Ripe, when it said that she did not come out for three days, it was meaning after she got released from jail and got home. She stayed inside her house for three days, then on the fourth day, she started moving.
The mother in the second story did the right thing (I’m surprised her friends think the father was even worth including into her daughter’s life)..⭐️💫⭐️💫⭐️💫⭐️
Clearly they're either the type who think that divorce is a mortal sin and that she, as a woman, needed to stay with her man regardless of his trespasses against her or how much he sh@t all over their marriage vows, or they've just got some hardcore internalized misogyny that even a full 30-man squadron of psychiatrists and therapists couldn't fix them. And either way, she's better off without all of them.
There are so many people that cannot get their heads around removing children from a parent may actually be beneficial to their upbringing. My ex was a child abuser, and people couldn’t understand why I removed our daughters from him when he was found to be abusing the 9 year old.
Yep without a custody agreement and established visitation, she was within her rights to do whatever she wanted. I usually dont agree with it but that man had deranged hero syndrome and that kids life would have sucked with that woman as a stepmother and being the second fiddle child.
@@littlegreycati disagree with the idea that he would have been a bad father. My father was quite similar to the one in the story but I have no bad memories with him and he is one of the most important people in my life. Now I’m not saying the mother didn’t have the right to do it but I do think that the father was never given the chance to show his true colors. People change for strange reasons. Personally I think both parties are equally ass hats. If the father ever get joint custody with the mother( note joint not sole) I would not be surprised. Now if the mother successfully proves that the father is unfit I would side with the mother as she was able to prove her side and the father couldn’t.
@@dennislemasters4339 from my understanding the two nations would have to decide which one has jurisdiction over the child and the parents don’t get a say in the matter.
Karen whines about a lawnmower being too loud and would probably also whine about grass being too long. Just don't move into an HOA in the first place. Apparently, the ambulance was still driveable enough with smashed windows? Karen desperately needed some psych treatment along with the prison time. Great stories, Ripe. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
I’ll admit this even though I take these stories with a grain of salt because of them being from Reddit they are still fun to listen to plus they also give you an important life lesson never be part of an HOA
Story 1: the legal process takes about a year. She probably had to sell the house to have money for restitution, court judgments and to not have mortgage payments while in jail. That and probably a restraining order.
@@melkiorwiseman5234 I would agree, the EMT’s wouldn’t be that timid. Police responding wouldn’t leave without the ticketing especially on behave of the EMT’s. They would push the Karen’s car with their cruisers if need be, then have a tow truck take it away.
@@michaeltelson9798 I've been a paramedic before and if someone does start showing violence we are not allowed to take action. Normally if someone were to ever be this stupid (and there are some people this worthless and stupid out there) we would stay inside of the rescue and wait till police arrived on scene. This might have gotten the Karen shot which frankly would have just done the community a favor. It had better hope there was another ambulance crew on call because if it had been shot and I was the one on scene I would not have helped it.
@@raidmax215 I hope it's fake, because what kind of a crazy person do you have to be to vandalize an ambulance?! The racism and discrimination is bad enough. My brother-in-law is half-Filipino. He's an awesome guy, and is even left-handed like me.
Last story even if the pool hadn't crossed the line there is a good chance the neighbor would still have to remove it as generally zoning wants a certain amount of setback to things being built on the property line
Harrassment charges on the Karen should have been easy. His dose crap ok cops can.. And ya she blocks ablmbalance of someone I care about she is being held down tell cops turn up. It's not violence it's self defence from a nut job
OP please I'm begging you don't allow your child to be alone with the father until your child can stand up for herself. My now late husband also had an affair with someone who has mental health issues and he wanted to fight me for custody until I told him I would bring in her medical records because our child is special needs so the courts would look at them. I guess he talked to a lawyer and found out I could do that so dropped that plan. I also would not allow my child to spend over nights until he was older. I could not trust that when things didn't go her way that she would give my child something. So please protect your daughter at all costs
My grandmother had to deal with a psycho neighbor. After numerous calls the police told the neighbor "If you go on her property again she has the right to defend herself and you WILL be arrested for trespass." She told the cop "You can't do that!" The cop told her "Just watch and see" That night my grandmother got up to use the bathroom and heard someone in the bushes under her open window. She opened her purse, took out a can, walked to the window and gassed her bushes with mace. A gasp, coughing, then full on screaming bloody murder. She was still screaming when the cops pulled her out and arrested her. I'd like to say she learned her lesson but she had to get sprayed on 2 other occasions and go to jail.
When trouble like this begins, a no contact order should be sought asap. If it is violated, that adds penalties to further a use as that now includes contempt of court.
First story: Rotten racist town, rotten racist HOA, rotten racist police to not deal immediately with the Karen! She should have been tased and arrested the second they arrived!!!!!
OP in story 2 has a unique situation. Not that her husband had an affair and a child with his mistress, OP was privy to her husband’s thoughts and actions. She wasn’t blind-sided by this news and left to fend for herself. OP had time to formulate an escape plan and was fortunate to be able to put continents between them. In my opinion, OP did the right thing and I wish her and baby the best.
