my wife walk all over me. My wife has no respect for me. The video is pure gold. I wish I would have heard this advice before I got married. A man need to get right with God and learn to obey him so he can learn to properly lead a woman and children.
It’s one of the main themes in the Bible. Crazy how we miss it.
You don't miss it , jus everything around you is pushing the wrong way @Rileyed
You lost the moment you decided to get a legal contract given her power over you through the family courts enforce by the government.
@@JohnJames-xj7df I didn’t notice it much when I was younger and def made woman an idol. Not as far as some went. But Adam; Sampson; Abraham and other stories show men giving up God or his plan to please a woman. Not to mention proverbs. Though the woman also represents false religion.
Some don’t know that either. That women = false religion; fornicating/drunk = false doctrines; adultery = worshipping idols.
So obvious now that I see.
@@geebee8989 I wonder why we don’t just do covenants like we do with friends? We have lost the wisdom of covenant. The word says if we give mercy and are sincere the bond of covenant is kept by grace. We break mercy or truth and the connection is lost and the grace is gone…until we repent.
So no matter what contract we sign. We don’t keep mercy and sincerity/vulnerability……the covenant is broken. This is cause of 100% of relational issues.
No love without 2 people and God. And many wedding oaths we can’t keep. Condemning us. Satan did a good job.
My Dad taught me at 7yrs old THE FURTHER A MANS ACTIONS ARE SEPARATED FROM HIS WORDS THE LESS OF A MAN HE BECOMES
so my dads gay lol
Then modern woman aren't woman.
One thing you forgot to mention is that most women will never apologize. Even when they know they're wrong, so "bringing the problem to the table" will definitely lead to an irrational, emotionally driven argument.. now what? And if my words are too valuable to waste, then I'm not even gonna bother going down that road.
Then seek your Heavenly Father’s Wisdom Jn.14:26, 1Jn.2:27
Make an appointment set a date n time ask n just listen with your hearts ear HEART which is the 3 letters n the middle of your HEART
A good way to make a woman respect you is by walking away. Learn to walk away when she isn't treating you correctly.
We gotta mean what we say and say what we mean. Even if that means being alone,
You speak truth. It’s the same for any business negotiation as well. Your biggest power is the ability to walk away. If you set boundaries, you have to be willing to walk if they keep stepping over.
Key moments:
01:19 Stand Firm
07:03 Hold onto Your Word
09:32 Get Things Done
10:41 Take Initiative
12:17 Visions
15:19 Take Risks
17:27 Lead Other Men
19:32 Be Forgiving
21:10 Self-control
24:51 Be Privileged
28:05 High Self-esteem
29:30 Embrace Solitude
30:03 Respect Her
31:11 Be Protective
32:12 Make Eye Contact
I’ll ask you…..what is the motive in your heart when you write that your grandfather is an apostle? And why do you call yourself a cult leader.
It’s def a red flag for anyone with discernment. Though I enjoy your content. What your grandfather was means zero in the kingdom of heaven.
I think what you trying to say know your own identity. Don't let others change your perspective because of trend, don't be ignorant and learn to listen, and be a person would able to lead in good situation. But as 21 man, I should not pick a woman that I need to disagree with and that's all. That is your point in the first place to disagree with her in the first place. Why? women don't really like men that they control, they also like try to control a strong disagreeable man. I see that in many stories that they pick to listen.
Disagreeing With Alice is a paradox. Because she already said that to make a woman respect you is by disagreeing with the woman. But disagreeing with Alice means you agree with her. Because you're doing exactly what she told us in the video.
But I still disagree with you 🤨
@@jayronn.christian you should not play by rules. Make your own rules simply.
@@jayronn.christianhaha
One correction on 18:08
Mentally healthy men don't judge how desirable a woman is based on other men's like/pursuit of her, otherwise we as men would blindly think prostitutes, OFers and IG 304s are desirable just because they have many male followers. But that's not the case. On the contrary, the less she is exposed, known, and/or sort after by other men, the more desirable she is.
