45 signs they are NOT for you & you need to leave!!!

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 137

  • @dearxdiary
    @dearxdiary 22 дні тому +294

    One thing I've realised is your body will automatically reject anyone who's not meant for you so if your heart starts racing or you feel drained around them then they are not meant for you.

    • @lucaspranav
      @lucaspranav 22 дні тому +30

      i was dating someone a couple months ago, and i remember i would feel so anxious around him. there were nights where i would just cry and i had no reason to be crying because he didnt do anything wrong. turns out he wasn't over his ex and i broke up with him

    • @jesusrules9925
      @jesusrules9925 22 дні тому

      Yes you are both correct.

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 22 дні тому +6

      I get super chubby when someone emotionally abuses me,
      And basically skin and bones when I’m scared!
      Guess what my parents are like?

    • @dearxdiary
      @dearxdiary 22 дні тому

      Yeah if you get abused you gain weight because your body tries to protect you

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 22 дні тому

      @@dearxdiaryit tried its best!

  • @simonesquared
    @simonesquared 22 дні тому +221

    if he is watching this can u click off

  • @ldrgod
    @ldrgod 22 дні тому +60

    THE TIMING OMG

  • @duanriamei2794
    @duanriamei2794 22 дні тому +58

    Exactly what I needed😔… I recently broke up with my boyfriend who never prioritised me and never felt soo sad ever before but deep down , I realised that I am saved.

  • @anchan_dulal
    @anchan_dulal 21 день тому +35

    now make a video titled 'signs they are for you and you need to stay together for life'. ❤

  • @shamiram1111
    @shamiram1111 21 день тому +17

    another way your body will show someone isn’t for you is when you lose your glow or you even become uglier 😬. i’ve been through this, you can even tell in photos but i love your videos, straight to the point. ❤️

  • @sandydotsea
    @sandydotsea 22 дні тому +23

    a lot of these signs can be applicable to relationships that aren't romantic too. this video was so validating damn

  • @irishlivs
    @irishlivs 22 дні тому +16

    The way you are always at the right timing. Posting this on Saturn Retrograde is SO REAL of you! You are our angel 🤭

  • @itshazzybee
    @itshazzybee 21 день тому +16

    When the break up feels more right than the relationship....yeah bbg its done for GOOD!!!!

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93 22 дні тому +9

    Here’s my personal checklist that I won’t ignore from today 6pm ❤.
    -they say misogynistic things, even in jest, or apologize violence against women in ANY way, shape or form.
    -comment ur body, ONLY ur body, girl ur a person
    -one mistake? Ur worthless
    And if ur friends and family hate them,
    At least ask them why.
    I love u

  • @shimiiisan
    @shimiiisan 22 дні тому +3

    The timing is crazy omg thankyouuuuuuu 😭

  • @pro.crammer
    @pro.crammer 22 дні тому +5

    omgg queen is back! ♡♡♡

  • @Asistha2
    @Asistha2 22 дні тому +13

    i cannot even concentrate simone is gorgeous

  • @Jessica-kn5re
    @Jessica-kn5re 21 день тому

    Simone,your timing istg. Sending all the love in this world.❤️

  • @vladilenanouzen
    @vladilenanouzen 22 дні тому

    Amazingly, Queen Simone, you have posted again been waiting! I adore your voice sm. whenever you speak or say something, it seems as though your words and advice immediately come to mind, whether I'm alone or in public ❤🎉 I LOVE YOU! You're my forever queen, sister, and greatest girl friend online here! Stay healthy!

  • @urfavgiselle
    @urfavgiselle 22 дні тому +1

    this is exactly what we all need to hear periodt 😙🤚🏻 thank you papi you’re amazing 😝‼️🫶🏻

  • @Audrey-ot2pc
    @Audrey-ot2pc 22 дні тому +5

    i love your relationship/friendship videos PLEASE do more💖💖💖

  • @ervinsmoviecorner8748
    @ervinsmoviecorner8748 22 дні тому

    Stunning job, Simone!❤

  • @samco63
    @samco63 19 днів тому +1

    Ahhh literally every single one is my relationship now. I’m 37 and still need to listen to this. He’s so unsafe for me, but I keep trying. I needed this. So thank you!

    • @indigo_diary
      @indigo_diary 18 днів тому +1

      I hope you find the courage and strength to leave him soon ❤

  • @Wthrev
    @Wthrev 22 дні тому

    JUST IN TIMEEEEEE❤❤❤ ILY

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 22 дні тому

    Enjoying this! ❤❤

  • @BrookeFranklin-bz4my
    @BrookeFranklin-bz4my 10 днів тому

    This was a great video!