Ok story 2 I don't often advocate for the mother to take a child from the father but this dude is not a father to that child. He doesn't love that child and he is very easily manipulated. He values his side chick over his wife. Any attempt to reach out to OP is just him going through the steps so he doesn't look bad. Take the baby and let him read those comments. I'm sure he will feel good about them 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Fun fact for those who want to bully a emergancy vehicle. Almost all traffic laws are rescinded and are not in effect as long as light are on and or they are acting within the scope of the emergancy that is present for. This means that police or EMS could park in front of a hydrent and as long as lights are on or they are responding to the call that the legal concerns are waved for them. DL;DR Dont mess with emergancy vehicles, they are often exempt from traffic laws when responding. Also a fun fact, Do this in the wrong state you may suddenly need your own EMTs when you get shot by a paniking person who is more conserned about those they love more than someone preventing treatment of said person.
I recently found out that in the country where i live, although emergency vehicles are permitted to go through a red light, they DO NOT have priority, and also, emergency vehicles are not permitted to overtake where there is a solid line in the middle of the road (same as normal road users) most roads where i live are 2 lane roads (1 lane each way), although some roads in towns and cities are 4 lane (2 lanes each way), and there are even some roads with 3 lanes (either 2 lanes in one direction and 1 lane for the other direction, or 1 lane goes one way, 1 lane goes the other way, and the middle lane switches direction depending on the time of day)
Story 2: In this situation I don't consider the mothers actions as kidnapping. Her husband set aside her & their daughter for a nutcase mistress and moved into her house. He abandoned them, plain and simple. She had every right to do what she needed to do to insure the emotional well-being of herself and her daughter. He made it perfectly plain that they would always be in last place in all situations.
Prioritize your kid first your relationships second and don't let your kid grow up in a dysfunctional house cuz that's what it would have been if you stayed
I agree with your sentiment toward kids and elderly alike. They needed another ambulance to pick-up the hysteric BTW Huh... did you just let Disnii use your camera at the end and shoot her own movie?
If they weren't bored and secretly wanting drama, then those policemen would have just nipped things right in the bud with a taser and a wait in the car. That it even required backup just shows they intentionally let it get out of hand for diversion's sake.
Yes that's right we can block the road on an emergency call 24/7 365 days a year oh I sure it cost her plenty because they are not cheap even used ones
Well a simple cure a letter from a lawyer telling her to cease and desist order along with one to the HOA if they don't start to straighten her out they'll be having a boat load of trouble with the law
The father isn't being stopped from seeing or spending time with his child. If he's got issues with the distance involved that sounds like a him problem.
Ambulance Story: If I were in OP's place, the moment Karen approached the Ambulance/EMT's with the baseball bat, I'd have pulled my Paintball Pistol out of it's storage spot, pointed it at Karen and told her to drop the bat and back away...if she refused to drop the bat and/or took a single step closer, I'd open fire while telling the EMT's to call for both Police and a second Ambulance for Karen... The reason Karen would need EMT's of her own if I started shooting is because I had a friend of mine replace my pistols Pressure Regulator with one that's set MUCH higher...the average Paintball Pistol has a muzzle velocity of about 300 feet per second...my pistol however has a muzzle velocity of 1,200 feet per second...I may not get as many shots per gas cartridge as a regular pistol does, but the ones I do get hit one HELL of a lot harder...and I load with steel ball bearings (they HURT far more and clean up is insanely easy, I just roll the area with a magnetic broom and voila - no more steel marbles on the ground), not paintballs...I also tend to aim roughly 3 inches below the belt buckle too... Paintball Pistols don't need a Firearms Carry and Possession Permit either which is good because those are a cast iron BITCH to get in Canada... 😄😁😆😅😂🤣
Based on available information fleeing the country with her child was justified. The less the child knows about or sees that father, the better off it should be.
Story 1. Karen should've gotten a beating from the jump from OP. Then tell her "The beatings will get worse until your attitude improves, ARE WE CLEAR?"
The last story (fence/driveway) sounds fake. Since OP was the main one to handle the dirty work of getting things done, he most definitely would have been part of the process instead of being only a spectator.
Story 1: I would have taken the HOA to court for not dealing with her quite frankly. There were enough red flags and warning signs, and enough complaints that they should have dealt with, but that they refuse to that I think that taking them to court would have been reasonable. Story 2: The father ripped himself out of the life of his daughter. NTA. You don't get to cheat on your partner, and declare in front of them over the phone that the Mistresses' child will always take priority, and still think that you have a chance to be in the other child's life in any significant way. Story 3: You get a land surveyor out there and make sure that the lines of the property are clearly marked. You also check with the city to get copies of the property to show where the lines are on paper. You can also make a police report so there is a paper trail that shows that the neighbour was trying to do something and you wanted to make sure that it was on record before anything happens. If something should happen, you can have a police report number to give the police when you inevitably call them over the neighbours BS.
Suffering and bringing yourself out of it in life is much better than getting everything you want from day 1. Anyone who has dealt with true issues knows exactly what I mean. These karens are the opposite and I hate them all
When I had a very dangerous heat attack my chances of surviving a cardiac arrest was only 10%. That assumes you are in the hospital with a doctor availible to begin treatment at once. If you go into cardiac arrest outside a hospital, your chances of surviving are nearly 0. The ambulance got me to the hospital just 3 minutes before I went into cardiac arrest, so if the ambulance had been delayed even slightly I would be dead. My feeling is, if you delay an ambulance in an emergency, it should be a serious crime, a felony at the least. If the person dies, that person should be charged with murder.