It is only women who can be swayed to think a man is desirable just because other women find him attractive
You're right men and women are wired differently. Women want men who are wanted by other women. Men prefer a woman who is hidden, special, and exclusive to only themselves. When a girl gives attention or her body to multiple men it's an automatic turn off.
"It is only women who can be swayed to think a man is desirable just because other women find him attractive"
Men will do the same thing if they are raised under the same pretense of being measured by what they have instead of who they are. Why do you think celebrity is such a big thing?
@@stephenkolostyak4087 Not exactly. Celebrities receive a lot of attention regardless of their gender.
In fact, it's worst for females because men do not want their female celebrity crush to be in a relationship. Just look at what happened to the Weather News Reporter girl when fans found out she was in a relationship.
Another reason is that men like to fantasize that their female crush celebrity doesn't have anyone.
So the lesser followers or fans she has, the more desirable she is in the man's eyes, because it means lesser competition.
@@stephenkolostyak4087 I've always regarded celebrity fandom as a mental illness, especially in adult males. Women and children can get a pass depending on their level of obsession with the so-called celebrity, because it is in their instinctive nature to look up to and/or follow something/someone.
A man should not have the right to be that gullible/docile
@stephenkolostyak4087 I've always regarded celebrity fandom as a mental illness, especially in adult males. Women and children can get a pass depending on their level of obsession with the so-called celebrity, because it is in their instinctive nature to pedestalize and/or follow a fellow human being for how it feels.
Men only adopted that behavior fairly recently. A man should never have the right to be that gullible/docile
I just feel like you'd raise wonderful kids , teaching them about how to be good, moral and strong . I can already tell
You understand the key differences between men and women , because you understand our different roles within a family. You've embraced your femininity and you're very intelligent, it shows.
And for that you'd make the perfect wife, to someone, someday. Plus you are Christian!
Your dad made a great job
*I'm overjoyed and grateful to see God's blessings and abundance manifest in my family's life. We're thriving and happy once again, and I can now provide for my loved ones even in retirement, thanks to a remarkable weekly income of $67,000. It's a game-changer after* *facing many challenges*.
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Please how ?
Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God😞
Thanks to my co-worker (Scott) who suggested Mrs Maria Angelina🙏.
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
man, how is this young woman so wise? subscribed!
not really, all this information is available all over YT in the red pill spaces...dont be a simp
@@DJ_BROBOT Yeah but most redpill gurus aren't Christian or traditional, even if they claim to be. They're just degenerates.
See know the word of God
@@DJ_BROBOT 🤣🤣🤣
Funny how a soft voice and the right articulation can make anything sound as wisdom to the man with no spiritual discernment. Lies are usually the sweetest; it's the bitter fruit that will save you. But once you've tossed it in your mouth for a bit; you've never tasted anything like it anywhere else in this world, and there is no worthy substitute. Every day, I ask the Lord to grace me with more; Gods Holy truth. Without it, we are lost and deceived.
You are an excellent speaker, sharp insight just flows with no ums or losing track, and just dope confidence and unique perspective- kudos from korea
That’s a strong and encouraging message! I really appreciate how you’re standing firm in the truth, even when it’s unpopular. It’s true-men in this day and age have their own set of challenges, especially when it comes to leadership in the family. I like how you tied in patience, highlighting how God is patient with us and how we, in turn, are called to reflect that patience. You’re absolutely right in not being a doormat, but rather taking the role of educating and leading your wife from a place of love and with God’s wisdom. It’s a journey, but it’s one that’s so worth it when grounded in God's truth.
Alice, you are so wonderful. It is so encouraging to see someone who simply finds truth from the Bible. I hope more women try to set their standards from His will and His words not from civil law or the so called constitution or public education or their friends, etc. God bless you.
