You got massive balls for speaking so openly about this in front of so many people. You're a huge inspiration to me and I can't wait to reach the point you have, much love brother.
Unfortunately, this commenter is lying. They never even had an addiction to this stuff. They even asked for likes to “remind them” when as you all should know; UA-cam in fact does NOT notify the commenter for each like their comment gets after the first like.
Hey Jak, Hunter here. You deserve this money. You're ma aussie brother. Your always there to remind me. I've always been lazy and never pull through. To help me END this horrible addiction. I wanna give this money as a thank you for all you hard work. But also a PROMISE and an INVESTMENT for MY mental health. Its gonna give me that extra motivation to END my addiction to the hub. Thanks again Jak, keep doing what you're doing and keep changing lives 🤜🏽🤛🏼.
Hello! My name is Kyler, and I am 13yo, and you have really helped me. I have had very low confidence due to my skin, and also have been very addicted to corn. You have helped me in quitting and also helping me find a purpose in life. Thank you, Jak.
I'm 21 years old, I think I've had this bad habit for about 7 years, the money is to thank you for making this video, I find myself with many of the things you said, I can't afford to waste any more time, today January 8, 2025 this bad period of my life ends. I'll mark the date, in 2 months (March 8) I'll be back to write that I'm out.
@@Ogagu how is it going. It has been about 5 days till I didn't done that thing and this is the longest time I have ever achieved. Also I am going to a trip and I think it can further help me. Good luck and I will try to give me updates.❤
I am 33 years old and virgin. I am looking decent and my clothing is business casual and good. Still no chance. I am a 6,5/10 and still looking too ugly for the women world. Over 700 rejections offline and online more than 1k but only till I was 25. After that no more chances online no likes, no matches, no respones on all social media. 50-60% of this offline rejections laughed at me, insulted me, sabotaged me, looked down on me. With words or actions. Doesnt matter if in the supermarket, university, sports gym, library, normal on the street. But I wasnt moked in general I was popular and everybody thought i had plenty hot women lol I WAS LIVING A CONTRADICTIONARY IMPOSSIBLE LIFE WITH 2 SIDES So Porn...never really addicted. Maybe 20 times a year when i was teenager, later in 20s some year zero some year 20. Nothing that matters. So didnt matter in my case. Still no good enough. And I am confident. I did a experiment for 3 years before corona and cold approached 300 women each summer and maybe 50 in winter, fall, early fall together. 90% were super nice and complimented me without me asking for it: you are so nice, charming, authentic, good confident personality, you make feel special. Maybe each year 20-40 numbers? And? Zero. No date, no nothing. Like from teenager life to now when mostly women were agressive and said in my face without me even knowing them that i am ugly disgusting and what the hell I am doing at this party or go away from this chair you dont need to attend seminar in university. All that kind of stuff. STILL REMEBER I WAS NEVER THE LOSER AND POPULAR still living both lifes. Many women played with me or tried to. Their psychological game. They fuk around with all kind of bad men and violent men doesnt matter. They do it freely and they even met rapist men several times before dumping them So what I am saying is who cares about porns or if you watch it or beeing addicted. Nobody isnt getting women because he watches porn or is addicted lol Its just a sad world and society: Money, LOOKS, STATUS Thats it. And I had zero standards and tried to like women with personality but still even ulgy or old or drunk or old and drunk or ulgy drunk old or or or ALL REJECTED ME LOOKED DOWN ON ME AND LAUGHED AT ME. 30% DIDNT but some also admitted they like me or even have little feelings or interest and THAT I AM 100% THE PERFECT DREAM MEN BUT ONLY AS PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER AND THAT THEY CANT OVERCOME THE FACE LOOKS EVEN WHEN ITS ONLY AVERAGE So watch it is cheaper and free than a fake women in your life sucking out your money
Quitting this from this moment-midnight, 3:35 o'clock. I'm writing this to my future self. Hey, I know who you are and how capable you are. Don’t waste your potential and energy, bro. Come on, we can do this. I hope that by the time you’re reading this, you’ve overcome this. I love you bro ❤ .. Don't kill my hope
Thank you for gifting us your courage and your humility on this weight. I have experienced this addiction starting when I was 12 or 13 years old, and I'm still struggling now that I'm 26. Half my life has been consumed by this lust and I have been fighting for a long time. There were certain moments where I have this complete revulsion, the most absolute disgust in my soul that was telling me to get rid of all of it, it was spiritually painful. Temptations still lead me here today until I watched your video in full, and I rarely sit in one sitting without skipping the video. I just want to say again thank you for this confession. Stay strong.
“Your eye is the lamp of your body. When your eye is healthy, your whole body is full of light, but when it is bad, your body is full of darkness.” _ Luke 11:34 “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.” _ 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 nothing is worth your eternal soul, and especially a few seconds of lust.
Dude I'm leaving this habit behind at 30th of December and hoping of never coming back to it again and wish to start a healthy life from the new year, thank you bro! ❤
I'm a woman here but i just wanna say spaces like these, that men like you help create is so beautiful to see. I do wish to see more men supporting men, in a meaningful safe way emotionally. I notice men tend not to have as much support so im very glad to see this! Much love to all you brothers, i know you guys can get through this! Im praying for you. Thanks Jak for being vulnerable for the sake of others
I'm a woman and a mother, and these comments and what this young man has done by sharing actually brought tears to my eyes. Typically, NO ONE speaks candidly and honestly about going through this and people feel isolated & their addiction grows. It thrives on darkness, on shame & secrecy and self-loathing. Keep sharing and supporting each other! 🙏
As a man as well that has struggled with this but as quit for about a month now, this space is great for men but I think both genders need support from this as well because there are women out there that struggle with this problem as well as there is a percentage of women who do watch this stuff as well but it's an issue that more talked about in a male perspective which I think it should be more talked about in a general perspective for both genders.
@@HolyAura7it affects men more than women, women can let go of it easier and it’s also easier for us to be celibate. But this is a topic that needs to be talked about more I just found out by this video that men struggle with this and it’s affecting their mental health, I pray they break free from this 🙏🏼 consistency breaks habits and patterns you can do it!
This is my first time giving someone a superchat,i am quitting this addiction today and right now 29/12/2024.Thank you so much man for showing us the right path or rather I say we already knew the right path but you guided us to how to go through it and gave us the courage to take action at the right time.THANKS A LOT BROTHER.
no, you're not. Don't even think that you can quit it that easily. All of us(men) have been through this a million times("This is the last time!", "I'll start on Monday", "Just this one time", giving promises to God, etc.)
I have had a really bad addiction for around 2 years now of doing it once or twice every, single, day. It really started 4 or 5 years ago but it only became a real addiction from about 2 years ago. And I thought it was completely normal because it was the "cool thing" to do in my school. Everytime I felt like watching it I simply did without question. Only in the past week or two have I realised how horrible it is. And it was largely due to me simply sitting outside at around 3 in the morning, I couldnt get to sleep that night, and I just sat there simply thinking about everything that I had done up to this point. And I realised that I wasn't who I wanted to be, the me that was sitting there at 3 am wasnt the true me that I wanted to be. And it was almost as if something just clicked in the back of my mind, and I realised then and there that something needed to change. Ive seen your videos in my recommended for a while now but i never truly sat and watched them and taken what you say to heart. But this video was different, it almost felt like you were an older brother that genuinely wanted the best for me and I actually took it to heart. This comment is probably really difficult to understand and thats probably because its pretty much just me writing whatever comes to mind. But starting from now I really, truly want to overcome this addiction. Starting from now, December 29, 4:13 Adelaide time. I will get through this to prove to myself that I can overcome this. Thank you Jak, you have had one of the biggest impacts of my life and I seriously cannot thank you enough.
Many people I'm sure can relate to you brother, I definitely can, 100%. I understood every word you said. You did not need to gift the $10 bro but thank you very much, idk at least use it as a reminder for this video. As I said at the end, it's worth it brother. ❤
@@Zovori dude grow up your a grown man talkin about beating your shit on a video of another grown man talking about beating his shit. Yall saying your addicted is hilarious 🤣 I needed a good laugh
Man, you're so young but such a fighter. I wish I had a percentage of your will. I'm 37 (married - beautiful wife, 4 wonderful kids). I had "the problem" from the age of 13 when I first watched it. I had a break from 2017 to 2019 and relapsed again. It's been one of my biggest strugles from that moment. Today it's my birthday- I was on the good track for several days and today I've fallen again. I saw you're video and I literally couldn't stop crying (I had strict upbringing- I don't cry when I see the rainbow) Today is the last time I've done it. I have to do it. For the sake of myself, my marriage and my growing 3 sons and daughter. Please pray for me- it will be hard. I will lock this video in my mind as a reminder when the urge will happen. Thank you for everything God bless
I am 3 days out at age 17 , i wanna this to be the final start . Please like this so i get a reminder !(or comment because likes don't really notifies)
This is the first time im using this feature on youtube to show my appreciation, I wish I could give more to show how thank full I'm for this video. it truly relates to my addiction and how I want to break out of these chains, and shows me that it is possible. thank you for sharing this experience, it really helps a lot. "the pain from the regret is bigger than the pain from the discipline" - Jak
Quitting from December 25, 2024, at 3:12 PM. For anyone reading this on April 20, 2025 (my birthday), please like this comment. I promise to return and thank Jak again! :)
Hello Jak I am a 13 yo teenager that had an addiction to corn and this video made me realise the affects of corn and what it does to a human body. This video has helped me in quitting and made me found that their is an bigger purpose to life. I sincerely Thank you, Jak.
I have so much respect for someone who brings out so much honesty about themself. And you are an absolute soldier to do it and SPEAK YOUR TRUTH Lots of RESPECT
Hi Jak, My name is John and I just wanted to thank you for making this video because it helped me a lot. You seem like a very nice guy and it's great that you stood out and shared this with UA-cam. Thanks again!
8 Years. I needed this video more than I realized. Thank you Jak. Thank you. Thank you. Ive sat here for nearly ten minutes, filled to the brim with shame and remorse, crying worse than when my ex and I broke up several months ago. This video has absolutely, completely broken me down. I need this, every. single. word. You have given me hope that this addiction can actually end which means the world to me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Words cannot describe the admiration that I have gained for you for giving me this gift. Thank you.