Well that's a federal crime along with the theft of packages. USE of a mailbox by anyone other than the postal service is a violation of federal law. Actually instead of reporting it to the HOA report it to the police for hate crimes... Story 2 not the AHOLE even if India were a signatory to the Hague child rule without visitation or other such rulings not sure it has any force. Beyond if OPs husband were to get such rulings attempting to force them on OP but till then...
#2 story: NTA You saved your daughter from possible violence from your ex husbands mistress. There is no telling what she might do to your daughter. Also, your ex might not protect her either. So good for you in protecting your daughter.❤❤
aside from the police not doing anything until she tried destroying an emergency vehicle, it be so hilarious if op gives the Karen a taste of her own medicine by treating her like the minority that she did to the op.
Most HOAs have unconstitutional things in their declaration that can be used to dissolve them. I have lived under two HOAs and got them both dissolved. The first HOA as part of its declaration said that only people of the caucasian race could live there. There were other things, it was a very old HOA. Easy to go to court and get it dissolved. The fact that it was run by a bunch of racists who actually tried to enforce the racial provision helped. The second one had a whole bunch of provisions in the declaration that had been declared unconstitutional. Of 14 provisions, 10 had been declared unconstitutional. Went to court, another easy win. Am looking at a new house, in an HOA. Has racial restrictions, color restrictions on doors and windows (these are unconstitutional) and many other things that have been declared unconstitutional. If I buy it, the HOA is gonna be toast.
Dear mom: Not the A-hole. So not the A-hole. Let me count the ways you aren't the A-hole. 1. Relationships are built on trust and loyalty. Trust and loyalty are not obligatory, nor freely given, they are built up over time, and mutually maintained. You have no reason to trust and be loyal to him when he so thoroughly breaks your trust and flaunts his disloyalty. 2. Most times I would say it's better for children to know their bioparents if possible, but he's made it clear his baby and mistress are more important to him than your baby. Be honest about who he is and why he isn't in your life if you choose, but that baby is better off with grandparents/step father/a mother, single or otherwise who loves them and puts them first than a sperm donor who will always think about them only when they get around to it. 3. I get why you mention the Hague thing. Some people would think it makes you look guilty, running away somewhere that won't force you to send your baby back to him. But it's your home, as much as we need caring folk like you in the States, if there's nothing keeping you there, you shouldn't feel you need to just because the baby daddy maybe wants to say hi on their day off from the family they think is more important. Your home signing a treaty or not isn't something you personally have control over, don't feel bad that they haven't. 4. Another fine point with the whole Hague thing... This stops American courts from forcing shared custody and thus making it so you must stay in the States somewhere where custody can be shared. In some cases, that's a good thing. I mean, there's definitely cases where legality doesn't match with morality, and in such cases, a place not beholden to laws enforced immorally is actually not bad.
The Mom moving back to India ABSOLUTELY MADE THE RIGHT MOVE. As his other child grows up, and possibly becomes more enfeebled. It wouldn't be too far of a hop, skip, and jump, to take the healthy baby, disappear, and raise the child as their own. As he seemingly wanted Nothing to do with the child that required his time, the fact that he is now blowing up ANY phone possibly connected to the Mom, makes me wonder was this a plan being fomented when she moved?
Story 2; NTA, but the OP needs to call the local court in the US and make an official statement about why. Get it on his record so he can't get help as easily. He could still do extra-legal things like hire someone to steal his child back, but anyone doing even basic research about the case should see that. Or get advice by local detectives that it is not a good job. Or counter any lies he tells such a person. Not to mention, if said child does get sent back, the police could watch for it, and be more willing to help OP.
Not the a-hole doesn't sound like he would have been in her life much to begin with and Wendell always treated her second best much better for her to be raised around loving family
Last story, the neighbor was slowly appropriating the op’s parents property: first it was the pool that was partly on the parents property, then he was expanding his “empire” by trying to put up a fence further in. If he’d gotten away with it by no one complaining, then after a certain number of years (forgotten how many & it varies by state) then he can claim that land as his.
All they wanted was no fence seemed kind of stupid of him to keep going after he seen the survey if he had of stopped he would probably still have the pool
With the one about the racist Karen. A someone who has a record I'm curious about something. If she spent several years in incarceration, how did she have a house to come back to? With HOA dues and property tax, the house should have been seized and sold
So the father says he doesn't care about the kid, literally admitting it and everyone is saying she's keeping her kid from having a caring father? That father is not caring and he literally admitted it. How delusional can people get.
Returning Home to India story: Not only is OP not the AH, but the dad needs to be ostracized for what he did in cheating on his wife with another woman WHILE his wife was pregnant. What a deadbeat!