Binging your content this week. Glad to see something new
This video is gold. I did grow up pretty much alone without guidance. It took me a decade to find this things out by trail and error. This video is straight up facts. I can agree with most of the things
I completely DISAGREE with you Alice!!!!😉.... and i STAND FIRM on that sentiment!😅
❤
yeah I found that children and women *need* to test men so that they know where the ‘walls’ are, so that they can feel safe, within those walls. If you agree or say yes to everything she says (agreeing with her every whim, like a shifting sand), it’s as you say Alice, she wont feel safe, she wont respect you, nor will she want to be in or start a relationship with someone she can’t trust and lean on, like a wall/Rock. In the same way that Christ is to the Church.
Women are adults, if they are running tests they are manipulative and we should move on. Or they will never grow up. Don’t do people favors by allowing them to stay children.
Well said!
The woman in my magic talking rectangular box is right!
not really, all this information is available all over YT in the red pill spaces...dont be a simp
@@DJ_BROBOT ??? What is your problem?
@@DJ_BROBOT The Bible is better than any TRP content. It's the original source of what being a man is, not creating a facade of 'frame' or mindset
@@kalebgonzales4009 He spittin, no cap. Quit s1mp1n my boy. Go listen to Rollo Tommassi or LFA, those guys actually know what they're talking about.
@@TheyBenefit The Hávamál is an original source.
I just love how you talk softly with so much love , you are doing this so willingly and you are really helping me with your teachings about how to live my life. Love you a lot Alice❤
All that was sincere and nice to read. Except the last part. Don’t love a stranger on the internet making videos for thousands of people. Don’t cheapen that word. You can admire her, but you don’t love her. Don’t love a woman who doesn’t know who you are bro.
@@rhythmdroid preach brother preach, love is not a cheap word to say, don't say it willy nilly. Especially to E-girls (good or bad ones)
@@rhythmdroid I think you got confused, I didn’t say I was in love with her.
Jesus said in John 13:34-35
New International Version
34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
Did Jesus say not to love someone because they’re a stranger? do I follow you or Jesus?
Fantastic advice. A true example of how doing the right thing may not always feel good, nor be easy. Thanks for these videos!
Thank you for your thoughtful advice-it truly makes a lot of sense to me. I’ve been single my entire life, and I have to admit, I often feel uneasy when it comes to interacting with women. I’m afraid of potential arguments or conflicts, so I mostly stick to talking with men in my daily life. I hesitate to approach conversations with women because I fear it might disrupt my sense of peace.
As a woman I feel the same way 😅
We tend to be better at healing social conflict, but that sounds paradoxical when I think about how dramatic and conflict driven so many women are.
In my view it is not a paradox, it’s a symptom of many women’s suffering femininity.
Men have an easier time letting things go, but sometimes that is no good because true forgiveness is difficult and shoving anger to the back of your mind isn’t the same as forgiving. Women have a harder time letting things go, that can either be good or bad.
Women have an affinity for drama, social conflict, again can either be good or bad. In one sense it could mean a woman has a good grasp of drama. When dealing with two fighting friends she can pinpoint what exactly is making the conflict take root. She won’t consider the matter settled and let go of those roots until they are uprooted. After that is done, reconciliation can begin.
In another sense, it could mean a woman likes drama. Kinda like how I can only enjoy a video game if it’s hard, but that’s harmless. Regardless of harm, it fun to stir up social conflict because it is a realm she is familiar with, that’s her game.
Honestly I don’t know what advice to give you in terms of taking that leap… maybe it would help if you knew the kind of woman who wouldn’t break your peace would probably be just as wary (about her behavior) talking to you as you are to her haha. I know I would be afraid of making a man uncomfortable, or saying something autistically rude, if he mustered the courage to approach me cold turkey.
Same bro, I'm 26. Do you by chance have problems with pron? Or maybe it's more of a symptom of not knowing who you are and what you stand for that you're not willing to stand your ground.