Jak you’ve become a great inspiration I’ve struggled with this since I was in the seventh grade I’m currently about to start my second semester in college and while I don’t do it as often anymore I wish to quit this semester I got quite attached to a girl and well it didn’t really work out I made it like 25 days but when she ghosted me I fell back in the loop, today December 28th at 1:30 am I am quitting porn, taking you as an inspiration it’s just a matter of willpower and I’ve made it this far I’ll make it farther because of you bro. Genuinely, thank you man 💪🏼 I mean all I’ve learned from my experiences has to be for something, also this is the first time I’ve used this UA-cam feature my man but you deserve it I genuinely think I’ll make it not just because this video has inspired me because I actually feel understood about this issue for once. Cheers from Mexico my man🔥🇲🇽
We are in the same boat bro. That breakup really fucks up your mind and takes you back to that stupid loop of jerking off. Lets not indulge in this anymore, lets give it up for good and come out as a stronger and a better individual on the other side!
Today I wanna quit as well. My situations a bit different, I’ve never actually watched any porn, but the deed is my issue. I have an extremely vivid imagination. It started in 22’ and I wanna be done. We’re in this together bro.
Ur amazing and ur super encouraging mate, really takes a lot to do this. To share all that to people cuz im sure this helps lot of people! Glad you overcame yours and i hope millions will be inspired by this. Simply hearing your story made me happy man! Heres a little bit of my appteciation.
It’s not cringe at all man. You never know what someone is going through. Anyone can get addicted to just about anything. Thank you for making me and countless others feel like we aren’t alone.
ive never used super chat but I appreciate u very much, I’m Marr! Im a 14yo , And I’ve been addicted to corn for a while maybe 11 months or so and the way you talked about the symptoms and what was happening to you I felt like you were talking about me. it was so alike It was like you were speaking on behalf of the same symptoms I’m having, and this video has not only just made me want to quit but I want to live like my old self again. back maybe 4 years ago my cousin introduced me to it but not until around 2023-2024 did I start really doing it and my light has disappeared more and more, It had already took my confidence I started to feel anxious didn’t want to speak to any girls stayed inside all day , and day by day it got worse and I’m here to say I’m going to quit. ill be watching this video a lot but one day I’ll comeback and let you know that you have helped me restore my life, and if your reading this anyone you can do it too. Prayers to you all and thanks Jak ❤
I don't even remember how things in my life started, i think I have been with 5 men older than me and two guys of similar age in childhood , of which one guy is still my friend with benifits, however luckily I didn't get trauma, I just wana get true love now .
@@Zorojouro00 Best advice I can give you is the will to keep pushing forward, never give up and What benefited me most that being Christianity and God
Jak, you have given me the confidence and courage to quit my point addiction. You don’t even know how much this video has impacted me and other teenagers like myself! My name is Caleb. I am 13 years old and starting year eight soon your videos have given me the courage to quit this addiction of mine and start my high school years with a bang! From this day onwards the 26th of December 2024 I’m going to quit, as the days go by this video will stick in my mind like porn did for you! Thank you! I know other 13-year-olds like myself will appreciate all the effort you took to make this video and help us quit!
This is not cringe at all man. You can't imagine how these stories helps me. Thank you for every single video, reel or some shit! You're just the best Jak. I hope you're gonna earn what you want in life. Thank you Jak!
it very much is cringe.its self riteous bigot thinking they should try to tell people to do stuff and its just dumb. parents are failing their children and letting them watch explicit content, its not ok for them but its also not wrong for adults.
Just watched your video, i think everyone here can relate with you. I have been struggling with porn addiction since i was 12 years old. Now I am 24, living in a different country now. And this addiction is killing my confidence and my inner self. I dont know how to build conversation, I am always thinking about it and cant even live a normal life. This addication is destroying my life, career now. It has started messing everything for me. I noticed i wasn't doing it when i was spending time outside with friends but as i live alone now it has bring me back on square one. It is back of my mind all the time, i have very low confidence at this moment, very shy to talk with girls or make new friends. I cannot imagine my future life like this. I want to change. Its been 4 days i stopped doing it, but the urges are super high. I just dont want to think about it. I got the lost motivation not to do it by watching this video. I will update my progress here. I hope this time with strong determination i am able to win over porn and beat my life's biggest addiction.
This authenticity at such a young age age is truly remarkable. So many people are going to be positively influenced because you made this video. We need more people like you speaking their truths about their own addictions
@@cheesycarrotsoup That is how the world works now. Parents have to teach their children what is bad content and how to avoid it, put up firewalls against it. I'm a hobbyist video game developer, and I have been using Roblox for a couple years now. It is very remarkable to me how many young teens will work very hard learning how to program using this game Engine, so that they can do well in college and land good IT jobs. Point being, children can and should use computers to thrive in this modern world. cheers
@@pineappleparty1624 it’s wild to me that a parent would give a child full access to the internet. My parents absolutely put up multiple barriers at his age to avoid situations like this. Also Sex ed was taught at young age around 12. I used to let my younger son play Roblox but some creators make some brain rot games, some too explicit for kids. Instead of monitoring 24/7 I just let him play games that I know are appropriate based on reviews and the ESRB. No hate for Roblox some creators make some incredible games so deep they can almost be their own games.
Unknowingly I started doing this at 5-6 years old and through out the years I've realized because of this I've felt a subconscious guilt/shame it felt good but wrong. Since I started so early in my childhood I believe that it made me closed off from people, scared to talk to other kids, it made me real sensitive, and disconnected from other kids and worst of all trapped in my thoughts,, scared thoughts,, thinking I was weird or wrong for doing this and feeling this way. . I would be so strongly lusting after a girl that it would have me stuck thinking about the girls body until I did something about it. I believe it had me closed me off from having good childhood experiences, making friends, and becoming confident earlier in my life.. It's normal to feel attraction to a girl and it's best to talk to the girl and use that energy to do things that will make us confident in ourselves. To the younger kids out there talk to your parents or someone you trust about it. Do not feel bad or sad this is what millions of boys do just remember it is best to speak to girls and make meaningful relationships with friends. Use that energy to work out, read, play, get out of your comfort zone do good things...
@@NonameSama-ko4pg I mean, not sure what you put into your comment, but it makes the people feel bad for what they did in childhood, like they are wrong... but they are completely fine. It's not the sex, it's rather the result of process of learning about yourself
your really strong for making this video, i would never share any of this with anyone yet you put yourself out there and help teens, thank you so much for this
This level of honesty is really beautiful and powerful. I am a 40 year old man and I still struggle with this. I take a stimulant for ADHD and it makes it way, way more difficult. I have bi-weekly custody of a 3 year old, and the weeks I have her it's very easy not to. But when she is gone it's such an easy way to escape the difficult realities of my life, I always find myself going back, and I always regret it. I think it makes me weaker in every way. When you don't really want to do something, but you give in to the urges. You'll be more prone to give in to your weakness everywhere else in life. And I have seen that in myself. It's like a constant battle.
From my experience this is harder for some neurodivergent people. Porn-Masturbation-Orgasm (PMO) is a coping mechanism that can turn into a addiction really easily. Especially with ADHD, you have a lack of dopamine that PMO can provide you. The worst thing is that is available anywhere anytime, just at the click of a button. Not only that, but even if you don't explicitly search for it, it pops up right in your face on many sites.
Thank you for being so vulnerable. Your video was suggested to me. I’m a 35 year old mother to a 8year old son so not sure why it was suggested haha. But I’m glad I watched this. You’re a brave soul for speaking out.
I was clean for almost half a year. At the end of 2024 I got injured and I would say hit a low I hadn´t really felt the past couple of months. I couldn´t do anything other than laying on the couch and playing video games/watching YT. I struggled hugely for 10 days, then I gave in... I think I did it 7 out of the 9 next days after that. Insane. Now I know why I failed, I feel shittier than before I did it, but maybe this was a lesson. There has to be a positive lesson in this alI, maybe a wake up call... I think I know what to do now. Get closer to God and connect with nature. Get closer to the people I know and get more disciplined than ever. Thanks for sharing this Jak, I´ve been watching your video´s for a long time and you´ve helped me and a lot of others to grow and stay strong. Keep it up man. You´re the nr. 1 youtuber, genuinely.
Yeah, everything changed for me when I discovered Islam. Really helped make me more productive and realize a purpose in life and that I dont know when Im gonna die
As a 17 yo girl, who is struggling with that same pain of discipline, you're like a piece of gold I found on thousands of grains of sand, thank you for making this video cause my motivation on getting better was very very low. Praying for you brother.
I had so much potential when i was a child , every girl in my class was attracted to me and i was very athletic but after the day i started doing it , my energy got lower and lower. I am doing it for like 8-9 years and never felt more low than now. I have lost all my focus , i dont have energy anymore , i am not athletic , i am skinny , i just want to get out of it. Your video gave me a hope , Thanks. I will never so it again , i promise.❤
Porn industry is evil its demonic. It puts images in a person's mind of what someone should look or be like. Truth is women's bodys change after giving birth. Not everyone looks skinny n fake hot. Its demoralizing to real women so when you actually grow up to become an adult. You will start to turn to watching the films more if you let these demons attach itself too you like that. Break the cycle now dont ever look back. Your only 14 still a child. Enjoy being a child while you still can.
That's awesome you had the courage to share this story knowing your family might watch this, but would end up helping millions of others who watches this. They can learn from your experience and know they are not the only ones especially the young children who are going through this.
At such a young age it's great to see your raw honesty. Your vid is definitely not cringe. I work in addictions as a Drug and Alcohol Counsellor and porn is DEFINITELY an addiction. Withdrawals are real with porn and it corrupts people's ideas of what intimacy and relationships look like. Im 40 years old and have had my own battles with porn. Will be praying for you mate and the many others who go through these struggles 🙏🏾✝️♥️
42 years old. This cut deep. It is worth it. Incredible bravery and courage for this young man to make this video and share it with the world. All the props.
At your age, you should know it is perfectly normal for young men to do it. There is nothing shameful about it and there should be no regret. I suppose one could bring a religious matter in to it, but, why would they be so concerned about this and ignore that?
Most of what he is saying is bullshit, masterbating and ejaculation are not bad for you and does not cause physical problems. There is zero evidence to say any of the semen retention stuff is true. Porn is bad for your social skills and can be addictive...but the act of masterbating is not bad for you.
This is one of the most genuine and relatable nofap videos ive seen. Thank you man for posting this . Hope this helps me and everyone else whos struggling. Quitting today 30th December 2024. Will come back next week and every week thereafter to see that ive kept my word. Hope i get to follow through. We can overcome this guys!
