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  • @Adikari1985
    @Adikari1985 2 роки тому +271

    "Though the whole world abadon you, you should never abandon your life". Very nice advice

    • @chhayachabukswar1748
      @chhayachabukswar1748 2 роки тому +3

      I agree with u cos life is so beautiful

    • @rebelpanther1784
      @rebelpanther1784 2 роки тому +4

      I should. I didn't choose to be born.🤔

    • @donyalefranklin5994
      @donyalefranklin5994 2 роки тому +1

      @@rebelpanther1784 But you did. There are many who believe in the concept of a "soul's contract". If you are having difficulty, please find someone to be and talk with.

    • @eswarstany1727
      @eswarstany1727 2 роки тому

      @@chhayachabukswar1748 I

    • @TheFracturedfuture
      @TheFracturedfuture 2 роки тому +2

      Why not though? It's our life, we can do whatever we want with it.

  • @tabishaltaf8246
    @tabishaltaf8246 2 роки тому +310

    I suffer from depression.
    I m a Muslim.
    But I feel like I will get rid of my depression watching ur videos...
    I don't know how to thank you .

    • @lydiakombrink349
      @lydiakombrink349 2 роки тому +2

      Helpt je vaak in vervelende situaties

    • @janithgunasena9741
      @janithgunasena9741 2 роки тому +17

      my brother if you suffer from depression please eat clean foods dont eat food with a lot of artificial ingredients like margarine and pls avoid drinking milk powder and exercise a little bite everyday. BUDU SARANAI

    • @shatveekareddy3497
      @shatveekareddy3497 2 роки тому +6

      i m also pray for ur good with happy life ,, dont worry bro ,

    • @ulala9729
      @ulala9729 2 роки тому +1

      Muslim have depression very strange ,

    • @robertjsmith
      @robertjsmith 2 роки тому +10

      @@ulala9729 its religion that causes depression

  • @study_with_samaa
    @study_with_samaa 2 роки тому +205

    1. Do not reply or Do not take action when you are angry.
    2. Don't make promises to other people when you are too happy.
    3. Never take decisions whenever you are sad.
    Namo Buddhaya 🙏

    • @roshaniechandrandharmaseel4115
      @roshaniechandrandharmaseel4115 Рік тому +4

      that is correct, i am also feeling to sucide. no hope , my desires felt own , i am watching this video to relax for little time

    • @EC-yd9yv
      @EC-yd9yv Рік тому

      Yes. Let emotions subside, before you decide.🙏✨

    • @szvqorwnpstahskypfwmp9821
      @szvqorwnpstahskypfwmp9821 Рік тому

      Many people do total opposite.

    • @aswathyshyamalan6438
      @aswathyshyamalan6438 Рік тому

      ​@@roshaniechandrandharmaseel4115me too

    • @SheilaRoy-d4d
      @SheilaRoy-d4d 5 місяців тому

      ​@@roshaniechandrandharmaseel4115chant hanuman chalisa

  • @normanmacfarlane6724
    @normanmacfarlane6724 Рік тому +62

    I am 65 , I have several major illnesses , I often contemplate suicide.
    I feel isolated and lonely.
    Hearing you talk like this helps me to get up and go outside to find a quiet place and think .
    Thank you for your thoughts on this subject.

    • @Odd487
      @Odd487 Рік тому +4

      I am 24 , idk know what to about me contemplating my death I’ve been trying therapy it not helping how have you been staying alive

    • @DivineMiracle-z2v
      @DivineMiracle-z2v Рік тому +1

      omg i know this hell be well soon i pray for u all ❤

    • @georgiafrancis9059
      @georgiafrancis9059 11 місяців тому +3

      I went through the same feeling in July, then again in September. Something wouldn't let me. Then I thought of all the things I left undone. So I told myself, "You can't do this now, you have to much to do to." I went home and got busy trying to clean up the mess I would have left behind. Then something miraculous happened. A stranger told me I was pretty. The next day my boss gave me a raise and a client sent me a box of candy. I was really glad I didn't do what I wanted to do when I was depressed. Besides, suicide isn't an instant invitation into heaven. Pray and love yourself more today than you did when you wanted to destroy yourself.

    • @Jess-zm5xt
      @Jess-zm5xt 7 місяців тому

      Hello friend I hope you’re doing well. I’m so proud of you as a 24 year old for making it this far and you deserve to be here for many many more years to come. I see you and I hear you, you’re existence matters so so much.

  • @melissadsilva6062
    @melissadsilva6062 2 роки тому +97

    Omg!!Why I did not know you 7 years back….3 suicidal depression later here I am.Living and loving life after many storms.