Horrible father story: There’s an older saying that goes something like this; “Anyone can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a dad” My interpretation of the saying is this; just because some dirtbag can do the deed that’s involved in creating a child doesn’t mean that he is entitled to a relationship with said child; especially when he’s already proven that he can’t be trusted to properly care for the child. I understand that parents naturally have the right to a relationship with their child(ren), but once they’ve made it clear that they’re not willing to BE a parent to the child(ren) and/or have said or done things that put them in actual danger, they forfeit their rights and the parent who is protecting their child(ren) should not be punished for BEING the parent who’s acting on their protective instinct, imho. Obviously there are a lot of things that need to happen legally in many jurisdictions, however the parent who can show that the other parent is not acting in the best interest of the child’s safety and wellbeing should not be punished for removing the child from the other parent’s reach or control. And yeah, the elephant in the room here is that many parents who think they’re protecting their children are actually harming them, which is why I mentioned the legal process necessary in some jurisdictions, but even that can fail to protect the child(ren). Depending upon the social and political environment of the jurisdiction, that interpretation can be wildly different as well. Imho, children should be allowed to be the innocent children that they are and not be pushed into socially or politically acceptable belief systems; especially when these cause irreversible changes to the child’s natural physical body. There’s a reason why you have to be an adult to do things like enter into legally binding agreements and imbibe certain substances in many jurisdictions, so why would any sane adult let their child(ren) make life-altering decisions that they themselves wouldn’t have been allowed to do; especially knowing as an adult of the harm they would have experienced had their childish beliefs been encouraged or acted upon by the adults who were there to protect them? Ok, sorry, rant over 😂
Story two, I once met a man who had his wife move to India with his small child (about 4-5) and had much the same issue with the hague convention thing. It wasnt OP though because this man was also Indian, per his own statement, not my own assumptions. She left and moved in with her family because apparently they never approved of him. That was a handful of years ago, that kids gotta be darn near 10.... I wonder what happened to all of them...
That's what abusers and toxic people do, they make you feel like the a-hole! What is it the younger generation call it? Gaslighting? No you're never the a-hole for leaving an abusive situation
She's not an asshole, that guy was simping for a "mentally fragile" fresh outta rehab junkie. Enough to even play favoritism for one of his kids. Good for her.
Someone should be able to state their opinions no matter what country it is. But violent actions or vandalism is not okay and anyone doing this should be charged. But some words others do not like - too fing bad.
THE HOA IN THE FIRST STORY IS A BAD HOA BUT DUE TO THEIR CRIMES THE OLD HOA WAS REPLACED WITH A BETTER HOA. KAREN DESERVED EVERYTHING SHE GOT FOR HER CRIMES. SHE THAUGHT LAWS DON'T APPLY TO HER BUT IT BACKFIRED HARD. REMEMBER NOT ALL HOAS ARE BAD. DON'T BE A KAREN YOU WON'T WIN.😀😀😀😀
That is the main reason this country/world is going to hell. Young people have placed too much emphasis on material things and have lost all respect for things that used to be prized.
Story #2: NOT the AH in any way. In fact, I would worry that the 22yo would intentionally hurt/kill the baby "because it's 'HERS'". She made it perfectly clear she didn't have any respect or consideration, nor empathy, so I fully expect her to be incapable of empathy and not care any harm she would do.
With the racist Karen vandalizing the ambulance, you forgot to tell the police of the theft of the garden tools and other things. When she was arrested and jailed, the police should have checked her house for stolen booty from the neighbors. That would have kept her in jail for more time. A class action law suit should have been filed against her and the HOA by all the HOA members that had suffered her tyranny and the lackadaisical treatment by the HOA.
Ripe, when it said that she did not come out for three days, it was meaning after she got released from jail and got home. She stayed inside her house for three days, then on the fourth day, she started moving.
The mother in the second story did the right thing (I’m surprised her friends think the father was even worth including into her daughter’s life)..⭐️💫⭐️💫⭐️💫⭐️
Clearly they're either the type who think that divorce is a mortal sin and that she, as a woman, needed to stay with her man regardless of his trespasses against her or how much he sh@t all over their marriage vows, or they've just got some hardcore internalized misogyny that even a full 30-man squadron of psychiatrists and therapists couldn't fix them.
And either way, she's better off without all of them.
There are so many people that cannot get their heads around removing children from a parent may actually be beneficial to their upbringing.
My ex was a child abuser, and people couldn’t understand why I removed our daughters from him when he was found to be abusing the 9 year old.
The mom is not the asshole. She got her child out of a terrible situation before it even started. He made a choice to ruin his marriage
@36ydna he cheated then left then left his kid. Nothing else needed she's not the asshole
Yep without a custody agreement and established visitation, she was within her rights to do whatever she wanted. I usually dont agree with it but that man had deranged hero syndrome and that kids life would have sucked with that woman as a stepmother and being the second fiddle child.
@@littlegreycati disagree with the idea that he would have been a bad father. My father was quite similar to the one in the story but I have no bad memories with him and he is one of the most important people in my life. Now I’m not saying the mother didn’t have the right to do it but I do think that the father was never given the chance to show his true colors. People change for strange reasons. Personally I think both parties are equally ass hats. If the father ever get joint custody with the mother( note joint not sole) I would not be surprised. Now if the mother successfully proves that the father is unfit I would side with the mother as she was able to prove her side and the father couldn’t.
@@jacksonglass3447 one problem with that father is in the us and the mother is in india so there is no doubt a big difference in laws
@@dennislemasters4339 from my understanding the two nations would have to decide which one has jurisdiction over the child and the parents don’t get a say in the matter.