Thank you for being a creator who people can be comfortable around. You’re not just someone who talks for clout, but you help me. Thanks for staying real!
It gave me same motivation. I'm also quitting this with u and trust me the way jak told his story I got emotional as it was same for me. Quitting this with u on 27 dec..
Motivation never lasts long enough to help you overcome your addiction. It took me ages to realize that despite being told 24/7 about it. Discipline and exactly knowing the value of what you're trying to achieve is what takes you further away! Keep pushing
Dear Jak... This video was absolutely amazing. I am 14 years old and I am in those stages you were in. Exactly those stages. I didn't know how to express myself at all. After I watched this video I realized why. This answers all my questions about "why do i feel bland" "i don't feel like myself. why?" And many more questions I ask myself. After you said that you felt like a 10 year old happy child again, I decided to try my best to quit. Lately I've been feeling so down, wishing that there was a way back, where I was a little kid again, and I knew it defenitely had something to do with what I'm doing, but my brain just ignored it. I want to personally thank you, even though I can't, that you made this video. I understood every single word of it. I've gone through exactly the same and every time after I did it I thought "ew, why? it's so gross." And I realise that even more now. Thank you.
Im a 15yo female and i have been off m*****ing since new years. Ive been doing it since i was around 12/13 and right now I feel like shit and i have no friends. When u said you felt like a kid again I genuinely started weeping because thats all i want, my happiness back. I really hope i dont fail, and i am going to try to wait for marriage for anything sexual. Thank you jak i hope u see this so u never stop what ur doing Edit: thank you for all the encouragement, 1 month through, has been going good so far! I am not Christian but i have been trying connecting with god to see if any changes occur. All the best :)))
This is battle where you fight with yourself and it's doubtful that anyone can win it for you instead of you. Things that can distract you from falling into gap are your hobbies or other things that give you good emotions, emotional drive. May be you want to practise martial arts or wushu or climbing high rocks? If our mind and your psyche requires impressions and moving - listen to yourself, what can give you those? Hope it can help you to hold on.
change doesn't happen in one day. if one day you start masturbating again, i want you to remember that you can change and that what you just did is just a mistake that you should not take again. you are a good person, i am sure you have great things to accomplish, don't give up.
I'm 17 and had a similar experience to you, please please read *Easypeasy way to Quit Porn* . Its 130 pages and you can finish it very Quickly (its also available online) but trust me It will change your life. Nothing else like willpower method, Cutting down worked for me and this was completely different. The book is completely different and opposes the conventional ways of stopping. The book makes you see no value in porn and makes stopping literally enjoyable I promise I'm not exaggerating, I have experienced it myself. Read it, the worst that could happen is that you remain the same as before but on the opposite you will escape the slavery of porn. Wish u the best, you ca def do it.
I commend you for speaking so openly about porn addiction. For 12 years I was addicted to porn, completely ruined my teenage life, there are days that I will think about of the time when I was a teenager, always beating my jock to soothe my sadness and loneliness away, it made me socially anxious, never got the confidence to talked to girls and up until now I don't have a girlfriend yet. Things have improved for the last year, but the withdrawal symptoms is hard to resist that I always relapse. As I turned 23 at the start of the year, I still do it, but I plan to end my corn addiction this 2025. I have just relapsed 3 days ago, and something happened today that made me decided to end my addiction, I do hope I continue the streak for the rest of the year. Wish me luck.
18:01 “not going back to day zero, because the pain of regret is stronger than the pain of discipline”. Dude, what you said right here has stuck with me. Thanks man.
Hey, man. This such a blunt and and audacious video is a great service to humanity. You know what there are millions who are suffering from this shit. Blessings for you❤
I struggled with drinking for several years and I managed to quit August 2022. About 4 months ago my wife and I took a trip to Tampa FL and we were taking a sunset boat ride in the bay and they were serving complimentary champagne for the sunset. I had it in my hand and I wouldn't allow myself to take a drink. I smelled it, looked at it, imagined what it would taste like and thankfully decided it wasn't worth it. I say this because of what you were talking about around 18:00 and how it was right there in front of you, being so familiar and unable to go through with it because of the regret. Addiction can be overwhelmingly powerful. I'm a bit older than you, but I've had discipline issues my entire life just giving in to whatever urge/emotion that pops up. I am inspired and refreshed by your story! I hope this video reaches 100 million more people and reminds them of what they are or could be fighting for!
I quit 2018 so I guess its been 6yrs now wow i almost forgot ... I had many reasons to quit, I wasn't an alcoholic or anything but I made bad decisions that always had to do w alcohol and bad outcomes because of it... So I decided to quit one day and I never had a single sip since then... Many people would ask specially my friends why I stop drinking and at first they wouldn't understand but once I told them they saw my perspective to be a better person and the outcomes had made me realize I wanted to be a better person, to take care of myself more... It's never too late to better yourself, it's unfortunate that it comes with a price but I guess we learn from our mistakes one day❤
You are the only good influence on young man,I'm from South Africa 🇿🇦and I'm always watching your videos and for some reason I keep coming back for more because you help young man build themselves,I personally appreciate what you do👏
You described it vary well. I'm a girl, and I get it. Although for girls it's more popular to find the content in books. I've witnessed a friend live completely in a different reality because of her addiction, and it helped me see that I made the right decision to get rid of mine. Keep chasing the reel definition of love, it's what gave me the strength to leave that sick world. You were made to love and be loved, and that is not love. You should feel a profound peace and overwhelming joy in truth of love. I can't say enough, addiction is destruction of self, and I was made for more. You were made for more.
I’m not a bro. I’m just as addicted as most guys out there. 1/19/25 I am quitting. Please, please remind me cause I’ve tried before to quit and it’s so hard. Much courage to all of you out there.
@@rickysweet1399 4 day and is hard just a moment of weakness and we are done so hang on bro if you have lust just think a about your male dog doing it with your leg do you want to be like that🐶🐶🐶 remember we not the same as dog
Do you know why it's so difficult? Because it's NATURAL. You can't be addicted to something that's biological. If you don't touch yourself as a man, you're going to get prostate cancer.
I am a 55 yr old woman who just randomly came across your video. I’ve seen one of your other videos before and thought that you were a really upstanding young man! And after watching THIS video, I think that you are much much more than that! You sir are a hero in my eyes. Your honesty and realism is very commendable!! Thank you for posting such an honest and much needed message. I am absolutely sure that there are numerous amounts of people,(not just guys) that truly need to hear your message. Thank you again for sharing your experience with the world. It is definitely not talked about enough and it should be talked about even more. You are a brave young man. I will continue to watch your videos even if they are meant for Bro’s! LOL! You’re adorable Jak. Oh to be 30 yrs younger! 😂😂😂 God bless you Jak. ❤❤❤
3 million views in just 5 days shows how every one of us, boys or girls, is desperate to fight through it all and win against it. Thank you, brother, and much love from Morocco!
Bruv holy smokes. I didn’t know how much I needed this until now. It’s one thing to be off drugs and alc or whatever and I am and that’s a the same shit I wanna do with this kind of stuff because I feel it’s been damaging. And my whole life it’s been like what Kylo-Ren said “I know what I need to do, just don’t know if I have the strength to do it.” This video makes me see clearly now. This video has given me the strength that I’ve always had and you reminded me big time. Thank you. Fucking thank you. I was fighting tears at the end of how happy and proud u were. Thank you bro.
Man I needed this, it takes a lot of guts to post this online and admit it. I have mad respect for you my good sir. As of today december 25, 2024 I am quitting this destroying habit for good. Because of this habit I made so many mistakes that led me to self destroy my first relationship and hurt my girlfriend at the time. I have been wanting to quit this for so long since I have been watching since I was 10, I am now 23. I needed this and thank you so much man, I am done with this for sure. God bless yall.
I will pray for you my brother. God bless you and your journey on quitting. Ask God for forgiveness, and if you truly believe he has the power to help you, it shall be done. Philippians 4:13. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Hi! My name is Zeke. I'm a 14yo, and I'm glad I came across your video. I have been reading books related to corn. Lately, I've started watching corn. I really regret that. You have helped me quit and also helped me find purpose in life instead of ruining my life. Life is short and I want to be the best person I can be to everyone around me. Your advice is very inspirational to me and many young people. Thank you Jak. Finding people like you is very rare and I want you to know that you are truly a one in a million wholesome person who stands out from the rest.
Woman here, quitting from Dec 28, 2024, at 5:06pm. Jack hope you know you're not only helping men, but also the (maybe few) women who also struggle with this. I've tried to quit multiple times, but at this point everytime i fail it makes more determined to try harder next time. I want to feel alive again, i want my bright personality and confidence back, and i think i can do it. 2025 is my year! I just know it. Thank you so much for sharing this vulnerable part of you with us, i was about to cry multiple times watching it, feeling really undestood and knowing this wasn't something just in my mind. Really, thank you, feel happy and proud of yourself I love you deeply brothers and sisters, you all are very brave and strong, i know we can do it!!! 💞🎉
the missing ingredient is making children sex is meant to create families. this is where shame comes from. committing the act without the connection that comes with it. i have 4 kids. with the right perspective its the best thing that can happen to a human. that drive is the force that allows you to create .if the drive wasnt strong everyone would opt out. i sure would have.
@Garandmasthumb yup agreed, but ofc having kids is up to each person to decide, tho i do agree it can be one of the most rewarding things a human can do
Genuinely saving lives with this stuff man. Its crazy how good the timing was for this video to present itself to me. Keep up what you are doing. You are making a difference in a world so full of negativity. This is what real UA-cam should be.
Jak, you are the opposite of cringe, I can absolutely relate and understand what you were going through, you’ve helped me a lot, I used to be exactly like you. If you need a friend, I’ll be there, I owe you one. ❤
Thank you❤I’m never going back starting today. When you talked about the pain of discipline was better than regret that really inspired me to be a better me. It not only helped with my addiction but with my problems with lazyness
This addiction is ruining me, i have been trying to quit for a year and i still can't do it. I am writing this on an alt account so no one i know sees this. Please like this comment to remind me
@@nickmendezb2 That's false, it's a hard battle and doesn't stop with age. He should try to fight as soon as possible or he could even bring that addiction in his own family.