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 2 роки тому +1

      Depression can be cured. You have to choose the cure.

    • @TheFracturedfuture
      @TheFracturedfuture 2 роки тому +3

      Life can still get worse again for you and you may end up more suicidal than ever. That's just how life is, it's a constant up and down in life.

    • @aliciamull4882
      @aliciamull4882 Рік тому

      Wow

    • @Amy123456788
      @Amy123456788 Рік тому +1

      How did u got out of it? Mine lasts 8 months already

    • @religionofpeace782
      @religionofpeace782 10 місяців тому

      ​@@Amy123456788 Visit a psychiatrist and start taking medications, you will feel better and in the process you can try to correct negative thinking pattern.

  • @kimberlydavis5034
    @kimberlydavis5034 2 роки тому +177

    No I am not suicidal and I don't have thoughts about suicide. I'm tired of fighting to stay alive from chronic diseases and illnesses. I just want to die in peace and with dignity when the time comes. I'm not afraid to die because I know that my spiritual being goes on to a much greater journey with the Creator of the Whole Universe. No one lives forever in the physical sense. The spiritual being moves forward to greater things.

    • @stefaniakonstantinidou981
      @stefaniakonstantinidou981 2 роки тому +1

      Does it ever move lower??? The spirotual being??

    • @Shtanto
      @Shtanto Рік тому +1

      I think I can relate - 14 years of MS, not getting easier.
      Look up the story of Channa and Sirpata. It's interesting

    • @deegzexpress3652
      @deegzexpress3652 11 місяців тому +4

      Same here friend.

    • @gemmawalker5137
      @gemmawalker5137 10 місяців тому +8

      I'm struggling so much 😢 I really can't go on... I'm weak and just want to dissappear x

    • @tokiumongyimjanger699
      @tokiumongyimjanger699 10 місяців тому +4

      You are a Brave human being in the world 🙏

  • @susanottewell6398
    @susanottewell6398 2 роки тому +67

    This is for you! Anyone struggling today, know that you are a beautiful loving being! You are loved so so much! You are kind giving n amazing. There's a reason to be here, even if it's just to reach out to others. I know your pain I have been there n so have others!! This guy speaks truth n love ❤ please there's always 🙏 something to live for? 🙏 remember in the storm there's always a rainbow 🌈 that follows!! Bless n peace!!

    • @ammychidimma3875
      @ammychidimma3875 Рік тому +2

      😢😢😢😢 I so tried to be living

    • @22CONSERVATIVEFELON
      @22CONSERVATIVEFELON Рік тому +2

      Thank you for your words, and for caring.

    • @susanottewell6398
      @susanottewell6398 Рік тому

      @@22CONSERVATIVEFELON god bless ♥

    • @22CONSERVATIVEFELON
      @22CONSERVATIVEFELON Рік тому

      I am thinking about giving up today as I sit here crying

    • @susanottewell6398
      @susanottewell6398 Рік тому

      @@22CONSERVATIVEFELON please remember life is a roller coaster, everyone has up n downs and nothing is for ever. Depression lies to us, yes you may be feeling like your at the end of a long road. But trust me that road will change. I've sadly only just seen your text. I'm from the U.K.......remember you are never alone, it doesn't matter what culture we are ANGELS 😇 are always with us they love you so so much ♥..wishing you all the best..God bless xx

  • @HealthyHairJourney
    @HealthyHairJourney Рік тому +63

    IT GETS BETTER! IT GETS BETTER! Please don't make a permanent decision based on a temporary problem. IT GETS BETTER.

    • @joejohnson6327
      @joejohnson6327 Рік тому

      Not all problems are temporary. Some people suffer from very painful incurable illnesses, so stop yelling like a lunatic.

    • @favouritemusic8959
      @favouritemusic8959 Рік тому

      Thank you ❤❤

    • @annegeorge6667
      @annegeorge6667 Рік тому +3

      I really hope it does, thank you

    • @jerryraidersnation3306
      @jerryraidersnation3306 10 місяців тому +2

      I wish I can believe that it's getting worse my father is the worse

    • @Lady.2411
      @Lady.2411 10 місяців тому

      I am sorry, but goos things would come soon@@jerryraidersnation3306

  • @rameshbanothu1058
    @rameshbanothu1058 2 роки тому +36

    Greatest speech I hav e ever seen in my life 🙏🙏🙏....namo budhaya...