Karen whines about a lawnmower being too loud and would probably also whine about grass being too long. Just don't move into an HOA in the first place. Apparently, the ambulance was still driveable enough with smashed windows? Karen desperately needed some psych treatment along with the prison time. Great stories, Ripe.
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I’ll admit this even though I take these stories with a grain of salt because of them being from Reddit they are still fun to listen to plus they also give you an important life lesson never be part of an HOA
Story 1: the legal process takes about a year. She probably had to sell the house to have money for restitution, court judgments and to not have mortgage payments while in jail. That and probably a restraining order.
@@melkiorwiseman5234 I would agree, the EMT’s wouldn’t be that timid. Police responding wouldn’t leave without the ticketing especially on behave of the EMT’s. They would push the Karen’s car with their cruisers if need be, then have a tow truck take it away.
@@melkiorwiseman5234 Well, what are these so-called clues?
@@melkiorwiseman5234 in other words, you're talking out of your ass. You could have posted reasons in less space than your whining.
@@michaeltelson9798 I've been a paramedic before and if someone does start showing violence we are not allowed to take action. Normally if someone were to ever be this stupid (and there are some people this worthless and stupid out there) we would stay inside of the rescue and wait till police arrived on scene.
This might have gotten the Karen shot which frankly would have just done the community a favor. It had better hope there was another ambulance crew on call because if it had been shot and I was the one on scene I would not have helped it.
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"At last, from all the evidence gathered via the CCTV footage, Karen was *cracks knuckles* guilty of Harrasment..."
The story sounds fake tbh
@@raidmax215 I hope it's fake, because what kind of a crazy person do you have to be to vandalize an ambulance?! The racism and discrimination is bad enough. My brother-in-law is half-Filipino. He's an awesome guy, and is even left-handed like me.
@@raidmax215Yeah no, I seriously hope it’s fake. How fucking stupid do you have to be to vandalize a fucking ambulance?
Last story even if the pool hadn't crossed the line there is a good chance the neighbor would still have to remove it as generally zoning wants a certain amount of setback to things being built on the property line
If it less than the time for adverse possession of the land that he had already taken there is a good chance of charging a felony of theft of land.
Second story: That man is a monster! NTA.
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And loved the stories, there are some crazy peeps out there
Harrassment charges on the Karen should have been easy. His dose crap ok cops can..
And ya she blocks ablmbalance of someone I care about she is being held down tell cops turn up. It's not violence it's self defence from a nut job
Story 2-His "cucumber "?😂ROFLMAO! Good one!
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"I wont you move you can't make me"
May I introduce you to tazer. You'll find it is Incredibly motivating to do whatever the user asks.
OP please I'm begging you don't allow your child to be alone with the father until your child can stand up for herself. My now late husband also had an affair with someone who has mental health issues and he wanted to fight me for custody until I told him I would bring in her medical records because our child is special needs so the courts would look at them. I guess he talked to a lawyer and found out I could do that so dropped that plan. I also would not allow my child to spend over nights until he was older. I could not trust that when things didn't go her way that she would give my child something. So please protect your daughter at all costs
Smart sister
Agreed. Few things worse than someone trying to steal property from the elderly.
I'm glad that you changed the HOA leadership
Story 1 Karen: This woman needs to be in a padded room.
With a straitjacket
@@KMDragonS Don't forget the muzzle. Some of them tend to bite.
I wouldn't be surprised if the government sent in the army just to arrest Karen...
Was really hoping for taser usage.
Would that be enough?
"We need air support... this Karenujira is too much!"
My grandmother had to deal with a psycho neighbor. After numerous calls the police told the neighbor "If you go on her property again she has the right to defend herself and you WILL be arrested for trespass." She told the cop "You can't do that!" The cop told her "Just watch and see" That night my grandmother got up to use the bathroom and heard someone in the bushes under her open window. She opened her purse, took out a can, walked to the window and gassed her bushes with mace. A gasp, coughing, then full on screaming bloody murder. She was still screaming when the cops pulled her out and arrested her. I'd like to say she learned her lesson but she had to get sprayed on 2 other occasions and go to jail.
When trouble like this begins, a no contact order should be sought asap. If it is violated, that adds penalties to further a use as that now includes contempt of court.
When she said affair she became automaticly not a jerk
Even in the U.S. it's only kidnap if there is a custody agreement in place and you violate it.
That's right and if no custody agreement is in place then no changes can be brought.
First story: Rotten racist town, rotten racist HOA, rotten racist police to not deal immediately with the Karen! She should have been tased and arrested the second they arrived!!!!!
OP in story 2 has a unique situation. Not that her husband had an affair and a child with his mistress, OP was privy to her husband’s thoughts and actions. She wasn’t blind-sided by this news and left to fend for herself. OP had time to formulate an escape plan and was fortunate to be able to put continents between them. In my opinion, OP did the right thing and I wish her and baby the best.
Hello Ripe. Some neighbors need to be fenced off lol. See you tomorrow
Ok story 2 I don't often advocate for the mother to take a child from the father but this dude is not a father to that child. He doesn't love that child and he is very easily manipulated. He values his side chick over his wife. Any attempt to reach out to OP is just him going through the steps so he doesn't look bad. Take the baby and let him read those comments. I'm sure he will feel good about them 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Actually he is a Father. A Dad hell no in no way is he a Dad.