Mad respect for ya mate . Blokes like you make this world a better place . I'm fighting a battle too and well im beginning the journey now . The journey to breaking chains and being reborn . It's gonna be tough but i know ive got this. Thank you for your honesty
Just cause porn has been normalised doesn't make it right so stay strong y'all and remember to reach out when you're suffering Edit: lemme rephrase since people sound like they wanna kill me 😓. Yeah porn has been around forever if you wanna watch it go ahead everyone is entitled to their own views
Jack, I'm probably the millionth person to say this, but your content is saving lives. Genuinely. Saving young men's lives. And dont worry about what you're saying to be 'cringe' because we don't find it cringe at all. Thank you for having the guts to share such an embarrassing memory. It gives us teens hope. When I sit here in bed and ask God for advice, a few seconds later, I get this notification on my phone that you posted a video, so I watched it. Your content is like a guide to a better myself. You help us improve by sharing your story. Sorry if I sound like an npc or whatever, but we love you, Jack. We pray that whatever comes your way is able to be handled by you. Sorry for the paragraph, lol. EDIT: Thank you for the love in the replies, and sorry, yes, his name is spelled Jak, and yes, he saves women's lives too. Sorry
This really takes courage to open up. More power to you brother. Keep doing what you are doing. You are literally changing lives. Always love watching your videos.
bro i felt like u really talking to me through my monitor screen.. fr man thanks for telling ur story it made me realize that there's a lot of people around the world that going through the same pain and suffer like me.. and it's gave me powers to be a better person.. thank u bro, stay safe and keep spreading that spirits👊
Worst thing i did was hitting my male rottweiler when i was 16 when i was done his face was all white i never tought i had that much in me ashamed yes alot...
Revealing this to public takes a lot of courage and it's really nice to hear someone talking about a problem that nearly every men has encountered but didn't know how to approach it. Getting out of the cycle from the very first few weeks would always be the hardest.
This reminds me of an old interview with Ted Bundy. He openly and honestly discussed how corn affected his mental state and how he had to start using harsher and harsher material to get where he needed to go. He said it wasn't what made him the monster he was, but it certainly helped clear the path. This is a great video and the longer you live with this addiction, the further it takes you from intimacy and ultimately humanity.
As a person who has gone through p0rn addiction and who has seen all sorts of filthy, disgusting, disturbing stuff online I would like to give you a perspective on what I feel. Being addicted to p0rn will not turn a normal guy into a psychopath no matter how much he is addicted. I remember when I started watching a lots of p0rn I started discovering various categories and stumbled on some disturbing stuff on deep web and never tried to look for it again because it was disturbing and it doesn't turns me on but the fact that these things happen on deep web horrified me. I never tried to go on deep web again to look for it. I didn't liked to think about that stuff because it just turns me off and I was fapping like 6-7 times in a day for few days. I used Instagram a lot apart from few p0rn sites. So, I think that being hypersexual is not going to turn an average guy into a psychopath.
Hello Jak, I want to tell you thank you for making this video. It's not only about adult addiction, but because you showed me that if I start believing in myself, I could go far in life. I'm currently 23 years old, and I haven't achieved anything yet. I started my addiction since I was 11 years old. It is very hard to quit because I also have anxiety and depression and the only thing that made me feel better was porn. I was always a lonely person, too, never had many friends, always locked myself in my room during family reunions, and my self-confidence was bad, always had low energy and was lost interest in everything. After watching this video, I want to start over again to believe in myself again. I will start quitting all the addictions I have TODAY. Today is the time to change, not on New Year. Please believe in yourself, and if you really want to change, start TODAY. I wish you all the best of luck and stay strong because I know you can do anything you want if you believe in yourself. 12/26/2024
Proud of ya dawg🤙🏾🤙🏾. No genie to matchmaking and girls, just the sway of a real one with wise words. Build your self up to a healthy point🏋️, in which the females you desire automatically grace you with their presence. Put that work in, stay true to you & stand on business. That’s it that’s all brother!!💪🏾💪🏾✊🏾🤙🏾💯
Quitting from Dec 21, 2024 like this comment to remind me
Edit: Still holding my record 💪
I'm also mate
@@Saiyed-i1ume too brothers🙏
Put it away buddy
I shall join the cause
Gotchu brother, take my heart as a constant reminder ❤️
Day 1 of quitting. It has been a 9 year struggle. Like this comment so I always get reminders!
You got this🙏
69 likes is the definition of irony
I'm right there with you buddy. Found it at 11 and I'm now 20. Its time to right our wrongs and make up for lost time.
Im with you brotha strating now
hahahahaha
You got massive balls for speaking so openly about this in front of so many people. You're a huge inspiration to me and I can't wait to reach the point you have, much love brother.
Fr
Unfortunately, this commenter is lying. They never even had an addiction to this stuff. They even asked for likes to “remind them” when as you all should know; UA-cam in fact does NOT notify the commenter for each like their comment gets after the first like.
@@bloxstarlukenobody cares about your "research"
@Meme-Producing-Panda Brooo that’s sooo mean you totally made me mad (not)
@Meme-Producing-Panda No reaction to your comment. 🗿
Hey Jak, Hunter here. You deserve this money. You're ma aussie brother. Your always there to remind me. I've always been lazy and never pull through. To help me END this horrible addiction. I wanna give this money as a thank you for all you hard work. But also a PROMISE and an INVESTMENT for MY mental health. Its gonna give me that extra motivation to END my addiction to the hub. Thanks again Jak, keep doing what you're doing and keep changing lives 🤜🏽🤛🏼.
Hello! My name is Kyler, and I am 13yo, and you have really helped me. I have had very low confidence due to my skin, and also have been very addicted to corn. You have helped me in quitting and also helping me find a purpose in life. Thank you, Jak.
Same
hi brother, im 14yo. I believe in you. We have to not EVER do it again.
Same
same
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I'm 21 years old, I think I've had this bad habit for about 7 years, the money is to thank you for making this video, I find myself with many of the things you said, I can't afford to waste any more time, today January 8, 2025 this bad period of my life ends.
I'll mark the date, in 2 months (March 8) I'll be back to write that I'm out.
Same here! Proud of you for this decision. I go with you! (:
Proud of you guys. Im joining you :D
I quit ages ago and I'm 14 rn I started at 12 ended at 13 and wish u guys luck
same no joke, comment under mine too so I can give you an update
@@Ogagu how is it going. It has been about 5 days till I didn't done that thing and this is the longest time I have ever achieved. Also I am going to a trip and I think it can further help me. Good luck and I will try to give me updates.❤
Beautifully said.
“The pain of regret is going to be so much stronger than the pain of discipline.”
ikr
@@farouk6437 whats this ?
thank you for sharing
Why should there be any regret?
Young men always have and always will do it. It's a part of growing up.
There isn't anything abnormal, about it.
I am 33 years old and virgin. I am looking decent and my clothing is business casual and good. Still no chance. I am a 6,5/10 and still looking too ugly for the women world. Over 700 rejections offline and online more than 1k but only till I was 25. After that no more chances online no likes, no matches, no respones on all social media.
50-60% of this offline rejections laughed at me, insulted me, sabotaged me, looked down on me.
With words or actions.
Doesnt matter if in the supermarket, university, sports gym, library, normal on the street.
But I wasnt moked in general I was popular and everybody thought i had plenty hot women lol
I WAS LIVING A CONTRADICTIONARY IMPOSSIBLE LIFE WITH 2 SIDES
So Porn...never really addicted. Maybe 20 times a year when i was teenager, later in 20s some year zero some year 20. Nothing that matters.
So didnt matter in my case. Still no good enough.
And I am confident. I did a experiment for 3 years before corona and cold approached 300 women each summer and maybe 50 in winter, fall, early fall together.
90% were super nice and complimented me without me asking for it: you are so nice, charming, authentic, good confident personality, you make feel special.
Maybe each year 20-40 numbers? And? Zero. No date, no nothing.
Like from teenager life to now when mostly women were agressive and said in my face without me even knowing them that i am ugly disgusting and what the hell I am doing at this party or go away from this chair you dont need to attend seminar in university.
All that kind of stuff.
STILL REMEBER I WAS NEVER THE LOSER AND POPULAR still living both lifes.
Many women played with me or tried to. Their psychological game.
They fuk around with all kind of bad men and violent men doesnt matter. They do it freely and they even met rapist men several times before dumping them
So what I am saying is who cares about porns or if you watch it or beeing addicted.
Nobody isnt getting women because he watches porn or is addicted lol
Its just a sad world and society: Money, LOOKS, STATUS
Thats it.
And I had zero standards and tried to like women with personality but still even ulgy or old or drunk or old and drunk or ulgy drunk old or or or ALL REJECTED ME LOOKED DOWN ON ME AND LAUGHED AT ME.
30% DIDNT but some also admitted they like me or even have little feelings or interest and THAT I AM 100% THE PERFECT DREAM MEN BUT ONLY AS PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER AND THAT THEY CANT OVERCOME THE FACE LOOKS EVEN WHEN ITS ONLY AVERAGE
So watch it is cheaper and free than a fake women in your life sucking out your money
Quitting this from this moment-midnight, 3:35 o'clock.
I'm writing this to my future self. Hey, I know who you are and how capable you are. Don’t waste your potential and energy, bro. Come on, we can do this. I hope that by the time you’re reading this, you’ve overcome this.
I love you bro ❤ .. Don't kill my hope
You still going strong bro?
❤
Thank you for gifting us your courage and your humility on this weight. I have experienced this addiction starting when I was 12 or 13 years old, and I'm still struggling now that I'm 26. Half my life has been consumed by this lust and I have been fighting for a long time. There were certain moments where I have this complete revulsion, the most absolute disgust in my soul that was telling me to get rid of all of it, it was spiritually painful. Temptations still lead me here today until I watched your video in full, and I rarely sit in one sitting without skipping the video. I just want to say again thank you for this confession. Stay strong.
deepwoken soulbreaker is op ngl
Why do you rarely sit in one sitting without skipping the video?
Bro I feel u thanks
“Your eye is the lamp of your body. When your eye is healthy, your whole body is full of light, but when it is bad, your body is full of darkness.”
_ Luke 11:34
“Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.”
_ 1 Corinthians 6:18-20
nothing is worth your eternal soul, and especially a few seconds of lust.
Stay strong brother
Dude I'm leaving this habit behind at 30th of December and hoping of never coming back to it again and wish to start a healthy life from the new year, thank you bro! ❤
less go day 1
Yes Day 1(30th Dec)
You reading this on 20th March next year like please
Good luck and happy new years ❤
I'm stopping 😊
I’m stopping today!