Advice: talk to them like you do with your male friends and do not try to hit on them directly, treat them like normal people. First they must feel comfortable with you, the things get easier
Interesting, and very impressive Alice. These are the truths that I learned by going through tons of relationships (bads and goods, with of course struggles) in my 20s, and now I'm in 30s with much clear understandings. Relationships are now the things I usually don't get suffered from as I've got closer to the fundamentals of women's psychology. You look very young (at least compared to me haha), and surprisingly you know all of these stuff-- by being able to speak with clear words. Go Alice!
Praise God! Great things are at to come which this Earth didn't see till this Day. I love to see our brothers and sisters are growing amazing all over the world through the help of holly spirit to become a mature son's and daughter's and represent father. We aren't ordinary person we are here to dominion over all the Earth in the name of Jesus Christ. Respect Alice and prayers from Nepal for Chinese people.
These videos are very helpful especially coming from a woman’s perspective really great for better understand the inner workings of it all super appreciate the effort thank you!
She has solid advise for her age. Amazing
I'm from Sweden and sis...this was really powerful, thank you.
This is spot on. This is all about perceived weakness and perceived strength. Same with keeping or breaking one's word. It's an indicator of strength or weakness of character. Also strength does not need to gossip because strength doesn't care about the constantly changing "opinions" of gossip.
I know a man who does all of these things. Let's just say I know him very well. It is all an elaborate act and he is abusive towards his wife under the guise of competence. It was actually one of the things that made me break up with a girlfriend and stop dating. It often does not play out how she outlined it in the video, that is simply the ideal. Women are used to being abused in prior relationships, and then when you get together with her she has a warped perception of what strength and weakness are. She will view you as weak for NOT being abusive (I don't mean physicallyy, moreso in other aspects).
At least in my experience, and a good few people I know. I don't find it fulfilling to even engage with modern women anymore because of this. I don't want to have to constantly keep somebody under my thumb in these weird perceived ways. I don't want to have to maintain an image 24/7. Especially for woman who is asking a lot for what they bring to the table.
This is very true information. The problem for me is that it’s so hard to find a woman who deserves me at my best like this. It’s so much more demanding to be a good man than it is to be a good woman, and still most women do not appreciate what we bring. It’s so much easier to be a follower, to be feminine, etc etc than to be courageous, take initiative, be a man of your word, etc.
And I have been this man before for multiple women. They told me that I made them feel calm and safe and protected. Still, they were insecure because they felt unworthy of me, and they would do all sorts of things to sabotage the relationship. It’s nuts. I guess I just needed to walk away and try with someone else but I tried to help them heal and lift them up, and eventually they dragged me down until I had to leave and heal myself to get back to my healthy masculine nature.
I love your content., wisdom, sincerity and the value your bring to us men. i wish you the best and thank you for this...
You have really beautiful eyes sis. There's gentleness, and wisdom in your eyes.
Gay
And their simping in ur eyes lmao
How do people not already know this stuff. It feels natural. Standing my ground I guess is built in to me.
Alice, you are truly doing God’s work here. I can see the clarity in your God given wisdom and speaking the truth for all young men to hear.
Thank you and Lord bless you.
I can't believe it, am a 16 year old male taking advice on Marriage It Almost Makes me cry to hear how beautiful A healthy Marriage is. Well Said Alice.
great teaching! what spoke to me the most was when you talked about identity and performance. However I read what you wrote on substack but the fact that you talked about it that way reminded me that I have to remember who I am. I have not accomplished great things in my life at all, I have even always been with the mentality of a weak person who did not know himself and who always hid behind his parents to be protected even until the age of 17. But my mentality must be that of who I am in Christ: I am the brother of Jesus and the son of God the Father, and I am loved by the Holy Spirit who is like a Mother to me! I must, like all of us, have the mentality of a King and Queen! I pray for this in the Name of Jesus Christ. Amen
Best advice I have received was from an orthodox priest here on UA-cam. He said there is only room for one wife in a relationship. Meaning be a man and stand firm
As a man dont communicate the little details. general idea and the details will come as they go. some of my own wisdom. from my own mistakes.