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Fun fact for those who want to bully a emergancy vehicle. Almost all traffic laws are rescinded and are not in effect as long as light are on and or they are acting within the scope of the emergancy that is present for. This means that police or EMS could park in front of a hydrent and as long as lights are on or they are responding to the call that the legal concerns are waved for them.
DL;DR Dont mess with emergancy vehicles, they are often exempt from traffic laws when responding.
Also a fun fact, Do this in the wrong state you may suddenly need your own EMTs when you get shot by a paniking person who is more conserned about those they love more than someone preventing treatment of said person.
I recently found out that in the country where i live, although emergency vehicles are permitted to go through a red light, they DO NOT have priority, and also, emergency vehicles are not permitted to overtake where there is a solid line in the middle of the road (same as normal road users)
most roads where i live are 2 lane roads (1 lane each way), although some roads in towns and cities are 4 lane (2 lanes each way), and there are even some roads with 3 lanes (either 2 lanes in one direction and 1 lane for the other direction, or 1 lane goes one way, 1 lane goes the other way, and the middle lane switches direction depending on the time of day)
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Any person who isn't authorized to put anything in someone else's mailbox is a misdemor!.
Story 2: In this situation I don't consider the mothers actions as kidnapping. Her husband set aside her & their daughter for a nutcase mistress and moved into her house. He abandoned them, plain and simple. She had every right to do what she needed to do to insure the emotional well-being of herself and her daughter. He made it perfectly plain that they would always be in last place in all situations.
Prioritize your kid first your relationships second and don't let your kid grow up in a dysfunctional house cuz that's what it would have been if you stayed
I agree with your sentiment toward kids and elderly alike.
They needed another ambulance to pick-up the hysteric BTW
Huh... did you just let Disnii use your camera at the end and shoot her own movie?
If they weren't bored and secretly wanting drama, then those policemen would have just nipped things right in the bud with a taser and a wait in the car. That it even required backup just shows they intentionally let it get out of hand for diversion's sake.
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Yes that's right we can block the road on an emergency call 24/7 365 days a year oh I sure it cost her plenty because they are not cheap even used ones
Well a simple cure a letter from a lawyer telling her to cease and desist order along with one to the HOA if they don't start to straighten her out they'll be having a boat load of trouble with the law
The father isn't being stopped from seeing or spending time with his child. If he's got issues with the distance involved that sounds like a him problem.
Ambulance Story: If I were in OP's place, the moment Karen approached the Ambulance/EMT's with the baseball bat, I'd have pulled my Paintball Pistol out of it's storage spot, pointed it at Karen and told her to drop the bat and back away...if she refused to drop the bat and/or took a single step closer, I'd open fire while telling the EMT's to call for both Police and a second Ambulance for Karen...
The reason Karen would need EMT's of her own if I started shooting is because I had a friend of mine replace my pistols Pressure Regulator with one that's set MUCH higher...the average Paintball Pistol has a muzzle velocity of about 300 feet per second...my pistol however has a muzzle velocity of 1,200 feet per second...I may not get as many shots per gas cartridge as a regular pistol does, but the ones I do get hit one HELL of a lot harder...and I load with steel ball bearings (they HURT far more and clean up is insanely easy, I just roll the area with a magnetic broom and voila - no more steel marbles on the ground), not paintballs...I also tend to aim roughly 3 inches below the belt buckle too...
Paintball Pistols don't need a Firearms Carry and Possession Permit either which is good because those are a cast iron BITCH to get in Canada...
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Story 2: Not the AHole. You did the right thing in this situation since he screwed you over in your life.
Based on available information fleeing the country with her child was justified. The less the child knows about or sees that father, the better off it should be.
First story has a strong this is totes real vibe.
Story 1. Karen should've gotten a beating from the jump from OP. Then tell her "The beatings will get worse until your attitude improves, ARE WE CLEAR?"
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The last story (fence/driveway) sounds fake. Since OP was the main one to handle the dirty work of getting things done, he most definitely would have been part of the process instead of being only a spectator.
Story 1: I would have taken the HOA to court for not dealing with her quite frankly. There were enough red flags and warning signs, and enough complaints that they should have dealt with, but that they refuse to that I think that taking them to court would have been reasonable.
Story 2: The father ripped himself out of the life of his daughter. NTA.
You don't get to cheat on your partner, and declare in front of them over the phone that the Mistresses' child will always take priority, and still think that you have a chance to be in the other child's life in any significant way.
Story 3: You get a land surveyor out there and make sure that the lines of the property are clearly marked. You also check with the city to get copies of the property to show where the lines are on paper. You can also make a police report so there is a paper trail that shows that the neighbour was trying to do something and you wanted to make sure that it was on record before anything happens. If something should happen, you can have a police report number to give the police when you inevitably call them over the neighbours BS.
Wth karen and Nta never mess with first responders 🤦🏼♂️ and my guess someone bond her out
Karen's need to be condemned not just treated as a meme
Suffering and bringing yourself out of it in life is much better than getting everything you want from day 1.
Anyone who has dealt with true issues knows exactly what I mean.