Thank you for sharing your story man. Thank you for having the balls to share.
Empty balls, but balls.
My first Super Thanks. To remind myself of the price I'll pay if I don't stop now.
much respect from africa i know how it feels we will over come this lets keep fighting we are not alone
Sahi Bhai
Mujje to fab chode hi 4 saal se jyada ho gya us time pta nhi tha ki sharir pr side effect hota hai jab pta chla 15 age me tab hi chodh diya
I cant believe he still not here
1K rupees bro!?!?!?!
I'm a woman here but i just wanna say spaces like these, that men like you help create is so beautiful to see. I do wish to see more men supporting men, in a meaningful safe way emotionally. I notice men tend not to have as much support so im very glad to see this! Much love to all you brothers, i know you guys can get through this! Im praying for you. Thanks Jak for being vulnerable for the sake of others
❤😊❤ Mother Mary Bless you sister for your support and chiming in... That means most to these... was boys... MEN
I'm a woman and a mother, and these comments and what this young man has done by sharing actually brought tears to my eyes. Typically, NO ONE speaks candidly and honestly about going through this and people feel isolated & their addiction grows. It thrives on darkness, on shame & secrecy and self-loathing. Keep sharing and supporting each other! 🙏
As a man as well that has struggled with this but as quit for about a month now, this space is great for men but I think both genders need support from this as well because there are women out there that struggle with this problem as well as there is a percentage of women who do watch this stuff as well but it's an issue that more talked about in a male perspective which I think it should be more talked about in a general perspective for both genders.
@@HolyAura7it affects men more than women, women can let go of it easier and it’s also easier for us to be celibate. But this is a topic that needs to be talked about more I just found out by this video that men struggle with this and it’s affecting their mental health, I pray they break free from this 🙏🏼 consistency breaks habits and patterns you can do it!
That's how Gay's re born
This is my first time giving someone a superchat,i am quitting this addiction today and right now 29/12/2024.Thank you so much man for showing us the right path or rather I say we already knew the right path but you guided us to how to go through it and gave us the courage to take action at the right time.THANKS A LOT BROTHER.
So how many times did u do it today after commenting this.
@@prediatoreditswhat a disgusting thing to say to someone
no, you're not. Don't even think that you can quit it that easily. All of us(men) have been through this a million times("This is the last time!", "I'll start on Monday", "Just this one time", giving promises to God, etc.)
@@prediatoredits i am not doing it anymore tho-
Ok me too lets goo!!! 29/12/2024
I have had a really bad addiction for around 2 years now of doing it once or twice every, single, day. It really started 4 or 5 years ago but it only became a real addiction from about 2 years ago. And I thought it was completely normal because it was the "cool thing" to do in my school. Everytime I felt like watching it I simply did without question.
Only in the past week or two have I realised how horrible it is. And it was largely due to me simply sitting outside at around 3 in the morning, I couldnt get to sleep that night, and I just sat there simply thinking about everything that I had done up to this point.
And I realised that I wasn't who I wanted to be, the me that was sitting there at 3 am wasnt the true me that I wanted to be. And it was almost as if something just clicked in the back of my mind, and I realised then and there that something needed to change.
Ive seen your videos in my recommended for a while now but i never truly sat and watched them and taken what you say to heart. But this video was different, it almost felt like you were an older brother that genuinely wanted the best for me and I actually took it to heart.
This comment is probably really difficult to understand and thats probably because its pretty much just me writing whatever comes to mind. But starting from now I really, truly want to overcome this addiction. Starting from now, December 29, 4:13 Adelaide time. I will get through this to prove to myself that I can overcome this.
Thank you Jak, you have had one of the biggest impacts of my life and I seriously cannot thank you enough.
Many people I'm sure can relate to you brother, I definitely can, 100%. I understood every word you said. You did not need to gift the $10 bro but thank you very much, idk at least use it as a reminder for this video. As I said at the end, it's worth it brother. ❤
Oh dear me. You're a lost cause.
Hear the pain of what you are going through
Hopefully you stay strong and start doing better wishing you the best of luck
@@Zovori dude grow up your a grown man talkin about beating your shit on a video of another grown man talking about beating his shit. Yall saying your addicted is hilarious 🤣 I needed a good laugh
@@Zovori grow up
Man, you're so young but such a fighter. I wish I had a percentage of your will.
I'm 37 (married - beautiful wife, 4 wonderful kids). I had "the problem" from the age of 13 when I first watched it. I had a break from 2017 to 2019 and relapsed again. It's been one of my biggest strugles from that moment.
Today it's my birthday- I was on the good track for several days and today I've fallen again.
I saw you're video and I literally couldn't stop crying (I had strict upbringing- I don't cry when I see the rainbow)
Today is the last time I've done it. I have to do it. For the sake of myself, my marriage and my growing 3 sons and daughter.
Please pray for me- it will be hard. I will lock this video in my mind as a reminder when the urge will happen.
Thank you for everything
God bless
Hey mate , keep going , you got this . I'm fighting too. We'll win for sure
I am 3 days out at age 17 , i wanna this to be the final start . Please like this so i get a reminder !(or comment because likes don't really notifies)
You got this! :)
I'm at day two, me and most of the views on this video are in this with you
@@miloreavis1125 Thanks, I hope you stay strong too!
@@strider_lotr2827 Stay strong Bro💪
@@miloreavis1125 I haven't done that since this video was released. And I will no do that never ever. You can make it too.
This is the first time im using this feature on youtube to show my appreciation, I wish I could give more to show how thank full I'm for this video. it truly relates to my addiction and how I want to break out of these chains, and shows me that it is possible. thank you for sharing this experience, it really helps a lot. "the pain from the regret is bigger than the pain from the discipline" - Jak
Man, you did not need to do that, but thank you very much. Comments like these are the reasons while I am still making content. Thank you, honestly ❤
@@JakPiggottI'm still on process mate, pray for me that i can really really forget from this cursed & disgusting addiction.
W mans
22:38
@@JakPiggott bro I need your help. My mind is not in the right place rn. Please DM me or allow me to DM you. Please
Quitting from December 25, 2024, at 3:12 PM. For anyone reading this on April 20, 2025 (my birthday), please like this comment. I promise to return and thank Jak again! :)
December 25th, quitting as well. Together we are stronger brother. My birthday is on 9th of April, so we will experience it nearly the same.
Im about to quit rn man thx a lot
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quitting too today. december 2024 8:01 pm. i'll be back on my birthday april 8 2025. thanks for the idea bud.
@@mica4349good luck man 🫡🫡🫡
Quitting today too! (Dec 25, 2024)
Bro, congrats for overcoming. I have fought this war and it is not an easy one. Your story is very inspiring!!
Hello Jak I am a 13 yo teenager that had an addiction to corn and this video made me realise the affects of corn and what it does to a human body. This video has helped me in quitting and made me found that their is an bigger purpose to life. I sincerely Thank you, Jak.
please keep up with this broski. Don't forget about it in a week or two and then never
Same bro so glad jak helps me
Bro i have the same thing
Bro ur 13 its normal, being 21 and still watching porn isnt normal
Organic corn is good though
I have so much respect for someone
who brings out so much honesty about themself.
And you are an absolute soldier
to do it and SPEAK YOUR TRUTH
Lots of RESPECT
Your truth doesn’t exist. Only THE truth. Your truth is an opinion.
Hi Jak, My name is John and I just wanted to thank you for making this video because it helped me a lot. You seem like a very nice guy and it's great that you stood out and shared this with UA-cam. Thanks again!
Nečekal bych že potkám čecha co donatenul na tohle video
here before he is!
John, bop your meat all u need to. Don't give up!
Yer
@BS-Asim193 Nečekal bych to stejné že tu nějaký bude :D
Not cringe at all dawg. Thanks man for sharing your story. It hit me man, it really did. I can't wait to share my story someday. One day at a time.
8 Years. I needed this video more than I realized. Thank you Jak. Thank you. Thank you.
Ive sat here for nearly ten minutes, filled to the brim with shame and remorse, crying worse than when my ex and I broke up several months ago. This video has absolutely, completely broken me down. I need this, every. single. word. You have given me hope that this addiction can actually end which means the world to me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Words cannot describe the admiration that I have gained for you for giving me this gift.
Thank you.
Bro , idk why people donate money here .. i mean you can give it to a needy people .. the youtuber got enough money bro
@@OmTomar9615 imagine caring about what another grown man does with his own money.....
@@LooksFrosty idk care where people waste their money , but i am just saying obvious things ..
@@OmTomar9615then go and donate needy people. Why would you leave tips for waiters ether ? They have houses and clothes. They got food and water
@@OmTomar9615someone in the Bible used to say the same thing u just said
Jak you’ve become a great inspiration I’ve struggled with this since I was in the seventh grade I’m currently about to start my second semester in college and while I don’t do it as often anymore I wish to quit this semester I got quite attached to a girl and well it didn’t really work out I made it like 25 days but when she ghosted me I fell back in the loop, today December 28th at 1:30 am I am quitting porn, taking you as an inspiration it’s just a matter of willpower and I’ve made it this far I’ll make it farther because of you bro. Genuinely, thank you man 💪🏼 I mean all I’ve learned from my experiences has to be for something, also this is the first time I’ve used this UA-cam feature my man but you deserve it I genuinely think I’ll make it not just because this video has inspired me because I actually feel understood about this issue for once. Cheers from Mexico my man🔥🇲🇽
Bro How much is ur hieght?
@@nigamsharma108 im 5,11 I think or 1.8 meters tall
Think I’m 5,11 or 1.8 m
We are in the same boat bro. That breakup really fucks up your mind and takes you back to that stupid loop of jerking off.
Lets not indulge in this anymore, lets give it up for good and come out as a stronger and a better individual on the other side!
Today I wanna quit as well. My situations a bit different, I’ve never actually watched any porn, but the deed is my issue. I have an extremely vivid imagination. It started in 22’ and I wanna be done. We’re in this together bro.
Ur amazing and ur super encouraging mate, really takes a lot to do this. To share all that to people cuz im sure this helps lot of people! Glad you overcame yours and i hope millions will be inspired by this. Simply hearing your story made me happy man! Heres a little bit of my appteciation.
Need more likes!!