  • @nilumibhagya3399
    @nilumibhagya3399 2 роки тому +41

    We have to be very conscious on to whom we are being open. Some people may misuse our openness to make our lives way miserable. Being a part of a good circle to others will make a better circle around us, coz we always get what we give to this world 🤗

    • @janithgunasena9741
      @janithgunasena9741 2 роки тому +2

      sis if you are going through depression consider improving u r diet don't drink milk powder and don't eat artificial food with chemical ingredients. if you have friends going through depression advise the same

    • @palidebnath7996
      @palidebnath7996 Рік тому

      Outdoor games and interacting with animals like cats,dogs....helps a lot.

    • @ayjaytee12333
      @ayjaytee12333 Рік тому

      ⁠@@janithgunasena9741lad Shutup with the worst advice possible. People aren’t considering suicide because of what they eat. Proper div

  • @GabrielLe868
    @GabrielLe868 Рік тому +10

    There is a birth, there is a suffering. We have all gone through the life vehicle: Birth, Aging, Sickness and Death. We cried when being born. That’s a humble beginning of life! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Namo Buddhaya 💐💐💐

  • @veganlove53
    @veganlove53 2 роки тому +27

    I love the beautiful teachings of Lord bhudha. I'm born Hindu and a practitioner however I have massive respect for bhudism. Thank you so much for sharing ❤

  • @henriettedell3113
    @henriettedell3113 2 роки тому +13

    Thank you very much for your wonderful words!
    I always believed in Buddhism, but since my life got so difficult and lonely, I
    sometimes forget, that there is a reason
    for all our tuff times and that its there to make us a better person! Lately all I wanted is to leave this world to end the pain. After listening to your words, I’m back on the right path to myself and
    the right thoughts!
    You save so many lives with your words! Thank you again 🙏🙏🙏

  • @eessa1727
    @eessa1727 2 роки тому +16

    I am thankful for all my troubles which got me closer to dhamma..🙏🙏🙏❤

  • @Zouteregenboogmelk
    @Zouteregenboogmelk Рік тому +3

    this video is making me realize I am doing injustice to my body that was given to me only once after the long cycle of samsara, and with the limited time I have to enjoy the youth of my body, I really want to stop smoking.

  • @thisunbasnayake1603
    @thisunbasnayake1603 2 роки тому +23

    these videos really helped me alott to overcome my stress ❤️. Namo buddhaya 🙏

  • @oskarumesh2394
    @oskarumesh2394 2 роки тому +21

    Very true. Life is like a ocean from time to time we experience different things in our life. Sadness, happiness which are not permanent in our life.,that is the nature of life . The one who cannot understand this nature cannot live a peaceful life.

  • @mychalrosales463
    @mychalrosales463 2 роки тому +7

    I've already survived enough abuse neglect and trauma.life hurts so much I was born into pure pain and sadness.i always hurting inside for my family and yes all the trauma 💔 😢 😞 😔 🙏 I'm trying to stay stronger more then ever.i'll never forget my mommy and daddy.i wish I could take back all the bad things I've done and said. I'm running out of breathe.

  • @rebekahclarke1154
    @rebekahclarke1154 2 роки тому +14

    I love Buddhism with all my heart 💓 😊

  • @mistudutta938
    @mistudutta938 2 роки тому +5

    A very tough time I have been passed but sometime too much negetive thought storm into my mind..I can't handle ..I understand but I nothing to do...I just tried to fighting with myself .. therefore your video 's can saves very life those who suffer from depressional phase in their life.

  • @blueseabluesky11
    @blueseabluesky11 2 роки тому +17

    Choosing a person whom we can share our problems also important...some times we may not have that single person also ... 😔😌
    Thankyou for your good words 🙏 this gives relief for some extent..