These karens are the opposite and I hate them all
When I had a very dangerous heat attack my chances of surviving a cardiac arrest was only 10%. That assumes you are in the hospital with a doctor availible to begin treatment at once. If you go into cardiac arrest outside a hospital, your chances of surviving are nearly 0. The ambulance got me to the hospital just 3 minutes before I went into cardiac arrest, so if the ambulance had been delayed even slightly I would be dead.
My feeling is, if you delay an ambulance in an emergency, it should be a serious crime, a felony at the least. If the person dies, that person should be charged with murder.
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Well that's a federal crime along with the theft of packages. USE of a mailbox by anyone other than the postal service is a violation of federal law. Actually instead of reporting it to the HOA report it to the police for hate crimes...
Story 2 not the AHOLE even if India were a signatory to the Hague child rule without visitation or other such rulings not sure it has any force. Beyond if OPs husband were to get such rulings attempting to force them on OP but till then...
The Karen in the first story was probably more than a little insane!! I'm glad that the op was able to prove everything that happened to her family.
Good for her, she saved her child, the hell with him
#2 story: NTA You saved your daughter from possible violence from your ex husbands mistress. There is no telling what she might do to your daughter. Also, your ex might not protect her either. So good for you in protecting your daughter.❤❤
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aside from the police not doing anything until she tried destroying an emergency vehicle, it be so hilarious if op gives the Karen a taste of her own medicine by treating her like the minority that she did to the op.
Why did the police not move to _immediately_ arrest Karen?! Interfering with emergency personnel, and vandalism of an emergency vehicle.
Most HOAs have unconstitutional things in their declaration that can be used to dissolve them. I have lived under two HOAs and got them both dissolved. The first HOA as part of its declaration said that only people of the caucasian race could live there. There were other things, it was a very old HOA. Easy to go to court and get it dissolved. The fact that it was run by a bunch of racists who actually tried to enforce the racial provision helped. The second one had a whole bunch of provisions in the declaration that had been declared unconstitutional. Of 14 provisions, 10 had been declared unconstitutional. Went to court, another easy win. Am looking at a new house, in an HOA. Has racial restrictions, color restrictions on doors and windows (these are unconstitutional) and many other things that have been declared unconstitutional. If I buy it, the HOA is gonna be toast.
Dear mom:
Not the A-hole. So not the A-hole. Let me count the ways you aren't the A-hole.
1. Relationships are built on trust and loyalty. Trust and loyalty are not obligatory, nor freely given, they are built up over time, and mutually maintained. You have no reason to trust and be loyal to him when he so thoroughly breaks your trust and flaunts his disloyalty.
2. Most times I would say it's better for children to know their bioparents if possible, but he's made it clear his baby and mistress are more important to him than your baby. Be honest about who he is and why he isn't in your life if you choose, but that baby is better off with grandparents/step father/a mother, single or otherwise who loves them and puts them first than a sperm donor who will always think about them only when they get around to it.
3. I get why you mention the Hague thing. Some people would think it makes you look guilty, running away somewhere that won't force you to send your baby back to him. But it's your home, as much as we need caring folk like you in the States, if there's nothing keeping you there, you shouldn't feel you need to just because the baby daddy maybe wants to say hi on their day off from the family they think is more important. Your home signing a treaty or not isn't something you personally have control over, don't feel bad that they haven't.
4. Another fine point with the whole Hague thing... This stops American courts from forcing shared custody and thus making it so you must stay in the States somewhere where custody can be shared. In some cases, that's a good thing. I mean, there's definitely cases where legality doesn't match with morality, and in such cases, a place not beholden to laws enforced immorally is actually not bad.
last story id have lvoed if the WHOLE pool was on the parents side sot hey get a FREE pool XD
The karen screaming at ANY EMERGENCY personnel or vehicle is HANDCUFF TIMES. PERIOD.
Story 1: Karen would have found herself in a circumstance that she would not find favorable.
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The Mom moving back to India ABSOLUTELY MADE THE RIGHT MOVE. As his other child grows up, and possibly becomes more enfeebled. It wouldn't be too far of a hop, skip, and jump, to take the healthy baby, disappear, and raise the child as their own. As he seemingly wanted Nothing to do with the child that required his time, the fact that he is now blowing up ANY phone possibly connected to the Mom, makes me wonder was this a plan being fomented when she moved?
Story 2; NTA, but the OP needs to call the local court in the US and make an official statement about why. Get it on his record so he can't get help as easily. He could still do extra-legal things like hire someone to steal his child back, but anyone doing even basic research about the case should see that. Or get advice by local detectives that it is not a good job. Or counter any lies he tells such a person. Not to mention, if said child does get sent back, the police could watch for it, and be more willing to help OP.
Not the a-hole doesn't sound like he would have been in her life much to begin with and Wendell always treated her second best much better for her to be raised around loving family
Attaching an ambulance is a big no no.
HOA Karen doesn't know why not to bother an ambulance? Report, charge, and arrest her. If this is a pattern, dissolve her HOA as illegal.
I agree wit all tesponders.
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Ambulance Karen needs to be forcibly committed.
Last story, the neighbor was slowly appropriating the op’s parents property: first it was the pool that was partly on the parents property, then he was expanding his “empire” by trying to put up a fence further in. If he’d gotten away with it by no one complaining, then after a certain number of years (forgotten how many & it varies by state) then he can claim that land as his.