It’s not cringe at all man. You never know what someone is going through. Anyone can get addicted to just about anything. Thank you for making me and countless others feel like we aren’t alone.
ive never used super chat but I appreciate u very much, I’m Marr! Im a 14yo , And I’ve been addicted to corn for a while maybe 11 months or so and the way you talked about the symptoms and what was happening to you I felt like you were talking about me. it was so alike It was like you were speaking on behalf of the same symptoms I’m having, and this video has not only just made me want to quit but I want to live like my old self again. back maybe 4 years ago my cousin introduced me to it but not until around 2023-2024 did I start really doing it and my light has disappeared more and more, It had already took my confidence I started to feel anxious didn’t want to speak to any girls stayed inside all day , and day by day it got worse and I’m here to say I’m going to quit. ill be watching this video a lot but one day I’ll comeback and let you know that you have helped me restore my life, and if your reading this anyone you can do it too. Prayers to you all and thanks Jak ❤
corn is okay in normal portions.
Okay porn is a problem but facing breakups from childhood like he did could also reduce the value of relationships , why not rather be patient??
I don't even remember how things in my life started, i think I have been with 5 men older than me and two guys of similar age in childhood , of which one guy is still my friend with benifits, however luckily I didn't get trauma, I just wana get true love now .
@@minigiant8998it isn’t
Bro I too felt what you are saying bro
"The pain I feel today is the strength I feel tomorrow." 🗣🗣🗣
me when stopped watching porn:
How do I quit for good
@@Zorojouro00 Best advice I can give you is the will to keep pushing forward, never give up and
What benefited me most
that being Christianity and God
@@Zorojouro00 find something to distract you. thats my personal thing that helps, like reading or playing my favorite video games
✍🔥
Jak, you have given me the confidence and courage to quit my point addiction. You don’t even know how much this video has impacted me and other teenagers like myself! My name is Caleb. I am 13 years old and starting year eight soon your videos have given me the courage to quit this addiction of mine and start my high school years with a bang! From this day onwards the 26th of December 2024 I’m going to quit, as the days go by this video will stick in my mind like porn did for you! Thank you! I know other 13-year-olds like myself will appreciate all the effort you took to make this video and help us quit!
Are you an South-African?
@ yes, why?
The Zar😅
W video. I recently started waking up at 5am consistently so this seems like the next natural step for me to grow. Appreciate it 💪
Thank you so much for sharing your story and helping so many of us struggling with this. All the best to you and yours Jak.
shi this guy is rich
bro investing good good
50 bucks? NICE
With 50 bucks he can buy some OF subs
Brother, you did not need to do that, I appreciate you from the moon and back ❤
He really got his nerve....
This is not cringe at all man. You can't imagine how these stories helps me. Thank you for every single video, reel or some shit! You're just the best Jak. I hope you're gonna earn what you want in life. Thank you Jak!
it very much is cringe.its self riteous bigot thinking they should try to tell people to do stuff and its just dumb. parents are failing their children and letting them watch explicit content, its not ok for them but its also not wrong for adults.
@@TheDarkRK9shut up.
PORN has destroyed so many lives. Male and Female, it does not descriminate. I am proud of you for fighting against it. You are a inspiration to many.
^
What about you, I know you've done it before
@@AkoSuper bro horny asf
it does destroy lives its very toxic and evil
@@AkoSuper u know he did!!! That's y the algorithm gave him this video...a bunch of fing quitters....and the is for f@p
Just watched your video, i think everyone here can relate with you. I have been struggling with porn addiction since i was 12 years old. Now I am 24, living in a different country now. And this addiction is killing my confidence and my inner self. I dont know how to build conversation, I am always thinking about it and cant even live a normal life. This addication is destroying my life, career now. It has started messing everything for me.
I noticed i wasn't doing it when i was spending time outside with friends but as i live alone now it has bring me back on square one. It is back of my mind all the time, i have very low confidence at this moment, very shy to talk with girls or make new friends.
I cannot imagine my future life like this. I want to change.
Its been 4 days i stopped doing it, but the urges are super high. I just dont want to think about it. I got the lost motivation not to do it by watching this video.
I will update my progress here.
I hope this time with strong determination i am able to win over porn and beat my life's biggest addiction.
God help you
Quitting from January 17, 2025.....like this comment to remind me brothers...
Same
how you going brother?
Pray and seek guidance.
Good job
quitting what exactly wierdo?
This authenticity at such a young age age is truly remarkable. So many people are going to be positively influenced because you made this video. We need more people like you speaking their truths about their own addictions
Omg Eliana is that you I remember you from 2020
This whole thing is a prime example of bad parenting. Kids with smartphones and tables full access to the internet?
@@cheesycarrotsoup I mean when 75% or more of children are accidents it's not surprising that they get raised poorly.
@@cheesycarrotsoup That is how the world works now. Parents have to teach their children what is bad content and how to avoid it, put up firewalls against it. I'm a hobbyist video game developer, and I have been using Roblox for a couple years now. It is very remarkable to me how many young teens will work very hard learning how to program using this game Engine, so that they can do well in college and land good IT jobs. Point being, children can and should use computers to thrive in this modern world. cheers
@@pineappleparty1624 it’s wild to me that a parent would give a child full access to the internet. My parents absolutely put up multiple barriers at his age to avoid situations like this. Also Sex ed was taught at young age around 12. I used to let my younger son play Roblox but some creators make some brain rot games, some too explicit for kids. Instead of monitoring 24/7 I just let him play games that I know are appropriate based on reviews and the ESRB. No hate for Roblox some creators make some incredible games so deep they can almost be their own games.
Unknowingly I started doing this at 5-6 years old and through out the years I've realized because of this I've felt a subconscious guilt/shame it felt good but wrong. Since I started so early in my childhood I believe that it made me closed off from people, scared to talk to other kids, it made me real sensitive, and disconnected from other kids and worst of all trapped in my thoughts,, scared thoughts,, thinking I was weird or wrong for doing this and feeling this way. . I would be so strongly lusting after a girl that it would have me stuck thinking about the girls body until I did something about it. I believe it had me closed me off from having good childhood experiences, making friends, and becoming confident earlier in my life.. It's normal to feel attraction to a girl and it's best to talk to the girl and use that energy to do things that will make us confident in ourselves. To the younger kids out there talk to your parents or someone you trust about it. Do not feel bad or sad this is what millions of boys do just remember it is best to speak to girls and make meaningful relationships with friends. Use that energy to work out, read, play, get out of your comfort zone do good things...
WHATTTT 5-6????
Some people get exposed to this stuff rly early, my friend said he started viewing corn in fucking first grade and for me it was fifth grade
@@NonameSama-ko4pg that's fine. In fact, even babies can do that, and some animals, of course xD Just a physiological thing.
@@NonameSama-ko4pg I mean, not sure what you put into your comment, but it makes the people feel bad for what they did in childhood, like they are wrong... but they are completely fine. It's not the sex, it's rather the result of process of learning about yourself
Happy new year bro
Edit: I wish 2025 become your best year.
Quitting January 29 of 2025 like this comment so I can remind my self why I quit it
Let's make it brother 💪🏻
Thank you dude. This is what people should be talking about. The industry is truly so sad, im so glad someone is standing up
your really strong for making this video, i would never share any of this with anyone yet you put yourself out there and help teens, thank you so much for this
you mean wierd right? what is wrong with you wierdos
“The pain I feel today is going to be the strength I feel tomorrow” -Jak
This…..
I heard that quote when I was like 12 years old so don't give me credit for it 😂
@@JakPiggott always appreciate you sharing these story’s your changing lives bro!
Jak?
dope ass quote
Bro your story deserves an Oscar award really it helped me a lot
Thanks ones again with the heart ❤️🔥
This level of honesty is really beautiful and powerful. I am a 40 year old man and I still struggle with this. I take a stimulant for ADHD and it makes it way, way more difficult. I have bi-weekly custody of a 3 year old, and the weeks I have her it's very easy not to. But when she is gone it's such an easy way to escape the difficult realities of my life, I always find myself going back, and I always regret it.
I think it makes me weaker in every way. When you don't really want to do something, but you give in to the urges. You'll be more prone to give in to your weakness everywhere else in life. And I have seen that in myself. It's like a constant battle.
From my experience this is harder for some neurodivergent people. Porn-Masturbation-Orgasm (PMO) is a coping mechanism that can turn into a addiction really easily. Especially with ADHD, you have a lack of dopamine that PMO can provide you.
The worst thing is that is available anywhere anytime, just at the click of a button. Not only that, but even if you don't explicitly search for it, it pops up right in your face on many sites.
Thank you for being so vulnerable. Your video was suggested to me. I’m a 35 year old mother to a 8year old son so not sure why it was suggested haha. But I’m glad I watched this. You’re a brave soul for speaking out.
I was clean for almost half a year. At the end of 2024 I got injured and I would say hit a low I hadn´t really felt the past couple of months. I couldn´t do anything other than laying on the couch and playing video games/watching YT. I struggled hugely for 10 days, then I gave in... I think I did it 7 out of the 9 next days after that. Insane. Now I know why I failed, I feel shittier than before I did it, but maybe this was a lesson. There has to be a positive lesson in this alI, maybe a wake up call... I think I know what to do now. Get closer to God and connect with nature. Get closer to the people I know and get more disciplined than ever. Thanks for sharing this Jak, I´ve been watching your video´s for a long time and you´ve helped me and a lot of others to grow and stay strong. Keep it up man. You´re the nr. 1 youtuber, genuinely.
Yeah, everything changed for me when I discovered Islam. Really helped make me more productive and realize a purpose in life and that I dont know when Im gonna die
Bro I was playing your character
NOW I WILL BE A MAN WHO CAN CONTROL THIS LUSTFUL URGES.
THANK YOU ❤
This video showed me I’m not alone in this struggle and that it is possible to quit. Thank you jak
@@AnonymousUA-camr_1what, really?
Why woude police knock on your door
@BowMacro he started to watch child corn witch is wild asf nobudy relate to that besides diddy
@@ryanthomas3982 ye but why thr police show up
@BowMacro Because its CP and illegal,.
As a 17 yo girl, who is struggling with that same pain of discipline, you're like a piece of gold I found on thousands of grains of sand, thank you for making this video cause my motivation on getting better was very very low. Praying for you brother.
I had so much potential when i was a child , every girl in my class was attracted to me and i was very athletic but after the day i started doing it , my energy got lower and lower. I am doing it for like 8-9 years and never felt more low than now. I have lost all my focus , i dont have energy anymore , i am not athletic , i am skinny , i just want to get out of it. Your video gave me a hope , Thanks. I will never so it again , i promise.❤
Bro We all are With You Just Quit It💪🏻🗿
how old r u bro?