  • @sabrakhan6663
    @sabrakhan6663 2 роки тому +100

    Tomorrow is my exam pray for me
    Thanks all foryour wishes
    It got well

  • @dexterman6361
    @dexterman6361 7 місяців тому +4

    I genuinely don't mean to be rude, but,
    > It's rare that we get a human life
    Okay I still don't want it I don't see how something being rare is the same as being important.
    > Restarting will never give an answer, and is not an answer to life problems
    I won't even remember so what difference does it make? And it'll end all problems permanently, past and future one, so it still is a valid approach. May not be a "solution", but is a valid approach. For me. And I don't even have those many problems. I just find it tiring, I don't want to keep doing whatever this is. Sure I could become a recluse and abandon the nice things of life and live as forest dweller, but that is too much too. I don't want to do anything, just not have to do anything
    > Life is a cycle of suffering over and over again
    I do not see the point to how it is relevant to ending one, or choosing to end one
    > Talk to someone
    What good does that do? It'll just burden them with worry for me. And what can they do? There isn't much they can.
    > Talk to elders ...
    Well they just told me to go to a therapist, and they just gave me medications, and it did absolutely nothing. Like, I don't see a point in any of this.
    > You need to have self-love and compassion
    With all due respect, this is just talking is circles. I wouldn't be labelled as a sad person if I didn't have them in the first place. It's the same platitude as saying "Just be happy!"
    > You do not have the right to quit
    Why not? I was not here with my consent, I didn't pick whatever this is? Okay fine. What about my body my choice? What about exercising my will? Why does it apply everywhere but here?
    > You should not abandon yourself
    Why not? If the whole world has deemed me unfit in society and shins me everywhere, and no one wants me, what is the point in me being around? You don't keep plants that have perished around do you
    > Little push to your life
    Yes, just that I want it off a cliff
    > miserable
    Well I'm not really miserable, just that I don't want to be here in any shape or form
    > The three advice
    Yep I genuinely agree with that. That also means that I have thought of the same thing of not wanting to be here when I was happy, when I was sad, and every other time too.
    > Human life is valuable
    To whom? I don't value mine. I add no value, and I can factually break it down.
    Look I'll be honest, this video sounds a little disingenuous to me, almost feels like mockery, I am sorry.

  • @spmoran4703
    @spmoran4703 2 роки тому +4

    Learning to love oneself, no matter what you look like, and seeing things from a more positive point of view. Will help cure depression. You have to decide it though . As a precious human life , choose wisely .

  • @mashiyathehsan885
    @mashiyathehsan885 11 місяців тому +2

    Guruji, I am a Muslim but I am suffering from terrible psychological disorders. I have no one to rely on, no support, money, I am derailed and divulged and on sedatives and anti histanies. I hsve no option but to destroy my life. My conscience and soul loathes me. I don't geel like waking up from morning. Feel like death is a great blessing from me. Dont feel like living anymore.

  • @brendakrieger7000
    @brendakrieger7000 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much💜 Sending everyone love,hugs and encouragement🥰

  • @FeCadacio
    @FeCadacio 2 роки тому +4

    I Love You Self ❤️🙏
    Thank you Reverend for this beautiful encouragement. I will practice this practices indeed.
    Do not take action when you're angry. Don't make promises to other people when you're happy and Never take decision when you are Sad.
    Namo Buddhaya.

  • @jaffnaskarts7326
    @jaffnaskarts7326 2 роки тому +18

    I am Hindu but I love what namah budha say it , my life is parts of religious to go through. Thanks namah budha.

  • @rogercanik1925
    @rogercanik1925 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Venerable for sharing your profound Dharma talk in English. I’m so grateful. Namo Amituofo 🙏🙏🙏

  • @camrenwick
    @camrenwick 6 місяців тому +2

    I get sometimes get severely depressed and just want to die. Then I just rest and suffer the feelings until the dark cloud in my mind clears. I remember what this monk said on another video: "This too shall pass"

  • @couldbeahuman8079
    @couldbeahuman8079 3 місяці тому +2

    I’ve delt with depression for a good period of my life. It still comes up from time to time, but it’s much easier to deal with now. I can recognize it for what it is and accept it, feel it without suffering. I was only truly liberated from my depression once I dove into it fully and let myself feel it.

  • @shamugapriyasundarrajan6515
    @shamugapriyasundarrajan6515 2 роки тому +9

    Great insights with so much of soothing and calmness in speech.. Thank you

  • @donblaze33
    @donblaze33 Рік тому +10

    I don’t have life problems. I have a problem with life. I’m tired. I wanna go home.

    • @sujeethsujith6866
      @sujeethsujith6866 19 днів тому

      Don't lose hope brother you are not alone we'll keep fighting 💪 never give up on life good days are coming be patient 😊

    • @donblaze33
      @donblaze33 19 днів тому

      You don’t understand. If I were to receive anything good I don’t even want or care for it at this point. I’m training my soul to make sure I do not reincarnate. I believe the earth and this life is a beautifully designed prison and a trap we cannot escape from.

  • @chitraqranasinghe6928
    @chitraqranasinghe6928 2 роки тому +3

    I love myself .i treat my life .peaceful and happy .human life so valuable ..🙏🙏🙏

  • @debjyotimajumder496
    @debjyotimajumder496 4 місяці тому +1

    Lost job, lost in love. Still i will not quit. I will fight back for my parents.. will try to bring back peace to the society..pranam guruji

  • @jigyasavarungowda3212
    @jigyasavarungowda3212 2 місяці тому

    You saved me today ! Thank you. Hearing your voice gives peace.
    Am so broken I can’t express. No a single person to see me. I somehow navigate through. Staying alive for my children. Marriage broke me into pieces I can’t pick. I was in attack and with shaking hands I just tried to search some random vid to calm down gush of thoughts. And I found you. I don’t want to live. But can not leave children. Attachment causing pain. I really want to end this. Am tired of suffering emotionally. Nahi ho pa raha ab.