  • @ud29
    @ud29 22 дні тому +2

    omg so EARLY!! love you simone

  • @Boobooboba2506
    @Boobooboba2506 21 день тому

    Dude seriously I was thinking if he is not for me and this shows up love you babe❤

  • @_taenosaur
    @_taenosaur 22 дні тому +5

    I think i realised he was not for me 1 year into the relationship because everytime something minor or major went wrong in my life i would immediately think oh its because of this relationship and then i would question why did i think that and blame it on me, eventually a year later i broke up with him cuz my gut kept giving me too strong signs

  • @shunpofx
    @shunpofx 21 день тому

    thanks i needed to see this

  • @MangoDiorr
    @MangoDiorr 19 днів тому

    I love you and I just started subscribing🥺

  • @arunimamandal1063
    @arunimamandal1063 22 дні тому +8

    7:51 omg I could never put this feeling into words. BOY BYE he has always been a red flag ew

  • @Nk-ob4id
    @Nk-ob4id 18 днів тому +3

    They knawr they knawr they knawr

  • @lofisky4355
    @lofisky4355 22 дні тому

    Thanks for saving us girl💪😭

  • @tejalsonawane1997
    @tejalsonawane1997 19 днів тому +1

    I am seeing this video as a "validation" for leaving toxic people behind!

  • @asterialumin_2030
    @asterialumin_2030 21 день тому

    Hi ya Simone! Every time you upload, the timing is crazyyy!

  • @martine8455
    @martine8455 21 день тому +1

    OMG TYSM, I was so confused when I felt like I couldnt trust my ex bf. Like I thought everything he told me was a lie and I didn't feel comfortable around him. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED, a confirmation that my choice of leaving was right(even though he was a nice guy and my friends didn't understand but still supported me lol).

  • @sarahlidia4449
    @sarahlidia4449 22 дні тому +1

    I needed this fr :((

  • @nivedita7589
    @nivedita7589 22 дні тому +1

    12:38 really needed to know that thanks!!

  • @kyokohorii
    @kyokohorii 22 дні тому +2

    MOTHER❤

  • @israabenkhelouf8497
    @israabenkhelouf8497 22 дні тому +1

    Good topic

  • @rowan.marie.forsythe
    @rowan.marie.forsythe 22 дні тому

    The timing is insane! how did she know

  • @ludovicaangotti8452
    @ludovicaangotti8452 22 дні тому

    literally everything

  • @honeymayfair-rt9tc
    @honeymayfair-rt9tc 22 дні тому

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍excellent analysis

  • @amahleinathilande
    @amahleinathilande 22 дні тому +2

    how to leave is the question 💔

  • @glowupgirliee
    @glowupgirliee 22 дні тому

    MOTHERS BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

  • @_Tropical_
    @_Tropical_ 9 днів тому +1

    Dear Simmone and other readers!

  • @keii3561
    @keii3561 18 днів тому

    Timing was never more perfect.

  • @dearjiya4496
    @dearjiya4496 22 дні тому +5

    At this point I’m the red flag 🚩

    • @Chila-ty9sy
      @Chila-ty9sy 20 днів тому +1

      Me too, damn I feel sorry

    • @ohmygod4410
      @ohmygod4410 13 днів тому

      Same

    • @Finixia.
      @Finixia. 6 днів тому

      I meet individual points myself, but it's a sign that we are aware of it and we need to do something about it

  • @NotebookMapofLemon
    @NotebookMapofLemon 21 день тому

    Thank you i needed this. 😭😭😭😭😭I was going back and forth abt this guy. Now i know. I M LEAVING HIM 🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡

  • @savageornah7696
    @savageornah7696 18 днів тому

    Everytime I met someone like a date and I get sick a day after really sick o know that god and my body is telling me he is not for you it’s super crazy because I had a feeling or signs but I ignored it I don’t want to seek someone so no dating apps only dustys are on there ! working on me !

  • @bh4rti
    @bh4rti 22 дні тому +1

    NAWHHH I REALLLY NEEDED THIS. I WAS THINKING OF BREAKING UP WITH MY BOYFIE BC OF POOR COMMUNICATION AND DAYUMM UR NEW VID WAS ABT THE SAME FUCKING TOPICCCC

  • @kyokohorii
    @kyokohorii 22 дні тому +21

    okay mother I'm taking this as a sign from God:O

  • @oogaboogass
    @oogaboogass 21 день тому +1

    where was this video six months ago 😢😭😭

  • @adelphipanthers
    @adelphipanthers 17 днів тому

    This describes what my ex girlfriend did to me . She was so narcissistic and self centered . The sex was terrible too. Thank god I broke up with her .