19@@BlackTraders-g6s
Yo bro that's rupiyah
you can do it
Jak, you saying its worth it at the end I will remember. Every time I get an urge I will remember your face. Thank you
I was a bit skeptical about the title, but this actually really helped. Thank you so much. Now I have to subscribe ❤
Hey Jak, I’m 14 and I seen this on my recommend page and it hit me that I can stop if I want to. I'm so thankful for you putting this out.
Quit p*rn
Go to church (catholic ideally)
Graduate high school
Go to college perhaps
Meet a girl and date
Get married
Have babies
Love God
Porn industry is evil its demonic.
It puts images in a person's mind of what someone should look or be like. Truth is women's bodys change after giving birth.
Not everyone looks skinny n fake hot. Its demoralizing to real women so when you actually grow up to become an adult.
You will start to turn to watching the films more if you let these demons attach itself too you like that. Break the cycle now dont ever look back. Your only 14 still a child.
Enjoy being a child while you still can.
Yea dude stop while u can ur doing ur future self a life saver
That's awesome you had the courage to share this story knowing your family might watch this, but would end up helping millions of others who watches this. They can learn from your experience and know they are not the only ones especially the young children who are going through this.
At such a young age it's great to see your raw honesty. Your vid is definitely not cringe. I work in addictions as a Drug and Alcohol Counsellor and porn is DEFINITELY an addiction. Withdrawals are real with porn and it corrupts people's ideas of what intimacy and relationships look like. Im 40 years old and have had my own battles with porn. Will be praying for you mate and the many others who go through these struggles 🙏🏾✝️♥️
42 years old. This cut deep. It is worth it. Incredible bravery and courage for this young man to make this video and share it with the world. All the props.
Noooo, continue to fap plz?
At your age, you should know it is perfectly normal for young men to do it.
There is nothing shameful about it and there should be no regret.
I suppose one could bring a religious matter in to it, but, why would they be so concerned about this and ignore that?
aight unc
Most of what he is saying is bullshit, masterbating and ejaculation are not bad for you and does not cause physical problems. There is zero evidence to say any of the semen retention stuff is true. Porn is bad for your social skills and can be addictive...but the act of masterbating is not bad for you.
37 here, same exact thoughts! amazing message, honestly somethign that needed to be said
This is one of the most genuine and relatable nofap videos ive seen. Thank you man for posting this . Hope this helps me and everyone else whos struggling. Quitting today 30th December 2024. Will come back next week and every week thereafter to see that ive kept my word. Hope i get to follow through. We can overcome this guys!
Good luck bro stay strong
It is not "nofap",
it is "nop*rn"
@@_modnar_ So fapping is okay ?
Thank you for being a creator who people can be comfortable around. You’re not just someone who talks for clout, but you help me. Thanks for staying real!
I’m so proud of
you and just so grateful for
you for posting this I didn’t even really watch it all but thank you so much. This is the right message!
Kindly finish watching
Is that video really useful for female also?😂
Thanks man for this Video! This gave me all the Motivation I needed. Starting from today on (27th december)!
it feels weird to see a 10 euro comment with NO likes
It gave me same motivation. I'm also quitting this with u and trust me the way jak told his story I got emotional as it was same for me. Quitting this with u on 27 dec..
Motivation never lasts long enough to help you overcome your addiction. It took me ages to realize that despite being told 24/7 about it. Discipline and exactly knowing the value of what you're trying to achieve is what takes you further away! Keep pushing
Dear Jak...
This video was absolutely amazing. I am 14 years old and I am in those stages you were in. Exactly those stages. I didn't know how to express myself at all. After I watched this video I realized why. This answers all my questions about "why do i feel bland" "i don't feel like myself. why?" And many more questions I ask myself. After you said that you felt like a 10 year old happy child again, I decided to try my best to quit. Lately I've been feeling so down, wishing that there was a way back, where I was a little kid again, and I knew it defenitely had something to do with what I'm doing, but my brain just ignored it. I want to personally thank you, even though I can't, that you made this video. I understood every single word of it. I've gone through exactly the same and every time after I did it I thought "ew, why? it's so gross." And I realise that even more now. Thank you.
Im a 15yo female and i have been off m*****ing since new years. Ive been doing it since i was around 12/13 and right now I feel like shit and i have no friends. When u said you felt like a kid again I genuinely started weeping because thats all i want, my happiness back. I really hope i dont fail, and i am going to try to wait for marriage for anything sexual. Thank you jak i hope u see this so u never stop what ur doing
Edit: thank you for all the encouragement, 1 month through, has been going good so far! I am not Christian but i have been trying connecting with god to see if any changes occur. All the best :)))
Stay strong sister we're rooting for you 🙏🏽
This is battle where you fight with yourself and it's doubtful that anyone can win it for you instead of you. Things that can distract you from falling into gap are your hobbies or other things that give you good emotions, emotional drive. May be you want to practise martial arts or wushu or climbing high rocks? If our mind and your psyche requires impressions and moving - listen to yourself, what can give you those? Hope it can help you to hold on.
Good luck
change doesn't happen in one day. if one day you start masturbating again, i want you to remember that you can change and that what you just did is just a mistake that you should not take again. you are a good person, i am sure you have great things to accomplish, don't give up.
I'm 17 and had a similar experience to you, please please read *Easypeasy way to Quit Porn* . Its 130 pages and you can finish it very Quickly (its also available online) but trust me It will change your life. Nothing else like willpower method, Cutting down worked for me and this was completely different. The book is completely different and opposes the conventional ways of stopping. The book makes you see no value in porn and makes stopping literally enjoyable I promise I'm not exaggerating, I have experienced it myself. Read it, the worst that could happen is that you remain the same as before but on the opposite you will escape the slavery of porn. Wish u the best, you ca def do it.
I commend you for speaking so openly about porn addiction. For 12 years I was addicted to porn, completely ruined my teenage life, there are days that I will think about of the time when I was a teenager, always beating my jock to soothe my sadness and loneliness away, it made me socially anxious, never got the confidence to talked to girls and up until now I don't have a girlfriend yet. Things have improved for the last year, but the withdrawal symptoms is hard to resist that I always relapse. As I turned 23 at the start of the year, I still do it, but I plan to end my corn addiction this 2025. I have just relapsed 3 days ago, and something happened today that made me decided to end my addiction, I do hope I continue the streak for the rest of the year.
Wish me luck.
thanks for the wake up call BRO
been struggling a lot :|
such bravery you got posting your own story
We will support each other. We are all in the same boat trying not to sink. Jak is a lifeboat.
Jack, please never stop uploading these kind of vids bro! You are just earning so much love from everyone. Thanks!!
18:01 “not going back to day zero, because the pain of regret is stronger than the pain of discipline”.
Dude, what you said right here has stuck with me. Thanks man.
Yeah man
but that is not quote that he invented.
but the regret is stemmed from bigotry. its from a hateful ideology that shouldnt have existed
@@TheDarkRK9 I guess you have a point
@@jovana-che i do agree its wrong for children to have access to it, but there is nothing wrong with adults having it
Hey, man. This such a blunt and and audacious video is a great service to humanity. You know what there are millions who are suffering from this shit. Blessings for you❤
I struggled with drinking for several years and I managed to quit August 2022. About 4 months ago my wife and I took a trip to Tampa FL and we were taking a sunset boat ride in the bay and they were serving complimentary champagne for the sunset. I had it in my hand and I wouldn't allow myself to take a drink. I smelled it, looked at it, imagined what it would taste like and thankfully decided it wasn't worth it. I say this because of what you were talking about around 18:00 and how it was right there in front of you, being so familiar and unable to go through with it because of the regret. Addiction can be overwhelmingly powerful. I'm a bit older than you, but I've had discipline issues my entire life just giving in to whatever urge/emotion that pops up. I am inspired and refreshed by your story! I hope this video reaches 100 million more people and reminds them of what they are or could be fighting for!
I quit 2018 so I guess its been 6yrs now wow i almost forgot ... I had many reasons to quit, I wasn't an alcoholic or anything but I made bad decisions that always had to do w alcohol and bad outcomes because of it... So I decided to quit one day and I never had a single sip since then... Many people would ask specially my friends why I stop drinking and at first they wouldn't understand but once I told them they saw my perspective to be a better person and the outcomes had made me realize I wanted to be a better person, to take care of myself more... It's never too late to better yourself, it's unfortunate that it comes with a price but I guess we learn from our mistakes one day❤
Smart man, stay strong.
You are the only good influence on young man,I'm from South Africa 🇿🇦and I'm always watching your videos and for some reason I keep coming back for more because you help young man build themselves,I personally appreciate what you do👏
Feel you man
@LikhakaBambo he's saving lives for real 🤞
🇿🇦💪
Thank you my brother, there's plenty of other guys way more experienced than me who have a much bigger and better influence tho ❤
Oh my heart… I’m so proud of you- This generation NEEDS your powerful vulnerable voice! Thank You, God Bless!
You described it vary well. I'm a girl, and I get it. Although for girls it's more popular to find the content in books. I've witnessed a friend live completely in a different reality because of her addiction, and it helped me see that I made the right decision to get rid of mine. Keep chasing the reel definition of love, it's what gave me the strength to leave that sick world. You were made to love and be loved, and that is not love. You should feel a profound peace and overwhelming joy in truth of love. I can't say enough, addiction is destruction of self, and I was made for more. You were made for more.
I’m not a bro. I’m just as addicted as most guys out there. 1/19/25 I am quitting. Please, please remind me cause I’ve tried before to quit and it’s so hard. Much courage to all of you out there.
Keep going, God's on your side 🙏
@@rickysweet1399 4 day and is hard just a moment of weakness and we are done so hang on bro if you have lust just think a about your male dog doing it with your leg do you want to be like that🐶🐶🐶 remember we not the same as dog
Do you know why it's so difficult? Because it's NATURAL. You can't be addicted to something that's biological. If you don't touch yourself as a man, you're going to get prostate cancer.