Yes, I used to overexplain but learned to get to the point to keep things moving. I know a guy who, before simply lifting a large item, would tell his helper where to put each hand, foot, position his shoulder etc. It was excruciating to witness, lol! It was a habit of thinking with this fellow, he would often get bogged down in irrelevant details and have troubles just getting started.
I think this can relate to her point on leading other men as well. I would think of it more in terms of authority - often someone else is the expert in a situation and the appropriate thing to do is defer to his authority. A lot of guys I've worked with have no problems with a rookie asking questions or suggesting an alternative method - sometimes they have good ideas! But I think for most of us if we have to explain more than twice why we want it done a certain way, that the ice is starting to get thin and the answer is now "just do it how I want it done and you will (hopefully) see why".
I agree with some of your points. I have been married for 3 years now, my wife is pretty disagreeable, and I did spend much too long trying to be the agreeable one. She got comfortable blaming me for things I didnt do, and taking her anger out on me. That is partiality due to losing respect as you said. But I feel like becoming more disagreeable is only one part of the puzzle to fix the issue. The underlying thing you must do is embrace your more masculine traits, one of which is being disagreeable. Other masculine traits being honor, responsibility, fierceness, etc. When one person in the relationship cannot take up the masculine role, the other will try to despite not being inherently masculine. Therefore they express their disagreeableness negatively, such as with anger. Women inherently arent good at being disagreeable, and shouldnt try to be.
Once I learnt this, my marriage has been much better
Only 8k subs, but you are like a gem. A woman who knows how to speak articulately, knows the Bible, and can project wisdom through deep conversation. Alas it's a rare thing in people these days. I'm 33 and never found a woman like that in the offline world.
Literally The only godly woman to say what a man should be. Not even women in America say this. Respects
Thank you for the words of wisdom. God bless you for the wisdom to share with your brothers and sister in Christ. This may have been the answer to my prayers. Great videos
Two things i wanna mention here
1) these things should be done not because you want your partner to be attracted to you but that self respect, assertiveness, leadership, responsibllity are in general good qualities that are good to have and will make you proud of yourself
2) if someone's wife or girlfriend doesnt wanna have sex with them its entirely possible that the reasons for it are different from what you mentioned, just because your partner doesnt wanna have sex with you it doesnt always mean that you are not good enough, these issues can be discussed
Nah, wife/GF who doesn’t want to have sex are probably with jamal. So yeah, dump em
Some medicines can make women's libdo god down, making her not want to have sex
The part about self-control, I've never heard it described that way before. You are a wise old soul for such a young woman 🙂
not really, all this information is available all over YT in the red pill spaces...dont be a simp
@@DJ_BROBOT She's not into you bro lol
@@GitDatPC 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@GitDatPC We are into truth.
you are wonderful and your video is much appreciated!
Never had a relasionship and not currently planning to find one, but that doesn't mean this info wont serve me oneday, or I can help others with it.
I’ve seen Christian men misinterpret this colloquial concept of adding disagreeableness into their behavior for the sake of being disagreeable as a means to attract women, or masking “nice guy” traits with bad boy ones. Then once they get the girl they’re now at a place of not actually doing the deep work of building legacy, working hard, taking risk. All this effort was to just mask a disagreeable demeanor to hook a woman only to be left with no character to back up worthiness of a woman to actually follow them. Character needs to be built to be righteously disagreeable, and that is earned through trials and tribulations not just something one can mask.
very well said. it's a whole mindset and way of living as a man of God, grounded in Him alone, not a simple bandaid to mask one behavior
It means growing a spine, putting up with it. Not trying to fix it.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you, young lady.
Subscribed
May god bless you Alice 🙏
You have to be willing to be yourself in order to gain someones interest, and that includes having your own opinions.