  • @HamzaHabi-z7h
    @HamzaHabi-z7h 21 день тому

    I like them more when I am with them in real ❤

  • @Uhm_huh
    @Uhm_huh 21 день тому +1

    Simone, who do I contact for help for SSS-society?

  • @Unknown_person335
    @Unknown_person335 22 дні тому

    Earlyyy finally 🎉✨💕🌷

  • @aahanaghoshh
    @aahanaghoshh 22 дні тому +3

    this video is sign enough that i should leave

  • @adrilous
    @adrilous 22 дні тому

    Lovee uu💞💞🤍🤍

  • @nalinimaharjan5939
    @nalinimaharjan5939 22 дні тому

    Papa papi❤

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93 22 дні тому +1

    He was so attentive.
    Like literally,
    I felt ugly, I told him so and he said „ur always beautiful“, now suddenly (like a hot minute after confessing to me that he likes me), he ignores me and never has time to phone anymore.
    Today I told him (after he didn’t even mention the call that we wanted to have yesterday or that we didn’t text for a whole day for no reason, AGAIN), that I don’t want to phone anymore and he was actually surprised.
    Know what he said: „y?“
    Not even anything else, or a „why“.
    And now he posts s*xist pics, ok.

    • @leighs1nterlude
      @leighs1nterlude 21 день тому +1

      you dodged a bullet !!

    • @User69362
      @User69362 21 день тому +2

      Girl leave him. Don’t waste your time with immature men

  • @prettylilnerdy6802
    @prettylilnerdy6802 21 день тому

    But from this list I think that leaves no one for me

  • @drinkingmiranda1831
    @drinkingmiranda1831 14 днів тому

    Dear Simone,
    will you kindly make a detailed video on "friendship" how it's supposed to be...how to find out if they really are our friend/ best friend or no.
    Solemnly,
    Best regards
    Hiba Api

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93 22 дні тому

    I waited for a sign today,
    And all he did as reaction to me pulling away was post something about s*x.
    Nothing else.
    And this shows up :/

  • @itschia8518
    @itschia8518 21 день тому +1

    What if a guy is doing therapy and also speaks greatly about it and how important it is, but at the same time I have the feeling that he is a playboy?

  • @banjmy
    @banjmy 16 днів тому

    so…my parents and all my friends are not for me 😔 idk i kinda fake everything when im around them

  • @GargiThakare-y3o
    @GargiThakare-y3o 22 дні тому

    NO WAY U READ MY MIND

  • @TATAKAEEEE_ey
    @TATAKAEEEE_ey 13 днів тому

    There was this guy I was talking to he said he likes me and wanted to date me but I was confused I had a feeling he has a gf but he always declined then 2days ago he blocked me on ig and i found out he has a gf guess what I had this dream back in nov 2023 that he and I was in some sort of confusionship and then I found out he has a gf and this exact thing happenedddd!!! GIRLS ALWAYS BELIEVE YOUR DREAMS AND INTUITION ITS A SUPERPOWER AND ITS A SIGN FROM GOD. thankfully I never trusted him fully..I'm kinda sad tho

  • @angelikap8303
    @angelikap8303 22 дні тому +1

    Earlyyyyy ❤

  • @Dreamcatcher_7372
    @Dreamcatcher_7372 22 дні тому

    Angellll

  • @amar.vivian
    @amar.vivian 20 днів тому

    💯 ❤

  • @ira-9181
    @ira-9181 22 дні тому +1

    are u like psychic (ur videos are always on time)

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 22 дні тому

      Honestly I had a 6pm timeline for breaking it off,
      I told him a month ago I want to be cherished,
      He said I deserve it (but did nothing),
      Then today I said I no longer want to phone, he only asked why and posted s*xist jokes for some reason.
      And then this shows up

  • @irishlivs
    @irishlivs 22 дні тому +1

    I know he is NOT for me because I could literally list SO MANY things. However, possibly seeing him is stopping me from cutting him off on social media (since most likely, we’d be classmates again for law school). 😩

    • @irishlivs
      @irishlivs 22 дні тому

      And the way we’re not even together, just had a sort of situationship very much says how I should leave! (I left but still stalk him at times 😩)

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 22 дні тому

      Doesn’t matter,
      Don’t even acknowledge the b*tch

  • @kyokohorii
    @kyokohorii 22 дні тому +1

    ❤😭

  • @finny_and_autum
    @finny_and_autum 22 дні тому +1

    it feels wrong to be this early

  • @prettylilnerdy6802
    @prettylilnerdy6802 21 день тому

    why didnt you make this video before

  • @Sarpy777
    @Sarpy777 22 дні тому

    45 is crazyyyy 😭

  • @paolasimone6805
    @paolasimone6805 22 дні тому

    Can this be use also in friendship?