  • @wasanthapiyasena9498
    @wasanthapiyasena9498 2 роки тому +2

    Rev. Sir,
    Very useful your each & every episodes for all. Not only the Buddhism but you also have power to talk & advice by reading others mind.also highly appriciate your grate service. Thank you.

  • @gayansanjaya
    @gayansanjaya 8 місяців тому +1

    Don't answer when angry Don't make promises to others when you are happy Don't make decisions when you are sad. I accept these 3 advices. And unfortunately, there is no one who is trustworthy to listen to these things openly. If the people of the world are ready to listen to the other person, there will be no suicidal thoughts. Love yourself. Be compassionate. Take care of yourself.

  • @rushibhoi1577
    @rushibhoi1577 2 роки тому +6

    In our odiya Bhagbat have a quote that describe our present life as " Juga ku juga yehimate Parmananda ye jagate." Meaning is our life is changed according to time.

  • @grannyblaylock623
    @grannyblaylock623 Рік тому +1

    GOD HAS BROUGHT ME THIS FAR FOR A REASON. I THINK HE WILL TAKE WHEN HE'S READY. AMEN AND I THANK GOD🌹🌹♥️🤗🙏🙏

  • @mariajoy5829
    @mariajoy5829 2 роки тому +5

    I LOVE MYSELF MYSELF MORE THAN ANYONE IN THIS WORLD.
    PEACE TO EVERYONE.
    NAMMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🏻
    THANK YOU REVEREND.💕❤💟

  • @EC-yd9yv
    @EC-yd9yv Рік тому +5

    Let emotions subside before you decide...on anything 🙏✨

  • @chamikaruwan684
    @chamikaruwan684 2 роки тому +3

    These days stuff time for all of us.because of the country situation..you might be think those things will be long lasting.I wanna say " everything will be ok " keep you mind in that thought..And always love yourself.❤️

  • @EC-yd9yv
    @EC-yd9yv Рік тому +3

    Love, blessings an much gratitude for your words of wisdom 💙🙏✨

  • @oneasiaworld4609
    @oneasiaworld4609 Рік тому

    I am very happy and blessed Honorable Thero I am proud that you are from our blessing COUNTRY SRI LANKA

  • @JusticeMcLane-xj3zt
    @JusticeMcLane-xj3zt 9 місяців тому +1

    I do know Sunny Days don't make me comfortable anymore. They make me feel suicidal and worsen my symptoms of C-PTSD. This video is very helpful. Thank you.

    • @DzsM-rz7gu
      @DzsM-rz7gu 8 місяців тому

      I don't like if others are smiling.I don't know the reasons why to smile if there can be sadness as well.To me more comfortable if I'm around sad people.I had,maybe still have C-PTSD.Sometimes I don't like to go outside at all as outside is only the world which disturbs my mind.Then I always remember that monks and bhaktas are living in monastery and exactly because they don't want to be disturbed.No wonder if people are having PTSD as material world is beautiful,crazy and sick as hell.I think by a PTSD it can be very shocking to seeing the sunny side,better seeing the shadowed side or a fog or half dark half light side or fully light but without people.To me everything is disturbing already.I try to ignore the whole outside disturbing scenes.I checked the pictures on the dalailama homepage few years ago if all the monks are smiling cause then I would have felt less than them and absolutely not, some of them were smiling,some of them were neutral and some of them looked depressed but that dosen't mean their minds weren't clear.Have a nice day.❤

  • @hemantbhandari8342
    @hemantbhandari8342 5 місяців тому +2

    "Suicide will not provide the answers for your life problem"
    People committing suicide are not looking for an answer for their life problem. They are looking for an escape from their life problem.
    And it totally gives that.

  • @cristinaevans139
    @cristinaevans139 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much I appreciate you and will keep going thank you so very much you saved a life I love supreme Buddha

  • @rosemarievosburgh5377
    @rosemarievosburgh5377 2 роки тому +2

    You are super I love everything you do I listen to it more than 10 times God bless

  • @roshanleanage1275
    @roshanleanage1275 2 роки тому +5

    Endless waves battered my life, right throughout for a long time now....
    I no longer have t energy or t will to go on....Dont see any purpose in going on....But I need to hold on...Atleast till I step in to path of sothapatthi...