Ive always had an extremely hard time with eye contact.. my shame runs deep. Great video
you are a very wise young woman. Keep spreading the Truth
Alice, great work here. Every key point is spot on. Keep it up
Thanks for being so Candid. So much truth in one video.
Please make more about this, your content makes sense. Full of knowledge and wisdom. Praise God!
After a couple of videos of Alice teaching, I admit that she has godly wisdom in matters of relationships. She endorses the patriarchy according to scriptures, which is refreshing to hear because of this age of egalitarian church. If only a man would teach the truth of marriage like Alice. She also esteems the correct bible which is paramount for determining the truth of matters.
thanks for the advices Alice, I feel lost right now and thank you for the guidance
Thank you Alice
better if he agrees, but do even better to show. that is true respect
You have spoken well.
Half truth.Women crush men who give “mutual respect”
Somewhat; it's the idea that they can do as they like and maintain that respect, that causes many women to crush their men. That often fails to happen with women who are certain they'll lose everything if they step out of line - presuming they don't absolutely hate the man. There's certain nuances to these things that I've learned from my seeing my grandparents marriage last until their deaths; my mother's first failed marriage to my father, then her second and much mote healthy and successful marriage to my stepfather, and then the countless failed marriages of today's generation and even of the 90s and 80s generations.
It's a combination of lacking understanding, lacking discipline on both sides, and people expecting an immediately easy time with simple solutions and answers.
Today's men and women are both weak; the young and the old. Somewhere alomg the way, we all began looking for an easy life as opposed to growing strong and wise enough to handle the one we have.
No they crush Men who are weak. What's wrong with respecting your woman if she's doing what's right? 😂
Evil women do. Every woman is not evil.
@@Mercurie3 wrong...women doing the wrong thing and crushing a man is backed by the state. You guys thinking you have any control over that are full of wishful thinking. Any one of them can, and will, crush you at any time backed by the weapons of the law and law enforcement. Thinking you can win that game in any circumstance is foolishness on your part. Biblical marriage ceased to be a part of western society a VERY long time ago, even before the boomers were getting married.
OP, your comment is the half truth, bud.
Real women respect those who stand their ground, are firm in their beliefs, show intellectual courage and yet are respectful.
Those women that do not respect men are not real women. Just like men who do not respect women, children , elderly and animals are not real men even when they say they believe in God (they really don't).
It's a matter of honor. It's a matter of truthfulness.
Good people are truthful, brave, willing to help, stand their ground and respect others.
Good people ARE NEVER crushed. They understand they made a wrong choice, learn from it, and move on. But they are NEVER crushed as they believe in God.
People like YOU make this world great Alice 🌎 ✝️
"Get Things Done" - No wonder the girl in my project group got angry when I decide to plan things together. She said, "I want things to be already planned out. I don't want to have to plan things during the discussion." Funny though, because our job in the team is to plan things together 🤦
i hope not every girls/women are like that , i mean don't mind taking responsibility and getting things done but i feel everyone deserve some breather
@@Vaibhavgangwar2mm you're right, not every girl is like that. Thankfully, the other girl in my team was extremely cooperative and planned things with me, while this petty girl was just mostly quiet in the background, unwilling to contribute anything.
@@DionLYAbeing active and to conceive is a masculine trait
Beautiful and wise. God bless.
This vid got me to sub. Thanks for the breakdown, wonderful to be informed in the right direction. Let’s build a better world!
People respect authenticity. Show up as your true self, not someone pretending to meet expectations. When you're genuine, it builds trust and creates space for mutual respect.
No they don't. Depending on what authenticity looks like
My new young friend. You have so much wisdom and your approach is anointed. Thank you
Sister Alice, I just wanted to thank you sincerely for this deep wisdom for us brothers in Christ. There is so much to learn here. The culture is so anti-man, anti-woman, and anti-baby as well. Thank you for reigniting our identity through this wonderful insight. God bless you.