Anywhere from 70 - 100 years that i could google
All they wanted was no fence seemed kind of stupid of him to keep going after he seen the survey if he had of stopped he would probably still have the pool
Placing or removing anything from your mailbox is a Federal crime.
The best de-fence is an official property survey. Hope you don't take this advice as o-fence.
Story 1 Karen: I'm sorry, but the only unsafe one around here is you.
With the one about the racist Karen. A someone who has a record I'm curious about something. If she spent several years in incarceration, how did she have a house to come back to? With HOA dues and property tax, the house should have been seized and sold
I hope you made it hurt so bad that his ass was hurting for at least 2yrs
So the father says he doesn't care about the kid, literally admitting it and everyone is saying she's keeping her kid from having a caring father? That father is not caring and he literally admitted it. How delusional can people get.
14:19 He ripped himself out of her life.
Not an ahole he didn't even cared about your baby you did the right ? thing good for you!
Returning Home to India story: Not only is OP not the AH, but the dad needs to be ostracized for what he did in cheating on his wife with another woman WHILE his wife was pregnant. What a deadbeat!
Horrible father story:
There’s an older saying that goes something like this; “Anyone can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a dad”
My interpretation of the saying is this; just because some dirtbag can do the deed that’s involved in creating a child doesn’t mean that he is entitled to a relationship with said child; especially when he’s already proven that he can’t be trusted to properly care for the child.
I understand that parents naturally have the right to a relationship with their child(ren), but once they’ve made it clear that they’re not willing to BE a parent to the child(ren) and/or have said or done things that put them in actual danger, they forfeit their rights and the parent who is protecting their child(ren) should not be punished for BEING the parent who’s acting on their protective instinct, imho.
Obviously there are a lot of things that need to happen legally in many jurisdictions, however the parent who can show that the other parent is not acting in the best interest of the child’s safety and wellbeing should not be punished for removing the child from the other parent’s reach or control.
And yeah, the elephant in the room here is that many parents who think they’re protecting their children are actually harming them, which is why I mentioned the legal process necessary in some jurisdictions, but even that can fail to protect the child(ren).
Depending upon the social and political environment of the jurisdiction, that interpretation can be wildly different as well.
Imho, children should be allowed to be the innocent children that they are and not be pushed into socially or politically acceptable belief systems; especially when these cause irreversible changes to the child’s natural physical body.
There’s a reason why you have to be an adult to do things like enter into legally binding agreements and imbibe certain substances in many jurisdictions, so why would any sane adult let their child(ren) make life-altering decisions that they themselves wouldn’t have been allowed to do; especially knowing as an adult of the harm they would have experienced had their childish beliefs been encouraged or acted upon by the adults who were there to protect them?
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Story 1 - Karen is right about one thing, OP is indeed a coward.
No you did the right thing
Story two, I once met a man who had his wife move to India with his small child (about 4-5) and had much the same issue with the hague convention thing. It wasnt OP though because this man was also Indian, per his own statement, not my own assumptions. She left and moved in with her family because apparently they never approved of him. That was a handful of years ago, that kids gotta be darn near 10.... I wonder what happened to all of them...
That's what abusers and toxic people do, they make you feel like the a-hole! What is it the younger generation call it? Gaslighting?
No you're never the a-hole for leaving an abusive situation
Karen probably spent a few days in jail then got out on bail while she waited for her trial
She's not an asshole, that guy was simping for a "mentally fragile" fresh outta rehab junkie. Enough to even play favoritism for one of his kids. Good for her.
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I don't give a single F how bad the man is. A man has the right to see his child. Always!
Plus I suspect OP is grossly exaggerating this story.
Bullied from 1st to 6th grade. She does nor come on my radar after 6rh grade. So she or hwefamily moved. Yay!!!!
*Where's The Video With The Updates To Story#2!*
Someone should be able to state their opinions no matter what country it is. But violent actions or vandalism is not okay and anyone doing this should be charged. But some words others do not like - too fing bad.
THE HOA IN THE FIRST STORY IS A BAD HOA BUT DUE TO THEIR CRIMES THE OLD HOA WAS REPLACED WITH A BETTER HOA. KAREN DESERVED EVERYTHING SHE GOT FOR HER CRIMES. SHE THAUGHT LAWS DON'T APPLY TO HER BUT IT BACKFIRED HARD. REMEMBER NOT ALL HOAS ARE BAD. DON'T BE A KAREN YOU WON'T WIN.😀😀😀😀
That is the main reason this country/world is going to hell. Young people have placed too much emphasis on material things and have lost all respect for things that used to be prized.
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Story #2: NOT the AH in any way. In fact, I would worry that the 22yo would intentionally hurt/kill the baby "because it's 'HERS'". She made it perfectly clear she didn't have any respect or consideration, nor empathy, so I fully expect her to be incapable of empathy and not care any harm she would do.
With the racist Karen vandalizing the ambulance, you forgot to tell the police of the theft of the garden tools and other things. When she was arrested and jailed, the police should have checked her house for stolen booty from the neighbors. That would have kept her in jail for more time. A class action law suit should have been filed against her and the HOA by all the HOA members that had suffered her tyranny and the lackadaisical treatment by the HOA.
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