    • @stefaniakonstantinidou981
      @stefaniakonstantinidou981 2 роки тому

      Ask Jesus for help. My life completely changed when i did that

    • @ashu3234-fz6ld
      @ashu3234-fz6ld Рік тому

      Yes hold on dont give up it will pass trust me ❤ we love u although we may not know each other

  • @Nish-he6lx
    @Nish-he6lx 10 місяців тому

    Namo Buddhaya! I am having serious suicidal thoughts and I think this video helped me. Thank you so much dear great monk🙏 Hope I will feel better in the future!

  • @davidstuchly9792
    @davidstuchly9792 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for caring enough to talk about this subject.

  • @youshorts7097
    @youshorts7097 2 роки тому +8

    Nammo Buddia.
    I HAVE OCD MENTAL PROBLEM
    I feel guilty and very sad.
    I can't pray to god can't
    Very Bad Images and thoughts come....

    • @mariyammaljothi4512
      @mariyammaljothi4512 2 роки тому +3

      1.consult doctor
      2.plz don't feel guilty. We r human.cannot be 100%perfect. Past is past.try to live true to someone.
      3.early morning 4-5 pray to universe what u want
      4.keep ur wall pictures flower ,children's, nature, ur favourite pictures.see it regularly before go to sleep and early morning

    • @madhuri2551
      @madhuri2551 2 роки тому +5

      Do meditation daily

    • @carat_teamot9_igot7ahgase_30
      @carat_teamot9_igot7ahgase_30 11 місяців тому

      Dont be scared of buddha they are the most forgiving. As long as you have the hope to change, they will only protect you

  • @pretty_pooja
    @pretty_pooja 2 роки тому +4

    You're inspirational words are really change my deppresed life... 😴😊

  • @ThaoLe-iu2kt
    @ThaoLe-iu2kt 2 роки тому +3

    Love your speech as always! Truly real meaning 🙏

  • @lifeawakeningwithdr.l.n.mishra
    @lifeawakeningwithdr.l.n.mishra 2 роки тому +3

    I always find a clarity of thought in the expression of swami Jee. I feel a breath of fresh air. Highly appealing and very healing.

  • @yashodaraabeysinghe5437
    @yashodaraabeysinghe5437 2 роки тому +5

    Soothing..namo Buddhaaya 😇🙏

  • @ValeJustice-u6j
    @ValeJustice-u6j 2 місяці тому +1

    That's the ideal life, but when life is full of only days with storms, and you can never find peace, that's when one starts to question the purpose of staying alive.

  • @nataliemeenakshithegreat7780
    @nataliemeenakshithegreat7780 Рік тому +2

    IAM Jewish but love Buddhism and it’s wisdom I practice nap myoho renge kyo

  • @ОльгаБорисова-ъ1е
    @ОльгаБорисова-ъ1е 5 місяців тому +2

    One who is able to find anybody for trusting and asking for help will never have any suicidal thought.

  • @satyaratnashaurya062
    @satyaratnashaurya062 Рік тому

    Ven. Bhante ji,
    Vandami !
    Your thoughts in this video are very very important and useful in our daily life to save the life of those people who
    takes a decision to sucide their life in a sad moment.
    At last in a summary, your three suggestions are very commendable and useful-
    1. Don't speak or be silent when we are in an angry moment.
    2. Don't give any promise/assurance, when we are in a very happiness-moment.
    3. Don't take any decision when we are in a sad moment/condition.
    Salute to you !

  • @komalthakur9812
    @komalthakur9812 Рік тому +2

    No matter what I do, listen to Buddh stories, share my pain, get doctor consultation or try anything possible, nothing is helping me. Things u say I already know but can't control my tears

  • @dr.josefudeyama64
    @dr.josefudeyama64 2 роки тому +2

    Your most important message delivered beautifully 😍

  • @kushwahashiva
    @kushwahashiva 2 роки тому +4

    Blessing and love from India , please start guided meditation series 🙏🤲

  • @vidyadurakshisamarakoon1874
    @vidyadurakshisamarakoon1874 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much dear thero🙏
    This channel is very important us..we can completely change our future lives and improve our English knowledge too🙏

  • @sunitamedhi7053
    @sunitamedhi7053 2 роки тому +1

    Respected Bhande
    I am getting happier day by day !