7 minutes into the video, I find myself thinking this video sounds very similar to ‘a little bit’ of what I read within a book called ‘How to be a 3% man’ written by Corey Wayne.
Interesting vid. Thank you.
nowadays its about stimulating her emotional impulses but by then almost all of them are blinded by it.
I recently found your channel, and I applaud your courage and wisdom to speak the truth in these perilous times of overt attacks against all things grounded in Biblical truths.
I'm a 4th generation Christian first, a conservative American second, and ANTI-socialist/communist/Marxist third, currently living in my motherland Korea, a country whose low birth rate (
If South Koreans abandon materialism and return to God, the nation will flourish again.
Men are a ship and women are the ocean they test how well you built ur ship and they make sure u are steadfast and not easily thrown off course.
I'm an atheist but see a lot of positive in here. Definitely feels like it comes from a better, less judgemental place than many of the people giving "advice".
美女，祝你好運！
Thanks from Australia!
You give great advice!
Allison Armstrong explains this so well. I recommend her books and interviews.
You can do all of this and remain forever alone
Good job Alice.
You Dad sounds cool Alice! 😊
That uptight teacher LOVED IT when a man like your dad took control of her stuffy life!😊👍
great advice for men. while I already knew this. its refreshing to hear from a girl saying it rather than Myron Gains. respect to you Alice.
It's refreshing to see a woman copy what men have said for years 🤣🤣🤣
That's exactly the problem. A real Christian would not preach self help dating techniques when most in this comment section is unsaved. This is "christianized" red pill teachings. If you really follow Christ you probably aren't going to get married.
@@darklightprojector2688she should just make this a red pill channel. It's christless.
Where does it say in the bible that we are all guaranteed marriage? This is self help b.s.
God never promised us marriage.
@@darklightprojector2688 How is it copying? If i say 1+1 = 2 am i copying? Or do i have to say it's 4 so that i can be unique? GO back to Redpill videos and cry about how you can't get a girl.
Thank you Alice, peace upon you sister
I really enjoyed this video. Well organized and focused. A lot of great ideas presented here. You should consider making 5-10 minute videos on each of the subtopics you presented here. You do have a great potential and there are some easy things you can do to improve your audience reach. Consider investing into basic video recording/lighting gear and hiring video editor to produce videos that look as good as the messages that you are trying to communicate. If you're going to do it anyway, might as well do it in the best way you can.
ngl I felt fear when You said "Make Eye Contact"
Still great advices. Thanks for the video
@@joabtextliramos9750remember it's just a matter of desensitizing yourself. You don't need to stare mofos down, most ppl especially sensitive or vulnerable ppl, get intimidated by long stares. It's a very western thing to lock eyes. Best practice is to make eye contact for a few seconds at a time, it helps some ppl to think when talking to look away. I look at ppl when they talk but look away when I talk to keep my roll on words, staring into ppls soul distracts me.
Most ppl you talk to will be just as if not more uncomfortable than you, if you can find a state of openness when connecting if will put them in a relaxed state and the vibe will precipitate back and forth. Sometimes you need to command not demand the energy to be a leader. Ppl will unconsciously be drawn to the secure energy because it takes ppl away from fight or flight.
Not sure why I wrote all this, but I hope it helps someone
I like the raw videos Alice!
The part about isolation helped me.
Having made much of the journey from a little dweeb into a God-fearing man with a God-fearing woman at my side, let me say - SHE SPEAKS NO LIES
it’s either agree with every choice she makes & don’t commit to her or fully stand your ground about what you think is the right way to do things & what’s best for your family… no matter how cringe… there’s no in-between…
This is such a beautiful channel. Thank you for this. The western society is bleeding. This is what we need more of! Ive never been interested in the bible because of how leftist influenced the church is here in Sweden but you got me curious to start reading the bible by coming from a more healthy perspective. Thank you
While I appreciate this video. I hate how it’s always how a man should act for women but never how women should act for men
I applaud you sir! Totally agree. All societies do this now and it is disgusting. Adults should be treated as adults otherwise you have children. Women are treated as spoiled children often today. Respect is earned from both parties.