U got this
God may lead all of us to the right path ❤️
I am a 55 yr old woman who just randomly came across your video. I’ve seen one of your other videos before and thought that you were a really upstanding young man! And after watching THIS video, I think that you are much much more than that! You sir are a hero in my eyes. Your honesty and realism is very commendable!! Thank you for posting such an honest and much needed message. I am absolutely sure that there are numerous amounts of people,(not just guys) that truly need to hear your message. Thank you again for sharing your experience with the world. It is definitely not talked about enough and it should be talked about even more. You are a brave young man. I will continue to watch your videos even if they are meant for Bro’s! LOL! You’re adorable Jak. Oh to be 30 yrs younger! 😂😂😂 God bless you Jak. ❤❤❤
3 million views in just 5 days shows how every one of us, boys or girls, is desperate to fight through it all and win against it. Thank you, brother, and much love from Morocco!
I don’t do shit like that I just watch this for reasons not to…y know
Bro got 1 million views in 9 hours
it is 4 million now in the end of the 5th day
A nodo alkaffata🤣
nahh im here just for curious. and i bet there is alot of ppl who came just as curious mind
Bruv holy smokes.
I didn’t know how much I needed this until now. It’s one thing to be off drugs and alc or whatever and I am and that’s a the same shit I wanna do with this kind of stuff because I feel it’s been damaging. And my whole life it’s been like what Kylo-Ren said “I know what I need to do, just don’t know if I have the strength to do it.”
This video makes me see clearly now. This video has given me the strength that I’ve always had and you reminded me big time.
Thank you. Fucking thank you. I was fighting tears at the end of how happy and proud u were. Thank you bro.
bro no joke this is what i needed. I almost teared up at the end. I will take you as an example to get it done. Thank you man
You've got this
Man I needed this, it takes a lot of guts to post this online and admit it. I have mad respect for you my good sir. As of today december 25, 2024 I am quitting this destroying habit for good. Because of this habit I made so many mistakes that led me to self destroy my first relationship and hurt my girlfriend at the time. I have been wanting to quit this for so long since I have been watching since I was 10, I am now 23. I needed this and thank you so much man, I am done with this for sure. God bless yall.
I will pray for you my brother. God bless you and your journey on quitting. Ask God for forgiveness, and if you truly believe he has the power to help you, it shall be done. Philippians 4:13. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
@@Talan_Garver Amen brother
Daniel i relate. I want out of this habit too. Its been a source of my destruction. It's hurt me in every area of my life. I need major help.
@@akgstone We are in this together brother, whenever you feel the urge just remember this video and cime back to the comments
Hi! My name is Zeke. I'm a 14yo, and I'm glad I came across your video. I have been reading books related to corn. Lately, I've started watching corn. I really regret that. You have helped me quit and also helped me find purpose in life instead of ruining my life. Life is short and I want to be the best person I can be to everyone around me. Your advice is very inspirational to me and many young people. Thank you Jak. Finding people like you is very rare and I want you to know that you are truly a one in a million wholesome person who stands out from the rest.
Hi do you know a girl named Sophie not being creepy
This is so empowering..❤❤ Loneliness is at the core of this addiction. More men need to come out and speak openly on it. More power to you! ❤
Woman here, quitting from Dec 28, 2024, at 5:06pm. Jack hope you know you're not only helping men, but also the (maybe few) women who also struggle with this. I've tried to quit multiple times, but at this point everytime i fail it makes more determined to try harder next time. I want to feel alive again, i want my bright personality and confidence back, and i think i can do it. 2025 is my year! I just know it.
Thank you so much for sharing this vulnerable part of you with us, i was about to cry multiple times watching it, feeling really undestood and knowing this wasn't something just in my mind. Really, thank you, feel happy and proud of yourself
I love you deeply brothers and sisters, you all are very brave and strong, i know we can do it!!! 💞🎉
Hope you will never
the missing ingredient is making children sex is meant to create families. this is where shame comes from. committing the act without the connection that comes with it. i have 4 kids. with the right perspective its the best thing that can happen to a human. that drive is the force that allows you to create .if the drive wasnt strong everyone would opt out. i sure would have.
@Garandmasthumb yup agreed, but ofc having kids is up to each person to decide, tho i do agree it can be one of the most rewarding things a human can do
I’m doing it with you girl❤️ I’m starting dec 28 11:32 pm
You got this friend !!!!❤
Genuinely saving lives with this stuff man. Its crazy how good the timing was for this video to present itself to me. Keep up what you are doing. You are making a difference in a world so full of negativity. This is what real UA-cam should be.
Jak, you are the opposite of cringe, I can absolutely relate and understand what you were going through, you’ve helped me a lot, I used to be exactly like you. If you need a friend, I’ll be there, I owe you one. ❤
Quit GD too. I regret being a good player.
@ I mean, I’m just playing for fun ngl, could you explain why you “regret being a good player”?
☠️☠️
@@ScarlommGD late reply. But thing is. I would have become a chess master with all the time I spent on GD, thats that short explanation.
Proud of you my man it takes gut to say and admit , you’re not only in top 1 percent but 0.00001% because it takes real balls to admit it ❤
Thank you❤I’m never going back starting today. When you talked about the pain of discipline was better than regret that really inspired me to be a better me. It not only helped with my addiction but with my problems with lazyness
Good job, man! Bless you! I'll be 71 in February, and I'm two years free. Thank you for sharing your story.
That’s awesome man you’re a legend
This addiction is ruining me, i have been trying to quit for a year and i still can't do it. I am writing this on an alt account so no one i know sees this. Please like this comment to remind me
It’s normal part of life. Once you reach 30 you’ll slowly stop it because of testosterone production
@@nickmendezb2 That's false, it's a hard battle and doesn't stop with age. He should try to fight as soon as possible or he could even bring that addiction in his own family.
@@nickmendezb2 It's false, it's not normal and definitely doesn't stop with age. He should fight it as soon as possible
@@nickmendezb2 It's not true, just read the comments and you'll realise.
Yes you can.
Mad respect for ya mate . Blokes like you make this world a better place . I'm fighting a battle too and well im beginning the journey now . The journey to breaking chains and being reborn . It's gonna be tough but i know ive got this. Thank you for your honesty
Just cause porn has been normalised doesn't make it right so stay strong y'all and remember to reach out when you're suffering
Edit: lemme rephrase since people sound like they wanna kill me 😓. Yeah porn has been around forever if you wanna watch it go ahead everyone is entitled to their own views
I wish the same to you too, mate
porn is such a big problem and so many people suffer from porn addiction, It's a joke that society does not want stop it.
@KingOfGlory383 Agree it literally ruin my life
The tiny hats have normalized it
100% bro. 100%
It’s very brave to share such personal experiences. Thanks for the video
Jack, I'm probably the millionth person to say this, but your content is saving lives. Genuinely. Saving young men's lives. And dont worry about what you're saying to be 'cringe' because we don't find it cringe at all. Thank you for having the guts to share such an embarrassing memory. It gives us teens hope. When I sit here in bed and ask God for advice, a few seconds later, I get this notification on my phone that you posted a video, so I watched it. Your content is like a guide to a better myself. You help us improve by sharing your story. Sorry if I sound like an npc or whatever, but we love you, Jack. We pray that whatever comes your way is able to be handled by you. Sorry for the paragraph, lol.
EDIT: Thank you for the love in the replies, and sorry, yes, his name is spelled Jak, and yes, he saves women's lives too. Sorry
Exactly❤❤
The people who find this cringe don't have to watch is what i think
yah brother u are totally right he is the legend of this era
He’s saving SOME lives
Jack??? Jak
This really takes courage to open up. More power to you brother. Keep doing what you are doing. You are literally changing lives. Always love watching your videos.
bro i felt like u really talking to me through my monitor screen.. fr man thanks for telling ur story it made me realize that there's a lot of people around the world that going through the same pain and suffer like me.. and it's gave me powers to be a better person.. thank u bro, stay safe and keep spreading that spirits👊
bro thank you for changing my life, may God bless you
Worst thing i did was hitting my male rottweiler when i was 16 when i was done his face was all white i never tought i had that much in me ashamed yes alot...
Finding out that doing something while watching is actually worse than just watching ..
God blessed you with the addiction. He knew you were weak
Revealing this to public takes a lot of courage and it's really nice to hear someone talking about a problem that nearly every men has encountered but didn't know how to approach it. Getting out of the cycle from the very first few weeks would always be the hardest.
proud of you bro
This might have been the most inspirational video I ever watched , like I was so concentrated when watching , big respect Jak!
This reminds me of an old interview with Ted Bundy. He openly and honestly discussed how corn affected his mental state and how he had to start using harsher and harsher material to get where he needed to go. He said it wasn't what made him the monster he was, but it certainly helped clear the path. This is a great video and the longer you live with this addiction, the further it takes you from intimacy and ultimately humanity.
As a person who has gone through p0rn addiction and who has seen all sorts of filthy, disgusting, disturbing stuff online I would like to give you a perspective on what I feel. Being addicted to p0rn will not turn a normal guy into a psychopath no matter how much he is addicted. I remember when I started watching a lots of p0rn I started discovering various categories and stumbled on some disturbing stuff on deep web and never tried to look for it again because it was disturbing and it doesn't turns me on but the fact that these things happen on deep web horrified me. I never tried to go on deep web again to look for it. I didn't liked to think about that stuff because it just turns me off and I was fapping like 6-7 times in a day for few days. I used Instagram a lot apart from few p0rn sites. So, I think that being hypersexual is not going to turn an average guy into a psychopath.
Hello Jak, I want to tell you thank you for making this video. It's not only about adult addiction, but because you showed me that if I start believing in myself, I could go far in life. I'm currently 23 years old, and I haven't achieved anything yet. I started my addiction since I was 11 years old. It is very hard to quit because I also have anxiety and depression and the only thing that made me feel better was porn. I was always a lonely person, too, never had many friends, always locked myself in my room during family reunions, and my self-confidence was bad, always had low energy and was lost interest in everything. After watching this video, I want to start over again to believe in myself again. I will start quitting all the addictions I have TODAY. Today is the time to change, not on New Year. Please believe in yourself, and if you really want to change, start TODAY. I wish you all the best of luck and stay strong because I know you can do anything you want if you believe in yourself. 12/26/2024
I want to be online friends with you if you’d like it too
Watching porn movies are fine, Do not listen this guy!
Jack off
I hope you achieve you’re goals❤
Jesus only can give you the power needed to break free from lust mate
Proud of ya dawg🤙🏾🤙🏾. No genie to matchmaking and girls, just the sway of a real one with wise words. Build your self up to a healthy point🏋️, in which the females you desire automatically grace you with their presence. Put that work in, stay true to you & stand on business. That’s it that’s all brother!!💪🏾💪🏾✊🏾🤙🏾💯