  • @zodiacnights712
    @zodiacnights712 19 днів тому

    WHY CANT I FIND ANY OF THESE SIGNS AHHHH

  • @glowing4lex
    @glowing4lex 16 днів тому

    But the real question is.. How and WHERE to find such a good man???

  • @sriyanka4915
    @sriyanka4915 11 днів тому

    Actually some things you said in the video i do it.😢😢

  • @drinkingmiranda1831
    @drinkingmiranda1831 21 день тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Sky-ci9gn
    @Sky-ci9gn 22 дні тому

    can this be applicable to friendships?

  • @prisha4430
    @prisha4430 22 дні тому +2

    Is he bad at communicating or am I just isolated and on my phone 24/7 while he just has a life?

    • @prisha4430
      @prisha4430 22 дні тому

      He interns at this big a$$ company and also is studying at a big a$$ university with the biggest textbooks I’ve ever seen

    • @DaffadilSunshines
      @DaffadilSunshines 20 днів тому

      hey i've thought the same at one point. you feel like the you in you is slowly going away? because maybe you feel more focussed on loving him than yourself? imat the same edge r n different situation

    • @alainasarchive
      @alainasarchive 14 днів тому

      okay i’m going through this right now too 😭 i’m constantly conflicted

  • @ohohpelia2166
    @ohohpelia2166 21 день тому

    Simone i woke up with that pit in my stomach ahhhh

  • @carolinavaldez8450
    @carolinavaldez8450 22 дні тому

    45? Wow 😂 interesting, that’s wayyy too much dear😂

  • @prableenn-
    @prableenn- 20 днів тому

    Me being single but watches anyway

  • @Chila-ty9sy
    @Chila-ty9sy 20 днів тому +1

    Omg, I´am the red flag

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93 22 дні тому +2

    Feel free to ignore, rant.
    -he was so kind and attentive. Six months and counting.
    Then one day I told him my girlfriend asked me to live w her,
    And he exploded on me,
    Told me everything he hates about me,
    And that I deserve the xyz experience I had (many women know what I mean),
    And that I provoked my ex to do it.
    And when he made me cry he acted as if he didn’t notice.
    He was still surprised I stopped talking to him today though.

    • @melisa465
      @melisa465 22 дні тому

      Was he always like this when you guys argue

    • @dIvYaa487
      @dIvYaa487 21 день тому

      Wht xyz experience

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 17 днів тому

      @@dIvYaa487don’t want to speak about it kind of obvious

    • @Seraphina93
      @Seraphina93 17 днів тому

      @@melisa465no
      Usually he said „it’s fine we have two different opinions“.
      I think he felt rejected,
      But he’s been hardly speaking to me since mid May,
      Still saying he appreciates me/ just busy but um
      You’re not a mine worker bestie

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity-- 22 дні тому +1

    Construction work is the same reason as those guys don´t care your "rules".

  • @Lolcoca
    @Lolcoca 22 дні тому

    I do not take The Defense of anyone but if you see that a person is not made for you !
    Focus on your life and your Goals ! Complaining will not help ! Let their blah blah blah 😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @robert661
    @robert661 22 дні тому +1

    first?!

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity-- 22 дні тому

    I don´t believe in therapy, cosh i know more math than you do.
    That construction work was a therapy.
    Got it ?

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity-- 22 дні тому

    Jesus said it: Only the sick needs Therapy.

    • @simonesimmons
      @simonesimmons  22 дні тому +6

      everyone is sick dawg...

    • @--Singularity--
      @--Singularity-- 22 дні тому

      @@simonesimmons Well. Thats true. Manipulated in this simulation.

    • @--Singularity--
      @--Singularity-- 22 дні тому

      @@simonesimmons So. Who you gonna call ?

  • @mariaaaa180
    @mariaaaa180 22 дні тому

    I was just thinking of you and dmnn you posted 🤌🌝

  • @ud29
    @ud29 22 дні тому +1

    i love how the videos don’t seem repetitive and same 🫶🏻