  • @annan8061
    @annan8061 2 роки тому +3

    3 notes to make the goods out of your life ❤️:
    “Do not reply or do not take actions when you’re angry
    Don’t make promise to people when you’re too happy
    Never take decisions when you’re sad “

  • @krishanthabomiriya3334
    @krishanthabomiriya3334 Рік тому +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 thank u sooo much buddhism ,,,, these advice make me calm always , 🙏🙏🙏

  • @DIWINGSTON
    @DIWINGSTON 2 роки тому +3

    this helped me a lot to stop my siffering namo buddhaya

  • @hshshshsjsjjs3602
    @hshshshsjsjjs3602 2 роки тому +4

    0:06Life is like an Ocean🌊👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @yuhanie10
    @yuhanie10 2 роки тому +3

    🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐 thank you reverant...some people are nearly there..it is very educational & useful

  • @craigherriot4026
    @craigherriot4026 11 місяців тому +1

    So profound. Thank you for this wisdom.

  • @worstmusicproduction
    @worstmusicproduction Рік тому +4

    It’s hard for me to watch this video because the person speaking strongly reminds me of a man who used to abuse me mentally and physically and broke up with me after I was assaulted. I can’t recover from it after 8 years. Every single day I’m feeling suicidal. Medication and hospital treatment doesn’t help at all. I’ve lost will to live but I’m afraid of dying because I know that it won’t be the end.
    I’m tired of living like this. But I’ll try to give myself another chance.
    Thank you.

    • @ashu3234-fz6ld
      @ashu3234-fz6ld Рік тому +1

      Hey hope u r doing good ... hold on ❤

    • @worstmusicproduction
      @worstmusicproduction Рік тому

      @@ashu3234-fz6ld thank you so much, I’m in a clinic right now and everything gets a little bit better every day

  • @RenjiniKR-z8l
    @RenjiniKR-z8l Рік тому

    Really heart soothing words,and great and valuable service sir, we respect Buddhism....... 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @snehalathanair427
    @snehalathanair427 Рік тому

    Very well spoken words-- I feel life is worth living-- life is beautiful❤❤❤

  • @Agumon5
    @Agumon5 Рік тому

    I watch this video multiple times a week now just to get by. Sometimes the coming good days are/feel years away.

  • @beema7877
    @beema7877 2 роки тому +2

    Your speech is so beautiful and worthfull sir

  • @annettefowler4704
    @annettefowler4704 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful message if wisdom. Thank you 😊

  • @noranoranora6969
    @noranoranora6969 2 роки тому +2

    كلام رائع ومفيد لاني منذ مدة اعاني من الأفكار الانتحاريه

  • @VgnRaj
    @VgnRaj Рік тому +2

    As suicide is usually about escaping great pain as opposed to dying, the impermanence of pain is a good discussion. Not making decisions when in such pain is another one and talking to helpers in the field of this pain is another solution to speak of.

  • @savitabagde01
    @savitabagde01 Рік тому

    Bhante your talks are always inspires me and give lesson to life sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @dianasanchez4773
    @dianasanchez4773 Рік тому +3

    12 years bedridden suffering chronic pain, since my 29 years old. I lost everyting. I want to give up. I can’t stand the body pain and the mental torture.

    • @bapaiahprabhala956
      @bapaiahprabhala956 8 місяців тому +1

      Please do not give up as you can really withstand the pain please be positive that you will be moving again and I play the almighty to solve all your major health problems

    • @dianasanchez4773
      @dianasanchez4773 8 місяців тому

      @@bapaiahprabhala956 Thank you so much for all your words ❤️‍🩹

  • @PostCrimsonStorm
    @PostCrimsonStorm Рік тому +4

    I don't have someone that I trust- what then? Hotlines and counselors will just call the police if I'm honest.

  • @targaryen2077
    @targaryen2077 3 місяці тому +1

    My life is hopeless. I literally just laid in bed for an hour and prayed to not wake up tomorrow. I have zero desire to live anymore. The world would be better off if I were not in it.

    • @ashfaqtahmeed194
      @ashfaqtahmeed194 3 місяці тому

      Brother I wish we were able to talk to eachother for atleast 2 minutes

  • @1sornram
    @1sornram Рік тому +1

    Thank you. You are blessing to all of us.

  • @RaghavanM-o4v
    @RaghavanM-o4v Рік тому

    Yes, Only need a little help... Thank you Sir...🙏Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @daniephiphak3072
    @daniephiphak3072 Рік тому

    Thank you so much Bhante for sharing the Dhamma of Buddha teaching
    Anoumothana Sathu kanoy
    🙏🙏🙏 🪷🪷🪷🪷😄🥰

  • @abhayashok5090
    @abhayashok5090 Рік тому

    Why am here,don’t know but the video gives me a new positive thoughts ❤

  • @niallk9336
    @niallk9336 Місяць тому +1

    What if I don't think it's an "answer to a problem" ?
    What if I just want to go out on a high. I've lived a full life; but this is as far as it progresses.
    I don't want to be the grumpy old man reliving the past.
    What if it's just time to hit the reset button and return to the collective unconscious? What if I've served my purpose here, and it's time to let go and make space for others?