She already made a video about how women should act and submit.
Agreed 100%. I don't even date anymore. I grew extremely tired of having to essentially be "on" all the time, and have to constantly keep up this weird delusional image of what a guy should be in her head. That is a lot of effort, and like you said, effort in the name of keeping a woman around who isn't all that great anyway. The only thing most women bring to the table these days is sex, which is not nearly as important as intimacy with a good/quality person.
It tend to be society's norm because many weak men in general let this happen in addition to the "strong positive moment of feminism run amock". Anytime the spotlight is turned around towards the women, they will defend themselves tooth and nail and any actions on their part will be played down as much as possible to the point where it looks as if the men was still the problem.
@@hythlodaeus5818but if the woman brings only sex to the table, it's the man's fault. Most guys just care about sex and forget to assess if the woman has other things to offer.
This is magnificent advice all around!
Hello. I am bad at expressing myself verbally but decent at writing, so I’m just using this as a way to get things out. I don’t expect a reply or anything. As a young woman I deeply appreciate your videos; there are not many Christian women on youtube who have a grasp on things like you do.
Being a kind of tomboy it is especially difficult to find content which expounds upon my own thoughts (as far as I can tell, a properly theological view) on femininity and the role of women. Most Christian women who are aiming their content towards women don’t speak about men hand in hand with them. Which is inappropriate, that would be like talking about one of the persons of the trinity without at least mentioning their relation with the other two. Can’t have proper Christology without the Father and Holy Spirit.
Many of them talk about femininity in a way that is worth criticizing. Often shallow, outward characteristics. Or they focus on behaviors that are more broad than situational, ex. talking about x y z steps to be a ✨trad wife rather than talking about the cultivation of being that would allow one to be a good wife in any circumstance. I’ll bake a casserole and be nice to look at if it comes down to it, but I also want to be the kind of woman who can be the last line of defense for my child, able to abscond into the woods with them in order to avoid a cruel fate. It’s not that I reject everything they say, it is just deeply un-relatable when I think about the countless different ways things can go wrong in this world.
You are touching on such an important point when you say femininity is already in our nature. For a woman, being more feminine means becoming more like God. For a man, being more masculine means becoming more like God.
My femininity doesn’t depend on me quitting my construction work, unless it means the difference between being able to care for my family or not. A man’s masculinity doesn’t depend on him quitting a desk job to go work the oil rig, unless it means the difference between him being able to care for his family or not.
Thank you Alice , i was recently led to your channel and i love it . Great Biblical advice and again thanks for being your true authentic self . Your messages are like refreshing water on a hot day. May i ask are you based in China and are you of Chinese decent ? your a wise old soul.....
Good video, thank you from France
“Tell the truth. It will fool them every time.” - Charles Manson on his ‘father’.
I think you can apply this to most people not just women tbh.
I got this recommended to me. She is wise and young.
The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my savior, my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge.
The best way to ruin intimacy is to allow yourself, as a man, to be disrespected.
This video is proof that not all women are idiots
This is true. My wife and I were discussing doctrine disagreement and I kept cool, as I usually do, I found some ground we did agree with and did not concede where i knew I was correct. This happened this weekend. Needless to say, the marriage bed was holding on for dear life that night.
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In regards to the first point, I'm very glad my natural response to some grade A bullshit is almost always a giggle. It helps me look a lot more amused than annoyed, just long enough to realise what's happening and get the guard up proper to defend whatever boundary is being pushed against.
Praise God, I found a great channel here. Fire video
I never seen this channel before. It’s a nice blend between the reality of modern male/female dynamics and applying the wisdom of the Word. It is red pill but very very good to hear this from a young Christian woman.
You’re speaking to the reality of the west now and how all of this pulls us away from God.
Thank you
Good take, God bless