  • @sangamithra360
    @sangamithra360 2 роки тому +2

    Love you guruji❤️....namo buddhaya🧘🙏

  • @patriciadeboeck3219
    @patriciadeboeck3219 Рік тому

    Hartelijk dank u dit gesprek betekent veel voor mij🍀👍🙏♥️

  • @thiruram5675
    @thiruram5675 2 роки тому +5

    Going through a divorce now and my life is broken, job sucks too, and full of commitments pressing me a lot, no family support also, now tell me why I am still alive? To suffer more?…. I seriously lost hope on everything… all I want is a peaceful life, is it too much to ask for?…

    • @mahe4102
      @mahe4102 2 роки тому +2

      I hope you see the truth, that karma is what gave you this unpleasant life. You see people born in to rich families and some to very poor ones. Some born very healthy, some born unhealthy and deformed. Some born to very loveable families and some born with families that they can't bare and so on. It is the previous karma they accumulated that they have to suffer. It may seem unfair and it surely is excruciating to bare (that is why the Supreme Buddha called these suffering).
      Like in the sermon, we learn that birth is suffering. Ending this life will not end the karma, so you will be born and suffer even more (because committing suicide is a very bad karma too).
      You may not remember this life, but end up suffering again and repeat. This cycle of birth and death is endless. That is why a very rare Supreme Buddha has taught the truth, this pure Dhamma.
      So be strong and get past those suicidal feelings and see for yourself the true meaning of the teachings. The Great Arahants who followed the path, were able to have a calm and peaceful mind even when being tortured and killed (even without any hateful thoughts towards the person doing so).
      So do good and the right thing (as you learn the teachings). Not only so you will be born in a better destination but also to escape from this endless samsara and all suffering. :)
      I hope this message has helped you in the slightest of ways. I'd be glad to help further if you need. Be strong! May you be well and happy!
      Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🏼

    • @thiruram5675
      @thiruram5675 2 роки тому

      @@mahe4102 I am trying hard but, I have a sense of losing my self. I feel very unnecessary always

    • @mahe4102
      @mahe4102 2 роки тому +2

      @Thiru Ram Don't be an enemy to yourself... Keep practising and learning the pure Dhamma and you'll feel the difference. True happiness comes from within! :)

    • @thiruram5675
      @thiruram5675 2 роки тому +1

      @@mahe4102 thank you

    • @anegru8646
      @anegru8646 2 роки тому

      There is something better awaiting you... Believe it.
      Please, maintain the faith.

  • @suemilner9691
    @suemilner9691 Рік тому

    Suicidal feeling is a situation what becomes what we feel.It’s a feeling .. beyond our control. Thank you for the advice.I’m ok x

  • @crazymom468
    @crazymom468 7 місяців тому +1

    Everyone blame me, for others decision. Fighting alone since 8 years. Fed up of crying n struggling. Became burden for my parents n they are too blamed. I want to quit but trying to be alive for my 6yr old kid. Om namo buddhaya

  • @mennajames4564
    @mennajames4564 2 роки тому +8

    Can you make video on how to stop overthinking

  • @khyatit6528
    @khyatit6528 Рік тому +2

    I’m suffering from bpd and depression. I am in college currently. I wish being calm taking control over myself and being happy. I have overdosed I tried to suicide once. I want to be happy and be okay. I have got a lot of trust issues it’s so hard. Hearing ur voice gives me peace of mind. I hope one day I overcome this.

    • @AlrizSusulan
      @AlrizSusulan Рік тому

      never give up life is tough, sometimes we are brought to the deepest and most painful situations in our lives, where sadness dwells and the pain is almost imaginable. but event how hard the situation may be we always should choose to live our lives and find a way to overcome all our struggles, life is worth fighting for and all will be ok and well. bless and love

  • @DreamingwithD
    @DreamingwithD 10 місяців тому +1

    Accept that you are in pain, allow yourself to feel the emotions, be brave to be there for yourself , help yourself to get out of the storm, help yourself forever, love yourself forever ❤️ shouldn't you?

  • @shivohamutsav8447
    @shivohamutsav8447 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you very much with your healing words namo buddhay 🙏

  • @manchien7509
    @manchien7509 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for your words. This calms my heart.

  • @satyaratnashaurya062
    @satyaratnashaurya062 Рік тому

    Vandami Bhante ji,
    It is very useful in our daily life of Ddhama -Deshna of our great teacher Buddha.